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Yeah, people often are too busy consuming stimulus and suppress the deep thoughts about life, until one day something will trigger there return and you are overwhelmed with emotion, maybe sadness for example. I agree its important to take time out and think about these things, it will help in the long run and you can learn alot about yourself.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 10:42 PM
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I'm 5'7 and not attractive. I have dated girls more attractive than me. This I think was due to charming, fun and cocky funny personality. These girls told me they did not find me that attractive but they really liked my personality and that is why they wanted to date me. I think looks are very important but if you have strong game then it can give you a good level of success with women in relation to your physical attraction.
/r/TheRedPill01/06/17 06:02 PM
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2 weeks in advance is a bad sign in itself.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 02:48 AM
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You have good potential. 18 is still very young, I am mid 20's and wish I had encountered TRP at age 18. Oh and for the sleeping, play some white noise in the background (just search YouTube) and this will block out a lot of low level noises that might disturb you such as cars or floorboards.
/r/askTRP30/05/17 02:05 AM
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Practice in the mirror to have a default facial position that doesn't look bitchy?
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 01:44 AM
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You can never win with a feminist. For many issues they can find offense and oppression in any outcome and they will choose to do so to allow them to continue to be the victims and gain power over others in a society which acts as if offense is the highest virtue.
/r/TheRedPill30/05/17 12:09 AM
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You're getting sucked in by the media propaganda.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 06:13 PM
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Losing both your gf and dog around the same time sounds very tough. Stay strong, I think there are many great resources on here that will help you along the way.
/r/TheRedPill24/05/17 10:21 PM
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How would you rate the quality of the Amazon belt you bought?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 01:24 AM
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Sparks inspiration for updating my wardrobe. Thanks. Too much Superdry though.
/r/TheRedPill22/05/17 01:18 AM
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Would you rather be a minority or ugly? I think most people would say they would rather be a minority. I would.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 11:15 PM
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Very cringey. I love cringe porn and this got me off. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill21/05/17 04:22 PM
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Its better to love a shorter, better life as tall and worshipped than a longer and worse life as a short guy :P
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 11:03 PM
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Isn't this 80/20 rule because of evolutionary psychology, not social construction? Therefore why would hot girls be fucking low smv guys and vice versa?
/r/TheRedPill20/05/17 10:42 PM
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Good stuff OP! When you have lots of options it can be fun to text outlandish things to a girl just to see what the outcome is. It's sort of like a game, and you don't really care what the outcome is because you have other women you can meet if it goes wrong.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 12:23 PM
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I used to think that a gut feeling could not be trusted as I didn't understand how it could magically understand the truth in a situation. However from my experience, I now believe the gut can be very accurate. I had a strong gut feeling that my ex gf was cheating on me, a super strong gut feeling but I did not have the evidence to know for certain. It turns out I was right all along and she was cheating on me, big time.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/17 12:16 AM
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That will go down well won't it. Shows you think she will try to screw you over, and that things might fail even before you get married. Secondly, it's sure to cause arguments.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:51 PM
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Sounds smart to me. Unattractive, overweight and sexually frustrated women are seeking attention, validation and want to feel valued. So when someone fairly attractive gives them these feelings they will start to grow attraction to that person and want to help them out.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 05:48 PM
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OP is a moron.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:49 PM
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Are you a female because this would make sense. You want to get guys to pay for you and not feel guilty.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/17 04:49 PM
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It's like that Dove advert or whatever where they have a bunch of fat girls and try to make out that whatever size you are, you are physically beautiful. Sorry, but study evolutionary biology, there is a reason why men do not find fat people attractive. They are just pushing a feel good message to sell more products.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 05:01 PM
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It is not as clear cut as that though. You have a large proportion of the fat acceptance movement who deny science and claim that being obese has no negative consequences, that you can be healthy at any size. You can do whatever you want with you body imo, if you want to die earlier then fine, call it Darwin's law for being ignorant but on principle we should be against those who are anti-science and encourage people to prioritise not offending people over truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:58 PM
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Any community has aspects of being a circle jerk. It is natural for people to experience confirmation bias and an ingroup outgroup bias which contributes to a circle jerk. So those on r/bluepill for example is a circle jerk against red pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:35 PM
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Women are against anything that takes away their sexual power. It is the nature of the animal kingdom that females have a lot of sexual power and the males have very little, except for the top 20% of males. If you take away this power then some women can offer very little and that is why they are against things like porn and sex robots as in means men no longer need to rely on them and give them special privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:04 PM
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BS. If you read the US Dept of Labor report on the issue, the report conclusion states that there is a wage gap of 4 - 7 % between genders and that there seems to be no evidence of sexism, but rather it is the results of an individual's own personal choices. i.e. women prefer to work in certain types of jobs, and men in others.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 04:02 PM
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Maybe because BLM is a terrible organisation that denies crime statistics and police reports and claims that criminals like Michael Brown are angels and were killed for no reason. They perpetuated the false narrative that he had his hands up but was still killed by police when in fact he had just robbed a store, then reached for a police gun which physically assaulting the cop. There are many other examples. There are more white supporters of BLM than black supporters, there was a study on this …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 03:43 PM
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Secondly, you probably see your self as one of these enlightened ones in a world full of sexism, racism, xenophobia etc. However, notice that it is people like you who insinuate that minorities are inferior and would not continue to be bread in a world of designer babies. I didn't think of that at all when I first read this and I am a Trump supporter. Also, you are coming at this from a very western centric viewpoint. Do you think in Africa they would only create designer white babies or do you …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:24 PM
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No they don't. You have bought the SJW mainstream media propoganda hook, line and sinker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 01:08 PM
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BS. What are you trying to say? Straight white males will control the designer baby production? Minorities are ugly? There are plenty of minorities with desirable physical and psychological traits that people would love to have in their children.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/17 12:59 PM
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That's not true. 77% is when they take all the salaries of males and all the salaries for females and then divide them by the total number of men and female. Therefore it compares mens salaries which are usually in jobs like business and IT which are high paying, with those of women which are usually in lower paying jobs like administration, childcare etc. It is not a comparison of like for like job positions. If you read the US Dept of Labor report on the issue, the report conclusion states tha…
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 12:59 AM
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At my unversity, I work in a workshop from time to time to create physical designs. I have regularly noticed that the workshop instructors (all male) will give preferential treatment to attractive female students. Engaging in playful conversation, doing a little extra for them, checking up on them, whilst the rest of us seem to get average treatment and work hard to get the instructor's attention in a busy workshop. This might just be confirmation bias though, so take it with a grain of salt.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/17 12:49 AM
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I have used this in the past to great effect.
/r/TheRedPill02/05/17 09:44 PM
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Isn't online dating already super easy for women?
/r/TheRedPill11/04/17 03:47 AM
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I first discovered it maybe 2.5 years ago, and it helped with my first 2 girlfriends however I am no expert and still make a lot of mistakes, so I ended up kind of blue pill at times and lost them. However, from that dating experience and studying TRP more, I can see the errors of my past and have real life experiences that back up the teachings here and helps me understand what happened and to get over it quicker and to improve in the future. I already saw improvements from the first gf to the …
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:55 PM
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True, that could be the case. I am 24 and I wish I had stumbled across TRP at 18 and was making 6 figures. Many people here will be jealous.
/r/TheRedPill06/04/17 02:26 AM
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Haha good. Shows what you get when you listen to the loud minority. SJWs don't want to buy comics, they just want control. Hopefully more people will stop listening to their power hungry demands.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/17 07:34 AM
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January to December 2009 looked good. I currently look like a January version of you. Would be happy look like your December 2009 photo let alone your 2015 photo!
/r/TheRedPill30/03/17 05:28 PM
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Haha no wonder, great body.
/r/TheRedPill29/03/17 11:34 PM
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Be careful around the Thai⁄Malayaian border as there is terrorism
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:53 PM
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Wow, lots of attention from petite, tanned girls, sounds great! How much do you think their American fetish is down to them being generally tall? I am a 5'7 white guy, do you think I would have success as I am probably around the same height the average Thai guy if not a bit shorter. Also, I have been to Japan and I can say it is hard to go on dates with Japanese girls as their EnglIsh is very bad and they are not as open to Westerners. The Only girls I fucked in Japan were Chinese.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/17 02:46 PM
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Poe's law.
/r/PussyPassDenied27/03/17 11:44 PM
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Yes, it's called social desirability bias. It is more prone to happen when people report their own behaviour, and women are more likely to be influenced by this then men. I know because I had for research this for a university project recently.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 04:04 PM
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Take the UK for example: "Terrorist plots on the scale of those carried out in Paris and Brussels have been foiled in Britain in the past four years, Britain’s most senior counter-terrorism officer has revealed. Launching an appeal for public help in combating terrorism, assistant commissioner Mark Rowley said the thwarted attacks were among 13 plots that had been prevented since the murder of Lee Rigby in 2013." https://www.theguardian.com/uk-news/2017/mar/06/uk-police-have-thwarted-paris-style…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 02:59 PM
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Cool, I am very interested in YouTube independent media too. Mainstream media is so misleading and dishonest nowadays. I watch about 2 hours of YouTube content a day whilst cooking food, cleaning etc.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 02:42 PM
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It happens across the world, mainly in Muslim majority nations. However, keep in mind, Western countries have good intelligence agencies and are preventing a large number of attacks from even taking place because they stop them just in time.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 02:40 PM
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Yeah, they have tried to redefine the meaning of racism so that only white people can be racist. Also they have tried to redefine the definition of rape so that rape stats increase and there can be more victims and so they can push this idea that 1 in 5 females at university are raped and other BS.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 02:02 PM
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I interpret it as he is meaning that social justice warriors are not necessarily seeking justice. They are seeking power and control over others, and praise for being so virtuous. Just like the ministry of truth in the book 1984 was just a name that sounded like a good thing but had no intention of providing truth at all.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 01:58 PM
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Most are. Google the Global Terrorism Index 2016 and read page 50. From 2013 - 2015 the top 4 terrorism groups by death count were Islamic and these 4 alone account for 74% of all deaths by terrorism. If you include all the other groups outside the top 4 which are Islamic this percentage would be even higher.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 01:52 PM
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Of course I want equality but SJWs take it to far to the point where everything can be deemed sexist, racist, bigoted etc. They spread myths about systemic racism, toxic masculinity, women paid 74 cents to the dollar, terrorists are not Islamic etc. They are not living in reality and are able to manipulate governments and society to follow the commands because offense is the highest virtue and anyone who disagrees with them must be a terrible person despite if they have a mountain of facts and e…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 01:28 PM
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Political correctness, virtue signalling and social justice are causing great damage to the western world. It is a cancer of the mind and needs to be destroyed and mocked. Edit: spelling
/r/TheRedPill25/03/17 12:38 PM
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Very interesting! Thank you
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 06:32 PM
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Definitely. Do you think it is to do with guys finding it harder to let go of a girl than vice versa? I have had amazing experiences with girls where they loved me alot and we travelled all over Europe. It then ends and I find out they have deleted all our photos etc. I would never consider doing that. It take a certain mindset to do so.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 05:34 PM
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Agreed. This is one of the crazy things where you can go from everything to nothing with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 05:24 PM
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One thing I have learned is that it is easy for a girl to go from 'loving' you to not giving a damn about you once Chad comes along or you break your frame and the image she had of you.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:23 PM
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Take a photo of her smiling with her face full of food maybe?
/r/TheRedPill24/03/17 12:18 PM
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Your gut feeling is surprisingly accurate in my experience. I had a very strong gut feeling my ex girl was cheating on me, but I ignored it. Turns out she was cheating.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 09:52 AM
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It's just the crazy nature of reality. Some ants work all their life and never have sex (I think), some spiders get eaten by the female spider after sex. In our reality we also face an undesirable situation where females have the upper hand.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/17 12:42 AM
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Nice, this is like Makiaveli deception type stuff. I like it.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 10:09 PM
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In terms of personality, being fun is one of the main things. You want to create​ positive emotions in a girl and a lot of guys are boring, so just learn to have fun in any moment, from stupid stuff like tapping her on the shoulder and pretending it wasn't you, to putting your hands over her eyes as you walk down the street. Stupid stuff like this works for me. Some girls call me crazy but it's a good type of crazy, one they enjoy, they say it with a big smile on their face.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/17 02:37 PM
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I am always late, and never had an issue.
/r/TheRedPill19/03/17 11:49 AM
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NLP is not backed by science.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 11:19 PM
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Thank you, I enjoyed the summary. Please can you make the text script for the video available too?
/r/TheRedPill17/03/17 12:37 AM
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Interesting, of course dinner dates and cinema dates are terrible bUt actually hanging out with a girl outside of your apartment can be lots of fun. I think your method would screen for girls DTF but there will also be girls who are equally DTF at a the end of a good date who don't want to seem like such an obvious slut.
/r/TheRedPill15/03/17 01:06 PM
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A hot girl will never fuck just one guy. Virgins aren't special. They will not want to go through their whole life only fucking you. They will have the desire to see what others cocks and guys feel like.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/17 05:06 PM
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"I thought you changed but now I know, can't turn a hoe into a housewife, baby, and there you go" Tupac Song: There You Go That song has other good redpill lyrics too.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/17 10:28 PM
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What helped me to have less urge to check my phone was to go onto Facebook and Twitter etc. And unfollow everyone's posts. This means that when I log into Facebook it is a totally empty news feed. I have had it like his for months now and feel no urge to change it. I don't feel I am missing anything, I can predict what I will see and it won't be anything worthwhile to my life such as attention seeking photos, anti Trump posts etc.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/17 11:12 PM
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He is also very attractive.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:55 PM
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If you want to be cheated on then be stuck in the position where you either lose your children, money or both then sure, get married.
/r/TheRedPill09/03/17 07:52 PM
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Then you are doing something wrong. You cannot have game if you have those stats yet don't get any female attention.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/17 10:29 PM
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Yeah, I can attest to this. I dated a girl for over a year, then she cheated on me, she lied and said she was innocent etc. once I dumped her she did not want to give me any details or closure, she said that the relationship was over so why bother placing blame and explaining things. I messaged the guy she had cheated on me with and she told him she was single and had dated for ove 2 months. The reasons she did not want to talk about the breakup or admit anything because she was the responsible …
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 07:04 PM
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Also, see it as a fun activity. Entertain yourself, says things that make you laugh and try and enjoy it. That also conveys to the girl and you have a slightly better chance to succeed.
/r/TheRedPill06/03/17 11:58 AM
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What about master debating?
/r/TheRedPill05/03/17 08:28 PM
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Often you see profiles where girls have photos which have specifically been taken to show off their tits and ass and sexualise them. Then in their bio they write 'no hookups' of something similar. I always think bullshit, you photos suggest you are only here to be fucked. I have had ons with girls who have no hookups in their bio.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/17 06:38 AM
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I have dated 2 Asians and they behaved AWALT from my experience. There was another post of here a few days ago specifically about Asian women and it highlighted a lot of red flags. I think unfortunately they are not the diamond in the rough and I personally have lost hope in them being the alternative to western women.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:13 PM
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Interesting point about how she probably has a guy already in mind that she wants to fuck. Is this often the case like you say? The way I interpreted it is that the girl expects to find a guy willing to fuck her, I mean it is easy for a girl to get laid. Therefore she doesn't need to have anyone in mind, she can just load up tinder and find a guy the same day. So, therefore she may be more sincere in this than wanting to fuck Chad from work.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 07:58 PM
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Outsiders will call us mysognists, sexists, cynical etc. But the fact is that TRP understands human nature. This subreddit has so much value. The truth hurts but that doesn't mean we should deny it like so many other people in this world.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 02:08 PM
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Wow, so the faint hope that Asian girls would be a solution to Western women is crushed if this is true. Personally I have dated 2 Asian girls and I agree they fuck you over. In my experience it is easy for a girl to go from loving you and being super sweet to not giving a single shit about you once they lose interest. Also the South East Asian girl cheated on me. I called her out on it, she denied it, I contacted the guy she fucked and she told me that she said to him that she was single and th…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 05:45 PM
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I understand but some things are done which improve the relationship for example if in past relationships you had big arguments and got very angry and saw how it did not work to be that aggressive and then you learn from this and in the next relationship. Something's will improve for the next guy, some things will be worse.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 12:46 PM
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Interesting. From my experience (2 relationships), I learn a lot from each and I think I would improve going into each subsequent one.
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 12:32 PM
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Experiencing something first had definitely helps you understand it more than just reading about someone elses experiences. Sometimes it is easy to not fully appreciate something someone has said on here and find excuses to dismiss it "he must have been unlucky", "my girl wouldn't do that" etc. unless you can relate to it in your own experience.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:52 PM
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They also sing about how much they want to get fucked.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 04:47 PM
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Interesting, I am in my early 20s and have been thinking about this recently. If society stays the same I do not intend to get married, and I think I am okay without having children as they cause a lot of stress in a relationship and limit your freedom. Maybe in non-Western countries you can find women who are worth the risk?
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 11:37 PM
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As we know, this is of course an American centric view point. For those who are interested I suggest you read the Global Terrorism Index 2015 (http://economicsandpeace.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/11/Global-Terrorism-Index-2015.pdf) This shows the extent of Islamic terrorism worldwide. Page 38 & 39 of the report shows that the top 5 deadliest terror groups were all Islamic and they are responsible for 74% of all deaths from terrorism in 2014 and that this is increasing. There are other interestin…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/17 11:30 PM
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Number count. How many different people you have had sex with.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:32 AM
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Subjectively it is hard compared to being female. You have to eat well, exercise hard, be born with good genes (good looking, tall etc.) and have good social skills. An average girl has it was simpler. Just don't be fat and they get laid, easy.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:23 AM
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Over $1million for being raped (imaging it happened)? Rape is terrible, but seriously, isn't this payout excessive?
/r/TheRedPill24/02/17 04:04 AM
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Hahaha :)
/r/askTRP17/02/17 02:27 AM
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Great except why did you suggest a resturant date? Did you have intention to go the resturant? Restaurants are bad date ideas I think.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 10:50 PM
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Bullshit. I have read your post history. You claim to be a professor yet also claim you have no university education. Now you claim you are homeless despite being a professor which I guess is a well paid job among other bullshit claims.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/17 03:01 AM
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If this is true then it makes a very sad outcome to life. I am certain I would be cheated on but I do not want that. I want to experience love but I do not think a loyal loving relationship is possible anymore.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/17 11:40 PM
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I think more intelligent people will recognise your vagueness for vagueness and not something profound.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/17 06:11 AM
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Yes, try again and if she asks why you did not ask her to stay the first time then tell her you had mixed feelings on relationships with work colleagues as you take your work seriously.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 11:54 PM
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Don't confuse physical appearance with alpha mindset. Sure, physically superior dudes are more likely to be confident and alpha but being alpha is a mindset.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 06:39 PM
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Maybe I am inexperienced but I dumped my ex gf of over a year over he blatant lies and never admitting to the truth of things which seems so obvious. I thought she had compulsive lying or something. She would chat with guys online, recieve dick pics and claim they were just friends. Shit like this.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 07:52 AM
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Based off your experiences and my own I think Tinder has a lot of low quality girls. Some might look nice but ultimately they have some sort of problem, usually psychologically in my experience. Best result off tinder I ever got was meeting my ex gf who I dated for over a year. She was amazing in many ways but I ended up dumping her because she was a compulsive liar and I had zero trust in her. Tinder is easy and takes less courage than asking for dates in person but I imagine the girls are on t…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 12:07 AM
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Agreed. Multiple venues is good advice.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 11:37 PM
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