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That is your feminist brainwashing talking every society on Earth was built on making its son's disposable in war or in work. Most of human civilization was built because men had to sacrifice theirselfs. It's ironic because women can only drive today because of being built in civilized the world so good that a modern-day woman can complain about a world that was literally made safe by the men before her
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 10:42 PM
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Well that explains why you fail for rapid feminist brainwashing especially considering that you have borderline personality disorder and have the audacity to somehow pycho diagnose someone you do not even know
/r/ExRedPill18/11/21 10:14 PM
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You should not be calling anybody names or making excuses for calling anyone anything. By your logic alling someone a slut wouldn't be sexist
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 11:15 PM
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Nobody's blaming women but you would be a little disingenuous and have a little bit of cognitive dissonance if you really think loser is gendered And I originally made that post because I see way too many posters following them losers yet at the same time I think they're trying to help them All the other stuff I can agree with for this way too many people who keep calling themselves progressive but don't actually believe in it 100%
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 10:58 PM
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The difference is no society is actively listening and trying to change for the women's concerns but not for the men's Everybody and their mother knows that society is crazy it has weird standards for different sets of people but the difference is society actually seems to care more about women's issues than men's. We see tons of body positivity movements try to counter that type of thinking but that's why you don't see the same for men when it comes to body positivity.
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 10:49 PM
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If you believe off the theory that we've lived in a patriarchy as in that somehow men were not oppressed I used to believe in the same type of propaganda when I was a male feminist and I can say this as a big black male Most men throughout history were also oppressed in certain ways that may not seem to be the same way we like to think as women's oppression but it looks very different than what our modern sensibilities will tell us A lot of early feminists were extremely racist as they did not w…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 10:37 PM
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You see how you're trying to differentiate it only when it comes to the women As if men are called bitch. I will admit that b**** is more gendered but I think you should also admit that loser in general is more meant for men That's why a girl who works at McDonald's is saying it's just working but I do working at McDonald's is seen as a loser
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 10:22 PM
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That's exactly what we should say to the feminist side. There is no patriarchy there is only the backwards society that causes of whole bunch of issues Don't get me wrong I see it's advancing past it but nowhere near enough based off of how much we actually do Pick-A-Part gender but that only seems to be going only for the female side of gender roles Men's gender roles are changing but nowhere near as fast or as efficient as the women's have
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 10:16 PM
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Loser is usually gendered and used against men
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 10:11 PM
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What they need is the actual society to fix the problem instead of blaming it on the victim The reason why so many guys go to the red pill is because they usually tried their best already first and then realized that it's still did not get them anywhere and it still get them disrespected or ignored I was a male feminist before I went to the red pill. Any ideology can get disturbing or crazy depending on the other factors I really do believe that girls need to learn how to treat men just like boy…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 03:56 PM
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I agree with that last part but everything comes in nuance You could be like me and have tons of female friends growing up but I'm still struggling. You could be like me and did the whole work on confidence hit the gym thing but now at 24 and about 6 years later after all of that it really feels like I could have stayed the same and still would have had the same results Dating is hard because it is a social skill and it's about perception A guy could be the most confident or cool that he is but …
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 03:51 PM
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It's something I noticed too especially when I was in school and was still clinically of feminist They have to treat you like garbage or the enemy because it helps them cover up their natural blinders and skepticism about things In their eyes you're the enemy and you can't have any thing wrong with your life or anything that society May hurt you on. Also if they let up and realize that they have been acting wrong or realized that men have just as many societal ills that are plagued upon them, th…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/11/21 03:37 PM
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What makes it toxic and useless is the fact that most guys and most people are already doing this without having to be told but that does not mean that them doing this is helping them in love or in romance and that's the type of advice that does get old and toxic because when you hear it all the time and when you start doing it and you still have no results then it is just useless I'm not saying I'm a master of talking to people and I'm not saying I'm going to be better women either but right no…
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 03:22 PM
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I had a lot of social anxiety around women and still did because all the things you listed are not a guarantee Also you are mistaken into thinking that amongst these guys have no social skills or that they treat women like another species or did you consider that maybe it is that hard Women do not need to be the ones to do all the heavy lifting and men do and that's probably what contributes to the nervousness and anxiety We need to stop this narrative there young guys are just idiots who don't …
/r/ExRedPill17/11/21 03:09 PM
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iPad tons of female platonic friends since I was in elementary school and I don't think that fact ever really helped or hurted me when it came to attracting the opposite sex I find funny a lot of the advice that is pedaled on this sub because it could be just as toxic or useless as the red pill stuff. I remember when me in a platonic friend went out to a club together and we instantly got a lot of attention based off that fact but that's really the only thing I can think of that actually helped …
/r/ExRedPill16/11/21 03:57 PM
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Red pill does have some good things and that it's probably one of the only few sources that actually will tell you that women can act bad and do bad things during dating as well and that's something we we just did not even acknowledge or try to warn Men about. Keep in mind that nothing exists in a vacuum and everything is cause and effect These men would not go to Red pill if they did not cross a woman who made them go there. A lot of men go to the red pill if they have been rejected very badly …
/r/ExRedPill15/11/21 11:30 PM
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Sometimes I wonder if those old tropes or something that set in society or were they a product of that environment and had undertones that would be considered not progressive just like expecting a woman to just carry children to be Of course throughout time and memorial and historical and biological we all know that women get pregnant and carry children but we would be ignorant to think that that was all that women were known for This reminds me of a conversation I had with an actual sexist cous…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/21 03:24 AM
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Exactly. If only those black men did not have their mothers or wives civilizing them It gets old and as I get older I've gotten more comfortable calling it out
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/21 01:34 AM
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It's not every black woman and not every black man is a jerk but not every black man is a saint either There is a certain culture in our community however that automatically assumes a black man must either be a deadbeat or an idiot and deserves disrespect and abuse I'm 24 and I've recently called out all the women in my family for acting like this at times Because I was the oldest boy and because I was the biggest and honestly because I was the only one who would stand up to them I ended up beco…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/11/21 01:32 AM
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Your mileage may vary but it's kind of hard to prove who did not improve and who did especially over Reddit. I've been through everything you just said and I highly doubt that this type of thing happens because I've been through many motions of my life to where I have the similar mindset of completely ignoring women and it does not really work on every guy unless that girl already likes the guy. I've actually had about three cars but lost them due to family. And I get tired of this whole notion …
/r/ExRedPill13/11/21 01:54 AM
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I guess this is one of those instances to wear everybody is different and everybody's taste and ideas will be nuanced but whenever I think of the stereotypical self-improvement stent they always have to do some type of standard doing what society Like making a bunch of money and driving a nice car could be seen as self-improvement but in the end most of the time it is just too impress the outer world which could be seen herself improvement but like you, I was more concerned on the spiritual and …
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 11:57 PM
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Men also face abuse later as abuses don't show their true faces and I get the strength disparity but once again that can come off as an excuse. Every woman nowadays wants to be like a man or have what they perceive to be the same power as a man yet it's always until we bring out the strength differences and it gives me such frustration because I am a super tall and big man and every time I was angry or defending myself the first excuse to be given to defend a r person was how bigger and taller I…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 10:17 PM
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I'm an African American from the United States I have tons of veterans in my family and I'm familiar with military history and the culture around it but I have always been a staunch believer in nonviolence My grandfather supports the idea because of the benefits and stuff but in truth he hates the idea of killing someone as his son was murdered. A lot of people in the family have been murdered and it does way on my mind how hypocritical it would be of me to throw all those teachings away and the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/21 04:06 PM
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I can completely understand that and as a guy after dealing with such women it does get old because all of this seems to be fused in such a way that almost makes it an excuse It's okay to still enjoy men in life sex and all of that but I don't think it's possible to still be around men to the point till you still romantically or sexually engaging them and then to state that you distrust them. Believe me I'm a survivor of emotional abuse so I understand what you're saying but at the same time I a…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 04:03 PM
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It's going to sound crazy and I can even tell from a female perspective why it might sound easy or crazy but as a guy who has been the respectful type and to only have a girl play me by being the girl who says she wants to be with someone respectful only to then turn around and then literally go over and spread her legs for the guy who was toxic, Every guy is scared of being the respectful guy and then only having the girl humiliate you and then leave or cheat on you. I can empathize when you sa…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 03:02 AM
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This is also why I think a lot of people will argue that women have it easier and disregard because it isn't just a biological thing, a woman from the age to 15 or at least dating age for teenager all the way up to her older age can be at any psychological level and that does not give her a disadvantage when it comes to dating A woman does not have to be comfortable with herself or even really work on herself and yet it's expected for the man to do all of that to be seen as datable. And of cours…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 02:54 AM
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I I did all of that and I did all of that without the thought of needing outside validation and I still end up single now granted I've had much more luck and I know how to entertain a woman and I've been out on tons of dates but I hate this narrative that if you're somehow doing all these things then you will become confident and then you will get a girl That's just not true and that sounds nice but reality is very different. Just because you are comfortable with yourself does not mean you will …
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 02:50 AM
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As ironic as it is I'm a young man right now who feels very marginalized and low on life and because of that I've been thinking about doing military service to hopefully elevate my station in life. The military is probably the perfect place to even stage this type of propaganda or stigma because it's always been staged just a perfect place for men like me A young man who comes from the dredges or lower ends of society can use the military to become great in theory. If you make it through all the…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/11/21 01:33 AM
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And see this is where I kind of start getting confused on this type of part because it just sounds like it's too good to actually be true because I see you too much in practice without the actual evidence It is hard to convey this on Reddit because all we have to go off of is what we type out but I am a guy who grew up in a very abusive household he used to have horrible self-esteem but even within all of that I was still able to escape it and still end up at least a somewhat decent individual A…
/r/ExRedPill12/11/21 12:00 AM
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I disagree with your last paragraph as with a lot of common dating advice, it sounds good to say that if you can take a lot of rejection then you're super confident but those two things have nothing to do with each other You could be both super confident and good at taking rejection but that does not mean you will be successful 90% of guys are usually confident and are already so used to rejection that it doesn't bother them but that does not somehow give them an advantage.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 10:16 PM
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Honestly I still look at news from many different sources as I like to stay unbiased All different sides and all different ideologies could be seen as brainwashing if taken to the extreme. I went from extreme male feminists to red pill so now I'm just normal
/r/ExRedPill11/11/21 03:58 AM
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It's not so much about getting the women but it's more about why you get turned down or what the woman says. When you keep getting turned down but also keep getting told that you are so nice or kind or husband material or all of that other stuff. It starts to make you feel insecure and kind of like a child. Right now I've been watching tons of videos about whether or not a girl would like a nine to five dude or a drug dealer. Of course that's not every girl. But in my experience there are a lot …
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 10:52 PM
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It doesn't help but I understand what you're talking about because you sound just like me after I did a long stint of improving myself And of course there could always be better and I'm not saying I'm just sitting around the house all the time but when I'm looking at all the work I did when I was younger versus the results now it's 24, it does kind of feel like most of it did not matter especially considering after realizing that there were so many things wrong with me that we're not wrong at al…
/r/ExRedPill09/11/21 07:25 PM
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I'm sorry to hear that and I want to tell you that there are tons of men who would value you but that's easier said than done and people are still people and make mistakes You could be the most socially confident person ever but if Jimmy across the room thinks you're a weirdo then he's going to think you're a weirdo no matter what If it's any consolation this very same thing is what helped me get over that type of thing. I'm a weirdo too and not only that I'm a big black dude who looks like a li…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 07:55 AM
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It all comes in different levels and shades and everyone's experience is different But in general. In society and in culture and the media and in TV and in general stories told, the man is the one having to make all the heavy moves in the relationship. He's the one that has to pursue and put his best foot forward and sometimes even put up an act. His self-esteem and dignity is also on the line because sometimes a rejection isn't just a rejection. A man could go after the wrong woman and if she r…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 07:52 AM
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I can understand that too and that's why I never described myself as fully red pill. But I think something that turns a lot of into it is that society doesn't mean the same way it does women as we have to act and be certain ways that are shown on TV or Media or that may be enhanced or reaffirmed by TV in real life Men don't tend to idolize women as much as it's told because that's something that both genders do to each other honestly. And I've heard tons of men stay the same thing as they feel l…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 07:47 AM
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I agree with your first paragraph but at the same time it kind of proves my point because if you keep self improving to no end and still find yourself empty then what else do you do? I would love a serious monogamous relationship but I also do want the pressure of hook up culture to come off of me and you are very mistaken to use the word imagine Believe me I used to walk around thinking all of this did not matter until it started mattering I don't view social interactions of some type of compet…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 07:40 AM
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I completely understand you as I have a preference for weirder people as well but as a weird person I also am very aware of that not everybody's going to look at you as normal or with respect. Sometimes the people disrespecting you are the actual weird ones but because you're comfortable with being weird, they will Target you. This is a hard lesson I had to learn. It's hard to take serious someone who keeps calling you weird when you have better social skills and interpersonal relationship skill…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 02:45 AM
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At this point it's honestly to see how her personality is but also how she views men and if she is a nice person because our body counts are sexual activity shouldn't matter on paper but it usually does. If she has to lie that is kind of a red flag but a lot of girls ironically treat men how they think men treat them. I've heard way too many girls talk to your stuff about a guy or just be outright disrespectful to the guy and yet she opens her legs for him? Also there is a correlation between hi…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 02:41 AM
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See this right here is kind of what I'm talking about I'm not saying and I'm not saying you're being malicious But notice how you say you thought he got nervous and didn't know what to do? You describe it as intense as not exactly desired You're not a bad person for thinking this but that reaction is kind of what I'm talking about. You say he gets to listen to you talk about plants and snails for hours and I find that adorable but that's the type of thing that I'm talking about You being able to…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 02:36 AM
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See everything you just typed out I've been through and I'm kind of at the end of it but I'm not getting the same conclusion Right now what you're telling me sounds true and I agree with it objectively but in actual practice this type of thing just isn't happening There have been girls who expecting me to have sex like a Hollywood star There are girls who do believe toxic things about men. You say I need to get these things out of my head but these things aren't really in my head but they do exi…
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 02:26 AM
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And see the thing is I do too that's why I feel like I'm in such a conundrum because I find beauty and fun and socializing and meeting different people but dating almost feels like the opposite to where it feels super discriminatory to the point where you do start thinking like that I'm not autistic or anything but I do relate to you in a way that a lot of people feel the need to give you some type of makeover or something So many people, will tell you you need XYZ or to do this to your clothes …
/r/ExRedPill08/11/21 02:23 AM
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