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Deviou5/r/seduction30/04/14 07:00 PM
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Deviou5/r/seduction12/05/14 08:15 AM
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Deviou5/r/seduction11/05/14 07:36 PM
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This. Get off your ass and out into the real world. Forget Tinder.
/r/seduction11/02/16 12:28 PM
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The circumstances of your breakup are extremely relevant here. Generally speaking, there's a reason relationships don't work out, and it's not advisable to expect a second time around will be any different. The exception is if the reason for the breakup is an issue that both CAN be rectified with the passage of time apart, and that is successfully HAS BEEN. Ask yourself why it didn't work out the first time, and if anything has changed since then. Be honest with yourself. IME, getting back toget…
/r/seduction06/07/15 03:46 PM
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Just a quick update for anyone who might happen to come across this: I tried this method out after reading your comment and posting my questions. I'm averaging 5-8 matches a day, and last night was my first RL encounter with a tinder match, and it resulted in an easy F-close. So far, it's a way more efficient use of my energy.
/r/seduction16/06/15 10:12 AM
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I care. Any reasons I might have are my own, and not subject to the opinions or criticisms of anyone else. I'm not concerned about getting "90% less swipes," because all my activity has been IRL anyways.
/r/seduction12/06/15 03:54 PM
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I'm not a Tinder user, but this idea has me tempted to give it a whirl. Do you include a face pic? If so, how is this any more "discrete" than a regular Tinder account? Thanks!
/r/seduction12/06/15 11:30 AM
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I don't think you should resign yourself to that fate, either. Own your dorky nature and find a way to turn it into an advantage. The closes will come. Being comfortable with yourself is a huge part of what people call "confidence." Aside from that, you've got your whole life once you're finished school. Don't worry so much about what "most kids" do in high school. I think it was Twain who said that if you ever find yourself on the side of the majority, it's time to re-evaluate some shit.
/r/seduction23/12/14 11:38 PM
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I think this is an interesting question. Personally, I think changing yourself fundamentally in order to attract these girls, or even just to make people think a certain way about you, is contrary to the entire spirit of this sub. If you're an extroverted dork, just be an extroverted dork. Own it. Think creatively about how you can turn this inclination to your advantage. The most powerful tool in my personal journey has been acquiring the ability to be 'fun,' and you sound like fun. Maybe these…
/r/seduction23/12/14 10:05 PM
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Disagree. OP, you fucked up. That's nothing to be proud of. Now you can either crawl back into your cave, beaten, or you can stop being a bitch about it, learn, and try again. One of these options IS something to be proud of, but you have to decide which path you will take. We are all here because mediocrity is an unacceptable outcome to us. You are welcome to join us; to devour life and savour all it has to offer. The road is hard though, your mind and body will fight you every step of the way.…
/r/seduction27/05/14 06:32 AM
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^ So much this. You're just screaming AFC at us here my man. Start from scratch: read the sidebar articles, learn the basics, apply it IRL, repeat, repeat, repeat. If you can't do that, you aren't committed enough in the first place for any of our advice to help you anyway.
/r/seduction27/05/14 06:13 AM
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I second this. It's not a metric I've seen before.
/r/seduction27/05/14 06:04 AM
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For fair warning, I suppose. I was drunk as hell.
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:45 AM
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Solid. I love reading FR's like this. It contains really solid game, and you really seem to understand the why behind each element. This is very refreshing after reading so many FR's that are just a synopsis of a bumbling night out which ends with an easy drunk lay or a #close.
/r/seduction11/05/14 06:51 PM
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There are guys around who have huge success in clubs, and guys around who don't. It can't possibly be "just you." The key, as in all things, is persistence.
/r/seduction07/05/14 10:11 PM
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Club game is my weakest point as well. To me, it seems like you're focusing on conversation too much in an environment that isn't really conducive to it. I believe club game relies more heavily on kino right from the outset of the interaction. Dancing is, in my estimation, the best way to initiate this. After dancing/touching/etc. it might be possible to move the interaction to a quieter corner of the club, or (even better, I should think) outside "for some fresh air." From there it's really pre…
/r/seduction07/05/14 08:00 PM
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Great post. Sometimes it really helps to put things into words like this, and your experience can give us all some valuable insight into our own behaviours. I, for example, notice a similarity in that I often don't definitively break it off with girls I'm seeing; I tend to just let it "fizzle out." Travel is a big, lifelong goal for me that I doubt I'll ever completely satisfy. Some future destinations I'm really excited about are Thailand and New Zealand. In fact, an acquaintance of mine did ju…
/r/seduction07/05/14 07:52 PM
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Absolutely.
/r/seduction05/05/14 08:18 PM
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^ this. However! Unless you're totally confident in your own game, having a buddy along can help make you massively more comfortable and therefore confident. Also, rolling into a party solo kind of stinks. I would bring friend #2, all the buddies I've got that are in committed relationships are no fun at parties (not as it pertains to getting me laid, at least).
/r/seduction05/05/14 08:16 PM
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As much as i try im still overweight, and it makes me feel inferior i guess. Put this idea out of your mind. You're applying a male system of qualification to yourself. Women don't work this way. There's this girl I used to hook up with who I run into regularly, and she commented on my recent weight loss rather negatively. She prefers her men a little on the chubbier side, and you know, this really has not been an isolated incident. For every (physical) type of man, there is a whole subsection o…
/r/seduction05/05/14 07:58 PM
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"someone that intoxicated is unable to give consent" Your friend is kind of being a dick, IMO. The chick was interested in you while sober, and even commented on how she planned on getting herself drunk. If you were pushing the booze on her in an effort to get into her pants, I would agree with your friend. This girl knew what she was doing, it all went exactly as she intended, but then she felt guilty after and is now using the alcohol (which she ordered and paid for herself) as an excuse to pu…
/r/seduction05/05/14 07:47 PM
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I hope someone comes up with an answer. This is addressed all over this sub. You're asking about seduction 101. Take some initiative, read the articles in the sidebar, apply the things you learn, THEN come back to us with sticking points. Come on man, you're asking for us to spoon-feed you the answers, just like you're hoping for these girls to spoon-feed you the pussy. Life doesn't work that way, and neither should this sub.
/r/seduction04/05/14 05:03 PM
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I mentioned "quintessential man" because it's the name of OP's blog. That said, I disagree that such a pursuit is contrived. Georges St-Pierre said, "I'm training all the time. My goal is perfection, but I will never reach perfection." To each his own, though. I respect your difference in opinion.
/r/seduction04/05/14 08:55 AM
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Owen Cook AKA Tyler Durden from RSD I'm highly mistrustful of a website that features an article on its front page titled "How to Use Hoes to Fuck Hotter Hoes" I consciously chose not to link to the article in question because I don't want to generate extra traffic for something so idiotic. Best of luck on your blog Andrian, I wish you nothing but success. I will append however that from what I've seen, "Tyler Durden" is far, far away from what I would consider a "quintessential man." Consider y…
/r/seduction03/05/14 11:13 PM
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I can't dance. I have some kind of severe psychological aversion to it; when I get put in a position where I have to dance (say, at a wedding), I generally shut down which is obviously lethal to my game. This also makes club game very tricky. On a positive note, this affliction has made my day game very solid. I plan to finally overcome this strange phobia by signing up for salsa classes at my local university this fall when they run the next course.
/r/seduction03/05/14 08:47 AM
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For fuck's sake, get out there and just TALK TO CHICKS! Reading all the pickup books and forums and knowing every trick and routine will never do ANY good if you can't drag your ass out the house and apply all that info.
/r/seduction02/05/14 07:35 AM
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It seems that your problems extend a bit beyond the scope of seduction forums. I'm certainly no therapist, but I am a firm believer in the idea that we are all capable of affecting the changes we want to see in our lives. Everything worth doing is difficult. I'm not sure if you've tried therapy; there seems to be a pretty potent and totally unfounded stigma about it these days. If you haven't, its probably worth checking out.
/r/seduction02/05/14 07:18 AM
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Don't overthink it. She's already into you or she would have rejected or flaked. Personally, I'd plan for a second activity to sugges if the coffee goes well and you're hitting it off; something interactive, ie not a movie or dinner. Ice cream in the park is a pretty standard go-to for me, and hasn't failed me yet. This brings me to the biggest tip I can offer: DONT FORGET KINO. Seriously. It can be nerve-wracking, but just sack up and touch her. Can't wait for the FR! If it pops into your head,…
/r/seduction01/05/14 09:50 PM
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Sure we can! Maybe we cant find 20 girls TODAY, but pickup and self-improvement is a long process to get a grip on. Don't sell yourself short, get out there and make approaches everywhere and the dates will come.
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:30 PM
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Flakes happen to the best pickup artists on the planet as well as mere mortals like you and I. Never believe you're worthless, my friend.
/r/seduction01/05/14 07:54 AM
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Word. This story smacks of fantasy and, even if true, the principle is the furthest thing from useable advice I've read today.
/r/seduction01/05/14 07:50 AM
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Well it was kind of a theoretical "today," of course sometimes life gets in the way. Its just easy to fall into the trap of putting things off until (insert arbitrary condition).
/r/seduction01/05/14 07:43 AM
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I am intrigued by this, but also a tax confused about what you mean by "actual astrology." Can you provide some resources so we can read further?
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:50 AM
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I commend you for trying a new strategy, never mind what the naysayers are telling you. I'm going to be watching for a report of your findings; great work!!
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:44 AM
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Why "this summer?" Why not today?
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:41 AM
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Gynecologist. Dudes are up to their elbows in pussy.
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:54 PM
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^ this. There was no kino involved since I felt like our conversation was already engaging enough ALWAYS kino. The conversation is NEVER engaging enough, until you're balls-deep in her. In fact, I think I'm gonna try running the Cube mid-coitus next time, just to be EXTRA sure.
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:52 PM
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I love this reply
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:46 PM
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This is an excellent observation of one of the pitfalls of my particular prejudice against bars/clubs, and a reason my next focus is improving my club game. Upvote!
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:44 PM
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I see you've ordered Models, but have you read it? The author discusses the idea of true self confidence being a state of higher investment in your own perception of yourself than in others' perception of you. Many of the factors you identify as affecting your self-confidence seem to relate to a concern for how other people perceive you. In particular: Making a fool of myself, thinking I can even do this. Are you concerned with feeling foolish, or with appearing foolish in the eyes of others? Th…
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:42 PM
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A favourite of mine that has given me a lot of success lately is Mystery's advice in "The Game" regarding the notion that the majority of the time, when challenged to choose a number between 1 and 10, a person will pick 7. Recently I implemented this by drawing a 7 on a cocktail napkin, handing it to a girl at the bar, and challenging her to pick a number between 1 and 10. When she replied "Seven," I glanced at the napkin, smiled, and turned away. When she unfolded the napkin, her mind was blown…
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:24 PM
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I prefer day game to clubs because I can select women who fit my chosen demographic. At clubs, I tend to overwhelmingly meet the drunk club girl type, obviously. This is not my favourite. Also I notice an increase in the odds of having to game around AMOGs, boyfriends, etc. At the bookstore I don't have to shout over some godawful dubstep, I already have a plethora of conversation options based on the section I find her in, and daytime girls generally seem to be less "on-guard" than in the clubs…
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:16 PM
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Congrats for overcoming your negative state and forcing yourself to go for the approach. Reminds me of the quote, "No matter how you feel, get up, dress up, and show up." That said, one approach for a #close isn't exactly field-report worthy. Next time, tell us about how you felt shitty so you went out and opened 50 girls for 15 #closes and 5 k-closes. That's the kind of stuff that makes good, inspirational reading!
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:45 PM
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Beyond "No More Mr Nice Guy," you should check out "The Way of the Superior Man" by David Deida. It's been recommended on reading lists all over this sub, and pickup resources in general. Also, read "Models" cover-to-cover, if you're skimming then you're certainly missing some valuable stuff, and that's one book above all others that I'd recommend to anyone.
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:35 PM
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