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Out of curiosity from the men here, what if its a widow? I've always been kind of curious if it's... Simply that they don't want to deal with other men's kids. Being divorced is, in itself, a red flag. And men assume she makes a bad partner. If mens protective instinct kicks in at all due to tragedy.
/r/MensRights28/07/26 12:49 AM
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The loneliness epidemic doesn't really apply to married people. It usually refers to incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 10:34 PM
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the first book it's not yet revealed that Rhys is heroic Yes it is just not to feyre. The readers can read between the lines. Rhysand teaches men to break the rules for someone they care about, to give them choice and autonomy over control and ownership. Which was your original complaint btw. I don't see these men learning that on pornhub
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:28 PM
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The first book ends with a very sad ending where readers see the real hero selflessly leave.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:16 PM
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That's why tamlin was painted as a failure... Tamlin is telling readers what not to be. He was too weak and it put her in danger. Rhys breaks the rules consequences be damned.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 02:01 PM
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Ironically tamlin the kidnapper ends up being the bad guy
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:45 PM
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Im not really sure what you mean by non sexual flirting. Most flirting is sexual somehow it's just not all vulgar and boring
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:41 PM
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First off, women orgasm in more ways than men do, in more places than men do, depending on how you're having sex, it feels different. Like not to be graphic but a clitoral orgasm feels very different than a core orgasm (there are several different core orgasms) which feels very different from a squirting orgasm, and there's p spot orgasms too. Some women can orgasm without even touching their lady parts. Most women I know need to orgasm more than one way to actually feel satiated after sex. Even…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:33 PM
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she’s attracted to me and I make her orgasm Oh honey no. Making a woman orgasm is like the absolute baseline. Do women need to be good at sex? I don't think it's as necessary but it depends on the guy. If the guy likes dominant women then yes. But also, I mean the virgin kink is definitely a guy thing more than a girl thing and they obviously have no experience. Much of the woman's "value" is how their body naturally responds, how they sound, how they feel. It's not something women have a lot of…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:15 PM
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I think it ends up in those first scenes in porn because it looks easy and men want easy women. And porn is geared towards men. Can't said I've ever read a romance where the opening line is "what are you wearing"
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:12 PM
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I think it's miles better than what they're watching already.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:09 PM
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The only flirting you see in porn looks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:04 PM
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Porn is overwhelmingly geared to how men want to have sex because men are the primary readers. Unfortunately how men want sex is often not at all like how women want sex. Romance is geared towards women because they are the primary readers. Of course you can learn how to please a woman by having a ton of sex. But that takes most men a decade of having a consistent sex partner to actually get good at it which is why most women don't want inexperienced men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 01:02 PM
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What movies do you watch?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:55 PM
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Better pickup lines Understanding what parts of yourself women find attractive. Learning how women like to have sex because we are very complicated and that can't be learned by watching a woman trying to look sexy in a porno. I haven't read 50 shades.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:54 PM
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Who the fuck is trying to flirt like in pornos Literally every guy on every dating app. All my friends complain about it. Like "what're you wearing?" "You wanna come over and have a good time?" 🙄 Ironically enemies to lovers is very popular.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:45 PM
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Most are either my brothers, cousins or husband's friends. One of them is my childhood friend. Or they are DND friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:42 PM
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It's a better use of time than pornhub which just teaches men to degrade women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:33 PM
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I think it depends a bit. Sure if every man went and started trying to emulate Rhysand it would be awkward. But there are MMCs in every color. Find one that reminds you of yourself
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:31 PM
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Yes. At least some of the spicy ones. When is part of why they help with picking up women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:28 PM
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"I thought poetry was the food of love" "Of a fine stout love it may. But it only a vague inclination, I'm afraid one poor sonnet will kill it stone dead."
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/26 12:20 PM
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So what you think male suicide is a non issue? ....and men commit more suicide
/r/MensRights09/03/25 06:04 PM
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One thing to keep in mind is a lot of times boys will use their partners as an excuse to get out of things they don't want to do
/r/MensRights22/10/24 05:50 PM
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Thanks
/r/MensRights22/10/24 04:41 PM
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Can you link those studies? by study after strudy that proved this idea is one-part bullshit (men display negative own-group bias when it comes to sex, i.e. all things being equal would rather side with women than with other men), one part confession by projection (women do display strong in-group bias, i.e. all things being equal they would rather side with other women than with men).
/r/MensRights22/10/24 04:25 PM
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So>Again, I am talking about weirdo woke Muslim women in the West like Ilhan Omar and Linda Sarsour. NOT older, more conservative first-generation Muslim women who immigrated later in life, or Muslim women in traditional Islamic communities back home or perhaps in some very isolated enclaves in Western countries I had a roommate who was from Dubai. She's currently 30 But when I knew her she was 19. She had immigrated from Dubai for school in the United States. My roommate did not wear a hijab, b…
/r/MensRights10/07/24 07:03 PM
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Eh, some Muslim women are definitely doing it to prove a point. Now that point might not ONLY be taunting men, there's also the desire to signal cultural loyalties and a need and desire to be different in some way from mainstream But it's clearly not a simple act of religious piety either. If it were, I'd have a lot less of an issue with it tbh. Would you say the same thing about Christian nuns living in the US? Assimilationist pressures I don't think It's reasonable to expect people to convert …
/r/MensRights10/07/24 06:07 PM
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There are traditional Muslim families in the United States but the only real difference is that the hijab is more of a requirement than a choice. Traditional Muslims issues with Western Muslims, at least in reference to hijab, is that some of them choose not to wear it and that society is permissive of it. To be frank it's not far off to say that the Quran defines the veil as a requirement. Seeing it as a choice is a very modern interpretation. But that doesn't mean that the women here that choo…
/r/MensRights10/07/24 05:23 PM
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That's fuckin stupid. Most women in the US wear hijab as a sign of dedication to their religion. It's somewhere between a Christian wearing a cross and becoming a nun and is seen as a huge commitment and sacrifice. I don't think you understand how big of a role Islam plays in Muslims lives. It's not like Christianity where for most, it's just a thing you do on Sundays. Their religion is engrained in every aspect of their lives from the way they dress to the cutlery they eat with. Maybe don't mak…
/r/MensRights10/07/24 05:04 PM
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It's because it's objective proof that they weren't Hamas militants, who are almost always men.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 04:54 PM
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Anti dowry laws in India are nuts "Whoever, being the husband or the relative of the husband of a woman, subjects such woman to cruelty shall be punished with imprisonment for a term which may extend to three years and shall also be liable to fine. For the purposes of this section, "cruelty" means: (a) any wilful conduct which is of such a nature as is likely to drive the woman to commit suicide or to cause grave injury or danger to life, limb or health (whether mental or physical) of the woman;…
/r/MensRights03/07/24 11:18 PM
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True, but why go if you even are not allowed to say anything when you ask to say something? To show the judge that you care about your son enough to show up at court. Those judges see dozens of cases everyday. It's all the same horse and pony show to them. They see Dad not showing up to a custody hearing, they're going to assume he does not care. And I bet her lawyers pointed that out
/r/MensRights25/06/24 08:45 PM
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I'ma guess you forfeited it when you didn't show up to custody court. A judge will see that as you plain not caring.
/r/MensRights25/06/24 06:39 PM
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I'm a woman. In this case, you don't need to worry about invalidating her feelings. "I'm upset that you did this", "I'm feeling ignored" - examples of feelings you shouldn't invalidate. "You cheated on me", "you want to kill me" -are not feelings (assuming they are not true). These are false accusations. In debate we call this a straw man argument. Your debate opponent will pull up an easier point to debate that you never made "assume your views" and then challenge those assumed views so they ca…
/r/MensRights18/06/24 07:40 PM
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I used to live in a college area and I had 2 female roommates. Both were Asian students with VERY conservative families from asia. There was just no way. They would have flipped out and I don't think they would have felt comfortable with a man they didn't know. They didn't feel comfortable with my boyfriend and they knew him pretty well and liked him.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 12:10 AM
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Most female only listings are young female roommate sets
/r/MensRights12/06/24 12:06 AM
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Women want female roommates because they don't want to be walking around in a towel around men they don't know.
/r/MensRights12/06/24 12:01 AM
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Why should I improve myself Because you'll be happier. You think those abusive assholes are happy? Guess again. Those other people you listed or really know better than people who get prostitutes. My husband's advice, which I think is good advice, is to start approaching women without the intention of dating them. Try to make female friends and NOT with women you want to date. You need to learn how to talk to women before you can learn to date women.
/r/MensRights11/06/24 02:22 PM
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Men are expected to approach women and ask them out on a date.. That culture exists because men have higher libidos. Cultures develop largely in response to nature. Also this isn't even just our species that does this. There's very few species where the female will approach or court the male at all, and humans are one of them. date doesn't have to be sexually motivated.. It doesn't have to be, but men are usually looking for sex. They are also looking for emotional support. And they know that on…
/r/MensRights09/06/24 11:27 PM
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Getting pissed off when rejected is NOT exclusively something that men do.. Sure that's totally fair. Women do it too. But also, it tends to be men facing this dilemma because men are more likely to initiate. Also, there's still this notion that it is up to men to make the first move and to understand all her subtle body language, handle things maturely and move on.. Women are not expected to make the first move at all.. If we want a more equal society then women should start initiating more to …
/r/MensRights09/06/24 09:07 PM
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We think that when men get pissed off when they are rejected. Or if they start insulting or demeaning a woman after getting rejected. Just because I don't want to date you doesn't mean I think you're a pathetic person or wish the worst for you. I have lots of guy friends that I think are great people but would never date in a million years. But I'm also married so if be pretty pissed if you knew that and asked me anyways.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 05:21 PM
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No. Id support making it so that if a dad asks for a paternity test, especially if it's to establish child support, that it be mandatory as part of a civil suit. But the government shouldn't have any sort of DNA database or be able to forcibly catalog it's citizens like that.
/r/MensRights09/06/24 02:11 AM
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Sometimes parents chose not to collect child support. But that doesn't mean that there's not going to be a legal backing for them if they want it
/r/MensRights05/06/24 02:42 PM
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Except you both had the sex so it's both your responsibility.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 09:25 PM
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Yes, hence the co-driving
/r/MensRights04/06/24 04:46 PM
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Now imagine if your co-driving a car, but avoiding the damage meant killing a person
/r/MensRights04/06/24 04:38 PM
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If I were to my car through your house, do you think that I should be required to pay for the damages?
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:37 PM
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No, I don't think so. For the same reason that you can't walk away from a lawsuit. When you cause somebody financial damages because of your actions, you have to pay for it. If I were to run a truck through your house I'd have to pay for that too.
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:36 PM
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Because the law isn't giving women the right to abortion so that they can financially avoid children. They are giving them the right to abortion so that they have autonomy over their body. It would be like if we said that men were required by law to donate a kidney or part of their liver whenever their children needed it. We don't require that. So why would we require something similar of women?
/r/MensRights04/06/24 02:42 AM
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This is just saying this is what men enjoy and want And I think with the male romantic partner tropes that dominate chick flicks, women are saying what they want. But women are also competing for that partner against other women. Cool, then find yourself a military man who isn't alcoholic or addicted and you've got your alcohol and drug-free disciplined man. It's not that hard to screen for alcoholism and addiction. They can always develop that later. Not really because her money is her money, a…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 03:16 AM
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I don't think female competition comes from men. Female competition comes from other women, and trying to catch the eye of the man they want and not having him go to other women. After all it is women who by and large pick and choose the men who present themselves to women, it's not women who go out and get picked or rejected by men. I think you could argue that to a degree, both male and female competition comes from the same sex. Men are trying to compete in careers against each other and they…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/23 04:11 PM
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I agree that male competition comes from women, and female competition is due to men. Career is a quick and easy way to do it, but it's also inaccurate and mildly inefficient. Why do you think it's innacurate? I don't know very many engineers that aren't disciplined. Simply managing the degree takes a lot of self-discipline. agree we hold both genders to different standards but the current sentiment in society is that men ain't shit, women are entitled to ask whatever they want from men and dese…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/23 08:29 PM
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I think that male competition revolves largely around financial success and female competition revolves largely around beauty. I don't think those are the only things, but those are probably the most significant. Women gauge how responsible men are based on how successful they are in their career. They also gauge men based on the life they can provide. Their ability to fund a family. For men they care more about looks and how "put together" women are and how clean their house is, emotional stabi…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 04:01 PM
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I think men that make significantly less cheat because they feel inadequate. Men that make significantly more cheat because they can.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/23 06:05 PM
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Apologies. "finish me off" usually implies suicide.
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:49 AM
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don't have the strength to take this to family court. This whole situation has already deeply changed me in a negative way. I'm a very sensitive person and can't really just ignore the situation either. I feel defeated and broken. Taking this to family court will probably finish me off. Have you considered that if you're considering suicide, maybe a kid isn't a stress you should be seeking out right now?
/r/MensRights02/04/22 02:06 AM
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>That's just completely untrue. Men haven't changed either, men have always viewed women sexually. Chastity has significantly less sway over society today than it used to. If there was even a rumor that you were "unpure" you were often removed from society, You became a spinster or a prostitute. I'm not saying that men didn't always want to have sex with women, but that if woman made themselves look too sexual, people assumed they werent "pure", and therefore they were not marriagable. And since…
/r/MensRights26/03/22 03:58 PM
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Women have always been able to choose how they want to be perceived on an individual basis Women were less able to be perceived sexually in the past because of social stigmas emphasizing women and chastity or infidelity, or purity.
/r/MensRights26/03/22 05:17 AM
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the reason men don't express their feelings is largely because of how their brains work. Because men showed greater down-regulation of amygdala activity(the part of the brain that regulates emotion) and less prefrontal activity(the part of the brain that regulates impulse) during emotional regulation. Basically women have to use a more directed and deliberate process to hide emotions, whereas men can do it more automatically. Not saying that one necessarily feels emotions more than the other. Bu…
/r/MensRights26/03/22 04:04 AM
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The difference is now women have the choice to choose how they want to be perceived on an individual basis. They can be who they want to be and that's great for them.
/r/MensRights26/03/22 03:43 AM
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Try and create a “WhiteLivesMatter” moment... that would be racist! (Sarcasm intended, but point made). There actually is one. But the white supremacists ruined it. I think we agree on everything else.
/r/MensRights30/12/19 04:33 AM
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Therefore, theoretically again, there would be proportionately enough “qualified” candidates to represent the spread of races Theoretically. But you're forgetting that different cultures have different effects on a child's education, and that there is a class/race divide. A black family may not expect their children to finish high school while a white family will expect their kids to finish college and take extra steps to insure it. Also, white families are stastically wealthier and parents may …
/r/MensRights30/12/19 03:30 AM
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Example: you have a local demographic around this school of say 60% Hispanic, 20% black, 10% Asian and 10% white. Yet you have 70% white teachers But what if the only qualified applicants are white? Then suddenly the standards for non white applicants plummet.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 09:32 PM
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Affirmative action was repealed in California
/r/MensRights29/12/19 04:07 PM
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I fixed it lol. It really was my first award
/r/MensRights29/12/19 07:37 AM
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He's a friend of my husband's and I don't have that kind of relationship with him. Also there's no way I would post a friend's resume online. This thread got so much traction that we're going to share it with him. I hope it will encourage him to go through with it. Maybe he'll choose to post to the fake resume. But I can't make any promises.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 07:07 AM
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There is a smaller percentage of them that are even relatively qualified. Blacks make up 12% of the population. But if a smaller portion of the black community have the qualifications than whites, then it makes it incredibly difficult to meet that 12%. So to make up for it they will hire less qualified people.
/r/MensRights29/12/19 07:04 AM
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Yep!
/r/MensRights29/12/19 06:38 AM
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Yes it is public
/r/MensRights29/12/19 06:38 AM
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There is no such thing as positive discrimination
/r/MensRights28/12/19 10:02 PM
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why?
/r/MensRights28/12/19 08:41 PM
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r/legaladvice
/r/MensRights26/12/19 04:35 PM
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r/legaladvice
/r/MensRights25/12/19 07:46 PM
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The first link is from the ncbi which is a very well-established American research organization. The National Center for Biotechnology Information (NCBI) is part of the United States National Library of Medicine The study may have been originally done by a group in India but the fact that the ncbi is willing to publish it shows that it is in all likelihood of valid source. and as you can see both sources to show that women are more likely to attempt suicide. "One of the most consistent findings …
/r/MensRights11/12/19 04:14 PM
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) Source please. Here is ncbi: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4539867/&ved=2ahUKEwiMyJv-9qzmAhUCEqwKHX5VBXoQFjAFegQIChAB&usg=AOvVaw1VD4xT5cmgDLr9RfoR-vDb Here is cdc: http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/Suicide-DataSheet-a.pdf This is consistently proved across multiple studies that women attempted suicide more. Men are more likely to use a firearm. Women use poisoning and are therefore less sucessfull. Both are serious.
/r/MensRights11/12/19 06:13 AM
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Here is ncbi: https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4539867/&ved=2ahUKEwiMyJv-9qzmAhUCEqwKHX5VBXoQFjAFegQIChAB&usg=AOvVaw1VD4xT5cmgDLr9RfoR-vDb Here is cdc: http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/Suicide-DataSheet-a.pdf This is consistently proved across multiple studies that women attempted suicide more. Men are more likely to use a firearm. Women use poisoning.
/r/MensRights11/12/19 06:12 AM
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I was wondering where they got this from so I researched it. This is actually true. Females do attempt suicide more. http://www.cdc.gov/violenceprevention/pdf/Suicide-DataSheet-a.pdf https://www.suicideinfo.ca/resource/women-and-suicide/ https://www.google.com/url?sa=t&source=web&rct=j&url=https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4539867/&ved=2ahUKEwiMyJv-9qzmAhUCEqwKHX5VBXoQFjAFegQIChAB&usg=AOvVaw1VD4xT5cmgDLr9RfoR-vDb A breakdown The suicide rate is four times higher for males than females…
/r/MensRights11/12/19 06:00 AM
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I don't get the blood
/r/MensRights20/11/19 05:26 PM
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I feel like 3 is a given.
/r/MensRights10/10/19 05:00 PM
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A moment of silence for people who have to go through their entire life with two brain cells.
/r/MensRights30/09/19 05:36 AM
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I mean the term "femenist" just means you believe in equal rights for males and females. And arguably anybody who doesn't believe in equal rights is sexist. just because modern "feminists" misconstrue it to think that women deserve more rights doesn't mean that the term "feminist" should be percieved that way.
/r/MensRights26/09/19 05:06 PM
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Depends on the woman.
/r/MensRights21/09/19 05:15 AM
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Yikes
/r/MensRights19/09/19 04:46 PM
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So rather than respond to my argument you would rather resort to insults. I didn't tell you to do anything "useful" other than rethink your view. And you didn't just point out that "ugly" feminists exist but also that the entire movement should be discarded simply because of these "members" and that anybody who dares support the feminist movement are "cowards". There are still alot of good things the femenist movement has to say. And "talking about it" or creating awareness is a very important p…
/r/MensRights17/09/19 05:02 AM
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So because there are femenist who are toxic and incompetent, all women or men should abandon the belief in equal rights for sexes aka. feminism?? I'm not following your rationale. Feminism is just an idea. It's not a big fat scary monster with pink hair that's going to scream at you for for saying "men should have rights too". And should we do the same for racism? Since there are members of the black lives matter movement who commit hate crimes, destruction of property etc.? or because there are…
/r/MensRights16/09/19 11:31 PM
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Why wouldn't we use feminism- the advocacy of women's rights on the basis of the equality of the sexes. when advocating for women's rights? Wouldn't that be anticlimactic because we could easily end up giving one gender more rights than the other if equality doesn't matter?
/r/MensRights16/09/19 11:12 PM
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If you think that's a movement worth defending a movement filled with political thugs and criminals, you are not moderates, you are hand wringing cowards and I refuse to be told what I can and can't discuss or criticise by the likes of you fuckers and I will never apologise for criticising feminism accurately. Not a mod but.. I don't know where criminals came from. Technically there are criminals and every single movement in the United States. But What if I'm defending a movement that has a smal…
/r/MensRights16/09/19 09:30 PM
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You should out this on CMV.
/r/MGTOW07/09/19 06:39 AM
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Bad morning
/r/MGTOW07/09/19 06:38 AM
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The cosmopolitan once wrote an article and it was something like "how to cheat and make your husband the bad guy". Reminds me of this
/r/MGTOW07/09/19 05:39 AM
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What sub was it?
/r/MensRights07/09/19 05:19 AM
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