High Emotional Intelligence Traits?

Mrs_Drgree · 2022-06-26T11:25:14+00:00

No advice threads

toughestanswers · 2022-06-26T03:56:23+00:00

Even though misogyny is shown to attract women (in real life and in studies), I may have gone too far with it.

What did you do

cowfishAreReal · 2022-06-26T04:30:30+00:00

Even though misogyny is shown to attract women (in real life and in studies)

Could you link such studies

Hoopy223 · 2022-06-26T04:30:05+00:00

LOL yeah sure OP.

bitchbuster69 · 2022-06-26T03:59:13+00:00

Great looks attract women, after that you can be assertive while being a closet misogynist it won't matter.

Vtridolla · 2022-06-26T04:18:05+00:00

I would say having emotional maturity is something you should seek to improve your own life, not something that attracts women.

gangweedsavedme · 2022-06-26T06:30:14+00:00

Virgin 🤣

Different_Avocado501 · 2022-06-26T09:47:43+00:00

Nah man, you got it all wrong. Only a small percentage of women are actually turned on by misogyny and that's really not what you should be striving for.

Same goes for kindness. Having a cold approach is A LOT more attractive. And nothing is worse than begging for affection, that's the #1 sign of low emotional intelligence.

For high EQ traits I'd say being generally calm, not caring about everyone's opinion too much, not having emotional outbursts. Boils down to just not acting like a child. If you're interested in a woman, show it by showing interests in her hobbies and personality. If you try too hard to "get pussy" you'll fail. Miserably. Seriously, women want to have sex with a guy who doesn't ask for sex. NEVER force her into doing something she's not comfortable with. You'd be surprised how many people fail at such an easy task.

Something that I've noticed works better than women would like to admit is just being a good traditional man but without the feature of "problem solving through violence". Trust me on that last part. Nothing worse than being the guy who hits others and you also don't want to go for the girl who likes aggressive guys, trust me. Been there, done that, never again.

And not connected to high emotional intelligence, get good clothes. Nothing too crazy or expensive, it just has to fit right and maybe a few classy brands like Hugo Boss, Levi's or Marco Polo. No graphic t-shirts, unless it's bands/artists or maybe some old-school designs. If you like colours, don't go with anything too bright. Dark red is always a win. Don't wear dad shoes. Don't wear sports shoes (unless doing sports of course). It's easy, you got this.

Debubba · 2022-06-26T04:20:00+00:00

Just use a safe word

EulenWatcher · 2022-06-26T04:21:18+00:00

My husband has shown genuine interest in me, he was eager to spend time together and he respected my boundaries. He didn't push for sex, he waited as long as I needed. As I moved to the city where he'd been living for more than 10 years, he showed me all beautiful places while we were having long walks together. He's made me feel both excited and comfortable with him. And I liked and still like his smell.

Overall we just clicked in the right tune. Sometimes there's a feeling when you start talking with someone, that you talk and think "on the same wavelength" so to speak.

August_Spies42069 · 2022-06-26T04:04:37+00:00

Be good looking. Have a dick that works. Have money. Don't be socially retarded

801735 · 2022-06-26T04:49:30+00:00

I'm trying to get more girls by being less misogynist and manipulative, and more kind.

Pick one.

I may have gone too far with it.

Either an optimist, or inexperienced. Likely all three, including being a liar.

What are some things a guy has done that REALLY made you want to sleep with him?

"Has money and is hollowheaded."

Hormones.

"Boredom."

"I'm a nurse." (similar, any profession + boredom)

Only list if you actually fucked him

"There is no actual him, he's just an idea I keep tumbling around my head, but he's real! I swear, kinda!" LOL

Dude, asking chicks this is just,... sub20. Focus on passing all your exams first. When you do, something resembling life follows, if you put your lust for life efforts towards it. Also ignore anything chicks lie to you about. That "anything" is meant literally, it is >anything<.

Glittering_Ad_1415 · 2022-06-26T11:25:16+00:00

Nothing. I only ride chads dick.

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2022-06-26T07:27:18+00:00

Just be a good cuck.

TermAggravating8043 · 2022-06-26T07:32:39+00:00

I’m not falling for this shite

Op, did you just make a post to insult everyone?

itscoldupheredude · 2022-06-26T09:39:48+00:00

Fucking virgin lmao

Woko127 · 2022-06-26T10:32:37+00:00

You need to start by actually learning how to be empathetic. "I'm trying to get girls by being less misogynistic" isn't actually being less misogynistic nor is it being very empathetic. You're giving them signs that you are not empathetic.

A lot of dudes just seem to want to appear as something, rather than actually being it. I think you need more empathy for yourself to start with. Why are you trying to give off the appearance of being empathetic just to get women? Is there a void You're trying to fill and if so, why not fill the void instead of looking to plaster over it? It already assumes that you don't have empathy to begin with, when most people just haven't taken the time to access something that's already there.We as men shun these things for the sake of appearing 'strong' but how strong are you really if you deny yourself the ability to feel? I'm telling you this because I've seen first hand how men try to use accomplishments to fill a void that can't be filled from the outside.

You should be trying to be less misogynistic and more empathetic for yourself and not to 'get women'.

Title	High Emotional Intelligence Traits?
Author	rmadoff
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Comments	37
Date	June 26, 2022 3:53 AM UTC (4 years ago)
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