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This bit Though this is a poly FR, might give you a hint. You can check out r/polyamory as well.
/r/seduction05/02/11 07:25 PM
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Thanks. In Text form, it actually comes across way douchier than it was. I was rather friendly once I thawed. I think cocky+aloof is really close to narcissistic and arrogant, which you'll want to avoid at all costs.
/r/seduction01/12/10 09:37 AM
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I'd recommend Krauser-Style Facebook game for some time and then just announce you'll be in her city for the weekend and if she wants to join you?
/r/seduction01/12/10 06:52 AM
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Munich
/r/seduction01/12/10 06:37 AM
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Date lots if women, and weed out the ones you don't like. I'm always surprised how nerdy the girls I'm seeing can turn out.
/r/seduction15/11/10 05:38 PM
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German, but I usually lurk. I find german women, or central european women in general, will call you out incredibly quickly of you use any canned material or clichés. Inner Game and kino seem to play a much larger role than what most American PUAs place on them. Also, the club scene in Europe just "feels" differently than in the US. I'm a fan of krauser's methods, because he's so refreshingly honest.
/r/seduction12/11/10 05:40 AM
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Seems reasonable. Thanks.
/r/seduction16/10/10 10:36 AM
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To answer your original question, yes, all the time! I find it works best for me to take a break once in a while and not read too much about game, because if I do I get too reflective and wonder if I'm reacting exactly right to her every move instead of just doing what I want to do and have her tag along because I'm sooo smooth. Or something. This is also why you'll typically see me post of seddit only every few weeks. If I take a few steps after learning lots of theoretical knowledge and just h…
/r/seduction16/10/10 02:27 AM
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I'd like to read it.
/r/seduction17/09/10 01:25 PM
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I called, but she didn't pick up her phone, so I sent her a message that I wanted to meet her. She didn't answer as of yet.
/r/seduction01/09/10 11:11 AM
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As long as it's not your close friends telling you that. That's probably the moment I'd reconsider a lot of stuff.
/r/seduction31/08/10 10:05 AM
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Thanks. The part "as long as you know that you truly aren't causing them any harm or trouble" struck home with me. I'm okay with being seen as a weirdo. As long as I can avoid being an outright asshole.
/r/seduction31/08/10 06:20 AM
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Still, I'd prefer to be an awesome, if unusually sexual, dude to being seen as creep.
/r/seduction30/08/10 11:36 PM
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To be honest, the feeling that I acted creepy only started when I went home. Now that a few days have passed and my memories of the night are getting hazier, I am seriously unsure wether did a passable job of flirting and dancing or if I actually harassed a girl that was too shy to tell me off. God I hope it was the former. I gotta talk to her and make sure she's alright.
/r/seduction30/08/10 11:35 PM
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That assessment is quite probably 100% correct. Still was a fun night tho, except that you just exacerbated my fears of having come across as a creep. Btw, by groping, I mean she had her back to me, while I held her hips, sometimes her belly, and sometimes her shoulders. At most, I had my hands on her ass when she was really shaking it. Sounds like good advice for the next time I'm in this kind of situation. I presume that you mean 'get her home' by 'pulling' in this context?
/r/seduction30/08/10 05:53 AM
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Exactly.
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:00 PM
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Hahaha I do indeed :D
/r/seduction29/08/10 10:00 PM
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I like to flirt with waitresses or other service personnel, but ultimately you can't know for sure wether they do it for fun or in order to get a better tip. So I enjoy myself, but I never expect anything serious.
/r/seduction29/08/10 08:57 PM
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Awesome! Congrats. Not sure what else I could add.
/r/seduction29/08/10 05:45 PM
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Haha thank you. I think the worst case is if her boyfriend gets jealous. The BF is kinda the reason I haven't made a move on her myself.
/r/seduction29/08/10 05:28 PM
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I'm big believer in brutal honesty. Do you think I should talk about these points with her beforehand? "I might have to leave you during the night, which is kinda the point of the whole thing. I'll text you if that happens. Can you handle that?"
/r/seduction29/08/10 05:25 PM
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Would you sleep with your wing if you could? In a heartbeat. Your wingwoman needs to just think you are amazing, listen to everything you say when you talk, laugh at your jokes, show she is attracted to you by giving you kino. She's doing that already, and she was the one who proposed her being my WW in the first place.
/r/seduction29/08/10 05:12 PM
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Thanks for the tips. I would have thought a wingwoman would prove to be more of an advantage though. I mean, you'd have instant social proof following you around. And if there are no prospects, so have a buddy to have fun with. Is the jealousy angle that dangerous? What if she had a b/f?
/r/seduction29/08/10 05:07 PM
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Thank god Neil Patrick Harris is gay -- we would never get any if we had to compete with him.
/r/seduction29/08/10 04:36 PM
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I was a little surprised be her reaction and didn't want to back down. What's so terribly gross about pee? Sure, you wash your hands afterwards, and it's not something to be particularly excited about, but I don't retch just because I'm thinking of peeing.
/r/seduction29/08/10 04:13 PM
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Female friend sends me a text saying she "just got out of the rain and is therefore totally wet." Me: "Couldn't you have given me advanced notice? I'll be over ASAP!" Other female friend, who I know has no sexual interest in me, on the phone. "I'm finally single! Hooray." (after a long divorce) Me: "Oh hey sexy lady. What are you doing later tonight? Wink wink." Her: (suddenly serious) "Oh, I think I'm hiding from this person who is kinda flirting with me all the time. Gotta go." Generally, when…
/r/seduction15/08/10 06:05 PM
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You said it. I tried being more mellow with people I met today, and I think it went over well.
/r/seduction13/08/10 02:00 PM
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I need to get myself a cocky calibration device.
/r/seduction13/08/10 06:56 AM
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Well, if I'm jokingly aggressive, people have every right to be the same to me. I love it when there's a little battle of wits and funny comments, regardless of who wins.
/r/seduction13/08/10 06:54 AM
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Hahaha that sounds quite like me actually. Here's hoping I can do the taming as well!
/r/seduction13/08/10 06:53 AM
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That is indeed a good tip. Will keep that in mind.
/r/seduction13/08/10 06:52 AM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction12/08/10 08:37 PM
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Got any tips what to strive for and what to avoid?
/r/seduction12/08/10 07:05 PM
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If karma was based on insight, yours would skyrocket. Thoughtful words, MrRisky. The last bit probably describes my problem. I used to be a great listener, but couldn't get my own opinion into the conversation. Maybe now that I know how to do that, I dominate too much. I'll try to balance it out more. The thing with my brother, eh, it's probably a bit of both. He could use someone to keep him in check, which I didn't do until recently, and so could I. We'll work it out.
/r/seduction12/08/10 07:05 PM
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Sounds like awesome friends.
/r/seduction12/08/10 07:00 PM
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If I'm a god, I don't have to be arrogant, just content with my awesome powers. Also, I like these mortals, so I'd kinda prefer accommodating them into my fun life. The question is just, how much should I accommodate?
/r/seduction12/08/10 06:18 PM
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The campsite rule is an awesome maxim to live by, sexually.
/r/seduction04/08/10 03:05 PM
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I won't lie to people. It's hugely important that people I seduce are not just conquests for me, not just a means to get laid, but people whose feelings I don't want to hurt. I try to give her at least as much fun as I'm having. I will not deceive a person. I'll answer questions honestly if I'm asked, and if it's clear to me a person has different expectations (about a relationship with me, etc) I'll tell them before sleeping with them. This has cost me a few lays, but not as many as I had feare…
/r/seduction04/08/10 03:04 PM
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To keep up the guitar analogy: If you're just learning the chords, you're pushing in the wrong direction. You should also start practicing songs, even if they're not that complicated, or if they don't sound that smooth at the beginning. The more you actually play, the more routine the low-level stuff like chords get and the more you can concentrate on sounding well, improvising, and so on. Back to seduction: Don't try to do everything by the book. The book doesn't exist, we have hundreds of book…
/r/seduction31/07/10 12:27 PM
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In my opinion, you're focusing too hard on the acronyms. At this point you are at the very beginning of your "studies" on how to become more seductive, so don't expect anything really. Don't think you "blew" anything just because you didn't get laid yet. You come across as very hectic and hyper. Slow down a bit and do this one little step at a time instead of all at once. You talked to some people you found interesting. That's good. Every time you overcome your shyness in starting a conversation…
/r/seduction31/07/10 12:00 PM
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That sounds like something I'd like to eat right now.
/r/seduction28/07/10 10:10 PM
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Well done. I love the "needz decaf" pic, and I'll try to employ it as soon as possible.
/r/seduction27/07/10 01:27 PM
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Bwahahaha :D
/r/seduction27/07/10 12:34 PM
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Seems we have different tastes. If we meet again and nasty d/s stuff happens, I'll be sure to post it for your enjoyment :D
/r/seduction24/07/10 08:12 AM
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More like TheUltimatePuaTroll :) Congrats. (P.S.: if you happen to mean the above, see random_guy's response on how I think about your post)
/r/seduction23/07/10 02:49 PM
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Couldn't have said it better myself.
/r/seduction23/07/10 02:43 PM
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thanks. to be honest though, she was kinda boring in bed. She told me she'd enjoyed herself a lot afterwards, but she was more or less just lying there, whimpering.
/r/seduction23/07/10 02:37 PM
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That might be it. I'll try that next time the situation arises. :D
/r/seduction23/07/10 06:40 AM
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Hahaha exactly. Internet high five right back at you!
/r/seduction22/07/10 11:51 PM
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Glad to give something back to the community.
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:34 PM
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:) I'm a lucky bastard.
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:32 PM
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That would be my advice. I have a really hot tutor myself, and I told her the other day I'd wash her car in only my shorts if u got a better grade. Her response: "Sorry, I don't have a car. But maybe you can do some naked cleaning in my apartment?" I'll be working on that over the summer.
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:17 PM
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Hahaha all right, good for me then. Classes on how to be me start tomorrow at 10, anyone can come as long as they're hot or have lots of money they want to part with.
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:14 PM
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So you mean I should just go through these bullet points with her? I'm not sure about that -- I think I'd like to explore these more experimentally than by sitting in front if her with a piece of paper and a pen, checking off likes and dislikes. :P
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:13 PM
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Haha I just remembered: I know of the existence of yaoi because of the awesome webcomic Questionable Content. So I could reasonably say Jeph Jacques got me laid :D
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:11 PM
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"Don't overthink it" is actually the advice I heeded the most with this girl. Somehow I just did what felt right, but at the same time I still had some rough model of how I wanted to get where i wanted to be with her in the back of my head. So thanks. I shall continue to not overthink it :)
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:08 PM
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Yes I am. This girl was playing along with every stupid sentence I uttered. Of course that was awesome, but the next seduction won't be so easy. So why shouldn't I try to improve myself?
/r/seduction22/07/10 10:02 PM
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Thanks.
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:51 PM
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Do you mean this? http://www.pittsburghleather.org/Articles/Negotiations/Jay%20Wiseman's%20Negotiation%20Checklist.pdf
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:49 PM
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That sounds... Interesting. I'll look into it, but to be honest I'm not getting my hopes up that she'll call me again until she does. I'm not interested in a relationship with her and she didn't give me any indication that she was. She really liked the sex, I could tell that, but for now I'm happy with it being a one time thing. Aside: I'll have the "I'd love to have you as a FB but I'm not interested in more." talk with her if she calls again. Because I'm crazy afraid if the idea of hurting peo…
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:47 PM
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Somehow I come off WAY more smooth than I really am in this text. :)
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:41 PM
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I did qualify her more: I found her playfulness funny and her tattoo interesting. We also talked about her field of study, where I gave her huge props for being very socially engaged. At the party I didn't really open her. At the moment we met, I was kinda the life of the party because lots of my friends hadn't seen me for a while, so I was surrounded by cook guys and hot babes. I was mixing drinks at the bar and had my iPhone in my hand with the Skype app running for some reason, but I had poor…
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:40 PM
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Haha thank you. I learnt most of my text game from seddit. You're right, it was awesome and I'm very happy with the outcome. But she was so incredibly passive in everything she did, I feel a little bit... unwanted? Edit: let me clarify: I feel like I used my (correct) hunch that she would like to be dominated to plow onward. And now I wonder wether it would have been even more pleasurable for me if I had let her work for her pleasure a little bit more.
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:28 PM
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Profs not so much, but the tutors at our university didn't mind a little fun with their students. However, all of them were very careful to wait until the student in question wasn't in their class any more.
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:02 PM
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Damn, I should have asked this question last month :)
/r/seduction22/07/10 09:00 PM
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Obviously. My sexy hair does the pickup for me. :D
/r/seduction19/07/10 02:57 PM
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Dude, I'm not that old either. That's my age group as well. Maybe it's cultural differences? I'm from L'Europe.
/r/seduction19/07/10 11:27 AM
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That's kinda my question as well. I'm not that experienced, but the girls I brought home always ripped my clothes off. I never had the "pleasure" to experience last minute resistance. It seems either I'm doing something right, or I've been really lucky so far. (Maybe both.)
/r/seduction19/07/10 08:51 AM
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Why the frown?
/r/seduction19/07/10 08:47 AM
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I initiated relationships in the past if I felt like it. And why not? I wanted to have a relationship, so I took steps to achieve just that.
/r/seduction19/07/10 04:28 AM
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Glad to help.
/r/seduction19/07/10 12:40 AM
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My date ideas: going swimming -- I love being in the water with a hot girl. You'll have lots of excuses for kino (splashing, bumping her into the water, picking her up on your shoulders) and it feels just fantastic. shopping -- either go window shopping or, better yet, go shopping for clothes. You can see each other in various stages of undress and can talk about different clothing styles. Don't pay for, or carry, her stuff. Bonus points if you can get her to model sexy lingerie for you. An upsi…
/r/seduction19/07/10 12:23 AM
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What's a good routine for relationship closing? Well, in my opinion there is none. If you like a person enough to consider a relationship, you'll just have to honestly say "Hey, I really like you, and I could imagine this becoming more serious. How about you?" Bring this up when it feels appropriate: With me this was usually very soon, like the morning after we first slept together, but you can also spend a few days or weeks having fun together, and if you're really having fun, just ask. By then…
/r/seduction19/07/10 12:10 AM
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What I really like about this video is not so much the stuff he says (although that is good too) but the way he says it, and how he uses his body. Look at his hands, they are one of his best assets and he uses them to build a kind of private metaphorical room just for himself and the girl he is talking to; separating the two of them from the rest of the world, and therefore eliminating distractions and allowing her to feel less watched, less in public space. And I don't think this is by accident…
/r/seduction18/07/10 10:21 PM
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Awesome, and congrats. I'm always amazed how much is possible if you just have the guts to have fun and push a little. Edit: Oh and why shouldn't you add her on the Facebook? Sure, wait a day or two, but if she doesn't, why not pursue her a little? Also, maybe you should have gotten her number after you kissed?
/r/seduction18/07/10 02:30 PM
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so I just impromptu winged for him by keeping HB8 occupied. I like this a lot. Why should we always compete if we could help someone else have fun later without much effort? Who knows, maybe the reverse will happen to you one day.
/r/seduction18/07/10 12:00 PM
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Haha, excellent.
/r/seduction16/07/10 02:39 PM
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You might be developing a depression. Is there anything that could have triggered it? Maybe you've become jaded with "meaningless" sex and want to have a serious relationship? Maybe there is a lot of stress in your life at the moment? Maybe you're aimless or confused about some stuff going on? Or maybe you just don't feel like sex at the moment, and it will come back to you once you do other interesting stuff. Sex is awesome, but there's more in life, and you don't need sex as a validation. Mayb…
/r/seduction15/07/10 10:40 PM
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Hahaha, also an awesome job :D
/r/seduction15/07/10 08:10 PM
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Even though poncedeleon has already brought up some awesome points, here's more concrete stuff: Out-AMOG him. Tyler Durden is good for this sort of stuff (maybe because he's scrawny and thin?) Also you might find some helpful stuff here. Good luck, and tell us how the night went.
/r/seduction15/07/10 05:37 PM
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FTOW isn't explained in the sidebar, so I googled it: "Find (Fuck) Ten Other Women"
/r/seduction15/07/10 09:51 AM
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There isn't. But if you want to meet girls, you need to get out of the house and meet new people. This often clashes with an introvert's idea of a nice evening. (Believe me, I should know.)
/r/seduction15/07/10 09:45 AM
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Manipulating people is not that easy. Don't think you can make any girl sleep with you just because you learn about Game. Seduction is a process of making you a more interesting person while also cluing you in about dating details you might have missed otherwise. This means of course your dating success will rise, but the girls you will be successful with would have been interested in you (or looking for a fling) anyway — you increased the possibility of good things happening to both of you, not…
/r/seduction15/07/10 09:41 AM
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Definitely. My friends ask me for relationship advice, which is a big demonstration of my value If I tell people I've decided to go to a concert, a nightclub, whatever, they say "cool, can I come with you?" When things are unclear in a group, I'm usually the one coming up with a decision what to do.
/r/seduction15/07/10 09:36 AM
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Listen to rmbarnes, he's completely right. Don't get your hopes up and get too sexual too early. Wait for a couple of signs she might be interested in you (IOIs for those who like acronyms), then ramp up your flirting. Also, don't get your hopes up too much. This is hard for me too, but you are where you are (in this case, surfing) because you want to have fun. (My motto: "Be fun to be with") So if a girl wants to have fun together, even better. But if not, well, you're still having fun without …
/r/seduction15/07/10 09:26 AM
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Awesome. Do you sell to shark wrestlers?
/r/seduction15/07/10 09:16 AM
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You should make a app that helps a person run game. What did you have in mind? A Tips'n'Tricks kinda app? Or something to help you spinning plates?
/r/seduction14/07/10 08:13 AM
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Yup. S'mine. :) Thanks. I still like shark wrestler though...
/r/seduction13/07/10 09:34 PM
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I do have lots of fun in my job, because it's the most awesome job in the world. Usually it's just hard conveying that to people outside. That's not a big problem: I'm fun without my job too, so I usually don't dwell on it. What I'm looking for primarily is something funny to talk about when people ask me what my job is (and I'm getting lots of cool material thanks to all of you)
/r/seduction13/07/10 05:21 PM
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Hahaha awesome idea :D Any thoughts what could be in it? Maybe something like Matt Gemmel's Multitouch-Demo? (This has an interesting side fact, namely that, with this, people discovered that the ipad is capably of detecting up to 11 fingers. ) And just like that you have a conversation option on what to use as an 11th finger.
/r/seduction13/07/10 05:18 PM
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Haha, true that.
/r/seduction13/07/10 05:01 PM
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Hey, I've never looked at it from that angle. Might be worth a try.
/r/seduction13/07/10 03:35 PM
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You got me. BZZZZZZZZ
/r/seduction13/07/10 03:32 PM
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