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discussionDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/12/24 05:20 PM
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Social IssuesDisastrous_Average91/r/MensRights11/04/25 05:43 PM
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GeneralDisastrous_Average91/r/MensRights23/04/25 08:40 AM
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discussionDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/10/24 05:20 PM
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social mediaDisastrous_Average91/r/EverydayMisandry10/05/25 03:55 AM
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masculinityDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/05/25 02:24 PM
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double standardsDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/12/24 12:57 AM
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discussionDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 02:52 PM
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discussionDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/25 11:25 AM
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social mediaDisastrous_Average91/r/EverydayMisandry04/11/24 06:05 PM
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social mediaDisastrous_Average91/r/EverydayMisandry04/05/25 02:45 PM
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GeneralDisastrous_Average91/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:27 PM
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Activism/SupportDisastrous_Average91/r/MensRights11/04/25 05:50 PM
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social mediaDisastrous_Average91/r/EverydayMisandry03/11/24 10:25 PM
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discussionDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/24 07:33 PM
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discussionDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates08/08/24 03:15 PM
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GeneralDisastrous_Average91/r/MensRights10/12/24 06:16 PM
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mediaDisastrous_Average91/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates03/10/24 07:55 PM
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social mediaDisastrous_Average91/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/25 07:39 PM
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social mediaDisastrous_Average91/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 12:32 PM
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DebateDisastrous_Average91/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/25 06:30 PM
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Nice that they included all races for diversity points
/r/EverydayMisandry15/05/25 09:20 PM
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They complain men aren’t men anymore but why would men want to play into gender roles where they are not valued?? Lesbians say that butch lesbians don’t deserve to be treated like men in relationships because they know men get treated badly in heteronormative relationships
/r/EverydayMisandry15/05/25 09:20 PM
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It was still misandrist
/r/EverydayMisandry15/05/25 01:04 PM
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The people they point to as incels are usually Andrew Tate type people - the complete opposite and then point to them and say “this is why men are lonely” as if these are the same men that claim to be lonely (they’re the ones talking about how many women they’ve fucked usually)
/r/EverydayMisandry15/05/25 01:04 PM
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That poor boy. I hope he’s in a better place. Rest in peace
/r/MensRights14/05/25 12:23 PM
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Yeah and the whole “I’m just a girl” thing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/05/25 10:46 AM
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Icl I feel like men like women more than women like men. Women are very open about not liking men a lot of the time but no one talks about it
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/25 09:28 PM
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Yeah and those same women will insult a straight man by calling him gay
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/25 09:27 PM
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Do lesbians feel the same way about men? I doubt it. Men tend to seek female validation, even gay men.
/r/EverydayMisandry13/05/25 09:27 PM
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Why don’t you go get women to do it?
/r/MensRights10/05/25 06:11 PM
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And is there even anything wrong with men being horny?
/r/EverydayMisandry10/05/25 02:05 PM
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I always see jokes about bisexuals having super high standards for men and loving all women. It’s common in the bi_irl subreddit and it just makes me feel bad bc I also want to feel desired
/r/EverydayMisandry08/05/25 06:32 AM
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It’s not saying masculinity good femininity bad. It’s saying gender roles are good. Women don’t get made fun of for being feminine
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 10:27 PM
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Why can’t we just call it what it is: misandry. When it comes to expectations put on women it’s called misogyny so why is it different for men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/05/25 07:23 PM
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Feminism contributes to unhealthy standards of masculinity and often reinforces it Men are more likely to die from most suicide methods and the idea that men use guns is very American centric Men do have health problems and shorter lifespans that can be explained biologically and even then, this isn’t the “patriarchy” Stop dismissing women and feminism as problems for men. When men say they feel like feminism is harmful, that is them talking about their feelings and you’re ignoring it Most men w…
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/25 08:21 PM
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Yeah and it’s very American-centric
/r/EverydayMisandry03/05/25 08:17 PM
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I feel like sexism is when someone says something that relates to both sexes. For example a lot of what Andrew Tate says is sexist, not necessarily misogynistic because it’s more about enforcing gender roles for both men and women than hating women as a group
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/25 11:27 AM
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A lot of anti immigration sentiment is actually just anti male immigration
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/05/25 11:26 AM
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Men don’t suffer in silence, people hear it and choose to ignore it
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/04/25 07:52 PM
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This means a lot actually
/r/EverydayMisandry26/04/25 03:08 AM
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Probably the same kind of women who get mad about trans women “infiltrating” their spaces
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/04/25 04:25 PM

It’s not supposed to be taken literal. It’s just saying an equal partnership
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:16 AM

Because women don’t want to be the providers for men most of the time
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:13 AM

No
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:12 AM

It’s not a literal split
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:11 AM

Then that’s not 50/50. Why can’t women be the provider and men the house keeper?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:11 AM

When it comes to first dates or casual dating or relationships before children, giving birth is not on the table so why not 50/50? Also many people aren’t interested in having kids. Personally I would only want to adopt so those things you stated don’t apply
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/25 07:08 AM
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Yes, even toxic/positive masculinity is just gender roles.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/04/25 06:39 PM
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That doesn’t mean we should give up
/r/MensRights24/04/25 06:31 PM
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Give them grape (aka rape) flashbacks?? Like wtf!?! How is this allowed?
/r/EverydayMisandry23/04/25 10:29 PM
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Im a trans man. It’s because trans women are seen by transphobes are perverted cross dressing men who are out to get women but trans men are seen as either just confused or poor precious victims of the patriarchy. It’s misandry
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/04/25 08:41 AM
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It’s almost like society relies on men playing their gender role and now most men are realising how sexist it is or are struggling to keep up with the unrealistic standards
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/25 05:34 PM
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That’s true but I think the top of the pyramid should be smaller because it’s a small percentage of the population
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/04/25 05:33 PM
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As a bi man, it’s not just straight men that don’t enjoy her music :)
/r/EverydayMisandry21/04/25 05:31 PM
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Men don’t have to be providers or protectors
/r/EverydayMisandry20/04/25 06:53 AM
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Yeah I mean I love giving the “princess treatment” but I’d like to receive it too
/r/EverydayMisandry19/04/25 07:09 PM
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I think even a lot of the “feminine men” are masculine is some way. They usually are still confident, good talkers, etc. The only difference is they appeal more to that female gaze
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/04/25 10:29 PM
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I’ve always known anti immigrant rhetoric is often only applied to men
/r/MensRights18/04/25 10:54 AM
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I don’t think you can be a feminist and not be misandrist in some way. Even if you don’t outright say you hate men, ideology such as “toxic/healthy masculinity” is still misandrist and feminism is built on such ideologies
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates15/04/25 04:38 PM
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Good for those men prioritising their own comfort. Those women can keep crying. If not following gender roles means I like men then I’m gay as hell
/r/EverydayMisandry11/04/25 09:32 PM
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I don’t live in a country with draft/conscription but I would never accept being conscripted. I think it’s a violation of human rights
/r/MensRights10/04/25 07:39 PM
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This is so overblown. Where is the outrage at all the young men, usually men of colour, being murdered in this country which is an actual problem?
/r/MensRights10/04/25 07:37 PM
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I’m not gay but I’m also lgbt and I get it. We exist
/r/MensRights10/04/25 07:36 PM
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Men don’t get attention or praise as a gender. Individual men who are at the top get attention and the rest of men are left to rot
/r/MensRights10/04/25 07:33 PM
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They’ve always been worse. I feel like most misogynists are just sexists (wanting gender roles for both genders) rather than straight up despising women the way these misandrists hate men
/r/EverydayMisandry10/04/25 07:32 PM
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“Masculinity crisis” makes me roll my eyes so bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 07:57 PM
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Ugh. I’m genuinely so tired of this shit. They don’t gaf about men, only gender roles
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/04/25 07:56 PM
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Where’s the woman?
/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/25 07:55 PM
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Yeah I’m a trans man who was a queer woman before (not sure of my sexuality entirely at that point) and I’m a trans man now. It’s hard because you feel like you have no support either within or outside of your own community
/r/EverydayMisandry09/04/25 07:55 PM
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Showing a made up story about something that barely happens is crazy. Why don’t they show a film about all of the young men of colour being murdered?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/04/25 08:44 AM
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It’s a sexist slur and often misused or misunderstood
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/03/25 09:00 AM
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I’m ok with nudity if it is appropriate for the scene and it’s not to ridicule male bodies or oversexualise but to compare penis to breasts is crazy. The female version of a penis being shown would be a vulva being shown
/r/MensRights27/03/25 09:49 PM
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It misunderstands young men and inceldom
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates27/03/25 09:48 PM
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Yes men need to stand up to injustice. I hate this “it is what it is” attitude
/r/MensRights27/03/25 04:36 PM
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I refuse to conform to those misandrist gender norms
/r/MensRights27/03/25 04:34 PM
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Always has been
/r/MensRights27/03/25 04:33 PM
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“Emotional torture” when men are the ones expected to be a stoic rock for women to lean on and project all their problems and insecurities onto. What a joke
/r/MensRights27/03/25 04:33 PM
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Where is this from?
/r/MensRights27/03/25 04:32 PM
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These people still exist irl
/r/MensRights27/03/25 09:44 AM
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It’s not only on social media
/r/MensRights27/03/25 09:37 AM
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It’s the opposite
/r/EverydayMisandry27/03/25 08:40 AM
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Girls sexually harass gay men all the time, even in gay bars where the men there clearly aren’t into them
/r/EverydayMisandry26/03/25 08:49 AM
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Like what? Because I don’t see women being killed or being used as scapegoats for the countries problems
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/25 10:05 PM
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He hates men. Simple
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/25 08:48 PM
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I don’t see much misogyny
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates24/03/25 08:48 PM
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When will they show empathy for boys? If you treat someone like a monster, they’ll act like one
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 10:38 PM
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Is this show worth watching? I don’t wanna watch it if it’ll make me annoyed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/03/25 10:36 PM
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Maybe actually care about boys and stop isolating them and making them feel like monsters? This will only make things worse imo
/r/MensRights23/03/25 05:50 PM
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Not an attack on masculinity, an attack on men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates22/03/25 11:00 PM
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It’s been proven that that is a form of self harm for many men and they make fun of it
/r/EverydayMisandry20/03/25 03:25 PM
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They only thought it was bad because it puts women and children in the same category and protects them, not because it causes men to die and suffer
/r/EverydayMisandry18/03/25 02:48 PM
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Feminists and terfs are the same. The only difference is they disagree on what makes someone a man
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/03/25 01:47 PM
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I don’t get why male birds aren’t gay tbh, they do all the work and look better than female ones
/r/EverydayMisandry15/03/25 07:37 AM
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People saying it’s not misandrist but they don’t realise most racism against Indian people is against Indian men. Calling Indian men creeps or similar is misandry
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/03/25 04:17 PM
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Men are more likely to be victims because of their gender
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/03/25 01:04 PM
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And people act like men have it so easy when the reality is this has always been happening. It’s happening now with Ukrainian and Russian men being forced to fight and die. It’s a violation of human rights
/r/EverydayMisandry07/03/25 12:17 PM
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I agree. Although lgbt men are discriminated against, they are almost expected to go against gender norms so they’re more accepted/understood when they’re more feminine but straight men get questioned. As a bi man, this really needs to change. Men should be able to express themselves as they really are
/r/MensRights03/03/25 07:26 PM
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What it’s supposed to refer to does exist. It’s just the term. It’s should just be called misandry
/r/MensRights03/03/25 03:13 PM
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Yet many women won’t give in relationships yet still demand lots from men. But that’s just normal so no one questions it. Now that men are realising they want something in return, it’s suddenly bad
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 06:19 PM
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I feel like it’s the opposite. Misandry kills
/r/EverydayMisandry28/02/25 05:56 AM
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That number of men is still very small compared to the general male population. Men are also the main victims. The motivations for these crimes are often related to them being male and if they were female they would most likely not end up in that situation. (E.g. gang violence, drugs related violence)
/r/MensRights25/02/25 04:01 PM
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I hate this idea that if you don’t get girls there’s something wrong with you and you just need to be a good person. You can be a good person, constantly work on yourself, etc. and still not get any girls. Meanwhile many misogynistic men are popular with women
/r/EverydayMisandry25/02/25 03:57 PM
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Hes very good at pretending to care
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/02/25 08:39 AM
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I disagree. I sympathise with your experience but I don’t think men should give up. If we keep quiet then things won’t change.
/r/MensRights22/02/25 09:46 AM
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Wether something is considered SA is different for everyone. A woman can kiss a man without consent and he may be fine with it but that’s just chance and she still did it without his consent. But he could’ve disliked it and then it would be considered SA. So some people can get away with doing things without consent while others can’t. Usually it’s women that get away with it
/r/MensRights22/02/25 09:25 AM
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They should do… it’s a sexist subreddit
/r/EverydayMisandry16/02/25 08:28 PM
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I don’t like feminism or capitalism. Both are bad for men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/02/25 08:17 PM
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Tbh if anything this is more similar to what Luigi did
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates07/02/25 02:45 AM
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Why are women seen as being on the same level as children? Why are they worthy of protection but not men?
/r/EverydayMisandry04/02/25 10:26 AM
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Yes I agree but I also think that sex should just be part of a relationship and so it should be a natural expectation of both people, unless one is asexual
/r/MensRights29/01/25 11:50 PM
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Men to support them financially without having to do anything
/r/MensRights26/01/25 04:45 PM
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So she could just work and not be in a traditional relationship. That’s the point I make. Also that many women want only a traditional relationship for men
/r/MensRights25/01/25 08:53 PM
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Im not talking about pregnancies obviously that’s risky. But id rather be a full time parent that have to work
/r/MensRights25/01/25 08:48 PM
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The woman’s role is way easier though and doesn’t have as much risk
/r/MensRights25/01/25 08:18 PM
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That’s disgusting. It reminds me of that video from I think the 60s or something where a woman pinches men’s butts and then asks them how they think about men doing that to women
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/25 08:34 AM
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Look at the invisible gardener parable, it reminds me of that. The patriarchy is unverifiable and unfalsifiable. It’s a boogeyman that can be used as a scapegoat for everything. When you criticise it, people will keep adding qualifications
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/01/25 08:32 AM
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You would never hear anyone say this about women
/r/EverydayMisandry21/01/25 10:44 PM
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Decenter women
/r/EverydayMisandry20/01/25 02:07 PM
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Yes! A lot of the dating arguments are very female centred on both sides and putting the blame on men. I have stopped focusing on women and more on myself and other men. If I want to date, I will date another man (I’m bi)
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 02:06 PM
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I haven’t thought about it that way before. That’s so true
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/01/25 02:04 PM
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I really hope this will happen. I think men should centre themselves (but not completely disregard women) and create a brotherhood. I’m only worried that it may be conditional, that trans men or gay men could be excluded as not being “real men” bc many “MRAs” are actually tradcons
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/25 06:10 AM
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I think the main issue with MGM for me is the intent, yes it might not have quite as bad affects as FGM, but both are the violation of bodily autonomy and one is much more accepted, even encouraged. That is the problem
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates19/01/25 06:08 AM
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So sad that men do not value each other. We need more brotherhood
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates17/01/25 01:23 PM
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I’m considering making an LGBT MRA subreddit where we can discuss issues facing queer men
/r/EverydayMisandry14/01/25 09:47 PM
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Exactly!!
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 10:52 PM
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True. I’m a trans man and I always see this stuff. I will say in general, trans women have it harder but I think a lot of that is also due to misandry. They’re seen as dangerous and a threat to women bc transphobes see them as men.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates12/01/25 10:50 PM
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I wish I was brave enough to do this. I was in a small class, the only guy (an openly trans one too) and everyone, including the teacher, was saying men are “disgusting creatures” and being misandrist. I should’ve reported that teacher
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/24 01:31 PM
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One of the best progressive mras. I need to find more tbh
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/24 01:24 PM
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Same with “who set up the system?”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/24 01:22 PM
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Most of the time ppl bring up that men get raped too is when rape is portrayed as a woman’s issue. If you’re talking about a specific case only to do with women, then I doubt ppl would bring up male victims.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/24 01:20 PM
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They only talk about male rape victims being brought up in conversations about women when we’re talking about male rape victims…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates31/12/24 01:19 PM
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Which is a shame
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates20/12/24 12:57 AM
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I think men should decenter women from their lives and focus on supporting other men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/12/24 07:34 PM
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When a man splits the bill he’s broke but when a woman wants a man to pay for both of their food she’s not??
/r/MensRights14/12/24 07:40 AM
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They created it
/r/MensRights11/12/24 07:42 PM
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Nah tbh it’s probably more restrictive now. Even with gender, women can do masculine things and it’s seen as cool but if a man strays just a bit from the ideals expected of men he is made fun of
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/24 07:40 PM
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I am a trans man and I can relate
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/12/24 07:28 AM
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Women walking naked
/r/MensRights10/12/24 07:56 PM
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Even if she is 100% taking care of the home and family, men are still doing more and are risking more
/r/MensRights08/12/24 06:00 AM
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Being forced to pay your rapist who should be rotting in jail… That is just insane
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/12/24 11:45 PM
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Yes I agree and honestly it’s really sad. Men should stand with each other and lift each other up. One thing that the feminist movement has got going for it is the “girls support girls” movement
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates29/11/24 10:11 PM
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Good on them. Decentering women
/r/MensRights22/11/24 09:59 PM
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“Why are boys struggling in schools??”
/r/MensRights19/11/24 03:46 PM
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I’m in the uk and I remember being the only guy in the class (I’m a trans guy so maybe they thought of me as not a real man) and the students and teacher were all hating men, calling them “disgusting creatures”
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 11:17 AM
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I think a lot of it is about gender roles but I’m not sure how to fix that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/11/24 11:15 AM
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So sad. No body deserves to be made to feel like they should end their life. Rest in peace💕
/r/MensRights09/11/24 04:08 PM
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What about liberal/left wing men that aren’t feminists?
/r/MensRights09/11/24 02:58 PM
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That’s true. I just mean that’s one reason why trump is more successful with men than Kamala. He pretends to care about them and takes advantage of the issues they’re facing
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 10:10 PM
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Yeah, at least Trump pretends to care about men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/11/24 06:53 PM
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Exactly. Both of them LOVE gender roles for men
/r/EverydayMisandry05/11/24 11:10 AM
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As it should be! Men deserve to feel appreciated in relationships
/r/EverydayMisandry04/11/24 06:09 PM
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It’s not about that. It’s using sex as a way to measure men’s worth and it’s been used all throughout this. The election doesn’t just affect women too
/r/EverydayMisandry04/11/24 06:01 PM
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Why are young men leaning more right wing?? Because at least people like trump pretend to care about men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/11/24 05:22 PM
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Honestly I don’t think anyone that really cares about equality would call themselves a feminist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/24 09:49 AM
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✨delusion✨
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/10/24 09:48 AM
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I really dislike the men/boys are seen as being privileged the way that white people or straight people are because men have just as many problems that affect them directly because of their gender
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/10/24 04:30 PM
7

Don’t ask about past relationships tbh, a lot of the time it will be hurtful. But women like this are horrible
/r/EverydayMisandry23/10/24 08:48 AM
10

That’s why I do that stuff for men more
/r/MensRights20/10/24 01:45 PM
3

A complete violation of human rights but for some reason because it’s men there is no major pushback
/r/MensRights14/10/24 02:52 PM
1

Men deserve to have standards. Even if a man dates, he shouldn’t put up with any red flags such as misandry and he could still be lonely. A man shouldn’t have to put up with that just because
/r/EverydayMisandry10/10/24 05:22 PM
40

Assuming a man is gay based on stereotypes is just misandrist and homophobic. Misandry and homophobia often go hand in hand and I hate this playing into stereotypes. Let men be themselves
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/10/24 02:50 PM
4

I hate all of this talk of “masculinity”, just be yourself and as long as you don’t hurt others you’re fine. Even if it’s “positive”, it’s still putting men into a box and if men struggle with any of those traits they’re suddenly not masculine? It’s just so weird to me
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates06/10/24 07:28 AM
2

Wait lady Gaga is anti male? I didn’t know that
/r/MensRights04/10/24 05:20 AM
4

It’s bc many people see queer men as “defected women” and don’t see them as real men because of their misandry. That’s why men’s rights activism should include queer men
/r/MensRights03/10/24 03:27 PM
3

That’s straight up discrimination. This should be known everywhere
/r/MensRights03/10/24 03:15 PM
24

A lot of women talk about men invading women’s spaces but do the same. Straight women say they go to gay bars bc straight men make them uncomfortable so they feel entitled to go make gay men uncomfortable. Terfs say trans women can’t use women’s bathrooms but I bet they have used the men’s bathroom at an event where the female bathroom is busy and didn’t think about it twice
/r/MensRights03/10/24 02:42 PM
7

Who would have thought?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates28/09/24 09:11 AM
18

The death penalty is inhumane. It’s racist and misandrist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/09/24 04:33 PM
13

Have these people seen Korean feminists? They’re disgusting
/r/MensRights24/09/24 07:22 PM
21

Virgin/incel shaming smh. They won’t talk about the men who are forced into military or the feminists who post about killing men and mutilating babies and molesting boys
/r/MensRights24/09/24 07:22 PM
14

I honestly think misandry is one of the biggest problems today because of how much it overlaps with issues like racism, homophobia, transphobia, homelessness, drug addiction, violence, the prison system, etc
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/09/24 08:28 AM
39

A lot of women are told in self improvement that they shouldn’t care about men, to put themselves first, not care about male validation, to decentre men, etc. But male self improvement seems to be all about women. “Do this so women will find you attractive, women don’t like when men do X”. Also a lot of self improvement for women is empowering, uplifting women and saying they deserve the best and to love themselves. With men, they’re told they need to do X or they’re unlovable and not a real man…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/09/24 09:03 AM
1

It’s built for the people with power. Many of whom happen to be men but those men don’t see themselves on the same level as average men. To them, we are sub human and less than women
/r/MensRights19/09/24 06:48 PM
2

They can be afraid and angry all they won’t. I don’t feel pity or sympathy for misandrists. Choose the bear, I don’t care. All that shows me is that you hate men and helps me to avoid you
/r/MensRights19/09/24 06:46 PM
1

Women do the exact same thing and say stuff like this to just dismiss the problem and absolve themselves of responsibility which in turn shows that they don’t care. Women have a lot of social influence that they don’t want to admit to
/r/MensRights19/09/24 06:39 PM
15

I hate it so much. The “feminine energy” is just sitting there and looking pretty while being spoiled by men and men are expected to serve and sacrifice for women. It’s just rebranded gender roles but way worse for men. They try to shame men to be a certain way and say women won’t like them if they’re not a certain way but men shouldn’t care about the female gaze or what women want.
/r/MensRights19/09/24 06:35 PM
3

With the whole debate about if women should be able to go shirtless, they say that female chests and male chests are the same so wouldn’t it make sense to compare a “willy” to a vagina instead of tits?
/r/MensRights16/09/24 06:58 AM
12

The reason I don’t embrace masculinity is because I don’t really know how I would define it and once I do define it then it puts it into a box which I wouldn’t fit in. I don’t like that a lot of masculinity is about benefiting and providing for others and men get shamed for not doing that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates13/09/24 01:49 PM
3

I think much more bisexual men exist than we think. Comphet is a thing for men just as much as it is for women and many people have this idea that being a man attracted to men makes you less of a man which makes men less willing to explore any interest in other men
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates11/09/24 07:36 PM
12

I mean a guy who might have a softer appearance or paint his nails but still conforms to traditional male gender roles in his personality
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 02:51 PM
4

Yeah I grew up around women so maybe that’s why a lot of my personality traits are quite feminine. They will be ok with a feminine straight man as long as he still has a masculine personality
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 02:06 PM
58

People don’t like men that don’t fit into their strict boxes. Conservatives are quite clear on that but many progressives will pretend to accept feminine men but they don’t. Often times it’s not even “feminine men” but just men who aren’t typically masculine. I honestly love “sassy” men because they’re not afraid to stand up for themselves and have boundaries.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates10/09/24 01:55 PM
2

The only time I would do that is if they’re talking about rape/SA in general and purposefully exclude male victims. If anything doesn’t that show that I do care about the victims if I’m trying to include them in the conversation?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/09/24 03:07 PM
8

A lot of femme fatale tropes involve SA against men and manipulating them yet those characters are not seen as bad but empowering
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates05/09/24 09:22 AM
2

Men don’t owe you anything💅 Where were the women?
/r/MensRights05/09/24 09:18 AM
1

Yet they don’t care about education in the west and boys falling behind due to bias
/r/MensRights05/09/24 09:17 AM
1

They hate men that don’t fit into what they want. Men to them need to be successful providers with a partner, preferably a woman.
/r/MensRights02/09/24 02:54 PM
5

These people just hate men. Simple as that
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 02:50 PM
3

The thing that is more important to be talking about is that men should call out SA when it happens to them by women. Not to put all responsibility on men because it’s hard to call it out when you’re told you should want it but we need to start women who feel entitled to touch men without consent
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates02/09/24 06:20 AM
20

Men can’t express emotion without being seen as bad people
/r/MensRights30/08/24 09:36 PM
2

Thank you for this
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 09:10 PM
4

I honestly can’t think of any privilege men have over women in my country
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 09:09 PM
7

My mum works at a primary school with students about 6-8 years old and mentioned that the boys were all talking about rizz, mewing and looksmaxxing which is honestly so sad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates26/08/24 08:35 PM
4

Violence against women is rare but they still only focus on that. Men who buy sex benefit those women who choose and societies that legalise prostitution have less rapes. Not all men can get easy access to sex but sex is very important
/r/MensRights26/08/24 08:24 PM
27

Just evil
/r/MensRights26/08/24 08:12 PM
6

Exactly! Why are these people so quick to dismiss this instead of talking about the issue of men being raped? Crazy. A lot of ppl here don’t care about men’s issues really
/r/MensRights26/08/24 08:12 PM
6

The thing is, the right don’t care about men but they pretend to. The left in principle cares about men but many left wingers are misandrist
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates25/08/24 06:35 PM
23

I hate that so much of “being a man” is based on what other people think of you
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/24 07:22 PM
3

We could try and create one. I think it would help
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/24 06:05 PM
4

Well it’s more of a mindset that many girls have. A lot of them go to point of having an us vs them mindset but as long as we don’t do that it would be good. It just means empowering men and boys, helping them, complimenting them, etc
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/24 05:59 PM
2

Maybe a social movement like “girls support girls” but with men?
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates21/08/24 03:27 PM
3

I’m starting university soon so I’m excited and nervous. Recently I’ve been feeling insecure that I act quite “gay”for a straight man even though there’s nothing wrong with that, it’s just that many people make fun or many women aren’t attracted to that. But I’m not going to change who I am for other people
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/08/24 03:29 PM
5

What happens at the prevent programme? How will it be dealt with? Because telling men they’re wrong and that they’re the problem and women are harmless victims will make things worse for them.
/r/MensRights18/08/24 01:02 PM
4

Disgusting
/r/MensRights16/08/24 05:19 PM
7

So many more men are murdered than women that it can’t just be a coincidence. People are more empathetic to women and more willing to help them
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates16/08/24 04:08 PM
3

Why is it only ever about female victims? They never want to mention male victims
/r/MensRights15/08/24 10:16 AM
7

Men don’t owe women shit. I also am not interested in female validation and I know I’m not the one doing violence. The men committing violence do not care about how the victims feel.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 10:16 AM
-1

I am seeing the far right doing that but regardless, misandry is never justified
/r/MensRights09/08/24 06:28 AM
1

We will have to make them care. But yes I agree that we need solidarity among all men
/r/MensRights09/08/24 06:26 AM
1

And just because men may generally be more suited to that, doesn’t mean they should be like that
/r/MensRights08/08/24 06:20 PM
1

This is a generalisation
/r/MensRights08/08/24 06:18 PM
1

What are women supposed to do? Do they by chance get the easier, more privileged role?
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:56 PM
-8

But that’s very little of them anyway that do that
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:55 PM
1

No, what is that?
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:54 PM
3

Men aren’t supposed to do anything just because of their gender
/r/MensRights08/08/24 05:54 PM
2

Gross. Even in prison, a man who kills a woman is not respected but one who kills a man is
/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:28 PM
1

Same with the riots in the uk at the moment…. It’s mostly men of colour being targeted
/r/MensRights08/08/24 03:19 PM
3

I think feminism needs to stop pretending to care about men. Feminism isn’t about men or for men and that’s its flaw but we do need empathy for working class men, and men in general
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 10:35 AM
6

I think feminism needs to stop pretending to care about men. Feminism isn’t about men or for men and that’s its flaw but we do need empathy for working class men, and men in general
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 10:35 AM
2

I think feminism needs to stop pretending to care about men. Feminism isn’t about men or for men and that’s its flaw but we do need empathy for working class men, and men in general
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/08/24 10:35 AM
8

Can they please stop pretending to care about men? They are actively hurting men and boys
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates30/07/24 03:39 PM
1

The problem is also the intent and entitlement and lack of respect for men’s bodies. To me, it doesn’t always matter if she doesn’t physically harm him, she is still just as bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/24 06:01 PM
3

The problem is, things can be interpreted in many ways. Many women may feel they can hit men because they’re weaker but the intent and entitlement that they can just do that is still there and maybe that sense of entitlement comes from the fact that many women are prioritised over men, not just that women are weaker
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates23/07/24 05:59 PM
5

I do sometimes have sympathy for criminals (depending on specific circumstances) but yeah it’s definitely true that people will have no sympathy if the victim is a woman. In prison, killing men can get you respect from other prisoners but if you kill a woman you are at the bottom of the chain. Similar when a woman (especially a white woman) gets murdered, people will say we need to “protect our women” but those people will say nothing about the hundreds of murdered young men and boys
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/07/24 06:35 PM
1

They don’t care when young black men and boys are killed
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 07:58 AM
3

The defensive comic is bad because the man at the end has every right to feel how he does. Men don’t deserve to be treated like animals that are all bad
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates14/07/24 07:56 AM
21

I think this is also about racism. This idea that the bunny has effects men so much, and has a particularly strong effect against men of colour
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 07:58 PM
7

It would make sense for a bunny who has no rationality the way people do
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates09/01/24 07:57 PM
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