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It is when several people interview you for a job at the same time. Like three interviewers all ask you questions in the same interview. You have to figure out who’s really in charge and all the inter social dynamics. It’s nerve wracking the first few times you do it.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 01:09 AM
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It happens a lot. If you let her control the frame, you will be on a panel interview, competing (badly) for her attention, as you waste your time and money. Set higher standards and stick to them. You did the right thing.
/r/askTRP08/06/21 12:55 AM
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Yeah. I spent time as a criminal lawyer. You wouldn’t believe people’s perception of realities, and they have to be told STOP in no uncertain terms.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 12:41 AM
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Yes. We can pair bond and form long relationships with women. ‘Staying loyal’ is a strange concept: it’s like staying on a diet. If every now and then we get a piece of pie and no one knows, we just happily go on with our diet and there’s no problem.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:55 PM
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No. It’s a chance for you to ruin your life and get a criminal record. Stay away and lawyer up if you need to. Zero contact with her from now on, no matter what.
/r/askTRP13/08/20 05:50 PM
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And you’ll save yourself a lot of TIME. For some people that’s even more important than money.
/r/askTRP17/07/20 03:33 PM
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Brains are like computers: garbage in leads to garbage out. If you can’t trust you, no one else can either. Change how you think. Read the sidebar. Celebrate little successes and get on the road to thinking right.
/r/askTRP28/05/20 02:19 AM
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What’s the degree and from which institution?
/r/askTRP09/05/20 03:55 AM
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Yes. You can. However 95% of women will not approach, so you’re left with the 5% who ‘may’ if all the starts align. You become the equivalent of the tinder girls who only want men over 6’2”, thereby eliminating >95% of their target market.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:48 AM
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Greets from Tanjong Pagar. We should form a red pill chapter.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:44 AM
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Classic: the rational male by Rollo. That’s pretty much what I needed to align things.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:43 AM
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You’re playing a long term game here. If you burn out, go to prison or get a heart attack, you lose. If you’re becoming a better man (measured by the metrics YOU chose) each year, you’re winning.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:41 AM
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Moved to a different country. Banged 30 chicks last year. 2X’d my (pretty high) salary/income over last 3 years. I was already on my own red pill path, but the books accelerated and guided it.
/r/askTRP21/02/20 07:38 AM
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Imagine there really was a sex god method. Maybe then we could create a forum where people could ask red pill questions, after reading the sidebar. Just a thought.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:25 AM
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Most people will steer you to the 5x5 program and intermittent fasting to get you in shape. Then developing your own clothes and persona based on how you wish to project yourself. It’s a good multi lane approach, that will allow you to focus and master each one at your own pace
/r/askTRP03/01/20 01:06 PM
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Me and a whole army of guys here are over 40. There’s a big mix here.
/r/askTRP03/01/20 12:56 PM
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If you’re 30, it’s worth looking into. At 19, consider it a blessing. Plenty of guys your age spend half their day jacking off.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:41 AM
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Use your time to focus on getting things done like college, finding good hobbies and getting fit. Plenty of time for women and their drama later.
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:37 AM
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How young?
/r/askTRP13/12/19 05:35 AM
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Must agree on calling bullshit. Many blue pill SJWs and genitally male ‘feminists’ are sure as hell NOT on team man. They sink the ship for all of us.
/r/TheRedPill11/12/19 08:40 AM
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It comes down to holding frame. Many have dark triad personalities. Manson was a big advocate of ‘how to win friends and influence people’. They learn people and how to appear to give them what they want. Jim Jones (Guyana) was another one. David Koresh, Stalin, Mao ..... the list is long. These people are not necessarily criminal, they’re just very powerful focused individuals who react forcefully when publicly insulted, or their place in the world is challenged. Those with high body counts mak…
/r/askTRP09/12/19 04:17 AM
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The people on this sub are from all over the world, in vastly different age ranges, some are wealthy others poor and most in between. Some are 2/10 others 9/10. Even IF we could give you what you want, it would be worthless Your mileage will vary. The life you live will be your own. The odds don’t matter. Live your life well. Women and other men are attracted to that. You’ll never be short of friends and women if you do.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 09:56 AM
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​ It's 's income inequality between the social classes (not genders). Many people there with mouths to feed and not many high-paying jobs. A girl can lay down for 20 minutes and make more than a guy can from a weeks worth of manual labor. So they do. Ladyboys earn more money than most men with jobs.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 02:55 AM
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Take into account the time zone changes. If you’re competing with locals the pay will suck. If you’re looking for US business and to get paid US prices, then be prepared to do client video calls in the middle of the night, most nights. I do this daily from Manila. It works, but it’s painful.
/r/askTRP02/12/19 02:22 AM
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Go. Attend. Enjoy yourself. Make a friend or two. Build a positive frame. Don’t let the others phase you. They’ll either come around eventually, or not. Don’t let them dictate your life or limit it.
/r/askTRP27/11/19 04:54 AM
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You did the right thing. You don’t need to waste your time/energy guessing what’s going on in her hamster brain. She disrespected you. Next.
/r/askTRP25/11/19 10:15 AM
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Being jacked means you are taking ‘some’ control of your life. There’s more than that of course, such as your mission, competence in your field, personal grooming, social skills and other things that will increase your SMV. Next issue is when you’ve invested that much in yourself, women will smell that you’re a catch. You’ll be picking them, not the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill23/11/19 12:08 AM
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Travel. Get out of your environment even for just a few weeks. Head to Thailand, Philippines etc. see the pre-feminism world. Many of your symptoms may be alleviated by getting out of a shitty environment.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 11:59 PM
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As a wise man once said: “Don’t stick your dick in Crazy”
/r/TheRedPill22/11/19 04:53 PM
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“looking back she has BPD” Borderline personality disorder is not to be interacted with directly. She’ll F U up once you’re perceived as the bad guy to her. Move on and do not engage further with her.
/r/askTRP22/11/19 04:36 PM
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Greetings from Makati. They hate you plain and simple. You’re everything they can’t be. You’re blessed. They spend hours every day with whitening cream, while you always get a shitton more respect than they’ll ever get just because how you look. Being white is bad enough, but hot and white is insufferable. It’s just pure jealousy. You’ve won the lottery here. They’re just mad. On many levels. And you’re probably taller than 5’3”. Who needs to be THAT tall (/sarcasm) ?? And you’re also out of the…
/r/askTRP07/11/19 08:52 AM
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Where are you? In the Philippines or somewhere else?
/r/askTRP07/11/19 08:44 AM
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You lost frame. You focused on getting validation from her. You weren't the prize, you were trying to seduce her. You gave her your time and focus, and got nothing in return. She got attention and validation from you, and you got nothing in return. Just exit. Reset. Keep frame. Next one will work out better. Rinse. Repeat.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:46 AM
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OMG you're Joachim Phoenix, saw you play this out in Joker. You were awesome. But seriously it's ASK TRP. What's the question? We are standing by to help.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 05:32 AM
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Just a quick call out. The term BPD is not normally used for bi-polar but for the much more dangerous borderline personality disorder.
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:09 AM
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People make mistakes. If they never did, they wouldn’t have found their way to this forum. People do stupid shit in their early years (and often beyond). If she’s been clean for a decade that’s a big deal. People also tell little lies to themselves to allow themselves to live with themselves. It’s a normal coping mechanism. It’s not an automatic fail. Now maybe you have a zero tolerance policy, and that’s fine. Your rules and all that. Of course you’ll also have to hold yourself to that standard…
/r/askTRP02/11/19 04:07 AM
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You have two options here. A) Seek to understand her as she presents herself. Guess what: it’s all your fault, you forced her to cheat. You spend the next few years being insecure. The hate builds. You pine for her and what might have been. We call this BLUE pill option. B) show up. Don’t get mad. Don’t ask for closure from her nor give her closure. Do NOT ask details. She’s part of your history now. Look at her and count your blessings that you didn’t get saddled with that shit for the rest of …
/r/TheRedPill30/10/19 02:21 PM
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The need to do a real Monk mode is rare. I’m 50 And did a real monk mode 30 years ago. Had failed my college exams completely. Life was generally going down the toilet. I got an apartment. Worked out from 7-8am every day (home workouts). Studied from 9am to 9pm. Read Philosophy books til 11pm. Slept. Grew a beard. A full month passed before I noticed I spoke to NO-ONE for a full month, despite living in a city and walking everywhere. It lasted for 3 months until I passed the exam resits. In the …
/r/askTRP27/10/19 02:13 AM
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Apathetic = no answer. So that’s your likely answer. Also there’s very few details above. Assuming it was a company phone, she no longer has it, IT/HR does. Also maybe she just wants to cut ties with the place (and you by association). Unless you made definite plans before she left (looks like you didn’t), just let her go in peace.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 07:42 AM
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No. Give them when asked only. This is the normal flow; The interview is to figure out whether you are a fit for the role. Afterwards they’ll discuss which, of all the candidates they talked to, they want. References are part of due diligence after they made that decision.
/r/askTRP17/10/19 08:18 AM
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A quick spank will relieve the pain in your ass. Let me demonstrate.
/r/askTRP16/10/19 06:27 AM
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The texts are to put her in your frame and to optimize the next meeting. Anything inconsistent with that could cause problems.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:58 AM
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Marcus Aurelius. Start with his quotes, then read his book. Much Red Pill there.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 10:40 AM
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Join a club or a class with her. Plenty of people there for her for gossip about or pull apart, and you’ll be her confidante not her target.
/r/askTRP12/10/19 07:11 AM
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You dodged a bullet, and maybe a bunny boiler. Cut off all contact, block her, and if anyone starts to mention her, interject with “Not interested, let’s talk about something else”
/r/askTRP12/10/19 02:43 AM
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Or an upcoming exam that if you fail you’re out of college excuse. Basically anything that’s being forced on you that requires you to focus for several weeks.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:43 AM
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Gotcha. Back to your question on how to ghost. Tell her about a trip that just came up and you’ll contact her when you get back, and whoosh begone. I’ve used it a hundred times.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:40 AM
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The other assumption is that she wants You to say YES I WEAR THEM, and it’s a filter to make sure she doesn’t catch something. Do a video call to get her to show you her body and ask her straight out about the condoms and see how she responds.
/r/askTRP09/10/19 04:31 AM
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You’re getting your internal value from the choice of a woman. If a woman doesn’t want to orgasm, she won’t, and that gives her power over you. Here’s a different way to think about it: “A guy is walking around a brothel naked with a raging ONE INCH fully erect penis. A girl walks up to him and laughs, she point to his dick and exclaims “Who are you going to please WITH THAT!?!” His answer: “the only one who matters: ME”
/r/askTRP07/10/19 08:56 AM
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What he said was truthful and honest aka RedPill. It’s how the world is, not how you wish it ‘should be’.
/r/askTRP06/10/19 10:28 AM
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Single mothers form a big voting block and only vote for ONE of the parties, the one which gives them more and more benefits. That party supports that lifestyle choice, more women join it and they get more and more votes The momentum is there
/r/askTRP06/10/19 04:14 AM
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Casually mention to M2 that she seems to like him a lot. Just drop a ‘if there’s any interest on your side, let me know and I’ll fully support it’ and ‘she’s like a sister to me’. Just friendzone the shit out of her and ask her advice on how to propose, and other wedding type things. Deflect. Diffuse.
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:51 AM
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Intermittent fasting. Then do some exercise once you can do that (it starts with putting less food in)
/r/askTRP04/10/19 09:39 AM
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Any of the works of the stoics will be a good start. One of the best is Marcus Aurelius’s ‘Meditations’
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:53 AM
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Doing things you are good at makes you feel happy, but only at a hollow level. You're good at what you do: Getting a new girl, that's the part you like. Sex and all the rest of it: It's unfulfilling, because it doesn't motivate you or bring you to your next level. Girls and sex were a problem for you. You succeeded. DONE Now you must find what's next. What do you think you cannot do, that you would be proud of if you did it?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:47 AM
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Yes attracted to money. If that's all they have then comfortable lifestyle, and there's always Chad when she wants some excitement: A win for her. Alternatively, it could be a sign of success that the man excels in his field and is paid well. Money is a proxy for societal respect. Money is also a great entry barrier for others (want to become a doctor? Can you pay your way through medical school and board exams? Not many can). So it could mean the guy is an alpha who has his shit together and is…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:39 AM
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Define ‘love’
/r/askTRP02/10/19 05:12 AM
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You’re 19. I won’t waste my breath.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:34 AM
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Yup I’m an idiot. It’s not that I practiced criminal law for multiple years. Tell that shit to the jury, I wonder which one they’ll nail to the wall: you or her?
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:29 AM
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Perhaps being a pregnant 19 year old druggie leading to her life spiraling down the shitter isn’t the optimal choice for her life. Even she knows that. Not that having ‘felony possession with intent to supply convictions’ won’t set your career trajectory down a certain path either. Seriously dude: Read the sidebar and fix your life.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 03:26 AM
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Whi dyd iou ask hym so dyrectli?
/r/askTRP01/10/19 06:33 AM
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Abusive Oneitis: Amputate. Apply pressure. bleeding will stop after a while. Recover. Move on.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:26 AM
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There’s the old saying for a happy family: “Men love women. Women love children. Children love dogs. Dogs love men” Many women ignore their husbands to focus on being ‘great mothers’ and end up making their marriage miserable (but that’s for a different thread on a different day).
/r/askTRP01/10/19 12:00 AM
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Aleister Crowley used to slash himself with a open razor when he said or thought something he wasn’t supposed to. Probably not politically correct anymore 😇 Last paragraph: https://books.google.com.ph/books?id=0-dIAgAAQBAJ&pg=PA42&lpg=PA42&dq=aleister+crowley+discipline+%22razor.%22&source=bl&ots=046rbyk6_x&sig=ACfU3U2caa7-5y6Yh7IMTZfMyoA3y1o32w&hl=en&sa=X&ved=2ahUKEwjGvbOJk_jkAhUGa94KHWnsD9gQ6AEwDXoECAcQAQ#v=onepage&q=aleister%20crowley%20discipline%20%22razor.%22&f=false
/r/askTRP30/09/19 08:42 AM
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Greets from Manila. That shit won’t fly here. Her women friends will gang up against your lazy lifestyle and she’ll drop you fast and hard. I had to bail a team member of of prison today as under local law ‘if your wife makes a financial demand of you and you refuse it, you can go to prison’ under the violence against women act (wtf right?) Also with so many hot Asian girls here dying to get into your pants, you’ll do it, and she’ll flip her shit if she’s the sole breadwinner in the family. So y…
/r/askTRP30/09/19 04:03 AM
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If the question was ‘are men marrying women they met when the women are over thirty’? the answer would still be yes, but a far smaller number. Many women in their 30s getting married have been dating the same guy since their 20s.
/r/askTRP29/09/19 09:54 AM
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If you visit the subs you will see people who have lost 100kg over time. It’s a lifestyle choice. With a few tweaks to my diet I lost about 30 pounds (14kg) in about 10 weeks.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 08:01 AM
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Intermittent fasting and one meal a day (OMAD) approaches are REALLY GOOD for your health. There are dedicated subs for them. That coupled with exercise will help you drop kilos fast.
/r/askTRP27/09/19 07:56 AM
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Dude. Greetings from Manila. Stop all fucking contact. Now. Women here are plentiful and wtf are you doing? About 30% of them are brilliant manipulators, who have friends who do the same. You’re likely one guy out of five she’s doing this to. Her friends trade tips on how to get money out of people like you. If you’re living here you’re in control and can red pill hard. Otherwise you’re prey. They know how to manipulate you. This is not your kid. Block her and all contact from Philippines number…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 03:13 AM
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Lawyer up. Immediately. Take the money. Tell the lawyer to get a search warrant to secure the text messages. Also serve Facebook with a court order to preserve the chain of evidence. Don’t waste time.
/r/askTRP23/09/19 02:57 AM
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The guy in the article may be swallowing a ‘white pill’ pretty soon 😂
/r/askTRP22/09/19 12:03 PM
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In this world of constant distractions, the 3 day rule is obsolete. They often will have no idea who you are after 3 days.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 08:27 AM
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I’d say dump the first two photos as they’ll confuse the commentators. You’re looking good generally. Great progression. Chest appears under developed. You may be over using your shoulders in the bench press. Check your technique especially where in your sternum you are targeting. If it’s good then do a chest isolation exercise. Generally your work ahead is easy: if you a) want to get bigger, lift more b) want to get hotter (cut with abs), do some intermittent fasting with a focus on protein and…
/r/askTRP22/09/19 02:39 AM
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Sounds like a friendzone
/r/askTRP20/09/19 05:25 PM
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How to deal with it: Go down on your right knee. Hang your head in shame for 5 seconds. Then look up. Thank whatever gods you worship for giving you your freedom from the tyranny of an ugly chick who could have got pregnant and ruined your life. Smile. Stand. Be happy. Move forward. Forget about her.
/r/askTRP20/09/19 07:21 AM
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The logic is limited: Isn’t cancer great? It shortens our lives so we have to enjoy it more Isn’t taxation great? As we have to hand up half our money to the government it forces us to do twice as much work Isn’t hyoergamy great? Because it forces you to spend years of your life appeasing and overcoming womens nature (instead of building real value in your life).
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 04:20 PM
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I’m in the Philippines. (Almost) everyone has great English.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 02:33 PM
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I did. It was a great decision.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/19 06:41 AM
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Cons: over 40. Have kids. Sending the ‘my kids come first vibe’. Targeting single women who want you to be their wallet to raise their kids (they can’t dominate your guilt with their kids needs so they’ll find a sucker who will). Pros: over 40. Stuck with your woman for 18 years (plus dating time), through the bitter end. Takes his responsibilities seriously. A man who does what he says he will. A man who can be relied on. A man who takes care of himself (physically and those in his inner circle…
/r/TheRedPill18/09/19 02:01 PM
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She’s not your plate. She’s your ‘oneitis’. You’re spending a year focused to get ‘quality time ‘ with her and she’s far better than everyone else: oneitis
/r/askTRP18/09/19 01:17 PM
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Depending on age: Roid rage. It diminishes as you get older but younger people on it get mad easily and do stupid sh*t they regret later.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 03:51 AM
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They want a V-shape. Big chest. You’re already there. Bonus points if dudes think you’re Jacked. You score those too. No need to go any bigger. Too big becomes counter-productive, and chicks consider it a turn off.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:47 AM
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Being tied up, blindfolded, being powerless and used for your pleasure.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 02:30 AM
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This was both a shit test and a validation test. She proved she could get with you if she wanted to, plus the other guy. She went home brimming with confidence over what a hot momma she is. Not only that, but if you want to go back and try again, you have to ‘prove your intentions and that you are worth it to her to risk her career’ (which is of course a joke, the only one likely to be fired down the line is you). You’ve been played my brother.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/19 02:05 PM
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That’s Angeles and Subic: Angeles is all Korean sex tourists now. Subic is old white guys in their 70s. They are the old US navy and Air Force brothels. In those articles and 2 related movies, it’s prostitutes who got pregnant from a paying customer, not an LTR who got pregnant. Expectations and consequences are very different. Correct on the lack of feminism, and it’s super hard to get married here (takes months of documentation) and there is zero divorce for them. They dream of a rich white gu…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 12:13 PM
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Did you see the tweet at the bottom of the article? Brilliant!
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 12:07 PM
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50 year old me absolutely slaughters 25 year old me. I’m now dating multiple women in their 20s, am financially rock solid and an traveling the world. If you never give up (get super fat and depressed) life just keeps getting better and better.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 12:01 PM
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True, and many girls here want a mixed race baby. Of course that baby is a gateway to the foreigners long-term income too.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 11:35 AM
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I’m in Manila. Moved here from Cali. If you can survive the dengue and measles outbreaks, it’s a wonderful target Rick environment :-)
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 05:02 AM
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Agree. It’s insane how many think an expensive haircut or cool tattoo will do more magic thank dropping 40 pounds. However, not all skin is elastic and many of them will be saggy even if they lose the weight (similar to baby fat, not all women can ‘bounce back’).
/r/TheRedPill15/09/19 04:49 AM
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Some of it has to do with the age group frequenting here. Many posters are in their teens and twenties so it’s a big urgent issue with them. As posters get older, they focus on the areas you bring up.
/r/askTRP15/09/19 03:29 AM
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Unpopular answer here, but I’ll share my limited observations. There are 3 categories: 1) young and hot. Generally under 26. Hardcore hypergamy. “I’ve fucked this hot guy, I can do even better and better”, run by feels and hormones. Many bad decisions (for them long term) 2) pre-wall. They notice the first cracks the face or gray hair. They wise up fast and some start to value their man. They go into nest phase and look for a man to settle down with. Some of their better qualities appear here. I…
/r/askTRP13/09/19 03:42 AM
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Follow this advice. Also tell her ‘it’s against my rules to waste time on a girl who doesn’t know what she wants’, and then evaluate her response.
/r/askTRP13/09/19 02:52 AM
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Physio is a good skill set. Chicks love men who are good with their hands. The downside is professionally you’re a third rate doctors bitch, and when you don’t work you don’t get paid. If it intrigues you do it, but not for a long term career. Do a hard science degree if you can (rather than an arts degree) but frankly the world will be a very different place in 10 years, so any hard science degree will do.
/r/askTRP12/09/19 11:10 PM
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Go the professional route. Get your qualifications while you can. Then you can chill and cruise. FOR LIFE All the other professions you mentioned have to work hard continuously and can be significantly impacted by a downturn. Where there are low entry barriers you will face constant disruption: from tech, younger people and lower cost options Did I mention zero vacation in the other roles? As a professional you can travel the world, have lots of free time and make big cash eventually. What the f…
/r/askTRP12/09/19 10:56 PM
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You are here. Not in prison or the morgue. You have time to make drastic changes.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:27 AM
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Paragraphs. Please god paragraphs. Also: shitty environment. Get out before it destroys you.
/r/askTRP05/09/19 02:09 AM
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