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Very often, it's utter ignorance and being lied to. Medical staff regularly assert routine but optional practices as something that will be done. My wife just gave birth as a surrogate, the parents are from France, and the American doctors told them that they could do the hep b shot here in the hospital or it will be done at the pediatric appointment. The parents had intended to follow the French vaccine schedule not the American one and began asking if they could get subsequent shots in France …
/r/MensRights22/11/17 10:11 PM
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Usually hours worked per year arre controlled for. The CONSAD study did list a couple remaining factors that are hard to quantify, one being that men tend to negotiate higher wages, and that women tend to sacrifice straight monetary compensation for better health coverage, pto, etc. While men tend to faavor straight monetary compensation.
/r/MensRights06/10/17 01:24 PM
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I haven't had anything overt, but have been around the families in my wife's new mom's group and some of them are some straight up bitches about unaccompanied (by a woman) men. We had a cook out at a park and noticed a somewhat overweight guy sitting on a bench by the play area. They started in to one another asking who he was, did he have a kid with him, what is he doing here.. I simply interjected with, it looks like he's sitting on the bench, maybe you just don't see his kid and it is a publi…
/r/MensRights27/04/17 04:52 PM
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Some of it goes a bit overboard, but yeah, most of this is a list of things both people should try to do if they're interested in a lasting relationship. For the overboard stuff. Trying to always let you know where he is and what he's doing? God no. I mean, if my wife asks where I am I'll tell her, if she asks what I'm doing I'll be honest, but that isn't information I'm going to bother being proactive about .
/r/MensRights26/03/17 04:12 PM
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I don't know about the U.K., but in the US you have the right to peacefully assemble, but not anywhere. If you want to hold a march and protest in the street, you need to get it scheduled so the city can reroute traffic and put up road closed signs etc. both for the protection of protesters and the people they are impacting. Spontaneous street protests can and will get you arrested.
/r/MensRights26/03/17 04:03 PM
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I can't read the story either, but I agree. If he caught the guy in the act and killed him, great, justice served. But if he hunted him down after the fact, it should be murder. Can't say I'd blame him, but there's a difference between defending someone from an attack in progress and killing a person who isn't at the time an immediate threat to anyone.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 04:40 PM
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Most of the studies I've seen are pretty honest about factors they haven't accounted for. A couple others are usually negotiated wages, where studies have shown women on average to be less effective at wage negotiation than men. Another is non monetary compensation. When given a choice, women are more likely than men to sacrifice straight wages in favor of better schedule flexibility, more time off, better health coverage etc. The true value of these benefits are hard approaching impossible to a…
/r/MensRights15/03/17 11:36 AM
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I love this stuff. My youngest is 2 and when he wakes up from his afternoon nap, all he wants to do for the first 10 minutes is sit in a lap and cuddle. He also regularly asks me to pick him up and goes straight into hug mode.
/r/MensRights15/03/17 11:27 AM
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How is masturbating related to abortion? Very confused... It isn't, the whole thing is a terrible analogy. Are women fined $100 for menstruating? Nope, that would have been a better analogy, but that isn't already happening, so they went with a bad one. What does a rectal exam have to do with abortion? It's as close as possible to analogous to your question below. Also, what the fuck is a "trans-vaginal sonogram"? A normal sonogram, they have a probe that emits sound waves and records the reflec…
/r/MensRights14/03/17 04:41 PM
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I listened to one of his statements in parliament about it and it's crazy the number of times he repeated that helping the victims is important and he agrees with the purpose of the bill, but he just wants the gendered terms removed so that it helps all victims. He made the most reasonable request for change, was vilified as being against the bill altogether, then ignored as it passed as is. Fucking nuts.
/r/MensRights13/03/17 11:31 AM
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Not all parents were aware of the unnecessary nature of the procedure or that doing so was really a choice. My parents weren't asked if they were going to have me cut, they weren't given info on the procedure or pros and cons. The doctor asked them what day would be best for them to have the procedure. The doctor's assumption was that, of course it was going to be done, but it needed scheduled. They didn't really get they could say no.
/r/MensRights13/03/17 12:40 AM
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Uncircumcised penises are easy to clean too. My oldest is 4. Until the past year, no special maintenance required. Even now, cleaning involves gently pulling back the skin and rinsing with water. It's literally one tiny extra step over what's needed on a circumcised penis.
/r/MensRights13/03/17 12:34 AM
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Not to mention that my boys are both uncut and their penises look different. These things look different, regardless of whether you are or aren't cut. If you're teaching your kid to shower or whatever and they point and ask why your dick is different than theirs, all that needs to be said is that different people's penises look different, nothing odd about it. People look different from each other, why should their parts be any different?
/r/MensRights13/03/17 12:31 AM
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If that's what happens, then maybe the ritual isn't particularly valuable to begin with and should die out.
/r/MensRights12/03/17 05:57 PM
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Why not leave it up to the person who owns the penis? I don't have a problem with mine, but I can't say whether I would have enjoyed an intact penis more. I do however, recognize that this is something that has no reason to be as common as it is, at least in the US, and that it should be a decision a person makes for themselves.
/r/MensRights12/03/17 04:44 PM
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The quoted part at the top of my comment is another Big Red quote. Yes, the tender years doctrine and Duluth model are feminist built policies, and feminist orgs still fight against shared parenting initiatives.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 10:16 PM
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"Feminists do not want you to lose custody of your children. The assumption that women are naturally better caregivers is part of patriarchy." Uh, no it isn't. The tender years doctrine was put forward by early feminists, and is the reason courts have favored mothers in child custody cases since. Not part of 'patriarchy', part of feminism.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 06:58 PM
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I like some of the food there, and the waitresses and outfits are nice to look at, but the fake flirting crap some of the waitresses are encouraged to do gets annoying.
/r/MensRights10/03/17 06:44 PM
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She didn't even do it on international women's day. She had the audacity to give a shout out specifically to male feminist allies on the day before women's day... what the hell?
/r/MensRights08/03/17 06:14 PM
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I think the men's rights link here is that it's likely that if she had shared a picture her husband had taken of her doing this, it would have been lauded as the touching parenting moment that it is, but since the father is the one holding the naked child in the shower, people see it as sexual and inappropriate.
/r/MensRights08/03/17 12:44 PM
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Yes.
/r/MensRights03/03/17 12:35 AM
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I'm not trying to jump on you or anything, but to the point of babies feeling pain, it isn't just about the sensation and remembering it. Circumcision can put a baby into shock, the process greatly increases the levels of the stress hormone cortisol in the baby, and the heightened levels of cortisol often continues long after the procedure. Babies who are circumcised often respond more negatively to other sources of pain and even exhibit symptoms of PTSD. These effects can last as late as two ye…
/r/MensRights02/03/17 01:55 PM
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I wasn't well informed when we had our first son. I was leaning toward no, but hadn't made up my mind. Then the midwife came by the day after he was born to do the heel stick blood test and she stuck him, he cried, and I could barely handle letting him go through even that much pain. Can't imagine letting him get circumcised.
/r/MensRights02/03/17 01:48 PM
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My family is pretty loose with nudity, granted, my kids are 4 and 2. So my boys run in while I'm showering or drying off regularly. I also remember being a young kid and showering with my dad being his method of teaching me to shower. That said, my sons are both uncut, and their penises are very different looking. So even if you were uncut, your kid's penis would likely be different then yours, and simply saying 'well, different peoples' penises are different that's normal' should be enough.
/r/MensRights02/03/17 01:44 PM
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Getting the government out of the practice of recognizing romantic relationships is the answer to a lot of problems. Worried that the government will take away same-sex marriage? They couldn't if it wasn't a government thing to begin with. Everything, every benefit or privilege that marriage provides can be fixed by simplifying the tax code, changing the HIPPA paperwork to include visiting permissions, and a handful of other minor legal policy changes.
/r/MensRights26/02/17 01:28 PM
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They don't have to remember it to have psychological trauma from it.
/r/MensRights23/02/17 10:59 PM
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When I was born, my doctor didn't even present it to my parents as a choice they could decline. It was, 'What day on week x will work for you to schedule the circumcision.' Even today, my sons' doctor, with our first, offered to provide referrals for circumcision before asking if that is what we wanted and seemed, almost pleasantly, surprised when we said we weren't cutting him. The only sense that she brought it up for our second was to say everything looks good, there shouldn't be a reason to …
/r/MensRights23/02/17 10:55 PM
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Any time I see stats like this, I just assume it's the Mary Koss methodology again. One fuelled by self-selectuon bias and includes definitely not sexual abuse as sexual abuse regardless of the opinion of the 'victim'. Some examples are sex while drunk, regardless of how drunk or if the drunk people were consenting, or being convinced to do things in bed you weren't into. Both of those are cases where some instances are abuse, but most won't be.
/r/MensRights16/02/17 12:30 AM
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She did admit herself to be a Freud fangirl Which is fine. He was, in effect, a great popularizer of modern psychology. But like many early minds in various scientific fields, much of his ideas have been replaced or refined since. His ideas aren't particularly relevant for the most part.
/r/MensRights15/02/17 11:51 PM
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Useless pieces of metal that shouldn't exist.
/r/MensRights10/02/17 06:34 PM
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Please don't think that me relaying my feelings about it is intended to invalidate your feelings about it.
/r/MensRights06/02/17 04:49 AM
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I meant I don't harbor and bad feelings about my specific circumcision. I don't blame my parents or personally feel violated or wronged in particular. Not that I don't hold negativity for circumcision as a whole.
/r/MensRights05/02/17 07:32 PM
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I don't hold any particular negativity about it, I honestly get the guys who aren't against it because everything seems fine, I guess I wish it wasn't done to me. My parents weren't really presented with it as a choice they could make. Like many infant treatments, like potassium shots or stuff they put in a baby's eyes to help prevent infection, it was presented as just something you do. I have become much more involved in opposing circumcision since having boys. Both my sons are uncut. Having t…
/r/MensRights05/02/17 02:23 PM
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Doctors told my mom that I didn't even wake up during the procedure. 1. Bullshit, 2. Sometimes babies don't cry during a circumcision, they sometimes go into shock instead.
/r/MensRights05/02/17 01:33 PM
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Here's a report from the US done by CONSAD using Department of Labor data. They found at the time that the unaccounted for wage gap was between 4-8%. They state that other factors, like men being more effective at negotiating, and men prioritizing monetary compensation over non monetary benefits and women tending to prioritize non monetary benefits means that it is not clear that any of that gap is due to discrimination. This doesn't mean no discrimination exists anywhere ever, but that there's …
/r/MensRights03/02/17 01:19 PM
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The unaccounted for wage gap of ~5% is just that; unaccounted for. If it was definitely due to discrimination, then it would be accounted for. As it stands, there are other factors that haven't been accounted for that contribute, it's just difficult to determine how much they contribute.
/r/MensRights03/02/17 01:07 PM
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The only comparison I can come up with now is, he's like the Nickelback of comedy. He knows what kinds of jokes and comedy are popular to a wide as possible audience and he has the physical form and delivery to sell it. Every Nickelback album is a mix of the famous guy rock party song, the ballad, the young love antic, the heartfelt can't we all get along, etc. Every Louis C.K. stand up is a mix of I'm fat/gross, men are stupid/shitty/evil, women are crazy, women are wonderful, kids are nuts, et…
/r/MensRights02/02/17 01:32 PM
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I tend to think of 'leftist' as being a pejorative for far-left progressive authoritarians. That said, as far as I've seen, going by the US scale, I lean somewhat left of center. I actually find that I've either moved a bit closer to center, that or the left has taken a hike even farther and somewhat left me behind.
/r/MensRights01/02/17 12:42 AM
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You very much can not do anything you want to your child.
/r/MensRights31/01/17 07:03 PM
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Yeah, I've read the Mary Koss survey that these kinds of numbers are based on. By their count, I've raped my wife of 10 years by having sex with her while under the influence multiple times a year. Hell, most of our sexual encounters ever have been rape by their reckoning.
/r/MensRights28/01/17 01:51 AM
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I can see how some women and LGBT people can look at the new administration and worry that some of their rights (same sex marriage) or interests (abortion, planned parenthood care) may be in danger of change. I get why and how men might care about these issues and wish to support the women in their lives and add their voice to the protests. I personally don't think much is in danger of significantly changing. And chose not to support the women's march because their platform was riddled with typi…
/r/MensRights24/01/17 12:12 AM
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There was a story I had read about a guy who was raped by a, I think a teacher, who ended up initially having to pay child support to his rapist for the child once he turned 18. I had heard he was planning to fight it, not sure if he was successful.
/r/MensRights23/01/17 10:55 PM
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I know of at least one pro-life feminist group that was told they weren't welcome.
/r/MensRights21/01/17 08:50 PM
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Considering the groups that they've disallowed, it seems to be mostly a pro-choice march that pays lip service to other movements. I don't care, they have the right to do this, as they should. I have some feminist, some very deep into feminism, who are going. I agree with some positions, disagree wi others, and refuse to support the march because it's another example of taking issues that effect everyone and very specifically highlighting how they negatively effect women, while ignoring the same…
/r/MensRights21/01/17 07:34 PM
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Get the message out there. Back men's rights projects like the American Circumcision documentary. Also, raising intelligent young men.
/r/MensRights21/01/17 04:33 PM
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Makes me think of Bill Burr's bit about hitting women and the line that 'there's never a reason to hit a woman.' Yes there is. Maybe your dad shouldn't have hit her, but let's not pretend that it just fell out of the sky.
/r/MensRights20/01/17 02:37 PM
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Once upon a time there was a distinction between TED and TEDx. While TED was generally reserved for actual talks about science and technology advances, TEDx was completely unmoderated garbage like this and slam poetry or spoken word stuff. It seems a while back though, TED is now TEDx.
/r/MensRights20/01/17 02:03 PM
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Every damn time someone talks about how bad the internet is and how we need to do something to silence abuse and mean comments I watch this again.
/r/MensRights19/01/17 04:45 PM
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This doesn't change my opinion of her. She used to go to Dragon*Con and was the center of a minor shit storm there that she tried to be a victim of. If you have a group that signs up to present, you get a small booth for the group where you can pass out fliers, and even sell group branded swag. If you are a vendor or artist and want to set up a shop, you can pay a bunch of money to set up a booth in the vendor hall to sell your wares. One year, Skepchick came to con, and set up a booth in the sk…
/r/MensRights18/01/17 11:55 PM
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Unwanted touching of breasts, butt, crotch, Unwanted kissing, being convinced to do something during sex you didn't want to do, having sex while under the influence of drugs or alcohol... The last two are specifically designed to prevent underreporting by ensuring that these situations are overreported. For example, a woman isn't I to role-playing, but it's his birthday and he wants her to dress like a sexy nun, well, it isn't something she wanted, but she did consent. She's a victim. Or people …
/r/MensRights18/01/17 02:11 PM
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Maybe not specifically those, but one study on the pay gap I. The US was done by CONSAD. They were commissioned by the Bureau of Labor, and used the Bureau's data. Here it is.
/r/MensRights17/01/17 11:21 PM
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I love the double speak involved in arguing that gender norms are entirely cultural and without culture, men and women would go into various careers at roughly the same rates. Then they turn around and argue that transgendered people are legitimately the gender they identify as because studies with brain scans show they have a brain structure more similar the their gender identity than their biological sex. So trans women act like feminine and identify as women, because they have female type bra…
/r/MensRights16/01/17 01:16 AM
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Seriously, if you're going to be addicted to something, porn is not as bad as drugs or booze.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 11:33 PM
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I agree with everything said here. I honestly thought it handled their relationship in a powerful and believable way. I think it's actually a very good movie overall, and it's one of the movies that has managed to do 3D right. After the first few minutes, it was natural and didn't have a lot of gimmicks to scream 'look at the 3D, cool right?' ad didn't have too much foreground movement resulting in rippling or shadows.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 10:51 PM
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I have kids. It's pretty great, and I love my young men. There are definitely things that I can't consider benefits. The significant loss of freedom, financial cost, the stress and worry, dealing with someone who hears you tell them to do/not do something, looks into your eyes and laughs while they disobey. Saying we only benefit is silly, even for someone who loves being a dad.
/r/MensRights15/01/17 12:49 AM
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This is different to /r/feminism? Edit: I agree that the MRM needs to grow and become more activist. But it does exist.
/r/MensRights14/01/17 06:02 PM
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So, the basic idea is, company x makes two products, say tv shows. It makes one marketed to girls, like Barbie, and one marketed to boys, like teeny titans. If teeny titans shows itself to be really popular with girls, then it's likely that Barbie is going to suffer because girls are picking teeny titans over it. So they toss the shows and try to replace it with a show more obviously marketed to boys. I don't think this isn't sexism or enforcing gender roles as much as the idea of trying to cove…
/r/MensRights14/01/17 06:01 PM
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I don't see why all the pomp and circumstance for the 'date', but the basic idea isn't bad. Maybe the stated purpose is odd, but having one on one time with your kids going to get a treat, or go somewhere fun to hang out together is a pretty great idea. I try to do this with my boys who are 2 and 4. We go to Starbucks and get hot chocolate, or get some ice cream. Later it might be grabbing food and a movie. I don't know about linking it to dating, or showing her what treatment she should be enti…
/r/MensRights14/01/17 05:42 PM
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Saying men needs a men's rights movement on r/mensrights....
/r/MensRights14/01/17 05:33 PM
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The problem with the claims of health benefits is that those benefits are very minor and preventable or treatable without circumcision. Here they are: Reduced risk of urinary tract infection. UTIs are already relatively rare, and still occur at a somewhat reduced rate in circumcised boys. They are treatable with antibiotics. Girls are at a higher risk for UTIs than uncircumcised boys, but we do not suggest female circumcision as a preventative measure for them. Prevents phimosis. Phimosis is als…
/r/MensRights13/01/17 12:54 PM
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Alimony is way out of hand, especially in Arkansas. My brother married a woman, she had no job, living on military disability. The entire time they were married she never had a job, didn't contribute to house work, and didn't have to put her income toward any expenses. Then she leaves him for a married guy and shacks up with him and his wife. He gets a divorce and she gets half of his military retirement for seven years and 5,000 a month, all after splitting assets that she didn't bring to the r…
/r/MensRights12/01/17 10:48 PM
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I don't even think feminism is about superiority, at least not directly. It's about survival of feminism. Just look at the solutions or lack thereof to the problems feminism purports to solve. Wage gap? Pass (another) law making wage discrimination even more illegal than it was before. Rape culture? Teach men lessons they already know and increase the accused's burden of proof. They can't truly fix these issues, and they can't let people know that these issues are myths because this is their car…
/r/MensRights10/01/17 10:22 PM
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Drunk sex was also lumped in.
/r/MensRights08/01/17 02:43 PM
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I'll check out the survey later, but the figures sound very similar to other surveys done that use questions that err very heavily on the side of over reporting in an attempt to not under report at all. Questions like have you ever had sex while under the influence of drugs or alcohol, or had alcohol or drug facilitated sex. I could answer yes to both of those, and so could my wife. Hell, my wife has little to no libido unless she's drunk, so the vast majority of our sex life would fall under se…
/r/MensRights08/01/17 02:42 PM
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Specifically when it comes to surrogacy, almost every company that you can go through to become a surrogate or have a child through a surrogate requires at least a brief psych evaluation. Source: my wife is in the final steps before preparing for implantation to be a gestational surrogate, we've had a few meetings with a psychologist.
/r/MensRights08/01/17 01:59 PM
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Dogs will wait longer though. Granted, that likely has more to do with cats needing meat to be more fresh than dogs, but either way, cats will get to the 'fuck you, you're food now' point faster than dogs.
/r/MensRights08/01/17 01:50 PM
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I would have been disappointed. Not nearly enough articulation on Barbies to have them effectively fight in Mortal Kombat tournaments against my G.I. Joes.
/r/MensRights12/12/16 05:23 PM
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My argument is that these men were elected to represent the interests of their constituents. Men and women voted them into office almost certainly in part because of their position on abortion. They have a right to make and pass these laws because the women they represent have a right to be represented. I disagree that making legal abortions inaccessible, or making abortions illegal is the best way to reduce or prevent them altogether. A more effective solution would be affordable contraceptives…
/r/MensRights12/12/16 05:16 PM
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Best answer I have is that rape is a hard crime to prove in actual criminal court with the innocent until proven guilty business and the standard of beyond a reasonable doubt. So rape survivor groups got the government to say that universities need to have a way to handle them on campus, then helped build the process in a manner that mostly removes those things. Minor benefit is that the case isn't criminal anymore, so no jail, but bad news is that your college career is over, and you're now a r…
/r/MensRights12/12/16 07:00 AM
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A bunch of people saying 'both parents have equal right to spending time with their children'. Absolutely, yes, but more importantly, these children have the right to spend time with both of their parents.
/r/MensRights03/11/16 11:53 PM
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It's the pink tax. There's this idea, and it's sorta true, that products marketed to women cost more. So shampoo, deodorant, soap, razors etc. marketed to women are more expensive. In these cases, it's usually because the products are actually different. Women's shampoo often has a slew of additional chemicals in it, razors are made differently to be more durable, with a comfort handle and different moisturizer strips etc. There's also differences in the service industry, so hair cuts and dry cl…
/r/MensRights01/11/16 12:05 PM
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Thank you for pointing me to this.
/r/MensRights27/10/16 06:32 PM
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That and studies that show ~80% of children who experience gender dysphoria grow out of it. I think if a boy insists he's a girl, you play along to the same extent you play along with him saying he's a dinosaur. If it persists for an extended period of time and the boy is adamant and consistent, fine, have him live like a girl, but dear god, don't give the kid hormones, not even the puberty blocking ones.
/r/MensRights22/10/16 01:11 PM
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I hope she wins, and I hope Rolling Stone losing sends a message to news outlets that they need to actually take the time to vet their sources and verify facts before reporting on a story.
/r/MensRights22/10/16 12:55 PM
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It's not at all surprising how easy it is to compare feminism to Christianity. Mine usually go: Original sin = privilege. Patriarchy = satan. Safe spaces = church. Micro aggressions, misogyny, toxic masculinity = sin. Feminist icons = pastors/priests. Rape culture = hell. Other religious doctrines include = wage gap, glass ceiling Pastors use hell and Satan to make women fear the fallen world and accept feminism as their savior, and the various sins to convert men and women into the religion to …
/r/MensRights20/10/16 06:28 PM
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With bogus stats like the 1 in 4 sexual assault statistic, feminists can make women irrationally afraid of men and claim feminism is the answer. It's to the point that a former friend has decided to no longer date cis straight men because they terrify her. She's so afraid that, being in her early 30's and never having been assaulted, that the probability isn't on her side. I don't think feminism can really survive in the west without that fear. Much like I don't think religion would survive with…
/r/MensRights19/10/16 12:28 PM
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Kid had the broken arm already.
/r/MensRights19/09/16 11:35 AM
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Many states, most of them, in fact, tie selective service registration to drivers license and voter registration. If you wish to do either of these things without being registered, and without committing a crime, you must go through the extra hoops of being registered anyway, but as a conscientious objector.
/r/MensRights28/08/16 05:58 PM
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I saw this a while back and was livid. Not just because they were laughing about it, but because it reminded me of the Lorena Bobbit situation and everyone was making jokes about it then too, including me at too young to realize how fucked up that was. You even have the woman next to Sharon Osborne with a moment of clarity mentioning that they shouldn't be joking about this and how sexist it is and the others just waive it off. They did come on either later that show or a different show and most…
/r/MensRights27/08/16 07:37 PM
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He's actually not. His own stated position is that the details of TPP aren't officially known and that he wouldn't be surprised if it's riddled with "crony capitalism" and would be immediately suspicious of it as a kind of European Union government overreach.
/r/MensRights27/08/16 12:43 AM
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I've also heard good things about Tom Hanks. I also liked his bit on some talk show about being called out for manspreading.
/r/MensRights10/08/16 04:28 PM
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I wonder if she's back on twitter already. I saw articles posted when she left and thought she'd probably not even suspend her account and would be gone exactly as long as it would generate news, then she be back like nothing happened.
/r/MensRights09/08/16 04:44 PM
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I don't think that's the way he/she meant it. You can support the accuser through the investigation, take their accusation seriously, give them access to relevant medical care and get them in touch with a crisis counselor, treat them like they aren't lying, while also not vilifying the accused or treating the accused like a dirty evil rapist. You can be compassionate to both sides while attempting to find the truth, then act accordingly once the investigation/trial is over.
/r/MensRights09/08/16 04:19 PM
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Ok, even if you were right about the Rice case change the woman side of the comparison to Lorena Bobbit. Woman chops her husband's dick off and tosses it into a corn field. John Bobbit becomes a nation-wide joke, vast numbers of people cheer the woman because he must have deserved it.
/r/MensRights08/08/16 11:57 AM
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I wonder if it's still misogyny if I say those same thing but I'm planning on voting for Stein instead?
/r/MensRights06/08/16 10:25 PM
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You reply as often as you want. If others like talking as much as you, they'll reply back, otherwise, they'll see it, clear the notification and move on, no big deal. As for the circumcision shaming. I'm sorry you have to deal with that. I know that slowly the popularity of the procedure is dwindling. If only medical establishments would stop hand wringing and failing to condemn it here in the US, it would go faster, but there money in those foreskin. I wish I hadn't been cut, but the doctors ne…
/r/MensRights05/08/16 06:19 PM
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I would say you might be a Christina Hoff Sommers feminist. That's a good thing. But mainstream feminism is so out there and seemingly so devoted to the false narratives they've built that people like her who use facts are persona non grata. They go so far as to call her an anti feminist, which might be true given what those that say that think feminism should be. Either way, if you haven't seen her work, check out the factual feminist on YouTube.
/r/MensRights05/08/16 06:08 PM
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It shouldn't be, but normal just means common or usual here, so in some countries it is sadly normal.
/r/MensRights04/08/16 03:20 PM
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You're right, if there really were any significant health benefits, it would have been easy to prove it by now. Yet all we get are these slightly reduced risk for easily treatable or entirely preventable health complications bull. Reduced risk of UTI? Girls are at higher risk and we don't chop them up to prevent it. Prevents phimosis? You mean the rare condition that can be treated in most cases simply by pulling the skin over the head of the penis repeatedly, something boys will probably end up…
/r/MensRights04/08/16 03:19 PM
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The benefits of circumcision are limited to reduced risk of already rare conditions that are almost always avoidable or treatable without the procedure. Urinary tract infections, phimosis, reduced cancer risk, stir infection risk etc. for every 101 circumcisions, up to one UTI is prevented. Phimosis is almost always treatable without surgery. Hygiene and safe sex covers sti infection and skin irritations. Penile cancer is very rare with or without circumcision, only slightly more rare in circumc…
/r/MensRights06/07/16 05:09 PM
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I wish I hadn't been circumcised, but I'm not mad at my parents. I'm 34, and back when I was born, the hospital didn't present it as an option. It wasn't did you want to circumcise, it was what day do you want to schedule it. They didn't know anything about what I do. It was just something that you did.
/r/MensRights06/07/16 02:17 AM
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The benefits I've seen from research I've read includes: Slight decrease in infant UTI risk, boys are already at less risk of this than girls, and girls are treated with antibiotics, boys can be too. Prevention of phimosis, a rare condition that, outside of really severe cases, can be treated without intervention by having the boy pull the foreskin over the penis head repeatedly throughout their development (obviously after the foreskin detaches). Boys are generally inclined toward self treatmen…
/r/MensRights05/07/16 07:35 PM
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This was at work, she was moved to a different cube. And her wanting to jump my dick or not hasn't ever been a consideration. I don't do coworkers, she's very not attractive at all, and it's disgusting when people aren't just ignorant, but proud about it.
/r/MensRights08/06/16 12:39 PM
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I had a coworker call me her own little geek squad as she asked me when I wanted to hook her monitors up for her. I told her no, that she can do it and if she needs help figuring it out to come ask me then. She hasn't spoken directly to me since. My thought is she works in the tech industry, she should be able to hook a couple monitors to a laptop on her own. Then again she gets all proud of herself when she talks about how math with letters in it is useless and no one should have to learnt that…
/r/MensRights08/06/16 12:09 PM
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There was a video like this done by the show What Would You Do. They had a man screaming and abusing a woman (actors) at a park and videotaped people's reactions, then reversed the roles later, and did the same. The first set, cops were called enough that the crew had to catch people doing it and the police were annoyed, random people were getting involved and nearly assaulting the male aggressor. The second, (female beating man) the cops were called once, most people ignored the scene and a cou…
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