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women want men who earn more than they do as long as you were an average guy even below average you had no issue there was a study most women with a college or uni diploma only want other guys who also graduated from college/uni it is definitely much harder to find a good women now that actually wants you and not just one sided than it was back in the day You made all of the above points without any evidence to back them up. I'm not saying you're wrong. I am saying that making these arguments wi…
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/23 11:12 PM
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I know I'm not going to get much support for this opinion, but this definitely shouldn't be the general idea of this subreddit. It's the same kind of vague, emotion-based, divisive propaganda that alt-right figures use to get people to vote against their interests. "Men have to work five times harder to get women who are twenty times less" How are they working harder? Which women? How do you know previous men had it so easy? There's no real data here, no facts, it's opinion presented as fact to …
/r/PussyPassDenied27/05/23 05:00 PM
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That's why there's a difference between statutory rape, and forcible rape. This would would get a much stronger sentence if she forced herself on him or similar.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/17 01:39 PM
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You can't consent to sex at 14 years old. Boy or girl.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/17 11:03 AM
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He's still not old enough to consent to sex. If a horny 14 year old girl asked an older guy to have sex, he'd still be charged with rape. As he should be, and as the woman in this article should be.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/17 11:02 AM
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That's not the point though. The point is he was 14 years old, too young to consent to sex. If a horny 14 year old girl asked an older man to have sex with her, he'd still be charged with rape. As he should be, and as the woman in this article should be.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/17 10:59 AM
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Children cannot consent.
/r/PussyPassDenied25/07/17 10:56 AM
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You compete with other men by simply being good at what you do. That comes from experience, hard work, and understanding your worth. You need to be able to understand when to shut up and listen, and when you should take the lead to get the job done. Lead and instruct those below you, and learn from the ones above you so you can either take their job when they move on, or take the equivalent to their job at another location. Variations on the above can be applied to pretty much every aspect of li…
/r/askTRP23/01/17 05:42 PM
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Getting laid is not the reward. Getting laid is not the gold prize at the end of a hard task. Getting laid is not all that important. All those things, lifting, having a career, having good skills and hobbies. You're supposed to be doing those things because that's what a good life consists of. Discipline, morals, passion, and a place in the world. You get laid whilst living your life. You don't live your life to get laid.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 10:23 PM
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Stop thinking so hard. Take her to this pub, escalate and escalate and escalate, then have sex. Then use amused mastery and the abundance mindframe you're working on now. Ta da, you've got yourself a plate.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 10:17 PM
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If your home country was the haven where wine flows through the valley, and beautiful women strip at your mere command, then you'd still be there. Society is damaged, everyone knows that. You can spend your life scorning everything around you, or you can do what you know is right. Be a man and give other people something to aspire to. Britain used to be full of men people aspired to be. Stoic, unrelenting, boundary-pushing men, the kind of men that gave Britain its reputation. We didn't just sud…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 10:12 PM
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What would she have done without you? She would have suffered the consequences of her actions, like she should have done. Women shouldn't be able to be reckless with their money and pass on suffering the consequences just because they spread their legs for someone.
/r/askTRP08/08/16 09:56 PM
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There's a difference between being a man, and being an arsehole. I dunno where you get the idea that everyone is an SJW. You've got oestrogen heavy subjects (education, and increasingly psychology, for example), and you've got beta heavy subjects (Maths, physics, CS) but isn't that the same worldwide? You want to socialise with people you like? Go and find them, stop being so angry and let everyone else make their own mistakes. And as for our women, I tend to think of it this way: We've got plen…
/r/askTRP08/08/16 09:51 PM
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Don't be ridiculous. Men fighting is what made humans the dominant species. And shortly after it made them the dominant sex. And after that it made the world we live in today. Men fight constantly. They fight for their position, for their success, for their respect. Successful men did not get where they are through submissiveness and timidity. Even well known successful weak looking guys like Bill Gates fought for their position in the world, even if it wasn't physical. Never stop fighting. But …
/r/becomeaman11/05/16 08:30 PM
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In my opinion, it doesn't really matter why she did what she did, because it was the right thing to happen. She doesn't want to be with you, and you've got shit to sort out in your own life. Doesn't matter how good you think this girl is, the right of your life should be a higher priority. That's one of the first lessons of TRP. Go no contact for a while, take up the gym stuff, make some new friends. Get your head right. Then think about women.
/r/askTRP11/05/16 07:12 AM
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Cock shouldn't be all you have to offer. Dating should always be one of your lowest priorities. You should have a career, a social life, hobbies, and skills, and a load of other things that make your life worth living. If you've got all that, and all she sees is cock, then how valuable is that girl, really?
/r/askTRP17/04/16 08:28 PM
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Don't do things with the only purpose of showing dominance. Do the right thing, and be dominant about it. Why would you pay for her food, has she earned it? She doesn't get a free meal just for having a pretty face. If she can't accept that, she's almost certainly more trouble than she's worth. And remember abundance. If this girl doesn't like you doing the right thing, there's plenty more just waiting to meet you.
/r/askTRP17/04/16 08:00 PM
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So, this guy is useless so now we've all got to hate ourselves? My spidey sense is tingling.
/r/MensRights16/04/16 06:38 PM
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I was under the impression that posts/comments don't get deleted nearly as often here, but you're more likely to get called out on being shit. Isn't that the way it should be?
/r/TheRedPill14/04/16 05:16 PM
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Useless here is a subjective term. What is your goal? Like the big mod post said a little while back, TRP is a set of tools. You decide where you aim for, you decide where you go. If you're doing these things (Lifting, gaining social skills, gaining practical skills) for their own sake, or their benefit to your life, then of course it's not useless. But if you spend your whole life trying to make yourself worth enough for a particular woman or type of woman, you're gonna end up losing.
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 06:26 PM
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Isn't this one of the major points that TRP uses to argue against the woman biased modern society? Most women are a drain to the successful man. Dates, gifts, "chilvary", "courtship", "stable relationship" they're all scenarios that generally involve men spending their time and hard earned cash on women, to buy sex and approval. Hence the idea of the RP man, and the successful, world changing men some of us are trying to emulate. Resources focused away from validating a woman's massive ego end u…
/r/TheRedPill15/02/16 12:12 AM
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Sex isn't, or shouldn't be, your life's goal. You don't want anything to do with these girls? Fine. Don't. Just make sure you're doing something productive with your time instead.
/r/askTRP05/02/16 06:23 PM
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Emotional stability. Remarkable how many girls have a thin surface layer of sane and a burning hot core of molten insanity underneath.
/r/seduction12/01/16 09:07 PM
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"I'm not as young as I used to be" Bloody hell woman, he's the one in his 40s, not you. If you want him to sleep with other women and that's your thing then fine, but don't try to make it something it's not. As for your issue, if he knows you're cool with that then you just gotta leave him to it. If he's unsatisfied he'll look for what he needs to satisfy him, if he's satisfied he won't change anything. Trying to push him in to satisfying your fetish (or whatever you want to call this) would be …
/r/askTRP10/01/16 09:41 PM
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Excellent piece of writing. What's your suggestion for dead time? The time after you've done everything of high priority? I always lose discipline or break frame when I've got nothing to do, which isn't something I can just throw money at with hobbies/exploration right now.
/r/askTRP08/12/15 02:46 AM
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Dude, you pay all the bills, it's all in your name. Leave her for being a psycho and kick her out. Take your testicles out of her handbag and use them. Great sex and food is nothing if she's manipulating you and making you her bitch. You can either complain about it on here and moan about how scared you are, or you can actually do something.
/r/askTRP09/11/15 02:43 PM
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You've just gotta accept the realities, man. I wish I was superman, flying through NYC with a badass red cape. But, the realities of the world don't allow of that. In the same respect, the romantic world is not the way you want it to be, and never will be. Women won't adhere to the script in your head, and people will be selfish a lot of the time. That's the way the world is. You can either ignore that and get walked over, or you can acknowledge it and work with it.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:54 PM
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Social media is where everyone peacocks. They show the best of themselves to create admiration and envy. Progress pics are perfectly acceptable, as long as you've got something to show off. Get Snapchat. Use it. But don't get drawn in by it. Remember the flaws, and remember how easy it is for girls to find thirsty guys on social media.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:51 PM
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Dude, you're 28? While I was reading I was certain you were a teenager, talking about crushes and bffs... You're orbiting. Stop it. If you can't stop it and turn this relationship in to something real, then you gotta move on. As for your last statement, realz not feelz. You can't feed yourself with tingly feelings, you can't advance your career with them, and girls won't automatically like you because of them either. Be someone women want to be around, be someone who creates relationships instea…
/r/askTRP08/11/15 11:47 PM
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Less talking about it, more doing. Read new books, learn new skills, watch interesting films, go out and interact with people. Go and live life and bring that in to your social life. The man who's lived in a cave all his life can only talk about rocks.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 04:01 AM
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What it means doesn't really matter. She could have a dozen reasons for what she's doing, or more likely, none at all. Don't waste effort or time on it. Make sure your priorities are right, and deal with every interaction with her as they come. If you get some sex without working for it, nice. If not, oh well, no loss.
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:37 AM
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As a lot of PUAs say, it's a numbers game. Get making friends, introducing yourself, talking to girls, increase your circle and build yourself a rep. It'll make parties easier and more enjoyable and you'll learn to relax a bit more around girls. It won't be easy at first but it's a life skill, you'll need social skills where ever you go, get it done and you'll thank yourself later. Simple as that really, unless you're really lacking in those interesting qualities/talking points that made you bri…
/r/askTRP11/10/15 03:30 AM
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Maths. To be honest, I have been avoiding minimum wage jobs because they wouldn't really give me the money to get out of this damned caravan. But now, some money is better than no money...
/r/askTRP26/09/15 01:52 AM
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A good term here is self-realisation. You need to periodically step back and look at what you're doing. Is it useful? Is it progression? Is it wasteful? Check yourself before you wreck yourself.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 03:43 PM
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To add to this: For the most part, nice guys act like jerks when they can't get what they want. They give control to the woman, and then break frame when the woman does what's in her interests. An "alpha" does what is in his best interest, full stop.
/r/askTRP06/09/15 03:34 PM
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Man up... You did the thing, you regretted doing the thing, you undid the thing. It's done. Get over it, move on.
/r/askTRP05/09/15 11:59 PM
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wat
/r/seduction30/08/15 11:22 PM
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Doesn't seem like that would go well. I think it'd only come off negatively. Either you're a creep, a liar, a try hard, or a cheat. Remember, with places like Tinder girls are in their prime, it's their world, where they are strongest. They get to pick and choose, and they can drop you for any slight reason because almost every woman on there gets several messages a day. "I'm already in an open relationship" seems like more than enough reason for a girl to next you without looking at much else.
/r/askTRP28/08/15 10:10 PM
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Fucking hell. This post has taken a great lesson and turned it in to a shitstorm of cliche and bullshit. Women are not a fucking commodity. They're people. Women can be exceptionally shitty people, but they're people nonetheless. The lesson that should be taken from this post is "If you are unwilling to walk away from a woman should she prove intractable, unavailable, or disappointing, you have oneitis regardless of your reason for that unwillingness." That is just good common sense, you don't n…
/r/TheRedPill26/08/15 09:35 PM
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Don't commit yourself. She sounds like you could have some fun with her, and as long as things go well and these red flags don't pop up often (or multiply) you can go as things are. Remember abundance mentality, and the fact that the CC is extra strong at college level. As for the handling her going out drinking, amused mastery would be first step. If she starts pushing the limits or tries extra shit tests about it slowly increase dread game until she backs off.
/r/askTRP15/08/15 03:28 AM
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Yes to both, and add in an option for Last Minute Resistance in there too. It can also be a get out clause, "Oh, I told him I wasn't single, I knew it was a bad idea, but he persuaded me to do it anyway. I'm so sorry honey, please don't leave me and take all your beta bux away"
/r/askTRP15/08/15 03:23 AM
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You've gotta temper your actions with logic. Regardless of what you feel, or your desires, you've gotta consider what's best for you, what's actually achievable, and what's realistic. There's nothing wrong with going out there and collecting plates, having a load of ONS, and committing to no one. But can you actually do it? Do you have the game to get the girls you want? Do you live in the kind of location where it's viable? And in the same respect, what would you lose by dropping the LTR? Work …
/r/askTRP14/08/15 11:01 PM
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Oh yeah, sure, that's every guy's dream, committed to being exclusive with someone you can't actually have sex with. You can never be sure you're not being cheated on, you can never have a proper relationship, it's basically a farce justified by crappy blue pill romanticism. LDRs almost never work, and almost every guy would be happier on their own, or with plates, or in a normal LTR.
/r/askTRP14/08/15 09:43 PM
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Opinions are divided here, specially amongst non-redpillers. My opinion is that's it's perfectly fine to be the other guy, specially if you weren't told at first. Upholding the agreements of a relationship that you're not a part of is nothing to do with you. But if you LTR someone who cheated on their last partner with you, you deserve to get fucked over. And it will happen. AWALT.
/r/askTRP07/08/15 10:56 PM
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The first thing that came to mind after reading this, was "Is this what that cuck imagined, when he thought of himself all grown up and married? If the 9 year old version of himself, or the 15 year old version, or the 18 year old version, could see him now... Would they be happy? I don't fucking think so." I struggle to understand how a guy can bury their dignity so far under psychological barriers that he can accept that kind of treatment.
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 11:58 PM
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Depression or anxiety usually indicate, or create, a lot of insecurities that result in crazy behaviour. Bad relationship with parents can be due to a few things. Abusive parents leave an emotional scar, neglecting parents often creates attention seeking, strict parents often create selfishness. If her friend group is very clique-ish, or high on drama then that'll translate in to how she acts around you. An inability to responsibly handle drugs is a good indicator of mental instability, which is…
/r/askTRP31/07/15 07:09 AM
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Mental health, her upbringing, relationship with parents, past relationships, attitude towards ex's, kind of friend's she has, level of education (often paired with one or more of the others), attitude towards alcohol and other drugs. All can be pretty good indicators, but a good crazy can always mask it.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 06:41 AM
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TRP isn't (or shouldn't be) strict rules on what you should think and what stages you should go through. Do what's best for you, make a great life for yourself, and deal with what you get. That's all there is to it. Keep reading and keep progressing, just because you haven't had a full on anger phase yet it doesn't mean you should stop your progress to go and look for it. Seems a little counter-intuitive.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:40 AM
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Be a brick wall. Every attempt to derail should be met by repetition. Don't move on until the matter has been resolved. Once you've set a precedent it'll either become standard practice or she'll freak out and find someone easier to control. Either way you win.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:37 AM
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Yeah, hard pass. Trying to get you to orbit, hassling you over shit and then ignoring you, moving on to another guy at the slightest sign of rejection. Move along, nothing to see there.
/r/askTRP31/07/15 04:34 AM
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Consider it from the reverse position, do you think it'd be acceptable if you flaked on that person repeatedly, or made plans and then ignored phone calls? It's about integrity, and if they place no value on your time or respect, why should you waste time on them? If they are people you need to interact with, you just reduce your interactions with them to the minimum. Get what you need from them and don't let them waste more of your time. If they ask why you decided to do that, tell them openly …
/r/askTRP18/07/15 01:33 AM
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No, it's not. I have a realistic evaluation of my qualities. I know what I deserve, and what I can get. I know what I will tolerate and what I will not tolerate. This is about whether one giant red flag can erase the benefit and enjoyment of the rest of the relationship.
/r/askTRP30/03/15 04:52 PM
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You deserved the slap, she's hormonal and you threw some verbal shit at her. But if it were me I'd be drawing some serious lines at throwing glass bottles. There's forgivable reactions, and then there's assault with a potentially deadly weapon.
/r/askTRP02/03/15 12:27 PM
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So, I've seen an interesting twist to this one recently. Girl I've been seeing gave me the whole "I really like you. I kinda want to say the other thing, but I've been hurt before when I said it too soon". I just agreed and amplified ("I get that. It'll happen when it happens, let's just enjoy ourselves."). I know this isn't askTRP, but it seems relevant, what's your perspective?
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 02:26 PM
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I usually start with similarities. You might have noticed you tend to like people more when they agree with you. Discussing shared hobbies and passions creates the basic emotional connection that allows you to create something stronger, plus having a good back and forth around a topic you both enjoy should help you with that improving your listening too.
/r/seduction26/01/15 05:46 PM
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There's two reasons you feel this way. The first is the blue pill nature of today's media and society, where men not trying to white-knight are considered losers, or assholes. Secondly, most women that read TRP don't like the idea that most TRP theory surrounding them and society are sound. They fight it because "I'm different." or "Not All Women Are Like That." or "You're just a sexist loser who can't get women". They hamster away ideas about them that they don't like. As for what you should do…
/r/askTRP08/01/15 05:32 PM
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Thanks for the opinions dude. I think you're probably right. Most likely it's the remnants of the blue pill inside me wanting her approval that's making me unsure.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 02:10 AM
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We flirt sometimes, she's made it clear she's interested. We haven't seen each other since before christmas, because of christmas, and exams. Plan is to meet up after exams and f-close. And I agree that the perfect idea is getting her to conform to my Hot/Cold, but I don't feel that ignoring her is gonna do that, she always replies when she wants to. Edit: Plus, there are times when the conversation goes dead (because she uses one word replies) and it's hard to revive it without looking needy.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 01:30 AM
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Yes, but that's only a short term solution. Plus, I enjoy talking to her, when we have proper conversations. It seems counter-intuitive to stop doing something I enjoy just to prove a point.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:13 AM
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Because we currently communicate online. It's not long distance, but we've both got work to do. Point is, I have to be on my computer so when she decides to talk, I see it.
/r/askTRP08/01/15 12:07 AM
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Can't do that for the next fortnight. It's exam time, I need to be at home on the computer most of the day revising.
/r/askTRP07/01/15 11:47 PM
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"You don't have to justify yourself to me, you do what you want to do. Doesn't mean I won't judge you on your actions though."
/r/askTRP06/01/15 08:46 PM
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To me, this seems like the kind of microaggression you'd find at /r/tumblrinaction. I think that MRAs should be focusing their efforts on the major issues, the ones that ruin the lives of innocent men.
/r/MensRights29/12/14 09:47 PM
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Seems like you're pushing it a bit here to be honest. Men have much bigger problems to worry about than a guy who was successfully rescued. Men are being imprisoned on false rape claims, being demonized as brainless animals, and having certain rights slowly degraded as females push for "feminism" in government. Now those are problems.
/r/MensRights29/12/14 09:34 PM
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I suppose that's somewhat dependent on the context. I think you're probably right about the type of guy, but with the increasing preference towards women, and certain women teaching each other how to divorce rape, there's only a certain amount that can be done sometimes, regardless of the character of the dude in question.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:48 AM
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I think self-discipline and direction are your solutions here. You probably won't get too great results if you just throw yourself at this thing and hope for the best. Don't try to solve all your problems at once, and don't be passive about it. Create a plan, including a set of priorities, and stick to it. Everything will fall in to place if you have a direction and the self-discipline to stay on course.
/r/askTRP19/12/14 02:37 AM
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Yeah, you can always make more money. But some nagging harpy doesn't deserve to drain your resources for the next X amount of years. The courts will almost always go to her side. Why should you have to support her? And having actual assets taken away from you is a much bigger hit than losing money (no house and no car is an immediate 10 year set back at least). Most of the case it's in the guy's best interest to not get divorce raped.
/r/TheRedPill19/12/14 02:18 AM
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Well... Yes. That's part of the whole point of doing it? You haven't really swallowed the pill if your actions don't change.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/14 09:15 PM
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Seems like you're twisting the evidence to suit the theory somewhat. Women are generally just doing what's best for them at any one time. Or what they perceive to be best for them. Secondly, in a lot of cases the first thing that attracts a female is looks. And that has nothing to do with intelligence or alpha qualities. Also, you don't need to be intelligent, or alpha, to get laid. The latter just tends to make you better at it.
/r/TheRedPill12/11/14 09:31 AM
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Have a look at this.
/r/askTRP07/11/14 08:15 PM
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make yourself as desirable to as many women as you can. That doesn't seem to follow what I get from TRP. You're not supposed to pander to what women want, or what you think they want, or what they think they want. My take is that you're supposed to be a real man. Focusing making your life as good for you as possible, and then you enjoy the benefits of females that come because of that.
/r/askTRP03/11/14 09:39 PM
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When it really gets down to it. Some game developer rode the CC, mounting a load of guys in her industry. This, and her persuasion, led to her shitty games getting all over the place. People found out, shouted at her, and the people she mounted. Her, the people she mounted, her friends, and basically anyone with internet access and a vagina (or white-knight complex) said that all gamers are women-hating freaks just waiting for a chance to rape. That's how it has continued on, pretty much. For a …
/r/askTRP24/10/14 12:47 PM
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That's a really poor choice of quote. You've removed every other point I've tried to make and haven't tried to answer those. You're making generalizations and stereotypes and it's doing no good to anyone, specially since you don't expect any changes. But you're wrong, it'll only get worse if posts like this are spread, encouraged and agreed upon.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 11:14 PM
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Like I said: We have to do this right regardless of all the feminists and MRAs that do it wrong. You can bitch and moan about feminism and the flaws all you like, but unless you're willing to admit the flaws in the MRA community, and show some respect to the feminists that deserve it, nothing will change. And you can only do that if you remove the stereotypes, the name calling and the petty shit. It's childish and we should be better than that.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 11:06 PM
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There's another stereotype. How do you expect meaningful interactions between feminists and MRAs if you can't show the other respect? The point of Men's Rights, or feminism, is equality. You cannot have equality if one side won't respect the other. We have to do this right regardless of all the feminists and MRAs that do it wrong, otherwise what's the point? We're not here to bitch about feminism, we're here to make sure everyone gets equal treatment. Aren't we?
/r/MensRights12/10/14 10:54 PM
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You're making the same mistake here as a lot MRAs and feminists do. You're making assumptions and stereotypes. There are some Bobs that do take advantage of Julian, and some that encourage Julian to ask for more special treatment, and some that just don't care about Julian at all. And vise versa. You can't sum up two groups of people that are millions in size by an analogy of two people's interactions. It's demeaning to both groups, and false in most cases.
/r/MensRights12/10/14 10:36 PM
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Can't help without more information. Examples primarily.
/r/askTRP01/10/14 09:32 PM
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Taking a case like that would be suicide for almost any lawyer's career. Not only would they be regarded as sexist and immoral by any employer regardless of whether they'd looked in to it or not, the "feminists" in question would almost definitely create a smear campaign on anyone involved, like they have for almost everyone that's tried to stand up to them.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 09:05 PM
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As soon as you put a girl on a pedestal and start worshiping them, you act differently. You act like a little bitch. Regardless of what you'd like from this girl, she'll see that and won't be interested in you. Who would blame her? Stop being a little bitch. Don't put girls up on a pedestal.
/r/seduction24/09/14 07:33 AM
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You might want to consider asking "Well, are you fucking other men?" Shows her that the question is a little awkward and you can judge the response you should give based on how she responds.
/r/seduction23/09/14 08:18 PM
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Disregard the question. You're not in a relationship, neither of you have obligations to the other.
/r/seduction23/09/14 08:09 PM
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I'd go for it. If it was a shit test, all you'll have to do when you get there is get through a bit of last minute resistance. If she's seriously not up for that stuff then you'll find out and can decide what you want to do from there. Think of tonight as an investment, spend some time now to make sure you don't waste more time later.
/r/askTRP17/09/14 03:38 PM
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The silent treatment has always seemed a bit BP to me. All broody and passive aggressive, doesn't solve the problem. /u/AFPJ 's solution seems like it'd get better results, and focuses on holding frame.
/r/askTRP13/09/14 04:46 AM
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Bullshit. Beauty is nice and all, but admiration and love have to be earned. Being pretty is meaningless if she's a bitch, or just empty headed. OP, my answer would be that women are just created to think differently, both through environment and genetics. Women want to be beautiful, both for their own sake, and to be appealing. I'm pretty sure there are lots of women that do get bored of objectification, but acknowledging that a woman is pretty isn't necessarily objectification. Smacking her ba…
/r/seduction13/09/14 04:39 AM
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There's a different between rough play in the bedroom and abusive relationships. And, I'm sure a lot of people have a love/hate relationship with their fetishes, but more often than not that'll be the people with the really obscure or extreme ones. Enjoying a bit of rough handling is pretty common.
/r/MensRights13/09/14 02:20 AM
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I think the most valid point you've raised here is that men should be able to trust women when it comes to sex. We should be able to trust that if we have agreed with our partner to not have children, that shall be upheld until we have agreed on something different. It does seem cruel for a man to be forced in to paying for a child he was tricked in to creating. But on the other side of that argument, women should be able to trust that men will stay and support a child they knowingly created. Th…
/r/MensRights09/09/14 11:40 PM
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In an LTR you'd just offend the woman for being such a dick. And rightly so, you're telling the woman you mistrust her so much that you want her legally bound to a course of action. Secondly, it's saying that you don't think you could have an open discussion about the matter. You'd never accept some woman pulling a legal contract out for you to sign. MRAs are (or should) be about treating each gender equally, not backing people in to a corner.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 11:20 PM
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This would work perfectly, just not in the manner you're suggesting. Any man who brings a piece of paper like that out to sign before sex wouldn't just get turned down, they'd get laughed at, insulted and scorned. Then she'd leave, and tell all her friends about the weirdo who tried to make her sign a sex contract.
/r/MensRights09/09/14 11:06 PM
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Quoting yourself isn't being self aware. It's showing off. You're so god damn certain that what you have to say just has to be shared with the rest of the world. If you were more humble, or just less of a douche, you'd have realised that you're probably not a special snowflake with new, amazing ideas that no one has ever had before. The fact that you've only been here a few minutes and decided we needed to be enlightened by your amazing mind just proves my point.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 06:20 PM
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That's why, on the sidebar, there's a section that says "New here?". If you'd taken the time to read that, you'd have seen what I meant, and wouldn't have posted anything. Not that your being new here makes you quoting yourself any less douchey.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 06:06 PM
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Dude, quoting yourself is just baaad. And nothing you've said here is new. It's not even the basis for a new TRP concept. It's just a re-hashing of stuff that gets commented on most TRP posts about hamstering, or is in most of the sidebar articles.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 05:42 PM
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Maybe it's different here in Britain, but initiating conversation on public transport is seen as creepy. You'd almost never get a positive response trying to do this. I would suggest you use the college. You've got a load of classes, and a load of areas for college students. A place like that is much more suited to making new friends, and introducing yourself.
/r/seduction04/09/14 06:38 PM
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React to the circumstances. Here are your possibilities: She rejected you. You call it at that, and move on. No issues, no rehearsals of what you're gonna say, no more wasting time on her. She genuinely hasn't yet seen your question. In which case she'll either answer when she does see it, ask you what happened the next time you see each other, or act as if you rejected her and do option one. Act accordingly. Generally, people can sense a rehearsed response, and the bitterness that comes from a …
/r/seduction04/09/14 06:34 PM
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We definitely need to see this become common practice. That was very satisfying to read. I wonder how many men have suffered the same damage as this guy and had no justice because of a messed up system of law/beliefs.
/r/MensRights29/08/14 10:06 PM
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Too many feminists act as if men are little better than dogs that need training, and a good firm hand to show them how to behave... I'm afraid of getting falsely accused of rape, but that doesn't make me scared of all females. Why should we all get the blame for the act of a few?
/r/MensRights28/08/14 09:57 PM
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A not-so-small part of me wants someone to give this to Quinn. Just to watch her, and her white-knight brigade, explode in to millions of special little snowflakes. This shit is better than what Hollywood is pumping out, I swear.
/r/TheRedPill25/08/14 11:41 PM
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I do. You're telling males that they should think "Oh, there's a minefield in my way, I better change or remove my goals so I'm safe and secure and don't have to deal with anything difficult" What do you think armed forces do in the presence of a real minefield? Do you think they just think themselves lucky they noticed it and move on? No. They mark it out, and remove it when possible. What's the point in reading TRP material if you're still gonna let female rationalization control your life, an…
/r/TheRedPill21/08/14 09:18 PM
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We are here to change our world. Resignation changes nothing.
/r/TheRedPill20/08/14 02:47 AM
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This whole post is very defeatist. You're not wrong about the situation, but the conclusion is messed up. Women didn't get the vote by just accepting the world as it is. Black people didn't get equality by accepting the world as it is. Males in the modern world aren't quite as pushed down as 1930s black community, but that doesn't change the fact that just accepting it is only gonna allow the situation to escalate. If you failed a shit test, would you then say "Fuck, I've lost, I'll just fail ev…
/r/TheRedPill19/08/14 09:02 PM
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I'm curious about your motives. You don't seem to have much idea of what you want to know from such a session, if you did, you wouldn't have to ask us for the questions. Do you think she's hiding something? Do you not trust her? Maybe it's just me, but usually you can tell if someone is being evasive or deceptive. And if she's so good that you can't tell, I don't think she's likely to tell the truth here. My conclusion would be that you're either insecure about yourself, or about her, or about t…
/r/askTRP15/08/14 05:43 PM
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Someone give this woman a golden hamster wheel. Obviously exhibiting one of the greatest levels of pointless, backwards rationalization in recent times.
/r/TheRedPill08/08/14 01:46 PM
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It seems like you're twisting what she said. I think she said that he's being a good boyfriend by committing to being exclusive, assuming he doesn't know his girlfriend is on the CC.
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 07:27 PM
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I'm not looking for instant change, I know that's not how it works. What I'm looking for is some method to help me wake up with as much motivation to change as I get from reading TRP and acknowledging my mistakes. But regardless, I can't deny the potential effectiveness of your suggestions, thank you.
/r/askTRP05/08/14 12:18 AM
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Can't tell if troll, or really believes hitting things that annoy you is a good idea. Some feminists create a lot of fake misogyny, no argument. Some feminists are the cause of some misogyny, no argument. But regardless of who you are, just because someone is a dick to you, doesn't mean you can beat them. It's immature and unimaginative. There's better ways to deal with your problems that give a better result. IF this is serious, it's gonna give TRP a bad reputation because it'll be spread by th…
/r/TheRedPill25/07/14 09:03 PM
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You've made some pretty good points here, I have to concede.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 07:08 PM
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What should I be prioritising? The intention was to get a good idea of what issues to deal with first, with the small amounts of free time available.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 06:38 PM
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I don't think you fucked up. You didn't make a big deal out of it, you didn't push her for time together when you were in the same place after the date, but you did acknowledge her. I would have done the same in that situation, you'll just have to be patient and wait to see how she felt about the whole thing.
/r/seduction20/07/14 06:35 PM
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There's a difference between excuses and realities. I'm not gonna give up my hobbies and my career just so I can go after women with a bit more success. That would be almost as bad as staying beta. I do make excuses, all the time, and I'm working on it, but those two are not examples.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 06:29 PM
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The problem with me being closed mouth is that I'm 21. When I do manage to become surrounded by females, they're all 18-23, "college girls" and their type who usually seem to be after the alpha bull who'll dominate them and give them the best time, not the smouldering silent type they can sigh over and giggle about with their friends.
/r/askTRP20/07/14 06:26 PM
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So, after realising this, have you thought of what methods you're gonna use to start to reverse the process? Finding the origin of your problems is a good thing, no doubt, but in most cases it won't help you find the solution, and the solution is the most important bit.
/r/seduction20/07/14 12:10 AM
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"If he cries, punk him. Laugh at him and get him to see how ridiculous he is" What kind of emotionally dead sociopath created this? Demean a guy to make him more masculine. Yeah, that makes sense.
/r/TheRedPill26/06/14 01:00 PM
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