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I haven't been here in years, but always assume attraction.
/r/seduction13/08/19 04:25 PM
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Why wouldn't she want you to approach, is the question. Stop worrying, just do.
/r/seduction09/10/14 10:03 PM
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Nice point. I take it a step further and don't move at all, unless necessary. Around this time last year, I was at a party, chilling, and this girl (8-9) started brushing her foot against my leg under the table. As soon as I started to get hard, I got nervous and my leg started to shake. Killed the attraction quicker than I built it.
/r/TheRedPill06/09/14 06:39 PM
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Fuck her like you love her.
/r/seduction31/08/14 08:34 PM
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I'm not sure I agree with that. Doing that makes people feel like you're trying to be someone you're not. Sure there's situations where you need to act formal, but don't act like a nerd when around the nerds, and ghetto when with ghetto people. If you like rap music and nerdy shit, incorporate both into how you present yourself. Take Jesse from Breaking Bad for example. He's congruent with his personality. Social intelligence imo, would be finding common interests and building on that, while sho…
/r/seduction21/06/14 04:02 PM
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Yea, most of the stuff I mentioned, allows you to not worry about things outside of your element. Not only that, but they teach you that just because things are uncomfortable for a bit, you can still handle it. Inner game takes awhile, depending on how often you step out of your comfort zone, but you're more likely to just say "fuck it, let's see what happens", rather than just let opportunities to improve pass you by, and regretting them. Oh, and no problem, dude. Good luck tomorrow!
/r/seduction19/06/14 05:20 PM
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Meditate, 20 smiles an hour challenge, talk to some new people every day, game yourself(have fun), jam out to music, take a cold shower. Although, most of these work for me, I find that making sure i'm enjoying every minute of my day helps. Just go out and have some fun the next two days, build up some social momentum.
/r/seduction19/06/14 01:59 PM
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Just toss something into the conversation that relates to what they say. If they're curious, they'll take the bait. But, as /u/ThrowawayPUA stated, people love talking about themselves, it's just, most people are afraid of that general awkwardness when getting to know someone/ they feel like no one cares what they have to say, especially a stranger.
/r/seduction19/06/14 12:15 AM
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I consider myself an introvert, although, I do like to say silly shit and be awkward, just cause. I'm quiet most of the time though, and sort of a recluse, but people still enjoy my company. Long story short, just fucking own who you are. I personally think silent game is fucking boss. When i'm at parties or with groups of people, I play interview mode, or stay quiet. Don't get me wrong, I don't just sit there the whole time, but I do introduce myself to new people before doing that. Everyone ha…
/r/seduction26/05/14 07:27 PM
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Just say "Hey" and stop moving. Most people will just stop, others won't. Or, you could just make a statement about something in the general area.
/r/seduction13/05/14 05:42 PM
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It's honestly one of the best ways to connect with someone, next time you talk to a family member or friend, hold eye contact while they talk, you can definitely feel how they feel about the topic.
/r/seduction07/05/14 07:08 PM
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You're right. I haven't even been trying, just slacking off. Gonna go poke the box, and talk to some pretty girls. Thanks for the remind, brotha.
/r/seduction01/05/14 09:54 PM
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Is it better to show too much interest, or to show a little? I'm having a problem with ejecting during interactions, that go great, because I feel I'm giving the girl too much attention. Last party, I went to a couple weeks ago, I ejected 3-4 times, from the same chick, even though her and her friend kept positioning themselves to be in my general area until they ended up leaving.
/r/seduction30/04/14 06:36 PM
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Taking action every day, regardless of if you like it or not. I've asked out girls I wasn't into, went on dates with girls I didn't like, hung around people I wouldn't necessarily deal with just so I could find someone in social circles I click with. I've stopped hanging out with people I used to be cool with, I've gained better friendships with some old friends, and I have a bunch of other friends I'll probably be friends with for a long time. Honestly, the more you put yourself out there, the …
/r/seduction25/04/14 02:45 PM
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I don't always do this, but I love making situations just a little more awkward than the silence. It makes me laugh, and most of the time, people open up more. Plus, I always have great stories to talk about.
/r/seduction16/04/14 08:20 PM
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Being a better person, honestly. It sucks seeing people looking down and depressed all the time; not to mention, I know how that feels. There's so many beautiful women out there that just need a compliment or someone to enjoy a nice moment with, even if it's for 3 minutes.
/r/seduction27/03/14 04:39 PM
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Live life for yourself; stop caring what people think, and make yourself happy. Stop playing games, if you think she's cute, tell her. Plan dates, confirm them. Saw something that related to an inside joke? Send her a text.
/r/seduction24/03/14 11:51 AM
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Re-frame it. Make it seem like she asked her sister to get you on a date. "Hey, it's XXktox" Her: Hey, what's up? "So, it is true?" Her: What? "You asked you sister to set-us up? I'm not saying it's wasn't a good idea, but if you expect me to sweep you off your feet, well...blah blah" You don't have to do that, but it's always more fun to assume.
/r/seduction17/03/14 06:10 PM
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I either ignore the comments, or banter back. Also, I tend to slow my reaction times down for everything; about 2 or 3 seconds. Remember, be outcome independent. If someone AMOG's you to get a reaction; play along. Most of the time, if you reply with something witty, you can notice a slight smirk from them. Go out to have fun, be awkward during pauses just for shits and giggles sometimes. Just don't take what people say so seriously sometimes. You know your flaws, who cares what anyone else thin…
/r/seduction17/03/14 05:45 PM
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Sticking points are there for a reason, bro. With all things in game, it's about learning from your mistakes and applying what you learned. You say this is frustrating right? Well try something different. Of course, some interactions are going to make you enjoy being around her, even miss her, but if you're feeling that way, she has to be feeling that 5x's as bad. Not always true, but just believe it. If you feel needy, then stop for a second and think to yourself, "If I was happy without textin…
/r/seduction11/03/14 01:41 PM
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Well i'm weird, so that explains mine, but you could just try to make yourself laugh? But, it's probably cause you lost your swag, honestly.
/r/seduction01/03/14 04:41 PM
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Yea, i'm with Happy. Just say fuck her, and go talk to other cute girls. There's no point wasting anymore of your time on someone that doesn't respect you.
/r/seduction01/03/14 04:23 PM
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I was pretty bad at Kino too. It's basically one of those things you constantly have to try to do, in order to get better (like most things on this sub). If you have guy or girl friends you're really close with, then pay attention the next time you're with them. You should see kino comes naturally. 1) Don't focus on where you're touching 2) If you think it's weird, it'll come off as weird. 3) Take your time, start touching people on the arm or boobs, to get their attention. For Body Language, gi…
/r/seduction18/02/14 01:00 PM
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You no need read books. If you're comfortable in the environment, and confident in what you say, then just do what you were doing and escalate. And stop playing Flappy Bird so much, dude!
/r/seduction10/02/14 01:03 PM
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Be awkward as fuck. When necessary.
/r/seduction10/02/14 12:54 PM
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I tell girls they have amazing booties all the time. I get slapped a lot though :/
/r/seduction10/02/14 12:47 PM
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I've been doing a bunch of approaches these last couple of weeks. I've got a few dates from just "how do you think the exam was?". Granted, these girls happened to be leaving at the same time I was. I had talked to two of them a week before and forgot to number close. If you've talked to them before the final, you can mention you forgot to get their number to study for the final.
/r/seduction14/12/13 03:03 PM
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Haha I agree with you to an extent. I feel that you should focus on the interaction and learn about people. But the silences in the convo and how comfy your two are just relaxing shows how much they trust you. Two or three minutes in silence watching and laughing at stupid shit is all it takes for me to realize that we can both enjoy each others company/ presence even if we aren't doing anything. That's what the laptop is for.
/r/seduction04/12/13 02:33 PM
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Use my laptop to watch something funny for 10-15 minutes while talking. Sit next to her, enjoy, make a move (hand on her thigh, near her knee), give no fucks and escalate. Funny story. I actually hooked up with some chick from another state two summers ago from r4r who was doing an internship in my town. I wasn't expecting to get laid or anything, she was looking for someone to hang out with/date while she was in town (I was desperate for female attention at the time, so why not). So, I told her…
/r/seduction04/12/13 01:00 PM
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Does this mean sitting in one spot with your eyes closed quiet, or just sit in a room and don't talk or do things? I tried the former the other day, and it was way harder than I thought it would be.
/r/seduction03/12/13 03:18 AM
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Excuse: She's talking/sitting with her friends in class. It'll be super obvious if I sit next to her and just start talking. Wait till after class...oh nope she left too fast..damn maybe next class. Why it doesn't matter: Cause she's fucking hot, and i'm interested in finding out about her. Regardless, her friends are going to think i'm the man for doing what other guys wouldn't. Also, who cares what other people think. I'm living life for me, not anyone else.
/r/seduction19/11/13 10:38 PM
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I tried waiting for this girl after one of my summer classes, it felt kinda weird to me just sitting outside for the girl. So what I do now is either make eye contact near the end of class, or just take my time packing my shit up before I leave class. Most of the girls will linger a little bit in my general area or leave class around the same time I do.
/r/seduction13/11/13 05:04 PM
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I think this is what you're looking for.
/r/seduction03/11/13 02:26 AM
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You don't have to just go to the club to game. I personally prefer day game. Find places that interest you, you're sure to find quality girls wherever you go. Also, stop caring if girls flake. She's the one missing out on all the fun. I'm not saying nofap is for you, but it makes kino way more enjoyable for me. It also makes my interactions with chicks more enjoyable, because well If I don't go out, then I don't get to enjoy how beautiful/interesting women are. As for tensing up when it's time t…
/r/seduction24/10/13 03:52 PM
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I took my sister to the hospital and holla'd at this bad latina girl (HB8) in front of her mom/best friend (She wasn't sitting next to them). I thought her son was her little brother, and he kinda made it easy by showing me his toy. The girl and her son ended up getting called by a nurse not long after I introduced myself. I ended up approaching her mom not long after since she stayed in the lobby. I talked to her for a good 20-25 minutes. lol
/r/seduction24/10/13 12:50 AM
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I just read half of this, and I agree it's a great read so far. Thanks for the link dude!
/r/seduction21/10/13 09:14 PM
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The most interesting thing she could think of was "My major is in tourism?"? lol. It's a lame response, but you could have built off of it. "Oh really, do you travel often?" or " Ah, is it a lifelong dream to travel the world, or did you just pick a career that lets you lay on the beach all day?" A lot of it depends on your personality honestly.
/r/seduction10/10/13 07:02 PM
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Wait, wait, wait. You said it's a waste of time? Dude, who cares how many numbers you've gotten, or dates. You work out to make yourself feel good, you go out to have fun for yourself. Everything you do is about you, and you should be ok with that, even if girls are being lame. You improve yourself on a daily basis, so that you can get what you think you deserve and do what you want. Of course I got into /r/seduction to be a ladies man. But, I also got into it to be the best person I could be. W…
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:44 PM
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Haha I like your lottery ticket analogy. I like to use kino with everyone, so adopt that mindset. Most people will be verbal when they want someones attention, but I just tap someone on the shoulder. It's a little weird at first, but you get used to it. I've noticed lately when in class, the girls I touch usually get flustered, and look at me a lot more/ brush up against me when i'm doing other things. I guess the main thing about kino, is showing that personal space doesn't matter to you, and n…
/r/seduction08/10/13 06:26 PM
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One thing that has helped me is making sure i'm relaxed in every place I go. Just take a minute to get comfortable in your setting. Also move slower, when you're more excited and nervous you move faster, so just slow down and realize you're in control. As for "The disease to please", just live life for yourself dude. Everything you do, you're doing to make your days and life better. Start believing that and you won't worry anymore. You're doing all this hard work for yourself.
/r/seduction07/10/13 06:57 PM
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Have you tried asking about her accessories? Not only does it get her talking about herself (most accessories have stories), it also gives you a chance to kino. Also bask in the silence and enjoy the moment. Look into her eyes. Create a bit of tension. She'll most likely break the silence and ask about you.
/r/seduction07/10/13 03:20 AM
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I don't really agree with #4. It's not about the type of shoes, it's more of matching your style with your personality. It all depends on you.
/r/seduction06/10/13 11:48 PM
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If you get the girl, then the Amog's will either A) Be jealous or B) Get on with their lives. It's not like you're gaming their gf, so they have no reason to be mad, and if she didn't want to flirt with you then she'd let you know. What I do is give my full attention when talking/asking questions about a girl. It makes everyone else seem like white noise. They're there, but it just doesn't bother you. Also, if someone else enters your conversation focus your attention on them, find out things ab…
/r/seduction29/09/13 04:17 PM
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Get comfortable being where you are, and in any situations. You set the vibe, and let people feed off of it. As for one on one. Focus on the other person, maintain eye contact, and talk about them. I like to let them show off how awesome they are with stories and their interests.
/r/seduction23/09/13 04:49 PM
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Yea, I agree with you. I've been to parties where I don't introduce myself to people, and some guys just won't introduce themselves to you, that or they tried to be a dick towards me. But, the times where I say what's up and introduce myself, and remember their names/things about them, they ended up being super friendly towards me when I leave, or when I see them later on.
/r/seduction21/09/13 08:51 PM
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Getting physical with girls is a huge turn-on. Playing footsies in class yesterday got my little buddy excited. Also, women are waaaaaay more beautiful.
/r/seduction14/09/13 05:45 PM
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You can talk about anything really. I usually ask questions about people or i'll comment on something I noticed, like tats, nails, jewelry. People love talking about themselves, so just ask and go with the flow. It works extremely well if you're actually curious. I've only been opening girls with "Who are you?", or if you're at a party with friends "Who is she?" look at her "Who are you?".
/r/seduction14/09/13 05:36 AM
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If things were easy then you wouldn't work as hard, and they wouldn't be as enjoyable.
/r/seduction12/09/13 05:34 PM
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Just say you're having a get together on saturday and it'd be cool if her and her friends came over? Regardless, you're going to have fun if they come or not. If your friends bitch, well just call them out on never inviting girls to do stuff.
/r/seduction12/09/13 05:26 PM
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A girl at this party last night was brushing her foot against my leg(she was sitting against the wall that separates the kitchen from the living room, and I had my back towards the kitchen) last night under the table. I pushed it forward and moved my leg against hers. After a minute I started to get hard, and I got nervous that the people behind me could see how excited I was getting, then my leg started to shake. Should I position myself better next time, or was I just being a pussy? Haha Also,…
/r/seduction07/09/13 09:05 PM
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Truth or dare is the shit. What I usually do is make it guys vs girls. So if someone doesn't do a dare then either the girls run around with no shirts on, or the guys run in just boxers. I start off light like "Do you have any tattoos, if so how many?". Most girls have non visible tats so a few turns later I dare the girl to show me her tat (last time I tried the girl showed me a visible one until my next turn when I was specific). Regardless if she shows it to you or not, you get to see boobs. …
/r/seduction21/08/13 05:20 PM
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A lot of people are going to tell you to start talking to everyone. Which I fully agree with. I'm only 21, and there have been points in my life where I wished I was more talkative, like my friends. I got into /r/seduction maybe 3-4 months back. Then I started putting myself out there more to get better with people. The more I started talking to people, the more I enjoyed being quiet. Not only that, but I realized that as long as I started the conversation(which if you noticed almost everyone wo…
/r/seduction30/06/13 02:43 PM
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I personally don't text people unless it's to hang out now. I know you might want to talk to them at times, but if it's important then, you can tell them when you see them. It's really annoying to stop doing what I'm doing to respond to someone every 2-3 minutes. Think about it this way. If you have things to do during the day that you enjoy, wouldn't you rather do those things than constantly texting? Your friends feel that same way. Time goes by way too fast to be doing all that.
/r/seduction18/06/13 04:36 PM
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I'm not sure offering to buy her stuff will win her affection. It's kinda like you're treating her like a princess. Purses aren't cheap, and wasting your hard earned money on a girl you aren't even dating seems like you want to win her over. If you really want to spend that money, go treat yourself to something nice bro. It's her problem, like she said she'll fix it herself.
/r/seduction08/06/13 03:05 AM
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I think this makes things a lot easier.
/r/seduction24/05/13 03:30 PM
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Haha thanks and you're welcome! It's nice to know I can contribute after lurking around on and off the last few months. I'm actually about to make a FR about something that happened today.
/r/seduction03/04/13 06:48 PM
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This. For years I always wondered how my pops could talk to absolutely anyone, and it's because he just doesn't care. He just goes out on his off days and talks to anyone. When I go with him to stores he makes men/women of all ages his friend, and generally enjoy talking to him whenever they see him. Just last week some lady in our checkout isle was like "I like him, he actually has a sense of humor unlike most people" Whenever I would ask him(before reading things on seddit) how he could do it …
/r/seduction02/04/13 10:21 PM
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