High school cold approach

Amplifyre1996 · 2015-11-03T23:31:46+00:00

Yeah, you dont want to do that, you will alienate yourself, join a club or have friends introduce you. Closed emviornments like school, social circle is only way bro.

Shiny_Lobster · 2015-11-03T23:20:16+00:00

High school game is all about social status. But work on yourself now until you graduate and build the foundation to a super charged version of yourself

Dmhgrosso3 · 2015-11-03T23:55:26+00:00

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Amplifyre1996 · 2015-11-03T23:31:51+00:00

Yeah, you dont want to do that, you will alienate yourself, join a club or have friends introduce you. Closed emviornments like school, social circle is only way bro.

Amplifyre1996 · 2015-11-03T23:31:55+00:00

Yeah, you dont want to do that, you will alienate yourself, join a club or have friends introduce you. Closed emviornments like school, social circle is only way bro.

GLOOTS_OF_PEACE · 2015-11-04T05:18:03+00:00

lol that's not called cold approach if you know them already

supermanshazam · 2015-11-04T20:08:50+00:00

Warning- this is the same as normal pickup. A few think youre retarded but most find you a little charming

Forget this 'value' bullshit. If you know who you are and you've got shit going in your life you're probably the most interesting kid around, everyone is attracted to that. Guitar, sport, acting, writing, whatevs you're passionate about, be your own dude FIRST and know who you are. Combine that with not judging chicks sexualuality, leading and all the other stuff here and boom

Forget having to be 'top of the social ladder', literally walk up to anyone and say anything like "i thought you looked cool" sit down and talk. If you truly know you're cool, and you actually are cool you'll clean up. Kids are bored, you're definitely the most interesting thing that happened all month. I've tried, tested it btw, it works. Combine that with your intention and all that.

Don't stop there, enjoy being social and make small talk in corridors, with teachers, literally everyone.

Awesome thread, takes me back to my days in high school. I acted as a foreigner, animals weird stuff just to fuck with them. Some thought i was retarded, most found it charming. Definately helped when in needed to make friends at a new school too

KingChord · 2015-11-04T07:24:15+00:00

Ok so to put things in perspective I am now 2 years out of high school and the majority of my relationships with girls at that time was based off of social circumstance i.e. i was an older/self proclaimed attractive guy on the track team and the cute younger girls would look at me and then from there it was all about having the balls to talk to them. This isn't really satisfying though when you look at the all the 10s that are your age and you are dating a 7 that is younger. Anyway, It wasn't until the summer after my senior year that i got into pickup and i've come a long way. but my friend in high school was a "natural" SO good. He had 0 approach anxiety and didn't give a shit about what people thought. Remember that pickup is all about self amusement. My friend did burn a lot of bridges with the male population but it was only because he got hella bitches. And he wasn't traditionally good looking either, he had big ears that stuck out the side of his head like dumbo, bushy eyebrows that always were on the brink of being one, and he kept shaving his hair really short which emphasized these features. but he pulled anyway. Looking back and analyzing my friend it is easy to see that getting girls in high school is literally all about status. Make a list of all of the reasons you add value to any prospective group i.e. you are funny, goal oriented, athletic, musical, artistic, e.t.c. and figure out how you can use your value to add to a 10s reputation as a high school student. Find your weak points, like style/haircut/hygiene, typical shit that is easily taken care of but rarely put into action. I used to wear stripes with plaid and shit until a girl made me feel really stupid by calling me out in front of the whole class and then i started reading fashion blogs and shit. With highschool you will never have anonymity but you can climb the social ladder by effectively evaluating what you bring to the table and by capitalizing on your strengths and making your weak points stronger. Try to go to social gatherings in your school too such as parties, football games, dances and mingling there. An easy line could be "hey aren't you in my math class" or "You know, I'm such an asshole. i've been going to school with you for a long time and i still don't know your name. haha" or "Don't take this the wrong way but I noticed you wearing band t shirt tv show shirt any generic graphic t shirt and i fucking love that shit" some bullshit like that. ALSO if you have connections to kids at other school that gives you perceived higher value. If you say something like "oh yeah I was at a other local high school party and the kids over there are something else" it will make you look as though you have a lot of friends and whether you actually do or not as far as being in high school goes it is all about faking it until you make it...into her pants. ALSO a good way to start to climb the social ladder is by slowly making your way into higher value friend groups. You probably know at least one kid on the verge of being popular, stick with him and then slowly integrate yourself into that group. I'm not saying abandon your friends or change who you are but it doesn't hurt to be cool with the cool kids. but also be cool with other groups too, make as many friends as possible, smile, wave and say what's up to people as you walk down the hall. I remember there was this one really popular football player that used to say hi to be and smile this big ass smile whenever he saw me and it made me feel good, be that guy to other people, make other people want to be around you. and read "How to Win Friends and Influence People" by Dale Carnegie

napsandsnacks · 2015-11-05T20:49:40+00:00

for future reference /r/highseddit can help you out with these situations

Title	High school cold approach
Author	Dmhgrosso3
Upvotes	7
Comments	29
Date	November 3, 2015 10:19 PM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/seduction
Original Link	https://old.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/3rev6o/high_school_cold_approach/
Archive Link	https://theredarchive.com/r/seduction/high-school-cold-approach.1397017 https://theredarchive.com/post/1397017

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