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Makes sense. How old are you?
/r/seduction07/03/19 08:29 AM
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Well this is weird. How long have you been online dating? I'm assuming you're attractive. Not very relevant, just curious.
/r/seduction07/03/19 02:42 AM
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Its super blatant that hes hitting on you. When someone caresses the back of your head and calls you baby thats really obvious. Since you're young you probably havent experienced this before, but guys who arent afraid to be bold with women will do things like this. Different because its a university setting and he has a professor and it is more or less predatory. If you had been giving him signals its a different story, but no he's invading your personal sense of security and trust within his cl…
/r/seduction26/02/19 10:59 PM
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Lol this is seduction inception. Why dont we just wait for her response to you're pointless question then? By an absurd twist of fate out of your control, you blew it. Whats the number 1 rule here? You dont get attached to a girl who's not into you. Tough break, but whats the point of pursuing any kind of relationship with her if this is what predicates it?
/r/seduction23/02/19 11:58 PM
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Most of this sub espouses approaching girls. It also says you should be able to attract women to you, via an 'abundance' mentality. Your approach skills need practice definitely, but you should do it from a different mentality. It essentially boils down to neediness rather then self security and confidence and lacking the desire of approval because of it. The essence of being the genuine artifact, self esteem Perhaps you are referring pick up art tactics of trying to seduce a girl immediately an…
/r/seduction22/02/19 06:29 PM
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Why not though? The direct approach worked for that guy.
/r/seduction18/02/19 07:08 PM
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No, unless she has some weird mental disability. If she is like you said, not one to sleep around, theres something else going on in her head. Who knows? Maybe shes one of these girls with romantic attitudes and standards built in her head. Impossible to say without knowing her well. Key here is seduction man, this is a good opportunity to practice. Dont placate yourself to her. Show her that you have self worth and she needs to prove herself to you to get the dick. Stop trying. Flirt with other…
/r/seduction15/02/19 04:55 PM
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How exactly do you manage 3 ltr plates with out losing your mind? Do they know you date other women?
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:38 AM
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You probably shouldnt have texted her that you have a crush on her and asked her to be your valentines would be my guess. Maybe it would have worked if you had the balls to do it in person. I dont know man, its weird that she's still oggling you. Have you talked to her irl that much, before or after? Maybe she's attracted to you but you havent initiated enough escalation/flirtation. Who the fuck knows, honestly hate this kind of shit. I would just try to get your head off her and maybe indiffere…
/r/seduction15/02/19 06:24 AM
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How old are you? Back in the days? Do you mean 1950's america? People have been fucking since the dawn of man dude. Do you really think there is something so utterly perverting about modern society that has caused the womens to become twisted into promiscuous she-devils? No. Both genders have always wanted to fuck, theres just vastly more people then there used to be.
/r/seduction15/02/19 03:31 AM
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Yea like ideal scenario here, you have an amazing connection, super positive feel good vibes and then you fuck her brains out right. Ok, so tell me why she wouldnt want a second date again?
/r/seduction15/02/19 12:25 AM
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Maybe you just werent that good in bed
/r/seduction14/02/19 10:37 PM
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just fucking DO IT LS:JDIKFSLDKFJ
/r/seduction13/02/19 05:51 AM
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There's no way she doesnt know its valentines
/r/seduction11/02/19 03:04 AM
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get modafinil online or something
/r/seduction11/02/19 02:58 AM
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Drink less, take some type of stimulant before hand?
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:58 AM
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Be direct and flirty, easy.
/r/seduction11/02/19 12:50 AM
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This is weird man, both of these girls are in the same realm of attractiveness. Do you not think the first girl is attractive? She is pure babe status, like holy fuck man.
/r/seduction10/02/19 03:37 PM
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Just girls you sleep with. Im assuming having a threesome with them wont work?
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:20 PM
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how many girlfriends do you have? just curious
/r/seduction09/02/19 08:13 PM
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Bro you just said this girl isnt into other girls, how can you have a 3some with her?
/r/seduction09/02/19 06:55 PM
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What about you changed to start getting signals from them?
/r/seduction09/02/19 05:17 PM
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Just one pic? Is it a selfie? ​
/r/seduction09/02/19 03:09 AM
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Why would you bother? Still plenty of time in the night to go find someone else spontaneously with your charm and wits right?
/r/seduction09/02/19 01:08 AM
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Dont know why you thought this was warranted. Most guys here are trying to figure out how to get laid and not be in the friendzone with girls. Its not like he's posting malicious or sexist attitudes towards these girls...
/r/seduction08/02/19 08:51 PM
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"yes im saving myself for Jesus" ​
/r/seduction08/02/19 07:24 AM
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Not so much what you say, or how much, but how you say it
/r/seduction05/02/19 03:17 AM
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Yea that is annoying. I mean, sounds like things have been squandered, you dont want to waist all your time with her, find other girls to lay, avoid emotional bonding before escalating, you know the drill
/r/seduction02/02/19 08:43 PM
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yea sounds like you fell into his lap, he indulged and now doesnt view you as better than what he already has, would be my guess
/r/seduction02/02/19 04:27 AM
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What im getting from these kinds of videos is that women love to get attention on camera
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:31 PM
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Well that certainly changes everything. So he's cheating on his girlfriend with you? Probably why you want to get with him so bad. He probably feels guilt.
/r/seduction01/02/19 06:28 PM
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Ok, well sounds like this is supposed to be an actual relationship. You're probably going to have to take the lead role here. Stop the texting stuff. You should be able to pull her aside and have a conversation about how she actually feels about you, make intentions clear. Friends opinions are just getting in the way good or bad.
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:51 PM
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What decisions would she be rethinking? Your friend talked to her and relayed things to you? Why did he talk to her? Advances in the way of overt sexual flirtation. It sounds like theres already a lot of social drama thats building around you two.
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:46 PM
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Maybe her friends tell her she should get with you and she feels pressure around the relationship now? Have you made advances on her?
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:39 PM
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Makes sense. Every guys fantasy is that some hot girl will come along, be friends with you and just do everything for you without hesitation, and without scrutiny of your ability to be the sexually confident stud of her dreams. Guess what? SOUNDS LIKE YOU ARE THAT
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:34 PM
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Then she's just fucking crazy, who knows.
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:30 PM
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hmm If she's aware that you are, then this could be the issue. Maybe she sees you as a player and thats why she's cold. I really dont know.
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:24 PM
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Didnt know if you meant the fuck bomb or the FZ bomb. Yea I mean best to be unattached to outcome. Last thing you wanna do is get all needy or expecting of something. Flirt with other girls, play indifference, etc. There's no hope for her if shes freindzoning a guy who she's able to feel comfortable enough with sharing deeper aspects of herself with.
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:16 PM
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Meaning?
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:10 PM
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Have you made a move besides the light touching? ​ The aspect of her telling you things she doesnt others, I dont know, maybe she feels like she's too vulnerable with you?
/r/seduction01/02/19 05:07 PM
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This is just so easy, what guy would not be interested in a really hot girl being all over him? It's just not a reality. He's probably worried that he wont perform for you proficiently and you will see him as sexually inferior to all the guys trying to get with you, so he's avoiding the shame of it all. ​ Can you give some background here though? This is obviously very antithetical to the advice thrown around here. What about this guy is making you lust for him like this? Does he have a big cock…
/r/seduction01/02/19 04:58 PM
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So to you, what does a guy do that generates "mystery between you"? Sounds like immediate compliments on your looks are transparent and boring? Does he instead make hints that he finds you desirable? Is there some type of push pull going on? Doesnt seem like gregariously getting to know you is the direction, but what is? How do you know he doesnt share your ideals and passions? Who has? How do you know they arent just saying things to get in your pants?
/r/seduction01/02/19 04:43 PM
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hmm, no i dont think so. First of all she already knows his name. To me it sounds like she's already banged dudes in axp. She's already comfirmed she's "trouble". Asking her on a date like a wet blanket is probably de-escalating, but rewording it into something more playful seems right.
/r/seduction01/02/19 07:14 AM
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I mean, either move on, accept that you're just going to be friends, or finally make it clear that you want to be more than friends. No use in cock teasing yourself for another two decades.
/r/seduction31/01/19 01:44 AM
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Well if you guys talk about this stuff so openly, its a pretty clear sign that she's open to it, otherwise she would avoid the subject. Nerves are tough. Try to enjoy being physical, rather than forcing yourself. It definitely could surprise her, but the trick is that she will respond to the out of character bold action. It will shift her perception of you. Dont be her puppy dog. Be the hound. This is where you start changing yourself through actual action, rather than just being in your head an…
/r/seduction30/01/19 06:07 PM
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I think this is something she wants. If she's more experienced shes probably had plenty of casual affairs and is at least open to something more involved. Dont worry about being her "boyfriend" or what ever you think that entails. Escalate things physically, lots of foreplay, turn her on, and regardless of how the actual sex goes, that will be enough to keep her wanting to keep a sexual relationship with you going. She will probably be into giving you more experience, and if you get better at it…
/r/seduction30/01/19 05:48 PM
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I wouldnt listen to this guy. She's clearly just been waiting for you to initiate. The guys shes been hooking up with do this and its what she responds to sexually, they just dont bother with the emotional stuff. Not every girl is so finicky that if you dont escalate quickly she will just perma zone you. I dont think shes just using you for emotional attention, you just have to show her youre able to fulfill her sexually. ​ The real issue is what comes after, if/when you do. I think this is what…
/r/seduction30/01/19 05:11 PM
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You got this man, I believe
/r/seduction30/01/19 06:31 AM
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Its a good question. Start a journal. Write down your thoughts, what ever they are, your perceptions, what youre feeling and why you think your feeling them, your questions, things you dont understand, etc. This will help you cognize and be more aware of what youre going through and your state of mind. You will also really appreciate having it to look back on when youre older. You can also keep a list of things to do throughout the day, chore wise and routines. Its about starting consistent and …
/r/seduction29/01/19 10:56 PM
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It's all about incremental development, one foot in front of the next. I have ADHD too, I know how it is. Anxiety and distractibilty will both be issues you'll have to overcome. Routine is very important, and what that requires is self discipline. You have the motivation and desire to improve and that's key so you're doing well. Dont be hard on yourself, avoid being self critical. Learn to recognize your errors as you go along and develop a mentality that will learn and improve from them rather …
/r/seduction29/01/19 07:53 PM
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So you have plenty of time. Dont try to be what they are overnight. Learn to be more social, find friends who can mentor you in various ways, doesnt even have to be about girls. You need to concern yourself with gaining new positive life experiences that will propel you further in life. Become an interesting and successful person. Go on adventures so you have stories to share, read, find passions/hobbies, become friends with women to be completely comfortable around them, etc. Self improvement f…
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:37 PM
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How old are you?
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:28 PM
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As someone who also deals with some heavy mental health issues, I suspect therapy is in order if you haven't begun that already. Medication could help, but Adderall would only go so far.
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:14 PM
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Not unless my dick is in their vagine
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:04 PM
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Now thats a bold attention grabbing move I never would have thought of. Damnit!
/r/seduction29/01/19 08:08 AM
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Ok whats next
/r/seduction29/01/19 06:48 AM
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