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What does the year have anything to do with it?
/r/seduction10/09/14 07:35 PM
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Lol that's not negging yourself. That's showing social awareness and vulnerability.
/r/seduction10/09/14 07:34 PM
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I'm thinking Facebook is good for that, plus you can post your awesome pictures from your summer trips that can illicit questions from them. However for the most part, you should just not give a fuck and get a bunch of new numbers from new girls. You are showing scarcity mindset and complaining about a couple of numbers that went dead. Most guys' questions regarding pickup and game can be answered with: go talk to more women.
/r/seduction12/08/14 05:17 PM
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Or have only cheap date options...
/r/seduction11/08/14 10:17 PM
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Sup bud, I also live in the East Village. Opening girls on the sidewalk is surprisingly easy once you get a couple approaches under your belt. Daygame is something that is talked about a lot here. "Hey I know this is random but I couldn't help but notice your amazing style/eyes/dress/whatever and I just had to come meet you, my name is Jimmyayo." Doesn't have to be complicated. Even if she's not interested or unavailable, most girls will be flattered and you'll have made their day! P.S. - you sh…
/r/seduction18/07/14 10:02 PM
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EVERY girl I've ever texted says I'm an awesome texter. Yeah...I'm gonna call you out on that one.
/r/seduction09/07/14 03:54 AM
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Dude come to /r/GothamSeddit. We have a lively groupchat and super active guys. Come introduce yourself @ our meetup this Thurs! http://www.reddit.com/r/GothamSeddit/comments/29g5rv/announcement_this_months_monthly_meetup_is/
/r/seduction01/07/14 03:15 PM
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No amount of studying will make you suddenly feel comfortable with this. Just try it out and keep practicing calibration.
/r/seduction30/06/14 11:27 PM
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Situational openers are fine but its a crutch - you wont always have one when a gorgeous girl just happens to be walking by. Learn to approach direct, or go indirect and transition direct.
/r/seduction30/06/14 11:24 PM
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I'm not telling you to cheat or to get her to cheat. You could've still tried to #close her even platonically. It's about learning to push yourself in improbable situations, in order to really see huge improvement. ABC. Just my two cents doe.
/r/seduction17/06/14 12:48 PM
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Rule #1: ABC. Good job striking up a conversation, but you could've pushed yourself more.
/r/seduction17/06/14 12:07 PM
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Damn I needed this thanks so much Tony.
/r/seduction10/06/14 05:25 PM
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Hey brother come check out the local NYC seddit on /r/Gothamseddit. Our group is extremely active and go out just about every day. I also live by union square in Manhattan and would be happy to meet up and offer tips.
/r/seduction25/05/14 05:58 PM
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That's what we call a "limiting belief"
/r/seduction25/05/14 05:55 PM
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Bravo. Well fucking done. Is there a reason why you bounced to a different bar, and didn't try to take home the HB7 from earlier?
/r/seduction23/05/14 03:50 AM
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Eh not really.
/r/seduction23/05/14 12:48 AM
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when you become the best you that you can be Dude this is fucking bullshit man. I am an inner game junkie like the next PUA but to say that until you become the best version of yourself, a girl shouldn't give you any form of interest? Nonsense.
/r/seduction22/05/14 09:23 PM
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That's a good thing. A crush is nothing but a one-sided infatuation.
/r/seduction22/05/14 06:11 PM
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Fucking love this. Great mindset. Short and sweet post as well. Be committed to your actions and interactions. Remain detached from the outcome. So if you approach a girl and you do everything right, fully committed to the pickup, then whether you close her or not, the outcome-independent guy will view that as a success; whereas the guy whos outcome attached will view it as a failure if he doesn't close. Love it man.
/r/seduction21/05/14 05:05 PM
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Wait a day or two and say "Hey! Thx, been a crazy Bday week. What have u been up to, besides doodling little hearts on a paper and missing me ;)" That being said, the whole thing sounds like a very weak lead. Stay in touch, stay cock/funny/flirty, and don't give her free validation/ego-boost.
/r/seduction21/05/14 04:57 PM
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This is a very interesting post - not quite field report, not quite theory. I like it EAR. Thanks for posting. When I read accounts like these, I see the value of TRP's core tenets/principles. I have a few regular girls in my current rotation and I experiment with different levels of affection/alpha/beta/etc. By far, the girl that I treat the worst (as in taking forever to call back, not go out of my way to do things for her, etc) is the strongest hooked. She will literally do almost anything fo…
/r/seduction21/05/14 04:50 PM
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Hey come check out /r/GothamSeddit. We have a pretty awesome group of guys that go out almost every night!
/r/seduction21/05/14 04:26 PM
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Tl;dw - after you #close the girl, don't just walk away. Stay there, kiss her on the hand, tell her you really would love to see her again. Feels a bit too Fabio-esque to pull off in the city streets where I live but to each his own. One of my favorite routines to solidify numbers is this: As you're putting in her digits, stop and pull your phone back, and say : "btw ur not one of those flakey girls right? Because I really don't like wasting time if we're not actually going to meet." It might be…
/r/seduction21/05/14 12:17 AM
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I do lots of cold approach. I post FRs. Trying to do at least 2 a day for a while. Currently have a harem of 3 girls in rotation which doesn't leave a whole lot of time for dating new girls so I'll prob be breaking up w/ some of them.
/r/seduction21/05/14 12:13 AM
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Start with ALL of the sidebar material, pay special attention to self improvement and inner game. Start going out and talking to people everywhere. You'll be a little awkward and fuck up a bit but it's okay - we all started somewhere. Make goals and do a 30-day challenge of talking to at least 2 cute girls every day and go for a date. Write some field reports and report to us here for specific advice and morale boosting. Most importantly: stop wishing, stop bitching, stop complaining, and START …
/r/seduction19/05/14 11:05 PM
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It assumes attraction, displays confidence and social congruence. It's solid. "Be irrationally confident."
/r/seduction19/05/14 09:55 PM
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Great work OP, it pumped me up for the week ahead. For me the biggest takeaways is the importance of building a great social circle, befriending people and bringing value to the group. You handled the cockblock HB as well as the amog douche extremely well. Almost sounds like you had that star from Super Mario Bros and were in the invincible zone. You're doing God's work son. Keep it up. Edit: quick q - was your first kiss after you got to her place?
/r/seduction19/05/14 07:41 PM
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Ugh.
/r/seduction19/05/14 05:28 PM
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Shit, that line is gold.
/r/seduction19/05/14 05:28 PM
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Exactly what I was going to say.
/r/seduction16/05/14 03:31 PM
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Most girls will be very wary of meeting you at your place for a first date, as they should be.
/r/seduction13/05/14 10:17 PM
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What? I'd always want a girl who has a sexier figure than I do.
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:24 PM
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Congratulations.
/r/seduction13/05/14 02:35 PM
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Obviously because OP's a little pussy bitch.
/r/seduction12/05/14 06:43 PM
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...and my axe!!! am I doing it right guys
/r/seduction10/05/14 10:47 PM
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That is seriously the best way to look at it. Look to realize your truly highest potential as a man.
/r/seduction10/05/14 12:39 AM
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Appropriate username. Hopefully that painful experience taught him to man the fuck up and start valuing himself first and foremost.
/r/seduction09/05/14 08:38 PM
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This becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy. Even if it were true at some point, what are you doing to change that and improve yourself? As long as you're taking action, improving yourself, learning pickup and social dynamics, you're doing better than so many out there just sitting in their armchairs wacking off all weekend long.
/r/seduction09/05/14 07:37 PM
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Lol easy tiger. You're pedestalizing it :)
/r/seduction09/05/14 05:07 PM
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Especially so. You ever see guys saying things like "I can't believe I'm with a girl like you", "I don't deserve you", "Why are you with a chump like me?" You say these types of pedestalizing things enough and she will start to believe that you really don't deserve her.
/r/seduction09/05/14 04:25 PM
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This is excellent. Great FR and nice job putting yourself out there and taking immense action. Some thoughts: Set #1 - seems like you used that as a warm-up to get in state. Good move, I should definitely do that more. Set #4 with the older one - you tapped a girl on her shoulder and used a strange opener. When daygaming in public, usually opening by physical touch will put them in high alert - you want to put them at ease. If you're not in her field of vision, come approach at an angle (not fro…
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:34 PM
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While your comment was definitely not annoying
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:25 PM
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From my experience in meeting with lots of PUAs, I think most guys who find themselves in pickup probably need some form of therapy. I have one. It can help improve your life (though it's not easy - there's hard emotional work you need to do). You need to find a good therapist.
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:22 PM
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Tl;dr - assuming attraction is more of a "pep talk" than an actual method of seducing girls. It's really more of an attitude and mindset that a guy should adopt than a pep talk. But I see where you're coming from. And you maybe right. Even still IMO it's the "pep talk" that most recovering AFC's absolutely need to hear, and the mindset that a guy should adopt. unless you have a self worth or self image issue, "assuming attraction" is meaningless and functionally useless Most guys who are learnin…
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:20 PM
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Don't text for a few days and hit her up next week with a ping text like nothing happened. Being scarce over text is a huge way to create attraction - make them MISS your presence, not get tired of it.
/r/seduction09/05/14 04:16 AM
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Girls make the BEST wings, especially if they're cute.
/r/seduction09/05/14 04:07 AM
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long time lurker Don't worry that's the majority of posters on seddit these days I am all about being genuine, but it seems like this is getting me nowhere, and I have to be someone I'm not to get any level of success which is frustrating. Nobody is telling you to completely change who you are. But look, there's obviously a reason you're not having success with women - and to just sit and cross your arms and stubbornly insist you want to "stay genuine" and do nothing to change yourself is going …
/r/seduction09/05/14 04:00 AM
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Its an okay start OP. But man you could've (and should've) taken it much, much further. That light kino shit you did is basic kino 101 that u do with all girls. But a girl who fucking pulls you aside to the bar to isolate YOU , and offers some of her beer to you?? She wasn't merely receptive, she was flirting with you hardcore - essentially doing a lot of the heavy lifting for you. Girls like that, you need to close, hard and fast. At the very least a make out and number. I know you said you cou…
/r/seduction09/05/14 03:47 AM
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What "brocabulary" are you talking about. This is literally the best thing to pop up on seddit all week. Generous of you to give it a "decent read" status lol.
/r/seduction09/05/14 03:33 AM
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you don't say
/r/seduction09/05/14 03:28 AM
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beer close. nice.
/r/seduction09/05/14 03:18 AM
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This FR was very instructional, motivational and inspirational. Amazing, and I love the detailed bullet points of what you thought you did right vs wrong. Incredible approach mate.
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:22 PM
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Read the fucking sidebar
/r/seduction08/05/14 09:00 PM
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"Consistently generate attraction" - that's pretty vague though. Obviously that's the biggest goal for most guys in pickup. Anything in particular though? Body language & tonality? Dress/grooming? Qualify/Disqualify? Any specific routines? Push v pull? Story telling? Btw, in all honesty, this is your first post ever so it rings slightly suspicious.
/r/seduction08/05/14 07:12 PM
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Intermediate in NYC chiming in. I approach all, but have a hard time on the subway. I work by grand central and have done many approaches during rush hour since that's when I have a cpl minutes to do it. Just don't be overly pushy or a douchenozzle. Girls w/ headphones on are surprisingly easy to open. Go up to them so you're in her line of sight, raise your hand up slightly to get her attention, and do a hand-motion to ask her to remove her headphones. I've opened girls on the phone, usually wi…
/r/seduction08/05/14 06:20 PM
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Great job OP. Keep it up.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:14 PM
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Cuz he got lucky. Seriously. I'm happy that it sort of worked out for him (we don't know yet, as he's yet to put his balls on the line and escalate to the point where she has to make a decision whether she likes him or not). But game is about taking dating into your own hands amlnd making shit work out for you proactively. This was 10% game and 90% luck.
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:12 PM
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"You can't next a girl you haven't fucked." - Chateau Heartiste Sounds like you are prematurely ejectulating my friend. First define what your goal is. You're swimming in intermediate waters and it seems like not trying to advance your game. Like you're content w/ the validation ur receiving from talking/texting/dating w/ these chicks and knowing that they like you and enjoying that validation, but also know there's more you can do. Beware the intermediate validation trap. Which is deceptively t…
/r/seduction08/05/14 05:08 PM
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Lol I thought analogies are supposed to explain difficult concepts by using simpler concepts.
/r/seduction08/05/14 04:55 PM
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Nice try Gil Rio. Ha, all jokes aside this is good stuff and I'm glad it worked out for you. Lots of guys get swindled out of big bucks for shitty boot camps and programs. Love systems is one that I keep hearing is very, very solid. I learned that my daygame structure I almost always use is originally from love systems. How much was the first boot camp, and how much was the month long session w/ Gil? What were your biggest takeaways and areas in which you feel you've improved? Any negative exper…
/r/seduction08/05/14 04:53 PM
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So what you're saying is...she approached YOU, and you blew it? Not even get her name or number? Dude...do you even PUA bro???
/r/seduction08/05/14 02:15 PM
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I use whatsapp. I have lots of friends who use WhatsApp. I live in nyc.
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:33 PM
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This belongs in /r/askseddit since it is asking about a specific situation pertaining to one girl.
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:30 PM
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Tbh OP (no offense) but reading your post, your inner game sounds like its extremely weak. Inner game trumps anything else as that is the biggest driver of long term success and happiness..
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:26 PM
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Belongs in /r/askSeddit
/r/seduction06/05/14 04:22 PM
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Is that you? Or are you just stating hypotheticals for the sake of argument?
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:20 PM
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Why don't you try it out and see if it workS or not. Cmon you're a big boy, figure it out.
/r/seduction06/05/14 11:25 AM
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There's an entire subreddit for just this. http://www.reddit.com/r/howtonotgiveafuck
/r/seduction06/05/14 11:22 AM
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I've definitely been there. Its fun, addicting, and I was getting lots of sex lol. But Almost lost my job because of it too. I think to get really good at pickup, you almost need to go through that crazy immersive unbalanced level of high activity and constant going out. Then you calm down and try to live your life with the new skill set you have. I used to go out to daygame almost every day, and night game 4x/week. It was insane, but that's when I saw the most improvement in my game. Now I dayg…
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:09 AM
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I do this a LOT. Almost always works well for me. This can be a one-off, and u might be triggering her no-longer-drunk ASD.
/r/seduction06/05/14 03:03 AM
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Best answer here. Also helps to actually see some live comedy and improv shows.
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:56 AM
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That's not a shit test, she's breaking rapport. Maybe that routine ur using isn't probablistically advantageous. Better to keep things short and sweet. Tease lightly. You be the one to break rapport. Let her work for your attention.
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:45 AM
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Then you're fine. Talk about whatever you find interesting and they'll usually get sucked into it. Also, traveling is one of those things that almost everybody loves talking about so there's a big common ground. Don't change your interests to be more mainstream, that sounds awful. Be you , be unique, and wear that shit proudly.
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:42 AM
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Models covers this topic extremely well. Pls have a read. There's even a free summary PDF if u search for it in this subreddit. For me personally, I have quite a few hobbies and interests. Like you, I am not I to pop culture at all and it is completely boring to me. I have no TV. BUT... I travel and read a lot. I try different outdoor activities all the time, and like to talk about these things. I'm a classically trained musician and now a software consultant. I'm always meeting new Interesting …
/r/seduction06/05/14 02:27 AM
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Tbh you sound overly invested already, which will lead to acting nervous and needy. Stahp that. You need much more than just "how do I talk to a girl on a date guys" post. You need to put in a lot of work on your inner game, not pedestalizing girls but acting like YOU are the prize, and adopting other traits of a high value male. These things take a long time to study, practice and finally adopt. I'm sorry I can't be of more help to you but you're asking for a HUGE, years worth of advice in a ti…
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:49 AM
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With all due respect - what the fuck are you even talking about
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:34 AM
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"It can be that simple"... Thing is, I'm sure EVERY line has worked at some point/time. But just cuz it can work (or has worked) doesn't mean its an ideal method. The reason why we think about the approach and methodically break it down is to have the highest probability / chances of closing. We study and test different approaches and post results. Your example would be a low percentage/hit rate in terms of closing. No comfort or rapport was built. Its not an ideal way to daygame. Just my two ce…
/r/seduction06/05/14 01:33 AM
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You're getting some hate here but I appreciate you summarizing the notes from Julian's product. Keep up the good work. This subreddit needs more quality contributions.
/r/seduction06/05/14 12:46 AM
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Fyi it's just redpill theory.
/r/seduction06/05/14 12:13 AM
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Thx appreciate it. I've been really slacking w/ the FRs but I'll definitely start posting more. They're non-tinder, I promise :)
/r/seduction02/05/14 09:29 PM
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Tell him that you value him as a friend but you need your space. It's a tough, not particularly pleasant talk to have, but will show how mature you both are. Though tbh, it sounds to me like you'd be better off w/o him as a friend. I have no qualms with cutting people out of my life if they only bring negativity and I'm better off w/o them.
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:17 PM
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Oh wow, I didn't even know you had promised that lol. Just trying to do my part, I'll try to post more FR's soon. I agree 100% the content in seddit has been extremely watered down lately, signal to noise ratio is really low. Thanks so much for the gold!
/r/seduction02/05/14 04:52 PM
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You can learn SOME things from a book - they're just useless without practice. Old school golden ratio: 1 hour of reading seduction material to 10 hours of in-field.
/r/seduction02/05/14 02:48 PM
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O wait I thought this was supposed to be a sarcastic post...
/r/seduction02/05/14 02:43 PM
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Exactly this. I literally have no idea what he's even asking. OP is just being a little bitch and seeking some online attention.
/r/seduction02/05/14 02:42 PM
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Very very nice OP. Entertaining and almost Archer-esque in terms of the size of testicles you demonstrated. Now go get dat booty, you pirate!
/r/seduction02/05/14 01:36 PM
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Tight tinder game brah.
/r/seduction02/05/14 12:21 PM
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Its just one of those "flip the script" things. Typically its the guy who is trying hard to get into a girl's pants while she rebuffs and makes him work for it. By flipping the script I make her the pursuer and let her work for it. I MIGHT have gotten the lay w/o it, but its a pretty powerful tool to increase the chances of sex to happen. In my (and many others') experience, just because a girl comes over, doesn't automatically mean guaranteed sex. There's always ASD and LMR. Pulling this move d…
/r/seduction02/05/14 12:19 PM
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Guys who are 5'7" and think they're doomed probably care :)
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:15 AM
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Great move, i use it plenty at loud clubs. It's called the "hand of god".
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:14 AM
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Cabs, public transportation, or ask her to drive. It's not rocket surgery.
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:11 AM
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Able to make out some of it but yes, it's unclear. Pls provide transcript if you can. I heard "I like how you ~~" at least 3x in the first minute.
/r/seduction02/05/14 05:04 AM
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This actually should be in /r/relationships - it has nothing to do with pickup or seducing women in general. I'm sure you'll get a whole lot more input there. Best of luck bud.
/r/seduction02/05/14 04:58 AM
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This is specific to a single girl - not general seduction advice. Belongs in /r/AskSeddit. You sound like you're developing one-itis man.
/r/seduction02/05/14 04:53 AM
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Good work.
/r/seduction01/05/14 10:48 PM
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If you want a seddit lair just write to the mods. That being said... I think some new rules were put in place for a lair to be associated w/ /r/seduction. For some reason my lair, GothamSeddit (the most active seddit lair FYI) has been unlinked from the sidebar...
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:03 PM
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Dude its just a flirty game. Do you really think this girl was making out with him and then following him outside to continue because of some real debt that he was holding over her head? Girls love playing flirty games with guys. OP did well w/ that whole debt thing. But he lost the girl's attention by talking to his cousin for too long.
/r/seduction01/05/14 04:35 AM
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I love daygame - it's as weird as YOU think it is. If you're just a normal social friendly guy, it won't be weird. For some example see some of my older FRs: Mother/daughter set, leads to a date, leads to bedroom Complimenting a girl on her hair, leads to SNL There's more, but you get the picture.
/r/seduction30/04/14 10:15 PM
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Ah, this is how it was in the old school pickup days of alt seduction fast. None of this bullshit "OMG guise i just got a girls number do i text or cal her???" Back then if you had a question, YOU test it out, then report back with the results.
/r/seduction30/04/14 09:43 PM
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My favorite is to take her to a deli or bodega, brown bag a couple beers from said deli or bodega, go to the park at night and just illegally drink while talking under the moonlight. A hint of danger, easy to snuggle close, and cheap as hell.
/r/seduction30/04/14 07:41 PM
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Your suspicions are correct. You're oversharing and over-investing. It's okay to be open and honest, but in due time. If you tell a girl all those things this early on, it puts a whole lot of pressure on her. It shows that you are over-eager, "thirsty", and don't have many options in terms of dating. These are unattractive qualities. Even if a girl asks about such private matters, learn to share just enough to still keep her curious and wanting to find out even more about you. Let her share more…
/r/seduction29/04/14 10:28 PM
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No.
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:46 PM
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Nice condescending tone. You're right though I should bow out - this is truly useless/nonsense bickering and trying to reason with you is obviously an exercise in futility.
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:41 PM
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lol best argument evar
/r/seduction29/04/14 04:27 PM
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Goddam this is one of the most entertaining FRs I've read in a while lol. Thanks OP!
/r/seduction29/04/14 02:41 PM
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Definitely for /r/relationship. This is the seduction forum. That being said, OP sounds like he needs a swift kick in the ass and get into pickup. He has a seriously case of one-itis.
/r/seduction29/04/14 02:25 PM
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My go-to: "Who said we're having sex? I love fooling around with you but we're DEFINITELY not having sex." -> this will seriously trip her wires up and her brain will start asking "Why the hell not!?" Also: "That's cool, and I actually like spending time with you. But for me, sexual compatibility is very important - and I need to know that I'm sexually compatible with someone before I enter a serious relationship. Do you think we're sexually compatible?" Then ramp things up.
/r/seduction29/04/14 02:18 PM
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Going up to a girl you've never met before and hasn't sent you any IOI's and saying Hi and flirting = COLD APPROACH. Goddamit how is this a warm approach man I hate getting into arguments regarding semantics
/r/seduction29/04/14 07:30 AM
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Nope, please read my field reports - the proof is in the pudding. I do cold approach daygame galore, as well as lots of nightgame. I somehow doubt that you approach every random, busy, obviously disinterested girl you see and get any kind of results whatsoever That's a very extreme situation that obviously I won't approach, but let's not argue on extremes as that's not a logical debate. Between girls that very obviously dont want to be approached, and girls that are smiling/giggling/giving u IOI…
/r/seduction29/04/14 07:19 AM
1

Do you have any specific questions or are you just looking for a pep-talk
/r/seduction29/04/14 07:10 AM
-4

Good god I'm just realizing you're giving a lot of bad advice around here. I go away from seddit for a few weeks and the inmates start running the asylum. Cold approaches are mostly bullshit. That right there is bullshit. All I do is cold approaches. If you know what you're doing, cold approaches are the best thing ever. Some means of letting you know that she's interested. Then you can use that as an invitation to start talking to her. Are you serious? What kind of pansy needs an invitation fro…
/r/seduction29/04/14 07:03 AM
2

I have yet to discern what the point of your post is supposed to be. Hot party girls will give out their numbers like candy. They will often text you for validation and ego-inflation. In other news this just in: the sky is blue.
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:54 AM
0

And make no mistake -- pickup is easy. It's only difficult if you're doing it incorrectly. Wow that is a horrible oversimplification. Perhaps it's easy for you, but definitely not for the majority of frustrated men who seek out PUA material. I've been doing this for 2 years and have fucked about 50 women, it's still not easy for me. Stop with the condescension. Noe I agree that OP is kind of being a defeatist fag, but the blanket statement "this is easy" is not only very discouraging, its wrong.
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:50 AM
1

This appears on this subreddit about once a month. Great job OP!
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:43 AM
1

Meh . The "friend dynamic" might get you to hang out again with a girl but not much more. You're preemptively friendzoning yourself. Its low risk low reward, and ultimately hiding your true desires/intentions. Dude. You are a man, and men want to have sex with attractive women. You shouldn't be ashamed of it, but proud of the fact that you are a sexual male. Own it. Don't be afraid to tell a girl that she turns you on. The only difference is who you're having sex with. Treating her like u would …
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:41 AM
2

Still a keyboard jockey criticizing others :P
/r/seduction29/04/14 06:33 AM
10

Except a lot of guys are needy and validation-seeking, and that comes across in their texting.
/r/seduction28/04/14 10:44 PM
22

This is what you call trying too hard to not seem needy. Dude it's OKAY to say that a girl is the hottest in her class. Geez.
/r/seduction28/04/14 08:46 PM
1

In walk two girls, super wasted. Don't lick the bottom of the barrel. Most of the stuff you write, I like and generally agree with. But IMO this comment sounds white knighty, bringing morality into the equation. It's a seduction site for crying out loud. We seduce women. Some guys want to work on improving themselves, their inner game, etc - more power to them. Others just want to get laid with as many women as they can - whether the girl be sober, drunk, high, tripping balls, single, with a boy…
/r/seduction26/04/14 02:11 AM
1

Good question. We (and a whole lot more lairs) used to be linked on the sidebar but there was some power-grabbing drama with a seddit mod that wanted control of all the local lair seddits. As a mod of /r/GothamSeddit I'm pretty confused about that whole thing myself. After speaking to a lot of our local sedditors, the general consensus was that we just didn't give a fuck.
/r/seduction26/04/14 01:59 AM
3

/r/GothamSeddit bro.
/r/seduction25/04/14 09:54 PM
2

BJJ
/r/seduction06/04/14 03:10 AM
1

Ehhh no.
/r/seduction06/04/14 03:03 AM
5

O crap I didn't even notice lol, thanks
/r/seduction13/03/14 12:12 AM
20

But he said she was a LEGITIMATE 10!!!
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:49 PM
2

Firstly, most likely this post is fake. That notwithstanding... buying a drink is not an automatic no-no. That's not what I'm saying. You can do some things right, and make some mistakes, at the end of the night she may still go home with you. Doesn't mean that suddenly you made no mistakes. Those are still mistakes, we're just calling them out here. In this context it was a part of his opener - his way to buy himself into a conversation with a girl. That is not a good thing to do.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:44 PM
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How that other post is upvoted up to the moon is fucking beyond me. Just shows how far this subreddit has sunk, and why people are moving to redpill.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:38 PM
1

I've been in the seduction community for a while and can usually spot a helpful post vs a fake or brag story. While this story may be inspirational for complete noobs, it's lacking a certain element of truth and helpful analysis.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:22 PM
1

So if I ever see another 10, I might have a chance. I also stay looking out for that chick. I'm sorry to say this, but with that mindset, you've already failed.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:14 PM
1

He's using it as a way to qualify himself. That's no bueno.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:12 PM
17

Seriously, I needed this post. Thank gawd.
/r/seduction12/03/14 08:06 PM
21

Telling/asking her about an oncoming kiss = triggering her logical/rational brain. The part that says "but I barely met this guy, i don't know him that well, there are all these people watching". Physical attraction comes from emotional/physical stimulation. Kissing is an outward manifestation of said attraction. You don't want her to be thinking about a kiss, only feeling the attraction and having a kiss be the result of it.
/r/seduction21/02/14 07:41 PM
0

Mistake 1: asking a girl out on a date for Valentines day, the absolute BEST night of the year to hit the bars/clubs :) Mistake 2: pretending u didn't see the first text (what did u expect her to say? "omg well he persisted so i changed my mind and now i'll go out w/ him!") V day is kinda special IMO - it's when the girls desperately need to feel validated/attractive, and the key to that validation is YOU.
/r/seduction14/02/14 11:05 PM
5

Wow that is one of the worst statements I've recently read on seddit. You advise PUAs to not go sarging on Valentines day because you have your own personal issues with seeming/feeling desperate. I have 3 plates spinning, all of whom wanted to have a date tonight, and you bet your beta ass I'll instead be out sarging tonight. No we are not desperate, we're looking to have a fucking awesome time and kill it with the ladies, like every other night. Get your head straight before you give guys bad a…
/r/seduction14/02/14 11:00 PM
2

Calm down bro
/r/seduction13/02/14 09:41 PM
1

It sounds like you're incapable of being planning out your day responsibly. Why, do you think, flakiness annoys you so much? It annoys the hell out of anybody|everybody. Stop doing that.
/r/seduction13/02/14 08:59 PM
3

Since you're not getting many good answers, I'll try to contribute. These are largely taken from /r/GothamSeddit, the NYC lair's subreddit. "Hey are you girls doing OK? It looks like you weren't getting enough male attention so I came over to fix that." "Hey, you can't look at me like that and NOT say hi!" "Hey (pause get the attention)" "sorry to interrupt your conversation, but I thought you girls looked cute, and I wanted to say hi" , "Hi, I'm XYZ" "Hey I don't think we've met yet, I'm John D…
/r/seduction13/02/14 07:50 PM
-1

Keep digging that gold girl
/r/seduction30/01/14 03:18 PM
2

Flirt with each one. Use jealousy to your advantage. Dickish move? Yes. Effective? Hell yes.
/r/seduction29/01/14 11:56 PM
1

Can this be written any worse? I mean the 2 paragraphs under "They don't Make an Effort in Bed" and the 2 paragraphs under "They are Used to Bad Sex" are exactly identical. Yeesh.
/r/seduction28/01/14 01:11 AM
5

This is good, I'll do this for warm up in a bar or club, and throw in some random high fives and hugs. And you just reminded me of this.
/r/seduction27/01/14 09:23 PM
0

So meeting girls that are interesting and sociable, and might be attracted to you, is due to "luck"? Sigh, what is this subreddit turning into.
/r/seduction27/01/14 03:47 PM
2

So you're trying to tell everybody on a forum that helps them get better with women - to stop trying to get better with women? You're essentially telling the /r/seduction subreddit that it should cease to exist. Not only is that really really funny, it's irrelevant to everybody's purpose for being here. I'm truly sorry you wasted so much time to type that up.
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:39 PM
4

Here's the thing about first dates: you don't want it to be too expensive or out of your way in case you don't like her. You want it to be as easy as possible to escalate physically and then bounce to your apartment if you both like each other and want to have sex. I'll almost always start at a decent lounge nearby, have 1 drink each, then bounce to a shitty dive bar close to my apt. If I like her, I finish a beer and bring her up to my place. If i don't like her, I'll finish my drink at the fir…
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:33 PM
8

step 1: stop chasing her step 2: learn game, game other women step 3: behave alpha, disqualify her, jokingly tell her reasons why it's a good thing you two didn't work out step 4: hang out w/ her at bars, flirt with other girls, introduce her as "your buddy", teasingly call her out on wanting you but she's friend zoned - and act like it Step 5: Enjoy abundance w/ other women Soon you'll see that you actually won't care so much about her since you have abundance w/ women, and that abundance menta…
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:24 PM
1

Indulge me for a second. What is your exact point, if u had to sum it up in one or two sentences?
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:15 PM
2

Often times the right answer is the simple, obvious one. One thing I would sprinkle this little truth with, however, is the possibility of a threesome. Don't completely fall for one and shun the other, but rather treat the other like you would a little sister. Friendly but non-sexual. Let's say everything goes swimmingly with the girl of your choice, you can start introducing the idea of acting out a sexual fantasy of yours - a threesome. Assuming she's never done it before, she's going to have …
/r/seduction25/01/14 11:00 PM
1

OP, I really think this advice could help you: (Firstly, everybody's saying this and I agree: getting to know someone in person is much more effective than trying to get to know them over online communication. You're asking "why can't I just hit it off w/ these women when we meet face to face?" But that's the whole point of going out on a date - to see if you'll have real chemistry.) Now it's hard to tell because there's so little context provided regarding how your dates went, so this might be …
/r/seduction25/01/14 10:39 PM
7

OP I'm not sure about this. I mean I get what you're saying - don't focus only on the results, getting a Kclose/#close/Fclose shouldn't be your ONLY gauge on how your game is progressing. However, IMO, it is good feedback to show that there might be some holes in your game. You should really be here to focus on self-improvement, more specifically with your confidence around women (and all people in general!). Now your thinking "of course that's why I'm here". But why are you putting your failure…
/r/seduction25/01/14 10:27 PM
2

After enough time spent flirting and escalating physically, you'll find yourself in the red-zone - which is your face a few inches away from her face. If she stays there and not back away, that means she wants you to kiss her. Then you do exactly what you just mentioned. Go in for the kiss, only for 2-3 seconds (pull), then you break contact (push). Say "this is crazy", "you're dangerous for me I can tell", etc. This will leave her certainly turned on and simultaneously unsatisfied (at this poin…
/r/seduction25/01/14 10:13 PM
2

Not very good advice from my experience (and I've fucked up a LOT with texting in the past). Jumping straight into the meetup usually has negative results. I've found in my experience that about 3-4 playful texts exchanged, leading up to asking her to meet, is ideal.
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:47 PM
3

Make your mission, not your woman, the priority in your life. Give her the gift of chasing you.
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:42 PM
1

What's wrong with you initiating every kiss? Women want men who can show initiative and lead the interaction. Unless you're a male model or an actor, or hitting on a desperate horny cougar, that is unlikely and a rather frivolous pickup goal.
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:33 PM
1

Yay here's a novel question that hasn't been asked here 86 times before
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:31 PM
7

Care more about how you view yourself, than how others might view you.
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:26 PM
1

Haha I lol'd. I've used the cunt a few times - results were sometimes great, sometimes horrible. All times hilarious.
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:17 PM
0

This is retarded. It can be summed up in push v pull and kino escalation ladder. Just another guy trying to leech off old, well-established material and market it as his own by semi-obfuscating it.
/r/seduction24/01/14 05:08 PM
1

You're running what I call "passive game" - and an admittedly pretty weak version of that, no offense. Your social circle, looks, attitude is attracting the women to you, and you're relying on them to make the move. Hence passive. Active game is you pushing the interaction forward. Getting dominant and aggressive, and going after what you want. To answer your Q's: How do I get over my anxiety over face to face talk Do this every day, try to make it a habit of striking a conversation w/ a strange…
/r/seduction24/01/14 04:51 PM
1

Thanks!
/r/seduction15/01/14 11:58 PM
2

4 Malcovich, Malcovich, Malcovich Can you elaborate on wtf you meant there? 9 Negs work What are your go-to negs, and when is it best to use them?
/r/seduction15/01/14 07:06 PM
3

100%. There is so much out of your control with clubs/bars, so it's important to just go out w/ the main goal of having fun and entertaining yourself, being outcome independent, etc. There should not be a "wasted night" just because you didn't get a lay. This is also why I take daygame a lot more seriously than nightgame.
/r/seduction15/01/14 04:43 PM
3

Just listened to all of it Tony, really appreciate it. I've been gaming for 2 years and dabbled in redpill for about 9 months. I'm super grateful for this podcast brother. As a NYC pua, please let me know if you're ever in NYC. Would love to wing with you sometime.
/r/seduction15/01/14 05:00 AM
1

What are your thoughts on red pill? have you ever dabbled with it?
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:21 PM
4

Whoa, thanks for writing this paragraph. Fantastic.
/r/seduction14/01/14 11:20 PM
23

I will say this: you sound very centered. Good on you man.
/r/seduction19/12/13 09:43 PM
2

I've been there a few times - sometimes the girl's just not investing in the conversation, which can be painful. It helps to play some conversation games: /u/YankeeTripper mentioned one, another is the love quiz, etc.
/r/seduction16/12/13 06:02 PM
8

That's some GiraffeLogic right there
/r/seduction12/12/13 03:43 PM
1

Online dating: the odds will be good...but the goods will be odd.
/r/seduction09/12/13 04:47 PM
-1

What is your question, this isn't your diary princess.
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:43 AM
1

Hey bud, OP here. So I'm saying when method A (the better, friendly route) doesn't work, here's method B (the subtle amog) as an option. You're saying method A is the only option - but the issue is that you're not addressing/acknowledging the fact that sometimes that just doesn't work and you will need to man up and be a bit assertive.
/r/seduction06/12/13 05:32 AM
3

I used to comment a lot more around here and did lots of chatting/reading about game in general. Now that I have learned about as much as I could, I'm 100% all about being in field, practicing. I do 2 daygame approaches daily, go out 3x a week for night game and do at least 5 approaches when I do go out - but without all the mental masturbation. I think after a while of doing this, you don't care to talk about pickup so much but rather enjoy living in your reality.
/r/seduction05/12/13 11:21 PM
2

All true and good points. To be fair, I don't think OP is necessarily criticizing, he's just making an observation and is wondering if others are seeing the same thing.
/r/seduction05/12/13 11:18 PM
2

Systematic desensitization is your friend
/r/seduction02/12/13 10:37 PM
21

I was literally just talking w/ a good friend about this. I've been at this for over a year now and finally have some good ideas on what my goal is. I realize that for me, it's not so much about getting laid, but really about social success on a much larger scale. Being a leader of men + having/creating a large circle of influence. Being able to help guys become better versions of themselves. Lead by example, be a positive source of influence in the lives of people around me. Giving/bringing val…
/r/seduction02/12/13 06:26 PM
3

Textbook. Well done bruh!
/r/seduction02/12/13 05:19 PM
7

Pay 2K for a bootcamp the next time they're in your city
/r/seduction26/11/13 08:28 PM
1

Lol sorry bud that was a joke, it's a classic old school PUA canned line
/r/seduction21/11/13 03:05 PM
6

Holy crap this is awesome. I think good text game is mostly about not fucking, and this addresses the ways 90% of guys fuck up. Thanks man, love all of your articles. Keep em coming!
/r/seduction20/11/13 06:28 PM
4

Who lie more, men or women?
/r/seduction20/11/13 06:00 PM
1

Have you been out w/ us over at GothamSeddit yet? One thing that can help is playing the "host of the party" mindset.
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:47 AM
7

Have you been out w/ us over at GothamSeddit yet? One thing that can help is playing the "host of the party" mindset.
/r/seduction20/11/13 03:47 AM
1

Thanks for doing this AMA, Gambler. Would you mind going into this change of male/female dynamics a little bit further?
/r/seduction19/11/13 08:23 PM
46

If you put a woman on a pedestal, she has no choice but to look down on you.
/r/seduction15/11/13 09:37 PM
1

Real question here, since you seem to be what the OP calls a "natural". Have you found this method of 'just being" getting you laid? Obviously this has great implications towards general social success, but that doesn't always translate into isolation and escalation w/ members of the opposite sex.
/r/seduction14/11/13 09:52 PM
2

I don't think this is effective. tall cutie with an Yvonne Strahovsky face and straight black hair If, as a reader, I hate black haired tall chicks, I'd think "so he banged an ugg". It doesn't help me get into the mindset of the OP and the caliber chick his target is, which is the whole point of mentioning the HB rating in an FR.
/r/seduction28/08/13 02:28 PM
1

Excellent OP! Dammit I had this exact scenario last week, and I did everything here EXCEPT for turning the tables. Sadly, no sex was had that night. This could've been a game changer. Thanks for the concise tips!
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:15 PM
5

Excellent, congrats Philly boys. Feel free to hop on the megabus and visit your brethren in the GothamSeddit lair any wknd!
/r/seduction27/08/13 02:09 PM
16

Sigh, this is misunderstanding. Group dynamics are important when you're in a group setting. And when are you in a group setting? Bars, clubs, parties, etc. A lot of the Mystery Method and some of the more old school game tactics were meant specifically for handling these types of situations. After all, buck for buck, where can you find the highest ratio of hot women who are open to be seduced? Bars, clubs, parties, etc. But what's the point of building attraction and spitting 'game' in these gr…
/r/seduction27/08/13 01:40 PM
1

It didn't work for me in Chrome but it did in IE.
/r/seduction26/08/13 06:34 PM
0

Geez, look at the downvotes. You're 100% on point man. I've been here for over a year, and try to contribute decent content...but it just feels like swimming upstream against the flood of white knights and keyboard jockey neckbeards. What the hell happened, /r/seduction???
/r/seduction26/08/13 04:16 PM
1

Got it, work boots!
/r/seduction22/08/13 01:40 PM
1

Nice shoes, let's fuck in the dirty bathroom. Leave your heels on.
/r/seduction22/08/13 04:36 AM
17

You hear that birds!? This guy's unflappable!
/r/seduction21/08/13 07:56 PM
1

Hey dork
/r/seduction21/08/13 02:03 PM
0

Honestly? Don't. I find it precious that you're on a seduction forum telling pickup artists to not talk to certain girls because if you were their dad you'd beat them up :)
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:55 AM
1

I guess I'm less attractive as someone to fuck and more attractive as a LTR? To me it sounds like you are giving that beta gentlemanly relationship vibe, instead of the caveman alpha male that just goes for whatever he desires. If you want to be that attractive guy that a girl just wants to fuck like chimps on the same night, you need to be very comfortable with conveying your sexuality and desire from the get-go. You're setting the tone for the rest of the interaction/relationship. Once you ini…
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:50 AM
1

youtube?
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:41 AM
44

"Dork" is surprisingly effective in my experience.
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:27 AM
2

Thanks for your input. This was just unsmooth and so many things (though not everything) were done wrong. To me it was a fuck up but everybody has their own sticking points they're dealing with - mine being not enjoying the present moment and just being myself because of nervousness caused by the presence of ridiculous hottie.
/r/seduction20/08/13 06:25 AM
6

Maybe you should celebrate the fact that you're doing cold street approaches without the help of liquid courage, something very few men can say they do! And despite the fact that you're relatively new, you are controlling your AA pretty damn well, good job w/ that. If you keep at it, you'll have a lot more reference experience to hone in on what works for you and what doesn't. Don't get too bent out of shape on your first couple approaches. I've probably done close to 400-500 cold street approac…
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:59 PM
3

Haha thanks. But while the #close did happen in the end (who knows why)...if you were to ignore the result and look at my pickup, it was just horrible game.
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:33 PM
8

http://i.imgur.com/AX4Ru.jpg
/r/seduction19/08/13 10:28 PM
1

Shit my bad. Can't do anything right.
/r/seduction19/08/13 09:47 PM
1

Also, for what it's worth, I'm Asian American, and get arguably good results with both asians and non asians (see my FR's).
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:31 PM
2

http://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/ctoxh/new_to_seddit_check_here_first/ Scroll down to "Race Relations".
/r/seduction15/08/13 06:29 PM
2

Yes it does. There's a great article regarding the role of race and how to use it for your game in the sidebar links.
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:46 PM
3

;)
/r/seduction15/08/13 04:38 PM
4

Sorry, but some of us are actually here to study pickup.
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:29 PM
3

Thanks for your opinion. I have actually used these lines with considerable success. But have an upvote, keyboard jockey.
/r/seduction14/08/13 11:23 PM
5

Great stuff, thanks for posting this. Next time you may want to try boyfriend destroyers. One of my faves: "Oh you have a boyfriend." "Does he treat you well?" "Yes, he does!" "Haha yeah...I wouldn't." or Girl: “I have a boyfriend…..” Man: “Wow….amazing…seriously, that’s amazing!” Girl: “What? That I have a boyfriend?” Man: “No, that I’ve barely known you for 5 minutes and you’re already telling me your problems.” Girl: “lmao!” They're essentially tools that indirectly frame the boyfriend as a s…
/r/seduction14/08/13 09:15 PM
4

Good job OP! Although it was kind of a lay-up as she first kino'd on you and wanted you to hit on her, you certainly maximized on the opportunity at hand. What I like most about this is your strong frame and keeping congruent with it: Me: hey, so Amy, you're going to buy me one more drink and then I'm taking you home. Amy: :: blank face:: Me: I'll have a whiskey and coke. Just doing/saying sexual shit like that as if you're saying "the weather is nice today" is so key. Bravo!
/r/seduction14/08/13 02:50 PM
4

Why would you want to frame yourself as a hopeless beta?
/r/seduction13/08/13 12:20 AM
2

I know this comment was probably made tongue in cheek, but the white knight movement in seddit has made this place rather horrible for true students of seduction.
/r/seduction12/08/13 11:50 PM
2

Wow thanks man, appreciate the comment.
/r/seduction12/08/13 03:27 PM
7

Thanks for your opinion.
/r/seduction10/08/13 05:20 PM
1

Yes it might. Try it out and see what works for you.
/r/seduction10/08/13 09:26 AM
2

Maybe yes, maybe no. Obviously it was risky, but like I said to another commenter...if I didn't have sex with her that would've been perfectly fine by me. And she sensed that - which is what spiked her desire.
/r/seduction10/08/13 09:07 AM
7

I prefer dinner dates because I'm hungry at 8pm, but you could just take her to a shitty dive bar, doesn't matter. This is really a small detail of the FR and not the point to be taken at all. Edit: I re-read your comment and take issue with it: Sure you got sex but you were still gambling and it was an unpredictable chance This is absolutely the wrong mindset to have. My objective with dates is to see if there is chemistry and to have fun with a beautiful girl. I don't expect sex, but if it hap…
/r/seduction10/08/13 09:05 AM
3

Merge sets, Mystery style. Open a few, not in a flirtatious way, but a fun party way, then bounce sets, then introduce people. You will become seen as the party host that everybody loves rather than PUA.
/r/seduction10/08/13 09:04 AM
2

I feel like I'm coming off as boring, but I know I'm way more interesting and fun than I'm putting out there. Then put out that interesting, fun part of you out there. Also, are you challenging the girls? Knocking them off their pedestal and make them beg you to find them attractive? In party situations, you need to have a really good mix of push v pull (more push in clubs, less so in bars).
/r/seduction10/08/13 08:47 AM
1

Lol don't literally slam her against the wall. Also, doors have a little give so they're better for this than a brick wall.
/r/seduction10/08/13 08:39 AM
78

Bravo OP. The best thing you did here IMO was to not lose your cool, your frame, remained consistent. I say OK and when she's out the door I lock it and go to bed. A minute later, she's knocking on the door. Her: You didn't come after me Shit I've had this experience so many fucking times. Many girls are really just attention whoring babies that want to know that when they cry, daddy's going to come run over to them. Now here's my one dissenting thought: You think that it was honesty that got he…
/r/seduction10/08/13 08:31 AM
11

Challenge accepted, Throwaway!
/r/seduction10/08/13 08:22 AM
5

Thanks for the encouragement, I try to write these up to combat the crazy white knight movement in Seddit recently ;( The only advice I have to offer you is, practice a little bit every day man! No matter how busy you are, I'm sure you have 10 min. to chat w/ the barista, bartender, waitress, girl waiting for bus, etc.? A wing of mine told me recently...he practices a lot on girls he doesn't find super attractive, so that when the attractive one does appear (he's extremely picky) - he'll be prim…
/r/seduction10/08/13 08:10 AM
5

Thanks bud. Personally, I think the most important lesson for me with this girl was, not letting her think she "had" you - keep her guessing.
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:43 AM
3

In NYC, we have many tourists (often they're the easiest to game if you can establish comfort quickly). Just talk to them like you would any friendly person, they ARE still human. If you go into the set thinking it's creepy, however, that will definitely be projected onto them.
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:42 AM
3

Ah, thank you, you get it.
/r/seduction10/08/13 07:41 AM
6

Yes I did. And if we didn't have sex, that would've been completely fine by me. Although truth be told...if she didn't kiss me, i'd probably have kissed her hard right before we exited my door :) it's great slamming a girl against the door for a hot makeout session.
/r/seduction09/08/13 09:42 PM
3

Thanks for the feedback guys, pics removed!
/r/seduction09/08/13 08:51 PM
2

If you # close a chick, text her twice and never get a reply back...do you throw away the #? Keep it as a "invite her to next big party" type of #? Is there any "unclogger" texts that you can send to get some kind of reaction from her?
/r/seduction09/08/13 07:25 PM
3

Believe me...once you get going, street approaches become so easy and natural. There are some HUGE advantages that daygame has over nightgame. Worth it!
/r/seduction09/08/13 07:13 PM
21

TIL different people have different HB ratings and standards of beauty
/r/seduction09/08/13 07:03 PM
9

Exactly
/r/seduction09/08/13 05:56 PM
13

We were on the conversation of dates (I think I brought it up). I think it's a hilarious topic, and allows you to mention some standards you have regarding women/dating. However, bringing up past gf's would usually be a bad idea, unless it's just a passing comment.
/r/seduction09/08/13 04:04 PM
2

Approach anxiety. Read the sidebar for a list of all the pickup terminology.
/r/seduction09/08/13 03:12 PM
1

Charlieeeeee! It's Jimmy, sorry I didn't get to see you off before you left nyc. I tried using the code, is it still valid? I get this: "Coupon code SEDDITPEEPSS is disabled by the instructor". Also have to fill you in on some great shit that's been happening.
/r/seduction09/08/13 01:34 PM
1

He's just a daygame PUA, with very little AA. What's so great? There are literally dozens of guys like him out in Union Square in NYC at any given moment.
/r/seduction09/08/13 01:00 PM
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Yes we NYers are assholes, but goddammit are we sexy as fuck.
/r/seduction09/08/13 12:58 PM
2

Yup, that is precisely what we call "white knighting". We are here to discuss theory, methods, tactics, thoughts, everything about seduction. Some of these methods might not be ones that you would personally want to employ, but labelling them as "sad and pathetic" and saying "this is not the man I want to be" is absolutely not what this sub is about. We do not judge each others' morals here.
/r/seduction06/08/13 04:56 PM
1

Sup dougster333. Come over to /r/gothamseddit, you'll find plenty of awesome guys that can talk about streetgame in nyc.
/r/seduction31/07/13 09:07 PM
6

this
/r/seduction03/07/13 06:04 PM
1

I'd recommend reading TofuTofu's FR's. He's not the skinniest guy (I won't call him fat, I won't call him fat) but he's probably had the craziest success in all of /r/seduction. That being said...being fat will limit your game, and your game will need to be much tighter than a guy who's not fat. Here in NYC, you wouldn't get away with partying with the 8's, 9's, 10's at our more posh clubs. Heck, the door bouncer might not even let you in solely based on your appearance. So you'd have to stick t…
/r/seduction19/06/13 12:24 PM
1

Oh boy. There's a few things, OP. You seem to have one-itis with this girl. You shouldn't give so many fucks - why aren't you approaching tons of other women who would gladly spend time with you if you'd just nut up and say hi to them? You said it yourself, you don't approach women, you let things just happen. OP, you've not even begun to apply seduction practices. And now you find yourself in this predicament, you're asking for advice? The BEST advice I can give you, is to stop being an AFC and…
/r/seduction19/06/13 12:17 PM
12

Walk up, flash a smile. "Hi, I haven't met you yet. I'm codi123." Works every time. Don't complicate things and don't overthink it.
/r/seduction18/06/13 11:24 PM
2

Wow, sorry but this is completely garbage. It may work for teenage girls who are bored and love texting all day. It seems excessively needy/wordy. And most attractive girls do NOT want to get on the phone w/ a guy she doesn't know well. Heck, I don't even want to get on the phone w/ anyone I don't know well. "hey im cooking dinner for a special friend tonight but debating on what i should treat her too, pasta or bbq chicken, what do you think?" If a girl I don't know well texted me that, I'd tel…
/r/seduction17/06/13 09:50 PM
4

I text usually with statements. I keep them short, sporadic and self-entertaining. Be abrupt. Make her be the inquisitive one. You don't want her to feel like she "has" you by giving too much reward via text. Reward her when you're actually hanging out instead. That way, when you're not around her and just texting, she'll want to brush through the text shit and hurry and meet with you again, for that feeling of validation and reward.
/r/seduction12/06/13 05:30 PM
1

Haha, awesome stuff! I had the same thing happen to me in this FR.
/r/seduction12/06/13 01:54 PM
2

I tried meetup.com a year ago and it went surprisingly well. Most of the ppl were quite strange honestly, but I met a guy and we got along well. He invited me to his party few wks later, I met a bunch of his friends who happen to be super cool and in the fashion/PR/ad industry, and now I'm definitely a part of that circle. They're also pretty fun, hip, trendy, and generally a good DHV when we go to clubs together.
/r/seduction11/06/13 10:23 PM
3

Even that's not entirely true. You can be fine complimenting her DNA as an opener, as long as you're being honest and not needy. Source: I do it all the time w/ my daygame.
/r/seduction11/06/13 08:53 PM
6

This is exciting! Montreal has THE hottest women in North America, and they're so damn easy.
/r/seduction05/06/13 04:58 PM
2

Extremely. And for the ones that don't aren't interested at all - they'll say so, in which case you wouldn't want to waste your time texting/calling her anyways, just to be turned down, or worse still, ignored.
/r/seduction05/06/13 03:45 AM
3

in each instance it was very clear that I didn't want mere friendship, so I completely agree with you there. You're misunderstanding. That's how it SHOULD be. You shouldn't give her the "friend" vibe when you approach and talk to women you want to fuck. That's bullshit and goes against pickup principles. It's OKAY to want to have sex with women!!! To try and hide that, and be a supplicating boy that pretends he doesn't want to have sex with her, is just being insincere, ashamed of your sexuality…
/r/seduction05/06/13 03:36 AM
1

Hey man, if I were you I'd look into becoming good at daygame. It can be a lot of fun, and you'll reap HUGE rewards. I do both day and night, and I understand that solo at night can be excruciating. I still do it, but in NYC that is somewhat normal and socially acceptable. Also, I drink.
/r/seduction05/06/13 01:06 AM
1

ABSOLUTELY. Women want men that other women want. If you're out w/ a bunch of girls, automatically your social proof in any club or bar is high. Use this to your advantage! Get them to the dance floor, have fun w/ them, you'll see other girls look at you keenly. Grab them and let them join your circle, invite them back to your table or spot at the bar.
/r/seduction04/06/13 11:33 PM
2

You almost have no 'in' buddy. believe me, for every hot girl on FB, there are 100 random strangers PMing them for dates. What is going to differentiate you from them? Why go for some random hot chick on FB, when you could be hitting on chicks in real life? That being said, here's how to maximize what little you have: "Hey HB! I noticed you're [so-and-so]'s friend! How do you guys know each other? Yeah? She and I went to school together (or however you know her). Cool, well we're going to try to…
/r/seduction04/06/13 06:24 PM
1

Holy shit is this way off. So I read some more of your subreddit and it made me realise why I fail to read any of it at all. You know almost nothing about seduction, and you're telling us to not subscribe to its teachings. I've been here for over a year and it's been incredible. I've learned a lot, have met some amazing women, got into a great relationship, and have been improving myself so much.
/r/seduction04/06/13 04:49 PM
7

rmbarnes, thank you for this. It was incredibly useful and kind of crystallizes what my regular wing and I have been thinking over the past few weeks. Want to not get flaked on by a 7? Be an 8. Not get flaked on by an 8? Be a 9. Thankfully for us men, it doesn't all depend on how hot you look. Those things you mention, gym, fashion, grooming, career, lifestyle, and ALL the other things that the game teaches you, will increase your SMV. I'll add one more tip. This one is a fucking GEM, and my win…
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:56 PM
1

You sound like you're getting annoyed ;) no worries, I am too.
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:43 PM
50

Thanks for your comment, I agree with some of it, but a lot of this I have to respectfully disagree with. And guys, I'd recommend listening to RivalRio, but taking it with a grain of salt as this is what she thinks she's attracted to but might not necessarily apply to all women. RivalRio, think if you met Mister Charming, a 10, say Brad Pitt or Ryan Gosling (I don't know who you kids like these days), that gets you wet just talking to or thinking of him. Would you mind if he just took you to a n…
/r/seduction04/06/13 02:32 PM
1

No offense OP. You sound like you're really young and naive. I say this because that is exactly how I was when I was young and naive. It took me a few girlfriends to realize that girls, when you get to know them, are just as fucked up as guys are, if not more so. You are automatically qualifying them in your head. You're liking them without even getting to know them. That's not love, that's infatuation. In your head, before real interaction has begun, you already put this fantasy version of the …
/r/seduction03/06/13 10:38 PM
2

Mark Manson teaches you to be attractive by being honest and vulnerable. It goes against the grain of a lot of the seduction literature out there. It really dispels a lot of it that tells you to act a certain way, do this or that. A common mantra in those books is "fake it till you make it" but Mark really tells you, there's no need to fake anything. It's very much inner-game focused, so it's probably not be the ONLY book you'll need if you want to become a master. However, it builds the best co…
/r/seduction03/06/13 03:23 PM
0

I'm telling you, right now, READ THE BOOK. Best investment of time regarding seduction IMO. That is, until Tofutofu's Above The Game book comes out.
/r/seduction03/06/13 01:51 PM
1

that feeling you are interpreting as fear, is attraction for the woman, and the signal you should approach ThrowawayPUA, that statement hit me like a sack of bricks. Really great way to view the AA situations. Thanks for this.
/r/seduction01/06/13 09:50 PM
9

This was just a bragging story, nothing about methods, routines, thoughts, process that can be learned from. 1/10 would not read again. And, as you said, the title is misleading, and that sucks. The point of FR's isn't to show off "OMG guys, I had these hotties allll dancing on me and I fucked 3 of them". The point is to share your pickup methods, test them in FIELD, and then REPORT back on what worked, what didn't, what insights you gained, etc.
/r/seduction01/06/13 09:43 PM
2

Awesome. You should join up w/ us in GothamSeddit! I'm certainly not a regular, but a fellow gotham sedditor SNBatman goes often and manages to drag me along sometimes. I do like the place, it's a lot of fun.
/r/seduction30/05/13 09:04 PM
2

Oh shit it's itsmevichet! I've been reading ALL of your shit here man, I'm a fan. Do you have plans to come visit? It would be an honor. We'll have to get Tofu to come down from CT to hang out too, it'll be legendary :D
/r/seduction30/05/13 08:52 PM
18

Great job OP! It was somewhat easy because, let's face it, she approached you and # closed you first - but you did a phenomenal job w/ the rapid escalation in a short period of time! If I may say just one thing... this girl now wants to be my girlfriend, and has been insistently texting me for the last several hours. Not sure how I'm going to play this, but if anything, I'm taking this as a sign that I left her better than I found her Just be real w/ her and don't fuck with her emotions - that's…
/r/seduction30/05/13 07:09 PM
1

Thanks! So you're in nyc? and korean??
/r/seduction30/05/13 06:55 PM
6

I've been in pickup for 1 year. My progression: Read The Game & some other books, watch a bunch of pickup videos like Simple Pickup. Work on myself, hit the gym. Dress better on a day-to-day. Work tons on inner game (this is on-going). Start having short, random conversations with everybody I ran into on the street, in line @ starbucks, etc. Start having short, random conversations with cute girls on the street. Start having short, flirtatious conversations with cute girls on the street. If you …
/r/seduction30/05/13 01:53 PM
4

That's just a bad situation and there wasn't much else you could do honestly. Can't blame her at all. But not to worry, there are 19,999 other people there to make out with!
/r/seduction30/05/13 06:00 AM
4

Edited, added a link to two pics we took that night.
/r/seduction30/05/13 04:23 AM
1

Hey man, you got a couple of days to make something happen! If not, you'll have to wait till HB7 gets back.
/r/seduction30/05/13 04:07 AM
4

Eye contact a little longer than would be considered normal. Laugh at his jokes, touch his arm when you laugh. Touch your hair every so often. I know it might sound corny, but these are all indicators of interest. As a pua, this is what I'm trained to look for to see how receptive a girl is to my moves.
/r/seduction30/05/13 03:38 AM
1

haha, thanks? there are wayyy better pua's than me around these parts, but I'll take that compliment =)
/r/seduction30/05/13 02:38 AM
2

Thank you, frequencypromos!
/r/seduction30/05/13 02:37 AM
8

I'll try to explain. It was quite late into the night, we've been escalating physically a lot, heavy make-out, and it's time to leave. Don't bring up subject of going to your place (to have sex) - make it seamless. Bringing up the subject can 1) trigger her ASD, and 2) give her an opportunity to eject. If it feels natural, just let it happen naturally.
/r/seduction29/05/13 10:11 PM
1

Hi bud, not sure if you're trolling or not. But if you're serious, just post a Field Report and include a "SNL" in the title, for "same night lay".
/r/seduction29/05/13 07:50 PM
2

Key Performance Indicators. Basically a way to measure your success or performance.
/r/seduction29/05/13 06:48 PM
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This is retarded.
/r/seduction29/05/13 06:46 PM
3

Lines starting with four spaces are treated like code: if 1 * 2 < 3: print "hello, world!" There's also the quote feature: Is there some way to indent? Just add a > to the beginning of the line. FYI, using Reddit Enhancement Suite will change your redditing experience and is very helpful for formatting.
/r/seduction26/05/13 04:41 AM
3

Great wall of text! If you clean it up, organize it, have some bullet points, general formatting, it will get much better readership guaranteed. As it is right now, it's very difficult to digest.
/r/seduction26/05/13 03:34 AM
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This is for /r/askseddit , my friend.
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:36 PM
3

Good job in getting out there. I've been reading a lot of Seddit Word of advice: you're going to need to go out A FUCKTON to actually get better. I was like you, about a year ago. Then I realized I'm gonna really push myself out of my comfort zone, and sarged solo for months, multiple times a week. Only then did I start seeing drastic improvements. Reading material is helpful only to an extent. Also, a sidenote, about half of the shit on seddit these days is garbage, it's lost the clarity and ki…
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:29 PM
2

Fucking body language is EVERYTHING. Practice strong eye contact. Don't smile like a clown, but have a knowing "smirk". Speak loudly. Most guys speak WAY too softly. Introduce yourself to everyone.
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:19 PM
1

Firstly, I was cringing reading this - but hey, we've all been there. There's only one way to find out whether it's recoverable or not, and that is to give it a shot. Now for some brutal honestly (sorry friend). You seem to have a fear of escalating physically, and displaying your intentions honestly. This kind of hindering behavior communicates subtly a level of neediness and low-self perception. Women like men who are confident and love themselves enough to show their intentions unabashedly. N…
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:16 AM
1

Nick, I've been reading your articles religiously. This one I think was the biggest missing ingredient in my game. I'm so excited to put this into practice starting fucking TODAY. Can't thank you enough!
/r/seduction22/05/13 04:00 AM
3

I really don't agree with this mentality. My 2 cents: As such I sound very cocky. But I draw a line between being that and being obnoxious I really want to know: how do you know your cockiness is stopping shy of being obnoxious? Most cocky guys I know are rather obnoxious, and they have no idea. I flaunt only when it is appropriate Unless it's his resume, a truly confident, high value man NEVER needs to flaunt his accomplishments or success - especially for picking up women. Some of the most acc…
/r/seduction22/05/13 12:59 AM
2

Thanks for posting the FR. It started out so well, I was expecting big things to happen lol. My 2 cents: Stop drinking so much! Especially if you're using it as a crutch for AA. I drink a lot myself, but when I want to hit on girls, I will definitely limit myself. It'll mess up your game. And even if you do take a girl home that night: 1) you won't remember exactly how you did that clearly, and 2) whiskey dick. Most of your openers were very "safe". You even mention opening in "really low risk w…
/r/seduction22/05/13 12:33 AM
9

stay the hell away from me !
/r/seduction21/05/13 09:11 PM
2

Gotcha, thx for answering. Just to be clear: You're not being called a white knight because you're someone who likes to be nice to girls and listen to their problems. That's great, more power to you. The reason you're being called a white knight is because you're judging a pua for him NOT being nice and listening to a girl's problems. Which is a bit silly, since this was in an extremely loud club and the target and I not knowing each other well at all.
/r/seduction21/05/13 08:55 PM
2

I'm really curious, do you practice pickup and seduction? Or are you just judging us from the outside?
/r/seduction21/05/13 08:42 PM
1

In one of his videos, RSDTyler says to try to find ONE funny/hilarious thing about every approach. I like that mentality, because you don't take yourself too seriously and even blowouts can be hilarious. Approach #3 for me was a riot, jumping right inside the 7-set's circle and dancing like a clown.
/r/seduction21/05/13 05:59 PM
1

Thanks. Also, you're the dude from this comment! I've been seeing you around here a lot :) A blazer is one of the most important pieces in my wardrobe for sure.
/r/seduction21/05/13 04:08 PM
1

Yeah, I was pretty surprised myself! But in hindsight, although she called him her "date", it didn't seem like they were actually a couple or anything - she actually invited me to come hang out at her table. They may have been friends that just came together, or he might be that gay friend that pretty girls love hanging out with. Who knows?
/r/seduction21/05/13 03:11 PM
2

I learned that little move from a DeAngelo clip I saw recently. Back to basics! :) Typical club gear? I change it up but usually it's: dark, clean, slim fitting jeans (not jeggings). White dress shirt with a striped knit tie. Funky herringbone blazer w/ leather elbow patches and a funky pocket square. No socks, wingtip shoes. EVERYTHING is well-fitted (slim). Sometimes I'll switch it up w/ a cool leather jacket, but keep the shirt/tie, with black boots and black jeans. When bouncers determine wh…
/r/seduction21/05/13 03:07 PM
4

If we were at a bar, cafe, or some other place where that type of conversation is appropriate, I may have continued. Or maybe after we left the club to some restaurant. But I was there to party, sarge, talk to and dance with lots of pretty girls and enjoy the hell out of my night at a very loud club. It's not the time and place, and I wasn't about to get sucked into some girl's world of emotional problems just because she felt like it. It literally would've dampened my entire night. Do I think I…
/r/seduction21/05/13 02:59 PM
47

All of the series so far have been outstanding, but this one really hits home for me. I've been through some crappy relationships and almost every point here is relevant to some failed (or successful) aspect of those relationships. I want to humbly add one more point, if I may: not about keeping her in love with you, but keeping yourself in love with her. If you've not had a serious relationship, you're probably thinking "What!? As long as I date a HB9/10, OF COURSE I'll stay in love w/ her!" - …
/r/seduction20/05/13 06:58 PM
12

Will you post a FR? How exactly did it work?
/r/seduction19/05/13 09:37 AM
1

If you don't see what he did wrong, no offense but you might not understand club game and proper wingmanship. I will try to crystallize what he did wrong. Also, there's no reason to be a douchebag bro, I'm taking time out to write content for the community, no need for you to be a dick just because you get to enjoy anonymity on the internet. 1) If a guy first opens a set, you don't enter unless you clearly know you're welcome in it. I'll usually spot a wing and introduce him to the set, if I wan…
/r/seduction18/05/13 09:29 PM
10

Welcome to the circlejerk seddit has become!
/r/seduction17/05/13 07:14 PM
22

Have an upvote and a small contribution. Best of luck! Your boys at GothamSeddit are behind you man.
/r/seduction16/05/13 07:33 PM
1

Thanks for emphasizing the sidebar! There's SO much good material there, material that took some of the mods and other experienced guys TONS of hours to write, edit and compile, for our benefit. Meanwhile, all these new guys come on without reading any of it and it's quite frustrating.
/r/seduction13/05/13 06:08 AM
1

I know that what you said sounds overly simplistic and maybe a little douchey, but actually this is surprisingly accurate. Be horny Maybe better stated, be sexual. Don't be afraid to convey that you are a man with sexual intent. Don't be afraid to show that you desire a beautiful woman. If you're too afraid to show your sexuality, you'll be acting as "that guy friend". Women want men who can show that they can be dominant sexually, unabashedly. So yes, "be horny".
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:59 AM
1

rmbarnes and throwaway already said good stuff, i'll just tack on my 2 cents. "Hey, you have a really nice smile." It can be said because you're an attractive, honest, value-giving man and want a girl to feel good about herself, with no expectation or outcome dependency. Or it can be said because you're trying to get her to like you. Same words, but the mentality behind it will show whether you're being needy or not.
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:54 AM
2

Haha I genuinely laughed at that
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:50 AM
2

probably a lot less sucky than being a douchebag
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:47 AM
2

Yeah but god look at her toes. 2/10 would not fuck.
/r/seduction13/05/13 05:46 AM
4

We've got a pretty good group of guys here at r/GothamSeddit, we'll show you the ropes kiddo ;)
/r/seduction06/05/13 05:33 PM
66

Good post, but as a NYC club frequenter, a lot of this shit won't just fly at most of our clubs. Don't expect to get in with "2 of your best friends" unless they're both tall, hot chicks. You'll get denied at the door. If you don't have a good ratio, you gotta go early (before 10 to be safe). Don't expect a whole lot to happen in the bathrooms, the lines are long and there usually are attendants. Sometimes she may not give you her number. That's fine, all she was looking for was a cheap club hoo…
/r/seduction06/05/13 03:42 PM
4

Translated to English: This FR was great. I enjoyed the part where you kissed her on the street corner, as this is something that I do too. For your next date, use www.airbnb.com to work out logistics - this will lead to a night of romping with your lady. LoneWolf
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:41 PM
1

lonewolf, you're such a dork :3
/r/seduction03/05/13 02:38 PM
3

Which is why we are not satisfied with being one of those dozen guys. We study seduction to be the one that actually gets the girl . Once you get good at this stuff, you'll realize that those dozen other guys are of no consequence. I hate clubs and bars, women are more guarded Just by reading this statement, I can tell that you haven't done your PUA homework my friend. They seem *to have a bitch-shield, but it's really to guard themselves from *AFCs** and weak men. Bars & clubs are where the alp…
/r/seduction28/03/13 12:40 AM
9

Which reminds me, unnnnsubsribing time! Win/win.
/r/seduction27/03/13 11:33 PM
4

Good response. Asking this question is probably one of the more beta things one can possibly do.
/r/seduction27/03/13 03:04 PM
1

And that's totally fine. It should be appropriately titled/categorized, that's all I'm asking. He can call it "I acted like a leader" or "I asserted myself while out with my gf and friends". But a Field Report this is not.
/r/seduction26/03/13 06:59 PM
3

Fantastic! It's also freaking HILARIOUS that the Korean chick's family owns a dry cleaner in NYC. Great job mate, and appreciate the audio + text transcripts.
/r/seduction25/03/13 02:38 PM
14

You have a girlfriend, went out w/ a bunch of friends, and asked a server for some attention to your table. This is NOT a fucking field report!
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:46 AM
2

As a new mod in NYC's gotham lair, I'll say this: if YOU build it, they will come! You won't know how many other ppl are thinking the same thing until you start the group.
/r/seduction25/03/13 05:41 AM
9

100% Agreed. An entertaining story, yes. But not a helpful FR in the slightest. More crap that demonstrates what this subreddit has turned into.
/r/seduction22/03/13 07:13 PM
1

Awesome. Great way to initiate kino right from the get-go as well.
/r/seduction22/03/13 02:38 PM
1

Agreed. Also, YMMV.
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:59 PM
2

1) The beta option would seem to be to ignore the reference (and either try to go ahead with the date or cut losses and move on to someone else). The alpha option would seem to be to call out and respond to her BF reference in some clever and disarming way. I don't think it has anything to do with beta/alpha here. It's more a matter of what's in line with your own values - do you hit on women with significant others or not? And we here on seddit should NOT be telling you what to do in this situa…
/r/seduction20/03/13 10:47 PM
2

Die-hard Manson fan here. But I'll tell you something: that game won't work on every girl. If you want it to work on every girl, you need to mix in some other schools of thought. Your post didn't say much other than you telling her "she is different from the other girls" - and that's only in response to her little test. I think that is totally fine to say if you feel that way - you're not telling her that you want to marry her. Most girls will be happy to hear that kind of honesty (as long as it…
/r/seduction20/03/13 06:29 AM
5

I can not believe the type of shit that is on /r/seduction anymore. There used to be quality posts. OP: I'm sorry for your viewpoint, but you sound like you're from the planet fucking Vulcan.
/r/seduction20/03/13 06:22 AM
2

Agree to disagree. I've met quite a few good looking guys who have no game, terrible AA, and frustrated w/ their lack of success with women. You see that here in seddit sometimes as well.
/r/seduction19/03/13 05:11 PM
1

Not a good rule to live by, but it has its place. I'd say, if the attraction is there and the buy-in temperature is high, go ahead and make out with her. Just be the first to break off the kiss, and make sure you're pushing and pulling. The whole idea of not going for the kclose if you want the fclose is, it might kill attraction because you gave her what she could get out of you. The key is to always leave her wanting more. If the attraction is low and you're verrry iffy on whether she wants to…
/r/seduction19/03/13 04:20 PM
1

The point of the sub is to study actual game, in practice and in theory. But this subreddit has almost gone completely to shit these days, with boys posting: "OMG guys I FB/#/K-closed this hottie and all I did was wear this blue vest and she was all over me TRYYY ITTTT". Women will give you their #, email, a kiss, even sleep with you, for any number of reasons - she just broke up w/ someone and is lonely, you remind her of her first crush, you wear a cologne that triggers her senses, whatever. T…
/r/seduction19/03/13 02:53 PM
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You were likely on a social high, since you were just coming from hanging with your friends. Also, and this is pure speculation, she was likely a bit sexually frustrated since she was spending time w/ her flamboyant roommate, with no hope/desire of getting laid by him - then BAM you appeared. At any rate, I think you should've kino'd and escalated much harder, as the opportunity was golden. No offense, but this required almost no game from you mate. And the little opening you did have to properl…
/r/seduction19/03/13 02:43 PM
0

You're quite committed to your username aren't ya.
/r/seduction19/03/13 02:38 PM
1

Hey mate, super glad that you found this helpful! To answer your question... Absolutely! Not only at the bar on weekends, but everywhere. Start being friendly with people behind you in lines, the lady behind the counter, people you see everywhere. It should be happening at the same time - your self improvement activity and your approaching activity. What you should start to see is this: the very act of investing in yourself, will immediately give you the mindset of a higher value person (this is…
/r/seduction19/03/13 02:59 AM
1

How'd you know I'm asian?
/r/seduction18/03/13 11:15 PM
1

Pardon me?
/r/seduction18/03/13 09:20 PM
3

Just thought it funny that you're playing devil's advocate with SatanicBoner.
/r/seduction18/03/13 09:03 PM
1

Did you do some warm up sets? Whenever you feel like you're getting AA or intimidated at a new spot, a good idea is to just start introducing yourself to everyone. Keep the interactions brief, smile real big, and just be friendly. That'll boost your confidence and put you in a good social frame. Then, start lengthening the interactions with the girls and start teasing and having fun =) On your point #3: If a wing isn't up to doing approaches, go do it by yourself, then pull the set over to him t…
/r/seduction18/03/13 07:58 PM
1

Really liked this! Could've been a wee bit shorter but only by a hair, and I appreciated the bulleted main points on top. I do think that you had a big high advantage given the sxsw festival and you're being a musician - but that doesn't mean you gamed any less well. Work solo Amen brother. I'm realizing that this has been working SO much better for me than working sets with a wing or wings. Five numbers could last me all year! Or maybe the rest of my life! That is really interesting to me. I'm …
/r/seduction18/03/13 07:01 PM
2

What are you waiting for?? Baby steps at first, you'll be having too much fun in no time.
/r/seduction18/03/13 04:21 PM
2

Classic Jewiger.
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:57 PM
11

I don't think it should be in the sidebar. If it gets enough upvotes, people will find it and read it this week and hopefully save or bookmark it.
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:39 PM
2

Thanks jamesbond664. Yeah, wording isn't perfect. I believe that there is a good type of selfish (which is the main point of the article), as well as a bad type of selfish (being uncaring, unsympathetic, and worst of all, imparting no value). I am saying, be the first type of selfish and not the latter. Sorry if I wasn't being clear.
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:22 PM
1

What's the protocol here, do we flag trolls? Or message the mods? Downvote to oblivion?
/r/seduction18/03/13 03:12 PM
8

Appreciate the comment. You're actually right, the analogy isn't a perfect fit. But I do hope that the main thrust of the article is what gets conveyed more than some of the smaller details. Anyway, thanks - feedback is always welcome.
/r/seduction18/03/13 02:49 PM
13

I appreciate you leaving some important context out. And white knights are ALWAYS fun to have around /r/seduction , so cheers! =D
/r/seduction18/03/13 05:27 AM
5

Shut up nerd. HA just kidding! Interesting comparison there. You're probably right - there aren't too many new theories or routines to test out anymore, a lot of the trailblazing has already occurred. The community here then should be 1) learning the established methods of seduction (back to basics yo!), 2) field testing these methods themselves, and 3) report back with field reports! But sadly, this just is not happening. I don't know why. I don't know how to make it better. And it makes this P…
/r/seduction14/03/13 11:03 PM
1

Do you have any guidance on dirty talk? A few girls I've been with seemed pretty into it. My problem is, it sounds so ridiculous coming out of my mouth that I want to start laughing.
/r/seduction14/03/13 01:10 AM
2

This is absolutely the best way to handle rejection. And beautifully written post, might I add.
/r/seduction14/03/13 12:54 AM
1

Thanks for the mini-FR! I hear you on not having to do cold approaches - I've been kinda lucky and had a rotation of 3 attractive FWB's for the past few weeks. I realized that I've become so rusty, and generally had no real motivation to cold-approach. So even if I am having sex with a rotation of women regularly, I'm trying to stay social and talk to strangers every day so I won't "lose my touch". BTW - "nycprowl" - are you a NYer? If so, you should x-post this to /r/gothamseddit!
/r/seduction14/03/13 12:51 AM
24

Plot twist: she is on a mission to give everybody pinkeye. No but really, this was pretty damn smooth. It's hard to meet women w/ actual game.
/r/seduction13/03/13 09:20 PM
1

Relevant - from two years ago http://i.imgur.com/WeHxR.png
/r/seduction12/03/13 05:19 PM
2

x-post is your friend :)
/r/seduction12/03/13 04:54 PM
3

Thanks for this post! I whole-heartedly agree that FR's need to be slightly more front-and-center. I've written 4 of them myself and love feedback, positive or negative. HOWEVER: my biggest gripe with /r/seduction these days has been the overall lower quality of recent FRs. So many of them are some variation of "OMG Thx seddit I did this one thing at this one party this one night and this girl slept with me THIS WORKS GUYS!" It's become more of a circlejerk and completely anecdotal. The problem …
/r/seduction12/03/13 04:34 PM
5

I'd say this works well when you're first starting out or are still working on overcoming AA. But I don't think it's necessarily a healthy path to stay on indefinitely. I think that a man of very high value and strong sense of self will demonstrate empathy and honesty, and will care about how his actions affect those around him. But that's just me.
/r/seduction08/03/13 07:31 PM
3

treat everyone excellently. First and foremost: treat yourself excellently.
/r/seduction08/03/13 06:21 PM
4

I know many sedditors who use online dating. Her advice may be not applicable to you, but many others will find it helpful.
/r/seduction05/03/13 03:58 AM
6

I think you need to chill out a bit man. I'm sorry a lot of people upvoted a rather light-hearted post.
/r/seduction05/03/13 12:58 AM
1

Yep. Read it and enjoyed it, but felt a bit manufactured. Steven Covey talks about such "personality ethic" books in Seven Habits, which places much more value on congruence to who you are and what you value.
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:58 AM
1

You must be a hit at parties.
/r/seduction04/03/13 05:48 AM
1

Yup! Just not yours.
/r/seduction04/03/13 04:43 AM
2

Dude, I'm sorry but you can't tell someone you've never met before, the reason for her going out. Maybe most girls you know are looking for the D at all times, but it's pure conjecture to project that onto Giglio. There are times when I'm truly out primarily looking for poon (which is when I find it least). But there are plenty of times when I'm totally happy just partying it up w/ my friends and not finding any booty. It really IS an afterthought. I love the art of pickup as a big hobby. But so…
/r/seduction04/03/13 04:40 AM
2

Appreciate the feedback MTB! I agree w/ you - I need to callibrate the push/pull better. I think I just pushed too hard. Lightly disqualifying her and making fun of her funny socks would have sufficed. But physically moving to another part of the venue probably sent a message to her that I just didn't find her company entertaining enough to stick around. Then coming back later could've carried the connotation: "well you're not that interesting, but there's nobody else here that I like, so I'll s…
/r/seduction01/03/13 06:09 PM
40

Was going to type the same damn thing. The biggest factor in flake numbers is how much attraction you built BEFORE you #closed. Beyond that, it's just a matter of not fucking it up via needy texts.
/r/seduction01/03/13 05:34 PM
3

I like the mantra, but it does get preached all the damn time on this sub...
/r/seduction01/03/13 05:21 PM
5

"My friends decided to be lame and stay in. I decided to be awesome and have fun."
/r/seduction01/03/13 01:20 AM
2

D=
/r/seduction28/02/13 04:48 PM
0

Dude, you are all over the place.
/r/seduction28/02/13 04:46 PM
2

I absolutely need this for science. I happen to major in HB-rating Colombian women.
/r/seduction21/02/13 10:20 PM
1

I'm Asian American, and what Mark wrote in those paragraphs really rang true w/ me. Also, he makes a point about how at times, those stereotypes can and will be a disadvantage w/ certain demographics. However, they can also be a huge advantage! For example, it's usually much easier for me to game Korean or Japanese chicks than it is for my non-Asian counterparts. And being an Americanized Asian means you can spit game w/ the Asians, the Americans, and everything in between. Instead of focusing o…
/r/seduction09/02/13 08:40 PM
9

My advice for going out solo is to open EARLY and OFTEN. Once you get to a bar or club, don't think "Okay, I'm gonna have a drink, and slowly ease into state." That will not happen. You'll get more and more inside your head. I know because I do this shit all the time, and it sucks. Instead, start talking to random people as soon as you get there, to get more and more social and in a friendly, outgoing state. Keep it brief at first! Leave them thinking "haha that was a pretty fucking cool guy, I'…
/r/seduction09/02/13 08:29 PM
2

I believe you're getting downvoted because your words portray a lot of judgement. If you're looking to get good with women, you'll need to change your outlook on women in general. You may have a certain STYLE you prefer - but let that stay a stylistic preference, not judgement.
/r/seduction04/02/13 08:28 PM
2

My two cents: sounds like you're going after the more classic mystery method, opening sets at clubs and such. Hats can be good for getting noticed, sure (just look at the fucking abomination that Mystery puts on top of his skull)...but in my opinion, that entire method seems to work w/ certain types of girls in certain situations, and is not as versatile as RSD and other modern stuff. Honest question: does anyone here still peacock? For me, the way I "peacock" is by just wearing something that l…
/r/seduction04/02/13 05:20 AM
2

I know it's more difficult, but you might want to try opening the sets instead. I've found lots of Asian American girls pretty chill and willing to be opened if your state is solid enough and you have an interesting enough personality. Go in w/ a fun mentality and they should all want to hang out w/ you! Source: I'm Asian American, and hit on other Asian Americans all the time.
/r/seduction03/02/13 09:20 PM
1

Yup, pretty common tactic, I love it. Put them in a little sister type role playfully, that almost always makes them try to qualify themselves in return. In that episode of "Keys to the VIP", Cajun demonstrates this very well: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5vDHF1mQizA&t=1m55s
/r/seduction03/02/13 09:10 PM
2

Been clockblocked by more than a few Australian guys So they wouldn't tell you the time?
/r/seduction02/02/13 09:20 PM
0

His approaches definitely show confidence, but honestly I find him pretty creepy in a lot of his videos. This is coming from someone who daygames quite a bit.
/r/seduction02/02/13 09:18 PM
1

Yup. I'm a chapstick, and I can confirm this.
/r/seduction08/01/13 09:14 PM
1

This, and also, whiskey dick. I got called out for that last night =(
/r/seduction02/01/13 10:15 PM
1

Ha, no way. My first FR (linked at the beginning) was from 6 months ago, that was one of my first approaches when I first got into this pickup stuff. I've probably had about 50 approaches between now and then - still not very many I know.
/r/seduction30/12/12 08:48 AM
1

I noticed she was pretty young and fun, had a great vibe. She spoke perfect English AND Japanese, so I asked her about that. She studied abroad in Arizona, which I made fun of a bit. Show interest, then tease/disqualify, push v pull. Seriously the most effective shit for creating attraction, IMO. I started asking about other patrons (how CREEPY is that guy over there? can that girl look any more bored on her date??), and we shared good laughs at other peoples' expense. I would ask her questions …
/r/seduction30/12/12 08:47 AM
4

an Asian girl isn't exactly a worthwhile or challenging target Not much I can say to that, I guess. But thanks for your opinion, regardless.
/r/seduction30/12/12 05:02 AM
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Unimpressed.
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:18 AM
2

How long were you out? How many girls did you approach?
/r/seduction30/12/12 03:02 AM
2

As a newbie PUA in NYC, I will absolutely take your advice. Do you recommend some good NYC salsa classes?
/r/seduction17/11/12 04:27 AM
2

instantly saved!
/r/seduction29/10/12 09:54 PM
1

http://www.damonchernavsky.com/Games/Kokology/The_Cube_Game/the_cube_game.html
/r/seduction05/10/12 11:00 PM
2

Awesome, practical advice - thanks!
/r/seduction05/10/12 05:33 PM
1

tl;dr HB9 makes small talk to me That's not pickup, that's getting picked up.
/r/seduction04/09/12 05:06 AM
1

In this situation, a man of high internal value would be able to man the fuck up and acknowledge that he said things he should not have said to the girl (without beating himself up over it), then move on. In my opinion, not being able to own up to your mistake is a display of insecurity and shows you look to others for your sense of self-worth.
/r/seduction04/09/12 04:36 AM
9

"We gets, sex?"
/r/seduction15/08/12 02:23 AM
34

You're right! If a ripped, blonde model w/ a 6-pack can strike out, so can I! SO PUMPED!
/r/seduction23/07/12 12:19 AM
1

That's too bad...the party in your town could've led to a party in your pants.
/r/seduction22/07/12 11:04 PM
1

Apply those words to Sunday night then!
/r/seduction22/07/12 10:58 PM
13

Holy shit, that might be the worst punctuation I've ever seen in my life.
/r/seduction06/07/12 02:32 AM
6

For some reason, all my unemployed friends have cards that say "Freelance graphic designer"
/r/seduction04/07/12 05:25 PM
3

Pro tip: it's usually on the chest.
/r/seduction04/07/12 02:15 AM
1

$90 for a night out w/ a beautiful girl? Meh. Actually in NYC here, it's almost considered a cheap date.
/r/seduction03/07/12 06:29 AM
1

This girl I know has a vibrator that she keeps hidden in her closet - a fact that she will never, ever admit to. The existence of her vibrator is something that she will only ever acknowledge (and only to herself of course) when she's in her bed and feeling lonely & horny. After the solo deal is done, it's completely hidden away and forgotten about. You are like that vibrator. Sorry, feelsbadman.jpg But if you are a real man, with real game, YOU are the one who's gone, and she's the one who's se…
/r/seduction03/07/12 06:23 AM
2

I don't even know why I upvoted you, but I felt I had to...wtf
/r/seduction03/07/12 05:39 AM
3

Melissa?
/r/seduction03/07/12 05:37 AM
2

Thanks, good point! It's also important to point out, fapping is healthy if kept in moderation.
/r/seduction02/07/12 08:56 PM
3

We don't downvote because we agree/disagree w/ your statement. From the official reddiquette page: "The down arrow is for comments that add little or nothing to the discussion"
/r/seduction02/07/12 06:05 AM
1

Word, armacitis
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:40 AM
8

Friend, I mean this in the nicest way possible, I think your PUA training was pretty shitty. Reading your 5 approaches/openers...I don't see how any of them would work, esp here in my home city (NYC). Some of the stuff was straight up cringeworthy =( What I would do differently (please take this w/ a grain of salt - it's just my own opinions): 1) @ the hip/hipster bar, tall dude + chick. Would not open w/ opinion opener. Definitely not fistbump the dude that was shutting you down!!! If this plac…
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:36 AM
1

http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/the-newbie-mission-vt41556.html
/r/seduction02/07/12 05:15 AM
1

minus the Swedes =(
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:56 AM
47

Check out /r/NoFap ! Great community, and I really can't imagine trying to succeed w/ seduction while your brain is hooked on porn...so very counter-effective.
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:48 AM
3

What do you think about this? I'm very new, but I feel like I'm getting the hang of the day game better than night. This is what I'm trying out these days. Find something situational that you can use as a conversation starter. (Girl waiting at bus stop) "Hi, have you been waiting long?" (she responds) "Oh, okay. Actually, I don't really care about when the bus is coming, I just thought that you were really cute/attractive/adorable, and just wanted an excuse to say hi." (Girl shopping) "Hi, do yo…
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:46 AM
1

maybe you want to try this newbie challenge (still a great challenge IMO), but at the park? http://www.pick-up-artist-forum.com/the-newbie-mission-vt41556.html
/r/seduction02/07/12 04:19 AM
1

Tonight's not gonna work out...maybe on sunday, will keep you posted.
/r/seduction29/06/12 11:04 PM
5

tell me more about this wonderful place you speak of
/r/seduction29/06/12 11:03 AM
24

"But don't worry! He wasn't hard when I sucked on it, so you know he's straight. He passed the hetero-test."
/r/seduction29/06/12 04:34 AM
1

literally
/r/seduction29/06/12 04:06 AM
1

I think me and another redditor are thinking about doing something tmrw night, a little bit later in the evening. Let me know (PM pls) if you're down. Most likely will be something downtown Manhattan. Cheers!
/r/seduction29/06/12 03:25 AM
1

Thanks friend! Thankfully I'm very far from high school (in my early 30's) and have an awesome, small group of close knit friends - most of whom are married and we're all practically family. No trust issues there, and I would never charm the pants off my friends' girls anyway. Of course, if you ARE going after your buddies' girls, then they absolutely have good reason to mistrust you =)
/r/seduction28/06/12 01:15 PM
1

Single/Same Night Lay (SNL)
/r/seduction28/06/12 01:11 PM
4

Thanks, appreciate the feedback. Followup Q: then would you never really compliment a girl for being cute? I thought it was a pretty safe way to let her know that you noticed her, but without putting her up too high on a pedestal...
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:54 AM
54

Can't blame a man for knowing what he wants
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:42 AM
1

You sound like you are waaaay too invested in her. Relax, and if possible, come in w/ a frame of mind of "She'd be lucky to talk to an awesome, funny guy like myself." Not "she is my dreamgirl". Once you put her on a pedestal in your mind, you will act accordingly - desperate, needy, try-hard. It'll be over before it even began.
/r/seduction28/06/12 05:29 AM
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