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| – | you can be bigger and still be healthy for both men & women.Lmao "misanthropic pill" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/24 12:35 PM |
| 0 | Could everyone be happier if our entire planets sexual orientation was bi - sexual?Liar liar pants on fire | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/24 07:52 PM |
| 30 | Are most men "low quality"? If so, why?Careful now, this is far too reasonable to be allowed on reddit | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/02/24 03:44 PM |
| – | Guy asks girl who switches up the deal to leave. Subreddit goes wild.Yeah that's not how that works buddy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/23 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Some trends women are involved in on social media contribute directly to toxic masculinity and justifies the manosphere’s existence.insisting what i’m saying isn’t what i’m saying, even when i make it clear to you I salute you for arguing with this person for so long. I would have told him to eat cyanide 3 comments ago | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/23 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Your reply to "why does a man "trading" his time and affection count as paying, but not when a woman does it?" was "because she's the one taking the physical money." You're literally saying nonsense. That's not even my opinion. This makes no sense... linguistically | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:36 AM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.But... they could have sex for free if they found someone who wants to have sex with them. That's literally how it works. I can't give you counter arguments if you just repeat the original statement that I'm trying to argue against | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.You just said that a man's time and affection are physical money... and then tell me it's not hard to understand | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:26 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Thanks for putting in the effort of constructing a proper coherent reply. Don't blame men for acting out on a message that has been repeated to them over and over and over again, and that this was basically what was expected of men until recently. Fair. I guess the only thing I can say here is that many men cling to traditional masculine roles, while women seem to be much better at rejecting theirs. I assume it's because they benefited men more (and I recognise they were also quite harmful to me… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 12:18 AM |
| 2 | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Well, you did ignore my question when I asked, "Why does a man "trading" his time and affection count as paying, but not when a woman does it?", so I don't think I can argue further about the reality we live in without you answering that first | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:33 PM |
| 1 | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Probably pointless advice, but try viewing sex as something she gets from you as much as you get from her. Self respect makes a difference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:17 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.And... you say a woman doesn't give the man attention, validation, involvement, or effort? She also does not put time and effort into "making herself attractive"? Lad if you're giving everything you've got to a woman who won't do the same for you, you're showing her that you have no respect for yourself. How can you expect respect from her when you don't even give it to yourself? Been there, done that, never again in my life | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:13 PM |
| 4 | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.It's an "each pays for themself" sort of thing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 11:03 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.No, I'm pretty sure sex is free for them, too. They're just not able to convince a woman to have sex with them for reasons unrelated to paying for it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 09:14 PM |
| 7 | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.That doesn't make sense to me. Why does a man "trading" his time and affection count as paying, but not when a woman does it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 09:10 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Right, I can agree with that. It's not how I'd define "paying," but it makes sense. Would you say it's free for her, though? Surely she also has to give him attention, do favours..? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:43 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Alright, I'll ask. What else could I be paying if it's not money | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 08:35 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.And men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 07:40 PM |
| – | Most women don't even like men like that. Stop wasting your time.Yes it is | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/12/23 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Where are men finding so many dysfunctional crappy women?I can fix em! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/11/23 09:51 PM |
| 4 | This explains a lot: Majority of Women declined sex due to body insecurities, dating app findsYeah. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/23 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?Not quite haha, after thinking about it for a while, I asked her if she wanted to try going on a date instead of just hanging out as friends, and she said the kiss "wasn't meant that way". I managed to get myself friendzoned after all | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/06/23 10:36 PM |
| 1 | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?In my defence, if this post happened 3 weeks earlier, my point would be entirely valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 09:21 PM |
| 2 | Men, Can you touching a women be 100% platonic?Cuddles can as well, I've had a platonic cuddle buddy for the last half a year. (But she did randomly kiss me at some concert three weeks ago, and I haven't been able to get my shit together since, so idk) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/06/23 06:56 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy exists - and it will get worseYeah. Not particularly bothered by it though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 10:35 PM |
| 2 | You don't need a high level of emotional intelligence, you just need to know "the rules".Yea but I've lost arguments against my girlfriend on things I was right about so idk man, I think some of us might be at least slightly socially incompetent | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 09:32 PM |
| 3 | You don't need a high level of emotional intelligence, you just need to know "the rules".I feel like this is a blatant generalisation of both men and women and I should be at least slightly offended by it. But I'm not and I fully agree with the whole thing. Good job. And I don't mean this sarcastically, I am genuinely impressed | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/22 09:30 PM |
| 2 | I (21M) dress really plain and comfortably. Should I change this as a means to become more attractive, even though it’s stressful for me?Stained clothes are definitely not attractive. Oversized tees, however, are something that many people (including my girlfriend) find very attractive. She always suggests L or XL shirts if we're buying clothes and I'm something between an S and M. It's also getting increasingly trendy. Baggy pants and large sweaters are the fit right now and a lot of stylists and/or influences are promoting them. I personally like both slim and oversized fits so I own both and dress in whatever I feel like at th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/08/22 06:55 PM |
| 6 | Do most men lack basic decency?Yeah fair enough me too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 6 | Do most men lack basic decency?Do you consider yourself as one of the "people who suck"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/08/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Women HAVE to be told to “pick better” because kindness, chivalry, and gentlemanly behavior doesn’t turn women on IN GENERAL as much as it shouldIdk what to tell you man, have you tried being more of an "asshole"? I have the natural talent of being a dick to people without trying and I can confirm that (in my experience) it has got me plenty of dates and stable relationships. So idk what you're doing man, but if it ain't working, try something different | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/22 10:53 PM |
| 24 | Does the average guy really not get casual sex?HA. Boy have I got news for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/22 07:07 AM |
| 3 | High Emotional Intelligence Traits?Nah man, you got it all wrong. Only a small percentage of women are actually turned on by misogyny and that's really not what you should be striving for. Same goes for kindness. Having a cold approach is A LOT more attractive. And nothing is worse than begging for affection, that's the #1 sign of low emotional intelligence. For high EQ traits I'd say being generally calm, not caring about everyone's opinion too much, not having emotional outbursts. Boils down to just not acting like a child. If … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/22 09:47 AM |
| 3 | CMV: If you are sexually compatible and honest with eachothers it doesn't matter if she did things with other men but not with youOr suck it up and get progressively more hateful and miserable. I'm not saying it's a great option, but it is the one most people seem to go with. Myself included. Idk how to fix it and I don't want to leave. It's been so long I don't even know if I want to fix anything | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/04/22 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Women should not do 50/50sAh yes, I too am a slav who dislikes this post | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:55 PM |
| 2 | Women should not do 50/50sI haven't audibly gagged at a comment like I did with yours in like forever. You get a special kind of award for that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/03/22 11:53 PM |
| 3 | Uncontrolled hypergamy is a trait if toxic feminist that is harmful to men and women.Oh yikes, you've been there too? My ex cheated on me with my best friend (at the time, obviously) and then did the whole "I can't just pick one" thing, so I put zero effort into trying to compete & then last year she messaged me again and explained how mean he ended up being and how much nicer I was and the whole circus... That was a good day for my ego. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 07:27 PM |
| 3 | Uncontrolled hypergamy is a trait if toxic feminist that is harmful to men and women.Absolutely. The more you compete, the worse you end up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/03/22 09:43 AM |
| 1 | There’s really no reason to ever show weaknessDepends. I would agree with your initial statement for myself, but I disagree with your reasoning, the generalisation and also the wording. I agree there's never a reason to show weekness. I believe in being assertive, I have no filter on my opinions or behaviour. "Going with the flow" is the biggest form of weakness to me (if you don't like the flow that is, otherwise it's of course perfectly alright) So to me, what you've written is a painful example of weakness. To my eyes, you have no mental… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/03/22 04:08 PM |
| 1 | Women cannot handle negative outlooks of themselves at any level, and combat this to the detriment of themselves and of menI get it. But this ain't it fam. I had the same understanding of it a few years back, but what you've said isn't really the case. Far too much aggression against women and far too little introspection. If there's anything I've realised, it's that most people are okay. Men & women, because unfortunately we're all human. You're not a great person and that's okay. Most people aren't. That's why average exists. Try to acknowledge that whatever flaws you see in women, you aren't superior and the more… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/22 10:21 PM |
| 4 | Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship?Alright, I was looking for a more concrete answer tho. Like, what would you say improves when you don't watch it as opposed to watching it? That sort of thing y'know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:10 PM |
| 7 | Your opinion of men who watch porn in relationship?What makes you say it's terrible for you? Edit: alright as I see that I'm getting dislikes already for asking for details about their opinion, let me add my opinion too, so it's fair. I personally watch little to no porn, have a girlfriend who's okay with me watching it, we're in an open relationship but not having sex. I personally don't have sex with anyone else either because I am just a miserable bastard who doesn't want to enjoy his life (no mental issues, it's just my personalty, if you co… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 06:01 PM |
| 2 | How do average people succeed in dating if they don't have looks nor wealth?And have basic respect, but don't be particularly nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/03/22 12:35 PM |
| -1 | If men are the problem in western dating then why aren't women leaving the country to find other men?I don't agree women anywhere have more rights than men, but you do make some valid points that I can't disagree with (not the equality of outcome though, that's a far more complex topic and I don't believe it can be generalised like that) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/03/22 06:39 PM |
| 2 | "Treat men like garbage and they will love you and respect you"I can neither affirm or deny, maybe I'll know in like 10 years. But probably not | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 11:44 PM |
| 3 | Is there something wrong with nice guys and what exactly ?Idk but I stopped being nice to people a few years ago and life's infinitely better now. Being nice comes with putting others first and that gets you nowhere. Of course, thinking of others is important, but always make sure you're okay with the certain position/agreement/situation before making sure others are. Being a decent person is actually a lot easier if you're not a "nice guy" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 07:06 AM |
| 2 | [Q4All] Do high value men use online dating?Well, I do. I don't know if I'm exactly "high value" though. If you can settle for mid-range value, than yes. Yes we do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/02/22 08:52 PM |
| 3 | Modern women are choosing the lesser of two evilsI think people who aren't above breaking their own moral code when it's getting too convenient to do so are absolutely spineless. Does that mean everyone is? That's for every individual to decide for themselves. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/02/22 10:56 PM |
| 2 | [Q4ALL] ‘When’ did you discover Red Pill/Manosphere?My ex girlfriend cheated on me when I was... 16-17? We were pretty much kids so naturally my first response was to decide I was gay and all women were trash. Very confusing combination because quite a lot of the people who seemed anti-women were also anti-gay and my 17-yo self got into an identity crisis. Anyway, I'm fine now after realising men are no less cheating bastards and humanity doesn't deserve to exist. Hail Satan (/s on the last bit, at least for the most part) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/02/22 12:09 AM |
| 4 | "Let women come to you" is the best way to remain sexless your whole life.Yeah... I don't know actually. In general I am having a hard time disagreeing with any specific part of your post, but also... I've never approached a woman in my life and I've been in multiple relationships. In fact, I'm engaged now, to a woman who had to approached me like 4 times because I didn't know what to make of it the first three. I should probably add I'm short, meh-attractive, not rich or fancy. I'm an IT student. So idk what makes me interesting enough to approach. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/02/22 07:54 AM |
| 3 | would all or most men rape if given the chance ?Okay, fair. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 05:59 PM |
| 1 | would all or most men rape if given the chance ?Maybe. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/02/22 05:55 PM |
| 2 | Why do some men are incapable of connecting with women?I'm gonna be honest, it sounds like your personality is pushing them away. From this very short post I get the vibe that you're a very unpleasant person to be around | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/02/22 12:01 PM |
| 1 | Are there more undateable men than undateable women?I find about 80% of both genders undateable. And that's being generous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/02/22 12:05 PM |
| 3 | Most women are practically asexual.Yeahh, exactly! It could be the partner's fault directly or indirectly, or it could be a general incompatibility that may have developed between them as they move to different stages of their life. (not limited to a men's or woman's perspective, nor strait or gay relationships, in my experience) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 07:32 PM |
| 7 | Most women are practically asexual.I am gonna be honest here, while your title makes some sense, your post really feels like you don't understand the topic too well. But I am not a woman and therefore won't comment on it. I will comment on this reply tho. My sex drive has gone down tremendously for one reson or another and from what I know from certain friends that are comfortable talking about it, I'd say at least 1/3 of men would say they experience something similar and maybe about another third on a lesser level. Now, I am su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 06:50 PM |
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