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Mine went the other way. Conservative and traditional, to pro choice and she says now extremely liberal. New "friends" and she now listens to weird viking music (that just sucks) and she told me how I feel about everything is now wrong. I miss my old wife
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 02:07 AM
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Ouch
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 08:05 PM
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Lol
/r/Divorce_Men16/10/25 12:53 PM
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It'd be my luck I die in a hotel room with postage stamps on my schlong and everyone would know me as a creep lol
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 10:35 PM
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Hang in there. They get shorter in duration
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 10:24 PM
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Man I would love to get your newsletter. Seriously though congratulations dude sounds like you have reached the point we're all trying to Good luck on your next adventure
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 10:14 PM
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Man that really sucks. I hope things are getting better for you soon
/r/Divorce_Men14/10/25 05:00 AM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 07:53 AM
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I agree. She emailed me and I lost my cool almost immediately
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 07:52 AM
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I'm trying
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 07:52 AM
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I am glad you said no and sounds like you got married good for you
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 07:51 AM
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Thanks man
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 07:50 AM
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Thanks man I am going to try to get to the brick wall stage
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 03:20 AM
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I mistook all the drama of the women in her family as passion. It was all drama. Bonus - I didn't get a proper understanding of health history. Her grandmother, her mother, and now her all had their thyroids stop working in their middle age. It's partly genetic, and partly the over usage of OTC medications. They also had problems with their reproductive organs, which came out in mine as full blown endometriosis and Hashimoto's. She left in part because I wanted kids and she could t and then went…
/r/Divorce_Men10/10/25 02:43 AM
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I went to that site and saw that you paid money to find this out. Use this as your break from her, it's not going to do you any good to follow her on social media etc. Just hurts your healing process
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/25 08:22 PM
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Whoever you marry has to forgive. In the last fight of my marriage my wife was bringing up stuff that was 13 years old that I could barely remember and for sure thought we had buried. Nope. I should have been much more assertive with her on behaviors that I wouldn't tolerate. I allowed myself to get sideline because she was going through multiple crises, and I assumed that she would eventually get it sorted. I should have just told her I was going to help her and taken her to a therapist or sat …
/r/Divorce_Men08/10/25 06:42 PM
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Maybe it's my bias speaking, but I feel like men have no problem owning up to failures. Maybe women feel that way too, I don't see it here as much. I think the biggest thing is that the woman decides a lot earlier to leave and when the man finds out he is at the beginning of the grieving process whereas she is at the end. So the gulf between them seems a lot wider than it probably was in reality. At least that's what I've come to believe
/r/Divorce_Men07/10/25 04:44 PM
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She left in June, Divorced Aug 14th. I cried hard tonight out of the blue about for the first time in months. Grief isn't linear. Also something I just heard that really resonated, just because you and her are separating at the same time doesn't mean she's on the same grief timeline that you are. In my situation she checked out months if not years ago so she was well into acceptance mode before I even understood what was happening. It also explains why she can be so detached and moved on, she's …
/r/Divorce_Men05/10/25 05:06 AM
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So I 100% am in the same boat as you but just not as long of a time frame, just two partners ever as well. My advice would be just plan to have fun. I've messed around with my girlfriend now a few times and no ED but I just can't finish. It's not from lack of her trying, I just can't seem to get past the mental block I have right now. I got pretty frustrated the first couple times, but she made me at ease and told me she understood. since I was married for so long I was able to get her there in …
/r/Divorce_Men03/10/25 04:59 AM
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Same man. I had a 13-year friendship with a guy in Poland and his family my ex and I met together on vacation. We befriended them and for years we've exchanged gifts, sent each other fun things, traded pictures and stories, he even refinished a car that I had shipped over. I literally have watched his children grow up and they know who I am and were excited to meet me someday. I told him about her walking out on me and he didn't respond. We talk in email through Google translate so I thought may…
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 06:15 AM
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Tattoos on women are just red flags on top of red flags.
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 03:57 AM
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You are totally justified to feel how you do. But you have three kids who need you, don't do anything rash my man..
/r/Divorce_Men02/10/25 03:54 AM
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Twenty five years ago, I had a girlfriend in college from another country. We were engaged and together for close to 5 years before she had to go back and take care of her mom who had come down with something like MS. It was gut wrenching but she let me go knowing that that was best for everyone. And it was. But I really loved her and just knew my life was over. After about a year I met my ex-wife. We were together for a few years when out of the blue my college ex emailed me basically saying sh…
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 07:50 PM
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Oh you're right. I'm having a final sale this weekend of our last bit of stuff so I'm just being sentimental I think. Partly it's hoping we can continue to be amicable as well. She has my dog who I would love to see again some day in a perfect world. She is never going to come back and I am doing okay with that. I'm sending these emails for me to end this on my terms in some capacity, despite my brain knowing it's just a trick lol
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 05:53 PM
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Hey man two wrongs don't make a right. Sounds like you have owned up to your mistake and if nothing else I'll bet you don't get in this situation again. Good luck to you man hang in there it gets better
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 04:37 PM
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She is absolutely using your love for your children as a weapon against you. She should leave the house if she doesn't want to be there. A person who loves you does not do to you what she is right now friend. Also you're trying to hold on financially and she has an inheritance that's "hers" and doesn't help?! What a slap in the face to your entire family too. Basically she has gone into business for herself financially off of the assets of your labor, you just don't see that yet. I get it man I …
/r/Divorce_Men01/10/25 03:49 PM
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Hang in there man It gets better. It really does
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 11:50 PM
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I used to wonder how people would freak out and do terrible things to their families and themselves. Dateline kind of story stuff. Now having gone through a divorce, I'm amazed that more don't. It's a reflection on the quality of most men that these things don't happen more often.
/r/Divorce_Men05/09/25 11:45 PM
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