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I've done the whole no fap thing twice (90 days), and for me, I didn't notice any huge benefit or difference from having done it. I'm not gonna shit on nofap, some people swear by it, and if it works for you then that's sweet. For me, I just didn't vibe with it. There is a little benefit you get in being a bit more aggressive after a week or so, but that quickly tapers off and it's not a huge difference IMO - I'd still be more confident after a few beers than I would from 2 weeks+ of no fap.
/r/askTRP22/08/20 04:37 PM
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Organize something and invite people along. "Hey, I'm going to the golf range friday, wanna tag along?" If they decline, no biggie, you were going alone anyway. Not everyone likes everything so you gotta take that into consideration. Maybe they'll decline going to the golf course, but accept going out for drinks - you gotta see what works.
/r/askTRP12/08/20 11:27 AM
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There's indifference and there's flat out non interest. Indifference should be used as part of your game in a push/pull style. You're using indifference and withdrawal to build sexual tension in a "does he, doesn't he" way that makes the hamster go wild. Just being indifferent is strictly platonic - it doesn't build any sexual tension. You can't talk to a girl the same way you'd talk to a coworker and expect to build sexual tension.
/r/askTRP05/08/20 02:21 PM
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Am I crazy, or has the conversation changed from "how can men get casual sex for minimal commitment", and has shifted to "how to make women commit early and stop having so much casual sex"? That's because we had a huge influx of bluepill/incel/blackpill types into the TRP boards. Most of them haven't swallowed the pill at all, are still heavily influenced by bluepill ideas, and can't be bothered to do the hard work. Basically the people who get stuck on Stage 1 of the incel to TRP journey. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/20 12:57 PM
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As much as people shit on analyzing behavioral patterns and generalizing people - I find that more often than not, they turn out to be correct. It's like AWALT. Sure, there are some exceptions to the rule, but more often than not it turns out to be true. Prime example from the other week is a guy I know. He gets a total oneitis over this chick, trying to get with her. He comes to me for advice. He lays down the whole story, and I basically told him - AWALT, she's not interested, it's not gonna e…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/20 05:23 PM
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Obviously the best thing is to be both big and lean. It's upto you how you go about doing it. You can bulk a little harder and build muscle quicker, but the higher your bodyfat goes the less interest you will get. You can bulk slower, remain lean and get more interest, but it will take longer to build muscle. This assumes a reasonable amount of muscle, being a skinny DYEL won't yield results. A lean guy who is smaller will win out over a big dude who is 15%+ bf almost every time. What I did was …
/r/askTRP31/07/20 12:10 PM
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Yeah, it pretty much boils down to actions over words and embodying your values. The problem is I can't give you any real actionable advice rather than just practice what you preach. Don't be giving off info/vibes that's going to make me as a man think something here is incongruent. Example: She says she's not that type of girl BUT... - She's on Tinder. She's constantly posting pictures of herself on instagram. She's got multiple guys hitting up her phone. That sort of thing. It's hard to give a…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 12:50 AM
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The majority of girls you meet will be into, or at least open to, casual sex. It sounds to me like you are looking for a unicorn - a woman who is both attractive, and has traditional values. Sorry to burst your bubble, but they are so rare they might as well not exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/20 03:24 PM
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Who cares? Assume attraction, approach and find out.
/r/askTRP27/07/20 03:14 PM
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Is what it is. I don't see it as too different from the thirsty betas who'll blow hundreds in a night at the strip club.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 04:45 PM
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No. This is the new normal. You have to remember that traditionalism was an unnatural distortion of the market. The market has now been deregulated and market forces now reign supreme. Competition will naturally select for the best genes and remove the rest from the gene pool. The advent of OLD allowing people to meet even more potential partners, actually makes the market more efficient because there is more competition. Any talk of VR porn, sex robots and the like is nonsense. If you opt out o…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 02:05 PM
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If you're a good looking 25 year old - good physique, good skin, good hair etc. - then you can quite easily attract women all the way from 18 - 30. If you're not so good looking - bad skin, wrinkles, receding hairline etc. - then you might only be able to get women in the late 20s to early 30s range. The biggest problem for most guys, as Trp2727272 says, is actually meeting women in that age range. You have to make it part of your lifestyle to meet women in that age range. Through Tinder and OLD…
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:54 PM
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Really it comes down to how old you look and your SMV. If you look young and youthful, you can fuck younger women for a lot longer than if you look older. If your SMV is high, then they will sometimes look over the fact that you're a bit older. But, if you look old (old skin, wrinkles, receding hairline etc.) or your SMV is lower, then they won't be interested.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:40 PM
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It would certainly be something I'd take cautiously. Also depends. If you weren't ONS worthy, I.e. you had to wait for sex, then I'd keep that as just a plate.
/r/askTRP24/07/20 12:20 PM
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OLD is a pretty poor indicator, for multiple reasons. Photos make a huge difference. You can have good or bad photos. Some people have really great photos of themselves (catfish) and get more matches then they're actually worth. Some people have really bad photos, and get less matches than they should. There's also a big difference in the type of photos. If you have photos of you in 3 piece suits and out at fancy dinners, you'll get less matches than shirtless in front of a BMW. It's pretty well…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:41 AM
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Honestly, what I went through could only be described as pure, unadulterated rage. I began reading "The Game" by Neil Strauss, which took me down the rabbit hole of the PUA community and which eventually lead me to TRP some years later. It was that anger and contempt which I, rightly or wrongly, channeled towards women that lead to the formation of me as a total asshole. I busted my ass in the gym and in brazillian jiu jitsu. Week after week, month after month, year after year. Until I reached a…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/20 01:10 AM
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Honestly, it all comes down to social game imo and the first month is key. From the second you step foot on that campus for the first time, your social game has to be on point. You want to be meeting and chatting to as many people as possible and getting yourself established front and center of the social scene. You want to be organizing parties and meetups. You want to be crossing over friendgroups - introducing high value guys to high value girls and vice versa. You want to be joining clubs an…
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:17 PM
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What were the "Bluepill fantasies" you believed in I was brought up to believe that if you're nice, respectful, and "do the right things" then the right woman would find you and instantly be enamored. That women don't like the bad boys, they like the nice guy. By being respectful, taking things slow and really getting to know a girl I would win out in the end. ​ what broke you out of it ? Reality. I went through all of that as a teenager and I was practically a pariah. No girls wanted anything t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 07:57 PM
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That is essentially the key difference between men and women. For women, sex can be very emotional and vulnerable. There has to be attraction, trust and security. For men, sex is just an enjoyable thing - like eating a good cheeseburger or riding a rollercoaster. It's fun and you want to do it as many times as possible. That is the key difference you have to understand. Women are motivated by emotion. Men are not. Men are motivated by enjoyment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 02:44 PM
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What you have to understand about men is that LTRs/Relationships aren't something we particularly care about. Companionship, loyalty etc. We can quite happily get from friends and family. Sex is the primary motivator for us. With that in mind, why would a man want to take on all the responsibilities and work that a relationship entails and give up his ability to have sex with other women? The answer of course depends on what you're offering. If all you bring to the table is sex and maybe you're …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/20 01:24 AM
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Lasts about 4 - 6 weeks while your natural test levels recover
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:56 PM
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To a degree. I feel like a lot of what people say is mostly overblown, I don't get a huge crash like some people do. That being said, you definitely notice it. You become weaker, you become smaller. You've got less aggression/motivation to workout and grind reps in the gym. You get tired quicker. Your appetite drops. Libido drops. You go from juiced up superman who can take on the world, back to your normal old self. It's not terrible, but I can see how for some people it can really affect them …
/r/askTRP20/07/20 06:20 PM
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At this stage, you just need to build muscle all over, don't worry too much about the finer details. But exercise wise, focus on doing (preferably weighted) pull ups, chin ups, dips and barbell rows.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:46 PM
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Yes. You can hop on cycle, gain a bunch of muscle and then come off keeping most of what you gain, providing diet, training and post cycle therapy are in order. I came off cycle in February and I've kept almost all of my gains and shredded down during lockdown just by keeping consistent with diet and workouts.
/r/askTRP20/07/20 04:39 PM
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I don't know what people expect? Dating isn't serious anymore, because it doesn't have to be. The vast majority of people out there don't want or need to date for any serious reason. They just want sex, and that is why the dating market is just a glorified sex buffet. It's only really the people who are getting phased out of the dating market (or struggling to compete to begin with), who are actually trying to take it seriously. The old world cultural and societal forces that made people pair up…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/20 01:39 PM
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Just don't give a fuck. If you answer seriously, you're in her frame. I'd just piss about, be like what is your name or something. If the attraction is there, the attractions is there and it won't matter. I once got posed a similar question where some girl asked me to say her name. I'd been talking to the girl for about an hour and had no clue what her name actually was (she had told me multiple times). I just sort of joked around, she got a bit butthurt that I didn't know and I gave zero fucks.…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 07:16 PM
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Getting good pictures is tricky, but worth the effort. First, get to know your camera. Every camera lens has a different distance where the photo looks good. Too close or too far away and your proportions will be distorted and you'll look bad. The trick is to find the sweet spot - the perfect distance from the camera. You can do this by setting up the camera and standing directly infront of it, take a picture. Take a step back, take another picture. Take a step back, take another picture. Repeat…
/r/askTRP16/07/20 05:54 PM
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The main problem I have with the sidebar is it's not newbie friendly. It really should be organised more like a book - introduction, step 1, step 2 etc. Rather than just a hodgepodge mix of random posts.
/r/askTRP16/07/20 02:51 PM
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This book was posted on the main TRP sub a few months ago, give it a read.
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:37 PM
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Just hang around with them and eventually it will all begin to rub off. To start with you're gonna be quite shy and anxious around them, which is somewhat normal. You don't know them all that well, they're loud etc. The first step is to just become comfortable around them. The second step is to get used to shit tests very quickly. Male groups, especially masculine/alpha groups will throw around shit tests and banter all the fucking time. So you better practice your wit. The second you step into …
/r/askTRP14/07/20 01:32 PM
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Obviously I’d look & feel extremely immature participating in those events at this age, but am having huge regret. Lolwut? You're 26 dude... Age is a mindset, and honestly, it sounds like you've bought into the idea of being "old". Keep it up and you'll be one of those dudes who's 40, sits there and does nothing because he's "too old". I know guys who are 80+ who go rock climbing, fly planes, and will drink people a quarter of their age under the table at a party. They don't let "being old" hold…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:44 PM
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That's a pretty interesting take on the matter. What sort of things do you think could be giving off that vibe?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 08:20 PM
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Mostly meeting through social circles at the moment. Normally I would do some cold approaches at bars, out shopping etc, but with the current situation re Covid-19 that's a bit difficult. Don't use Tinder or any online dating. Financially I'm doing quite well. I've always been quite good with money/saving/investing so I have a decent amount of money for my age (24) and a good amount of disposable income. Drive a nice car, wear designer label clothes, nice watches etc. I work at a supermarket, so…
/r/askTRP13/07/20 04:43 PM
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Thankfully I've got a physical copy of the book of pook, I'll give it a re-read through tonight
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:43 PM
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Also if you understood preselection you would take the best of the lower ones ( not just looks but status, friends, etc) and parlay that to help with better ones. Alright, so you mean basically friendzone the lower SMV chicks and then use them as a springboard to game higher SMV chicks they might know?
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:28 PM
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Yeah, to be fair my game does suck completely. I'll have to get working on that.
/r/askTRP13/07/20 03:16 PM
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You can't fake social proof, you either have it or you don't. The power of social proof is that people actually know you. They approach you to have a chat in the street, they invite you out to events and gatherings, you walk in a room and everyone already knows you. That's not something you can fake. The only way to get social proof is to actually go out and build it from scratch.
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:59 PM
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Yeah sometimes you get girls like this, and honestly, it's just not worth the effort. If she's genuinely shy/prude, she's probably carrying a metric ton of emotional and/or psychological baggage. She's self conscious, she's this, she's that. She's needs to get to know you before you go further. Which just ends up with you going on dates and listening to her problems for months on end before she's finally comfortable enough to give you some. Honestly pal, it's not fucking worth it. They're always…
/r/askTRP08/07/20 03:47 PM
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That's exactly it. You also wanna add in tiny details that most people would leave out, and over exaggerate some details for comedic effect or just to add suspense. Always describe sounds, smells, visuals, the atmosphere etc. vividly. Make the person listening feel like they're actually there. Change up your vocal tone, add pauses to build suspense, raise and lower your voice accordingly. And most importantly of all, tell the story with passion.
/r/askTRP06/07/20 03:05 PM
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Yeah, I've had it happen a few times. It's a nice ego boost, but beyond that I wouldn't say it's anything exciting. Unfortunately the women who chase you are very rarely the sort of women you'd want to be chased by.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/20 03:06 PM
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I'm going to both agree and disagree. Yes, as a general rule individual men aren't as thirsy as they are made out to be by TRP. Most men I've met in my life have some sort of standard they won't drop below, even if that line can get a bit blurry when they're drunk. That being said though, there certainly are men out there who will fuck anything with a pulse - I've known quite a few of them. When it comes to women, your average woman isn't fighting men off with a stick. Even the best looking girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/20 12:06 AM
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There's a rule we used to have on the internet: Don't feed the trolls. Attention is their currency, they feed off of it. The more attention you give them, the more powerful they become over you. These people go out with the sole intention of provoking a reaction, for their own personal amusement. The more worked up and angry you become, the funnier it is. You have to understand, you can't ever win against a troll. It's a game you cannot win because there is no end. You in your head are playing a…
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:33 PM
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This reeks of oneitis so bad. You've got oneitis hard, and you've already been put in the billy beta provider category. The damage has already been done at this point.
/r/askTRP01/07/20 02:21 PM
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