Ugh. I just want to take a long shower. What happens now is not only does the woman get disinterested in me, I get disinterested in her too.

It just happened with a stereotypical night club chick. The stereotype is that they're impossible to deal with because they're not normal women. I fucked up and it killed all the passion I had that had been building up. Because it showed how impossible and difficult and abnormal she is.

Holding your frame either has a way of masking all of her ridiculousness, or keeping her from repeatedly committing bullshit you don't want to put up with.

It could be a sign I'm not cut out for the big leagues. Maybe I need to stick to women with the standard baggage, not the heavy baggage.

Main thing is you gotta be the buyer. Once you do something "nice" you've indicated that the product is flawed and you're willing to deal with it. BIG MISTAKE.