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DetroitLou/r/RedPillWomen15/09/21 06:08 AM
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DetroitLou/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 06:09 AM
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Hook up culture is over stated a bit. Most women don't want to be pumped and dumped and take steps to avoid it. But they are off the market sooner than later. Meaning that if you are single man in your late 30s.....you will probably need to date younger to find that pool of women who have not been scooped up yet. I personally know few men who can't get laid and getting laid is not really a metric for much. Sex is very cheap, so that does not convey the meat and potatoes of the social situation. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 09:28 PM
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You can't take one aspect of a bygone era and shoehorn it into modern culture. I agree that most women could benefit by finding stable relationships and possibly marriage earlier in life to some degree. But we have devalued marriage a lot. So...who knows. But we can't go back to puritan society in one aspect and not have all the supporting cast. With how isolated people are today versus then, you don't have the structure for people to be married early. Parents would vet potential mates through s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 02:34 PM
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Yes, but as I have been dating for a significant amount of time I have found that is common and self awareness, therapy and introspection is not. Not to bash women or anything. But, if you date a lot and are a somewhat stable male.....you will come across a lot of women who need to be fixed before they are capable of a long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:23 PM
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I have the option to have sex without promising marriage first. Some of us do have that option you know.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 12:20 PM
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But you cite nothing.....not to mention it is counter to common fucking sense lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:34 AM
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So, you are full of shit and you know it.....ahh
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:33 AM
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Is that why women have seen record anti-depressant usage over the past 10 to 12 years? Is that also why women now survey as feeling worse than they did in the 1970's? ​ Get out in the real world a bit as well, single women over the age of 37 / 40 years old are not the happiest group on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:33 AM
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I had a female friend years ago that a slept with on her birthday remark that she should not have done that with me even after we stayed friends. Most recent ex would bring it up, that she never intended to have sex with me so "soon" but it was over a month after our first date.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 06:30 AM
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Well, acting like you can't have a balance of all the above is absurd. This is like the reflection of feminism. Be a strong powerful successful women who needs no man. Do we not see how that has worked out for the other side? Humans are not solitary creatures. There is no joy in doing shit for yourself forever. There is no prize at the end if you created everything and share it with nobody. Be a balanced individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:49 AM
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Here is what's interesting. Many women already evoke shame from having sex if you bed them "earlier" than they anticipated. So, we actually already experience that when we inadvertently make a women feel "slutty". Some women actually don't let this go and make it a point of contention for a while inside the relationship. So, i have sometimes been made to feel ashamed that i was so successful with my partner....go figure. But, would not change a thing lol Side note, there are plenty of guys who s…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/21 05:44 AM
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Fuck off, stop being an angry twat.
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 07:05 AM
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Don't be a clown. I was asking about the NATURE of desire. It had nothing to do with me. But, sure buddy. I'm not in a fucked up marriage and i don't have any of the issues you are here for. You have an Imposter Alpha mindset. lol You seem like you try so hard to "not care" that its made you a bitter sounding prick. You can establish boundaries with women but still understand that you should probably wear a nice cologne and clean under your finger nails to attract high quality women. Men who "ge…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 04:28 AM
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Bullshit, you are not in any one women's frame for understand what generally attracts women. "The Frame" is about interpersonal relationships not women as a whole. That's great, I'm happy for you. But, deep down you do it because you hope it makes you more attractive to women. You are lying if you say you don't
/r/MarriedRedPill17/09/21 01:13 AM
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Who said every woman? When you are an alpha imposter that's the logic you roll with. Men who attract women constantly care about what women think about them. That's why they look good, smell good and drive expensive cars. Alpha men probably care more than a slob on the street that has given up attracting a quality women. Stop deluding yourself.
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 09:05 PM
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Not giving a shit does not magically make you more desirable
/r/MarriedRedPill16/09/21 06:12 PM
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Why do you keep speaking in absolute terms. Nobody said they don't want women to work, yes feed yourself before you meet me. Yes contribute when the kids are in school anyway and you have nothing else to do but sit at home. Nobody has a problem with that lol. Child custody determines who pays the majority of the money. No women is getting her kids taken from her. So even if you do keep more than your fair share of the assets. You are the only one paying child support In the end.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/21 12:43 AM
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Not quite making sense. Women are called gold diggers when they focus on sack chasing as a standard method in dealing with men. Women who sell their souls for money by chasing a specific type of man. Thats a gold digger. A women who pulls down 50K a year and wants her man to make more than that is not a sack chaser. Because more than likely, that's not her only criteria for what a good mate looks like.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:16 PM
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You flipped the logic. Men don't care about your career....it does not make you more attractive. Women want rich men, but that's a small portion of the population. So you have a large number of women jumping to the head of the line to get a rich man and most will not succeed. Men are saying that the obsession to chase wealthy men is unhealthy. You could have a marriage and a family if your standards we more in line with reality. Basically guys are getting passed over by women chasing a ghost.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 07:12 PM
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Maybe you should take your own advice for this very thread? The point is to facilitate discussion about the topic Are you guys really just a bunch of sexless angry fucks or what?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 02:52 PM
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Nah, if she does not like you already its too late.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 02:50 PM
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Its not about validation, don't be a twat. Its about a discussion on the topic
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 02:49 PM
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Because thinking is a lost art?
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 01:57 PM
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Well, is it not both? The desire to have a business has many goals along the way to reach the end point you desire. A marriage dies without sex, so if you don't want to sleep with your husband but you desire a marriage.....something would need to change. It seems to be best described as an emotion that seeks change.
/r/MarriedRedPill15/09/21 06:36 AM
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What are you on? I'm saying you ask the questions and most women don't have an answer
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:56 AM
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You ask these questions on the first date in various ways, you don't know her so you have to ask to see her value beyond sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:05 AM
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Read what I said again. She wants to have sex, yes.....but she thinks it the only thing she has or needs to do to keep a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:04 AM
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Men are aware of all that you said. But, if you ask women they will say that looks are not everything, they will say that money is not everything. Guys have believed that and thus get frustrated when they see these things do matter to an extent. My point is that they don't matter as much as men think they do. Women are not good sources of information when it comes to dating from a male perspective. Those women are shallow, to base getting to know someone simply on one attribute is a bit shallow.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/21 04:02 AM
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Nah, not really A women that is sexually attracted to you basically considers sex the only thing she needs to do and most men foolishly accept such low hanging fruit. When you as women what is their contribution to the relationship besides sex, they always stutter.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/21 07:08 AM
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No, guys are clearly aware that attractiveness plays a part....money plays a part. They don't deny that at all. The women are happy with all of everything they mentioned, but will complain about his behavior. Women never say...."oh he is just so good looking it turns me off". Women will say, he didn't treat me right.....he didn't respect me....he cheated on me. It's his actions that the women will say is why the grew up and moved on to more than just looks. Like I said before, guys are not being…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/21 05:05 AM
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You fucking use buzzfeed as a source? Stop clowning yourself. The women was BLACKED OUT the entire time. She only remembers coming to the party and nothing after that. What she knows is what she had no memory of the entire situation. So how could I call her a liar? Everything she knows she was told by the police early in the investigation. Which was too early to have all the statements and evidence. Find the actual police reports Find the actual witness statements. The men said they could not co…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 07:45 PM
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Yes I am and that's exactly how it happened directly from witness statements and police reports. They were headed back to his apartment, both were beyond black out drunk. They fell into some bushes behind a garbage bin. The girl remembers nothing. The men that "ran to her rescue" didn't see anything except him near or on top of her. When they hollered at him he ran. There was only digital penetration. Which is only know because HE ADMITTED IT. Had he kept his mouth closed this would have never b…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 06:02 PM
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When I was 18 dating older guys, guys in their mid-late 20s, and I would hear “those guys are only dating younger girls because they can’t get girls their own age,” I chalked it up to jealousy. These old washed up girls are just jealous men went younger girls. “They want a young girl because she’s easier to manipulate, girls with less experience won’t see the red flags,” oh sure, they’re just mad they wasted their youth and couldn’t lock down a guy. You are actually correct here. ​ Also it’s men…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 04:00 AM
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Thats how that one swimming guy got charged. They both were drunk and going to his apartment to hook up. She blacked out and he was too fucked up to realize and fingered her.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:43 AM
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But, who has been telling men that being "nice" is the way to attract a women? Its because men want to be told the truth and reliable actionable information. Women have said "be nice" "be a gentleman" "money and looks are not everything". The frustration comes when guys try the above and get no results. They feel lied to. But, men have always and forever said the same thing, be as close to a 10 as possible and if you have a good personality its an added plus.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/21 03:37 AM
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