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Id love to hear ant HR or boss consider firing someone over asking that they treat them like a human being. If so, its not an environment u should be workig in anyways
/r/askTRP07/08/18 10:12 PM
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reread what i actually wrote.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:58 PM
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she's pushing you cause she's disgusted at the fact that you'll just take shit like that. Next time she is disrespectful, you look her right in the eye with a face that says "little child, are you being serious?", like a parent would to a child who just fucked up. Then you're gonna say, "how about you ask politely like a decent human being". It doesnt come from raging hot anger, it comes from a "are you serious, u little shit" frame. but that's only the outer aspect of it. If you don't firmly be…
/r/askTRP07/08/18 08:45 PM
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the subtext that u didnt care comes through more for women then your actual words. Obviously don't go around saying just about anything, but its the vibe you give off that matters more
/r/askTRP23/07/18 06:36 PM
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who the fuck cares? Get the fuck out of your oneitis and move on and stop creeping on her.
/r/askTRP18/07/18 05:06 PM
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good luck mate.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 06:28 PM
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based entirely on how you responded, i'm gonna guess that you're asian. Even if you're not though, the whole "ill help out first, maybe they'll scratch my back later" mentality does fuck all in countries like the US. You have to do whatever gets you ahead and if that means that you lose your job but keep you self respect in tact, then do it. Granted, have other job options lined up, but once people have you pegged as the guy who isn't aggresive and doesnt speak up, it will anger them to see you …
/r/askTRP17/07/18 05:35 PM
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you give too many fucks about other people's opinions of you and you fear repercussion. You also falsely assume that if you're nice to people, they'll be nice to you back. People are dumb as hell. Most times, they'll just be mean to you based on nothing but how you look. Don't give them more credit than they actually deserve shown through their actions. While you focus on giving less fucks, join a very physically demanding team sport like rugby. It'll bring the aggression out of you while also t…
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:48 PM
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self esteem and confidence are symptoms of no longer giving a shit. You stop giving a shit when you care about the opinion of yourself and your own personal endeavors more than anyone else's.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:41 PM
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The frame of mind that worked for me so far is that anyone who has to put someone else down is a socially awkward, autistic, insecure, try hard neckbeard. It doesnt matter what they actually look like, you should just assume that they are and then clown on them. Mock and point out their deficiencies since everyone has something. Be sarcastic, and genuinely feel like they're beneath you. A lot of getting picked on stems from being too open minded and not judgemental enough. Sometimes its ok to be…
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:05 AM
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I was bamboozlin
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:53 PM
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if you want a dark and dreary type of vibe i'd suggest looking at /r/deadbedrooms
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:25 PM
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Everything you're saying is right, but everyone's situations are different. Im 5'6 and a racial minority. I've never let this stop me from getting really hot girls as i tend to date up due to being an extremely social butterfly. However, it's also not hard for me to find guys who are a lot taller than i am, who are just as charismatic constantly hitting up my gf, thus i'm in a scenario where i'm more disposable than not. When I dated down, this was never an issue but I'm going off what I realist…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 04:53 PM
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glad that worked out for you. Even so, AWALT is AWALT and you can do everything right and still have the girl leave if she thinks she can do better. I no longer see LTR as being that long term anymore, especially not with modern dating so even if I am upfront in the beginning of the relationship about what my boundaries are (which i am), I don't put all my eggs in one basket. Maybe I'm doing it wrong but it's worked out for me thus far.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:46 PM
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this girl bought plane tickets to fly across an ocean to suck your dick. shut up and let her suck ur dick.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 03:42 PM
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as someone who's been in quite a few LTR's, never forget that she's not yours. It's just your turn. I have a big rule for myself whenever i decide to enter an LTR and that is: my gf's free to do whatever she wants but as soon as she does, i will do the same as her. is she texting with some guy in front of me? No problem, I can hit up any of the girls who want to be with me in front of her. Does she want to spend more time with another guy? That's cool, I have options to hang out with other girls…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:52 PM
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glad it helped. good luck with your stuff.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:43 PM
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then don't do it. If you let the opinions' of other people dictate what hobbies you should and shouldn't do, then you're no different from a boy.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:43 PM
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appreciate it
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:40 PM
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not mindless responsibility. Think of 2 things you want to do with your life. Having a great body, having a great job, having lots of friends. Regardless of what they are, just choose them and immediately take massive fucking action. No reading books on how to get it done, just fucking go. If there's ever a life lesson i'll pass down to my kids, it's that nothing will ever beat taking action. Studying on the intricacies comes AFTER, not before, doing the action itself. You will never not be than…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 02:36 AM
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if you're talking about going from a boy to a man, you gotta go through adversity. That's just how it is. Go through some serious shit in your life until you reach your "Fuck it" point. That's not to say you need to purposefully fuck up your own life, youll have your own shit to go through as you get older, but do shit that's challenging and keep going. Learn to fight. Learn to win fights. Learn to climb mountains and to win in competitive team events. If shit's hard but you have to do it to rea…
/r/askTRP12/07/18 12:05 AM
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if the redpill is about discovering truth, then one truth that's hard to swallow is that social media matters this day and age. Just to be clear, there's a huge distinction between someone who's posting shit JUST to show off and someone who's posting a lot of content because they're genuinely involved in so many things in their lives. I'm advocating for the latter. One consistent thing Ive seen with my friends who dont have a solid social circle and who always complain about being bored but neve…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 11:40 PM
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So from years of traveling around and constantly having to reestablish new relationships and social circles as an adult, here's what you do: take a break from those friends you keep contacting. the more frequently YOU try to contact them without them reciprocating, the lower your worth becomes to them in their eyes. Take a serious break. sit down and really think for a few minutes about "what do I want for MY life"? And whatever it is, just fucking do it even if you're doing it by yourself. Wann…
/r/askTRP11/07/18 08:17 PM
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as others have said, your give a fuck levels too high. Instead of reacting with anger or shock, its better to be unfazed (maybe cause you're too tired or fed up with the day to really give a shit) or like they're morons (if u have more energy)
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:59 PM
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basically for minorities, we have to go towards the opposite direction of our stereotypes to stand out. i'm asian, the stereotype is that i'm a quiet nerd. I work out, I choose to dress DOWN, and I'm typically the loudest guy in the room. Black stereotypes are that they're generally fit but not smart (i didnt' make these stereotypes, they are what they are). You stand out by dressing UP, having a nice watch, and being more stoic That's not to say disregard working out. Absolutely keep on lifting…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:56 PM
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depends on what you want from her. a date or a plate.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:50 PM
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I've been with a lot of women and your gf sounds like she's insecure as fuck and that she tried to put all her fucked up problems on you. If she said that shit to you, she's gonna say that shit to a lot of other guys she's either been or will be with. you defeat your insecurities by reaching the "fuck it" point, where you just dont give a shit about what anyone thinks about u any more and all u care about is doing what you like and what's best for you. It's not something that can be taught. You …
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:49 PM
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The way i've gotten around this is to accept that no matter what this woman says, she's probably going to text someone else to bang the moment i leave. Is it healthy? Probably not, but it's a crutch that's helped me much more than hurt me.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:45 PM
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nothing wrong with having female friends if you don't give a shit about having sex with them. Just don't become their emotional tampon.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:42 PM
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you reacted like someone who's massively insecure would react.
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:40 PM
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As a former walking insult dumpster, the biggest difference between me now and me 7 years ago is inner acceptance and outtee judgement. My default perspective used to be, "how am i gonna be fucked with today?". I was full of anxiety and i was miserable. These days its, "im a pretty alright guy. Most people are chill af. Some people wont like me and thats ok. And if there are ever people out there who are gonna clown me before they even know me, then theyre huge aspie incels with tiny peckers". I…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 10:12 PM
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damn well aesthetically you're doing realllly well for your numbers.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 07:57 PM
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whats your ohp btw? and people on /r/brogress or /r/fitness actually know their stuff so no need to not post on those subreddits. It depends on your goals. If you wanna cut down for the rest of the summer we have left, you'd probably look alright. if you're okay with gaining bit more mass (fat included) then continue to bulk and get your numbers up cause for your height your numbers are pretty low
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:38 PM
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catch all of them so you dont' have to worry any more
/r/askTRP06/07/18 06:30 PM
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Been there. your life is eerily similar to mine. Nothing in life will ever beat massive action and letting go of resisting work. You don't force yourself to work, you just let go of the opposition to it. Stop reading, stop theorizing, just take massive action in every aspect that you want to improve in and eventually the chips will fall into place.
/r/TheRedPill05/07/18 05:27 PM
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i know. she's giving u last minute shit test cause she's about to flake. thus "k" or ignoring it is the best option.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:16 PM
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next level
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:13 PM
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the more shits you give, the less power you have. you too have the ability to be flirty with everyone and anyone and ur gf needs to know that. You're not someone who she should risk pulling that shit on because you have the power to walk away into an even hotter girls arms.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 04:00 PM
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"k" you're the buyer. walk away if she's too high maintenance cause you're giving too many fucks.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 03:56 PM
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Assuming its the average "alpha" and not some super celebrity, girls are just genuinely a lot friendlier, open to joking around, hugging, etc.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:12 PM
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i gotcha, i thought i was just saying he was always depressed
/r/askTRP04/07/18 01:30 AM
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i've found finding a goal you want to passionately pursue in your life's a great way to snap yourself out of depression. sleep well and focus and motivate yourself towards whatever goals you want to achieve. discipline is massive but finding new ways and reason to motivate yourself is just as important
/r/askTRP03/07/18 11:11 PM
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if he's a good friend to you, who's loyal, has your back, and supports your endeavors, then who the fuck cares. Not everyone can be "red pilled" and people dont change unless something in their life causes them to finally reach the "fuck it" threshold.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:48 PM
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Do your tinder pics display "im only here to fuck" or are they "im a cool guy whod like to go on fun adventures and explore the city" kinda vibe? Your pictures will give a really clear message as to what u want
/r/askTRP03/07/18 01:08 PM
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you're 18... if u really need to get ur virginity out asap go find a hooker. otherwise know that the majority of guys you age havent lost theirs either. the more you pressure yourself the more youll fuck it up for urself. losing ur virginity isnt anything anyone can ever teach u in a class. its only through trial and error and learning from ur experiences that u can get a girl to hook up with u consentually
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:06 AM
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dread isnt something you actively do. it's a by product of you placing your own interests first. You got a huge multi-million dollar deal coming up and she wants to cuddle, you wouldnt be "dreading" her. You'd be working your ass off for that deal for yourself. Is she treating u badly and you have free time? Well screw hanging out with her then, go watch a movie, hang out with the bros, work out, whatever makes you happy for you. Dread is almost always passive
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:40 PM
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what the actual fuck is this shit...
/r/askTRP02/07/18 08:36 PM
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ah gotcha. join any serious sports teams. great way to meet fellow athletic guys who u can bro out with. I joined rugby when i moved. best decision of my life
/r/askTRP02/07/18 07:01 PM
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yessir. nyc's got an endless amount of meet ups, clubs, and sports teams u can join. meetup.com
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:50 PM
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girls go to parties where they expect important men to be at. make awesome guy friends. not to get pussy but simply to have awesome guy friends. this shit doesnt happen over night if u wanna do it right.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:46 PM
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yes. its a symptom of you giving too many fucks.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:42 PM
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"i want to plate this girl. i dont wanna blow the texting game" there's your problem. You give a shit what she thinks of you or what the outcome will be. Go talk to a few girls that you truly couldn't give a shit whether or not if they ever responded or even look at ur text. Someone you absolutely dont care for. Then remember that emotion and frame of mind when ure texting her and carry it over to every girl u ever meet.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:40 PM
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go out there and keep trying very hard to make friends until you get rejected enough times that you finally say "fuck it. fuck these people. fuck needing validation. Im just gonna be fine with whoever the fuck i am as a person and if anyone has a problem with that then its their problem". At that point people will realize you're not trying anymore and they'll want to be ur friend
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:37 PM
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your profile screams: im fit but i have no friends nor do i do anything interesting in my free time except work out. Not mean to diss you but objectively thats what the girls will be thinking
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:34 PM
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read what you wrote. you're basically giving all your energy and commitment to people who dont matter for a company that doesnt really give a shit about u. that screams try hard. the story would be very different if it was your own company and you were hustling to get every customer you could get to grow your own business. instead your wasting your valuable energy on pleasing others. Think about that. there's nothing wrong with being pleasant, there's something wrong with trying to go above and …
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:32 PM
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social proof + preselection will carry you hard my friend. go out there to make friends and have fun.
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 03:12 PM
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ur stoicism is different than the stoicism that men aspire to. Being stoic because you're dead inside and just trying to get through life is different than stoic because you ONLY give a fuck about yourself and your goals. People fuck with the first type of stoic because he's got nothing to do and he looks like he's about to give up. If you're busting your ass out there every minute of the day because you want to achieve great finances, a hot body, amazing social circles, and an interesting life,…
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:47 PM
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hahahaha thank you, i needed this joke today
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 02:42 PM
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or just be completely average
/r/TheRedPill02/07/18 02:25 PM
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people dont want men to be bubbly sources of high positive energy. That's reserved for boys or girls. They pick on you because it comes across as you're trying too hard to please everyone and not someone who's grounded.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:14 PM
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it sounds like your previous behavior was the clown of the group. people are see through the "trying to be stoic" facade. Real stoicism isn't faked. it's you having gone through so much bullshit in your life that you literally have no fucks left to give. And i mean a massive amount of bullshit where you're like fuck everyone and everything, i'm gonna do me. You can't fake that.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:10 PM
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the real answer why.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 02:07 PM
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Yeah but a misinformed one at that. People actually tend to believe asians can only be nerds and nothing else
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:33 PM
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Am asian and lived in asia, its only the bottom 80% that suffers this way just like anywhere else
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:01 PM
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Not actually true if u live in china for any extended period of time. Just like the Us, the top 20% get all the pussy
/r/askTRP29/06/18 06:01 PM
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depending on where you live in the US, online dating is stacked against u cause of ur race. thats fact. but that doesnt mean you're fucked. go out, expand your social circle, be cool with everyone, and social proof will get you soo many chances. Social proof is like good looks on crack if it's good enough. It means you get to fuck up multiple times and the girl still wants you. Work on making extroverted party friends and your success will also skyrocket.
/r/TheRedPill19/06/18 01:38 AM
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a 3 inch difference in height isnt nowhere near as big as someone who's 5'5 and 6ft. Bullying from these things happen and no matter how "strong" the 5'5 guy gets, he won't ever beat the 6ft guy who trains just as hard. That's not meant to discourage anyone, it's just fact. It's better to see reality for what it is and work around it than ignore all other options. you don't always need physical means to win. Winning through being more charasmatic or wittier is an amazing way to be on top. The gu…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 02:28 AM
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All these people who are telling you to lift have probably never experienced what its like to be bullied as a shorter guy. yes lifting is important but as a short guy who used to get bullied, you need massive social proof or u need to be the guy whos willing to get hit and still laugh at them for being pathetic
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:03 PM
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Everyone should lift. Having said that its not a win all strategy for bullying. If youre 5"5, no amount of lifting will make you bigger than the 6"6 guy who also lifts. Guys who will always be at a size disadvantage need other tactics for bullying like social proof and amoging through funny burns
/r/askTRP28/05/18 02:59 PM
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Jesus, did this really get 30+ upvotes? Wahhh hard working minorities who bust their asses off and spend hours trying to get ahead are takin my jobbss
/r/TheRedPill15/05/18 02:27 AM
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Well you have to think of it as a life long journey, not a rush. Men build their houses brick by boring brick until its finally a house.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 11:26 AM
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Its simple but incredibly difficult to implement long term. Discipline + controlling your emotions will take you very far.
/r/TheRedPill30/04/18 11:34 PM
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you have no idea how many people think Asian patriarchy's a thing since the Joy Luck Club era.
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