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| 85 | Single moms are the bestSingle moms tend to have very little time to go out. Usually they're arranging a sitter just to go meet you, and they're not going to be getting sitters twice a week while they go in search of the one perfect guy out of the next 100 they'll meet. Basically, the result of this is that all you need to do is don't fuck it up and she's gonna fuck you. She needs sex, and this is her window of opportunity. So don't be a creep, don't be disagreeable. Make sure you're showered and your nails are trimmed… | /r/seduction | 16/05/23 06:57 PM |
| 614 | A simple strategy I stole from the Art of War.Do this in all of life. Great post. | /r/seduction | 03/05/23 09:42 PM |
| 4 | No bs, are my standards delusional?sure it might change the way I (we) live but it isn't anything too extreme). Now just imagine that out there, the perfect woman exists and she's having this conversation with her friends, telling them "I really couldn't ever date someone who had been poor," because she's focused on the disqualifiers rather than the potential. It's so important to look for the things you want rather than the things you don't, because no matter what it is you're looking for, you're going to find it. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 02:10 PM |
| 10 | No bs, are my standards delusional?Force yourself to use positive descriptors. "Healthy," for example, can include being drug-free, but it doesn't necessarily have to -- a person could be amazing and fun and maybe they share a joint once a month while hanging out with friends, but a person who is shooting heroin every day is most definitely not going to ever be considered "healthy." When you say "but she does drugs," you only leave room to disqualify everyone you meet and no room to actually find someone you like. "Mentally healt… | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 01:28 PM |
| 11 | No bs, are my standards delusional?Your trouble is that your list is all disqualifies. This is reactionary, and it means YOU are the problem. A healthy list would be positive qualifiers, rather than negative disqualifies — things like open-minded, adventurous, warm, welcoming, active, intelligent, thoughtful, etc. The lens you use to view the world is 100% responsible for what you will see. | /r/seduction | 29/10/22 12:12 PM |
| 9 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...Well, if you know everything, why are you here asking? | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 06:30 PM |
| 19 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...An attractive girl who is single will have her "bitch shield" up. You have to get through that to get her attention, because she sees all attention from every guy as a dating approach. But any girl who is unavailable doesn't have that mindset because she's already in a state of mind where she doesn't have to think about whether or not she wants to date you, so she's more relaxed and ready to interact... and you're feeding that with your strategy of "I really only pay attention to them most of th… | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 06:04 PM |
| 54 | My dilemma with getting dates with girls...You’re having an easy time talking to girls who aren’t available… precisely because they aren’t available! You’re not a threat. I suspect your game isn’t nearly as good as you think. | /r/seduction | 18/10/22 05:54 PM |
| 8 | Most of you are too mentally ill to helpAnd now you're doubling down on justifying yourself -- to Reddit! Not only has justifying oneself never made them somehow look better, but also, of all the opinions to care about, the least sexy is Reddit. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:47 PM |
| 19 | Most of you are too mentally ill to helpThis sub is no different from the larger Reddit as a whole -- years ago it was really useful, but now everyone has become homogenized and it's all an echo chamber where people just want to whine about depression and anxiety, tell each other that they're wrong, hurl sarcasm and insults at strangers, and do absolutely nothing to address what's wrong within themselves. But there's one thing I have to point out following your post -- with \most of which I agree -- and that is the fact that you takin… | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:32 PM |
| 5 | Best compliments to give during making out/sexI've never met anyone who enunciates their T's as crisply and cleanly as you. | /r/seduction | 08/10/22 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Why was I in a auto mode on my first time?Your anxiety reached a level of detachment. This isn't related to seduction, so you should probably ask your therapist rather than posting it here. | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 05:05 PM |
| 16 | How come women are allowed to have standards but men are not?Because it's well understood that even the grossest, fattest, most irritating woman can still get laid from time to time. So they get to set a cost of entry, if you will pardon the pun. Far too many guys, on the other hand, will stay virgins well into their 20s, and may go their whole lives having had fewer than 10 sexual partners. Guys are desperate, and by virtue of that desperation, setting standards is easily recognized as a facile and preposterous gesture from all but the most sought-after … | /r/seduction | 05/10/22 01:16 AM |
| 3 | If you can't do this, then you don't have game nor charm.SO TRUE!! Everyone in text-based online discussions about interacting with people is so focused on what words mean without context that they are completely oblivious to what actual game is. If you have game, you could absolutely say anything and make it work. | /r/seduction | 25/09/22 04:22 PM |
| 32 | Depressed because lack of sexYou need to do things worth doing. Create things. Make art. Learn stuff -- music, dance, cooking, languages, etc. Accomplish things that are worth doing, and that you can be proud of. This will give you several things as a result: 1, it will help cure depression; 2, it will give you some of the validation you're searching for from sex; 3, it will help you build confidence; 4; it will begin to make you more attractive to the women whose attention you want so badly. | /r/seduction | 19/09/22 12:10 AM |
| 1 | Girl said "heh heh... anyways" as we walked byBecause they were talking about something, and the topic drifted, so she was returning to the main point. What the fuck is with your level of insecurity and paranoia, kid? | /r/seduction | 18/09/22 02:48 AM |
| 5 | Men in relationships, how do you continue to flirt with other women when they ask you “do you have a girlfriend?”Answer her question with a question of your own. Do you have a girlfriend? "Don't you have a boyfriend?" | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 12:25 PM |
| 3 | [Looking for feedback] AI-generated replies for dating appsThat would be funny! Define a complete DSL for AI-based dating and call it ChadML. Refine it and make it useful, offer up a public API, and then let all the Indians and Nigerians and Russians use it to build their fake dating bots. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:54 AM |
| 2 | [Looking for feedback] AI-generated replies for dating appsChadML | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:42 AM |
| 2 | [Looking for feedback] AI-generated replies for dating appsRule of thumb in UI is, if you have to explain it, your interface sucks; but fact of life is, at least you've explained it. As it is now, you've got neither. And any further discussion on the topic will likely get this thread deleted, although an argument could be made that a good UI design is seductive... | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:12 AM |
| 1 | [Looking for feedback] AI-generated replies for dating appsAs a technologist, I find your interface unintuitive. The inputs and outputs don't make obvious sense and are not accompanied by any instruction. As a seasoned dater, I find the suggestions entirely uninteresting, and occasionally even a bit off-putting or presumptuous. It's entirely possible that I'm just using it wrong -- again, no instructions -- but what I see is completely forgettable and of no use to me. | /r/seduction | 09/09/22 04:00 AM |
| 1 | When she starts acting distantThe moment that her activity somewhere else gave you the idea that you had some kind of right to her attention. Dude, seriously... best bet is get off of social media altogether. But since you probably won't, at least do yourself a favor and unfollow anyone who you're trying to date. Knowing their activities is only making you play comparisons in your mind and trying to judge what the implications of someone else's activities mean in your own life. It's hella needy and clingy and insecure. Peopl… | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 01:34 AM |
| 1 | When she starts acting distantStop stalking the activities of someone else as if it entitles you to their attention. | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 11:41 PM |
| 12 | When she starts acting distantGenerally, when people act distant it's not because of you, but because there's something else occupying their thoughts. Maybe she's concerned about work, or late on bills, or worried about a family member in the hospital. Be careful not to make it about yourself, because you will come off as needy and push her further away. Instead, let her know that you can sense a slight distance in her demeanor and ask if something is going on that she would like to talk about. Become part of her team, rathe… | /r/seduction | 05/09/22 05:25 PM |
| 1 | How to cross the touch barrierYou seem to have missed my point. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 12:07 PM |
| 43 | How to cross the touch barrierProbably have a lawyer jump out of the closet with a consent form, and then ask an intimacy coach to come tell you where to put your hands on each other. | /r/seduction | 29/08/22 05:23 AM |
| 0 | Alohol or no alcoholThis is not seduction. Try a health related sub. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 11:50 PM |
| 162 | would posting this be a good idea?Posting video clips of yourself working out, and you happen to be a pro athlete, or even a serious amateur athlete, so it's your identity -- makes sense. Posting video clips of yourself working out, and you are a dad working on losing weight -- inspiring. Posting video clips of yourself working out, and you are a single guy hoping to get attention from women -- painfully transparent, and totally douchey. | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 11:49 PM |
| 11 | why do women string guys along until they find someone better and then tell guys not to do the same?Women love to have options, and usually are aware that it's reasonable to assume they will. When you make yourself too available, she will keep you on the list of options while searching for someone more desirable, and most of they time that person will be found and you'll go home alone listening to angry music and smoke a bunch of pot and play video games pissed off that yet another chad who works out is probably out treating her bad when she's missing her chance with a Nice Guy™ like you. | /r/seduction | 20/08/22 05:46 AM |
| 4 | Texting/game advice needed. Slow response timeI know the only reason a girl will take that long to respond is either low interest or game playing. Jackass, you're playing games waiting two days to text her, and you're salty that she took 9 hours? Maybe she's not playing a game at all... have you considered that she may have a job where using your phone is prohibited? Or that she was asleep? Or visiting her mom in the hospital? Or busy with her hands in chicken grease? Or maybe she was just busy having really engaging text conversations with… | /r/seduction | 18/08/22 06:19 AM |
| 4 | What the hell is going on with me?!You need to immediately rush out and bang some broad you don't care about, so you can get your brain focused back on class. This unhealthy obsession with someone you literally just met is insane by any clinical definition. | /r/seduction | 10/08/22 01:32 AM |
| 1 | How to text girl I met at clubYou're making a false comparison. Women obsess over their crush -- someone they're already deeply obsessed with -- calling or not calling. They do not do it for some rando they just met in the club. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:47 AM |
| 1 | How to text girl I met at clubThe moment is LOOOONG passed. When you get a number, start that text immediately. She has no idea who it's coming from, and girls do not program your name in until they think you're going to be in their life. I guarantee she's got 20 text conversations in her phone right now with numbers that don't have names, and she scrolls up to remind herself who she's talking to. Ever notice when you're texting with a new girl, they periodically use your name in a response? Is because they see you as potent… | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:34 AM |
| 4 | Why does it work this way?The younger ones are picking up on your lack of desperation. When you're in a drought, the signs are apparent, and the most attractive people instinctively are unattracted to it. Now that you have something, you're not thirsty and people see that. The next decision comes down to figuring out what you're really after. | /r/seduction | 09/08/22 01:06 AM |
| -1 | I just found out girls won't date me because I don't have an iPhone.I use Apple, and while I don't rule people out for green messages, I definitely give more attention to the blue ones. There are some legitimate reasons for why this becomes a natural thing to do... First, and biggest, reason is that receiving a blue message indicates that it is attached to an iCloud account, and therefore a real human being. Green messages can be burner phones, dummy Google Voice accounts, bots, scammers, spammers, or basically anything that is not an iCloud user. Knowing that I… | /r/seduction | 06/08/22 06:43 PM |
| 2 | How To Get The Women Everyone Wants! (Advanced Game)I can practically hear the frustrated virgins slamming their white knight responses into their crumb-filled keyboards right now… but this is pretty damn accurate. People are so afraid to be polarizing and that’s what makes them uninteresting. | /r/seduction | 02/08/22 12:09 PM |
| 8 | Want to ask out this barista. How often should I stop by?Do what’s natural. Don’t hover. And don’t waste time… if you want to ask her out do it the next time you talk to her. | /r/seduction | 01/08/22 05:36 PM |
| 5 | Here is what I don't understand about shy girls I meet through OLD.What the hell am I doing wrong with these kind of girls? Stop thinking that you have to be 100% successful with every girl. That's what you're doing wrong. I'm going to let you in on a little secret that makes life much more enjoyable... It's okay to not hit it off! It's okay to not have chemistry. It's okay if shy, introverted girls aren't your thing -- just stop wasting your time with them! And here's another little golden gem for you. Are you ready?? When you stop this insecure need of yours … | /r/seduction | 31/07/22 08:57 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts on how to proceedIf you mention Instagram, it will say a LOT about how desperate you are, and she'll waste no time ignoring you on Tinder as well. | /r/seduction | 29/07/22 03:26 AM |
| -2 | How often do girls agree to a date solely to be entertained freeA LOT of women do this. Some rarely and some quite regularly. People can say whatever they want about "equality" or whatever, but we are still inherently evolved as men to be providers and as women to expect that from men. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:45 PM |
| 0 | Has anyone ever made a move on a female friend? How did it go?Go home Karen. Nobody told anyone to go start raping each other. Your “cause” does not apply here. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 11:07 AM |
| 1 | how do you feel about casually dating but not having sex with other girls while you're in a casual relationship?Not sure how this relates to seduction. Seems more like r/relationship_advice | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 04:11 AM |
| 1 | how submissive are you to women you're dating?Never do that. Women are not attracted to a doormat. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 03:52 AM |
| 6 | Next move?Whatever, idiot. You don’t like advice, stop asking for it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:46 AM |
| 7 | Next move?Grow the fuck up. You aren't pressing shit. And I'm calm... don't fucking gaslight, you douche. I'm trying to make you see what a tool you're acting like. And the other commenters appear to feel the same way. Stop deflecting and start learning. Otherwise, you're wasting your time in this sub. brother | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:42 AM |
| 19 | Next move?Is she the desperate one? Haha! You're playing a bunch of childish games, pretending to be something you're not, trying to ignore her in hopes that it will make you seem more desirable. She going to rapidly tire of reaching out for the attention of some guy she doesn't even know, and you're going to be all alone. Meanwhile, this "beautiful tall woman" (your words) is probably getting hit on by another guy on every block, and those guys aren't going to be home jerking off and pretending to be bus… | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:37 AM |
| 2 | Strange equation needs to be solvedOr... maybe you're still stuck in your head, dreaming up scenarios that make this all excusable, when the reality is that you have some serious learning to do. You fucked up. In a multitude of ways. You are the type of person who actively makes women feel unsafe. Your proper response to this should be to begin correcting those flaws in yourself.... not finding ways to excuse it. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 02:05 AM |
| 0 | Strange equation needs to be solvedOr... you literally broke every implicit social contract and she thinks you're absolutely not someone she feels any desire to have accessing her in any way. | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:57 AM |
| 2 | Strange equation needs to be solvedFirst, you broke the boundary between work and personal life. Second, you did that unannounced. Third, without asking permission. As to why she removed or hid content, it's because the entire thing made clear to her that her personal life was too easy to find, and if you can do it then so can others... including her boss. And then, you made it all worse, by keeping it concealed, sweeping it under the rug.... in spite of the fact that just like every other user on social media, she got a notifica… | /r/seduction | 27/07/22 01:51 AM |
| 2 | Super hot girl stopped responding after being very receptiveI was legit just one text from asking her on a date. This is the difference between you and Chad, and why "super hot girls" always end up with someone else. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:30 PM |
| 7 | Has anyone ever made a move on a female friend? How did it go?Oh god. This is even worse than I thought. Okay, junior, here's what you do... Act a little shy and embarrassed (it won't be an act, you definitely aren't suave) and say "can I ask you a question?" Of course she says yes. "It's a little weird and embarrassing.... So... I kinda like someone and I'm not really comfortable with making the first move. I was wondering if you could help me understand a couple of scenarios." She's ask what they are. So you say "okay, like for instance, let's say you're… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 04:06 PM |
| 16 | Has anyone ever made a move on a female friend? How did it go?I will never understand this line of thinking. Stop and look at what actual nonsense is happening in your head. You think that you have a strong and valuable friendship, yet at the same time you think it's so fragile that if a single moment turns awkward the friendship won't survive. Motherfucker, if you two are comfortable being physical together, and you're both single, and a moment seems appropriate for a kiss, and then this broad completely turns bat-shit crazy and no longer wants to be your… | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:53 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone ever made a move on a female friend? How did it go?Find a moment where there's chemistry, and kiss her. Light and brief at first, and if that doesn't immediately get awkward, get right back in and go deep and heavy... and then waste no time getting to a bed while the chemistry is cooking. | /r/seduction | 25/07/22 03:46 PM |
| 3 | How do I start being more direct and making the convos more playful/going into sexual territory?Casually, somewhat playfully, drop hints that you're already convinced that's where it's headed. For example, while you're in a "deep conversation" about whatever you think is "deep", and you hit a point where the two you you have slightly different opinions on something, just smile and say, "okay, I'll concede for now, but later on when we're in bed together, you're going to admit you agree with me." And other, similar things. Just keep suggesting that you already know this is where it's going.… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:58 AM |
| 3 | How do I fix having the male equivalent of a ‘resting bitch face’?The single most frustrating thing I see over and over every day in this sub is guys saying "I noticed her looking at me" or whatever. The very core of the insecurities that cause guys to be unattractive can be boiled down to how aware you are of when others cast their gaze into your general direction, accompanied by some internal struggle over how to interpret that. True confidence -- and therefore attractiveness -- starts at its core with the simple fact of being unconcerned about who may be lo… | /r/seduction | 24/07/22 07:34 AM |
| 2 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?Indeed! Herpes is not a fluid transfer virus. It spreads via contact. You get it on the part(s) of your skin that came in contact with the part(s) of their skin that were "shedding". Your outbreaks will happen in the same spot every time. You can get lucky on first getting it and only get it in one location. Or, if you go at it vigorously for a long time, you can get it in several locations... But then, the thing is, you can get it again from the same or a different person, and get it onto more … | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 04:35 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?There's not a "bad" one. Herpes is actually surprisingly minor in most cases. It causes some irritation during an outbreak, and some sensitivity, but resultant health issues are extremely rare. Now technically, since you can actually always get more herpes, it can potentially reach a point where it is quite a problem... but I think most people will not be doing that. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 03:47 PM |
| 1 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?Absolutely untrue of herpes. You can always get more herpes, and I guarantee that's as bad as it sounds. | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 03:44 PM |
| 2 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?You're in the Seduction subreddit, so I'm sure I don't have to tell you that a large facet to this community is confidence and authenticity. Being able to say uncomfortable or vulnerable things without being shaken or timid is wildly attractive. So when the time seems right for the discussion, you can own the frame, act at ease, and take time explaining how and why it's not a big deal as well as being straightforward about how and when it's worth taking extra care. As for when an how to bring it… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 02:43 AM |
| 4 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?A female can have it internally, in which case it’s nearly impossible to tell. However in my case, a girl who was usually ready to go kept saying on one occasion “slowly, I’m a little sore” and in retrospect that should have indicated she had it and didn’t know — in which case I should have just said “let’s just wait until another time.” | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:48 AM |
| 9 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?True, there are some benefits to having a lot of experience. I'm much more compatible with just about everyone, because I am not fumbling my way around the act, and there's not much I haven't tried. Also, since there's not much I haven't tried, I'm not consumed by the intangible fantasies so many people have. And yes, the ability to get laid is definitely a sign of evolutionary success and value -- though redditors are going to downvote you for saying it (and me for agreeing). Still, a lot of wh… | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:14 AM |
| 2 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?How can you tell what? | /r/seduction | 11/07/22 12:08 AM |
| 9 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?I don't know if "congratulations" is in order. I spent a long time trying to fill a spiritual void with conquest of women, and lots of alcohol. After getting rehab, and sobriety, and tons of self examination and dealing with my emotional baggage, I just don't feel any sense of pride in a number that I've long since lost count of and in my opinion is embarrassingly high. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 11:30 PM |
| 7 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?Got outbreaks pretty often for the first six months -- maybe 4-5 times. Then maybe only 2 in the next six months. I was also very unhealthy, drinking a lot, not sleeping well, and under a lot of stress. Now, I don't drink, I have a very regular sleep schedule, and I have almost zero stress in my life... and have had only 2-3 outbreaks in the last 2 years... and they're also far more minor when they do happen. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 10:14 PM |
| 4 | at what age are women basically safe to creampie without risking pregnancy?And this has WHAT to do with seduction? | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:25 PM |
| 5 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?No. But why does it matter? | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:22 PM |
| 12 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?Right. Bragging that I got herpes. That’s a good one. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:21 PM |
| 37 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?Largely uninterrupted. Occasionally someone will just consider it a deal breaker, but that’s surprisingly uncommon. I make a conscious choice not to have intercourse during an outbreak. And condoms with new partners is a policy I’m a little more of a believer in. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 09:20 PM |
| 85 | For those of you who sleep with strangers regularly, how common is it to catch herpes?It took me HUNDREDS of partners before herpes caught up to me. For my very good friend, it was her FIRST. You just never know. | /r/seduction | 10/07/22 08:27 PM |
| -12 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?I think I would fucking go for it, honestly. I’m not much older, and would gladly knock a bitch up in order to get a kid out of it. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?Prenups are for marriage | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:27 PM |
| -30 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?Honestly, if you’re 39 and have any interest in ever having kids, go ahead and knock her up! Just don’t fucking marry her. Child support isn’t terrible like divorce, and the kids stay yours, but you can make her raise them if you’re too lazy to do it yourself. Just don’t marry her. | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:16 PM |
| 51 | Am I a Sugar Daddy?Yeah, you’re pretty much a sugar daddy. Don’t knock it… you’re enjoying what you get out of the deal, right? | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 12:13 PM |
| 6 | Should I read much into it??!She was obviously trying to set you up with one of the other girls. She's not into you but thinks you're dateable and hoped to pass you on to her friend so she can avoid the awkward conversation of straight out rejecting you. If "Girl B" seemed to be into it, pursue that. | /r/seduction | 27/06/22 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Was she into me? What was my mistake?Here's something you (and everyone else here) have got to get your mind around: Attraction is not a lifelong commitment, it's just a feeling in a moment. If the moment happens, you see where it takes you. But when the moment ends, that attraction doesn't just sit there like some kind of contract that you can return to later. Also, it's not an ON/OFF switch -- either attracted or not. Instead, attraction is a level, like blowing up a balloon. When you blow air into the balloon, it has some attrac… | /r/seduction | 23/06/22 02:28 PM |
| 1 | I am shocked by how many men here invest on the first date.Your insecurities are tremendous, and unattractive. | /r/seduction | 22/06/22 01:06 AM |
| 3 | I am shocked by how many men here invest on the first date.This creates a nice "outcome independent" vibe where no one has any obligation for any expectations from one another. I seriously can't imagine things otherwise. This is still outcome dependent behavior. You may be spending less money than the other "simps" you criticize, but you're not somehow wiser, or better off, or somehow more "alpha" because of it. Because YOU are still tying the money and/or activity to the person you meet and viewing it as some kind of "investment." (Literally YOUR word.… | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Bar sceneSome people do hiking. Personally I think it's lame. That's why different people have different tastes and interests. Coffee tends to be safe, because everyone can be comfortable with sitting for an hour with coffee or tea or soda, maybe a pastry, and talking. But in spite of having been with hundreds and hundreds of women in my life, many immediately on the first date, it has never happened as a result of a coffee date. There's just something to be said for meeting for an evening cocktail. Even… | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 07:05 PM |
| 2 | Bar sceneThe best thing to do -- the single thing that most guys absolutely fail to understand, which is why so many guys have trouble with this -- is simply to put yourself in her shoes. Think about it from her perspective. Chicks get approached by guys all the damn time. And the more attractive they are, the more guys that is. And everyone wants that chick's attention -- so they ask for phone numbers and then ask for instagrams and they ask for snapchat and they ask for whatsapp, and they all think the… | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 03:33 PM |
| 1 | Bar sceneOf course they won’t remember. Calling or texting is starting from zero. You need to get rapport established quickly by text and get them to meet you, so that you have a chance to become memorable. | /r/seduction | 19/06/22 08:19 AM |
| 1 | Julien RSD contentYou don’t get an annualized income of $600k and net worth of over $5 million by giving good advice. You get there by being good at marketing, and the first rule of marketing is to always leave them wanting more. Moreover, does a rich and good-looking guy have anything to say that struggling dorks on Reddit can actually relate to? Come on, man. | /r/seduction | 17/06/22 10:31 PM |
| 0 | Julien RSD contentYou cared enough to respond. sigh | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 09:30 PM |
| -1 | Julien RSD contentThe reason why all you can find is bullshit is because all the RSD are nothing but bullshit. Stop worshipping content. Get out and learn for yourself. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 05:16 PM |
| 19 | How to let her know I have a "big" dick without telling her?Just wear a pink shirt, but a small, practical car, sell all your guns, and get a modest television with no fancy extra features. Then, casually mentioned something that happened when you were sitting down to pee, because “doesn’t everyone sit when the pee?” | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 11:22 AM |
| 1 | How do I know if a girl that likes attention, likes me as an exception vs other guys?That’s not how that phrase works. | /r/seduction | 16/06/22 10:24 AM |
| 27 | How do I know if a girl that likes attention, likes me as an exception vs other guys?There's one guaranteed method that has stood the test of time: Ask her out. If she agrees, she likes you. | /r/seduction | 15/06/22 10:38 PM |
| 3 | Why would a girl want this?Um... maybe because she wants sex and not a relationship? Why is that so hard to get your mind around? | /r/seduction | 13/06/22 08:10 PM |
| -1 | How to approach a girl sending signals at the gymWhat are you, 15 years old? Jesus. | /r/seduction | 08/06/22 02:05 AM |
| 37 | I'm FWB with my ex and found out she has a new manYou just got a glimpse into how things really are in the world, and yet you're still hamstering and letting your cognitive dissonance make you turn beta? WTF man. You don't have any moral obligation to her new guy.... You owe it to yourself to have a good puke over the dizziness you're feeling from an upload of so much truth, and then assimilate that information and proceed with your future in the full understanding that this is how women actually act, and that this is exactly why you're not sup… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/05/22 05:50 PM |
| 8 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itI'm going to completely avoid having an opinion of my own on the topic. For the purpose of this thread, all that matters is that chicks overwhelmingly dislike guys who spend their time playing video games, and they don't care enough to make any distinctions about when or why you play, or how passionate you are. It's almost universally true that if you are on Reddit and you are viewing r/seduction, the vert first thing you're doing wrong and need to change is video games. | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 04:19 PM |
| 23 | Sex feels so unobtainable and I hate itDo you think women walk around saying “if only I could fin a man who works out and doesn’t masturbate!”? Those two things are good FOR YOU — they help you build your confidence in yourself and keep your mind healthy. But they don’t make you attractive. You need to do more work on yourself. Learn to talk to women — and strangers in general. Develop some entertaining skills and personality. Cultivate some artistic talents. Show off some style, humor, charm. And if there’s anything you should be qu… | /r/seduction | 29/05/22 11:45 AM |
| -4 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meWomen appreciate a man being a man. Don't make a habit of saying that on Reddit... you're asking for the transvangelists to come downvote you. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 03:32 AM |
| 6 | Dating App QuestionnaireBased on your grammar and the built-in assumptions in your available answers, you are probably going to score very low on that MBA project. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:40 AM |
| 11 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meMost people find "the seduction community" because they're trying to fill some void in themselves with the validation and attention they get from women. And frankly, as long as you don't mistreat those women, I don't see anything wrong with it, because eventually you get some level of success and begin to feel some sense of value and eventually those things help you to find what that void really was. As to you specifically, you need to keep in mind how much you're really not doing. You say "I wo… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 02:30 AM |
| 12 | I just want to be genuine and vulnerable and have someone still love meYou want to be unattractive? Then be unattractive. Nobody's stopping you. You are welcome to repulse the people to whom you are attracted. You are free to prove to the world why they're making the right choice by not trying to mate with you and proliferate your weak genes. Or... maybe you can put down the drugs for a while, stop playing video games, quit reinforcing the fantasy life in your head, and start building skills and hobbies and accomplishments and things that will not only take your mi… | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 01:59 AM |
| 1 | I hate how teenage girls worship male celebs & boybands and faint and scream at their shows while teenage boys don't do the same with female celebs. It shows girls love guys more than guys love girls. In a more intense way.It just shows how much more selective women are. Guys obsess over that cute girl in class, or that new intern in accounting. Girls hold out for a fucking celebrity. | /r/seduction | 25/05/22 12:30 AM |
| 6 | How to know if a girl likes you?She makes time to talk to you, and doesn't always seem to be rushing off when you try to talk to her. | /r/seduction | 13/05/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Need help making her my girlfriendI think your puberty is showing, and this post and question has very little to do with Seduction. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 06:45 PM |
| 1 | Is Not Being Knowing How To Put Your Starting Position "In Words" Something Guys Struggle With?Dude, you appear to be having a ton of trouble with putting anything into words. | /r/seduction | 11/05/22 08:00 AM |
| 7 | Do You Think My Aunt Would Be Ready To Have Sex with me ? And How Do i Seduce herI’ve never wanted to fuck a family member, so I really can’t offer much more help. This is weird. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Do You Think My Aunt Would Be Ready To Have Sex with me ? And How Do i Seduce herShe's most likely going to say no, but you could always just ask. | /r/seduction | 08/05/22 08:59 PM |
| 19 | Which is better to live for a single man? College town or big city?Think for yourself. How old are you, how much money do you have, and what age group are you targeting? | /r/seduction | 02/05/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | What are some subtle intimacy tricks?On reddit, being a woman does not preclude you from having a dick. | /r/seduction | 30/04/22 03:30 AM |
| -7 | Should I break up with my 10?Bet you haven’t considered this… maybe the source of her boredom and lack of motivation is you. And maybe rather than giving up you could try to be more inspiring and encouraging. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 06:33 AM |
| 4 | How to tell a girl I like her?Confidently, as if it's just a fact you're tossing out, like the sky is blue; no big deal. Like "hey, since you like me and I like you, let's go do something this weekend." | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:55 AM |
| 6 | What are some subtle intimacy tricks?"Us versus them." Subtle, and highly effective. Find something to relate on. It doesn't have to be extremely rare, but it should be not overly common. (A good example might be having the same zodiac sign.) Then point out something related to that which "only we understand that!" or whatever, and build up some kind of make-believe friction between everyone else and the two of you. This tends to work great for opening the door to touching, flirty looks, low tones, whispers, etc. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:46 AM |
| 4 | How to tell a girl I like her?I’m to shy to go and talk to her Then you don't need to be with her. Either find someone you're NOT too shy to talk to, or else grow a set of balls. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:38 AM |
| 13 | Girl wanted to fu** me in the center of the club.There's plenty of wild and exhibitionist-y stuff you guys can do, and I recommend doing tons of it while you have access to this chick... don't just shut down and hide in private, because that's the fastest way to bore her into leaving. Just be mindful of the risk level in general. In a crowded club with your dick out, there's a dozen other people within arm's reach of you, so the sex-offender thing is far too possible of an outcome. Conversely, in the parking lot outside of the club, you only h… | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 09:27 PM |
| 231 | Girl wanted to fu** me in the center of the club.Exhibitionists are tons of fun, and doing things on this level of taboo is really exciting, but it's important to be careful. In a crowded club, it's very easy to get caught with your dick out, and end up arrested and labeled a sex offender. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 09:13 PM |
| 1 | Tips on setting up plans.Do nothing. If you immediately go chasing her in response to the heart eyes, you'll look like a simp. Just hit her up when you're back. | /r/seduction | 26/04/22 04:33 AM |
| 125 | I'm 20 years old and I have been with 59 womenThere is nothing more attractive than caring about yourself and not trying so hard. | /r/seduction | 19/04/22 07:59 PM |
| 0 | Turnoff just before making out and sex!Attraction and arousal are not a "set it and forget it" on/off switch. You made the mistake of thinking that since she was turned on for you previously, that she would simply remain in that state, ready for you to pick up where you left off, and then you did none of the work to build it back up when you were together again. Attraction and arousal don't work like that. It's more like paddling a boat. When the boat is sitting still, it doesn't matter how hard you row with your oars, 50% of your en… | /r/seduction | 18/04/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | Suppose there are two close tables and you hit the first girl and get rejected can you hit the second girl even though...I think you probably shouldn't be hitting girls. | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 09:17 PM |
| 1 | how can I flirt with and seduce my teacher?I'd like to think a teacher would not be easily seduced by someone who spells it infactuated. I'd also like to think that an adult woman of any age would be turned off by anyone whose criteria for a good relationship consist of "she's gorgeous and she's my height." | /r/seduction | 14/04/22 03:51 AM |
| 25 | How would you with rejection from a promiscuous woman who slept with/sleeps around with many men but not you?She has sex with many men who she finds attractive ... It's not as simple as having sex with any man who offers. You need to remember that. Far too often, men see behavior they classify as "promiscuous" and then assume that it just means that it's a go for everyone. | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 09:37 PM |
| 2 | What single ingredient spoils an entire food dish for you if it’s included?Ignorance | /r/seduction | 12/04/22 12:26 AM |
| 3 | why does it seem like I have more success with women when I have a hot woman as a "wing woman" ?The ability to have a platonic relationship with a woman of value implies that you're not so desperate as to ruin the friendship by making it awkward as you constantly pester her for her affection. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:55 AM |
| 13 | why does it seem like I have more success with women when I have a hot woman as a "wing woman" ?Social proof. It's an ages-old concept, nothing new. If people see you in the company of others who they perceive as having high value, it instantly implies that your own value is high because no attractive woman would be wasting her time with a loser. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:45 AM |
| 1 | Is this appropriate or do I sound like a creep?Oh, I'm so glad you were able to point out to me that Instagoo is not real life. At my age, it's hard to tell the difference. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:20 AM |
| 1 | Is this appropriate or do I sound like a creep?I love how, when confronted with reality in this sub, everybody always snaps back with some puffy chest self-delusion of how they're talking to girls and doing fine and blah blah blah.... as if we're all so geriatric that we forgot it was YOU who was just here asking for advice about asking out a stranger you follow on Instagram. If you spent 99% of your time talking to girls in real life, you wouldn't even have time to sleep... nevermind any time for Reddit and Instagram. Go DO SHIT. Get to the… | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:17 AM |
| 0 | Is this appropriate or do I sound like a creep?Okay, well here's the real deal... Every kid is afraid to talk to girls. You and everyone else your age is hoping a little keyboard courage will get you a chance with a girl in spite of the fact that you would never talk to her in real life... So if she's cute, and has a bunch of cute pics on Instantgrampa, and a bunch of guys following her, it's pretty safe to say that she's already accustomed to guys she doesn't know or doesn't like messaging her and hoping they can get some gift of her loweri… | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Is this appropriate or do I sound like a creep?Look, all I'm saying is, you're mentioning the number of social followers you have and she has, as if they matter somehow to what your value is in life. So if that shit matters to you, you can waste a couple of sawbucks at get yourself an easy 10-20,000 followers, and then who knows? Maybe people will talk to you because you seem popular or something. If you do it, make sure to mix it up... some of them will offer you followers, others will offer you likes or comments. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 02:04 AM |
| 1 | Is this appropriate or do I sound like a creep?Go on Fiverr and drop a couple of finns on those assholes that will give you a few thousand new followers. If nothing else, you're IG will have all the high school cred you need to impress your friends... and maybe make social media duds (like the one you're chasing) actually think you're worth talking to. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 01:59 AM |
| 15 | Is it weird to show up to a rave she said she’s going to?Yes it's weird. Yes she will assume that's exactly why you were there. Also, any time a description of your plan starts with the word "pretend", stop and ask yourself "is this truly authentic?" If it is not authentic, it is not confident and not attractive. | /r/seduction | 07/04/22 03:09 PM |
| 12 | MasculinityDo things. You need to reinforce your confidence by accomplishing things. | /r/seduction | 23/03/22 04:45 PM |
| 5 | Everything's great except sexSounds like either you’re awkward and too direct about sex, or else you’re already in the friend zone. Probably both. | /r/seduction | 18/03/22 12:02 PM |
| 1 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingi think for me it might take longer so i dont start at all This is the dumbest thing I've ever heard. If a thing might take longer you should start sooner, not put it off! | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 07:05 PM |
| -2 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingYou say “average guy” and “has to settle” like some kind of incel. I’m not saying you are one, but the way you use these phrases implies that people somehow should be able to get women. That is not how it works. High value men get women. If you want to be average, keep playing your PlayStation and smoking your pot and whining about how hard it is. But if you want to improve YOUR own success with women, it’s actually a low bar and quite easy to make yourself better than average. | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 05:53 PM |
| 0 | Do you think women are aware of the skillset guys have to have to be successful at datingYES. That's the point of the entire thing! Skillsets are what makes a man attractive. We're not here to be pretty... women already have that job covered and they're doing a much better job than us. The real question is, do my fellow MEN understand how much work WOMEN have to do to be attractive? Have you considered how much time they spend worrying about what they eat, or exercising, or learning how to apply makeup, or learning to make appealing color schemes for their outfits, or shaving nearly… | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 03:37 PM |
| 5 | How do you create new positive beliefs about yourself and clear old self limiting beliefsDo things. If it sounds like an oversimplification, it's because it really is that simple! Do. Things. Start tasks and finish them. Identify a project -- something that needs to be done, and preferably something that you haven't done before. Watch some videos or read some tutorials. And then go fucking do it. For example, for me, today, I have an old Mac Mini attached to my tv that's running really slowly. So I've ordered an SSD and some RAM and a toolkit, and watched a few YouTube videos about … | /r/seduction | 15/03/22 11:46 AM |
| 2 | How to seduce someone without talking much ?It's timeless and true. All the guys women describe as sexy and rebellious all have the innate head lean. From James Dean and Paul Newman all the way to Leonardo DiCaprio and Ryan Gosling. There's something about leaning your head to the side slightly that just conveys an attractive sense of distance, like you're somehow just a bit too cool for whatever room you're in. It naturally makes people put in extra effort to earn your approval. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 04:09 PM |
| 2 | Should I stay in her friendzone or move on?For anyone to even mention the possibility of being asexual indicates that they're functioning with a lower sexual energy or libido than most people. And the fact that expressed being uncomfortable with you moving yourself closer to her adds to this. Just because a person can talk about a thing doesn't mean they want to do it. Hell, I've had plenty of conversations talking about diabetes... it doesn't mean I want to experience it. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 03:17 PM |
| 9 | Should I stay in her friendzone or move on?Stop trying to make it something it isn’t. Even if you manage to get her to date you, she’s only going to frustrate you with her lack of sexual energy. Move on. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:47 PM |
| 3 | How to seduce someone without talking much ?Confident body language, good appearance, probably a well rehearsed smile and wink… and never underestimate the power of a natural head lean. | /r/seduction | 14/03/22 01:37 PM |
| 1 | how do women change their mind so quickly?Guys build up a mental fantasy which is why attraction grows to obsession. Girls excessively test and reject, which is why interest and attraction tends to only go in the opposite direction. | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 12:26 AM |
| 0 | The fact that women don't even make eye contact or look at me is keeping me from approaching. How do I get into a mindset that stops this?I can change if the opportunity presents itself. Says everyone who blames the world for their own failures. You don't wait to change until opportunities present themselves... you change SO THAT that opportunities will present themselves. Or don't. Again, I don't care. I've already lost enough of my time responding to you. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 08:20 PM |
| 0 | The fact that women don't even make eye contact or look at me is keeping me from approaching. How do I get into a mindset that stops this?For a guy who claims to be so smart, you sure are dumb. Everything you're saying is a toxic outlook on life, and blaming a toxic world for your troubles, yet you have the audacity to call me toxic! You claim you're not blaming it on women, yet repeatedly reference women "rejecting you for having an ugly face." You call me immature, but then it's you who is assigning unjustified straw man claims on my personality. You're a living, breathing case study for cognitive dissonance and gaslighting. I'v… | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 06:28 PM |
| 1 | The fact that women don't even make eye contact or look at me is keeping me from approaching. How do I get into a mindset that stops this?If you are completely convinced that your appearance is irreversibly bad, and you fully intend to spend the rest of your live living absolutely convinced that there is a system that is rewarding others while punishing you, then WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING IN r/seduction? Why are you reading or replying to my comments at all? And why are you in a subreddit whose entire reason for existence is self-improvement and making yourself attractive, when you believe that attractiveness is a lottery that y… | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 05:55 PM |
| 1 | The fact that women don't even make eye contact or look at me is keeping me from approaching. How do I get into a mindset that stops this?I've had women say my face is ugly af without me saying a word and making fun of it. So. Fucking. What. Big fucking deal. I've had people tell me my dick was small, or that my mother was a whore, or call me a virgin... none of those things are true. (Well, my mom might have been questionable when she was younger.) People say things with the intention of hurting others. Jesus, are you new to Reddit? Just look at the asinine things people say here, trying to hurt each other's feelings! You act as … | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 03:05 PM |
| 0 | The fact that women don't even make eye contact or look at me is keeping me from approaching. How do I get into a mindset that stops this?You’re entitled to whatever excuses and self defeating attitude you want. But when you’re ready to get over the bullshit and start having success, you’ll have to stop believing in untruths. I only hope you decide to do it while you’re young enough to still benefit from it. | /r/seduction | 03/03/22 11:58 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]If they're too shy and you're too shy, then you both deserve to be alone. This is r/seduction -- everything starts from making a fucking move. You can't be shy. | /r/seduction | 26/02/22 03:19 AM |
| -4 | How do I slide in a girl's dms?You don't. Nobody "slides into DMs." It doesn't work. It doesn't happen. | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:12 PM |
| 7 | I hate conversationsIf you scroll back up and read the body of your post, every point you made all stems from the same misguided place: you are TRYING to win/succeed/impress. You are viewing your conversation as some kind of test; some kind of task that you need to succeed at. This sounds horrible! Conversations and dating should be about getting to know someone, and being yourself. YOU should be the one judging THEM! You should be saying whatever you really think and feel, comfortably, and giving ZERO fucks about … | /r/seduction | 25/02/22 09:06 PM |
| 4 | Is giving your ring finger a handy with your ring a choosing signal?It’s just a thing people do. Stop looking for signs. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 01:35 AM |
| 2 | What do you think about my weird Push and pull??This was painful to read. I hope you're not talking like that to actual people. | /r/seduction | 23/02/22 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Am getting lots of anxietyMy best friend of over 30 years is a guy I met in the driveway of a house to which I had given someone a ride. You don't need school to make friends. | /r/seduction | 18/02/22 04:45 AM |
| 7 | She said “I’ll let u know”"I'll let you know" means that she's got a possibility of some other plans, and they're probably with long-time close friends rather than a potentially awkward date with a relatively new guy, so she wants to keep that door open. Don't overthink it. Don't get so invested. And also don't be too available! If she doesn't confirm in a timely manner, plan to use that time that she could have had with you, and go do something really cool by yourself. Now, if she gets back to you late and says she's st… | /r/seduction | 17/02/22 08:37 PM |
| 6 | Women from “another planet”If you ask a question and you get a one word answer, it means that you've asked about something that doesn't interest them, or you've asked the same thing 100 guys already asked her, all thinking they were original just like you. | /r/seduction | 15/02/22 03:14 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That’s an incredible amount of buildup for such a casual interaction. | /r/seduction | 14/02/22 09:40 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]Ex. Leonardo DiCaprio (looks) vs Jeff Bezos (money) You're fooling yourself if you think DiCaprio has significant looks, or that he lacks money in any way. In fact, Jeff Bezos's looks aren't terrible. The true difference is that DiCaprio knows how to hold himself, how to dress himself, and how to act around people, whereas all the money and workouts and clothing and cars have not cured Bezos of the fact that he's a total dork. Underneath any playboy is a solid core of confidence, along with styl… | /r/seduction | 11/02/22 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Ghosting is a bitch moveWho’s hiding? You just tap “block” and go on with your life. No further effort needs to be wasted. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Ghosting is a bitch moveResponding to someone gives them every reason to believe they have your attention — and they do! Many will continue to try to change your mind. Some will even argue. Your time gets monopolized by people other than yourself. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 11:08 AM |
| -8 | Ghosting is a bitch moveSarcasm is the language of a weak mind. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:33 AM |
| -8 | Ghosting is a bitch moveBlah! A bunch of bullshit. You’re posturing. A high value member of the dating scene (regardless of gender) who is in demand will have tons of people wanting their attention from all directions. If you take the time to write out thoughtful and polite responses to everyone you don’t want to see again, you will have no time left for the things YOU want in life because you’re giving all your time to what other people want. | /r/seduction | 09/02/22 04:23 AM |
| -1 | A girl I’m seeing always moves the time of the date, is it some kind of pyschological trick?It probably is. However, it's probably not something she's consciously doing. This looks like the timeless exercise that women are forever doing, which eventually got labeled "shit test" until that term ceased to mean anything useful. Basically, you say things like "can I take you out?" and "how's tuesday?" and "how about 9 o'clock?" and at each step of the way, you're asking for her approval and showing no confidence or control. So she subconsciously sees that and responds by changing it to see… | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 11:20 AM |
| 1 | Met hot chick, but she is marriedIn my experience, it's the single ones who make the most drama. Married ones don't want to have their infidelity discovered, so they keep things much more private and easy. | /r/seduction | 08/02/22 03:04 AM |
| 14 | Met hot chick, but she is marriedWhy are you asking Reddit if it's okay? Questions of morals are left between you and whatever moral compass you follow. Don't listen to these fools saying "not okay," though, because she may be in an open relationship. Or, she may be absolutely determined to cheat and if it's not you it'll just be someone else. Either way, YOU are not responsible for her actions. Just decide for yourself whether YOU have a problem with it. | /r/seduction | 07/02/22 07:39 PM |
| 5 | Connection before meeting a womanGet out of your fantasy. You have to talk to someone if you're ever going to get anywhere. Your "emotional connection" to a stranger in line is not going to turn into a date unless you go talk to her and introduce yourself! | /r/seduction | 31/01/22 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Cold approachBAD BOT | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 11:55 PM |
| 1 | Cold approachFirst, stop thinking in the loser language of "sometimes she will look at me", because that shit is for your imaginary world, not the real world. Second, don't spend your life missing out because you're always waiting for the opportunity to present itself. MAKE your opportunities. Think up a question -- it doesn't even matter if you already know the answer -- and then just stop her as she's walking and ask her! "Excuse me! Sorry, do you know where Mr Johnson's anatomy class is?" (Bonus points if… | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 11:54 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]It's a fact of life... some women will just be petty about height. But most will say that they prefer a tall man, yet find themselves perfectly happy with a shorter guy who is confident, smart, and successful. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 11:49 PM |
| 2 | Does the calibre of women that you attract show what level of attractiveness you are?I don’t disagree, and I’m familiar with the research to which you are referring, but OP is talking about casual messages on Instagram, not pair bonding. Everyone wants “social proof” even if they may unconsciously believe, or intrinsically “know”, that they don’t have much of a chance with that person. | /r/seduction | 28/01/22 01:45 PM |
| 118 | Does the calibre of women that you attract show what level of attractiveness you are?People generally don't "stay in their lane"... everyone wants the attention of people they think are attractive. Don't use their attention as any kind of measure of yourself. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 07:44 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]She's not ready for the relationship you want, and even if she was she sounds like someone that would be a huge problem for you in a locked-down relationship. Just keep enjoying your time with her! Having something that you like makes you not thirsty, which will be hugely attractive to people you meet. So keep meeting people and dating... you'll find someone you like just as much and who is actually a good choice for your future. | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 11:58 AM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Appreciate what you’ve got and just keep doing it. Why change a thing when it’s already working? | /r/seduction | 27/01/22 11:50 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Dude, this is the shit we should all be learning to do with old ladies from the time we're children, so that it's second nature when we're adults. One of the major missing components in a single-parent home is a father to set this example. | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 08:07 PM |
| 73 | [deleted by user]Poke your head in whenever you pass her office/desk/cube and chit chat for a moment. Develop some inside jokes. Comment on her new shoes, or outfit, or anything that can be safely non-sexual. Ask about her weekend plans on Fridays. Invite her to join you for lunch from time to time. Occasionally, if you slip out to purchase a candy bar or bag of chips or whatever, grab two, and be holding them when you next see her. Casually something like "I don't know why I felt the need to get two. Would you … | /r/seduction | 25/01/22 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Hello me again this is a long oneJust stop. The "she's looking at me" or "we made eye contact" posts -- and the underlying mentality of people making these posts -- needs to end with a simple realization: IT DOES NOT MEAN ANYTHING. Here's a small, non-exhaustive list of what you could be experiencing: She sees a human and she looks to acknowledge their presence She sees a male and looks to determine whether he's threatening She sees your build and the color of your hair, and looks to see if she recognizes you as someone she kno… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 09:49 PM |
| 3 | Going for the kissJust do it. I mean, even randomly as you're climbing stairs, or stepping out of an Uber, or as you're helping her with her coat. Just do it. Stop building it up in your mind into something with tons of pressure. | /r/seduction | 22/01/22 05:48 PM |
| 14 | A girl told me she hate time wastersYou kids. facepalm The point of getting a number is not so that you can text for two days! She's already got friends to text with! If you get a person's number, you make some light chit-chat, and then invite her to do something! | /r/seduction | 20/01/22 05:30 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]That's the whole point. You screwed up 3 months ago. You're still wallowing in this thing instead of going on with your life. This is utterly weak ass shit. Just delete the contact, delete the thread, and go outside. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:25 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]There's nothing to do. Stop obsessing over this broad. Just move the fuck on. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:19 PM |
| 4 | What’s your ratio of rejection to success on an average night out?Go out for the purpose of going out. Don’t make everything a mission to succeed at picking up. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 01:23 PM |
| 6 | Why do some men have a problem with entitled women?Your premise is flawed. You are presuming from the onset that entitlement is a good trait and asking us why we have a problem with that. Hmmmm. I wonder what could be the problem… | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 12:23 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t talked to this girl in four days. Is it a lost cause?Juggling schedules is what a couple does when they've been together and built a relationship and then some things come up that make times harder to manage. It is not something you do right from the start with a person you don't even know. Stop being so desperate to make this work. Just go find someone whose schedule matches your own. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 12:05 PM |
| 1 | I haven’t talked to this girl in four days. Is it a lost cause?Just put it out there and leave it on her... "Hey, it seems like we've been having a few misses. Just gonna toss this question out. Do you think we're going to find a chance to get together? Or are our schedules just incompatible?" | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 11:58 AM |
| 4 | We made long eye contact about five times, what is the next step.Pull twice on your lapel with your left hand, signaling that you would like to talk to her privately, and then adjust your hat, scratch your shoulder, brush dust off of your shirt, scratch your shoulder again, and touch your balls, indicating that you want her to steal third base. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 10:33 AM |
| 3 | Y’all I’ve never seen a vagina before in person. I wouldn’t know what to do to keep the girl entertained.Get her naked, and just gently kiss and lick every place you can. Move about very slowly, don't just hurriedly jump around all over. Pay attention to her sounds and her breathing, and her bodily reactions, in order to know when you're doing something that she likes. From there, you'll be equipped to figure the rest out. | /r/seduction | 17/01/22 01:11 AM |
| 2 | How can I be more confident and comfortable with myself.Fuck baby steps. That's just more excuses. Just say to yourself "you're already not fucking her... what is there to lose?" and then jump in the pool. No more excuses. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 08:53 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Her: HAHAHAHA ur twisting my words Me: what are ur words👀? You're so desperate to be clever that you're saying things that just don't make any sense. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:13 PM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]People with no game tend to have a few things in common which need to be corrected. See if any of these match your situation: You're afraid to say something edgy, because you don't want to scare her away, so you keep conversations fairly vanilla. You're busy chasing her and trying to win her attention, rather than living an interesting life of your own and making her work for your attention. You spend too much time reading books and web pages about seduction, and watching PUA videos on YouTube, … | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:11 PM |
| 4 | How can I be more confident and comfortable with myself.Part if it I think is due to fear of rejection. If I don't escalate things I don't have to worry about being rejected This is the bulk of it right here. Everybody with confidence issues is dealing with a fragile ego, usually the result of having a fictional self-image of "success" based on never having taken any "risk" that could end in failure. Having a high success rate or low failure rate are only meaningful statistics when paired with a high attempt rate. And it shows. Attempting to convince… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 06:02 PM |
| 54 | [deleted by user]You're trying too hard. If someone says "entertain me", say something like, "Oh... I've got a GREAT story that will keep you in suspense!" Then don't say anything else. If she asks what it is say, "I'll tell you later." And for the love of god, don't ever try to manipulate some compliment out of a person by saying "why do you hate me?" That entire second dialog was low self-esteem cringe. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 05:41 PM |
| 1 | Every dating book keeps telling me that I'm probably getting signals constantly, but don't notice them. In my experience, I notice signals constantly, and most of the time it turns out to be delusional.Just do more things. Fuck, man, you're only 22... go embarrass yourself! Try things you've never done. Expand your comfort zone. The biggest thing about comfort, self-esteem, and confidence, is that they all grow as a direct result of having done the things you weren't comfortable doing... so using lack of confidence or lack of self-esteem as an excuse to not do things is only a guaranteed way to never do the things that will eventually give you self-esteem and confidence. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:54 PM |
| 7 | Every dating book keeps telling me that I'm probably getting signals constantly, but don't notice them. In my experience, I notice signals constantly, and most of the time it turns out to be delusional.Everything about signals is utter garbage -- not just the advice you read, but your own mental attitude itself. The reason these books talk about signals is not because they actually mean anything or that they even work. These books only talk about signals because the world is filled with insecure guys who want signals, and are willing to pay their hard-earned money to any asshole claiming that he can explain them. The fact about signals is that your desire to see them simply stems from your own… | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 02:39 PM |
| 25 | Tips for going to bars alone?I have been going alone to bars for 15 years and picking up lots of women that way. | /r/seduction | 16/01/22 03:21 AM |
| 2 | All The Reasons Women Have SexThis is a really great list, and a post that needs more visibility. I only wish it wasn't a shill for yet another online dating coach. | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 08:59 PM |
| 2 | Met a cute girl while with my girlfriendFirst, that girl was playing a very advanced level of shit test with you. If the girl you were with was (for example) your sister or friend, there would be nothing for you to hide and you could have talked to her and even asked for her number. But your sheepishness revealed that she was, in fact, your girlfriend, and at this point it became a fun game for this chick because she could see that you were interested but trying to hide it, so she was trying to lure out some incriminating behavior fro… | /r/seduction | 15/01/22 02:18 PM |
| 3 | How many dates to wait for sex?I groom myself properly and stay in decent shape. I'm not a model and I haven't been in a gym since before Covid, but I don't overeat and I maintain a proper height/weight ratio. I have a mildly receding hairline and my hair has mostly gone gray... but it is kept cut in a flattering, low-maintenance style. And my teeth are brushed and my nails are trimmed. That answers the question you asked... but I should also add that I spend time and money on flattering clothing with a timeless style (no ult… | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:51 PM |
| 6 | How many dates to wait for sex?I approach every first date as if it should reach sex, and if we don't get there but I do like the person, I'll go for a second date and see. But if we're not there after two dates, it's rare that I'll bother with a third date. | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 05:01 PM |
| 3 | How do I become less filtered and more polarising from the get go?I like to lead with innuendo as soon as possible. Again, I use the humor frame a lot (at least in the beginning) to dilute the possibility of things being seen as offensive, while still making sexually charged remarks somewhat expected in the conversation. For example: HER: Damn, all I have are large bills. I need find somewhere to get change. ME: YES! And I think I wouldn't mind watching you change... (I know all the Reddit virgins are now going to come along and try to look cool by calling my … | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 03:29 PM |
| 2 | How do I become less filtered and more polarising from the get go?In any situation, it's important to first establish some rapport with the people you're talking to, in order for your difference of opinion to be heard at all, rather than simply written off as immediately discredited and shunned. However, establishing rapport doesn't have to be a days-long process. It only requires you to spend a couple of moments demonstrating that you are, on the whole, an agreeable person -- sometimes even as little as a voiced disclaimer at the beginning of your sentence. T… | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 12:33 PM |
| 34 | Girls look at me when I'm in a barAnything done confidently will work. And keep in mind that handing someone a small piece of paper with your phone number is NOT confident... it's sheepish. If you see someone looking directly at you, make eye contact and smile at her. This shows her that you see her and are interested, and gives her a chance to smile back, showing that it was, in fact, you that she was looking at, or else to ignore you and make it clear that she was looking at something or someone other than you. If you acknowle… | /r/seduction | 14/01/22 01:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]6.5 -- fair trolling attempt, but missed a lot of opportunities | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 10:14 PM |
| 2 | After a 2 year relationship i M25 am about to get back on dating apps. Does anyone have any tips for me?It depends on your age, your appearance, and your intentions. Young men (18-29) tend to have the hardest time because there is always a slightly older man with a well-established career to be found on the next swipe. Young women will typically be more attracted to the maturity, money, and interests of the guys a few years older than they are to the ones their age. The exception is really good looking people who are just there to hookup, because at those younger ages, hookup people folks to look … | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 02:49 PM |
| 9 | After a 2 year relationship i M25 am about to get back on dating apps. Does anyone have any tips for me?Choose a small number of flattering photos. Your pics are vital, so take the time to get some that look like you made an effort! Wear clean clothes, preferably something more than just a random t-shirt. Fix your hair. Take the time to consider what the background says about you, places you might go, interests you might have. No hunting or fishing pics, and no posing next to a car or truck. Make sure your main pic is a very good headshot, and that you include at least one photo that shows your en… | /r/seduction | 13/01/22 02:22 PM |
| 3 | Dating in Big cities vs small citiesIn big cities, there are far more people available to date, so you can keep looking for as long as you want. You can generally date, seduce, sleep with, whomever comes along without much risk of it having backlash among your social group. Reputations are less likely to be built. But the downside is that with so many options and so few repercussions, people don't put in as much effort so finding a deeper connection is more difficult. In small towns, it is far more likely for people to know each o… | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 05:04 PM |
| 2 | Did I do something wrong?Did you ever ask her out? Or did you just think that texting regularly was your goal? | /r/seduction | 12/01/22 03:50 PM |
| 9 | Why I give upshe says that there wasn't a "spark", a.k.a I'm not attractive. She put in more effort with you than she did with Chad, so it's not your "attractiveness" that was the problem... it was chemistry. And frankly, while there definitely are things people can do to encourage chemistry with anyone and everyone, the important parts of chemistry are still largely up to chance -- and that's what dating is all about! | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 10:56 PM |
| 3 | What is the best way to seduce an ex back into a relationship?Those three years don't just disappear and get wiped clean with a reboot. All the arguments, all the disappointments, all the lack of frame and failed shit tests, all the defensiveness and bitterness... it's all still going to be there. Don't try again. Move on. If you somehow manage to circle back around at some future point and feel like trying anew, that could be different. But you both need some time and space and other partners to separate you. | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 06:27 PM |
| 5 | I think about getting a girl all the time, help required pls....Part of growing up and becoming a man is learning to moderate your activities and goals, make time for the things that are important to you, and set priorities. Take time to make friends and meet people. Take time to date. These things are healthy. But also keep in mind that no serious relationship that you have at 18 years old is going to be as significant for your life as your studies currently are, so don't go looking for something so serious. If you want to share things, share them with ever… | /r/seduction | 11/01/22 03:20 PM |
| 2 | Specific Shit Test - “What about your friends?”Reframe everything like she’s just a silly girl. Make a game out of life. “What about your friends?” “What, oh those people I came in with? They were just asking for directions.” | /r/seduction | 10/01/22 04:30 AM |
| 2 | I keep pu$$ying outWho cares why. Who cares what you’re afraid of. Who fucking cares? Just do it. Nothing bad can happen. Understand that. Let it sink in. *You are already NOT fucking these girls._ there’s nothing there to lose! Take a chance asking for something. You’ll see that nothing bad can happen, and you’ll start to get over whatever your fear is. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 11:08 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Develop a personality. Use it to make women happy. | /r/seduction | 08/01/22 05:37 PM |
| 3 | Reality check: Sleeping with 10 HB1s does not count as sleeping with 1HB10.What does this have to do with seduction? | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 02:32 PM |
| 5 | Tattoos are, by far, the quickest and easiest way to make yourself more sexually attractiveTattoos, stubble, leather jacket, motorcycle, jeep. Pussy magnet. | /r/seduction | 07/01/22 12:30 AM |
| 3 | Being lean vs being bigBe confident inside and make whatever body type you have work for you. | /r/seduction | 01/01/22 01:18 PM |
| 2 | How can I tell if a guy is actually being confident or just using some technique on me?No offense but you sound extremely dense. Considering I am neither OP nor am I a woman. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 02:06 PM |
| 3 | How can I tell if a guy is actually being confident or just using some technique on me?Something women do to coax a genuine reaction out of guy so they can tell if the guy is faking confidence or truly a high value man. It usually is doing or saying something to trigger an insecurity if one exists. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:57 AM |
| 1 | How can I tell if a guy is actually being confident or just using some technique on me?In general, lines are used by people who lack confidence. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 01:08 AM |
| 2 | How can I tell if a guy is actually being confident or just using some technique on me?I’m not OP | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 12:39 AM |
| 5 | How can I tell if a guy is actually being confident or just using some technique on me?Lots of people fake it. That’s what the shit tests are for. | /r/seduction | 30/12/21 12:37 AM |
| 3 | Flaking on a girl to build curiosity and interest?Flaking will likely backfire. Better to communicate less availability sometimes. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You’re already taking about “shooting your shot” with her, so making it weird is already a possibility. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 01:06 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Start a conversation. Find out what she’s doing that day. If it sounds interesting, show up. | /r/seduction | 29/12/21 01:03 AM |
| 6 | i am loserNo More Mr. Nice Guy was indeed a good book, but you miss my point... because ALL books still become excuses for you to spend more time alone and hiding in your shell. A 27 year old virgin doesn't need more time spent alone, he needs to get the fuck out and start living. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 06:04 PM |
| 26 | i am loserWell, considering that I'm a man and I fuck women, I don't see how my asking men out would serve any purpose. You're really not the brightest lamp on the shelf, are you? | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:48 PM |
| 10 | i am loserThe question of how many guys I've asked out? Hahahah! Zero. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:38 PM |
| 20 | i am loserObviously what I said didn't match your limited worldview, so rather than reconsider what might not be working for you, it was easier for you to just publicly misrepresent my gender and try to discredit my advice. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:29 PM |
| 37 | i am loserOh nice, the classic “This advice scares me so I’ll try a passive-aggressive insult” tactic. Nicely done. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 02:25 PM |
| 66 | i am loserYou need to get out and start stretching your comfort zone. Start conversations. Ask girls out. You’re already NOT getting laid, so there’s nothing to lose, and clearly what you’ve been doing isn’t working… | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 12:42 PM |
| 32 | i am loserMostly good but I disagree with “read more books”… if the dude is a 27 year old virgin, he’s been reading too many books already. Time to get out and try some shit. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 12:40 PM |
| 0 | Is it a good idea to sleep with a woman I am not attracted to just to get the ball rolling?That’s got to be your call, not Reddit’s. The one thing I can say though is that success breeds success. | /r/seduction | 28/12/21 12:59 AM |
| 1 | Any advice/tricks on how to force myself to cold approach women during the day?Just have in mind what you’re doing next — going the the post office, or picking up something for your dog, whatever. Then just act like you don’t know where to to that. Approach, say “good afternoon,” like a polite person, and toss out a couple throwaway comments like “nice day” or “hey I love that coat,” and then get to it: “say, do you know if there’s a pet store nearby?” and get the conversation going. If you think it’s going well, try “it sounds complicated, I hope I don’t get lost… would i… | /r/seduction | 27/12/21 10:52 PM |
| 4 | Men always having been expected to make the first move or approach women, be the initiators, how did that originate?It’s evolution. You can read plenty about it in your alone time. | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 10:47 PM |
| 1 | What are things to talk about on 3rd date?Move on | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 04:24 AM |
| 17 | How to escalate a Snapchat conversation into meeting up irl and hopefully more? Also in need of some advice.Delete the app. Stop her in the hallway and say “hey, my Snapchat app stopped working and I had to delete it. But maybe we could try talking in person like real humans?” | /r/seduction | 25/12/21 03:49 AM |
| 4 | How far should you joke with guysIt’s pretty easy… just imagine how you would feel. Most bad jokes start from the blind self-delusion that the person telling them is so clever that feelings won’t matter. And frankly, the young people these days are ruining all the nuance of language. NGL? Doesn’t that mean the following words are meant to be true? Why couldn’t you have said “you seem like you might be cool, but I’m a dog lover so don’t get mad if it seems like I like your dog better than I like you” Maybe a follow up could save… | /r/seduction | 24/12/21 04:33 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]This post will most likely be removed by mods for not being relevant to the sub. Still, in an attempt to bring it back around... Loneliness and "coping" are definitely not attractive qualities. Your therapist may be there to listen, and perhaps offer some advice, but in the realm of seduction you need to find something within yourself to make the strength to handle things on your own, and be a source of strength and inspiration to others. A few important tools that help a lot with mood and menta… | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?Let’s see some photos. I’m tired of people saying “I take care of myself and all that” as it I’m supposed to. believe that your blanket (and dismissive!) claim should be taken at face value. Also, nobody at 24 years old has been rejected “hundreds of times.” You haven’t lived long enough to have tried that much. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 08:26 AM |
| 1 | She’s with another guy...Chicks live taking pictures with tons of guys. Doesn’t make him a boyfriend. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 1 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?Dating apps have worked well for me. I also start conversations with strangers all the time. Breaking the ice isn’t hard once you just get used to doing it. And keep in mind that others around you are just as uncomfortable with starting conversations as you are, so when you do it, you put them at ease. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 03:24 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]What does this have to do with seduction? | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 03:03 AM |
| 2 | Do you keep a list?It reads very differently when you ask what a person does for a living, versus asking “are you in IT?” One is curious, and the other has a built in assumption. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Do you keep a list?I’m an engineer. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 01:36 AM |
| 0 | Do you keep a list?Bro… I’ve been a member of this sub for like 10 years now. I know the shit people do. Maybe you’re a rare bird and weren’t going to do what everyone else does, but it’s not “issues” to point out the irrelevance of asking if I’m in IT. | /r/seduction | 22/12/21 01:29 AM |
| 0 | Do you keep a list?What I do for a living doesn't really matter to this conversation, does it? I'm not going to tell you what I do and let you use it as an avenue to discredit what I say. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 08:10 PM |
| 4 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?People who don't talk never meet other people. You have to find a way to break out of that shell. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?hasn't worked just yet That means you're not really doing it. Also, you may need to come out of your shell. A large part of authenticity is talking... if you just stay quiet you're not being authentic, you're just being a wallflower. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 03:16 PM |
| 5 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?The most attractive quality in a person is authenticity -- which is a basically combination of honesty, confidence, and vulnerability. When people are around someone authentic, they naturally attract to that energy, for many reasons: it's non-threatening; it's refreshing; it lets people feel confident that they always know where they stand; it's trustworthy; it's genuine; it's mature... If you can become an authentic person, you will find yourself surrounded by friends as well as people who are … | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 02:56 PM |
| 8 | Is 28 too late to have your first kiss?If you haven't kissed anyone yet, at 24, I can't help thinking that you're not taking care of yourself physically, grooming, etc., and not forming any intimate bonds with people which also means not taking care of yourself emotionally. Get to work on yourself, and be more open with others. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 02:46 PM |
| 2 | Do you keep a list?I live in a large city, I am in good shape, I earn a ridiculously high salary, I’m fun, intelligent, outgoing, interesting, charismatic, and attractive. And women are really tired of losers who are awkward and poor and thirsty and don’t take care of basic grooming, so when they get around me they can’t help themselves. | /r/seduction | 21/12/21 06:00 AM |
| 2 | Do you keep a list?There's something within us men that is a matter of conquest, and competitiveness. I've been with hundreds of women now, but I no longer count anymore. Getting to a milestone (for me, 100) made it absolutely clear to me that I know how to find, approach, get to know a woman, and ultimately make her like being around me and want to take that to a physically intimate place. Knowing that makes "the game" less about just fucking, and more about finding a good partner for meaningful long-term relatio… | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 08:27 PM |
| 27 | Is bragging about nudes in your dms really that impressive?No. Bragging about nudes is evidence that you’re not getting actual sex. | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 12:59 PM |
| 5 | Do you keep a list?I did for the first hundred. After that, it just wasn’t worth the effort, because my need for validation had been met. | /r/seduction | 20/12/21 12:44 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]This is why it’s important to keep your shit handled. Opportunities go as fast as they come. They don’t wait around for you to take a month getting your shit straight. | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 04:56 AM |
| 1 | I wanna ask my best friend for sexJust make a situation awkward, catch her eye to eye, pause, and go for the kiss if it feels right. | /r/seduction | 17/12/21 04:32 AM |
| 1 | My IG is (almost) banned, should I bother make a new one for the purpose of dating?One of the best things I did was to update my Facebook photo to something that gives no real image of me, then go through my account and delete EVERYTHING. All comments, all photos, all shared links, all liked pages.... ALL GONE. Now, if people search me on Facebook, they get nothing. I can remain a mystery. Again, it forces people to actually talk to you if they want to get to know who you are. And also, everyone is more attracted to a mystery. Knowing too much about someone makes them inherent… | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 10:26 PM |
| 4 | My IG is (almost) banned, should I bother make a new one for the purpose of dating?Lack of any social media instantly makes you more interesting because people have to actually talk to you to learn who you are rather than stalking you and forming some opinion. Also, not using social media will just make you a better person. | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 10:04 PM |
| 5 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.Even at 6ft, I have enjoyed dating several women who were either same height or taller than me. There's nothing stopping it from happening if you are secure, confident, and most importantly, charming and fun to be around. | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 04:50 PM |
| 18 | Men who are unsuccessful with women share one characteristic: they make excuses.The height requirement is usually a fabrication of the online dating world. So true. People with good in-person presence and personality are rarely victim to the height thing. Yes, women will still notice and think about it -- particularly if you are shorter than they are -- but it's not a deal-breaker in person the way that it's such an easy filtering criteria in the Doordash world of online dating. You likely aren’t boring, you are just afraid to be vulnerable and show people who you are. Some… | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 03:24 PM |
| 64 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?Just return to preparing whatever you were preparing, so as to immediately establish that you're not "butt hurt" by the rejection, and maybe casually say "sorry... too soon?" Recalibration is easy if you're not some thirsty troll. You just put people at ease by demonstrating that it doesn't bother you. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:51 AM |
| 80 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?That is why you have trouble with escalation. You're busy overthinking things. Comfort is already established by a) the fact that she came home with you, and b) she did not move away when you put your hands on her waist. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:45 AM |
| 110 | Ok so let’s say you get a girl over to your place. How do you sexually escalate?Do something that puts you near each other, such as pouring a drink, or making a snack or something -- best if you're both standing. When you're near each other, slowly reach your hands out and put them on her waist, look into her eyes for a brief moment, and then kiss her. Congratulations, you have now sexually escalated. | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 03:40 AM |
| 29 | How to tell her I’m single without coming off as needy"Hey baby, what are you doing for Thanksgiving? Wanna skip the turkey and go straight to the smash potatoes?" | /r/seduction | 25/11/21 01:29 AM |
| 7 | How to practice at work excluding what would get me fired?Most of the things that actually work with regard to attracting women are completely safe for the workplace, because you have to get it out of your head the idea that attraction has anything to do with sex. It's all about confidence, humor, and charm. I've used the exact same tactics in job interviews that I use on dates and found no difference. | /r/seduction | 08/11/21 12:59 AM |
| 16 | Some interesting conversation starters while approaching.Hello | /r/seduction | 07/11/21 02:25 PM |
| 8 | I lost my virginity yesterday anyone care to talk about it message me (I’m 18)You obviously just needed to tell the world. Nobody wants to talk about it, but I'm sure we all agree that CONGRATULATIONS! are in order. | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 10:04 PM |
| 2 | How many guys actually have a “rotation” of females?I did it for several years. What would you like to know about it? | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 05:46 AM |
| 110 | How do I know they want to be approachedWomen don't generally go around hoping some stranger will approach them. They're probably on their way to something, or in the middle of doing something, and they're not even thinking about you. Your approach may be appreciated or may be rejected -- you don't know what mood she's in, or if she doesn't want to be interrupted, or if she's not even single or interested in meeting someone. So what? Rejection is data, it's not a thing that should have the power to crush your soul. | /r/seduction | 30/10/21 03:13 AM |
| 0 | Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers?Son, you joined less than a year ago and have 282 karma. Mine is over 200,000 and I've been a part of r/seduction for 9 years. I don't need some junior posturing punk telling me how this sub works, nor does anyone profit from some frustrated virgin trying to look like a know-it-all by saying that there's anything wrong with asking a woman for her time. You want straight to the point truth? The straight to the point truth is you're a sexually frustrated posturing jackass virgin wasting your time … | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 01:38 PM |
| -1 | Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers?I love how everybody shits on each other in here. It’s fucking okay for a chick to say no, Jack. You don’t have any right to think that you should be able to domineer a woman’s time and attention. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 03:13 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]She doesnt have alot of casual sex... this isnt like her. Said every woman ever. It's a lie they tell you because they're really trying to convince themselves. kind of feel like I should be worried with how quick and easy it was Nonsense. You like her and you are enjoying yourself, don't overthink it and ruin that. | /r/seduction | 29/10/21 01:32 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]Oh geez. Why did you text for 2 months before meeting?! | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 11:11 PM |
| 0 | [deleted by user]If you haven’t defined a relationship, she’s free to date who she wants. If you want to have any kind of response at all, just tell her “try to have fun. you’ll be back to me the next day regretting having settled for less.” | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 09:29 PM |
| 51 | [deleted by user]There's nothing to say. She's lost all interest. You've established yourself deeply as a person who doesn't take initiative, doesn't act on attraction, and will never be satisfying to her. Step 1: Accept that it's done. Let it go. Move on. Step 2: Stop acting like such a coward. Nobody wants to date for 3 months without some kind of physical romance. Promise yourself to never be so boring with future people you're interested in. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 07:58 PM |
| 28 | Most Effective & Creative Quick Openers?Excuse me, do you have a moment? I need some assistance. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 06:58 PM |
| 9 | Right time to ask out a girlregularly texting for more than 2 weeks, scared it's too early to ask her out... This sub in a fucking nutshell. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Is she cheating or does she want a third? (Need to learn how to escalate thru text)She was flirting with you when you knew she was with someone. Assume that either they're not serious/committed, or else they're in a relationship that is open or swinging. Be straightforward and ask if you got the right or wrong impression. It's easier with shit like this if you're out in the open. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 02:40 AM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Just get busy instead of using words to try to convince people you’re busy. Christ. [facepalm.jpg] | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 02:24 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]*facepalm* | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 02:21 AM |
| 7 | [deleted by user]I’m just answering your question. My question was "why", not "what do you do". | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 02:17 AM |
| 30 | [deleted by user]Your insecurity and need for approval are painful. Why are you trying to prove yourself to me, an anonymous person on the internet? This is the same issue you're having with this girl... and probably a root cause of a lot of things that bother you in life. Get active in things, get your brain busy. Then you won't have time to wonder or worry about whether some random chick likes you or not. Do activities with lots of chicks... one (maybe more) will have a good chemistry with you and that situati… | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 02:11 AM |
| 12 | [deleted by user]Why don't you have other things going on in your life? A stranger should not command this much of your attention. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 01:59 AM |
| 23 | [deleted by user]So you think I should still show interest and not ghost her… interesting I think you should stop overthinking it. You're not dating this girl, so what's the big deal? Just go about your life, and fit her in if you're still interested in meeting. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 01:53 AM |
| 58 | [deleted by user]Your best bet is to chill the fuck out! Reality is that she probably made up the story about her friend's breakup because she had other plans come up... but you're not in a relationship with this girl -- in fact you don't even know her! -- so it's perfectly normal. Just continue to show interest, as she is doing, and make a date happen later. | /r/seduction | 28/10/21 01:30 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Get over your stage fright. | /r/seduction | 27/10/21 11:30 AM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]You're overthinking it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 09:02 PM |
| 6 | [deleted by user]Just go to your car or hers and talk a bit to end the night. Kiss. Put your hand on her leg. Etc. If she’s game, you’ll know it. | /r/seduction | 26/10/21 01:34 PM |
| 172 | A trick I've found works great for getting womenThis is a shining example of peacocking. | /r/seduction | 24/10/21 08:12 PM |
| 1 | Small talk before asking out?Beginning a conversation with a request for a date is awkward. You should at least make an introduction, followed by some statement explaining why you've approached. Try making one or two comments relevant to the setting to display that you're not obsessing and can be casual. Then, if you want to get to the point you can say "well, listen, I don't want to take up too much of your time right here and now because I can see you were in the middle of something, but I was wondering if you'd be willin… | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 09:53 PM |
| 5 | Sentence mistakeYou didn't do anything wrong. It's just a materialistic bitch looking for someone willing to spend money on her, and when she could tell by your response that you weren't that guy, she felt the need to be rude to you before moving on to the next person. Don't sweat it. This was not a quality woman and you're better off with her gone than you would be trying to please her. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 05:37 PM |
| 1 | Girl keeps sleeping over but won’t have sex?She's using you for a place to sleep off her hangover, or to get away from her roommate, or whatever. She's most definitely not attracted to you... she's using you. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 04:18 PM |
| 7 | Why do white women dislike me?It's quite possible that it has to do with where you live. I find generally that in large cities people tend to be fairly open-minded whereas in more rural areas you still find a lot of lingering racism and cultural intolerance. | /r/seduction | 20/10/21 02:45 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Do what feels right to you. If you want casual sex, go for it. If you want to reserve that for serious relationships, that's your prerogative as well. The most important thing is: don't compromise yourself in order to be like someone else... that's not authentic. | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 04:14 PM |
| 6 | poked on facebookGood god... it was a Facebook poke, not a fucking blow job! Just message her and say "hey there! long time no talk! how are you?" | /r/seduction | 19/10/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You can't just keep waiting for the perfect thing to perfectly happen and magically you fall in love. If you're interested in getting to know her, just say "Hey, so I'd like to give our dogs a chance to get to know each other, and maybe while they do that, you and I can get to know each other too. Give me your number so we can arrange it." | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 09:23 PM |
| -1 | Should I text her again ?I also prefer to get her social media account to kind of scout Dude, that's pretty fucked. First, it's creepy. Second, it's far too much investment into a person you don't know. And third, people portray themselves in false ways on social media anyway, so you're not even getting good info from your stalking. You've got some growing up to do, bud. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 07:41 PM |
| 2 | Should I text her again ?It's entirely possible that she didn't see your message, since new messages go into a different section of the messages... But two things here: 1 - You're way too worked up over this. Keep going out and keep getting numbers, don't invest so hard on something that is currently nothing. 2 - Don't accept a facebook when asking for someone's contact. If they give you anything other than a phone number, tell them "sorry, I don't use that app. In fact, I'm not on social media... most people have a pho… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 07:21 PM |
| 12 | Guys who have slept with 100+ women. What's your secret?It's very much about defining your life and lifestyle in a very attractive way. You make daily decisions based on what is attractive to women, rather than to "your buddies." I spent money on stylish clothing, and took my fashionable female friends with me to shop for clothes. I worked out regularly. I sold my video games on Craigslist and defined my spare time with activities that were more attractive. I procured a very swanky loft in the center of a major city. I put a lot of energy into learni… | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 04:27 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]If you think there's profit being made by these fools, you're an even bigger fool. The motivation to become a dating coach is to stroke your own ego and to maybe use that as part of your bullshit you tell women. Very few of these guys ever make any money, and the money they do make -- when compared to the amount of work they have to do promoting themselves -- works out to less than what you'd make at a minimum wage job. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 08:55 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]It's been that way for a long time | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 08:39 AM |
| 10 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?Every incel virgin on earth comes to r/seduction and then spends their time insulting good advice from others, talking about how "pathetic it makes you sound". Rather than shitting on something you've never tried, go out and fucking try it yourself and see whether or not the reactions go in your favor. Shitting on people online is what's truly pathetic. | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 07:53 AM |
| 56 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?"Thank god. I was scared you might say yes!" | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 01:53 AM |
| -3 | How can I (27 f) be more physically affectionate outside of sex?You're just being hard headed. It kind of makes you seem very selfish and uncaring, actually. You describe all of the pleasures you feel when he does these things for you, and then you can't find it in yourself to give those same pleasures back? If I was him I'd dump you and move on. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 04:48 PM |
| 13 | How to stop staring at breastsStaring too much just makes you a thirsty pervert. When conversing with anyone, look them in the eyes. But if you're not conversing, having a look at the goods isn't a big deal... and if you have true confidence you can do it and then when she calls attention to it you just return your attention to her eyes and say "hey, just admiring the view... not bad". I have had this work out rather well for me many times in the past. | /r/seduction | 17/10/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Hooked up at the party but she left with her friends after she said yes when I told her I’m taking her homeParty, friends, probably alcohol involved as well... chicks will say things and mean them, but with these factors involved, plans will change without you knowing. And the friends probably pulled the "we all have to leave together" card. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 09:03 AM |
| 10 | How do I win my ex girlfriend back?Dude. You gotta move on. She was only your first girlfriend and it was only a month. Next year at this time, you're going to laugh at how stupid you are behaving right now. Move on. | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 06:08 AM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You had a date. A DATE. What is this "losing her" bullshit? You're not in a relationship or anything. | /r/seduction | 15/10/21 09:32 PM |
| 2 | Breakup into friendzoneHah! You should be so lucky! | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 04:57 PM |
| 6 | Breakup into friendzoneIt's usually one of two reasons a girl will break up with you.. And not even necessarily that she broke up with you, she may just decide to cheat. But both the cause and the effect are the same: she wanted more confidence and security than you had in yourself, and she perceived it in someone else. Bro, I think you and I speak the same language and would get on quite well. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | Breakup into friendzoneRule #1 - THERE IS NO FRIENDZONE. If you are in the friendzone, it means you are the kind of low-quality, unconfident, weak person seeking validation, who would accept such a fate. Pay close attention: I am not here to be your friend. If this isn't working for what I want, I'm not going to be here at all. And that's not a threat, it's an outcome that I'm okay with. Sure nobody want to be single, but even worse is to not even acknowledge or admit that you're single because you keep pining away af… | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 03:55 PM |
| 21 | Breakup into friendzoneThis. A breakup is a breakup. It's not a downgrade. Have the self respect to get back out and find someone who sees you as an upgrade... And also, spend some time thinking about whether there were things you may have done wrong that caused her to want the attention of others over yourself, identify those things, and fix them so that you don't relive this experience over and over with every woman you date. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 03:49 PM |
| 2 | How should I say goodbye when she ends up heading back home without having sex?First, have something already intended before arriving at your place -- something like "Oh, I have to show you that rare spider" or "I just got this great new set of curtains, but I'd really like a woman's opinion", so that when you arrive, you have a reason for inviting her in. Now, if she says no and is just going to go home, simply give a calm and confident reply like "well get home safe, I'll see you next week at that thing we've got planned", and then walk directly to your door and go in, w… | /r/seduction | 12/10/21 09:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Maybe I’m too respectful? All too often, this is exactly it. Or rather, you're mistaking "respectful" for what is really "timid and scared". It is entirely possible to be suggestive, and even to say what you want, without being disrespectful. | /r/seduction | 08/10/21 04:10 PM |
| 2 | How To Have Sex When You Live With Your ParentsWait until your dad is out, and sneak into bed with your mom. | /r/seduction | 26/09/21 04:19 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]You should not be worrying about any other guy when you're interested in a girl. You make your move(s), and she's either interested or she's not, but the other guy doesn't matter. | /r/seduction | 15/09/21 02:46 AM |
| 2 | So I am dating this girl for three days now and I really like her and I think she likes me as well. However, in the third day, she confessed her admiration to me and her words changed to more endearing ones like "my love", "darling", "baby", "I love you" etc.First of all, know that you are responsible for this. "I've been dating a girl for three days and I really like her" -- how can you know you really like someone after three days? Whether you admit it or not, you were sending her deep relationship signals, and she's responding in kind. "My love" and "darling" can easily be excused away as endearing terms that don't have to be heavy or serious, and I encourage you to brush them off accordingly. However, if she's saying "I love you," you can't enti… | /r/seduction | 09/09/21 03:57 PM |
| 1 | How to kiss?Take it up with David DeAngelo. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 05:50 AM |
| 8 | How to kiss?There are several kinds of kiss, and different ways to do each one. First, there's the "things are going well, let's see if she feels the same" kiss. For this one, you do like they describe in the movie Hitch: lean in about 90% of the way, and if she feels the same she will make up the last 10%. This is a sweet kiss, so you should have light lip contact, and the best strategy is to just mimic what she does. Next, there's the "hair test" kiss. If things seem to be going well, but you're not sure … | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 12:52 AM |
| 2 | How to kiss?I'll second the remark about Hitch. I had already no problem kissing by the time I saw that movie, but nevertheless, I found it to be a surprisingly good description of how the whole thing should be done. | /r/seduction | 04/09/21 12:36 AM |
| 2 | Why is only wanting sex viewed as such a bad thing?You change for yourself and only for yourself. Changing for the whims of a woman only displays that A) you don't stand for anything, and B) her opinion of you is somehow more important than your own | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 03:34 AM |
| 0 | Why is only wanting sex viewed as such a bad thing?Okay, feminism. Downvote me and deride me. You can't change human nature no matter how many on-topic books you tweet. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 03:24 AM |
| -13 | Why is only wanting sex viewed as such a bad thing?It is the nature of every woman to try to change a man, and it is the task of every man to never change. The one who gives in first loses all their power to the other. Instead of toss her aside, you should have used her up. You were the one with the power. You sacrificed that power by listening to her complaints. | /r/seduction | 20/08/21 12:54 AM |
| 2 | How do you go about talking to literally the most beautiful girl you just metA mental trick that has worked for me many times in the past is to imagine something I would find unattractive hidden underneath her clothing. For example, my personal preference is that I do not like large areolas, so when I see someone stunningly attractive, I convince myself that she's got giant areolas and that brings her down off that pedestal to a place where you can talk to her. | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 10:35 AM |
| 39 | The Importance of Being Good in BedThe number 1 key to being good in bed is simply this: pay attention to your partner. Note their body language, their responses to various kinds of touch in various places, etc. Don't follow some script you read online or saw in a youtube video, because everyone is different. Some people have sensitive nipples, while others require very rough play; some people are ticklish on the inner thigh while others find it incredibly arousing; some people need a lot of foreplay while others are dripping wet… | /r/seduction | 25/07/21 03:34 AM |
| 2 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your Masculinitya chemical scientist If you're a chemical scientist, it seems fairly reasonable to assume that you were exposed to some evolutionary study in your education, and thus regardless of how nice it feels to wish for equality you must certainly be aware that there are very real differences between the sexes, many of which manifest in the behaviors that everyone here is bristling at in my above comment. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityThere will always be women who mischaracterize their drunken decisions by blaming a man for taking advantage of them... and the best way to combat that is to be more careful of what condition people are in when you make moves on them... But think for a moment about how it looks to others when the only evidence people have is a girl told people you forced her, and since then you haven't been with anyone. You're giving them reason to believe her! Now conversely, think about what it looks like when… | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityI'm being downvoted because I shared an opinion that does not agree with the popular sentiment of kids on reddit, who downvote anything that they don't want to face. And frankly, I'm already bored with your petty argument... I'm seriously not going to lose any sleep over whether or not you agree with me or even if you call me names. I'll be just fine, and this is where my responses to you end. Arguing with opinionated loudmouths on reddit doesn't bring value into my life. So enjoy whatever benef… | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 04:25 PM |
| 2 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityNot quite. Rather, men have been manipulated into becoming cowards. If you spend any reasonable amount of time reading this subreddit, along with any other "dating" subreddits, you can see the pattern consistently: guys are afraid of approaching women, afraid of being seen "hitting on" women, afraid of rejection, afraid of having drinks thrown in their face, afraid that somehow they're going to be accused of sexual harassment, afraid of being MeToo'ed, afraid, afraid, afraid. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 04:18 PM |
| -3 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityYour frustration with your own cognitive dissonance is showing in the way that you throw insults around and make baseless assertions about my sexuality, rather than addressing what you believe to be issues in my original comment. There is no shortage of data available proving that the much ballyhooed "wage gap" is largely a fiction, perpetuated by hand-picked data that is drastically skewed. There is also no shortage of data available to show that men have always sought out STEM fields while wom… | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 04:14 PM |
| 2 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityIt's mighty presumptive of you to assume anything I said comes from anger. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 03:17 PM |
| 6 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your Masculinityespecially with the dramatically changing internet culture... It's always cute how the rather small, but vocal minority believes that they're on the side of overall culture and society, when the truth is that most people still don't agree with the loudmouths on the internet chat boards like Reddit and Twitter, but you don't know about them because all you know is what you read in your echo chamber of Twitter and Reddit. | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 09:57 AM |
| -10 | Stop Being Ashamed of Your MasculinityGreat post. All true, and the cowards here need to hear this shit. I'll add the following: Branding controls a message, and modern day feminism has been very vocal about branding "toxic masculinity" -- not for the purported purpose of equality, because women are not interested in working as hard as men or incurring the risks we do, in order to be treated equally -- because the entire goal of feminism is to use the excuse of equality to take power away from men, while leaving men with all their e… | /r/seduction | 21/07/21 05:59 AM |
| 1 | Is "sliding" into the dm's outdated/weird?"Sliding into DMs" has never been a thing. It's like "donkey punch"... everyone talks about it but nobody ever does it. Sure, if you're super attractive and popular and she already likes you, it doesn't matter how you contact her... she will respond. But for everyone else, Instagram messages are the easiest thing on earth to ignore. Either way, if this is the only means you have of contacting her, give it a shot. The only thing that's guaranteed is that if you don't give it a try, you'll never t… | /r/seduction | 20/07/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Interesting snap shot into mind of woman who cancelled on me.It's all too common. There are a lot of attention-seeking women in this world, and they manufacture more lies that you can keep up with. It's often best just to never go looking at their social media, because you're almost always going to be pretty put off by how they behave. But let's be real -- it's no different from the guys on reddit who post fake photos to r/mildlyirritating or r/uselessredcircle. People will do anything for internet points. | /r/seduction | 19/07/21 02:07 PM |
| 2 | How do you elicit shit tests And pass them ?You don't elicit shit tests, nor should you want to. By their very nature, a shit test implies that your girl doesn't fully believe you are who you appear to be, or that the has any faith in you as a man. When you've established your confidence and decisiveness and value, she won't give you shit tests. How you pass them is by not getting shaken. Shit tests are designed to make you uncomfortable. A man pretending to be alpha will become insecure and defensive in response to a shit test, while a m… | /r/seduction | 17/07/21 01:30 AM |
| 333 | “Hey, do you mind watching this for me?”This is solid. | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 10:41 AM |
| 1 | Should i send her a note?Don't make your move via a note. That's lame. Tell her face to face that you'd like to stay in touch and maybe get together, and ask if that would be all right and if so can you have her phone number. | /r/seduction | 15/07/21 09:02 AM |
| 2 | Feel like I’m losing the ability to socializeThere’s a mall nearby, but I always found it too intimidating to approach girls So you're already making an excuse... I guess it’s cuz they’re more likely to be in groups which makes it harder. Why the fuck does a group change anything? I do have my interests, like video games, working out, anime You, and every other lonely incel. When are you kids going to learn that video games and anime are not attractive interests, nor are they improving you as a person or providing any life skills? I'll bet… | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 12:52 PM |
| -2 | Should I switch my focus to making female friends instead of approaching?Treat them all like "friends". Friends that you fuck. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 04:01 AM |
| 3 | Getting ready for my First Date ….Depends on your skin tone and hair color. Both items are nice on the bed, but we can't tell you which looks sexier without seeing the canvas they will be painted on. | /r/seduction | 14/07/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | The ‘bad boy’ persona really does workIt'll be hard to fake it when you don't have the ankle monitor... | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 06:40 PM |
| 9 | The ‘bad boy’ persona really does workI'm currently on house arrest, and I've been actually leading with that information on dating apps, and surprisingly a lot of women don't find it to be an issue, will come and meet me for the first time at my home, and often have sex with me on the first night. There's no denying that women really do love the bad boy. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 01:06 PM |
| 2 | Is this a good response for asking a girl to hang again?Who cares? Why are you overthinking it? She said she'll let you know, so let it rest until she lets you know. Meanwhile, you should still be out chasing other girls. It will keep your mind busy instead of obsessing over this girl, and it will also increase your confidence and value when you see that you have options. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 12:21 PM |
| 15 | Had sex on first date, regret itGet out of your head. I actually like this girl You went on ONE DATE! You don't know that you like her. And it's way too early for all that sentimental shit. Sex on first date is exactly what you're supposed to do! Now call her, tell her you really enjoyed meeting, and ask to see her again in a few days. And if she wants to fuck again, then do it! | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 12:14 PM |
| 1 | Who can I talk to for therapy about datingI pity the onslaught on messages from dating coaches your inbox is about to get. You don't need a dating coach, you need a role model. Find yourself a confident friend and emulate him. You need to develop individuality, authenticity, confidence, and a separation from outcome dependence. Find your self worth within you, rather than by some measure of your success or lack thereof with women. ONLY THEN will women find you attractive. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 11:49 AM |
| 1 | All my love interests become best friends. Help!Stop being sensitive. Start making moves on women. When you're a good listener, highly available, empathetic, and timid, women will see you as a friend. When you're assertive, decisive, confident, and physical, they will see you as a romantic possibility. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 10:55 AM |
| 5 | For those who went from no dates to getting dates all the time what was the turning point for you?One simple change makes all the difference: When you're not asking people out, you have no dates. When you start asking people out, you start having dates. Get out of your goddamn head and just ask people out. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 10:35 AM |
| 5 | I can't keep a girl around post hook up for the life of me and I'm sick of it.You had time to do all the oral and fondling and what-not, but used "time" as an excuse not to fuck? What the hell is wrong with you! Shoulda just fucked. In fact, if you were really so into this chick, you should have canceled on dance class and shown her you're interested. After a hookup, don't invite them over again the next day... that looks thirsty as hell. Just flirt and let her know how you enjoyed her the night before and that you're looking forward to seeing her again. Gotta keep some m… | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 02:05 AM |
| 217 | How to make sex memorable for the girlGet her pregnant. Trust me, she won't forget. | /r/seduction | 13/07/21 01:43 AM |
| 4 | The bottom of the bucket crabs will try to pull you downBro, your before/after pic is a testament. People look in the mirror and see that "before" and can't imagine how it could become that "after"... but it just took some exercise, a haircut, and some confidence. | /r/TheRedPill | 12/06/21 06:49 PM |
| 1 | I get “ewww” and “no” from a lot of women on the streetsYou make some really good points here. Particularly that about when a man dresses in a non-masculine manner and acts submissively, women feel the need to take on the masculine role, and that is revealed in how they act around him. Good stuff. I do have to disagree on your final point, however. If OP is already embracing a submissive and feminine walk of life, his value is already low. And a low-value stranger standing up for themselves only continues to lower that value. If he thought he was get… | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 05:49 PM |
| 1 | I get “ewww” and “no” from a lot of women on the streetsPeople are not entitled to openly project their negative opinions on anyone, that is self entitlement at its core. You are 100% incorrect. We've had arguments about freedom of speech for far more decades than you've been alive, and if there's one thing that has been ruled time and time again, it is that YOU do not have the right to silence people solely because their opinion offends you. Every ignorant thing you are saying offends me. So should you be silenced? No. You have the right to be ignor… | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 05:40 PM |
| 1 | Funny reason for getting rejected at the bar tonight tonightI love the way that frustrated guys always assume looks first, rather than considering their behavior. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 04:40 PM |
| 9 | Funny reason for getting rejected at the bar tonight tonightIn general, a girl doesn't ask how old you are unless you're already doing something that comes off as immature. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | I get “ewww” and “no” from a lot of women on the streetsIT'S DATA. Fucking learn from it. If people are often referring to your looks in a negative way, why double down on that look? Fucking change it up! Do something to make yourself more attractive, rather than whining about people not finding you attractive. What's so hard to understand about that? | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 09:05 AM |
| 12 | I get “ewww” and “no” from a lot of women on the streetsI’m somebody who’s a bit like the conventional opposite of toxic masculinity You see... the thing is, women complain about toxic masculinity because it frustrates them. Why? Because they LIKE masculinity, they just don't want it to be toxic. All you little twinks these days think somehow that you're making yourself appealing by going against masculinity (and then throwing the word "toxic" in to make yourself feel justified), only to make yourself essentially into a girly boy and that's just not … | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 09:02 AM |
| 3 | Potentially losing my virginity tomorrow need tipsThat's it exactly. So many virgins are afraid to lead... just go in the direction you want to go, and trust me, if she's not ready she will slow you down. | /r/seduction | 12/06/21 08:42 AM |
| 3 | If you are comfortable being alone, at ease with rejection, and have abundance mindset, you will rarely act needy with othersCorrection: If you are comfortable being alone and at ease with rejection, you will rarely experience either of them. | /r/seduction | 10/06/21 02:14 AM |
| 2 | Trust Women to be WomenWhy not touch her? There's a deeply satisfying feeling that comes from getting a woman's actions to reveal her game after you fell for her lies so many times in the past. By fucking her behind the back of her new boyfriend, OP now has a flood of memories in his mind of when she said "oh, I was just with the girls" and now he knows just how many times she was doing it behind his back. It sucks to realize you were the cuck for so long, but it's great to know when you're now the Chad. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/21 04:22 PM |
| 5 | Trust Women to be Womenonly paying attention to their actions This is the key to the whole kingdom right here! Women are incredible liars, and if you make the mistake of listening to them, you'll be fooled every time. But if you just push the mute button and watch their actions, they're all the same. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/05/21 04:18 PM |
| 12 | I think I’ve found a cheat code for getting girls out on datesThe thing that makes this work is, it shows ANY action. Every guy on every dating app is a frickin' coward, afraid to make a move, always "chatting" to use your word, and doing far too much of it. Simply having taken ANY step at all shows a girl that you might actually be serious and not just another time waster in the long parade of time wasters. | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 03:34 PM |
| 2 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”You kids are cute. Talk to me when you're a lonely, single, 45 year old. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 01:29 AM |
| 13 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”Depends on how you define "seduction", which is the point of this sub, is it not? If you want to get laid, yes, it's comically easy. I did it for decades. And by my side was a girl I never looked at as anything more than a friend. She knows what a fucking slut I was. And I was. Until I realized that she was the person I belonged with. And then I had to chase her. And I chased her for a long time! But we're happy and in love and meant to be together and it's the best thing to ever happen to me...… | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 01:22 AM |
| 15 | Don’t be a “Justin Case”I disagree. Chase a girl who's worthy of you. But be aware of what it means to be worthy of you. If you're Justin Case, she's not worthy of you. But if she's just "got some reservations" it's okay to chase. In fact, sometimes the chase is what makes her fall for you. | /r/seduction | 24/04/21 12:04 AM |
| 1 | I had a girl walk away from me tonight mid set to talk to another guyMore than anyone else, LISTEN TO YOURSELF. Data is your master. How do people respond to me? What did I accomplish? Everyone who tells you they know shit only knows THEIR shit. Always remember that YOU are an individual. | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 04:25 PM |
| 1 | I had a girl walk away from me tonight mid set to talk to another guySTOP LISTENING TO RSD {whomever} Grow a set. Sad but true. What you experienced was DATA! It was a learning experience. You did something and saw a result. GROW from it. | /r/seduction | 19/04/21 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Made a tiny move todayCan someone please tell me how this is Seduction? | /r/seduction | 17/04/21 08:17 PM |
| 2 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Take a dance class. Seriously. Ask a female friend to join you for weekly swing dance lessons, or salsa, or whatever. You'll have a lot of fun, you'll get more confidence, and you'll be doing something! | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Take up karaoke. Be a more showy dancer. Tell jokes. Make people remember who you are. | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 02:41 AM |
| 2 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Become more active in the world. Can be anything! Take a dance class. Join a sign language group. Visit a museum. Explore the neighborhoods in your city. Go to a classic auto show. Attend a sporting event. Join a local cover band. The options are endless! | /r/seduction | 10/04/21 02:39 AM |
| 6 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Look, I'm going to tell it to you in a different manner. Hear me out... So many guys complain that "I wanted to ask her out but I didn't know what to say." But if you have a full, active life, you have something going on Saturday and Sunday and every other day. You can say to a girl "I'm going to Tampa to hand-roll cigars in Ybor City... you should come with!" and you'll be amazed how often people say "yes, that sounds amazing!" Just be doing the best YOU that you can do, and people will want to… | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 09:20 PM |
| 3 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Thing is... they're right. You DO have nothing going on in your life. | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 09:03 PM |
| 2 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.YES! The "nice guy" is always manipulative. Great point! | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 03:05 PM |
| 39 | Stop trying to win women over by being "Nice." Be HONEST instead.Nice™ is fake. Being kind, being nice, doing good things for people, or diffusing arguments.... these are all just BASELINES for being a decent person. They are NOT attractive qualities. As OP says, if your entire identity is based on baseline, you are not standing out as different from anyone else. And moreover, if you never disagree you are never giving people even a slight hint at what you stand for, only showing that you identify as vanilla. Disagreement is vital to people having a sense of … | /r/seduction | 09/04/21 01:15 PM |
| 5 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadGoing on a date is not the same thing as dating. You're meeting a person in a (presumably) one-on-one scenario to get a chance to know each other a little better... not making a commitment to that person being your significant other. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 07:41 PM |
| 25 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadStop thinking in terms of "taking someone out", and start thinking in terms of finding an opportunity to get to know someone. Your job isn't to impress her... your job is to meet people and find out if they're even interesting enough to merit your attention. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:50 PM |
| 4 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadThat's insanely egotistical, not to mention blind to how the real world works. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:49 PM |
| 120 | Don't hesitate. Or another guy WILL take her out insteadAnother scenario that I see come up a LOT in these forums: Insecure, timid guys who say things like "I wanted to ask her out but I never got a chance to talk to her alone, and I didn't want to do it in front of other people" or something to that fact. Some other guy isn't going to be such a coward, and he's going to ask her out no matter who's looking, and she's going to say yes, because she can see that he's got the confidence to act and that he's more interested in her than in what the audienc… | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 06:48 PM |
| 10 | Predator?This woman is an asshole. You shouldn't feel the need to walk away. Walking away actually makes her feel like she was right. You could easily have said "it's a long line, just making conversation. sorry." | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 05:23 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact!Watch videos of great speakers, comedians, story-tellers. Look at how they move their attention around, telling portions of the story directly to individuals who are listening. This is much easier to do with you're in a group... when you're one-on-one, you need to look away at a fictitious other person from time to time so that you're not super intense with your single listener. | /r/seduction | 08/04/21 04:50 PM |
| 6 | Sexualizing intent vs Having "fun"People who come to forums like this one looking for ways to improve their interactions with women are almost always standard orbiters, Nice Guys™, simps, cowards. It's entirely too common for weak, vanilla guys to just go along for the ride, to do "whatever you want to do", to be afraid of speaking their mind or disagreeing, to never take a chance, to try too hard at giving compliments and agreeing with the pretty girl whether she's right or wrong. As u/Dutchass91 indicated above, it's not attra… | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 5 | Sexualizing intent vs Having "fun"Treating a girl like one of your guy friends is nothing at all like how you're describing it. Guys joke with each other, we mock, we tease, we have confidence in our interactions because we're never thinking "I hope I don't piss Johnny off because then he'll never have sex with me". The core of the advice is simply that the way guys behave around girls is always protective, cautious, vanilla, and needy, and the author is trying to get you to stop being that way. | /r/seduction | 07/04/21 01:43 PM |
| 0 | What behaviors or habits scream low self-esteem?Focus on something you're good at --- and not video games, I mean something that people actually respect. Dance, cook, fix a car, learn a foreign language, repair woodwork, make the world better through the talents that you have acquired. | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 07:48 PM |
| 6 | I'm 20 and can only attract older womenJust take what's coming your way. You'll be glad you did. | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 03:27 AM |
| 2 | Aim for "Honest" NumbersA really lame thing that was popular 20 years ago, where douchebags who played a lot of games and lied a lot and postured as if they were cooler than they are, decided that they were "pick-up artists". | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Aim for "Honest" NumbersHard on, full agreement with the first half of this. Not that it ended poorly, but just that you hit on some very solid truths in the first half, and those need to be understood by people. Guys think of "getting numbers" as some kind of badge of success, when it doesn't actually count for much. And moreover, women KNOW that men count getting the number as a "close" (yes, they know your lame PUA terminology, fellas!) so if they just give you a number you'll go away and leave them alone. Don't be … | /r/seduction | 06/04/21 02:19 AM |
| 3 | You are going to die one day. In your last moments do you want to remember living a life of neediness, desperation for women?I’ve seen a lot of people die. Unfortunately. The thing that stands out is that nobody ever talks about regretting the things they did — every dying person regrets the things they didn’t do. | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 11:51 PM |
| 11 | Disagreeing and having your own opinions of your own not only shows strength, it makes others feel safe.This is a great point! One of the biggest problems with Nice Guys™ is that they will do anything to avoid conflict. This means not only failing to have opinions of their own, but also means never sticking up for others, and it also means lying about trivial things in attempt to avoid a fight or an angry reaction. Conversely, the strength of a person who is unafraid to disagree, or to say no, is that the people around you know where you stand, and they know where they stand with you. When you are… | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 10:26 PM |
| 3 | Lost Virginity From Seddit (part 2)...the whole thing feels pretty platonic....I’m just not sure what’s going on at this point....I’m not sure what my dick or my heart wants to do... Dude. You spent a weekend hanging out with this girl; it's not like you've been dating exclusively for six months. It's going to feel fairly platonic because you don't fucking know each other yet! You just lost your virginity, and you had a lot of sex with this girl in a short time. This is all new and overwhelming. You're letting far too much emotio… | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 01:57 PM |
| 3 | Lost virginity from listening to sedditIt's not even a shit test. She just had friends who stopped by. All of you insecure little fellas just read far too much into everything. It's not a test, and you don't have to act in any certain way or prove anything... you just need to have the right mindset from the start: I am comfortable in any situation, I do not have expectations, I am fine with wherever this night takes me. If you have that mindset, you will not mess up when other guys show up, instead you will be fun and befriend those … | /r/seduction | 05/04/21 01:45 PM |
| 0 | Scared to make moves even when I’m drunkThank you, but I prefer it my way. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 03:55 PM |
| 2 | Scared to make moves even when I’m drunkI couldn’t bring myself to say “hey I like you you’re hot” Well that's probably a good thing, because that's a terrible line to use. Just get a person's juices flowing and then touch them and see how their body language responds. If they're receptive to physical touch, go for a kiss. Telling someone you like them IS NOT A MOVE. It's actually a counter-move! Using words to tell someone you want more is what unconfident, low-value people do. It's not attractive. We use words to seal a deal when bu… | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 03:52 PM |
| 1 | For those who have had some success, try this *Don't Get The Number when you're out.This is pure, oven fresh, golden brown advice, fellas. This guy knows what he's talking about. | /r/seduction | 03/04/21 01:29 AM |
| 1 | How powerful is it really, when a girl realises a guy has many other options?Your passive aggressive tone already gives away the answer to my following question, but I'll still ask: do you really think the act people put on for Tinder compares in any way to the real life evidence of a life well-lived? | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Best way to seduce a man with no wordsTake off your clothes. | /r/seduction | 31/03/21 03:11 AM |
| 2 | DON'T compliment their bodies or face, Compliment their STYLE.Entirely true, and can never be said enough! Guys just don't seem to get it. Another aspect to this that other guys seem to overlook is that if you just sit and watch guys talk to pretty girls, they all sound exactly the same: "hey, I noticed you from over there and I just had to come say hi" or "you are so beautiful"... blah blah blah. They think they're giving a compliment -- and to be fair they ARE -- but it's entirely superficial and it's also something that the pretty girl hears all fucking… | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 04:30 PM |
| 4 | How important is it to sexualise the conversation on a date or when pursuing a ONS with someone?This is horrible advice. Don't pay any attention to it. Dating is supposed to be exciting and fun and get the endorphins pumping... not a prewritten contract decided at the beginning of the night. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 01:45 AM |
| 4 | How important is it to sexualise the conversation on a date or when pursuing a ONS with someone?And would you wait for a break in the conversation or a flirty moment to go in for a kiss or would you just go for it when you feel like it? Absolutely go for it when you feel like it. Women like decisive men. But please, be situationally aware enough to know that she's at least enjoying herself. If a woman is not having a good time and you try to kiss her, it can turn really bad. | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 01:44 AM |
| 8 | How important is it to sexualise the conversation on a date or when pursuing a ONS with someone?Adding sexual energy definitely helps a lot in getting to a one night stand. However, it's much more important to NOT be creepy. When you're with a woman you just met and you keep steering the conversation toward topics like sex and nudity, you're going to come off like a thirsty fucktard. I do my best to get onto topics that are exciting in some way: steer away from the boring "do you have brothers and sisters?" or "where did you grow up?" sleep-inducing interview questions, and instead get to … | /r/seduction | 30/03/21 01:41 AM |
| 10 | How powerful is it really, when a girl realises a guy has many other options?try to make me jealous You didn't care because this was obviously not actual confidence or any display of value, just a petty attempt at getting your attention. No girl who rejected you cares who you’re banging I beg to differ. If a girl rejects a guy, and he accepts it without issue, and then she later sees him somewhere else surrounded by beautiful women, most times she will question her own choice. It's all too often that women make quick, on-the-moment judgments of a man's worth, only to lat… | /r/seduction | 29/03/21 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What makes someone seductive or unseductive?I think it's ultimately even more simple than that. Being seductive is simply possessing qualities that cause a person to want to please you. | /r/seduction | 27/03/21 05:41 PM |
| 3 | How to tell if eye contact is meaningless?https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/mc2sjb/stop_looking_for_signals/ | /r/seduction | 26/03/21 04:03 AM |
| 3 | Stop looking for signalsYES! I'm so tired of people asking "does this mean she likes me?" and then writing a page and a half of ignorant drivel that says nothing more interesting than "she was looking at me" as if that meant anything. | /r/seduction | 24/03/21 06:45 PM |
| 13 | Stop falling in love with people you're not datingMost of the guys on Reddit are falling in love with a fiction -- some story they've dreamed up in their head, rather than the actual person who is the object of that emotion. | /r/seduction | 23/03/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | How to suggest her place?Go out with her. Escalate physically. If you're doing everything right to make her want you, she'll make the suggestion for you. | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 10:27 PM |
| 2 | What is the most basic skills of seduction everyone must know?It's that nonsense "pick-up artist" movement that was happening a decade ago with the Mystery Method and a bunch of bad advice about how to be an asshole and pretend you're cool as a strategy to make girls like you. It's filled with ignorant advice like "negging" and "kino" and "indicators of interest" and a bunch of other bullshit that's really only good for making frustrated single guys fork over money to self-described "dating coaches". | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 10:21 PM |
| 2 | What is the most basic skills of seduction everyone must know?First, foremost, grooming. Be clean, smell good, teeth brushed, hair styled, dressed well, and fucking cut those fingernails! Second, confidence. Don't be shaken or insecure. Make decisions, have opinions. Take chances. And third, authenticity. Be who you are, own your opinions, emotions, and mistakes. Don't act, don't hide who you are. Those three basic things will make you more attractive than 90% of the other guys without you ever having to learn any techniques, or lines, or any bullshit PUA … | /r/seduction | 18/03/21 04:01 PM |
| 3 | How many failures do people who get good at seduction go through?I've missed more than 9000 shots in my career. I've lost almost 300 games. 26 times, I've been trusted to take the game winning shot and missed. I've failed over and over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed. Michael Jordan | /r/seduction | 16/03/21 07:55 PM |
| 0 | Is she being friendly or flirty?Stop with all the "she's looking at me" bullshit. You kids have got to get past this idea that a person "looking at you" means that there's some kind of love brewing. Christ. Just ask her out. Be a fucking man. Women are not interested in children. You ask her out, she either says yes or no. It's just information, not some critical world-ending bullshit. | /r/seduction | 15/03/21 07:57 PM |
| 14 | Why are so many guys in denial or don’t want to learn these skills?Mommy told them they were perfect just as they are. | /r/seduction | 13/03/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Baffled with wife's shit testShe wants a little comforting. Women are complicated. But those were not shit tests. You're failing to give her what she needs... and she's trying to coax it out of you. Normally I would stop here and say that this isn't related to seduction, take it to r/relationships. However, this could very well be or become an obstacle to seducing your wife, so I'll continue. Am I more intelligent than your ex? Your response should be "Yes, honey. Without a doubt!" even if it's a lie. Your evasive answer is… | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Baffled with wife's shit testThose aren't shit tests, that's fishing for compliments. THIS exactly. | /r/seduction | 10/03/21 08:22 PM |
| 1 | What is a good way to reply to “Ill believe it when I see it 🥰”“Then meet me Saturday so I can prove it.” | /r/seduction | 09/03/21 03:05 AM |
| 2 | Age 20 Never had a gf and socially awkwardShow me a cult leader or highly charismatic person who doesn't have strong opinions. | /r/seduction | 06/03/21 08:43 PM |
| 7 | Age 20 Never had a gf and socially awkwardMore than ever before, fear of rejection is a huge thing for you Zoomers. Cancel Culture has you all afraid to take a position or have an opinion. I feel for you kids. But the solution is stark and simple: just do it. It's amazing how little other people's opinions actually matter. You'll get smeared on the Reddits or the Twitters or whatever, but it's never going to fucking matter. In person, the opposition from disagreement will actually be a benefit! When everyone around you is a pussy, stand… | /r/seduction | 28/02/21 02:15 PM |
| 2 | Society failed men.The nonsense and rancor in this sub sent me away years ago, but it's things like this post that stop me from completely unsubscribing. You are spot on. Well struck. | /r/TheRedPill | 28/02/21 01:21 PM |
| 33 | I've finally found the what truly makes me happy - WomenWhy isn't it possible in your mind to genuinely appreciate the company of women? I have enjoyed it immensely for many years and it doesn't get old. OP says he's taken the time to be truly authentic with them, rather than posturing. That to me sounds like he's making genuine connections. Speaking for myself, I find the experience of getting to know someone new, becoming enamored, sharing pleasant experiences and a bit of romance, it's all wonderfully fascinating and has nothing to do with any nee… | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 3 | Where do you find the energy to go out if you’re exhausted after a long day?I guess that depends on your situation. Is it your work? Is it time to consider a change of job? Is it something else? One thing that made a big difference for me a while back was that I started dressing nicer. I would wear designer clothes and even a sportcoat to work, in spite of the people around me being in jeans and t-shirts. Dressing well has a natural way of improving your mood, but it also means you're ready to go out right away after work; you don't have to go home and change first. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 05:53 PM |
| 3 | Where do you find the energy to go out if you’re exhausted after a long day?Most times, I find that people who are exhausted are that way because of a mental state, not physical. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 9 | How to make a girl feel safe around you ?Top thing that makes a woman feel safe: being in control of your emotions. If you have an even keel, a calm temperament, never raise your voice, she will not only feel unthreatened by you, but she will see you as someone capable of diffusing such behaviors in others. Second thing, also very important: never be manipulative or make her feel pressured to do anything she doesn't want to do. It's amazing how much she will WANT to send you sexy photos or do that one thing in the bedroom that you like… | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 4 | How to make a girl feel safe around you ?100%. Being huge and muscular won't make a woman feel safe if you have anger issues... If anything, she'll feel less safe because you're even more capable of hurting her. | /r/seduction | 26/02/21 04:58 PM |
| 1 | The topic of confidence comes up a lot here, and I see a lot of people get it wrongYou have to get your head out of the media, and back into reality. | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 03:22 AM |
| 1 | The topic of confidence comes up a lot here, and I see a lot of people get it wrongthat's where you're wrong kiddo, we are in 2021 sadly. Quote me the legal statute upon which you base this ridiculous wannabe rebuttal. | /r/seduction | 20/02/21 02:57 AM |
| 2 | The 36 Questions that Lead to love.Is their the potential for some of these to be used very early on in dating? would you recommend any of these for a first date? Could any of them be used to seduce? I have actually tried this on a few occasions, and found that it did definitely lead to things on a first date going really rather well. My recommendation, based on actual experience, is that you try to stay open to the idea of not getting through every question. If you get stuck on adhering specifically to the list, it can get a bit… | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 06:48 PM |
| 4 | What can I learn or try that'd help me get the sex life I want?You are far too caught up in ideas and concepts and terminology. You are extremely outcome dependent. And you seem to want to skip to the end without following any of the steps that lead there. If you want to learn something, the best thing I can recommend is to stop seeing women as some object in which to find your self esteem, or as a way to offset boredom... and start seeing them as actual people, each of whom might have the ability to bring some potential quality into your life. Take time to… | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 06:41 PM |
| 2 | The topic of confidence comes up a lot here, and I see a lot of people get it wrongMake facing your fears a daily habit So true. When you lean into every challenge, your fears melt away rapidly. The first time it's scary. But the thirty-first time it's almost an addiction. And the 101st time, you simply know... fully believe that whatever it is, you are going to conquer it. | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 03:56 PM |
| 1 | The topic of confidence comes up a lot here, and I see a lot of people get it wrongWell said | /r/seduction | 19/02/21 03:40 PM |
| 2 | I feel it's cringe worthy to wait for sometime before replying to a girl's text. Anybody else feels the same?So true! | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 06:35 PM |
| 3 | I feel it's cringe worthy to wait for sometime before replying to a girl's text. Anybody else feels the same?^ this guy gets it | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 06:34 PM |
| 2 | I feel it's cringe worthy to wait for sometime before replying to a girl's text. Anybody else feels the same?Doing anything in seduction by following some playbook, or set of rules, is inherently cringeworthy. Being fake in any way is going to backfire. People may fall for little tricks briefly, but eventually your game will either be obvious and get rejected, or else you'll simply butt up against a new situation that you have no playbook for and you'll fall down. The entire goal should be to make genuine, authentic connections with people. And when you do that, it will never matter how available you a… | /r/seduction | 18/02/21 06:33 PM |
| 3 | Getting a new apartment soon. Any bachelor pad tips for seduction.Top tip: keep it clean. If you're just moving there, you probably won't be spending a ton of money up front on decorations — that will happen over time. Just be sure to have some comfortable seating, an organized bedroom, and do something to make it smell nice. For bonus, have some drinks and snacks on hand, and keep actual food in your refrigerator. You should not underestimate how attractive women find it when a man lives like a mature human being rather than a broke bachelor with empty cupboa… | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 11:16 PM |
| 0 | RSD Real Social Dynamics a scam?Spoiler alert for you: after I block you in a moment, I'll never see the nonsense you write and your insecure little need for arguments will be wasted on me. Enjoy, little boy. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | RSD Real Social Dynamics a scam?The strawman is saying they look like models. That was EXACTLY my point. They don't belong on runways, but they all look like they could be in Abercrombie & Fitch ads. Perhaps you narrow-minded folks need to learn what the word model actually means, and stop taking words out of my text when quoting it. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 04:12 PM |
| 1 | Does kino really make that big of a difference?Agreed | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 04:10 PM |
| 1 | Does kino really make that big of a difference?Which is where this sub, and resources like it, are failing. I think we can do better to help those people gain more emotional maturity. Great comment. | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 04:09 PM |
| 3 | Does kino really make that big of a difference?I don't necessarily disagree... I just think maybe that we have a bit of responsibility when discussing this stuff to try to keep the mentality in a positive place. Much the same as it's not the job of a Home Depot cashier to ask me what I'm doing with duct tape, a shovel, and a tarp, but I would like to think that they might at least ask a question about it... and that nobody wants to be the one who did nothing when they see that guy on the news later, wanted in suspicion of kidnapping... Infor… | /r/seduction | 17/02/21 12:56 AM |
| 5 | RSD Real Social Dynamics a scam?You can twist my words and respond to a straw man if that makes you feel better. All the virgins and posturing wannabe players on this sub do is go to the comment section looking for an argument or some way to act superior and push down the real advice being given. Hell, judging by that pretentious username, I'll bet you only dislike my comments because they expose you for trying to sell some snake oil as well. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 10:09 PM |
| 4 | Does kino really make that big of a difference?The power of human contact is a huge part of developing chemistry. It makes people feel closer and more intimate. But don't think of it as "kino" or some kind of tool that you need to employ in "game"... We need to stop using lame, out-of-date PUA terminology. We need to stop encouraging each other to manipulate women into giving us something we want. I would like to see more people start thinking in terms of "making a connection" or "building rapport." Think about when you're taking a friend as… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 10:05 PM |
| 3 | Push-Pull HelpPull. "You look really nice today!" She says thanks. Push. "Is that for your next date after you leave from me?" She laughs and probably plays along. Talk some. Pull. Something funny happens, and you go up for a high five to share in the moment. Push. "Haha! That was the worst high five ever. Wanna try again?" Talk some. Conversation gets deeper into your personalities. Pull. You're about to tell her something about dealing with other people or whatever, so you lower the volume of your voice, an… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Try the banana challengeThis is excellent! It's why I use the word "cowards" so often about the people who read this sub. So many guys here (and everywhere) have all of these preconceived ideas of being rejected or mocked, or getting slapped or being sued for sexual harassment, or any of 100 other absolutely unreasonable imagined outcomes, so they never try anything and never do anything, and they live with some odd sense of pride that they successfully avoided the bad that wasn't going to happen anyway, never acknowle… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:34 PM |
| 7 | Putting the debate to rest, how to create and internalize change. How can we identify worthwhile principles to take on? [Part 3]I feel like there is one other aspect to add, which is not insignificant when it comes to making changes in yourself and keeping them: The people around you know you by the identifiers they have assigned to you and the boxes they've put you in within their minds. They are going to be a major impediment to keeping the changes you make because they will be judging you as the person they know and sometimes they will get very adamant about you staying consistent with their view -- because for you to… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:29 PM |
| 13 | The Art Of Seduction (Part 1)Everything you need to know about women can be summed up by the behavior of cats. A few years ago I even had an idea to write a (humorous) book on the topic. Maybe one day I still will. When you chase a cat, it runs. But when you ignore the cat, it comes and begs for your attention. When you call it by name, it pretends it can't hear you. Cat's never come when you call them. But if you simply open a can of food, they wake up and appear at your feet, full of affection. When you do something nice … | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:23 PM |
| 18 | RSD Real Social Dynamics a scam?You don't need dating coaches. And even if most of them start with the idea that they think they know something useful and want to share it, the fact is that they all end up stuck in the over-hyped marketing loop of trying to get seen in google results and youtube searches, and putting together more and more overly-sensational "infield" videos and such, until eventually none can be trusted. For as long as I can recall RSD existing, they've always posted very long-winded, talkative videos with 6 … | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:14 PM |
| 2 | How do I get my friends on board?A lot of guys don't want to "learn game", because they think it's a falsehood or a pretense — and certainly calling it "game" doesn't help that perception — and so if they were to have any success it wouldn't feel genuine or real, and that nobody who went for it would mean that a person never really liked them for who they actually are. And worse, that any success would trap them into a future of continued pretense rather than comfort. This is made more complicated by the small town, because you… | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 05:04 PM |
| 1 | I wonder how many guys in the seduction community are actually high value vs how many of them are trying to create the illusion of high value.You can usually tell from the comments people leave. High value people answer the question, leave advice, etc., and then move on. The imposters (of which there are many!) don't have any actual advice to offer, they only have arguments: arguments for why this or that can't work; arguments for how a thing is "too beta"; arguments for why your advice is sexist; arguments for insanely unrealistic outcomes they've only seen in movies; but never any actual experience or advice. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Things you can do to become more attractiveThe definition of sexual harassment is the making of unwelcome sexual statements in a workplace or other professional situation. It's not sexual harassment to make a joke about sex to the girl you're dating. It's ironic for you to be calling anyone "narrow minded" when it's YOU who is narrow minded. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Things you can do to become more attractiveYou're an idiot. a) I've been saying those things and getting laid with it longer than you've been alive. b) No one has ever slapped me, and for all your cowardice about how wrong you think I am for using words, you ignore the fact that physically assaulting someone actually IS illegal. and c) nobody can take me to court for making a joke. You're fucking stupid, and all of you children have no idea how the world actually works. | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 01:05 AM |
| 1 | Confidence is necessary but not sufficientI thought this sub was supposed to be about seduction. Am I missing something? | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 0 | Confidence is necessary but not sufficientThis is ignorant. Nothing you wrote here is about confidence. The only thing you've succeeded at doing here is demonstrating that you don't know what confidence is. At all. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 04:41 PM |
| 0 | Confidence is necessary but not sufficientI can assure you a lot of people here still don't understand it. The reason a lot of people here still don't understand it is because people like you write posts like this, making everything so much more confusing. This nonsense about a Renault Clio? What the fuck?! Nothing you wrote here has anything to do with confidence. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 3 | 90% of the dating coaches out there are full of shit and they can make you infertile.Thank you for saying it! It's so true. Much like the insecurities of women wanting to lose weight, so many things that do nothing are marketed as "healthy" or encouraging weight loss, or the insecurities of men about penis size lead to do-nothing products that claim to give you a bigger erection.... the insecurities of men around not having success with women lead to so many misleading dating coaches and products. People need to quit buying snake oil. | /r/seduction | 15/02/21 04:08 PM |
| 2 | Things you can do to become more attractiveOr, all you cowards with groupthink vote the same. | /r/seduction | 14/02/21 03:54 AM |
| 4 | How do you escalate?and get me2’d To a certain degree, we just need to let this cultural phenomenon pass. Trump is gone and this part of things will fade... Women have deserved representation for a long time and it has come out in a burst like that echo in the mountains that causes an avalanche of snow to crush down. Let the dust settle and then let's reevaluate things. Don't make #metoo a permanent thing because that misses the point. If it were permanent, it would have been a wasted effort. | /r/seduction | 13/02/21 06:59 PM |
| 5 | Do women like shy and mysterious guys?Mostly, no. First, shy does not equate to mysterious. Second, mysterious is a label that she applies to a person. You can't choose to be mysterious. She will see a man who she finds attractive and knows very little about, and BOOM! he's "mysterious". But some socially awkward coward who never speaks up and hides in the corners? She doesn't even acknowledge that he exists. All of those classic John Hughes '80s films where the shy dork eventually gets the girl are not representative of reality; th… | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 08:37 PM |
| 3 | How to build sexual tension while sitting across her?First, look around and determine if you can control your situation. Is this a place where you could get away sliding your chair around closer to hers? Or perhaps a place where you could change seats? Or maybe finish quickly at this location and move somewhere better? Second, it's always possible to spread your legs out in a way that makes it easy to "accidentally" bump into hers occasionally beneath the table. Third, above the table, you can hand her something and place it gently into her hand. … | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 08:31 PM |
| 9 | After the "Endgame"; how do you keep it alive after hooking up with the girl?B) Maybe not text for a day or so Bad form, bro. Think about sex from a woman's perspective. You're just fucking and nutting, but she's making herself extremely vulnerable! A woman places her actual safety in your hands; she gets naked revealing every tiny physical detail she agonizes over in the mirror every day; and then after those two huge steps, she lays down and allows you to physically place your body INSIDE of hers! When you really think about exactly how different the sexual experience … | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 05:15 PM |
| 2 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionPlease, by all means, help yourself to my line! If I didn't want other people to know about it I wouldn't have written it on Reddit. And believe me, it works! | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 04:50 PM |
| 2 | How do you call?Long conversations happen when there is chemistry. Rather than trying to figure out what you can talk about to extend a call (bad motivation) I suggest you focus more on what you can do to create chemistry... or at least recognize when chemistry is not there and look for someone else who perhaps you have more in common with. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 04:46 PM |
| 3 | Most people would rather look good in mediocrity than look stupid on the road to success. Here are three tips to prevent the fear of rejection, failure or embarrassment from holding you back.There's an interesting correlation in your choice of words, given the well-known term le petite mort (the little death) which refers to the feeling after ejaculation. One might suggest that it's not the fear, but the completion after overcoming that fear, that is the little death. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 04:43 PM |
| 13 | Most people would rather look good in mediocrity than look stupid on the road to success. Here are three tips to prevent the fear of rejection, failure or embarrassment from holding you back.Most people would rather look good in mediocrity than look stupid experience embarrassment on the road to success. FTFY. And it's a brilliant observation. Should be a fucking quote around here. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionFortunately (if you had been paying any attention) the females are not giving advice... they are just reacting in a very positive way the the advice that I, a male, gave. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 04:35 PM |
| 3 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionIn a sub dedicated to the seduction of females, on a post specifically referring to seducing females... yes, the opinions of females on my advice is far more relevant than the dismissal coming from a bunch of virgins who claim it could never work. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Things you can do to become more attractiveGuess what... People who are easily intimidated are also very accustomed to it. It's basic jungle hierarchy. Those who back down are in the habit of backing down. And the fact that this concerns you shows your own insecurity. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 03:50 PM |
| 1 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionAnother reason for the scented candle! | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 03:47 PM |
| 3 | What are some things you can do to seem more attractive?Gotta say, I don't know what's changed in the mod circle lately, but you guys have been really doing a great job. This sub had gotten a bit irritating for a while, and I quit participating for quite some time, but it's been really refreshing lately to see a lot of the fluff and beginner stuff getting removed, and just a lot more mod participation overall. Great work on reviving one of my favorite parts of reddit and bringing back some life! | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 03:45 PM |
| 0 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionIf a lot of people are calling you rapey, maybe it's time to take the hint, G. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionYou're way too insecure, bro. Caring about making someone comfortable and helping them to relax? How can that be seen as a bad thing? You're giving fucking rapey vibes when you say "decide to fuck her". What the fuck is wrong with you? | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:34 AM |
| -29 | Things you can do to become more attractiveI think you don't know what sexual harassment means. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionWhat's suspicious? Why do you kids think this way? Don't you know that a woman will actually appreciate a man who takes time to think and plan ahead? | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 06:48 AM |
| 11 | Things you can do to become more attractiveLet me be clear | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 05:49 AM |
| 19 | Things you can do to become more attractiveIt really is! And one that people usually do not think of. Just imagine you're meeting someone on a first date, and as they talk "it's like, they're always, like saying very little but like they're using 300% more words than their story conveys, you know?" That person will seem highly wound up and over-caffeinated... perhaps "nice" and "pleasant" and "friendly" would be words you would use later with your friend. But then imagine a different first date and the person... occasionally just paused.… | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 04:20 AM |
| -93 | Things you can do to become more attractiveExample 1: GIRL: Work is hard. I just don't have it in me. BOY: That's what she said! That guy is a clown. Example 2: GIRL: Work is hard. I just don't have it in me. BOY: Maybe if you paid for dinner for a change, I'd feel more inclined to put it in you. That guy is more funny. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 02:49 AM |
| 11 | What are some things you can do to seem more attractive?Find me one woman who is honestly attracted to Mark Zuckerberg and I will come to wherever you are and personally suck your dick. Unless "Patricia" is your actual name and you don't have a dick, and you're telling me that you're actually attracted to Mark Zuckerberg, in which case I will dress like him when I come over and let you suck mine. :) | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 02:23 AM |
| 8 | Things you can do to become more attractiveWhy do you care? You're letting the fact that someone else feels intimidated stop you from being confident? That's absurd. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 01:50 AM |
| 8 | Things you can do to become more attractivePerhaps they're shy. Why do you care that they look away? | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 01:42 AM |
| 3 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionYou don't have to do it. It's advice, not a rule. I'm just going to tell you from experience that there have been a handful of occasions where having a few extra tampons in my bathroom meant the world to a handful of girls. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 01:42 AM |
| 12 | Things you can do to become more attractiveSo for Daringness, what if you kind of suck at dancing and almost dont get too much out of it. How to capture the joy of dancing here? I was never much of a dancer. Always felt clumsy and awkward. One summer, a female friend of mine was down in the dumps after a breakup, and I called her and asked if — to get her out of depression and out having fun — if she would join a dance class with me. We took swing, salsa, and tango classes together for a year and had great fun... and also came out knowin… | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 01:39 AM |
| 3 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionI think it's adorable when a person who's never tried a thing tries to force his opinion of why it can't work onto the person who's done it for years and seen just how well it works. Just look through the comments here. The ladies' responses say all you need to know. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 01:30 AM |
| 11 | Your home plays a huge role in your path to seductionI love how the wannabe alpha guys in this sub are all dismissive, saying this is overkill, while the female comments all indicate exactly why this is pure magic. | /r/seduction | 12/02/21 01:27 AM |
| 14 | What are some things you can do to seem more attractive?Well, if a moderator asks, I do feel obliged! :) | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 11:49 PM |
| 2 | making friends is hard for me... what do I do??i focus so much on this and try to please others so hard to like me The Book of No Pleasing others actually does very little to please those others. When they want something, they're not thinking about you, they're thinking about that thing. When you agree to give it to them... you give a big commitment while getting very little in return, and then if you fail to deliver, they're hugely disappointed. By contrast, when you tell someone "No", you have no incurred commitment. They have the minor di… | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 11:17 PM |
| 2 | She's replying fast but doesn't keep the conversation going (need your opinions!)just come meet me like some puppy or sth You didn't go because you were afraid you would look like a puppy. Look where that got you: you're sitting the fuck at home, alone, complaining to Reddit about this girl not responding to your text messages. You could have been out having fun. Think about it. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 11:14 PM |
| 1 | She's replying fast but doesn't keep the conversation going (need your opinions!)she just called me one evening from the blues to come out to meet her I told her it wasn't in my plan to meet her at that moment. Why didn't you just fucking go? "It wasn't my plan" isn't really a very flattering let down. I tried to set up a meetup again and again but to no avail. I got tired. Sounds like she's a bit more impulsive, and you blew it. Plotting something more "official" and in advance is going to put a bit more pressure on something that perhaps she was hoping could be more fun an… | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What are some things you can do to seem more attractive?Wrong thread. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Going on a casual date for the first time, any tips?Choose a location with good ambience — lower lighting, nice music, good atmosphere. This is why bars are such a great place to meet; they're practically designed to get people in the mood. (And the alcohol doesn't hurt either!) Arrive a little early, and choose a good seat. Sitting across a table from each other is awkward and adds barriers. Sitting next to each other (like at a bar) is more intimate, and also opens you up to physical contact. Don't interview. Skip past all the "any siblings? wh… | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 09:27 PM |
| 31 | What are some things you can do to seem more attractive?Fitness - not only is a fit body nicer to look at, but it conveys a lot of subconscious information like good diet, strong character, persistence. Fashion - shows that you care about how you look, that you pay attention to detail, and also reflects your own sense of self-worth. Grooming - displays that you make time for self-care and that you care about the comfort of others around you. Posture - nothing says more about your confidence and self-esteem than how you hold yourself. Eye contact - no… | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 09:11 PM |
| 4 | What are some things you can do to seem more attractive?Posture says so much. If anyone wants to see an example of this, watch Jimmy Butler on the basketball court. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 08:40 PM |
| -2 | Putting the debate to rest: What happens when you're *actually* a jerk? [PART 2]I do believe that what you're talking about is borderline psychopathy. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 08:39 PM |
| 1 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]What makes you think someone is hitting women? What... there's just some guy running around saying "there's a woman! HIT HER!" or something like that? Maybe some weirdo being interviewed by Oprah Winfrey, discussing how there's nothing like the feeling you get when you hit a woman? Get that stupid, sexist, White Knight™ bullshit out of your head. Yes, there are some countries and cultures where people are mistreated on basis of gender, race, religion, or anything else. But in Western society thi… | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 05:50 PM |
| 2 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]I wish this comment were more visible! r/seduction and r/askseddit are so full of people "waiting for their chance" and trying to get somewhere with a "friend" and they need to realize that you can see it and it isn't pretty. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Being a passive person will get you absolutely nowhereIf it's available to you, I highly recommend taking an improv class. It that's not available to you, you can at minimum check out the book Impro by Keith Johnstone, and another called Comedy Writing Secrets by Mel Helitzer. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 06:57 AM |
| 2 | Can I go back just to ask her out?Definitely don't ask a stranger out for Valentine's Day. Okay, so actually, I've done it and it worked... but it was a freak occurrence, and not something that should be recommended. We were talking about getting together and she said her only free night was that night. We acknowledged that it was just a date, not a Valentine. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 06:47 AM |
| 3 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]No. The ones you call Assholes and Jerks are most of the time not doing anything wrong at all. The abusers are almost always the ones who say they're nice guys. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 02:59 AM |
| 3 | Being a passive person will get you absolutely nowhereNowhere in your list of checked boxes did you mention having any sort of interesting personality. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 02:38 AM |
| 2 | Act with Moxie, there is no smoke without fire!Perfect! These things work all the time. Back when I worked afternoon shift at a gas station, I was showing up for my shift, and the morning cashier was complaining about her day... "woke up late, had to rush in to get here, didn't have time to find my bra, so I've been working all day without a bra on..." I said "yeah right, I'm not buying that." She insisted it was true, so I told her to prove it. Right there in the store, she flashes me her tits. No argument, no questions asked. | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 12:37 AM |
| 4 | I am 17 and have never even kissed a girl.But sometimes the true color of a person comes later. With MOST people, the true colors come later. That is exactly why you need to stop treating them beyond expectations so soon. They've done nothing to earn it. but saying stuff like "he isn't worth it" or "he isn't good enough for you" I'm not saying that. I'm saying "this person has yet to earn it." You can't make such dramatic false equivalencies. There are more marks on the scale than just princess on one end and bitch on the other... there… | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 12:22 AM |
| 3 | I am 17 and have never even kissed a girl.I'm sure you can find a way. Maybe cutie that sits next to you in class wants to copy your notes? Or maybe someone wants you to vote for her for prom queen? Or maybe a girl in line for Starbucks asks to borrow your pen? Girls ask for things all the time. This isn't hard to see. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:59 PM |
| 9 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]Well, you really hit on an important aspect of the Nice Guy™ — he's never really doing a thing just to be nice, there's always an ulterior motive, which makes every seemingly nice gesture into something that's actually dishonest and manipulative! And when women don't like nice guys, there's always some feeling inside of them that makes them wonder if they can trust him. Also, Nice Guys™ are the first to get really frustrated when all of their gestures — the ones that they claimed they were only … | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:48 PM |
| 2 | Act with Moxie, there is no smoke without fire!I can't tell you how many times I've seen women just ask for something... often absurd shit! Maybe she's talking to a guy, and he's got a ring on, and she asks if she can see it... then when she's got it she'll just say "can I keep it?" And the hotter they are, the more easily people, even strangers, will just do whatever they ask, give them anything they want. In my younger years, this shit used to piss me off! But then at some point, I realized "hey, I'm not so bad looking, and I'm a desirable… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:28 PM |
| 0 | Weekly thread for quick solutions in specific situations?Can you bring me a water? Take it to ridiculousness. "I'm here relaxing just like you are. If you want water you can go get it. Or maybe we can call our friend who has a key to come over and bring it to you. Oh, I know! Let's have Postmates bring you a water." Be absurd. She'll obviously act displeased, as if you're being rude. So then make a deal: "I'll tell you what... I was kinda hungry, so if you go make me a sandwich, I'll get you a water." I don't like your new haircut. Again, take it to r… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:19 PM |
| 11 | I am 17 and have never even kissed a girl.You should act around hot girls like how you act around unattractive girls. Or men. Or whomever. Always remember that hot is not a virtue. Hot girls have really not done a damn thing to earn any praise... and for that reason, they're often quite terrible people -- truly ugly inside. The first thing you must do is audition everyone! Filter them. Make a person prove she's worth your adoration. Don't just blindly worship someone because she's hot; that's what every other guy is already doing to her… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:15 PM |
| 5 | I am 17 and have never even kissed a girl.... but i just can’t do it ... but i just have no idea what to do around hot girls Start by recognizing what you have and what you do not have. If you do not have the hot girl as your girlfriend, there is nothing to lose! Try things! You can't lose what you don't have. When you're talking to the hot girl, and she asks you for something, be sassy! Ask her "hmmm... why should I do that for you? what do I get?" When she asks what you want, tell her "how about a kiss?" If you're really "above averag… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:11 PM |
| 16 | Being a passive person will get you absolutely nowhereYou’ll never here this stuff from women themselves Correct! What women will tell you is "I like a guy who can make me laugh." But Nice Guys™ hear that as "a funny guy", which is not the same thing. The laugh they're talking about is that awkward laugh they let out when you tease them with a straight face, and rather than believe the absurd thing you just said, they laugh and convince themselves it must have been a joke. The confident/cocky/bastard isn't a clown any more than he's a "nice guy". H… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 11:06 PM |
| 4 | How to Not be a "Nice Guy"is this normal behaviour does any else go through this shit? There is a difference between "normal" and "common". This is common. That doesn't make it normal. You absolutely should go on your trip with your friends. Not only for yourself — you deserve it — but also to start setting some boundaries with your mother. You're a man now, not a boy. It's time for you to live like a man. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 07:42 PM |
| 3 | I missed a shot todayI am also reminded of the fact that LeBron James has as many championship LOSSES as Michael Jordan has WINS. Or the fact that Tom Brady has never beat Eli Manning. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 07:34 PM |
| 8 | I missed a shot todayYou see the same in football. The great quarterbacks go to the bench after throwing an interception and come out on the next drive gunning for the end zone. In my younger years I was a boxer. One of the most important things that taught me was that you will get hit! Mike Tyson (no doubt quoting Lao Tsu) famously said "everyone has a plan until they get punched in the mouth." Boxing was for me, like the ultimate sport because it was like trying to play a game of chess while 5 children are climbin… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 07:23 PM |
| 3 | How to Not be a "Nice Guy"In my own opinion, Nice Guys™ are a product of divorce culture more than anything else. They grew up as children of single moms. Not only did they never have the presence of a father figure to show them how to be a man, but they also had an imbalanced presence of a mother who had a vested interest in not making them self-confident, playful, or difficult — in other words, attractive — but rather had an interest in well-behaved boys who were eager to help their mother and stay out of trouble. Sing… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 06:25 PM |
| 46 | Putting the "nice guy" vs "jerk" vs "kind" debate to rest. [Part 1]Putting the debate to rest If only it were that easy. Hah! We see guys who we perceive as 'assholes' and 'jerks' drowning in attention from women while we're in high school and/or college. In addition to the very good reasons you mentioned, these guys are perceived as assholes also because they tease. They playfully mock the girls they're interested in. And of course, the biggest one of all: the perceived asshole frustrates girls, They don't just give in and give away their worth to a woman sole… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 06:15 PM |
| 15 | Sliding into dms?Sliding into DMs isn't really a thing. Get that ignorant shit out of your head. If you're Brad Pitt handsome and DJ Khaled popular, you can do anything you want — including sliding into DMs — but it's not because sliding into DMs actually works; it's just because you're handsome and popular. Same rules that apply anywhere in life. If you're following a few cute girls and fantasizing about how cute and fun they are by watching their instagram feeds, you will never have a chance because you're alr… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 06:07 PM |
| 9 | Cold approaching anxietyCold approach at the gym is really a kind of dick move under most circumstances. I typically cringe whenever I see the term "IOI" in a post/question, because IOIs are mostly some bullshit that the PUA coach douchebags invented to give the frustrated, socially awkward and/or autistic people a guidebook to follow so that they can charge you $50 for some e-book and lesson plan. Read the situation. They came over for the mirror or the space or the background for their selfies and tiktoks, not to say… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 06:03 PM |
| 2 | I missed a shot todayYour comments here are not well-adjusted, socially calibrated behavior. Learn to know your audience. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 05:33 PM |
| 19 | I missed a shot todayBro. You gotta keep in mind that it's a stranger. Everyone you don't know is a complete stranger. Why the hell are you so concerned about impressing them? Save that insecure shit for your dad. You don't need a cue, or an invitation. Sure, do be respectful and don't bother someone who is obviously busy. But if they're not obviously occupied with something, just go say hi. What's the worst that can happen? She tells you she's not interested and you walk away the same exact person you were beforeha… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 05:31 PM |
| 6 | I missed a shot todaythat'd just be hella weird if you didnt atleast think about what you're going to say first tho lmao Bro. What is there to think about? If that had been a man who sat down next to him, none of this entire internet thread would even be happening... they'd have just struck up a conversation if either of them felt so inclined. Why do all you kids think it's somehow different when a woman is involved? I'll tell you why: It's because you've got far too many expectations, hopes, and dreams wrapped up i… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 05:27 PM |
| 1 | I missed a shot todayYou're saying shit that doesn't need to be said, and doesn't apply. This is r/seduction, not r/I-need-everyone-to-know-how-feminist-i-am | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 05:22 PM |
| 21 | I missed a shot todayI agree, except for the part about removing the post. I think the hope — especially in any Ask* sub — is that the wisdom should hopefully be found in the replies. A lot of people have questions like OP’s and we should hope this helped not only him but them as well. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:17 PM |
| 38 | I missed a shot todayIt's been spelled out a million times, but sure, I'll repeat it again. If you talk to a girl and she responds, she's interested. If you talk to her and she's dismissive or ignores you, she's not interested. You don't need any fucking cues. (Yes, that's how you spell that word.) | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 03:28 PM |
| 395 | I missed a shot todayLook, Jack. You didn't make super quick eye contact. She was looking around for an available seat, saw one, and then looked at you to see what kind of possible creep she might have to sit next to. You kids have got to stop with this "eye contact" nonsense. Now as for not opening your mouth... what the fuck? How hard would it have been to say "cold out today, eh?" Or, "nice morning, isn't it?" Or, "lucky, not too crowded on the bus today." Or 1001 other throwaway bits of conversation starter. Wha… | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 02:44 PM |
| 1 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseSo you’ve decided to double down on your immaturity, eh? Good job! | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 07:33 AM |
| 12 | Most common sentences used by pickup artistsI think the name "pickup artists" needs to be readdressed here, because very little of what you have compiled in that list shows any art. | /r/seduction | 10/02/21 04:40 AM |
| 1 | I am pulling numbers but most of them don't respond at all (90%) or just ghost suddenly (5%)Take note of some thing about her, and use that when you approach. Talk to her about her dog, for example, or her cool shoes. Later on when you text her, bring that up again saying something like “hey when are we going to meet up so you can show me where you got those cool shoes?” or "when do you want to get our dogs together for a play date at the dog park?" You have to give her a reason to care. You can't just text small talk to a person you don't know... she's probably getting plenty of that … | /r/seduction | 09/02/21 09:52 PM |
| 3 | Books about human psychology in a broad sense?The Mating Mind The Dangerous Passion The Selfish Gene The Red Queen The Way of the Superior Man How To Argue And Win Every Time | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 08:55 PM |
| 2 | Should i delete pictures with my female friends on social media?Do not delete your pictures with other females. They are "social proof." It shows that attractive women find you safe and fun to be around. It also makes the women you're pursuing get a little competitive, they try harder for your attention, knowing that you have options. Also remember that a confident, high value man, does not second guess what some random girl he doesn't know has to say about the people who are his friends. | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 08:49 PM |
| 1 | How to keep the conversation going?Talk about your thoughts, rather than narrating events. This of course requires you to take time to think. You might, for example tell about how on the way over you saw a man wearing eyeglasses but also tapping a cane as he walked... and how it made you wonder how his optometrist can feel that he's giving the man the right prescription for eyewear when the man still leaves needing a cane to find his way. You might then continue by imagining how people function so well without sight... who helps … | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 08:47 PM |
| 2 | "Be interested, not interesting" - Good or shit advice?Benjamin Disraeli and William Gladstone were competing for the position of the prime minister of the United Kingdom. These two leaders went down in history, but with very contrasting personalities. Now, William Gladstone was a very clever and witty person. He was brilliant, obviously so, and he knew pretty much everything. Based on his wit and experience, he had what it took to win the election. What made the difference, however, was summed up by a woman who had dinner with both Disraeli and Gla… | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 08:34 PM |
| 5 | How do you stay chill while your in loveJust keep in mind that overusing words takes away their meaning. If you are truly in love, there are a lot of things you can say, and they can be different all the time: "How did you get so cute?" "That thing you do is adorable." If she asks what you're thinking, "just how much I admire you." "It's great being able to enjoy a silence with someone without it being awkward." "It's refreshing to be with someone I respect." "That kiss emoji you send is always my favorite message of the day." "How do… | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 08:21 PM |
| 0 | Girl is blowing up my texts after dateSpace out your replies. Leave her hanging. 50/50, she will either be fine with it, or else reveal herself to be a super-needy person who wants all of your attention. | /r/seduction | 30/01/21 05:02 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop this unhealthy mindset?Your outcome dependence is based on fundamentally seeing these women as objects -- as figures meant to fill some role in your life. It's the same thing that leads people to create a dating app profile that ends up being nothing more than a wishlist of qualities they want in a partner, as if you could order a girlfriend/boyfriend on an app the way that you order a pizza. The first thing to remember is that looks are just one, very small aspect of a person, and most of the time you'll find that th… | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How do I stop this unhealthy mindset?And then, while you're at it, also stop watching romantic comedies or dramas.... and avoid television altogether... and don't hang out with any of your friends who are in relationships... avoid reading novels... Blah. OP just needs a more realistic expectation of humans. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 10:29 PM |
| 1 | So, I‘m a woman and just got approached by a guy.Haven't read the comments, so maybe some has already mentioned it, but if you're all wearing masks, there should not have been hand shaking involved. That basically defeats the mask. | /r/seduction | 29/01/21 06:01 PM |
| 0 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseEveryone either likes a thing or they do not. The number system is stupid. But it is also stupid to call it objectifying whether or not a person finds someone else attractive. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 08:07 AM |
| 1 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elsePerhaps... but 100 typos per minute tends to be a pretty good sign. | /r/seduction | 28/01/21 02:53 AM |
| 1 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseI wanted to agree with everything you said, until you said "routines" as if it were a high value trait. PRETENDERS use routines. Legit people simply have personality. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 07:48 PM |
| -5 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseA MAN functions on his own. He does not need validation. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 01:15 PM |
| -6 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseYou’re drunk. Reply after you sober up. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 01:11 PM |
| 0 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseWhy do you care about the boys? Are you living for you or for them? | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 01:08 PM |
| 6 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseA post like this demonstrates the stark divide in the audience that comes here. Summary. And point. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 07:54 AM |
| 3 | There is no 10 scale -- nobody is a 9/10 or a 3/10 or anything elseThat's fine... so if her features match up to the Golden Mean, she's a 1 in your book, and if not she's a 0. | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 03:23 AM |
| 3 | [Vital Lesson] Don't let your Friends know, ESPECIALLY your Female Friends, that You are learning Game and how to Approach.The female friends who saw me always hitting on women and approaching women and parading them through my life? They became super competitive, feeling that if I was attracted to so many women, why did I never hit on them! The result: my female friends actually went out of their way to sleep with me at the cost of my other dates. The important detail: just let them see what you do... don't tell them you're learning a system from some web site or book or some shit. The evidence is attractive, much … | /r/seduction | 27/01/21 01:16 AM |
| 2 | Girls that are (or at least seem) out of my leagueIf you're 16 years old and she's not the star of a Disney Channel kids show, she's not out of your league. Make her prove that she's in your league. | /r/seduction | 03/01/21 06:47 PM |
| 19 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?A fairly universal rule of thumb is that any statement ending in "BOOM!" or "Checkmate atheists!" is probably not the sexiest thing you could have said at that moment... | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 03:01 PM |
| 5 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?You have a limited imagination. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 03:00 PM |
| 46 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?Just showing that you’re unmovable is enough. This! With ANY form of shit test. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 02:59 PM |
| 12 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?Yeah, no shit, Detective. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 02:41 PM |
| 41 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?Just brush it off. HER: "Wow! You're younger than you look!" YOU: "Whoa... are you saying I look old? That's not very nice!" | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Is it normal for girls to not kiss on the first date?It's far from impossible. I have made my way through hundreds in a period of less than 10 years. If I had started earlier I would definitely be on track to similar numbers. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 03:23 AM |
| 2 | Is it normal for girls to not kiss on the first date?It's not advice and it's not helpful. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 03:21 AM |
| -1 | How do I respond to shit tests and insults?"I am too hot for you" "Or maybe you're just not used to someone as COOL as me." "Aren't you older than me?" "Yes, but I promise not to hold it against you." "You are too ugly for me." "Hold on a second, I need to respond to this message from work." Pause for a beat and play with your phone, ignoring her. "Sorry, what were you saying now?" | /r/seduction | 31/12/20 11:46 PM |
| 5 | I got my shit together, but I'm not in the mood.Despite all the good things happening, I'm not in the mood for dating[...]But I'm happy about my career and other things in my life. Is it normal? Is it because of the pandemic? Or is it because I'm getting older? Honestly, it sounds to me like you're doing what men are supposed to do. You're taking care of yourself, spreading your interests, developing confidence and independence, and shedding your insecurities. I think it's perfectly natural for your need of female validation to gradually disa… | /r/seduction | 10/12/20 01:36 PM |
| 6 | You don’t have to fuck every girl*couldn't | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 12:58 PM |
| 13 | You don’t have to fuck every girlGenghis Khan’s genes are found in 0.5% of all men alive. That’s 400,000,000 people. Nope. That's 16 million, not 400. Still a big number, though. | /r/seduction | 04/12/20 11:58 AM |
| 1 | No one belongs to anyone, every individual is an individual after all the action.I literally said exactly this: I hate when people use the word "taken". I said nothing about "going out of your way to get with someone who is in a relationship." I also said nothing about her belonging to me. And you told me to "have some integrity -- go somewhere and wait that shit out". You put words I didn't say into my mouth and then scolded me to "have some integrity". It's called gaslighting, and you're damn right I get very angry when people do it. Gaslighting is a form of abuse. And the… | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 08:44 PM |
| 1 | No one belongs to anyone, every individual is an individual after all the action.If we're all going to be white knights now, and stand up for feminism and women having agency, blah blah blah... can we just fucking begin by acknowledging that calling someone "taken" implies that they are property? I guess I can see you being annoyed by that word only Oh, you mean EXACTLY LIKE WHAT I FUCKING WROTE? | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 08:06 PM |
| 2 | No one belongs to anyone, every individual is an individual after all the action.Points don't matter. I just hate the passive-aggressive world that Reddit has become. I don't think people should downvote things that are fair to say. If I wanted anything from you, rather than an upvote, I would prefer to receive the fucking courtesy of you responding to what I DID say in my comments, rather than arguing with things I never even said. Putting words into people's mouths is fucking rude. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 07:40 PM |
| 1 | No one belongs to anyone, every individual is an individual after all the action.Don't be a dick and downvote me. Especially if you're going to form an argument against things I never even said. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 07:37 PM |
| 4 | No one belongs to anyone, every individual is an individual after all the action.This is precisely the reason why I hate when people use the word "taken". "She's taken" -- as if someone has laid claim and now owns her. It doesn't work that way. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 07:12 PM |
| 2 | What kinds of girls should I look out for when going for One Night Stands?Any time you get advice that has the word "routine" in it, ignore it. That's 15 year old Mystery Method bullshit. Just learn to be outgoing, make conversation, read a person's responses and their body language. | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 01:24 AM |
| 1 | What kinds of girls should I look out for when going for One Night Stands?And even nicer for it to be honest! | /r/seduction | 02/12/20 01:20 AM |
| 15 | How do you politely tell a girl you're not interested?Congratulations! You now understand all those times that women did this to you. Get ready for the next part, because you're going to try to be kind and spare her feelings while suggesting that you can still be friends, and then she's going to get mad at you and call you names... just like all those times that you did that when a girl was in this position with you. LEARNING! Just be honest. This is a great test of your confidence, authenticity, and integrity -- the things that should make you att… | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 04:03 PM |
| 111 | Attractive guys get stared at by women but also men?If you're talking about gay men, they usually look at you like you're biscuits and gravy and they haven't eaten in weeks. If you're talking about straight men, they look at you like you're the one who did all those bad things to the girlfriend who cries to them about her ex, yet secretly he knows she just wants to go back to him. Basically, the more in-shape and well-groomed you are, the more everyone is going to look at you, and each for different reasons. But you didn't do the work of getting … | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 10:12 AM |
| 1 | 35-year-old (LONG POST) - I think PUA fucked up my life and I need helpPickup is not what's fucking you up. INSECURITY is what's fucking you up. Your troubles with work and income and living with parents and instability, and now COVID, are fucking with your head and you're panicking because you don't know how to demonstrate value under these circumstances. If anything, pickup is keeping you focused. You just need to stop feeling sorry for yourself and start putting together the steps to solve your problem. | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 12:25 PM |
| 3 | What kind of messages should you sent the days before a date?If we haven't talked in a few days, I'll send a little note the day before, just saying something like "looking forward to tomorrow!" just to make sure that it's still in mind... and also if she's going to back out, this gives her a chance to back out before it's last minute and I get stood up. Then, day of, I'll usually send a message about an hour before meeting, saying "leaving shortly... see ya soon!" or something similar. Again, this is to subtly confirm, as well as to once again give a las… | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 01:02 PM |
| 31 | There is no competitionCorrect! And worse, women can sense that need for validation and they see it for the weakness that it is. Being self confident and not being invested in outcome is a powerful frame, while trying all the time to beat other people is a weak frame. | /r/seduction | 28/11/20 12:58 PM |
| 2 | How can I not become an incel?Get in shape. Lift weights. Dress well. Get a nice hair style. Do personal grooming daily. Build confidence in yourself. And during all of this (don't wait!) also take every opportunity to talk to girls. You only get good by practice. Waiting until you're in great shape is just putting off that practice. With more practice, your confidence will grow in this area too. As your confidence grows, you'll take more risks. You'll eventually get what you're after. And then it will eventually become easy… | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 10:00 AM |
| 2 | How long do you guys wait to see if a girl is serious about meeting up.You're insane if you think any self-respecting man with value would spend 8 months chasing someone who said no. | /r/seduction | 25/11/20 06:58 AM |
| 4 | How long do you guys wait to see if a girl is serious about meeting up.Who the fuck thinks like this? Christ, no wonder there are so many sexually frustrated people. | /r/seduction | 24/11/20 06:19 PM |
| 9 | First approach. Friendly or flirty?Always approach with only the idea that you want to get to know them. Why? Because WHY THE FUCK would you see that person as a potential mate if you don't even know them? She could be a serial killer. You need to have some patience and some standards and value yourself far more and far sooner than you value her. | /r/seduction | 03/11/20 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Is anyone still practicing seduction during this pandemic?Right? Expect downvotes!!! hhahaha | /r/seduction | 01/11/20 05:41 PM |
| 2 | Is anyone still practicing seduction during this pandemic?Look Jack: You're asking an internet club how relevant they are. The answer is NOT AT ALL RELEVANT. I don't care if you call it "cold approach" or if you have the honesty to call it stupid retarded insulting approach. Most of the preaching here is PUA bullshit and has little to do with actual seduction. So to your question, lets just say that seduction never dies. Only thing on trial here is the bullshit that people like RSD are pushing. | /r/seduction | 31/10/20 02:04 PM |
| 7 | A Simple, but effective TestThe first time I dated a stripper/model (20 years ago, now!), I recall her commenting early on about how she wasn't accustomed to dating someone who considered a t-shirt to be "going out clothes". But while other guys may have had their striped shirts and obnoxious colognes, I was the first boyfriend whose arms she could stare at while I lined up a shot on the pool table. | /r/seduction | 28/10/20 04:34 PM |
| 6 | Smiling at Strangers?Lesson 1 - There is no single thing you can say or do to be 100% successful with every woman. Some women will be in a hurry to get somewhere. Some women will be happily in a relationship. Some women will be strictly lesbian. Some women will be in a bad mood at the time. Some women will be simply not attracted to you. Your measure of success should not be 100% warm responses, but simply the fact that you get ANY warm responses. As long as you're getting ANY positive reactions, you can then simply… | /r/seduction | 27/10/20 05:03 AM |
| 1 | This is, in my opinion, what confident body language looks like. Relaxed, unfazed, and a generally positive disposition^ This guy gets it | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 02:45 PM |
| 12 | This is, in my opinion, what confident body language looks like. Relaxed, unfazed, and a generally positive dispositionPlease don't make the mistake of thinking that what was scripted and written for a fictional tv show is something in which you should invest your attention, as relates to learning seduction. If there is any seduction lesson to be learned from Prison Break, it is simply this: Be handsome, work out, get tattoos, and turn gay. Women will love you. | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 01:39 PM |
| 13 | This is, in my opinion, what confident body language looks like. Relaxed, unfazed, and a generally positive dispositionThis is an underrated observation! In fact, the way that Wentworth Miller plays these scene is far closer to narcissist than seducer -- probably because as a gay man, he's just not capable of having that chemistry with her. | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 01:25 PM |
| 9 | This is, in my opinion, what confident body language looks like. Relaxed, unfazed, and a generally positive dispositionThe writers were going for something, but the actors were incapable of relating it. | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 01:19 PM |
| 20 | This is, in my opinion, what confident body language looks like. Relaxed, unfazed, and a generally positive dispositionHe only appears that way because he's handsome. This. | /r/seduction | 20/10/20 01:18 PM |
| 2 | How do you get a pick up artist to stop trying to pick you up?This guy isn't a pickup artist... he's chump who's far too obsessed with you. Nothing he's doing is artistry, and it's not resulting in pickup. Insult him. Take digs at his lack of masculinity... Remind him that if he was worth being with, he would be busy with other women rather than up your ass every day, and that you don't have time for desperate losers... Suggest that he might have better luck getting laid if he would just stop hiding the fact that he's gay... Oh, eventually you'll strike a … | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 05:43 PM |
| 1 | In my opinion everyone has their own gameYou're kidding, right? You think an attractive woman getting approached 6 times a day is hard to believe? You think she'd kill herself? You the one that's insane, jack. I dated a model -- no one famous, but a local fashion model in Chicago -- and every time we were out, I couldn't go to the restroom without returning to my table to see someone trying to make moves on her... and sometimes they would even do it right in front of me without waiting for me to use the restroom. If we were taking a bu… | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 02:50 PM |
| 2 | In my opinion everyone has their own gameCan we please collectively get passed this idea of "take her out"? What you want is to stop making her the one who you are trying to impress. Instead, make yourself the person that she should impress. Again, think about what I've said: anyone you're approaching has been approached half a dozen times already today. Everyone is trying to impress her. So what is her attitude going to be? "If they all want to impress me so badly, it means I'm the valuable one and they're not valuable." So how do you… | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 05:03 AM |
| 2 | When asking a girl out for a first date should I use the phrase "can I take you on a date" or just "can I take you out" ?Why on Earth would she feel forced? Why are all you kids so tied to extremes and absolutes? There is a huge gap between begging and forcing.... somewhere in the middle is a thing called INVITING... | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 03:25 AM |
| 3 | In my opinion everyone has their own gameHas anybody had experience doing this? Every teenage boy with approach anxiety has tried this. It does not work. Any semi-attractive woman with half of a personality is getting offers from men almost daily. And if she's a little bit hot, and/or has a great personality, she's getting several per day. Tossing a random name and number at her just gets you lost in the crowd. You need to give her a reason to remember you, and then get her info and contact her. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 03:07 AM |
| 2 | When asking a girl out for a first date should I use the phrase "can I take you on a date" or just "can I take you out" ?would you let me take you NO! NO! NO! Stop asking permission. You're too busy putting women on a pedestal. You know what happens when a person is on a pedestal? They are out of reach, and they look down on you. | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 02:01 AM |
| 2 | When asking a girl out for a first date should I use the phrase "can I take you on a date" or just "can I take you out" ?Avoid asking "can I". Avoid anything that gives the impression that you're trying to serve her or impress her. Assume the attitude that you're the one to please, and that having her company pleases you, and that it would please you to have her company at some particular thing you have planned in the future. Avoid generically inviting to "a date", because it looks like you have nothing in mind and you're only asking because you want her time. HAVE SOMETHING SPECIFIC IN MIND. Example: "Hey, you're… | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 12:54 AM |
| 1 | How do I cope with rejection?I'm so tired of reading how people think rejection will crush you or destroy you or whatever. You kids need to fucking nut up. LOOK: You are already not dating the girl. You are already not kissing the girl. You are already not fucking her. You are already not engaged to her. If she says no, turns you down, says she's not interested, whatever... LITERALLY NO PART OF YOUR LIFE WILL HAVE CHANGED. Why are you all so fucking scared of rejection? | /r/seduction | 15/10/20 12:43 AM |
| 3 | I have no idea how to be anything more than just platonic friends with girlshow do you actually go about making a girl your girlfriend or at least get into the situation where you're not just friends having a chat? You don't need to make a girl your girlfriend to go beyond platonic... and in fact you'll do better if you stop thinking about girlfriends until long after you're already past the point of platonic with someone. How to get past platonic? Add intensity to your interactions. Don't just sit at a distance, don't just talk about trivial things, don't be afraid to … | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | How to deal with a hot girl who considers herself a "fuckboy"?I want to see if I can get her to fall for me. Why ruin this? It's going well. | /r/seduction | 14/10/20 03:31 AM |
| 1 | Don't make another person the primary focus of your life.I never block. I need the history to come up if someone contacts me months in the future... and I save all history in case I ever need to report someone to the police as a potential threat. (Or if I should ever turn up missing one day!) | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Don't make another person the primary focus of your life.I don't see what's not adult about it. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 09:49 PM |
| 2 | Don't make another person the primary focus of your life.Exactly the same as what I said, only in mine I just saved myself the effort of typing one additional message to them. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 04:09 PM |
| 5 | Don't make another person the primary focus of your life.I let them know that I’ll not be contacting them in the future, near or otherwise and that they shouldn’t contact me either. The trouble with this is that it leaves an opening for them to argue. If you truly mean to have no further communication, you simply ghost. That's why it was invented -- because it works. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 03:26 PM |
| 9 | what to talk about on phone ,when crush says she's going to call me. but i suck at making conversations.If you’re unable to talk to her, she’s not the one for you. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 04:23 AM |
| 3 | How do you guys deal with the a women that shows interest one week and wants to hangout then the next they just want to be friends?If a chick says she just wants to be friends, just tell her "I already have friends." Then peel out your motorcycle really fast, kicking up sand and dirt into her clothing. Like a BOSS. | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone ever successful gotten a date from a DM?Everything about the DM approach is sending the wrong signals. I'm not going to say it can't ever work, but I will say that the 0.01% of times when it does work is when the guy doing it is extremely attractive and the girl was probably already into him before the DM ever happened. Reasons why the DM sends all the wrong signals: You generally know almost nothing about this girl. (Yes, you may have gone creeping around and found some info, but from her perspective you know nothing.) Therefore, you… | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 01:50 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone ever successful gotten a date from a DM?For both of you... it's rapport... | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 01:24 AM |
| 0 | I have no charisma and am not hooking sets due to it, helpYou do what performers and comedians and actors and musicians and public speakers have been doing forever: practice, take feedback, alter your delivery/etc, and try again. Find a Toastmasters group in your area to join. Join an improv class. These two are a must! Also get some female friends to help you. A lot of girls really enjoy the idea that they have the power to make a guy more attractive. Beyond that, take a couple of singing lessons to get more comfortable with your voice; take dance les… | /r/seduction | 13/10/20 01:11 AM |
| 54 | Too many girls = having trouble picking onehow do I choose a girl? You do not. Just keep seeing everyone. For as long as it stays fun. Don't try to force things to happen with one. Eventually, if you continue as you are doing, you will find a select few with whom you really enjoy yourself, with whom you don't need to only be after sex, with whom you can be a bit more open or share more personal things. When that happens, you will just find yourself naturally spending more time with them and less time with anyone else. And then, you may e… | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 11:32 PM |
| 0 | Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it firstand you haven't told me why I am wrong and you're right Oh, but I HAVE told you. And further, you are awfully damn immature to be so concerned about WHO is right or wrong. We could just both be well-meaning people believing in POINTS OF VIEW that are right or wrong. But I've already learned that I'm wasting my words on you. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 08:05 PM |
| 0 | Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it firstYou're making the argument against yourself! is tolerated Literally means it is not considered good, but it is nevertheless accepted, possibly because there is some other value being found. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it firstLook, I know it can be difficult for the average Redditor to understand the meanings of words with more than one syllable, but just try to put down the marijuana and the video game controller for a moment, and pay actual attention to the words you read... Everyone on r/seduction and r/askseddit constantly preaches the importance of approaches... Now if a woman is standing somewhere, doing something, and not engaging you in any way, isn't an approach an invasion of her space? I argue that at its … | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it firstClassic humanist malarky. We are the product of evolution. Evolution has made eye-contact an aggressive act, a show of dominance, a strategy for combat, in nearly every species. And it's really adorable how you attribute aggression to me while calling me names and forming accusations against my character. Are you completely unable to see the irony? Maybe "autistic" wasn't so far from home... | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 04:33 PM |
| 6 | Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it firstIt is not a neutral act. Those of us capable of using prolonged eye contact are playing at a higher level, and that implied aggression is part of the dance, but there is no way that it is not an invasive act. The only way you can believe otherwise is if you are autistic, and therefore lacking the ability to understand non-verbal communication. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 03:59 PM |
| 9 | Eye contact when the other person doesn't break it firstEye contact is a direct invasion of personal space. In the realm of seduction, and when done in measurement, that can be good thing. But there is no circumstance where prolonged eye contact is not a sign of aggression. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 02:17 PM |
| 2 | I don't think that money, being a "bad guy", boasting about the number of partners increase your chances with a girlI usually divide mine by 10, if someone asks. The guy who says talking up your number is bad comes to talk up his number. Classic. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 06:39 AM |
| 2 | I don't think that money, being a "bad guy", boasting about the number of partners increase your chances with a girlThe great thing about guys like you is that as long as you exist, women will continue to love guys like me. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 06:16 AM |
| 2 | Why do girls joke about me being with other girls?Maybe I'm an idiot but my interpretation of these comments is Yes, apparently you are an idiot. Even when the data shows that they hooked up with you -- you literally have the experience to show that they were interested -- you are still convincing yourself these were let-downs Seriously, what is with people? so I wonder if its a shit test to gauge my reaction The first one was 100% classic shit test of the most obvious kind! The second was a hint for you to flirt with her. | /r/seduction | 12/10/20 01:42 AM |
| 3 | How do I learn to put 100% of my personality on the line from the very beginning?Only times I bypass this issue is when I'm drunk, but that's not a great long term solution. True, not a sustainable long-term strategy, however a very suitable short-term strategy. Getting drunk a lot will cause you to do a lot of things you would otherwise restrain yourself from doing, and in the process, you will learn how to shake off such meaningless things. It's an excellent way to get comfortable with being yourself. Why else do you think alcoholics/addicts/etc are generally such charisma… | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 06:48 PM |
| -5 | 100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gainFacepalm all you want, jack. You're acting as if everyone lives YOUR life. Facts are, everyone is different. Many of us do not have elderly loved ones we are hoping to keep alive for an extra 6 months before other natural causes do what COVID was trying to do anyway. Why can't advice be applicable for people without elderly baggage while you are perfectly welcome to ignore that advice because of your ancient nuisances? | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 06:40 PM |
| -4 | 100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gainGet off of your high horse. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | 100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gainTrust me. It's real. EVERYONE is desperate for some touch. Just stop being a tool, and you'll see how low people have set their standards. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 06:12 PM |
| 4 | 100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gainYou have never made someone horny. Otherwise you would know how quickly such ideas escape from the mind. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 06:10 PM |
| 4 | 100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gainBreaking the touch barrier is a bit tricky with covid Nope. They, just like you, are desperate for some affectionate touch. COVID is just a convenient excuse to use when they're not feeling the vibe with you. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | 100 numbers and 2 dates. My mistakes. Your gain100 numbers and 2 dates. I can open nearly any girl you set eyes upon and leave with her number. don't be jealous EXACTLY THIS. I see so many people in this sub focused on "opens" and "approaches", while so few people in here put attention on RESULTS. If I approach 1/10 of the women you do, but I have a 90% close rate, I'm still doing 5x better than you. I appreciate you bringing some proper perspective to this sub. | /r/seduction | 10/10/20 06:05 PM |
| 2 | Herpes and seduction?Fortunately, they're ON your dick, meaning that a condom is still an effective tool. It is possible to get them in areas that condoms won't cover, and that means a significant impediment to your sex life. The Valtrex is kind of hard on your liver. I only take it when I'm sexually active (seeing people), and the rest of the time I just deal with the outbreaks as they occur. Keep in mind that you can be "shedding" even at times when there are no visible symptoms, so from here out, condoms need to … | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 06:16 PM |
| 1 | Men - how do you like to be flirted with?Women... don't you love it when you say you'd like a guy to talk dirty to you, and then he asks you "how? like what do you want me to say?" You know how you immediately think to yourself that it won't work if you have to tell him what to say? Yeah, well it's about the same when you women ask us men how we want you to flirt. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 06:10 AM |
| 3 | How should I keep multiple women sexually invested?You're spreading it around... that's literally the best way to keep them interested. You're going to be busy with girl 2 while girl 1 is texting you, so you won't be texting back right away. You simply won't over-invest. And when you do get a chance to respond to her, just flirt a little and set up your next time to meet. As long as you're laying down the good dick, they'll keep coming back. And if you start letting hints come out that you're not looking to get serious, and then later let hints … | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 03:19 AM |
| 2 | Eye contactYeah, it's definitely more difficult to read from men, because for men eye contact is instinctively an act of aggression... but then we read things or hear things about dating that say "women love eye contact" and if nobody teaches you there's a right way and a wrong way, it's easy to understand how a guy could give the aggressive stare thinking "well this is what they say they want!" never knowing he's scaring her. I think the safe bet, though, is that even if we gave him the benefit of the dou… | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 02:44 AM |
| 2 | Eye contactIn general, this sounds good, but it's important that we establish what kind of eye contact. Like if it's a wide-eyed stare, you're going to look like a creepy stalker! But if it's a soft gaze, like bedroom eyes, you're going to have all of his attention. It's important to keep in mind that there is a major difference between men and women when it comes to eye contact. Women use a lot of eye contact and see it as connecting to a person. Conversely, men tend to see eye contact as some form of inv… | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 02:16 AM |
| 13 | Girl skips question for a datePeople do this all the time. Be clear in your intent. Give a day and time and ask if she's free and would like to join... and then don't couple that with ANY OTHER MESSAGES. | /r/seduction | 09/10/20 12:56 AM |
| 2 | How do you know when to reveal your real personality?Questions belong on r/askseddit But since we're already here... How soon...would you start revealing your true personality? Right from the start! Think about this for a moment... Why do people hide part of themselves -- or worse, pretend to be something they're not -- when meeting someone new? It's because of fear that the person won't like them or be attracted to them, right? So if the goal is to find someone who likes you and is attracted to you, why would you ever show them anything other tha… | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 10:52 PM |
| 5 | Rejection does not need to be a painful, awkward or unpleasant experience.Excellent! There seems to be a theme to posts in here today... | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 09:13 PM |
| 6 | Expectations versus RealityIdeally, you should try to reach a mental state in life where you have little or no expectations from anything other than something you've done successfully 10,000 times. Or something like that. In more realistic terms, rather than looking at a girl from a distance, over and over, and building up some mental image of you being with her... you will do much better, find more success, and MUCH LESS frustration, if your expectation is something like "I'm going to go over there AND FIND OUT if this g… | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 06:33 PM |
| 6 | Expectations versus RealityI think we're focusing on the wrong problem Looking at one problem doesn't mean you have to ignore others. rather it's a case of missing the hoop every single time is what's getting people to lose their minds If you're missing every time, and not making adjustments, you're performing the definition of insanity. ...you are allowed to vent your frustrations...when it comes to dating...you are told to just suck it up and if you complain about it, you are labelled as an undesireable. Complaining abo… | /r/seduction | 08/10/20 05:53 PM |
| 2 | Yo, what’s the best way to look at a girl or treat a girl you just met to keep her interested in you ???but when I’m talking with the boys I’m a lot more confident and more myself Or, maybe you're just posturing for your boys, and when they're not around you're looking for some opportunity to be vulnerable and let your guard down. Well, guess what: girls want the same alpha male around that guys want. Humans are not evolved to be attracted to weak, vulnerable men. Your guard and your posture belongs up AT ALL TIMES. how to not treat girl’s like a trophy straight away and like the best way to keep … | /r/seduction | 05/10/20 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Girls often mention that I'm smart/intelligent, one even told me I'm like Sheldon (from big bang theory). How could I capitalize on this and maybe amplify it so it helps my game?Do you think people are lining up to give blowjobs to Sheldon? You’re missing the point if you think you can capitalize on that comparison. | /r/seduction | 03/10/20 11:53 AM |
| 2 | 2 girls coming over eating & drinking tonight : tips to induce threesome?Keep in mind that I've used similar tactics many times in the past. Nothing is fool proof, obviously. There will be times when no matter what you could have done, one or both of the girls simply weren't interested in playing. You just have to remember that if nothing is ventured, nothing is gained... and we don't come to subs like this, or get into lifestyles like this out of a desire to play it safe. | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 02:36 PM |
| 16 | 2 girls coming over eating & drinking tonight : tips to induce threesome?Be flirtatious from the start. With both of them. Probably a good idea to have some alcohol to loosen everyone up. Try to get a playful, maybe somewhat "edgy" or "thrillseeking" mood established. Oh, and definitely have some good music on, but not at too high of a volume, and try to avoid those "favorite" songs that make people tune out of conversation and retreat into the music. At various times, act challenging. Say things like "That top really makes your curves look nice. I'll bet you're wear… | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 01:41 PM |
| 3 | Being a single after 30What does your family think about your choices? What about your friends? No matter what you choose to do with your life, there will always be people who think you've made the wrong choice. Just remember, it's YOUR life, not theirs. They get to choose for them, you get to choose for you. Were you always thinking that you wanted your life to be this way? Ever since I was a kid, watching Sam Malone on Cheers and Dan Fielding on Night Court, I always knew my future was to be that of a womanizer. Wit… | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 12:28 PM |
| 5 | The Biggest Texting Mistake I Kept Making: Not Building RapportI like your examples, and I find it really sad that this seemingly obvious information is something that people actually need to receive as advice. I wonder how many people simply never bother to imagine how they'd feel if roles were reversed. | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 05:59 AM |
| 2 | The Biggest Texting Mistake I Kept Making: Not Building RapportI'm entertained that your username begins with the letters "pua" but you admit that your game isn't good. | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 05:57 AM |
| 2 | It seems like Fun Guy beats everything.one single trait which I didn't list ... is, being FUN ! Really? However to be exact, assholes do fun, risky and full of thrill things that put women on emotional rollercosters, and they love it. Seems like you not only listed it but were very specific about where it comes from. | /r/seduction | 28/09/20 12:13 AM |
| 3 | My girlfriend ghosted me and I don't know what to doWrong sub. | /r/seduction | 27/09/20 11:04 PM |
| 37 | Why do men have to go off faith that their kid is theirs?The reason woman make such an issue of it is because they are unfaithful far more often than society thinks, and if paternity tests were commonplace, that fact would be indisputable and on display for the world, shattering the notion that they are "the fairer sex". | /r/MensRights | 26/09/20 04:35 AM |
| 2 | Need a perfume that men find attractiveHonestly, go ask this same question in r/sexworkers. Whatever the strippers wear is scientifically proven to be the most attractive smell a woman can wear. | /r/seduction | 26/08/20 06:20 PM |
| 1 | What is it about Feminism and Women that upsets you so much?I thought they were genuine questions... If you can't be honest and admit how obvious the intellectual dishonesty is, then you have a problem and you're not going to have a very good time in this sub. This is another issue I have with this sub, is any questions that oppose its ideology are ignored. Correct. People who try to spin their own ideology in intellectually bankrupt ways are not going to meet with much success here. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 05:17 AM |
| 4 | What is it about Feminism and Women that upsets you so much?Don’t spin the argument. Your question is patently dishonest. I never said it had anything to do with what feminism has accomplished. It’s the systemic environment of openly hating men that I dislike. And your attempt to spin is not exactly uncommon either. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 05:02 AM |
| 9 | What is it about Feminism and Women that upsets you so much?Feminism is a lie that claim to stand for equality but preaches hatred toward men. So of course I hate it. | /r/MensRights | 23/08/20 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Best cologne helps seduction, girls love it on men?Dolce & Gabbana is great stuff. | /r/seduction | 29/07/20 07:22 PM |
| 2 | When she tells you you're not making enough of an effort... don't let it change your behavior!Complaining means they care | /r/seduction | 27/07/20 05:30 PM |
| 5 | When she tells you you're not making enough of an effort... don't let it change your behavior!When a woman is complaining, you're doing things right. When you're failing they just move one. | /r/seduction | 26/07/20 06:06 PM |
| 1 | How do I let a woman know I want to have sex with her? FWBEscalate. Touch then kiss the grope then start removing her clothes. | /r/seduction | 19/07/20 06:17 AM |
| 2 | First date ever at 28 and got rejected next dayQuite simply, you are playing 10 years behind the curve. You're going to have experiences in dating that will be awkward, and you're going to have rejection. That's part of dating and it's how you learn. You've got a lot of catching up to do. If you want to have any chance, you need to hurry up and get that stuff out of the way. So I suggest that you have as many dates as possible, regardless of whether you like the girls you go out with, just go do it. Get that stuff out of the way, learn how t… | /r/seduction | 14/07/20 02:00 PM |
| 5 | Proper text game (reposted from r/bumble)I agree, I don't like coffee dates at all. But for some members of these subs, they're too young to do drinks at a bar so coffee is their most tangible option. | /r/seduction | 10/07/20 04:48 PM |
| 1 | Guys who started going on dates and getting it with attractive women, what is your secret?I think the biggest thing that helped me was just talking to everyone on dating apps and setting up as many actual dates as possible -- sometimes 8 or 9 in a week! At first, you believe in this mystical thing called "chemistry" that you either have or you do not, and some dates just go poorly. But over time, you begin to realize that you can make chemistry with nearly everybody. Sure, not every date is a winner, but even if you don't find each other attractive, you can still have a pleasant even… | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 10:10 PM |
| 1 | Guys who started going on dates and getting it with attractive women, what is your secret?Confidence is so important that a woman will attach herself to an arrogant prick rather than be constantly irritated by someone who is shy, self-conscious, or indecisive. But yes, it's best to be confident without becoming an arrogant prick. | /r/seduction | 09/07/20 10:06 PM |
| 1 | Jobs/Activities you can do to make yourself more social? Lacking social skills due to sitting infront of the Computer all day, even my ability to talk has deteriorated.It's not a bad idea to start watching a lot of television -- particularly shows about people in relationships or doing a lot of dating... just to see an idealized form of people interacting and to get some good lines and replies stored up in mind. As for making yourself more social, it's really as simple as going out. Instead of simply being "all business" when you order food, for example, try to start a conversation with your waitress. When you go to a bar, chat with the bartender or other patr… | /r/seduction | 30/06/20 07:34 PM |
| 11 | Man Climbs 4 Stories With His Bare Hands In Less Than 30 Secs To Save 4-Year-Old Dangling From BalconyUm... you can't see when it's a joke? The fuck, man? Obviously the point is that there are women saying "kill all men!" and if they had their way, this baby would have fallen. I've never seen a single video of a woman heroically climbing four stories of a building in 30 seconds -- even if NOT to rescue a baby. | /r/MensRights | 24/06/20 04:15 AM |
| 15 | Man Climbs 4 Stories With His Bare Hands In Less Than 30 Secs To Save 4-Year-Old Dangling From BalconyThis is as good a reason as any to KILL ALL MEN! | /r/MensRights | 24/06/20 03:56 AM |
| 1 | From loser to jock. Now that I've changed my life style and body how can I fix my inability to approach womenLiterally the word "hi". If you've sincerely made yourself attractive, that's all you have to say. And simultaneously, if "hi" doesn't work, you're not attractive yet. | /r/seduction | 18/06/20 09:08 PM |
| 6 | what are the best ways to physically escalateThis! It is a progression. First a meaningless tap. Then an intentional touch. Before you know it you’re reaching into her pussy while seated at a tavern. | /r/seduction | 17/06/20 11:33 PM |
| 7 | NASA Scientists Plan To Approach Girl In 10 YearsYeah, that one's a classic! | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 02:42 AM |
| 11 | how do you not get attached to a girl you likeThis. | /r/seduction | 08/06/20 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Is the friend zone an illusion?Is grass green because of chlorophyll? Did you just figure this out? | /r/seduction | 05/06/20 09:13 PM |
| 24 | WHEN THINGS ARE GOING WELL, SHUT UP | How silence can be used as a power move |It’s better to be quiet and thought to be stupid than to speak and prove it true | /r/seduction | 02/06/20 01:32 AM |
| 2 | I'm so sick of hearing everyone talk about how wrong it is that the police disproportionately target black people while refusing to talk about the fact that police disproportionately target men.I was walking home with my girlfriend from a Sunday drinking party nearby, and she started drunken argument with me. I just said "we can talk about it when we get to my apartment." That wasn't good enough for her, and she started beating on me in the street. She literally ripped my leather jacket in half right off of my back. Cops showed up and said they weren't leaving without me going to jail. In spite of the fact that I never touched her! | /r/MensRights | 01/06/20 05:13 PM |
| 0 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.You’re assuming that the world is fair. It is not. Just ask the family of George Floyd. Even the least attractive woman thinks 80% of men aren’t up to their level. They’re deluded. It’s genetic. We as men are held to standards that are unreasonable. That’s why out of shape guys can be incels, life long virgins or marry the first person that gives them a pussy, while guys like me fuck hundreds of women and spread children and STDs everywhere we go | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 07:14 PM |
| 1 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.My good friend is a pilot and a flight instructor. One thing he does not own is any form of gaming system. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 07:05 PM |
| 2 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.You're going to talk about all the things you have in common because being people who cared about how you looked, you probably both had interesting life experiences. Just like two fat people probably talk about their favorite TLC show and which restaurant has the best fried chicken sandwich. (It's Boxcar Betty, by the way) | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 07:04 PM |
| 2 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Look, I'm not going to dedicate my entire day to explaining the world to you. You clearly are convinced of a thing that -- true or not -- is not open for debate. So why keep asking questions? You're deluded and you're using argument as a tool to reinforce your position. I'd sooner convince a religious person to turn atheist than to find a way to get through your thick ass skull | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 07:02 PM |
| 1 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Do you want to get laid? Do you want, perhaps a girlfriend even? Are you coming to the table as Matt Damon, or as Kevin Smith? I know which one people drool over, and which one gets a lot of "I think you're a great guy, and one day you're gonna find that perfect girl, it's just not me" speech. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 06:53 PM |
| 0 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.In other words, you want everyone to deny what their genes are programmed to do, and instead enter some concocted fantasy world where things are as you would have written them if you were the sci-fi author. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 06:51 PM |
| 1 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.With all things, there will be outliers. But broad strokes and generalizations work for a reason: because they're mostly true. Also, women are the least self aware creatures in existence. If you ask a woman what she's attracted to, she'll say "a nice guy with a good sense of humor" but everyone on earth knows how frustrated nice guys with good humor are feeling about the lack of women in their lives. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 06:42 PM |
| 2 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.She's a porn star, right? What are you? If you're not fucking famous and rich, you are not even on her radar. Even a fat ass porn star has options, and you had better bring something to the table or she's not even going to look at you. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 05:41 PM |
| 1 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Just be careful to do things gradually. I got excited a few years ago as you are now, and I overdid it, tearing my achilles tendon and now I won't ever run long distance ever again. | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 05:39 PM |
| 4 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Of course. And that's the double-edged sword of generalizations and painting with a big brush... Yes, there will always be people who can do a thing in moderation. But the stereotype -- and especially what women in general will think -- is that video gamer means fat, lazy pothead with ass pimples, body hair issues, and no life skills. Fortunately, if you're working out and eating well and being active and social, you will be signaling with those things, rather than signaling with your identity a… | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 03:43 PM |
| 20 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.It's a far too common thing. That's why. While some guys are in the gym working out, in the kitchen learning to make fabulous food, in public places learning to interact with others, in the garage fixing a car, or working on remodeling their home... too many guys find it an acceptable way of life to simply veg out on their XBox or Playstation for 18 hours a day, smoking pot and their only interaction with other humans is shouting insults into a headset. Women (in general) don't get turned on by … | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 03:15 PM |
| 28 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Far too many guys think "I want to be liked for me", always ignoring the incredible amount of work that girls do... working out, doing makeup every day, expensive haircuts, choice of clothing, posture, voice, attitude, etc. But these overweight pot-smoking video gamer jackasses think they should be able to put on a pair of cargo shorts and an oversized t-shirt and that should be good enough. Gah! | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 02:39 PM |
| 9 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.Yes! | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 01:43 PM |
| 508 | I want to get fit to attract women but I also don't.People want you to be in good physical condition for the following reasons: A person whose body is in good shape is presumed to be healthier. That's a good sign for whatever genes she may foresee you one day sharing with her. A person whose body is in good shape is presumed to be healthier. Yes, that's a repeat. But this time, it's because it suggests you'll be around for a long time, rather than dying of a heart attack at a young age and making a widow and leaving children without a father. A p… | /r/seduction | 31/05/20 05:52 AM |
| 1 | How to stand out from the rest via text?Your original (now deleted) post specifically said she moved the conversation from tinder to Instagram. Stop lying. It’s a good sign of why you have trouble with women. | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 02:49 PM |
| 1 | How to stand out from the rest via text?Tinder is more of a game than a useful dating app. | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 11:30 AM |
| 8 | How to stand out from the rest via text?Here's the gig, bro: Chicks don't give you their Instagram because they want to fuck. They give you their Instagram because they want more followers, and more likes, and more comments. Gotta be more popular than Suze, dammit! If you're not a Hollywood actor or a famous rock star, there's really nothing you're going to do on Instagram to get the girl. If you want to get her attention, get her actual mobile number and call or text her. Instagram doesn't count. Snapchat doesn't count. Facebook does… | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 06:55 AM |
| 4 | What are good FREE sites for online dating? POF is a cesspool of shitThe current worldwide condition of pandemic and shelter-in-place, social distancing and facial coverings... do you think ANY dating app is going to be filled with success? Be aware of the world, man. | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 06:48 AM |
| 4 | Apparently asking for a Facetime is "rushing things."Good stuff. Value yourself. Don't let women waste your time. My only disagreement or advice would be that when she suggested moving the conversation to Instagram, that should have been an immediate clue of what she was about. I would have told her "I don't have an Instagram. If you want to move the conversation off of Tinder, text me. 000-555-1234" She didn't want to FaceTime because she never intended to give you her actual contact info. She just wanted another doting Instagram follower. | /r/seduction | 29/05/20 06:02 AM |
| 4 | Is "Be Yourself" good advice?Your spam portion is longer than your advice portion. I can only imagine how much your sales pitches outweigh your content on the Facebook group. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 11:15 PM |
| 4 | New to idea of ‘friends with benefits’Usually you just start by dating, but never get serious with the person. Keep seeing each other and having sex, but don't see each other more than once in a week, and don't chat or text in between, other than when setting up the next meeting. Occasionally it will arise in other ways, like a girl you're seeing may suggest it. But most of the time it works as I've described above. | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 07:23 AM |
| 3 | Shoot your shotEven if it were true that you aren't good enough and you never will be -- and maybe it is! -- it's only true in the single case of this one woman at this point in time. Not everyone is going to like you. And even if they might otherwise find you attractive, not everyone is going to be single or available at the moment when you approach them. Did you ever watch baseball? The GREATEST batter of all time had a .400 batting average. The best players in the game tend to have a .300 batting average --… | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 05:55 AM |
| 3 | Shoot your shotBlow to your ego? Jesus, are you that fragile? The only way it's a blow to your ego is if you've been convincing yourself you can have any girl you want, and telling all your friends you can have any girl you want, and the rejection blows your fucking lie into the light for what it is. What the fuck, blow to your ego? You are already not dating this girl. You are already not fucking her. If you make a move and she rejects you, literally nothing about your life will have changed! | /r/seduction | 28/05/20 05:18 AM |
| 1 | 6 dates now. Do tactics change?I always recommend guys cut their losses by date 3. If I'm not fucking a girl by the 2nd date, there will be no 3rd. Also keep in mind you messed up somewhere if you had to wait till date 5 for sexy time. Her attraction level for you likely isnt that high. Not a good hard-and-fast rule. Sometimes there's simply not sexual chemistry there. She may be attracted and you may be attracted, but for reasons of personality or whatever you just don't speak the same physical language. I have learned over … | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 11:53 PM |
| 2 | How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers??Yeah it’s always a good idea to exchange numbers the moment a thing is going well. It doesn’t mean you have to stop it just gives you a way to reconnect if you’re interrupted. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 09:41 PM |
| 5 | Minneapolis / St. PaulYou could go to a protest together! | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 06:41 PM |
| 6 | /r/Seduction is dying.I would happily vote in favor of a rule that bans all links and attachments from posts here. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 05:49 PM |
| 15 | A young woman goes on Tinder and discovers guys have it harder than she expected.Reminds me of this, particularly the part where she got blown off hitting on a woman, but when she revealed that she was a woman it was suddenly fine to treat her as a human being. | /r/MensRights | 27/05/20 02:34 PM |
| 7 | A young woman goes on Tinder and discovers guys have it harder than she expected.Because patriarchy! Everything is made better for men! | /r/MensRights | 27/05/20 02:29 PM |
| 1 | When kissing a girl...You began with statements, not questions. You began from the premise that somehow, a man can insulate himself from the accusations and that he should taper his actions to fit within whatever that imagined legal mold is. But now you agree with me that nothing can insulate you from accusations, so therefore you've already shifted positions and proven me right. I'm done with this verbal masturbation. Reply or don't, I'm not going to pay attention any further. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 08:12 AM |
| 1 | When kissing a girl...You clearly don't understand the laws on this subject. If a girl decides two weeks from now that she regrets it, she can retroactively rescind any consent. With the exception of a signed contract for a porn actress, there is no situation imaginable in which any "consent" means anything. A year from now she goes on Twitter and accuses you of rape. Guess what.... you never get another job and no girl ever dates you again. Show all the evidence of consent that you have, you still never recover. The… | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 08:01 AM |
| 2 | When kissing a girl...Because your entire premise was based upon getting it vocalized in some legal format, like a lawyer not a lover. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 07:50 AM |
| 2 | When kissing a girl...Proper seduction has implied consent. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 07:45 AM |
| 3 | When kissing a girl...This sub is about seduction, not contractually negotiated intimacy. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 07:13 AM |
| 2 | Why Dinner and a Movie Sucks: How To Plan Better DatesReally good point about the pressure men put on with the fancy dress and expensive dinner. You guys are okay. And I didn't hear any advertisements. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 03:56 AM |
| 151 | Shoot your shotEither way, I gave it a shot, got denied, and feel great. Now I don’t have to waste any time or effort on anything with her. THIS!!! I can't say it enough times in this sub how much time is wasted on "what if" when a simple answer clears space in your mind to move on. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Why Dinner and a Movie Sucks: How To Plan Better DatesI'm going to listen to it just to see what the quality of your podcast is, but before I listen, I just want to drop the obvious comment here: You can't talk during a movie, and you shouldn't talk with your mouth full. It's not much of a date if you can't talk to each other. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 02:39 AM |
| 4 | When kissing a girl...You don't belong in this sub. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 01:13 AM |
| 14 | How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers??When physically aggressive cock blockers step in your scene, just turn to the girl you were talking to, offer a kind "it was nice talking to you. find me later if you want." And then walk away. There is nothing to be gained by staying and fighting it out. If she was enjoying herself with you, she'll find you. And if you were smart enough to exchange numbers early on, or if she finds you later and you can exchange numbers, just look forward to arranging a date where you won't have to deal with th… | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 01:09 AM |
| 2 | How do i deal with physically agressive cockblockers??Bullying isn't okay no matter what. It's weak and shows no character or honor. If a woman asks you to save her from someone who's hitting on her, you can easily step in and say "hey, the host was asking to talk to you, come with me". You don't have to stand in like a thug and bully someone. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 01:04 AM |
| 2 | Advice on first date flirting and first kissI don't go to loud bars. In general I don't find them to be loud. You may be thinking more about clubs, which are terrible. Also, in a bar, you can sit next to each other, so it's easier to hear and also easier to touch. | /r/seduction | 27/05/20 12:24 AM |
| 17 | THE TRUTH ABOUT THE LAW OF ATTRACTION | There is no attraction without Action! |Attraction without action is just Attr | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Any other way to interpret an out of town girl inviting me to stay at her house for the weekend?How many times are you going to repost this bullshit, you pussy ass little faggot? | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 02:39 PM |
| 27 | White Woman Who Called Cops on Innocent Black Man & Falsely Claimed He Threatened Her Life in Viral Video Forced to ApologizeAw, poor girl was forced to apologize. She would have happily had him locked up and charged with crimes he didn't commit, but her punishment was to say the words "I'm sorry." Yeah, seems fair. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/20 02:38 PM |
| 3 | Girl (21F) said she was attracted to me (23M). I misread it as her wanting a relationship but she just wanted to be FWB. How do I get things back on track the next time I see her?First: Don't ask someone what they find attractive about you. It relinquishes the confident frame. You should take more of a "yeah, I know I'm sexy" kind of attitude. Second, and this is important: Why the fuck do you jump so quickly from nothing to "in love"? That doesn't convey value. If a girl wants you, if she finds you attractive, you should not immediately assume that means you're getting married and spending your lives together... All it means is she wants to fuck. She lost a bit of inter… | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 02:18 PM |
| 2 | You Choose Her!Nothing says "good advice" quite like text on a drawing. Easy to share on Facebook, guys! | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 01:32 PM |
| 1 | Guys what is the first thing you notice on a girl?The way a woman moves is EXTREMELY important to whether I find her attractive. Slow, languid movements, awkward angles, disinterested smiles. Beyond that, don't be overweight. And I prefer full breasts. That's one person's opinion. | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 06:26 AM |
| 7 | Advice on first date flirting and first kissCoffee meetings are for discussing a business deal or meeting a potential new employer... Not for a date. Compare: COFFEE SHOP - brightly lit. Consuming stimulants which make your brain race and your body fidget. Uncomfortable seating. Generic music. Everything is designed to get you the fuck out of there quickly so the next person can get in. BAR - dim, ambient lighting. Consuming a beverage that helps you relax and makes things easier to enjoy. Comfortable seating. TVs full of topics to start … | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 04:18 AM |
| 1 | Overcoming AA [advice?]You had one LOL and one LMFAO in a single sentence that wasn't at all funny. If this is how you're talking to women, I think I might know what your problem is... | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 04:12 AM |
| 15 | Seen this on FB. "If you hangout with someone to just to get sex you're a rapist"If you wear a low cut top and show cleavage just to get a free dinner and drinks, you're a burglar. | /r/MensRights | 26/05/20 04:11 AM |
| 1 | 19F, new to hookups, looking for a fwb, any advice you’d like to share?It's pretty easy, really. You just hang out and have fun, and eventually suggest going to one of your homes. The sex part comes pretty easily. The important detail is that you don't follow it up with a ton of texting and calling the next day, and you don't get to ask a bunch of questions about "what are you looking for" or "who's that on your phone", because if you're a FWB, you're not a girlfriend. Give it at least a week, usually more like two weeks or more, between arranging a new meeting, an… | /r/seduction | 26/05/20 03:19 AM |
| 1 | Former “he’s nice but he’s just my friend” guy summing up what I was doing wrong.If it works... | /r/seduction | 22/05/20 04:17 PM |
| 35 | You new guys are seriously misunderstanding the point of seduction.And the biggest problem with the influx of noobs is that they create an echo chamber and a pattern of up- and down-voting that hides good advice while promoting bad. | /r/seduction | 20/05/20 02:55 PM |
| 1 | Great video I found on r/evopsych - while we can't be out meeting people, we can be at home learningAlso, if life can't be swallowed in 15-second pills, you don't want to get better or learn anything. I get it. Enjoy your participation trophy, Topher or Liam, or Ping Pong or whatever your white power name is. | /r/seduction | 01/05/20 01:12 AM |
| 2 | Great video I found on r/evopsych - while we can't be out meeting people, we can be at home learningIt’s a quarantine. Bookmark the YouTube video and watch it later | /r/seduction | 30/04/20 07:03 PM |
| 3 | Petition to stop women on Tiktok from calling men "wallets"It's only when a person can't make sense of the world in their head that they try to force the entire world to match the nonsense in their head. Women see us as wallets. Repairmen. And occasionally, protectors. No matter how much the modern American culture tries to force common dialog into being about equality, those facts do not change. Might as well let people continue speaking the truth, so that maybe we can get this equality delusion removed from the public discourse and adjust it to someth… | /r/MensRights | 29/04/20 12:41 PM |
| 3 | Why are men expected to help woman, while the opposite is never expected?Ever since I got a little bit (maybe more than a little) jaded, and started telling women "no", and not offering shit they didn't ask for, and not protecting them everywhere or giving them shit they didn't earn..... THEY ACTUALLY TREAT ME BETTER. Men helping women is a weak beta move. Much as I dislike TRP, the "alpha fucks beta bucks" thing holds true in this case. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/20 08:12 PM |
| 1 | The Pay Gap doesn’t existSalary is a conversation that you have at the time of hiring. Sure, for some jobs that is set by policy. But for most in the middle class, that is set by your negotiating skills prior to accepting the position. If women are worse negotiators, that does not mean men are evil and overpaid, it means that women are weak and THEY DESERVE to be underpaid until they learn to negotiate. Oh wait... equality? Be equal, and nobody will have a hard time treating you as equal. But demand the same money as so… | /r/MensRights | 21/04/20 07:27 PM |
| 1 | The Pay Gap doesn’t existWe all want to be paid the same. But we're not going to give up our advantage as cam girls, strippers, hookers, and all the other things that you fellas can't do, and that never get bundled into statistics. Oh, and don't forget to pick up the check whenever we go out. Or else I'll take half of your money and that's fair, right? It's only exactly half... | /r/MensRights | 21/04/20 07:25 PM |
| 3 | The Pay Gap doesn’t existThere is no difference. People who capitalize on opportunity get rich. People who trade time for money are just cogs in a surprisingly gender-neutral machine. | /r/MensRights | 21/04/20 07:23 PM |
| 2 | What to do after you get the number?A call would probably be reasonable. But yeah, nobody wants a pen pal. Don't get a number thinking you're going to text all the time. | /r/seduction | 21/04/20 04:58 PM |
| 2 | [NSFW] I gotta ask, what if this were a man flashing his genitals at female soccer players?In my estimation, laws are generally a reflection of the moral opinions of a place, not necessarily in the present but rather over history. Often is seems that one person two hundred years ago had a huge issue with something that happened, and pushed until it became written into law, and then a century later it shows up on some clickbait list on the internet of "weird laws". But usually, issues like exposing female breasts are written into laws by legislators that are largely religious and purit… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/20 01:39 AM |
| 2 | [NSFW] I gotta ask, what if this were a man flashing his genitals at female soccer players?As I said, arbitrary, and location based. Laws are not universal. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/20 01:32 AM |
| 12 | [NSFW] I gotta ask, what if this were a man flashing his genitals at female soccer players?Those are not genitals. | /r/MensRights | 19/04/20 01:23 AM |
| 1 | [NSFW] I gotta ask, what if this were a man flashing his genitals at female soccer players?Illegal is merely a measure of what is written in the laws of a country, state, county, or city, and it's largely arbitrary. And if I'm understanding this photo correctly, this is in Washington DC, where it's entirely legal to expose one's breasts. All the same, being incensed over someone's behavior really feels like a morality reaction, not a legality reaction, so even if it were illegal, your reaction seems a bit excessive. Is she hurting anyone? No. Do men show their bare chest all the time?… | /r/MensRights | 19/04/20 01:22 AM |
| 1 | Why do some men think women are more attractive with wet hair?Yes. Wet hair is more attractive. That's why so many products are designed to add moisture, or to give that "wet look". I suspect it's related in some way to how we've evolved to be attracted to water in general. | /r/seduction | 17/04/20 04:40 PM |
| 2 | Tip: turn your notifications OFFA slight nuance to this that I have found works well for me is that on iOS, you can just remove the audio portion of the alerts. You can get still have the lock-screen display show up, but your phone won't make a noise, so you're only seeing the push notification when you actually look for it. An added benefit to this is that it also prevents another thing that can hurt game: the noisy phone when you're on a date! I can't tell you how many times I've been out to meet someone and having a decent … | /r/seduction | 16/04/20 11:36 AM |
| 3 | e/seduction needs more advice for girls!!Ah, well one thing definitely is true for both men and women: confidence is a major key to seduction. | /r/seduction | 13/04/20 01:40 PM |
| 3 | How To Improve Your Game During Quarantine (Two Former RSD Coaches)It's a massive for-profit exploit, and largely has been shown to be a scam. If prostitution is the world's oldest profession, the second oldest is people telling you they can teach you to get you laid if you pay them. There have been a lot of complaints in this sub recently about how disheartened people are from them, and I'm never surprised. If you buy snake oil don't be surprised that what you're rubbing on your scalp is snake oil. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 06:54 PM |
| 0 | How To Improve Your Game During Quarantine (Two Former RSD Coaches)I'll never know. I don't have any respect for those guys, so I'm not gonna watch it. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 06:06 PM |
| 2 | How To Improve Your Game During Quarantine (Two Former RSD Coaches)I'm kind of surprised that this sub still allows posts to RSD content. | /r/seduction | 11/04/20 05:22 PM |
| 4 | Booty calls?This wouldn't even be a question if you were flirting with her at all. Christ, how hard is it to say "is that an invitation?" | /r/seduction | 01/04/20 12:38 PM |
| 15 | This has to be the most outrageous show of feminist stupidity to dateIronically, it was machismo that caused them all to get coronavirus. | /r/MensRights | 01/04/20 02:04 AM |
| 4 | RSD deleted all their good content, they block comments, they use bot comments; And now this; how much more embarrasing can this company get?COMPANY. You said it right in your title. You fucking kids got all caught up in the marketing of a company. | /r/seduction | 29/03/20 02:07 PM |
| 1 | Keep seduction during quarantine.Can't change it. Just post there. | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Keep seduction during quarantine.This probably should be on r/AskSeddit | /r/seduction | 28/03/20 04:17 PM |
| 5 | Got ghosted online dating constantly?You're going to learn the wrong things and get the wrong data by playing the wrong game at the wrong time. | /r/seduction | 24/03/20 12:25 AM |
| 57 | Got ghosted online dating constantly?In general, women are not looking to invest a ton of time into a pen pal on a dating app who they've never met before, because when you meet the investment may (often!) turn out to be wasted. I think you're making a mistake by investing effort into online dating during social distancing -- or in many cases, a lockdown. There is no knowing when this Coronavirus fear will start to subside, so a conversation that starts now and could potentially go on for weeks or months before you meet? Maybe she'… | /r/seduction | 23/03/20 05:05 PM |
| 2 | How can I seduce my hot female professor?I guess maybe you could suggest that while school is canceled you are technically not her student, and ask if she'd like to go out for ice cream and putt-putt, or whatever is legal at your age and not at all going to be a turn off for a smoking hot adult woman who could do way better than you. | /r/seduction | 18/03/20 02:35 AM |
| 4 | How to pass this shit test??Um... you are familiar with how quotes work, right? None of that was addressed to you. | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 08:49 PM |
| 0 | How to pass this shit test??"Need to? No. But one would think you might WANT to... Guess it depends on what you're looking for from this conversation." | /r/seduction | 12/03/20 08:48 PM |
| 5 | Male Privilege Is a MythNeuroticism runs higher in women. They have that luxury. Female privilege. | /r/MensRights | 12/03/20 06:37 PM |
| 15 | Male Privilege Is a MythThey always argue that "at least you don't have to worry about getting raped when you walk home at night"... even though the overwhelming number of rapes are from people they know, not a stranger in an alley. And if they're worried about getting mugged, men get mugged just as much, perhaps more. But what about the wage gap? Also debunked. But... but... but.... | /r/MensRights | 12/03/20 05:44 PM |
| 40 | Survey further proves that most women don't actually want equality, and just want a free ride through life.It would be so much easier. My gay friends who are in couples are all the happiest, most successful people I know. | /r/MensRights | 03/03/20 05:43 PM |
| 3 | What's your opinion on going to the gym as a first date?Super douchey | /r/seduction | 29/02/20 03:59 PM |
| 2 | Dropping your game once you’re in the bedroom?It's been said a thousand times and in a thousand ways... "You dance with the one that brought you." "If it isn't broken, don't fix it." "When a thing is working, why would you change?" In other words, don't get into the bedroom and turn into a soft little girlie man, with feelings and a lack of confidence and masculinity! I can't tell you how many times I've heard women complain about guys they've been with, saying things like "oh, he acts all tough out in public but as soon as you get in the b… | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | How to Accept a ComplimentI had to learn this a long time ago, when I discovered that I'm actually a pretty good singer. On karaoke nights, after I would sing, everyone would interrupt me on my way back to my table to compliment me on how good I was. I learned that anything other than a simple "thank you" was just an expenditure of time that added up to me never getting back to my table! My response has become a very sincere "thank you", with a slight tip of the head and a brief closing of the eyes. And I recommend that … | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 03:49 PM |
| 3 | Why do girl lose interest (apparently) after being super interested in the beginningWomen are not like a bank account into which you deposit credit and it stays. Women are like a pressure meter that constantly is deflating toward zero. In other words, if you don’t keep the pressure, the vibe, the chemistry moving that needle toward attraction, they will eventually deflate and lose interest. | /r/seduction | 27/02/20 01:30 AM |
| 5 | If the pay gap is largely accounted for by women's tendency to choose careers that pay less and take time off work due to pregnancy, and women are the only member in a heterosexual couple that is allowed to determine if a pregnancy goes to term...then why is the pay gap considered the doing of men?Let's not ignore the number of women who earn money that is never reported, from work as strippers, camgirls, models, porn actresses, waitresses, and bartenders... sources of income that men tend to have far less access to. | /r/MensRights | 26/02/20 04:34 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to “that guy can’t get laid”Stop being a nerd and start getting laid. This idea that our evolution has led us to a place where people forget the single most important biological imperative is crazy to me. Getting laid is the single most important thing we do as creatures. | /r/seduction | 26/02/20 02:02 AM |
| 4 | Anyone in columbus OH?First: dress well, groom yourself well, don’t be like every other stupid dweeb - especially in a college town full of dorks and nerds. Second: work out. You don’t need to be a bodybuilder, but some muscle in your back and shoulders will make heads turn in Columbus. Third: hate me for saying the truth, but Columbus is still ultimately a farm town. All the women are fake bleached blond and all the guys have stupid goatees, and everybody is fat. It’s not hard to differentiate yourself from that. Ge… | /r/seduction | 22/02/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Anyone in columbus OH?I left Columbus 12 years ago, but I remember when I was there gaming was easy. I was getting different girls every night. Now I do it in Chicago, and when my friend came to visit me he couldn’t believe how much more advance things are here. | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 11:41 PM |
| 87 | Girls want sex too, you’re the one that messes it up.There is truth in this post. I've dated a lot of hot girls, several of them models. I can tell you from experience that they actually get very little quality attention. The guys they might find interesting are always intimidated and afraid to talk to them, and the guys who do talk to them are usually douchebags who just see a pretty "thing" that they can impress with their boat or fancy car and then fuck and throw away. Yes, they have options, but they usually don't like those options and they t… | /r/seduction | 21/02/20 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Casual Sexual Assault By WomenMy favorite is the classic move where they intentionally press their boob against part of your body, but act as it that's totally normal and in no way an attempt to distract you with sexual thoughts. | /r/MensRights | 21/02/20 03:31 PM |
| -6 | How to Build Sexual Tension With Any GirlSmaller net? Hell, you've just narrowed your dating pool down to only your mom. | /r/seduction | 20/02/20 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Why do Swedish men hate short girls?I think most American men prefer a woman who can be just a few cm shorter than himself while she’s wearing heels. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 11:43 PM |
| 0 | Why do Swedish men hate short girls?No, it’s because American women think they can have whatever they want, do whatever they want, say whatever they want, and men don’t have any rights. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Why do Swedish men hate short girls?In the US, women height shame men. It’s petty and cruel. And I’m happy that a place exists where women suffer for it instead. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 11:34 PM |
| 3 | Why do Swedish men hate short girls?I’m just pleased to see that a place exists where WOMEN are height shamed. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Push/Pull LinersGenerally, if a woman does anything drastic to her hair, she will be somewhat insecure about it for a few days before becoming comfortable with her new look. If you fail to mention it and give some kind of compliment, she may just assume you don't like it at all... so it's worthwhile to say something casual like "hey, cool hair" so that she knows you noticed and you don't hate it, but you're also not going to spend the next 30 minutes kissing her ass over the topic. | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 10:15 PM |
| -1 | Push/Pull LinersDon't ever say "you're so beautiful/pretty" to a girl. If she's even a little bit pretty, she probably hears that same thing from every guy who doesn't know how to talk to a woman. When you do the same thing as everyone else, you lower your value, and you fail to stand out. Instead, pick something specific that is an actual compliment to her, and not purely a compliment to her luck in the gene pool. For example, "you have really good taste in shoes", or "I like the confidence it takes to wear su… | /r/seduction | 19/02/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | I've read a lot of books, and most were useless. But these 3 have helped me the most: 'Models' by Mark Manson, 'How To Win Friends And Influence People' by Dale Carnegie, and 'Way Of The Superior Man' by David Deida. If I had to start again, I'd just read and revise these books, and ignore the rest.Good choices. | /r/seduction | 12/02/20 10:28 PM |
| 60 | What do you do if a girl asks “can I bring a friend” when you ask her to come out on a date ?“Will she be joining us in bed later?” | /r/seduction | 11/02/20 01:41 AM |
| 2 | Should nagging be considered abuse?You need to stop being opinionated and start talking to a lawyer. Your response is naive. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/20 08:56 AM |
| 1 | Should nagging be considered abuse?All the more reason to make sure there are witnesses. Make this person embarrass themselves in front of everyone. Then when you file for divorce, you have all the witnesses you need for custody and zero alimony. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/20 08:51 AM |
| 2 | Should nagging be considered abuse?If someone is berating you, make them do it with witnesses. Make sure to keep your cool and handle it well. More importantly, if this is common, just move out. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/20 08:49 AM |
| 2 | Should nagging be considered abuse?Walk to a public place where people can witness their behavior. Keep your cool. Let them hang themself with their own rope. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/20 08:47 AM |
| 2 | Should nagging be considered abuse?Walk away. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/20 08:46 AM |
| 4 | Should nagging be considered abuse?No, that’s just a request. At times, possibly an unreasonable request... but that’s contextual. Either way, the request itself is not a form of abuse. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/20 08:45 AM |
| 6 | Should nagging be considered abuse?It’s not the nagging that is abuse, but the things said while nagging. Asking you to do something repeatedly is irritating. Calling you names and insulting you is abuse. | /r/MensRights | 25/01/20 08:42 AM |
| 4 | Girls who have guy friendsFirst, if you see this behavior, it should at least be a warning sign, because she's so brazen about her tendency to manipulate orbital men. But that doesn't make it a total red flag. The rest is context... If you're dating her, it shouldn't make much difference to you. Keep in mind I don't mean going out, buying her dinner, and then taking her home without a kiss and fuck situation. Pay attention that you're not just another orbiter who thinks you're dating. But if she's physical with you in fr… | /r/seduction | 28/12/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Guys who got fit/muscular, how did that help your game?It doesn't necessarily change your success rate, other than the fact that your improved self-confidence will help. But the real difference is that it changes _which_ girls will pay attention to you. When you're not in shape, you're not going to be dating models. Plain girls and even fat girls think that they have a chance with you, and worse, feel justified in rejecting you. But when you're in good shape, well-dressed, good-looking, plain and fat girls don't even imagine that they have a chance … | /r/seduction | 09/12/19 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Need adviceOkay so you are flirting. So when they try to neg you, just say “wow, that was rude. I thought we were getting along.” | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 04:02 AM |
| 2 | Need adviceFlirt with everyone. Always. No matter what. People who feel desired will do anything for you. Then, with the ones you’re not interested, just say, “would you excuse me for a moment?” And take your attention to the one you want. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 03:55 AM |
| 19 | How to start flirting on a first date?I like to make cocky/funny jokes and incorporate a touch on the arm or a hand on the shoulder. For example, if she asks "should we get another round?", you put your hand on her forearm and ask "are you trying to get me drunk and take advantage of me?" while smiling. | /r/seduction | 08/12/19 02:06 AM |
| 1 | Even as an attractive guy Tinder is a waste of timeDepends on your age preference and location, but I have certainly found that most people tend to be either complete perverts or undercover prostitutes. Tinder has gone the way of the dogs, much like OKCupid. These days I focus on Hinge. | /r/seduction | 05/12/19 06:57 PM |
| 1 | Whats the best course of action when a girl thats into you tells you she likes to take things slowAnd I’m down voted for this. | /r/seduction | 18/11/19 03:40 AM |
| -2 | Whats the best course of action when a girl thats into you tells you she likes to take things slowTrust none of what a girl says. The only thing to pay attention to is what feeling she evoked with those words. The other dude is 100% right - she just put you into a corner and you accepted it. | /r/seduction | 16/11/19 02:08 AM |
| 3 | Tips - go out alone and meet new people?I go out alone all the time. Bars, diners, coffe shops, etc, always sit at the counter. That’s where conversations happen that you can join... and the service is better. Find a few places you like and make them your regular spots. You’ll start to see the same people, and before long you have new friends. | /r/seduction | 25/10/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Why do I derive my self worth from how hot the women I am with are? This is a terrible mindset but I can not shake it.Why I s it a terrible mindset? Because society dictates something different? Because some parent or pastor or therapist told you so? Or because you truly believe there is something better? I derive my self worth from what I can get people to do for me. You’d be shocked at what that leads to in sex. And I don’t feel bad about it. It’s what I enjoy. As long as I’m not abusive, I feel there is nothing wrong with doing what makes me happy. | /r/seduction | 13/09/19 10:55 PM |
| 11 | About ManspreadingSociety has taught them that they don't have to be. I swear, all this feminism and equality bullshit is such a lie. Women will never be subject to what men are, and men will never be subject to what women are, no matter how much we all try to pretend we can be equal. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/18 11:38 PM |
| 81 | About ManspreadingMan, no shit! People complain that men spread their legs too far, but no one says a word about women filling 16 seats on the train with their groceries or whatever. | /r/MensRights | 07/11/18 07:15 PM |
| 1 | i dont understand why people never does what police saySeriously. Always women, thinking they don't have to answer for the things they do. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 06/11/18 10:47 PM |
| 0 | Scared to tell a girl I'm attracted to her when I approach herYou don't ever get ahead by confessing feelings to a chick. Also, if you're scared to say what's on your mind, she's going to instantly identify you as a weak man and lose any possible interest. | /r/seduction | 06/11/18 10:07 PM |
| -6 | Anyone tired of how only men are seen as perverts?Look. The real issue here is that it's true. And the reason it's true is because -- wait for it -- MEN AND WOMEN ARE DIFFERENT! Things like "men's rights" exist because of this modern feminism bullshit. If people were honest with themselves and others, they would admit that there's a reason why men have ruled everything since the beginning of time.... it's not because we're assholes, it's because men were built to run shit and women were not. And part of being built for running shit is that we m… | /r/MensRights | 06/11/18 08:19 PM |
| 1 | Girl I connect with has boyfriend but is very attracted to me, how do I convince her to go out with me instead?A girl who would leave her boyfriend for you will only end up leaving you for someone else. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 05:43 PM |
| 2 | Kicked out of shopping centers?Creeping around and monopolizing her time, making her feel incapable of escaping your attention. | /r/seduction | 25/10/18 03:38 PM |
| 15 | BuzzFeed w̶a̶s̶ ̶s̶e̶x̶i̶s̶t̶,̶ ̶w̶h̶a̶t̶ ̶a̶ ̶s̶u̶r̶p̶r̶i̶s̶e̶ made an article about "sexist microagressions in relationships" and it's like 99% blatant man-hate. Talking about how lazy men are, how they don't get tampons for their gf (which most men that I know do), etc. Look at #7 for example.Look at #7 for example. Did you seriously just buzzfeed a buzzfeed article? | /r/MensRights | 10/10/18 08:08 PM |
| 4 | Nearly twice as many boys as girls report being victims of dating violence in recent study.Not just yes/no questions, but questions based in measurable, tangible verbs, rather than abstract, hard-to-define concepts. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/18 08:24 PM |
| 3 | Nearly twice as many boys as girls report being victims of dating violence in recent study.Students were asked if they had been purposefully hit, slapped or physically hurt by a boyfriend or girlfriend in the past year. It's amazing how the results are so reflective of the questions you ask. If you asked boys if they had been victims of abuse, they would mostly answer "no." But when you ask them "have you been purposefully hit," the answer is yes. | /r/MensRights | 03/10/18 07:23 PM |
| 30 | This is the best time to approach a girlbitch please. looking older isn't a bad thing for a man. maybe you've just gotten fatter and stopped giving a fuck about your appearance. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 04:10 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlhyperbole | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 04:09 PM |
| 1 | This is the best time to approach a girlso gay | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 04:09 PM |
| 6 | This is the best time to approach a girlFollow the first two rules. | /r/seduction | 03/10/18 04:08 PM |
| 1 | girls keep sitting next to me in the computer labThere may be no other seats available. Or there may be seats available but they're all next to really creepy guys and you at least look like someone who showered. Or maybe you look like a fucking nerd and they're sitting next to you hoping that when something difficult comes along you'll do their work for them. There's really no reason to believe that a girl sitting next to you means anything at all. Nevertheless... If someone sits next to you and you don't at least strike up the bare minimum of… | /r/seduction | 02/10/18 09:50 PM |
| 9 | Man on reddit does AMA/ confession on how he was raped while unconscious and gets this response.Disgusting. | /r/MensRights | 02/10/18 08:29 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask a girl out for coffee while not making it awkward if she says no?It's only as awkward as you make it. | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 08:47 PM |
| 1 | How do I ask a girl out for coffee while not making it awkward if she says no?The idea that you have to ask how to not make it awkward means you’re going to make it awkward. There is no reason it should be awkward. Why would you even think of that? | /r/seduction | 27/09/18 07:58 PM |
| 2 | How do you become a magnet (I guess) when you've had no experience so far?Do you think Barry Bonds went out to the field on day one and knocked a ball out of the park? The way you get good at anything is by doing it over and over and over, learning everything you can along the way. Get off the internet. Get out into the world. Fail. Fail often. But FAIL FORWARD. Magnets have two poles after all... one of them repels. | /r/seduction | 25/09/18 08:47 PM |
| 2 | how to overcome spotlights effect / boyfriend is coming?Just take it as it comes. Your fear of handling a thing that isn't even happening is causing you paralysis. Better to act now without a plan than to plan forever and never act. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 05:21 PM |
| 1 | 200 approaches, what I've gathered.I have seen some really good club dancers. And believe me... they got paid regularly. | /r/seduction | 19/09/18 12:43 PM |
| 1 | 200 approaches, what I've gathered.If that same hot teen is at a dance club, however, and you’ve taken the time to learn to dance... | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 09:50 PM |
| -1 | 200 approaches, what I've gathered.If Danny Trejo can get laid, then there must be something you're not considering. Hell... Seal married a supermodel. Also, neither of them are white. You're right that game means nothing and SMV means everything, but SMV is more than just your looks. A lot more. Having good style, a good income, and some kind of talents can be way more of a factor than just having some perfect face. Learn to dance. Learn to sing. Learn to cook. Learn to paint. Do interesting things and women will start to find y… | /r/seduction | 18/09/18 08:25 PM |
| 16 | Invited Girl to Hang with me one on one and she wants to bring friendIt's been three months and you still haven't made a move. In her mind, you're not interested. You're in the friend zone. | /r/seduction | 07/09/18 08:19 PM |
| 2 | I would just make girls like me but after that I would realise that I dont like her, I just like being liked.Such a person would almost certainly not be found asking for advice on /r/seduction. Your point is entirely valid, but not at all helpful here. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 09:42 PM |
| 3 | How to ask someone out in a workplaceI'm not going to say that there's ever a hard and fast 100% rule for anything... I'm sure I could think of a context in which it would be okay. But if you're looking for a hard and fast rule (as most of the autistic users of reddit seem to be) then I would say absolutely don't do it. Just think of it in this way: if she's interested, she'll likely just ask for your phone number. But if she's not interested and you ask for hers, what are the odds that she mentions to her friend(s) the guy in the … | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 08:50 PM |
| 3 | How to ask someone out in a workplaceIt's considered a very bad idea to hit on customers while you're at work. Like the kind of bad idea that can get you fired. It's okay to flirt. And if she hits on you, it's okay. But if you go hitting on a customer, that can be the kind of thing that makes people stop doing business with your company. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:30 PM |
| 20 | I would just make girls like me but after that I would realise that I dont like her, I just like being liked.It sounds to me like you don't really care for women in any meaningful way, and they are disposable to you..... which is exactly what makes them like you! Just keep doing what you're doing, and eventually one will try hard enough, or just be generally cool enough, that you'll begin to appreciate her and keep her around. Just be careful what you wish for... If you ever connect and start to like a girl, it only increases the odds that she will begin to not like you, and you'll be the one who gets … | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 07:19 PM |
| 2 | How to respond to "This is why you are still single."?Height is a very real thing in the minds of women, so that might not be a shit test, but rather a statement of belief. The good news is, as real as it might be to them, height is only in their minds. If you demonstrate value, she'll forget about your vertical measure. Now, as to what are common shit tests... just do a search of this sub. They've been discussed ad nauseum, and I don't feel inclined to regurgitate it all. | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 03:02 PM |
| 1 | How to respond to "This is why you are still single."?Isn’t there a point at which her attempts to get a reaction at all are another shit test? | /r/seduction | 06/09/18 01:35 AM |
| 5 | How to respond to "This is why you are still single."?Whenever you get a shit test you don't like, if you don't immediately have a response in mind, just ignore it. Ignoring is always better than responding poorly. | /r/seduction | 05/09/18 10:00 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Handle Constant Failure?I'm going to tell you that I've been doing this a whole lot longer, and I've been through the 30+ dating pool for years. Your conception is skewed by lack of experience. But why are you worrying about 30+? Focus on today. If you're 25, look around you at the 20+ crowd. Get your head out of tomorrow and into today. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 09:54 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Handle Constant Failure?That's a really terrible worldview. Let me point something out to you which is going to go against everything you believe: You are desperate, and women can smell desperation. It's a turn-off. Desperation sends the signal that you're a low-quality man, not worthy of their time. They'd prefer to chase a high-quality man and fail, rather than succeed at landing a low-quality man. The only way to stop the cycle is to stop chasing. Stop signaling desperation. Stop caring so much about the outcome. On… | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 09:25 PM |
| 2 | Long Response Time from WomenDo what you want. (To a certain degree) Playing games is not what a confident, high-value man does. A confident, high-value man simply does things as he chooses and doesn't worry about what people think. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 08:39 PM |
| 1 | How Do You Handle Constant Failure?What is there to handle? Grow up. It's not a contest. It's barely even fair to call it a failure. IT. IS. DATA. An experiment. You try something, you get a result. You adjust and try something else. Combine the details that lead in the direction you want to go, and eschew the details that don't help you to your goal. Stop being so outcome dependent. There is ABSOLUTELY NO REASON why this should be "physically painful." Just stop fantasizing about the future. Live in today. | /r/seduction | 04/09/18 07:04 PM |
| -3 | Fortnite: Ninja won't play with female gamers. Blame "me too" and the male hate of feminism for the backlash.I can't decide what part of this I hate most... the feminism nonsense, or the fact that people actually give a shit what video game players do, or the idea that "steamer" was a word used without irony... or the basic concept of anyone actually caring about any part of this enough to have written the article, much less that someone else cared enough to share it on Reddit. Someone kill me. | /r/MensRights | 15/08/18 03:56 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Tinder F-Closed on 2nd date - it was great. Is it bad I haven't texted her since?It's crucial to always text afterward, either shortly after she leaves or the next morning. Her reply is your proof that it was consensual. Not texting her gives her time to feel like she was taken advantage of, and to possibly begin to regret it. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 09:06 PM |
| 17 | What are some flirty, funny and teasing texts to send a girl when she doesn’t reply for a while?Don't go chasing after her reply. The best way to get her attention is by ignoring her. It shows that you're too busy with a healthy social life to worry about how quickly she responds. | /r/seduction | 06/08/18 08:56 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone else find it incredibly ironic that doubting any woman's rape story will often get you accused of being a closet rapist?That's not irony. It's just sad truth. | /r/MensRights | 12/07/18 09:54 PM |
| 7 | How do I stop coming off as the boyfriend type?It's all in how you talk and how you act. First, if your behavior is sucking up to her in any way, stop. For reference, behave like Sean Connery's portrayal of James Bond -- always smooth, but never needy. Don't do anything that seeks approval. And second, don't talk about things that imply any sort of qualifying. You don't care how many siblings she has. You don't care where she grew up. You are there to have fun, and fuck.... and to that end, you should just be chatting about unimportant thing… | /r/seduction | 12/07/18 09:15 PM |
| 1 | Why has seduction evolved to be as complicated and confusing as it is today?You're fooling yourself. Seduction has never been easier than it is today! In past times, if you weren't the strongest one in the group or the richest one in the group, there was a good chance your bloodline would end there. But today, thanks to the advances of civilized society, even a whiny little bitch who cries all over the internet can still take a shower, get a haircut, make a Tinder profile, and swipe enough times to have a date for the evening. In other words, put down the computer, clea… | /r/seduction | 25/06/18 05:27 PM |
| 2 | Have you/would you ever give someone a book on seduction as a present?I have given out many copies of The Way of the Superior Man over the years. Even once as a wedding gift. | /r/seduction | 11/06/18 06:23 PM |
| 1 | For Over 40: Is your % of success increased or decreased ?You shouldn’t be playing any games. If you’re genuine and confident, you don’t have to adjust your behavior to fit any age. | /r/seduction | 13/12/17 08:43 PM |
| 3 | So she caught me looking from a large distance and started smiling now what?Put your fucking computer away and go talk to girls. You're WAY overthinking everything. | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 10:17 PM |
| 1 | So she caught me looking from a large distance and started smiling now what?As a PUA how do you handle RBF? You fucking ignore it. Who the fuck cares? | /r/seduction | 10/11/17 10:16 PM |
| -2 | Do girls like it when you tell them what to do?Yes, but you have to do it just right. You also have to follow the first two rules. | /r/seduction | 08/11/17 03:40 PM |
| 0 | I am a guy who went from being introverted to being social and able to open anyone (even life-of-the-party on some occations); However, I've never CLOSED and I lack sexual experience - what are my highest-yield game steps?Just because I have an opinion that differs from the common parlance doesn't mean that I don't understand it. I simply think that the concept of introvert/extrovert is fundamentally incorrect. I realize that's going to be a controversial opinion — especially to people who consider themselves to be introverts — but if it weren't for controversial opinions, nothing in life would ever change or improve. | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 05:02 PM |
| -5 | I am a guy who went from being introverted to being social and able to open anyone (even life-of-the-party on some occations); However, I've never CLOSED and I lack sexual experience - what are my highest-yield game steps?I just want to say THANK YOU for proving what I've been saying for a long time: there's no such thing as an introvert, just a person who's allowing their fear/insecurity to control their social behavior. It's absolutely a curable condition. | /r/seduction | 07/11/17 03:58 PM |
| 2 | What to read after No More Mr. Nice Guy and Models?Stop looking for things to read. Get out and learn from experience. | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 04:27 PM |
| 1 | The numbers game mythThere's always going to be some element of a numbers game, in that you're not the type for everyone — even Brad Pitt isn't every girl's type, and then not every girl is single or looking, and she may even be going through something in life where you may be someone to whom she'd otherwise be attracted but at the moment she's battling cancer or busy caring for a sick family member and just isn't in the mood to date. However, there's also always going to be a skill factor, because even the best loo… | /r/seduction | 31/10/17 04:23 PM |
| 0 | How can I deal with the fact that guys are intimidated by me?Creep. | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 02:57 PM |
| 4 | How can I deal with the fact that guys are intimidated by me?OMIGOD, this is definitely gonna be the thing that pisses my dad off! | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 02:53 PM |
| 2 | How can I deal with the fact that guys are intimidated by me?/r/indianpeoplefacebook | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 02:52 PM |
| 5 | How can I deal with the fact that guys are intimidated by me?How can I portray myself in the best light, and not look ignorant or racist? The thing about this is... We can see it when it's there, and we can see when it's not. Instead of trying to "portray yourself" (ie, to be an actress), why don't you take some time to be genuinely curious and interested in the people around you? Become versed in their cultures. Learn to appreciate their backgrounds. And become an ally in their struggles. I've only got this post to judge you by, but based on what you wro… | /r/seduction | 26/10/17 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Am I doing it wrong?You're rushing to kiss people with whom you haven't established any rapport. That's never going to work. Just slow down and build more. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 09:44 PM |
| 11 | How does a man increase his sexual appeal?First, have confidence. Swagger. A sense that you're absolutely worthwhile and that she should be working to earn your attention. Second, have shit to offer. Knowledge, talents, skills. Be able to cook, dance, speak foreign languages, fix a car, replace an electric socket, repair a toilet, etc. After that, be generally well kept. In shape, decently dressed, clean, groomed, and on the whole just not off-putting. | /r/seduction | 20/10/17 09:34 PM |
| 3 | What types of girls do you think every guy should bang in his life atleast once?I haven't enjoyed asians, but I think it's because my dick's too big for them. They always complain that it hurts. Every time someone tells me they have a thing for asians, I always think "that's a guy with a small dick". Hahaha But another fun one is Puerto Ricans. They're fucking crazy, so don't date them.... but they tend to be a lot of fun in the bedroom. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 08:44 PM |
| 2 | What types of girls do you think every guy should bang in his life atleast once?I've been working on collecting the whole set. I've hit it with people of nearly 50 different nationalities.... and my favorite are the black ones. I don't care what country they came from, the black ones are always more fun. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 08:31 PM |
| 1 | Went from a decent level in seduction, to close-to-zero ability. Am I the only one?That's thinking rather than observing. If you're paying attention, you'll see that women have become a lot more angry, and a lot more vigilant.... and rightly so, because they're really under attack as a result of his policies and attitudes. Add to that, they're also crushed by the Hillary loss. When you add all those things up, you can see how they'd be feeling less adventurous, and less interested in things like dating overall, and more motivated to spend time with other women and doing things… | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 06:49 PM |
| 0 | Went from a decent level in seduction, to close-to-zero ability. Am I the only one?You've probably settled into a rut and lost some of your energy in the process. Also, keep in mind that Trump has really had a drastic effect of the attitudes of women. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 06:02 PM |
| 7 | If there is one thing you'd say gave you the most success with women, what would that be?Money | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 06:00 PM |
| 1 | Is it weird to ask a girl, "what part of town you live in?"Nothing wrong with it at all. In fact, I do the same thing. Also, a lot of women ask me the same thing. It's perfectly normal to want to know a person is accessible before you try to date them... and it's also (as you mentioned) very useful for picking a location to meet. The reason she's going silent on you is because you're driving at getting to the date, and she's still not sure if/when she's free (possibly because she's already seeing someone else who she's not sure about) so not giving an a… | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 05:33 PM |
| 0 | I cant sleep with girls unless im dating themYeah... I'm going to go ahead and guess that your username gives us a big clue as to why your memory isn't so sharp. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 05:18 PM |
| 1 | Kind of a noob here. Please helpFirst, as a 40 year old man, the things I do to slay are almost fully inapplicable to a 15 year old. And second, I can't help feeling like advising a 15 year old on how to get laid borders on encouraging an illegal activity. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 05:00 PM |
| 1 | I cant sleep with girls unless im dating themI'm able to keep an incredible amount of contextual data in my head, so it's not so bad for me... but you don't want too many of those weeks too close together. As regards finance, I'd spend the same money going out alone every night, so it doesn't really impact me. And if I'm on a date I generally drink less. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 04:46 PM |
| 2 | Game with no alcoholYes. It complicates you. You're making a conscious choice to eschew an activity that the overwhelming majority of people enjoy. But you can choose to handle that in a manner that is not off-putting. It's on you to make other people comfortable with your choice to not drink. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 03:57 PM |
| 1 | I cant sleep with girls unless im dating themWay to miss the point | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 12:06 PM |
| 2 | I cant sleep with girls unless im dating themI once had a Saturday on which I had three separate dates. All planned. And I managed to make it work, including taking the last one home with me for the night. I'm still not quite sure how I pulled it off... | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 11:34 AM |
| 1 | I cant sleep with girls unless im dating themIt’s great, because even if four of them are a bust, you still got laid the other four times. In one week. With four different people. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 01:26 AM |
| 1 | I cant sleep with girls unless im dating themWhen you reach the point of 8 in a week, and realize that means at least one time you’ll be doing two in one day... now that’s living. | /r/seduction | 12/10/17 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Why are hot girls so hard to get?This is good advice. You put into words a thought that I was struggling to articulate. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 11:35 PM |
| 3 | Why are hot girls so hard to get?Go back to the beginning and read them again. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 11:04 PM |
| -1 | I cant sleep with girls unless im dating themFirst... a date every 2 weeks is pretty sparse. Step it up. Try to get at least 2 per week, not with the same girl both times. Now, you'll be "dating" them by date three, as you wanted... but you'll be mixing it up and not with the same chick every time. That will help your mental transition. Next, try to get a little more fun and a little more flirty on dates 1 and 2, and see if she doesn't do the rest of the work for you. Before you know it, you'll be as addicted to this shit as I am. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 10:21 PM |
| 1 | So I (M) have this step-cousin (F) I'm seeing tomorrow...There's really no right way to do it... I'd just be fun. Flirt. Make some vaguely sexual jokes that could vaguely be aimed at her. Gauge her response and go from there. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 10:18 PM |
| 6 | Why are hot girls so hard to get?Telling someone they're pretty has literally nothing to do with making your intentions clear. It's a shallow compliment on something that she was born with, did no work to earn, and gets reminded of dozens of times per day. When Mark Manson says "I noticed you, thought you were attractive, and had to say hi", the underlying subtext is that he wanted to get to know her... and the use of the term attractive is simply stating his reason why. What's more, you're not Mark Manson. He can do that becau… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 10:12 PM |
| 35 | Why are hot girls so hard to get?No. Fucking. Way. Being direct, making your intentions clear, showing vulnerability... these principles have NOTHING to do with sucking up to a pretty girl over something as shallow as her appearance. Direct game is good. Yes. But telling a pretty girl she's pretty when she already knows she's pretty, and gets reminded dozens of times every day exactly how pretty she is.... well, that's a lot like telling a black guy, "hey, you're black." He already knows, and it's not going to make him want to … | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:25 PM |
| 1 | What do you say when a girl asks "Is it a date?""It's whatever you want it to be, so long as it involves you and me doing what we said we were going to do." | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:20 PM |
| 0 | Tips for snapchatting girls?It's funny how every insult in this thread has come from you, but you think I'm the one who's wrong here... | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:03 PM |
| 0 | Tips for snapchatting girls?Yours would be too if you'd done the things I've done, the number of times I've done them, and with the number of people I've done them with. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 09:00 PM |
| 1 | Tips for snapchatting girls?You kids need someone who actually gets laid to give you advice, rather than a bunch of incels thinking they can tell other incels how to get laid. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 08:54 PM |
| 2 | Tips for snapchatting girls?More often than you can imagine. You wouldn't even believe me if I told you, so there's no point. People on computers can say anything. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 08:51 PM |
| -6 | Tips for snapchatting girls?Tip #1 for snapchatting girls: don't. Delete that stupid app and force people to deal with you like adults. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 08:05 PM |
| 172 | Why are hot girls so hard to get?Hot girls get TONS of attention, so simply the act of giving them attention makes you no better than anyone else. But hot girls get the wrong kind of attention. They are constantly being flirted with, hit on, cat called, whistled at, stared at, and sucked up to. Nobody ever treats them like a person, so if you just learn to treat hot girls as if they're your ugly little sister, they'll love you all day long. Don't ever tell a girl she's pretty when she already knows she's pretty. That will get y… | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 08:02 PM |
| 1 | How do you talk about your past with a woman?Keep your responses concise, rather than telling it like a long story. Only add detail when she asks. Answering questions concisely is open and confident. Answering them in great detail with a long story definitely sounds like someone who's spending a lot of time thinking about it. | /r/seduction | 11/10/17 05:41 PM |
| 1 | What are simple decent casual compliments to give to a girl without looking awkward or creepy?Women love it when you validate their choice of footwear. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | [Serious] How do I Bring women Home from clubs or bars or academic classes or even yoga/fitness classes?Start conversation. Make them have fun. Suggest something you have at your home that they might like to see. Continue your conversation. Later, ask if she'd like to come see that thing you were talking about and maybe share a drink. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Getting called "hun"; what does it mean?Most of the time, it's patronizing. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 03:33 PM |
| 2 | Stealthing to be classified as rape. No word on lying about birth control or poking holes in condoms.Stealthing is a dick move, but I think classifying it as rape is going a bit too far. Should a person be added to a sex offender registry for such a thing? I don't think so. And what happens if the condom breaks but the woman accuses him of intentionally removing it? | /r/MensRights | 10/10/17 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Improve appearance before starting with the game?Fix yourself first. Nobody can find you attractive if you don't find yourself attractive. And nobody can respect a man who can't be bothered to take care of himself. | /r/seduction | 10/10/17 03:00 PM |
| 1 | The history on how I lost my virginity, and some tips That can change your life completelyShut up, Morty! | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Rape claims and why I advise young men not to sleep with a woman who’s had even one drink: By a top criminal barrister who’s seen lives ruined by disputes over consentIf you're fucking without the aid of alcohol and drugs, you're probably having some really disappointing sex. | /r/MensRights | 05/10/17 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Pulling back to her placeWhere the hell does everyone get "trandy" from? What app are you using? | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:46 PM |
| 1 | The history on how I lost my virginity, and some tips That can change your life completelyDude. Use your actions, not your words. You're trying to convince me of something. Just show me. If it was meaningless, you wouldn't feel the need to defend yourself. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:45 PM |
| 4 | Pulling back to her placeBe direct after the joke. First make sure she sees that you're not bothered by it, so that she can follow your lead. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:42 PM |
| 1 | The history on how I lost my virginity, and some tips That can change your life completelyAnd you went on to prove my point. You can dish a joke but you can't take one. You may have improved your situation, but you're still not there yet. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 06:41 PM |
| 1 | The history on how I lost my virginity, and some tips That can change your life completelyCongratulations, young padawan, but you are not a jedi yet. And you've got a long way to go before you'll be fucking my bitch. But good job, taking control of your situation. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 04:58 PM |
| 7 | Pulling back to her placeJust give a half-cocked smile (implying you're making a joke) and say "wanna come back to my air mattress?" She'll think it's a joke at first, and she'll admire your comfort and confidence when she realizes it's not. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 03:35 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend and I want to have a threesomeFWIW, I used Feeld for several months, and had plenty of matches, but everyone flaked. Not a single meeting ever happened. I think there's a lot more nerves for people getting into these situations with people they've never met. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 02:59 PM |
| 6 | My girlfriend and I want to have a threesomeThis. Have the girlfriend approach women when you're out at the bar, etc. She acts flirty, but also talks you up and says "isn't he cute?" Not too overbearingly, just casual. If the chemistry is going, and you all are having a good time, your girlfriend says "we're thinking of getting out of here... why don't you come have a drink with us at our place?" Once you're home, you pour the drinks while they talk, and things will unfold pretty naturally after that. | /r/seduction | 05/10/17 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Second date with girl I want to have a relationship withThere is no difference in seduction for relationship and seduction for sex. If you switch you will fail. Also, you’ve met her once. You can’t possibly know you want a relationship already. | /r/seduction | 04/10/17 04:06 PM |
| 1 | Should I let my intentions known?When you meet a girl, do you make your intentions known early? Fuck that. I just met her... how do I know what my intentions are yet? What do you say? The best thing is to say nothing. You don't have to define anything until such a time as she brings it up or asks you. How can I know what they want? If someone wants something, it's their job to ask for it. That's how you can know. She'll ask. Maybe they don't want anything serious either and just wanna hang out/hook up? If you just met someone, … | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 09:29 PM |
| 0 | How do you date multiple women and keep everyone happy?100% dishonest behavior and not at all something that should be encouraged. I date multiple women and I'm honest about it with all of them. They stay around because they know what they're getting when they're with me. I can always be trusted because I'm honest about the things that no one else is. | /r/seduction | 02/10/17 08:44 PM |
| 1 | For Over 40: Is your % of success increased or decreased ?41, in Chicago. My dating success really picked up in my 30s, and improved every year, and now that I'm in my 40s I land more ass than anyone. My buddy (32) was just remarking to me last night that he doesn't understand how I do it and that he wants to learn. | /r/seduction | 29/09/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Feminist answer my question without saying anything at allUnderstood. But arguing amongst ourselves is not productive, yes? | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 02:32 AM |
| 1 | Feminist answer my question without saying anything at allSeems like you’re angry with a ghost of an idea. | /r/MensRights | 20/09/17 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Feminist answer my question without saying anything at allI was really just referring to the people downvoting. They don't want to be faced with the reality of the questions, so they downvote it out of existence. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/17 09:42 PM |
| 2 | Feminist answer my question without saying anything at allIt's textbook cognitive dissonance. When the thing I believe doesn't match the evidence I witness, I must push it away and not see it, so that I can maintain my belief, because to reprogram my own mind would destroy too much of the foundation upon which I stand. | /r/MensRights | 19/09/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What fields do you work in?Cocksmith | /r/seduction | 19/09/17 05:39 PM |
| 5 | What to do when she plays hard to getI only ask this because if a girl is playing hard to get she has to be worth it, right? No. Quite often they do this because they just like the attention and aren't really interested at all. | /r/seduction | 18/09/17 08:43 PM |
| 3 | When to buy flowers?A single rose is a very cliché move with very built-in meanings, as they apply culturally. There are specific times when this is done, and otherwise it's kind of a faux pas. Giving a single rose to a woman you just met signals interest in being with her -- doing so gallantly like Casanova or Zorro could go over, but it's an awfully dated idea -- and doing so in any less dramatic fashion really signals that you don't really know how to talk to a woman. Giving a single rose to a performer tends to… | /r/seduction | 14/09/17 03:06 PM |
| 3 | Rule of Thumb: How do you recover after doing something really stupid?There's a difference between a desired outcome and a dependent outcome. I'm not saying don't go after something what you want... I'm saying don't adjust your behavior in such a way that you're using your actions to beg for it. Regarding indifference, there is something very attractive about indifference. A woman wants to be wanted by a high value man, and a high value man doesn't crumble into a weak, "please forgive me baby I don't want to lose you!" kind of guy. Yes, she'd prefer to be with som… | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 09:14 PM |
| 3 | Rule of Thumb: How do you recover after doing something really stupid?I see it as what I said: stop being outcome-dependent. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 08:38 PM |
| 2 | Going downRule of thumb is, no matter who you're with, you generally don't go down on a girl the first time you're together. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 05:32 PM |
| 2 | Going downI can't even imagine how bad a blow job would be with a condom Yeah, take it from me... it's not very good. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 05:31 PM |
| 34 | Rule of Thumb: How do you recover after doing something really stupid?Don't worry about the recovery. That's outcome-dependent thinking. Just apologize, and then continue as if nothing happened. If you've blown your chance, there's nothing you can do to recover... and if you have not blown it, there's no reason to keep thinking about the mistake. | /r/seduction | 13/09/17 05:29 PM |
| 1 | UK: Abused husband, 45, who suffered 12 years of beatings at hands of his hard-drinking teacher wife set up a spy camera to film her campaign of violenceMy god, the grammar in that article. Was it written by a 14-year-old? | /r/MensRights | 08/09/17 07:34 PM |
| 2 | DeVos announces review of Obama-era sexual assault guidance - CNNTrump & Co may do a lot of shit wrong, but this sounds like a win. | /r/MensRights | 07/09/17 06:10 PM |
| -11 | Check Girls Out Mid-ConversationThis is something I do quite often, and have actually written about here several times. My favorite variation on this is, while she's talking, I put my fingers on her lips to stop her, and then say something like "damn, you really have a nice ass!" Most times, the reaction is a surprised gasp, to which I say, "sorry... you were saying?" | /r/seduction | 07/09/17 04:02 PM |
| 1 | «The Pretty Guy's Paradox»OKCupid. Tinder. Hinge. Bumble. etc. | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 09:31 PM |
| 1 | When I go out with a girl it feels "weird"Maybe you're gay? | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 07:58 PM |
| 1 | This is how to get comfortable in social situations. Contrary to what the pick up community says.You know nothing Jon Snow | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 05:38 PM |
| 1 | So tell me if I'm getting this right, the first step to success with women is to get rejected enough times to get used to it?Rejection is data. Use it to improve your approach. And yes, if you get rejected enough times that you're used to it, you will lose your fear of rejection and it will make your approaches more confident. | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 05:11 PM |
| 1 | is it ok to fuck your mother's friend?She's old and unattractive, and you want to fuck her? Jesus, man... | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 04:54 PM |
| 1 | Did you ever hook up with a friend of yours?Yeah, I have friends who know of me as a promiscuous cocksmith, and sometimes it happens that they're in a rut or something and they make a point of hanging out with me alone rather than in a group... and they always think they're being so clever to seduce me when in reality I just don't need much seducing. | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 04:46 PM |
| 2 | «The Pretty Guy's Paradox»There's too much focus around here on "daygame". Just improve yourself. Learn to be entertaining with people. Learn to be confident around people. Date a lot. Make mistakes, turn them into improvements, and watch how your results will change. | /r/seduction | 06/09/17 02:37 PM |
| 3 | «The Pretty Guy's Paradox»You're working too hard at your excuses. Just get out there and talk to people. | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 05:58 PM |
| -3 | 22 Never had a girlfriend, but lots of hookups, weird situationIt's the same as hooking up with a stranger, only you do it over and over every day. | /r/seduction | 05/09/17 03:41 PM |
| 3 | According to you, which is the most egalitarian (from an MRA perspective) country in the world? And Why?North Korea. With the exception of the ruling few, everyone in that country gets treated equally like dog shit. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/17 06:35 PM |
| 2 | When girls make eye contact with me multiple times I can't be repulsive right?She could just be studying your face to make sure she's able to identify you correctly to the police sketch artist after the rape she thinks you're going to do to her... | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 04:43 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else irritated when men are portrayed as creepy/violent stalkers?I'm tired of people extending their fears all the way to the extreme of rape... But let's be honest, guys. Our gender is filled with people who do creepy things and it's not unrealistic for women to be somewhat afraid when that happens. | /r/MensRights | 01/09/17 03:59 PM |
| 3 | I'm in an odd position...Say something in French, duh | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 03:54 PM |
| 1 | Sex is pleasurable because it's a release from deep lonelinessMy own take on sex (as a man) is that it's the ultimate form of conquest... When a man has sex, he's just punching his dick into literally anything, and doing that over and over until he comes. But when a woman has sex, she is literally submitting herself, opening her body, and allowing you to place your own body inside of her. It's a beautiful offering. The ultimate expression of trust. So for me, particularly in the case of the one night stand, to go from not knowing someone, to the point of m… | /r/seduction | 01/09/17 03:36 PM |
| 1 | So this article has been written by a white man...To be fair, this person could be writing about fashion crime, in which case the attached photo makes a lot of sense, and straight white men really are the problem! | /r/MensRights | 31/08/17 06:42 PM |
| – | Received a letter from "Past me", aged 22 when I first got into "game".Good for you, but... You keep saying "sexually intimate" rather than "had sex", which makes it sound to me like you're still a virgin, but you've started making out and touching private parts. Send yourself another letter. Promise that 2 years from now you're going to stop being mediocre and start being a man. | /r/seduction | 31/08/17 01:13 PM |
| 3 | Are men inherently dangerous to women? Does that opinion change if you find out that man is trans?Easier solution: let's just stop having restrooms that separate genders. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 07:33 PM |
| 2 | "All of my sister's professors look the sameFFS people, it's just a haircut. Tell that to the skinheads. | /r/MensRights | 30/08/17 02:02 PM |
| 3 | Do MRAs believe there are more than two genders?I refuse to speak for MRAs as a whole, and frankly am not even certain that I fully identify as MRA... however here is my opinion, and I'm pleased to see that in reading through this thread it seems to be a common opinion here: There are simply TWO genders. No amount of identity politics or surgery will ever put Bruce Jenner at risk of cervical cancer or make him have a period, no matter how much he insists you now call him Caitlyn. I support people doing what they feel, so long as it doesn't hu… | /r/MensRights | 29/08/17 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Any advice you would've liked to know in your teens?Do interesting things. Start early and do many of them. You'll have a hard time finding time later, when you have a job and a family. But in your teens, you can learn anything, travel anywhere, experience whatever you set your sights on. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 04:44 PM |
| 3 | Age old question-ONS without condom?How many of you have had ONS or FWB sex without condoms I've had tons. and how did you convince the girl Never set out to "convince" the girl. If you go to put your dick in her, and she says "not without a condom", then it would only make you a piece of shit if you proceeded to try to change her mind at that moment. and how did you trust her? I generally make my choices based on lifestyle and perceived risk. A professional single mother working in an office doesn't want to put her kid at risk by… | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 03:17 PM |
| 0 | This whole attitude of "not giving a fuck to get laid" is kind of a copout...If that's what helps you sleep at night, you're welcome to believe it. | /r/seduction | 29/08/17 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Field Report: Got dumped after threesomeShe usually comes back after a blowup, but I have never seen a blowup from her of this magnitude. She has to keep raising the stakes. Sex is your thing, but drama is her thing. Think of it as a shit test. You raised the stakes when you walked in with a hot chick, and now she feels entitled to raise the stakes with her drama. I think where you fucked up the most was that you didn't fuck that chick while LTR was still there. She needed to see that. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/08/17 06:26 PM |
| 16 | I have a legitimate question a out rape laws.Just be careful what you do while in college. That's where most of the petty rape accusations happen. When you get older, you'll find that people get drunk and fuck all the time. | /r/PussyPassDenied | 25/08/17 04:41 PM |
| 0 | How do you avoid being the stereotype of your race?Keep your hair stylish. Dress like a bad boy. Throw away the video games. Learn some masculine hobbies, such as auto repair. Buy a Harley-Davidson. Follow some professional sports, especially Hockey. Pay attention to popular culture. Know what's going on in Game of Thrones and Walking Dead, and at least know the names of a couple of Kardashians. | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 04:24 PM |
| 2 | Guys who get laid a lot, how often do you masturbate normally?Background: I get laid pretty regularly. Depending on who I see in a given week, it can be from 3 days a week up to all 7 days. Most of my sexcapades last for an hour or more, and I've been known to have sex 2 or 3 times in a day, often with different people. Now, here's the thing: 75% of the time, I don't reach orgasm during sex. Like, I can fuck a girl for 1-2 hours and never come. So after a few days of this, I feel things are built up in me and after the girl falls asleep I'll sneak off to t… | /r/seduction | 25/08/17 03:15 PM |
| 1 | is it ok to lose your virginity in brothel?Are you in the US? Because if so, I would suggest that your first sexual experience shouldn't involve a brothel... simply due to the fact that finding a trustworthy brothel in the US isn't exactly an easy thing. It's a big enough risk just using Backpage. However, if you're outside of the US, brothels are very safe and friendly, and generally cheaper too. I didn't lose my virginity to a sex worker, but I have paid for it on a number of occasions, and it's totally been worthwhile. I say go do it.… | /r/seduction | 24/08/17 07:22 PM |
| 8 | Has anyone around 19 hooked up with a cougar? How did you do it?When I was 19, I worked with a hot woman of 31. We flirted a lot and eventually managed to hook up. Eventually led to us living together and lasted nearly a year. Can't say I had any method you could follow... I just had confidence and mystery on my side, and probably fairly good looks. | /r/seduction | 14/07/17 08:01 PM |
| 1 | Advice on work game situationFirst. Don't date a coworker. Second. Stop overthinking things. Third. Did I mention that you shouldn't date a coworker? | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 07:48 PM |
| 2 | I Cannot Flirt If My Life Depended On It..Stop overthinking things and start having fun. | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 07:31 PM |
| 3 | I Cannot Flirt If My Life Depended On It..Just loosen up and have fun. And stop saying "I can't". Start saying "how can I?". | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 07:15 PM |
| 4 | I don't feel I'll satisfy women in bed.Gotta crawl before you can walk. Just get in there and disappoint. Then get the experience to stop disappointing. For what it's worth, I can orgasm in under 2 minutes by masturbation, yet I can fuck for hours. You know your body and you're seeking an orgasm when you do it yourself. She won't know your body, and you can change your mental state to stop seeking orgasm. But that's all stuff you'll learn through experience. Stop overthinking it and just go do it. | /r/seduction | 21/06/17 04:51 AM |
| 22 | Is there an app?Contacts.app Works well. Just open it and tap the + to add a new contact. Then walk up to a woman and ask her to fill it in. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 05:32 PM |
| 12 | I'm An AFC, What Programs Should I Follow?Start by not capitalizing every word in your sentences. | /r/seduction | 20/06/17 04:34 PM |
| 7 | Kissing a date - Gut feelingYou're thinking about it too much. If you just do it immediately as soon as the thought enters your mind, you won't have time to get nervous. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 08:05 PM |
| 4 | Guys could anybody care to explain me what's difference between 'seduction' subreddit and 'theredpill' subreddit? Which one is better and why?Skip TRP. It's mostly misogynists lashing out their hatred for women. Hasn't been decent posts there in a long time. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 07:21 PM |
| 1 | Tinder - texting - need advice how not to fuck upIf you keep forcing the topic of sex, it's going to make her skeptical about the date. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 07:18 PM |
| 1 | Body language help - mixed signalsText to tell her you had a good time. Don't try to start a conversation by text. If she starts it, that's fine, but if you try it will look clingy. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Body language help - mixed signalsYou're looking far too deep for signals. Did she smile? Laugh at your jokes? Seem to be having a good time? Or was it a boring conversation in which you interviewed one another about how many siblings you have and what restaurants you like? | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Body language help - mixed signalsI probably would've grabbed the thigh and massaged it lmao ffs. You're creepy. Is it autism? | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 06:29 PM |
| 6 | REJECTIONGo get rejected. Then take a look around. Nothing has changed. The same girl you weren't fucking is still not fucking you. Everything in your life is exactly as it was before the rejection. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Meaningless postShould have had her blow you. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:04 PM |
| 17 | A girl saw me checking out another girl, after checking her out. she also checked out the other girl too. why is that?Women are constantly sizing up the competition. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 05:02 PM |
| 54 | Had sex, she friendzoned.Sex wasn't very good... and afterward, you got clingy and needy. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 01:37 PM |
| 4 | Going to Europe for 6 months, how to take advantage?Tinder. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 01:36 PM |
| 0 | Does anyone else feel weird dating "good girls" after improving ?"Good girls" is about the rapey-est choice of words possible. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 11:44 AM |
| 1 | what jokes make a girl laugh whilst texting?Ask her out. I'm sure she'll laugh about that. | /r/seduction | 19/06/17 11:43 AM |
| 0 | If women find my face repulsive, is there really any point to approaching them?No, you're just an idiot. If you directed all this energy toward self improvement, rather than spending all your time whining on the internet, you'd be doing great. I don't know what you're gaining from all this whining. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 03:58 PM |
| 0 | If women find my face repulsive, is there really any point to approaching them?Dude, you need to stop. You're just pissing us off. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 03:48 PM |
| 4 | When and how should I touch a girl?You sound autistic as fuck. Try being subtle, dude. Place your hand on the small of her back as you tell her a secret. Or put your hand on her forearm as you share a laugh. | /r/seduction | 16/06/17 03:04 PM |
| 1 | Is seduction and flirting possible with texting and messaging or is it more effective face to face?There are things you can do via text that can help, and flirting is possible, but it's generally a bad idea and there are too many ways for it to go wrong. Just text to set up the date, and then flirt and seduce on the date. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Girls go COLD at me after pulling themDo you have alcohol at your flat? Do you take the time to make them a drink and chat a bit? Or are you just pulling them in the door and saying something really awkward/creepy like "care for a quick shag?" | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 09:39 PM |
| 2 | Is this a shit test? Should I be persistent or back out?There's no shit test here. This chick isn't interested. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 08:28 PM |
| 2 | List of SIMPLE questions. Can you add more?When will you go home? Creepy | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Is it worth going for a girl that doesn't even notice you?That's nonsense. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 06:45 PM |
| 7 | Is it worth going for a girl that doesn't even notice you?Yes. What the fuck difference does it make if she's noticed you? | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 06:39 PM |
| 9 | I can not flirt. I don't have the basic understanding...Last night, the bartender was wearing a low-cut top. When she bent down to scoop ice, she (unknowingly) had the boobs on a nice display. After she handed me my drink, I smiled and said, "I think I need more ice". As she bent down to get some more ice, I smiled and said "yeah, like that...." and then she realized what was going on. THAT is flirting. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 06:39 PM |
| 3 | At what point is the girl you are seeing your girlfriend?It should just start to become obvious, I think. Do you hang out in private, spend a lot of time indoors? You might be FWB. Do you hang out in public, meet each other's friends/family? Do people you know ask about her? Do people she knows ask about you? She might be your girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 06:24 PM |
| 3 | She's already sending me pretty sexy pictures, how can I ask for more without being rude or disrespectful.First, to answer your question... always compliment what she sends. "Oh sexy!" That sort of thing. Make her feel rewarded for sharing, rather than making it sound like nothing is ever enough. Then, occasionally drop something like "I'm dying to see what's under there". But just occasionally. Second, however.... nude pics — especially on Snapchat — aren't really valuable in any way. You should be working on seeing her naked IN PERSON, rather than on your damn phone. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 05:48 PM |
| 1 | There are people out there who learned game from a wikihow article.They make money by getting people results No. They make money by convincing people to pay for their products. The actual effectiveness is tangential at best. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 05:43 PM |
| 1 | There are people out there who learned game from a wikihow article.RSD going out of business This spells out perfectly why I hate people quoting RSD all the time. Remember fellas.... RSD is a business. Their incentive is to make money. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 02:36 PM |
| 1 | Do conventional opening lines work?The big hurdle is just speaking. If you open a conversation, most people will at least humor you for a few moments. That's the period of time in which you establish that you're worth talking to. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 02:28 PM |
| 4 | Why do I fear rejection even though I'm good looking?Fear of rejection has nothing to do with your looks. Fear of rejection is related to a basic need to be seen as successful. So think about what success looks like: In a sample size of 1, a single success means 100% success and a single failure means 0% success. This makes your stakes extremely high, and your fear will consume you. However, in a sample size of 10, a single success or failure only represents 10%. And in a sample size of 100, it's only 1%. If you approach 10 girls, you're certain t… | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 02:22 PM |
| 11 | Is anyone here that feels limited to only using tinder?Do what works for you. Tinder is just one of many possible avenues for meeting people. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 01:55 PM |
| 28 | Is anyone here that feels limited to only using tinder?I think too many people in this sub focus too much on "daygame" and cold approach, as if it's the only way. Tinder is a perfectly fine avenue for meeting people and is still 100% relevant to seduction. | /r/seduction | 15/06/17 01:51 PM |
| 1 | Just pictures thats allI suppose that depends who you ask... | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 04:14 AM |
| 3 | How to get ever a girl who you had a very brief relationship with. I find that I have put her on a pedestal. I struggle to move on, meet new people, and stop carrying about in general.You have very low self esteem. Which means you're probably right. But it's only right because you make it right. Raise your opinion of yourself. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 02:28 AM |
| 5 | How to get ever a girl who you had a very brief relationship with. I find that I have put her on a pedestal. I struggle to move on, meet new people, and stop carrying about in general.If a girl ghosted me and reached out a year later, honestly, I'd go out with her again... but only to fuck her in some very kinky ways, and then kick her to the curb the way that she did to me. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 02:22 AM |
| 1 | TextingSounds like you're handling it correctly. If she's reaching out, respond. But do it at an appropriate pace... not too eagerly. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Rate 1-10 my outfit to go sarging at 16?Like I said... | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What does 'frame' mean in seduction lingo?I may be wrong but frame could be used interchangeably with masculinity or ability to lead. Yeah, you're wrong. Frame has nothing to do with that. Look at the world in front of you. Now, take out your camera and look at the world through it's lens. That is a frame. It's the portion of reality that matters for your purpose. It's like the artist who did a series on reality vs instagram. The instagram portion is frame. | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 01:54 AM |
| 2 | Rate 1-10 my outfit to go sarging at 16?You ain't built for sarging at 16, LOL! | /r/seduction | 13/06/17 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with your barber fucking up on your haircut?Ever heard of a hat? | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:39 PM |
| 1 | What to do after sex?Stop worrying so much. Just ask her to hang out again after a few days. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:35 PM |
| 5 | What does 'frame' mean in seduction lingo?It means the same thing in any lingo. It's a psychological term. It's the implications, or subtext, of any particular line of communication or interaction. Imagine for example that you are talking to a girl as if she already wants you. That's your frame. Now she may say things in attempt to shoot you down or test you or even outright reject you... all of these things are aimed to break your frame. If you just continue to act as you were, regardless of her responses, that's maintaining your frame… | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | Am I putting guys off by sleeping with them on the second date?Haha. What gave it away? | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Just pictures thats allFaker. Pretender. Charlatan. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 10:08 PM |
| 3 | Accept masculinity?It all sounds so unproblematic on paper and I don't really think I'm a worse person for it. I disagree... it sounds terrible on paper, and I agree that you're a worse person for it. You've been the victim of the modern feminist movement. Probably raised by your mother in a single-parent home, taught by women in school, and indoctrinated with all the present day's ideas about feminism and "destroying the patriarchy". It's toxic. It doesn't simply prop women up, as they claim... it actually pushes… | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 10:07 PM |
| 2 | Blocking girl on Snapchat?Nudes are worthless anyway, but they're even more worthless on Snapchat. If you want a nude photo to count, it should be one that she let you take of her. But seriously, fuck nudes. I want to see my girls naked in person. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 09:56 PM |
| 1 | Blocking girl on Snapchat?Man up and just delete Snapchat. That thing is just a source of confusion and misdirection. There's nothing direct about communication there. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 09:51 PM |
| 1 | Am I putting guys off by sleeping with them on the second date?Wouldn't put me off. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 09:32 PM |
| 12 | I feel sort of guilty for sleeping with girls?Look: there's no reason to even think about any of that shit until it's actually been discussed. If nobody has mentioned having expectations, then it's just sex and no one has a right to be upset afterward. Stop overthinking it. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Fearing STD'sI don't have it so I can't speak to how painful it is, but my understanding is that it's a bit sore during an outbreak, but not debilitating. And when there's no outbreak, there's no problem. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 04:35 PM |
| 9 | I feel sort of guilty for sleeping with girls?Ya know... it IS possible for women to just want sex too... | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 03:48 PM |
| 3 | One line description of how Ive come to understand game.I'm fond of this one: It's the woman's job to change the man. It's the man's job not to let her. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 08:41 AM |
| 2 | Fearing STD'sFirst, herpes isn't that big of a deal. A lot of people have it and continue to live fairly normal lives. Sure, you don't want it if you don't have it, but it's not going to kill you. The rest should scare you much more... When choosing partners - particularly if you're not using protection - choose people who don't appear to be obvious drug users, and who don't seem to be inclined toward poor decision making. For example, single mothers don't like to take risks. Similarly, married women don't w… | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 04:46 AM |
| 1 | Just pictures thats allA poser is someone who pretends to be some thing or things that they are not, in order to gain status and/or achieve some goal. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 04:22 AM |
| 12 | Guide to getting drinks with a girl?When "grabbing a drink", you just get together, have a fun conversation, and hopefully do some flirting to make the whole experience fun. If flirting is going well, throw in a kiss and see where it goes. | /r/seduction | 12/06/17 04:21 AM |
| 1 | How did you reacted to being rejected?You're too invested in a person. Invest in yourself instead. There's always someone else out there. And she'll choose you when you're invested in yourself rather than into your need for her. | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 09:59 PM |
| 2 | Just pictures thats allFirst: This question doesn't belong here. Second: She's either a poser or a chronic liar. Third: Why the fuck are you so deep into her life that you're seeing her photos and how she chooses to describe them? | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 09:26 PM |
| 2 | Dating the oneitis.Date others. Meet others. Do what it takes to develop an abundance mindset so that when you're with the one you prefer, you're not desperate for her. Otherwise, you're going to be entirely clingy/needy and you're going to drive her away. | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 09:20 PM |
| 2 | Every guy i know thinks im a good looking guy but no girl seems toEver considered that if a woman says she's seeing someone, maybe it just means that she's seeing someone? | /r/seduction | 11/06/17 03:35 AM |
| 1 | How old are you??Her: "how old are you?" Me: "what difference does it make?" | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 05:55 PM |
| 0 | 2nd girl to tell me about someone else she banged while we had our first couple datesI don't see the problem. Personally, I like to know a girl is sexually active... it means we're probably gonna bang! | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Now that I'm finally realizing online dating is a waste of time for black men, I'm ready to approach random women but think I'm somehow in the wrong....Ugh. Are you back again already? Don't you usually take a longer break before returning to troll all the dating subreddits? | /r/seduction | 10/06/17 05:29 PM |
| 2 | How do you get better at text game?Do not try to have a conversation by text. It's inherently a bad idea. Use text for logistics. | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 07:47 PM |
| 2 | Is it racist to not find white women that attractive?People see nothing wrong with expressing a preference for hair color, or height, or butt size, but they so often seem uncomfortable with someone having a preference for a particular race. That's just ignorance. You like what you like. They can fuck off. | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 07:44 PM |
| 1 | How to sex on a first meetup (Tinder, etc), now with added logistics challenges?Just ask her. | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 07:38 PM |
| 3 | Swagger in your WalkCombination of both. I've patterned my walk after aspects of other people whose swagger I respected, but I notice that my own confidence brings it out and adds a uniqueness that people remark about often. | /r/seduction | 03/06/17 03:03 PM |
| 2 | Going to get burned... again. Or am I?Dude, you're way too needy. After just two days you're already overthinking the amount of communication you've had. Just chill, bro. | /r/seduction | 22/05/17 04:39 PM |
| 1 | I think I might have fucked up. Not sure.Coming over for sex is a spontaneous thing. When she said she's not free until next week, you should have understood that to be a dating context, rather than a quick hookup. | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 09:03 PM |
| 1 | I think I might have fucked up. Not sure.It certainly does seem to imply that you're coming over to fuck, and if you enjoy it she'll get to have a date afterward... | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 09:01 PM |
| 17 | My weight issue has been hurting my game..Any advice guys? Yes. Stop shoving food in your face, idiot. What else did you think we were going to say? If you cook for 4, eat for one and put the other three in the refrigerator for later. | /r/seduction | 18/05/17 06:26 PM |
| -1 | I got tricked and exposed ...Idiot. You don't meet people off of Instagram. How many times do I have to say it? | /r/seduction | 17/05/17 03:21 PM |
| 1 | Would you pick up on high schoolersOne person's opinion. | /r/seduction | 17/05/17 05:35 AM |
| 1 | How long did it take to get good?Agreed, but the changing point is still definitely when you make the conscious choice to change, no? | /r/seduction | 17/05/17 03:48 AM |
| 1 | Would you pick up on high schoolersWell 14 only by a week. 15. But still far younger than I thought. And def younger than I felt good about. | /r/seduction | 17/05/17 01:05 AM |
| 2 | How long did it take to get good?It takes only one moment to get good. The problem is, that moment comes at a different pace for everyone... for some people never. The moment that matters is when you stop doing what society raised you to do, or what Hollywood taught you to do, or what your mom told you to do.... It's when you learn how to stop believing what you've been told. It's when you stop trying to fit your experiences into the definitions you've been given, and finally start fitting your definitions around the experience… | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 10:17 PM |
| 5 | How to game over Snapchat?P.S. I hit on girls in real life too. I just wanna get the best of both worlds. But wait a second.... I thought you already were getting the best of both worlds... why do you suddenly need help? | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 09:56 PM |
| 3 | How to game over Snapchat?Watch your mouth, son. You just got valid advice. No need to go cursing at it because you didn't hear what you wanted to hear. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Can girls give go-to signals over social media?You're actually bragging about hitting on girls. I'm talking about having them actually come fuck. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 09:45 PM |
| 1 | Can girls give go-to signals over social media?"network"? Come on, man. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 09:38 PM |
| 1 | The beginning of a new seductionSo much *this*. I'm 41 and I bang in the range of 50 different chick per year, most of them in their 20s. I've just recently spent the last 12 days with a 22-year-old at my side and in my bed who's seriously in love with me. It pains me how these younger, more attractive "boys" don't even have the balls to make a move and then they come to the internet to whine about it and ask for advice. Kids... just fucking do it. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 09:35 PM |
| 1 | Can girls give go-to signals over social media?Dude, come on. You can do better than creeping on strangers over social media. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 09:19 PM |
| 3 | Would you pick up on high schoolersAt 18, I hooked up with a girl. Hot as hell, fun to be around. I always had a thing for her, so I was thrilled when I finally got at it. The next day she asked if I'd join her for her birthday next week... she was going to be 15. I nearly puked. And I never talked to her again. At 21, I was about to hook up with a girl. She told me she was married, but her husband was a dick and she was going to leave him. I figured "married" was a good enough sign that she was of age. Then when we're in my bed,… | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 08:49 PM |
| 4 | does it matter if youre fat?Depends on the person. Are you looking for someone who you find attractive? And are you expecting to get that person while not giving them the same in return? If you're okay with dating someone as fat as you, then I'm sure you'll be fine. But seriously... why not just lose the weight? Just fucking reduce the amount of food you shove into your cake-eater, and maybe spend some time exercising now and then. It's good for your health, and good for your own self-esteem, and as a bonus it will also ma… | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 08:41 PM |
| 1 | Is she out of my league?Stop it. Seriously. | /r/seduction | 16/05/17 08:33 PM |
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