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lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:38 PM
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Are you implying that I'm raping women because I'm short?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/21 03:22 PM
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Who said I'm not both? I could be Tom Cruise. I could be Gimli. Who knows? You don't have to believe me, why would you? But believe this: if you're having trouble with women, it's not them. It's you.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:51 AM
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No clue, honestly I couldn't keep track of them until I got married. My wife is a dentist and an aerial artist. It's possible. If you suck with girls, it's your fault, not your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:48 AM
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United States in a major city.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:45 AM
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Psh. I'm 5'4" and I have never, ever had a problem dating or being with girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/21 04:43 AM
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I'm 5'4" and never dated any girls I've found unattractive (seems obvious but some guys settle; not me). Here's the thing. Some girls won't bang you no matter what. That's on them. Some girls actively seek shorter guys and love them. Most girls (in my experience) don't really care. I've dated girls who are 4' 10", I've dated girls who were 6'1". Dating and seduction is ALWAYS a numbers game, from us manlets to the 6'+ crowd. Don't assume that height is the end-all for game. What I do to balance …
/r/seduction21/02/17 06:33 PM
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You know... we very well may be my friend. I know not where my seeds have landed.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 07:35 PM
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High five your roommate, now that he's batting clean up after you. Crack a beer and enjoy your new Eskimo brother.
/r/askTRP06/10/14 12:55 PM
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I think the word you want is Solipsism. FYI.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 09:19 PM
1

Owen is the master of agree and amplify. "How do I know you're not being a dick?" "Teach me. Teach me." "You're going to show me how to talk to girls." "Tell me, tell me, tell me right now. Tell me how." Totally flips the script on this guy.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:15 PM
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What I mean is a full-blown shouting match over trivial nonsense, not putting your foot down on an issue.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:30 PM
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Bluepill me always thought: "whenever [girlfriend] and I fight, there's not really a winner. I was wrong. If you engage a woman in a verbal back-and-forth, you've already lost. Women are experts at the art of tongue lashing and you are always playing on the road in this case. She wants you to fight. She wants to see what she can get away with. She wants you to reveal the schematics to your circuitry so show can expose you. Do not give her the option. You cannot win, you can only not lose.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 09:21 PM
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"I'm not getting with you" and "you need to show me you are a nice guy" are great beginner shit tests. You can handle these by simply watching what she does, and not listening to what she says.. Remember, people (women especially) are simply slaves to body movements. If she's climbing all over you at a club, she's interested.
/r/askTRP29/09/14 02:31 PM
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Straight razor, shaving brush, real shaving soap. Proper beer glasses. Correct whiskey glasses. Shaker for cocktails. A real spatula for your grill. Good boots. Good belt. Good wallet. Pocket knife, multi-tool. Compass. Cologne? I use aftershave. Clubman Pinauld, Brut, Old Spice. Don't wear a fucking pocket watch. They only go with fedoras. /r/wicked_edge /r/malefashionadvice /r/knives /r/BuyItForLife
/r/askTRP26/09/14 06:31 PM
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Came home from work the other day and my girl greets me at the door in her cute little dress, make up on. She practically jumps on me, arms thrown around my neck, kissing me on the face and some of her lipstick gets on my shirt collar. I laugh and spin her around in the kitchen. "I know you had a tough day at work so I cleaned the kitchen and washed the bed sheets for you. I know you don't like doing that stuff." I didn't tell her to do this. She took it upon herself. My dad calls it "nesting". …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 03:26 PM
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Pretty simple shit man. I always remember she fell for the guy she met a few months ago. I have to keep being that guy or she'll leave me for someone that is. Fuckin easy to comprehend, to me anyway.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:44 PM
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She's only good until she's not. Stay frosty and follow the rules.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 11:09 PM
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I planned an outing for my LTR Saturday. Walk in the park, home-cooked dinner, and drinks after. That night she curls up next to me and says "I love how you just like, take charge and handle everything. I'm so busy with work and school and stuff I don't know if I could plan anything like that." Kissed her on the head and laughed. I've got a good girl.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 08:37 PM
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I have two clients in Canada, one from Montreal, and one from Oshawa. This is exactly how they describe the women from each part of their country, respectively.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 12:40 PM
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Once your mom dies, you're on your own.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:25 PM
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Next time you feel like arguing with a feminist, just go drive a nail into your brain and have some whiskey. You'll get more done and probably have a better time.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 11:59 AM
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I saw a girl cry when her belly button piercing stud came off while she was fucking around with it and it fell through the boards in my buddy's deck. They spent 10 minutes looking for it so she'd shut the fuck up. I mean, Christ. All I wanted was to enjoy some brats in peace.
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 11:33 AM
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My text game has been reduced to a tool to set up meetings. I'm building my empire here man, I don't have time to go back and forth with a girl because she's bored at work.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:45 PM
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That exactly it. A low SMV dude sending you a message, leering at you when you're wearing a sundress at Whole Foods at 8 pm on a Sunday, asking how you're doing while putting his hand on your shoulder? "EWWW CREEPER GET OFF ME RAPE!" High SMV dude lights a candle and then puts it in your ass while spitting on your face? "OH HE'S SO ROMANTIC OMG <3". You get the idea.
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 06:23 PM
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The hilarious part for me, anyway, is that as far as looks and all that go, I'm an easy 6. I'm kind of pudgy, still muscular from lifting, and short with a big nose. My hair is thinning and my teeth are stained from coffee. Girls do not snap their necks when I walk by. I get by strictly on game and other SMV things like being a musician, working a high-paying job, and keeping myself and my areas clean and tidy. A lot of these "creepers", as I looked through their profiles she was showing me, are…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 02:04 PM
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No shit, hand-on-Rollo Tomossi I had this conversation last night with a plate: Me: "Why do you still use OKCupid?" Her: "Sometimes when I have a bad day I just look at all the messages I get and I remember I'm pretty and worth something and it makes me feel good." Me: "Do you ever message them back?" Her: "Oh heavens no, these guys are creepers." Bam. Nailed it. RP Truth. AWALT
/r/TheRedPill11/09/14 12:47 PM
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Turquoise Jeep (for what they're worth) sling some serious RP Truth in their lyrics. Naughty Farmer. Choice lyrics: One thing that I've learned (learned) And this is for certain (certain) A girl would do anything anytime if you the right person (ahh) The thing about freaks (freaks) Sometimes they don't know (baby) Exactly how nasty or far that they'd even go Basically saying AWALT if you're an Alpha (truth). Why I Gotta Wait? Choice Lyrics: 2 weeks and she still holding out Making up excuses why…
/r/TheRedPill04/09/14 07:23 PM
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My uncle is pretty RP. Graduated college to be a vet, then soon after realized he would make better money designing buildings using architecture software. So now he works from his million dollar home, designing factories from companies like GM and Ford. He's 57 years old and is still is impeccable shape. He designed and build his own home, swims every day when the lake is frozen, and goes the same gym he did in college. His wife is a dime piece and the sweetest lady you'd ever want to meet. I've…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 09:24 PM
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Seems innocent enough. I always flirt with waitresses and cashiers when I'm out with the LTR. Applicable example: I was at a cafe getting gelato with my LTR on a little date one day. The girl serving us gelato was giving me obvious IOIs (it's all in the eyes). I didn't really engage her, just being polite. My LTR said as we left the cafe "God did you see the way that girl was looking at you? It just made me want to fuck you." We went home and did exactly that. Note the key in this little story i…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 04:29 PM
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I'm not married my friend, so I cannot lend much advice in that direction. Hitting on women and taking it too close, IMO, is a dick move and not necessary to inspire "dread game". Women have incredible, vivid, and active imaginations. All you must do is make your wife/girlfriend believe that you have options. It's a passive technique at its core. I would strongly recommend reaching out to u/Archwinger. The guy is a goldmine of knowledge. You could start by searching some of his posts on the sub …
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 03:15 PM
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I saw some Beta Curve thing the other day on another forum. I've forgotten the link, so I apologize for not delivering. Anyway, the overall idea was that you start out a LTR as alpha as you're going to be. Slowly, you start becoming more and more beta until someone breaks off the relationship and then the cycle restarts with another person. My personal approach is to begin a relationship as purely alpha as I possibly can, so that my LTR understands expectations, boundaries, and most importantly,…
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:26 PM
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I agree. Thoughts become actions. Self-fulfilling prophecy and all that shit. My point is, reading and learning is an incredible start, but in order to choke the pill down your gullet, you simply must actually go out into the big scary world and employ the concepts you learn here (at your discretion, of course).
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:14 PM
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The simplest way to swallow the red pill is to actually understand it. Simplest, sure. The best way is to live it. Hit the gym, update your wardrobe, learn a skill, push your boundaries, and see how you come out on the other side. Better? Good. It worked. Worse? Try something else if it suits you.
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 02:01 PM
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No one cares about the man who has nothing. We are disposable. Women inherit their societal value when they grow breasts and begin to ovulate. Men earn their societal value through hardship, failure, and combat.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 12:23 PM
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People always told me not to fuck on molly, but it's really not that much different. Just be safe and hydrate.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 09:52 PM
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Hobbies, career, how I bring it all together into one pretty rad little package.
/r/seduction29/07/14 04:08 PM
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It's important to remember that you are your wallet, cock, and fists. Everything else is the silver medal to her. If you can't support her, fuck her like an animal, and fight any motherfucker who transgresses on you or her, she'll find someone who will. Easy.
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 12:35 PM
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Misnomer. Everything is transient, even yourself. Louis CK had a bit that went something along of the lines of (paraphrasing for lack of memory) every relationship will end badly. You'll either break up, get divorced, or one of you will die. That's the way it is. What's important to focus on is being mindful of the present. It makes everything so much more precious, knowing that any second it could be taken from you. Enjoy your relationships, enjoy women, enjoy your friends, enjoy your life, but…
/r/seduction16/07/14 02:26 PM
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Pick up is a tool, nothing more. It's up to the operator to decide how he or she wants to use it.
/r/seduction16/07/14 02:19 PM
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I didn't downvote you man. Fuck I'll upvote you for being honest.
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:41 PM
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Incidentally that is also engineering in a nutshell.
/r/seduction15/07/14 05:02 PM
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Intelligence in women isn't high on my dating rubric.
/r/seduction15/07/14 04:16 PM
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Good to hear. We pride ourselves in quality control in my family.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 10:57 PM
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5 Hour Energy, a quick run, and pushups work fine for me.
/r/seduction14/07/14 08:50 PM
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Tell her "checks in the mail".
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 07:25 PM
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So you have a shitty personality. A little subjective, but I'll take your word for it. You have two options (feel free to correct me). Do nothing, stay where you are. Go out and start talking to people. You will be off-putting, and it will be hard. It will feel weird, creepy, whatever. But, we all start out this way from the time we're 5 years old on the playground. You have to repeat and fail over and over to calibrate yourself correctly.
/r/seduction14/07/14 05:31 PM
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I believe if a man harnesses his energy (testosterone), the urge to press on and achieve more comes naturally. No great man was ever complacent.
/r/seduction14/07/14 05:29 PM
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If they're rolling, you're fine. If you're rolling, be careful!
/r/seduction14/07/14 05:27 PM
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Tomassi's Iron Rule Number 6 covers this pretty well. I'll let him explain it.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 05:21 PM
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I'm glad you did this man. Short story: I was at a cafe a few weeks ago with a friend, and as I was paying the girl behind the counter was giving extremely obvious IOIs, asking me where I'm from, if I come here often, when I thought I'd be back. I flirted with her a little bit, and planned to come back to get her number in a few days (it's an area of town I frequent). I wanted to pounce but I wasn't "in the zone". I just went out to have lunch with my bro, not pick up. I went back to that cafe y…
/r/seduction14/07/14 04:34 PM
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Get a drink. Sit down somewhere. Take up space. (Legs spread, arms over the back of the couch, whatever.) Wait for people to come to you. Brought your guitar? Put it back. Want to let people know you're not here to have a good time? Take out your phone.
/r/seduction14/07/14 04:28 PM
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The context was people who watch TV, movies, read and shit before bed, and then complaining about sleeping problems. His instruction was essentially: do all that shit then go to bed. Keep the bed as a tool, not an augmentation.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:08 PM
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but in my heart I want a woman who truly loves me for who I am. Call your mom. That's who you're looking for. "Love" is conditional.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 04:03 PM
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I had a college professor say the same thing along the lines of taking tests and shit in class. He'd say: "Everyone that got an A on the last exam, and everyone that failed. Look out the window. Do you think anyone out there cares about how you just did on this exam? No. The world will turn no matter what you do in life." Depressing and humbling, but none the less extremely true. The only person that (really) wins and loses in life is yourself.
/r/seduction14/07/14 01:52 PM
1

I had a psychology teacher in college say that a bed should be for two things: sleeping and fucking.
/r/TheRedPill14/07/14 01:10 PM
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Mine goes like this 0 - wouldn't fuck with my shadow 1 - don't want to actively fuck, but would consider 2 - actively want to fuck and working on it
/r/seduction11/07/14 02:32 PM
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Either would be fine with me.
/r/seduction10/07/14 01:21 AM
2

You sound like a Southern Girl. Wanna get some sweet tea and have a bonfire?
/r/seduction09/07/14 09:55 PM
1

Dread is so effective because it can work largely on a passive scale. You don't even have to say or (really) do much, just let her see you have options.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/14 08:17 PM
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You need to re-evaluate your goals with women. Do you want to get laid? One night stand? Friends with benefits arrangement? Short term fling? Long term relationship? Hunting an elusive unicorn so you can grow old on the porch together? Start by having an honest conversation with yourself about where you want to go with this. It sounds like you have a good foundation, and that's half the game, but if you don't care enough, then of course you will fail.
/r/seduction09/07/14 03:25 PM
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The process is viciously symbiotic, and at some point you must necessarily push yourself into this cycle. As you become a better candidate for women, your success will increase, causing you to want to push yourself to be even better, to achieve more success with better (hotter, younger, etc.) women. I was in a similar situation, and took the slow burn route, with great success. Realize that pickup is essentially sales, and you need to focus on creating a product (yourself) that people (women) wa…
/r/seduction09/07/14 02:28 PM
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Yes, I would. I'm a catch.
/r/seduction09/07/14 02:22 PM
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Semi-related: The Frog and the Scorpion - Wookiefoot.
/r/TheRedPill01/07/14 12:03 PM
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My heart aches for Boxer every time I read that book. I loved him the most out of all the characters; Orwell really hit the nail on the fucking head with that allegory.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 12:41 PM
1

I guess I've been doing this since I was 14. I had sex for the first time at 15. I've had some girlfriends here and there, but like I say, just because you catch a fish doesn't mean you stop fishing. I was in a LTR for the last four years, so my game severely slipped, but I've picked it up in the last 8 months or so, been on several dates, been with some great (and some shitty) women, and have now settled with a good girl I plan to keep for a while. But like I said: never stop fishing.
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:24 PM
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Meditation, the concept of impermanence, and realizing self-validation as opposed to seeking it externally.
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:22 PM
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Consider that the fat friend is more or less the beta orbiter. They are non-threatening and will sit idly by as an emotional tampon when the quarterback of the football team fucks twenty cheerleaders and the HB9 needs to pound a pint of Ben and Jerry's.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 06:41 PM
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It's incredibly simple to understand, although from the female's perspective it's a one-way street. In every group of female friends I've known, they all have that "one girl". The fat, obnoxious, bovine chest freezer wrapped in Lane Bryant. They'll laugh and say "oh we love Brenda. She's so sassy and hilarious!" But what they mean is "our perceived sexual value increases dramatically when prospective males use Brenda as a frame of reference in context". Brenda is the real loser here. She believe…
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 06:33 PM
1

As a musician, I'd like to submit that the high you can get playing music in front of people is better than sex 9 out of 10 times.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 05:45 PM
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Mmmm I love it. The fire, the passion, the energy. Being 18 is awesome. First time for a generic dad talk. You need to focus on yourself. Seduction and pick up can be boiled down in a simple (although brutal) way. If you're not getting laid, you're not a guy girls want to have sex with. If you're getting laid, you're a guy girls want to have sex with. Seems obvious right? Apparently not. So for now, you need to focus on creating a product that you're going to sell to women. That's what pick up i…
/r/seduction18/06/14 01:57 PM
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All I could think of was Big Fat Friend. Good work man.
/r/TheRedPill18/06/14 12:33 PM
2

I agree! Hearty handshakes and cigars all around in the name of productivity. Have a good weekend my friend.
/r/seduction13/06/14 01:35 PM
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I would include sports, music, art. Find something that makes you stand out, and start developing skills you can learn past college. Programming, web dev, writing Android and iOS apps, electronics, anything. Never forget that although the people around you are friends, they are also competition.
/r/TheRedPill13/06/14 01:04 PM
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Given the choice, do you have a preference towards any of these outcomes? Yes, but in this situation I know that if a girl rejects me, I'm still in the exact position as I was before her. That is to say that her choice in the matter will not influence my life or outcome. If she accepts me, that's fine, but that too will not influence my life. All things are transient, to hold onto a good or bad thing (as you perceive it) is an awful way to live. In this way, having sex with an HB10 and not havin…
/r/seduction13/06/14 12:22 PM
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My outcome independence is: I'm doing this (approaching girls/approaching guys/some other risky thing) because it's fun, and as long as I'm having fun, that's all that matters. Nothing matters once that's been accomplished.
/r/seduction12/06/14 08:42 PM
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How are you different from any other PUA and why should I care?
/r/seduction12/06/14 04:52 PM
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Like others have said: agree and amplify. This is a unique opportunity to simultaneously prove that you're not bothered by the pandering of idiots, but that you're also funnier and more clever than they are. I usually say "yeah dude it looks like a little stack of dimes" or "it's like an acorn glued to my torso". Come up with your own and own that shit.
/r/seduction11/06/14 09:31 PM
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It seems like you're on the right path friend. An important thing to keep in mind is that it is your internal state that is your greatest tool to creating an external reality. Weightlifting, dieting, being (at least mildly) fashion conscious and considering your appearance are extremely important, and not just for picking up girls or being alpha. The other side is that you must cultivate an internal state of mind that encourages wisdom, knowledge, wit, quickness, variety, stability, and consiste…
/r/seduction11/06/14 09:27 PM
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If you allow them, certainly.
/r/seduction11/06/14 08:05 PM
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A "nice" guy is a guy who expresses kindness and generosity out of frame and a controlled state. He gives gifts, compliments, and acts out of his character, expecting nothing in return. These virtues are revered and yes, women (as well as fellow men) appreciate them. A "nice guy" is someone who does "nice" things with an expectation of return, especially from a woman. He believes if he showers her with gifts and affection that she will somehow see the light and hop all over his dick. "Nice" guys…
/r/seduction11/06/14 06:25 PM
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You should have sealed the deal when she was wrestling you for your computer. If a girl is allowing you to physically contact her you're in. Do you need a fucking graph? This is..... different.
/r/seduction10/06/14 11:47 AM
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I think once you get to a certain point, "picking up" (and by that I mean specifically the act of approaching women with the intent of sleeping with them) becomes natural, but the careful thing you must do is (like all things) be cognizant of balance. To me, the entire art of seduction can be boiled down in an extremely simple way: you need to become the kind of man that girls want to date/make out with/hold hands with/introduce to their friends and family/have sex with. If you truly have your b…
/r/seduction09/06/14 07:38 PM
2

I would like to see what your position on any other subreddits that teach something would be. I know the title sounds like I'm trying to bash this sub but that's now what I want to get at here. What I'm trying to figure out exactly is why some people need to look at this subreddit and try to gain knowledge from it. I see so many people who can get flyfish easily, they have no problems catching a fish or catching lots of fish. How can some people do these things so naturally that others can't? Th…
/r/seduction06/06/14 08:01 PM
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If you're doing something nice for someone as a means to an end i.e., buying a girl roses from Cub Foods and a box of chocolates under the unspoken premise that in return for these items she will let you get on top of her, you're being a "nice guy" and this will not get you laid. If you do something nice for someone because it fulfills a need in both of the parties involved without the expectation of reciprocation, you are being "kind" and people generally revere this.
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:53 PM
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Any issue that concerns acquiring of scarce resources merits a conversation regarding competition. It's part of the game.
/r/seduction04/06/14 03:50 PM
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"How To Catch Fish" - Insider Tips From A Fish
/r/seduction04/06/14 12:50 PM
1

Haha thank you.
/r/seduction04/06/14 01:55 AM
3

I would say, the skills you learn in order to pick up are actually the life skills you need to have a rich, fulfilling life. Things like confidence, outcome independence, social skills, intro-personal communication, taking care of your body, hair, appearance, carrying yourself with pride, having hobbies that place you directly in diverse social circles, knowledge on a variety of subjects, and all that other radical shit do not have anything to do with pick up. It's just that we strive for these …
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:26 PM
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r/fitness. There you go boys. Learn and live.
/r/seduction03/06/14 04:56 PM
3

Dude it's Maddox. Read the rest of his shit.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:28 PM
3

Maddox weighed in on bullshit like this a long time ago. Thank God for Maddox. Number 3 is RP in as few a words as necessary.
/r/TheRedPill02/06/14 02:12 PM
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That's the way she goes.
/r/seduction02/06/14 12:04 PM
1

Definitely dude. You don't need that shit.
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:41 PM
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Ok I read it. Fuck that girl, she's an attention whore and not much else. Next that shit, move on.
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:37 PM
1

Go on............
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:29 PM
1

Hahaha yeah I know right! I've never been to a club or anything where anyone is doing anything that could be construed as "dancing" so I don't get what the big deal is. If you have any shred of rhythm, you're 80% there.
/r/seduction30/05/14 02:06 PM
1

I usually just stand there and try to feel the rhythm. That's my serious answer.
/r/seduction30/05/14 01:42 PM
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You must be swift as the coursing river. With all the force of a great typhoon. With all the strength of a raging fire. Mysterious as the dark side of the moon.
/r/seduction30/05/14 12:02 PM
1

I'm pretty hip with the youngsters these days, and you can't go wrong with boppin. You could also try the Dlow Shuffle. I hear that's pretty fly.
/r/seduction30/05/14 11:55 AM
8

I've never wanted to fight someone more in my whole life.
/r/TheRedPill20/05/14 09:49 PM
3

Being fat doesn't mean shit. Case in point: Patrice O'Neil. That cat had tight game. Yes, he was a famous comedian, but I guarantee you he didn't start getting laid the day he became famous. That man knew The Game man.
/r/seduction20/05/14 03:06 PM
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Hey, that's how it works around here man. You read some shit, try it out, come back to write about it, and people just downvote the fuck out of you and claim it never happened. That's what you get for being on reddit I guess!
/r/seduction19/05/14 08:58 PM
5

Oh and my D&D reference in a reply below.
/r/seduction19/05/14 08:08 PM
3

What do you mean?
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:48 PM
3

I appreciate that, thank you so much.
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:30 PM
3

I work in an applications group for a 3D printing company. We have technicians that run our systems 24/7 on three different shifts, and all the engineers in our group are "on call" which means we have to help them when machines go down or pause.
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:30 PM
15

Not super smart, I'll give you that.
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:15 PM
7

Eh, every victory is worth celebrating. Good vibes all around.
/r/seduction19/05/14 06:00 PM
5

I look like this. I would say I'm not "hot", maybe a soft "cute". As for "doing this", I assume you mean running game specifically to pick up girls. I've been doing that since I was in high school. I'm a musician, so I have a natural disposition to "perform", and I have a lot of confidence in who I am as a person, what I'm about, and how I live my life. Does that suffice for explanation friend?
/r/seduction19/05/14 05:38 PM
29

I found out she did not, in fact, have the patent. Blowjob skills were above average, like she rolled a crit 20 on my dick.
/r/seduction19/05/14 05:05 PM
4

Ah you're in for a treat! This one was the Loft above Barfly. Yes, it's riddled with underage kids (18+ shows), but the vibes are solid and the crowd is amazing. I had a blast, all things considered. I'll tag you and keep you updated if we get word on any more. There are two at Animinnepolis this weekend, but that's a big ticket show.
/r/seduction19/05/14 04:32 PM
2

I'm printing this out and hanging it on my wall. Thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/14 03:54 PM
5

Thanks man!
/r/seduction19/05/14 03:49 PM
6

Yeah I could have, but a lot of the FRs here that don't specifically relate seddit knowledge get a lot of lash around here. Also, "wee tart" is now a resident of my lexicon. Thank you for that.
/r/seduction19/05/14 03:09 PM
2

xpost this to r/thathappened, please. I'd like to see it climb to the top.
/r/seduction19/05/14 02:57 PM
3

Honest answer: My hunting dog, Ben (fox red lab), is better for getting laid because he sleeps in a pen in my house, where as the pug sleeps in either my bed or his bed on the floor. Whenever a girl is around, he insists on getting up in my shit which is annoying as fuck. I've taken a girl out with me to shoot trap with Ben in the truck, and she swooned as I ran him, giving him commands and telling him where to go to find the dummies. She also loved that I could make him sit and stay for almost …
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:46 PM
1

I use my hunting dogs for hunting. This dog is for chilling.
/r/seduction15/05/14 03:24 PM
1

Looks like pugs fit that description.
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:36 PM
1

What's a "real" dog? I'm feeling snarky today so let's have a pissing contest about semantics.
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:04 PM
4

Well... there's a spider in there.
/r/seduction15/05/14 12:09 PM
5

I have a Pug. Girls love Pugs. Actually, that's a misnomer. Everyone loves Pugs. So I just say "hey, you should come meet my Pug." I mean... look at this handsome mug.
/r/seduction15/05/14 11:36 AM
1

There's some truth to it. "If you keep shooting your rifle high and to the left, should you adjust it?" Yes, you should. But keep zeroing to figure out what you're still doing wrong. Maybe something in the mechanics is bad. Maybe you're shooting from the end of a breath instead of at the peak. Who knows? Perfect your mechanics first. That means proper trigger squeeze, arm support, sight aperture, etc. Oh we're talking about seducing women? Perfect your mechanics (inner game) first. Then you can …
/r/seduction14/05/14 09:46 PM
1

I'd say, just like anything, you should be natural. You should be yourself. However, if you find out that "yourself" isn't what girls want/guys want/employers want/your dog wants, you should probably calibrate and adjust to achieve your goals. You can be successful being yourself and getting friends or girls, as long as "yourself" is a person they want to be around. That's why it's called "the Game" my friend, and it's a cruel game.
/r/seduction14/05/14 08:36 PM
1

I don't think it exists. We allow ourselves to succumb to powerful emotions, and then call it "love". All relationships are a give-and-take. They have to be mutually beneficial at some degree between two people. Yeah that sounds shitty. It is.
/r/seduction14/05/14 12:47 PM
6

My tips for first dates are: Put your fucking phone away. Call her out if she starts screen gazing while you're talking about your [skill/hobby/interest]. Don't drink too much. Coffee or The Liquor. The former will turn you into a rabid whirlwind of chatter, the latter will turn you into a drunk bastard, which is really rad, except you don't need that right now. If you're not having fun, tell her. I've excused myself from dates and left in the middle because she's boring as fuck. Have some self-…
/r/seduction14/05/14 12:35 PM
1

Another important thing to understand is that regardless of whether or not our mind attaches a "positive" or "negative" emotion to an event, they will eventually pass, which means the warm fuzzy feeling about one girl you may have will go away, but also the sting of hurt from a failed relationship will also pass. This is the nature of impermanence, it cares not for your input.
/r/seduction13/05/14 07:57 PM
1

Fuck no. I wear a suit every day. Weekends I dress down.
/r/seduction13/05/14 06:38 PM
2

Take a look at "self-fulfilling prophecy" my man. Essentially when you decide something regarding your future, you will begin to exhibit behaviors that will enforce that idea. If you don't believe it, you need to bring that up with every psychologist and professor on Earth.
/r/seduction11/05/14 04:43 PM
1

That's how you do it man. Barge in there and swashbuckle! I like coffee shop girls too, it's easy to talk because that's what they do, and usually the conversation is natural.
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:39 PM
1

[Euphoria intensifies]
/r/seduction02/05/14 02:12 PM
1

My piece of advice would be to read other threads about pick up and then go try some of the shit you learned, fuck up, recalibrate, and try again until you get laid.
/r/seduction01/05/14 08:24 PM
2

I agree. A small part of me is holding out for a unicorn, but I figure I'm a high value male, I deserve a high value female to match my lifestyle. If you settle for less, you're only setting yourself up for failure right? I will never settle, never quit.
/r/seduction01/05/14 03:50 PM
1

Cheers and all the same to you my friend! Keep in touch.
/r/seduction01/05/14 02:16 PM
2

I was stationed in Heidelberg for a few months. I loved Europe. Everyone there is very down to earth and... normal.
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:52 PM
1

Eh, it's not all that it's cracked up to be. Having a solid paycheck every two weeks is nice, but you become a slave to your things. I really want to do something drastic in the next 2 years, like move to a new country, go back into the Army full time, or maybe just go back to college full time and try something new.
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:44 PM
2

Yes. It's this little box I work in. I don't mind it, but I'm too exposed to my colleagues.
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:34 PM
2

I know that this attitude of "unavailability" creates a mysterious aura, which in my experience women (especially notably attractive ones) find irresistible. Again, if that's the case, I wish them well in their hunt, but there's no way I'm going to skip a run, slack even for a second at work, put down my copy of the Iliad, sleep in on a weekend, or ditch my bros to meet her for coffee. I wish I was sitting on a terrace. My terrace is my cube, but at least I have tea and music!
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:22 PM
1

If I do, great. If not, great.
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:12 PM
3

I think a lot of the vets here will agree that although modern science, psychology, and biology have advanced us to a better understanding about the social dynamics between men and women, the actual "art" of picking someone up is almost entirely trial-and-error. There are simply too many variables to create an equation that will work. Which is why it's crucial that establish those lines. Certainly there are things that we shouldn't do, things we should do, but in the end it all comes down to set…
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:11 PM
1

I'm 25** To quote Louis CK: "If I bump into a pussy I'll fuck it". I'm not actively seeking a relationship, partner, anything. I'm pursuing my interests, reading books, meditating, working out, and nurturing my relationships with my friends. Sadly, a woman is just not part of my equation right now.
/r/seduction01/05/14 01:06 PM
2

They're rad? Like I said, I don't find sex all that alluring anymore. I got plenty when I was a younger man, now I'm focused on conquering other things like my mind, body, career, etc.
/r/seduction01/05/14 12:43 PM
3

It peaked at about 21, then drifted back to dinosaurs and Legos towards 24.
/r/seduction01/05/14 12:38 PM
3

I was always taught "train as you fight", but in some cases it's not bad to get out and iron out some wrinkles. And it sounds like you had a blast. Good stuff brother. If you guys make it to Minneapolis, hit me up and we'll birddog some Gopher girls.
/r/seduction01/05/14 11:58 AM
1

I still liked dinosaurs and Legos when I was 17. I still do at 25 so I guess that hasn't changed.
/r/seduction01/05/14 11:50 AM
2

Haha holy shit.
/r/seduction30/04/14 05:10 PM
1

Dude be a mortician.
/r/seduction30/04/14 03:56 PM
8

Libraries are free as fuck. Why don't people dig this resource?
/r/seduction30/04/14 02:42 PM
1

Black with black pants (tuxedo), brown shoes for literally everything else.
/r/seduction29/04/14 08:06 PM
1

Fake it until you make it man.
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:30 PM
3

Right, of course.
/r/seduction29/04/14 05:01 PM
1

I never, ever show weakness. Not at work, not with my friends, not when approaching women, not when lifting weights. Never. Why would you want to convey that you're anything but elite? Leave that to weak men.
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:32 PM
4

Sounds like something you could do with an honest hour of work and a Google spreadsheet.
/r/seduction29/04/14 03:17 PM
0

I'm siding with HappyJerk (the bastard) on this one. Game the fuck out of the guy, and remember to have fun!
/r/seduction24/04/14 07:49 PM
1

I've been out with friends who have literally pointed at a drunk girl in a bar and said "YOU" and she walked out on his arm after a quick 5 minute "where are we going" type of talk. Unreal.
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:31 PM
1

In fact... fuck it maybe I'll just go to Eau Claire next weekend and try PUA on easy mode.
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:19 PM
1

That's a shame man. The place is always bouncing, and Wisconsin girls are always friendly and easy to talk to.
/r/seduction24/04/14 05:09 PM
1

Man I miss Eau Claire. Picking up girls there could not even be easier.
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:51 PM
1

I assume everyone is wasted in WI 24/7. Actually that's a lie. I know it's true.
/r/seduction24/04/14 04:48 PM
3

Only in Wisconsin can you successfully open in a WalMart. MN love across the border you bastards!
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:11 PM
3

Fuck man. How do you ride a motorcycle with a pair of Epcot Centers hanging twixt your legs?! You deserve a fuckload of accolades as fuck.
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:21 PM
6

Holy fuck thank you.
/r/seduction24/04/14 01:04 PM
2

I love when girls do this. I tease the fuck out of them. A couple examples I've used in the field (with mixed results. Just try them.): "Oh you don't want to know that. I'm a bad guy." "Well, I just got out of prison, so that's cool." "I live in my mom's basement. Want to come over?" Just shit like that. Make it a game.
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:41 PM
10

For reference
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:38 PM
1

Only Sith deal in absolutes. There's an apparent spectrum when dealing with PUA. It's like: Neediness<------------------------->Not giving two fucks completely You need to find a middle ground. Of course it's important (tantamount, even) to have a great time. But if you want to get any tier of closes (#/K/F), you have to give something that could be construed as a "fuck".
/r/seduction22/04/14 03:01 PM
1

I could probably cook better than my dog.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:54 PM
1

Close.
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 02:22 PM
4

Outside of sex, can you think of any example where having a woman around is preferable to a canine companion?
/r/TheRedPill22/04/14 12:41 PM
2

"Attraction" is a combination of how physically attractive you are (obviously) plus how good you are at talking. Some guys can get by exceeding the populace in one way or another, but for the vast majority both are necessary. For every girl who rejects you, another will dig you. Find the ones that dig you. Always have fun. At the bar, at the club, at the mall, at the school prom, at the book store, at the grocery store, at the park, at the baseball game, at the gym, on your way home. Always have…
/r/seduction21/04/14 02:32 PM
1

That's what I did as a young man and it worked out swimmingly.
/r/seduction18/04/14 03:14 PM
2

First opinion and knee jerk reaction is "don't do it". But, I feel like a parent trying to tell his son not to drink. I know you're going to do it, so I might as well make sure you do it right. Gaming girls at work is easy. Painfully easy. The two things you have to do is: Don't be a fucking creep Be mysterious What I did was try to get a group together that does stuff outside of work. After you're done, just tell everyone you're meeting at some place for drinks or food or whatever and make sure…
/r/seduction18/04/14 02:19 PM
2

I've been fed this as well. I handled it two ways with varying success. The first time, I said "fine, I get to bring a friend too" and we proceeded to get wasted in front of these girls, telling stories and jokes. Honestly, I had more fun (as usual) getting dickered with my bro than with these two broads. The second time, I simply said "I get you one on one or not. Your call." She told me she felt more comfortable with her friend there (it was our first date) and I told her I'd pass. Never talke…
/r/seduction18/04/14 02:15 PM
1

Haha oh man. That's a good line. Putting that in the pocket for the summer!
/r/seduction17/04/14 08:22 PM
1

I do! PM sent.
/r/seduction17/04/14 06:25 PM
1

Fuck yeah dude!
/r/seduction17/04/14 04:34 PM
2

I'm flying to Iceland this fall/winter to do exactly this.
/r/seduction17/04/14 03:25 PM
3

Holy fuck dude that's rad. What struck me is that the alpha, shit-test master in you was already residing. I don't believe you just recited something from reddit, you already had that built into your brain, which is impressive as all ass. Bro fist through the screen. You're the man. Also fuck I'm going to try that next time haha Jesus.
/r/seduction17/04/14 02:04 PM
3

Landing Zone.
/r/seduction17/04/14 12:16 AM
1

No. The way I see it, she and I fulfilled each other's immediate needs. This is not an investment, this is a one-time transaction with no refund.
/r/seduction16/04/14 09:59 PM
7

Seems reasonable. I think every girl is a bad girl, she just needs someone to clear an LZ for her.
/r/seduction16/04/14 09:58 PM
3

I Am The Greatest Man That Ever Lived - Weezer
/r/seduction16/04/14 07:04 PM
2

Leave it alone for now. What I usually do is, on the day of the date, just shoot a quick message or phone call for confirmation. Then let her sit and think about you until it comes to date time.
/r/seduction16/04/14 04:02 PM
1

I'm only in school a few hours a week. I have one degree, and I'm working on a second for my job. He's a pug. I have awesome roommates.
/r/seduction16/04/14 11:37 AM
1

Pug is top priority. They're fantastic little beasts.
/r/seduction15/04/14 09:54 PM
1

I was kidding. I guess we'd have to see. I'd be more likely to approach a woman walking a dog if I was walking a dog. Like I said, just let the pug work his magic. "Sorry miss, it seems my dog is sniffing your dog's ass. Would you care to step into this cafe for a latte?"
/r/seduction15/04/14 09:46 PM
7

Using a dog to pick up guys?! Bold move
/r/seduction15/04/14 08:40 PM
6

Haha yeah dude he's dank as fuck.
/r/seduction15/04/14 04:18 PM
5

Smart-ass? It seemed like the simple answer to a simple question. It's literally that easy. If you're stuck on this first step, then you need to start small. You fucking walk up to her, and say "hi. I saw you from over there and wanted to introduce myself." It's that easy. Then, read the sidebar shit. There's a reason it's available for everyone. Learn about how to have a normal conversation. Read about how to touch her (not in a rapey way), how to laugh, how to smile. But remember, it all start…
/r/seduction15/04/14 04:18 PM
3

You walk up and say hi.
/r/seduction15/04/14 03:45 PM
5

It's all about the dynamic of the group. When my tightest bros and I go out, mostly every detail has been accounted for with military precision (I don't fuck around). So maybe what you need to do with your troops is have a war council. Decide who does what, etc. The general rule of thumb is whoever opens gets first pick in the group. Another part of it is knowing your bros. My best friend sucks at opening, but he's model-level gorgeous so his game is a passive one. I know what kind of girls he's…
/r/seduction15/04/14 03:20 PM
0

Whenever you want dude. I usually go two or three days, whatever I feel like.
/r/seduction15/04/14 03:17 PM
3

One of my senior guys in my unit always used to tell the young Soldiers: "You want sex? Get a woman. You want a companion? Get a dog." I've had both and I prefer the dog.
/r/seduction15/04/14 02:55 PM
18

My comment is still applicable. How's that for a twist?
/r/seduction15/04/14 02:50 PM
48

He only cock blocks me when I'm saddling up in bed and he insists on sleeping between my legs. So what do you do? Listen to your dog cry outside while you give the business? Fuck, I'd rather sleep next to my dog than any woman.
/r/seduction15/04/14 01:33 PM
6

Regret.
/r/seduction15/04/14 12:47 PM
183

Fuck when you're right, you're right. I have a Pug, which is like crack for college girls. All I have to do is walk this handsome bastard down the road and he takes care of the rest. Also, he's the life of parties, and girls eat him up. A pug (or other dog) is the best wingman, bar none. Just think about it, he's stable, great with openers, and won't rack jack you.
/r/seduction15/04/14 12:46 PM
3

Self-improvement starts as an internal state, and then manifests itself externally. Perhaps you're too reliant on external state? Have you tried meditating or something similar?
/r/seduction15/04/14 11:50 AM
3

And his upper body right?
/r/seduction14/04/14 11:39 PM
6

"We're all gonna make it, brah."
/r/seduction14/04/14 09:44 PM
2

I'm not sure. For me it was facing failure and being backed into a corner. I think every man has a fire in his heart. The urge to be self-reliant, to build things, to tear them down and build them better. We are all born with this, it's just that some people either decide to utilize that for different means, or perhaps ignore it entirely. Think of all the great men that have lived. Tesla, Roosevelt, JFK, George Washington. Yes, many of them were assisted by circumstances, but do you really belie…
/r/seduction14/04/14 09:03 PM
8

I specialize in bro pep talks. Get jacked for life.
/r/seduction14/04/14 05:55 PM
14

No woman is one in a million. Only one of a million.
/r/seduction14/04/14 04:28 PM
105

Fuck yeah dude. You've been given a gift: a blank check you can write for yourself. Oh, that sounds like some cliche, fuckin' happy dappy bullshit doesn't it? Yeah it does. And it's true. It's amazing what a few months of self-investment does for a man. If he is driven, motivated, with a fire in his belly and pride in his eyes, a man will repay himself tenfold in motherfucking spades. I'll give you my personal example, and yes, this is fucking bragging. I earned it. Don't apologize for being a t…
/r/seduction14/04/14 02:20 PM
5

"What do you hate most about being short?" "All you fucking people talking about how short I am." I'm 5'4". I never, ever, ever, have an issue. If some giant string bean broad made a joke about me being short, I'd tell her she can't come to my Hobbit hole because she'll bang her Big Bird head on the fucking rafters. Confidence + State > Physical traits. Every single time.
/r/seduction14/04/14 12:58 PM
1

Sounds like you and your buddies need to have a little "CE" (continued engineering) and identify your "roles" as a team. In my opinion, you have a wingman with a lot of raw potential, but he needs to polish it into a skill set that helps you get #, K, F closes. That's his job.
/r/seduction14/04/14 12:00 PM
10

I learned everything I know about picking up girls life from Johnny Bravo.
/r/seduction14/04/14 11:56 AM
1

During the day time?
/r/seduction11/04/14 07:17 PM
1

Could be? Maybe you're approaching the wrong guys.
/r/seduction11/04/14 01:15 PM
1

---------------------------------------> Sidebar.
/r/seduction11/04/14 01:03 PM
7

Ah, you've learned the difference between regret and rejection. This is a good tool to have in your box. Forget about her. She's not the only cute girl at that Starbucks. Next time, smile and say hi.
/r/seduction11/04/14 12:04 PM
3

Walking up to more than 2 girls (IMO) is walking into a pitcher's count. Unless you are Brad Pitt or have an apex wingman, you're fighting an uphill battle, and things will get quickly become dickered. Guys probably don't want to walk up and talk to you for the same reason they don't want to walk up and talk to any hot girls.
/r/seduction11/04/14 12:02 PM
1

"Routines" are what salesmen use to take your money. Be natural. Always natural.
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:49 PM
2

She was never one in a million bro. She's one of a million. And just think, if you can lock down a hot law student, other girls are batting practice.
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:24 PM
1

Sounds like you're ahead of the game. How long has it been since you dated? If you're out of the game too long, you need to take some time to knock the cobwebs off and get over those creaky joints. You have all the pieces together, but no blue print.
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:19 PM
1

You're fine dude. Get out of your head on this one, let your body take over. You think girls don't know what you're doing? Come on. Bring her to your place to "study", and proceed to game.
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:14 PM
1

Easy! Walk up to her. Confidently! None of this shoulders shrugged, eyes on the ground bullshit. You own this mall, you pay the fucking bills, so you can walk up and talk to anyone in your mall if you want to. Tell her you noticed her earlier and you thought you would come up and say hi. DO NOT approach her from behind or the side where she can't see you coming. By the time you walk up to her, you will have made eye contact, expressed your confidence through body language, and smiled at her. She…
/r/seduction10/04/14 04:03 PM
3

Walk on this one. She's just doing her job. So what? You fucking blew it. What did you learn? Are you better somehow for chatting her up? Probably. Take your victory and move on to better things.
/r/seduction10/04/14 03:56 PM
2

"Eww gin tastes like pine needles!" Smirk "I know, that's why it's so fucking rad." Also if you don't get two limes in that bride you're wasting your time.
/r/seduction10/04/14 03:36 PM
3

Gin and tonics. I don't see a lot of people my age consuming this delicious summer beverage, and I've used the history of the drink as a talking point. Also fuck they'll get ya some drunk.
/r/seduction10/04/14 03:16 PM
6

Put your jammies on bud. You're goin' night-night. Don't forget your zinc supplements.
/r/seduction10/04/14 03:10 PM
8

Because that's what people do?
/r/seduction10/04/14 02:22 PM
41

That's some truth there. Red flag.
/r/seduction10/04/14 02:16 PM
64

She's fucking with you. If it were me, I'd take a few days off, hit her up when I felt like it, and see if she's down to hang again. If she says yes, you're in. If she says "not tonight but tomorrow I'm free", you're in. If she says anything besides that, next.
/r/seduction10/04/14 01:04 PM
2

Hey man. I know those feels. You put on your war paint, marched into battle, and got licked. It happens. BUT. Look at all you've accomplished. You approached, you got numbers, you got the reference. You did what 99% of guys simply won't do: walk up to a beautiful woman and say hi. That's amazing. Too many people look ahead and say "I didn't get that", instead of looking at where they're standing and say "look how far I've come". So take your licking. Feel that burn in your chest? That fire will …
/r/seduction10/04/14 12:45 PM
2

Sometimes everything just falls in place, and you have a blast. That's life in a nutshell my friend.
/r/seduction10/04/14 12:42 PM
5

"Oh good afternoon Mr. Somre. What brings you in today?" "Well doc, it's spring so I really would like to get back on that Nasonex you gave me last time." "So you're having some allergy problems? Where are you experiencing them the most?" "Um... mostly in my nasal and sinus area. Sometimes I get itchy eyes but that's not as big a deal." Beat. Doctor pauses and pulls the pencil out of her hair, revealing long, shimmering brown hair. She folds her glasses up and hangs them from her white lab coat …
/r/seduction09/04/14 02:52 PM
14

A couple things I look for. Eyes. "The eyes are the window to the soul." - [Who gives a fuck]. The eyes are a treasure chest of projected emotions. When pupils dilate and a girl gets those sexy anime doe eyes fuck bud put your jam jams on because you're going night-night. Touching her hair, neck, or face a lot. Mirroring your movements. I test this by putting my right hand up to my chin and leaning on it. She'll eventually do it as well. Laughing and touching you. This is a bonus round because w…
/r/seduction09/04/14 12:10 PM
7

Having fun is what life is about. Everything is a means to that end.
/r/seduction09/04/14 11:47 AM
1

My big advice is just don't drink too much coffee and get out of control. Caffeine is a hell of a drug. Other than that, basic date stuff applies. Maintain good conversation, kino when it's appropriate, and keep the conversation light. If you can work it out, try going to a different location, or out for a walk.
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:32 PM
11

Evidence? Who gives a fuck. Go out an approach, see what works and draw your own conclusions. At the end of the day, all of us here are just circlejerking and trying our best at least to help each other navigate the dating game. If you don't believe a field report, say so. If you think an idea in pick up is bullshit, make your opinion known.
/r/seduction08/04/14 06:19 PM
5

It's all about time management. You can either dick around and game 1-2 girls, or cut your losses and pursue other women. If I'm dealing with one or two already, that's enough of an investment coordinating everything and allocating my resources. If I'm dry up, then I'm a little more crass with prospects. If I get a number and they flake, I delete their number, collect my notes, and move on.
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:58 PM
4

Take the victory (small as you perceive it) and move on.
/r/seduction08/04/14 03:32 PM
2

High school is just a bus stop man. Spend some time working on yourself (study hard, do well in school, lift weights, be active, learn a hobby), and when you get to college everything will fall in your lap.
/r/seduction08/04/14 02:22 PM
4

Feel that burn? It's a glorious thing.
/r/seduction08/04/14 01:02 PM
11

Go try it. Document findings. Write an FR. Deal with seddit. Calibrate and zero.
/r/seduction08/04/14 11:51 AM
2

I believe that fear must be leaned into. It's not enough to face it, to see it, to identify it. I must seek it. When it rains, you can stand in the door way, and let the water fall outside and think "it's raining, I think I'll stay in". Or, you can run directly into it, finding out after that it was just water the whole time.
/r/seduction08/04/14 11:46 AM
1

If that's true, then I would hope she would be vocal about her needs and wants. There's nothing worse than having the "talk", showing your cards, and realizing you both are wanting different things out of this union.
/r/seduction08/04/14 11:21 AM
1

Fuck me right?
/r/seduction08/04/14 02:58 AM
1

High school is a buffet. I did great in high school (the product of a marriage of being a musician/jock), and I had almost no game. It was that easy. If you learn ANYTHING here, you will slay. Start with the sidebar, weasel your way into some social groups, and good luck balancing all these girls. Remember: girls talk.
/r/seduction07/04/14 09:55 PM
14

I've been accused of this. "Game?" I say. "We're having a conversation. Why? What do you think this is?" De-escalate and deflate. Continue talking. Why does everyone think this "pick up art" is such a huge deal? All you're doing is talking to someone you're initially attracted to to see if you have any shred of compatibility. Christ.
/r/seduction07/04/14 06:31 PM
7

TIL 22 is an "older women". Get off my lawn. Anyway, 22 year olds can't be that hard. Follow typical game rules here. Keep in mind she's probably still in college, maybe lives at home, and is working on a social life that probably won't be conducive for an 18 year old. You'll have to get creative to get her one-on-one.
/r/seduction07/04/14 03:17 PM
1

Music. I would fail to believe that anything can demonstrate value, independence, status, and gives you a guaranteed opener like learning guitar, bass, whatever and playing in a band. Plus all the other good mental shit that comes with it, whatever.
/r/seduction07/04/14 02:50 PM
13

My crazy friend always says "boring people don't got no stories".
/r/seduction07/04/14 11:35 AM
1

Right on man. I feel you big time. We all go through ruts, and it's a bitch to get out of. I'm not quite sure what a lot of guys think "pick up" is, but I can tell you all the sets, opening lines, and kino in the world cannot (and will never) suffice in the face of the inability to have a conversation. That's all pick up is. Initial attraction plus good conversation. Boom. The beginning of a conversation with anyone is initially the same. It doesn't matter if it's a cute girl sitting by herself …
/r/seduction04/04/14 07:11 PM
2

Good man. You're doing God's work, son.
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:28 PM
3

My science brain activated and now I'd like to see a study of approaching girls on campus wearing yoga pants using exactly that line. Maybe not phrased as a question, but you get the idea.
/r/seduction02/04/14 04:24 PM
4

I had you until you blasphemed yoga pants.
/r/seduction02/04/14 03:48 PM
1

Excellent point. If that works for you, then you nailed it. My personal technique is to gauge another person's interest in how quickly they ask me a personal question. But I agree, once the door is open, tapping into a person's emotional state is the key to trust. One of my favorite conversation hooks is to ask someone where they grew up as a kid. That will conjure feelings of nostalgia and warmth as they recall their home, family dog, whatever. It's just that now you've added yourself under tha…
/r/seduction02/04/14 11:33 AM
1

That, I agree with.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/14 07:32 PM
1

Not at all. Basic conversation skills work for dealing with a stranger in a short amount of time in order to build quick rapport and trust. Doesn't matter if it's a car mechanic, guy you meet at the airport, the cute girl behind the counter at Subway, an older lady at the book store, or a salesman.
/r/seduction01/04/14 03:54 PM
1

I agree to a point. The approach is the game maker and the game breaker. We live and die by it. CAVEAT. Not everyone is a fucking rockstar, Johnny Unitas James Brown Gary Cooper son of a bitch that can just walk up and start chatting up 9s and 10s at the line in Starbucks and have them fighting over who gets to blow you first on the car ride back to their apartments. Some guys need advice on how to control their inner game and state, which is 100% what approaching and pick up is about. Without c…
/r/seduction01/04/14 03:15 PM
3

I'd say you have a few things to work on before you're out having conversations with the intent of sweeping a young lady off her feet. Conversations (for me) are as easy as this: Have you ever laid down treats or candy for a child to find, and then lying down another that's in front of them, and then another? And pretty soon the child is right where you want them to be? How did you do that? "All I did was lay the candy down on the ground and they followed it." Nailed it. What you do in a convers…
/r/seduction01/04/14 03:08 PM
1

I like rejection because it's usually the funniest part of my night.
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:58 PM
1

Serious answer: why wouldn't you? She has to go back there every day, you don't have to go back there if you don't want to. I asked a girl out from the coffee shop to tangible (although underwhelming) results. Just fucking do it and deal with the consequences later. That's confidence.
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:53 PM
2

Follow her into the bathroom and wait until she gets settled down on the toilet for a good long shit, probably fueled by vegetables and Starbucks Frappucinos. Then, pop your head under the stall up to her and say "excuse me miss, I saw you from outside the restroom and thought you were adorable so I just had to come in here and introduce myself". The goal here is obviously, and most realistically, a F-close. Right there in the stall in front of God and the fat lady who works at the front desk.
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:51 PM
1

I feel ya here bro. My favorite thing to do when in a conversation with a girl is bring up some trivia be it historical, mathematical or something of the like. Field Example: I was at a bar a few weeks ago seeing what was the same, and I came across a med student on accident. I was actually talking to her hotter, dumber friend who made some scientifically inconsistent statement about the human eye. I looked at her with a crinkled face and said "what, are you a doctor?" and the girl next to chime…
/r/seduction01/04/14 02:48 PM
2

It's easy as fuck is what it is. I wing for my two girlfriends all the time. One is straight, so we go out and she says "that guy". I walk up, bullshit with him, find out who he's gaming (if anyone) and if he's still on the fence, I just say "my friend over here wants to meet you" then I drop him off at the table while I go outside to catch a dart or go get another drink. My other friend is gay, so helping her pick up is really, really hard. Lesbian girls don't trust straight guys at all, so you…
/r/seduction01/04/14 01:31 PM
1

Engineer. Honestly, I'd say it's about the same as my college days slinging coffee at the local cafe. Being a musician is the card I try to play as much as possible. With older (23-27) year old girls, the engineer card is more effective. It implies security, stability, responsibility and intelligence (all of which I lack), but the younger girls (19-22) eat up the musician thing like crazy. They want me to play them guitar, piano, sing songs, come to my shows, be seen with me after gigs when I'm …
/r/seduction01/04/14 01:26 PM
1

Can't be hard. I usually go to a couple bars in the suburbs when I'm seeking easy attention. Happy hours on weekdays are your friend here. Just be interesting and funny and the older gals will eat it up.
/r/seduction01/04/14 01:23 PM
1

That's some real talk right there. Amazing how even in the US, the game difference is night and day. Like I've said, most Minnesota girls are hockey players, hipsters, or some abomination of both of those things. Ergo discussing the recent Wild trades, local music or art scene, or fuckin'... I don't know.. Kurt Vonnegut is basically a shoe-in. No wonder my hockey player and pretentious hipster friends crush up here.
/r/seduction01/04/14 11:26 AM
1

I did not. Really hard, yes.
/r/seduction01/04/14 11:25 AM
3

Holy shit you've given yourself the greatest gift of all time. Being away from home is like writing yourself a blank check for good times. I'll tell you my quick story and see what you can glean from it. I travel once in a while for work. One two day adventure found me in Des Moines, Iowa. "There's nothing to do in Iowa!" my colleagues chortled as I packed my tools. Bullshit, you idiots. Just because you guys couldn't find something fun to do if it was building a birdhouse in your ass doesn't me…
/r/seduction31/03/14 09:58 PM
1

I threw a post up a while ago looking to start an MN lair. Check it out. So yeah, I'm interested.
/r/seduction31/03/14 09:48 PM
1

I agree. Inner Game manifests externally as all the things that OP mentioned. When you make a commitment to yourself to get into shape, then that manifests itself as eating healthy, sleeping more, and exercising. When you make the mental decision to start caring about your appearance, you spend some time learning about what clothes you want to fit your style, learn how to blend colors and fabrics, and find a good tailor. You then spend some time in the mirror learning which products give you the…
/r/seduction31/03/14 09:46 PM
1

Laugh my ass off. I must have looked so dumb walking up that girl. Who couldn't think that was funny?
/r/seduction31/03/14 09:38 PM
1

I didn't get out that way no. I was a lot for constricted in time compared to what I thought. I had a few hours Wednesday and a few Thursday that were almost entirely devoted to drinking as many California beers as I could manage.
/r/seduction31/03/14 06:48 PM
1

I could talk more about the plane ride game if you'd like? I like to keep the posts short if possible.
/r/seduction31/03/14 06:32 PM
1

I was honestly hoping to approach them with the offer of doing drugs and going to jail for the weekend.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:45 PM
1

Gorgeous and a little more difficult than I'm used to. In Minnesota, all you have to do is either be a hipster and know a lot about underground music, or be in a band and know a lot about music. Hipster girls are far too pretentious to admit they aren't in the know with local happenings. Not bad though.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:45 PM
1

Will do brother.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:58 PM
1

Check it out Looks like Hyatt on Nicollet downtown. May 23rd to the 25th. It's my best friend's birthday that weekend so we're going to get real turnt. I would register ASAP if you can. We already have our passes.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:36 PM
1

It's like 4000 anime nerds in one building. I've been to one con before, and I was remiss the entire time because I was in a relationship. There were girls all over. Most of them I wouldn't have touched in even in a clinical setting, but the girls that were above 6.5-7 were wonderful. Surprisingly social and outgoing given the context. The thing about Cons is you have to either know what you're talking about or be completely dumb regarding the subject matter. The girls I met were either ecstatic…
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:18 PM
1

The only thing you could do then would be house parties (a good idea nonetheless) or maybe shows at local venues. I know a lot of places doing 18+ nights (Mill City, Whiskey Junction, etc) that could be worth the time. My band plays a lot in Minneapolis and although there are usually enough good looking girls to make it worth the trip, I'm usually far too focused on playing that meeting women is far below on my list of making sure my gear gets home and making sure I get home.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:07 PM
1

Green Flash's Green Bullet was my poison. Once I got my hands on that sumbitch it was lights out for Mr. Vader.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:03 PM
1

Basically a dedicated group of us in the Cities area that meet up specifically to game/wing/have good times with company of similar interest.
/r/seduction31/03/14 04:02 PM
1

If you're ever wanting to go out and see what's good, hit me up. My friends are getting a little lazy too. I put out an alert talking about an MN lair last week.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:48 PM
1

I've had a ton of Big Eye, but once I had Sculpin I was in heaven. I didn't even miss Furious (edit: I did).
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:47 PM
1

Minnesota girls stay in packs. If you want quantity > quality, Uptown is a gold mine. Other than that you have you stay smart in the other areas of the Cities. I've noticed too that people my age (21-25) will typically go out in groups, so you have to play the group game card. The best way is to get a network going of a mixed group that goes out a lot.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:37 PM
3

I know. Kind of a let down but I didn't really have as much time as I anticipated. Maybe better next time, I don't know.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:08 PM
2

Rancho Cucamonga/Ontario.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:08 PM
4

Buddhism is about understanding the impermanence of all things, so "abundance" and "scarcity" are terms we don't use to define the things around us. I would say being a Buddhist lends itself to what OP describes as an "abundance mentality" but the truth is, that's what understanding the truth of impermanence, practicing meditation, and living a life devoted to Enlightenment will produce.
/r/TheRedPill31/03/14 02:09 PM
1

Well I'm down for anything. Week days are tough but hey, what am I gonna do?
/r/seduction26/03/14 12:08 AM
2

I think that will be my stop Thursday night assuming all is well with my clients and all that shit. Plus their tap list looks amazing. Beer > women sometimes.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:53 PM
2

Madison is the only place I've been tear-gassed outside of BCT. I fucking hate Wisconsin with every ounce of my body, but goddamn if you want to drink/party/pick up, there's no better state. Madison, LaCrosse, Eau Claire, River Falls, Milwaukee, take your pick and have a blast.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:52 PM
1

Buffalo burgers rock tits. I would go there for that reason alone. I'll look it up.
/r/seduction25/03/14 09:02 PM
1

Haha ok. I'm a sheltered midwest boy.
/r/seduction25/03/14 08:09 PM
1

Thursday I'm free as a bee. I don't have to be back to my client until 1 pm Friday before I fly back to the Great White North. I'd be down if you're down. PM me or whatever.
/r/seduction25/03/14 07:13 PM
2

I would do everything I could to party with those guys.
/r/seduction25/03/14 07:13 PM
1

Fuck. That's what I was afraid of.
/r/seduction25/03/14 06:52 PM
6

Probably something like: "Got drunk by myself and made idle chit chat with a 34 year old sales rep on business from Tempe. She connected with me on Linkedin." Or something equally mediocre.
/r/seduction25/03/14 06:28 PM
1

That's what I'm afraid of. Is Claremont sketchy or good to go?
/r/seduction25/03/14 06:27 PM
1

I just want to have fun. Fuck, I picked up in fucking Des Moines IA a few months ago so I can't believe it would be harder in sunny CA.
/r/seduction25/03/14 05:18 PM
1

Sounds sketchy.
/r/seduction25/03/14 05:15 PM
1

Ah ok. I suppose I could but I imagine I'll be busy most of the day (work you know). I'll figure something out. If all else fails, hotel bars usually kill at night.
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:56 PM
2

What the hell is the "IE"?
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:47 PM
2

Being in a strange city by myself, farther from my hotel, etc. I don't know. We'll see how it pans out but I don't have a ton of time to be driving back and forth.
/r/seduction25/03/14 04:11 PM
1

Mind set should be: "I'm going to have fun with my friends." Gaming is not gaming. Does that make sense? A huge part of your momentum comes from how you're feeling that day, so in essence being "pumped up" or "in state" starts when you wake up. I always go to the gym first thing in the morning and listen to some gnarly tunes to get me jacked, followed by a cup of coffee and some chit-chat at the coffee shop right away. But this is all redundant. The best way to get pumped up before you go out (a…
/r/seduction25/03/14 12:38 PM
12

I believe a person deserves what they're willing to earn.
/r/seduction25/03/14 11:34 AM
1

Nose level with the parade field, shoulders pinned, torso stracked, eyes with pride. This is how you strut.
/r/seduction24/03/14 04:52 PM
30

Relevant
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 04:15 PM
1

That's what we're all about. You can only grow when you're not comfortable. In fact, growing is learning to be comfortable in uncomfortable situations. Hang out with me, and the very least we'll have a great time.
/r/seduction24/03/14 03:49 PM
1

The most important skill when "picking up" is conversation. Unless you're some sort of Brad Pitt/David Beckham/Orlando Bloom/Johnny Depp looking bastard, the best thing you can do is talk. So go practice talking to people. Whenever I go out on errands I make myself chat with at least one person. Cashiers and employees don't count. Just chat someone up in line, at the produce stand, whatever. When you get comfortable approaching strangers, everything else falls into place.
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:50 PM
2

Astrology /= Astronomy. One is a respected science, the other pandering bullshit for single moms and idiots who believe that the stars somehow have an influence over a slew of generic personality traits they may or may not posses. Oh you're dark and brooding? Intelligent? Emotional? Just like everyone else.
/r/seduction24/03/14 12:45 PM
8

Engineering. If you love math and arguing with people smarter than you, great career choice. Standard 8-5 type job schedule allows for plenty of weekend time, and expendable income to boot. I also play in a band and it's worth every second.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 12:39 PM
2

How far out? Woodbury? We can always hit St Paul. Lots of goodness to be had there. I would think the Jazz Festival in Mears Park will be a solid time.
/r/seduction24/03/14 02:33 AM
1

Yeah no shit. The whole idea is to set out looking to have a good time and roll with it.
/r/seduction21/03/14 10:52 PM
1

I like to see myself as a "socially excelled introvert" if you know what I'm saying. I'm very much about quiet time but when I go out for bird dogging I'm dead serious about it.
/r/seduction21/03/14 10:45 PM
2

Right on man. I'll see if I can get something set up. I'm crazy booked with gigs until end of May, but summer is always better for us anyway.
/r/seduction21/03/14 11:32 AM
1

Poor Richard's is the best for pick up in Bloomington, next to Lucky's I think it's called now.... Anyway. EP has Redstone and Champs. During the summer this is great but admittedly for an older crowd. I happen to like older women so that's no big deal.
/r/seduction21/03/14 11:32 AM
1

We're from the burbs. Suburbs here are a gamble, but there are some decent spots in Bloomington and EP that we frequent. Minneapolis is (as you know) pretty decent, but it's best during the college months. Uptown, downtown, northeast, Dinkytown, West Bank, etc. We've been hitting downtown lately, and we'll probably try to go down over the weekend when Anime Con rolls into town (lots of freaky girls and just lots of people downtown in general) so that will be decent. Where were you thinking?
/r/seduction20/03/14 09:19 PM
3

Parties are like teeball for pick up. Allow me: For one, everyone there is there for one reason: to get down. That means unlike bars, you won't have to deal with "girls nights", awkward cold-approaches, buying up drinks, etc. This gives you a strong advantage. Secondly, everyone there knows the host, so by proxy and a little bit of semantics you're all already "friends" which takes a huge load off your shoulders. Finally, logistics are set. If your host has ample room, you can call a room or a c…
/r/seduction20/03/14 02:08 PM
2

It does imply some degree of discipline and precision, which I suppose is accurate.
/r/seduction20/03/14 01:53 PM
3

How do you get on with your boys? I'm talking your best bros, your troops. When I get going with the lads, we're like a SWAT team of jokes and laughs. Non-stop. That's how you treat girls. Treat them like your friends, like you've known them for ages. Be natural man.
/r/seduction20/03/14 12:27 PM
1

I guess it's where you're from. In Minnesota it goes hockey>football>everything else.
/r/seduction20/03/14 11:31 AM
1

Ditch pigs, swamp donks, puck bunnies, and road kills my friend!
/r/seduction20/03/14 11:31 AM
7

You're not from the north are you? Hockey is religion where I'm from.
/r/seduction19/03/14 11:01 PM
1

You should go out with all your bros and pick up that way. Being in a group is always more fun.
/r/seduction19/03/14 07:47 PM
25

Hockey players get all the girls. You better have some sick flow bro. Ladies love the flow. Also, good on you. I think the logistics, composure, and execution were flawless. Going skating as a hockey player? Perfect demonstration that you are active, athletic, interesting, manly, and definitely showing social proof (hockey is usually a team sport). I loved how you said "Hey! I'm going to the ice rink tomorrow night to sharpen my skates. I'm going to break them in at public skate. You should join…
/r/seduction19/03/14 06:29 PM
1

I believe a man should always be yearning and striving for self-improvement in every area of his life, while at the same time understanding the fragility and impermanence of the things he's already accomplished. What I mean is, work your ass off, but don't forget to give yourself credit where it's due and be content with what you've achieved. People who shift this balance too dramatically are the ones who become lazy or power-hungry.
/r/seduction19/03/14 02:21 PM
0

I feel ya man. My whole life is based around being as self-indulgent and fun as possible. Get drunk, do some drugs, laugh a lot, make good friends, play some music, find some girls, see if they want to get down, if not, fuck 'em. Who cares right? I'm with you.
/r/seduction18/03/14 09:32 PM
11

High risk, high reward. Sometimes you gotta throw all the chips on the pile bud.
/r/seduction18/03/14 08:49 PM
1

I'm about 20 minutes from "home from the gym and naked" to "sitting in my car in traffic" every morning.
/r/seduction18/03/14 08:12 PM
1

Absolutely. My best friend would fit the "metro" stereotype to a T. Textbook, even. He's got the trendy glasses, large, swept up hair that requires a shelf of product and almost a half hour to get perfect, nice clothes, and a slim, sleek physique. Guess what? He gets laid like it's his job. He took both his girls home this weekend (one Friday night, the other Saturday night) and still got two numbers at the bar that weekend. Christ.
/r/seduction18/03/14 07:38 PM
3

The more I read about seduction, the more I read about "picking up" and all this other stuff, and especially as I practice it, I'm discovering more and more that "picking up" isn't just a train of tricks and little lines you can subject a woman to. Yeah, that shit helps. Sure, it works for guys. BUT In my opinion and experience, picking up is about exuding the confidence to walk up to a woman you're interested and simply saying hi. "But Vader, where does that come from?" You ask. Through your in…
/r/seduction18/03/14 07:34 PM
2

Psychology Broscience FTW.
/r/seduction18/03/14 06:05 PM
1

trying to seek approval of girls This is your issue in a nutshell. Start by seeking the approval of yourself. A lot of guys think "pick up" is a series of tactics and strategies for tricking girls into letting you put your penis into them. That's simply not true. Picking up girls and getting them to like you is learning to become a man that women want. Women want a strong, confident, assertive, yet polite, kind, and understanding man.
/r/seduction18/03/14 04:37 PM
2

That's about it. I heard some BS thing on the radio one day driving to work about how your day is decided within 10 seconds of waking up. I believe that that fact is entirely fabricated, having no basis in science or any shred of consistency with any modern literature on psychology, but yet it makes sense to me. Wake up and think "I'm a fucking lion and the whole world is a sheep for me to tear into" and you'll live that way.
/r/seduction18/03/14 03:45 PM
3

Wake up in state.
/r/seduction18/03/14 12:22 PM
1

Read Rooshs Day Bang. Most of the book is about conversation.
/r/seduction15/03/14 08:26 PM
1

Exactly.
/r/seduction15/03/14 03:10 PM
1

Twice a week to run at night.
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:54 AM
1

Yes, I know. It's brilliant, and I give him full credit for the line.
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:54 AM
1

Unfounded racism. There you go.
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:53 AM
3

That's where I read this. Sorry, I owe you shit loads of accolades for that line. Brilliant stuff. I heard it from you first, certainly.
/r/seduction15/03/14 02:27 AM
15

Well, I was a musician for many years, moved onto astro-piracy after it didn't pan out.
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:51 PM
-1

Yeah probably not. I don't really care that much.
/r/seduction14/03/14 06:08 PM
1

True game is no game man.
/r/seduction14/03/14 05:51 PM
2

I only have one outcome in mind every single morning when I wake up, and that is just enjoy myself. I figure, I'll probably be dead in like... 40 years so fuck it man, let's have a good time.
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:54 PM
0

I'd throw an F in there too, then you can play like.... every pop song ever.
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:48 PM
2

Got me through my career haha.
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:27 PM
1

Hmm..... spur of the moment, or when I feel like it's necessary. At a bar/club whatever, it's extremely important for implanting and reinforcing positive association and getting both of you comfortable for future escalations, but in a coffee shop after work, eh. I did a little bit of kino while we were getting drinks, like putting my hand on her arm and back, etc.
/r/seduction14/03/14 04:26 PM
1

Check it hombre
/r/seduction14/03/14 03:39 PM
1

Probably not. Like I said, I'm looking to have fun. I have a very busy (but very fun) life that I've built for myself. I want a girl who can handle the rollercoaster ride and if she can't, then she should stay out of the park.
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:12 PM
-1

I guess I don't know. I'm pretty "go with the flow" and right now I'm not exactly starving for sex. I've got two or three girls on the back burner right now, so I'm more or less just feeling this out. If I attempt an f-close, it will certainly be after the 2nd date or during the 3rd. I never, ever become "exclusive" with a girl, sex or not.
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:10 PM
3

Gladly! I will apologize in advance that verbosity has always been my forte, so if you read all of this, thank you. For me, a conversation should be two things: flowing and relevant. Using a basic assumption (ie that people enjoy talking about themselves), you can utilize that piece of psychology to adjust and flow a conversation based on a person's interests and ideals. Also keep in mind that (at least in my experience) a when a person is willing to divulge personal stories, that generally mean…
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:07 PM
4

You only have to be good enough for people to think you're good. The real art is deception my friend!
/r/seduction14/03/14 01:33 PM
1

I feel you on this one. In my experience, when you're in a situation where you've already planned an egress of some sort (already have a steady girl, have to leave soon to drive your drunk bastard friends home, or whatever the case may be), the necessity of the pick up is effectively non-existent. The easiest time I actually had talking to (and potentially picking up) women was when I was in a LTR. I knew I could say whatever I wanted to this girl at the bar, hot or not, because fuck it right? I…
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:36 PM
3

Plants are awesome. They add a little natural element to your room, contribute to air quality, and you can feel like you're nurturing a living thing when you remember to water them every day. Also, the easiest decorating you'll ever do is throwing a plant in the corner of a room. Supplements I can agree on to a degree. I only take creatine (in cycles), BCAAs and fish oil. I can get everything else from food.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:33 PM
4

That wasn't my plan, no. Honestly that's great when it happens, but my goals have shifted in the last year or so, so f-closing is not a priority. Always having a good time is my priority. She was interesting enough. I'm not sold yet, but there's potential so we'll see where it goes.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:27 PM
2

She was not Korean or Japanese, and definitely not Hmong. I've dated both in the past, and my best friend is Japanese. Japanese girls tend to have more oval faces, and Koreans usually have rounder eyes and a single (as opposed to double) eye lid. Turns out I was right so, I get "not racist" points.
/r/seduction14/03/14 12:04 PM
2

Can I buy drugs from you?
/r/seduction14/03/14 11:42 AM
1

Tomorrow bud.
/r/seduction14/03/14 02:47 AM
17

Update: Heading over to the joint today. Hope she goes well eh boys.
/r/seduction13/03/14 07:52 PM
1

That's true. But to be fair I did do it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 06:21 PM
3

What
/r/seduction13/03/14 05:54 PM
1

You put so much more effort into it than I do haha. Good work.
/r/seduction13/03/14 05:05 PM
5

Yes he was.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 05:04 PM
4

If it goes well, I will. If not, I probably still will. Getting rejected by a girl is no basis for me to adjust my routine and driving route just to avoid a 3 minute interaction.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:52 PM
6

Yeah I don't know. I think I didn't realize it was an option until recently, and usually I'm tired/in a morning mood/in a hurry in the morning anyway. Somehow I just decided "fuck it" and threw my cards on the table.
/r/seduction13/03/14 03:35 PM
2

You got it.
/r/seduction13/03/14 02:39 PM
2

I'd throw my hat in for Andrew Jackson as well.
/r/TheRedPill13/03/14 11:43 AM
2

Last year, I had luck with a girl with an evident Irish heritage (at least Drunk Vader thought so) the red hair, freckles, green eyes, etc. She was sitting at a table with another girl, and they were sitting kitty corner to a table of a larger group with two or three guys, and a few girls. One of the girls was probably Indian (I think). So I saunter up, sand pail of Guinness in my hand and sit right next to her. I look at her and say: "Are you Irish?" She smiles and says "yes! Of course I am" an…
/r/seduction12/03/14 01:12 PM
1

All you have to do is walk into a bar with her on your arm. That's the best thing a female wing can do.
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:23 PM
1

Play drums. Instant forearms/calves.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 02:46 PM
7

Right on. Sorry for the mishap. Whenever I see Han I just see red.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:20 PM
4

Christ. Regardless, I stand by my point.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 05:20 PM
18

They missed the most obvious one, unfortunately. As Han is about to be lowered into the chamber to be frozen in carbonite Leia: I love you. Han: I know. Maintained his frame like a man.
/r/TheRedPill07/03/14 04:49 PM
2

As long as you get the reference and had fun, that's all that counts (for me).
/r/seduction06/03/14 08:29 PM
1

If you talk to girls like they're already your buddies, you've already put yourself two steps ahead.
/r/seduction06/03/14 03:39 PM
4

I'm with you bro. I think a lot of guys think that self-improvement and self-validation are milestones in the journey to achieve getting laid. What they don't understand is that things like working hard, getting in shape, clearing your mind, learning new skills and hobbies, becoming educated (at college or otherwise), having great experiences, cultivating strong relationships with friends and family should be the goal. Attention from women and the hopeful sex that follows are merely another of s…
/r/seduction06/03/14 03:38 PM
1

I have a feeling she's really young but, fuck. I'll go over there tomorrow (coincidentally I have to go there anyway) and see if she's working.
/r/seduction05/03/14 09:02 PM
7

There's a girl at the phone shop near me that I've been wanting to talk to. I think I'll do that today.
/r/seduction05/03/14 06:39 PM
2

Self-validation my man.
/r/seduction05/03/14 02:25 PM
4

I've always maintained a state of mind that directs me to directly lean into fear. This is not "facing" my fear (in as much as that means to recognize your fear by merely identifying it) but rather aggravating it, seeking fear and the stress it causes.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:50 PM
1

I keep a towel near my bed for exactly this reason.
/r/seduction04/03/14 04:47 PM
2

This is hilarious. I loved every second. It's apparent that you've mastered your self-amusement. That's huge. I get the vibe that you're just having fun, and you don't really care about the outcome. Very well done.
/r/seduction04/03/14 01:30 PM
1

I always expect to have a fun night with my friends, and so far it's worked out great.
/r/seduction03/03/14 03:29 PM
1

Texting is a tool to set up face-to-face interactions. I always text about three days before I want to meet. Something short and to the point. If she wants to carry on over those days, be short but polite. You can't completely ignore the text game, but you need to harness its power. Then I call the day of the date, just to make sure. "Hey it's Vader. Still good for tonight? Ok great. See you then." Done.
/r/seduction03/03/14 03:26 PM
1

I think I'm confident because I pretty much do and say whatever I want without much concern as to the consequences. I trust my mind; it's been hardened and sharpened by years of study and meditation. My body is strong. What do I have to worry about?
/r/seduction03/03/14 01:18 PM
1

Timing is everything.
/r/seduction03/03/14 01:15 PM
2

That is a great concept. I'm a musician, and I never get stage fright. In fact, being in front of a crowd of people (especially girls) gets my blood going like no drug or liquor ever could. I think I need to harness that mentality a little better. Thanks for the connection.
/r/seduction03/03/14 01:05 PM
2

You got the reference, and that's better than nothing.
/r/seduction26/02/14 01:34 PM
1

My little brother is a 20 year old war vet, amateur body builder, and licensed pilot. All he has to do is exist and he swims in tail.
/r/seduction25/02/14 04:55 PM
5

Basically, removing women from a pedestal while also raising your confidence is the premise. So in short, actively work to start leveling the field. I'm not saying to devalue women or treat them poorly. What I'm saying is treat them like humans, and view them like your buddies. It's easy to talk to your friends right? When you see women as equals, it's no big deal to strike up a conversation. At the same time, you need to always be striving for self-improvement. The two large areas are internal …
/r/seduction25/02/14 01:54 PM
9

If you think of women up there, and you down here, we need to re-calibrate your mind brother.
/r/seduction25/02/14 01:36 PM
8

Coffee ---> Bar to end the night. Multiple venues give the perception that you've known each other longer and give you more changes to escalate.
/r/seduction24/02/14 11:31 PM
1

Yeah dude it was pretty rad haha. Glad you made it home safe.
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 03:41 AM
2

My roommate said he kind of felt bad about it this morning and I said "dude, someone's gonna do it."
/r/TheRedPill22/02/14 01:05 AM
2

Skidaddle with cattle prods!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 10:33 PM
1

Ha yes. Sorry I didn't catch that right away man. Good one!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 10:25 PM
1

Correction: I fucked one, my roommate fucked the other. Bitchy girl slept downstairs.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 10:07 PM
2

I think you've got a grasp on this better than a lot of people. I wish I was good enough with words (and had time) to explain the entire situation.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 09:13 PM
1

Did that hurt to type? Because it hurt me to read it!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 08:05 PM
4

Not to us, no.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 08:02 PM
3

Right on dude.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:41 PM
5

girls pretend like sex is a bad thing or something they don't want Or in this case, speak for their friend that either of those things are true. Fucking stupid man. OF COURSE Angela wanted to fuck That's why she was more than willing to jump into his bed. We have three fucking couches downstairs, blankets and pillows up to our eyeballs. There's plenty of room.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:13 PM
3

Sarah was bummed she wasnt ridin a cock so she rode a high horse instead Bingo.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:10 PM
2

Preach on brother.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:10 PM
13

I can say cute if I want. Get over it man.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:08 PM
2

Fuck man I wish I would have. I was so delirious and caught off guard when she accosted me.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:07 PM
1

It was just me talking about our "system" for going out. We've added another guy since then specifically for our next event.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 07:03 PM
2

One of them is a redditor, the other is a lurker with no account.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 06:56 PM
1

I have several at my disposal my friend!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 06:56 PM
1

I'm as bemused as you are my friend.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 06:31 PM
22

Girls hate it when their friends do stuff they don't do. Girls hate their friends.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 06:29 PM
1

Yeah no kidding dude! Too many dicks on the dance floor!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 06:29 PM
21

Probably did, listening to her two friends get the business from us haha!
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 05:55 PM
2

I guess?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 05:47 PM
1

I'm short and reasonably handsome so I have to work at it. You bastard! I'm extremely conscious of conversation though. It gets easier to translate woman talk when you spend a lot of time talking to them.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 05:47 PM
1

She's trying to make you step out of your frame and into hers. Especially initially in the conversation and introduction, people (not just women) are trying to see where they stand compared to you. Above, even, or below. If you can get someone to do you a favor, you've established at least some dominance, plus played into the Franklin effect. It's a fun game once you get into it, eh?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 05:37 PM
3

I am very careful. I don't think that's how it would go down (thankfully) but it's always on my mind.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 05:36 PM
3

She may yes, but if a 20 year old girl can make all the decisions leading up to that point, she's as responsible as he is.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 05:19 PM
3

Yeah no shit! We have a tripod for the camera but it kills the mood when you have to get up to move it around you know?
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:58 PM
3

The conversation happened in the morning. She was crashing in each of our beds attempting a cock block. I heard Boom say "get the fuck out of here" and then I went over and locked my door while Rebecca was peeling off her dedicates.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:57 PM
7

I believe so, yes. It's all just ridiculous.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:51 PM
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Except this broad is not fat or ugly. Just stuck up, righteous, and "better than her friends". Which is fine, except she's the only one that didn't get her rocks off that night so.... too bad.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:32 PM
4

I just laugh my ass off. After swallowing TRP I realized that mastering self-amusement and always having a good time means you don't have to worry about women (or cockblock dudes) getting in your head.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:13 PM
2

Haha fuck yeah bud.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 04:08 PM
6

Haha yeah. PPG is one of our favorite shows to watch when we smoke, so we adopted the personalities. It's amazing how well we line up from hair color to eye color and traits. It seemed fitting, anyway.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:57 PM
6

Haha no. His nickname is Boom. Our other best friend is Butch, and I'm Brick. Bonus karma to the first guy to figure out where this is from.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:50 PM
8

Exactly! The "fault" is that they both got drunk and made a decision to have consensual sex.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:35 PM
2

Fuck that video kills me every time.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:34 PM
1

That's some truth, thanks man.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:32 PM
5

Yeah dude pirates kick ass. Like that one pirate who can dig holes with a spade shovel and steer a ship just by using his dick. That's so rad.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:27 PM
5

Fuck I know. I'm starting to think I should just "MTGTOW" on life. The last girls we brought home got ratchet as fuck and pulled the fire alarm in our building. Christ.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:26 PM
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It's just so dumb. I believe that fault is never 100% on either person, and in this case clearly Angela wanted to at least be here with Boom. I don't know if she wanted to have sex with Boom but from what he told me later she was "all over him as soon as we jumped into bed". The blindness of girls man. Because her friend was "sweet and innocent" she tries to make my friend look like a rapist, but because her other friend was already loose, it's ok to slut-shame her? Christ.
/r/TheRedPill21/02/14 03:17 PM
1

I was under the impression that Brown vs. Board made it clear that separate things are inherently unequal.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 10:58 PM
68

This is fucking gold. Friday, I was out with the boys bird doggin' broads at the local watering hole. Doing some rounds, I ran into an old friend I haven't seen in years out with her new boyfriend (I'll call her Katie). The man's name was Andrew. Ex-Marine with all the stereotypes that go along with it. Large, brash, muscular, garish, boastful, and pugnacious (I love the Devil Dogs). So we're all sitting at this table. Me, my buddy, this girl I knew from the day, her giant douchebag Marine boyfr…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 03:56 PM
1

Waste of time. Read a book, bond with real friends.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:58 PM
2

2010 Honda Accord. Bells and whistles. It can hold all my drums and gets hella gas mileage. It's not much to look at it, but it sure is pretty when she's washed up really clean.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:33 PM
1

That could be true. I may be too lenient.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 07:22 PM
1

I always try to maintain some sort of contact. The key is to not depend on one or two at a time and always be seeking. There are women all over the place. Out with the old, in with the new if you're having doubts. There may be a case where a girl is very busy, on vacation, on business, etc. and genuinely cannot talk to you. In that case let them do what they want, but keep spinning until they text you back.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:53 PM
0

Daycount's right about Archwinger bein' right!
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:44 PM
2

Germany is awesome, if not only for the women (which are also gorgeous). As some others have said, I would categorize German gals in the "plain Jane" kind of look. Don't expect them to be dolled up or looking smoking hot on a weekday running around town. The good news is that most German girls (that I remember) are beautiful. Be nice to them, they can be shy and reserved at first. Remember that a lot of German guys are tall, handsome types and you'll have more to compete with. The overall attitu…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:31 PM
1

Interestingly enough, I rarely have problems getting my dogs to understand what I'm telling them to do and have them do it. I hate to compare dogs to women (or people in general) but the adage we use when training dogs is "the dog already knows how to sit, lie down, and roll over on his own. What you're trying to do is convince the dog that he should do those things when you want him to."
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 04:49 PM
0

You could at least start with Army Conditioning Drill 1 In Basic Combat Training and Advanced Individual Training, Soldiers will complete these exercises every single morning before actual PT (Physical Training). I do them every morning before I go to the gym and it's a great warm up. When those are boring, try Conditioning Drill 2. It's a little more advanced but still good stuff.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 03:35 PM
3

Some of the stuff the Bible has to say is incredibly Red Pill. Some other stuff is exactly not Red Pill. For example: He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD. (Proverbs 18:22) Basically saying that God wants men to find wives. So to a young Christian man, settling down with a "good wife" is his best option. Then again we have: Wives, submit to your husbands, as is fitting in the Lord. Husbands, love your wives and do not be harsh with them. (Corinthians 3:18-19) S…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 03:32 PM
2

Lone Wolf is a bad ass way to do it. I'd prefer to be with my best friends, but I've had good luck just hanging out at a joint by myself. The key I've found to rocking solo is to make it sound like you were coming here anyway. "Oh my friend's band is up next." "The bartender is my cousin." "This is the only place in town that has [snobby beer] on tap." "It's just so close to my house." Etc.
/r/seduction15/02/14 01:27 AM
3

I'd love it if you could fund the production!
/r/seduction14/02/14 10:44 PM
3

Yeah I get that, I just am weary of veiled sarcasm is all. Anyway if I may extrapolate. The reason I don't give a fuck is because my goal to go out is to learn and absorb. My mindset has always been "everyone knows something you don't" so it's my mission to find out what that is. I can't tell you how many times I've gone out looking for a woman and end up making new bros or networking with an older guy who liked my jib and wanted to have me help his company or some other BS.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:41 PM
7

Well then... thanks!
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:12 PM
3

Is that bad?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 10:05 PM
0

I call that "Warp Zone 8".
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 09:39 PM
6

I just want to make it clear that I'm not like a Samwise Hobbit; more like a Pippin Hobbit.
/r/seduction14/02/14 08:50 PM
1

Fuck yeah dude. I listened to that tune four times today and I'm ready to take on a brigade of Huns.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 08:09 PM
1

I'll Make a Man Out of You Lyrics of note: Tranquil as a forest But on fire within. Once you find your center You are sure to win. You're a spineless, pale pathetic lot And you haven't got a clue. Somehow I'll make a man Out of you. Basically what Li Shang (the Captain) is saying is that all men have the potential to be great, we just lack the discipline and spine to reach that potential. He even says later in the song that these recruits are not making the cut: You're unsuited for the rage of w…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:41 PM
1

For those not familiar Ben Folds Five Version
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 07:31 PM
2

Now that my friend is precision. Very, very good work.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 06:27 PM
2

I wish I could game with you cats though. It sounds like I would learn a lot .
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 05:26 PM
23

I don't stick around that long. Honestly I just love opening and talking to people when I'm out. Picking up a girl is a bonus round, but I truly don't give a fuck about that.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 05:25 PM
3

Also we aren't insecure mommys boys who have the ability to talk to women about the badass shit we do on a daily basis That's what my friend lacks. Sounds like it does man! As long as we're all getting what we want, isn't that the point?
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 05:05 PM
4

Get swept into what? The jokes and lines work to open, which is my strength. I'm not sure what you're asking me man.
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 04:55 PM
46

Can I explain the game plan I use with my bros? It seems stupid, cliche, and Hollywood but it fucking works, so we keep doing it. My boys and I have a good system that's worked plenty of times. I'm the opener. I'm a short, hobbit-looking guy (not fat) with a big smile and a bag of jokes and lines. I love bouncing around like a hummingbird, opening everyone. Alcohol is my augmenter, making me a one-man SWAT team of conversation and jokes. My other friend "Brick" is the enforcer. He assists me wit…
/r/TheRedPill14/02/14 04:36 PM
1

I posted this in a different thread. See below: My boys and I have a good system that's worked plenty of times. I'm the opener. I'm a short, hobbit-looking guy (not fat) with a big smile and a bag of jokes and lines. I love bouncing around like a hummingbird, opening everyone. Alcohol is my augmenter, making me a one-man SWAT team of conversation and jokes. My other friend "Brick" is the enforcer. He assists me with opening and also keeps cockblockers at bay with his size. He was a hockey player…
/r/seduction14/02/14 04:21 PM
6

It's all residual from my time in the Army. You can leave the military, but the military doesn't leave you. Everything must be planned with expert precision my friend.
/r/seduction14/02/14 04:14 PM
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My boys and I have a good system that's worked plenty of times. I'm the opener. I'm a short, hobbit-looking guy (not fat) with a big smile and a bag of jokes and lines. I love bouncing around like a hummingbird, opening everyone. Alcohol is my augmenter, making me a one-man SWAT team of conversation and jokes. My other friend "Brick" is the enforcer. He assists me with opening and also keeps cockblockers at bay with his size. He was a hockey player in high school and college, and lifts religious…
/r/seduction14/02/14 02:06 PM
2

You can come wing with us tomorrow if you want. PM me.
/r/seduction13/02/14 08:43 PM
13

Fleshlights don't have boobs, don't laugh at corny jokes, won't be there for life's difficult moments, can't have children or hopes and dreams, and don't have boobs Yeah they're awesome.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 05:38 PM
1

Holy Christ the comment section should be avoided unless you have solid health insurance. Sometimes it's totally worth going through all this crap if she's worth it. ;) Unless that bitch cheats on you. It's worth it if you're confident that you have literally no other options with women, good friends, hobbies, or self-respect. Then by all means, go ahead. Fuck. This guy knows what's up. Any dude who stays with a bitch like that has no respect for himself whatsoever. No chick is fine enough to gi…
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 03:06 PM
6

Like crabs in a bucket my man.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 03:57 PM
1

I had so many friends that only dated frat douches Yeah no shit dude. she's prooooobably going to realize the errors of her ways towards the end of school or right after, and the ONLY thing she'll want is a super. nice. guy. Just sayin TRANSLATION: "When she gets older, hits the ice cream and has to dust her treadmill once in a while will she admit she's no longer of any value and bait some high-earning sap into picking up her tab for life."
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 02:21 AM
3

My Christ this guy is my idol. This broad moves in with him, so he's got guaranteed pussy without even leaving the comfort of his den. Then he goes out to game, clearly fucking whoever he wants, whenever he wants. All this chick can do is rationalize what he's doing. Thank God on High women aren't onto this as much as we are.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 08:12 PM
5

Holy fuck my brain. That poor bastard. That poor, poor bastard. The saddest thing is that (and well all know this) this boy thinks that by being there for her, "protecting her like a sister" and all that other beta shit that she's going to come running to him after she has her heart broken by an alpha dick. He'll be her shoulder to cry on, and then, just like the movies, she'll realize it was him the whole time she was looking for. He believes in his heart that they'll fall in love eventually, g…
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 04:50 PM
1

I have a firm belief that your internal state will reflect symbiotically on your external state. I've had the best luck lately by improving my mind and body simultaneously. That means reading, studying, meditating, working out, and being active every single day. It doesn't matter if you do one fucking push up, you have to start now. Appearance and looks will work for approaching women, but you win the battle with your personality and mental strategy. You need both to be successful. Even without …
/r/TheRedPill11/02/14 01:10 PM
1

Good point, thanks.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 10:35 PM
1

Coincidentally she's a musician too.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 10:34 PM
1

She's on our little Facebook page or whatever so she gets all the invites for gigs. The difference is now instead of texting or calling everyone on the list to make sure they're coming, I don't give a fuck. That's probably why she did it, because every time I had a show in the past I was always texting her to make sure she was coming, had tickets and shit. She probably wondered why I didn't go after her this time.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 10:07 PM
1

Yeah... It helps haha.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 08:58 PM
3

If you think I'm lying I don't care. But I'm not going write a novel when a short story will suffice.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 08:55 PM
4

I tried to read the comments but I had to be rushed to the hospital for an aneurysm.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 09:34 PM
3

Exactly.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 05:42 PM
3

When I left the military, I expressed in the positive that it only took me six years to realize I didn't want to continue on that career path. So take strength in the fact that it only took you 20 years to realize this, as some will certainly have it worse.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:44 PM
30

Apparently 17th century whores can write better than 21st century college graduates.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:40 PM
2

Yeah no shit man. I was a dumb, scared-shitless 16 year old punk at the time. The funny thing is that this broad's body was downright loathsome. I wouldn't touch her ass even in a clinical environment. The sheer audacity of these ungulates is bemusing.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:41 AM
24

That is some serious shit. When I was in high school, our principal was this fucking lunatic "I AM WOMAN HEAR ME ROAR" she-woman, man-hating, feminist, unfuckable hedgehog of a woman. I was called into her office after a lunch hour one day. She sat me down and told me this broad who we'll call Sheila (because it's a dumb name) had come to her with allegations of me sexually harassing her during lunch. Some facts: I was out to lunch with my friends, each of which corroborated this story to her la…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 03:20 PM
1

Using a straight razor in the morning when your girl comes up and wraps her arms around your waist and you're like "bitch this is a real blade" Cleaning the kitchen so everything looks perfect all the time. I like my living space neat, organized, and sanitary When you're outside when it's raining or cold and you just stand there and scowl mowing the lawn on a weekend going to Home Depot and knowing exactly what you need getting up early on the weekends because life doesn't fucking wait for you d…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 01:35 PM
5

Set them under a box propped up with a stick and tied to a piece of bailing twine.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 12:13 AM
52

I'm going to hit up a joint in the suburbs and go on a cougar safari. I already have my bottles of Sutter Home and Barry Manilow CDs for bait.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 06:53 PM
1

Right on man. Hope that works out for you.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 03:01 PM
1

I'm afraid this conversation is no longer beneficial to either of us my friend. I hope you find what you're looking for, although I doubt it's The Red Pill.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 02:53 PM
1

It seems the overall advice could be here on how to treat women is to act indifferent to them while treating them like an unruly child or a pet. It's kind of belittling from what I see. You're interpreting it as belittling. That's up to you. Even the most confident and secure people get lonely, depressed and feel defeated though. Sure they do. But when I feel lonely, depressed, or defeated I fix my shit and get back to life.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 02:19 PM
1

I don't really enjoy it too much. It makes me tired. I generally try to avoid anything that will mess with my mental clarity, although I do enjoy getting a little drunk once every month or so.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 01:06 PM
1

I'm 5' 4" and it's not hard. What I do is simply be the Alpha male. Whether it's with my buddies, at the bar, wherever. Shoulders back, eyes high. I walk with purpose. Am I short? Yeah. I'll fuck you up though. Get the fuck out of my way. I lift weights like shit. I dress to the nines every day. My hair is hip. I don't give a fuck. All the principles of "game" and this other shit work no matter who you are. If they didn't, then we'd have to quit.
/r/TheRedPill05/02/14 12:38 PM
1

Well, if where they overlap is them wanting alpha and me wanting sex and the meeting place being to shun or belittle them then I kind of do have to. That's what it seems like one must do. Where did anyone say you have to shun or belittle women to have sex with them? I wasn't exactly talking about validation though. More about just gaining higher sexual and social capital. But since you mentioned validation I'd say that I think it is not so one dimensional. I think it's a combo of external and in…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 08:44 PM
1

You don't have to shun or belittle them. You just have to understand what they want, what you want, and where they overlap. I suspect though once I get into shape and improve my style and get a more focused on my own life and what I want to do things may change. Suspect no more; you're right. Your validation and self-respect needs to come from within, not women, not your friends, not your best friends, not even your family can validate yourself as a man. Women can sniff this shit out from a mile…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 05:06 PM
1

Now we are getting somewhere. I understand where you're coming from. Of course you can pursue women and still be true to certain principles. That's what I'm doing now; it's only that pursuing women does not necessarily conflict with my values and beliefs.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 04:47 PM
1

I am not sure what I am looking for Start there.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 04:37 PM
1

A little rash aren't we? I would say running about reddit looking for solutions to solvable issues is over-compensating, but hey, I'm not your therapist so as far as I'm concerned you can do what you like. But again, I'll reiterate as the purpose has fallen on deaf ears. TRP is not about setting up road signs and providing a Garmin that leads you directly into a vagina. TRP is about accepting the hard realities of life. If you can't handle that, you need to seek other external sources for the in…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 04:24 PM
3

Go out and try it. If you came here looking to be coddled, babysat, and have your hand held through a biological process then you need to go to r/AskMen for that kind of advice.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 04:16 PM
5

Waste of time. There are a few problems with using them. The ratio of women to men is skewed. This means women have a lot more selection and can whisk through profiles to find a guy they like. Attraction is built on conversation which entails everything like eye contact, body language, voice inflection, and the whole flow of the conversation, NONE of which you can convey through short messages. The women on that site (like women in real life) are seeking validation. They can't get it (or won't e…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 03:23 PM
1

I had to watch that a few times to write it out correctly. And because Conan.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 01:48 PM
5

I'm happier than I've ever been. The odds are stacked against you if you are a man. Fuck yeah they are. This makes victory so sweet. "Conan, what is best in life? To crush your enemies, see them driven before you, and hear the lamentation of their women." Swallowing the Red Pill means taking control of yourself in every aspect. It means achieving a sound mind and a strong body. It means failing, starting over, failing again, trying something new, failing, getting pissed off, failing, getting you…
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 01:36 PM
11

I keep walking around Route 38 but all I can find is Miltanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/14 12:59 PM
1

Yes. This.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 10:33 PM
7

I fucking love Tyler so much.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 06:25 PM
31

“If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn't sit for a month.” - Teddy Fucking Roosevelt. This guy is worse than a beta. He's a woman, spreading out on a social media site to validate his issues instead of looking in the mirror and spending all of five minutes making a plan to improve himself. Why do people feel entitled to the pleasures of life without lifting a finger to earn it? Fuck me.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 05:57 PM
2

This should get all of you pumped to do man stuff
/r/TheRedPill30/01/14 05:30 PM
1

This hits home big time. Huge time. First and foremost, a stint in the military will (at the very least) force you into a fraternity of brotherhood unlike any other. Knowing that the guys to your right and left are going to fire their weapons while you re-load yours is such a deep, almost spiritual feeling that I can't quite explain it. At the same time, you understand that the male to male relationships are the ones that are worth investing considerable time and energy into. I know my best bros…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 03:09 PM
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