| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | What necessarily is game ?Start with the bible of game named The Game, that will give you foundation for everything else... | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 05:46 AM |
| 1 | How to escalate for the 4th date ?Then you are not native to this sub | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 04:02 PM |
| -6 | How to escalate for the 4th date ?Nope, girls cannot answer these questions, it's a harsh truth. A fish cannot teach how to fish. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 03:33 PM |
| -6 | How to escalate for the 4th date ?Nope she will just delay it and more and more and think he is a pussy. Never trust her words, trust her actions and her actions already tells us she wants him to take lead more. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 03:23 PM |
| 0 | How to escalate for the 4th date ?Exactly and even if you did not have condom, have sex and when you feel like cumming cum on her waist or back. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 03:16 PM |
| -1 | How to escalate for the 4th date ?Bro don't just burn the kids let them enjoy the fantasy land of take it slow. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 03:15 PM |
| -5 | How to escalate for the 4th date ?It's a terrible advice if you're looking to get laid. | /r/seduction | 22/04/26 03:14 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allI never had girls actually as a friend and I really want to try their friendship to understand it. Also feels like I won't be able to think of them just as friends if they are hot or cute and single. Otherwise I can be friends with girls who are committed to my friends no problem. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 07:23 PM |
| 2 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allLike what value as a girl as a friend can add that a guy can't? I'm genuinely asking bro, because I'm leaning more towards make girl friends. | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 05:36 PM |
| 2 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allNope don't go that route, time will waste | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 05:15 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allIt's very easy. Just let them know you are interested them very early on as soon as you meet them. After that pla your game. If she doesn't like you, move on to the next | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 04:35 PM |
| 1 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allIt's very easy. Just let them know you are interested them very early on as soon as you meet them. After that pla your game. If she doesn't like you, move on to the next | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 04:35 PM |
| 2 | I can have a great conversations with women and become friends easily, but do not know how to flirt at allIt's very easy. Just let them know you are interested them very early on as soon as you meet them. After that pla your game. If she doesn't like you, move on to the next | /r/seduction | 21/04/26 04:35 PM |
| 66 | The first time you fuck a girl you have to slowly escalate to it without asking. But every other time you can just ask her, why is that?This is so True, whenever I used to kiss close without asking it used to be easier and also closed. But whenever I asked it was first a no before it either got ahead or led to nothing. | /r/seduction | 25/02/26 06:03 PM |
| 3 | Fast escalation with girl I met online. Did I kill the momentum? How to recover?Let me share a simple rule: which would work for you all. Don't Try to get know more about her over texts. Talk, make her smile ,flirt a bit set up a date and then keep the date fun, kiss close and set up a second date on the first date itself and you can make a home date and escalate there. With good game first date also gets you laid on first date. | /r/seduction | 23/02/26 10:58 AM |
| 0 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyyeah knew the theory, messed up the practical it seems. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 12:55 PM |
| 1 | How do I turn this around?There's a much better chance she'll be attracted to you if you approach or go on dates with other girls. Also workout crazy because looks matters most. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyIt was already planned that we were meeting then it got cancelled because of this. It was not randomly me insisting. But got your point. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Hinge follow up message?What's a bail mary | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 11:50 AM |
| 0 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyGot it. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyYeah bro knew the theory messed up in practical shit it was. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 11:44 AM |
| 2 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyDamn. This is one of the best responses I have got .Great Insight and perspective. Thanks Man! | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 11:14 AM |
| 1 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyNaah bro was not looking for anything serious. It was like seeing how it goes. And it went well. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 11:04 AM |
| 1 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyThanks man. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 11:02 AM |
| 1 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyThat's for this insight. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 10:59 AM |
| 2 | Mixed SignalsIdk if it's the norm but I don't text girls these much unless I'm dating them for a while or in a relationship. Is it just me or am I doing something wrong. I mostly try to plan the next meet after some banter over texts or prefer to talk over calls than texts. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 10:19 AM |
| 2 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyYes will remember it. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 10:10 AM |
| 1 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyYes bro Trying not to look needy even though I know I'm not. Still I think it's a habit I guess | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 10:09 AM |
| 1 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyYeah bro. Will be making it part of my mantle. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:55 AM |
| 2 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyYep | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:31 AM |
| 3 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyAppreciate the concern brother. Not pursuing just a conversation I was hoping for, still got to experience this type of thing is also good for experience. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyThanks bro. My bad for looking needy, I just felt a conversation would have been ok because it's not so normal here. Very rare. That's why I insisted. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:28 AM |
| 1 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyYeah bro I know bro I backed off. I Just asked her to meet to talk and that too in a public place bro and not forced. Still appreciate the concern brother. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:24 AM |
| 1 | Got laid on 1st date and then she got into relationship with another guyThanks bro. Appreciate it. Sometimes no matter how perfect a game may be, shit happens. | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 09:22 AM |
| 2 | Did 10 approaches per day. Video in comments. ConfidenceJourney 2Use Google reddit and book and field report references for such stuff. Because you would have to choose what works with your personality and use it as per that. | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 08:26 AM |
| 56 | What to do if someone is competing with you for a girl?You couldn't have spoken better. This is the most true thing there is and almost everyone realises it after getting out of college. | /r/seduction | 12/08/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Did 10 approaches per day. Video in comments. ConfidenceJourney 2Bro the one of things you are lacking in approach is Some good openers and routines. You have to have some for all the common scenarios and you'll be surprised how wonderfully they work. Try it and keep us updated. | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 10:40 AM |
| 2 | Approached girl in the gymKeep us updated mate... Would really appreciate the outcome of such | /r/seduction | 03/08/24 10:24 AM |
| 1 | I’ve fumbled countless women over the past couple of years and I’m treated like a loser/nuisance - am I just not attractive enough?With this looks, Complaining should be a crime about not getting some. | /r/seduction | 29/07/24 10:13 AM |
| 2 | Girl went cold after we hook up. What to do?Stop hooking up with Dead bodies Sam!!! SAM !! STOP IT!!! | /r/seduction | 23/07/24 06:12 AM |
| 2 | Constantly getting ghosted after sex.Don't just make them cum. Make their legs shiver. And yeah talk about that emotional stuff for the long term Relationships. | /r/seduction | 01/07/24 11:47 AM |
| 1 | How to reply to this comment"Yeah, My parents were part of that big occult child naming cult wink " | /r/seduction | 29/06/24 11:04 AM |
| 2 | Which celebrities applied sh*t tests?Damn bro you cook so hard so casually damn.... | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 07:09 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the best texts (PG-Rated) that you’ve received from women?That's cool. But you don't remember your routine of your dates. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 12:30 PM |
| 0 | What are some of the best texts (PG-Rated) that you’ve received from women?Well you must share your date stories of how it goes and how you make it go to get such responses. | /r/seduction | 11/06/24 10:53 AM |
| -1 | How to handle women scared by my approachGood Question! | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 07:56 AM |
| 2 | How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10?Bro always do mention that you're joking around. | /r/seduction | 07/06/24 04:53 AM |
| 1 | How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10?Really liked this comment.!! | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 03:10 PM |
| 4 | How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10?Hey, I understand your POV and Concern very well. And from your PoV it's right as well. However some girls don't like it and some girls don't mind it. Because I asked lots of them. Metro is a public space and very safe. a comfortable space could be your shared working space, educational institution, neighbourhood, basically anywhere where the woman must have seen you around and is sure that other people know you as well to subconsciously verify that you are in fact not a creep or an abductor or … | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 02:59 PM |
| 2 | How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10?Thanks for this suggestion bro. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 09:20 AM |
| 5 | How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10?Well I have approached a girl with that condition and she was good at reception and we had fun having conversation and since she was not single, I let go after that. And also giving a piece of paper with number converting into a date ,It's one of the rarest things to work here. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 06:59 AM |
| 7 | How to approach and talk to girl in metro, Who's a 9 or 10?Can you elaborate on the last part... Also What kind of openers. Mostly I got with hey I think you were really cute, or Hey I really liked your sense of style. And after that she says Thank you. What are ways in which I can take the conversation. | /r/seduction | 06/06/24 06:35 AM |
| 1 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindFirst of all , No girl would ever just accept the fact she wants sex with a stranger. And 2nd if following someone completely and not getting any results just change your leader... Because he just told stuff only top 1% of guys can succeed and that too sometimes only. And rn You are nowhere close to 1%. You only mastered approaching skills and perhaps all other things are shit. You have to improve those as well. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 09:50 AM |
| 2 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindFor some it works and too has other conditions involved because girls mostly hate direct communication regarding sex or intentions from a complete stranger. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 09:42 AM |
| 1 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindThat's being naked in the snow and saying, Why am I getting cold... | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 09:41 AM |
| 2 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindBro here everyone will suggest you better and also some ways to introspect as well. Even if I'm wrong others will correct so it's better here. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 09:38 AM |
| 5 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindI think one thing you majorly mastered approaching and right now you are in 1 % of the guys who approach women. I think the problem is not in approach and it's after you approach. You compliment and then start to have a fun banter, where you and her are mostly laughing and smiling at each other. And also not taking too much of her time. Just tell her you are planning to go to this event or will be going to checkout this Cafe this weekend at this time, so you can join me if you would like to. If … | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 09:33 AM |
| 1 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindSo what do you say after Hey or Hi there to a girl during the cold approaching.? | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 09:20 AM |
| 1 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindThat's fine but what do you say to women when cold approaching mostly? | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 09:19 AM |
| 3 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindI never saw -ve karna on someone...damn | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 08:16 AM |
| 3 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindBro check his karma.its -ve | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 08:15 AM |
| 2 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindTell us how you cold approach girls and what do you say mostly,so we can assess the reasons and help you out. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 08:04 AM |
| 5 | I am a 38 year old virgin and I'm losing my mindTell us the things you did on your self improvement journey...so that we can help you out | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 07:59 AM |
| 1 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionHe's 18-19, I guess A decent height, Fair, Not bulky but a bit athletic, has Instagram full of his pics and reels as for modelling purposes. Not many followers on Instagram yet. He told me he gets dm sometimes on his insta. | /r/seduction | 05/06/24 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionDamn bro...it's just keep getting deeper | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionWell you gave the mindset, I'm asking you to give an example of how to apply. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionI meant with an example buddy. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 01:56 PM |
| 2 | How to stand out on a first dateThe only thing you have to do is not mess up. Make her comfortable, have fun banter and kiss her. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionElaborate Please. | /r/seduction | 04/06/24 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionThere should be a book on Naturals. Can you give some insights on some of his routines,like openings or approaching stuff...? | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 08:13 PM |
| 11 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionSo Share those tips the Fellow Bartender bestowed upon him in a detailed way . | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionAnd even convinced the girl that it's because of her they are talking dirty now. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionAnd even convinced the girl that it's because of her they are talking dirty now. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 07:11 PM |
| 15 | Today I saw what they call Naturals at work in SeductionGot it bro. That's good POV | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 05:51 PM |
| 1 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameDamn I got the exact opposite advice when last time I asked about eye contacts and reading signals reception. It was said you approach her instead of waiting for those cues if you can't figure it out. | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameAlone by choice means we want others to leave her alone. Or is it okay to approach her, because she is Alone? | /r/seduction | 03/06/24 02:39 AM |
| 2 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameThanks bro for understanding so much. You almost got me in tears with your warm words. Appreciated. I hope I can describe it in a better way next time. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 06:30 PM |
| 2 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameWell thanks for always giving such encouraging suggestions bro. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 05:51 PM |
| 3 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameThank you so much Brother. This was the best comment I have come across. I am very grateful for the constructive criticism and that's my purpose of sharing here as well. Maybe I had a good conversation that's why I felt it was too brutal. My intention was to just approach her because I haven't done so in a very long time. And have a conversation n all. I asked for socials n all because it used to be part of the game so I just took the shot knowing my game was way off. I consider it a win because… | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 03:39 PM |
| -1 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameI said I shut the fcked up when she said those things. She broke that silence and continued conversation. What should I do ,just ignore her. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 09:53 AM |
| 2 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameBro In terms of game, I did shit. However I understand the body language and she was comfortable there. And talking to a girl while waiting for the metro is not an unusual thing. We both sat at the same place so what should I have done stand up and go somewhere else. I kept my silence when she said those things however she initiated further conversation. Because I didn't want to come as too talkative. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 08:19 AM |
| -1 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameI said we were waiting for the metro ,and not inside the metro. There was way too much space there. She was sitting alone , so I approached her and she reciprocated nicely as well. We were laughing and smiling most of the time. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 07:00 AM |
| 3 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameVery good suggestions. Thank you. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 06:54 AM |
| -7 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameI took my hint when she said She's not single. I had some time to pass so I was just trying to know her better and about the city meanwhile because I genuinely socialize. And she appreciated that it's good that you socialize. And I can sense discomfort when I see one. She was comfortable, enjoying conversation, she was just a very shy girl. I know many things I said or did would have been better. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 06:47 AM |
| -25 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameI'm new to the city so it's good to have some people who know the city better for suggestions. | /r/seduction | 02/06/24 04:08 AM |
| -13 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameI know buddy this is nowhere a good approach. This was my first approach without any thoughts or ideas just adid it based on instinct. Will have to improve as I mess up more and start to avoid the things you pointed out. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 08:15 PM |
| -35 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameGot it... Though I disagree with some of your points being taken to extreme yet I know that I messed up in lots of areas. I just did and said whatever came to mind and felt right at the moment. She seemed comfortable and reciprocated to my jokes with her laughs and smiles. And I never forced her ,there was just natural silence, she felt like talking so she did . | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameI said next time when we meet we'll exchange the numbers. We haven't exchanged numbers currently. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Approached a cute girl after 1.5 years out of gameI said next time when we meet we'll exchange the numbers. We haven't exchanged numbers currently. | /r/seduction | 01/06/24 07:48 PM |
| 0 | Those of you who successfully faked it till they made it with confidence. How did you do it?Bro you just reposted what I said in comments yesterday... It's fine if it helps to improve | /r/seduction | 30/05/24 04:52 AM |
| 1 | What is proper way to give smile to womenUsername checks out | /r/seduction | 29/05/24 05:59 AM |
| 1 | What is proper way to give smile to womenOhhoo ohhoooo | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 04:45 PM |
| 1 | What is proper way to give smile to womenI think this seems right. Definitely will work on it | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 03:17 PM |
| 10 | What is proper way to give smile to womenBro I understand your point. And you are right as well. However my point of question is how to give a smile to a girl without seeming like a creep. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 02:46 PM |
| 2 | What is proper way to give smile to womenIf she's still looking at you for 3times , what are odds of that... Mostly women avoid eye contact with strangers for a long time and also like for them they also might be feeling that they are looking too much kind of. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 01:10 PM |
| 8 | How do you make the first move?Guys especially older guys(mostly mature), admires girls who approach, it'll help them to treat you even better and also respecting what type of relationship you're looking forward to with them. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 12:21 PM |
| 5 | How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe?Chat agrees. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 12:19 PM |
| 4 | How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe?Getting success takes time and much more effort. However with faking the demeanor a person can obtain most of the things in his personality without ever using any herbs and drugs. You'll be ur own medicine of positivity and confidence. Success will just amplify it multifold. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 12:14 PM |
| 82 | How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe?You have to keep faking it so that you can even trick your own subconscious into believing you are that Dominant guy. | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 10:51 AM |
| 298 | How to have that "he is probably incredible in bed" vibe?Show them what you want them to see... Have that dominant posture and aura by faking it until it is internalised in you. Then automatically you'll view yourself as that and so do others . | /r/seduction | 28/05/24 06:51 AM |
| 1 | Is there any winning here?Well I want to know that as well | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 02:18 PM |
| 2 | Is there any winning here?What to do when she's out of town for a week and has agreed to a date on next weekend. So for 1 week what should be the approach to keep the interest up.. | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 10:39 AM |
| 3 | I've been seeing a lot of guys here say they get ghosted after the first date "went well" and here's the most probable reason whyDid you just assume that person's gender.... | /r/seduction | 27/05/24 05:28 AM |
| 1 | After what date can you start discussion about exclusivity?After An*l I guess is probably the right time. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Which Path To Choose...?Read books to get the basic idea and then execute with trial and error and then improve with the experience and more book reading and expert guidance. | /r/seduction | 24/05/24 08:18 AM |
| 1 | Suggest me ways to get back into game since 1.5years ,I left it.All day as in I can't use it for a cold approach in that case. Unless it's a proper date, It's not like I got time for cold approaches that's what I meant. | /r/seduction | 18/05/24 03:15 AM |
| 2 | Suggest me ways to get back into game since 1.5years ,I left it.Thanks buddy. Gives me hope that it's ok to start fresh. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 06:24 PM |
| 1 | Suggest me ways to get back into game since 1.5years ,I left it.Cannot cold approach rn so that's why and also not pinning just thought whether to give it a try or not. I guess I was thinking too much into this. | /r/seduction | 17/05/24 10:16 AM |
| 6 | What zone is this?Well guys This is a CLASSIC case of simp and in deep friendzoned. I'll just answer his questions: Is there any way of knowing when a guy should pay or when a guy should let the lady pay? Answer: Ask her out on a proper date first and escalate things over there. You know what they say," A must always pay on the date" on the date not on every fkn meal. Don't me her walking credit card. So stop spending on her completely unless it's a date or guys are together dating or at least in a casual scene. … | /r/seduction | 21/04/24 08:02 AM |
| -1 | Losing virginityWell because of that nervousness and overly heartbeating you'll cum really very very soon... So before going for the deed ...try to get comfortable around her .. it's okay cum once or twice before you go for the intercourse... Touch each other if you cum take a break and try the oral and you cum again take a break...and then you can be confident about the intercourse... You'll and she'll love... | /r/seduction | 17/04/24 07:44 PM |
| 12 | How to offer to go down on wemenUnless she's ur wife or naughty kinky gf.. | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:15 PM |
| 0 | How to offer to go down on wemen+1 | /r/seduction | 16/04/24 02:14 PM |
| 2 | Break down of my one-itisThe one thing which is the most repulsive thing to any woman in the world , a thing which every woman hates more than anything in a guy is.... DESPERATION. | /r/seduction | 06/04/24 07:19 PM |
| 2 | Girl thinks all I want is sex. Can I turn this around or should I give up.Chasing again and again makes you one. Cut lose your attention and you'll redeem yourself. | /r/seduction | 15/03/24 05:25 AM |
| 0 | dating this girl short term but can’t seem to get sexualShe's shy just initiating a kiss after you make her laugh and then slowly escalate should seal the deal ig | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 11:50 AM |
| 3 | The very best way to attract someone is to be focused on something that you're good atHow about focusing on attracting is you're good at. | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 02:41 AM |
| 2 | The very best way to attract someone is to be focused on something that you're good atLet the world know about sweets... | /r/seduction | 04/03/24 02:40 AM |
| 1 | She asked for my InstagramMake her laugh, ask her out and go on a date. If rejected onto the next. | /r/seduction | 10/02/24 12:17 PM |
| 1 | I went on 18 first dates in January - here’s the breakdown of my results + my insightsMost honest for the guys understanding reality. | /r/seduction | 05/02/24 01:19 PM |
| 1 | Is asking only once, always the right choice?And they are currently in 3+ year happy relationship with them. You asked girls if they were in a happy relationship. Not that they are wrong however you are a guy and therefore you must be the side of the guys that are in that relationship. Guys will also say they are happy and yet still there will be a but if word in their words regarding how they think things would have been a bit different if they behaved a bit less desperate in the beginning. It's a matter of respect in a relationship. | /r/seduction | 04/02/24 12:06 PM |
| -1 | Did my first true cold approach and oofIf the text is not funny or at least interesting enough then it'll probably end up in getting ghosted. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 10:47 PM |
| 2 | She hits me up, but then doesn’t respond?Never give so much explanation about something like that just make a joke about it and move on. So her it's no big deal to you. | /r/seduction | 30/01/24 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Controlling emotionsWe all have been there bro. And this path you are on leads to heart break which it hurts a lot and will affect your trust issues as well. So to get over what situation you are in : Make your attention valuable. Spend and give less time to her . Let her miss you . And still if you want to be with her so desperately then make your move and let her know that you are interested in her romantically as well as sexually. Once you made your move , if she responds positive then hurray to you. However if … | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 07:33 AM |
| 4 | Flirting with CoworkersGo with classic coffee idea and then with dinner at your place follow-up... Add movie to it and there you go | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 07:17 AM |
| 15 | Hooking up with a hook-up’s friendIf you don't care they don't care, and having fun then keep it up all you want | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 04:33 AM |
| 1 | Is it a bad idea to just be yourself?The answer is easy: If you want to build a healthy relationship with good woman then you being your above said self is the best way to go. Because anyone who doesn't like this approach for dating isn't looking for anything serious nor long term. However, If you want casual dating and getting laid , physical experience(here the women we are talking about are 8,9,10 in terms of appearance)then your above approach of being yourself most likely won't work. (However if it works most of the time then … | /r/seduction | 27/01/24 04:03 AM |
| 3 | How to hook up with girls on vacation?https://www.instagram.com/reel/Ch5ZKUNpAj7/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y= | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 11:12 AM |
| 3 | How to hook up with girls on vacation?Dude ,TF this guy want even advice on really... This guy's got almost everything going on for him and he still doesn't feel confident...just approach more while you up ur game buddy... For Guys like you...it's surprisingly way much more easier than the rest... Remember this later while approaching and you'll definitely thank me later... Just be prepared with that for whatever you are approaching you'll be getting it so you don't have to be so nervous... | /r/seduction | 15/09/22 07:55 AM |
| 1 | What should I do next?Well just set the date and tell her... it's a great idea to go for a bowling on first date...later you can go on walk or cafe... Escalations you do however you seem appropriate as per situation. Just give her space when she asks, wants or needs it . | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | What should I do next?I agree with this | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Hotter Girls at Clubs and Bars Will NOT give you signals even when they are interestedI'm 23 and half lol | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 06:55 AM |
| -3 | How do you personally word it when you are asking a girl on a date?Hey... I am Rahul...(a handshake and her name) I saw you from there (my friends over there n all or whatever you were doing) and I think you are cute... Would you like to go out on a coffee sometime? (I don't like, I don't drink, I don't hangout much, I am very busy, I am applying quantum relativity with the Space complexity of warpdrive to time travel and what not shit) .. Just pass this test of questions and after that just be yourself in better version... All the best 👍 | /r/seduction | 09/05/22 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Girl talked about sex a lot on our last date, pretty sure she wants to fuck next time. Don't have much experience what do?Don't talk much about sex then take control of things and still make things feel like it happened in the moment not because we talked about doing it....!! | /r/seduction | 06/05/22 04:19 AM |
| 13 | Fuck seduction get in your bag. I don’t want woman until I reach 100k cashIt's a never ending process bud, just hustle and get women as well it's part of life ,live it... Women are not the another destination after financial freedom. These all are just part of the life and process. 🤘 | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:27 AM |
| 2 | FELLAS I NEED HELP!How come being playful is diminishing to a woman... (Unless she's dumb)... How come playing around and calling her little girl to tease (in a playful manner) is talking down on her... It's same shit like Guys must do things like this and when they do it ,we didn't asked you to do this....or He's not fun or just kind of friends type... And stop manipulating words so that you can take Moral High ground and shit... Just disagree and move on... | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 04:24 AM |
| 2 | FELLAS I NEED HELP!Ma'am you are right... However these were just some cool off tips for him if he felt way too nervous during the date... To keep the mood up and playful... Escalations depends upon the vibes more than need... That's what I think...=) | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 05:35 PM |
| 4 | FELLAS I NEED HELP!Try to see some physical touch excuses and escalations tips online... Like touching her hand, shoulder, face... You can put a piece of thread in your pocket or hand and just pretend you are removing something from her hair and this will break the physical barrier to a bit more intimate level... And you can call her clumsy or little girl kind of teases... From there it's upto you how you escalate...and won't be just her meal guy... All the best...Own yourself and rule | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 03:25 PM |
| 4 | I can't take this anymore.First calm down...! And instead of complaining just look at your experiences and laugh the hell out of it ....!! You have such a awesome stories to tell ahead. Dude, these things, experiences and stories willl lead to the great foundation of your humour and conversation and charisma... Just learn how to tell your stories. And whoever told you to lower your standards just fuck them off...and try to upgrade your standards... And be ready to let go the next time you think you have to compromise som… | /r/seduction | 13/04/22 08:15 AM |
| 1 | I approached a girl in the mall, she slept over - but no sex?Girls most times tend to Test guys by saying No during sexual escalations to check whether the guy "respect her boundaries" well or not. Because that shit is "big turn On" to them. If "Passed" ,then they either initiate things by themselves after some time or on a next date... But if guy keep asking or keeps escalating after being said No then that's one of the biggest Turn Offs for the girls and from there they tend to keep sexual intimacy minimum... Unless the guy improves his game back and ge… | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 05:24 PM |
| 2 | If a woman says shes engaged, do you give her your number anyway or you just leave it be?Even if she's looking for casual or something after the engagement, then as well you should avoid these kind of encounters. Because imagine being the guy that she's engaged with and how would you feel about the she'll hookup with. Lots of fish in the sea... Avoid already engaged girls ( that's how you'll also have the pride and also the moral high ground in your own eyes, that shit reflect on personality) | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 04:44 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl in the mall, she slept over - but no sex?She's not homeless or something, she went with him because she liked his company, not all girls prefer to have sex on first date. He never invited her to have sex neither she promised. In the end it's not a red flag judging based on the first date.. .Bro, It's not always black and white , most of time things are grey... Even I used to put things the way you are putting now however with more experiences I understood things better. She went over his place is a good sign because she's interested an… | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 04:39 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl in the mall, she slept over - but no sex?She's not obligated to have sex with him just because she agreed to sleep over... She was not comfortable in further escalation (atleast not for now may be). Asking her to leave for not having sex is just disrespect for her as well as his own self-esteem and game. | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 01:48 PM |
| 2 | I approached a girl in the mall, she slept over - but no sex?I think it would be better if he slept on sofa... Girls notice these kinds of gestures and regard them in high value... So it's better to be complete gentleman and let her enjoy your company and comfort...!! | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 08:06 AM |
| 1 | I approached a girl in the mall, she slept over - but no sex?I have been there... They are just testing you as well as checking whether you respect their boundaries or not... Respecting boundaries are a Big Turn-On for them... You kept trying even after she asked to back off that was surely a Turn-Off. If you had just backed off after the first try , chances would have been much more than things would have ended great..!! Next time... Make sure you respect boundaries and keep doing it when they say no at point of time...!! | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 08:04 AM |
| 2 | I approached a girl in the mall, she slept over - but no sex?That's a terrible advice as well as idea... Never do it...!! Never | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 07:57 AM |
| 1 | Girl agreed for date but not drinks?Don't try to push things to hookup if there are no indicators to that... Grab coffee first and then invite her to drinks for the next one... From there you seem to know stuff... | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 07:51 AM |
| 2 | Girl agreed for date but not drinks?You are definitely reading from the wrong ones then... It's better to keep the comfort and escalate as per the IOI. Making out can be said to be an important point here on first date ... | /r/seduction | 05/04/22 07:48 AM |
| 10 | he always asks before kissing meMay be he's just hesitant that you would think he's misbehaving....(which you would like it In a good way... however in his mind might be in a bad way)... It's okay... Relationships are better when one of the partner is dominant...if he's not being then you become the more dominant one and then control and order him around with assertiveness... And see if he likes that..!! | /r/seduction | 04/04/22 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Best way to proceed?Do post or reply on this same post about how did it go... We would like to know what worked for you in the end...!!! | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Girl I was texting that I was trying to hang out for the first time with sees me at the mall with friends and texts me after not responding to me in 4 days, she asks why I didn’t approach her and I didn’t because she wasn’t answering my texts and ghosting. How do I go on about this to plan a date ?😂🤘 | /r/seduction | 30/03/22 06:47 AM |
| 2 | How can I talk about my job in a more interesting way?Good one😂😂 | /r/seduction | 29/03/22 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Thinking about giving up with womenNahh instead of giving up take a break...relax from it and see things from a different perspective then start working on your self , read books and practice...✌️ | /r/seduction | 28/03/22 04:44 AM |
| 1 | Sometimes I believe I’m just not meant for this or to even find love. I have the confidence, looks, style, humor, upped my texting game and still nothing is working. Is it something psychological? Is it my energy? My inner thoughts? Or am I just not meant for the “game” or to attract more women.Same situation...so do answer Everyone | /r/seduction | 27/03/22 06:46 AM |
| 1 | My first day of cold approach was a disasterIt's ok... it's meant to be disaster in early stages. Just get it wrong enough times and learn through it and then you'll start getting it right . That's how it works | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | I'm really confused about what to do with my girlfriend....Just get over her... Looking back after some years you'll be thanking yourself for letting go. It's way better for your mental health and it'll also help you to learn how to let go. It's very important. Take this decision of letting go and sort it out. Have patience you'll be having lots of sex and more than you even thought about with even way more prettier and hotter women. | /r/seduction | 12/02/22 02:51 AM |
| 4 | Went on a 4 day cruise and here's what happened (part 2)If you know the kino game well then kiss should not be the problem if theirs enough comfort and attraction build. | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 02:05 PM |
| 0 | Seeing two girls at the same timeNo matter how good they seem, sleeping on first date is a Big Red Flag if you are thinking in terms of serious or long term relationship.... It's basics | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 01:52 PM |
| 3 | Was I really stupid? Or is this meaningless harsh criticism?If you didn't wanted to get laid or kiss...then it's fine. Otherwise yup she's right. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 09:24 AM |
| 15 | Girls never check me out..?I’ve always believed I was attractive. It's a good thing you have confidence about and acknowledgement about it. Women dig for guys with good self esteem. I have a good physique, good sense of fashion, and I’m well groomed. It's really great that you understand this dynamics. That Improves drastically your SMV. But I never see girls glance at me when I walk past them or ever really notice them checking me out. Girls checks guys all the time. However it's for just a split second for most of them.… | /r/seduction | 06/12/21 08:34 AM |
| 1 | I thought i was social, until...There are some good sites and even books... First of all Start by reading The Game by Neil Strauss... It's a must read... From there you'll know everything what to and from where to get stuff from | /r/seduction | 01/11/21 05:32 AM |
| 6 | The 4 tiers of Openers from fear paralysis to optimizationIt was really well written and quite described.. | /r/seduction | 13/09/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | I thought i was social, until...Learn some good openers and routines. Know basic stuff about opening or initiations. Keep good jokes and stories in your pocket to throw it in between the convo. This will surely improve your confidence. | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 01:17 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]In real situation go more with positive vibes like This music or drink or (something you find good) made your day, also by asking the general questions instead of going into personal at the beginning like how was your day, or how does this lights make you feel. Preparation: Be prepared with the stuff in stock for the time when your brain suddenly goes blank when you go for approach. Demonstrate higher value: First come up as more interesting than other, be funny, be energized, have some interest… | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 09:44 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Don't buy stuff to them if you haven't atleast made out with them few times, they will think "why is he buying me stuff randomly" or "he must be trying to get into my pants". Trying to be a nice guy can come off as Manipulative alot. That's why most nice guys end up being friendzoned, ghosted, ignored, or being emotional tampons, and lot more worse. Act like you are the prize and demonstrate your high value. By buying stuff to her randomly made you lost your frame completely. Express your intent… | /r/seduction | 12/09/21 08:42 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]That's why there's a thing called 3second rule. Approach her within the first 3 seconds or else your mind will resist. Keep stuff already prepared for what you gonna talk about or how you gonna start beforehand for such approaches. | /r/seduction | 11/09/21 04:24 AM |
| 1 | How do I know if she put me in friendzone and how do I get out of it?The next time you ask her out more playfully and she responds with "I have a boyfriend", reply with stuff like: Good, he'll be there to buy you good things when you are away from me;-). | /r/seduction | 08/09/21 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Can you reverse a situation where you came off very needy?First subtly Start saying no to her. Reduce the attention span you give to her. Make different plans with other girls and guys. Don't be too Available bro. (Less is always more valued) Make her feel that she can lose you. Make her feel like she is not qualified for you and let her prove that she is, just never do this by being too Direct... Be more playful. Have the abundance mindset . If she reacts positively use push pull technique and take it from there. However,. If Still she doesn't react p… | /r/seduction | 07/09/21 07:28 AM |
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