TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

DoersOfTheWord Archive

View 1 post and 70 comments by DoersOfTheWord on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Upvotes Title Category Author Subreddit Date (UTC)
0

DoersOfTheWord/r/RPChristians07/06/19 03:07 PM
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
2

Scientifically natural born babies have better outcomes specifically from immune response (celiac, allergies, etc.) We used "The Bradley Method". My wife wanted to go unmediated water birth and there was a hospital nearby that's friendly. Bradley teaches you how to deal with pushy medical staff and stick with your birth plan. We delivered our second at home, unplanned, just me and her. Be prepared, it's all very crunchy, but the people are generally nice.
/r/askRPC16/04/20 10:38 PM
7

Matthew 12: 43“When an unclean spirit goes out of a man, he goes through dry places, seeking rest, and finds none. 44Then he says, ‘I will return to my house from which I came.’ And when he comes, he finds it empty, swept, and put in order. 45Then he goes and takes with him seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter and dwell there; and the last state of that man is worse than the first. So shall it also be with this wicked generation.” The Bible is clear that you can't stop a …
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 01:45 PM
1

No point in asking, you won't get the real number. You're better off ball parking her number of partners based on her lifestyle.
/r/RPChristians10/04/20 01:40 PM
2

Mark is the fastest paced Gospel account. It's generally considered a good starting point if you're looking to keep people engaged and interested.
/r/askRPC03/04/20 05:23 PM
3

If someone breaks into your house, you would call the cops and expect them to use force to safeguard your family. So, you believe it's OK to use force to safeguard your family. Now, cutout the middleman.
/r/askRPC01/04/20 02:32 PM
1

Isn't that this? https://www.docdroid.net/05viVhA/rpc-full-compendium.pdf
/r/askRPC30/03/20 04:04 PM
1

Matthew 12: 43“When an unclean spirit goes out of a man, he goes through dry places, seeking rest, and finds none. 44Then he says, ‘I will return to my house from which I came.’ And when he comes, he finds it empty, swept, and put in order. 45Then he goes and takes with him seven other spirits more wicked than himself, and they enter and dwell there; and the last state of that man is worse than the first. So shall it also be with this wicked generation.” The Bible is clear that you can't stop a …
/r/askRPC30/03/20 01:51 PM
1

This is a scripture about Jeremiah specifically. Of course God knows the plans for all of us as a part of His omniscience. That doesn't determine where life begins because God's knowledge has no limits. God specifically kills children and orders the Israelites to do so in the OT. So I'd not rely on that too much with regards to the "Life is sacred" arguments. The best argument is that a Zygot is genetically unique and therefore a Person who is deserving of human/natural rights granted by God our…
/r/askRPC21/03/20 05:27 PM
1

Is plan B a form of abortion? Depends on how you define abortion. Some people believe life starts at conception. Others later on at heartbeats and brainwaves. Lastly, some believe life starts at birth. ​ Are there repercussions of contraceptives besides emotional mood swings & hormonal imbalance? Since they effect hormones, it can have a lot of side effects from mild to severe and a woman should work out the best options with her doctor. It's something that needs a lot of tuning and then still c…
/r/askRPC18/03/20 06:26 PM
2

Not really. Some we worry about visiting even if we could. It's mostly phone calls for now, but it's not the same.
/r/RPChristians17/03/20 04:27 PM
2

The elderly my wife and I normally minister too aren't accessible anymore because we aren't family :- (. Nursing homes are on lockdown.
/r/RPChristians17/03/20 02:11 PM
3

You should stop faking it. Not just the sex, all of it. You're enabling your husbands behavior. He has no reason to change or improve.
/r/RPChristians17/03/20 01:55 PM
3

Lucky. The world is your oyster.
/r/askRPC10/03/20 10:19 PM
2

This. Literally no one ever encouraged me to be strong. Now (in my forties) lifting hurts.
/r/askRPC10/03/20 08:01 PM
1

My struggle then is that I haven't been spoken to by God. How would you know? Even if God spoke to you very clearly, you could easily dismiss it. So from the start, you need to want to hear from God. You need to pray to hear from God. Then you need to be open to hear from God. Read his Word, journal your dreams, and increase your spiritual situational awareness.
/r/askRPC03/03/20 04:25 AM
1

God has shown Himself in amazing ways to me and my family, but I could easily just chalk it up to random chance. I could just dismiss my wife's healing as the placebo effect. I choose to believe because I want to. The Christian life gives me meaning and purpose. I choose to believe Jesus was real and died for my sins. Whether He's real or not, it requires faith either way. There is no proof that can't be faked or explained away. Faith *IS* the evidence of things unseen.
/r/askRPC01/03/20 07:58 PM
1

My Chinese professors in Chinese language classes taught me this. He, she and it are all “ta”
/r/RPChristians23/02/20 10:07 PM
1

Language is a funny thing. Chinese doesn't have a common pronoun for he/she. Everyone gets the pronoun "it" (ta). Makes me wonder how Chinese believers view the Bible differently than English believers, and more importantly, how English believers view it differently than the original writers intended. I hadn't heard that about the NIV, I stopped reading it when I was younger and switched to NLT. I'm sure every version has it's detractors but that seems pretty egregious and is a good reason to av…
/r/RPChristians20/02/20 08:48 PM
1

KJV will be particularly challenging to someone who speaks English is a second language. NIV is a better starting point IMO.
/r/RPChristians19/02/20 08:45 PM
1

Meet with a funeral director. They can help with the logistical arrangements. Condolences.
/r/askRPC18/02/20 02:33 PM
0

Also, I have seen people say that the Christian red pill ideas are too process/result oriented, and that it’s not accurate to how life works. What is your counterargument to that? All training works this way. Real life is messy but that doesn't mean you wing it and hope for the best.
/r/RPChristians18/02/20 05:37 AM
1

Fair enough. I should think these things will come up organically and not need to be drawn out interview style, but most important is how she is living.
/r/askRPC14/02/20 09:56 PM
1

No point in asking. Talk is cheap. Over time you'll learn the values she's living.
/r/askRPC14/02/20 03:04 PM
1

I'd move. You're basically burning money in Cali for no good reason. Not sure moving in with family is good but closer to home sounds better than what you're doing now.
/r/askRPC11/02/20 08:01 AM
3

I should mention you'll want to do a lot of research on curriculum. Once you control your kid's education, you don't need to follow the public model at all. Visit Yosemite and spend a month on science only. Done for the year. Blaze through algebra that's clicks with your kid, then crawl through geometry where they struggle. You're basically tailor making a curriculum that delivers the most value. Going to grocery store? Have the kids make a list (home ec.) or calculate prices (math) or discuss f…
/r/RPChristians04/02/20 11:57 PM
3

Normally the key factor is if your wife is game to take it seriously (which it honestly doesn't take much, just a couple hours a day and some intentionality). A bit of advice, when people ask why you're homeschooling, the best answer I've found is, "My wife used to teach, and the best class size is 1". This answers the underlying question: Are you qualified? And hits on a major problem with schools, huge class sizes with 30:1 ratios. These are apolitical answers that illicit no push back. Every …
/r/RPChristians04/02/20 11:46 PM
1

I get the socialization argument, I've met quite a few weirdo home schooled kids. But things are different now. My kids attend a number of coop functions and of course church events. There's a lot of socialization going on. That said, most of the weirdos you meet went to public school. I have a feeling it has more to do with the parents than the schooling choice. The idea that you're going to dump your impressionable and young kids in the cesspool so they can "toughen up" is just crazy talk to m…
/r/RPChristians03/02/20 01:40 AM
3

Ok, I posted that you should homeschool, but let me now tell you what to do if you decide against it. You (and your wife) will need to personally get heavily engaged in the PTA and you should know your school superintendent on a first name basis. Consider donating a small amount of money to all the candidates that run for that position so your name is on their lists. Meet with them regularly, if possible, introduce your kids to them too. Before your kids hit the school they are slated to attend,…
/r/RPChristians02/02/20 06:04 PM
2

Let me say that homeschooling can go very wrong. Lazy parents can park a kid in front of a computer and call it school. This will stunt your kids socially. OP will need to be intentional about engaging his kids in their education. That said, my wife's brother went to public school and eventually alternative school. He has major socialization issues and effectively his public schooling was just him in front of a computer.
/r/RPChristians02/02/20 05:47 PM
20

I home school. Here's some perspective. I used to be a teacher in middle school and high school. Public school is largely a joke. Out of the "eight" hours you spend there, you probably get two actual hours of instruction. Most of the time is spent managing that many kids. Everything just takes a lot of time. School year is 180 days. So if you can manage a couple hours a day of instruction, your kids will be smarter than every other kid their age. "But school is more than education, it's about so…
/r/RPChristians01/02/20 10:29 PM
2

Even in the NT when Jesus asks the Pharisees to answer his question about John the Baptist before he will answer their question... Dude was cunning.
/r/RPChristians29/01/20 08:36 PM
1

My career is separate from my mission. The poor in my area have no use for cloud architecture. But careers like law can lead to a lot of opportunity to minister to the poor since they end up interacting with the law (often unfairly).
/r/askRPC27/01/20 02:32 PM
2

Mine isn't. Externally, my wife and I minister to elderly people in our community. Some are already saved but despondent, other's aren't saved and indigent. Internally, I'm ushering my young children into a love of Christ and discipline.
/r/askRPC25/01/20 05:40 PM
2

... because I think that she will just get pregnant when she stops stressing about getting pregnant, but I also want to balance I take her seriously at the same time. This happened to us. The Mrs. and I were trying and she was stressing out. She wasn't working at the time (this was a dry run of her staying home to be a homemaker). After a year I called it and told her to get a job. She got pregnant the week she started.
/r/RPChristians23/01/20 05:56 PM
1

Side note: you'll pick up any language much faster while being there because you'll have to use it in an immersive environment. And you'll likely already be learning Koine Greek in seminary. So don't focus on that too much.
/r/askRPC23/01/20 03:53 PM
1

You nailed it with the old brother. Furiously jealous because his brother got to party but too weak and passive to follow his lead. Penultimate beta with covert contracts and passive aggressive behavior (he refuses to come inside and face his father and brother). This story, more than any in the Bible, is the story RP in a nutshell.
/r/askRPC16/01/20 03:42 PM
2

Just have more kids. It's what Catholics do so why fight it. You've got the money. Be fruitful and multiply. We need someone to be cranking out the faithful cause I got my tubes tied after my second.
/r/RPChristians15/01/20 05:36 PM
2

I'm "white" but actual racial DNA is a mess of Scandinavian, Portuguese, and a smidge of African. Everything is a mix from a DNA perspective. All marriages are interracial.
/r/askRPC14/01/20 04:38 PM
2

I feel the same, I just started reading it this year and my spidey sense was tingling with that first assertive right. Assertiveness is a funny thing. I've been going through the New Testament and (digitally) highlighting when Jesus was assertive. Spoiler, almost always. Even when He's just teaching, the people "were amazed because he taught with authority." It's strange because the picture of Jesus meek and mild is so prevalent, but there He is balling out religious leaders, overturning tables …
/r/askRPC14/01/20 04:01 AM
1

Well said.
/r/askRPC14/01/20 03:58 AM
1

Nope. Married over 20 years. People like to make excuses for why their marriage failed. Our parents weren't Christians, we did this sin, porn, money, etc, etc.
/r/askRPC14/01/20 03:54 AM
1

Would you say in terms of WISNIFG that I am my own judge according to my understanding of God's mission for my life? That seems to fit nice and tidy.
/r/askRPC14/01/20 03:21 AM
3

All marriages are interracial. You're really talking about cultural differences. I'd argue that most cultures are more "RP friendly" than Western culture. But you stick with white gender-fluid feminazies. For the kids.
/r/askRPC14/01/20 03:17 AM
1

This was me. "Date Night", do all the chores so she's "relaxed", candles. All the crap advice that's written by women to help men setup their covert contracts.
/r/askRPC03/12/19 09:47 PM
1

All of them? Most people in IT spend half the day reading facebook and sharing memes. I worked in a place that regularly had nerf gun battles. My current place has a pool table in front of a TV in the lounge. So while you're technically "at work" for 8 hours, you only put in four hours of actual hands on keyboard work.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/11/19 05:42 PM
1

I'm guessing IT. 6 figures for 4 hours a day of work.
/r/MarriedRedPill29/11/19 04:28 PM
1

Nothing. I proposed on one knee during intermission of our favorite musical. You’re overthinking this. If it bothers you, weave some “leading her in Christ“ talk I to the proposal. Remember that Jesus literally washed his disciples feet. It’s appropriate.
/r/RPChristians09/11/19 12:24 AM
2

Hire a doula if you haven't already (might be too late). You're just going to be there and help with whatever she needs. As others have said, make sure you two have your birth plan put together and have copies for hospitals staff (we posted ours on the door and asked staff that rolled on to read it). You can add a lot of value by advocating strongly for your wife against staff if they get pushy. ​ Red Pill is more day to day type interactions and a way of life. Don't be an asshole. Also Congrats…
/r/askRPC21/10/19 06:00 PM
2

I'm literally going to initiate with my wife tonight by asking her if she's down with some "Unitive Purposes." Hot stuff. Wish me luck.
/r/RPChristians20/09/19 08:12 PM
2

Well Jesus drank and encouraged others to do the same so it better not be sinful.
/r/askRPC03/09/19 01:59 AM
1

RP Christians is a good place to square religious idealism and sexual strategy (if you're a Christian).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/19 10:21 PM
5

Why can't you be assertive and gentle? Those aren't opposed.
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 10:43 PM
2

+1 No More Mr. Nice Guy. Also pick up a copy of Boundaries.
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 10:23 PM
1

Firstly, there's nothing wrong with having high standards. And if you continue to take care of yourself, your stock will continue to rise so there's no rush. That said, there's no perfect woman, you take the good with the bad. The question is does the bad really bother you or not? Is it actually a sign of an undisciplined life?
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 10:18 PM
1

Every time I talk to a 21 year old woman it's painful, I can't imagine marrying one.
/r/RPChristians03/07/19 10:15 PM
1

If you pray with your wife, it's a perfect time to introduce ideas while giving them to God. Let her hear that you're humbly asking Him for guidance for your mission and purpose. Ask that He speak to you regarding courage to do what's required to lead your family. Amen.
/r/RPChristians13/06/19 01:46 PM
4

It's definitely RP on "hard mode", but you have different goals and God's purpose to fulfill.
/r/RPChristians10/06/19 02:38 PM
1

To everything there is a season. Between Sodom, Rome, and now the West the pendulum swung back to more conservative times. Things get wild, then tame, then wild again.
/r/RPChristians10/06/19 02:31 PM
1

I think you missed that he was being ironic. Note that he says men should be leaders when people need wisdom or doctrinal teaching then proceeded to list scriptures where women are leaders of wisdom and doctrinal teaching.
/r/RPChristians10/06/19 02:22 PM
3

I'm so excited you found this... get to work brother.
/r/RPChristians03/06/19 01:22 PM
1

Implicit in your question is an assumption that for things to work well together, they need to be the same. I would challenge that men and women are complementary. God created us to work together, not be the same.
/r/RPChristians23/05/19 12:39 PM
0

"Would you let your kid play with dynamite? Why let women with the heart, self discipline and solipsism of a kid to have that powerful dynamite called voting in their hands. If your kid blows its self up (see modern feminism), would it be its own fault? Or the irresponsible parent's fault?" ​ So women have the heart, self discipline, and self awareness of a child? And voting is dynamite? This is a confused mess. What does it even have to do with this sub? This is purely political flaming. It doe…
/r/RPChristians03/05/19 08:05 PM
1

If you've forgiven her, you're good to go. Move on.
/r/RPChristians14/12/18 01:13 AM
1

Feminism is a nebulous word that means different things to different people. My wife considers herself a feminist and voted for Trump. She's a "second wave" feminist. Women should be able to do what she wants without the good 'ole boys club blocking her. She's not a third/fourth wave feminist that thinks men and women are identical, gender is fluid, patriarchy, etc.
/r/RPChristians10/12/18 09:22 PM
1

This analogy doesn't square. I get the basic idea that badgering someone is bad, but you're comparing sex (how long does a quickie take) to spending a day golfing. My wife loves to spend time together. Could you imagine if I told my wife, "Hey we just spent time together two days ago, I'm not really in the mood." or "We already talked once today, isn't that enough you insatiable disscussionist?" How would a woman feel if I literally could not pull together 5 minutes of my time to make her happy.…
/r/RPChristians10/12/18 09:02 PM
2

I'm sure she's a wonderful woman, but you're throwing a lot of red flags here. She's deciding which church you will attend, when you'll get married, how many kids you'll have (0), who's doing the cooking (you), etc. I think you should break it off. Explain that you believe that God wants you at this church and you want your girlfriend and future wife to be your partner in ministry. Then see what happens. You need to chill on the marriage thing. This is your first relationship.
/r/RPChristians10/12/18 08:26 PM
1

Call her whatever "he" wants. Statistically she will grow out of it and just be a gay woman. Your kids will be fine, sheltering doesn't work.
/r/RPChristians10/12/18 08:05 PM
1

I think the big reason AWALT is stressed so heavily is because a beta's first response to TRP is "not my woman". Denial is so easy. But that's not to say all women are the same, but that they have the same base desires. Acknowledging the desires of women (and of men) is key to setting frame and acting in accordance. I feel like Christian women should be more welcoming to TRP given the explicit teachings of man as the head of the family.
/r/RPChristians10/12/18 07:58 PM
1

Talk is cheap, and Internet comments are even cheaper. I reject your assumption, pasting a sermon into an anonymous forum isn't even "bold". You just turn people away from the gospel while feeling better about yourself. Be the gospel. Then your words will matter when the Spirit prompts you to give a timely word to someone who He's drawing...
/r/RPChristians31/10/18 02:23 AM
2

If a women who is married is hanging out with you and confiding in you that there's trouble in her marriage, that's a big red flag. She doesn't need an "older brother". Remember that secrets are intimacy. Trim it. Eventual girl you're interested in won't have to assume, by the time you're ready, you'll introduce yourself and make yourself clear. You don't want gossip to do your job for you.
/r/RPChristians18/10/18 05:28 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter