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What?
/r/askTRP28/10/20 06:56 PM
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I’m never gonna be convinced isolation is healthy
/r/askTRP28/10/20 06:28 PM
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Biotech, but specifically supply chain systems
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:12 PM
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She’s indicated interest but just wants a little bit of your time/commitment before sex. Just take her on a date first is the gist of it.
/r/askTRP27/10/20 10:11 PM
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You sound over-invested my man. Fuck what she says, watch her actions And yeah never make sex overt before you've fucked
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:24 PM
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Experience, company relationship, and connections. Basically I got a guaranteed 6-figure salary out of college. Shit is rough right now bro. Hard to meet people
/r/askTRP27/10/20 09:21 PM
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A man is useless if he’s unavailable
/r/askTRP31/08/20 07:37 PM
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They can trust you more and feel safer because your commitment is more guaranteed to them. A woman only feels unsafe when she feels your commitment is waning. And she doesn’t give a fuck about your commitment if you’re a low value male. If you have potential to commit as a high value male then that’s different. That’s what I’m saying here. Of course you don’t want to give her too much safety. But they definitely need some. I think this has gone off the rails a bit. The point is women are looking…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:49 AM
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I will if you’re genuinely curious not to prove that I have experience. Whatever fuck it. I’d say my most recent example was today (the girl I mentioned in the post). I can’t say for certain whether it was the fact that she saw I’m capable of giving her commitment but I’d say it’s part of it. She initiated out of nowhere as soon as she figured out I was in a committed relationship. Then again maybe she could have just wanted to “steal” me for her own ego. I have had a lot of instances where girl…
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:30 AM
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Experience but its common sense really. Think about it. All women want to lock down an alpha. If you’re an alpha but its impossible to get your commitment, you’re just as useless to her imperative as a beta male. She might fuck you for your alpha genes just like she would use a beta male for his resources.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:26 AM
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Thing is, high value men don’t give out commitment easily. So when a woman sees that its possible to get commitment from you as a high value male it might put you on her radar. Otherwise she might just write you off as never being able to get your commitment.
/r/askTRP31/08/20 08:22 AM
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Yep that’s preselection for ya
/r/askTRP31/08/20 06:59 AM
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I think there’s something more to it than just visible preselection though. Maybe it shows you are capable of giving commitment while being preselected which makes you even more desirable
/r/askTRP31/08/20 02:07 AM
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She should be chasing you. You’re not her top option
/r/askTRP31/08/20 12:43 AM
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Yeah I think TRP exaggerates their nature ridiculously at times. I was a complete misogynist from reading TRP until my current LTR.
/r/askTRP20/08/20 04:33 PM
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That's how we do it baby
/r/askTRP19/08/20 08:27 AM
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Maybe, but then again you aren’t talking to her about your issues are you
/r/askTRP23/07/20 09:02 AM
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;(
/r/askTRP22/07/20 09:40 PM
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Yeah, she gave up forgot about the whole thing. Seems like you just gotta keep your mouth shut and evade it
/r/askTRP22/07/20 08:13 PM
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Like I said to the other guy I’m not talking about emotions
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:49 PM
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I’m not talking about emotion I’m talking about “opening up”
/r/askTRP22/07/20 06:49 PM
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Be machiavellian about it. By shutting the fuck up you’re still working toward your own benefit (and therefore the benefit of your mission/girlfriend/loved ones). Do what’s necessary.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 04:10 PM
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He didn’t figure it out, so he did the weakest thing possible and ended himself. Don’t be him. Yea man, didnt introspect hard enough to find out why he was depressed, so he killed himself instead. Yep.
/r/askTRP19/07/20 03:55 PM
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You need to be able to take shit on the chin, learn, and find solutions. Not expect them to come to you. People with a victim mindset (such as yourself) expect external things to solve their problems, hence why you’re arguing Robin Williams shouldn’t have been depressed if he had everything. I will reiterate this, it’s on US to fix it. That doesn’t mean go buy a new car or house. That means do some introspection, find out what the fuck is wrong, and work on it. He didn’t figure it out, so he did…
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:54 PM
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He says "power through it" because bad times naturally end when your life naturally improves at some point, as you look to improve it. Depression is our instincts telling us something is wrong in our lives. It's on us to fix it. The water only drowns you if you stay under it.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 08:19 AM
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Watch what she does, stop trying to do her job for her
/r/askTRP18/07/20 08:17 AM
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this is true. Moving to college and now having my own place these past 2 years has been a massive change. Quarantine kind of fucked with that, but as soon as it's over, it's back to good times
/r/askTRP18/07/20 08:07 AM
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I kind of agree. Self-improvement should be moderated, it can definitely be overdone and I have been there before. However you need some degree of discipline in your life. You should be eating healthy, you should be lifting. No binge-watching TV, no scrolling social media, no YouTube for hours on end. Just basic core shit that keeps you healthy and happy. Then in your spare time you can go out and do shit you enjoy. Notice how I said "go out" and not "stay at home watching TV"
/r/askTRP18/07/20 08:05 AM
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You need to remember to let out built-up emotions. Oftentimes if you keep your emotions pent up you'll end up taking them out on other things. There was a post a while back about letting everything out in private. I personally get in my car, go for a drive in nature, and yell, rage, do whatever I need to do. That shit is a reset button. I highly recommend doing it from time to time when necessary.
/r/askTRP18/07/20 07:56 AM
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Fair enough
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:44 AM
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She’s gotten cheated on 3 times in the past, probably has something to do with it Did your talk fix the issue
/r/askTRP15/07/20 07:00 AM
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I think you’re right. This girl has always needed tons of comfort and it could be a subconscious thing. Like she subconsciously thinks I’m gonna leave her or something She has always gotten bitchy in the past when I’ve been too alpha with her. Maybe abandonment issues?
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:33 AM
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See that’s what I thought, and I have tried cutting back but then I get a barrage of comfort tests. So clearly her attraction isn’t waning. It’s like her personality does a 180 over the span of a week, and then when she sees me bam it’s back to normal. If I was killing her attraction from too much validation I don’t think it’d be like that.
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:31 AM
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They’re like 5-15 minute calls. I used to see her every day but she lives an hour away now, so she calls me a couple times a day
/r/askTRP15/07/20 04:05 AM
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Dope this is what I was looking for, thanks
/r/askTRP09/07/20 02:03 AM
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So much overthinking. Who fucking cares Seriously, you guys need to get off the internet. It really isn't a big deal.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 09:17 PM
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The thing is, doing everything for yourself is exactly what makes you an effective leader, and the strong man women really want. So it may sound selfish, but by being ‘selfish’ you’re giving to the women who join you in your pursuit of actualization.
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:35 AM
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They said this last time and nothing happened
/r/askTRP29/06/20 04:28 AM
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Lol if you haven't seen her for 3 weeks and she hasn't come running yet, she doesn't want you that bad man. Read the sidebar and top 100 on the main sub.
/r/askTRP25/06/20 01:13 AM
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lmao this is gay as fuck
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:20 PM
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Karmic debt is real. If you don't want the shit then don't give the shit.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:19 PM
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Stop caring. You want to marry her?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:18 PM
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This is why we have plates. Are we vetting plates now?
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:18 PM
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Listen, nod, and give her the fucking she wants
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:18 PM
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Sidebar nigga
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:17 PM
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It's called being a beta faggot.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:17 PM
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You ain't a priority to her, she better not be a priority to you.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:17 PM
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Mental masturbation is a trap (IE constantly refreshing askTRP) Reading, internalizing, and ACTUALLY APPLYING knowledge is a different story.
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:14 PM
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Sounds BPD. Would not make a good mother. Trust me
/r/askTRP24/06/20 10:12 PM
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Polyamorous lmao The mental gymnastics Don’t catch feels for this girl
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:51 PM
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Thanks
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:49 PM
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This is what I don’t understand though. If you think it probably will happen, then why the fuck would you invest in a woman in the first place? How are you supposed to trust and love someone if you believe they might eventually cheat on you?
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:30 PM
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Right, but aren’t we supposed to accept AWALT? I mean, women are sexually amoral. And let’s say she sticks around because of her investment, but then some super tempting guy with great game comes along, or you’re out of town for a couple weeks and she’s super horny.
/r/askTRP23/06/20 05:14 PM
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Actions not words
/r/askTRP21/06/20 02:38 AM
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You are the leader. You haven't been initiating much yourself. She could just be following your lead
/r/askTRP14/06/20 10:19 PM
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100%. AskTRP isn't the place to come for advice on a 5 year LTR
/r/askTRP14/06/20 10:19 PM
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Nowhere near enough information to give you a good answer. This could be a multitude of things; she lost interest, she wants more commitment, you are overthinking and as a result, not initiating enough yourself, making her think you don't care... who knows. This is why actually internalizing knowledge is important. You can't rely on askTRP to give you personalized answers when in every situation like this there are so many variables. My best advice to you would be to stop relying on this subredd…
/r/askTRP14/06/20 10:13 PM
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Women who have a high body count are unable to pair bond. You need a dose of the sidebar my friend. This is basic shit. Start out with 50 shades of red
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:39 PM
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No shit man. That’s not my question. I’m not worried about keeping her attracted. And I literally never mentioned cheating in my post. I’m just over concerned about her following my rules to the point I’m paranoid about her NOT following my rules. Even though she wouldn’t do shit I’m not cool with. My question was how to get rid of that paranoia and just trust her. Did some thinking and got my answer though.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:08 PM
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Definitely need to get back into stoicism more. Haven’t read much Seneca I’ll check it out
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:04 PM
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I have 0 doubt I’m the best she has had and she would not cheat, nor leave me for anyone else. I’m not concerned about hypergamy. My post was about trust and meeting my boundaries, not about her cheating. Those are two different things. Read my post again
/r/askTRP22/05/20 11:00 PM
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So explain how an OnlyFans slut or tinder slut or girl who seeks validation on social media or a girl who has cheated on a previous boyfriend or a girl with a high body count etc etc could ever be LTR material? IDGAF how solid your frame is. These women are damaged. And that’s most women out there. And then past those basic things, there’s being raised with a solid father figure, good values, no feminist bullshit, knowing how to cook well, smart, good income, etc. Even more rare. How exactly doe…
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:57 PM
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True that. Thanks
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:18 PM
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Not sure about turning any woman into LTR quality man. 9/10 women aren’t even close to LTR quality. And there’s no way you can be in an LTR without emotional attachment. That isn’t an LTR, that’s a girl you’re manipulating for a psuedo LTR. And I gave this girl sexual exclusivity. Non-sexual plates I have been spinning but none match her in quality.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 10:14 PM
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At this point I doubt she’d cheat on me. I’m the best she’s had flat out.
/r/askTRP22/05/20 09:58 PM
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Coincidentally this girl is from a Middle Eastern background with a very strong father figure. Raised perfectly
/r/askTRP22/05/20 08:17 PM
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I’ve experienced huge sexual abundance but in terms of a girl who’s actually LTR quality? Not at all. That’s why I care this much I think Not concerned about her loyalty. My concern is her meeting my boundaries and not disrespecting me, to the point I’m over concerned and think she’s disobeying when she isn’t
/r/askTRP22/05/20 06:41 PM
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Yeah I am being pretty insecure. This quarantine is giving me a scarcity mindset and I'm overthinking shit that doesn't matter. Too much red pill
/r/askTRP16/05/20 12:26 AM
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totally true, fuck am I on pandering to her? I'm the fucking prize. Jesus Christ the beta mindset comes back quick. Quarantine scarcity is making me a bitch Thanks for the wake up call
/r/askTRP01/05/20 10:22 PM
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You right boss
/r/askTRP01/05/20 02:20 PM
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Check.
/r/askTRP01/05/20 09:26 AM
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Definitely need to do that more.
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:39 PM
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When people are staring, I start wanting to prove something to them. Either that, or I get a lil angry like “why the fuck are you staring” type of thing I am always in my head about how I’m coming off as to other people. It’s so bad that even when I’m driving past someone I’m thinking about how I look to them. Basically an extreme need to look good to others, and if I feel like I come off bad/beta I knock myself down for it
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:38 PM
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Somewhat recent, I went from kind of ugly to like over-the-top attractive about 2 years ago When people are staring, I start wanting to prove something to them. Either that, or I get a lil angry like “why the fuck are you staring” type of thing I am always in my head about how I’m coming off as to other people. It’s so bad that even when I’m driving past someone I’m thinking about how I look to them. Basically an extreme need to look good to others, and if I feel like I come off bad/beta I knock…
/r/askTRP29/04/20 04:33 PM
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You right
/r/askTRP26/04/20 11:18 PM
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Lol
/r/askTRP26/04/20 09:01 PM
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Yeah I agree, I just wanna get some other opinions so I can know what I’m getting into
/r/askTRP26/04/20 06:37 PM
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Not asking for permission, just lookin for advice
/r/askTRP26/04/20 06:36 PM
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100% Boundaries are something you do more as a courtesy to her, in case for some reason she didn’t know. But any quality woman should know that hanging out with other men 1 on 1 while in a relationship is absolutely off limits. This shouldn’t be something you have to tell her. If my LTR ever did this, it would be over.
/r/askTRP26/04/20 04:56 PM
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See this would make sense except I don’t follow her on social media, my friend is the one who let me know about it. Is it possible she’s just doing it for her own ego, to feel like she’s getting “revenge” on me, regardless of if I see it? And if this is the case, I’m assuming still extend the soft next until she gets desperate anyway
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:24 AM
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So a soft next always comes with a demote? I set the boundary and soft nexted at the same time. I think I’ll give it 24 hours. She did piss me off pretty bad today and I didn’t want to speak to her at all, so I wasn’t really playing games by ignoring her call.
/r/askTRP24/04/20 09:15 AM
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Right, but she doesn’t usually post slutty shit that’s the thing. It seems like an emotional reaction to me ignoring her. I ignored her call, so she reacted by posting some stupid slutty shit on social media to get attention from orbiters and feel better about herself and/or satisfy her ego. It was literally 15 min after I didn’t pick up. I’m not going to do anything yet, it’s just one little IG attention seeking story. I’m seeing what she does the rest of this soft next. If she is silent then I…
/r/askTRP24/04/20 08:31 AM
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I was lazy and skipped over it. I couldn’t really get into his writing style but I’ll give it another go
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:30 AM
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You’re right. I think I have oneitis though, not sure I’d be able to handle that
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:18 AM
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It was a soft next
/r/askTRP24/04/20 07:01 AM
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She’s an hour away
/r/askTRP23/04/20 06:04 PM
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Quarantine You right though. Her emotional reactions aren't my responsibility.
/r/askTRP21/04/20 04:40 AM
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If that happens to me I’ll honestly probably give up on LTRs for the time being... these hoes ain’t loyal Gonna up the dread and see what happens, but this shit is a headache man
/r/askTRP13/04/20 07:18 AM
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She has been facetiming him and snapchatting him. I get he’s beta with her, but it still bothers me that I feel like I’m sharing my fuckin girl with other men
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:50 AM
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I agree, I just don’t know what the fuck to do. He’s my friend so that makes this more complicated. Should I set a boundary? Should I demote? Should I soft next? Should I even show that I care? What action should I take here.
/r/askTRP13/04/20 05:48 AM
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She told me she wants it so we can go to bars together when they open, I think I may have told her to get one a while back and forgot Still a little strange she’s doing it outta nowhere though.
/r/askTRP09/04/20 01:06 AM
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I think a better way to say it would be 90% alpha 10% caring
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:30 AM
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I’m naturally alpha I guess. I find my LTR getting antsy and depressed at times due to a lack of comfort on my end. Going to have to up the comfort game.
/r/askTRP25/03/20 08:27 AM
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How bad you think it’s gonna get?
/r/askTRP23/03/20 05:47 AM
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I may propose the idea but her dad is kind of a hard-ass and she’s dependent on her parents
/r/askTRP23/03/20 02:01 AM
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Interested. I got jack shit to do besides stocks and gym
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:51 AM
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Is it really possible to be 100% satisfied with your own company? How do you not get lonely when isolated? I was isolated for an entire 3 months at one point and while it made me stronger, I was still lonely as fuck.
/r/askTRP23/03/20 01:15 AM
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Lmao
/r/askTRP22/03/20 11:27 PM
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Because she’s my girlfriend, not a plate If she does fuck someone else though then she’s no longer my girlfriend Doubt she will though. I’m the prize
/r/askTRP22/03/20 07:27 PM
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She’s qualifying herself to you; it means it’s still on. Wait twice the time it took for her to reply, then set logistics. My advice ends here. Good luck.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:57 AM
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Stop being butthurt because I’m deciding not to take your advice. Like I said, I appreciate it, but you’re reading way too deep into this.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 03:51 AM
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Bro you’re prioritizing the validation of women way too much. Read the sidebar. They’re all sluts. Their opinion of you doesn’t mean shit. And they aren’t special. None of them. So don’t get invested in winning them or keeping them. Don’t pedestalize women. Play the game, learn, adjust, and win. Take none of it personally because it’s just a game. You should only feel bad if you fail to take action.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:54 AM
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This is the advice I need, thanks
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:16 AM
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This is it, thanks
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:15 AM
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Appreciate the advice, but nah I don’t have a victim mentality. I accept AWALT, I just find myself paranoid over it. My problem is, as someone else said, being too invested in keeping her rather than knowing I don’t need her. I caught oneitis by seeing her way too much. I’ve made myself the prize I’ve just backslid a bit I guess. Need to see her less and talk to other women as well as refocus more on my mission.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 02:13 AM
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Needy as hell. Do you really care she forgot about some mundane task? This isn’t your GF Don’t ask her if you’re still on today. Say “I’ll meet you at X” or something of the sort. ASSUME you’re still on, and remind her with this text.
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:52 AM
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What did you text her
/r/askTRP22/03/20 12:43 AM
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Yee doing this today
/r/askTRP21/03/20 01:09 PM
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Ban
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:49 PM
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Dunno
/r/askTRP20/03/20 07:19 PM
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She’s stuck at home with her family, but yeah I agree if she can’t get back to me in a timely way then I’ll just forget to text her back. I think she’s playing games because I’ve been minimizing comfort. Who fucking knows
/r/askTRP20/03/20 06:34 PM
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Fuck that. Use TRP as a tool kit to do what you genuinely want. Don’t get trapped in an ego/identity someone else told you is right.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 10:05 AM
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It means lose your ego. Don’t try to fulfill an identity, and don’t get trapped by a previous one.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:56 AM
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Cucks who wife up club bitches. Don’t be them
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:55 AM
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I know what you’re trying to say but I’m looking for some other opinions on this to make a more educated decision. It will be my decision though.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:50 AM
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Demote because we’re exclusive and that won’t work with distance, or demote because I’ll only see her 2-3 times a week? Not sure if you misread what I said, I’m fine with seeing her 2-3 times a week. My current stance is ill demote if she starts visiting less frequently. Why do you think demoting is the right move at this point?
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:09 AM
7

I will add though that your sexual needs are definitely important and can’t be left unsatisfied. If you think you can make her more sexually attractive to you then try that, since it sounds like she might be worth it. If you really aren’t attracted to her and don’t see yourself becoming more attracted to her if she makes some gains, then it’s best you call it quits for the good of both of you. Don’t beat a dead horse.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 09:04 AM
0

We’re exclusive so not fucking anyone else, but I got options lined up. In all honesty I’m fine with sex 2-3 times a week, but I’m ready to demote if needed.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:49 AM
11

Escalate.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:33 AM
1

Get some dumbbells, a bench, and a rack for your garage. Source Craigslist for deals.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:27 AM
80

You’re already regretting it. FOMO isn’t a reason to ruin a good thing. Value that shit. You could always take her to the gym and help her work on her physique. Up to you.
/r/askTRP13/03/20 08:25 AM
5

Any interactions you have with your ex after a breakup are to satisfy your ego. You did fine because you didn't go back to her. Continue as you were.
/r/askTRP10/03/20 09:34 PM
2

A month
/r/askTRP04/03/20 04:05 PM
0

Apparently they were close friends for a while before that and that’s why she doesn’t want to block him. Haha my fucking ass. Demoted. Fuck this whore.
/r/askTRP04/03/20 07:38 AM
-1

I'm chillin. I can turn off my feels like a switch the moment I know a girl is an unworthy slut. That makes it easy Will do on chatting up other girls. Shoulda been doing that anyway
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:16 AM
1

Yeah this is what I thought. Thanks
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:14 AM
0

Age of social media bro, hard to find any girls who don't do the snapchat shit. I'm in college
/r/askTRP04/03/20 02:07 AM
1

So what should I say in response to that text? Because I agree but I don't know how to convey that without coming off beta.
/r/askTRP26/02/20 05:15 AM
1

I’ll check them out thanks
/r/askTRP31/01/20 03:44 PM
1

The power dynamic is clear, she is definitely chasing me. I am fucking other girls (ONS), but no other plates. She’s established as exclusive to me. I am willing to walk away if I need to. She accepted the boundary without hesitation. Yes I got pissed off but it was genuine and fit my frame because I do care about her. It would have been beta if I had pretended like I didn’t care while simultaneously seething. I don’t think she was looking for a reaction, I think she was genuinely just being fuc…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 04:37 PM
8

Will do.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:38 AM
1

Fair enough
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:21 AM
1

Yeah, a phone call to another dude in my bed. And I’m stuck up? I don’t text girls in front of her. Let alone fucking call them.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:18 AM
1

Verbally exclusive and she’s established trust + mutual friends monitoring her behavior
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:17 AM
0

So, downgrade the ho to plate status is the verdict?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:16 AM
0

She’s exclusive to me and I’m pretty much exclusive to her at this point, the only thing missing is me actually telling her I’m exclusive to her. Would you still suggest soft nexting for a week or so after I indicated all was OK? Shit settled after she agreed to do what I said.
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:08 AM
1

She’s exclusive to me and she’s been asking for commitment, which I was about to give until this BS. I’d rather not drop her because I’ve been vetting her for a year but I will downgrade if I need to. I just don’t know if this justifies it or if I should give her another chance and I’m just overreacting
/r/askTRP30/01/20 09:07 AM
1

I’ve read the sidebar but maybe need a refresh. Can you point out some specific parts that would be most useful to apply here?
/r/askTRP30/01/20 08:58 AM
1

I didn’t ask, I told her she has to cut him out or she’s gone. I didn’t verbally say I would end it but she got the message. That’s her punishment. She has to prove herself, because after hearing that phone call I have doubts that the dude is only a friend to her. My question is should I have just kicked her out and soft nexted/downgraded immediately instead, since getting on the phone like that with a dude is highly fucking disrespectful. I’m willing to acknowledge if I fucked up I just need so…
/r/askTRP30/01/20 08:43 AM
4

Text for logistics she isn’t your LTR
/r/askTRP29/01/20 03:11 AM
3

No idea how TRP is depressing
/r/askTRP23/01/20 06:23 AM
1

Correct, but the genuine you can change as well Do you think we’ll always have to fake it to some degree?
/r/askTRP23/01/20 05:50 AM
1

Good read, thanks
/r/askTRP11/01/20 07:43 PM
1

Yeah you’re right. Her disrespect is a result of my weakness, now that I think about it. That being said, I was considering upgrading this girl anyway so I wasn’t lying. But I have been showing some weakness lately and falling into her frame more than I should be. I just need to keep is simple and remove attention and affection when she shows disrespect. Not tolerate it. Make my boundaries clear and if she doesn’t like them, she can leave. I don’t need her.
/r/askTRP11/01/20 12:21 AM
1

Sidebar
/r/askTRP10/01/20 10:44 PM
4

What I’m going to do is vet her more through FWB and indicate distaste for her bad behavior (if it continues) through removal of attention/affection and indifferent negs. I’m giving her the benefit of the doubt here, but I’m going to do what I have to do if her bad behavior continues.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:42 PM
1

I know, and I do want to promote her (because I feel like she’s earned it) thats the thing. I just think she’s being stupid right now. I was planning to promote her before all this BS started anyway, she wasn’t pushing for it but now she is. That’s what’s making this more complicated than it has to be. Shitty timing.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:37 PM
1

What do you mean by that? You’re supposed to promote a girl when she consistently exhibits good behavior correct?
/r/askTRP10/01/20 07:21 PM
1

I dunno if they’re her true colors though... I think it might just be something she’s putting on as a last ditch attempt to get my commitment. Being feminine and submissive wasn’t working for her. But that’s the thing - if I enter a relationship with her now based off that cunt behavior, she’s going to think that’s what works and continue doing it... or should I just pretend like it never happened and if it continues after commitment drop her? She was feminine and submissive from the beginning a…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:56 PM
1

It was a miscarriage technically, but yeah that’s what I’m saying. She’s been good up until now.
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:13 PM
1

She (edit) lost her baby when I got her pregnant, she bought me multiple things, and she’s seen me for multiple months now for sex only. I haven’t even taken her out once. In all honesty I would agree if it was a plate I’d seen three times, but I like this girl. I can’t really blame her for giving me bullshit at this point... I just don’t know if it’s a good idea to commit when she shows disrespect
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:08 PM
1

Thing is, she was actin feminine buying me gifts and shit and not pushing for any commitment for a good amount of time. I was about to upgrade to FWB then this behavior started. She earned an FWB and then this shit started, so I’m thinking I should give some more commitment then forget about the bad behavior because it’s a result of me not captaining the ship correctly. I basically haven’t seen her for anything but sex up to this point and she’s done a lot for me. So I’m wondering if it’s a good…
/r/askTRP10/01/20 05:00 PM
1

Ye
/r/askTRP09/01/20 12:08 AM
3

I’m in a fraternity but that’s all sorority sluts. I play guitar and planning to start a band. I’d say that’s my main “hobby” besides lifting, but that’s it The rest of my time pretty much goes toward work and classes
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:41 AM
1

I’m 19 - in college. SMV is as high as it’s going to get right now - for my age I’d put myself as an 8.5
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:37 AM
4

All women have the capacity to be a slut but they aren’t all sluts The ones who are more in control of their hypergamous nature are higher quality and therefore more worthy of investment It seems best for me to move on from this girl but... I want to have more high quality women in my life. I’m curious what the most effective way to do this is
/r/askTRP08/01/20 10:04 AM
3

I invested in her emotionally because I bonded with her through her good traits. A girl like this is hard to come by (at least for me) and it’s a fucking shame when it goes to shit. I guess the better question would be how do I find more quality women to plate? The vast majority of women I meet are low quality sluts who just want to ride the CC and have meaningless sex... I get no satisfaction fucking these whores. Maybe I’m looking in the wrong places
/r/askTRP08/01/20 09:57 AM
1

Fair enough, thanks.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 08:42 AM
1

Ah, I see what you're saying. If she chooses to exclusively bang me on her own, then it's a green flag that she's FWB and eventually maybe LTR material; because she is showing a tendency for exclusivity on her own. Makes sense. To my knowledge I'm the only guy she's banging and a mutual friend has confirmed this. So this makes her worthy of an FWB in combination with her other good behaviors. Still, are you sure it would be a bad idea to make this vocal? That way she's clear about it.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 08:33 AM
5

Everything I'm saying is on the sidebar. You shouldn't be giving advice if you haven't read it. Though I still appreciate your input and will take your points into consideration.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 08:25 AM
4

Wrong. You don't start an LTR immediately after meeting a girl. You vet a girl through these various levels over a period of at least 6 months in order to determine if she is worthy of a relationship: Level 0: ONS Level 1: Plate Level 2: FWB Level 3: Significant Other/LTR Consistently exhibiting good behavior allows her to move up. Bad behavior results in a demotion. If she started off her plate status to you by cheating on a previous partner, then she is never worthy of an LTR. I think this is …
/r/askTRP29/12/19 07:48 AM
1

So what you're saying is I should only upgrade her if she's meeting that rule on her own anyway? Seems sort of passive. I'm the leader - I make the rules clear to her once and she follows them. But maybe I'm wrong.
/r/askTRP29/12/19 06:17 AM
5

Better you are at dangling the carrot the longer they’ll last
/r/askTRP28/12/19 05:30 AM
1

I think you misunderstood my question I’m not asking what you should prioritize if given the option to select between the two of them at one time. I’m asking if you need to satisfy your need for sex first before being able to focus on your purpose
/r/askTRP22/12/19 07:08 AM
4

Worked, thanks Tryna get my text game on point cuz I’m stuck using tinder over break
/r/askTRP21/12/19 05:44 AM
2

I suck at text game, can u give me an example
/r/askTRP21/12/19 04:37 AM
1

Only for you 😘
/r/askTRP16/11/19 03:24 AM
1

Doesn’t really make sense though. I haven’t put up any signs I’d be a provider. I’m in college and I’m 19, not a graduated guy with a stable job. This has been a casual relationship thus far. Sure I bought her plan B but that’s it.
/r/askTRP15/11/19 07:05 PM
0

Will do. Any good condom suggestions?
/r/askTRP15/11/19 08:18 AM
1

Cuz they’re living a lie
/r/askTRP16/03/19 07:00 PM
1

I have the frame for it. You don't need substances to have a good time. And yeah I'm fine with others doing it, I just don't do it myself. I don't like the effects they have on me so I don't do them. Edit: Besides, I don't think that's the point the book was trying to make.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:10 AM
0

But I do have control over my life...
/r/askTRP09/08/18 12:08 AM
1

Wait a few years. Or, as RedLegendx said, do steroids.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:52 PM
0

World doesn't owe you respect. Men are made.
/r/askTRP08/08/18 11:52 PM
1

Your name. "ex_addict_bro" Shut the fuck up
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 03:39 PM
1

You're right. The last year has destroyed this sub. Read the sidebar. Then live. Don't get stuck in that trap of making this subreddit a part of your ego and identity. Move the fuck on.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 04:45 AM
11

If you don't like it, drop her. If you can handle it, don't.
/r/TheRedPill23/10/17 02:47 AM
228

More motivation for me to reach the top 1 percent of males.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 05:25 AM
47

Dude. You don't respond to a shit test by fucking going on and on for 5 minutes.
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 01:56 AM
37

lmao my nigga you got so lucky with that shit If i did that over here in SV i would get fucking anal raped by SJWs
/r/TheRedPill19/10/17 01:42 AM
0

Who. The. Fuck. Cares. Seriously, this a step away from a fucking people magazine article.
/r/TheRedPill18/10/17 03:46 AM
3

It depends on the motivations I think. Like you said, your actions can't be motivated by ego. They should be motivated by what to you want in life. Your frame in essence should be your goals. You stick to your guns not by being a douche motivated by ego but by letting no one impact your journey to reaching your goals in any way, shape, or form. Thanks for this post. This opened up what I was starting to discover. I was starting to question the douchebaggery as I just went through that phase and …
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 02:50 PM
2

I'm not ready for this yet. I don't have enough experience to just allow myself to be myself and get away with it. I have not become the act I put on. But I don't know how long it will take.
/r/TheRedPill17/10/17 07:06 AM
1

More importantly my nigga why are you talking to women about other men
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:27 PM
2

I like this. You have to get into the mentality a certain way that's hard to explain but I get it. I'm going to use this for sure
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 04:47 PM
52

Nigga who cares. It's a snapchat article, the fuck did you expect?
/r/TheRedPill14/10/17 05:38 AM
1

You're right. These guys have no fucking clue. Most of them haven't even touched the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/17 03:11 AM
1

The Silicon Valley is fucking cancer. Never move there. Ever.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 11:55 PM
2

There's been a flood of new users to TRP who refuse to read the sidebar but still comment their opinion on posts. It's likely those downvoting your comment don't even know what the "48 Laws of Power" is.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 11:38 PM
1

Girls don't think about "Fragile ego" They don't give a fuck. You really think girls are breaking down every guy's personality in their head? If you give tingles by being flashy, you will fuck them.
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 10:10 PM
1

That literally means like a son trying to earn his father's rep by continuing his footsteps. IE if Arnold's son tried bodybuilding
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:34 PM
4

You gotta be fucking kidding
/r/TheRedPill12/10/17 09:17 PM
12

You're an idiot. Prolly a sack of shit living in his basement
/r/TheRedPill10/10/17 12:47 AM
15

I think it's biological instinct. It would make sense. Trying to keep naturally "bad" genes out of the gene pool. Otherwise it just doesn't make sense why people naturally hate on others improving. Trust me, I've been experiencing this shit firsthand and woooo baby frame control has been hard. Sometimes I just wanna beat down some of these fucks. Whatever, the more successful you are the more shit you're gonna have to put up with from everyone around you. It's the way it is. Fuck em.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/17 10:52 AM
1

If you're broke as a guy you got fucking problems and you should be worrying about more important shit than being judged by your peers. As a man you're expected to work. Not be a lazy stay home cunt.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:38 AM
2

Well yeah obviously If I'm buying a car I'm gonna analyze it as much as possible. That's not over analyzing. But if you're picking apart every part of a conversation to try and make sure you're doing things right then you gotta get your shit together. Peace.
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 03:34 AM
2

Legit. Over analyzing shit is stupid as FUCK
/r/TheRedPill05/10/17 01:48 AM
2

Very very true. Experiencing this right now and it's annoying as fuck. Not stopping tho
/r/TheRedPill04/10/17 05:09 AM
1

Low key this nigga a pedophile
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 02:40 AM
2

The hamster is not gender exclusive.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/17 02:35 AM
6

That was retarded as fuck lmao He took a giant shit and didn't expect the smell to come haunt him I suck at metaphors
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 10:32 PM
7

What happened to moving on?
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:14 AM
1

Your English is equal in quality to feces.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:12 AM
3

Who says you need to be married to raise kids?
/r/askTRP26/09/17 04:10 AM
1

⬅️💨 😵
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:44 AM
1

Please tell me where you're located so I can move there
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:05 AM
2

Don't get married.
/r/askTRP26/09/17 02:04 AM
1

I was about to say...
/r/TheRedPill26/09/17 12:56 AM
2

True.
/r/askTRP24/09/17 08:39 PM
1

Good thinking. Fuck that hoe
/r/TheRedPill22/09/17 05:21 AM
7

There's a deep psychological issue here, probably related to your fetishes. Wait it out and don't watch any more porn. Your mind will rewire itself the more you have sex.
/r/askTRP19/09/17 03:08 AM
1

My dude. She ain't coming back to yo wack ass
/r/TheRedPill18/09/17 10:40 AM
1

Good bot.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:02 AM
1

Law 23 - concentrate your forces.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 10:01 AM
1

Read the laws of power and apply them to your friendships, and quite frankly everything in life.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:59 AM
0

Weird by high school standards and shit spreads fast in school, think through this and don't shit where you eat. Best technique is going to parties and fucking girls from other schools.
/r/askTRP18/09/17 09:57 AM
1

I know what you're talking about. The reason you treat your family as you like is because you know nothing bad will come of it so you naturally have a IDGAF mentality around them. In order to understand how to apply this to social situations you need to understand that as soon as you stop giving a shit about the opinions of others you'll have this IDGAF mentality (your true personality) around all people. Of course, I don't recommend being in this state at all times (ex. When you're with your bo…
/r/askTRP17/09/17 05:06 PM
2

Never heard that before. What are the negatives?
/r/TheRedPill16/09/17 05:47 PM
1

Maximus in gladiator
/r/askTRP16/09/17 05:02 PM
1

Just read some more about escalating brah "The Sex God Method" is a good place to start
/r/askTRP16/09/17 12:47 PM
1

Yes it is. You just don't know it.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/17 12:58 PM
19

My habits: Train 2+ hours a day Eat 6+ eggs per day Chia seeds Ashwagandha Fish oil Zinc Optimen multi Don't cross legs Don't smoke weed (very often) Cold showers Maca powder Have good posture Interact with everyone Kino girls Have sex Whether or not all of these effect T idk, but that's what I do and I got high T. I also started modeling my behavior after someone i know who's on roids, and it works (whether it's placebo or not, but I doubt it is)
/r/TheRedPill13/09/17 09:04 PM
1

Stopped reading after the first sentence
/r/TheRedPill12/09/17 10:36 PM
1

I feel the same way.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 09:31 AM
1

Shit test. Not comfort. You know the drill.
/r/askTRP12/09/17 12:22 AM
2

My thoughts exactly, lol
/r/askTRP11/09/17 02:09 PM
3

He's also president of the United States.
/r/askTRP11/09/17 08:22 AM
1

Hahahaha
/r/askTRP11/09/17 07:55 AM
3

Similar thing happened to me this week. Girl in class acted really flirty, gave me her number, and even asked me out without me flirting with her once. She also happens to have a BF. I call her a couple days later to schedule a date, she flakes on the whole idea. Sometimes, it's not your fault. Women act purely on tingles and emotion.
/r/askTRP10/09/17 06:00 AM
1

This made me laugh. Funny fantasy OP
/r/TheRedPill09/09/17 12:45 AM
1

All you can do is just do your best to avoid plastics. Use glass containers to store food and drink tap water out of glass bottles. Or get on a cycle.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/17 02:09 PM
1

Ignore or laugh or agree and amplify
/r/askTRP04/09/17 03:40 PM
0

Quit weed recently. Testosterone? Up. Brain clarity? Skyrocketed. Overall mental health? Better than ever. The older generation generally thinks too negatively about weed. The younger generation thinks too positively. Just because it is highly accepted doesn't make it fine. This is a core principle.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/17 03:28 AM
2

Achieve and pride yourself on what you have achieved.
/r/askTRP30/07/17 05:45 AM
1

Shouldn't have even had this conversation in the first place. Don't engage in arguments, it's the easiest way for women to fuck you over
/r/askTRP27/07/17 03:45 PM
1

And you're just desperate for pussy, and probably get so little you give up your self-respect just to have a taste.
/r/TheRedPill27/07/17 12:54 AM
1

No shit they're going to have had other partners, what I'm saying is they willingly choose someone over you and if it doesn't work out they come running back, and you don't have the self-respect to not be their second third whatever option
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 05:00 PM
2

Ghost this stupid bitch.
/r/askTRP26/07/17 02:23 AM
20

Fuck that stupid bitch. Women are so entitled they believe men will actually deal with hearing them talk about other guys, and some will even say they chose other guys over you, expecting you to come running back and be their rebound. I made the mistake of being a rebound once for high school prom. Got used and didn't even get my dick sucked. Never happening again.
/r/TheRedPill26/07/17 02:22 AM
-3

Ghost yourself, no point if you have to ask how to do this
/r/askTRP23/07/17 11:33 PM
-4

Ghost this stupid bitch
/r/askTRP23/07/17 11:31 PM
1

Fuck empathy, cunts can suck it
/r/askTRP23/07/17 04:54 AM
1

Plate with anal at best. If not ghost her stank ass.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 04:51 AM
1

Simple. Ghost that fucking bitch.
/r/askTRP23/07/17 04:49 AM
2

Ghost that bitch, anal at best
/r/askTRP23/07/17 04:47 AM
1

Ghost the bitch
/r/askTRP22/07/17 11:34 PM
1

Plate
/r/askTRP22/07/17 11:32 PM
1

Plate
/r/askTRP22/07/17 11:30 PM
2

Ghost that bitch
/r/askTRP22/07/17 11:29 PM
5

Ghost those bitches
/r/askTRP22/07/17 11:28 PM
0

No.
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:55 PM
16

Might as well go to Parliament and get approval from them as well
/r/askTRP16/07/17 02:53 PM
6

My group of friends got cucked by ONE GIRL. This girl manipulated and used one of my friends, and the rest of my friends are acting like it never happened and completely turned their backs on it. When you introduce a girl into a group of men, the group of men loses all concept of honor and brotherhood. It becomes a contest to see who can win the girl's pussy, which is fucking retarded in itself.
/r/askTRP15/07/17 02:36 PM
3

Pretty sure Mayweather doesn't respond because he knows he's winning, and everyone knows it too. To respond would signify he's threatened.
/r/TheRedPill15/07/17 02:28 PM
1

Fuck science. Take me back 50 years
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 11:58 PM
-1

Sleeping on your balls heats them up, heated up balls produce less test, also another reason to take cold showers
/r/askTRP14/07/17 06:50 PM
5

Stack: Fish oil, vitamin D, zinc, ashwagandha, selenium, magnesium, b complex (with vitamin C), tryptophan, creatine Habits: Gym 6 days a week 2 hours each day (heavy weight, low reps), cold showers, quit weed and fapping, started sleeping 9+ hours per night, started having regular sex, stayed on my feet all day (no sitting in bed unless sleeping) Food: started eating a lot more meat, beef bacon eggs etc., nuts, chia seeds, Maca powder (for libido), more greens such as spinach and broccoli
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:20 PM
7

What do you mean by plant based? Grass fed meat? I can assure you that not eating meat decreases testosterone. You can bullshit all you want but that's how it is. This is coming from a guy that upped his test 600 ng/dL
/r/askTRP14/07/17 05:13 PM
1

You're overthinking it way too much. You learn with experience. If you think they're IOI's, then test it, don't ask random people on the internet.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:13 PM
2

Step 1: Get Rich Step 2: Get hoes Step 3: Make them sign consent contract Step 4: Enjoy
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:12 PM
1

You're already way too invested. If you want to stop overthinking it then you need to establish the idea in your head that even if you fuck up with this girl, it doesn't fucking matter and it's a learning experience. Don't dwindle on every small interaction.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:11 PM
6

Stop fapping, sleep on your back, and no, eating plant based does not raise test, it decreases it.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:08 PM
1

See this all the time. It's a result of chasing pussy, and not chasing a passion and becoming obsessed with it. Watch Arnold Schwarzenegger's Blueprint on YouTube. His mindset towards bodybuilding applies to any goal in life.
/r/askTRP14/07/17 03:07 PM
2

Yet another reason why I don't do LTRs and marriages. Get that shit outta here
/r/TheRedPill14/07/17 01:54 AM
1

Why the fuck are you talking to women about what guy they'd fuck? This is the type conversation that would happen between women.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 04:29 PM
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Pretty sure the "alpha" doesn't compare himself to others. People view him as superior not because he views himself as such, but because he doesn't give a shit about others in the first place. Don't justify an inferiority complex by saying everyone naturally compares themselves to others. Never in my life have I seen someone I would label as a "natural alpha" bend to anyone else, even if it's someone they would no doubt (if they struggled with an inferiority complex) view as superior. And this m…
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 07:43 AM
2

Because they want security, and use the beta for his cash money
/r/TheRedPill13/07/17 07:22 AM
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Motivational post, +1. I agree that TRP starts to repeat itself after a while and you shouldn't waste any more time on it after that. I'm still at the point where I will start slipping if I don't constantly remind myself of what I've learned. I saved a stockpile of RP posts that are most important to remember, and go back and check those every so often. However I do find myself just wasting time on here reading useless posts about what I know already. I need to spend less time on here, and more …
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 05:42 PM
0

Does your girl work 9 hours, go to the gym, then do other stuff with you? No.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:56 AM
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This is what happened. This guy managed to give her tingles for 10 months straight before she got bored. She was bored of him so she tried to turn him into beta bux, and would have soon started fucking other guy(s) on the side. She failed, so she broke it off so she could continue riding the CC freely without worry of being caught. Soon she realized her mistake, and, as all girls do (AWALT), hamstered herself into being the victim.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:49 AM
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How is that against AWALT? If anything it supports it. This guy managed to give her tingles for 10 months straight before she got bored. She was bored of him so she tried to turn him into beta bux, and would have soon started fucking other guy(s) on the side. She failed, so she broke it off so she could continue riding the CC freely without worry of being caught.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:46 AM
1

Exactly. Girls will hamster their way into being the victim every single fucking time.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:42 AM
2

"Who doesn't enjoy a fancy dinner every so often?" Who says he didn't? Maybe he went without her. "You should treat her in whatever fashion you deem appropriate" He though it was appropriate to not waste money on her. When you bring money into the equation, you risk being used for beta bux. Will clearly didn't want to risk that.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:40 AM
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"My friends were all making life gains" AKA money gains. This bitch is retarded.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:35 AM
9

"We had sex so I know she isn't a dude" lol
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 04:11 AM
3

If you self-improved just for girls, you're already going the wrong direction. Do things because they contribute to your mission in life, whatever that is.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/17 12:14 AM
4

You gotta understand your limits. If she's the bitchy feminist type, then: Do yourself a favor and get away from her. She's the type that will play the rape card. She's saying "don't touch me" to make it look like you're a creep. If she's the playful type, then: Playfully touch her again. She's saying "don't touch me" as a shit test to see if you're in control.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 06:17 PM
3

Accutane - good advice. I took it and it destroyed my acne for good. HOWEVER Be aware of the risks. Some men report lasting Erectile Dysfunction after accutane treatment. This is likely due to the effects it has on your liver (which influences testosterone production). Also be ready for 6 months of chapped ass lips and skin, along with generally low testosterone, low energy, drive, and a lot of depressed phases.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 05:51 PM
0

Oneitis in a nutshell. This post made me laugh. I read "10 years" and it's clear. You're already set up for disaster. Just help yourself and find someone else.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/17 05:36 PM
3

You want hot, you're gonna have to work for it. You should ask yourself if it's worth it, or if you should spend that time on something else. Up to you.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 06:20 AM
3

Bitch asked me at a party "do you want to drive me to the mall and walk around with me and shop" in a bitchy way. It was so profound I was wondering if she was joking. She was actually serious. I told her "fuck off," smiled, and walked to another girl.
/r/askTRP09/07/17 06:15 AM
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What the fuck are you on about? lmao
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 11:21 PM
1

Yep, my friend is too lazy to deal with the problems by nexting her or something, so he just buys her shit to "keep her down." He doesn't listen to anyone who tries to tell him what's really going on because he loves her so much and gets "free" sex from her. You're much more likely to bring harm to yourself than help anyone else because of how brainwashed most guys are. No man who is very blue-pilled will hear it. But some guys do listen if you introduce RP concepts subtly. I don't really think …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 11:17 PM
1

True, people tend to come full circle once they experience rock bottom.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 05:52 PM
17

If she asks me to propose, I tell her to fuck off. It's fun having no emotions sometimes.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 05:08 PM
9

Here's what happened. The guy became too emotionally invested too fast, and by texting the woman again after he made date plans, she sensed this. He became too clingy with his texts, and to get rid of him the woman gave him a duty-date. (High SMV women will never do this). When you become too emotionally invested, it shows you have nothing else going on, and she is your world. Women want a guy with other distractions, who pays them little attention, but just enough to keep them interested.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 05:06 PM
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Agreed, self-investment pays off big time. It's funny, I have a friend who has a girlfriend who can be super angry at him, but the moment he buys her flowers and candies it's "all ok." You know how frustrating it is to try and warn your friends about impending doom, but they don't listen? And then when doom strikes, they get fucked over. I tried to advise a friend once, and not only did he reject my advice, he told others about what I said, and I started being socially rejected due to the fact t…
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:58 PM
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You're letting her "make you do things" you don't want to do? You're cucked. You're letting her negatively affect your finances and goals? You're cucked. You feel the need to lie to her about your finances, because you don't think you're good enough for her? You're cucked. TRP doesn't support getting cucked. Your fault.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:48 PM
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Enough to get laid, but not laid as much as a chad. If you don't have chad looks, you are going to have to work for women, which is a pain in the ass itself. A lot of guys go MGTOW because of this.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:38 PM
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The development of chivalry becoming part of most men's "codes of honor" (values) is what started the whole pedestal mindset. While chivalry passed down through generations, with each generation it changed little by little to pedestalize women more and more. Now look what we have today.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:36 PM
1

You made the right move. She became way too emotionally attached way too fast. Some women are the crazy type that will fuck you over when you reject this attachment.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:27 PM
1

Right. It's up to you whether you want to put in extra effort to pull extra chicks or not. As long as you're not investing all your time into one girl. It's a thin line though.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:23 PM
3

It was surprisingly easy for me as well. None of that "shocked angry" stuff, more of a confirmation of what I started to find out on my own.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:19 PM
5

I do cold baths. It's insane how much easier it is to meditate.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 04:08 PM
1

Trump is a massive red pill himself. Just watch what happens. True Masculinity is making a comeback.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 08:07 AM
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Guess I'm living under a rock
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 08:06 AM
2

Except dogs are loyal. Women are not.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 07:59 AM
1

I swear I saw this in a movie. Some shit about some kid needing 20 seconds of courage to ask out a girl, lol In all seriousness this concept is very interesting. I'll look into implementing it more for sure. +1
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 07:52 AM
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Good on you. I struggle with the same shit. Going back to friends who insult my intelligence by doing shit behind my back, and lying to my face. I tolerated disrespect in the past. I feel you. With the high school social dynamic and most people not having matured yet, it's hard finding friends who won't do this type of shit. I struggle to find someone who has a little sense of loyalty and honor. What are your motivations for deleting snapchat? I tried that as well, but as a teenager snapchat is …
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 07:44 AM
2

Breathing deep and through your stomach helps. I've gotten rid of mine over the course of 2 months.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 07:18 AM
1

I had a girl reject me because she "didn't want to get in the way between me and A" (A is a friend of a friend to her).
/r/TheRedPill08/07/17 05:31 AM
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Just be a fucking man. Everything connects back to it. "You should be at your best even when others aren't there" Yeah, you do this when you stop giving a fuck about others' opinions and focus on your own fulfillment. If your main goal is women then this won't come to you, because that goal is reliant on others.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 11:51 PM
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You're not gonna actually internalize this until you're brutally rejected socially, yet still living comfortably.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 11:43 PM
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It's funny how in depth this shit goes haha "That guy is walking like this he's so insecure" Mind your own fucking shit. Who the fuck cares how another man walks lmao, complete bitch boy behavior
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 05:28 PM
4

Press the three dots at the top and click community info, that's the sidebar.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 04:59 PM
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Doesn't fucking work? Stop using it
/r/TheRedPill07/07/17 04:57 PM
4

No I was thinking more like 17 pages
/r/MGTOW06/07/17 07:33 PM
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Who the fuck cares. "oh I was sexually harassed by a woman boo-hoo" Get that tampon out of your fucking ass. Men are men, not women.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:51 PM
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I feel like this is semi-true. However free choice is a right everyone has and if some young guys genuinely don't want to waste time on chasing pussy and would rather focus on their own fulfillment, they have every right to do so. MGTOW embraces this concept. Do guys need to prove they can get pussy before they focus on fulfillment? No. In fact, if you get in the game early and succeed, you'll get all the pussy you want without having to deal with all the bullshit women throw at regular guys.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:50 PM
3

Well, girls aren't only attracted to money. Perhaps you're tall and/or muscular and/or handsome. These are also direct signs of power, as people generally bend to men with these characteristics.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:31 PM
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Bro. Every fucking girl is a "gold digger." Women love power. Money is power.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/17 06:23 PM
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You're right. This shit just rubs me the wrong way.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 05:26 PM
1

Makes sense. Thanks for the reply.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 05:21 PM
6

There you go assuming shit again. I already know that you can't let grudges hold you back, etc etc I may not have overcome it yet but I'm working on it, trust that. This is not something that you can just forget and move on from. This isn't just some girlfriend breaking up with you. This is deep fucking rooted.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 08:59 AM
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Alright man. Appreciate the reply.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 08:35 AM
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Read the rules in the sidebar. No, I didn't lock myself in my room all day. Clearly, you are not capable of looking at things from another perspective. When you're raised neglected by your father, it's only inevitable that you will isolate yourself from him, as you don't see the point in trying to interact if he doesn't want to. You're telling me you automatically know the importance of father-son relationships when you come out of the womb? Where the fuck is your common sense? "As kids we all k…
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 07:24 AM
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It bothers you for good reason. After all, the reason this happens and bitches get a way with it is because it doesn't bother enough people.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 06:27 AM
6

I relate to your experiences with telling people. I have acquaintances who grew up without fathers, and when I tell them my experiences they brush it off because I "at least have a father." It took me a long fucking time to realize that my abandonment problems stemmed from the way my father raised me, because I always subconsciously rationalized that "I have a father, so that can't possibly be the source."
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 06:25 AM
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Appreciate the reply. I'm just gonna keep moving forward and trying to rid myself of subconscious inferiority, I don't really know what else to do. It's good to know others know how it feels.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/17 05:55 AM
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It's quite interesting. Some men want to impact the world and have that drive engrained into them, and others want to simply enjoy their time on Earth.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 08:35 AM
1

Most guys can't get to the level where girls chase them, that's why they feel it's necessary to chase girls. There's a reason the alpha of the pack gets to choose any mate he wants, and the betas have to fight for a little taste of pussy. If you aren't having sex, you are horny as fuck unless you masturbate. And if you masturbate you feel like a loser. Why? Because it is for fucking losers. Most guys, just like women, need validation whether they like to admit it or not. The only guy who doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill22/06/17 08:34 AM
2

Same position. Working on online business and hitting the gym more. Make more personal connections with people around you, and more of your time will be occupied naturally.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 09:23 PM
0

That's cool. Do you know what a joke is?
/r/TheRedPill19/06/17 07:58 AM
2

Proactively looking for girls? Do you mean going out and looking for them or what? Cuz if you go out explicitly looking for women you're not gonna get good results. And bro, I felt just like you with weed, friends wanted me to smoke and shit. I've been off for 2 weeks and it's like nofap but even better results.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:44 PM
2

Quit weed a few weeks ago. I've never felt better. I had been smoking weed every day for a year straight. I can literally feel my testosterone and energy levels increasing. I'm a lot more happy and content now.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 07:41 PM
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Insane. Women are insane. Why are they so hot?
/r/TheRedPill18/06/17 06:41 PM
2

Lol, do you actually care if anyone who isn't famous does the same thing? Your hamster is going off.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/17 04:49 AM
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Haven't eaten sugar in ages. Honestly when you start lifting and focus on your diet, and see the massive changes in how you feel, you never want to go back. Unless you're high, good luck then.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:15 PM
1

You're already ahead of most people on here. Good luckZ
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:09 PM
1

Before you can live, you must accept your death.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:07 PM
2

Had a girl snapchat me "You never smoke with me (give me free weed) anymore." Proceeded to send her a dick pic and a middle finger then blocked her.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 11:05 PM
7

Unless you're rich and famous. Goal: become rich and famous Likelihood: 1/1000000 Fuck it.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 06:01 PM
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GirlS, not girl. If you can't get multiple girls wet then it's you, if it's just one girl maybe she's desensitized or just plain not attracted to you, while other girls are.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 05:52 PM
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Most people are mentally weak, and recognizing others' successes brings out their own insecurities and faults. In essence, they are mad at you for improving while they have remained the same. Personally, I've learned to take these insults as compliments, as it proves I am improving enough for others to take notice.
/r/TheRedPill15/06/17 01:53 AM
3

Tried this yesterday. Works like a charm.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 07:10 PM
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Because little to no one has a mind of their own. Most flock to the masses. We can even see that here on TRP.
/r/TheRedPill14/06/17 01:25 AM
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I believe that almost all men who are alpha will at one time or another experience a time when they are thrown to the bottom. Only the true alphas manage to rise to the top again.
/r/TheRedPill09/06/17 07:28 AM
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William Pollcuck more like
/r/TheRedPill05/06/17 11:25 PM
2

You can ask her questions as long as they're not interview-like. Make them flirty. Ex) Why don't your earrings match your dress? (If she's not wearing earrings)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 10:33 PM
2

Hey man, if a girl gives you a weird look she's just testing your frame. Keep going, don't give up immediately. If she doesn't open up though then next her.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 10:31 PM
2

And that, my friend, is why so few men are at the top in all aspects.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/17 06:41 AM
1

Agreed. Get the ball rolling though, and every aspect of your life becomes better.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:23 PM
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So you're saying that you have already accomplished everything you want? Man, I'm jealous. If there is ANYTHING you want in this world, there are always steps you can take to pursue it. This is what I do whenever I find myself in that "nothing to do" mentality. Yeah, at first it might be hard to get off your ass and actually begin pursuing those dreams, but once you get the ball rolling it's easier.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/17 10:22 PM
2

My rule is if someone makes physical contact with her, I tell them to back off. If they're just flirting, I take over with humor.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 10:18 PM
5

Status is important as well.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 10:17 PM
7

In short, hit the gym and read.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 10:16 PM
3

This post made me laugh. +1, OP.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:55 PM
4

Agreed, women are easy. This ego thing applies to all aspects of life though.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:51 PM
3

This is why you ground your ego in your personal achievements, and not your status among others or how others perceive you. There is no way to fully rid yourself of ego, but you can ground it so that it doesn't cause your downfall.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:49 PM
2

Let's add it to the glossary.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 09:48 PM
4

Agreed. This is why you replace the activities listed in the post with other productive activities that also release dopamine, such as getting work done in the gym, hanging out with friends, having sex, etc.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 02:47 AM
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"Addictive drugs provide a shortcut to the brain's reward system by flooding the nucleus accumbens with dopamine. The hippocampus lays down memories of this rapid sense of satisfaction, and the amygdala creates a conditioned response to certain stimuli." "Over time, the brain adapts in a way that actually makes the sought-after substance or activity less pleasurable. In nature, rewards usually come only with time and effort. Addictive drugs and behaviors provide a shortcut, flooding the brain wi…
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 10:18 PM
1

Again, it's up to you to go out and experiment to find your limits. Obviously you're not supposed to stare her down all the time.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/17 05:23 AM
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Only if you're an ugly fuck who does it in a weird way. This is why the best way to learn is going out and experimenting after you have already upped you base SMV.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 06:38 PM
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Stare directly into her eyes without breaking for sexual tension. Assume attraction. Pretend you've already fucked her. Don't kino her unless you're on a date. Best place for escalation is when you're hanging out 1 on 1, not directly after approaching. Ask her questions, tease her about her answers. Somehow bring sex into the conversation subtly.
/r/TheRedPill28/05/17 12:32 AM
1

Most guys have the capacity to be good looking, so if you think you aren't, work on it. Start lifting, take care of your complexion, groom yourself, etc. Also on the first date do something active that shows off your skill and involves you showing her how to do something. An example is sailing. You can both show her how to sail and show off your skill (and your gainz).
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 05:19 AM
0

Nah, I agree. I just didn't read the post fully. Fuck LDRs.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 04:16 AM
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And this right here is another reason I'm an independent entrepreneur.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 03:00 AM
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Then you ignore it. If they aren't your superior, you have nothing to worry about.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 02:58 AM
1

You could just do both. Shit, personally if I'm fucking multiple plates IDGAF if it's duty sex. Just won't buy them shit.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 09:23 PM
1

BRO PLEASE. If you're feelin the love then fucking LTR that hoe. Just make sure yo life isn't gonna be destroyed if she decides to slam a Chad.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 04:14 AM
2

Bro you gotta realize that while AWALT hasn't been proven false, it's applicable on different levels. Yeah women will eventually cheat but yo girl hasn't done anything wrong yet. Just make sure yo ass is asking yourself every day if you can live without her. If not, ya gotta drop that hoe.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 04:11 AM
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Two words: no shit Still, if you're relying purely on your wealth for hoes, those hoes will only have duty sex with ya. On the other hand, if you are a fit handsome motherfucker, they will be soaked. You've already made it in the money department, now focus on the physical.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 04:01 AM
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lol, you're telling him to find passions just to build a social circle. @trponly14 yeah try it out, if it ain't for you it ain't for you, keep that in mind
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 03:12 AM
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Yo Next time, keep your frame when you get rejected! You're letting this hoe get to you...really? Come on man, wolf up. If a girl rejects you, it shouldn't affect you (you should have other hoes, abundance mentality).
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 09:47 PM
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I feel like sometimes its unintentional though. Sometimes you have a cool personality which makes people think you're an ultimate pimp, but you're not. This is especially true if you recently swallowed the pill.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 05:55 AM
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How would you go about porting your coke frame to sober frame? I think the best way to maintain heightened dopamine levels is by refraining from dopamine spikes, such as coke, weed, TV, video games, hot showers, etc. That way your dopamine levels will be more receptive to everyday things.
/r/TheRedPill23/05/17 01:19 AM
11

So let's say you approach a woman. Do you have an objective need to fuck her? That's outcome dependence, and it comes off as creepy and weird. Maybe I'm talking to a woman because I'm bored, she's hot, and I wouldn't mind escalating. I don't have a specific goal in the conversation, and if it doesn't go anywhere, so what? I'll just keep doing whatever the fuck I was doing beforehand. This post focuses way too much on being "alpha." Not everything is a movie. You aren't some mafia boss. Have fun …
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 07:30 PM
1

Eh, whatever. Porn isn't good anyway, I just jack off without porn every 7 days
/r/MGTOW20/05/17 07:05 PM
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Wow. This is the exact opposite of what it means to be a man. You're promoting conformity of values that aren't your own so you can fit into a crowd. Any "alpha" wouldn't feel the need to fake it to fit in, as honoring values comes first. It doesn't matter if you're acting. Breaking values is breaking values.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 05:26 PM
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