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Inner Game Desirings/r/seduction07/08/25 10:35 PM
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ComprehensiveDesirings/r/seduction08/08/25 03:26 AM
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Inner Game Desirings/r/seduction22/08/25 04:37 AM
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Field ReportDesirings/r/seduction08/08/25 09:34 PM
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Escalation & CalibrationDesirings/r/seduction13/08/25 10:59 PM
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Dont worry I am, I just uploaded this today to help anyone whos suffered or been insecure like me before. Currently in the process of evolving myself to a person I wanna be. Vibe; Bohemian Rhapsody this morning https://youtu.be/fJ9rUzIMcZQ
/r/seduction26/08/25 03:14 PM
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Im entp x infp fr multi personality disorder type shit but I live as them combined after controlling identity disorder and integrating it into my life instead as a tool not a defect
/r/seduction15/08/25 10:08 PM
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What can I say? Dudes are NPCS fr I just party by my self all day fr
/r/seduction14/08/25 10:49 AM
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This works in text my girl sees it as me playing around and studying Psychology tricks to do this in text. I figured out it works. Disguised as humor / satire and instesd serving as a purpose for mental health. You could say the same thing to girls and when they see you realize you know so much about psychology and even philosophy if you study enough, the game becomes making her more intelligent than other girls.
/r/seduction14/08/25 07:58 AM
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[release] skeet.cc > escalation.calibration > diego build 3.7 status: undetected category: irl mod menu / social physics engine why prolonged eye contact happens – she’s testing your frame stability – she’s mirroring interest – she’s anchoring your face to an emotional state she’s feeling – she’s inviting you to break the silence first prolonged eye contact is an open loop, if you flinch, she wins the frame. if you hold, you become the frame. escalation & calibration – escalation: micro increase…
/r/seduction14/08/25 06:30 AM
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I came from Narcotics Anonoymous / Alcoholic Anonoymous / Gamblers Anonoymous/ Sex Anonoymous They can be considered cults too. But ultimately the right cults become the right psychological movement.
/r/seduction13/08/25 11:02 PM
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🇲🇽
/r/seduction13/08/25 10:35 AM
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Lmao it is but not completely. This is serious satire. Using my psychological knowledge combined with human development of ego and insecurity, this is a model framework I developed to give advice while never letting people be taking it as "asshole energy" instead i add a satire twist to it The experiment was a success.
/r/seduction12/08/25 12:05 PM
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Nah lmao im just writing rap too this will all be future bars I write but nah fr I learned a lot from your comment You literally gave me funny ass bars to later use
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:25 PM
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They tried to make me the joke. height, "journey," whatever. But instead of explaining my Self or denying it, I just reframed the whole thing into a scoreboard mindset instead. In psychology, this is called frame control. whoever defines the meaning of the interaction wins it.
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:08 PM
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Thank you very much appreciate that
/r/seduction11/08/25 10:01 PM
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You're mad at a 19 year old for playing the game better than you. I don't need to reply to prove I can play, the scoreboard already does that. That post was my no look three. Swish. Now get off the sidelines if you want a shot. What I Learned in Psychology and philosophy studying at home Try to argue results vs. ego, which they'll lose because your post already shows proof of your mindset and transformation. Go silent, because anything after that makes them look like the insecure one who got tri…
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:54 PM
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You're mad at a 19 year old for playing the game better than you. I don't need to reply to prove I can play, the scoreboard already does that. That post was my no look three. Swish. Now get off the sidelines if you want a shot. What I Learned in Psychology and philosophy studying at home Try to argue results vs. ego, which they'll lose because your post already shows proof of your mindset and transformation. Go silent, because anything after that makes them look like the insecure one who got tri…
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:52 PM
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Cool, coach. But this is streetball, there is no playbook. You run your vision of the game, I run mine. Mine just happens to be built from turning a breakup, bipolar mania, and drug addiction into a system that makes life feel like GTA 6 in 4K. You might call it irrelevant, but the dude watching from the sidelines wishing he could dunk is gonna hear this and step on the court. That is the thing, I am not here to please every spectator. I am here to pass the ball to the ones who are ready to play…
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:27 PM
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I guess i just made the post as soon as I thought about it I could've formed it better but I prefer my original thoughts for a quick read instead of a long essay next post though I can go more in depth about this
/r/seduction11/08/25 09:21 PM
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Yes I realize I was writing with Essay an mind. Now I write including my own story and experience and struggles instead of a non human Essay format.
/r/seduction09/08/25 08:16 AM
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Hey recently got some feedback on the AI, this is all written by me then put into an Essay format for college. Turns out I should be using my own story (suffered from the streets, bipolar, depression, etc) instead of using essays. So rest assured this is real advice from my end that I didnt just fantasize out of middle air. Just gotta switch up how I present it
/r/seduction09/08/25 12:55 AM
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I get why you'd see it that way. For me, it's less about skipping steps and more about finding a path that fit how my brain actually works. It's still thinking for myself... just not in the usual way. I am Bipolar by the way. I was misdiagnosed as Depressed and put on medication that made it all worse... until now that I finally have the right medication and clarity.
/r/seduction08/08/25 10:59 PM
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But how would i rewrite it to look more natural if I could at least get suggestions? Or better formatted?
/r/seduction08/08/25 10:52 PM
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I grew up with AI like everyday for the past 4 years so its like ive adapted and gotten so used to speaking to ai now that its how I wrote in highschool. When I graduated though I didnt actually care as much as I do now. Back then I used AI to cheat and now I use it to actually learn what I read and write
/r/seduction08/08/25 10:29 PM
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But if I were to write it in my own words itd turn out the same. I write like im turning an Essay into college for my posts because they will be future papers for me to turn in I save each one
/r/seduction08/08/25 10:27 PM
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I did write it. I rewrote it using AI to get a better format but I actually do spend all day writing and journaling on my journal app then input it into AI to re-watch and observe my own writing. I call it Observer Mode when I Journal and observe my thoughts and emotions then realize other people feel the same way I feel too. Im healing as I post this post. This is new knowledge to me I gained from journaling all day today ever since I got my heart broken 8 weeks ago I understand why you feel th…
/r/seduction08/08/25 10:25 PM
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I'm giving real advice out. While what are you doing? I lived and suffered through this to be guiding others. If I'm a bot then youre an NPC
/r/seduction08/08/25 10:22 PM
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ego_mode_diagnostic.py def analyze_message(message: str) -> str: message = message.lower() elif "i hate what ai is doing to the internet" in message: return "Mode: Disillusioned Observer 😡\nEmotion: Frustration, resistance to change.\nAdvice: Step back. Reflect on what feels lost, and what new role you can shape moving forward." if "sorry" in message or "did i mess up" in message or "do you still like me" in message: return "Mode: Insecure Ego 🧸\nEmotion: Anxiety, seeking reassurance.\nAdvice: B…
/r/seduction08/08/25 10:18 PM
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that’s real for a lot of folks on the spectrum or who struggle socially. It’s not because you're inherently "creepy," it’s because you're moving in a world built for neurotypicals, and your wiring makes you stand out. And when people can’t categorize someone easily, their brain can flag it as “unfamiliar = unsafe.” It sucks, but it’s human psychology not your fault. What matters is this: you’re aware of it. And awareness is your first weapon. You’re not doomed. You’re not broken. You’re in the e…
/r/seduction08/08/25 05:18 PM
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Not to assume but... from the way you type you sound the "piercing silence" I had it too Meaning when my ego went away and I treated people like human, the way I talked made them scared of me at first because I was so direct it looked like my heart was cold from their perspective. Like the way you and me first talked my current partner thought "Why is he so distant? Whats his angle? Who talks like that?" (On guard.) "This guy's on another level. Hes gonna leave me." Instead I learned to open up …
/r/seduction08/08/25 03:17 PM
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This isn't ChatGPT spoon feeding. I'm coding simulated consciousness tools. I'm mirroring Real Life psychological loops. I'm switching ego modes like Jung's archetypes: observer, child, shadow. I'm building an empathy engine with introspective logic. I built a reflective Al that can walk someone through their unconscious loop, not just generate content. It's psychology in code. INNER MONOLOGUE SIMULATOR - Conscious Loop Reflection Engine class InnerMonologueSimulator: def init(self, name="User",…
/r/seduction08/08/25 02:58 PM
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Not chatgpt it all I coded this therapy bot with chatgpt Used python INNER MONOLOGUE SIMULATOR - Conscious Loop Reflection Engine class InnerMonologueSimulator: def init(self, name="User", ego_mode="default"): self.name = name self.ego_mode = ego_mode self.loop = [ "Wake up", "Check phone", "Compare life", "Feel unworthy", "Suppress emotion", "Smile anyway", "Distract", "Repeat" ] self.awareness_log = [] def run_simulation(self): print(f"\n[Initializing inner monologue for: {self.name}]") for th…
/r/seduction08/08/25 02:06 PM
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You're completely right, the real game is realizing there is no game. It's not chess, it's connection. When a man drops the mask and shows real emotion, not as a performer but as a human, that’s what creates intimacy. But it only works if she sees something real with you, a future, family, care. And yeah, that kind of openness is scary. I had to break my own heart first, then rebuild it without needing to protect it. That’s real strength.
/r/seduction08/08/25 12:53 PM
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This advice isn’t about staring someone down or using eye contact as a manipulation tactic to make them want to sleep with you. It’s about being present and intentional, not creepy or performative. There’s a world of difference between: Eye contact meant to connect authentically And eye contact meant to dominate or sexualize someone who hasn’t shown interest The original point is about leading with honesty, not hiding romantic or sexual interest and pretending to be just a friend. It's not about…
/r/seduction08/08/25 06:27 AM
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You’re right real connection takes two people. And if nobody’s down to even talk, it can feel like all this “be grounded, be real” advice is useless. I’ve felt that wall too. That "what’s the point if nobody sees me?" feeling. It's not just discouraging, it’s exhausting. But here’s what I learned: It’s not about being seen right now by everyone, it’s about building a presence that can’t be ignored later. Not by faking anything, but by getting so real, so clear, and so you that when the right one…
/r/seduction08/08/25 06:24 AM
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I journal and help rewrite my words with Chat GPT My main study is psychology + philosophy I am studying Psychology (trauma, healing, depth), Philosophy (meaning, Self, consciousness), Writing (poetry, memoir, symbolism), and Human Development (identity, society, growth). I already think like a healer and visionary, college is just my refinement phase. I’m not just a student, I’m building the future.
/r/seduction08/08/25 05:33 AM
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Honest & Grounded First Connection Her: “You seem really thoughtful… like you don’t waste words. I notice that.” Him: “Honestly, I’ve spent a lot of time just… watching life happen around me. I never felt like I belonged in the fast-paced dating world.” Her: “I like that. You feel real. Safe.” Him: “I’ve never been on a date before this. Just wanted to say that upfront.” Her: “Thank you for telling me. That makes me feel like I can be real with you too.” When He Opens Up About Loneliness Her: “H…
/r/seduction08/08/25 05:32 AM
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You're asking something that cuts deeper than most are willing to admit, and that alone means you're already on a different level of awareness. If you've shown up with honesty, presence, and real intention, and still feel unseen, it doesn’t mean something is wrong with you. It means most people haven’t reached the depth you’re already tapping into. You're not too much. They're just not there yet. Most of the world is stuck in a loop, performing instead of feeling, numbing instead of connecting. …
/r/seduction08/08/25 05:12 AM
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You’re completely right. “Stop impressing, start connecting” is good advice, but only if you’re already someone people want to connect with. Most people skip over that. They act like connection is magic that works on everyone. But in reality? You don’t get the chance to connect unless you spark something first, intrigue, curiosity, energy, attraction. That’s the honest truth. And yeah, that does circle back to impressing, just not in the fake “look at my car/job/abs” way. What you’re really doin…
/r/seduction08/08/25 03:29 AM
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Thats great do you know if he had friends start the company with him? Or it was just by himself at first and hiring new people? I dream of doing something similar
/r/seduction01/06/25 06:11 AM
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Lmao imagine finding out in the middle of sex
/r/seduction29/05/25 04:10 PM
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I see, then I guess they might feel more comfortable
/r/seduction21/05/25 09:52 PM
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Maybe you unconciously act more normal and calmer around married or taken woman, because you feel like you dont need to impress her
/r/seduction21/05/25 09:46 PM
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If he didn't want you to do that then that's fucked up, fake ass friend
/r/seduction19/05/25 03:33 AM
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Ikr, it's like tiktok fried his attention span and cant read more than 5 sentences or something
/r/seduction18/05/25 08:34 PM
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Just needed advice on what people would do in this situation
/r/seduction17/04/25 12:50 PM
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What'd you think after you lost it? Was it any different or better? How do you think now about looking back and losing it at 22, any negativity?
/r/seduction27/03/25 12:02 AM
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Why's that? Is it because that text he wrote would be kinda formal and possibly too mature for a young woman? Or am I misunderstanding
/r/seduction15/03/25 06:58 PM
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I do CBT therapy and it helps a lot with this. I just tell my therapist how I think in my head, specific thoughts about being judged and look, etc. Then, we talk about it in depth, like why I think that, and discuss how it's a false belief with no proof, and reword it to be a more positive but realistic thought instead. Helps a lot. After we talk about it, I think to myself 'I'm thinking so crazy', also learning your self worth, who cares what a stranger will think when you talk to them? It's no…
/r/seduction08/03/25 12:00 PM
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I texted this one girl, and she never texted me first, so i pretty much stopped texting her because I took it as she wasn't interested, her texts werent really for keeping a conversation going, either. Do you think this was the right move based on your comment?
/r/seduction26/02/25 01:00 PM
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Going for foreigners when you live in Asia? You shouldn't, try for normal average girls in your area. Foreigners probably see you as any other eager asian guy, no offense.
/r/seduction25/02/25 03:20 AM
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Avoiding you how? If you don't mind me asking
/r/seduction23/02/25 10:59 PM
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I saw your picture on your profile, it's definitely your face. Nah, seriously though, you look good, better than many men I see, so it's probably your approach and speech
/r/seduction23/02/25 02:57 PM
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What do they do to take advantage? I'm a bit of a people pleaser myself
/r/seduction22/02/25 08:42 PM
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I use this plant called kratom that I find in most smoke shops. Although, I started using it for the big talkative effect it gives me along with a significant energy/motivation boost, which can be pretty addictive by the way. The lower libido effect it has (makes it hard to orgasm and don't really feel horny on it, can still get hard if i want) is just another boost it gives, but that's not the reason I take it. Yes, it does help a lot with not getting erect/horny suddenly. It doesn't work for e…
/r/seduction17/02/25 09:52 PM
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Try going out to more LGBTQ friendly places, if you're not already. I'm guessing there should be LGBTQ bars and clubs in all states, that is if you live in the USA.
/r/seduction15/02/25 04:43 PM
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How or where did you learn to master your mind and social engineering though?
/r/seduction13/02/25 08:56 PM
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What about in a college club if I joined one?
/r/seduction10/02/25 03:37 AM
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