From what I read on this sub and from what I watch on the different PUA's Youtube Channels I get the impression that for everybody it takes few hours or few days do get a girl : I met the girls I got her number / we set up a date after / After one or few date : Fclose.

Whereas for me it seems way longer. I really got to build comfort and it can take a while. The girls I meet may seem easy to approach but are very hard to connect with. I often got to meet them several time before setting up a date and I’m pretty direct.

And it’s not an easy path. For example girls don’t text me back, I got tested, I’m often rejected at first, I got flaked a lot… And eventually after this long journey fool of trap I can date them and eventually get Fclose. For exemple the two girls I had took me several months and I’ve been rejected at first.

Am I the only one in this situation? I got the impression that I don’t have the same tempo that everybody.