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Do you mean drink a ton of soda or just occasionally? I would understand you wouldn't like it if it was a fixture, like having it be a staple on the grocery list, but if he drinks it occasionally I think you need to loosen up
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/22 12:20 AM
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No. I'm not gonna fight to be disrespected. She can have him.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/22 09:38 PM
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But wasnt that the right decision? Regardless of how she behaved my bf shouldn't have allowed it. I'm not breaking up with him because of how she acted. I'm breaking up with him because he indulged it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/22 09:24 PM
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If you think I sound angry from politely disagreeing with you then you need thicker skin. Perhaps I would take you more seriously if I felt there was any truth to your claim. Every single man that has ever expressed interest in me continued to pursue a relationship with me after finding out about my past. Most people care more about someone's character and conduct than past mistakes. I also don't care. We obviously disagree about what a good man is. I don't think you can be a good person and cla…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 04:24 AM
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Nope, I am entitled to respect. Everyone is. You don't get to tell me who or what I am. You sound creepily obsessed with putting women down who don't feel ashamed of themselves. My family is traditional Muslim and even they believe people who sleep around are entitled to respect. You sound like you use redpill as an excuse for your misogyny and a method of controlling women.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/22 03:16 AM
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Because your question is pointless. Why would I willingly be with a man who has a problem with it when so many great men don't? I'm not gonna sit around and let a guy talk about how much it bothers him that he thinks I used to be a slut. That's called disrespect. You accept me, my past, my flaws, love me, and cherish me or I don't want you. I don't want a man that needs to work through the fact that I had a rough past. That's a trash partner. You want me because I'm attractive and have my shit t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 08:56 PM
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For me, it's definitely a deal breaker if he has issues with it. I worked past my shame I'm not looking for another person to shame me.
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/22 08:46 PM
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You don't want to rekindle a relationship with this man. He told you it was over in the cruelest way possible and now he's mad you tried to move on? Honestly, he's probably saying this because he couldn't get laid after he broke up with you and he's mad you did. Don't give him a second chance. This person had no consideration for your feelings the first time around and tried to throw you out like trash. Don't give him a second chance to mistreat you.
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 09:23 PM
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Thank you so much for this message! I agree that the balance is incredibly hard. My cousins consume a lot of social justice media which is riddled with misdirected anger and casual racism towards white people and it's incredibly frustrating to try to explain to them a thousand times a week why it's wrong and shouldn't be encouraged when it's in every meme and one of the strongest modern trends. We are putting him in soccer and arranging more time for him to hang out with his (male) friends and t…
/r/RedPillWomen20/08/21 08:57 PM
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I think he could benefit from a white make mentor but the problem is that the two potential male Mentors we know are not just white. They are unintentionally racist. Almost all the time. Sometimes I don't mind so much but when I hear them talk shit about Mexicans or black people it REALLY reinforces my empathy for my little cousin not wanting them as mentors. Ignorance about our culture is hard enough but it's not the only problem.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/21 06:48 AM
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Why are you considering this at such an early stage??? As your relationship deepens (if it does. You are still getting to know each other) you will build trust and intimacy. At the beginning stages you will talk about superficial parts of your pasts. What town you grew up, what your favorite foods were, etc. Eventually you will start to talk about painful parts. If you talk about it too soon you will come off as emotionally unstable and crazy. I would suggest to wait for his signal since it soun…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/21 01:35 AM
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I can't recommend menstrual cups enough. I use femmycycle. Idk about bras. Idc about their political message because my breasts give me severe back pain and I just need the most effective and affordable option possible.
/r/RedPillWomen13/08/21 07:49 AM
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That's not cheating. He did not ask you to be monogamous and commit to him and you didn't tell him that you would. You did not owe him exclusivity before he gave you commitment. That is absurd. You're right that having a one night stand was a bad decision but that's your business. If he wanted it to be his business he needed to have asked to be exclusive. For him to hurt you this much over something he was not entitled to is a huge red flag. His job is to love and protect you and he is more conc…
/r/RedPillWomen10/08/21 06:20 AM
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Awesome! I'm glad things are looking up and your feeling better.
/r/RedPillWives01/07/21 09:57 PM
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Your constantly going into a trail spin because you're going through a lot right now! I know rp is about y'all responsibility and not making excuses but you also need to make room in your life for self care. You cannot think clearly or regulate your emptiness when you're frazzled, overtired, and stressed. I know your biggest concern is your husband, but there is not a lot you can do there other than be patient and give him your support. Remind yourself that if he does become abusive you can and …
/r/RedPillWives01/07/21 04:26 AM
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What makes me iffy is that he asked you to make sure if it's what you wanted and you said yes he them had to make sure it's what he wanted. Seems like he was not sure. I would hold back on messaging him until he messages you. You don't want him to come back to do many messages he feels guilty and procrastinates about getting back to you.
/r/RedPillWives28/06/21 06:15 AM
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I would back off. Give him an opportunity to miss you and chase you. If he doesn't come back you know you're done.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/21 01:58 AM
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Give it to her with a gift receipt
/r/RedPillWomen08/05/21 04:16 AM
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You can get a breast lift. It's surgery but not fake, doctor just removes excess skin and makes it look like your boobs pre sag. He doesn't add anything so there's nothing artificial. Cost isn't cheap but is affordable.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/21 05:09 PM
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He doesn't even sound like a good person anymore. Do toy want to marry this man and raise kids with him? Do you want him to be the father of your children? If you can't say yes to any of these it's time to let him go
/r/RedPillWives12/03/21 12:27 AM
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Im not 100% redpill but redpill basically means you choose to see "reality". They believe that in reality men are providers, women are nurturers, feminism is dangerous and hurts men, etc. I don't believe this but im here because I have a few beliefs that overlap. I am not redpilled. Conservative is mostly used socially here, since that is what will be affecting your personal life. It can mean traditional, religious, both, or neither. It usually just means your beliefs run on the socially conserv…
/r/RedPillWives06/03/21 12:49 PM
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Oh, this is cringey. Idk. If your husband isn't redpill or conservative you can't point out that these are private women's issues that they may not want to discuss with a man.
/r/RedPillWives05/03/21 09:36 PM
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If you guys can't afford it then you need to talk about finances If you can afford it think of it as a stock. You can always sell it.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 11:13 PM
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Your bf can't let his buddy disrespect you.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/21 12:40 PM
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He knows he just doesn't care. He is deliberately hiding from work. He knows EXACTLY what he's doing.
/r/RedPillWives19/02/21 06:17 PM
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I didn't know dietary differences were such a big deal until my sister got married. It really stresses her out and she's fed up with how her husband eats like a toddler. I would just cook whatever you like and encourage him to eat it so his taste buds will adjust. It will help his health anyways.
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/21 09:29 PM
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What do you mean he let you?
/r/RedPillWives14/02/21 10:49 PM
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Degrees also cost money. If she's not gonna use it there's no point in going in debt
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/21 05:23 PM
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Ah, I have asperger's too. People with asperger's are often very good with kids! I love, love, love kids and they're so much easier for me to understand and interact with than adults. I helped my aunt co raise her kids (normal in my culture) and they still accidentally call me mom. Motherhood is an experience. I'm not a mother but just from co raising my cousins I learned a lot. I was never very expressive or bubbly either, I was very quiet with them. I took them out into nature a lot and I spen…
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/21 08:03 PM
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My cousin has Crohn's disease. It can be difficult to manage but your life isn't over! Sometimes her good periods can last up to a year with only a small flare up.
/r/RedPillWives11/02/21 07:44 PM
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Sometimes you can get addicted to people, even if it's a bad relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/21 07:36 PM
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Thank you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 01:17 PM
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I did not manage well. My stepdad raped me when I was 16 and I got into hard drugs. It still hurts but I do my best to move on. I don't talk about my old life or what happened to me.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/21 01:13 AM
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This is not healthy. I'm a newbie to r/redpill so I don't know what the answer is but the solution is not obeying him when he is wrong and it's harming you.
/r/RedPillWives08/02/21 08:15 PM
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True, OP can do way better but I disagree that it's realistic that those women are worth less in any way. Sure they might have fewer options but that doesn't mean the quality must suffer.
/r/RedPillWives30/01/21 12:30 AM
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Goodness, why would you say such a thing? No one should settle, and a woman isn't worth less because of imperfections. The right man will still think he's the luckiest man alive to marry them, that's a terrible way to think.
/r/RedPillWives29/01/21 11:45 PM
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Also, tell us more about the situation. If he has an anxiety disorder he might be asking impossible things of you, or taking it his anxiety on you.
/r/RedPillWives29/01/21 11:22 PM
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You get to be born again. I was raped by my stepfather when I was 16 and I was devastated. Not only because of the trauma, but I was extremely religious and I wanted to lose my virginity to my husband. Instead I started my drug addiction and sleeping around and I lost God. I seriously regret all the mistakes i made in the wake of such trauma but i made a deal with myself and God, that I would get sober and stop having sex. In my mind, what has been done to me against my will and the aftermath of…
/r/RedPillWives29/01/21 10:26 PM
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Just wanna let you know not to be scared. It's not always this bad. It often depends on severity as well. I had a few rough years but my psychiatrist was able to wean me off of my medication and I'm totally normal now. I'm much more sensitive to stress than the average person but most people don't notice because I manage so well. My best friend just finished medical school with SEVERE bipolar disorder (so bad she gets psychosis and becomes delusional) but she's 100% normal on meds with no episod…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 09:03 PM
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As soon as you said this I suspect him of bipolar disorder. Bipolar is not like in the movies where you go absolutely crazy (I mean some people do but a lot don't). Bipolar mania is characterized by irritability, not sleeping, not eating, being extremely productive. Often only happens a few times a year. Some people experience depression, others not as much. Sounds like his song personality and mentality really helps him manage himself but I would advise a psychiatrist for a little extra help. I…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/21 08:55 PM
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I PM'ed you
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 01:15 AM
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If he is Muslim and you are not is guaranteed. There is some wiggle room depending on what specific country he comes (ex. Lebanon is very liberal and has a large Christian population). And what religion his family is. But if he's from a gulf country like Bahrain or Saudi Arabia it's less than a 1% chance.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 01:09 AM
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He's using you as his free prostitute. Break up. Also, I'm very familiar with the culture and as soon as you have premarital sex with conservative arab men they will never marry you. He is deliberately using you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/21 01:01 AM
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