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Dmhgrosso3/r/seduction03/11/15 10:19 PM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP29/11/15 05:08 AM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP30/10/15 08:10 PM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP11/11/15 01:45 AM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP13/10/15 08:09 PM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP12/11/15 10:01 PM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:56 AM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP08/10/15 08:08 PM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP05/11/15 12:34 AM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP13/10/15 05:16 AM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:07 AM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:59 PM
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Field ReportDmhgrosso3/r/TheRedPill27/10/15 07:32 PM
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Dmhgrosso3/r/askTRP29/10/15 07:40 PM
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That's where I was coming from. I was trying to be upfront with her. Though it came off as a tad harsh.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:39 PM
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I'd argue the contrary damaged women keep the betas happy with the trash and make way for better women that I can meet.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:38 PM
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nobody is endorsing or advocating acting like him. TRP just understands the qualites about him that women like such as unstifled in his actions, congruent to self, hes also unapologetic (and therefore non needy) and hes probably in good shape because i cant imagine an ugly fucker getting away with this shit. Nobody endorses his actions though.
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 09:36 PM
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ahaha you make "triggering" or whatever sound like a sport lmfao that's funny.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 06:20 AM
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honnestly, looking back I probably saw it coming.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 06:19 AM
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okay step one change your fucking username. YOU can talk to girls. but bitch YOU is in command of the ship. So inside your head i want you to have a muitany and kill bitch You, throw him overboard, and everytime he climbs back into the ship or comes back i want you to kick him out. YOU are in command. Not bitch you. Bitch you is not cool, Bitch you doesnt talk to girls, hes negative and depressing. No girl wants that. Be sex machine badass playboy you. If you badass playboy you has gone for a wa…
/r/askTRP28/12/15 03:49 AM
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dude everyone gets scared. It's how you deal with it. me personally as crazy as it sounds I imagine im like the cooler version of me and then i go up and talk to them (im outside my own body) kinda like tyler durden in fight club. Im going up as tyler and regular me is sitting there like damn that guy is cool. Tho i dont have skitzo and im not mentally ill, you will find yourself feeling like "this isnt me" when you talk to chicks. Thats true its not you. because the old you was beta. The new yo…
/r/askTRP26/12/15 11:15 PM
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ya I went out more and more and I don't get sick anymore, everyone gets a bit nervous but once i'm in the zone (which btw i dont drink) I can go up and talk to them.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 05:47 AM
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NO man i kinda got that. Not to the extend where I vomited but I got lightheaded and almost fell once or twice. It's just your body being overwhelmed. Then again could be bad food. Who knows. Keep approaching. If its the overwhelmed thing then it'll gradually get better. If its food poisoning then it'll get better in no time hopefully
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:40 AM
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Post one pic of yourself, Not smiling, form fitting clothes, perferably at night or use a Black and White filter, get groomed up and think about pussy when your getting someone to take the pic. Look like a fucking intense sexual badboy. NO bio, 1 pic. I spam swipe and get a bunch of matches now where as before I got fuckall. I just unmatch the uglies and go about my day.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 03:26 AM
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sex god method? sounds like something I need to read ASAP
/r/askTRP24/12/15 04:46 AM
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so should i invite her over for drinks with me and my buddy (her and her friend can tell there parents shes sleeping over at a friends houses and they all crash at my buddies) would that be a decent idea or a waste of time?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/15 01:11 AM
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my buddy said i could bring a chick over to his house if she had a friend, would that be a good option or is that a waste of time? she also has a car
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 07:27 PM
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No i live 20 minutes away. Her town is small. Only 4 streets in the whole town.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 12:30 AM
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from what you read was my game alright (obviously I needed to esclate more but was it okay other that that?)
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 03:37 AM
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cant wait until im old enough to support a house of my own.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 03:36 AM
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ya, i suggested we hang again havent gotten a text back yet, it's been an hour... idk what to think...hopefully i didnt fuck it up.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 03:35 AM
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thanks for the advice. because nobody ever got laid in highschool. smh. I'm on the forum looking for GAME ADVICE and TRP's view on this. Obviously I fucked it up.
/r/TheRedPill21/12/15 02:56 AM
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Dear santa:
/r/seduction21/12/15 12:16 AM
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Holy Shit dude +1 for solid fucking advice and taking the time to write that. Thanks man this was helpful.
/r/askTRP19/12/15 03:09 PM
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<sup>100</sup> advice buddy Thank you man :)
/r/askTRP18/12/15 08:11 PM
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OHH fuck ok sorry i didnt understand what you meant before. that clears it up. Okay. ya i see what your saying. Thanks for your input btw.
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:45 PM
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any tips on mastering being chill. because it seems like someway or another my interactions turn into me being a clown, me and her having a playful flirty back and forth (but when trying to get personal, or connect or do anything else shes not into it) she only wants to chirp and get chirped or lastly it'll just be painfully awkward and my set will seem like im almost harrassing the poor girl. and often times ill end up laughing because im nervous asf and its not going well and she will think im…
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:39 PM
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ok man thanks will do :)
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:53 PM
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ok so then pua isn't really real and all they are are little tricks to build on top of the high value qualities then? that if you have both you can do well and if you have on one you can get by? is that what you're getting at? game is less relevant the higher value you are as a man? so then besides watching this video I should improve other areas of my life and women will come naturally and if I know a bit of pickup it will massively help me out because it'll be like shortcuts and almost life ha…
/r/seduction16/12/15 08:52 PM
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so my game was okay? why did she act weird and all "fuck off-ish" around me. this isn't the first time this has happened either. and okay i have another girl on the go hb8 so that would be cool. when you say let her see you what do you mean? Thanks for the feedback btw i seriously appreciate it.
/r/seduction16/12/15 01:52 AM
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SOLID FUCKIN POST DUDE. Thats some dark triad shit right there. I'd feel horrible doing that to someone but whats the alternative? Her fucking you over? Good shit man keep it coming.
/r/TheRedPill08/12/15 09:29 PM
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oh good point ok cool
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:49 PM
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This is what i needed. I am that pretentious asshole, i just dont wanna show it lmfao. thanks.
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:49 PM
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ya but pussy tho...
/r/askTRP04/12/15 09:48 PM
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cant rent a room. im not 18, money isnt an issue. i have a good amount saved.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 11:45 PM
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I have a job, i got my learners permit and im working on gettinf my license. Thats though ill definately work on this.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 01:45 PM
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It is a bitch question. I fucked up. Now what?
/r/askTRP29/11/15 06:30 AM
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what could i be doing wrong? like any common issues? that usually newbs make?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:09 AM
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I workout atm, im 17 so im not young. I go to a gym and im putting on decent size rn.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 06:07 AM
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ok will do
/r/askTRP29/11/15 06:06 AM
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i couldnt tell, she gave me the eyes, but we had no place to fuck because im a highschool guy, no car, lives with parents, small town.... and when i went to hold her hand she didnt want to.... idk what to do.
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 05:50 AM
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ya but i dont know where to hook up with her. Im in highschool and i dont have a car... :/ live with parents obv.... and how do i even hookup with her....?
/r/TheRedPill29/11/15 05:49 AM
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well i madeout with her at a dance, and then now on the date i try holding her hand she rejects, she gets all awkward about touching, i ask her if this is going anywhere? and she says she just got out of a relationship blah blah blah, and then now this other guy bs.... and so i suggested fwb (but i didnt use the work FWB or anything like that, it was more a "fun while were yound" "no strings attached") type thing. tbh I know i probably fucked up... what should i have done? This has happened twic…
/r/askTRP29/11/15 05:38 AM
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what's the killer instinct look like with women and business? Like what would be an example of that instinct in general?
/r/TheRedPill26/11/15 09:04 PM
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omg... HOW DO I NOT BE THE CREEPY LOSER? HOW DO I BE THE COOL GUY WHO GETS INVITED??? smh... common man. It's like if you fail a test and then the teacher says to you "stop writing the wrong answers, that's how you succeed"... Can you give me some guidance or advice?
/r/askTRP14/11/15 04:05 AM
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I laugh it off and pretend like it doesnt bother me but the end result is i get nothing... :/
/r/askTRP13/11/15 06:45 AM
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Cant stop going to school, and ok i will
/r/askTRP13/11/15 06:45 AM
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You told me to lift and study, both which i'm doing... I Still get lonely though. I'm not gonna pretend I'm some big emotionless rock... I don't have a girlfriend or plates, all i have is weights and that doesn't keep a person content, I cant go two more years of being alone that fucking blows.... But thank you for bringing that up. Obviously I'm looking for a different answer than lift and study...I'm doing that anyways.
/r/askTRP12/11/15 10:22 PM
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The army for me is out of the question. I do not wish to serve, I have respect for the brave men and women who do. My grades are a bit lower than average but im passing every class by a decent ammount (all 65% and higher) im held back because math which i failed in grade 10 and am a year behind as a result, then I took an extra spare and am a credit short because of it. I want to become a lawyer/politician. But because you suggested it. can you expand on this because if by some fuckup on my part…
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:27 AM
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would calling her ex or bf an "asshole" because he did XYZ be considered feelings or her emotions?
/r/askTRP11/11/15 02:11 AM
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such lel. much joke.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 08:02 PM
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ohh ok i can see that.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:37 AM
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always condom and I'll be sure to inspect the area ask, beforehand. Her facial lips seem clean though so Idk. I think shes fucked 1 guy and 1 girl (shes bi)
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:37 AM
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inb4 comments about "I'd fuck dudes" gets outta hand.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 05:08 AM
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Ontario and how much do you think I should "tip"?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:59 AM
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do you have to be 18 to get a motel?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:55 AM
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I'm not 18 yet can i still get a motel?
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:54 AM
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less to get u hammered? thats odd.
/r/askTRP08/11/15 04:54 AM
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oh ok, whys that?
/r/seduction05/11/15 08:51 PM
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okay. thanks
/r/askTRP05/11/15 02:59 AM
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Ok so I texted her a day after. and said "here's my witty text(smiling emoji): what's your schedule like? when are you free?" she responded 40 minutes late with "ihy Madi" (im assuming that means I hate you madi...tf does that even mean?) anyways i dont cave in to her shittest (i had a feeling she was shittesting idk for what but i had that feelin) I said "so is your last name spelt _? or _? I dont like having just one name in my contact list. gets confusing" so far its been 40 minutes. no respo…
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:46 PM
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aw fuck dude. This is fantastic advice. I wish someone said this to me earlier. I've tried all the bs PUA shit, routines, etc. Built a rep for being a wierdo. Kinda hard to shake but Fuck aha. I'm gonna do this. Thanks dude
/r/seduction04/11/15 09:35 PM
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How do I make friends with the guys if they think I'm a "loser"?
/r/seduction04/11/15 12:37 PM
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I dont know them well. Regardless how am I supposed to talk to them?
/r/seduction04/11/15 05:19 AM
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How do you effectively cultivate a good social circle? How do you go from meh to popular?
/r/seduction04/11/15 05:19 AM
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How do you effectively cultivate a good social circle? How do you go from meh to popular?
/r/seduction04/11/15 05:19 AM
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Lmao dump her bro. Is this a serious question? No dude. That shits NOT cool. Don't let her be a cunt to you.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 04:03 AM
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How do I cultivate social popularity? Thats a sticking point of mine.
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:56 AM
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How do i work my way up the social ladder?
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:55 AM
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how did you do that?
/r/seduction04/11/15 03:54 AM
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ya that's my problem I learned that late and now I'm branded as weird or whatever. Am i fucked until college? or is there any way around this.
/r/seduction03/11/15 11:35 PM
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ya but how do you get there? (there being about to bang/banging)
/r/askTRP03/11/15 11:08 PM
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okay, next time though what should I do to give tingles? Cause obviously I didn't give her any.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 10:44 PM
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Could I ask her what her scedule is like? Cause she legitimately seems like "that girl" who always has appointmentsome and extracurriculars going on. I'm in hs btw.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 10:15 PM
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meh im 18%bf 5'11 170lbs im decent average with a bit of muscle. If i leaned down (which im currently doing) my size (at this moment) would be like this: http://starcasm.net/wp-content/uploads/2013/10/Ryan-Reynolds-Shirtless.jpg
/r/askTRP02/11/15 08:17 PM
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Not direct enough. IMO. if you were isolated she obviously liked you enough. I woulda gone with something like (Keep in mind im a shmuck) "Model eh? What do you model?" get her showing off her body that kind of thing.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 03:27 AM
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I think your response was good. It's what I would've said. keep in mind that though its a legit horrible situation she could also be shit testing you to see if you cave and get all supplicating (a.k.a. emotional tampon, shoulder to cry on, etc.) Maybe im diving too deep but keep that in mind. how to continue with the conversation that I don’t want to have. what? Answer is dont? Be nice to her she's going through alot of bs rn so she needs emotional support atm from what it sounds like. As harsh …
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:14 AM
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You could've commented on her body when she said she was a model? also the friends coming up to join you guys was odd usually they get the message, probably wanted to check up on her? idk. the fact that she let you get her alone was good though.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:07 AM
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I've been to Florida a couple times. Honey, darling and sometimes even sweetie are normal. Though I don't live their so maybe they could tell i was from outta town..
/r/askTRP02/11/15 02:03 AM
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any publicity is good publicity, okay cool. haha you make a good point. I didn't really consider that. Thanks, okay well next time I will do that.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:37 AM
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lol wooah we got a live one here.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 01:34 AM
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they chanted before i was with her though.
/r/askTRP02/11/15 01:32 AM
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I'd say a simple "nice." with a blasé (indifferent) look (and then carry on as if she never said it) would do the trick.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:51 PM
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Okay. Thanks for the feedback
/r/askTRP01/11/15 03:04 PM
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why chant that? Because then it makes me off limits to them. They blow themselves out of the game. I've gotten alot of good suggestions already but what are your thoughts on how to handle this?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:41 PM
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Aha next time I'll be sure to do that lol.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:39 PM
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Lol that would been funny. Hey you never know maybe next party aha.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:38 PM
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If you feel that making out with an hb.5 and having 10 girls chant fuck you is a humble brag then sure I'm bragging..
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:37 PM
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Going into monk mode and increasing smv for college...
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 01:10 PM
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No I'm legit looking for critique and i've gotten some helpful comments with exact that.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 12:59 PM
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ok man. aha and happy halloween ahaha sounds like you had a good night haha nice.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:55 AM
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Okay. the book of pook got it. Ya i have a job, grocery dept. I lift like trp has taugh me. as of monday I'm going on a cut to get leaner and ok. Yeah Highschool is shit. Cant wait till i move. cant wait till college. Only 2 years left.. Thanks for the feedback btw.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:48 AM
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yo those equations got me fucked up. solid comment. so true.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:44 AM
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ya i know. I could fuck her if i had a spot. She hints it all the time. Shes not a plate. But keep in mind highschool, no car, no spot, small town. I know what you're saying though and I agree
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:43 AM
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okay haha thats a good one. Thanks
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:38 AM
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I joined powerlifting... I plan to joing basketball but my scedule is tight... and okay thanks for the reply
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:35 AM
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ya hs and Okay, I guess that's my only option. Monk mode... Im gonna do that. after I got home tonight I thought of 2 scenarios. Monk mode (forget the bs and max my smv as much as possible rn) Play the badboy (bad descicion) card. They hate me anyways.... But now that you say that I'm gonna just go into monk mode forget about that stupid bad boy game bs and just lift. I think one of the bitches actually goes to my gym..but whatever... Thanks for the reply btw.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:34 AM
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If (and im pretty sure this is the more accurate answer) shes actually pissed what's my play? just call her a bitch infront of 30+ beta male protectors (who will probably try to fight me because pussy) and other girls, further confirming i'm actually an asshole or how do i go about it if its option one?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:30 AM
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Okay. Is there any way for me to not have people chanting fuck you? or like maybe when I go to college and start fresh any changes i should make?...
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:27 AM
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that's nice, was fun while it lasted.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:26 AM
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oh okay. So if they don't reciprocate then at least it shows I'm not phased?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:23 AM
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Krav maga/muay thai for real self defense boxing/kickboxing/BJJ/karate/kungfu if your looking for a sport MMA for a bit of both.
/r/askTRP01/11/15 06:18 AM
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Okay. Monk mode. got it. and how do i play into that when shes being a bitch and all her friends are being genuinely mean in a non-shit test way?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:16 AM
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ya i would've said something but there was too many of their guy and girl friends (literally hundreds) and the music was too loud to shout over effectively.... and It's not that it bothers me... it the fact that they said it and idk why... But I will work on frame. thanks for the feedback btw.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:14 AM
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NO i have literally no clue... thats the thing. I can't recall a time I've offended them. If anything I've talked to them for breif moments and thats it. just a quick "hey" ask em about homework or something and then it dizolves. One chick melanie (the one in the sexy wonder woman costume who told me fuckoff last year) I cold approached her last year and she gave me a number. NO reply and then her bitch friend (same one giving me dirty looks) came up to me one day and told me to stop texting her…
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:12 AM
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yup. her knees weren't up to par. Knee game wasn't on point.... you nailed it. exactly 0.6, cause 0.5 is too light and 0.7 is too harsh....
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 06:01 AM
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Why do you say that about frame? jw?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 05:47 AM
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ya obviously not good for the social rep.... how am I supposed to do that? IF THEY HATE ME...
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 05:47 AM
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as promised a fucked up field report. Bitches chanted "fuck you" at me for no reason at all, madeout with french exchange hb5 and more. It's worth the read... https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3r1vnn/fr_hoelloween_house_party_bitches_chant_fuck_you/
/r/askTRP01/11/15 04:59 AM
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welp here is your field report. Bitches chanted "fuck you" at me for no reason at all, madeout with french exchange hb5 and more. It's worth the read... https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/3r1vnn/fr_hoelloween_house_party_bitches_chant_fuck_you/
/r/askTRP01/11/15 04:58 AM
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I will link a file report tn
/r/askTRP31/10/15 03:27 PM
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Okay haha, I will link a field report tn.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 03:27 PM
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Okay. This is pretty direct. I like it. It comes off as cool but can be needy really easily if done wrong. I'm gonna do this even though some part of me feels wierd doing it. #1. Than you for the detailed reply I really appreciate the feedback and #2. Thanks for exposing my blue pill and explaning what to do. I'll put this into action tommorow night. Halloween party I going to. Being direct. Calm. Cool. Cheers,
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:24 AM
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Nah I'm "wierd"/"annoying"/"douchey"..
/r/askTRP31/10/15 04:19 AM
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That wasn't really a shit-test from the sounds of it. More of an IOI I'd say.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 03:51 AM
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I dont care but the rep i got socially conditions chicks to stay clear of me...and that i do care about.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 03:36 AM
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I dont it's just that I dont want the same REP in college.
/r/askTRP31/10/15 03:16 AM
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Okay I will man, cheers.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 08:05 PM
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solid advice thanks, I'm gonna have to pick up my grades.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:39 AM
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solid advice thankyou.
/r/askTRP30/10/15 02:38 AM
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okay i will do, The entire sidebar is massive idk where to begin tbh..not to sound like a lil bitch aha its a tad overwealming should I just dive into it or is it there any articles i dont need?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:16 AM
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okay man. Thanks for the detailed response, I appreciate it. I will do.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 02:03 AM
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So after the hey, she will probably say hi... then what? if i don't force small talk and she doesn't know me how do i go from Hi, to getting her on an actual date?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:54 AM
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Okay thanks for the critique, Will do. I didn't have a clear goal. Next time i will have a goal and that line was delivered in a 100% sarcastic, polarizing, trying to be a douche way. It was meant to incite a shit-test because she wasn't really interested but it backfired and it wasn't funny but rather try hard. Anyways thank you for critique.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:46 AM
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yeah but I'm not popular, so i rarely see these women in social settings, they never comeback... I usually flake if she doesn't reciprocate or "play nice" but still its worth saying.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:41 AM
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ya like I've done shit like that before and chicks have eaten it up. I'd usually get a "what makes you think you're so great?" shit test or some bs and i could further build after passing it. It was supposed to be corny and sarcastically douchey. I didn't say it in a serious tone at all. She fully understood i was trying to be a polarizing cunt. Still though end result was she walked away awkwardly, i looked like a tool and nothing happened... How do you usually pull this kind of shit off?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:36 AM
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okay thanks for the critique. How could I not force it as hard? I didn't know what I wanted to say. She was hot, I wanted to take her out for coffee but the last time I approached a chick for and asked her out on the spot she went all cold and distant and nothing happened. Could you expand on this comment, I wanna better understand this.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:33 AM
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So if and when I see her again should I even bother approaching or did I fuck myself over then?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:29 AM
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http://m.memegen.com/rzij67.jpg
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:28 AM
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It was said in a sarcastic corny (mocking a douche bag) tone. I was trying to incite a shit test or something besides her walking away, though in hind site it was a stupid line.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:27 AM
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So I have a feeling i'm gonna see her again. Should I even bother trying again with a better approach or no? And how should I go about it next time in your opinion.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:24 AM
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so you're suggesting I pretend like it never happened and just say Hi again in a more grounded less weird way? should I try this new method next time i see her (if i see her) or is it a lost cause?
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:23 AM
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It was more a statement of empathy (because what i did kind caught her off guard and i could see she was visibly uncomfortable) but true.
/r/TheRedPill28/10/15 01:19 AM
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for the one about getting interrupted, what if it's not intentionally rude (at least i don't think) for example: today when class was getting out and everyone was getting up to leave I talked to a chick and she seemed kinda like the shy but social (when shes with friends type) and I said to her "your a star student aren't you" and as soon as i said that I saw the her pupils getting big and she kinda said in a very mildly unsure nervous voice "not really hahaha" so i tried to build on that with s…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:29 AM
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Yaa I'm confused cause today when class was getting out and everyone was getting up to leave I talked to a chick and she seemed kinda like the shy but social (when shes with friends type) and I said to her "your a star student aren't you" and as soon as i said that I saw the her pupils getting big and she kinda said in a very mildly unsure nervous voice "not really hahaha" so i tried to build on that with some comment about how she was better than me (ik obv i fucked up to build on the open but …
/r/askTRP27/10/15 03:21 AM
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okay, good tips ill try that haha thanks, do you know any good articles or tips on building that initial rapport with a girl, as i said before when you open her and her friend (usually unintentionally without thinking) starts talking to her before you have enough rapport to maintain and hook her attention therefore the set just disintegrates and she becomes pre-occupied with talking to her friend, leaving you to either follow them like a little dog or to get blown out of the set. I think that mi…
/r/askTRP27/10/15 02:41 AM
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this intrigued me, can you explain further?
/r/askTRP25/10/15 10:10 PM
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1. Good for you. Props for making the $$$ gains aha 2. lifting gains? Money "gains" are good but it puts you in a bb (beta bux) provider role and she can probably smell than on a subconscious level so shes hamstering to herself that she misses you. Keep up with making money, keep seeing other chicks. Keep lifting and if you haven't start lifting. I know what you're going through but remember AWALT shes not a special snowflake. You tried the LTR and it didn't work out but now that she might smell…
/r/askTRP25/10/15 10:00 PM
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Good Luck.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 10:00 PM
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Why did she break up with you?, if you don't mind me asking. Cause though you might be in better shape than him he might be doing some more alpha things and that's why shes coming back out of scarcity. OR the other scenario could be if you've had a recent SMV raise her hypergamy kicked in and she realized she fucked up. But if that was the case then you could probably be able to get more higher quality chicks without the black cloud of "he took me back" hanging over your head.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 09:46 PM
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balls in her court Wrong. Balls should be in her ass.... no but srs tho this sounds like oneitis and it's clearly fucking with your head. I'd keep lifting, and keep her on the side as a plate. AND ONLY A PLATE. She dumped you. Probably went and fucked Chad, when he finished with her she didnt like that so she probably figures she can run back to you and you'll cave I kissed her on the forehead which you did. dw, just keep lifting, keeping going out and meeting new people, improving and try to ge…
/r/askTRP25/10/15 09:38 PM
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ballsy. I like it.
/r/askTRP25/10/15 09:05 PM
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ohh ok
/r/askTRP24/10/15 03:57 AM
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Like you cold approached?
/r/askTRP24/10/15 03:27 AM
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how'd you isolate and then from there escalate?
/r/askTRP23/10/15 09:34 PM
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So im not sure what your saying. Socially what do I need to do? Im working out rn. Progress is slow but js coming along. As for right here. Right now what can i be doing or not doing. How do i go from wierdo to cool from a social point?
/r/askTRP20/10/15 07:03 PM
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Damsun.jpg aight. Good to know. Ahaha
/r/askTRP19/10/15 03:04 AM
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You think more? How come?
/r/askTRP19/10/15 02:28 AM
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Oh okay that's good, like a frame switch, I like it haha. Sweet thanks man. Well I'll keep lifting, and Improving SMV but until then that should work well. Thanks again
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:43 AM
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also Jw, if a girl doesnt look you in the eye when shes talking to you (she on her phone, etc) or she is "busy" doing something. How would you handle that, cause I've had that problem in the past. I cant make eye contact. Obv. its an SMV issue (if it was brad pitt they would look) and I'm working on it. But from a purely game POV what should you do?
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:35 AM
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Ok I will do this. Awesome advice thank you. They never really cover social circle game as much as they do cold approach.
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:28 AM
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yeah ok... thanks man. I appreciate you responding in such detail. Ill probably ask her about the class and get familiar with her in a neutral acquaintance way. Then from there move in. Is that what you're suggesting?
/r/askTRP19/10/15 12:14 AM
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no its cool. Last year highschool.
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:57 PM
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im pretty good at cold approach but i cant never do it with social circle. It never works for me. I live in a small town. Scarecity mentality, Moved here 3 years ago. Their social circle is one that was established well before I moved. Im not part of it. I dont know how to talk to them, they aren't as receptive as city chicks. I come off as creepy or wierd or "gamey". No clue how to talk to her and how long should i wait. She was it a "serious" (atleast she thought it was serious) LTR. any thoug…
/r/askTRP18/10/15 11:49 PM
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is it possible to up alpha the alpha widow? or would her fantasy of him be more that anyone could ever compete with?
/r/TheRedPill15/10/15 07:20 PM
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Dude do more of these that was entertaining and educational!
/r/TheRedPill14/10/15 03:07 AM
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Seriously? I thought it was odd being a virgin in university? Do most guys loose it in highschool or university?
/r/askTRP14/10/15 01:08 AM
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Okay can i just say #1. I've asked a fuckton of questions and this is by far one of the best answers out there. #2. Thanks man this really helped.
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:33 PM
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Im average size with a bit of muscle and tiny little belly. When i wear a shirt you cant really tell. 18% bf, 5'11, 167lbs
/r/askTRP13/10/15 11:57 AM
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How exactly did you phrase that and what was her response?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:56 PM
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This made me think. What do you mean? can you elaborate on this thought? They're never too "busy" for Chad.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:55 PM
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aha, of what?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 09:16 PM
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/r/askTRP12/10/15 08:33 PM
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Okay aha short and to the point. Done. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 07:44 PM
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Okay ill do this. Would you say that being lean and having abs is better or being muscluar i better. Keep in mind i only have a year left of school, i have a solid ammound of muscle mass but im 17%bodyfat so you cant see any abs and i have a small small belly. Should i bulk or cut?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:24 PM
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Sarcasm?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:21 PM
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Ohh ok so then what ill do is bulk a bit more (im not skinny by any means, my chest is a bit small for my liking but i think thats in contrast the my little belly chub.) Im gonna cut then lean bulk. Thanks.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:20 PM
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What i mostly care about is gaining experience for university. I dont wanna go a virgin. I feel like that would handicap me. Plus im staying back a year so id be going at age 18.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:18 PM
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How do i get into that popular girl/guy inner circle? then because when i come back the frame will be remembered and forced onto me again. I got 1 year left and i doubt i can make a massive physical tramsformation. still gonna continue lifting though.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:17 PM
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True and ya i am going to move.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:14 PM
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I've been lifting. I've tried talking to these girls. So far ive been on 2 dates. They both had boyfriends and when i found out they hamstered their way out of it... the rest either ignore me when i talk to them (if im polite) or if i try to get a responce because theyre ignoring me they talk to me like im a weird/annoying/douchey asshole. If i say nothing I go unnoticed. If i talk then the above happens. What can i do to get them to notice my smv and how should i improve it?
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:14 PM
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Ya i have and its because I dont play rep hockey/baseball, I dont smoke weed/drink, and I dont belong on student activities council... Thats why. All the "popular kids" do those things. They find my annoyint cause i refuse to sit back and conform to my role. In the club i so realky well BUT the second i step into a social environment I look like an idiot. talk to girls and act polite and they give me a "why is this weirdo talking to me" tone in there responce. so i act like a polarising playful …
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:08 PM
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Lmao at "dogfuck, kentucky" and ya im planning to move into the city if I can. Ok ill do that.
/r/askTRP12/10/15 02:01 PM
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No it's more of a "pretend friendly" kind of putting you in your place kinda thing. But to the girls it looks like we're just "bro-ing around" (As stupid as that sounds, I literally cant describe it any better).
/r/askTRP09/10/15 12:36 AM
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If this is a shit test how tf am i suppose to pass that?
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:20 PM
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Ya but i didnt know she even went to my gym and i also had no way or knowing she was gonna be there. But next time ill do that
/r/askTRP08/10/15 05:20 PM
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no she purposefully posted it, her and her friends weren't gonna tell me. My buddy happened to tell me. But okay.
/r/askTRP08/10/15 03:37 AM
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Some guys don't mind smokers or girls with a lot of partners. Just cause its common doesn't mean its not personal.
/r/askTRP01/10/15 02:08 AM
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Eh tbh re-reading it now I can say that number is pretty low. Basically she shouldn't be an old leather purse down there.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 10:43 PM
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Smoking, Drugs, Getting Drunk a lot, if shes a super in your face Feministy type, talks about her ex too early, talks to her ex in general, Has A LOT of exes (chronic dater), Kids (harsh but its the truth), childish behavior (whiny, tantrums, etc just generally childish bs), manipulative (gold digging, trying to change me into her version of a bf, trying to use sex as a reward), high number partners (~3+ if shes under 25 and ~5+ if shes 30 or under) That's for LTR.
/r/askTRP30/09/15 09:44 PM
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