Hi Sedditors.

I’m back in the game for less than a year right now and I’m practicing as often as I can. I must admit that I have learned a lot thanks to you. Like a lot of people here I had few but amazing successes and of course a lot of failures that I don't regret. I practice seduction in social activities (specially dance) this means there’s no alcohol involved. I’ve noticed that the difference between a nice flirt that leads to nothing and a flirt that lead to at least a date is connection. When you connect with a girl, she invests in you. She shares with you her personal feelings. She feels understood and close to you. She feels secure and genuinely wants to see you again.

For me the key of the success is definitely connection.

Sometimes connection just happens naturally. But sometimes it just doesn’t come.

Here’s my question: Do you have tips to trigger connection?

What I’ve experienced that works well is: - Sharing first a personal experience that shows your vulnerability - Listen to what she says and ask personnel questions, - Make her laugh I know this is pretty standard so if you could help me… Thanks Ps: English is not my first language