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| 5 | Women have ruined cold approachingTherefore, is the only solid advice women could ironically come to a consensus about this (since there’s no way to get the opinions of every legal aged woman on the planet) to be respectful and tactful of the time, place, circumstances, keep it short and sweet and direct and be willing to walk away respectfully and peacefully at any point in time during the interaction (and leave her a slip with my number so she doesn’t feel forced to interact regarding phone numbers/social media)? This is the k… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/26 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Bumble is proof that women have to been taught to be very lazy when it comes to courtshipRecognized I was kiiinda letting my standards slip. Not ugly at all but didn’t take care of herself. We still interact on Instagram. Whenever she decides to start losing weight I’ll make my move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/03/26 03:14 PM |
| 4 | Bumble is proof that women have to been taught to be very lazy when it comes to courtship<image> I 2nd this comment . Keep in mind she initiated the conversation about constellations and shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/03/26 02:46 AM |
| – | Men who claim that women are the most attractive from 18 to 25, what stops you from finding 17 year old girls attractive?If you’re gonna throw the P word around, use it correctly. Given the context of OPs posts, the kinda people YOU’RE talking about are Ephebophiles, people attracted to typically aged 15-19 individuals. P3Ds usually are attracted to prepubescents like ages 7-12. Also, don’t engage in the attraction = label part if it doesn’t reach across multiple spectrums of criminality . I’m not a criminal for thinking about hypothetically blasting my neighbor with a shotgun. I can think about it all I want, it’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/26 10:27 AM |
| 3 | Dating women is SIGNIFICANTLY harder than dating menThe only thing that’ll annoy me is women feigning ignorance that dating women is easy (or easier in comparison) . Like, this many of you cannot believe this bullshit lmaoo. They HAVE to know they’re harder to date. So why even fuckin pretend like that’s not the case | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/01/26 07:50 AM |
| 3 | Regarding Cold Approaches, location doesn’t matter much tbh.In the middle where I said my opinion is that essentially listening to women’s advice about location isn’t as helpful (detrimental if you ask me) as listening to advice on the approach itself. So the debate should be whether that’s a valid point of contention against location being listed as a reason not to approach by women, for women. My bad if I didn’t really express that super clearly . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 12 | Women clown on lonely men for turning to porn, but are also hostile to the idea of men going out and approaching themExactly. If you look at Instagram or YouTube for example, you might be convinced women are open to being approached at the gym, at least in the correct manner and timing. I literally asked here a few months ago and majority of the comments from women say DONT DO IT LEAVE US ALONE WE COME HERE TO WORK OUT. You can’t do shit without upsetting women , so if you’re gonna do it then be kind, be willing to walk away if you feel the enthusiasm isn’t reciprocated, don’t take it personal, and just talk t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/12/25 11:37 PM |
| 2 | Women are much more naive than menThis isn’t gonna end well | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:24 PM |
| 15 | Why do men want to go to places with hot women if these hot women will reject them?This post is essentially a “stay in your league” rhetoric ass post. Which is odd considering most of the women on this sub would suggest leagues are “relative “ and that you still have a chance if your personality is likable, humorous, fun even. Theres a little bit of truth in both sides , people (both men and women) need to know when they’re shooting above their pay grade (whether it’s cuz you don’t have money to date in general, the other person has their life together more than you, vast diff… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 12:02 AM |
| 4 | How attractive are the men who cold approach you?Even conventionally attractive men don’t get approached that often, oddly enough a lotta women are cowards lmaoo. Maybe thrown a compliment, maybe they’ll make it really easy to continue the conversation, they’ll for damn sure glance at you from a distance sending you mystical brain waves from 5 feet away with no real reason to interact hoping that you’ll say something TO THEM, but not outright approached unless something about you (or a combination of traits) physically is so outstanding that t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 02:28 PM |
| 20 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?Outta curiosity, how many women do you think you’re speaking for right now? Cuz this conversation is had literally every day on this sub, and a lot of women say they’re open to being approached if you’re the right level of attractiveness, the conversation is good, the atmosphere is low stakes, and it doesn’t seem strained with the focus on results like getting her social media or phone number and more about talking to the person as a person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:58 PM |
| 26 | "Women make it obvious if they're into you" they don't lolThat does absolutely fucking nothing. Like oh wow, you’re within 6 feet of me at a Starbucks, book store, Walmart, anywhere in public where you can expect to not be the only person within a certain amount of space. That honestly is really infuriating. Quite literally all you need is a wave and full teeth smile from a distance. Come on dude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/25 07:17 PM |
| 6 | Why do straight women say dating women would be “easier”? Even though it's notPart of what I think fuels the lack of a barrier of sympathy for the other gender is the fact that we men don’t think we are hard to satisfy, most women seemingly acknowledge that women are complex and don’t look to try and ….change that or do anything about it to make it easier to date them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/09/25 10:12 PM |
| 2 | Women frame their own toxic behaviors as harmless while condemning men’sWell, there’s an entire half of the human experience you don’t have to worry about, which is making or finding a career or field of work that can not only sufficiently pay for a single adult with their own responsibilities (be it credit card bills, student loans, car payments, etc whatever), now make enough to do that for an entirely separate adult human being with wants and needs (being you the mother ), groceries, mortgage/rent, utilities, then oh of course 1-3, potentially 4 little snot nosed… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/25 04:05 PM |
| 16 | It's so exhausting to be with ANY man (even the good ones)9/10 ragebait | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 06:05 AM |
| 13 | CMV: Consent is sexyLike approaching women at the gym? Plenty of women are gonna say either don’t do it at all, do it with certain social cues in mind like don’t if they’re in the middle of a set, and others say only do it when they give “the look”, which can be interpreted 50 fuckin different ways before I come to the conclusion that you’re attracted to me and would welcome a conversation from me. I’m gonna make a post to see what women have to say about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/06/25 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?It’s such a polarizing thing dude. I’m on my solo journey for the most part now (been in the gym and improved my diet significantly since mid February and lost 30ish lbs, focused on my money and getting debt erased), but when I still try to semi-engage with women of possible interest, I do have to employ those douchey tactics. Not texting back often enough, giving off “untouchable cuz I’m busy” energy , keeping my interest in the visible neutral (as in they can’t tell if I’m actually interested … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 03:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Would you date a woman who took "How to talk to men" classes?Definitely wouldn’t mind. The X factor is that she truly went out of her way to take CLASSES to learn how to do this. That has to account for something even with originally terrible social skills. The intent and effort made matters. That means she really wants to improve her skills and even get to know or care about how we function as a species. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/25 03:23 AM |
| 11 | If you had a son and had to choose between two futures for him, would you rather he be tall & good-looking, sexually successful, but misogynistic, OR short & unattractive, romantically unsuccessful, but respectful toward women?I doubt he created this opinion but I want your thoughts on what Rapper T.I said about chivalry and misogyny, essentially saying they’re the same things but from different viewpoints. Chivalry being a man doing xyz activity (such as digging with a shovel to place plants) because women don’t need to dirty their hands with the hard dirty work when a man is there to take care of it , vs misogyny being “I don’t want her digging the hole for the plant because she as a woman can’t do it right”. What’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/25 06:11 AM |
| – | How do men view sex?It all depends on how much you personally value it. That’s what it really boils down to plain and simple. As the previous replier said, it’s one of the purest forms of intimacy. You may value non sexual intimacy much more and you’re entirely entitled to that. But many women value sex highly as well. It’s one of the things that determines the difference between a strong friendship and an actual romantic relationship. OP please don’t take this the wrong way either, but please find yourself an asex… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/25 02:13 PM |
| 3 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.Right. Women have the friend zone, men have the sex zone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.Ehh kinda depends on how sex deprived they are, or just how bad they wanna fuck you. I’m a very good looking guy myself but I’m pretty introverted naturally and a homebody. Not that I can’t bloom when I want to, but I don’t really go outta my way to meet ppl. I just go to work, the gym, my college classes and go home Lol. I have to make myself go out and have a good time or else I’d stay in the house all the time. My point in saying that is that I don’t get too many sexual partners cuz I don’t g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Men use deception, not straightforward lies, to maintain casual sexual relationships. Deception is just as harmful as lying.In my opinion the difference is that most women don’t have anything to gain from being deceptive in casual sexual relationships or to get such a thing. What does a lady have to gain lying to two concurrent sexual partners that they’re the only one she’s having sex with? Most of the time the guy will be okay with it as long as you’re sexually safe or just with him AND the other guy, and if guy 1 isn’t cool with it? Okay. Cool. Guy 2 may be okay with it as long as she doesn’t bring any STDs back a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/25 12:32 AM |
| -2 | Marriage Is Clearly Illogical for Men Given The StatisticsIt’s really that fucking simple dude. Like it’s amazing we’ve evolved so much in 2000 years into a society that still has children outta wedlock en masse. A loving marriage between a mother and father is one of the best things in the world you can give a child. That’s their first display of how genders are supposed to interact, coexist, show respect and love, there’s no downsides to that. From a statistics standpoint, children born into loving family, mutually desired by both parents and raised … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/25 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Being likable does not mean being sexually attractive.…why wouldn’t you ask female family members how to be sexy, appeal to a guy, whatever? Women have the added benefit of likely not filtering the truth because on the male side, they’d rather (whether intentional or not) tell boys growing into men methods of a morally upstanding gentlemen instead of telling them how to get laid with the passive, morally grey or negative aspect of the human interaction like lying, gaslighting , manipulative thinking, all types of other methods guys use to their adv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/25 03:24 AM |
| 0 | Would you volunteer dirt on your EX for money?Question, why do people reply to the ModBot? I’ve never understood the purpose ??😅😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/25 09:38 PM |
| – | Attractive man have lots of situationshipI believe he means less frustrating . Situationships are perceived as more fun cuz there’s nothing guaranteed, like they’re truly the definition of day by day changes, but they’re also more frustrating cuz nothing is set in stone, guaranteed, and boundaries are either ignored or put away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/24 10:56 PM |
| – | Women don’t actually want to be invisible, they just want selective attention.6”2, dark and (reportedly, I don’t believe it myself if you ask me) handsome, muscular frame, admittedly frequent anger issues regarding the job. Though, on the bright side, when the job isn’t being ridiculous I can be pretty entertaining regarding holding a conversation , being charismatic and shit. 90% of my female coworkers in my age range (19-28 as I’m 23) like me in one way or another. One just liked me on bumble earlier actually . This is quite easy because I’m literally just being myself,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/24 02:02 AM |
| 3 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateI’m genuinely curious what your response is to the reply by Ghostrider579, because I do agree that romantic relationships may not be for you if 100% compatibility is what you’re looking for. No doubt it exists in 1 of 8 Billion people, but you’re unlikely to come across them in that lifetime by those odds. Sticking to those odds would ironically be as close to delusional as possible depending on what those standards are. If it’s as simple as be in shape, have an outgoing personality , and be abl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 06:17 AM |
| 4 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?I’d assume OP means libraries , coffee shops, public but in an area where people usually operate independently and for their own reasons, at most the local mall . Personally I do question sometimes why women go to night clubs, bars, whatever if they aren’t at least open to the idea of the right guy saying hello for whatever motives he has. This is separate from OPs post, if you could share your response on this, since you’re pretty active on this sub. “I’m going out just to have fun with my girl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/24 11:58 PM |
| 3 | Would you take back someone who ghosted you?Clearly this person wants to run with a narrative, I’d say let them if it gives them some sorta mental solace to have that opinion of men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/09/24 09:21 AM |
| 9 | More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and datingThat is such a weird, biased response. So because a lesbian knows how difficult dating women can be, THEY are the problematic one ? The jokes write themselves folks, this one sent Dave Chapelle outta business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 07:14 AM |
| 16 | More women need to practice what they preach when it comes to sex and datingIt is very interesting how even lesbians will admit dating women can be difficult and complicated to the point that they don’t necessarily blame men on the feelings and attitudes they have towards dating women . They really are the unsung heroes of having a guys back ironically . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/08/24 06:39 AM |
| 8 | Do you think men not caring about your career, income and status is a good thing?23M. Truth be told I’ve never dated a woman who’s made more than me, and I just matched on Hinge with a girl last night who apparently makes salary 75k a year doing top secret government contract bullshit. I’ll be the first to tell you that while I don’t necessarily care about a woman’s money, I do care if a woman is a financial liability or not and how it affects their personality. Not even on a note of “paying for everything “, because at one point I had a job where I could’ve moved outta mom’… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/24 03:29 PM |
| 2 | Just treat women as regular people who have sex and make babiesUpdate. All my coworkers who wanted to go to the club cancelled . But an old coworker from when I worked at Walmart in 2022 hit me back. We used to text on and off and try to schedule a smoke session but the job after Walmart was a travel job, so I was outta town most of the week and when I’d come back I’d be too tired to do anything. Then she got a bf, then I got a gf, and we didn’t talk for a while. But I’ve been on semen retention ever since my coworkers and I agreed to go clubbing so I was t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/08/24 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Just treat women as regular people who have sex and make babiesYeaahhh you’re right. Thats the semen retention talking. Staying strong brother 🙏🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 09:40 PM |
| 1 | Just treat women as regular people who have sex and make babiesAh yes, was waiting for the response from the mustache twirling asshole who couldn’t help but bring up something negative or make a worst case scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/08/24 02:51 PM |
| 0 | Just treat women as regular people who have sex and make babiesThinking about telling a coworker I’m in the mood for some pussy when we leave the club this Saturday. This was a month and some change after I got hired, She’s came up to me and asked why I didn’t text her when she told another coworker to put her number in my phone 😭told her I don’t date/fuck coworkers. If anything that made her talk to me more. Since then she only comes to my section of the store when I’m at work, just to bullshit and talk. The other ladies who work in my area flat out told m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/24 09:18 PM |
| 9 | Men are turned off by women approaching them CMVOne of my ex girlfriends approached me first and we dated for two years. Shit didn’t work out in the end but I don’t regret the time together. Blow that opinion out your ass and quit rambling . It may be off putting just because it’s the status quo to be the opposite way, maybe even skeptical especially if you’re good looking. But we welcome it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/24 10:34 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentAbsolutely that, the very first thing I told her after she first came out about her trauma is that I appreciate her sharing that with me, because she’d been hiding it from her family her entire life and doesn’t wanna tarnish how the family thought of him. And it’s not for me to pass judgement on if she should tell her family, which I personally say yes tell em but again it’s not my place to say that. As for when we broke up officially , I told her I still hope she gets the mental and emotional h… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/24 12:31 AM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentFunny thing is a couple months later I saw her back on the app we met on, Bumble. Except this time with “just looking for friends :) Asexual 🩷💕” so, at least she fucking learned something. Shouldn’t be on the dating side tho, she should be in the BFF friends side of Bumble. Sucks you had to just learn that about yourself when you get a boyfriend who was actually worth a damn. I’m not gonna say I’m perfect either whatsoever, I began cheating after she told me that, for my sexual fix. But I never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 10:58 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentNobody is entitled to anybody’s body. However, you are entitled to at least feeling your needs need to be met. I had began cheating on her purely for sex. She still had my love and affection and never treated her differently. But going back to your question, there should be compromises . My girlfriend at the time agreed she’d give me hugs and kisses to at least simulate it, and I never pushed past that because I cared about her feelings. It worked for a time but at the end of the day, what is lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 10:19 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentPretty much, just wanted to put into perspective how nasty that perspective of not owing someone sex is actually pretty perverse and misleading . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 09:03 PM |
| – | "you are not entitled to sex. It is not a necessity" is a bad argumentWell first off, you could get with someone who you’re sexually compatible with. Sex is a valid need and dealbreaker, and women here really need to stop the superficial fuck shit of acting like it hasn’t destroyed many relationships and marriages like unhappiness , irreconcilable differences, infidelity, and more reasons, important or not . It’s one of my personal pet peeves about quite a lot of women, especially on here. I think it’s more like they get a satisfaction out of telling men that. Jus… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/24 06:39 PM |
| 8 | Do you think most men would be willing to forgive a cheating woman if she treated him well after ?At best id just stick around for free “forgive me” sex which will be WAYYY nastier than usual . After that, your usefulness is up you disgusting cheater. Begone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/24 09:19 AM |
| – | Instead of complaining about being pumped and dumped, women should try to understand why some men only seem to value them for only sex...namely that they don't add much to a man's lifeIf you keep subjecting yourself and become desensitized to essentially treating yourself as less deserving, it’s because you have that opinion or feeling about yourself. It’s just that women are less emotionally equipped to handle it when it comes to sex. Men are the same way when rejected from the heart and mind, especially if we had wholesome intentions. Soul searching, potentially spiraling into depression and even extreme opinions on both genders if they’re THAT torn up about it. Btw, that i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/24 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?Based | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/24 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?Would you call him a necessary evil ? Personally I’d say so. He was important and instrumental in asking the core question of why a man/woman of XYZ value would want you when you’ve got 2-6 different glaring issues with you that can keep you from getting your dream guy/girl. I feel too many ppl get caught up in their wants that they don’t consider what their desired partners would want . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/24 01:08 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?What exactly is it that I wanted to hear? And again how was he verbally abusive ? And are we just gonna forget he ripped into guys asses to? Just as much? He wasn’t abusive. He was crude and nothing he said was pretty or sugarcoated. He never really went out of his way to be rude from what I’ve seen, except for when the lady guests who called in were rude, had an especially combative attitude, or tried to discredit and slight him, or all 3. I implore you to read my comments with u/Planthoe30 whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 09:53 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?Could you be more specific with saying he was abusing women? Thats not really a term and allegation to be used lightly in the sense of just routinely offending women. He certainly was crude, but I’d appreciate an elaboration on him being abusive. As for the rest , your personal take is your personal take. Can’t take that from you. However I do believe genuinely good advice , even from a bad source or example, is still as 100% sound as anyone other good advice. People learn as they grow. You gonn… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 09:31 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?Nobody said that. The fuck are you talking about? He literally pointed out that her only notable track record were two incredibly shitty men, so clearly she has no room to talk and say there are no good men, only 20% of BM are single and childless, and her other outdated feelings cuz not only is she factually incorrect regarding statistics, but her track record doesn’t make her look any better in their debate. Nobody said she should’ve stayed with either of those guys. So again, what the fuck ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 07:26 PM |
| 0 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?I kinda already explained it…. But, usually they called up to HIS show, either to say they disagree with a viewpoint he has or to ask why they’re still single and how to help their situation. Regardless of which of those reasons they called for, with the uncomfortable questions and enlightening them on how men view things about them, relationships, or whatever differently, they usually get a reality check they are either wrong or have overestimated their ability to ask for a higher quality man. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?I said this in another comment but I have genuinely no doubt that misogynists and incels champion him because he’s got a record for humbling women . Gives them some sorta weird power fantasy by living vicariously thru a man who actually does have his shit together. On the other hand, most women ignore the fact he’s ripped into men just as badly . I invite you to check out my response to Planthoe30. While it’s quite possible he pivoted towards women heavily since that’s what’s made him the talk o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?Pretty fair point if he did pivot his material towards that on purpose. Though it’s in the weird position that it was definitely gonna blow up for dissing women regardless cuz I mean that’s just how media works, criticizing and on a surface level, “bullying” women about their weight and whatever is definitely gonna go way more viral than if it was strictly men. That being said, even if he flip flopped and alternated between a man and woman for every broadcast and the amount of both were exactly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 01:06 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on Kevin Samuels?Wouldn’t call him the average red pill , moreso pragmatic. Everyone ignores he used to rip into dudes just as bad. Dudes who wanted women above their pay grade and who called in for insight on how to get the women they want, whether it was nice or mean. It’s just that eventually he angled toward women, predominantly black women. I see comments saying it was planned to boost his popularity ? Have no idea, but I don’t doubt that possibility. Quite likely actually. And regardless, it worked, cuz mo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/24 08:15 AM |
| 18 | Question for attractive women; What could an average or below average looking man do for you to genuinely desire him?Part of me wants to ask if you meant nice COOK, but I think you meant what you said 😂😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/06/24 08:49 AM |
| -1 | Why is there no movement to teach girls and women how to treat guys better?The bitching about it pisses me the fuck off though, which is why I wonder why I even bother explaining this concept to women, it’s not like they’re gonna agree or side with this thought process cuz it may very well take advantage of them. It’s like they’re the only ones allowed to dictate the playing field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/06/24 09:24 AM |
| 9 | What are your unpopular opinions about dating, relationships, manosphere, or/and genders?I wouldn’t even call this an unpopular opinion, despite it is being what it is, because I truly don’t expect people to agree with me in the slightest, and actually expecting quite a lot of backlash. I’m telling you now, trigger warning as fuck. Still here? Alright I don’t support domestic violence whatsoever as a man. I’ve been raised never to hit a woman, and I’ve stood firm on that despite having been physically assaulted by women a couple points in my life. I want to be a father one day, and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/06/24 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?Yeah I left another comment about personality and other stuff, I just wanted to discuss first the “standards” that I’ve heard hella pushback on lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 08:00 PM |
| 3 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?Bingo ✅. Personality wise? I think my ideal wife has a welcoming personality, isn’t afraid to be sassy and talk some shit ( I love when a lady can talk shit) but doesn’t want to be offensive ofc. Sweet and nurturing but unafraid to be completely honest with me, whatever it could be about. One hard metric I have is with money. I don’t believe it’s a secret that women generally like to spend money. That being said, my ex frequently but not always would send back the money I’d send her every week f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 07:55 PM |
| 9 | Men of PPD, what are your standards? Do you think they are high?My standards aren’t high at all. I just ask don’t be fat AND ugly. Sounds harsh but it’s much more fair than you wanna give it credit for at first glance. I’m a slightly huskier guy myself with (what I’ve heard to be) a handsome face (I lean more towards decent personally but I’ve more than heard the former on quite a few occasions, I don’t believe it myself 🤣). I’ve got a muscular frame and build but I could really shave off 40lbs. Physically , I can work with a lotta body types. Doesn’t matter… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/24 03:20 PM |
| – | Women are championed for their preferences while men are demonizedDamn right man. Like I catch A LOT of flack for I guess my presentation? But when you think about my preferences , they’re a lot more fair than a fair amount of women are willing to admit publicly. I’m a slightly huskier guy myself, I’ve got a muscular frame but I should definitely shave off 40lbs. Despite that, I’m fairly built and have what I have heard to be a decent - handsome face (I lean towards decent personally but I’ve more than heard otherwise). That being said, I’m attracted to a lot … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/24 11:09 PM |
| – | If Society “Doesn’t Hold Women Responsible”, What SHOULD Society Be Doing to Them?Definitely felt that last part lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/05/24 10:26 PM |
| 1 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimNever the case Says who? Just last year I went to club and this slightly older lady (I was 21 she was 23) when this lady just made conversation with me since we were still waiting on the bartender to head our way for drinks, she said her and her group of 4 friends just got there. I offered to get her a drink but she declined , cool no sweat, but then she started asking which game console I play? Then we started getting into a fun debate about console wars, games blah blah, asked about where we a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 08:00 PM |
| 8 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimAsking the real fucking questions here . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:43 PM |
| -4 | Most of the time when a woman cock blocks her friend at the bar, it is out of jealousy not to “save her” as most women will try to claimIf you’ve already rejected them then duh of course your friends are good, hell, report harassment . But if you’re enjoying a decent interaction or wouldn’t mind it going longer then that friend needs to mind her own damn business, and you need to tell her that. Otherwise, she’s just cockblocking both of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/24 05:42 PM |
| 3 | How do women emotionally move on from relationships so quickly?I’ll never give an ex that validation lmaoo. Let her forever think it’s fuck her even if I do miss her (or miss the feeling/the times things were good between us), anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/03/24 12:20 PM |
| 2 | "Nice Guy" vs "Fukboi" or "Player." Which is better and why?DING DING DING 🛎️ There we go. We need to normalize treating every woman different depending on the quality of guy we think they’re qualified for from us. I can be the fuckboy to you, a genuine good man, or a lying asshole who really couldn’t care if you were here or not. I mean if women can bend their standards and rules for a guy they find super attractive vs a guy who may only be like 60% of what she’d like in a guy personality and looks wise , then we should definitely treat women different … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/03/24 11:12 PM |
| 14 | Men who don't like women, why do you care if women don't like you?Based comment | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/02/24 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Women make different men they date play by different rulesAnd the think is that’s perfectly reasonable , fine even, ppl make exceptions for everything they like. It’s human nature. But it’s mostly women who act like every guy has to hit the same notes and requirements that pisses me off. At least on a surface level. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:27 PM |
| 1 | Should effort be equal during the dating phase?Effort should always be equal on both ends . I’d love to see how a woman rationalizes being less invested than their partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/24 11:02 AM |
| 10 | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?There is a difference in what we like when we’re in love . If we’re dating for a while and I’ve really come to like you a lot, it doesn’t matter to me what you look like (and I’d actually want you to wear less makeup), just feels more sincere. Versus walking out and about and seeing a cute chick in public, we all have our individual tastes but a good rule of thumb is to make your makeup… make sense. As long as you don’t look like you got cake smashed in your face like a prank at a wedding, you’r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 05:42 AM |
| 25 | Guys, when a woman tells you “she doesn’t do hookups anymore” - what does that make you think about her?Because most women try to act like playing by the rules and bidding your time as a “good man” is they key to getting their full attention and access to their mind, body, and spirit. Women are human too and allow exceptions for who they want, but on a surface level they all portray this facade that THATS what gets them going and that’s the only thing that gets them going. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/24 04:51 AM |
| 1 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?Fair point on the divorce part. But my stance still stands that I’m not moving time zones or countries purely to find a wife. Financial opportunities? Sure, and finding love can be secondary goal tacked on like an asterisk. But that’s never gonna be my sole motivator for a move that drastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:43 PM |
| 2 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?You’re not gonna sit there and convince me having to MOVE to find love isn’t a wild concept. If the world is really THAT far gone that a guy (who may have reasonable standards) has to move area codes or potentially countries purely and solely to find love, then I’d rather just be a dirtbag to get the results I want. Fucking crazy. I’d rather move for better financial opportunities ( a better job) with subtle hopes I can meet someone different in the new area (as an asterisk tacked on to the goal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 03:41 PM |
| 2 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?No I’ve never dated abroad but that’s exactly my point, you literally have no guarantee that she’s not looking for an opportunity to have more opportunities in America, I never even implied every chick outside the US Is gold diggerish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 01:54 PM |
| 7 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?Passport bros are way over exaggerating. There’s no lie in the fact that a lot of overseas cultures promote men being… you know, men. Being the leader of the house and the backbone of a relationship and/or family, yada yada it goes on. But I’m not moving to another city, let alone another country, to find a wife. I mean you have zero guarantee she’s not just trying to get a free pass to the US to make a fresh start and leave you later. Lmao they’re tweaking hard. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 06:21 AM |
| 2 | If a man is failing to attract the women he wants, and he is a good person, what options does he have aside from lowering his standards or giving up?You can disagree but I’d straight up rather lie and be a deceitful motherfucker than move for the possibility of love. That is fucking wild as hell. Conceptually it’s unfathomable . I’d just turn into a piece of shit man . Don’t be honest, lie about intentions, work on charisma and social skills and don’t listen to a single word about what women say they want, listen to what they react to. I’ll be damned if regardless of having reasonable standards, I have to move likely over 100 miles away for … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/02/24 06:07 AM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceWell that’s what the second text was talking about, there’s usually 2 types of sarcasm and it didn’t lean towards the “don’t take my comment serious Lols” type | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being niceI mean you can claim sarcasm sure, you got it I guess , but nobody would’ve been able to tell , your post seemed fairly straightforward and didn’t leave room for to be comprehended that way without the “ /s” Lol. Was more akin to “straight face but actually serious” over the “don’t take my comment serious” kind of sarcasm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:45 PM |
| 2 | Women tell men to look for subtle signs to approach, then say those are just women being nice….Well we’re damned if we do , damned if we don’t too Lol. Unfortunately there’s no one size fits all for this kinda topic on either side, so Women, just be upfront. You lose nothing by being honest or upfront about interest. Since apparently most women aren’t attracted to most men anyways, your success rate is likely on average, considerably higher. It’s not gonna be more popular with guys overnight just because it’s upsetting the balance we’ve had for centuries but it’d definitely be a step in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/24 05:23 PM |
| 6 | Men, describe your “Sex Zone”.This, is the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 03:10 PM |
| -7 | Men, describe your “Sex Zone”.Depends on the person. My default is to keep intentions hidden but if they’re pretty chill, potentially seem down for anything or I at least enjoy their company because our chemistry is interesting, I’ll ask what they’re looking for. But if I don’t ask what you want out of this, it’s because I’ve already decided I only wanna have sex with you if I can. And if I can’t then whatever Haven’t pumped and dumped before cuz most sexual situations I’ve been in have been either mutually consensually casu… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/01/24 09:10 AM |
| 2 | Would you leave a man you love if he refused to marry you?If only more women put a ring first before having children. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/01/24 04:15 AM |
| – | If someone is content being single, then their standards can be as high as they wantDating needs to take advice from the music industry. In the music industry , where you see a feature on a song, let’s say Taylor Swift owns the song and it features idk Drake, Taylor has to pay Drake for the verse on her track. But feature prices aren’t industry regulated . They’re at whatever the artist says it’s worth, and whoever buys into it. For example. Drake and Taylor Swift have the natural skill, hype, clout to boost ANY C-List artist and below to the top of the charts almost instantly … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/01/24 03:53 AM |
| 19 | Everything about the current dating scene makes it far more likely for sexually successful men to become unempathetic and leave women emotionally hurtI’m copying my comment from like a week ago on a similar post with a bit more added in. You know , I tried explaining this exact concept a couple weeks ago on a post about “how men level the playing field when it comes to dating”. Deleted it but I was essentially explaining that grown men with dating maturity have grown to accept the fact some guys are more successful in dating and there’s nothing you can do about it. Women can discriminate off the smallest, most unreasonable shit. The next guy … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/23 09:37 AM |
| 0 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyYour hunch is unfounded as well as wrong. I’ve never begged for a woman to be with me, and honestly wouldn’t want a woman who’d beg me to date them. Now do I know a woman who would love to be involved with me in some capacity ? Sure ! Haven’t responded to her in years , did one FaceTime call with her in 2019 after I graduated and just didn’t like her but she still texts me every year on my birthday….idk, weird. Besides , that situation doesn’t apply to me anyways. I’m willing to wait for sex til… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyIt’s anything but entitled lmao. It’s just a valid reason to not respect you and not wanna deal with you. Whether you liked him more or not, hold him to a certain standard. If you can’t do that then that’s your problem. You’re not gonna make it my problem. Meanwhile, I’m not the kinda guy who’ll sit by and accept that. I’m either gonna leave or delegate you to the “sex only zone” and give you low effort to see where it goes, meanwhile my main focus may be another girl or something unrelated to y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:51 PM |
| 4 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyYou don’t listen. At all. It’s not about sex. I literally already said it’s about crossing an intimacy threshold or getting a certain degree of access to you quicker with less effort , *whether emotional or physical *. I dedicated an entire paragraph to stating some consistent standards that if you CONSISTENTLY stick to it and even make the hot guy weight 90 days off to have sex like me, that’s absolutely respectable as a standard . We met 3 days ago at the bar and exchanged numbers “Hey Lianne,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 05:07 PM |
| 10 | Complaining about women’s standards while being afraid of being settled for is crazyI’d actually argue that’s not the case, quite a lot of women adjust how much access each guy gets to her dependent on how much she personally likes him for whatever reasons, whether more or less, than the last guy. I mean they’re human , it’s to be expected, let’s be frank on that part. But I can’t respect inconsistent standards. I go by actions, not words. Even if you stick to your outlandish guns and a broke woman only reserves herself (mentally and sexually) for a man making , say, 100k a yea… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 11:01 AM |
| 5 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?Consider boycotting nestle water and spreading the word on that. Read about it. Til you have success with that, don’t attempt to show pity or contempt for my sake. I do what aligns in my interest . I had a woman earlier this year who I felt I never needed to misdirect , lie, any of that to. Of course everyone goes thru break ups right or wrong , but there’s no such thing as Justice in dating. Better off being selfish and doing what YOU want as a man. Women would never understand cuz most of the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:55 AM |
| 6 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?Lol you damn right | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:13 AM |
| 5 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?I do not care what it is women have to say on this particular topic, cuz no woman would approve of using the cheat codes to “turn a profit” in their rigged casino game that is dating . As you wouldn’t give a fuck what men would have to say about what women should do with their body in general. You do me a favor and try banging your head on a brick wall, and lmk when you see a crack in the wall. If you’re not dead by then I’ll give you 50$ on Cashapp. I implore you, please tell me why I should “s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 07:12 AM |
| 13 | Should guys take it personally if they have to wait till their 30s to have success with women?You know , I tried explaining this exact concept a couple weeks ago on a post about “how men level the playing field when it comes to dating”. Deleted it but I was essentially explaining that grown men with dating maturity have grown to accept the fact some guys are more successful in dating and there’s nothing you can do about it. Women can discriminate off the smallest, most unreasonable shit. The next guy may have more money, or may be more eloquent and intelligent when he communicates, or be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/23 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Are men below being proposed to?Fair enough | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 06:01 PM |
| -4 | Are men below being proposed to?Don’t you think if I wanted to indulge in a victim mentality, I would’ve directed this question at men instead of women? Keep in mind this subreddit is filled to the brim with incels, women hates, guys who think women are arrogant blah blah that would’ve loved to coddle and circlejerk this topic. But I didn’t want that. I asked a question based on my interpretation of a video and it’s comments and wanted to know what the general consensus was on this between y’all ; if you just felt men aren’t w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 08:54 AM |
| 0 | Are men below being proposed to?Instagram* But I already did ask there, it’s 3:48am rn in my area so I doubt I’ll get a response. And again the point of asking a question is to get a different perspective. If I wanted victim coddling like this person is trying to imply , I would’ve directed the question at men instead of women. There’s an endless amount of depressed incel who would’ve loved to circlejerk about women feeling entitled, being arrogant or whatever. But no. I was asking women if most women just feel men aren’t wort… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 08:49 AM |
| -5 | Are men below being proposed to?It’s not harping. I just wanted a straightforward and direct answer that gave a perspective, not “because I’m traditional 😑 duh”. That doesn’t offer any insight whatsoever. If it’s just how you feel then just say that , but to act like it’s beneath you to the point of stigmatizing, instead of just something you firmly believe is the right way to do it is just wild to me . I interpreted it as “men aren’t worth getting on a knee for” , not “traditionally I want a man to propose to me”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 08:19 AM |
| -7 | Are men below being proposed to?I’m asking for an objective reason of why they feel justified in not trying to initiate the purest and most intentional form of long term commitment to the man you trust your future, your potential (or already born) children’s future with knowing it mostly falls on him whatever happens to the family. Idk, Maybe I’m looking for an answer that can’t be given cuz it’s more subjective than objective. As in, they can probably acknowledge the nuance and irony in the stigma towards women proposing desp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 07:42 AM |
| 0 | Are men below being proposed to?I can understand that don’t gimme wrong , I just don’t know why other women look down on it so badly like he isn’t the one obviously with most of the pressure to provide, protect and serve the best interests of the couple (and/or family)? I somewhat equate it to feeling like your too good to tip an Uber driver 3$, not even because you can’t or don’t have the spare money, but because “driving me is his job, I don’t need to reward him for doing his job, Uber pays him that’s what the job is for”. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 07:28 AM |
| -8 | Are men below being proposed to?That’s my point though, to the traditional women out there anyways , why? If there was anyone between them who could actually make the claim of “being the prize” and ,while still looking arrogant/potentially narcissistic as fuck, actually has some backup to that claim, it’d be the guy who’d pretty much have to do a lotta the legwork in both ( and everyone’s) lives. Not that the “prize” debate is all everything’s about, but again, we’re more or less the most heavily relied on person in a traditio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/23 07:22 AM |
| 2 | What is an unpopular dating opinion you have about your gender?A lotta guys here (22M myself) don’t deserve the women they cry and bitch and moan don’t give them attention. I had to outgrow the mentality that just because I wanted to treat a woman right , that entitled me to action from any woman I want. I grew out of this in my junior year of high school. That’s not to say money, life goals, fitness, intelligence and whatever matter more cuz to women who want a genuine connection, it doesn’t matter as much as your heart, but they do matter in the grand sch… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/23 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Not inherently. If we’re on the first date I’m mostly my honest me. But if I feel you gravitate more towards a different type of personality , dialect, whatever when we talk or converse, then I’ll start to tiptoe my way towards that. All the women in my family have told me don’t go by what a woman says, go by what she reacts to. So if she’s attracted more to the pothead who slurs his words, dresses a certain way , probably doesn’t have much going for his life , that’s way too easy to mimic. I’d … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/23 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?THIS. Literally this Lol. I’m not upset at the double standard though, like I said I’ve already accepted that it’s a part of dating. That’s probably the one thing a majority of women could probably agree on being similar between them. MOST, anyways. The point behind the post is that cause : inconsistent standards CAN lead to effect : inconsistent treatment and shifting intentions. There is no upside to being a good man to every woman you try and meet. Some flat out don’t deserve that energy. Als… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Meh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 05:52 AM |
| 3 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Now I will say, Some things aren’t worth the trouble of faking . Religion is one of em tbh. I’m honestly closer to agnostic if that’s the right term, like I believe there IS a higher power but I’m not putting all my coins in on who. If a girl is a devout Christian then I probably couldn’t stand being with her, at least as long as she constantly brings up god in every conversation. I’m sure even you could say that’s a dealbreaker . Another is gender identity shit. There are men and women bro. I d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 12:13 AM |
| 8 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?That’s very true most of the time results matter more. Doesn’t mean they can’t be true at the same time. That’s how I date. I’m a genuinely good man at first til I see that you’re more receptive to a personality that would differ from who I am at base. That’s when you get out in the sex only category. I put in a real valid effort into building a genuine connection. But if you don’t want a good man then I won’t show you a good man. I can be the guy who hardly texts back cuz he’s too busy to give … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 11:53 PM |
| 6 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Sleeping with escorts is a good one. Ironically I wouldn’t even know where to find escorts in my town . I don’t doubt we have it here whatsoever but I honestly wouldn’t know where to find it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 11:40 PM |
| 4 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Do you want videos of me with these “imaginary “ women in your PM? I did not think so 💀you don’t have to try that hard to deny my results I’ve seen with my own eyes dude. Let it go. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?What makes you think I pretend to be good first? No. I give a valid effort at being a good man to them. You’d be surprised how much I’m teased by my brothers for being a lover boy . I’m just very selective with who I give that lover boy energy to. For example. It’s easy to come off like the “hood guy” when you smoke weed and are pretty nonchalant in attitude. That’s probably the easiest stereotype to act as and land some action from. We haven’t even taken the time to get to know each other that … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 11:33 PM |
| 7 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Too late for that . Already got my nut off with a girl who just needed some weed before we were like rabbits…. So what’re you talking about sir/ma’am? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:51 PM |
| 3 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Now see why’d you have to go and make it personal when I was just asking an question with the post 💀 that aside I’d be more than glad to show you evidence to the contrary , but you’d just reply “I didn’t care enough to wanna see this”. Digital equivalent of telling someone talk to a wall , not me” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:46 PM |
| 4 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?Ehhh don’t have the money for that . I mean I do but, I got higher priorities. In those 2 scenarios I’d rather be a toxic dirtbag to a few chicks than do escorts. Those days are gone tho, for the time being anyways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:35 PM |
| 9 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?I didn’t imply anything near men being bad people. Just that there’s a different perspective to the play/fuckboy attitude that hasn’t been considered. I don’t respect inconsistent standards, flat out. So if you’re gonna make me work harder for your heart or your time than another guy, I’m entitled to change what I work for, aka intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:31 PM |
| 3 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?I mean I would want to get to know her and if she turns out to be a good cookie, make this into something long lasting. But if I seem to be getting nowhere with how I am naturally, I’ll experiment to see what works . At that point , it turns from emotional investment to purely physical. At least that’s how I date. I start out with pure intentions til she gives me a reason to put her in either a “purely sex” category, or just don’t talk to her anymore at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:26 PM |
| 1 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?If I can’t get you naturally then I’ll shift my attitude and actions to see if we can push things in a more physical direction . After that your free trial runs out. I’d never emotionally invest in women who didn’t want me naturally in the first place. It’s moreso to not feel like I wasted my time, so I at least want something out of it if I can finesse it . If not , we gotta call that a complete failure . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:18 PM |
| 10 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?It’s results, that’s the bigger priority to guys over being a good guy all the time. You don’t respect a supervisor who can’t get shit done right ? The kinda manager who lets his employees bully him and can’t enforce any rules? Well that’s what guys who don’t get any generally positive results in dating feel towards themselves . Same with going to the gym for 3 months and no results , you get discouraged. They wouldn’t expect women to understand or sympathize with it, but it’s at least expressin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:15 PM |
| 13 | Why demonize men for “not playing by the rules” when “rules” are inconsistent?I’m not looking for a reason to be a good person. This was moreso to force the question “should I really have to stay alone just to not cross the hill of being a dirtbag, when this game called dating isn’t fair in the first place?” And to see what women’s responses would be. I’ve already done my fair share of fuckboy shit as well as that loyal puppy who’s excited to see you after a day at work, ready to do what I can for who I love Lol. As of now I’m just focusing on getting money, I dont entert… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/12/23 09:09 PM |
| 1 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanYou’re intentionally missing the point. I already said if the two people dating are generally clean human beings who know how to clean up after themselves, then cleaning up after each other shouldn’t be a big ask if he asks you or if she asked me to. If you complain about cleaning routines that simple, then your a lazy fuck. No getting around that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/23 01:10 AM |
| 1 | Getting a roommate is better than a 50/50 man as a womanAs long as both partners are responsible and clean human beings, cleaning shouldn’t be too much to ask. If you don’t have a food cover, then wipe the inside of the microwave a few times a week, have sturdy paper plates and alternate between glass and red plastic cups when you want a drink to minimize dishes needing to be washed. I clean out my car every weekend. Wash the mats outside your bathtub, by your bathroom sink, and the rugs in the kitchen once a week. Separate each others white clothes,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/11/23 06:12 AM |
| 8 | The double standard: man has alot of sexual partners = good. Woman has alot of sexual partners = bad. Is misunderstood.I mean he already said it’s the ability to have those options, that men fantasize over. Not actually smashing 100 different women. It’s to be able to pick the ones he wants. The same way women can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/11/23 07:53 AM |
| 1 | Honesty is the kryptonite of sexual success for menWhat he’s trying to say is that if their innate personality doesn’t get her to wanna gravitate towards him, he’ll act, talk, and behave in a way that she responds more to. I myself have been disgusted quite a few times when I’ve acted like an emotionally unavailable asshole, hardly replied and when I did it was minimal, just seeming generally uninterested but fun to talk to and be around and got WAY better results quicker than if I was just me. Before you respond with “well if they don’t like yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/23 10:18 AM |
| 1 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Funny story about that, I was transferring to another school back in sophomore year (October 2015 to February 2016) to where I’ll call Eagle High School. Mom wanted to move just 15 minutes outside the town I was born and raised in, where I live now . I’ve played Recreational football since I was like 10, up til 13 when my grades were shitty. From the school I just left at the time (15yo), they had one of the best, most reputable high school football teams in the state and I didn’t make it one pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 10:53 AM |
| 3 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?<image> Me on the far right. Oldest on the left. Mom in the middle. Not that I needed to prove myself to a guy with a “oh woe is me” mindset who’s hellbent on hyperfocusing on height like it’s a big issue , when I’ve seen him in action and he’s gotten more and better looking women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?Well my oldest brother is about 5”4, and has wayyy more partners than I’ve ever had , and prettiER partners across the board. Working at the same Best Buy as me. I still remember having a huge crush on every one of his girlfriends growing up. they’re all gorgeous. And majority taller than him. According to him he’s got around 50-60ish bodies to his name. So don’t try to pull the height card dude. He’s way more confident than I am. He can go to a club alone and at worst, come out bored . 3-4 mont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 05:53 AM |
| 1 | Question: if only around 17% of US males make at least 100k, are the remaining 83% percent doomed ?My guy , trust me. I make 15$ an hour working part time at Best Buy, and I’m definitely on the heavier side, but I’ve caught quite a few numbers from good looking women in my short time working here. What matters is your looks, but even more, your confidence in yourself. Don’t stutter when you speak , and know what you’re talking about. Stand straight, suck in your belly a bit if you have to. Take care of your teeth , wash your face often, and look put together when you dress. I promise you, tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/23 03:55 AM |
| 3 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?It’s human , like I said , a lotta people shift their standards for different people . I’d just rather be in a committed relationship with a woman whos kept her standards solid without budging , you can’t deny that’s a test of character most people don’t possess. Add in the fact most of the people complaining about hookup culture are women, as if they aren’t where heterosexual males get sex from, and how women routinely act like they’re morally superior men in general , and it makes it quite a b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 08:33 AM |
| 2 | If you think sex is damaging to women or causes them to lose their “value,” isn’t it lowkey kind of predatory to pursue sex with women?22M. While I don’t complain about it , I roll my eyes when women complain about hookup culture because a lot of the time , they do have a guy in mind that they would NOT make him go thru hoops to let him have sex that she otherwise would for an average joe. What I complain about are inconsistent standards. If I actually want a committed relationship from you and I know for a fact someone else has been able to have sex with you without the commitment, it’s like being promoted to a manager ; you c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/23 04:58 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: Words like 'virgin' and 'slut' carry negative connotations. What other words would be more positive or at least neutral to help people who carry such monikers be accepted?How about involuntary abstinent? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/23 12:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do you personally think some men get so much access to sex, while other men do not?I mean do you really care enough to go thru each guys profile view their previous comments on posts on this sub to see who to put in the virgin guy and incel categories? If you don’t then I think that kinda proves his point, whether your a virgin man or an actual misogynistic incel you’re gonna be seen as an incel regardless for complaining. And since women can pick the guys you want regardless, you’re not really incentivized to give the plight of virgins any acknowledgment. It’s literally the d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/09/23 03:28 AM |
| 3 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?a few one time vacation flings some girls we never went past a casual sex relationship just because one or neither of us were interested in each other for that, so I’d date other women at the same time Some didn’t hold my interest after sex the first night or two because they wouldn’t have made a good partner overall. Only 2-3 girls would’ve made actual good future partners but shit happens , stuff didn’t fall thru, no point crying over spilled milk. A good amount of them wanted to be monogamous… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:52 PM |
| 2 | Why don't we encourage men to stay virginal as much as we encourage women?I mean what about me then? I mean I’m 22M, I don’t have kids, stds, with a partner count of 20+, so wym? I know how to be a good man and love a woman as she should be . Doesn’t mean every woman deserves that. That and other guys regurgitated reasonings such as being experienced or whatever aside, there’s no real upside to being abstinent . I’d like to preface this by saying women have just as much a right to dislike men who go around fucking a lot just as much as guys here shame it. It’s literal… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/23 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Do alpha males believe in monogamy?sigh Said it once, I’ll say it again. What guys are bitching about these days as far as talking about being alpha and dating and shit isn’t that they’ll necessarily fuck any woman they want, it’s the ability to get any woman they want that’ll help them determine if they want to be monogamous or not. Think about it. An overly obese dummy who eats Cheetos all day and doesn’t get up from his gaming chair has no room to complain when he doesn’t get attention from even average women. Or when he gets … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/09/23 02:38 PM |
| -1 | I don't blame Deadbeat fathers as much as women, because women control almost 100% of the sexual market and still choose those menMy perspective isn’t even from that of the sexual market or whatever . But I don’t understand having and keeping a child by a man who doesn’t want to be a father . You pro lifers can bitch at me all you want “oh it’s not the babies fault I made mistake” , or “it’s my baby I could never 🥺” , I don’t understand the concept of holding the baby in your stomach for 9 MONTHS while you know damn well the father wouldnt be a good father, or doesn’t want to be one , then subjecting yourself and the child… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/23 06:52 PM |
| 11 | Being a "good person" or not has zero impact on your dating lifeIt’s the ability to choose between short term flings or fwb that these guys are pedastalizing . There’s definitely more to life than just sex but at the same time , you shouldn’t tell them that they should want more than that to get any sorta action. That’s a bit disingenuous and implies only morally upstanding men are worthy of those choices, and we both know that’s not how the dating world is setup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/23 05:50 PM |
| 6 | Assuming traditional gender norms in dating, what do women offer in the initial dating stages?So then taking what you said into account , when am I supposed to expect some kind of return ? After you’ve ate thru my money the past 4-5 dates ? I understand that ppl focus too much on the money , and that period of “waiting for them to treat me back” is subjective dependent on the person , but if there’s an expectation to get me back at all , then it should be sooner rather than later when it comes to dating because otherwise , you’re getting finessed . That’s something I don’t think women un… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/23 12:24 PM |
| 5 | What's one of the most profound things you've learned about dating?Women aren’t meant to be understood , but adapted to. You’ll literally drive yourself into a straight jacket trying to logically figure out why women do , say , or act a certain way across a variety of gender based interactive spectrums. Even women who’ve dated other women can and often will tell you that women can be more difficult to deal with than they let on. Not to talk about them like they aren’t here or like they’re some kinda foreign species but , I’m calling it like I see it. Instead of… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/23 01:58 AM |
| – | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.That’s tuff | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 11:28 PM |
| – | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.It is very unfortunate that sexual assault exists in this world but it does, that’s not something I can wish away. If I could I would bro. I mean sorry if that sounds morbid and nearly dismissive to you as a (perceived) woman but I’m saying it’s a part of this world, NOT a part of life. There’s a difference if you can figure that out. Same with infidelity, slavery in other countries , along those lines . Those aren’t leaving society anytime soon, as much as it should. You’re upset that I said ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 04:30 PM |
| -3 | It is not a man’s problem, when approaching, that women might feel uncomfortable or don’t know how to say no.There’s risk in everything related to men and women. Literally almost everything. There’s a chance if a girl approaches me at a bar , instead of being genuine interest because I’m attractive or she initiates conversation randomly , it might just be a setup to get me robbed and possibly killed outside when we go to my car or house . Not comparing apples to oranges but I repeat, there’s risk in all contact that to an extent, we have to learn to live with and just adapt accordingly. Carry a knife ,… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/23 03:11 AM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveWell as you read in the comment section, they mostly discussed abortion and how “traumatic” it is than directly confront the logic of why they’re keeping babies with deadbeats instead of aborting and keeping it with a good man who wants to be a father. So it’s not an assumption | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 05:32 PM |
| 1 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveImma repeat again in case you didn’t get the message the first time. I never said they’re aborting good guy babies. I said they’d rather keep the child and complain about a fucking deadbeat dad than abort and have a family with a man who genuinely wants to be with the family or at the very least, if the parents don’t work out, he still wants to provide and be there for his kid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/23 03:50 PM |
| 2 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveWell as I said on that post. You have more chances to create life than lives to live on earth. I don’t wanna be the guy to say “get over it” because I’m sure it’s a traumatizing experience , but just like you’d tell a friend who’s heartbroken there’s more fish in the sea, there are better men to have children with and you’re settling for a broken household . Is that wrong ? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 06:37 PM |
| 2 | The claim that women settle in their 30s are true, but it's not fully due to being less attractiveCheck out my post asking why women keep children by deadbeat dads instead of guys who actually want to be a father or a stable family.. The answers are quite bizarre. From ages 18-40 , they can have around 15 (give or take) 9 month pregnancies…and they want to keep the child by the guys who DONT want to be a father or a happy family with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/08/23 11:31 AM |
| 2 | How much of a turn off is astrology when a woman heavily believes in it?It’s a decent - very good conversation starter in trying to create what I’d call “compatibility tension” , it’s like sexual tension but mental , both interested in seeing where you both feel like taking things . But definitely nothing to take serious . As far as close mindedness and intelligence , I’d put it right below bigotry like racism, sexism , that shit . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/08/23 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ?That last sentence is the scariest thing I’ve read in a while. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:58 PM |
| -1 | Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ?I already said I’m an outside looking in asking about this subject . If you don’t think I’ll understand regardless then ok, move along . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:57 PM |
| 9 | Being called a "fuckboy" is the biggest compliment you can get as a manYou making it about something it isn’t bro. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:49 PM |
| 2 | Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ?Man I’m never having kids . I’ll cut my balls off to insure that , you’ve all convinced me to never want kids | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 02:43 PM |
| -6 | Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ?I’m personally gonna ignore all the guys who’re gonna spam child support , because while that is definitely a legit reason a lot of women will keep their child , they’ll never come out and admit it , let’s be frank. They’d much rather throw out “ pro life , cuz it’s my baby , it’s not the babies fault “ , those kinda excuses that deal less with rationale and more with how they feel, and I’m trying to see by asking this question if there’s a rational reasoning in there at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 08:04 AM |
| 7 | Why do women keep children by men who don’t want to be fathers ?That’s probably the most fair response someone could’ve given. I appreciate your consistency in conducting yourself like you’d actually promote a meaningful and unified family . I guess guys may look at it with a pros and cons list in mind , in which the pro life stance/argument holds up worse than a paper plate in a hurricane , but like I said , I respect to consistency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/23 07:59 AM |
| 7 | CMV People that claim that eating out a Women is wrong or emasculating or submissive are the biggest dorks on the planet.Lol fr, got my red wings from my first partner at 17. That’ll put hair on your chest /s 🤣🤣🤣 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/23 04:18 PM |
| – | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)I mention a woman in the first sentence of the post that I was arguing with. I mention a 2nd woman in the 3rd paragraph and made no implication they were the same person | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/23 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)It’s very similar behavior to spending money check to check , sparing no chance for short term pleasure in trade of investing in yourself a bit long term (or in sexual terms waiting for a relationship) where there’s a bigger potential payoff ( sex with someone you’re emotionally tied to feels better than recreational sex from what I’ve heard). I’m not even going to address your second point because I flat out never said that or even implied what you said I did. Please point out a specific text t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 10:23 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)I was a bit drunk and bored at 3am. That’s why my first rendition of this post was sloppy as hell and scatterbrained. Lol do I need a better reason | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:29 PM |
| 0 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)The real goofy here is you. If you’d graduated middle school and read the text right , I’d have a bit more respect for your comment. The woman I had sex with was a completely different woman than who I got into the online debate with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)Most of them look at it as a detriment to women if it only benefits the man . I’ve been benefited by 17 different women without lying , cheating , omitting details , any of that. I really do think that upsets a lot of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)Jesus thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)Reread before you comment again. The woman I engaged in debating with and the woman who invited me over purely to have sex and smoke were two completely different women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:57 PM |
| 0 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)That’s fair. Like I’ve said , I never had to lie , omit details about me , cheat , manipulate, gaslight , or inflate expectations to do what I’ve done. The question of commitment has come up a few times but unfortunately things didn’t fall thru. No harm no foul, no salt over it . Shit happens , life goes on . Spared no time moving on | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:56 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)Very fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)I 100% believe that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)That’s entirely understandable . Women are human , make mistakes, some guys are the reason behind certain standards , I 100% understand that. What I’m saying is quit acting like it’s equal across the board , idk why there’s an attempt to put up a facade . I’m not one of these soft hearted ass guys who gets hurt at rejection . If you tell me you’re just not as into me as you were the other guy(s) for whatever reason, or I’m doing something that’s a turn off , if I feel like it’s something I can a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)“ it’s your fault for believing me when I said I did”. Not gonna lie those are fighting words lmao. That’s gross to lie about honestly . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:06 PM |
| 0 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)But what part about pointing out the obvious is bitter ? I’ve said multiple times that I and other men have accepted that women generally have it easier in dating . You’re trying to make something out of nothing honestly if you’re strawmanning that particular point I’ve addressed from the jump, so this will be my last time responding to you , good day 🙏🏾 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)I’m not following ? I got into the debate with a random woman online in the comments because of the meme. The woman I mentioned smoking and having sex with was a completely different person , I was mentioning her to demonstrate an example of hypocrisy in consistent standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)I call it bizarre because it’s not a distant train of thought , nor in my opinion, a long winded conclusion to come to . If I had to put a reason on it , I’d venture to guess it’s because it paints women in a slightly worse light . And I don’t think women like that . And yes , you do have options from birth. It may not be options you like or even want , but any woman ( fat , ugly , missing an eye , in a wheelchair , blind , deaf, short , tall , skinny, etc.) can make money hypothetically doing s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 04:07 PM |
| 1 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)I’m actually a very self reflective and introspective guy . Try not to act like you know me , because I wouldn’t act like I know you. Does this interaction bother my soul internally ? Not really , but I do feel like I’ve put it in far more clear terms and with a bit more insight than the average incel on here saying “women shouldn’t be high body count cuz it’s gross “ and then leaving it at that. I never said women shouldn’t have standards at all. Just keep it consistent or don’t expect men to r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:43 PM |
| 0 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)She flat out invited me over to smoke and fuck . Photo proof available. Leave that alone . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 03:35 PM |
| – | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)If you’re not going to explain to me how I’m such an “insufferable jerk”, then I have zero interest in your comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 12:32 PM |
| 0 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)It’s a lot better now my bad 😂😂😂a bit tipsy atm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:57 AM |
| 6 | Do women even want men to be successful in dating ? Like honestly?(22M)Baggage how though ? Not offended just wondering what gave that impression . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/23 07:33 AM |
| – | What's your unpopular dating opinion? Something you truly believe, but would get you downvoted if you said it?If you , as a woman , lie to me about me being the father of my son/daughter , I will give you a bloody lip at the very least. You can cheat on me , get a train ran on you , sleep with my best friend, tell everyone you’re unhappy and single , whatever . For all I’ll care , I’ll just break up with you and leave it at that. But if you uproot the relationship I’ve built with this child , who I thought was my own offspring, by telling me that it’s another man’s baby ? God help you. Fr. That’s just s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/23 05:01 AM |
| 2 | Do you guys even like women? Why?I do hate that different wages mean more in different states sometimes. 4K monthly here in NC is like , maybe 8-9k in Seattle ? Not sure , hopefully someone fact checks that for me. I visited Seattle for a week once. Beautiful city but expensive as hell. But it’s more than enough to pay bills , have some light fun on weekends like drinks one day with the guys, or treat yourself and girlfriend to a good restaurant, and still save well monthly if your spending habits are disciplined enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:49 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys even like women? Why?Lol I’m in my little country of North Carolina, USA. For 21 years old , that’s pretty decent money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:30 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys even like women? Why?No tax . But more specifically I get 800/ per week and a monthly 650$ stipend for using my personal vehicle . All tax free, paid weekly . Contracter | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 03:29 PM |
| 3 | Do you guys even like women? Why?Every bit of that is true, low confidence eventually outwardly manifests as as projecting from a “loser standpoint” complaining about the top percentage of guys. This is from a nearly 22yo Hetero male who’s 6”2, 280lbs decent face (often receive compliments on being handsome) and muscle built but mostly fat tbh. I’ve had about 5 sexual partners in the past year and I make 4k a month doing travel Utility work . My money didn’t contribute to it, just helps with presentation . That being said , nei… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/23 01:47 PM |
| 3 | You cannot really have a submissive wife/gf and not view them as inferior to some degreeI get what you’re trying to say broski. I don’t 100% agree but I do understand how you feel. I feel that way more towards to finances department of it. Like , if everything in our lives revolves around my 16 digit card number and having sufficient funds for not just me , but an entire separate human being and HER car note, credit card bills , gas , then our mortgage/rent , utilities , food , at that point I’ll look at you as inferior and an unnecessary part of my life that needs to be cut out wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/06/23 04:37 PM |
| 1 | How many people on this sub actually want casual sex?If I didn’t have a girlfriend right now I assuredly would love to have quite a few ONSs. I conduct myself accordingly so I there’s nothing to talk about the next day. On ONS I didn’t kiss , I wear condoms , bring plan Bs, and only worry about my gratification. Dragging it out longer to make it enjoyable for her increases the risk of STI/D transmission or pregnancy. Not that I don’t care about a woman’s orgasm , but that only applies to my girlfriend or someone I want to be my girlfriend . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/23 03:07 PM |
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