I was out with a large group of friends yesterday, celebrating one of the girl's birthday. We had lots of fun, and as it got later and later, only a few people were left in our group: Birthday girl, not-birthday-girl, not-birthday-girl's boyfriend, and another male friend.

Birthday girl, who is quite beautiful, maybe an 8 or even a 9, and I know each other for a few years, and I've been hot for her from time to time, but nothing ever happened, mostly because either of us was unavailable. I also didn't get any attraction vibes from her, so I never did anything.

During the evening, birthday girl got more and more touchy with me, and of course I with her. We held hands when walking through the streets from one venue to another, joked a lot and she was mostly hanging onto my shoulder.

(Short excursion: In one of the bars we were in, my friends all told me cute waitress was checking me out and was flirting with me. I didn't really agree, because while she was flirting, I usually don't take flirting from service personnel personal, even though I flirt back all the time of course. When we were leaving, I told the girl, in mock serious tone, "I never ask cute waitresses out, because it annoys them, but if I asked you for your number, how would you react?" Waitress: "As a waitress, I can't give you my number, but how about you give me yours?". I did, but that's probably the extend to which I'll ever hear from her again.)

When we stopped at a friend's apartment to get birthday girl's birthday present, I went to the bathroom and found her inside applying some more makeup. She was just finishing and I jokingly told her to get out right now or else she'd have to watch me pee. I would have liked to stay in the bathroom and flirt instead, but our group was anxious to get going again, so I wouldn't really had time for more.

She squealed and complained, but stayed even after finishing her makeup, so I pissed standing more or less right in front of her, something which she seemed to find rather interesting. :P

Standing outside, the group couldn't decide where to go, so I said "we let birthday girl decide", took birthday girls face in my hands, looked her in the eyes and went on "you want to go to TheClub, right?" Nod.

At TheClub I got more interest from her. Lots of touching, and since I told her I didn't want to spend any more money that day, she got me a drink without me asking. Finally, we danced and ground, and I was beginning to think I really would get lucky that night. She was leaning against me, pushing her awesome ass into my crotch and had her hand on my neck while I more or less groped. I turned her around and got a light kiss on the lips and one on the cheek. When I went for more, she turned away again.

I decided to leave her alone for a bit and went to talk to other people, enjoying myself and returning after maybe a quarter hour. Some more grinding from behind, but while she danced with me, she wouldn't turn around to face me. I was beginning to feel like a molester, doubting wether she really enjoyed the attention I was giving her, or was in fact terribly creeped out and shy. I decided to clear things up and asked her if she wanted to go outside, have a cig. She: "I don't know, I have to think about it." Me: "Think fast. I need some air, so I'll be outside."

Since I still wasn't sure wether I was, in her eyes, a creep or not, I decided to let her come to me if she wanted. She didn't come.

Soon after, the club closed. I went back inside to get my friends, hugged the girls, including birthday girl, goodnight and we all went home, unsatisfied.

Now I'm wondering how to proceed from here. I'd hate the idea of me body-dancing with her against her will. Since she is not that shy, and I hadn't pinned her against a wall or something, that's rather unlikely, but I want to know for sure. I'd also like to do bad things with her, but I'm not too desperate about that. I like her as a friend, but I wouldn't want to be in a relationship with her.

Usually I'm good with text game. but I'm kinda stumped as to what I should write now. I'm thinking maybe something like "I liked dancing with you yesterday", but that doesn't really carry all the connotations I want to convey. :)

Shit, now this has become another way-too-long field report. If you've come this far, thanks for reading.

TL;DR: Lots of positive signs from a girl, failed to get her from grinding on the dancefloor to making out, wondering how to proceed.

Edit: So I just heard from a mutual friend that she seems to have a boyfriend, in another city, but nobody's ever seen him. It's interesting to find this out now, and not from her.