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It's kinda a mess of words but I understood all of it. I'll take your advice and keep an eye open for it all. Thank you very much!
/r/seduction15/03/15 11:53 PM
1

I do not follow guide's besides self-improvement guides. But if I may confess, I am a bit scared that I will go to fast for a girl and that a shitstorm will open up and I'll hurt her or something. On the other hand, this isn't great either.
/r/seduction15/03/15 09:04 PM
6

Gotcha! I promise next time I won't make the same mistake! I promise that to myself.
/r/seduction15/03/15 08:53 PM
2

I'm kinda beginning to understand that. Like I keep repeating (I'm like a stuck radio now) I was raised to be very careful around girls and to listen to what they say (thanks, mom...) but I guess I should go back to just doing what feels best, agreed?
/r/seduction15/03/15 08:52 PM
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Makes sense. I've been raised to always respect what people said, and lately it's been breaking up. I'm a simple man who goes with either yes or no and I don't seek hidden meanings. I should change that. I don't think I lost anything, girls enough on this planet. I need to start learning somewhere. This is where I start.
/r/seduction15/03/15 06:30 PM
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Got it! Time to work on this. Contrary to your comment, I am going to start with Mark Manson's models. Not because I have doubt in what you say but more because multiple people do advice to start on that one. I don't think it could hurt.
/r/seduction15/03/15 05:31 PM
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I don't give a fuck about her, honestly. It's just that I want to learn for the next girl I encounter. I am not a ladies man, and I'm the first to admit that. I'm working my way to it, but the journey only just started.
/r/seduction15/03/15 04:22 PM
1

I thought that brand was from New Zealand, yes.
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:58 PM
1

"Do you know how many apples were abused for that drink? You are a murderer!"
/r/seduction19/02/15 12:08 PM
1

She's drinking cider. Thats cool! Good conversation starter.
/r/seduction19/02/15 05:28 AM
9

If he just likes brunettes thats fine. If he just likes skinny girls he's a douche. Nice logic.
/r/seduction31/01/15 08:32 AM
3

IMO you overthink this. You seem to follow a script. How about not using a script and give the honest answers you actually want to give? If some girl came to you reading a script like that would you be interested? Doubt it. Learn to improvise. You think the conversation is boring? Tell her. If she smiles and asks you to spice it up, ask a ridiculous question like "Whats your fav position?" Some may be happy to answer, some may act offended, but the thing is that they will answer. Suddenly they h…
/r/seduction29/01/15 05:41 AM
1

It took me 3 years to go from absolute social isolation to being ready to date girls and handling the positive and negative emotions around it.
/r/seduction27/01/15 05:37 AM
1

Currently growing my hair out at 19 years old. I need to work on it a bit but it's coming along. Usually I hang around a lot of alternative people. Many of them have long hair, too.
/r/seduction20/01/15 10:41 AM
0

Many Hollywood stars have long hair. But I guess they dont real and your world views are the only correct ones on earth and therefore you dictate what all 3.5 billion girls on earth like.
/r/seduction20/01/15 10:38 AM
2

A = Abortion
/r/seduction16/01/15 12:45 PM
9

In The Netherlands talking about age is fine. I have never understood why English and Americans think it is rude.
/r/seduction15/01/15 10:30 PM
8

Finding your center does in fact increase your confidence by much more than people think.
/r/seduction14/01/15 06:12 AM
1

This is the truth. If only it was so easy. Doing those things requires a lot of resources. It requires time, money, self respect and discipline. And truth be told; I don't have anything of that. I simply dont know where I should start.
/r/seduction09/01/15 06:58 AM
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Let me turn it around. When you see a ugly girl you will know she doesnt attract many men if at all. The girl most likely is aware of this. Turn the gender around and you have me. My personality is nearly as bad as my looks.
/r/seduction09/01/15 05:14 AM
1

Sort posts by controversial. The bigger the problem the more downvotes it usually gets. You can get upvotes by repeating vague things about Mark Manson.
/r/seduction09/01/15 05:10 AM
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Discipline. Which I dont have. Which I cant get because I dont have it. Edit: I don't really care about downvotes and karma, but it does send a very negative message that people who don't fit the /r/seduction image simply aren't welcome at all.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:58 PM
1

Even when 99,9% of girl are absolutely not attracted? Im not an attractive guy.
/r/seduction08/01/15 06:01 PM
4

You've probably broken more hearts than I have let approach opportunities go to waste. And trust me, that's not just 1 or 2.
/r/seduction07/01/15 12:55 AM
10

Your problems may lay in taking stuff too literal. I was talking in exagerative ways.
/r/seduction02/01/15 11:40 AM
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Ive dragged my reputation to hell and beyond by dating the ugliest girl of the school at the time. If it has a clean pussy, is somewhat sane and mostly human, I'll go home with her. I think my problems lay elsewere. And I already sort off know where.
/r/seduction02/01/15 02:40 AM
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I just open the snap and close it away to get back to work without taking time to reply.
/r/seduction15/12/14 03:57 PM
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If I get snapped while Im busy I wont reply. Then I forget. Then I remember 2 days later. I can relate.
/r/seduction15/12/14 05:57 AM
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Why? You want to show her that you are interested. Just not that she is your everything. Step 1: Make clear that you have at least some interest in her, but be clever about it. Step 2: Don't put her on a pedestal, which is the clever part. If you come across as desperate you will fail. A friend request in nothing special. Really not. I can get 100 a day if I went out and asked all the people at a club. I get them from people I have never even met, especially girls, and we often make plans to mee…
/r/seduction14/12/14 09:29 PM
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She may not have time. Accept her facebook, wait for her to snap back. Make a date for the next date. Don't be desperate. If after all she flakes, let her be and go for the next girl.
/r/seduction14/12/14 09:17 PM
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Bloody hell
/r/seduction10/12/14 05:37 PM
1

That's life. Have fun putting the positives and the negatives together. Getting a girlfriend is not a requirement in life. It's more like a compliment to it in case you feel like you can handle one.
/r/seduction10/12/14 05:36 PM
3

Yay i'm at least 3.5% attractive. Half the stuff that I have ever said even makes sense.
/r/seduction10/12/14 05:31 PM
2

But an interesting view you have nonetheless.
/r/seduction01/12/14 07:24 AM
1

The general view on TRP here is very negative, and I am not positive on it either. But if it works for you. You can totally go for the non mainstream rocker style. You wont get those typical playboy girls often, but instead you get women with heavy haircolour and extreme styles. Personally I dont even think that's bad. I am personally often attracted to non mainstream (not in the hipster way) girls because they are so much more interesting than the pretty Barbie-dolls who are used to getting att…
/r/seduction01/12/14 07:23 AM
1

So... what is TRP like? And why did you quit? Serious questions btw.
/r/seduction01/12/14 05:07 AM
1

Try to be mature about it. She is gone? Time for the next girl. Also /r/nofap cuz rubbing one out to cope with frustration doesn't sound healthy.
/r/seduction30/11/14 08:17 PM
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I know what you mean with night club girls. They are about as deep as their shotglasses but have a twisted perception of the world. But can you explain what was said and what happened exactly?
/r/seduction30/11/14 01:47 PM
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Ik ken dat probleem. Mensen denken dat iedereen hier op reddit Engels als moedertaal heeft.
/r/seduction28/11/14 07:59 PM
1

I have started some time ago and it does indeed do wonders if you do it your way.
/r/seduction18/11/14 06:37 AM
5

Which seems to be what is considered "good unique style" aka what a good amount of women would find attractive.
/r/seduction15/11/14 12:47 PM
1

I am doomed in thinking that I can't do better. That i'll always be stuck. I keep hearing from everyone "Oh you just have to think differently" but if that was so easy we just solved every single mental disease ever. Depression? Just think differently! Alzheimer's? Just think! Negative self image? Just think differently! Geez so easy I wish I thought of that myself. I know you're trying to be positive, but if it were a matter of "Just think differently" this entire sub wouldn't even exist! /r/So…
/r/seduction10/11/14 09:35 PM
0

Nope, my mom disagrees. She will not allow me to do it. Since my average weekly food budget comes to €5 Keto is 100% out of the question.
/r/seduction09/11/14 12:12 PM
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I will bring it up in conversation with my mom, who is still responsible for most stuff that I eat.
/r/seduction09/11/14 12:08 PM
1

Simple. If I start Keto now I would have to basically skip all festive events in the next two months. Traditionally we eat a bunch of non-keto friendly things between November and January 1st. Another reason is that I will have to convince my mom to help support me with this. If she refuses I won't have much to eat besides a few spoons of spinach a day. Third: I will have to research what I will eat. Obviously not steak, way too expensive. Nor fish, way too expensive. No fancy meats. Not a whole…
/r/seduction09/11/14 11:31 AM
1

I have studied Keto before, but got scared away by the thoughts of eating nothing but chicken and spinach for the rest of my life. I do say I am mightily interested now.
/r/seduction09/11/14 08:52 AM
1

I should start Keto as my new year's plan.
/r/seduction09/11/14 08:49 AM
1

There is a really fun reason as to why I havent picked that up yet. I live in a small house with 2 other people. I am 6'5 long. There simply isnt any space here. If I lay down on the floor next to my bed I will have to pull in my legs otherwise there is no room for me.
/r/seduction09/11/14 08:48 AM
1

Yeah Ive noticed that there are a lot of unexpected positives about AS. I will have to work on bringing those out and accepting myself.
/r/seduction09/11/14 08:45 AM
1

I've got a free Sunday to use for whatever tomorrow. Might as well invest it in doing useful stuff.
/r/seduction08/11/14 10:08 PM
1

I prefer to be on the readers side of a FPS, not on the perpetrator's side. So I will look into keto unless I can suddenly better myself without Keto.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:45 PM
1

While quotes have about zero influence on me, readable material such as books do. I will try to get some material to read around here.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:44 PM
2

I'll keep this in the back of my head next week. Maybe I can still befriend the girl at school. Thanks for the words!
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:34 PM
1

I want it badly. I don't know if I am strong enough for it, though.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:27 PM
1

Interesting! I have heard one should keep up Keto for most if not all of their life. Stopping Keto would bring back all the fat lost during Keto. Is this true? Because I think I can handle Keto for a month, maybe even up to a year, maybe up to 3 years when I graduate. But after that I think I would love to return to a normal eating pattern. Also, doing Keto during what is essentially Dutch college time seems hard. College is usually the time for beer and pizza. And my great hobby is making alcoh…
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:20 PM
1

Hey, a wall of text can only be answered properly by a wall of text. I can see how /r/NoFap might help and I have thought about it before. The discipline and self control will be very beneficial. I need to work on that. I should find pride in being a programmer. Especially these days when everybody uses websites and apps, it should be a special moment meeting the creator of such applications.
/r/seduction08/11/14 09:15 PM
1

I sorta enjoy working out. The weird thing is that I can't get myself to do things I enjoy either. It takes all my will power to get myself out of bed each morning to do the things I love. I am not sure if this is because I have depression or because I had depression in the past. Binge eating is involuntary. It is like blacking out on drugs. Doing things without thinking. It is almost like yawning when someone else yaws. Before you know it you have your mouth open in response to the situation. F…
/r/seduction08/11/14 08:18 PM
3

Hey man, quality answer! From your story i can tell you have hidden feelings, experiences or emotions from your past that you are not acknowledging. These things can easily affect your behavior and the way you live your life. So a first step is to take the time and think about every detail of your life past and present and start forgiving or start acknowledging your own mistakes. You need to make peace with yourself and others. I know there are issues. I just haven't named them all in this text …
/r/seduction08/11/14 08:13 PM
2

I both agree and disagree with your post. While programming is indeed for smarter people (I mean, if you fail to understand what is going on you are a shit programmer) but there is still this 'programmers are silly nerds' bias around. I sit behind a computer screen for hours because I enjoy it. Nothing about discipline. I enjoy sitting back with a beer just gently scrolling through code like I enjoy sitting behind a screen watching movies, reading a book or playing video games. Keto appears to b…
/r/seduction08/11/14 08:05 PM
1

I've tried to do so for at least 7 years. I have had "professional" help as they call it from a few dozen people now. The more I try to fight it the further I sink. I spend a lot of my time wondering if I just should let myself slip and let go of a productive life.
/r/seduction08/11/14 07:42 PM
2

I see where this response comes from and where it could definitely work, but there are some troubles I'd like to throw in for discussion. Just bear with me. About the overweight part; I have two things going against me. I have about zero discipline. I try to follow C25K but I just can't get myself to go. I want to go to the gym but I don't want to spend the money, which I don't have much of. I am also a binge eater. Whenever something happens I want to eat. Whenever I am bored I want to eat. I c…
/r/seduction08/11/14 07:28 PM
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And to have social skills. If you hace a lack of social skills you shouldn't even bother trying. Yes you can learn some social skills but not all of the necessary skills can be learned - otherwise we could cure Aspergers, too.
/r/seduction27/09/14 09:48 AM
2

Moral of the story: Don't be scared of women.
/r/seduction25/09/14 11:37 AM
1

I doubt that. If youre in a business I really hope you pay attention to customers. How else do you survive?
/r/seduction10/09/14 09:17 PM
1

Example! When I walk in the door slightly slouched over and look around somewhat unsure, youre going to form an opinion before I even fully enter the room. This goes mostly subconcious.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:48 PM
1

All seems somewhat correct but the first one is not. You would be amazed by the amount of things you get critisized on without knowing. The way you walk, talk, speak, look, move your fingers, move your body in the smallest ways you have never known about. Everyone notices these details, but few people notice they do.
/r/seduction10/09/14 04:04 PM
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Dont drink (that much)
/r/seduction15/07/14 11:05 AM
1

Been trying for a while now. Only more reasons to hate myself emerged.
/r/seduction11/06/14 06:19 PM
2

I hate myself. Now what should I do?
/r/seduction11/06/14 09:06 AM
1

Once I have lost weight and worked on my appearance I might do this too.
/r/seduction23/05/14 07:42 AM
2

The numbers, Mason! What do they mean?
/r/seduction15/05/14 06:05 AM
0

There must be something wrong with you. Must be. Seriously.
/r/seduction03/05/14 07:32 PM
1

Fortheloveofgod... There is no volunteering.
/r/seduction03/05/14 07:27 PM
1

Have you even tried asking? Have you tried helping out? They would probably let you. You need medical papers from a doctor to enter. Not gonna work. This isn't Russia where 30 dollars can get you everything. The guy at the front will simply tell me to fuck off. I can do 2 things: Work out with what I have: A nice piece of forest to run in and a home where I can do squats. Or give up. Do you see an alternative? I'd like to hear it.
/r/seduction03/05/14 07:09 PM
1

I have replied to someone else here and i'll write it out again. I mean no excuses, but I live in a small village. The thrift/goodwill stores literally have trench coats at most. I live with my parents, they supply my food, but have absolutely no money left for clothes as both my parents don't have a job, and soon one of them won't even have a house. I've been to malefashionadvice and I don't like the style. It's nothing for an 18 year old in high school like I am myself, besides costing too muc…
/r/seduction03/05/14 07:03 PM
1

This is The Netherlands. High schools have sports hour once or twice a week for its students but nothing like a gym or something. And the only gym there is in my village is one for medical purposes. As I've not lost a limb yet there is no possibility of going there even if I had the money. And i'm about to lose my job so I don't have the money. That's why I run when I have the time, but that's all the sports I can get. I can't even afford clothes. Most of my closet inhabitants are second hand. I…
/r/seduction03/05/14 06:55 PM
1

Dude, the nearest Costco is rougly 6000 kilometer away from me! That's fucking impossible! I live in a small village in Holland where there IS NO GYM.
/r/seduction03/05/14 06:45 PM
0

Ive gotta focus on that workout and clothes part. I do run sometimes but I have no money.
/r/seduction03/05/14 01:03 PM
1

I make approaches on many places at many times, but I usually get laughed at right in my face. HAHA! I would never date YOU or something along those lines has been the only answer I've ever gotten to any sort of approach I've done. Which is really JUST the assurance and confidence boost I need when I'm already falling into depression /s I don't just mean rejected on dating level. Most girls even refuse friendship when I offer friendship. Girl I've known for longer usually just turn their backs t…
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:37 PM
1

Where do I find 20 girls that want to date me? I'm happy if I can find 1. Bit of a bad post. Not all of us can just find 20 girls eager to date us.
/r/seduction01/05/14 10:18 AM
0

Well what can I change about myself? Who I am? By just lying to myself hoping it'll work? Idk man but I doubt it.
/r/seduction26/04/14 11:05 AM
3

Im depressed of both the past, present and future. My life was worthless, is worthless and will be worthless. Now where is your cheap wisdom quote?
/r/seduction26/04/14 08:09 AM
5

Good point. Have a upvote as beer is hard to send internationally.
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:47 AM
3

When I meet a lady somewhere, like yesterday at a massive event I was at, they like me at first but it somehow turns around after some time and im left like 'what did I say?'
/r/seduction20/04/14 11:25 AM
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Im convinced. Giving up porn completely (bye nsfw reddits) and limiting the faps. Easily said, yes but I am not a major addict as I only watch pictures of /r/nsfw occasionally. I am not having sex yet, anyways, as girls in general dont like me, but it said that it may aid in that way too. What do I have to lose?
/r/seduction20/04/14 09:36 AM
3

When in Melbourne just watch out for a naked guy throwing eggs.
/r/seduction18/04/14 08:04 AM
5

Perhaps grabbing her penis, while we're on the topic of stupidity.
/r/seduction11/04/14 06:26 PM
1

That explains why people dont laugh at my jokes.
/r/seduction09/04/14 03:56 PM
1

That is actually a great strategy. It helped me somewhat.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:04 AM
1

Sure does, m8! I usually try to be somewhat flirty with all ladies of ages 15-22 (i'm 18) but nothing really happened yesterday. Trying again next week. Maybe getting something going midweek but usually nobody wants to hang out. Btw how's your health?
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:50 PM
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Field report! http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/229uas/what_if_you_have_no_confidence_at_all/cgl943r
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:55 AM
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Btw field report http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/229uas/what_if_you_have_no_confidence_at_all/cgl943r
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:54 AM
2

It was basically really simpel. I went to the bar. Saw some people I know (my usual pub with the usual people) and just sat with them and talked a bit. A girl I know comes up to me but I just completely blank on having a conversation and I dont even know what to say, so the conversation runs pretty dry in like 3 sentences. After a while the entire group of friends is starting to leave as there was a party somewhere else and the bar was basically dead quiet. So I moved out of the pub towards a ba…
/r/seduction06/04/14 05:22 AM
2

Going running again tomorrow or monday (depends on work). Going to a bar RIGHT NOW
/r/seduction05/04/14 07:55 PM
1

That last sentence just hits a homerun. Going to a bar literally now.
/r/seduction05/04/14 07:55 PM
1

Haha the 1's are a wee bit wonky, but that's no problem. Reddit has a sort of number code thingy. I don't get it either. Replace it by Putting '* ' instead of numbers. Be active I am rather active. I have to focus a lot on work and school, but during weekends I try to make some friends. I've got many people I get sort off along with if I meet them, but non of them are what I would call friends. More acquaintances. Be attractive I've never been and probably never will. I realise fully how stupid …
/r/seduction05/04/14 03:39 PM
1

I should go into detail a bit more. I'm 18 years old, and for the last 3 years I've been trying to do so. Nobody seems to want to spend time with me. My confidence lately has been sub-zero. I am sort off hoping to get more friends out of all this, too, because I really feel lonely.
/r/seduction05/04/14 03:07 PM
1

I don't have confidence. I can skip this posts, right?
/r/seduction05/04/14 02:35 PM
1

Appreciate the reply. I am usually funny when i'm not too shy. Though my sense of humor is often a little extraordinary, which some people absolutely love but others absolutely hate. I guess I have to find a place in life.
/r/seduction03/04/14 03:43 PM
23

That's totally a different unrelated story!
/r/seduction02/04/14 08:09 PM
14

No girl wants to be my best friend...
/r/seduction02/04/14 06:38 PM
0

I am fat and ugly and my game is terrible. Do I even stand a chance? Can I approach girls on the train? How? Many questions. Much insecurity. WOW.
/r/seduction02/04/14 06:13 PM
3

You know there is more to it than just hi.
/r/seduction31/03/14 10:14 AM
4

What is wrong with this subreddit? I see a bunch of foulish comments that are more about the commenter than you. Hot or not, make sure you look like you take care of yourself. If youre overweight, dress accordingly. Same for all ratios of body size and other details. Now the next thing is to have some subject to talk about. Even the stupidest thing like "youre cute" or "hey didnt I see you before" or whatever the fuck is not the weather will work. Guys tend to take over the conversation usually,…
/r/seduction31/03/14 06:30 AM
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