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| 1 | Met a girl got her # - asking out via call, doesn’t pick upWell if I made her feel better about herself I’m happy I could help. I don’t contact her anymore, I met another girl and she’s coming over tonight anyway | /r/seduction | 09/01/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl got her # - asking out via call, doesn’t pick upI don’t know, she is the one that offer me her #, and she says she new in town doesn’t know anybody. If she wanted attention she’d respond, I called her 1 time and sent 5 word text. Not much attention if that’s what she looking for | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl got her # - asking out via call, doesn’t pick upYeah I not gonna call her if she doesn’t response. That’s weird. She flirt with me and talk about sex and that she not wearing any underwear and then ignores. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 01:28 AM |
| 1 | Met a girl got her # - asking out via call, doesn’t pick upI do text but for dating I rather not, because I am much more smooth and witty with real convo. Anyway yea, I texted her just one line asking if she’s free Saturday night, I didn’t want to put much effort as she can easily ignore also, and I ask don’t want her to think I am investing in her…. Also no response, so if no response till tomrorow I gonna call her last time and then next her | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 01:03 AM |
| 0 | Feel like this is a dumb questionYeah for sure | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:17 PM |
| 1 | What am I open to doing when I know a girl is interested in me?Maybe that’s good though, you two weirdos belong together. If you can’t hold a conversation then don’t do a dinner date, or drinks.. Meet for an activity like mini golf and have fun be playful. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 09:15 AM |
| 1 | Insights from therapy: Pickup might fuck up your relationshipWell I hope it works out for you. It seem most men here are so scared to communicate. That’s why when I hit on a pretty woman in the street she’s so excited, like all men are scared to even speak to her. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 09:12 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Dating coach won’t help with your insecurity and anxiety and fears. These are problems that maybe a therapist can’t help also. But you can help yourself by understanding the fear is irrational and by not acting you automatically losing and by trying you might lose some and might win some. Dating coach sounds like a good scam business . | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 09:08 AM |
| 1 | Easy way to open anyone in a club [With infield anecdote] also help me with shit tests pleaseIt’s a rejection. But I would say something like “what make you think I am interested anyway? You’re so basic”. And just move on. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 09:04 AM |
| 0 | Being honest sexually. The balance of owning your sexuality and being aroused versus being creepy. How does this spectrum look?Telling a woman what you wanna do to her when you see her is creepy if you never had sex with her. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:57 AM |
| 1 | Insights from therapy: Pickup might fuck up your relationshipA therapist can’t help you understand that you need to love yourself and not judge yourself and that not everything last forever. That’s something basic that you need to realize. 4 years relationship is very good, my longest relationship lasted 2.5 months. In 13+ years of meeting women, most lasted under a month. And I am not complaining, just accepting that it’s out of my control. I keep meeting and going out with women, maybe the next one will last 10 years, maybe 10 days, maybe 50 years. I gu… | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:53 AM |
| 1 | What am I open to doing when I know a girl is interested in me?How does going on a date or meeting a woman is not “working on yourself”? It seems you need to work on yourself by stop being afraid and going after what you want. It distracts you because you do want her. But you scared to date even that she would definitely go out with you. But this is all your decision. No one here can help you. It’s your decision to reject her.. which is kind of sad because you guys like each other. That’s true what they say 20% or men fuck 80% of women. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:47 AM |
| 2 | My Exs girlfriend has reached outThen it’s great. You both single people so meet for drinks and get it on. You don’t mention be fwb till she brings it up and ask “hey what are we exactly?” Maybe she wouldn’t want anything other than one night stand. You start and go with the flow, less plans more actions. She’s definitely down to have sex with you | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:43 AM |
| 1 | What am I open to doing when I know a girl is interested in me?How getting close to her gonna help you? Is she likes you doesn’t mean that she want you in her space. Especially at work. Ask her out to eat. She has to eat otherwise she’ll die, same about you. So maybe go grab lunch together and talk about stuff keep it humorous and light. And get her # take her on a real date a different time. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:37 AM |
| 2 | What am I open to doing when I know a girl is interested in me?Well maybe that’s a problem. You’ll have to figure out a way to get over your anxiety and fears and comfort zone if you need want to meet someone or 10 years will pass in which you won’t do much and you’ll regret it. The thing is that maybe she likes you too and she waiting for you to do something | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:28 AM |
| 1 | Insights from therapy: Pickup might fuck up your relationshipTherapists like lawyers get paid by the hour. So they’ll want to keep you with them as long as possible, to pay the mortgage and the new Tesla and pay for their kids college education and dorm. Relationships don’t last forever, OP blame himself, he needs to understand it’s not his fault and that nothing last forever. Even we don’t last forever. 20+ women I been with in the last 6-7 months only lasted me between a day to 3 months, because they weren’t the right ones for me. Not my fault. Some peo… | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 08:09 AM |
| 3 | What am I open to doing when I know a girl is interested in me?Why stressed out? Getting very close to her of course will make her back out, after sexual tension and flirting and fun yea - get close and kiss her and see if she back off or go forward. And not at work… You can ask her to go get lunch during lunch break or coffee or something more simple. There’s nothing wrong with that co workers do it all the time. And if you guys have a good time ask her if she want to go out for dinner sometimes, or come with you to this concert or ski or whatever you’re i… | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:52 AM |
| 2 | My inexperience with flirting makes dating so difficultIt will work by showing you have this sexual energy and are attracted to her. And you come clear and show it to her because you are a confident men that think about sexy. That’s what flirting is anyway. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:48 AM |
| 0 | Insights from therapy: Pickup might fuck up your relationshipHaha I was gonna just say this | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:44 AM |
| -5 | My inexperience with flirting makes dating so difficultYou can start in a subtle way, tell her “you smell nice” or “you looks really good in this dress” , she’ll smile and say thanks. Then say “and it’s mostly because what’s under the dress looks very good”. What the worse she can say? Then keep it going for a bit from there | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:40 AM |
| 27 | Is driving an hour to meet up with a woman doing to much?If she’s really hot and down to fuck, then yea I’d drive even two hours. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:34 AM |
| 1 | Should I stop being her friend?Next time just kiss her. She’s comfortable next to you, if you make a move and become sexual you have a shot with her. If not, jsut don’t see her. You don’t want her as just a friend, it will just prevent you from meeting other girls and moving on. But if you kiss her. Maybe she’s into you. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:33 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?Books and drugs are cool. Everyone are on a different type of chemical in these music festivals, you’ll be comfortable. Mostly outdoor in nature anyway. How do you meet girls doing drugs at home and watching anime? | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:30 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?Music festivals and concerts are the best places to meet party girls. Florida pretty conservative, if you lived in California or Oregon different story. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:21 AM |
| 9 | What am I open to doing when I know a girl is interested in me?That’s not the way , to enter her space and see if she back away, this is very creepy of course she’s back away. You need start with words before actions. Just invite her to grab drinks together sometimes after work, if she’s interested she’ll say yes and exchange numbers. Or ask her to go get lunch together. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:09 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?Yea man that’s the way. Speak about weed before you speak about other type of drugs haha. Slowly escalate. It also depends what state city you from. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 07:05 AM |
| 2 | i’ve figured out my fucking problem. thoughts?When people see you hitting on a girl infront of people the girl is turned on, she say “damn this guy is confident he hits on me infront all these people” | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:26 AM |
| 1 | Lost, need adviceYeah, horrible advice. He should’ve called her out before he texted. Now he’s left on read and he can’t call or text her unless she does. Anyway this girl isn’t interested or she’d respond. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:15 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]^ Yes this guy knows. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:13 AM |
| 2 | First date is at my placeYeah she’s expecting sex, the guy above mostly right. But don’t ask to kiss her. Just kiss her. It’s a turn off to ask to kiss | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:10 AM |
| 2 | First 2 dates went really well, but she won't text me unless I text firstYou met her 10pm till 5 am and no sex? Best thing you can do it not contact her , there’s a 30% chance she’ll contact you in a week. If not don’t worry about it. These girls from tinder go out with a lot of guys and she’s lookin for someone confident that will make the move and lead and take her to bed | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:09 AM |
| 1 | Why does she try to make me jealous?Just ignore her. Start seeing someone else. When she miss your attention and come talk/flirt with you for attention just tell her “sorry dear I’m taken” and walk away. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]The girl decides which guy she like, you or your friend. So you can ask her out and see what she says. There’s nothing about being needy here | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:03 AM |
| 1 | What’s the best way to focus on yourself while also focusing on dating? Is it possible?You’re dating the wrong chicks mate, most of the girls I know love drugs 😆 | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 06:00 AM |
| 1 | Have to cancel an upcoming date for a second date with a girl i shared the bed with, what to do ?Just say you got tested for covid and you guys should rain check to when you feel better | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 05:59 AM |
| 1 | My Exs girlfriend has reached outShe’s your ex girlfriend. Her emotion is already there. And you can’t be fuck buddies with an ex girlfriend. Just move on. Plenty of other girls out there, seems she needs to move on also. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 05:57 AM |
| 1 | Los Angeles Daygame LocationsSanta Monica / Venice Beach / Hermosa Beach | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 05:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]There’s no such thing as online seduction. You need meet in person. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 05:51 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Why you brought her to your place if you didn’t want to have sex with her? That’s what she wanted. Hard making connection in a club, if you want connection then go do an activity together | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 05:46 AM |
| 1 | Call or text? Which is better?Wow that sounds like such a turn off. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 05:44 AM |
| 2 | How can Porn and masturbation affect your game ?You’ll see when your not masturbating you have more hormones and you’re naturally more attractive and confident and flirty, and women will feel that sexual energy also. You’ll be surprise after a week or so how your game is better then you thought. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:58 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]“I am single, you are single, so let’s gets it on lady! Let’s go grab some drinks Saturday night at X, what you say?” Like this. Confident and to the point. Call better then text. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Fucking two best friendsIf they both know and are ok with it that’s ok. Because you don’t want to ruin the friendship they have with each other, that would be a dick behavior | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:48 AM |
| 2 | How can Porn and masturbation affect your game ?Because it you’re not hungry you won’t bother hunting. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:46 AM |
| 5 | Getting friendzoned coz they can't have meYou rejected her so she keep you as a friend. It’s your problem for rejecting her. If you want her you should flirt back not ignore. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:43 AM |
| 3 | Call or text? Which is better?Never ask via text to call. It’s very beta. If you wanna call then just call. It’s not a big deal. When a woman see a guy call her out she sees he’s confident, texting is very easy to ignore. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Call or text? Which is better?Why you think he was scared? Maybe he was busy | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:38 AM |
| 1 | Call or text? Which is better?Then you call after a few days. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:37 AM |
| 1 | Is my opener/approach any good?No you don’t just go ask for a number. You need make a conversation about something, make it interesting humorous a bit flirtly maybe if you see there’s chemistry and that’s she’s into you. Then you say you gotta to but maybe you guys can meet for drinks next time, if she say yes ask her for her num # | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Yeah it won’t work most of the time, but it will sometimes. What will work more is to meet in a bar have a drink or two and build sexual tension and be flirty and kiss, and then ask her if she wanna come to your place | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:54 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]When a girl tell you she won’t have sex with you it means she will have sex with you. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:51 AM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]If you just want casual and after awhile they want serious, then it’s time to break it off. Even if the sex is good. Because you won’t use them. There’s plenty of other girls. So if you want something casual be ready to keep each girl for only 1-10 weeks ish. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:50 AM |
| 1 | 30 and GF said she would still love me if I quit my job. Myth or plausible?Oh no. Don’t do that. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:48 AM |
| 4 | Implying I want it casualYou don’t need to explain anything until she asks. Just treat it as casual and if she wants something serious with you then you tell her. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 03:44 AM |
| 0 | How to keep her interested in youYeah haha that’s is really weird. Good you stopped responding. Something is seriously wrong with this guy and if you would stay long enough you’d find out and you need this bullshit. I only call to schedule to meet, not to say good morning. Texting as long not too often and keep it one sentence it’s ok. Many men text to schedule to meet which I think is weird and show lack of confidence or laziness. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 07:55 PM |
| 1 | How to keep her interested in youCalling all the time is annoying too. Why was he calling you so much? I rather just keep communication face to face. And not back and forth in texts or long calls. But never text a girl out, only call. | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 04:35 PM |
| 9 | How to keep her interested in youBest advice is to not text. Only text you should be sending ever are “hi I am x nice meeting u” , “on my way”, “ address 7595 h blvd “ , “was great hope see u again soon” Keep communication in person. Or in phone (but brief) let her miss you and think of you and chase you. Be a bit mysterious. Be flirty and sexual energy, charismatic and confident. Don’t text her out like a wuss, this is very wussy. Call her. If she want to she’ll pick up. Texting is the worse things ever for dating | /r/seduction | 06/01/22 12:31 AM |
| 2 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?I don’t think she ask the wealthy men that just approached her, how many millions so they have. She probably assumed it by their demeanor and clothing style. But yeah, other than gold digger no woman should care about a man’s wealth. This is 2022 - there are gender equal bathrooms, and women can get the same jobs as men, so there’s equality between the genders. If a woman wants money she can get a job. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?Pepper spray? No mate, they’d go to jail for assault. And for what? It’s just a conversation. You always need to be respectful. Woman take it as a compliment when guy shows interest and find them attractive. Especially if you talk to them in a place near people they think like “wow this guy hit on me infront all this people he is confident guy”. Women like that shit. Even if she’s married or has a boyfriend just tell her “ok take it as a compliment ;)”. Don’t be pushy or show that you care too m… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?No. I am a man. But I love women, not despise them. And women can feel this energy, so they are very comfortable around me and then we end up in the bedroom. And I rather sleep with a woman for one night than a night of loneliness sleeping with my dog. The thing is that each woman is different then the one before. You can’t generalize women. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:38 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?If i meet someone, even walking my dog. And shes cute and single and shows attraction to me and we have a nice chat. How can I just let her go her way without asking her out and exchange numbers? If I don’t, I’ll regret it a minute later and I don’t want to live life with regrets. Who does? So how can you not blend it in your everyday life? Life is short, youth is shorter. So just enjoy it. I like all women, I like flirting with the flirty ones, with the shy ones too, but I’ll adjust my behavior… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 07:22 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?Yes, don’t listen to this guy. To find the one women to share your life with is what everybody looking for, even if they don’t admit it. But to meet this one woman, you need to meet a lot of women. The moment you’ll meet “the one” you’ll know. I don’t think I have found the one and I meet a lot of women. I’m in my 30s, been with around 20 women the last 6 months. Kind of sucks and lonely and tiring too, so I rather just find a new woman for a short term every few weeks or months. But I think it’… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 06:46 AM |
| 0 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?I bet you don’t get laid much. Maybe if you’ll start treating women like human beings you will have more success. Women are people. Yea, some are promiscuous and you don’t want to keep them after one night or a few weekends or whatever, but some are keepers. It doesn’t seem you like women, and you expect they’ll like you. | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 06:42 AM |
| 1 | Perfected the "work on yourself" part. What to do next to be successful?It’s not about photo rating. You can look 7 or 8 or 9 whatever but a woman won’t sleep with you because no attraction. Attraction is 50% look but also 50% attitude, flirting, escalating, humor, body language, confidence etc. So you don’t have it you’re not 7 you’re 3.5. First you need feel comfortable in your own skin. Once you do you will feel comfortable in bars or dates or business meetings or anything really. Just go to a bar, doesn’t have to be weekend, so you get comfortable. Go sit on the… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Fwb ghosting after asked outYea you right. Fwb contact once a week should be a ground rule, add it to the constitution ha. Or even less often. The thing is if I only see one person then when I drink I might contact her. So see few women at the time maybe better. Totally right. Best advice man I appreciate. | /r/seduction | 02/01/22 02:00 AM |
| 0 | Fwb ghosting after asked outI don’t think it’s being beta, I love all women, every woman has something in her that’s different and intriguing.. it’s just when it’s only sex, I don’t care too much to break it up, maybe in the beginning I do till I find someone else. But it easy to find another sex partner for no strings attached, especially in my type of work so I don’t really see it as a big loss. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 08:35 PM |
| 0 | Fwb ghosting after asked outYes my bad I don’t mind keep it casual. But even if I’ll call her or text she’ll think I am thinking of her and need her. So it’s kind of catch 22. I can’t contact her anymore unless she contacts me. Sucks because we had amazing sex. | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | Fwb ghosting after asked outOh please. She came 6 times last week. And then cuddle with me like she Inlove with me and then got panicked got up dressed and left | /r/seduction | 31/12/21 10:18 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]She kissed you and realize she missed her ex. You just respond , good luck let me know if you need me I am here for you, and you let her figure out what she needs to. 50% you’ll see her again. | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 09:20 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Never more than couple of months | /r/seduction | 23/12/21 09:19 PM |
| 1 | FWB but nothing more?I don’t mean she’s cheating on me, we aren’t boyfriend-girlfriend, she won’t even kiss me, she says for her it’s something special. I think she has someone and just keeps me to fuck, or whatever it is. You’re right. I should get more girls and keep her as whatever it is.. I had 15+ women here this year and they all didn’t mean anything to me at all till her. But yea I don’t wanna ruin it, I can just give her space and not tell her how I feel and she’ll be back here and there | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 01:07 AM |
| 3 | FWB but nothing more?Yeah I tried, she gets mad and goes like “let’s just be good friends and see where it goes”, so we friends and we sleep together but I don’t think she interested in anything more than that with me. She even telling me I should also be dating other women, but I just want her. I guess she’s doing it.. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Most passionate sex you've had?It was after meeting someone for awhile before and just being friends for awhile. It’s not very passionate if it’s someone I only know for a couple of hours, but it can be. I guess it depends on the chemistry between both. | /r/seduction | 06/11/21 11:46 PM |
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