There are certain posts around seddit that stick out to me. These are posts titled something like "Should I wear a black shirt or a blue one?" or "Should I take a girl to the park or to the arcade?" or "Should I refer to a girl as sexy, beautiful, or cute?"

If anyone reading this has posted such a question, or intends to do so, I have an alternate recommendation: Try it!

Try taking 10 girls to the park, then 10 to the arcade, and YOU tell US which is a better option in your experience. In this way, you've just went on 20 dates with 20 different women, rather than trying to take ONE woman on ONE "ideal" date. Also, by testing these things out and sharing with the community, you are contributing and expanding the knowledge contained here. Through my explorations of this sub, I've decided that there aren't many questions that haven't already been answered somewhere. Getting good at pickup requires effort; if you're posting here to get a quick answer to a question you could easily answer for yourself in the field, maybe your difficulties with women go beyond what adjective you're using to describe that one girl you're texting.

Please, help improve the resources here by getting out there and coming up with your own answers. It's the alpha way.