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Maybe some fratboy douche, sure. Nonetheless. There are 'fratboy douches' as there are... well whatever the female equivalent of that is. Let's say superficial people. You'll never rid the world of superficial people no matter how much you try to police language. A person wants to make fun of a guy because of the size of his member, that person should be ostracized and shamed. So in order to stop people from shaming other people, we should be shame them? lol... okay. If so, I'm going to start a …
/r/MensRights14/06/18 08:45 PM
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So you lack a coherent argument then? Got it. Thanks for conceding. And good luck with playing dirty and resorting to insults and witch-hunts, let me know how that goes for you.
/r/MensRights14/06/18 05:57 PM
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This is so dumb. They're making commentary on existing cultural and societal standards. Unless you're arguing that these standards do not exist which in that case you're just lying and being disingenuous. I'm saying there exists plenty of examples of men posting sexist shit on facebook as well. And turning these thoughts of individuals into huge events where everyone is outraged is silly and counterproductive. Let people say stupid shit and counter their arguments with facts and logic, not emoti…
/r/MensRights14/06/18 05:40 PM
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Ok small boob shaming then. I'm sure we can find examples of men expressing their disinterest in flat chested girls. And you're an idiot to assume that this kind of mockery shouldn't be hurtful. Hurtful or not, its an expression of free speech and we in a free society should allow for that. If the words of an individual are hurtful, it is up to you to deal with that in a healthy responsible way, NOT demand people silence themselves because it offends you.
/r/MensRights14/06/18 05:38 PM
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Best of luck on your high road and holding people to account for that principle you hold. Uh thanks. Its not going so well on you right now, but maybe other lurkers may find our conversation beneficial. Wait, so you don't like pointing out double standards? I'm confused, I thought you loved pointing out that cognitive dissonance that is so easy to dismantle? Imagining a double standard is not the same as demonstrating a double standard in reality. You are simply constructing a narrative in your …
/r/MensRights14/06/18 04:19 PM
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You're blowing this up as if it's some huge thing. Eh. Maybe my words make it seem like I care more than I do. I just like to debate/argue with people, and cognitive dissonance like the kind that is displayed here is easy to dismantle. Meanwhile your principle of "you cannot battle sexism with more sexism" is being violated on the mass scale in way more important ways in society today. Ok but can we control society-at-large? No. We can only control our individual actions. So you know: be the cha…
/r/MensRights14/06/18 03:42 PM
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It has to do with it because if you actually believed that in any serious manner you wouldn't be wasting your time complaining about some people upset about a meme on Reddit. This sentence is nonsense, please try to reform your thoughts in a manner which is readable. If you're so worried about shitposting, just downvote, report, and move on. Berating people for being upset about a meme probably isn't that useful How will that change the opinions of others? I come here to challenge the entrenched…
/r/MensRights14/06/18 03:22 PM
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Body shaming is never okay if you're really seeking an even playing field for both sexes. Yes, it happens on both sides, but the difference is that in the name of equality it's considered a borderline hate crime to body shame a woman but the opposite gets a free pass. Body shaming is a part of free speech, we live in a free country. Its up to each individual to learn how to handle the other people's words without devolving into an incoherent mess. And your hyperbole that it is a 'borderline hate…
/r/MensRights14/06/18 03:18 PM
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Yeah, go tell that to whole departments in government and corporations that benefit women. What the hell does this have to do with a stupid meme shared on facebook? Your need to link some random woman's opinion on facebook to governments and corporations is ridiculous. So every time a man shares a sexist meme on facebook, women are justified in pointing to it as an example of the patriarchy? Because that is exactly what you are doing right now. Individuals carry all sorts of shitty and sexist op…
/r/MensRights14/06/18 03:01 PM
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And what hypocrisy is that? That women sometimes body shame men? Men sometimes body shame women, as denoted in some of these comments. Seems pretty even to me.
/r/MensRights14/06/18 02:55 PM
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Abusing people? So memes on the internet are now considered a form abuse? Wow sounds like you are a fragile snowflake who needs a safespace from mean words on the internet. How dare they body shame you?! Hahaha
/r/MensRights14/06/18 02:50 PM
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So this sub is now just men being outraged at seemingly offensive material? Oh god some random woman on the internet made a meme about liking big dicks. Clearly we have been victimized and must now bash women! Your approach to battling sexism with more sexism doesn't help. Shit like this makes you seem like a bunch of weak crybabies.
/r/MensRights14/06/18 02:49 PM
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They also say dumb things like 'hurr hurr make me a sandwich' to sound cool.
/r/MensRights06/06/18 07:48 PM
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Like where are these guys who are like "hURr DER , woman should only cook , clean and make me sandwiches " ? In highschool
/r/MensRights06/06/18 06:33 PM
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I mean I certainly do.
/r/MensRights06/06/18 06:32 PM
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What a shitpost. Are we really going to draw battle lines between the sexes and make an issue out of some random person's instagram post? Some of you guys here just love to victimize yourself. "OMG an instagram post that demonstrates men negatively, oppression!!!"
/r/MensRights06/06/18 06:31 PM
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I mean she's not wrong, hot women can have their pick of the litter. However this tweet obviously would not apply to ugly women, so its definitely giving some false hope. Regardless of who you are though: if you are unhappy in a marriage, leaving it to find yourself a partner that actually makes you happy is always going to be better.
/r/MensRights21/05/18 07:58 PM
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It's the presumption that its 'okay' for men to die so long as women/children live. This can be seen most obviously in war. But the attitude carries over to how we treat the homeless and the mentally ill.
/r/MensRights16/05/18 08:27 PM
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Uh no, that's called corruption. Social Justice is making sure men see fair treatment in custody hearings.
/r/MensRights08/05/18 05:56 PM
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Meh. I'm not so sure why the author so vehemently defends 'traditional masculinity'. That old school mentality in regards to men leads to so many problems. For instance the belief that men should be strong and not show emotion is a part of that traditional masculinity. And because of that belief, men suffer in silence afraid to express their emotions or reach out for help when they need it, leading to higher rates of suicide. I don't think its wrong to talk about reforming our concepts of mascul…
/r/MensRights08/05/18 05:27 PM
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I always find that baffling about mass shooters. The baffling thing is that more people don't take those types of threats seriously. Many mass murderers do it for the fame and recognition, so of course they'll leave a manifesto or comments on websites. They want to be remembered for being the one who took on the corrupt system. Kind of a moot point tho. Good day sir
/r/MensRights02/05/18 08:56 PM
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I mean that's how I read it, it sounded like you were really angry and preparing to enact some kind of retribution upon them. Good to find out that's not the case. Carry on
/r/MensRights02/05/18 08:42 PM
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Oh I'm so going to make them fucking regret these articles they keep pumping out. Just please don't hurt or kill anyone. Your comment reads like a threat from a radicalized individual.
/r/MensRights02/05/18 08:34 PM
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Oh yes I'm so radical trying to get people to treat others as individuals, instead of statistics. Ooo wee someone call homeland security.
/r/MensRights20/04/18 02:16 PM
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That's why it wasn't suggested. You said "women are the problem". How is that not talking about all women? If I said "men are terrorists" you would assume I'm talking about all men. Lets not be coy. I'd expect more push-back from this alleged majority if they had a problem with female hypoagency. How much time of your day do you dedicate to combatting the more radical elements within the men's rights movement???
/r/MensRights19/04/18 03:43 PM
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People should certainly love themselves but part of loving yourself is recognizing your flaws and working on them.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 05:51 PM
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I think the point he was trying to raise is that 'beauty' can be something different from attractiveness. Someone can be a beautiful person despite being ugly.
/r/MensRights18/04/18 05:45 PM
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The cooperative compliance of a dissociating person is not going to be recognized as trauma response by a reasonable person who has not done anything they believe to be traumatising. Understood and agreed. Most people would not be aware of such a thing happening. This is why there's effort to shift expectations to "enthusiastic consent" and such. Agreed and I think this is ultimately the solution. Instead of looking for the absence of a 'no', people should be looking for an enthusiastic 'yes' be…
/r/MensRights18/04/18 03:45 PM
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however reckless attitude towards what qualifies as consent does count as intent. That's good to know. Reading this graphic I wondered if someone could simply choose to ignore any objections to sex, and then claim later they had no knowledge the other person said no. Legally, it would be basically impossible to prove the perpetrator had knowledge. So it's good to know there is some room to consider reckless attitudes. whether we even need an ethical "definition" since ethics are rules for the se…
/r/MensRights17/04/18 04:26 PM
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Well no explicit threats need to be made if the person trying to sleep with you is your boss or a police officer or some other authority figure who has a large amount of power over your life. You'll simply comply for fear of what consequences exist for saying no. This is normally why relative power dynamics are considered in situations like these. they may not have experienced consensual sex, but not to minimize their experience, the other person didn’t commit rape either. I suppose this is wher…
/r/MensRights17/04/18 04:04 PM
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Some people freeze up though, don't know what to do, panic or otherwise disconnect themselves from the experience. If you read stories of sexual assault, you'll notice that people will sometimes have out-of-body experiences due to how unusual and unexpected the circumstance was. Disassociation is one of many psychological reactions to trauma. People don't behave rationally during traumatic events, that is what you seem to be overlooking.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 03:48 PM
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Agreed. #6 is kind pretty off. What if the person was terrified of saying no due to the implication of what might happen to them if they say no? Some people do tend to freeze up or disassociate themselves from their body when under duress. I think both parties need to be paying attention not only to the verbal requests of the other, but also to their body language and whether or not they are actively participating in the act.
/r/MensRights17/04/18 03:40 PM
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Oh ok. Sorry then. Its hard to tell these days who's being flippant. Have a good day.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 07:01 PM
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Or just speak to them rationally and make your point by appealing to one's ethos, pathos, and logos... If the only two options that come to mind are screaming or beating, you may have a communication problem.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 05:30 PM
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Someone should care. How are we to build a better society without caring for each other?
/r/MensRights11/04/18 05:29 PM
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Oh so I'm also a psychopath now too? Okay. Sure man. Clearly, everyone who disagrees with you must have a broken, inherently inferior brain. /s when your speech patterns are interchangable, it's readily transparent that your words aren't organic, right? Certifiably organic or just carbon-based organic? lol.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 05:28 PM
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Sure, but that's not the context here.
/r/MensRights11/04/18 05:25 PM
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If you are getting walked over, sure raise your voice... but its also completely possible to stand up for yourself without yelling or screaming at others.
/r/MensRights10/04/18 08:47 PM
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I mean I think they want to work towards being strong and independent but many are not there yet. We'd need to radically alter how we raise young girls if we want them to be stronger, but even then I suspect being physically smaller is going to affect your perspective of others.
/r/MensRights10/04/18 08:45 PM
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Having someone larger than you yell at you is scary tho...
/r/MensRights10/04/18 08:39 PM
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That sounds like a lot of bold accusations you are throwing there without any evidence. How do you know a person is a psychopath? Are you a licensed psychologist who knows this individual personally? Additionally, is the correct response to contradictory opinions to block them out? It seems like that would only result in creating an echo chamber for yourself and thereby increase your level of ignorance. It wasn't just one tweet, 28 people liked it- SJW feminism is a hate movement, it's social en…
/r/MensRights10/04/18 08:35 PM
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Stop it with the "they". This is clearly one person making a comment about their own biases. You are engaging in exactly the same practice the person you are criticizing is engaging in. This person's fault is that they are generalizes all young white men as a monolith that they can disparage openly, you are engaging in a similar form of generalization, making it seem as if this one person's voice represents however many people you believe "they" represent. Either way, all it does it foment hatre…
/r/MensRights10/04/18 08:31 PM
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But its common syntax to use the male pronoun when in doubt of the subject's gender...
/r/MensRights20/03/18 03:35 PM
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That's actually kinda funny. I would upvote that lol.
/r/MensRights16/02/18 03:31 PM
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What's the punchline tho? That setup for a joke could be funny, depending on the punchline.
/r/MensRights15/02/18 08:46 PM
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If you say so.
/r/MensRights15/02/18 05:07 PM
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Yeah I'd rather us not get to a point where nobody is allowed to make jokes for fear of someone, somewhere getting offended. Jokes, in order to be funny, often deal with edgy subjects. Lets all have a laugh and move on with our lives.
/r/MensRights15/02/18 04:56 PM
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It's a joke though.... There's intergender violence in lots of memes. There's another one where a woman asks the man to turn down his music, so he throws her out of the car. Its funny. This is why you don't take jokes literally.
/r/MensRights15/02/18 04:13 PM
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So true. Its crazy that you are getting downvoted for pointing out a well known fact. This man claims to be all in support of 'due process', except he's only using that as an excuse to cover his ass. When it actually comes to due process, the guy couldn't care less. I mean his fervent support for Guantanamo bay says all you need to know about his opinions on Due Process.
/r/MensRights14/02/18 09:46 PM
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Good for you, but not everyone shares that ability so show some compassion towards others. Be thankful you haven't experienced trauma that would makes those situations unbearable.
/r/MensRights08/02/18 09:47 PM
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I hope someone extends the same courtesy to you one day. Maybe you'll learn some appreciation for others.
/r/MensRights08/02/18 09:36 PM
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Why are you trying to frame it as a woman thing? Do you see everything as a gendered issue? I, as a man, sometimes need saving from awkward conversation. I've been in situations where I've rejected a woman only for her to flip out, insult me, back me into a corner and start to put her hands on me. Luckily my friend saw that I was in distress and asked me if I wanted to take a walk to the store with him. You never know how people will respond when you reject them. Its far simpler to have an excus…
/r/MensRights08/02/18 09:29 PM
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Maybe the person has social anxiety, fear of confrontation, doesn't want to be impolite, etc. There are many reasons why someone might hesitate to reject someone in public. Plus there is a small chance the person you are rejecting isn't the type of person who can take rejection well. I've rejected a girl before and had her go crazy on me, screaming at me, insulting me, backing me into a corner, etc. In that instance, what saved me was my friend asking if I wanted to go to the store with him. It …
/r/MensRights08/02/18 09:17 PM
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An awkward situation? Have you ever had to reject someone in public? It can be awkward.
/r/MensRights08/02/18 08:32 PM
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Haha thanks. I chose it because I like to think I eviscerate people with my rational arguments. :p And yea, this outrage culture shit is getting old. There are real issues men face, lets discuss them like adults without pretending like we are some helpless victims. This community has recently become the very thing it hates.
/r/MensRights08/02/18 07:57 PM
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Damn you've really constructed a dystopian worldview in your head, haven't you? With a worldview like that, no wonder you have problems becoming intimate with others. You perceive women as cruel vindictive creatures who only want to hurt men. A belief system like that is sure to keep you locked away from the real world. I hope you eventually realize the sheer absurdity of these notions you've just mentioned and take some time to consider how you may just be using these fears to justify the (lack…
/r/MensRights08/02/18 07:47 PM
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No its not based on that notion that "all men are predators". Its based on the notion that rejecting someone's advances is often an awkward situation. Switch the genders in the story: You are out somewhere and there's an undesirable girl hitting on you and won't leave you alone. You are hesitant to flat out say no to her because you'd hurt her feelings, so someone around you senses your hesitation and says "hey there you are, we're all sitting over here". This gives you an excuse to say "I have …
/r/MensRights08/02/18 07:32 PM
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Thank you for this. I'm glad I'm not the only one who sees this topic as people trying to play the victim in a twitter comment that has nothing to do with them.
/r/MensRights08/02/18 07:28 PM
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Hyperbolic much? No we haven't. How many times have you personally been accused of sexual assault that would make you jump to such a conclusion? Men flirt with women every day and in the vast majority of cases, nobody gets treated like a rapist. It sounds like you don't have any real world experience and get all your information from horror stories found on the internet. No she wasn't. There's nothing confrontational about it. Nothing was mentioned about security being called. She just gave the …
/r/MensRights08/02/18 07:22 PM
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Ok and? It's good this other girl was looking out for her. I know there's been a few occasions I wish I had someone to come along and give me an 'easy out' of an potentially awkward situation. Stop interpreting everything as being some perceived discrimination against your gender. That mentality of perpetual victimhood is precisely what people hate about social justice warriors.
/r/MensRights08/02/18 06:58 PM
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Like I said, I don't know the full text of the bill but I highly doubt it prevents companies from giving raises or incentives. That would be silly. Also, I'm sure the "leftists" will be just fine. (You do realize we are talking about the country of Iceland and not the dumpster fire that is American politics right? Their "leftists" are far different from ours.)
/r/MensRights03/01/18 09:29 PM
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Having more experience should qualify you for a higher job opening that requires that amount of experience. Given the same level of experience and hours worked, pay should be equal between the sexes. Obviously someone with more experience should be paid more than people with less experience. but you can pay the male star less of course. Why do you assume this? If we are talking about equal pay for equal work, then this would not be allowed either.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 09:22 PM
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It's been 'the law' in almost all Western countries since the late 1960s. Yeah that's what I've assumed as well. Never made any real difference of course, because men work longer, harder, more stressful, dangerous and demanding jobs than women do, and that's why they're paid a bit more. On the whole, sure. If you are speaking collectively than yes, men, as a group, do tend to take on longer hours at more dangerous jobs and as a result this group then earns more. But on an individual level, I hop…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 09:20 PM
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Well, I would imagine the amount of hours worked would be factored into consider whether the pay is equal or not. Otherwise it would be a very poorly constructed bill. Again it seems there is a bias here that the bill must be unfair, somehow... despite any evidence demonstrating this. I get being skeptical, but we shouldn't jump to hasty conclusions before we have further information regarding the details as to how pay equality is calculated. And I doubt Iceland is the first to pass such laws, t…
/r/MensRights03/01/18 09:17 PM
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I feel like this current social climate is somewhat limited to our scope of American culture. I am not sure this outrage culture exists in such a high degree in other countries. Hire women because they are qualified for the job. Despite what constant exposure to the internet would have us believe, most people are rational actors who are perfectly capable of interacting professionally.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 09:09 PM
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If someone doesn't do a job well, then a company should simply fire the person.... It's silly to think a company would go down in flames because they insist on keeping a bad employee. Also while I don't have the full text of the bill, I doubt it this applies to raises. If someone could point me to an english version of the bill though, I'd gladly reconsider my position on this.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 09:05 PM
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If it's the same exact job... then what's the problem? That sounds fair.
/r/MensRights03/01/18 08:38 PM
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Ok fair enough. “It is not ok to grope but it is not as bad when women do it because power relations” is the argument that usually hides behind nuanced (and valid) considerations like the one you were making and it is one of such BS arguments pushed by feminists to condone women’s actions while punishing men’s. As such, it needs to be terminated. I never challenged your assertion of why consent works the way you argue. I challenged the acceptance of a status-quo in which men do not receive the s…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 08:49 PM
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Franken just resigned because he's innocent - did i get that right? I never defended Franken. Why do I care if he's innocent? If he's a creep who preys on women he should resign. I don't base my judgments of a person's guilt or innocence based on their political party like you seem to. you're calling the trump tape which was just locker room guy-talk a "good example", No I was not referring to the trump tape, and for you to eat up the "locker room talk" excuse wholecloth is hilarious. What other…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 08:06 PM
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My argument was the consent is often nonverbal, but is a mutual acceptance of an action. What's hypocritical about that? My argument is that your rationale of looking for excuses when women do what men are punished for is what has men’s rights in shambles Its not looking for excuses, its a statement of fact in this particular case. In the comment thread we are responding to we are discussing a case where a girl touches a guys butt, and he then responds by touching hers in return. That's a good s…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 07:20 PM
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So your argument is that in order for my argument to be valid, I have to go vett it against a host of irrational feminists on the internet? Is that what the standard is now? All arguments must be as ridiculous and absurd as the people we debate against? You're basically saying we shouldn't have rationality because some people don't agree with it. Like what exactly is your point? Irrational feminists are irrational, therefore we should avoid any and all conversations about consent? We can have th…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 05:41 PM
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it's not, but there's way more of it on the democrat side. I'd question where you get your information, if you truly think there is way more of it on the democrat side. You may be consuming heavily biased media. There are plenty of cases of sexual misconduct among republicans as well. Donald Trump is a good example, there's recorded audio of him bragging about going behind the scenes of the Miss Teen USA beauty pageant to watch the girls change, some of these girls were as young as 15. Former Sp…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 05:34 PM
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Men can absolutely be victims, but fostering a cult of victimhood doesn't help anyone.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 05:24 PM
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It is YOU who is missing the point. She makes an advance on him and he takes it well and responds in kind, that's a very good sign it is consensual. Consent is by definition a mutual agreement and is not always verbally asked for out loud, its contextual and depends on the nature of the relationship of the people involved. The fact that they both grabbed each other's butts shows there is a mutual agreement that that is OK. By your logic, rape victims that orgasm have not been assaulted at all. W…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 05:22 PM
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It really depends on the woman. An attractive woman I am interested in? Sure. Your middle-aged aunt in the middle of the night? Absolutely not.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 05:13 PM
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Yep exactly. Its sad how this sub has become a breeding ground for full blown misogyny and a cult of victimhood. The exact same pattern many subscribers here despise about radical feminists. Its getting harder and harder to gather the willpower to combat the toxic attitudes here.
/r/MensRights07/12/17 05:09 PM
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What makes you think moral bankruptcy is a partisan issue? That's so strange. Everyone is equally capable of committing atrocities. You're naive if you believe it only exists within some spectrums of political affiliations and not others. Furthermore, you bring up Roy Moore as if he is some beacon of morality, yet despite his denials of the allegations put forth, his predatory behavior was an open secret for his entire community and everyone who knew him. And at least the women Franken creeped o…
/r/MensRights07/12/17 05:06 PM
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Thank you. Rational nuanced discussion is needed now more than ever. I'm only doing my part.
/r/MensRights06/12/17 02:21 PM
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This screenshot doesn't say anything about nazis.... And you have to admit there is quite an overlap between MGTOW, TRP and this subreddit.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 09:12 PM
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Then it becomes not a strawman, but our biological programing. Unless you have the credentials and research to make these statements, these are just conjecture on your part. And not only is it conjecture, its dangerous in that it fails to account for the vast amount of variability between individuals. Even though women do share many traits, they do not possess identical genomes, therefore any broad statements may be reaching too far to the point of being bigoted. For example, one could make an a…
/r/MensRights01/12/17 08:25 PM
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In a world where everyone is kind and accepting, this may have been an okay idea. But in reality, we are talking about cross dressing your kid at age 12 during the awkward years of puberty in middle school where everyone is mean, judgmental and hormonal. This kid is probably gonna carry issues related to this into adulthood.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 08:06 PM
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If you are engaging in the same behavior you dislike, then you really have no right to complain. You're just being a hypocrite at that point. And you'll definitely not win any support being openly hypocritical. I'm just saying its attitudes like yours that gives the entire movement a bad name and allows people to point at these comments as evidence to support their "hate group" theory. It's not helpful to anyone.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 07:34 PM
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Sure all those are valid issues, but if you generalize half the worlds population as a single strawman to attack, you're going to look like an asshole. You're painting a lot of people with a broad stroke and attempting to vilify them as the enemy when the real problem has less to do with individuals and more to do with the society at large.
/r/MensRights01/12/17 07:15 PM
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Have the discussion with her. It could provide a space to evolve your own perspectives and evolve hers as well. I think there is a lot of misinformation out there that needs to be addressed. Also good for you for getting involved in a charitable organization!
/r/MensRights01/12/17 06:35 PM
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"Telling the truth about women" is some overly generalized bullshit you'd actually hear from a hate group. Imagine if someone stated they aren't a racist hate group they are just "Telling the truth about blacks" or "telling the truth about jews". Of course you may not have intended to come off that way, but saying shit like that definitely does sound misogynist as fuck. Plus what "great truth" are you referring to?
/r/MensRights01/12/17 06:34 PM
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Exactly! I'm glad we can be reasonable about this. Too often we are given a false choice between one side or the other... but the truth is we are all human beings and I wager to guess we all share a number of values. While news pundits will try to spin this as an issue with "the other side", really we should be gathering up all the sane and moral people together and throwing out all the immoral sickos who have used their power to exploit people. There are more of us than there are of them, we ne…
/r/MensRights30/11/17 09:02 PM
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I am disagreeing however, that it is in the everyday populace. Oh for sure. We can agree on this. The vast majority of the population would not tolerate rape in any regard. That said, in some communities/companies there does exist (for lack of a better word) a toxic culture that protects rapists. It is in the left strongholds of entertainment and politics. Everyday center right and center left men don't think rape is okay and wouldn't allow it to happen on their watch. I will have to disagree wi…
/r/MensRights30/11/17 08:47 PM
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This is why the left thinks there is a rape culture. I mean this is evidence for so called 'rape culture' though isn't it? If a certain environment has a culture where rape is allowed, condoned, endorsed, defended or actively covered up... then we have a problem of 'rape culture'. If there is evidence for something, then it is reasonable to think it exists. The irony is, it's their culture that is harboring the rape culture. So then you admit rape culture exists? It seems you are simultaneously …
/r/MensRights30/11/17 08:17 PM
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Yeah it varies by state to state here in the US. Listen I'm all about smashing double standards when it comes to sexual misconduct between men and women. But what I wish to avoid is resorting to the same illogical nonsense that academic feminists will resort to when they cant put forth a solid argument. What matters in sexual assault cases is whether the victim feels as though they have been assaulted. Its the same standard we use in regular assault cases. If my friend and I get in a drunken bra…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 09:13 PM
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Ok. Again you attempt to derail the conversation by talking about shit outside the scope of the conversation. I really don't care about your political leanings or your research about differences between men and women. I broke down my arguments for you to present counterpoints for, and instead you just rambled off onto another tangent. Please take your meds and stay focused lol. Do you understand how getting groped for some people may be a big deal even though it is not a big deal for you persona…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 09:05 PM
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I've presented several distinct arguments, perhaps your reading comprehension is lacking so I will distill them down to bullet points for easier consumption. Greater crimes being committed elsewhere does not mean smaller crimes should be ignored. People vary in their reaction to certain actions depending on their life experiences and psychological history. Don't be a dick. Just because you haven't suffered because of something doesn't mean nobody has. Real life cases of sexual assault aren't "Do…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 08:47 PM
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That depends on the state. In some states the age of consent is 16, others it is 17 or 18. California's age of consent is 18, so you are correct this goes against the law. So I do agree with you. However, this brings up a bigger issue of what does and does not constitute sexual assault. If Justin Bieber did NOT want her to touch him and she did anyway, then she should rightfully be brought up on charges for sexual assault. If he didn't mind it and doesn't consider himself victimized by it, then …
/r/MensRights21/11/17 08:36 PM
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What are you talking about? I take it you don't have a rational response to the arguments I presented, so as to avoid being seen as wrong, you resort to creating fictional scenarios and name-calling. Real mature. It seems to me the real pieces of shit in this world are those that do not allow themselves to empathize with the suffering of others.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 08:23 PM
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Ok. But what about some words from the victim? The real issue is whether Justin Bieber felt assaulted by her actions. The issue here is consent.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 08:15 PM
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It's not silly at all. We would do well to remember that some people have real problems. But these things can be "real problems". Just because there are people currently being tortured in other countries, doesn't mean you don't have the right to complain if someone punches you in the face. You're effectively making the point that no one can ever be a victim of any crime so long as they are greater crimes being committed elsewhere. Its silly. Interesting that you chose a male for your horror movi…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 08:08 PM
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I mean there are levels to this shit. Sure getting smacked in the butt is probably not going to ruin your life. But I'd argue getting your genitals fondled by a much older person would probably leave you with lasting scars or affect the way you come to view people who appear like your attacker. Some of this stuff can leave lasting damage. And how affected people will be is going to vary depending on the individual and their life history. Someone who was raped as a child is going to be a lot more…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 07:39 PM
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I mean they probably discussed doing this beforehand as a joke. "Skits" like this are somewhat common and isn't a valid comparison to the sexual assault people do experience.
/r/MensRights21/11/17 07:23 PM
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I had a girl grab my package when I was...about sixteen? If memory serves, three different girls slapped me on the ass in highschool. Shall I hunt them down and make their lives miserable? Only if it has caused some psychological damage that you've been carrying around for years. Everyone is different and will respond to sexual contact differently. Some may shrug it off and move on with their life, others will develop a mental illness which may haunt them the rest of their life. Calling it hyste…
/r/MensRights21/11/17 07:22 PM
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Sure, they are just making it more difficult to acquire and make it an added expense to those who choose to use hormonal birth control, primarily women.
/r/MensRights10/10/17 08:29 PM
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I know right? Its hard to see the sensibility these days....
/r/MensRights10/10/17 08:18 PM
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whose goal is putting everybody on individual insurance rather than employee sponsored insurance. Across the board group insurance policies are cheaper than individual insurance policies. This is the reason why people chose to offer employee plans in the first place. Not even the rich are "entitled" to healthcare. As a community, we should certainly invest in life... by choice, not at gunpoint. Murder is already illegal. President Tweet is complicit in it, by not shutting every door that practic…
/r/MensRights10/10/17 08:14 PM
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Thank you! I hate that I had to scroll this far down for a truly reasoned response. Giving women affordable access to birth control benefits everyone. And we all lose when it is no longer covered by insurance. The poor are disproportionately affected and it leads to a whole host of societal problems when children are brought into this world unplanned. And as you also pointed out, birth control is also used in the treatment of several legitimate medical conditions.
/r/MensRights10/10/17 08:00 PM
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Birth control is used in the treatment of several legitimate medical conditions.
/r/MensRights10/10/17 07:52 PM
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The boss isn't paying for it though... insurance is paid for by the people within the group policy making contributions, companies can CHOOSE to match their employee's contributions, but it is primarily the employee's contributions which make up the pool of money from which medical benefits are paid.
/r/MensRights10/10/17 07:51 PM
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It never once ever occurred to me that someone else might be responsible for paying for MY contraceptive. I believe in full reproductive rights up to and including abortion, but I would never expect someone else to pay for MY sexual choices. That's all me. Uh you are paying for your own contraceptives... by paying your insurance premium. Or were anyway....
/r/MensRights10/10/17 07:44 PM
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Uh birth control for women benefits men too. It allows you to fuck your girlfriend/wife without fear of getting her pregnant and have the privilege of planning when you decide to have children. This has nothing to do with personal responsibility, it has to do with affordability. When birth control and abortions are taken off of health insurance, all this does is shift the cost to the individuals, disproportionately affecting the poor. As a result of this increased cost, statistically there will …
/r/MensRights10/10/17 07:40 PM
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Because they've been fed a narrative that if one is for men's rights that makes them automatically against women's rights.
/r/MensRights06/07/17 06:32 PM
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How does telling someone you are no longer attracted to them constitute 'emotional abuse'? Quit with the sensationalism.
/r/MensRights16/05/17 08:14 PM
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As long as it talks about consent being a two-way street I don't see the problem. Some women still seem to think an erect penis means a man consents. In the same vein, there are also some men out that that believe if a woman is wet she has given consent. Because of this we hear of stories of people being taken advantage of while passed out or asleep. These things may be obvious to adults, but I think it is good topic to cover in a class for high schoolers.
/r/MensRights13/02/17 05:16 PM
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Its a laid back environment, but if you screw up the boss is going to yell at you...a lot. So unless he suddenly decides to change his management style, then I need to bring in somebody who can take a little chastising. If they can't handle that little comment, then its right for them to turn it down. The job isn't for them. Why sugarcoat a job when it'll just bring in an applicant that doesn't want to be there? Fair enough. That makes sense, although given this description of the work environme…
/r/MensRights04/01/17 10:32 PM
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Not sure why the entire millenial generation gets the blame for this. In the first example, it sounds like this girl's mother is an unstable misandrist who uses slanderous lies to manipulate others. This type of toxic attitude often runs in the family, you were right to deny her daughter. As for the second girl, maybe she actually had multiple offers and was weighing them out to see which one would be the best. Secondly, if multiple people claim you are being unprofessional, perhaps you are actu…
/r/MensRights04/01/17 04:38 PM
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Yeah sure lets give more men PTSD, that'll surely help with keeping the family together at home....
/r/MensRights14/11/16 03:31 PM
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The fact that you weren't aware of the hundreds of things that make Donald Trump a shitty candidate shows how much you weren't paying attention this entire election season or it shows to you that your sources of media information were severely lacking on the facts about the candidate you support. I voted for Clinton, but at least I did it full well knowing she's a corrupt candidate who is in bed with the political establishment.
/r/MensRights09/11/16 12:01 AM
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Such as? His talk about climate change being a hoax perpetrated by the chinese? His statements that vaccines cause autism? I'm sure we could give him a basic science test and he'd fail. I'd say the opposite is true. He's even explicitly noted this about his leadership style. When he was briefed by the secret service on the fact that the Russians have been hacking government servers, he refused the intelligence and still claims to state "we dont know who did it". Considering all that "experience"…
/r/MensRights08/11/16 09:54 PM
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Trump's anti-science views, his inability to update his opinion based on new information, his complete lack of experience with any sort of governing, his thin-skinned temperament, his support for a national 'stop-and-frisk' program, his views on abortion, his race-baiting and divisive remarks, his terrible policies, his shady business history, his advocacy for war crimes and torture, his praise of authoritarian governments, his complete disregard for the truth... I could go on all day. Trump is …
/r/MensRights08/11/16 05:39 PM
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If Trump fires a nuke off at some small country that pissed him off, he'll be rapidly impeached and carted off to a war crimes tribunal. This not only serves as a deterrent, but limits the total damage he can do. If he fires off a nuke, it would be an act of war and the total damage would not be limited to just one. Furthermore you underestimate how strong his following is. If he started a war, you can bet he'd convince at least 40% of Americans its justified for some reason and they'll believe …
/r/MensRights08/11/16 05:30 PM
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I label myself an egalitarian which sees both men's rights and women's rights as two equally important fights in society. This usually helps to allow for open discussions of ideas without pushing the whole 'us vs them' mentality which usually comes up when talking about gender equality. What I do find is that people tend to believe that if you are "for" one side, you are "against" the other, so it helps to nip that in the bud by recognizing the legitimacy of both perspectives before discussing o…
/r/MensRights03/11/16 08:34 PM
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There's a big difference between sexualizing and objectifying. To sexualize means to show in a sexual context. To objectify means to treat someone like an object. One can sexualize someone without objectifying them. One can see someone as being "sexy" while still remembering this is a person with feelings they are dealing with.
/r/MensRights26/10/16 08:13 PM
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Yet without men, women would have been devoured by predators long before they even got the bronze age.
/r/MensRights20/10/16 04:03 PM
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You could also subscribe over at /r/egalitarianism. The population is lacking, but I find most people are level headed and willing to engage in debate over social issues.
/r/MensRights17/10/16 04:46 PM
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This right here. I can't believe there are some people trying to defend his actions and his beliefs. He doesn't believe in modern science, he doesn't understand the limits of constitutional authority, he doesn't understand the core principle of Mutual Assured Destruction, and he doesn't understand that you can't just forcibly kiss or molest anyone you find attractive. The MRM, above all, should be the ones rebuking this man and this type of predatory behavior. We ought to show that his views are…
/r/MensRights14/10/16 03:20 PM
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WTF? So you're discounting the possibility that someone has experienced unwanted sexual advances ...because you personally find them unattractive? That's some grade A ignorance you got there.
/r/MensRights14/10/16 03:06 PM
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I'm not sure why this is here. What does this have to do with men's rights? Trump himself described how he forces himself onto women. This is deplorable behavior that nobody with any morality should defend. She was right in her speech when she said normalizing Trump's type of predatory behavior is an insult to all men, because most men do not act this way and most men would find this behavior abhorrent.
/r/MensRights14/10/16 03:04 PM
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Yeah save that for the impending law suit. You are contacting your lawyer over this right? Because its flagrant discrimination to charge more for something simply based on the sex of the person buying it.
/r/MensRights11/10/16 08:00 PM
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People these days seem to think attacking the character of a speaker is somehow the same as winning an argument. You've made the case that cutting skin off an infant's dick is immoral. They didn't have a good argument against it, so they decided to attack and demean your character. I bet their perspectives would have quickly done a 180 if you had mentioned female genital mutilation. Then all their arguments about 'minority religion rights' would quickly seem barbaric. Rest assured you won that a…
/r/MensRights04/10/16 08:15 PM
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Sadly these events are far more common than most people realize. I don't go to the bars much anymore, but every time I used to go, there was at least 1 girl like this: trying to start trouble by taunting/provoking men and then pulling out the gender card and making a scene so all the white knights get involved. Its really messed up and almost always ends badly. Where someone was being fought or kicked out.
/r/MensRights03/10/16 08:05 PM
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While what you say is true, its worth pointing out that black men are twice as likely (per capita) to be shot and killed by police as white men, and this is, in part, due to racial discrimination as well as black men being more likely to live in a poverty / crime ridden areas where interactions with the police are almost never a positive thing. So I think it is more than simply a problem among men, but specifically men of color. While we can boil it down to the gender of the individuals, I think…
/r/MensRights21/09/16 06:54 PM
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While what you say is somewhat correct, I think the point of Black Lives Matter is to specifically point out that black men are being profiled and targeted at a disproportionate amount. I agree we should be supporting our fellow men and one way to do this is to recognize the amount of racial profiling, mistreatment and outright murder that goes on within the black community when police interactions are involved. I think everyone, regardless of race or gender, can see that an overly-militarized p…
/r/MensRights27/07/16 08:38 PM
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I mean I'm sure there exists true cases of misogyny in the world, let's not be naive... however you are right, the word is used far too frequently today to shut down the conversation by making the other person seem like some kind of bigot. This style of argumentation has become pretty widespread as of late. Many arguments today start and end with someone labelling the other as a 'racist', 'sexist', 'islamophobe' or a 'homophobe'. By labelling your opponent as a bigot from the get-go, you can win…
/r/MensRights20/06/16 07:14 PM
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Hahaha. You are the one who was so emotionally compelled by this story, you had to make a post on the internet, not me. I'm just making fun of you because you clearly can't talk about social issues without projecting your own insecurities around women onto the subject. Sounds like you have some unresolved issues with the women in your life and stories like this trigger your anger. Tell me again why you needed to post this. To call out all the 'lying whores' in your life? To stand up for social j…
/r/MensRights06/06/16 09:01 PM
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You're on a social justice subreddit, calling people out for being social justice warriors lol. The hypocrisy with you is astounding. Now tell me, where did the bad lady hurt you? Do you need a wambulence?
/r/MensRights06/06/16 08:51 PM
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You mad because you don't have overwhelming support for your shitty attitude towards women? Poor lil guy, you need a safe space or something?
/r/MensRights06/06/16 07:58 PM
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Using whore as an insult like that really makes this sub look bad. You should feel ashamed OP. You're perpetuating the whole sex-negative misogynistic theme with distortions of statements like that. Whores can be great people, and they probably lie just as much as someone in any other field. It seems you are projecting your own personal views of women into this video title and that view is spiteful/hateful. Might want to talk to a therapist OP. Title aside: I think its a good discussion they are…
/r/MensRights06/06/16 07:47 PM
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What a bitch, I bet she's the type of woman who flees once she detects weakness in a man. I hope it works out for Mr. Depp.
/r/MensRights28/05/16 05:12 PM
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They claim to hate them to keep up appearances. In reality most women/people love the feeling they get when someone is crushing on them. It's personally why I don't believe monogamy is a sustainable or even beneficial system. Everyone is eventually going to want some novelty in their life. It's all a matter of whether they act on it, or suppress the urge to act on it and think about it all the time.
/r/MensRights27/05/16 05:31 PM
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This made me sad. I'm so glad I made it this far in life without getting anyone pregnant or getting roped into marriage.
/r/MensRights27/05/16 05:27 PM
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Attractive men can be creepy. The problem with the term 'creepy' is it's such a subjective moniker. Any person place or thing that makes a woman feel uncomfortable gets the label 'creepy'. This can range from a guy who doesn't take 'No' for an answer to some shy ugly kid who she thinks is looking at her all the time.
/r/MensRights09/05/16 02:09 PM
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I think it all boils down to the asymmetry that exists within our culture/nature regarding dating/sex. With lots of men competing for a small number of women, it tends to make the women pickier and the men more accommodating to traits they would not normally accept. Over time, this tends to make women a privileged class. They believe they can say or do whatever they want and blame their issues on other people, because men will accept that for fear of losing their partner to another man. So, many…
/r/MensRights04/05/16 07:25 PM
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This sounds like rationalization from a woman who abuses men.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 05:08 PM
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So if you commit a crime, any crime at all, you can no longer be a victim of a separate violent or sexual crime? Do you realize how ridiculous that position is? That means if you are caught illegally downloading a movie, I should be able to rape you because, like you said, you have given up the 'right' to be a victim. Or perhaps the next time you speed on the freeway, someone should be allowed to sexually assault you... because hey, you have up your right to be a victim right?
/r/MensRights19/04/16 04:04 PM
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So in order to bring awareness to the absurd amount of male on male prison rape, the victims should all come forward and claim to identify as female? That would get some media attention.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 03:59 PM
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Imagine if this was a poster threatening women who opened their legs. It would be labeled as oppressive hate speech.
/r/MensRights19/04/16 02:10 PM
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Life is suffering. Best you can do is adjust your mindset to compensate. It sounds like you might have depression, I'd make correcting that your main focus, because what worth is there to life if you don't enjoy any of it? From the contents of your other comments it seems you've married an irrational woman who controls you through fear and coercion. This is not healthy. Start taking steps today to improve your mental health: make an appointment with a therapist, go for a long jog, start exercisi…
/r/MensRights18/03/16 04:16 PM
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I'm pretty sure r / feminism will ban you just for admitting you're a man.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 08:20 PM
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A child not being born is not the same as a grown person dying. This is the same bullshit tactics pro-life people try to make; which seems strikingly odd coming from a supposedly pro-choice feminist.
/r/MensRights16/03/16 05:52 PM
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Well while your approach was cringy, I don't think you should fear all women doing this now. The girl told you she wasn't interested several times. If you don't ever take the hint, then yeah of course a girl is going to call the cops on you. You verbally backed her into a corner where you would not take no for an answer and kept persisting. That tends to make people feel unsafe. Learn to take a hint and handle the rejection gracefully instead of pestering her and 'test the waters' before you go …
/r/seduction14/03/16 06:49 PM
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As you would expect, the feminism subreddit does not allow for debate. They ban people like this all the time. If you express an opinion outside of the accepted arguments presented by academic feminism, they ban you. To be honest, it just demonstrates how untenable their position is if they cannot defend it rationally and must instead resort to censorship.
/r/MensRights08/03/16 03:35 PM
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Yeah came here to say this. Its certainly rude and inappropriate to pinch or grab someone's butt and if done repeatedly it would be considered harassment, but I hesitate to call it 'sexual assault'. A crime exists where there is harm to a victim, I don't really see any long lasting harm here, nor anyone being victimized. Unless you are one of those people who stretches the word 'victim' to have a very loose meaning.
/r/MensRights03/03/16 03:46 PM
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Well if your life isn't currently exciting, I say make it exciting. You have to see it from their perspective a little: What makes you stand out, why should they choose you over other men? If you don't grab their attention and fill them with excitement, they are going to find someone who is. If possible: do some traveling, start a bad-ass/dangerous hobby, or volunteer your time helping others. All these things will give you great stories to tell and make you seem more interesting. I could tell s…
/r/seduction01/03/16 11:28 PM
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Hi there, not who you were responding to. But I am also an introvert, and I needed to change my perspective regarding conversations in order for me to better tolerate idle chit-chat. It is terribly pointless and boring, but it is the foundation by which socialization occur. Girls want to be heard, and if you aren't willing to listen to all their gibber-gabber, they will find someone who will.
/r/seduction01/03/16 08:49 PM
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It's probably a intersection of a few things: Many girls expect the guy to be the pursuer, so they'll be passive, talk about themselves and make their choice between the multiple guys that will be talking to them at any given time. So if you don't rise above the competition, you'll get written off. Some girls have found they get more male attention by being the dumb than intelligent. There's a surprising number of guys who are turned off when a girl is more educated or earns more than them. So s…
/r/seduction01/03/16 08:48 PM
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Even if they were apart from the get-go, he'd most likely still get visitation rights. The difference being he'd only be paying child support right now, instead of child-support + alimony.
/r/MensRights01/03/16 07:09 PM
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I knocked up a girl in college did the "right thing". Well there's where you fucked up. Marriage isn't slavery when both people choose to be a part of it, but here you just got married because you believed it was what you were supposed to do... and I imagine being married to someone you aren't compatible with must seem like slavery. The truth is: Marriage laws are still based around the archaic concept of marriage in which the man is the sole provider and the woman is unable to work. Things are …
/r/MensRights01/03/16 05:28 PM
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You really just need to take the risk of being too forward. You'll never make progress playing it safe. If you are ok settling for friendship, then you're not really gonna try to win her over and you'll keep settling. But do you really want to be friends with these girls, or do you want to become romantically involved with these girls? You should pick one and stick to it. Settling for friendship is like being happy for a participation award. You can do better
/r/seduction01/03/16 04:26 PM
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Bad idea. Insecurities make you appear fragile, someone who requires a lot of maintenance; the opposite of the fun confident persona you want to project. Sharing vulnerabilities is a good way to bond with someone, but these are vulnerabilities that demonstrate your human qualities: expressing trust in someone, taking a chance on a new girl, sharing a funny secret about yourself, etc. It is not an excuse to unload your issues onto a girl. Just let her see the softer side of you from time to time.
/r/seduction25/02/16 09:45 PM
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Do they not have a minimum age requirement for "contests" like this in Russia? How is this any different than winning a free night month with a prostitute?
/r/MensRights24/02/16 08:28 PM
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Well it seems to me the issue here is your attachment to the outcome. You feel great when the outcome is good, but you spiral into negativity when the outcome is bad. So somewhere along the line you are attaching your self-worth as a human being to the outcome of your interactions with women. This, I think you may realize, is not healthy. How can you enjoy your life if your mood is always fluctuating based on how girls treat you that day? Plus this dependency on others can really give off the wr…
/r/seduction24/02/16 05:22 PM
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The burden of proof is always on the person making a claim, not the person refuting it. If I claim someone assaulted me last night, it is up to me to show that is indeed the case. Not up to anyone else to prove it didn't happen.
/r/MensRights24/02/16 05:09 PM
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Today the checklist for being a model seems to be as follows: [ ] Has Large Breasts.
/r/MensRights24/02/16 04:29 PM
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Find an older woman and give her lots of compliments. As women get older the amount of attention they get decreases. Single older women are so hungry for that sexual attention. Find one and flirt like crazy, its easier than you think. Also your best bet is probably a night club / bar.
/r/seduction23/02/16 03:23 PM
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Fuck wednesday, start right this moment. The more time you think about something leading up to it, the more anxiety you are going to produce about it. So your best bet is to stop planning and simply act. The less internal dialog the better.
/r/seduction22/02/16 08:35 PM
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I think we are steadily making progress to bring nudity as a whole back into filmmaking. It won't be sudden and there are incongruities but I think we are headed into the right direction. I'm sure its only a matter of time before we see vulva in an R rated movie. However, I think it should be at the producer's discretion whether or not to include something, rather than it being included simply to meet some quota. So that is why I am not more vocal about this.
/r/MensRights22/02/16 08:18 PM
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Man I sure do hate the pandora's box of bullshit that is twitter. Cases like this really shows how spoiled people have become. The most terrible thing they've ever experienced is someone calling them names on the internet. People like that ought to experience some real suffering for once, so they can get some fucking perspective. Secondly, I thought feminism was about empowering women? How is censoring insults from the internet empowering? Isn't that just an admission of weakness to ask for prot…
/r/MensRights05/02/16 09:52 PM
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Rarely do girls look back on previous encounters and try to compare it to your current personality. From their perspective, you're unknown to them and they only know what you show them. Over time if they discover you're not one to use a personality test, then they'll just realize you went out of your element to talk to them, which is somewhat endearing... I wouldn't worry too much about it. It really doesn't matter how you get the conversation rolling, as long as it gets started somehow. As she …
/r/seduction05/02/16 06:57 PM
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Then its time to rewire yourself. It sounds like you have trouble simply being in the moment and are so wrapped up in how you think you appear. You could try meditation or other mindfulness exercises. But the point is to just be in the moment and not in your head... and it's a skill that takes practice.
/r/seduction04/02/16 06:29 PM
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Last I checked, gay men are still men. Therefore they are intimately affected by the treatment of men in society. I get that they may not have to deal with some of the more common frustration amongst MRAs: divorce, alimony and child custody cases. But they do have to deal with plenty of other issues: The demonizing of male sexuality, men making up the majority portion of combat, workplace and homicide related deaths, and the stranger-danger overreaction towards men around children. In my opinion…
/r/MensRights04/02/16 05:14 PM
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This is where its important to pay attention to body language. As you flirt, a certain level of tension builds up and you need to be able to read when she's ready to be kissed or not. Some signs you should make a move or kiss her: She's intoxicated by you, she hangs off your every word and peers deeply into your eyes for extended periods of time, sometimes forgetting what she was talking about. She does the kiss-look triangle. Her eyes will look at yours, then look at your lips, then look at you…
/r/seduction22/01/16 07:08 PM
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It seems the problem with these people and others, is they watch television as if it were some reflection of actual reality. Well it ISN'T! Television is theater, its drama, its fiction. If you believe you are going to grow up and end up like the people you see on your favorite tv show or commercial, you are in for a rude awakening! Yes... TV, Movies and Commercials create unobtainable standards... because they are fictional stories written to promote a product or idea! Commercials of all kind a…
/r/MensRights19/01/16 07:26 PM
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My story was just that, I chased after and slept with a lot of girls because I was addicted to the attention they gave me, but whenever I was alone, I was completely miserable. Eventually I decided I was sick and tired of feeling that way, so I dedicated myself to using every resource to overcome my sadness and create a life I wanted to live. Talking to a therapist helped me overcome some bullshit from my past, self-help techniques learned from everywhere helped me overcome insecurity and start …
/r/seduction17/01/16 03:55 PM
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Let them be your wing-women, for real. Have your friend go make friends with other girl, she says positive things about you for a bit, and then introduces you to her "new friend". From there, be charming and if its going well, your friend should make up an excuse to give you a bit of privacy and viola!
/r/seduction15/01/16 09:17 PM
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I used to be like you, I'd "fall in love" with every girl I'd meet and as a result, I'd end up scaring them away by expecting too much too soon. After much self-reflection, I realized that I was depressed and I was using the attention of these girls to bolster my self-esteem. It is similar to drug abuse: You find something that makes you feel good when you are normally sad, so you take it every chance you get. However, it should be obvious that this method of bolstering your self-esteem is unsus…
/r/seduction15/01/16 06:30 PM
1

Hm. I dunno beauty is pretty subjective. Its up to the person perceiving you to determine if you are attractive or not, you can't really determine your own attractiveness with much accuracy. Everyone is someone's fetish. I know some incredibly "ugly" people in a relationship with people who claim to be attracted to them. It doesn't make sense to me, but then again it doesn't have to.
/r/seduction14/01/16 09:23 PM
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Be friendly / awesome to both of them, be ambiguous about which one you find more attractive, flirt with both of them in a non-imposing way, and then let them fight over each other for who gets you first. Girls are highly competitive amongst each other, use this to your advantage.
/r/seduction14/01/16 07:16 PM
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People, for the most part, will treat you how you treat you. If you believe yourself an ugly shadow of a man, women will pick up on that and treat you as if you were. That's how it goes. Plus who is going to want to be with someone that is so negative about their own appearance? That's like going into a job interview, telling them all the terrible things you've ever done in your life, and then wondering why you didn't get the job. The way you're 'selling yourself' to people is probably closer to…
/r/seduction14/01/16 06:30 PM
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It's an ego problem. Well you're right about one thing. You have a huge ego problem, until you get that sorted out, not many girls are going to want to be with you. That combination of desperation and entitlement is the one of the most unattractive traits a person could have. The way I see it: You either lower your expectations or you suffer a life always desiring something you will never have.
/r/seduction14/01/16 06:23 PM
1

Nah its usually the opposite. Girls like guys who are pursued by other girls.
/r/seduction13/01/16 05:47 PM
1

Nah, girls will label a guy a player and then still attempt to sleep with him. Preselection works in your favor.
/r/seduction05/01/16 06:49 PM
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If equality gets in the way of your social movement, you are backing a shitty social movement.
/r/MensRights29/12/15 06:33 PM
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Sorry in advance for the length... You may be inadvertently selecting for a certain type of woman based on the places you go to meet them, the area in which you live, and which women you choose to approach. I find girls at bars and clubs are far more likely to be rude and toxic than a girl you meet at the grocery store or coffee shop. Try switching up the bar/club you go to or avoid that scene entirely and go to a music concert or house party to meet girls. When it comes to younger girls (19-22)…
/r/seduction18/12/15 05:05 PM
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Hm well obviously I don't know your situation entirely, but normally people assign the word 'creep' to those who make others feel uncomfortable and unsafe. So perhaps it could be the way in which you are approaching that is the problem? A few things to keep in mind: Always be friendly. If a girl is not interested, take the hint and leave her alone. Do not harass her or call her names if she's not interested. Don't physically block off a girl's exit or corner her when you are talking to her. Allo…
/r/seduction17/12/15 09:10 PM
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Personally, I'd pick the hottest girl in the room and start talking to her first. If she likes you, great. If she doesn't seem interested, then leave her alone for the rest of the night and flirt with the other girls. Eventually the first girl you were talking to will be upset that you lost interest in her and she'll be trying to talk you up by the end of the night. When the odds are in your favor its going to be pretty easy, just be confident, funny and friendly.
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:41 PM
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Just wanted to say even though I'm a complete stranger on the internet: I am motherfucking proud of you man. It takes a lot of discipline suffering and dedication to overcome your own tendencies and create the life you want to live. So you deserve a little bit of praise for your accomplishments. Keep it up dude! You're awesome.
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:06 PM
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I'd start with getting yourself a licensed psychotherapist and working on your mental illness. This mentality of "I'm a piece of shit" is going to be the single biggest block to overcome. If you believe you are a piece of shit, other people will too. That's how it works, how you treat yourself is how other people will learn to treat you too. If you don't respect yourself or value yourself, nobody else will. You need to work on your self-esteem so you feel like you feel after the gym all the time…
/r/seduction17/12/15 08:01 PM
1

Totally can support this. I've had female friends all my life growing up and it gave me the perspective to see them as just regular people. I've met so many other girls through hanging out with them, because I was their cute guy friend. Also I'm the guy they bang when their boyfriend breaks up with them, so thats nice too. All in all having lots of female friends pays off in both the short term and the long term.
/r/seduction17/12/15 06:40 PM
1

I'm fucking terrified of putting myself out there. And I'm honestly not sure why I've been like this all my life. Maybe its because you've never done it before, so it appears terrifying. Same goes with doing anything for the first time. Most people are terrified to skydive... but once you just get out there and do it, you find it is no longer terrifying.
/r/seduction17/12/15 06:36 PM
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People love to reduce a complex issue to a simple binary one. "The society is rigged against women", "The society is rigged against men". How about a little nuance? Some aspects of certain societies are rigged against women. In the same vein, some aspects of certain societies are rigged against men. Its as if some people are unable to separate the issues and tackle them individually, they'd rather lump all issues into a single category and force others to pick a side.
/r/MensRights17/12/15 06:18 PM
1

When you are peacocking that hard, maybe. Those guys do look pretty ridiculous. But peacocking in more subtle ways does work. I know a guy who absolutely slays it with the ladies everytime he goes out to the club in his full body Tigger costume, he just dances and acts ridiculous and girls are practically pissing themselves laughing. Its great and everyone starts a conversation with him because of how hilarious it is and how confident he must be to wear that out. Another one of my friend has a b…
/r/seduction17/12/15 05:58 PM
1

Strike up a conversation with girls everywhere you meet them. It doesn't need to be an "approach", necessarily, friendly conversation will get you pretty far.
/r/seduction16/12/15 09:37 PM
1

I'm not sure you really need to ask at this point. You've already hooked up a few times. Perhaps the next time you two are sober, ask her if she wants to make out. There really isn't anything more to a FWB situation than this. It doesn't require some grand declaration... just the willingness of two friends to get down and dirty.
/r/seduction16/12/15 05:26 PM
1

I see nothing wrong with this. As long as you aren't leading them on or anything, its fine. Seeing 4 girls at once is living the dream, in my opinion.
/r/seduction10/12/15 06:48 PM
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Girls find a man's serious face very sexy. A cheerful face is friendly, but can also communicate that a guy is too eager, which works against you. Err on the side of the serious face when in doubt. Use your smiles on one girl in particular and she'll think there's something special about her.
/r/seduction07/12/15 07:49 PM
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Sign me up for more dismembered babies!! They are magically delicious.
/r/MensRights01/12/15 09:20 PM
2

Just because men aren't the primary patients doesn't mean they don't benefit from planned parenthood services. Planned Parenthood provides free birth control to millions of young women, which means their boyfriends (or whoever) benefit from not producing children before their lives have officially begun. Not to mention they give out free condoms and STD screenings so kids of both genders can keep themselves safe. Federal Funding for Planned Parenthood is absolutely necessary and benefits everyon…
/r/MensRights01/12/15 09:19 PM
1

Hang out with her one on one, pre-game and go to a party together, flirt with her all night, by the end you'll probably be making out.
/r/seduction16/11/15 05:42 PM
1

Well it seems pretty clear to me that you'll first need to work on your insecurities and self image before you'll ever have success with the women you like. The roots of why you feel the way you do will need to be discovered through deep introspection and a good therapist. I'd encourage you to talk to a professional and work through your hang ups. Once you feel proud being who you are its going to make everything in your life a lot simpler. So instead of focusing on getting a girl right now, I'd…
/r/seduction15/11/15 11:17 PM
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Are you any good at deadpan humor? The type of jokes where you make and keep a straight face? This can be good for putting it out there that you find her attractive, but then keep a straight face and she won't be able to tell if you are serious or not.... which leads her to think about it in her spare time. So try to fit in jokes about how she's so ridiculously hot things just go well for her. Then if she asks if you are serious, keep a serious face and don't answer her, maybe a sly smile. This …
/r/seduction06/11/15 03:04 PM
1

Men are responsible for their actions while drunk, but women are not? Typical bs. Glad to see all her responses are downvoted to hell. This type of misinformation needs to be squashed.
/r/MensRights06/11/15 02:44 PM
1

Hooking up in college is simple: Find a house party. Get drunk. Pick one girl you find attractive, tell her that and then ask if she wants to go make out somewhere. One thing leads to another, and boom sex. Atleast thats how it worked for me in college. Bars are okay for picking up girls, but house parties make it 100x easier to meet and hookup.
/r/seduction05/11/15 06:25 PM
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Well yeah, who would want to see a terribly one sided match like that? Men and women are built differently. Men, generally, are physically dominant when compared to women. Denser bones, more muscle mass, more aggressive under stress, etc. It would be quite hard to watch a professional fight between a man and a woman. Unless she was able to dominate on the ground with jujitsu, she'd be destroyed.
/r/MensRights30/10/15 07:56 PM
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Yeah same. Ronda Rousey is a pretty ideal woman: She is talented, driven, hard-working, strong, sexy and slightly nerdy. In reality, she represents what feminism should be. Not this race to the bottom, "I'm the biggest victim", crap.
/r/MensRights30/10/15 07:51 PM
1

The real question is why would these people be bragging to social media about their terrible decision making abilities. If you wake up to realize you've had sex with someone you don't know, you should probably take some time to consider the choices that lead you to that point in time. Instead these people use their shame to generate imaginary brownie points from social media.
/r/MensRights20/10/15 05:21 PM
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Maintain eye contact, but dont stare them down, its normal to look away and around the room a little bit before making eye contact again. And if a girl is getting lost in your eyes, thats a good thing. Keep talking slowly and confidently. That's a big IOI
/r/seduction20/10/15 03:52 PM
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Take the high road and don't fire back. Instead, agree and amplify. If they call you something, agree with it and then blow it up. If some tool says "oh look its mr cool guy here.", say "you know, I am pretty cool that's a great nickname. Hey <insert girl name>, this guy gives away great nicknames, he'll give you one." Or something like that. Show him it doesn't bother you and then bring attention to it, he'll be embarrassed for even bringing it up, and you'll get brownie points for taking it in…
/r/seduction19/10/15 06:48 PM
1

Long before there was any such thing as 'pickup', High school boys and girls were going out on dates. The principles still apply, I would just avoid using any of the terminology. Be confident, go directly to the girl you find most attractive, make a connection with her, and then ask her out. It doesn't need to be any more difficult than this.
/r/seduction15/10/15 07:45 PM
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Get yourself a therapist. You can work through these self-esteem issues of feeling your 'not good enough'. Now is the perfect time to work on your mentality. If you work to develop your 'inner game' now, you'll benefit from a lifetime of being confident and feeling more than enough for anyone.
/r/seduction15/10/15 06:36 PM
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Yeah I hate how they don't show the full context of these events. If someone is harassed, insulted, slapped and spit on like that, eventually they are going to snap... and they are going to retaliate. There are consequences for every action, and if you insult, hit and spit on a guy bigger than you, you're probably gonna get your ass kicked.
/r/MensRights13/10/15 02:08 PM
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Humans are weird, we all desire the things we don't have, while downplaying or ignoring the things we do have. And the harder something is for us to get, the more we crave it and the more we value it once we get it. The easier something is for us to get, the more likely we are to get bored of it or throw it away. So the amount of work someone puts into something is directly related to how much they will value it when they finally get it. So think about this from the girl's perspective. With the …
/r/seduction09/10/15 02:18 PM
1

Is there a drug or something I can take? Ecstasy if you can find it. lol. That shit makes me ooze confidence and talk to everyone. But it only lasts for so long and has some other side effects... If you want real, sustained confidence, you need to work on yourself and your inner game. Hit the gym, always look and smell your best, compliment yourself, avoid negative self-talk, overcome challenges, develop a positive attitude, and most importantly: push through your fears. If something scares you,…
/r/seduction30/09/15 05:34 PM
3

Difficult question. Ultimately it is about valuing and holding yourself in high regard such that you don't need other people. That is: being whole and happy unto yourself. For one reason or another, you are seeking the approval of others to validate how you feel about yourself. And in doing so, you don't express your true emotions, but rather manufactured ones that are easily seen as fake. Girls are very perceptive to emotions and can tell immediately if you are faking feelings or putting up a f…
/r/seduction28/09/15 04:21 PM
1

That can be explained if you assume homosexual couples often do not have children. I'm fairly confident that if you don't have a family, your earning potential is significantly higher than someone who chooses to have a family.
/r/MensRights24/09/15 07:40 PM
2

Too many people are unwilling or unlearned in the art of rational discourse. It seems so many people would rather digress into personal attacks and emotional statements than sit down and actually discuss a topic with the possibility of changing their mind. Its quite sad, we can all become better people by admitting when we are wrong and changing our opinions when new evidence comes to light. That said, its spelled "experience", not 'expirience'. Boy that bugged me.
/r/MensRights24/09/15 02:18 PM
1

Sit next to her, lead the group in stories / be the center of attention, talk highly of other people, make eye contact with her and smile, and finally play it cool. And if she flirts with you (by trying to taste some of your food or tease you for your choice in drink), flirt with her back.
/r/seduction23/09/15 04:45 PM
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Yeah, I think if this goes to trial, he can provide a reasonable defense in his case, and may even convince his wife (and family friends) to testify in his favor, which could get the prosecution to drop its case. They will normally try to force a bargain on people who don't understand their legal options and just want it to be over quickly. But this can have consequences later on. (For instance, if he pleads guilty to get off.... and this somehow happens again, it'll be counted as his second off…
/r/MensRights22/09/15 02:07 PM
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I am not a lawyer, but I think your only way out of this is through it. He needs to get a lawyer who actually believes him and is on his side and he needs to fight this in court. They'll try to have him plead guilty or sign a plea bargain, but these documents can sometimes often cause more harm than good (pleading guilty for a crime can have long lasting consequences to your employability and public perception).
/r/MensRights22/09/15 01:41 PM
1

Do people tell you you're creeping them out, or is that just a feeling you get? Make sure that feeling of 'creepy' isn't just in your head as a way to shame yourself. Too many guys do this. Also practice smiling with your eyes, maintain a friendly mindset and keep a funny joke in the back of your mind so you can produce a genuine smile on demand instead of the fake awkward smile. Fake smiles vs Real smiles
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:49 PM
3

Eye contact isn't LITERALLY everything. Everything is literally everything. But yeah eye contact with girls is important to establishing a connection.
/r/seduction18/09/15 03:48 PM
1

Things to talk about: Stories with a funny/happy ending where you are shown in a positive light. You want to make her laugh while simultaneously making yourself seem like you live an interesting life. As someone else said, actually listen to what she says and ask questions which are relevant to what she's interested in. People love talking about their interests. Talk for as long as she seems interested, once she starts seeming distracted or has finished her coffee, tell her to go for a walk with…
/r/seduction15/09/15 03:37 PM
2

So, is that how you want to remain or do you want to change? Because moving forward is going to require you to go against what you are comfortable with. It will require you to be the opposite of shy. Attractive looks may get someone's attention, but it'll never progress from there unless you strike up a conversation. Social skills are just like any other type of skill: You must practice them in order to be good. If you haven't done much socializing throughout your life, then you'll probably be b…
/r/seduction11/09/15 06:30 PM
1

I dont think you are fucking up. Lots of girls use the word 'cute' to just mean 'attractive'. They rarely use the words 'hot' or 'sexy' unless they are describing specific actions. I wouldn't take it personally.
/r/seduction09/09/15 07:10 PM
4

Hey man, I'd encourage you to dedicate the next few years of your life reinventing yourself. High school is over, and that version of you is outdated. You're in College now, with a fresh batch of people for you to meet. You no longer need to be the socially awkward kid you were in the past. I think you should start by practicing conversation with strangers, everywhere you go, acknowledge people's existence and show them respect: talk with them, compliment them, enhance their lives with positive …
/r/seduction04/09/15 04:11 PM
2

For those getting bent out of shape over this: Grey matter alone does not translate to better cognition. It does function as the primary computational structures. However, white matter plays a vital role in the "bandwidth" and interconnectivity between computational structures. White matter is also what prunes and manages grey matter connections to allow us to forget and learn, leading to greater plasticity in the brain. There are going to be structural differences in the brain of a woman vs the…
/r/MensRights02/09/15 08:26 PM
4

"Never slapped me that hard without a good reason, and if I did its because I just let my hand a little too hard." That just shows your her perspective on things. She thinks its ok to hit you as long as there is "good reason", while you cannot so much as swat at her hand without her crying abuse. At the very least you have a woman who is outdated her views about the sexes and who feels she is beyond reproach and above the law. At the worst you have an abusive girlfriend who uses anger, coercion …
/r/MensRights02/09/15 07:53 PM
1

The way I see it: Women are attracted to men who exhibit strength. This should be no surprise, but it is not just physical strength that attracts them, but also emotional strength. If they can tell you are the type of guy to run away from adversity or trouble, they are going to write you off as a boy, instead of a man. They want someone they can run to when they have problems and find security in your arms. And if they tag you as the type of person who avoids uncomfortable feelings or are unable…
/r/seduction02/09/15 04:05 PM
4

Avoid "interview questions" ("what do you do for a living?", "how do you like it?"). Those questions are boring and don't let you actually get to know the person. Next when you tell stories, make sure those stories have a point to them, and the point of the story should really be the humourous part that everyone laughs at. Also when telling a story, make sure to emphasize words and get excited about whatever you are talking about. If you aren't good at thinking of jokes or stories off the top of…
/r/seduction31/08/15 08:09 PM
1

Honestly, I think you should get yourself a therapist. The sooner you work out your mental issues, the more time you have to live a happier life. You may just need to talk through some things. Events in one's childhood can leave lasting emotional wounds that really cause a disruption in their lives until they are properly addressed. A lot of what they will do is help you develop strategies for managing those self-loathing thoughts and feelings as they arise. Also, I'd highly recommend regular ex…
/r/seduction28/08/15 05:20 PM
1

Hit the gym, get buff, work on improving your opinion of yourself, and make a list of things you want to do with your life. Honestly, high school matters very little in comparison to the rest of your life. You'll quickly forget all about it as you move onto better things. Dedicate yourself becoming the ultimate version of yourself, the most attractive, most creative, most interesting version of you. And also, go to college. It is so easy to get laid in college, its ridiculous.
/r/seduction27/08/15 04:49 PM
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We've been fed these cultural images of people from the media that it sometimes interferes with our perception of reality. You've got the impression that men only want sex, women never want sex, and that any exchange between the two of them is forceful. But that's not how reality works. Women enjoy and seek out sex just as often as men do. They think about it, they indulge in masturbation, they have fantasies about men in skimpy clothing. Hell, there most likely have been women that have went ho…
/r/seduction26/08/15 04:18 PM
1

One piece of advice about life: Do what scares you. It only scares you because you don't know what to do, because it exists as an unknown. The only way you overcome the fear of the unknown is by diving in and seeking to understand it. Here's the thing about dancing: Nobody truly knows what they are doing. Dancing is just movement to music, there is no correct way to do it. (Although some ways are more hilarious than others). If you need a place to start: just nod your head to the music while swa…
/r/seduction18/08/15 03:24 PM
1

Well, more importantly: The ability to create fun out of any circumstance. Getting drunk just lowers the threshold for what people consider fun by making them dumber, therefore making the job a lot simpler. But really you can generate fun anywhere you are, you just have to channel that child-like mindset where the world is your playground. Make your life an adventure and then share it with someone.
/r/seduction18/08/15 01:25 PM
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In situations like this, you just need to NOT be your own enemy. Everyone has some hangups on how they appear, but you gotta train your mind to forget all that stuff when you are out in the field. By second guessing yourself or introducing doubt, you're going to throw your game off, regardless of whether your fears are true or not. Those things are to be critiqued when you are home alone or in the gym. But when you go out put those fears aside. If a woman takes a liking to you, good, if not, no …
/r/seduction17/08/15 07:37 PM
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The only thing a girl hates worse than an ugly man is a boring man. Don't be boring. Saving money for your retirement is boring. Going out and getting drunk is fun. The analogy I like to use is this: In general, men are drivers and women are passengers. You show them your vehicle (your body) and you let them know where you are going (in life), and they decide if they want to come along for the ride. So demonstrate to them that you got your shit together and you know how to have fun. That's the o…
/r/seduction17/08/15 06:33 PM
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While certain techniques work better than others, human beings aren't simply input-output devices, and you shouldn't view them as such. People differ wildly from each other, and what will work for some people won't work for others. The only universally attractive trait is confidence. (Mostly because everyone knows how terrible it is to be friends with negative people). As for your inability to develop deep connections with girls, it seems you've already listed your issue: You think of girls as t…
/r/seduction11/08/15 05:57 PM
1

It sounds like you are making it more difficult than it needs to be. There are opportunities that present themselves in life and if you don't take them, they are gone forever. Stop making decisions out of fear, make a move on her, see where these feelings take you. You will have to leave after a year, sure, but this could be the best year of your life. Don't avoid things just because they are temporary in nature, because all things in nature are temporary.
/r/seduction07/08/15 06:59 PM
1

Sounds like she worked up the courage to send you a revealing photo and you just flat out ignored it. You probably hurt her feelings and now she thinks you're a jerk. Next time when a girl sends you a nude, you should almost always compliment her or tell her how it turns you on. Girls send nudes because they know it'll net them positive attention, and because they are seeking your approval. You responded with negative attention and now she probably thinks her boobs are ugly and you dont even fin…
/r/seduction07/08/15 06:43 PM
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I wouldn't take it personally, downvotes are quite common around here. Sadly people like to downvote things they disagree with, rather than practicing proper reddiquette. You keep doing what you're doing, starting rational dialogue through inquiry and with a sense of empathy towards people's individual struggles.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 08:49 PM
1

To extend further: Prostitution should be legal so that it provides legal protection and medical care for sex workers. Currently they get no medical benefits and their protection is often a Pimp named Slickback.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 07:48 PM
1

Using your personal hangups over sex as a reason why everyone else shouldn't be able to access a clean and regulated prostitution industry is a terribly poor argument to make. Prostitution isn't for people who are happily married anyway.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 07:46 PM
1

Man I'm really sorry to hear that happened to you, that's awful especially as it came from someone who is supposed to be family to you. I'd encourage you to get a therapist, and talk to them about it. Unfortunately lots of people are still brainwashed into believing men enjoy sex under all circumstances, which we know is just blatantly false.
/r/MensRights06/08/15 07:14 PM
1

I find it easy enough to just notice something about them. "I've just noticed you have the most adorable dimples." or "You have such gorgeous eyes, has anyone ever told you that?" or "I love your accent, its so sexy." or really any genuine complement that is thoughtful and original.
/r/seduction05/08/15 05:49 PM
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Yeah mental health in general needs to be addressed, especially when it comes to men. We have generations of men who have been taught to ignore or repress their emotions, to always act tough and never seek help, and we see the effects of that: High suicide rates and the occasional mass shootings that results from mentally disturbed individuals not getting the help they need.
/r/MensRights05/08/15 03:33 PM
1

I think it would be helpful to adjust your perspective as to what a hookup means to you. Perhaps you are viewing it as taking something, or doing something to someone. In which case, it sounds... 'wrong' somehow. But I think this is a narrow minded view of the interaction. The way I see it, life is short, and we meet so many incredible people, notably incredible women throughout our lives. While on most occasions we barely make eye contact before fading away forever, other times we have the oppo…
/r/seduction05/08/15 03:25 PM
3

Grow out what facial hair you can and hit the gym. Its time to start sculpting yourself a man body. Focus on strength and mass training, with minimal cardio. But more importantly, develop a strong mindset. Take some time to get in touch with your masculinity, work to feel good about yourself, work to feel strong in all situations. The mentality change alone will get you more positive reception from others. See above. While logical, you can't hold onto a viewpoint that pits the world against you.…
/r/seduction31/07/15 05:44 PM
1

Hey man, I know how you are feeling, I went through a similar thing myself, and unfortunately it takes the feeling you are experiencing now to finally give you the kick in the ass you need. You've realized your life is somewhat uninteresting and in need of a change. You make new friends by sharing common interests and going to where those people meet up. If you like music, go to concerts and shows in your area, talk to people, invite them to hang out. If you like art, find local art classes or c…
/r/seduction31/07/15 02:20 PM
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What a moron. People who claim war is just some walk in the park should be eligible for a mandatory draft... In order to even make a statement like that you must be someone who reeks of actual privilege.
/r/MensRights31/07/15 01:42 PM
1

That doesn't make you a bad person. There are literally millions of other girls you could be with, each of them different from the last. It sounds like you aren't happy with your relationship, so its perfectly logical to them think about how it could be better with someone else. Life is short man, don't waste your time with someone if you know its not what you truly want. You will have to loser her though if you want to go for someone else, so its a decision only you can make.
/r/seduction23/07/15 02:50 PM
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You gotta realize this path to change is a long term one. Its about changing your habits around women for life. Its may take hundreds of approaches and dozens of failed dates for it to all start clicking. Try to not get frustrated, remind yourself there is a learning curve to all skills: at the beginning you won't be very good and will get frustrated, but the more practice you put into it, the easier it'll become. I think you should work on developing your inner game and an outcoming-independent…
/r/seduction13/07/15 05:50 PM
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I think you just have to accept that a certain percentage of girls will flake. They just will. You could do everything perfectly and some will still flake. The important part is keeping your composure and not taking anything personally. You'll come to notice that the moment you start getting all upset that she's flaking, she'll start the fade-away. Take it in stride and instead of asking "would that work for you". Tell her what your plans are and invite her out to them. Even if you don't have pl…
/r/seduction10/07/15 06:30 PM
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Probably because you actually give a shit what attractive girls think of you, and not so much about what unattractive girls think of you. If you could "not give a shit" around hot girls as much as you do around not-hot girls... you'd have a lot more success. Act without expectation.
/r/seduction09/07/15 07:23 PM
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I think if a woman said something along the lines of "men's only value is that they have a cock attached to them" that would be somewhat similar to referring to a woman as a vagina. Its a reduction of a person's worth to only their sexual function. Agreed that calling someone a dick is analogous to calling a woman a twat (or a bitch).
/r/MensRights25/06/15 07:25 PM
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I think it is because there is a difference in the connotation of the words. When you call someone a dick, you normally mean that person is a jerk or is being purposely hurtful or offensive. When you call a woman a vagina, it seems to suggest that person is just a opening for fucking and nothing more. I can see how someone could get offended by having their value as a person being reduced to only their sexual function. I think the analog for men would be if a woman referred to men as 'just a bun…
/r/MensRights25/06/15 07:22 PM
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Its ok to feel nervous, that's a good sign that you are pushing yourself beyond your boundaries of comfort and thus growing as a human being. All you need to do is after you say "we should hang out sometime", hand her your phone and say "type in your phone number". That's it. You can continue the conversation or let her know you will text her in a day or two and say goodbye. You're doing good man, being nervous is normal. Just push through it and the next time, you will do a bit better. Each app…
/r/seduction24/06/15 02:53 PM
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First off, you should avoid putting all your hopes into getting a single girl. Because if she doesn't find you attractive, there isn't much you can do to change her mind and you'll get your hopes up just to see them dashed. Focus on instead transforming yourself into an attractive person who is confident and happy with his life, and one who does not shy away from going after what he wants in life. Then you should go after her, demonstrate your interest, ask her out. If she's not interested, just…
/r/seduction18/06/15 07:17 PM
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Smile and talk to them anyway. Just because you aren't attracted to them doesn't mean they aren't people. Plus being in the presence of girls who desire you causes other girls to desire you. Doubly so if you are kind to the "less desirables"
/r/seduction17/06/15 10:10 PM
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Yes, there is something wrong with regulating who is allowed to have children and who is not allowed to have children. Especially tying it to something as arbitrary as income. World population will eventually level off as we establish a better standard of living for people across the world and provide access to birth control. However, setting up a system in which only wealthy people can afford children is harmful and robs people of their bodily autonomy. The whole point of a free society is to a…
/r/MensRights17/06/15 04:51 PM
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Personally, I think both parents should get parental leave. Child rearing is a job for both parents. It is so important for a child to have the influence and support of both parents. One parent CAN raise a child, but the optimal solution is for two parents. If we want to raise happy and well adjusted people, the first step is strengthening the roles of parents in that process.
/r/MensRights17/06/15 03:45 PM
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Providing child leave for parents is good for society as a whole, even if you aren't directly benefiting by having days off of work. There are numerous studies that show a child's chance at being a productive member of society largely depends on the amount of parental support they receive in childhood. If we want a society which has a more educated population while also reducing crime rates, we would be wise to back parental leave for those with children. That and producing children is good for …
/r/MensRights17/06/15 03:40 PM
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So according to your suggestion, most people who live around the poverty line and can never afford to take off a day of work, will also not be able to have children. You're effectively calling for Social Darwinism.
/r/MensRights17/06/15 03:35 PM
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That men have interest in a larger percentage of women, than women have in men. So... women are more choosy with their mates? OK. That illustrates why women would have a bigger problem with random strangers hitting on them. But that's also assuming that women make their mate selection solely off of physical attractiveness. Which is not necessarily true. Lastly: you can't just claim your point is clear when someone literally just pointed out your point is not clear lol.
/r/MensRights11/06/15 07:19 PM
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Pretending women disliking ugly come ons, and men disliking ugly come ons, are the same thing? Is false. Your sentence structure gives me a headache. The point I was trying to make is that UNWANTED ATTENTION is annoying at first, and after repeated exposure becomes harassment. Neither men nor women appreciate being hit on by people they have no interest in. What exactly are YOU suggesting?
/r/MensRights11/06/15 07:04 PM
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It is a double standard, but I understand why it is that way. Harassment is the repeated disturbing or offending of someone. If it only happens very rarely, it is not harassment. Hence why some women find cat-calling harassment, some have to deal with it on a daily basis. But men, we never get cat-called and its a rare event for a girl to come up and hit on you. Its so rare in fact it can seen as a joke. Now if men had to deal with ugly women trying to get into their pants every day, they'd like…
/r/MensRights11/06/15 06:46 PM
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Just goes to show how sexually desperate and clueless these men must be. These guys wouldn't be laughing if it were them that was the victim. Going by the discussion I've had with male friends of mine (who thought that female-on-male rape was 'funny') it seems they all assume the girl is both attractive and the guy is in control the whole time. Once you remove those two elements, they recoil at the thought. The thought of some attractive girl "holding you down" to have sex with you is not that s…
/r/MensRights08/06/15 02:47 PM
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Ask questions ACTUALLY listen to what they say. Ask them questions about their answers so they go into further detail. Throw in a cheeky/flirtatious line every now and again. Go to step 1.
/r/seduction05/06/15 07:58 PM
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Yeah if that doesn't give away the fact that she was doing it all for attention, I don't know what will.
/r/MensRights05/06/15 06:55 PM
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Great article, funny too!
/r/MensRights05/06/15 06:06 PM
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I find its a good idea to just talk to everyone in your immediate vicinity. If you are waiting in line to order a drink or get into the bar, just strike up a conversation with whoever is next to you, regardless of whether its someone you are attracted to or not. Just get in that mindset of being social. Find a girl attractive? Go up to her and just talking with the intention of getting her to dance. Girls love dancing for some reason, so you'll have to indulge them on this. Then bring them to a …
/r/seduction04/06/15 05:10 PM
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Ya know it is possible to be both a feminist and a men's right's activist. The two are not mutually exclusive.
/r/MensRights04/06/15 03:57 PM
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Being arrested for inconveniencing someone is the stupidest possible use of police resources.
/r/MensRights02/06/15 02:12 PM
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Either that or they are legitimately scared the woman is crazy enough to actually cut off his dick.
/r/MensRights16/05/15 10:37 PM
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Its being playful, that is reason it has a bonding effect. Everyone likes to laugh and play, and it is a way to build comfort amongst people. Humor today has evolved to use more sarcasm and somewhat darker humor than our predecessors but its still the same concept. When they laugh, they associate that feeling of happiness with you. That said, if you are 'making fun' of someone and they aren't enjoying the banter, you're just being a jerk.
/r/seduction15/05/15 05:24 PM
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One step at a time. Each day strive to do better than you did the last, and over time you'll see improvement. Also if you do believe you suffer from depression and/or have low feelings of self worth, don't neglect it! Find yourself a talk therapist and work through those feelings. Improve yourself both mentally as well as physically. Once you feel good about being you, you'll have more confidence, and greater appeal in the affect you have on others. Good feelings are contagious. Feeling good abo…
/r/seduction15/05/15 05:17 PM
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Being rejected is part of being a man. I think it takes a lot of maturation to come to this inevitable conclusion. Before that time, there is a lot of frustration. I'd say its more common in young men who don't have the skills yet necessary to "pick themselves back up and dust themselves off". Its simply easier to blame other people for failure than to accept there may be something wrong with your approach. This is pretty common from what I've experienced and especially applies to dating and rej…
/r/MensRights15/05/15 01:19 PM
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The former will be blasted, the latter will probably be met with a lot of sympathy. I think that entirely depends on your audience. In the company of men, saying "women suck" gets plenty of empathy from people who've have bad experiences with women. And vice versa. Women, while around other women, will gain lots of sympathy when they say "men suck" because they too are likely to have had a bad run in with the opposite sex. Its all perspective. People empathize with what they can personally relat…
/r/MensRights15/05/15 01:13 PM
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I'd imagine it works the other way as well. Guy gets rejected, so he starts hating women. It sounds to me like a human ego-defense mechanism. When some of us feel rejected, we seek to inflate our sense of worth by putting others down. Its classic "bully mentality". Certainly not everyone follows this pattern, but there are enough people to create a trend. Or as the article states it: Derogating and avoiding affiliation with the unattractive man may have enabled rejected individuals to psychologi…
/r/MensRights14/05/15 08:18 PM
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Saying it on live television is very offensive What is offensive is completely subjective and depends entirely on the audience which is receiving it. I suppose there's lots of weak-willed and easily offended people in the world, and TV reaches almost all of them. But still, if you are offended over something, that is YOUR OWN FAULT. Plus what is wrong about being offended? You aren't harmed in any way. Its a momentary discomfort from thinking about some undesirable thought, then it passes. Appar…
/r/MensRights14/05/15 07:13 PM
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You mad bro? For someone who gets his panties in a bunch over bad words you sure have no problem throwing around the word "retard". Like it or not, grown men like myself exist. We aren't young or sheltered and we have real jobs. So you can kindly go fuck yourself right in your pussy.
/r/MensRights14/05/15 07:07 PM
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Normally the process goes: Guy notices girl, finds her attractive, goes and talks to her. If you are an attractive guy, the girls will do the noticing, and all you have to do is bring it up "So I noticed you noticing me...". So a girl checking you out is normally a wide open invitation to come talk to them. And since you already know they find you attractive, its way easier than a "cold approach".
/r/seduction13/05/15 08:56 PM
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"Fuck her right in the pussy" isn't even offensive. That's precisely how sex is done. I suppose the words "fuck" and "pussy" are "vulgar", but still. Its nothing to lose your job over.
/r/MensRights13/05/15 07:57 PM
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Relationships with people in recovery should be approached with care. These people are working hard to get their life back together, and in some cases dating (and the emotional rollercoaster that goes with it) can be counterproductive towards their mission of staying clean and sober. You should certainly make friends with the people there, but I'd take any type of relationship or dating REAL slow. For many people with addiction, it is sadness, loneliness and heartbreak that act as triggers for o…
/r/seduction12/05/15 05:53 PM
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I find the best conversational topics are normally: Observational: What can you talk about in your immediate environment that is interesting? Interests: Find out interesting facts about the girl, what she enjoys doing, what brought her there today, what is she celebrating, what is she currently excited about in life "Small Talk": The weather, local events, concerts, sports, parties, etc. Then its a matter of being a good listener. Any time you hear a word that triggers a story or joke in your mi…
/r/seduction11/05/15 06:20 PM
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Ya you need to report this to the media or file a complaint. Police cannot simply enter your premises without a warrant or your approval. If you are an American, it is unconstitutional to search your house without a warrant. Please do something about this, otherwise the trend will continue because nobody speaks up.
/r/MensRights06/05/15 08:07 PM
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Its possible you are ashamed of sexuality or your sexuality. Lots of people have been conditioned to believe sex is 'wrong' or sex is 'dirty' or that sex is something only a man wants and a woman gives. With this mentality its easy to "get away with it" when no one is watching, but the same mentality will have you hide it in public as if it were something to be ashamed of. Maybe you should try to just make yourself more comfortable with the idea of sexuality. Talk to people men and women both ab…
/r/seduction04/05/15 01:46 PM
1

Fuck a small town! Move to somewhere that is exciting. Life is too short to pine away in a small town.
/r/seduction01/05/15 07:12 PM
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Upvoted for Philly! Represent! Also listen to this man OP. At a certain point in your life you just gotta move out of your home town and experience life elsewhere. Cities are great in that there are millions of people to meet and there is always something going on if you know where to look for it.
/r/seduction01/05/15 07:11 PM
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Consider it a blessing. For the first time in your life you are FREE. If you want to change everything, do it. There is no other time than now. I'd encourage you to start with fixing your diet/exercise, then move onto style/dress, while simultaneously working on your mental health (if theres anything to work on). Once you feel good about yourself and you look good, half the battle is won. After that, fill your life with exciting events! Go travel, go learn a new language or practice a new talent…
/r/seduction30/04/15 08:33 PM
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Compliment girls on their outfits, sometimes they put a lot of effort into it. Alternatively you can 'peacock' by wearing a creative costume of your own. Other than that, its easy enough to just be social, talk to the people in your immediate proximity and find where the after party is at!
/r/seduction28/04/15 08:52 PM
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Its statutory rape. Which is quite different from penetrative rape. I think there is a very important distinction between the two. You are right, the law doesn't really distinguish, but I for one am not going to jump on board with rape-hysteria by conflating the two as being the same.
/r/MensRights28/04/15 08:07 PM
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If the genders were flipped, you're probably right, they would throw the word 'rape' around and apply it to everything. But that doesn't make it right. This is an example of a woman abusing her power to have sex with her students. It should certainly get her fired, but if the kids are 17 and say they chose repeatedly to be with her, I don't think its rape.
/r/MensRights28/04/15 07:39 PM
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On one hand, she abused her position of power to manipulate her students into having sex with her. On the other hand, I believe 16-17 is old enough to provide meaningful consent and it appears these boys have come on record to say they were involved and consented to the behavior. If they had come out against her and stated they were violated or hurt in someway, then I'd be more in favor of throwing the book at her. But 17 years old, I believe, is old enough to make your own decisions and it does…
/r/MensRights28/04/15 05:42 PM
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Girls who don't see you as a sexual candidate will place you in a 'friend' category and if they are looking to hook up that night, will quickly grow bored of simple conversation. Since you aren't giving off any sexual vibes, you too are being seen as the 'nice guy' / 'safe bet' / 'best guy friend'. Sex is the reason WHY we approach, it is the unspoken sexual desires between two people that drives the entire seduction process. Without sex or leading to sex, there can be no seduction. Although I s…
/r/seduction27/04/15 01:58 PM
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Excellent man! Maybe pick up is not about getting the girl, its about enjoying the proccees of trying to do so. Exactly this. Its about outcome-independence. Doing something regardless of how it will turn out, just for the enjoyment and the experience it provides. With each approach you do, each successive approach gets easier. Maybe you won't end up with either of these girls, but that doesn't matter, what does matter is you summoned the confidence to go after what you want in life. You're alre…
/r/seduction24/04/15 02:29 PM
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As part of my "rehab" i removed everygame from my computer, joined nofap, havent done it in 2 weeks which is huge for me, since I used to do it daily. Started working out again, i am trying to get hold of some people i used to interact with(classmates, or people from the local uni's), put ads to make or join a band. I think this is a great start. The fact that you realized the problem, and have gone to lengths to change it means you are serious. This is a lifestyle change, its not a few tricks u…
/r/seduction23/04/15 06:05 PM
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Depends on your approach, if you friend her, put her to the side and date other girls, you could potentially hook up with her later when she leaves her current relationship. But obviously it could result in never panning out. It is really up to you. I wouldnt say its a rejection but rather a "not now" situation.
/r/seduction21/04/15 08:45 PM
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All you've really made a case for is that everyone was at some point oppressed. Men were oppressed, women were oppressed... everybody was oppressed. Oppression doesn't go away just because there are different forms of it happening simultaneously. Every day there are both men and women sold into sex slavery. Lets not pretend oppression is some fantasy.
/r/MensRights21/04/15 07:29 PM
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Hit the gym, work on your confidence. If you are more outgoing than your attractive friends, that'll net you some attention. So make sure you are the one opening sets and introducing THEM to girls. It'll make you seem like a boss and that status alone will attract girls to you. Physical appearance when attracting women isn't as important as the attitude you display and the social status you demonstrate. If she thinks you are a big deal, she'll be interested regardless of what you look like. But …
/r/seduction21/04/15 07:07 PM
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The longer you let your fear control your actions, the longer it will control your actions. You have to decide whether you'll remain a virgin out of fear or take a risk at possibly being bad at something in order to grow as a human being. New things are always scary at first. Its just the nature of the unknown. But if you never leave your comfort zone, you'll never get anywhere. Since you care so much about reputation, which is worse: The kid who was bad at sex his first time, but improved with …
/r/seduction21/04/15 02:57 PM
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Just reading your post made me interested in your life. You also like astrophysics, body building and edm?! Hell ya!
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:58 PM
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Lets just repeat what you wrote: You were dating 3 girls at once and once they faded you are feeling down and lost. Cmon man. You were just dating 3 women. They all clearly found you interesting and attractive to date. Maybe you didn't feel a strong enough attraction to dedicate more time to them, but that's nothing you should feel down about. If women have been attracted to you before, they will be attracted to you again. There is no need for anxiety over this issue. History has proven you are …
/r/seduction15/04/15 04:52 PM
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Ya what a huge red flag. You go through hell for months and you decide to marry that person? That requires a special masochistic form of crazy.
/r/MensRights15/04/15 02:26 PM
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Wow thats pretty awful, but you have to wonder why the guy would allow her to go through with this. The only reasons I can think of are: a) He cheated and as his "penance", agreed to let her take control of all forms of communication in a way to prove his 'loyalty'. She's still a crazy bitch for suggesting such a thing and he'd be spineless to allow it. b) He's being abused psychologically (and possibly physically) to the point where he doesn't feel as though he can stand up to his wife. So he r…
/r/MensRights15/04/15 02:24 PM
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Exercise man. People underestimate exercise. Women are just as shallow as men, they want a man with a hot body just like men want a woman with a hot body. Also there's a lot of hormones that get released when you exercise which make you feel good and when you feel good, you aren't worried about what other people might think of you. One thing I learned in high school really helped me throughout life: The less you care about what other people think of you, the more other people tend to like and re…
/r/seduction13/04/15 01:26 PM
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Not always. Things were/are bad for women in certain geographical regions and cultures. Its hard to make a blanket statement for all human cultures. Some cultures believed that people should make their own choices, others believed that women solely exist in the service of men. It really depends on where you are talking about. In some countries today, women aren't allowed to make their own financial decisions and require a man present to open a bank account. Its difficult to try and label this as…
/r/MensRights10/04/15 08:47 PM
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Its sad to see feminism operating outside of egalitarianism. Egalitarianism ought to contain both feminism and masculinism/mra. It really ought to include everyone as human beings firstly and the gender they operate secondly. Abolishing strict gender roles is an issue most egalitarians would embrace. Individuals should be judged by their character and behavior, not their gender. This idea that men are dangerous or threatening is a sexist gender role I think most people would object to. As there …
/r/MensRights07/04/15 06:09 PM
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Take dancing lessons, they almost always have a high female:male ratio. Community art classes are also good for this.
/r/seduction02/04/15 07:56 PM
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Tinder is extremely superficial. All it takes is odd lighting in your main picture and you won't get any matches at all. I wouldn't worry too much. Change your default to a picture of you windsurfing or hugging a dozen puppies and viola all the matches you could ever want. In person, it actually matters how people act and what they say. So take that as a sign that your "in-person game" is strong.
/r/seduction01/04/15 03:33 PM
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Prove that men and women are interchangable. There are plenty of examples where women adequately fill combat roles in the military (even above and beyond how some male combatants perform). There are also men who excel in traditionally female roles. I could list off dozens of world famous chefs. In this way the gender isn't as important as the role. The roles themselves may be necessary, but who fills them isn't as important as how well they fill the role. 40% out of wedlock birth rate, 2000% exp…
/r/MensRights31/03/15 08:59 PM
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Things are different from our caveman days, while gender roles were important back then, they aren't necessary today. Those with the most physical power fought to protect the homeland while the weaker farmed and foraged for food. While it was often the men who were the fighters, this is not the case 100% of the time. Vikings, for instance, allowed for women in combat, and men for farming. The important thing was not that the roles were appropriated by gender, but rather the roles operated accord…
/r/MensRights31/03/15 08:34 PM
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I'm not sure such a society exists. Over time people tend to fall into certain roles or be forced into them. But that doesn't mean they are beneficial or that we ought to enforce the roles upon people. And I'm not so sure that reasoning adds up. If I were to say "Name any society which advanced without a religion of some kind", we'd have a difficult time naming one, but that doesn't mean the religion had any effect on the advancement or prosperity of the nation. Same with gender roles, just beca…
/r/MensRights31/03/15 08:20 PM
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In what way are gender roles good for society? Please provide data. It seems obvious to me that enforcing how people ought to live is a greater evil than people choosing their own roles in life.
/r/MensRights31/03/15 08:10 PM
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Absolutely. Some girls are taken and/or lesbian.
/r/seduction12/03/15 04:48 PM
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You notice all of those examples include beating. Which is universally accepted as bad. Sure people can claim that they are helping, but that's quite a shit argument when you are literally beating the person. And if you have to beat someone in order to 'instruct them', you are a shitty instructor... lol. I'm done with this conversation. Lets just agree that hurting other people is bad, mmkay?
/r/MensRights26/02/15 09:58 PM
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how do you know your core values and opinions of morality and what is just and right is not the result of the same effect, the result of manipulation and environmental pressures? You don't. They are one and the same. You grow in a culture and adopt the values you are instructed by your parents and community. who are you to assert that your view/opinion/perception is not equally as jaded as the so called "abuser"? And an abuser is pretty easily defined, it is someone who purposely and repeatedly …
/r/MensRights26/02/15 09:30 PM
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Honestly, It does resonate with me, that's why I mentioned it as the 'cycle of abuse'; the abused often later become the abusers. A psychologist friend of mine once stated "Hurting people hurt people". Its true. We are all products of our environment and those that have been hurt go on to hurt others. The question is not why people are the way they are, the question is what can we do to help relieve suffering? If an abuser would come clean about his abuse and shows remorse, then yes I'd have com…
/r/MensRights26/02/15 09:09 PM
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either you are capable of using judgement and reason to a proficient degree or you are not Looking for clear black and white answers like this rarely correspond to reality. Plenty of people are capable of exercising good judgment in some areas, while poor judgment in other areas.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 08:44 PM
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I get what you are saying: If you stay in an abusive relationship its partially your fault, and I agree. But I was pointing out its much more difficult than simply getting up and leaving. People get attached, people are scared of being alone. People can really be damaged emotionally, to the point that they give up their free will. This is where it gets complicated. An abuser is able to create a fictional world view that the abused lives within, and is not allowed to question. I've known abuse vi…
/r/MensRights26/02/15 08:32 PM
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We suffer because we have expectations, remove expectations and you'll find yourself free to enjoy life.
/r/seduction26/02/15 08:12 PM
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Yeah and that's great that you have the self-confidence to draw that line in the sand. But not everyone shares that confidence. Some people hate themselves and believe they deserve all the abuse and bad things they have coming to them. Victims of abuse very often suffer from mental illnesses such as depression. There's a reason abusers prey on these type of people... they don't fight back.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 08:09 PM
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See you are approaching it from a purely logical perspective. Which is great to have, but is only available if you 1) able to emotionally disconnect at will and 2) be well informed as to your options regarding "dossiers" and legal recourse. When you are already emotionally attached to someone, its a bit different: you don't want to lose them, and sure this can be attributed to stupidity, for sure, but it is a reality of the situation that cannot be ignored. Additionally, many victims believe the…
/r/MensRights26/02/15 08:03 PM
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Is this a real post? Why is that link at the bottom there? And I've never experienced any numbness or odd sensations. Maybe that's just you. Circumcision is a weird cultural tradition, I admit, but so are most traditions. The question should be whether it produces harmful effects or not, and I haven't seen any data to suggest circumcised penises are any more prone to harm than non-circumcised. So whats the big deal? People pierce their baby's ears too, its just another quirk of culture.
/r/MensRights26/02/15 07:50 PM
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Spoken like someone who has never been in an abusive relationship. Its a lot more complex than your generalization. Abusive people wield more than just physical power over their victims, its largely emotional and victims are controlled through psychological manipulation. For instance a friend of mine was in an abusive relationship. His girlfriend used to hit him on occassion, but more so than that she'd sabotage his life to control him. Once by telling his boss that he hits her, which got him fi…
/r/MensRights26/02/15 07:19 PM
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Listen, relate and expand. Take mental notes of the nouns they use, try to find an personal experience that relates to that, expand upon the topic and get her input. Rinse and repeat.
/r/seduction26/02/15 06:52 PM
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"That's not true, we like food too".
/r/seduction26/02/15 05:02 PM
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Check your campus resources at college, its very likely they have a student psychologist that you can go to for free. Otherwise, it is covered by health insurance and it depends on your plan (or your parents plan) but normally the out of pocket co-pay is like $20/session. Consider it an investment in the satisfaction of your life. The sooner you get these issues resolved, the more time you'll have living a life free from fear.
/r/seduction24/02/15 02:23 PM
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Sounds like you could benefit from some talk therapy. This normally comes from low self-esteem or a feeling that this is what you 'deserve'. You gotta work on your human value system. Everyone you meet is just another human being exactly like yourself. No better or no worse. Maybe understanding that will help you a little bit. But do seek therapy, it can be really beneficial to work on yourself.
/r/seduction23/02/15 07:06 PM
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Its the understanding that everyone enjoys sexual pleasure, and you are capable of providing that. Its getting over this mentality that only men pursue sex, women are just as horny, believe me.
/r/seduction19/02/15 08:21 PM
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I find it helps, especially if you are able to retrieve that clear state of mind before an approach. When AA sets in, the ability to slow your breathing and empty your mind really helps. That way you enter the interaction cool and collected.
/r/seduction19/02/15 07:59 PM
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I mean its called Game for a reason! :)
/r/seduction14/02/15 07:44 PM
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Personally, I don't see women as "incapable of doing bad", they are human beings and prone to evil just as anyone is. But I do see your point that there is a perception of this within family court systems. It just seems strange to me to use this article as an example. I'd much rather look at statistics and data than individual cases. But fair enough, you've made your point.
/r/MensRights13/02/15 07:55 PM
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Confidence is just operating without doubt. For one, when talking to a girl you should never ever be negative. That is an instant turn off to anyone, no matter who you are. You're trying to attract them, that means giving off the 'vibes' that people naturally gravitate towards: friendly, charming, a good sense of humor, a sense of adventure, a positive outlook on life. Pickup is not a logical equation where if you do x and y, you'll get z. You need to be the kind of person others want to be arou…
/r/seduction13/02/15 06:41 PM
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Thanks for providing that source, it does indeed show that mothers are more likely to kill their child mainly due to neglect. That is data we can work with, much more than these isolated cases happening across the world. This article, by itself, seems to just point out some narrative that 'women are evil', and the comment I replied to definitely pushed that agenda further. I for one would rather look at the large scale trends before making any claims about an entire gender. Either way, you've ma…
/r/MensRights13/02/15 06:24 PM
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but a woman killing her own children is not unprecedented. Neither is a man killing his children, what's your point? The point is that the default logic of the courts should not necessarily assume the mother has the best interests of the child at heart.. Because some psycho lady somewhere in the world killed her kids? By this logic you are assuming the actions of the psycho in the article are representative of women. Not to mention, this article has absolutely nothing to do with court systems, i…
/r/MensRights13/02/15 06:00 PM
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Of course not, but when you are talking about 'women' you are talking about literally half the population of the planet earth. Even if 100,000 women killed their children, it still would not even be a representative sample of women (<1%). Generalizing an individual's actions and attributing it to gender is why we have problems with prejudices in the first place. We should hold ourselves to higher standards than that.
/r/MensRights13/02/15 05:30 PM
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just how far women are willing to go Lets be honest, this is one psychotic woman, not "women". If there were a story about a man murdering someone, we wouldn't appreciate people talking about "How far men are willing to go...". This is a disturbed individual, not a representation of an entire population.
/r/MensRights13/02/15 05:23 PM
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Likely what is happening is you are putting the girl (or maybe even girls as a whole) on a pedestal as if they are higher than you and something beyond you. Try to remember that everyone is human, girls no matter how hot, still shit like every other human being. Try to see the person beneath the layers of beauty. It'll help you relate to them better and see them less as some angelic creature and more as another human being looking for love and acceptance.
/r/seduction13/02/15 03:55 PM
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College campuses is filled with smartass know-it-alls who took one class in philosophy or gender studies and believe themselves to a philosopher or champion of human rights. Its disconnected from reality. Just keep in mind these are 18-21 yr old kids. Young "adults" who think they know how the world works and how to fix it.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 02:59 PM
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This is precisely the problem with modern feminism. In the past, feminists actually fought for real things, today they just find societal quirks to complain about and believe they are championing human rights.
/r/MensRights11/02/15 02:57 PM
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Get a sweet race car bed and call your parents "my roommates". I saw it in a movie once, its sure to work.
/r/seduction06/02/15 06:37 PM
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You know all the stuff you do to pick up girls? Do the same stuff to pick up friends! Be confident, start interesting conversations and then see if they want to hang out immediately or get their number and contact them later in the week to do something. The easiest way to get friends is to involve yourself in something that groups together like-minded people. What interests you? Is there a group that meets around that topic? If not, go to your local bar and sit there until you know everyone's na…
/r/seduction05/02/15 07:25 PM
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My response is: "Oh ya? What do you miss about me?" Its good for a 10am ego stroke.
/r/seduction05/02/15 06:56 PM
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I see examples of guys talking shit on girls. I see examples of girls talking shit on guys. I see examples of people outraged at guys talking shit on girls. I see examples of people outraged at girls talking shit on guys.
/r/MensRights04/02/15 05:18 PM
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There are no rights around 'termination of parental rights'. If the paternity test comes back indicating you as the father, then your best move is to get on good terms with your baby's mama and hopefully you two can work out an arrangement without getting the courts involved.
/r/MensRights03/02/15 08:14 PM
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Women who rape men often do so by physically stimulating the genitals while the man is unconscious and then proceed to use the resulting erection to insert into themselves. In some cases they also use violence, the threat of violence or the threat of blackmail to get the man to cooperate. (An example of blackmail would be: "If you don't have sex with me, I'll tell everyone you raped me.") An erection is not consent, despite what anyone tells you. Its a physiological response to stimulation. Cons…
/r/MensRights29/01/15 08:16 PM
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To couples counseling you go. Seriously, you need some mediation on this issue, primarily so that you can both communicate. She felt powerless during those moments, and now she fears you. Its going to take some time and communication for her to learn to trust you again. Try not to take it out on yourself, intentions are important, and your intent was not to cause harm.
/r/MensRights28/01/15 04:55 PM
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Every person on this earth has issues. But why bother getting all into their heads like that? Unless it poses some danger to you, its really none of your business. Just enjoy their company and make some fun memories. In fact I think your thought process regarding this may be reflective of your own issues. Girls will flock to attractive men, just as men will flock to attractive women, yet when girls flock to you... you think there must be something wrong with them! Sounds like some self-image iss…
/r/seduction28/01/15 03:25 PM
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Agreed. The friend-zone only exists when guys are too scared to lose the girl. They don't want to make a move for fear they'd mess up and lose the girl. They don't want to walk away either because that means they'd also lose the girl. So instead they settle for this awkward in-between situation, posing as a friend when in reality they want something more. This causes them to become increasingly thirsty for attention until that 'friendship' falls apart causing them to lose the girl anyway, over a…
/r/seduction27/01/15 09:25 PM
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Similarities. Shared Experiences. Sex.
/r/seduction26/01/15 09:12 PM
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From what I hear from my female friends, plenty of guys suck at sex. Mostly because the guys don't give a shit about female satisfaction during sex. So the fact that you are even concerned about your performance means you'll probably put in more effort than other guys the girl has slept with lol. And what makes you good at sex isn't even really the actual sex part... its the attention you pay to their pleasure, the amount of foreplay, the amount of passion you create. These are what make sex goo…
/r/seduction26/01/15 08:51 PM
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Even If employers are given a lot of leeway for defending merit pay the law is still opening employers up to all kinds of frivolous lawsuits. Even if you win the lawsuit you've still paid a bunch of money defending yourself. From what I read from the bill, that is exactly what it aims to accomplish, make it easier for people to file lawsuits against businesses and forcing them to prove their wages are fair. This is likely why it requires documentation on how wages are calculated. I can see how p…
/r/MensRights23/01/15 07:03 PM
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I think you should tone your humor down to be more all-inclusive until you test the waters and learn they can handle the dry humor. You're gonna have more luck by avoiding sarcasm, as sarcasm is misinterpreted by people who don't know you well enough.
/r/seduction23/01/15 06:26 PM
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Ask her to hang out, one on one.
/r/seduction23/01/15 06:10 PM
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Hm I wonder what the actual contents of the bill are then. It must add something that doesn't already exist. I'll do my research and check back Edit: Did research: I'm not sure if I am reading the correct bill, but H.R.438 Fair Pay act of 2013 is the closest I could find. It seems as though it makes it illegal to be fired for discussing salary with others. It bars employers from paying a person differently based on sex, race or national origin unless a merit or seniority system exists or the bus…
/r/MensRights23/01/15 05:00 PM
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I don't understand what this bill does.... isn't it already illegal to discriminate pay based on gender?
/r/MensRights23/01/15 04:51 PM
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If she keeps the conversation going when it goes flat, it means she is interested. She likely has a busy life and/or isn't always checking her phone. Don't take it personally. Try to match her pace and get her to hang out in person.
/r/seduction23/01/15 04:08 PM
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I felt the same. Unfortunately this is how most women want to be handled.
/r/seduction20/01/15 07:23 PM
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Small kino: Put your hand on the small of her back as you lead her through a doorway. When changing locations, grab her hand and pull her along with you. When telling a story put a hand on her arm or leg. Ask her to dance and then pull her in close. High fives for when you agree on something. Any minor touching like this is going to make it easier to be physical by setting a pattern of behavior. After that offering a massage will be no big deal
/r/seduction20/01/15 06:39 PM
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Hey there, I have a very similar experience to yours. I'm often oblivious of girl's interest but engage with so many of them anyway out of obligation, as a man 'should never turn down sex'. It seems to be related to views regarding sex and one's role within the greater scheme of sexuality. For me personally, I tend to have this mindset in periods of depression where I don't feel attractive. So therefore I don't look for it, and disregard any signals women are sending my way. A breakthrough occur…
/r/seduction20/01/15 03:39 PM
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That's a perfectly ok outcome. Why fear it? What is the harm that comes about from that conversation? Nothing. Its hollow. The only harm that can come about from that is if you decide to beat yourself up over it.
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:44 PM
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Your fears have power because you listen to them. Every time you let your fear deter you from talking to a girl, girls get scarier to you. It is only through repeated exposure to your fear that you'll overcome it. That means you need to push yourself to talk to girls, even though everything in your brain is telling you not to. Tell your fears to fuck off and do the thing anyway, that sometimes helps me. If you are scared of looking stupid, then purposely make yourself look stupid and get over th…
/r/seduction16/01/15 08:39 PM
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Are you sure you don't mean HSV-2? Because HSV-Type 1 is simply known as 'cold sores' and the majority of the population has it. Type 2 is the genital variety. HSV-1 isn't considered an STD.
/r/seduction12/01/15 06:22 PM
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Humans are weird thats why. We instinctively want what we can't have and the more we can't have it, the more we want it. Inversely, something we can easily acquire, we don't value. This is especially true during dating. "We chase that which recedes from us." As for your unique situation though, you seem to be entirely focused on a specific girl. But we don't get to be that choosy with life. Being a confident and interesting man will open up doors for you, but it doesn't guarantee you always get …
/r/seduction07/01/15 03:37 PM
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The answer is likely going to be a personal and internal one. You'll probably want to talk to a professional over some strangers over the internet. It could be a strictly religious upbringing and/or negative views regarding sex, it could be the result of traumatic sexual experience. Something in your life has caused you to develop a negative response to sex. Only you are able to figure out what that was and develop a strategy to work around it.
/r/seduction06/01/15 05:27 PM
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I think you are overanalyzing your text messages a bit. 3 hours is an acceptable turn around for a response, especially so if the person has an active lifestyle. Also you can't judge enthusiasm from a text either. Get her to hang out again and make sure you push the envelope further with her. You do need to express your interest at some point and make it clear you are pursuing her.
/r/seduction06/01/15 03:30 PM
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Yeah I hit that point a few years ago. My early twenties it was the best thing in the world to sleep with so many girls. Now as I am a bit older, the one night stands become tiresome. I think this may just be a sign that you are looking for something real. Use the skills you've acquired to open conversations with many women, but if you want to try for a meaningful relationship, hold off on sex until you actually develop a connection first. Sex is great, but sex with someone you share a deep conn…
/r/seduction02/01/15 02:59 PM
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Girls get smarter as you get older. Youre 18, lots of girls are going to be dumb at 18. Hell most guys at 18 are stupid as fuck. Go to college, find hot girls in science majors and go after them. Much better conversations.
/r/seduction31/12/14 04:52 PM
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I can see that is a reasonable post, therefore its very likely to get removed. I've noticed with several of the subreddits, if you go against the grain of popular opinion you are quickly banned. Honestly that only demonstrates to me that their position is untenable.
/r/MensRights23/12/14 07:51 PM
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Yeah, because bigotry has always created a less oppressive future..... /s
/r/MensRights17/12/14 05:13 PM
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Sorry to hear about that happening to you man. I hope you use your story to illustrate the need for all people, men and women, to leave abusive relationships the moment abuse begins. Abusers simply don't deserve the people they victimize.
/r/MensRights16/12/14 04:24 PM
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Hm. Well first off, do you find yourself desiring sex with the girl before anything happens? Or are you just 'going through the motions'? Either your issue is physical (low sex drive) or psychological (performance anxiety). You'd be wise to honestly question yourself and find out where it stems from. If its anxiety, just focus your attention on their pleasure and not yours. Once you get her super horny and see how badly she wants you, the anxiety normally melts away.
/r/seduction15/12/14 05:34 PM
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I suppose, it just seems like a stretch to me. While a vocal minority of women get upset if you look at them, the vast majority are driven by evolution to get you to look at them. I'd suggest the vocal minority of women who get upset over being looked at are likely just not attracted to the people doing the looking. Otherwise, they wouldn't mind the extra attention. But I get what you are saying, you are referring to feminist notion of "the male gaze"
/r/MensRights11/12/14 09:05 PM
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I really hate how the term 'privilege' is used for everything now. Maybe they just get livid because you've nonverbally rejected them. Lots of people get mad when their subtle hints towards affection are denied. I don't really see that as a 'privilege', its just an expectation. We all make expectations every day. Lastly, I fail to see how this is in any way related to men's rights.
/r/MensRights11/12/14 07:45 PM
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Hm. That's a confusing situation you have there, because according to you, you seem to open a conversation and participate in one even up to the kissing phase, but they fade out almost immediately after that. Which means there is something you are doing (or not doing) that is changing the frame of the interaction. I don't think there is anything wrong with you inherently, but you may be displaying strange or off-putting behavior. Without direct observation, its going to be pretty hard to guess a…
/r/seduction09/12/14 06:00 PM
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This may be an unpopular opinion, but in our culture lots of women come to expect that things are done for them. While you may have put a lot of thought and money into taking her out, she may think nothing of it. I'm always surprised with the level of entitlement some women have, as if having things bought for them is their right. I can't remember a single time a female friend has bought me something or offered to pay for my meal. Girlfriends, yes. Female friends? Never. For your own sake, don't…
/r/seduction03/12/14 08:20 PM
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Being "Alpha" is a side effect of being an assertive, passionate, confident man. You can try to fake it, but its often really transparent. The best route to becoming a new man is to get your inner struggle sorted out and redefine yourself as a better man. You said you have problems 'accepting yourself' as someone funny or interesting. So I'd make that your first goal: rebranding your self-image. Currently you have an idea of your mind of what you think you're like, its time to update that defini…
/r/seduction26/11/14 04:33 PM
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You find a set of cute girls. Your wing-woman goes in an chats them up and makes them feel comfortable, then begins to talk you up before waving you over and introducing them to you.
/r/seduction25/11/14 09:29 PM
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That's not 'glamorizing' it. It makes her look psycho. How is that glamorizing? How about we take a step back and realize this is the product of an artist and free expression is exactly what art is about. If the artist wants to use violent imagery to convey their message, then so be it. I don't see the need for butthurt here. I swear some of the MRA here are just as sensitive to perceived sleights as the radical feminists they espouse to hate.
/r/MensRights24/11/14 06:08 PM
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The Radfems will be outraged about much less. So we should be more like them? Pfft. Not me, I support the right of artists to use imagery of violence and abuse in their works as much or as little as they see fit.
/r/MensRights24/11/14 06:03 PM
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Its a great topic. If sex doesn't come up in conversation at least once, you're doing something wrong lol.
/r/seduction24/11/14 04:44 PM
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You flirt sexually and see how they respond. If you see a noticeable change in their behavior toward the affectionate/sexual, then you know they are turned on.
/r/seduction20/11/14 05:02 PM
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If you are good at sex, girls WILL blab to their friends about it. All the more reason to make sure every girl you get with has an incredible time. It can lead to a 'domino effect'.
/r/seduction20/11/14 04:17 PM
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Hm I've never experienced this, maybe you are actually kissing girls with boyfriends and you two got your signals crossed?
/r/seduction19/11/14 03:44 PM
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You're narrowing the scope for your counter example to just the "radicals". Well yeah, you said there is no group more sexist. How are we supposed to look at the 'most sexist' groups if we ignore the extreme radicals? say narrowing it down to just those who want to reduce the male population to 10%. Ok but saying you WANT to do something sexist is different from actually engaging in sexist acts. This is where the radicals of the two groups differ. While radical feminists say they want to do some…
/r/MensRights14/11/14 09:47 PM
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People don't realize that college is a magical wonderland of pussy. Thousand of kids your age all looking to be irresponsible and have fun and they all live within walking distance. Now that you're an adult, you're on your own. I moved to a new city after college and it took me about 2 solid years of loneliness before I made a solid group of friends. (That's not to say I didn't have people to hang out with, its just that they weren't people I clicked with) Here's what you do: Pick a bar close to…
/r/seduction14/11/14 08:54 PM
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I'm not making an statement of who has it worse. There are no doubts that boys suffer as well under these regimes. I was making a statement that there are PLENTY of more sexist organizations than American feminism. To make a statement that American feminism is the most sexist organization is a ridiculous claim, there are much worse offenders in the world. That was the point I was trying to make.
/r/MensRights14/11/14 05:15 PM
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Feminism is most popular in civilized countries where we don't break peoples hands or feet over petty theft, so your comparison is not really fair at all. I'm not sure I understand your point. Are you implying only civilized countries matter when it comes to the topic of gender equality? The person I was replying to was stating that there are no groups as sexist as feminism, I stated an obvious counterexample. There are plenty of sexist organizations, especially in the 'uncivilized world'. This …
/r/MensRights14/11/14 03:47 PM
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I dunno radical muslims are pretty sexist. When's the last time feminists threw acid on someone's face for trying to attend school?
/r/MensRights14/11/14 02:42 PM
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but can you imagine the outrage if I, as a man said "You know what I hate? WOMEN! AHAHAHA" I imagine no outrage at all. Its pretty common to talk about how much you hate the opposite sex. My friends and I do it all the time, "I hate women they are so confusing", etc. Doesn't mean we actually hate women, but its just a common trope used in finding common ground to socialize. I think you may be looking for a reason to get upset here. Most of the time people who say this are just venting their own …
/r/MensRights13/11/14 08:10 PM
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If you are trying to be less serious, more funny: Watch some stand up comedians, observe how they take a situation and emphasize certain absurdities for humor. After you get the basic formula, try to put together your own joke or funny observation.
/r/seduction13/11/14 04:43 PM
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I'd aim for a kiss first. Going straight for sex is going to make you seem too eager. Talk to every single girl you find attractive. Most will reject you, some will not. The ones that go out with you, find you attractive. Then charm them and go for a kiss at the end of the night, the rest unfolds pretty naturally after that...
/r/seduction07/11/14 08:08 PM
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I was gonna go with some direct openers such as "You're cute, lets dance." Yeah, that's a good one. Simple and to the point. You can also comment on whatever the girl is wearing, as they typically tend to get pretty dressed up for these events. I would avoid grinding. Just dance and have fun (be expressive and a little silly with your dance moves). Once they see that you are a good time, they'll be more likely to move in closer with you. Most people will be jumping around and going crazy so gett…
/r/seduction06/11/14 04:30 PM
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Act as if you were hot. Honestly, physical attraction isn't nearly as important as an attractive personality. If you can keep a girl feeling flattered with your charm and keep her laughing with a great sense of humor, she'll develop attraction regardless of what you look like.
/r/seduction06/11/14 02:52 PM
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For me. First dates are normally "Lets hang out and get to know each other". Second dates are "Let me take you out on a date."
/r/seduction06/11/14 02:39 PM
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Girls have told me that I look like I "pull tons of girls" and are surprised when I tell them that I don't. Take that as a compliment. That means they find you ridiculously attractive, almost 'out of their league' so. That's why they make the assumption "oh a guy like that probably gets any girl he likes" The sad thing is that is far from the truth. I can never seem to pull the trigger with girls. Every time I know a girl likes me I never try to take it further. Well, then that's what you need t…
/r/seduction06/11/14 02:21 PM
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I see that too. Feminism in the past had fought for truly noble goals like the right to vote and the right to make their own reproductive choices. But recently its just a lot of complaining about the perceived slights. Its people complaining about how certain behavior makes them feel uncomfortable. Rights movements are to demand and enforce basic human rights, not police other people for hurting your feelings. But I think people are beginning to see that and beginning to wake up.
/r/MensRights05/11/14 09:43 PM
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It seems you are so focused on your failures and not of your successes. Have you had any successes? Even if they are 'few' and 'far between'? It eventually boils down to a numbers game. You talk to 100 girls, about 5-10 find you interesting, of those, you sleep with 3-6. That's normally how it goes for me. But if you focus on the failures, your mood will be shot and you'll start having the ideation to give up completely. What you should be focusing on is the fact that those flakes don't mean any…
/r/seduction05/11/14 05:36 PM
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Oh the "Us vs Them" mentality, probably the most common form of propaganda. Not to mention its so ignorant.
/r/MensRights04/11/14 09:55 PM
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Yeah, its pretty common with the girls you meet in bars/clubs. Try to put off having sex with the girl until you've actually been on a few dates. The ones only interested in sex will likely flake after the first date, but the ones that stay are invested enough for you to date.
/r/seduction04/11/14 09:38 PM
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You don't escalate if you aren't actually feeling it. That's just a recipe for confusion. Just keep her as a friend and keep meeting new girls. If you change your mind later, your dismissal of her will probably cause her to develop a strong crush towards you which you can activate at a later time.
/r/seduction04/11/14 09:36 PM
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If you encounter a particularly troublesome garment, try just telling them: "This. This needs to go."
/r/seduction03/11/14 05:17 PM
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Practice it in the mirror and keep a funny joke ready at the back of your mind, that's what helps me. I have a memory that always cracks me up and I remember it whenever I need to make a genuine smile. Overall though, you don't need to be happy to smile, and sometimes the act of smiling can make you feel happy.
/r/seduction28/10/14 04:44 PM
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Plus the "if you wanted to" argument is a cop out Perhaps "want" is too weak a term, if you truly set something as your life goal and passion, you'd find a way to overcome your boundaries, because you want it more than you wanted anything else. Simply wanting to change your life isn't enough, it has to be your sole reason for being for a while. You are right the struggle IS constant. But that struggle IS the brain reorganizing itself; the struggle is the process of you evolving into a new person…
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:15 PM
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And it doesn't matter how much "game" you have, inner or what have you. You are simply fucked. I don't know man, that sounds so fatalistic. You've basically decided its set in stone and claiming there is nothing you can do. If so, what is the point of even posting this? You already decided it was hopeless. I am of the opinion that people are constantly growing and changing, all throughout their life. Sure habits that have existed for longer will be harder to uproot, but it is not impossible to c…
/r/seduction23/10/14 01:08 PM
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I can't do that. Even if i try i come out as needy, bragy, snob and plain obnoxious. And Its getting validation from other people for your worth. But being a narcissist (all borderlines are) NO validation is enough. Thus you retreat and become lone and alone. Lead me to believe you are struggling with a mental illness. Your narcissism is clearly maturing into full-blown depression. (The fact that you see people who "enjoy" their life as separate from you, makes me believe you see yourself as out…
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:43 PM
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When you have a perpetual predisposition of being rejected you come out as needy. The fear of loneliness shows and thats a huge turn off. Sounds like you have some 'inner game' issues to work out. Most importantly overcoming your fear of loneliness and neediness. Of course if you approach an interaction with a 'needy' vibe you will fail. You need to destroy this. This is your real hang up, not that your brain stops forming new connections after age 30...
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:38 PM
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Its never too late to change, the belief that it is "too late to change" is itself a roadblock to your progress. These beliefs will keep you complacent with how things are. If you really wanted to, you could shatter these beliefs and change. You have to believe you deserve a woman, only then will you get one.
/r/seduction22/10/14 08:30 PM
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I've seen more and more men wear dresses/skirts lately. Mostly at music festivals and other "hippie" gatherings. However, I just don't see a huge demand for them by men. Until that changes. I doubt culture will.
/r/MensRights22/10/14 04:17 PM
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I don't know about any guides out there, but my method is to tease about sex a lot: talk about it with them in detail, and make my attraction known (but also let them know that it is 'forbidden'). Eventually we both get drunk and hook up after the tension has been driving us wild for so long.
/r/seduction21/10/14 06:55 PM
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I’m tired of hearing that women have to be realistic about the world and the inherent danger it poses for us and then being told that naming that danger - men - is aggressive and ‘sexist’. I stopped there. If you are labelling an entire gender as an inherent danger, you are sexist. Simple as that. If we labelled "black people" as a danger, that would be racist.
/r/MensRights21/10/14 02:48 PM
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Well to start, you have to realize that girls have sex drives that are just as strong (if not sometimes stronger) than men's. I know that may seem like a foreign concept to you, but its true. I can guarantee you probably get ogled by a girl at least once a day. The reasons as to why you don't believe you can be desirable are your own to discover. It normally comes from low self esteem and feeling inadequate. You need to do some inner work to find and resolve these mental blocks. Meditation and t…
/r/seduction20/10/14 03:15 PM
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This is a dicey situation However, when I talked to a girl on my floor I'm friends with she just told me I was drunk and made a mistake and that she heard I went into Ella's room then took her to mine. It really depends on if you originated it or not. If you went to her room to get her to have sex with, that's on you. If she followed you to your room to take advantage of you, that's on her. You should really watch your drinking from now on, these situations could land you in a lot of trouble. If…
/r/MensRights09/10/14 06:22 PM
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Well scale it down to meet your preferences. With someone you don't know, mutually drinking a cup of coffee in proximity to each other could be a date. The point is the intent. Do you intend on pursuing your sexual attraction with this person? If so, then you wish to date/mate them. At which point, getting to know them better helps in the process of easing your fears of vulnerability, etc. If you don't intend on anything sexual, you are in a friendship. If you are trying to mix both worlds, you'…
/r/MensRights09/10/14 04:41 PM
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Sure but the way we bond with someone makes a qualitative difference. If you bond with someone as a friend there are boundaries and expectations that come along with that particular form of relationship which are distinct from those that exist within a monogamous romantic relationship. How you approach creating the bond with someone affects what type of bond it'll be. If you create a platonic friendship bond but then go on to expect it would lead to romance, you're setting yourself up for failur…
/r/MensRights09/10/14 04:35 PM
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Well that's what the dating process is supposed to be. Learning about the person in a romantic context to see how compatible you are for a relationship. I see the problem as people making dating a 'commitment', when its doesn't need to be. Perhaps dating has been tainted by this image of expensive dinners and trips to far off locations, but in reality, a date can be a trip to the park, or just cooking dinner in your home together.
/r/MensRights09/10/14 01:17 PM
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That's a really good point. In the case of a man developing feelings for a female friend, its not always about sex. Its about emotional attachment. Men, and I'm sure plenty of females, do develop an attachment towards a member of the opposite sex after spending a lot of time with them. Thus an expectation towards emotional affection develops. People like to narrow this concept of emotional affection down to the naked term 'sex', but it really overlooks the main issue of male emotional attachment…
/r/MensRights08/10/14 07:45 PM
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The contract states when a man gives up his wealth and resources to a woman, they are courting with the expectation of sex/sexual relationship Like you said, the problem is nobody wants to talk about it. I've known many men that don't even make it clear they are 'courting', and then become upset when this contract is violated. Conversely, I've seen men make it very clear they were courting and the women will just eat from his resources like a buffet and proclaim thats just the 'way its supposed …
/r/MensRights08/10/14 07:37 PM
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However, if anyone feels entitled to affection/love/sex, it's women. True that. I can't tell you how many times I've seen the look of pure shock and anger on a woman's face when you turn them down for sex. Its as if you were some cruel heartless bastard. I've seen men pout over not getting sex, but rarely do I see the sense of sexual entitlement I see from women not getting sex.
/r/MensRights08/10/14 07:35 PM
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Friendship is a bit more easy to give/receive than sex. I can understand why a distinction exists. I befriend a lot of people, doesn't mean anything besides friendship. I suppose one could say I'm entitled to expect friendships. Sex however has hangups, people get emotionally attached, people sometimes get pregnant. Its not so easy to treat sex as you would treat friendship, and its an odd parallel to draw. The "friend zone" occurs when men assume that friendship leads to attraction and are frus…
/r/MensRights08/10/14 07:32 PM
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Problem is,i kinda fall down emotionally very hard after that one approach here i am on the 3th day and i dont dare to do more approaches. This where 'inner game' comes in. Take some time to meditate on your failures and derive a sense of value that is seperate from your pickup attempts. You are a valuable human being, just think about all the awesome things you can do. Build your confidence back up, and go out and try again. Its going to be hard at first, but the more you do it, the less you'll…
/r/seduction07/10/14 04:57 PM
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You never can know for sure, which is why you always approach!
/r/seduction01/10/14 06:45 PM
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Agreed. There's SO much more to a relationship than sex.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 05:31 PM
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Its really not though. A marriage is about far more than just sex. And if you look at it that way, you have a warped view.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 05:30 PM
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Prostitution is an exchange of sex for money. If the only thing you are getting out of a marriage is sex... then you have a shitty marriage or a warped view of marriage.
/r/MensRights01/10/14 05:28 PM
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You stop thinking of yourself as being "above" or "below" other men. That's childish thinking. Nobody is better or worse than you, everyone is human. Challenge this belief that you have to be 'worthy' in order to get a girl, its not helping you... and why keep a belief around that hinders you? To change your attitude, try some positive affirmations. Make a list of all the positive qualities you have and of all the things you have to offer women. By getting a sense of what you have to offer, you …
/r/seduction30/09/14 03:50 PM
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Its typically not something you approach a girl about, but rather a category you both agree to fall into for convenience. Typically you find someone you share attraction with, you hook up (likely having sex) and then you just keep your mouth shut and keep hooking up with her. Eventually "the talk" will surface after a few weeks and you express your interest in 'keeping it simple' by 'not putting any labels on this'. You can choose to discuss whether or not you are exclusive sexually during this …
/r/seduction29/09/14 07:30 PM
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Totally. Have you ever had a stalker? That's exactly what's going on in that situation.
/r/seduction29/09/14 01:17 PM
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No worries mate im sure everyone has at least one lagoon creature they've slept with but will never admit lol.
/r/seduction28/09/14 10:00 PM
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Yeah you said: Emma Watson has never said it (to my knowledge) but I'd almost guarantee you that Emma Watson would shame men who prefer skinny models or girls with big tits or submissive women. You are creating a false scenario where Emma Watson would shame men for their preferences. She hasn't said this, but you are attacking the position, as if she had, anyway. This is a strawman fallacy! You create a hypothetical position, just so you could tear it apart. That person doesn't exist in this con…
/r/MensRights26/09/14 08:46 PM
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They are the ones who value strong men over weak men Why do you think that is? Do you think that preference is hard-coded? Or is it itself learned from the culture in which the person was raised? If women perpetuated the idea that red shirts is desirable in men, both reinforcing this notion in other heterosexual women and expressing this desire to the heterosexual male collective, then you would see a drastic shift in how that male collective behaves in response. Agreed. And this supports my sta…
/r/MensRights26/09/14 08:32 PM
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You don't need great dancing skills, but you do need to at least participate. When in doubt just do the generic dude dance: Sway hips from left to right while nodding head to the music. More importantly, girls dance because its fun, they laugh and smile while they do it, they make up silly moves for entertainment. So add to that enjoyment, be silly with it, make her laugh.
/r/seduction26/09/14 08:24 PM
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It's not a strawman at all. You can't just put assume you know what other people think, put words in their mouth, then attack that position. That's a strawman fallacy. That's like me saying: "I guarantee you YouWantSummaDiss would support enslaving black people again! I, obviously, disagree with him completely!" Do you see that first part? Who do you think she means by "we"? It sounds like she was clearing up a misconception held by whoever is represented by "we". As for double standards, I agre…
/r/MensRights26/09/14 08:16 PM
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if women continue to enforce these roles This is written as if 'women' as a whole are in some collective agreement about roles and unilaterally enforce them. But that's not true. What is attractive is largely determined by the culture one lives in. We exist in a culture where strong men are valued and weak men are not. So its no surprise that women grow into a preference for strong men.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:52 PM
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Emma Watson has never said it (to my knowledge) but I'd almost guarantee you that Emma Watson would Well at least you flagged your strawman fallacy as a strawman.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:37 PM
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Where's the hypocrisy? On the left she supports that people should be able to accepted for who they are in society. On the right she expresses a personal preference towards men who are not shy. Just because Emma Watson isn't attracted to you doesn't mean you should be rejected from society. Being accepted and being attractive are two different things.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:28 PM
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That's not entirely true. You overlook the fact that what women and men prefer often comes down to the environment/culture in which they were raised in. If she was raised in a society where submissive men were considered attractive, she'd probably prefer that type of man. But since she exists in a society where bold assertive men are considered attractive, she does too. What is "cool", "hip", or "attractive" is largely what is culturally praised and accepted. People's preferences aren't just wri…
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:21 PM
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Women want guys to be "nice" in that they don't want to date an abusive fuck. It doesn't preclude dominance or assertiveness. One can be nice while simultaneously being bold. This idea that "nice" = shy is stupid, and its just a rallying call for shy men to complain about the women they didn't get because they weren't bold enough.
/r/MensRights26/09/14 07:09 PM
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College is not so cut and dry. Everyone just wants to rack up sex with everyone they can manage. If you are ok with sharing her with whoever the other dude is, call her up. If not, lay low for a while and pursue some new girls. Most college aged girls just want to fool around, indulge them. :)
/r/seduction25/09/14 04:32 PM
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There's no easy trick to women, you just have to develop an interesting personality and be calm and confident when you talk to them. The quickest way to achieving this is to put yourself out there and talk to women. I'd recommend forgoing on masturbation entirely and use that energy to approach girls. Just tell yourself you won't get off unless its with a girl and stick to that mission. The more your hormones will build up, the less you will care about failure and the more attempts you will make…
/r/seduction23/09/14 05:56 PM
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Great post, needed to be said.
/r/seduction15/09/14 06:47 PM
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Good for you man! Let that burst of confidence be what you need to approach and open more girls. People are a lot friendlier that we give them credit for. Keep it up!
/r/seduction12/09/14 02:46 PM
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As an experiment next time you are in a conversation, purposely create an awkward silence and then sit through it. Just bring your attention to your breathing and slow it down. Nice deep breaths, and just sit with that awkwardness. Stay silent until the other person speaks up. This is how you begin to overcome the fear of awkwardness, by existing in it without panic or fear. In the mean time, you should be exploring these fears in order to understand yourself better. You fear that people will ab…
/r/seduction11/09/14 06:01 PM
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I consider myself an egalitarian. Which I suppose would make me, in part, a feminist, as I can recognize the unique struggles women face all over the world and consider myself an ally to anyone suffering human rights abuses. It is my perspective that feminism and masculinism (mra) are two parts of the greater movement of human rights. Each side fights for equality in the areas that they are disenfranchised, as they should. I do think there are toxic elements in each of the movements: Namely thos…
/r/MensRights10/09/14 02:54 PM
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I'd start off with a little conversation before you go shoving your face into hers. Girls need a little verbal 'warming up' before they are ready to commit physically. I would however steer the conversation in the direction of sex. See if you can get her thinking and talking about it.
/r/seduction05/09/14 05:58 PM
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There's a cultural programming that you have to unlearn, this overinflated word "creepy" and this idea that women don't appreciate approaches. We've been conditioned to believe that women find all advances as unwanted and 'creepy' and so those with low self esteem automatically assume their advances will be unwanted. At some point, you have to realize that you are a valuable person with a lot to offer. You must approach with this mindset. If you believe you are somehow less than a girl, your app…
/r/seduction05/09/14 04:23 PM
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The most important thing is your attitude. Enter the party as a "big man on campus", stroll in like you own the place, socialize with all your friends first, then talk to people you don't know, be friendly. Then once you have built up the room, approach the girl you find most attractive and chat her up, once you figure out what her situation is, you express your interest. If she's interested, she'll respond with a compliment, if she's not, no big deal, just go back to your friends and wait an ho…
/r/seduction04/09/14 05:43 PM
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I feel bad for the kids honestly. The mothers are likely single divorced mothers who have a bad taste for all men. Their children are going to grow up with a myopic view of the world in which men are all dangerous, leading to social and developmental problems. Children need positive male role models now more than ever.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 08:05 PM
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There are plenty of people who use the attention of offensive material to bring attention to themselves, that doesn't make it a social issue. I remember I used to wear shirts making fun of 9/11 and pushing pregnant women down the stairs as a valid form of abortion. Oh high school.... So this "Imagine a man..." stuff doesn't really apply here unless you are looking to get outraged today.
/r/MensRights03/09/14 08:01 PM
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I'll contend. The goal of feminism is gender equality, the execution of that is not always on target. I think we often get so mixed up in American politics we forget there are other places in the world where women are treated like property and suffer great injustices. For those women, feminism is about moving towards equality. The feminist movement in America has been extremely successful, and so many of the things fought for: Right to Vote, for example. are attempts to move towards equality und…
/r/MensRights03/09/14 07:22 PM
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If you want to meet younger women, your best tool will be your age and clout. Whatever life you may live, nobody really knows, and many girls will assume the best: that you are relatively wealthy, well-traveled and stable. Play into that the best you can. That means dress well, have immaculate hygiene and preferably drive a nice car. Most importantly, give off a vibe of excess. To be needy is to be creepy. So be the opposite: charitable, relaxed, dominant. When you do talk to girls, keep your po…
/r/seduction03/09/14 04:14 PM
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You can read books all day long on theory, but it won't improve you if you don't go out and practice it. In some cases, too much theory can actually hold you back via 'paralysis by analysis'. The only solution to this is to stop thinking and act. Next time you are 'thinking' about doing something, stop thinking and open your mouth and say something! One suggestion is the "3 second rule", which is as soon as you see a girl, interact with her in the first 3 seconds. That way you don't give yoursel…
/r/seduction03/09/14 04:02 PM
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There's an entire subreddit dedicated to women getting off the hook simply for being women, its /r/pussypass Warning: may cause you to rage.
/r/MensRights28/08/14 06:51 PM
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I make it a rule to always kiss at the end of the first date. It makes em all weak in the knees and gives them something to fantasize about while you make plans for the second date. I suppose I dont really wait for vibes, if I see we are hitting it off, I introduce some physical chemistry to see if it clicks.
/r/seduction28/08/14 04:04 PM
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Of course they do, put yourself in their shoes: you can't even enjoy yourself at a party because there's a ton of bros trying to show off and suck up to you. What's gonna stand out is the guy who is actually enjoying himself and doesn't base his life around a girl's approval. These are the types of guys girls admire.
/r/seduction28/08/14 03:11 PM
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I find it best to not show the girls any special attention and be the sole generator of fun at the party. If you work the room to where the attention is all on you, the girls will come after you.
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:19 PM
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Just contact / message me here. I'm on reddit every weekday
/r/seduction26/08/14 04:10 PM
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Haha, trust me, I already kind of fill that role. I have dozens of more female friends than I do guy friends. I've been giving "guy advice" to them since middle school. And they, in turn, taught me their utterly confusing ways :)
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:59 PM
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Sexual comments, are best delivered in the form of innuendo. Are you familiar with the term? An innuendo is something that can mean two different things. Here is an example: A guy is telling you how he plays the guitar, you respond, "So that means you must be good with your fingers ;)" On the one side, its an innocent comment, a person must be good with their fingers to be a good musician, but you are obviously referring to something else, that is finger-banging. The point is you want him imagin…
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:52 PM
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If a guy is talking to you more than polite conversation, he finds you attractive. It may sound shallow, but I personally don't talk to girls unless I'm attracted to them. (Beyond polite conversation of course). Additionally, you can test it further with flirting. Make "innocent" sexual comments and see how they respond. Touch them and see if they touch back. Tease them lightly, keep a playful attitude and smile. But mostly just be confident! Enough with your failure fantasies!
/r/seduction26/08/14 03:30 PM
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30 and still under the boot of your father.. thats a unique situation. How are you supposed to have any fun if you can't go out?? And how do I convey interest? Interest is easy and natural to convey once there is obvious chemistry (You find them attractive, they find you attractive). You just have to start that chain of events by making a connection and increasing the sexual tension. They would think a teen is just hitting on them and ignore me? Nah I'm saying if you look really young, it be bet…
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:59 PM
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We're everywhere and nowhere. And if you look twelve, its definitely up to you to convey interest. We guys aren't trying to cop a charge for a girl we don't know! lol. Maybe if we met you in a bar or a casino... we could be sure of your age. Also, public transit is a poor place to pick up people. Try going to concerts, conventions, cafes, dog parks (if you have a pet), the gym, the grocery store, or your local video game store.
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:49 PM
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Been there, done that. :p (I'm more local than you think muahaha) If there is one thing that you learn from this sub, it should be that our own minds are often the greatest barriers we must overcome in dating. We defeat ourselves before we even attempt something, and in doing so, we miss opportunities to be happy. I hope you stop defeating yourself before you even make an attempt. I'm sure lots of guys would dig a girl like you. And for the record, I have never once thought "ugh a black chick is…
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:41 PM
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You think too much into these things. All those negative fantasies of things going wrong is likely what is keeping you shy! Conquer your fears girl, go beyond your comfort zone. I promise its not as scary as you imagine it to be!
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:28 PM
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Good! Don't shy away from attention! If you are attractive to them, they'll overlook almost any level of 'cray cray'. I know I have... lol.
/r/seduction26/08/14 02:16 PM
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Most guys assume nobody is interested in them. lol. You need to be very obvious. Have you tried saying "You're hot"? That usually works on me... Hell, even mouthing those words across the room can be exciting.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:48 PM
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Thats the idea, to get her laughing. It shows you don't take yourself seriously.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:45 PM
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Physical touch. The touchier you are the more we assume you want us.
/r/seduction26/08/14 01:44 PM
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Cleanliness.
/r/seduction25/08/14 08:52 PM
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Yeah it sucks, but normally brutal honesty clears things up pretty quickly...
/r/seduction25/08/14 07:27 PM
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This seems like more of a question for /r/relationships Maybe your work loads are different, but this is something you should talk to him about and come to a mutually beneficial solution. If you feel you are being slighted, then you need to stand up for yourself and make your case heard. He earns the money, you clean the house. That doesn't sound that uneven to me. You both "work a job" , even if yours doesn't pay. I can see how school can stress you out, but school is entirely on you and should…
/r/MensRights22/08/14 08:49 PM
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There's literally tons of books of "seduction techniques" that are mainly crocks of shit. Obviously you should always be making sure your sexual partner is extremely satisfied and this will make them want to come back to you. But if you really think women will worship your cock just because you gave them an orgasm, you're mistaken. Also the dude had 4 years of success? That's not author-level success... that's just college.
/r/seduction22/08/14 08:41 PM
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I wouldn't give too much credence to the comments you receive on reddit. Including this one.
/r/seduction22/08/14 06:19 PM
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Err on the side of friendly. Its better to not show your interest right away, as it can be seen as desperate. Make her earn your affection. Be flirty though, always be flirty.
/r/seduction22/08/14 03:25 PM
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Ohh college. How I miss thee. The lands of ever-young pussy.
/r/seduction22/08/14 02:10 PM
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It seems to me you still see these things you do as separate from who you are. But what you do IS who you are. I think you are just in a transitional period, all these habits and actions are still relatively new to you, so they just seem like something you do. Perhaps you should analyze why you feel doing these things are "not you", is it just because its different from how you've done things before? OR is it because you can't accept a self-definition where you ARE all these positive attractive …
/r/seduction14/08/14 05:46 PM
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"She doesn't have the power to be sexist"... does she know she's talking about Hillary Clinton, arguably one of the most powerful women in the Western World?
/r/MensRights14/08/14 05:36 PM
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...So put that in your prenuptial agreement....
/r/MensRights13/08/14 06:28 PM
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Have you considered transfering your credits to an actual university? Yes it would cause debt now, but as long as the pay off in the future is better, it may be worth it. Have you considered joining a gym to lift weights? You have probably another 60 years of life, why should you feel like you are running out of time? It may feel like the end, but this is only the end of the first quarter. What you need to address is your fatalist thinking. "These are my last years I have a chance to do this." t…
/r/seduction12/08/14 08:14 PM
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Huh? I never said I didn't support their choices, even if it creeps me out I can allow other people the liberty of indulging. I find puppeteering creepy as well, but it doesn't affect me if someone chooses to pick that up as a hobby. A lifeless human face, in general, is pretty creepy.
/r/MensRights08/08/14 04:55 PM
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While I support people's choices in sexuality, sex dolls do look creepy due to the Uncanny Valley.
/r/MensRights08/08/14 04:09 PM
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You've got everything right with your pictures, they showcase a large array of talents, it makes you appear as if you lead a very interesting life. Add to the fact that you are movie star handsome and its no surprise you get such success! Note to self: Take artistic photo with dog while skateboarding.
/r/seduction07/08/14 05:48 PM
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People often mirror the emotions they see on others. Be proud of yourself, feel good being you, act as if you live a fascinating and interesting life and this will intrigue other people and make them want to get to know you.
/r/seduction06/08/14 02:19 PM
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Just remember, there is a difference between being nice and being real. Choose the latter. Yes. This. BE REAL. Don't pretend to like something when you don't. Just be unapologetically yourself.
/r/seduction06/08/14 02:16 PM
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Make them do favors for you, its an odd psychological trick, but if a person does work for you, they rationalize after the fact that they must have liked you. Benjamin Franklin discovered this one. Generally though, people value what they put effort into. If you've done all the work and the girl's done nothing, she has nothing to lose by dropping you. And if you've done all the work, you've lost all that work. With escalation, get them worked up physically (turned on), and then pull back and act…
/r/seduction05/08/14 08:48 PM
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When you imagine the worst case scenario... where does your mind go? That should give you an idea as to the dimensions of your fear. Perhaps you, like many men, link their feelings of worth to their sexual performance. Some men live and die by their ability to please a woman. Are you scared you would disappoint her or even worse... amuse her? If so, try to realize people aren't as cruel as they are made out to be. I've had quite a few embarrassing situations during sex (read: couldn't get it up)…
/r/seduction04/08/14 08:17 PM
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That'll work.
/r/seduction31/07/14 03:30 PM
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Compliment / be cool to everyone. Have something to contribute Be bold.
/r/seduction31/07/14 02:52 PM
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Whatever is in your immediate presence. You could also talk about class schedules to see if you are in the same classes, the university meal plan, the location of buildings, the "good" dorms to party in, campus events, off campus locations, or sporting events. It really doesn't matter what you talk about, so long as you talk. Obviously should get to know a little about them: Name, where they are from, what they are going to school here for. But besides that try to keep it to activities that you …
/r/seduction30/07/14 03:46 PM
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College is great. Here are a few tips: Talk to everyone. EVERYONE. The more friends you have in college the better your experience is going to be. And people are mostly friendly because they don't know anyone either. Leave your door open. When your in your dorm, always keep your door open, it lets people stop in, say hello or whatever. Party. I probably dont need to tell you but you'll be doing a lot of partying. Make sure you hydrate, know your limits and plan so you can still make it to class!…
/r/seduction30/07/14 03:21 PM
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Its both. Attraction is largely about the difference in perceived value between two people. By not getting your contact info and walking away from the situation, she displayed high value. This may have triggered your inner feelings of low value and pushed you to seek her approval.
/r/seduction29/07/14 05:18 PM
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Its human nature to want what we can't have. Let this be a lesson as to how powerful confidence truly is. A girl who you were barely into, was confident and able to walk away with integrity, and because of this is actually bothered you to the point that you'd want to see her again. She pulled away and generated attraction just by her actions. Perhaps you aren't used to being the one who is seduced for the explicit reason of sex.
/r/seduction29/07/14 01:51 PM
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Flip the script, be like "Hey, I saw you sitting over here noticing how cute I am, I thought I'd say Hi."
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:36 PM
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I love this. Totally using this. Thanks.
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:36 PM
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Honestly dude, OWN IT. If you are short, laugh at it. Make jokes at your own expense. Be unapologetically YOU. Say what you want, when you want, to whoever you want. Don't justify your feeling of helplessness by giving into these "reasons": Add in short height, horrible confidence and a stutter then you have my situation. I've never kissed a girl before and I have been rejected many times no matter how great I think things are going. Those are all just rationalizations keeping you from doing wha…
/r/seduction25/07/14 08:33 PM
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It really all depends on the girl, is she the type that's gonna get attached and fall in love? If so, avoid. If she's the type that can handle a mature adult sexual relationship without it affecting other areas of her life? I'm in.
/r/seduction25/07/14 03:50 PM
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GET A LAWYER. We cannot help you here.
/r/MensRights24/07/14 04:09 PM
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That's exactly what it is.
/r/MensRights23/07/14 06:02 PM
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There are no 'sides', this type of thinking holds everyone back. I'm an egalitarian, that said, I support women's rights and wish to help them get the rights they deserve as human beings, and to stand up with them when they are being misrepresented. I also support men's rights and try to help in all the areas they are disenfranchised. It need not be a competition. Men and women are two halfs to a greater whole that is humanity. We ought to be championing HUMAN rights. While each group has specia…
/r/MensRights22/07/14 05:37 PM
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I'd imagine it has to do with the take-away. Humans are more likely to fear losing something than they are to fear not winning something. Its called the "Loss Aversion Bias". I'd imagine Casanova builds up the girl's self-esteem and good feelings for a time, and then suddenly goes cold. The girl gets used to all these boosts to her confidence, and when they go away, she's driven to try and get those feelings back. If he continues to pull back, she'll keep trying to get that previous treatment ba…
/r/seduction22/07/14 03:30 PM
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I disagree, I think there are well-crafted jokes and crappy ones told for shock value. But I suppose the answer to this will be subjective. Regardless, all topics of conversation should be permitted in a free society, even if they are offensive to some.
/r/MensRights22/07/14 01:05 PM
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First, don't give the regret any more power than you already have. The past is done, it can only be learned from. That message, you must now learn: Suffer the pain of discipline or suffer the pain of regret.
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:44 PM
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Well handled by the kid, remarkable maturity for someone so young. As for the issue of rape jokes: They should certainly be 'allowed', but they also should be told in measure. If its gonna be offensive and terrible, it better be hilarious. Otherwise you're just being an asshole.
/r/MensRights21/07/14 03:37 PM
8

Yeah, so be honest, let it start with 'this is a girl I'd like to sleep with'. Maybe you two will develop feelings, maybe you wont. Just take it one step at a time and don't try to force it to be anything its not. As long as you put yourself out there and be honest, you'll eventually find what you are looking for, and in the mean time you'll have fun with lots of different girls.
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:26 PM
34

It requires a change in your mindset from "this is the girl for me" to: "this is one of many potential girls for me". Also you should work on your anxiety and zealotry, those are two very unattractive traits!
/r/seduction21/07/14 03:21 PM
2

So her response to sexism is to cut his genitals? WTF You got yourself a sick woman on your hands, tell that doctor you will sue him if he lays a hand on your sun, and then you need to talk to a lawyer.
/r/MensRights17/07/14 05:25 PM
3

I'd encourage you to ease up on the pot-smoking, and avoid masturbation for as long as you can hold out. Use that sexual energy to pursue girls. When you get to college, orientation is your best friend. Nobody knows anybody and this is your chance to start making friends. Make friends with everyone, invite them over to your room, throw parties. It helps if you leave your dorm room door open so people are invited to walk by and start conversation. In college, there's no need to really be direct. …
/r/seduction16/07/14 03:30 PM
1

When they give you their name, immediately repeat it back in a sentence. Saying it helps you remember when you go to say it.
/r/seduction10/07/14 07:11 PM
2

I'd say avoid slumping into a boring comfortable zone. While its inevitable at some point, the more fun you have now the better.
/r/seduction09/07/14 05:29 PM
12

Can you imagine if someone posted "fight for white only services"?
/r/MensRights07/07/14 03:39 PM
2

I think they should have to register. Why should they get a free pass on their civic duty just because they were born without balls?
/r/MensRights01/07/14 01:32 PM
3

Easy, "Hello beautiful person!" or compliment them on something they are wearing.
/r/seduction30/06/14 06:09 PM
2

Sounds like she's been waiting on you to make some physical contact but you just keep talking. You're missing the whole flirting part! On the walk, you could have at least did the old '5th grade shoulder bump' and got in a light pushing match with her. You could have put your arm around her as you told her a story, hell you could have probably held her hands and skipped like an idiot to make her laugh. If there is a lull in the conversation, let it go. Let there be silence, its sometimes better …
/r/seduction24/06/14 07:36 PM
1

It means you don't talk about sex, oggle or hit on women you find attractive or show other indicators that you are looking to fuck. I find this is easily corrected with proper use of innuendo, compliments which focus on a sexual aspect of the girl, and body language. Next time you are with a girl and she does something hot, tell her she's just turned you on. Girls feel attractive when they know they can make guys get hard. Or just out of the blue one day, say "You know if we ever fucked it'd be …
/r/seduction18/06/14 07:49 PM
1

I'd say we are all 'just' people, however the judgments are as varied as the people making the judgments. Its human to make judgments based on appearance, I'm not sure we could exist without them. The problems arise when people create stereotypes as a way to be intellectually lazy or worse, to demonize a group of people. Every time someone says "All women are whores" or "All men are pigs" they create this concept which is toxic to our compassion towards those people. We find it easier to hate on…
/r/MensRights16/06/14 04:40 PM
12

She sent a smiley face to her friend after the sex. I'm pretty sure people that have just been violated against their will would not send out smiley faces to their friends.
/r/MensRights12/06/14 01:27 PM
3

Just say "you want to come back to my place?" And then while making out, gradually escalate. The more turned on you get her before getting her back to your apartment the better. You can increase sexual tension by talking of sex, in detail. Or you can kiss her / nibble on her neck. Pull her in close, dance up against her where your bodies grind against each other. Then when she gets horny and attempts to make a move, pull back and be like 'na uh uh'. Its just like building a fire, you need the sp…
/r/seduction11/06/14 07:10 PM
1

Hm interesting, it seems you have a somewhat rare disorder. I've heard of it only once before and it as on reddit. It sounds like a genetic issue to me, especially if you don't get the urge to eat. Or when you do, you are sickened by it. Seems more intense than the eating disorders we are familiar with. I hope your therapy goes well. Many of us find much joy in eating.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 07:21 PM
1

So what would you describe your unhealthy relationship with food to be? Just forgetting to eat some days? I mean I sometimes forget to eat for a whole day. Do you purposely avoid food in an attempt to pursue a specific body image? Because purposely not eating with a healthy mindset is simply fasting. Whether its a true eating disorder or not has everything to do with the mentality connected with food and one's body image.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 06:37 PM
4

Being afraid of murder is a perfectly reasonable thing to be afraid of. Thinking that everyone is a potential murderer and out to get you is a mental illness.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 02:28 PM
3

Try to unravel the fantasy you have of her in your mind. Imagine her pooping, or picking her nose. Imagine what her stinky body odor must smell like. The girl is human and in your mind you've made her a goddess. There's no way she's going to live up to this expectation, and even if she does you'll fall in love with this concept of her, thats not actually her.
/r/seduction10/06/14 01:47 PM
5

"oppressed by fear", the fear that originates inside their own head that in many cases has no real world component. All people have the potential to become homicidal, but I don't think the whole world is oppressing me with fear.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 01:41 PM
2

Then at least your mindset is relatively healthy. For those with true eating disorders, they can never be good enough. No matter how hard they work to alter their weight, their perception of themselves remains the same. Girls will persist on believing they are fat, and thus undesirable, guys will persist on believing they are weak and scrawny, and thus undesirable.
/r/MensRights10/06/14 01:02 PM
2

Well the illness associated with both behaviors is body dysmorphia disorder. For women it is the need to get thin, and their distorted perception that they are fat. For men its the need to get big, and their distorted perception that they are scrawny. I've known quite a few body builder men who just didn't see themselves in the mirror and no matter how much they lifted, they still hated themselves and wanted to get even bigger.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 05:29 PM
5

Clearly you don't know what the word 'misogynist' means.
/r/MensRights09/06/14 05:26 PM
2

You can't unless you go outside and socialize with people, its the only way. Social skills are skills that only strengthen through practice!
/r/seduction09/06/14 04:13 PM
2

They couldn't let men go off sounding like victims. "Are we really gonna let this happen??"
/r/MensRights09/06/14 02:00 PM
1

For me, it normally starts off as friends, we realize very quickly we have attraction for each other, so we start kissing and fooling around, we have sex, we continue to have sex, and then we just consider ourselves dating for a time until we make it 'facebook official'. Social circles are definitely the most common, although its rarely in your immediate social circle, more often than not its a friend of a friend that is brought into the circle. Generating interest can be tricky, you have to hin…
/r/seduction05/06/14 02:59 PM
2

Sounds like you got your money back on a date that was going into the shitter. Good. I can't tell you how much money I've wasted on dates that went nowhere.
/r/seduction04/06/14 06:50 PM
1

"Be the change you wish to see in the world" We can't control how people label others, the only thing we can do is to lead by example. Lets quit talking about feminists as if they are one coherent entity with identical beliefs, and see/treat them as individuals, just as we would like to be treated. Its certainly not fair, but there was no guarantee life would be.
/r/MensRights03/06/14 08:48 PM
1

I normally like to refer to specific things they do as 'cute'. Especially if its really feminine or adorable. This works especially well if they are trying to act tough.
/r/seduction03/06/14 08:41 PM
3

Its people like you for whom this movement is founded. I hope you find justice in this lifetime.
/r/MensRights30/05/14 07:07 PM
9

You can always tell how weak an ideology is by how it treats its dissenters. Those who disagree are often banned, silenced or censored. You are absolutely right when you stated there needs to be a conversation, not just two people listening. And if we cling too strongly onto our ideologies rather than seeking the truth, we'll never get anywhere.
/r/MensRights29/05/14 08:15 PM
1

Yeah real "lucky" to have a child before age 12. So sad.
/r/MensRights22/05/14 05:38 PM
3

If you've stated your intentions up front and they still agree to a second date or sex or whatever, it is then on them to handle their own emotions.
/r/seduction20/05/14 07:46 PM
-1

In those cases it is a select group of people in power oppressing everyone Out of those select people, how many are male. Until recently, the people in charge were primarily men. In some countries, it still is illegal for women to hold offices of power. So yes it is a small group of power oppressing the masses, but historically these groups have consisted primarily of men. Physical strength has nothing to do with it. No one ever beat women into submission with whips or chains, unless they were a…
/r/MensRights15/05/14 04:55 PM
0

In many ways the nobility's freedom was connected to the serf's freedom (if we are talking medieval times), it was the choice in the land owner who treated you decently versus a cruel master who'd burn the place to the ground. I'm not arguing power structures have oppressed people, because thats pretty much what they do. I'm saying women didn't have much of a choice because of how easily they are overpowered. Plus there seems to be an inherent bias in all Abrahamic religions that diminishes wome…
/r/MensRights15/05/14 04:50 PM
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No. That's what the OP wrote, but not what he actually meant. Then forgive me for actually answering the question as written. He is asking speaking specifically about the feminist claim that women have been uniquely by men. Its foolish to claim anything along these gender lines, and I've never met a feminist who claimed that all men are oppressive. All men don't oppress all women, nor do all women suppress all men. That has NEVER been the case. The case is a select few men (and select women) opp…
/r/MensRights15/05/14 04:14 PM
1

Agree. Today things are a lot better, particularly in the western world. But to say that women weren't oppressed is revisionist history and quite scary that so many people seem to hold that opinion.
/r/MensRights15/05/14 03:09 PM
2

I'd say this is normal, I get the same feeling. Half the time I'm having sex just out of obligation lol. After much introspection, I think it has something to do with our expectations. For so long, we've built up these gorgeous women as unreachable, perfect, or 'out of our league'. But when you get them naked and in bed, they are just like any other girl. It kind of shatters the illusion you had and you start to feel disappointed. After a while I stopped chasing after randoms because of this fee…
/r/seduction15/05/14 02:41 PM
0

Its not being hurt in extraordinary times, its being taken as a slave that is where the oppression exists. As was the result of many wars: the losers would be taken into slavery. All groups of people have been oppressed at one point or another, except for the highborne nobility ruling them. Women have kinda gotten the shit end of the stick. For due to their physical weakness as compared to men, they didn't have the power to overcome their oppressors. While the vast majority of all combat deaths …
/r/MensRights15/05/14 02:20 PM
1

I have no idea why you are being downvoted for introducing a factual point. Its sad how biased some of the subscribers can be here. Its like they want to downvote any facts that conflict with their ideology. Thanks for your comment, this subreddit could use more people like you
/r/MensRights15/05/14 01:45 PM
-1

Thank you! Its really scary how some people in here don't even accept that fact that oppression took place. Or try to write it off by 'it happened to some men too!'. In places of the world today, women aren't allowed to own property, are not allowed to make their own reproductive choices, others must accept physical abuse from the husband by law. I mean, hell, just look at any religious text and see how they all dictate submissive roles for women. Some people seem to think the world begins and e…
/r/MensRights15/05/14 01:39 PM
1

Lets rephrase it and see how it sounds: " This has changed because of dramatic technological progress, not because a bunch of uppity negros took to the streets."
/r/MensRights15/05/14 01:34 PM
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Most groups of people have been oppressed at one point in time or the other. The question was have women been oppressed? Of course they have. As were many men. I'm not sure where you are getting your idea that feminists claim ONLY women were oppressed throughout history.... Sounds like a straw man argument. Its blatantly obvious other groups of people have been oppressed. Because if it is people being oppressed, not just women, then the entire basis of feminist theory is falsified. Hence why the…
/r/MensRights15/05/14 01:30 PM
0

The noncombatants and thus 'spoils of war' are often oppressed (sold into slavery). There of course is countless deaths in wars, almost entirely men. But that is not the question, we are talking about oppression. Not war casualties. You can't be oppressed if you are dead...
/r/MensRights15/05/14 01:19 PM
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It's people being oppressed. Some of whom happen to be women. Yeah that's what I'm saying. So the answer is yes, for thousands of years women have been oppressed. It doesn't matter that men were also oppressed, that doesn't subtract or balance any sort of suffering.
/r/MensRights15/05/14 02:20 AM
-5

What does oppression mean to you? Would you agree that slavery is oppression? Because for thousands of years women have and still are sold into prostitution and trafficked as property. There still exists a rampant sex slave industry in many areas of the world. Thats oppression.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 11:14 PM
1

Agreed. Definitely not a social construct. Rape is pretty much how all animals do it. Luckily we've evolved as a culture to create laws and a morality to protect the freedom of people.
/r/MensRights14/05/14 11:11 PM
2

Accept that something biologically inherent to humans made two completely separate cultures come up with the same idea. Man stronger than woman. Woman say no. Man say yes. Baby is made. Its a pretty simple concept that has some biological component to it and wouldn't be so hard for any independent culture to come up with...
/r/MensRights14/05/14 08:50 PM
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The only reason it's thought that there ever was is because feminists have a very narrow lens that they look through. Really? You're saying there hasn't been oppression until feminists 'discovered' it? You realize human trafficking has been around for thousands of years and still exists today... right?
/r/MensRights14/05/14 08:48 PM
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I think so. Most of history's wars over land included the raping and pillaging of other villages. Rape was the defacto method of reproduction in many cases, as a woman's role was to birth children. This is still the case in many places of the world, namely the poorer areas of Africa and Asia. It is because we exist in a lawful society that we are able to provide women with human rights. Because in a lawless vacuum, they'll return to being oppressed simply due to the fact that they don't possess …
/r/MensRights14/05/14 08:46 PM
1

You never really get a meaningful answer from them. Mostly because they dont want to come off as a bitch. Additionally, they normally just describe why they thought it wouldn't work, not tell you what you personally did or could do. I've asked a few of my failed past relationships and they just talked about how they 'felt it wasn't right' or they 'didnt want to get involved' or 'the chemistry just wasn't there'. Its rarely constructive advice you can actually use, and it makes you seem insecure …
/r/seduction13/05/14 04:13 PM
1

Its not clingy unless you put expectation and implications behind. Just give it to her like its no big deal and carry on with your day. Don't make it a big deal, don't expect anything in return. In fact if you can give it to her and then shrug it off or make a joke about it, even better.
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:56 PM
1

Yeah that has much more significance to it that just a generic bouquet of flowers.
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:34 PM
1

Flowers is pretty cliche. If you want to give a good gift, make sure it is meaningful to her in some way. Find out what she likes and get her something along those lines.
/r/seduction08/05/14 03:22 PM
1

I'm wondering if the polygamy works both ways? Is it legal for one woman to have multiple husbands? Or is it only men that are allowed to marry multiple women? I personally believe people should be able to marry who and how many people they want, but it should be fair.
/r/MensRights02/05/14 05:32 PM
2

Plot twist: The man comes out as sterile.
/r/MensRights30/04/14 06:49 PM
1

She made you shave her legs? Wtf? And you complied? Why? I dont think there was anyway to turn this around, it appears she was using you for a free meal and attention and had no intentions of anything with you. You may have been able to steer the conversation about sex to seeing when it was your turn to give her the dick, but honestly I dont think this girl is worth the STD you would have gotten. Just forget about these dumbo bitches and find yourself some quality women.
/r/seduction30/04/14 04:45 PM
6

Frankly, its insulting to suggest that all men are 'potential rapists'. It strips us of our humanity and reduces us to a concept of a simple minded animal who has no conscious or morality. There's never been a time when dehumanizing people has had favorable consequences. I dont agree with the term "rape culture", I think its harmful and invokes a type of cynicism which leads to "stranger danger" being so prevalent in people's minds. The fact is that rapists are small minority of the population, …
/r/MensRights24/04/14 08:36 PM
0

If a male doctor said regarding an unconscious female patient that her breasts were tiny and disgusting, then said her pelvic area was disgusting and to watch out for the herpes many feminists would be up in arms. I have no doubt doctors joke about these types of things daily. But I dont see any feminists up in arms. Nor if they were, should it make any difference. People are entitled to their opinions. Even if that opinion is that your genitals look like shriveled up walnuts. Additionally, you …
/r/MensRights24/04/14 08:28 PM
-1

Its still frivolous and stupid. Perhaps we should start taking every person who's ever made fun of us to court. We could all be millionaires.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 08:09 PM
-1

Exactly the problem. Frivolous lawsuits everywhere. People use them now to make political statements and to win money because they've been inconvenienced. Its pathetic. There are real victims out there who need the courts.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 08:06 PM
-1

Its absolutely a frivolous lawsuit. He incurred no quantifiable damage, she broke no laws.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 08:04 PM
-1

That's exactly what's wrong with this country. Everyone uses the legal system in order to extort and milk others for money. Frivolous lawsuits which do nothing but clog up the system for real victims. What exactly is he suing for... damages? There's no physical damage, if it does get brought to court I hope they throw it out immediately. You shouldn't be able to sue for a damaged ego. "Your honor, she made me fun of my penis!! I want 1.35 million dollars so I can stop crying over it."
/r/MensRights24/04/14 07:54 PM
-4

Remedy? How about him growing a thicker skin and not let other people's words affect him so much? People have the freedom of speech even if that means ridiculing someone's penis size. When you start to legislate morality, you begin to impede upon personal liberties.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 07:50 PM
-5

Nothing needs to happen. Thats the point I was trying to make. We ought not to legislate hurt feelings. Its stupid and makes a mockery of our justice system. If her superiors deem her behavior offensive they can punish her, thats as far as something like this should go.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 07:04 PM
-2

That's a little weird, for sure. It may just be personal experience, but most people I know in the medical field have a pretty dark/weird sense of humor. I'd hope she was just making a joke in poor taste.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 06:19 PM
-7

I disagree. And without a source of that happening, I'm going to just chalk it up to your imagination.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 05:54 PM
-3

Sure. She probably should be disciplined or fired. But I take issue with him taking her to court for it. We may have been talking past each other.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 05:43 PM
2

Be a little bit more careful with malpractice sure. But this wasn't malpractice this was some humor at the expense of the patient. Do you think all people who say offensive things should "pay for that"? Do you think we should we start suing everyone who's ever said something hurtful towards us? Get real. Can you honestly say you've never made fun of a customer at any of your jobs you've ever worked at?
/r/MensRights24/04/14 05:31 PM
2

Non-issue. He was under anesthesia so without his phone he would have never heard it. He's trying to sue for a million dollars in 'damages' over hurt feelings. (Which is just stupid, the doctor still performed the job properly). This specific female doctor is an asshole, not a representative of any movement or gender-class.
/r/MensRights24/04/14 03:15 PM
1

I think its clear what needs to be done here: You need to get over yourself and start taking risks. Its not too late, thats just yet another excuse to get yourself off the hook of actually doing something about it. Take a look at your past history, how many times have you made up an excuse to escape from an uncomfortable situation? This is your problem. You run away from the sexual opportunities in life instead of facing them and learning from them. If you want things to change, this has to stop…
/r/seduction24/04/14 02:08 PM
2

The cultural obsession with zombies has gone too far!
/r/MensRights17/04/14 07:17 PM
3

I find just going up to random girls and telling them they are beautiful people works. Most girls at those events are rolling their face off anyway so any sort of friendliness is accepted. Just have fun and try to include others in that fun.
/r/seduction17/04/14 02:34 PM
20

"Free speech is ok, just as long as it doesnt hurt my feelings."
/r/MensRights17/04/14 01:05 PM
5

Take courage in the fact that you are not alone, many people share your sentiment and after enough time things will begin to shift again. I believe the past few years have been an overcorrection. The first and second wave feminists were successful in accomplishing the majority of their goals, now they are left nitpicking in order to keep their movement rolling. After some time though, people will get sick of it and we'll move on to a more egalitarian society. Just don't be afraid to speak up for…
/r/MensRights16/04/14 06:15 PM
3

Absolutely on point. Thank you for this.
/r/seduction13/04/14 02:49 AM
2

Not really. A head lock is just a position which keeps the head from moving, a choke blocks air, a blood choke (otherwise called strangulation) blocks blood flow.
/r/MensRights10/04/14 06:30 PM
1

A fair point. I'd say I meant dominant in the way you meant strength. Its not that women simply pick the guy who lifts the heaviest object (that definition of strength), but the one who exhibits strong characteristics and one who is resolved in his opinion. This is what I meant by 'dominant' behavior. Demonstrating power yet compassion. I do see a trend in women to favor these type of traits. But "strength" may be a better term than dominance.
/r/MensRights10/04/14 01:10 PM
2

Its always been that way. Women's sexuality is communicated on a body-language level and not a verbal-language level. Which is often why what they say attracts them is different than what actually attracts them.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 03:38 PM
0

Agreed. Much of passion is the feeling of connectedness with the other person. Stopping halfway through a passionate lovemaking session to ask 'are you sure you really want to do this?' really puts a damper on the mood and causes her to second guess her feelings.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 03:34 PM
1

Anecdotal evidence shows this to be true in my experience. Most women are attracted to dominance. Asking for permissions can be seen as a submissive act and thus unbecoming of a 'manly man'. It certainly does muddy up the conversation regarding sex and consent though.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 03:31 PM
30

That's some sweet irony there.
/r/MensRights09/04/14 01:45 PM
2

I suppose it can be seen that way, but texting has become a replacement for actual conversation these days. For many girls I've encountered, not texting them means they lose interest. So it needs to be tempered somewhere between "barely at all" and "way too much". Texting back isn't bad, as long as you don't text back immediately and you talk less than she does. There's no reason why you have to give yourself a way, just engage in pleasant/funny conversation and leave all the personal stuff for …
/r/seduction08/04/14 01:12 PM
1

Text her back? If she's texting you that much, it means you are constantly on her mind. Likely she sees you as possible boyfriend material.
/r/seduction07/04/14 08:40 PM
3

A kid get whooped by his mother happens every day.
/r/MensRights07/04/14 08:09 PM
2

You can teach them to be respectful, but that doesn't mean they'll follow it. Self-control is a skill that isn't developed until later in a person's development though. Kids entering puberty don't have the understanding of themselves that is required to compensate for their hormonal urges. They'll act first and think later. Obviously we should penalize any of those who harass or assault, but you are not going to be able to 'tame' the hormones of a middle school boy, nor should we try. These impu…
/r/MensRights03/04/14 02:31 PM
1

This is part of the core basis of TRP, that woman's sexuality is judged differently from man's due to declining fertility. See I agree with that. But I don't believe the "key-lock" metaphor accurately depicts it. I wish to discuss it, I get called a troll... So perhaps there is a misunderstanding.
/r/AlreadyRed02/04/14 06:36 PM
1

I don't disagree with the core basis of RP, I agree with it. I think the outlook is correct in regards to male and female sexual interactions. And I enjoy the discussion that results from looking at the world through this lens. (Its also helped my sex life tremendously). I disagree with a single metaphor that gets repeated, and everyone basically states "oh well you don't believe in it enough! <banned>".
/r/AlreadyRed02/04/14 06:23 PM
-1

Oh its you again. Not sure why you believe I fit into category number 2 as I never thought you were insane lol. Finding weaknesses in the arguments of others is a perfectly valid form of refutation and it is the role of the responsible intellectual to point out falsehoods.
/r/AlreadyRed02/04/14 06:10 PM
2

Wow thanks for this insightful post, that's what I've been meaning to say about the 'redpill' community for a while now. There is so much simplification that goes on, where people are reduced to ideas and any deviation from this straw-man, outrages many members of the community
/r/AlreadyRed02/04/14 02:53 PM
0

Can confirm, got banned for asking questions.
/r/AlreadyRed02/04/14 02:51 PM
1

Most women I meet at the bar don't put out until a few dates in. I wouldn't be so quick to judge all of them by the stereotype. There are just as many quality people as non-quality people. Its up to you to discern which is which.
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:35 PM
2

Normally the ones you hook up with on a long enough timespan become the ones you date. I'm not sure how much luck you'll have going out and looking for a serious relationship right off the bat... You could try alternative venues: Bookstores (book signings if you are into bookworm girls), grocery stores, film/music festivals, extracurricular activities, house parties, etc. Try to think where you would hang out if you were the type of girl you are looking for.
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:25 PM
1

Be honest to yourself with your intentions. If you just want to see her sexually, then just treat it that way. Its very possible she is into you just for 'fun sexy times', so just keep it sexual & playful.
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:16 PM
1

Intellectual conversations as good, but avoid in-depth explanations. You aren't trying to lecture the girl, you're trying to seduce her. Just try to monitor the flow of conversation, it should be two-way.
/r/seduction31/03/14 07:11 PM
1

Just find out what her schedule looks like and plan a time to hang out, you are already past the hard part.... all you gotta do is contact her to hang out.
/r/seduction31/03/14 06:59 PM
5

A "Hello" with a genuine smile and eye contact is normally the best way.
/r/seduction31/03/14 05:17 PM
1

Flirt with her for a little while and don't buy her a drink until she has proven that she's actually interested.
/r/seduction31/03/14 03:51 PM
0

Is it though?
/r/MensRights26/03/14 05:50 PM
1

That's for any unwanted sexual contact, meaning ass-grabs.
/r/MensRights26/03/14 05:48 PM
1

The most commonly used method is to invite them back to your house for a movie. If all things went well, before you even know what the movie is about, you'll be hooking up, normally after sex, people want to sleep. So they sleep over.
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:47 PM
2

Ask yourself this, when you are talking to a girl are you looking to 'take' or are you looking to 'give'? Needy people are the 'takers': they want compliments, free drinks, sex, etc. Confident people are the 'givers': they make everyone laugh, they include others, they often bring up fun ideas, they want to improve the people they meet and enhance their lives. People in general are going to label the 'takers' as creepy or pathetic, and they'll all want to hang out with the 'givers'.
/r/seduction26/03/14 03:45 PM
-5

Do elaborate. Its not a willfull misrepresentation. That is what the analogy is referring to. That the "job" of the key is to open a lock, and so the "job" of the man is to fuck a girl. Conversely, the "job" of a lock is to resist opening by all but a proper key, and so the "job" of the women is to keep herself chaste. It just seems so outdated in thinking. It's not "should" it's "is." assumption that women do only have a few number of sexual partners? That assumption is false in many cases. It …
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 08:10 PM
-4

Ill copy what I posted elsewhere: Its making the assumption that women who have lots of sexual partners are "bad locks" while men who have sex with lots of partners are a "good key". It just perpetuates this notion that only men should have lots of sexual partners and women should not. Its a bad analogy, because beyond the obvious morphological similarities (keys and dicks have the same shape, locks and vaginas have the same shape), they hold no other valid parallels.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 08:02 PM
-9

Because there's no sense to it. Why are dicks like keys and vaginas like locks? Vaginas aren't locked until something comes along to unlock them.... The only similarities are the appropriate shapes and that one goes inside the other. It seems to me it just makes the assumption that women (locks) should only have a few number of sexual partners or else they are a 'shitty lock', and it assumes that men should have as many sexual partners as possible to become a 'master key'. Its just reinforcing e…
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 07:47 PM
-4

"A key that opens many locks is a good key, a lock that's opened by many keys is a bad lock.." Is a bad analogy though.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 07:44 PM
-1

I'm not saying its a good precedent, I'm saying its a required attribute of a functional family. Happiness is a luxury few get to enjoy. For the majority of men out there, they sacrifice their personal desires daily for the good of their family and their legacy.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:44 PM
0

Actually, yeah. Creating a family is about sacrificing your own personal happiness for the benefit of others.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:20 PM
9

Not everyone is as comfortable with the idea of their wife exposing themselves to strangers. I mean I'd understand a bit more if they were both college age and in a budding relationship. But he states they've been married for a long time and have a kid together. What's worse is she made him stay home and watch the kid so she could go out without him and she does this? Its messed up however you wanna slice it.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:18 PM
1

I'd think its a bit more complicated if you are married and have kids with the woman.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:15 PM
1

Yeah, I didn't think the comments were that awful, they mostly offer watered down advice that try to take all feelings and all backgrounds into consideration which boils down all advice to "You have a right to be mad. But you should talk to your partner about your feelings."
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:14 PM
2

Hm I dunno, I'd be pretty pissed if someone from my office changed my background to a picture of me drunkenly exposing my dick
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:12 PM
4

Well, he knew he was mad, but his wife made it seem like his concerns weren't real. So he likely reached out to get some validation. If you live with a bitch who fucks with your head all the time, you're going to constantly second-guess your own reactions.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:10 PM
3

with almost no consequences. Well the consequences of her actions was that everyone would eventually find out and the picture of her tits would be floating forever through the internet. But far be it for her to accept the consequences of her actions. Its always gotta be someone else's fault.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 06:08 PM
1

They are if they are valid comparisons, however that tired trope gets repeated so often and the only analogous feature of that metaphor is that one goes into the other, the similarities stop there.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:50 PM
0

Dicks are not keys and vaginas are not locks.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/14 12:59 AM
41

Invent the disease, sell the cure!
/r/MensRights24/03/14 08:19 PM
2

There's a ton of good careers out there, honestly, I'd just go look at which ones have the top salaries, then pick one you could conceivable do, and then go to school for it. As much as people like to bs you otherwise, money is important.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 07:37 PM
4

This assumes that women who've been looked at or fucked are 'dirty'. If you think sex is something that makes someone 'unpure' than you have a backwards ass world view.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 01:50 PM
3

"if he really loved her then blah blah blah". I hate this line so much whenever it is used. Its just a stupid ass justification for getting whatever the person wants. "If you truly loved me you would drive me to work every day and pay for my gas."
/r/TheRedPill24/03/14 01:35 PM
6

What a cunt. She just wants him now because she is getting desperate. Poor guy he deserves better but I suppose people gotta learn the hard way.
/r/TheRedPill23/03/14 12:47 AM
2

I forget if it is one of his quotes, but I remember a quote going something like "A man who does not lie to a woman, does not care for her feelings very much."
/r/AlreadyRed21/03/14 05:48 PM
3

10k is about average for making a full length adult film Source: Friends with girl who did porn to pay for college.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/14 01:45 PM
4

Yes because staying at home while someone else goes to work for you and having to cook your food to eat it is EXACTLY like a horrific genocide. People who make statements like that are the more ignorant cunts imaginable. How can you compare having to do housework to being starved and murdered?
/r/MensRights20/03/14 02:01 PM
20

Comedians often misrepresent themselves or exaggerate characteristics for comedic value. If he fooled you into believing that's how it really is, then it seems he's a good performer. Why the "beta-hate"? I don't think its fair to look down on someone just because they don't possess all the secrets of the pussy universe like you do. He's a product of the same environment many of us grew up in and its not really his fault he's been conditioned to operate that way. From what I understand, depressio…
/r/TheRedPill18/03/14 05:29 PM
4

Exactly. What many people don't seem to realize is that it isn't the 'patriarchy' thats selling them this impossible standard of beauty, its the beauty product companies, because making women feel shitty about themselves is good for business. Classic "create the disease; sell the cure" marketing. The media is run by capitalist enterprises who make huge profit in making people feel inadequate enough to buy their product.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 03:09 PM
1

Its incredible how obsessed with image women are. They always make it sound like its all men's fault that women are so image obsessed. But I don't think so. I think they perpetuate that shit on their own, in their own rat race to see who is the 'hottest'. Because in a woman's world, beauty is power.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 02:58 PM
-3

I think there's some truth to this. Men tend to want to lead and be in charge. Women will tend to follow. But when the reverse situation is presented, people get all weird about it.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/14 04:15 PM
2

Pfft. Tell that to the last few girls I've slept with. I didn't do a goddamn thing and they came to coerce me.
/r/MensRights05/03/14 09:36 PM
-7

Hm? What's wrong with this? They are just being supportive? And the ads make 'em look like good fathers. Plus men CAN breastfeed, if they so desired. From what I've read on the internet, it just takes a lot of oxytocin and nipple stimulation.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 09:34 PM
1

Keeping your own money isn't antisocial behavior. Maybe I should have included that as well in my definition. Sociopathic behavior would be more like you trying to swindle me out of my money by being insistent and breaking laws and trust to get what you want. Its intentionally ruining people for your own benefit.
/r/TheRedPill05/03/14 03:14 PM
3

Well said. I enjoyed reading your comment.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:37 PM
1

You don't say anything to them, you let them foolishly chase their ideal of satisfaction and roll your eyes when they find it and hate it.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:35 PM
0

Have you ever communicated that you want those things though? She may have learned from an early age that most guys refuse "tender loving care" because they wish to retain their rugged "tough guy" demeanor. Its certainly the male role that is portrayed and any alternative method should be communicated...
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:30 PM
0

It does sound that way, but I think many things may appear that way if we actually spoke out the reasoning for all our actions. All of our actions are made in the act of self-interest, however we don't consciously think about our self-interest while doing them. Once you do, then people will start labeling it as psychopathic.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:26 PM
-1

Having preferences is sociopathic. Uh no. Putting your own needs over that of others and not considering the emotional state of another is sociopathic. Having preferences is just having preferences. There are certainly many instances in which some women exercise sociopathic behaviors (like cheating on a guy and telling him after she's already moved on), but being picky is not sociopathic.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:24 PM
-1

Its not only the chemicals, love is a habit and a neurological pathway that is integrated into the whole of the mind. Its not simply the pleasurable feeling associated with oxytocin, its an entire method of thinking and acting that is prescribed in our genes. It cannot be replicated in full with drugs or exercise. The infatuation and "rush" you feel from young-love, maybe, but not love in its entirety.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:20 PM
1

I suppose that's one (rather narcissistic) way to look at it. However people are more than what they can provide for you, they're human beings. If you look at people through the scope of "what they can provide for me", then you'll come to the conclusion that 99.9% of the world's population is worthless. Furthermore, asking someone to come up with an answer of what they can provide for someone else is going to lead to whatever answer you are looking for, not the truth. People can physically offer…
/r/TheRedPill04/03/14 09:17 PM
2

Not to mention its the most condescending way to respond to someone.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 04:09 PM
2

I think that just means youre normal, balanced human being. I think everyone wants to feel desired. And the knowledge that someone else desires you can be one of the best satisfactions you enjoy in life.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 04:03 PM
0

Nail on the head right here.
/r/MensRights01/03/14 04:02 PM
1

Hm perhaps. I suppose sexual selection would resemble economics in that way... women controlling the market would influence a bias towards those who undercut them. But I still think that the current buying rate is analogous to price gouging.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/14 02:34 PM
1

Animals don't care about the sexual history of their mates, neither did primitive man. Hm I take issue with this statement. The entire reason the penis evolved to have a head was to scoop out any competitor's sperm on the way out. It seems competition for procreation has been around since the dawn of sexual life. But I do agree that slut-shaming is a practice that needs to be abandoned. Shaming people for their sexuality is the stupidest thing we do and its all based on jealousy and insecurity.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 09:54 PM
1

Seriously. Its sad though that there is no personal responsibility. A talk with your common fat person will just yield a long list of excuses on how their condition is not their fault and the solution is beyond their control.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:46 PM
1

Yep. Its completely a sense of entitlement.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:45 PM
3

Well said. Instead of changing themselves to meet a standard, they'd rather have the standards rewritten to include themselves in it.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:43 PM
1

You hit the nail on the head. People only care about issues that personally affect them. They can talk for hours about how they are so selfless and how they want to make the world a better place... but the truth is, they want the world to be better for people like them. Everyone is the victim in their own sob story. Everyone that is opposite from them is the enemy. There's two things we can take away from this: No human being is selfless, everyone has some self-interest involved in their decisio…
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:41 PM
3

Indeed, while many people are aware of sexism and homophobia, sizeism and fatphobia still haven’t entered mainstream consciousness. You must be fucking kidding me. "Fatphobia"??
/r/TheRedPill26/02/14 06:36 PM
13

Women fuck around a lot more than people know about. I've been friends with females almost my entire life and I see all the things they do when juggling guys and how they use sex as leverage to get what they want. I suppose that's why this post doesn't surprise me as much as it should. And I won't lie, if I had large sums of women constantly contacting me in an attempt to have sex with me, I'd probably do the same thing: Have sex with only the ones I feel like, when I felt like it, and keep it f…
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 06:41 PM
2

I think all humans are self-interested and neurotic and will act first and create rationalizations / excuses as an afterthought. I think for so long we've been fed this delusion that women are some how 'pure' and 'chaste' and we believed they were somehow different. But we're all animals. Big smart apes that will engineer any situation to benefit them.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 06:36 PM
11

From her description her primary partner isn't a "nice guy", and he's probably out taming his own strange.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 06:20 PM
19

Really? I think its incredibly stimulating.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 06:20 PM
1

If husbands were allowed to leave their wives and got payed alimony to do it, how many do you think would rush to the exits? Interestingly enough, this is beginning to happen already. I forgot where I've read it but husbands of famous/rich women are filing for divorce and are getting large alimony payments made out in their name. Personally, I think we as a society have evolved past the need for alimony, but the system always lags behind cultural progress.
/r/TheRedPill20/02/14 03:18 PM
1

There are a lot of factors that lead to the downgrade of the American nuclear family. One of the reasons was the rise of feminism, it allowed women to choose divorce if they weren't happy, put a bigger emphasis on what they personally wanted and as a result it lead to a lot of marriages ending. This was a mixed bag of results, on one hand, women that were stuck in horrible marriages could get out, on the other hand, women that were in good, but boring, marriages could opt out as well. Another re…
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 03:13 PM
10

If its one thing I've learned in my adult male life, its that nobody cares about your problems and admitting them only makes people see you as weak and pathetic. I feel sympathy for you, in a perfect world, those we love would care about us enough to accept us even at our weakest. But it seems the game is rigged and world is obsessed with image over content.
/r/MensRights18/02/14 07:07 PM
4

Thanks!
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 06:30 PM
3

If it really is her first time, you can be sure she's going to be hesitant about this stuff, she has no clue what she is doing! Perhaps you could take some time to 'teach' her the ways in which to please you. With the new found confidence she has in knowing what to do, she'll be likely to provide that... comfort.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/14 05:07 PM
1

Not Bad. According to the test, I'm not as crazy and dark as I sometime think I am. Only 1.8/4 Psychopathic? I'll take it.
/r/AlreadyRed13/02/14 03:31 PM
2

Agreed. And I think its largely a cultural thing. There are other cultures where women are not coddled and grow up responsible and without the sense of entitlement. I just think that we condition woman in this culture to believe they are princesses and beauty queens, and many "beta guys" will treat them this way. Many women grow up without the need to do anything for themselves, so they develop a sense of entitlement. But what can we do about it from an individual stand point? Not give into the …
/r/TheRedPill13/02/14 03:03 PM
3

If I were a buddhist monk, I'd reply all perspectives are centered in the self. :p
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:09 PM
1

Which is where the work comes in. I don't envy people who have kids, it is a lot of work.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:07 PM
13

Truth right here. So many women are under the impression that marriage and childbirth are the only meaning to life and any deviation from it is blasphemy
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:06 PM
2

Yep girls very often use emotional tactics to 'win' conversations. Don't let them upset your frame. Its a ruse to get what they want.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 09:04 PM
1

Hanging out with one sweet kid all day who adores you is fucking cake Who says you have 'one sweet kid' I imagine there are many mothers dealing with devil children, perhaps even in multiplicity (like twins or god-forbid, triplets). I can imagine that gets stressful, kids screaming at each other while getting into things they aren't supposed to.
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 08:46 PM
1

I think you should take time and reflect on why this upsets you so much. Do you feel as if their statements of hard-work undermine your own? Why does this affect you personally that it causes you to be bitter? If its one thing I've learned about people, is that everyone has some struggle they are facing. And each and every one of them will, if they are looking for sympathy, complain about how its so much worse than anther other person's struggle. If pressed on the issue, they'll spin rationaliza…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/14 07:31 PM
4

Oh god, what a waste of time it was reading this.
/r/MensRights12/02/14 05:36 PM
48

"I want a nice girl with even nicer tits" I think this is a good description of what I'm looking for and thanks to you I can condense it down into a simple statement.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 09:24 PM
4

I am pretty sure I got linked here from an askreddit post myself. I didn't understand the hate. Its pretty absurd someone would think this is the 'worst subreddit ever'. At the very worst, this subreddit could be seen as poor self-help guide. It certainly isn't hurting anyone. I disagree with a few of the premises that TRP is based on, but I've only ever been responded to with respect and civil discussion.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 09:21 PM
3

Reddit is so similar to highschool at times, its ridiculous. "OH you hang out with the people in THAT subreddit? You can't be a part of our subreddit then!"
/r/TheRedPill10/02/14 06:56 PM
4

These are good pieces of advice. Its a bit presumptuous to post it on walls for everyone to see. But I know of a few particular men who would benefit from these suggestions.
/r/MensRights10/02/14 04:53 PM
3

Do the opposite. When she says 'we're not having sex', just stop touching her completely and say 'ok thats fine', then get up and go check your email or something, pull away the affection and they'll want it back. Your most powerful move in a negotiation is your ability to walk away.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:16 PM
1

Why expect it on the first date? Many girls will hold out until they feel a bit more comfortable with you before decided to have sex. They are clearly into you sexually, so why not just be patient and hang out with these girls a few more times and see where it gets you.
/r/seduction10/02/14 04:13 PM
0

I can never stay satisfied with just one for very long. So I mix it up a bit. Most of mine recently have just been 'free-love' relationships. When I'm with the girl, we're together, when we're apart we're apart. And I have a few girls I cycle through, and they have a few guys they cycle through. Obviously nothing serious as of yet, but I care about all these girls I just don't mind that they get sex elsewhere from time to time. And I can certainly see myself in an polyamorous relationship in the…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 04:09 PM
1

Agree to disagree. I don't think love and sex need to be connected at all. I think they are two separate emotional forces that we often confuse for each other. And its possible to get your love from one person while you get your sex from another. I've personally experienced sexless love and loveless sex. I prefer loving sex the most. But there are vary degrees of each depending on the person you are with. As for my friend, he was very invested in that girl, he was 'in love' at the time, and is s…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 03:45 PM
1

Agreed. And I dont want to make it seem like I'm promoting a lifestyle. Because it most certainly isn't for everyone, or even the vast majority of the population. Its a small fringe case of people that do things differently. I made my statement to disrupt the common assumption around these parts that all humans operate according to the same rules and operations. I wished to illustrate there are exceptions to every rule.
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:38 PM
0

Can I think of an example? I know of a few. One of my good friends had an open relationships where they are together in title but allow each other to sleep with other people. I was brought into knowledge of the situation when I was asked to have sex with my friend's girlfriend by said friend. He knew she had a crush on me and decided to let me know and she arranged the meeting and we fucked. Throughout their 2 year relationship they kept this up with different people. Their only rule was full-di…
/r/TheRedPill07/02/14 02:31 PM
1

That seems like an oversimplification of human beings in general. I truly wish it were that easy, but I disagree. As a man, its possible to be emotionally invested AND be ok with them having sex with other people. The point is for both to keep the emotional fidelity (or atleast own the majority stake in the other person's emotional attention), while being fluid with their sexuality.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 09:50 PM
-2

I feel like polyamory type relationships only work when you can get past the entire concept of sexual jealousy. When you get to a state where you don't mind if your partner is having sex with other people and perhaps even encourage it, because you honestly want them to be sexually satisfied. Simultaneous to this is the strong connection between the primaries, where there exists a love that isn't possessive. I know this subreddit likes to suggest that our biological tendencies control our actions…
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 06:42 PM
7

Don't worry they'll send you mailers asking for 'alumni donations' for decades after you graduate. Lots of shit filled envelopes in their future.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/14 02:39 PM
6

Its just shitty behavior in general. Imagine if this were a woman's support group for rape-counseling or something... and there were kids openly mocking it on facebook and tearing down flyers. People would have a conniption.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 04:13 PM
2

Not to mention a support group is, by design, targeted at people who feel isolated and looking for companionship regarding a certain issue.
/r/MensRights05/02/14 04:10 PM
4

I've always found it interesting how women concern themselves so much with other women. Very very rarely do I ever judge another man on his choices in life (with the exception of self-destructive habits / addictions). It just doesn't concern me what other people choose to do or how many people they choose to sleep with. But some women seem to be almost obsessed with who did what, who slept with who, how another girl looks, how another girl dresses, etc. Gossip seems to be so heavily engaged in f…
/r/TheRedPill31/01/14 06:49 PM
1

Why would you keep talking to her then? I'm confused. I don't even respond to 5/10s but perhaps I'm shallow
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:59 PM
3

I wouldn't spend so much of your energy worrying about it. She'll get her karma. Yeah, she may get free drinks, and inflated ego. But that won't mean squat in a few years when her looks dry up and she has absolutely no personality to back it up. She'll end up with some loser who mistreat her and probably be poor and pregnant before age 23. That's when cold harsh reality will hit her and she'll find out that her vagina can't fix all the problems in her life.
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 08:54 PM
1

You would think after all the 'progress' feminist have made of the year, that number would have atleast gone up by 1 cent or 2. But I have a feeling people are just going to keep repeating that 'statistic' until they are blue in the face.
/r/MensRights29/01/14 07:35 PM
2

These manifest in modern times as someone having ADD, Depression, Anxiety, etc... That's quite a hypothesis you have there. I suspect there is some element of truth in it, but you may have the causality flipped. People with depression and anxiety, for example, will lie more often because of their condition. In the example of anxiety, the mind will automatically create expectations of failure. This is an illusion, a lie, that the mind puts on display but is believed nonetheless. I'm not so sure i…
/r/TheRedPill29/01/14 02:35 PM
1

Such as?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 10:52 PM
1

Well then you are missing out on a lot of advantages that lying can provide that those who are willing to lie will gain over you. I know we all want to appear to be a beacon of morality to others, but lying is incredibly advantageous. Most people lie daily without even noticing it.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 02:08 PM
2

Then you're foolish to work against your own interests like that. Because those who are willing to lie will gain the advantage over you in almost all situations.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 02:07 PM
1

Agreed.
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 02:05 PM
8

True to an extent. But we can't be separate from the world entirely. At some point, the woman does factor into why you do something. I agree they should never be 100% of the reason. But how you come off to women is going to factor into your behavior.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 09:20 PM
1

Agreed. Human beings are always going to attempt to optimize their situation, if that means telling lies, then they will do that.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 09:18 PM
9

People will always lie when it suits their interests. This is human nature. It becomes more apparent to us when we see it in other people though, as in the case of dating someone. Honesty is rare, mostly because it is not adventagous. We exist in a social stratum where lying produces a far greater number of positive outcomes than telling the truth does. So why is it any surprise when we find out that half the population lies?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 09:15 PM
4

"happy wife, happy life" makes me cringe, as well. Basically our culture telling us that we can only have a solid relationships if its on the woman's terms. The problem arises when women are uncertain of their own terms and men blindly follow as if women had all the answers to their own happiness.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 09:09 PM
3

The problem is reddit, as its coded, favors biases and bandwagons. Most people probably read what... the top 10 comments on any given topic? So if the correct opinion wasn't already at the top, most people won't dig for it, they'll just upvote the one they agree with, downvote anything that makes them mad. And the whole comment section appears as if it has a bias. When in reality, all the diversified opinions are buried deep in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 07:04 PM
7

Its sad, I believe we are conditioned since childhood that a relationship is a static well defined grouping where men apply for the position and women choose. It has never occurred to many that there could be any other way.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:59 PM
2

I think what many experience is the conflict of culture versus knowledge. There are many people that don't want to accept truths about their nature. Its like telling a christian, who believes we are divinely created, that we are large blobs of protein and cells held upright by a mass of calcium. Telling people that women are extremely sexual by nature and have adapted strategies for reaching the most favorable genetic outcome is blasphemy to some because it runs so counter to what our culture te…
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:54 PM
0

Dark triad? Can you elaborate for the ignorant (me) ?
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:47 PM
7

I feel like its a little of both, because women are attracted to men, "acting like a man".
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:45 PM
5

You realize you are a redditor too, right? The truth is reddit has an international subscriber base and have millions of different users, all with different views. The problem is, due to reddits karma system, that the more popular (not always more correct) opinion rises to the top, while controversial or disputed opinions drop like lead to the bottom, giving the illusion that 'reddit' believes whatever the top comment says it does.
/r/TheRedPill27/01/14 06:44 PM
1

That's what I tell myself. Thanks for your perspective.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 07:42 PM
1

As it is, the girls I do end up dating, I can create enough emotional distance between us that they are always pushing for closeness which I then channel into nurturing affection for myself. I've become pretty well at manipulating push and pull to get the desired affect, I just would like to find someone I didn't have to manipulate in order to get this. I've found 1 or 2 girls that were naturally nurturing and they were the ones I dated the longest. Don't get me wrong I'm not always 'weak', I ju…
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 03:24 PM
1

TRP helps keep my head in the game. I realize my needs are not universal or even common, so I play by the rules of the 'game' in hopes that out of all the girls I meet, I find one that also has a lot more going on beneath the surface. I always try to intersect my desires with practicality as to not get too lofty in ideals. I think I mostly like TRP because of the frank discussions about genders and the mating ritual we are all taking part of.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 02:10 PM
1

That's great to hear, I hope one day to have that type of relationship with someone.
/r/TheRedPill24/01/14 02:07 PM
2

Agreed. I look at it as a unique niche.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 08:20 PM
5

Very well stated and I agree. I think you've articulated what I've been trying to say for a long time. The solution is neither dissolving the concepts of gender entirely nor strictly defining gender so that we ostracize people for not fitting the definition. I'm a man, but I'd prefer to be chased and conquered, rather than be a conquerer myself. I'd prefer to be the prize and have women work towards me instead of the other way around. I want to be weak and taken care of by a woman. But people se…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/14 07:38 PM
2

Exactly. Where is the personal accountability?!
/r/MensRights16/01/14 06:38 PM
2

From the comments on the article written by a Jayne Doe: How is she "pure evil"? She suffered through a relationship with this guy who sounds like a total jerk, and a hostile divorce that lasted longer than some marriages. When she comes out the other side, she has only the kids. Female family annihilators would likely normally be suicides, except that they are concerned about how their children will fare without them, and attempt to take them with, believing they will be reunited in a better pl…
/r/MensRights16/01/14 06:31 PM
1

Oh this is in Ireland.
/r/MensRights16/01/14 04:49 PM
-3

Nice strawman. I'm neither feminist nor MRA.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 08:50 PM
-11

Well congratulations, you are the exception to the rule! Someone get this man a prize, he cares about issues that have nothing to do with him!
/r/MensRights15/01/14 08:42 PM
49

I'd say that goes for anyone. No one really cares about issues until it personally affects them.
/r/MensRights15/01/14 06:17 PM
9

Gotta love how the first comment is telling him to 'man the fuck up' after he's tried to express his frustration. Its probably unpopular to say, but men don't have to be tough all the time, and to pretend so is just propagating an old stereotype.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 04:49 PM
2

You should probably be more careful with who you sleep with, you don't have to sleep with them all. Also wear a condom you dirty fuck!
/r/TheRedPill15/01/14 03:20 PM
4

In the cases of most young boys, the elements of power and security go hand in hand. Its no surprise that during their development they have 'battles' and 'fights' with their toys or using their imagination. Its coded in us to see ourselves as protectors, as ones who use power to ensure our survival and the defeat of those who seek to harm us. The lady who wrote this article needs to get a grip. She's just like those parents who refuse to let their sons play with dolls for fear they might turn o…
/r/MensRights14/01/14 03:30 PM
5

So unless you accept that women are always the victim, you cannot be a feminist. Ok, fine with me, never wanted to a part of a movement like that anyway. I prefer being an egalitarian.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/14 09:44 PM
2

"Back of the bus with you, men."
/r/MensRights09/01/14 08:32 PM
5

But at the time these decisions were made, alimony was still a necessity because it took about a generation before the majority of women developed marketable skills and thus could support themselves. The problem is the law lags behind society. What really needs to be done is a movement that seeks to end indefinite alimony and puts a maximum cap on child support.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 09:32 PM
5

This is a topic that always gets me angry. Who do people think they are defining what a 'real man' is? As if there were any other type of man. All men are real, what they are trying to sell as 'real' is actually what they see as 'preferable'. And confusing reality with what you prefer is the definition of delusion.
/r/MensRights08/01/14 06:47 PM
15

I didn't read all of this, (woah is it long), but I will say this: Its rather ironic that the people who complain about 'gender privilege' and men treating women like objects instead of human... are the ones describing men as sub-human animals incapable of controlling their own desires. Its all mud-slinging. They feel disenfranchised so they point the finger at what they think is the bad guy and disenfranchise them. Instead of finger pointing, everyone should be taking personal responsibility fo…
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 06:44 PM
4

I dunno, I think I understand the point he/she was trying to make. Marriage was successful for so long because women didn't have the option of leaving. So unless a man initiated divorce, there never was one. Feminist lobbyist groups did push to get no-fault divorces passed in the 70s, which allowed them to leave their husbands and use their sexual/social mobility to find solutions that were more optimal for them, thus leading to the degradation of the institution of marriage we see today. Now we…
/r/MensRights08/01/14 06:38 PM
10

I hear that man. Its gone so far that I don't even necessarily want to have sex with them either. Women, as a whole, have become boring to me. I never thought I'd see the day when sex became an obligation, but now it has. I tell myself I should just keep meeting new women in the hopes that one of them with ignite something in me, but no luck so far. I don't know if our situations are anything alike, but that's my recent experience for what its worth.
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 05:48 PM
1

Its human nature to want what you can't have. The more exclusive the night club, the longer the line is to get in.
/r/seduction08/01/14 04:52 PM
2

Monthly spousal support of $23,000?! Holy shit. I bet that's after taxes too. What kind of scam are they running in these court systems? Nobody deserves a quarter million dollars annually for child support. What child could possibly need that much money to survive?!
/r/TheRedPill08/01/14 04:51 PM
3

I'm hating cuz I'm jelly
/r/seduction07/01/14 09:04 PM
2

If you want to meet lots of attractive members of the opposite sex, tell them. All of them. You'll meet some. This is golden advice right here. If someone is attractive to you, tell them!!
/r/seduction07/01/14 09:03 PM
4

No surprise here. Women have much greater social mobility due to way sex is treated as a commodity in our culture.
/r/MensRights23/12/13 03:40 AM
2

I want that legacy to be that i was the guy with over 100 girls. Honestly, I'd ask why this appeals to you so much. Is it because you want to seem macho in the eyes of your friends or end up on some imaginary high score record board in your head? Just be with the women you enjoy, because you enjoy them and quit counting. I'm probably closing in on 100 by now, (I honestly have no idea), but its not done for the count, its done because each and every woman on that list shared a connection with me …
/r/TheRedPill20/12/13 05:36 PM
0

Have you tried avoiding all verbal communication with them, unless strictly necessary?
/r/MensRights20/12/13 04:32 PM
0

Perhaps, but its not intimidation though. I could leave a note on someone's car after I hit them saying "Thank Obamacare", but that doesn't make it intimidation, nor does it make me a violent terrorist
/r/MensRights18/12/13 06:58 PM
-1

Stealing calendars is a form of intimidation? What? If that intimidates you, you may have an unusual fear response.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 06:25 PM
1

Yeah I can see that. But its still an absurd mentality for adults to be engaging in. Judge people by the merits of their message not the opinions of others. Anyway, just thought I'd let you know you weren't completely misjudged by everyone. Have a nice day.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 03:31 PM
1

It seems many of the subscribers here really don't like dissenting opinions or something, judging by the downvotes you've gotten for making simple statements. Poor reddiquitte on their behalf.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 02:59 PM
1

I'm sure they are absolutely terrified of the legendary calendar-stealing terrorists.... lol Get real, if we used the definition of a terrorist being anyway who possibly makes people afraid of stuff, then we're all terrorists and the feminists have won.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 02:25 PM
1

I'm not sure why you got attacked, you are correct in this statement.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 02:23 PM
8

Theft is not violence dude. It simply isn't.
/r/MensRights18/12/13 02:22 PM
1

Truly I think that to change this discriminatory and sexist practice we need to change hookup culture so that it's more equal, if it stops being so much distorted in the 'men after women' way and just becomes more about 'people', Exactly and that is what makes me so angry. I'm a big fan of going to EDM concerts, and mostly what is popular there is this idea that everyone is welcome, everyone is weird and we should all love and respect everyone. It doesn't matter if its a whole 'sausagefest' of g…
/r/MensRights16/12/13 09:35 PM
1

The practice of separating tickets for men and women? Yes that's sexist. Ok I'm glad you agree with me... All that I do know, you made it seem like the fact that they are gouging men for the men's ticket as if that's sexist, I'm sorry to tell you but the PRICE for the men's ticket is not sexist. What... so the price isn't, making them separate tickets is. That's what I'm talking about! Making two separate categories of segregated tickets based on sex, is discriminatory. Charging different amount…
/r/MensRights16/12/13 09:13 PM
1

Perhaps there's discrimination going on, but what you described is economics 101, plain and simple. What does this contribute to the conversation? Obviously there is economics going on, but the point is its discriminatory. If this were race instead of gender, people would be outraged. Imagine if say blacks were charged twice the ticket price as whites to a concert they knew there'd be a lot of black people going to, you know just because 'economics 101'.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 08:54 PM
1

I go to plenty of EDM concerts and could care less what the ratio is there.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 07:46 PM
3

Its stupid that they are discriminating towards females in the first place. So what if there are more guys than girls at an event? They are still fans and still deserve respect.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 05:13 PM
1

The thing is, they know for a fact this show is going to sell out, so they are squeezing as much profit from these sales as possible and they know men won't complain or boycott. They'll just have to suck it up and pay the extra price if they want to go...
/r/MensRights16/12/13 03:20 PM
1

Precisely what I wanted to say, well stated.
/r/MensRights16/12/13 03:18 PM
6

There's all sorts of things wrong with your comment. If the event became a notorious sausage-fest, I bet you'd see a decline in overall profitability. Not likely, its an Armin Van Buuren show, people are going to fill in that place regardless. Its not going to affect it being sold out or not, it is going to however make them twice the profit on any dudes who come. What's more likely for internationally famous artist: they wanted to lower prices for girls so they get more people to buy tickets, o…
/r/MensRights16/12/13 03:13 PM
2

Eh, as long as she does all the housework, I could live with her mooching off my income.
/r/MensRights13/12/13 02:41 PM
5

Yeah I've seen it from both sexes as well, it has a lot to do with maturity and how culturally attached people are.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 02:37 PM
2

I agree that young men certainly do this. I haven't experienced it in men past the age of 24 though. There is an ego culture amongst age 15-24 men that can sometimes be quite toxic.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 02:35 PM
2

This is an astute observation.
/r/MensRights12/12/13 02:34 PM
2

Meh, if it makes it any more balanced, I talk plenty of shit on fat chicks too and how the dudes are out of their league.
/r/MensRights03/12/13 05:14 PM
1

Yes and common sense is taught to us by our parents and our peers, we are socially conditioned to be mistrustful of strangers and it seems to me that when they want to depict a dangerous criminal its usually a man. I'm sorry my reasoning isn't more sound, I'd need to gather examples and I haven't had my coffee yet.
/r/MensRights03/12/13 02:13 PM
3

"Everyone knows..." Yup this is the type of language that suggests women and men are socialized to be scared of strangers, men especially.
/r/MensRights03/12/13 02:26 AM
1

Thanks for your input. How much of your emotional response do you believe is socially conditioned? Do you think that the cultural meme of 'stranger danger' influences your reactions to unknown men with questionable intentions? What do you think are some universal ways men could approach you or other women and avoid being labelled as possibly dangerous?
/r/MensRights02/12/13 06:18 PM
3

Sadly we live in a world where people's feelings take priority over facts.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 05:11 PM
1

Agreed with all of this, on a tangent, I know a girl who is self-admittedly attracted to 'creepy' guys. Wrap your head around that.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 05:09 PM
0

I dunno if they are equivalent. When I call a girl 'crazy', its normally not meant in a nasty way, its more to point out that they behave in a way that I just don't understand and it frustrates me to deal with them. However calling a man a 'creep' is essentially labelling him as dangerous, as someone who might harm you.
/r/MensRights02/12/13 05:08 PM
1

However, this person lied. And it happens often enough in modern feminism that it's starting to get attention. See this is where the "parallels" between the two stories fails to convince me there is a connection. This specific lesbian woman lied in order to get attention and it is somehow relevant to feminism because sometimes certain "feminists" (although plenty of non-feminists do the same) will lie to get attention.... But this is cherry picking examples to fit a predefined narrative. If this…
/r/MensRights02/12/13 03:15 PM
1

That's quite a verbose response when all you really need to say was 'nobody cares what you think'. I specifically mentioned what it has to do with feminism; the modern feminist party creates victims. And what I was saying is all disenfranchised groups will claim themselves to be the victim, thats the entire point of the group. The MRM has the same exact victim mentality as well. They recognize an area where they are being mistreated and they complain about it until it gets attention and sympathy…
/r/MensRights27/11/13 07:48 PM
1

The people who upvoted it? I downvoted it as it did many others, I have a feeling that many don't even read the article or contents and just upvote anything that "sticks it to those feminists". Seriously you could probably post a link to an article about Giraffes wearing Tuxedos and title it "feminists at it again, false rape accuser gets off scot-free" and it would probably get a few hundred upvotes.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 06:06 PM
3

The behavior is similar to anyone who adopts a victim mentality. Your article submission is shit and you make this community look bad.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 03:22 PM
3

Yep! You hit the nail on the head, you can see the propaganda so clearly inserted into the headline, its sickening.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 03:21 PM
5

She's a woman lying about people "being mean" in order to garner attention and sympathy. This is an example of a privilege that women are blind to. Whining, complaining and lying in order to gain sympathy is NOT a privilege. Anyone, literally ANYONE can do it. Hell, half the posts you see on this very subreddit are people telling their sob story about how they've been fucked over by society, ex-wives, girlfriends, etc. in order to gain sympathy from others. They just don't see it as a privilege …
/r/MensRights27/11/13 03:16 PM
5

Nah man you are not alone in seeing the need for change. Speak your mind and people will back you up if its true.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 03:06 PM
2

Every person is a victim of their own story when something bad happens to them.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 03:04 PM
3

You should change your username to "WasteOfSpace", it would fit you better.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 03:04 PM
2

The victim mentality is not exclusive to feminism though, and its stupid to associate it as a property of which. Any social group can take the victim mentality, why we are assuming this has to do anything with feminism or men's rights is beyond me. This story is a simple case of a person feigning offense for attention. It happens all the time/
/r/MensRights27/11/13 03:02 PM
1

Well you gotta target the individual offenders, not the subreddit itself. There are a lot of good people here, but there are also a lot of bitter women-hating trolls too.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 02:59 PM
1

The thing is, this article doesn't even have anything about "men's woes".
/r/MensRights27/11/13 02:58 PM
4

Can we get a mod to remove this? This has nothing to do with Men's rights.
/r/MensRights27/11/13 02:56 PM
1

I think we should all accept that violence does happen against both men and women and instead of making it a pissing contest on who has it worse, we should be working to better humanity as a whole. If people want to raise awareness and money to stop women from being abused. Good for them, that will improve some people's lives. No matter who you are in this society, you face issues that are unique to your gender, class, race, religion, etc. Everyone has issues they face and everyone benefits when…
/r/MensRights26/11/13 11:41 PM
1

We should certainly protect anyone who is need of refuge. Its the decent human thing to do.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:23 PM
1

That's really vague. How do you even determine where the funds go? Are we talking about violence that occurs during armed robberies, or violence during gang turf wars, violence within the scope of domestic abuse, violence against tyrannical governments, violence against rival religious groups, violence in war, violence in terrorist acts, violence in sports, etc... You need to specify the scope of your movement a little bit more than 'lets stop violence completely'. Because hell thats what the hi…
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:21 PM
3

Yes. This. People seem to forget that there's an entire world outside of the United States where women simply don't have the rights or legal protections they have here. In many places in the world today, it is ok and even encouraged to beat your wife until she complies. Yes there is violence against men too, no one is denying that. But the organizers of this event clearly wanted to focus on women. That's fine. Anyone is free to start their own event to focus on violence against men.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:17 PM
2

Yeah I agree with you. Its not a zero-sum game. You can focus on an issue affecting one group without it making a negative statement towards another group. We just had an international men's day, and this whole month is dedicated to men's health and awareness. If people want to raise awareness and money towards violence against woman, thats good.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:14 PM
2

Oh cmon its not that bad
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:11 PM
1

What? How often were you involved in a situation that wasn't in a film? Because I can tell you first hand the anger does not get taken out solely on the man. I've seen my at-the-time friend beat the shit out of their at-the-time girlfriend for cheating. I understand movie's impact on the collective consciousness, but its not always analog to real life events.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:09 PM
1

that tells everyone including men that men are naturally worth less than women, and children for good measure. Tells everyone? Are you sure this isn't a human thing but a cultural phenomenon? Other parts of the world, men are worth much more than women or children. China would be one example of this
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:04 PM
1

Are those numbers for just the USA though? If we expand the scope globally, how do the numbers add up for violence against either sex? I'd imagine in places like the middle east, its mainly violence against women, and I suspect these causes mainly have women like that in mind.
/r/MensRights26/11/13 05:01 PM
3

Yep. I second this. We often like to believe our world ends at US borders, but it doesn't. Women elsewhere in the world do not have it as good as they have it here. There are plenty of places where women are continually beaten, raped and murdered (honor killings) for no reason other than the discretion of the man who owns her. I can see why a cause to support these women would be useful, perhaps for a handful it will give them hope that somewhere out there people agree that it is wrong for them …
/r/MensRights26/11/13 04:59 PM
1

There are two reasons that I can think of that may be preventing you from hooking up: 1. The person isn't attracted to you. or 2. You're not giving him any signs that you are trying to hook up. How often do you make physical contact with the person? I always know a hookup is inevitable once the girl can't keep her hands off me. Try making more physical contact. You could also try whispering the things you'd like to do to him naked in his ear while he's trying to talk... that always gets me.
/r/seduction25/11/13 02:52 PM
3

Happy Human Day!
/r/MensRights20/11/13 02:32 PM
2

I agree with all except #10. Mostly because some people are shallow and there isn't a damn thing you can do to get them if they are dead set against you.
/r/seduction18/11/13 06:53 PM
2

People like to be douchebags on the internet. Nothing new to see here.
/r/MensRights18/11/13 02:14 PM
8

Molly is magic when it comes to picking up girls. You feel comfortable no matter what you are doing so everything comes off as confident
/r/seduction14/11/13 11:12 PM
-1

I read it as "enforcing gender stereotypes holds everyone back"
/r/MensRights07/11/13 04:12 PM
1

That's a good point. It will only help the men who are with women who've already decided to not have kids I suppose. It does reduce the accidental pregnancy rate though.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 09:03 PM
1

Sorry I didn't mean to misrepresent you. Just normally when someone brings something like that up, they have personal experiences they'd like to vent about lol. Overall, affordable access to birth control makes society better for everyone.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 07:27 PM
1

I agree we need a male pill as well. And while I agree there are certainly some women that do misrepresent themselves and lie in order to trap a man, I refuse to believe that is the majority or the norm. For most people, having accessible BC helps. Especially for men and women living at or below the poverty line.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 07:15 PM
1

Meaning I have sex with a girl and she doesn't get pregnant and trap me for the next 18 yrs of my life. By providing all women with cheap or free BC, we reduce the amount of men being stuck in situations where they have to raise children they didn't necessarily want to have.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 07:09 PM
2

I wouldn't explicitly ask.... that's kinda weird. You should figure out if there is any sexual tension between the two of you first. If so ramp it up over time: make innuendos, hint at the idea, make jokes about it "could you imagine how terrible/mind-blowingly awesome it would be if we had sex?", etc. Get her thinking about the possibility, then at some point in the future you can bring it up or let it happen naturally the next time you get drunk. But make sure you know their expecations. Don't…
/r/seduction06/11/13 05:21 PM
1

Mandatory coverage for female birth control was included in the recent Affordable Care Act. No mention of anything for guys though. It sucks but in a way, female birth control does help men avoid situations where they are trapped by pregnancy. I agree we should have across the board support for all methods of birth control, but oh well.
/r/MensRights06/11/13 03:18 PM
9

I'm glad to finally see an article basing its conclusions on the solid scientific data known as twitter.
/r/MensRights01/11/13 06:38 PM
3

Nah, Republican candidates say stuff like that all the time. Consider Rick Santorum who said that rape babies are a gift from God.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 01:55 PM
2

Yeah you know, except for the actual victims of war.... the people who are dead...
/r/MensRights31/10/13 01:51 PM
2

What a shitty way to look at your children... as potential "betrayer" and rapist... These women seem like miserable people.
/r/MensRights31/10/13 01:47 PM
1

Man, those bitches are deluded. You would think more feminists would work to distance themselves from characters like these. If we had a MRA that was going around saying "women are not animals, they are walking fuckholes", we'd tear that person a new one. But for some reason this is acceptable language for a so-called 'equal rights' activist?
/r/MensRights31/10/13 01:43 PM
2

I spent a lot of time thinking about your post and I don't have a direct answer. There are many forces at work and each person is unique in their capacity to deal with a given situation. I also realize the world, and our bodies, aren't always perfect or in harmony with the rest of us. I understand this to be true, but do you think we have the power to control to what and how we harmonize? I think so. I think the human mind is endless in its ability to restructure itself. I think happiness is a m…
/r/MensRights30/10/13 01:39 PM
0

The fact that they are more likely to kill themselves seems to suggest there is depression present as well which needs to be addressed in its own topic of conversation. I wouldn't want the solution to come in a pill form either. I like to think that these people are able to come to terms with who they are, whatever gender that may be, and accept their current form completely as-is. My solution is to cultivate an inner peace about who and what you are and develop an inner tenacity that allows you…
/r/MensRights30/10/13 01:29 PM
1

I realize that, what I don't understand is how many are unable to find a peace of mind in that state.
/r/MensRights30/10/13 01:21 PM
2

Great post. I agree 100%
/r/seduction30/10/13 02:48 AM
2

Interesting. I suppose what I meant to say.... is there no way to accept yourself exactly as you are? Whatever society says you should be, who cares. But there must be a way to attain peace of mind without going through dangerous surgery and taking pills to alter your body's natural balance of hormones.... That's ultimately what I have a problem with: The great lengths of physical modification one will do to their body in order to fix an internal mental struggle. I feel the same way about non-cr…
/r/MensRights29/10/13 07:47 PM
2

Why is it always the body that has to change to fit the mind instead of the other way around, if "bringing them into alignment" is really the goal?
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:48 PM
-3

damn good idea for scenarios in which gender is ambiguous or straight-up unknown. Just use the masculine as a default... like we do now....
/r/MensRights29/10/13 05:46 PM
-2

Its a bit in poor taste to be making jokes about this kinda stuff, don't you think?
/r/MensRights25/10/13 02:47 PM
10

I'd get physically violent. That shit pisses me off
/r/MensRights27/09/13 07:34 PM
1

What I wouldn't give to smoke with that man.... That would seriously be the coolest thing
/r/MensRights27/09/13 03:33 PM
2

I just listened to his podcast the other and he brought up that some feminists were calling him a "MRA dodo", he had never heard the term MRA before and looked it up. After understanding what it stands for he basically said he was a humanist who believes all humans need to be treated with respect. I really enjoyed that part. Because essentially that's what most of us are, we just need to don this label when talking about certain circumstances.
/r/MensRights27/09/13 03:32 PM
1

is that it's easier to exploit social responses to female vulnerability than it is to exploit social responses to male vulnerability. I was with you up until this point. Its very easy to exploit social responses to male vulnerability. All you gotta do is call a man a 'pussy' over and over again and he'll pretty much do anything he's being pressured into. You've seen it, I've seen it... Hell, we've probably all been that guy doing things because we don't want to be seen as a weakling in front of …
/r/MensRights12/09/13 01:55 PM
1

OH and also, it may help to get a picture of the ugliest female rapists you can find. Most of these kids probably have this image of this super model trying to have sex with them when they think of female-on-male rape...
/r/MensRights05/09/13 08:35 PM
1

Yep its the same in most places. In fact, I'd say that most of these sexist stereotypes against men are propagated by men that just want to appease a woman. The whole concept that 'women are always right!' wouldn't exist if some men actually had the backbone to disagree with pretty women.
/r/MensRights05/09/13 08:32 PM
2

I'm sorry that happened to you, I would be furious as well if I were in your shoes. Its really sad how much people are indoctrinated by the things they are told. We are sold this idea that all guys think about sex and that they always want sex regardless of the situation and people just go along with it. That said. Don't be like them. Form your own opinions based on research and facts, not just what other people believe. You will be unpopular for it, but at least you won't be yet another copy ca…
/r/MensRights05/09/13 08:29 PM
1

What? How do you go from butt grabbing to drugging and raping someone? Way to derail the issue. These two events aren't even in the same ball park... you have a really twisted view if you see those as the same thing. Making contact with a person, say by grabbing their hand, grabbing their butt, kissing their face or other single contact exchanges are not sexual assault unless the person does not want it and lets you know in some way. For example: You meet a girl at a bar, you get drunk, you talk…
/r/MensRights08/08/13 08:32 PM
0

I'm pretty sure its "No means No". Who says "Yes means yes" ?? You have to say NO in order for it to be considered harassment. In the same way if someone keeps calling your phone and you don't tell them to stop, you can't get them for harassment. By your definition, going in for the first kiss on someone you like would be considered sexual assault because they didn't give explicit consent beforehand.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 07:44 PM
0

It is if it isn't sexual harassment in first place. Its only "harassment" if the other person doesn't like it.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 06:22 PM
1

Hey its great when the girl (or person grabbing you) is attractive, but it can be unwanted and different people have different boundaries for what is OK. You should atleast get to know a person before groping them. That's just class. I've met plenty of girls that love to play grab ass, but at least make flirty eye contact with them first... don't just molest every person you see... its rude. It has nothing to do with "prude puritans", some people just enjoy their personal space and don't want st…
/r/MensRights08/08/13 02:00 PM
3

I was at the bar a few weeks back with a friend and some chick she knew. This chick was grabbing every dude's ass out of the blue and hitting on them relentlessly. She was a sloppy mess too, and you could tell all the guys were really weirded out and uncomfortable. I cringed so hard I had to leave, no way I could be associated with that weird girl. Some people just cannot take a hint.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 01:56 PM
7

Growing up with the privilege of never being hit tends to make people believe they can do no wrong. Everyone needs a good slap in the face once and a while to let them know they can't just be a jerk to anyone they want with no repercussions.
/r/MensRights08/08/13 01:52 PM
2

You should have grabbed hers in return. Grab ass is a fun game! edit: Man you downvoters really are narrow minded individuals. A girl grabs your ass because she obviously likes you... but grabbing hers in return is off limits?
/r/MensRights08/08/13 01:49 PM
14

Wtf? How many mental backflips do you have to do in order for that to make sense?
/r/MensRights05/08/13 09:55 PM
1

You have to realize that what you are experiencing is not the entirety of women, but rather you select for the types that are open to the sexual encounters you are facing. So yes if you go out to get laid, the girls you are going to be sleeping with are the ones that... well fuck someone they just met.
/r/seduction29/07/13 01:33 AM
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Communication has been in many forms and in many different animals. Perhaps you mean the advent of language. In either case, there most certainly are needs that exist in human beings that go far deeper than 'wants'. Wants are in some form controllable, needs are impulses that are fundamental to our survival. Human beings certainly do 'need' food and air, just in the same way an electric hair dryer needs electricity.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 07:35 PM
1

Can we really call an anarchistic society a society? Perhaps, but I suppose we are teetering into semantics here, because how can we define a society that doesn't meet some sort of human need? Seems to me something like that could only exist as an ideal. If a society does not provide basic needs such as food, then I fail to see why anyone would join that society, and thus the society would cease to exist. Doubly so, if the human needs aren't met and the people die off from starvation then there …
/r/MensRights22/07/13 07:20 PM
1

Interesting perspective. Care to elaborate? From my understanding the reason society exists is because it provides for the needs of man. It is a survival mechanism to form communities and delegate responsibilities to fulfill the needs to each person, on a level of efficiency not possible with any single human being.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 06:35 PM
2

Because in a society, we cannot cater to everyone's wants, we only try to cater to their needs.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 05:22 PM
3

You're completely right. We should take all that air away from you that you don't need.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 05:13 PM
0

Honestly the concept of 'patriarchy' is crap. Humans have been existing in these types of hierarchies for as long as there has been humans.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 05:12 PM
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Well from a societal standpoint, "utility to others" is the only way we value human beings. If someone doesn't contribute in some way to society, we say 'fuck em'. I believe the article was focusing on the change in character that comes about when men are around women or girls they care about. It makes sense to me, the chemical Oxytocin is produced whenever you are with someone you care for and has very strong pacifistic effects. Lastly, I don't know where 'patriarchy' comes into this, as it was…
/r/MensRights22/07/13 05:09 PM
1

I dunno a robot whose primary function is to rape would be pretty terrifying.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 03:36 PM
4

If you go around trying to please everyone, you're only going to get frustrated. Let the people have whatever impressions they'd like. It doesn't change anything.
/r/MensRights22/07/13 03:35 PM
2

This infographic would be a lot clearer if the colors were labeled with their respective gender. I had no idea who the stats were favoring
/r/MensRights16/07/13 03:19 PM
3

I dislike the phrase "real men do ...", as if these other shitty men aren't "real". But truth be told, if these messages do any good, so be it.
/r/MensRights08/07/13 04:49 PM
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"Gyn-energy sucking vampires"? dafuq?
/r/MensRights20/06/13 02:38 PM
2

That's why for many of these type of cases (well in cases where the genders are reversed) they'll use wording like "Ex-sixth grade teacher allegedly raped student."
/r/MensRights13/06/13 02:29 PM
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I may have missed it in the article, but does it say the victim was male? From what I read it looks like she has a few counts of "genital penetration by foreign object", which leads me to believe she was performing these acts on a little girl. However I may be completely mistaken.
/r/MensRights13/06/13 02:27 PM
2

I agree. While there may be a select few who are so piss-poor with women they use the friendship angle to somehow get in her pants... Most guys end up in the 'friendzone' due to unrequited feelings. They are infatuated with the girl, but she is not attracted to him, but he agrees on the friendship with a false pretense that her feelings will change over time. But they don't.
/r/MensRights31/05/13 06:57 PM
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Why do you need to have some magic instant initial attraction? Because that is precisely how attraction works. Did you not get the memo. We are animals, we access attractiveness first and foremost off of our senses. Its only after that stage that we can go into a relationship or something deeper. But if that initial stage isn't there... its not going to happen. Do you date ugly girls because they have a heart of gold? I certainly don't. You can call it shallow, you can protest and bitch about it…
/r/MensRights31/05/13 06:52 PM
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While that may be true in many cases, they are forfeiting on their ability to walk away from the situation. If you are friends with someone and they don't reciprocate, you'll likely just not talk to them or spend time with them anymore. However the attraction element (or unrequited love) causes them to persist where there is no hope. But then again there are certainly women who understand this and leave tiny shreds of hope to encourage the attention they are receiving. To hell with those particu…
/r/MensRights31/05/13 06:38 PM
2

I think the problem with many of these 'friendzone' complaints are really because some men are infatuated with their female friend but never have the guts to make a move and so he accepts a 'friendship', because its better than nothing, or so he thinks. However those unrequited emotions well up inside of him until he begins to resent her. But there is certainly something to be said for the cultural conditioned expectations we teach boys growing up. We have this concept of chivalry, this archetyp…
/r/MensRights31/05/13 06:32 PM
3

Start your own "No-girls-allowed" Club.
/r/MensRights28/05/13 05:39 PM
13

You would think a fist inside of the symbol for a woman would be seen as demeaning. lol.
/r/MensRights22/05/13 06:30 PM
1

Try volunteering at a charity event. You'll be helping other people, feeling good about yourself for doing good things, and telling the story of how you help out on the weekends will be sure to get you brownie points in anyone's mind.
/r/seduction14/05/13 06:21 PM
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Make friends with the bartender!
/r/seduction14/05/13 04:10 PM
2

I think so. I've always found I have more success when I go out in jeans and a t-shirt/hoodie rather than a button up dress shirt. If you are attractive its very easy to border on douchebag when you are dressed up
/r/seduction09/05/13 07:10 PM
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Interesting. Damn you women and your walls. Why you always gotta make me tear em down and prove you wrong?
/r/seduction09/05/13 07:08 PM
1

So what you are saying is that all girls are different and its like tossing dice to determine what you should actually do. Lol great.
/r/seduction09/05/13 07:03 PM
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"No, just to the ones I like."
/r/seduction25/04/13 05:45 PM
1

Pfft just because you are gay doesn't mean you can't be a homophobic asshole. lol
/r/MensRights23/04/13 05:57 PM
1

Yep this is another good point. Don't be afraid to ask other people what they are doing and tag along. Sometimes its good to be assertive.
/r/seduction18/04/13 05:10 PM
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Hm maybe the events you planned weren't really interesting to the people you invited. You gotta know your audience. Instead of TV show marathons and movie nights... why not just throw a kegger? People will be much more likely to show up if they get free booze. (And in your 20's all anyone cares about is getting drunk anyway)
/r/seduction18/04/13 05:07 PM
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High school friends very rarely stick around and become substantial, in my experience. Perhaps the next time you are out, find yourself an impromptu wingman. A guy who is also out by himself or with a small group of people and recruit him to help you (or you help him) find some girls. I find its an easy way to bond and you may just make a friend who is just like you.
/r/seduction18/04/13 05:03 PM
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I'm right there with ya buddy. All the people I know are flakes. Without fail, a day or two before the event they always find some excuse as to why they can't go.. or how they don't have any money (despite them knowing about the event for months). Its ridiculous and extremely frustrating when you put time and effort into planning fun events and nobody shows. I try not to take it personally, however it happens, a lot. To the point where I no longer feel like making the effort... (but foolishly, I…
/r/seduction18/04/13 05:00 PM
1

Eh. I constantly do things and invite people out... its just that no one ever says yes.
/r/seduction18/04/13 04:56 PM
2

Try "Hello"
/r/seduction16/04/13 12:32 AM
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Yep. People can be awesome, shitty, or somewhere in between. I've met just as many fucked up women in my life as I've met fucked up men. Luckily there are also many incredible men out there as well as many incredible women in this world.
/r/MensRights12/04/13 02:14 PM
2

What's really sad is that there are people that would actually say this.
/r/MensRights12/04/13 02:13 PM
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Hey man it sounds to me that you want sex to be an important event between two people, and that the casual nature in which sex is thrown around these days has gotten you feeling a little jaded. Its ok though, because not every girl is the same, just like not every guy is the same. If you feel sex should be a meaningful act, I can guarantee you there are plenty of women who share your perspective. I feel alot of knuckleheads here will tell you that getting laid is the goal and the only purpose in…
/r/seduction24/12/12 05:42 PM
1

If there is sex to be had on the first date... it takes two to tango.. does it not? I mean sex is not something that is 'allowed' by the female. Its a consensual act, which then follows that she wanted to have sex with him, just as he wanted to have sex with her. For every man that scores on the first date, there is a woman who did too. Its not like she was obligated due to a meal. The meal on the date is a courtesy, tradition, etc. I really highly doubt a woman would have sex.. in exchange for …
/r/MensRights16/12/12 11:54 PM
1

Well I can only speak from personal experience, and mine has been that women are interested (or disinterested) in sex about as much as men are. But that for women its generally not tactful for them to speak about it; while men are encouraged to talk about it. Thus creating an illusion that men have sex on their mind more than women do. But I do scoff at the idea that, collectively-speaking, it impacts them the way it does men. Could you elaborate on this? Are you suggesting that men are devastat…
/r/MensRights16/12/12 09:21 PM
1

Interesting. Do you have alot of female friends that confide in you? I hear relatively often how disappointed some girls are when they don't get laid at the end of the night. It could very well be a geographic thing? (I'm in the northeast US)
/r/MensRights16/12/12 09:04 PM
0

In the majority of interactions I've had with women it was them who wanted the no-strings-attached sex, while it was me who wanted a relationship. In pretty much all of these situations I've been shamed by the women and my friends that I "am a guy and should just want sex all the time". Stereotypes may be true sometimes, but its a bitch when you are made to feel bad about your preferences.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 08:55 PM
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Eh. Its not that far fetched. I mean, I'm a man and don't really enjoy sex that much. So its pretty easy for a woman to love it more than I do. I'd be careful about including all of a gender into a single description.
/r/MensRights16/12/12 06:39 PM
1

If these 'alpha' dudes are within your immediate circle, talk with them. Its possible they are cool dudes who are just trying to have a good time out. Enlist them to help in your cause, and help them in their cause. Its easy to think of them as 'competition' but that comes from a scarcity mindset. If you think of them as potential allies, you might find yourself a new wingman
/r/seduction21/10/12 05:33 PM
2

Congrats man! Now to find yourself a girl that would be willing to be your kissing instructor. :)
/r/seduction21/10/12 04:42 PM
1

I feel like you should have said something, but I guess its all hindsight now. Forcibly inserting something into a person's orifice without their consent is wrong, regardless of what word you slap on it. I personally believe that would be sexual assault and I have a feeling some judges might agree with me.
/r/MensRights13/10/12 04:15 PM
1

Hey, I thought I'd chime in here, there are a whole lot of fun touching games you can play. Even something as simple as 'wow you have tiny hands let me see them' will work. Its pretty innocent and it counts. You can challenge her to a thumb wrestling match or invent a secret handshake.. or clean an imaginary smudge off her face. There are a million different excuses and games you can make up that'll allow you kino.
/r/seduction10/10/12 02:13 AM
1

Are you suggesting we should start acting like a bitch?
/r/seduction21/09/12 04:33 PM
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Talk to everyone that is in your immediate vicinity. Don't be afraid to bring yourself into groups and join a conversation, you don't need a segway or an introduction... just sit in and listen. If its a house party, hang out near the keg, fill people's beer. Go around and ask for a beer pong partner (preferably a cute girl) and run the table earn some respect. Plus its a great team building exercise with whoever your partner is. Most importantly, a tip I've found is worth is weight in gold: Make…
/r/seduction15/09/12 05:16 PM
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No it just goes to show how disillusioned many of them are. If you can't tell the difference between reality and what you've been told, then you are probably brainwashed.
/r/MensRights16/08/12 03:13 AM
2

If a girl finds you attractive she's going to make it as easy as she can for you to talk to her.
/r/seduction20/06/12 01:45 PM
2

Start small if you need to. Make eye contact with everyone you walk by. If they make eye contact back simply smile and say hello or good morning. That's it. Nothing more until you feel more comfortable with talking to strangers. Then increase the interaction to a conversation when it's natural and appropriate to do so
/r/seduction25/05/12 11:33 PM
8

Watching a movie at my house. That I pirate. Can't get much cheaper than that.
/r/seduction20/05/12 02:18 AM
2

I think you could have better summed this all up with a general fact about human attraction: People respond well to what they believe they deserve. (And respond negatively to that which is outside of this range) This is why being a dick works well on girls with lower self esteem and why more confident girls require a more well mannered witty gentlemen. Because how they are being treated is matching up with what they believe they deserve. If you believe you don't deserve anything, you'll take any…
/r/seduction22/04/12 07:08 PM
1

Is it just me or is her grammar atrocious?
/r/seduction02/03/12 09:21 PM
0

Name three unattractive male superheroes.
/r/MensRights26/02/12 11:19 PM
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I find it hypocritical to say ”it's my body I'll do what I want” and then go on to tell other people how they should or should not be using their eyes. Some men are fascinated with cleavage. Get over it. The whole world should not bow to self consciousness
/r/MensRights21/02/12 01:46 PM
1

Lets keep in mind that women think differently than men and are driven by different factors. Simply put girls love receiving attention. Friend zoned males give them not only attention but emotional closeness without the sexual requirement normally afforded for boyfriends
/r/seduction24/01/12 01:51 PM
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To be honest, the vast majority of guys do not know how to legitimately fight and most of the posturing that goes on is meant to scare you away. Its very rare that a fight actually occurs. That is unless you continue to hit on his girl even after he stakes his claim. But its much rarer for things to get physical than you think. Most guys want to puff out their chest, act like an alpha male to mark their territory in order to scare you away. If you are still concerned about it though, take some m…
/r/seduction16/12/11 03:50 AM
2

The more time you take thinking about something the less time you are devoting to actually doing it. Sloth is a sin of the mind. You become so trapped in thinking about all the effort that would be required that you actually get exhausted thinking about it. Try meditation. Turn off that inner voice in side of your head completely and just act.
/r/seduction15/12/11 08:14 PM
2

Well said, Im_a_rapist
/r/seduction15/12/11 07:55 PM
2

Yeah but what if I hate women lol
/r/seduction15/12/11 07:24 PM
2

No that would require some sort of pedomagnetic force, which does not exist in this universe.
/r/MensRights11/11/11 09:58 PM
3

Honestly, who can really have fun at an office party when the girls are there anyway?
/r/MensRights11/11/11 04:31 AM
1

I suppose the number demotes the level of difficulty.
/r/seduction20/08/11 05:05 AM
4

Holy shit dude. ... imagine a bubble that spreads from your core to the world around you. It may start out small as you first begin working on yourself. However, as you become a more confident and comfortable person, the bubble will expand. In this bubble, you are its creator, its god, its source of power. You control what is in it, you control what enters/exits, and inside this bubble YOU are like a rock. I think you just unraveled the meaning of my last acid trip. Woah. But seriously, all this…
/r/seduction20/08/11 04:58 AM
11

You're missing the point where he won the money years before he even met her. She has no right to that money.
/r/MensRights29/07/11 06:45 PM
1

I'm saying that a "might by right" type hierarchy would naturally form given any anarchist society. There will always be assholes who desire more than equal standing and will use force to take it. The only way to stop it would be to form a counter-force which itself would then be 'more equal' than others. Due to the physical prowess of men over women, it would more than likely end with the subjugation of women by force simply because one can
/r/MensRights15/07/11 02:28 AM
2

Hm.. After much research it looks like all the matriarchial societies I've found were all tribal: Iroquois, Amazons, Pacific Islander tribes, etc. Never mind then. Perhaps military conquest causes advancements in technology for the sake of becoming the strongest. It would make sense that tool-making and science was first used in the areas of defense. I retract my statement
/r/MensRights12/07/11 05:39 PM
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I'm not sure I follow. Where does "completely avoiding contact" come into it? Or an "incredible asexual holy reverence for women's bodies"? Both of those are products of socially inept men, not society.
/r/MensRights12/07/11 05:34 PM
1

How so? There are other cultures which are matriarchal and have passed the "grass huts" phase. The only difference I see is patriarchies are more likely to build empires and pursue conquest. Are you saying that advanced civilization is reliant on conquest?
/r/MensRights12/07/11 02:52 PM
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Precisely. If anarchy existed, I don't think women would have rights at all. It would revert to a system of "might makes right", would it not?
/r/MensRights12/07/11 01:50 PM
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You may be on reddit, but you're still in /r/seduction. Get this beta shit outtta here
/r/seduction08/07/11 09:23 PM
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No hes a chubby white dude. :P
/r/seduction08/07/11 09:22 PM
2

Being fully present in the moment is a great skill especially during interactions with women. Forget about what you are 'supposed to say next'. One needs to actually listen to what the girl is saying: That means beyond the words she's using, observe her body language, the tone of her voice, what her eyes are saying, etc. If you are observant enough you can cut through the bullshit and seemingly read her mind because you are picking up on all the faintest of clues. This will give you much better …
/r/seduction07/07/11 02:46 PM
1

I think we should just all assume the best qualities in ALL people until otherwise proven.
/r/MensRights07/07/11 02:32 PM
1

Absolutely. It breeds discrimination on all levels of society and with it comes a society where each individual as an "us vs them" mentality leading to factions and increased violence, where people are blindly following the indoctrinated dogma that everyone that is not you is out to harm you. Thus you react violently and sometimes act offensively in order to combat this believed foe.
/r/MensRights06/07/11 07:15 PM
0

Sure. But a person like myself (who gives all people the benefit of the doubt, innocent until proven guilty) will say that the guy was probably just clueless when it came to properly talking to women. A very common problem amongst men that very often comes off the wrong way around women. I assume he meant no harm and gave off the entirely wrong vibe. My concern is largely with the fear-culture in which we live where all people are automatically assumed to be terrible people with sinister intents…
/r/MensRights06/07/11 06:54 PM
1

Yes, but a tactless advance is a farcry from sexual assault. The article states that asking for coffee while in a closed elevator is, and I quote, "potential sexual assault". This is the issue I take. They guy may be very poor in his reading of situations and his ability to seduce a woman properly, but to label him a sexual predator is completely unwarranted.
/r/MensRights06/07/11 06:38 PM
1

It depends, what if this was a welcomed advance, what if she was attracted to the guy. Being asked out for coffee in this case would probably be welcome, and not uncomfortable at all. How we he to know unless he said something? The point is you can't push this fear-based intiative where we should avoid all human contact with another person because we assume them all to be potential rapists and murderers. If he was simply being friendly and asked her out for coffee, she declined and they went on …
/r/MensRights06/07/11 03:35 PM
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And this is why dating is so damn difficult. Women love men that make the first moves and take the initiative, but if you fail to read their mind that they aren't interested, you are a potential sexual predator.
/r/MensRights06/07/11 03:32 PM
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Well played. It sounded terribly sexist in its original version, put to this context, I hope that its clear for everyone.
/r/MensRights06/07/11 03:25 PM
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This article is the first in a while that has actually made me rage. Are you serious? Potential sexual assault? This has gone too far, and whats worse is there is people defending that position, as if the guy had some sort of malicious intent. Oh thats right, we are to believe that all men have ill-content for women and will rape at the drop of a hat. +1 Respect for Richard Dawkins for telling it like it is. And fuck anyone that try and tell me that starting a friendly conversation in an elevato…
/r/MensRights06/07/11 03:23 PM
1

Seriously? That is all the evidence that is needed in the majority of the rape trials across the US. Men get put in prison simply because a woman, without anything more than a written statement, has said "He is the one who raped me" It can and DOES hold up in court.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 08:43 PM
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I see that you guys like to downvote common sense and discussion instead of discussing it like proper rediquette would have. I suppose there is no point in anyone answering this question contrary to the will of the subreddits hivemind circlejerk.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 08:37 PM
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If I were raped by someone and there were no evidence of it Being a witness is evidence. So saying 'if ... there is no evidence' is moot. Witnesses stand up in court as admissible evidence.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 08:35 PM
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A witness to a crime is evidence. If you are the victim of a crime, you are a witness to your own crime. Thus evidence.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 08:12 PM
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I'm talking about undetermined rape accusations. Where we don't know if it is false or not.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 08:11 PM
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So you are saying, if you were raped by someone, and you wanted to see justice... there is no need for the person to explain themselves and they can just deny the accusations without anything happening further? That seems strange to me that we should not investigate a violation to someone's rights as a human being by another person.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 08:02 PM
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Many times its just a he-said vs. she-said situation. Without evidence you must look for holes in the story. If they are both saying conflicting things, one of them is lying.
/r/MensRights05/07/11 07:51 PM
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When it comes to rape, what makes feminists believe that just because you don't believe the accuser that means you believe the accused? Um because there is normally only two people present at the time of the incident. So if you don't believe one person's story, you naturally default to the others...
/r/MensRights05/07/11 07:42 PM
1

In order to hump the vagina, you must first not want to hump the vagina.
/r/seduction05/07/11 06:02 PM
1

Provide a value that none of them can provide.
/r/seduction01/07/11 06:06 PM
2

Society sells us delusions in all shapes and forms: From beauty queens to rock stars. Accept the reality that TV shows you and you'll find yourself lacking in almost every way. There's no soundtrack to your life and you don't always get the girl. Sometimes you're the villian and sometimes you don't have what it takes. But the answer to this is to not sit idly by and make commentary on how things are dissapointing and fucked up, the solution is to do what you as a man feel is right, regardless of…
/r/MensRights01/07/11 05:55 PM
4

One word answer: Puritans
/r/MensRights01/07/11 05:51 PM
3

Apples aren't as sweet as oranges.
/r/MensRights30/06/11 06:19 PM
2

Man. That was painful to read. I started getting nervous just reading it.
/r/seduction28/06/11 07:43 PM
5

Dealing with flakes. I want to act like its no big deal, but at the same time discipline her for wasting my time. Often times I come off as angry, which only worsens the situation.
/r/seduction23/06/11 06:59 PM
2

The whole point of a date is getting to know someone new, why would you go ahead and read the spoilers before hand? Girls are more than happy to talk about themselves to you, there's no need for research
/r/seduction23/06/11 02:28 PM
2

I agree completely and this is the way I always trying to teach pickup to others. Why do people spend hundreds of dollars on a single pair of jeans, save up for it and buy it, even though its made with the same materials as a pair of $20 jeans? Desire is created through the brand's image and the illusion that is an exclusive or 'upscale' pair of pants. Likewise anything you do for a girl must come at a price that you set and the more elusive or selective you are, the more she is willing to pay f…
/r/seduction22/06/11 01:20 PM
1

I think the point they are trying to make is: Don't look down at your feet when you talk, it makes you look really beta.
/r/seduction21/06/11 01:52 PM
4

Most likely you will be deemed "creepy" the first few times. Its gonna happen sooner or later. But this is a hurdle you must overcome, its a lesson in learning to forget what people think about you. The number one most important rule in seduction: Be comfortable in your own skin. Meaning don't care about what anyone thinks or says about you, do it because you want to. Those who like it, will become your friends, those who don't will become distant forgotten faces you'll never see again. You WILL…
/r/seduction20/06/11 02:27 PM
3

6% isn't really all that much to get up and arms about. What do you expect the US government to be really concerned over balancing something that is within 6% of equality? That's pretty good.
/r/MensRights20/06/11 12:52 PM
9

If the shirts were reversed, your tag would visible.
/r/MensRights20/06/11 12:50 PM
1

in addition to making sure I have a place to crash every night and food in my belly. Wouldn't hitting on and picking up girls help you in this area? I mean I love sleeping in girl's beds they are fucking comfortable. Plus they'll probably feed you and if you are really good you can land a girlfriend you can mooch off of until you get your shit together. Stepping stones, man.
/r/seduction16/06/11 02:01 PM
1

Great post. Commenting so I can reference this later.
/r/MensRights15/06/11 01:07 PM
1

"Its ridiculous that you don't understand men at all." Furthermore, how dare she tell anyone what they are allowed to look at. Its their eyes, they can do what they want with them. What does she want? A societal norm on telling people what they are allowed to see?! Lets control people's brains now shall we, how dare they look at something!?
/r/MensRights14/06/11 02:31 PM
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How does that even make sense? I'm not the one stalking a bitch at dennys.
/r/seduction14/06/11 12:41 PM
2

This sounds like a load of BS. In a seduction scenario, the reaction should always be curving in the positive direction. You, should always be positive, not to be confused with 'nice'. "Nice" is not always positive, "Nice" more often than not, is manipulative. The problem lies with the assumption that the only positive tones are 'nice' or 'funny'. I think this pervades to our culture as well, as we assume the only serious things are the sad ones. But you can be serious and positive at the same t…
/r/seduction13/06/11 03:22 PM
-2

Damn dude, you sound creepy as fuck. Who pays attention to everything some random chick at a DENNYS is ordering? Then have the nerve to go on and judge her as neurotic. She was gorgeous, cute, a little doll. This sounds like some shit a serial killer would say before kidnapping a victim. If you are going to open, do so as soon as you make eye contact with her for the first time (or within 3 seconds of seeing her). If you fail to open, just drop it. Don't sit there thinking, or observing her ever…
/r/seduction13/06/11 02:25 PM
4

Actually its just because they are famous. Before the show, these dudes were schmucks. But because they enter a club and being followed by a camera crew, women naturally flock. It has little to do with any 'game' on their part. Good hygiene + Muscular body + Camera crew entourage = Easy pussy.
/r/seduction08/06/11 05:16 PM
2

Talk highly of your friend. Work together as a team. Be excited when he tells stories.
/r/seduction08/06/11 03:49 PM
1

Exactly the answer I was looking for. Thanks!
/r/seduction08/06/11 12:58 PM
4

We would rather see ourselves living in a hotel for weeks rather than inconvenience our women. That's not compassion. Compassion is not giving into the demands and whims of another, you're thinking of submission. Compassion is refusing to leave and instead working together on a mutually beneficial compromise while staying under the same roof. Or even just letting it go, and moving forward, disregarding whose right and whose wrong.
/r/MensRights07/06/11 02:44 PM
3

Because these men accept this type of behavior and allow it to go on. Poor arguing skills lead some men to believe that giving into the woman's every demand will somehow resolve and argument. All it does however is put yourself in a position that you are somehow punishable by the woman, as if she is some sort of moral authority. Like if you are arguing, fine. If you want to sleep in separate rooms due to anger, fine. If you want to hold a grudge with each other, fine. But don't set a precendent …
/r/MensRights07/06/11 02:41 PM
3

How effective is NLP? It sounds like voodoo to me
/r/seduction07/06/11 01:26 PM
2

Check the right side of the seduction subreddit for the seddit locator. Its an easy way to find wingmen in your area.
/r/seduction07/06/11 01:21 PM
5

Confidence is "knowing what you are doing". Simple as that. Consider your profession or hobby, something that you are good at... you don't worry about doing it wrong, you don't have to stop and consider each step before you do it, you just do it. You are relatively proud of yourself after the accomplishment. This is confidence. Confidence, in terms of seduction, is communicating with a female as if it were your second nature: You pick up on her body-language, her emotional cues, her IOIs and res…
/r/seduction07/06/11 01:19 PM
3

There is no "right" thing to say. Don't make it such a big deal, at worst you were just making friendly conversation.
/r/seduction07/06/11 01:04 PM
1

Any tips for body language (besides the usual: open stance, good posture, smile)? Or tricks for initiating kino early on?
/r/seduction07/06/11 12:58 PM
2

I completely agree with you, but what angered me about the post was not what the woman requested, but rather what the last commenter said in the conversation: "Men are all a bunch of unprofessional sexual predators. They cannot be trusted."
/r/MensRights05/06/11 12:09 AM
3

Two things: The girlfriend you had caused you to grow in unexpected ways, you are a better/more mature person then you were before her. Your next girlfriend won't be the same, and thats perfect because dating the same girl would stunt your growth, as you have already learned what you needed to learn from her. The next girl is supposed to be different, because from there you will learn and grow in new ways you can't see now. Just in the same way you couldn't predict how your last one could change…
/r/seduction03/06/11 08:11 PM
3

Remember: Rejection does not reflect on you, it reflects the desires of the other person.
/r/seduction03/06/11 08:03 PM
3

Good tip, I noticed I don't really move my arms alot when I dance, this needs to be corrected.
/r/seduction03/06/11 08:00 PM
1

I spend alot of time in front of the mirror and I notice that my normal, non-smiling face looks alot more seductive than my smiling face. Should I still smile even when I'm trying to create more a serious tone. I find I tend to err on the side of "too-friendly" many times, and it conflicts with my perceived personality. I've had more success with smart-ass comments made with a straight face than I have had with jolly introductions.
/r/seduction03/06/11 01:08 PM
2

No girl is worth your life. Remember that.
/r/seduction02/06/11 08:27 PM
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Really dude? you are scared of a bunch of kids younger than you? Do you remember how when you were in highschool and you saw all the high school girls around you dating older 'college guys'? You are now that college guy. Walk in there like a boss, because its filled with young ass kids who have no clue about the world around them. I want to go to prom with her because this is a great opportunity to make her my girlfriend later, perhaps. Stop this. You haven't even met the girl, stop making plans…
/r/seduction02/06/11 08:23 PM
4

Good stuff here. I feel like I have learned something.
/r/seduction02/06/11 07:46 PM
1

on reddit, you will accomplish nothing. Truer words were never spoken.
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:35 PM
1

Control the flow of your thoughts. It is your mind. You are the master of it. Start acting like it.
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:33 PM
3

speaking on a deeper level here: The ostracism you feel is really a fear of rejection, the devaluation of the ego. The root cause is you generating your sense of self and your self-esteem from the judgments of others. Ultimately you are going to have to come to a point where you realize that people cannot define you, because they do not have the data required to make any sort of accurate judgment. The only true assessment of you must come from yourself (since you are aware of all of the parts th…
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:30 PM
5

Well I think you are really just imagining things for the mere sake of the negativity it creates. In this fantasy world that you have created in your mind, everyone is out getting laid and having the time of their lives except for you. But the truth is, this is not how things really are: There are also people struggling, having a bad trip, sitting at home on reddit, crying, feeling sorry for themselves and thinking the same thing. There's also probably a few girls somewhere in the world thinking…
/r/seduction01/06/11 06:15 PM
3

I don't even have to watch this to know what it is. Its been reposted so much.. hm lemme guys the guy decides to fuck her mom and does so successfully?
/r/seduction20/05/11 08:22 PM
1

Um no. I'm a Man and as such I support my rights.
/r/MensRights20/05/11 06:27 PM
4

Lead the conversations and tease them for 'being such girls'.
/r/seduction20/05/11 06:12 PM
1

Keep it up and ask her out for drinks. Remember you are acting like you are not interested, but your secret is that you actually are into her. She wants to make you admit this secret, but you won't do it because you are being coy and playful. So don't take it too far (don't be a complete dick), just let her know she's gonna have to work for it.
/r/seduction19/05/11 04:28 PM
1

Call her when you want to hang out with her.
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:58 PM
1

Nature hikes!
/r/seduction19/05/11 03:30 PM
1

Not true, there are some pretty awesome men out there that do great things but when it comes to interacting with females they completely go blank. Saying that being a better man naturally gets you laid is not entirely true.
/r/seduction19/05/11 02:57 PM
1

Here's my advice: In order to get over a traumatic event in your past, you have to overwrite the memory with a new one. Memories never get forgotten completely, but they can be overwritten. So in order to do this, you have to ask a few girls out and have it go differently for your brain to reassociate it. Leading up to that part however, you have to consciously define yourself. Write down a paragraph describing who you are, what you are good at, what you have to offer people. And then read that …
/r/seduction19/05/11 02:53 PM
1

Of course there is a script to follow, atleast in a general sense. You can't just go up and fling your shit at some girl and hope she likes you, no matter how confident you do it. Fortunately for you, you learned social skills growing up, so they work subconsciously. For many, however, social skills were completely unused or undeveloped until after adolescence.
/r/seduction19/05/11 02:45 PM
1

"Meeting girls" and "Seduction" are two different (but sometimes inclusive) topics. Seduction is the art of getting them into bed with you. So yeah, meeting girls is a part of seduction and you can meet girls and fire off relationships with them. But thats only the first step if you want this random girl you just met to sleep with you. Not all of us are looking for relationships.
/r/seduction18/05/11 03:22 PM
5

I find it interesting that in many cases like this, the woman doesn't understand what it is like being a man, nor does she truly understand what it is that sexually attracts her. Thus these ideals of what they think masculinity is, or what it should be, are pushed onto the child. But in fact they are more or less a repression of masculinity and an expression of feminity. But for heterosexual women, masculinity is exactly what attracts them to a man. Its evolutionarily programmed this way. So the…
/r/MensRights17/05/11 02:39 PM
1

Not me. I can't remember the last time I've had one-itis. But then again, I'm pretty cold and uncaring.
/r/seduction17/05/11 02:19 PM
5

Awesome is just kind of our job description here.
/r/seduction17/05/11 01:45 PM
2

Don't verbalize it. Just do it.
/r/seduction16/05/11 03:32 PM
3

I really don't see what it has to do with men at all, to be honest. If anything its a protest against an overly puritanical society that looks down on any sort of nudity or sexuality. This wasn't an anti-man demonstration, it was a pro-personal-freedom PR stunt. People should have the right to dress however they want. (I support full blown nudity rights). I agree that women and men should take responsibility for their own safety.... by carrying a weapon with them. But don't give up your personal…
/r/MensRights14/05/11 07:41 PM
2

Now you are just being dumb. You state "All men get blanket accusations" and then immediately go on to say that the girls who dress 'slutty' are now all false-rape accusers. Stop it. Its one thing to argue for men's rights, it another thing to try to be spiteful towards women.
/r/MensRights14/05/11 07:35 PM
1

reminds me too much of my Brazillian Ju-Jitsu fights, pretty much the opposite of comfortable.
/r/seduction13/05/11 08:18 PM
2

I'm glad you were motivated. But I hope you also took the time to allow the words to sink in and took the time to take a serious look into the roots of your behavior. Its not hopeless and change is possible. YOU can be successful with women, but this will only come after you become comfortable in your own skin.
/r/seduction13/05/11 07:48 PM
5

What many men find so offensive about the Slutwalk protests is that they seem to blame all men for rape when in fact it is a small number of men who are rapists. That's not true. If you actually look into the reason why they did this 'slut walk' event, it was because a police officer made a comment along the lines of "if girls just dressed appropriately they wouldn't get raped." This event was held in protest of the officer's comments. It was not held to blame all men, but to make the statement …
/r/MensRights13/05/11 07:46 PM
2

I fucking love cuddling. Although I do hate the word "cuddling". We really need to create a new masculine term for it.
/r/seduction13/05/11 05:53 PM
6

I'd feel sorry for you if you would get robbed. That's never a good thing. But its the whole liberty vs security argument. Should we give up liberty (wearing what one wants to wear) in order to gain security? I don't think so. Furthermore I dont see how this post is related to MensRights.
/r/MensRights13/05/11 05:22 PM
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You have a warped view of reality, my friend. It seems your mind is plagued with lies, delusions and complexes which you have created during the course of your life. Lets go over them shall we? We'll call it: The great list of bullshit that you tell yourself and believe to be true. Belief that sexuality is a one-way street. You believe if she somehow found out how attracted you are to her, she would be able to exhibit unbridled control over you. You (falsely) believe that only men are influenced…
/r/seduction13/05/11 04:44 PM
1

Then the person commited the crime will be punished, because he or she is the wrong-doer. The victim retains the right to pursue legal action, to feel violated, to be upset about it, to retalliate with the full extent of the law, etc. I still don't see the principle. Are you saying that everyone should avoid being provocative and live their lives out of fear that they may be assaulted by bad people? That sounds like a heavily repressed life. Should we avoid talking about sensitive subjects becau…
/r/MensRights13/05/11 04:03 PM
6

Its not the Rolex wearing man's fault if someone should assault him. He is legally and morally allowed to wear his flashy jewelry anywhere he wants. If someone should accost him, in no way is he to blame. One should not change their behavior for fear of what evil people may do to them. I don't see your point here, are you trying to say that its ok to rob someone as long as they are showing off? Or its ok to rape someone as long as they are showing skin? Arguing that thieves cannot exercise self-…
/r/MensRights13/05/11 03:57 PM
1

Now we're just being ridiculous. A girl wearing a miniskirt cannot seriously be compared to a flashing neon sign that says "GITSUM NIGGERS" I hope you are jesting.
/r/MensRights13/05/11 03:53 PM
3

But remember, bullies get laid more than weaklings.
/r/seduction13/05/11 03:07 PM
12

Makes perfect sense to me. Women should be allowed to walk around nude if they so wished without the fear of someone sticking something in one of their orifices. Arguing that men cannot exercise self-control and act properly in the presence of a sexually attractive female is insulting to all men. We are not barbarians.
/r/MensRights13/05/11 02:25 PM
1

This. Its really giving men a bad name to suggest the philosophy of "She's asking for it by wearnig that type of clothing" .. I mean, are they trying to suggest men have no self-control and cannot be held responsible for their actions after seeing a sparsely-clothed woman?
/r/MensRights13/05/11 02:22 PM
2

Because men love power and women love powerful men.
/r/seduction12/05/11 02:03 PM
2

Its said because its simply true. The person who cares more is always going to do more things to sustain the relationship. The person who cares less always has half a foot out the door. Its social manipulation at its finest. It works because the other person is constantly in fear of losing you and that fear is harvested in order to get them to do things for you, thus forming a power structure and an emotionally abusive relationship in which you get whatever you want. Some people get off on havin…
/r/seduction12/05/11 02:01 PM
1

Yeah you'd do it for one of your "friends"... the girls you are trying to bang are NOT your friends. Treat them as such and you will be just a friend. I'm not sure why this concept escapes people.
/r/seduction10/05/11 04:35 PM
1

Its pretty hard to screw this one up chief. Make her laugh, cheer her up, let her know fun can still be had. Keep the teasing to a minimum while keeping the energy always positive and by the end of the night she'll be throwing herself at you.
/r/seduction10/05/11 04:31 PM
2

I don't understand the point of posting this here other than to attempt to rile people up. She's facing charges just as she should. I completely understand posting cases of injustice here, but posting "woman hits man" when its already being handled properly by the legal system is just a poor attempt, it seems to me, to spurn anger towards women.
/r/MensRights09/05/11 08:03 PM
2

good to see there are other shooting stars out there!
/r/seduction09/05/11 07:10 PM
4

Personally, I find your perspective very sexist and degrading towards women. The way in which you believe women to be without willpower, and without common sense is disturbing. You act as if they will happily go home with anyone, so long as they are drunk, as they have no choice but to fulfill the wishes of others. I am not desperate, I simply respect the ability for people to make decisions for themselves, and expect them to take responsbility for their actions instead of looking to point finge…
/r/seduction09/05/11 07:05 PM
5

Clarify: no, she doesn't need to be held responsible, at all Seriously? No one should take any responsibilty for their actions? If she was participant in sex (and taking an active role in it), its a regrettable hookup, not rape. We all make dumb decisions when we are drunk: this does not excuse us from the consequences of those actions. Whether it be picking a fight, puking on a car, pissing on a public monument, causing property damage, going home with someone and having regrettable sex. Doesn'…
/r/seduction09/05/11 06:23 PM
9

I'm your typical meathead+nerd hybrid. I work in software engineering during the day and train mixed martials arts at night. (I'm hoping to do some prize fighting in the future). I enjoy philosophizing, doing drugs, working out, having sex, playing video games (mmo's specifically). My goal is to make a nice six figure salary and end up in a polyamourous relationship with 2+ females to travel the world with and indulge in the sweetest raves known to man. While working on developing the first true…
/r/seduction09/05/11 04:20 PM
3

I agree. Its a stupidity tax on the millionaire. Or hell, its possible the men know they are being used for their money and they simply don't care.
/r/MensRights09/05/11 03:17 PM
2

Shit happens. If I could count the number of times I've woken up in someone else's bed not knowing who I just had sex with... Next time, don't be the creeper who picks up drunk girls while sober. And don't be so desperate as to go for the easiest option.
/r/seduction09/05/11 02:26 PM
4

drunk or not, a person is still responsible for their actions. I can't kill a man while drunk and blame it on the alcohol.
/r/seduction09/05/11 02:21 PM
16

Your punishment is to open 5 girls with the sole intention of failing miserably. Say nonsense, open with internet memes, be rude, be creepy. You gotta get over your AA.
/r/seduction06/05/11 01:41 PM
1

Stop being so weird about it. You are thinking too much into this. Just go visit her, seduce her and sleep in her bed with her. "Don't worry, we'll manage" does not require a response and is not a sexual innuendo. It makes it sound like you are going to sleep on the floor or soemthing.
/r/seduction05/05/11 07:58 PM
2

Smart or dumb, it doesnt matter, what matters is that you are GOOD AT SOMETHING.
/r/seduction05/05/11 06:09 PM
2

I pull down her pants, slip on a condom and we bang right there in the alley! Classy.
/r/seduction05/05/11 05:31 PM
2

Not sure why you are getting downvoted, you present a perfectly valid argument.
/r/MensRights05/05/11 01:14 PM
1

Cool story, bro.
/r/seduction04/05/11 06:52 PM
3

Ultimately its about creating your own reality. Your perception of the world is in many ways governed by your beliefs about it. If you believe the world is pointless, people are cruel and no one will ever love you, then, like a self-fulfilling prophecy, so it will be. Because you will act as if it were true. Consequences follow your actions and you get exactly what you wanted. [Reminds me of some lyrics The Doors wrote: "People are strange, when you're a stranger, faces look ugly when you're alo…
/r/seduction04/05/11 02:13 PM
2

Not sure about often, but I try to use them when I can. I like to think it demonstrates self-awareness and intelligence. I believe these work better, simply because they require more interaction the girls part to figure it out. Thus making you more interesting, than a simple "hi would you like to have coffee with me"
/r/seduction02/05/11 07:49 PM
1

Damn, he cave-man cockblocked you! Haha good field report. I know you may be frustrated over this, but rest assured everyone has these types of nights. One thing that would be helpful in the future is to find a mantra or saying that'll remind you to "reset" your state. ITs easy to get frustrated because you missed and opportunity or got blown out, but left unchecked you'll begin to spiral into a drunken shitty state. Which, for me, normally always ends in bar fights. So I found it helps to keep …
/r/seduction02/05/11 07:43 PM
3

You now must go sarging with a bow-tie.
/r/seduction02/05/11 06:53 PM
2

Just say whatever you wanna say, to whoever, whenever. Bosses don't follow a script. They write it.
/r/seduction29/04/11 08:25 PM
2

You do realize that most girls that say they have a boyfriend, don't actually have a boyfriend, right? They just say that to try and make you go away. Plow through this and talk to them anyway, you'd be surprised at how many phone numbers you'll get if you just respond with "that doesn't matter"
/r/seduction29/04/11 07:15 PM
1

Honestly the whole "getting slapped" thing is incredible rare. I've said some really offensive shit to girls and have never been slapped for it. Bouncers will throw a girl out of the bar/club for that. This is the 21st century.
/r/seduction29/04/11 06:57 PM
1

Yeah if girl spills drink on you, accidently "trip and fall" on top of her. Must have been all that ice on the floor you slipped on.
/r/seduction29/04/11 06:55 PM
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