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Yeah, what time in August? I think I'll be in Bulgaria, Romania and seeing nanny in Sweden
/r/seduction10/07/16 06:53 AM
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I think I'll be gone later in August, I'll let you know though. Cheers bro
/r/seduction10/07/16 06:51 AM
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Tall Croatian girls. The gene pool is better
/r/seduction05/03/16 08:29 PM
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Anywhere from a day to a month. Depends on the interaction you had, what's going on in her life etc. Some days I've surprised myself "wow, i cant believe she's still keen after 3 wks overseas" other days I'm getting flaked "i can't believe the date was that fun and she's not talking to me". Dating is unpredictable like the weather, too many variables. If your half is good, awesome
/r/seduction25/02/16 11:34 AM
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She feels desired, you made her feel like a woman. Hold the tension longer next time, savour it. Good job, you'll see this happen heaps now ;)
/r/seduction23/02/16 09:35 AM
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Could it be you're so busy that you've become needy with the one girl, that's all you have time for? Girls actions speak louder than words
/r/seduction23/02/16 09:32 AM
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Alright, so you connect, do you date? What do dates look like? Or nights out?
/r/seduction22/02/16 10:26 AM
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Read up on what's recommend here, threads, books. Improve yourself. Do approaches day and night, find what girls you connect with. Stay positive (if you do everything else it comes hand in hand)
/r/seduction21/02/16 05:00 PM
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Rock confidence
/r/seduction20/02/16 07:21 AM
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Hahaha he means daddy has a fat gut. It acts as a pillow when he pounds her in bed
/r/seduction20/02/16 07:20 AM
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You have to go through the bad ones to find the good ones. Everyone does. Try it, maybe it's good
/r/seduction20/02/16 07:16 AM
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That's every human ever, everyone can be manipulative and act. Children learn if they cry and make a scene, they get what they want. Whether they're PUAs or not you risk that in every relationship.
/r/seduction20/02/16 07:15 AM
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Do you want him? Does him being a PUA even matter?
/r/seduction19/02/16 05:42 PM
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A more extreme version of what you're saying is "i want to move to a village for the challenge of finding somepne good" what demographic is attracted to villages? Go where people likeminded to you are, that's what everyone else is thinking. If you're an officey guy move to the yuppie suburb, local streets, gyms, and health food stores will be full of local yuppies. If you're a hipster, student, drug dealer, surfer dude, family man etc...
/r/seduction19/02/16 05:35 PM
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Was this thread here a week or two ago?
/r/seduction19/02/16 05:19 PM
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Never play the power game, he's looking to start trouble. Classic bully scenario, he's baiting you, he's insecure. Stop reacting, it kills the game and he will get bored and find someone more fun
/r/seduction19/02/16 05:11 PM
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I came from an urban sprawl city to. I searched for a long time and found a cheap room in the hipster suburb, walking distance to busy city, bars, cafes, markets all where you can meet and take girls. Solution- move to the best suburb.
/r/seduction19/02/16 05:05 PM
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Sooo do you want help?
/r/seduction19/02/16 04:45 PM
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If you want to be genuine i would recommend the free speeches on YouTube on the channel 21 University. Anything by James Marshall, Sasha Daygame, Nick Sparks, anyone will get you on track. Take everything you read/hear in the PUA scene with a grain of salt.
/r/seduction18/02/16 08:59 AM
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There's a short book by Shaun Masters called 'The Emotional Man' which is all about identifying and connecting with emotions. As for confidence, IMO bravery is also confidence. It's about becoming fearless, but having a healthy response to fear. Do you take action when you don't feel like it or stay passive? What label do you put on fear? Danger or an invitation to challenge and growth?
/r/seduction18/02/16 08:10 AM
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It's the same with anyone new, you learn when you get to know them. You'll handle it
/r/seduction18/02/16 08:00 AM
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Pffft I've done it. If there's an emotional connection - boyfriend. It's not what you do, but how you make the other feel. Feelings come from personalities.
/r/seduction17/02/16 07:42 PM
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Invite him to your place. Make dinner, watch a movie, he'll get the hint and make a move. Tell him the deal after sex. There's the classic saying "if you don't want him as a boyfriend, don't treat him like one"
/r/seduction17/02/16 07:16 PM
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I'm so jealous you live there
/r/seduction17/02/16 02:37 PM
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Another Berliner? Let's be friends
/r/seduction17/02/16 02:30 PM
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She didn't game him, she gave a pity hug. You wouldn't punish that
/r/seduction17/02/16 02:08 PM
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I have friends who are girls that work at stores and they confirm they want to be picked up by certain guys who come in
/r/seduction17/02/16 02:02 PM
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Try saying to yourself "I'm going to fail picking up this girl with her mum just for a laugh"
/r/seduction16/02/16 02:26 PM
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That's gamey as hell, it makes you look insecure. If she pities you it's unlikely she respects you, putting her down won't make her respect you, it's emotionally reactive, she will see you are trying to hide yourself. It's likely this happened in the first place because he over invested, we've all been there. I'd recommend finding someone who doesn't pity you and is enthusiastic to be with you for being your full self, after showing her your unfiltered full self. It's important to learn to disti…
/r/seduction16/02/16 02:20 PM
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"Isn't any place to socialize at the moment " I'm hearing internal resistance. Are there girls who shop at the same supermarket as you?
/r/seduction16/02/16 02:04 PM
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Push until you get a no, 2. acknowledge and sidestep, 3. repeat 1 and 2 until you get a never. If she's not keen, she's not keen, don't worry there's other young girls who love the idea. My friend is in her early 20s, shes really open about her love for older guys. Recently has been sleeping with a guy in his mid 50s
/r/seduction16/02/16 01:24 PM
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My wing and I make jokes about being 'the village creeps', since salespeople on the street and in shopping centres see us every day, walking together, alone, and talking with a new girl. They know what's going on. There's nothing more for us to hide now we're the creeps to them. The more you hide a secret the more shame you put on it, I think that's a line from No More Mr Nice Guy? Tell your friends, mother, old or current girlfriend you do pickup. You'll feel much less guilt after.
/r/seduction16/02/16 07:31 AM
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Sounds like he's afraid to pull the trigger. What's an RA? If he works for the college it could.feel.it be too risky
/r/seduction16/02/16 06:32 AM
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Holy shit awesome story. I'm reading this thinking "no, don't meet up with her again, she said just friends " and then you kept pushing and got laid. That's crazy, props to you. Look at how far you've come. And about the come thing, it could be that your body is conditioned to having orgasms from porn. My first time was exactly the same, also every time I don't have sex for a few months and watch lots of porn. There was one time a girl was getting pissed off I couldn't come, so I remembered this…
/r/seduction16/02/16 06:29 AM
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Shouldn't hurt your chances. Ask ones you like on dates
/r/seduction16/02/16 06:18 AM
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Woah, me too. It's cool to see someone else with the same idea
/r/seduction16/02/16 06:15 AM
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If she wants to and it sounds good to you, by all means. You can even lead her to lead you eg. "I don't drink coffee but I love frozen yoghurt. Show me a place you like". If she's trying to seduce you, let her
/r/seduction16/02/16 06:10 AM
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I've heard talks by Robbie Kramer with stories about picking up with his dog at the pet store. Treat is as anywhere seduction, not an enhancing tool. Realness is the real killer
/r/seduction16/02/16 06:04 AM
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Daygame definitely sounds like the go. You can't control others in nightgame. It's always interesting to do do nightgame sober, and also every once and a while do it tipsy/drunk or high on weed, ecstasy. Monitor your behavior, how you affect others, you may have a self awakening moment where you find untapped potential. That's the benefit of some drugs, only consistent use to bandaid social anxiety is bad
/r/seduction14/02/16 10:37 AM
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Was woofing on a farm in Germany, my boss was a 28yr old farmgirl. Thought it was to risky to go for it, so treated her as a friend. Made jokes, shared stories, talked about previous relationships like normal. We even switched phones and tried picking up dates for each other. The night before I left she messaged me on Facebook that she couldn't sleep and needed a bedtime story... Was a 27 yr old girl from nightgame, also first time mdma, she was visiting town. No story here, talked generic stuff…
/r/seduction14/02/16 10:27 AM
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"I don't feel like going to the gym today" You're tired because you don't go to the gym. If you pushed your threshold you'd have more energy. The ones who get big go on the days they don't want to go.
/r/seduction13/02/16 01:32 PM
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Doesn't sound like a shit test, ounds like she's just surprised to get approached. You like shopping and having a relaxing walk alone any day of the week, that's a normal thing.
/r/seduction13/02/16 01:27 PM
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Btw those articles are telling you bullshit. Just approach them like normal.
/r/seduction13/02/16 01:22 PM
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How much older? I'm a 21yr old who's been with a few 27-28 yr olds. The only difference I noticed was how much less resistance they put up, how much faster it was, and how much the conversations were better. I could see in their eyes it was a little bit weird, even though we both said we're cool with it. For older I wouldn't know
/r/seduction13/02/16 01:21 PM
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Sounds like your looking to... 'Increase your chances to get the highest possible success rate!'. It's about enjoying yourself, buy a drink only if you like it. Experience all of the options, then you can follow your heart.
/r/seduction13/02/16 01:11 PM
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Reminds me of James Marshalls rants on low energy seducing. Yep, master your own energy. Anything forced becomes goofy
/r/seduction13/02/16 01:01 PM
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Did you come here because you had any questions?
/r/seduction10/02/16 06:57 PM
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Intending to leave her wanted more sounds weird and gamey, but it can also be done in a good flirtatious way, be careful. Good job that you kept pushing
/r/seduction10/02/16 05:35 PM
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Good story man. I think I can point out to you something you did very well - you pointed out the elephant in the room when you noticed conversation wasn't flowing. There's nothing worse than two people pretending something isn't awkward. Huge tension release, you can both forgive each other and become comfortable
/r/seduction10/02/16 05:27 PM
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If the girl was doing the same to James Bond he would respond and not react. Save aggression for the bedroom
/r/seduction10/02/16 05:21 PM
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Yep always give my name, here's why. I went all of December last year collecting only 1 # 1 FB. I asked my wing, what's happening? We discovered I'm asking way too many questions, asking her name before giving mine was one. I found immediately the girls in my city (Berlin) responded more positively, perhaps they felt more comfortable. That was a hiccup month, now I'm getting my old results again, phew! I would recommend it, although it may depend on your own personality/girls/culture
/r/seduction10/02/16 05:09 PM
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Ignore the nay sayers. Yes you can fuck on the first date, even if it's for coffee, even if it's a walk in the park. Myself and wings have done it several times and we've also failed several times. Not every girl you can make the chemistry with, some girls don't have the time that day, but it's definitely something to try. Any old excuse works, just like after a night out "want to come inside for hot chocolate? Lunch? Hang out?". "Can I use your toilet " i used once, i actually needed to go
/r/seduction10/02/16 05:00 PM
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I'm no expert in this 'value giving' stuff, but I get the gist of it. Kinda like night game. I never thought about normal parties being the same, but I can see how it works. Good point man
/r/seduction10/02/16 01:42 PM
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Woah, you summed up everything really nice in the last paragraph. I like your mindset towards that
/r/seduction10/02/16 01:36 PM
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Now that's an interesting thought. Do you think possibly the friends would judge me badly? Have you tested this? Ima start saying yes to invites
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:07 AM
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I guess I'm not a super baller alpha then, damn haha. What's your opinion on why the girl offers the invite?
/r/seduction09/02/16 02:05 AM
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Dude, do you have any personal stories doing any of this?
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:58 AM
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Please post something constructive
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:56 AM
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I think it is haha. I went to a one girls party. It was definitely weird. Usually I reject cus it seems too weird.
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:55 AM
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U B hatin on John?
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:50 AM
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You guessed it, I'm 21 trying to pick up uni girls. Have you got experience getting invited out with a girls friends? I'd love to here some stories
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:47 AM
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I only accepted a party offer once to test it. That's exactly what i thought, social proof. Never went anywhere with her, we came from different worlds really. Funny you mention the jealously thing, I made friends with thins DJ guy from that party and saw his gig later. She was there with some macho bro I saw at her party lol. I'm not playing jealousy games though, games are for children
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:43 AM
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I usually reject the offer and ask to see them alone. Only went to a party once to test it. Didn't get to talk to her, way too many peeps, it was small and we were stuck in one room, not the greatest for talking to her alone. So yep, no kiss, she flaked after that
/r/seduction09/02/16 01:36 AM
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So did you be directly sexual?
/r/seduction08/02/16 03:40 PM
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Tall guy here, not all, but most
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:37 PM
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If they say that you move on because you respect yourself. She's very insecure
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:34 PM
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What if the girl had sexual abuse, is too afraid to have sex with anyone, all she wants is intimacy? There's always a but, women are complicated, no you don't have to fuck them they have to like you from what you made them feel
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:32 PM
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You flexed?
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:29 PM
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If you've set your boundary 'we remain friends' you've done all you need to do. If they still want more they're causing their own pain. The dating game is a slog, she'll come, you will have to meet many before she comes. Also, think about what your kind of girl does. Is she at a club on sunday at 2am or waking up early to do her routine yoga and shop at the sunday farmers market?
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:25 PM
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When in doubt, do another approach
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:18 PM
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Oi come to Berlin dude
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:15 PM
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"I think you're cute, wanna grab lunch this week?"
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:13 PM
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What are you going to do about it?
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:09 PM
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"I came alone, you guys look cool, hi I'm __"
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:06 PM
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Actually do it though
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:04 PM
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I feel like you're talking about dilated pupils. http://www.bodylanguageexpert.co.uk/what-do-dilated-pupils-mean.html Men / women who feel attracted do it, it's a feeling so it can't be forced. Forget the gamey tactics bullshit and and approach girls you like enough to make your pupils dilate
/r/seduction07/02/16 07:00 PM
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And if you improve every week where will you be in one year? Keep pushing! XD
/r/seduction07/02/16 06:56 PM
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Did you flirt with her? Sounds like you just had a conversation about incense and student lyf.
/r/seduction07/02/16 06:52 PM
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Acknowledge what others say, believe what you've tested
/r/seduction07/02/16 06:46 PM
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Have you read the standard books yet? Models by Mark Manson, No More Mr Nice Guy by Robert Glover, Way of the Superior Man by David Deida. Pick any, they all answer your question. Read all of them
/r/seduction07/02/16 06:44 PM
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Search John Keegan, -Awakened Lifestyles
/r/seduction07/02/16 06:41 PM
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Yep, that's it. You can also find a torrent for it
/r/seduction02/02/16 01:25 PM
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I'm seeing all these posts saying "yes", and I'm thinking fuck no! Maybe it's a cultural thing, i hear American girls expect you to pay, i have no experience there. From my experience in Australia and Europe, you split every time, unless your really like dating material girls... Paying for her can sometimes be offensive, especially in eastern Europe. Depends on the girls you go for.
/r/seduction01/02/16 07:28 PM
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Improv, talking with strangers on public transport, chatting with shopkeepers, never turning down an event request on FB, books, dates, approaches!
/r/seduction01/02/16 07:05 PM
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Definitely approach between dates
/r/seduction01/02/16 07:03 PM
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She's definitely rubbing it in your face because she's a man hating succubus. Not really, she's seeking YOUR validation big daddy, maybe she likes you, ask her out.
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:57 PM
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Sounds like that's the gist of it. Must remember, depending in the girl she may perceive that in different ways, flirty, gamey/needy, indifferent
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:54 PM
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There's avoidance, and then there's dealing with things outside of your control. Imo this is beyond you, unless your interested in becoming his therapist. Ask to work with someone else, or be patient and meditate through all your reactive behaviours (great practice! )
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:46 PM
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Yep, that's the one. I can also recommend My Secret Garden. Will change your mind about what turns women on.
/r/seduction01/02/16 06:40 PM
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You bother some, others love you. Life...
/r/seduction30/01/16 11:39 PM
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Sorry, What personality do you want your dream girl to have? http://imgur.com/qoQqVPR I read that out of Models recently, it reminded me of your comment
/r/seduction30/01/16 11:38 PM
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Depends on your personality, bigjonny here is certainly different... I would start very small and build up. Start with a simple observation, small talk, compliment. "I like the flowers on your dress" (hold eye contact). Test the waters, maybe she'll say "yeah, thanks" and continue shopping with her head down, or maybe she'll tell the story of where she got it. She's open, cool, amp up your observations/compliments. "You move very relaxed, you must have a day off..." if she's still talking to you…
/r/seduction30/01/16 12:08 PM
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Sounds like you're at a really good point with her. You can literally just drop a line, "wanna grab a coffee this week " at any time. She may want to, she may not, but try. Be on your best behavior, there's pressure on both of you
/r/seduction30/01/16 11:40 AM
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The chase and flirtation The invitation signals, the indecision, leave room for you to take the masculine role, very sexy. So long as she doesn't block her desires too long. A woman who makes me feel like a man I'll return to before a masculine direct woman who fuck my brains out.
/r/seduction30/01/16 11:36 AM
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Depends who you hang around and what you talk about. Talk about money with lawyers and you'll probably find out they're material people and their parents wanted them to study it. I am a poor artist, I attract other poor artists who enjoy/value the small things. It's like manifestation, attracting what you're putting out. The question is, what do you want a girl for you to look like?
/r/seduction30/01/16 11:22 AM
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Perhaps it's linked to something from childhood, something you're parents or culture taught you about female bodies. Here's a belief and desire I changed, I linked it to my parents. I've never heard my parents (who loved each other very much) have sex EVER. Them being my role models partly led to me thinking sex wasn't had often by couples, so when I entered a relationship for the first time I didn't expect much sex and never made moves.
/r/seduction30/01/16 11:18 AM
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Yes practice makes perfect, and so does trying something new. Do too little of either and you will experience boring plateaus in your growth. For me, improv acting classes totally changed my interactions. How To Win Friends and Influence People -(the book ) also
/r/seduction30/01/16 11:03 AM
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Girls who consistently flake won't enrich your life, move on to girls who want to be with you
/r/seduction30/01/16 10:58 AM
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Have you had sex with women who are both sexy and feminine? I think back and cringe to experiences with women who had smokin bodies, but their personality was a little masculine. Chemistry between you makes her hotter.
/r/seduction30/01/16 10:56 AM
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If that's your opinion of her she is definitely not your type, move on
/r/seduction30/01/16 10:52 AM
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Keep your head up you get good bloodflow to the brain
/r/seduction29/01/16 07:41 PM
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Chill man. I've done one, can confirm everything he said is true
/r/seduction29/01/16 07:40 PM
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The big secret is that girls respond smell, science backs it up with research on pheromones. I've taken bootcamps with all the major PUA companies and they all wear AXE, no doubt about it. I used to worry about girls flaking when I got their numbers, now I have a 40% f close rate because I switched my antiperspirant. It's also totally obliterated all of my AA.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:54 PM
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Long term relationships. Never had one, kinda scared of them too. That makes me curious to try.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:40 PM
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If you had 5 other girls you were banging right now would go as far as to even flirt with your friends girl?
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:37 PM
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That she's got an imagination (VERY NORMAL IN WOMEN) and she's brave and open enough to tell men, despite the risk of being thought of as a slut or something bad. She sounds like a catch to me. Read My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday, let that be your lesson on female sexuality, stop the porn watching.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:35 PM
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After watching this seduction dude called Liam McRae I went on every date expecting to fuck on the first date. I did for several of them, coffee dates and all. Watch Liam, his mindsets will blow you away. Also forget age, I have an open relationship with a 28yr old, I'm 21. It's uncomfortable when you project your own uncomfortable beliefs through your actions. Put it like this, if she's on the date with you, she's considering you as a potential sexual partner, either on the date or near future.…
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:24 PM
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Way of the superior man by David Deida or something. My Secret Garden by Nancy Friday is an incredible insight into female sexuality, with improve openness to bedroom play. Models really covers most of it, I've read plenty of stuff. I'm only just reading Models now. 'She comes first' another sex book, 'multi orgasmic man' -Mantak Chia. Google Swami and Tantra, he has Tantra books
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:12 PM
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Just adding what you missed, you have to be flirting and have her responding well BEFORE you get into the house of someone you know, preferably car too. Don't fuck up jobs or friendships that end in her having trauma by surprising her, inside the safety of her home.
/r/seduction29/01/16 06:04 PM
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"And then you could get rejected " oh come on... That's the game dude. I feel like this works better on strangers. Google Liam McRae - Rapid Escalation, he's the fast sex guy, he has plenty of those tips which sounds exactly like what you're asking for. It's all about a huge spike of sexual excitement, that's so much easier with a stranger because you/she has nothing to loose.
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:56 PM
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How to stop a fear = face it/ alcohol. Kidding, don't be that guy. Work your way up the attractiveness ladder man, we've all climbed it
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:48 PM
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Man, this takes me back. I had a housemate who did the same. Tried all sorts of shit, confrontations, negotiations etc. In the end that just pushed him to make more defences for his insecurities, to try to out alpha me any more. I never fought back, I'm not looking to compete, i had to move. Sorry OP, I feel like you wont change him and you'll have to move out. They're an energy drain
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:45 PM
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Nah, I'm slowly developing a bias against Anglo Saxon women. Mainland Europe has thinner, more stylish and cultured girls
/r/seduction29/01/16 05:34 PM
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Don't expect to see IOIs perfectly in the present all the time, you'll see more of them in your past as you grow.
/r/seduction28/01/16 09:02 AM
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Awesome to hear your progress. Don't expect to be perfect, expect to make a mistake, think you're a fool and learn from it. That's the journey. The fact you get girls forgiving you and helping you is lucky, repect to them. We've all thought back to nights and moments where we thought "all i needed to do was kiss her at that moment, it would have changed everything! ". Those are painful growth moments. Seek them out
/r/seduction28/01/16 09:00 AM
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They can like both, it's a big world
/r/seduction28/01/16 08:54 AM
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Also, friends don't compliment on bootys. Good job, she kept you out of the friend zone. Now go get her!
/r/seduction27/01/16 06:55 AM
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Girls on resorts? Sounds like a place like that attracts couples. Try the streets
/r/seduction27/01/16 06:51 AM
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Fuck yeah, good to hear. Set a higher goal now, this one sounds like it will get too easy for you too fast
/r/seduction27/01/16 06:44 AM
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-that's the game. Some girls call you creepy, some girls are married, some girls invite you for coffee. Numbers game
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:30 PM
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There's always a new game to learn in life. If you don't want to talk about certain things, don't. It's fake doing otherwise. If you're not getting the sex you want with her, either you're not initiating it or you chose a partner not right for you and you must keep fishing
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:27 PM
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Feel good OP, she's probably had a stressful day, but she's open enough to take a chance with you. She understands you have to take chances. She respects you and wants to date you, even if she's tired. You should feel special, now quick, go make her the special one !
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:21 PM
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Australian living in Germany, can confirm. Still, it's no EE. Where are you?
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:17 PM
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I 2nd this. Girls want you to make a move, it's validating. Ask, but don't have expectations
/r/seduction26/01/16 11:14 PM
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You're lucky, I want gifts! Jist be a good receiver, sounds like you've had some spooky luck
/r/seduction26/01/16 02:24 PM
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Another possible reason is they energy you felt amd gave. When I first moved cities I got more dates from less approaches. I feel I'm living a little more comfortably now, things gotta change
/r/seduction26/01/16 02:22 PM
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You can't get every girl, you can find a better one. Put time into looking
/r/seduction26/01/16 02:11 PM
1

To play is to manipulate, thats a dark path which will attract manipulative women. You force them to play your game. Be honest and direct and you'll attract others who are the same. You attract what you are, give it a try
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:58 PM
1

I've been with TNL, personal preference. Yep, if you're not getting girls you're happy with speak out, get some coaching. You'll never be happy if it wasn't your choice. Also, if you only want the 10s, only approach the 10s, they will teach you how to pick them up
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:50 PM
1

Yep, hearing this from the outside sounds like you need to chill out. I too am in a relationship, I still get these gamey thoughts running through my mind. I feel they stem from my own insecurity. The way I try and deal with it is by remembering I like my life even without her, and remembering I can have her replaced. Also here's a reframe, how much sexier does she now feel to have a man who chose her help her with her bra? How masculine do you feel giving her that pleasure? Have fun :P
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:39 PM
2

Anything by The Natural Lifestyle and their affiliates. Look at 21 Convention on YouTube. Changed my life a year ago. Also, a personal tip for someone just learning, be skeptical of what you hear, and read up on many different opinions. Anyone who tells you "this is the only way" is close minded thenself, and bullshitting you. You'll know what's right for you. Many people in this industry (even this subreddit!) prey and market to insecure men (just pay $20 for this e-book and then you'll finally…
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:29 PM
1

Do it, post it here
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:21 PM
1

Why compare yourself to others?
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:20 PM
1

You bloody rippa, happy straya day, have a good one. Step by step, the right people respect people who take risks like that
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:17 PM
1

Trolling is the biggest tension killer :P It's pleasurable for you to give love.
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:12 PM
1

No worries. I feel like that was a harsh review to, cheers for being cool about ;) Yep I can think of a few things. Some stories about experiences would be helpful. Because it's like a dance, you respond to each other, what goes on in your mind when you see her do this, why did you respond with that. Talk from the foreplay, oral, penetration, orgasms, post sex cuddles and talk, possible shower/snack together, and back into it for round 2 :P it's your show, so if you want to focus on sex comedy, …
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:10 PM
1

Are you weird for liking her? Is it weird that a man can like a woman without it being mutual?
/r/seduction26/01/16 01:00 PM
1

"How to do it successfully " i can answer that everyone is different, be prepared to make mistakes
/r/seduction26/01/16 12:57 PM
1

"Live with the rejection " what's going to happen? Be honest
/r/seduction25/01/16 08:36 PM
1

My first girl was a dental nurse, once she said "open your mouth " at a friends party, i did and she held my mouth open and had a big old look at the condition my teeth. Totally caught me offhand. She told me I need to brush my gums and behind my teeth, not very sexy... And still we were together. She even tried that move again, but I knew her tricks haha and wouldn't let her look again. Anyway, your teeth don't matter, your balls do. Ask her out ;)
/r/seduction25/01/16 08:33 PM
7

Woah, the bit you wrote about teasing shines new light on old experiences. Good post
/r/seduction25/01/16 08:24 PM
1

Not a fan Dave. You interrupted your friend a lot, he was talking substance, most of the podcast is your irrelevant stories and not at all useful. I skipped lots because I was searching for more on the book, you probably only spent about 10-15 min talking about it. Do a new one if you're looking to educate men
/r/seduction25/01/16 03:55 PM
1

Improv theatre, music. You?
/r/seduction25/01/16 02:53 PM
1

Pressure also comes from the emotion in your voice and body language, not just what you say. Unless you describe what else you do we can't critique. Try getting someone to watch you
/r/seduction25/01/16 02:52 PM
1

That's the deep friend zone there. Definitely don't escalate, read No More Mr Nice Guy
/r/seduction25/01/16 02:48 PM
1

"But every time..." imagine if you turned that 'but' into an 'and'
/r/seduction25/01/16 02:40 PM
1

Let's be friends, I'll inbox you ;)
/r/seduction24/01/16 10:46 PM
1

Will comparing yourself to others bring you closer to what you want?
/r/seduction24/01/16 07:04 PM
2

So by "making it clear" you've told them no serious relationship, cool, do you treat them like that? If they develop girlfriend feelings it may be that you treat them like one and you need to back off and give you both some room. If not she's being a little needy which hurts herself. Why not an open relationship?
/r/seduction24/01/16 07:02 PM
2

Girls who have clearly flirted hard with me have held my eye contact, curled their hair, flapped their eyelashes, put their arm around mine, bumped me whenever I made a joke, read my palm, asked questions about what my bedroom is like, am I having success meeting quality women online. All of it except for taking my arm was very arousing
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:55 PM
1

Is this good for creating conversation or spicy romance?
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:45 PM
2

For what reasons is she the kind of girl you want to bring into your life? If she's often alone I would presume she doesn't have much going on for her. I would look for other girls
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:44 PM
1

You're an asshole for having success? How? And what are you referring to when "shit hits thr fan "?
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:38 PM
1

I can relate, it's a common feeling. What are you going to do about it?
/r/seduction24/01/16 06:35 PM
2

Woah, great post. You're very self analytical and honest with yourself, i like that. The whole time I read this I was thinking of the book 'no more mr nice guy'. He talks a lot about expressing your true feelings, being vulnerable, setting boundaries etc. You'll see romance appearing in your interactions when you can both be vulnerable together. You're already self analytical, should be easier for you. Check it out, he explains the 'how' and 'why' in a great way ;)
/r/seduction24/01/16 03:03 PM
0

Whoa, word tricks. Indirect seems bad, starting from a pretending frame
/r/seduction24/01/16 02:55 PM
3

My shit test wisdom may be different to others... Hear me out, and please post your opinion :) ~there's no such thing as a shit test, because women will test you consciously or unconsciously to qualify you or protect themself. They do it to see if you are a truly confident safe man with integrity who chooses her, doesn't need her. We all know women have had terrible, possibly damaging experiences with men reacting badly in their past. Men watch women for red flags (is she needy? Is she insecure?…
/r/seduction23/01/16 08:47 PM
2

Town ~ no one to approach, no good looking girls, everyone talks about leaving, little ambition, to many men, girls must all move to the city... Australian city~ better, actually has some good looking girls, people are happier and more interesting, not much going on, city is designed as an urban sprawl European village~ literally can't approach anyone but the neighbours! English isn't common! European city (currently home)~ much better, gene pool makes girls hotter, women have better style, more…
/r/seduction23/01/16 08:30 PM
6

Very normal approaches, probably not shit tests. Forget pickup lingo, do more approaches and you'll snag a good one
/r/seduction22/01/16 08:22 AM
1

I felt like this for a while. It could be subtle details in your approach. My wingman noticed when I daygame is walk slightly behind the girl. He told me it may make her feel followed, so I should walk slightly faster than her and lead the walk. I went 2 weeks of getting no numbers back to numbers every day. Also introducing yourself with your name first. Girls open up to me so much more.
/r/seduction21/01/16 08:12 AM
1

RSD are one of the better companies imo. They rant a lot of waffle though. Imo James Marshall, Sasha Day, John Keegan are more to the point. It's all the same stuff. It's great you're skeptical, because there are some marketing succubi out there :P
/r/seduction20/01/16 04:26 PM
1

Not in Vancouver. My recommendationsa are TNL and Sasha Daygame, check them out and decide for yourself what's good for you ;)
/r/seduction20/01/16 09:57 AM
1

Go deeper man, the problem is knowing what you're looking for. Multiple relationships while still having your own space? As many girls as you can get? LTR? Then we can help
/r/seduction17/01/16 11:12 AM
2

I can relate to this. Good story, your work has given you results you deserve
/r/seduction17/01/16 11:07 AM
2

What's your situation? Is it more beneficial to you to have any coach in Vancouver or travel to the city with you perfect coach in it?
/r/seduction17/01/16 11:03 AM
1

Any kind of.exercise just brings you into the present and into your body. Make small talk with reception, regulars at the gym. Small steps, deeper into the fire, sharpening your sword more and more
/r/seduction17/01/16 10:33 AM
1

Here's my philosophy, as trolly as it is. Taking a shit feels weird. If I don't do it, my intestines may burst or I'll shit my pants. Approaching girls feels weird, so does texting her, so does the date, escalating, walking her into my room, but if I run from the butterflies in my stomatch, neither of us get amazing relationships, sex and adventures. I can bring this to women by approaching and being content with the butterflies
/r/seduction13/01/16 05:01 PM
1

You never told us yours WOTG... :P
/r/seduction13/01/16 04:54 PM
1

"I might be worried I might offend him " Be honest and direct with him. "I don't think you'll get along " Your instincts are giving you the red flag. Listen
/r/seduction13/01/16 04:42 PM
1

Brisbane?
/r/seduction13/01/16 04:32 PM
2

"In our society exchanging Facebook is for friends " What society? I've used it instead of numbers in Australia and Europe. All the young people use FB and whatsapp instead of texting. Poor students still gotta hook up yo
/r/seduction13/01/16 03:54 PM
1

So so don't perceive yourself as ordinary (that's good) And you make other people perceive you as mysterious. Why not make them see awesome you?
/r/seduction05/01/16 09:13 AM
0

You create mystery You're an ordinary guy Why create mystery?
/r/seduction04/01/16 04:38 PM
3

Was speaking with a 27yr old virgin earlier today. His life seemed to be depending on it a bit much, he was a bit negative. He'd slowly been getting closer, creating small successes, approaching, going on dates. His life is changing slowly and surely. It will definitely happen Have a happy life outside of dating. If you want it sex to happen, intend for it to happen, manifest it, you'll see the steps you need to take and take them, or you fail and learn them, bringing you a step closer. Think of…
/r/seduction04/01/16 12:26 AM
2

Okay, tell us how you feel about the girls. Are there things you like? Don't like? Can you find things she has in other girls? Can you find things she's missing in other girls? Take a break from women, mediate on your thoughts, read your emotions, get back in there when you have a clearer understanding of what you want. Your game may be shit because you don't know yourself right now :o take a break
/r/seduction02/01/16 11:07 PM
1

Bro, you know the girl, not us. We have no feel for her personality, what you shared in your interaction For all we know she has a Nokia phone because she can't work the internet and hates texting.
/r/seduction02/01/16 10:58 PM
1

Ask your girl what kind of girls she likes. If she likes a certain type of girl, if she has a certain fantasy bring that to her
/r/seduction02/01/16 10:48 PM
1

"He gets to take her virginity as well" Why does that matter? You're totally right about everything else.
/r/seduction01/01/16 12:04 PM
2

Handle it by going on the date
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:40 AM
2

I had a mildly autistic friend who killed it next to me. We'd go out, I'd get a date for the week and he'd actually take girl home. Why? Cus he owned it. Confidence wins again. If you believe your a hard ass nerd, you'll attract people who think you're a hard ass.
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:39 AM
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I'm going to be controversial and recommend you pay for sex first time. Find someone who can fuck you right. Without experience with women you'll start off at the bottom, bad sex with bad chicks. Once you get the good sex you'll know what you're looking for from experience. I wasn't impressed by sex till my 5th girl, I lacked motivation because (of confidence and) I got a string of shit partners. If all you've had is shit you get the wrong impression ie. you may believe that's as good as sex get…
/r/seduction28/12/15 12:26 AM
1

Tell bad stories until they become good stories. Dunno, don't have any books to recommend sorry. How are you amongst your friends?
/r/seduction26/12/15 12:00 PM
2

She messaged you first... Just ask her out, cut to the chase, make her job of picking you up easy
/r/seduction26/12/15 01:41 AM
1

Sometimes they're also just shit at conversation. If you're not a good story teller, become one. If she's been talking for ages, reward her by giving her a break and telling a story. They're interested to learn about you too Practice on guy friends too (but without your sexy seducer eyes)
/r/seduction26/12/15 01:02 AM
1

"Pick a dangerous hobby" wat?
/r/seduction26/12/15 12:56 AM
1

Go to her address and demand that money!
/r/seduction26/12/15 12:48 AM
1

Could have been a joke bro. She certainly doesn't want you becoming over reactive. Maybe suggest something else for the date. Imagine the experience from her mind. Guy buys her all this shit Next is 3rd date, we know what's coming next It's a bar, we know what's coming next. Chicks don't want to feel pressured into sex. Chill out and see her again. Have you kissed her yet? It's definitely her shout this time
/r/seduction24/12/15 06:02 PM
5

The book the game features many stories of travelling to countries and picking up using English. Ive done it, my mates have done it. Don't post here, try it
/r/seduction24/12/15 05:46 PM
1

How old is this girl? Is she religious? Sexual abuse? I'm trying to understand what's stopping her. What do you do to make her feel 'sexy'. Admit you have needs, if she can't fulfill them, look elsewhere.
/r/seduction14/12/15 11:37 AM
1

Really? How fine with it are you? You're posting here "how can I end my drought" and you're saying you're fine...
/r/seduction12/12/15 10:32 PM
3

"But she didn't invite me " You are your own leader brah. Go dance with her. Also, she could have been trying to wing her friend she left you with. Dunno, wasn't there
/r/seduction11/12/15 11:11 AM
3

Lol, they try and sell you shit right at the end. "Good thing we know the tricks if you're not a male model " right after they make you feel like a poo. Make a fake model account, try it. Otherwise it's another marketing scumbag preying off of weaker dudes
/r/seduction11/12/15 11:03 AM
2

If you don't want to, don't. Google how to increase libido. Diet, gym, lifestyle all contribute
/r/seduction11/12/15 10:53 AM
4

You know you're being needy
/r/seduction09/12/15 07:54 AM
16

Everyone needs to see this
/r/seduction08/12/15 05:30 PM
1

Alright, sounds good. What are you reasons for cutting them off. Is it you? Them?
/r/seduction06/12/15 02:57 PM
2

Go sleep with 10 other girls and then ask yourself how much she matters.
/r/seduction06/12/15 12:48 PM
1

What's your situation bro?
/r/seduction05/12/15 05:32 PM
1

Following a system sounds like a trap. Social interactions are unpredictable, you have to improvise and calibrate
/r/seduction05/12/15 05:26 PM
1

Also Italy is bad for English speakers, that's the only one I know to avoid for language problems
/r/seduction05/12/15 04:50 PM
1

Where do you have in mind brah? Fellow Aussie here. I'm living in Berlin, pm me if here's on your list, I'll give you the lowdown. Every girl is different, some don't mind you fooling around because they do too. Don't worry about it. January is dark and bloody cold in the north, stay along the Mediterranean. So many northern girls go on holiday to Portugal, Morocco and Croatia etc. at this time to catch some vitamin D. Really great time to pick a solo backpacker.
/r/seduction05/12/15 04:47 PM
2

This. Also, you can still exchange names, use your hands to signal grabbing a drink, "I ♡ you", do you want to sleep? There's obstacles but people can do it brah
/r/seduction04/12/15 11:17 PM
1

Men for the most part are pretty logical. Talking in terms of 'strategies' makes more sense to men. While continuing conversation can feel like a natural flow, if it lacks direction, if it's not being lead then no one gets laid :(
/r/seduction04/12/15 11:10 PM
2

What scares you about signing up for improv class? -I do two a week, its amazing fun, you laugh your ass off, the people are amazing, none of us are particularly good :)
/r/seduction04/12/15 09:49 AM
1

Every human must pursue relationships (there are many kinds) with other humans, of couse, it's a part of life. And kudos to you for your strength of pulling shit together. Yeah, sounds like you made a wrong move with a girl, so what. Truth is, sometimes they still forgive you, and there are more hot girls in cities turning 18 faster than you can approach them. Google TNL, like RSD but they go deeper
/r/seduction04/12/15 09:41 AM
2

She sounds stuck in her head. She felt uncomfortable, conservative cultures are terrible at breeding open people, it's out of your control. She liked you, might still do, go for it anyway. Move to a new city brah
/r/seduction30/11/15 08:12 AM
1

When in doubt, escalate
/r/seduction29/11/15 05:43 PM
1

Imagine a clearance sale. All stock must go. Prices of all the rubbish that the store couldn't sell are marked down to a very low price, and ads are in your face begging for you to buy it. You know they are selling rubbish. Your mind is associating her with rubbish because she's shoving way too much in your face.
/r/seduction29/11/15 05:37 PM
1

Just keep it quiet, we won't tell ;) Dude, you know girls from your high school who were hanging around older guys In many other cultures young girls get married to older men. This has been happening for thousands of years, it's just recently in western culture our attitude has changed. The chicks are happy to do it
/r/seduction29/11/15 05:27 PM
2

Flirt despite the fear, fail a million times, get back up again, have some successes, laugh and cry, learn and grow a lot, become flirting ninja master!
/r/seduction29/11/15 05:20 PM
1

Say excuse me
/r/seduction29/11/15 09:26 AM
1

Totally dude, they're all good options
/r/seduction28/11/15 09:08 AM
3

"Has to call you" Why don't you just call her?
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:06 PM
3

Tits
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:03 PM
1

"Yeah but..." Dude, how can you fix your situation? Do you want this?
/r/seduction27/11/15 11:03 PM
1

Just living in a good part of town keeps you in a good state of mind too. As you return home you see people going to bars, cafes and think, "I should be socializing too"
/r/seduction24/11/15 01:05 PM
1

The fact that you talk to strangers puts you in the running for all the weirdness. Just say yes to offers. You meet people on their way to parties, interesting exhibitions, anything. Some people are doing some really crazy stuff with their life and your taking the risk to ask to be in it. For breaking out of your shell, read the material made by pros, it's better than what anyone will post here (Dale Carnegie- how to make friends and influence people. Helped me)
/r/seduction24/11/15 01:03 PM
1

Dig deeper, I'm interested in your story. Why don't you trust women? And what are you doing that makes you think you're manipulating people?
/r/seduction21/11/15 10:49 AM
1

Interested to hear how you use kino skating. It seems hard, i can't picture it
/r/seduction21/11/15 04:09 AM
1

I've been doing something along the lines of this for 6 months with girls I'm sleeping with. It works. It's much smoother and playful than "so ah, I'm not looking for anything serious... (Insert silence of death)... That's cool right?". This is my game though, change and personalise it if you dig. Ask her what kind of guys she likes. What's her type/checklist? Then be like, "hmm, how can we hook you up with someone like that :)" Inquire about guys in her social circle, brainstorm ideas for meeti…
/r/seduction21/11/15 03:33 AM
1

Nope. Having a gig probably helps. Especially if alcohol is involved
/r/seduction21/11/15 02:42 AM
0

I'm in the same situation with a girl right now (only we're in different countries) . chill, she'll live her life and go where she needs , good for her, you sound like you've got yours and congrats, keep it up. Sounds like you've left on a good note, so that means you've 'got a girl in a new port'. distance means you can't start a relationship good amd stuff, so both of you will look elsewhere, but that doesn't mean you can't continue things when where they left off next time either if you are i…
/r/seduction21/11/15 02:06 AM
1

Sexual tension is one thing, but for spicy romance Google 'emotional impact' . I'm too drunk to explain now :D Create impact someone and that puts you become that addictive guy with who makes people feel different, yay.
/r/seduction21/11/15 01:33 AM
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Chill playa. Even the most mad sillz PUA guru dudes can't get every girl. That's life as a human. True, maybe your pimp game wasn't strong that night, or maybe she's got a really specific criteria of what she wants. Who cares, find a new friend. It's easy to get attached because you've invested time and possibly money into 'trying her out'. That's just your mind fucking with you. All normal feelings. Why should one talking meatbag worry about what another talking meatbag thinks?
/r/seduction21/11/15 01:22 AM
1

Try until you fail. She's 1 in a line of many other girls you'll flirt with
/r/seduction21/11/15 01:06 AM
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"We don't connect on the level I want" There's no perfect line. If that doesn't work she's sensitive beyond what's acceptable in a human. How she reacts is always out of your power, chill Why don't you like her?
/r/seduction21/11/15 01:02 AM
1

I met my 2 of my best friends (guys, both artists and collaborators) by talking to strangers in the street. Started conversation with observation, turned into small talk, we get along, FB close, it's the fucking same haha
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:30 AM
4

As a music producer no, I fucking love club music. Go to the places you like because that's where you'll meet the girls you want to attract
/r/seduction18/11/15 09:08 AM
1

Social freedom, be direct in everything, stay very open socially. Look at all the inner game stuff
/r/seduction18/11/15 01:27 AM
2

Well you're going with the flow of the conversation, so that good. Imagine being the girl. She's like "hmm, that guy is cute, but I wonder if I will like him" then you have your chat. What's on her mind as you talk about football? Or other topics?
/r/seduction16/11/15 06:28 PM
2

Sounds like your confident with your talking, and you go for the close, perfect. What do you talk about?
/r/seduction16/11/15 06:04 PM
2

How do you approach?
/r/seduction16/11/15 05:03 PM
1

As do guys. I feel like before/after that time of month is a factor here...
/r/seduction16/11/15 02:07 PM
3

Self doubt can be a deal breaker
/r/seduction16/11/15 02:03 PM
4

Sometimes because your sexy, sometimes because you look different or interesting, sometimes because they don't want to walk into you as they cross the street. If you dress well then approach anyway. Everyone likes compliments from well dressed strangers :)
/r/seduction16/11/15 01:48 PM
5

Regardless of how it goes, good job. One of many steps in your journey
/r/seduction15/11/15 07:08 PM
5

Sometimes it just doesn't work out. Best you can do is go on a million dates and keep trying new shit, and enjoy the failures (just cane back from a date that failed). Some guys will always have a better succes rate on dates then you, forget numbers, go on more dates. Other than that, improv classes and actually having an interesting life help
/r/seduction15/11/15 07:07 PM
2

Do it, post results
/r/seduction11/11/15 09:50 AM
1

Judging by the things she's said she's into you. She never said "oh, you're so nice " she says you can get anyone you want! -Winning I started hearing this early on in seduction, experience is irrelevant, that means your showing good signs to her Be careful though, judge her or be weird about the fact she's got a higher number and you'll fuck it up. Be happy she's happy
/r/seduction11/11/15 07:55 AM
1

Yep. Why?
/r/seduction09/11/15 11:59 PM
1

Bitches love feeling special, make them feel wanted but not needed
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:28 AM
1

There is no magic pill. All these feelings are normal and they happen to everyone. Go do an improv workshop, or something else you enjoy that's refreshing.
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:24 AM
1

Tell us what it is specifically that's on your mind
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:19 AM
1

Channel your weirdness into charming awesomeness
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:10 AM
1

You'll need 4 squares of a chocolate bar /km So assuming she travels at an average of 80km/h for 1.5h, she's a total distance of roughly 120km. Here, I'll do the maths for you 120km x 4 blocks = 480. Best go for more and have 500 squares so you don't fall short. That's how i got all my bitches
/r/seduction04/11/15 09:14 PM
1

"Thought she was a good girl and everything until we started talking about our past." Careful, you better not be judging her on that shit. Everyone needs some good lovin, even it's only for 1 night
/r/seduction04/11/15 08:58 PM
2

Warning- this is the same as normal pickup. A few think youre retarded but most find you a little charming Forget this 'value' bullshit. If you know who you are and you've got shit going in your life you're probably the most interesting kid around, everyone is attracted to that. Guitar, sport, acting, writing, whatevs you're passionate about, be your own dude FIRST and know who you are. Combine that with not judging chicks sexualuality, leading and all the other stuff here and boom Forget having…
/r/seduction04/11/15 08:08 PM
2

I left Australia for Germany two months ago. Forget the anglo-saxon chicks bro, they can't be fixed. Move your ass to Europe and save the frustration
/r/seduction04/11/15 07:28 PM
5

Try it. Post the results here :)
/r/seduction04/11/15 06:45 PM
1

Say "stop" look her in the eyes, she'll be looking at you, hold it, kiss
/r/seduction04/11/15 06:25 PM
3

Just curious, what was the reason to get more 'value'?
/r/seduction23/10/15 06:21 AM
1

Girls, like many other people, go out with the intention on getting laid. You can be that guy
/r/seduction23/10/15 06:08 AM
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