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PRECISELY. I watched a video by Stefan Molyneux years ago that stuck with me - what is the point of working an extra job to pay someone else to raise your kids with very little left over to help with household expenses? It's nonsensical. Thank you!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 05:35 PM
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Totally agree. We are currently renting a two bedroom townhouse and pay $1400 a month..it's super small and cramped. When we purchased our new home we specified we didn't want to be paying much more than the same back for our mortgage every month. Renting is going to be a no go for us because it was hard enough to find this place. I brought my two cats with me from Australia and my boyfriend has a cat, he has a couple small aquariums, snakes, and tarantulas and I have a chameleon. Not many place…
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 05:32 PM
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Floral prints! Purple or lavender florals with tiny green leaves..first thing that came to my mind!
/r/RedPillWomen16/11/20 07:58 AM
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The Korean skincare products I use aren't so much for anti aging...I think tretinoin is probably the best for that. However there are heaps of wonderful Korean products out there. Innisfree green tea seed serum is lovely and I swear by the Perfect cleansing oil by Etude House. I buy mine off of eBay from legit sellers but I know many people buy theirs from IHerb and Yesstyle. I know at least for Yesstyle you have to expect a few weeks' wait for delivery. Also more Korean products are popping up …
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 01:15 PM
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You're very welcome!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 01:09 PM
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Oh yeah definitely I just think alot of people aren't aware thay HA can be countereffective if not applied with lots of moisture!
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/20 01:09 PM
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I am 37 and just yesterday was told I look 20. Some of that is genetics (round faces age better) and some of it is skincare. For the past few months I've been using Tretinoin, a high concentrate retin a. This stuff is strong so I wouldn't recommend you start off with it but start off with gentle Korean retinol and retin a products to build up a tolerance. Retin A has actually been proven to help reduce fine lines and improve skin tone. It basically helps your skin cell turnover rate. My skin glo…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/20 09:29 PM
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This is awesome....this is a technique called "acceptance" that those of us with anxiety utilise.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/20 12:04 PM
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Thanks for the tip! I feel less scared about not wearing enough now!
/r/RedPillWomen09/01/20 12:37 PM
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You are very perceptive and hit the nail on the head. I realise now love is also acceptance. It still hurts, because I wonder if he thinks about his past experiences and lusts after them but obviously if that were the case then he wouldn't have made the choice to be with me. I must excite him more than anyone else. Yes....Absolutely....I do feel insecure. I guess in the same token he could also feel insecure but he doesn't cause he knows I've chosen him so he told me he feels lucky to have me. I…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 02:14 PM
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I did bring up the issue with him before, briefly. When he'd make some offhanded comment about his past I'd tell him I didn't want to know, and that I'm his girlfriend not his buddy. We've touched on the subject a few times. I'm not trying to look down on him, I admire him in many ways....this is just a genuine area of concern and I recognise that most of it has to do with my crappy past experience. We're just about to take a big step moving in together and it's normal to feel fear. I am a fearf…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:23 PM
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Yes....he said he felt like he lost his innocence but much of it was him developing a social life and finding his way. I told him social life doesn't mean being promiscuous and he didn't really say anything cause he knew I wasn't wrong. For me the concern was how he could justify that behaviour with his conservative values and I wanted to be sure our values line up. I think the issue was he was very overweight and ignored by girls in his teen years then lost a lot of weight and went crazy trying…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:11 PM
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Thank you ❤️ Yes....if after all of that he has chosen me, I stirred something deep inside his heart. I've got a lot to think about. He has made crass comments about his past before and I have had to remind him that I'm his girlfriend and not his buddy and I don't like hearing that stuff. I don't think he'd appreciate it much if I brought up my past sexual experiences lol.
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 12:07 PM
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Thank you, so much. You have made me feel a new level of appreciation for my man. After some soul searching, I told him yesterday that it wasn't fair for me to hold his past against him....that I had a past too...and that eventhough I didn't like it, ultimately it all led him to me and that from now on it's all about me and him. I also apologised for all the emotions I've been going through and was sorry I was letting them cloud what is an incredibly exciting time for us. He's a good man. He has…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 11:59 AM
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Thank you..I so appreciate your thoughtful comments! I totally agree and detest that young women are being told that being promiscuous and putting career before family are goals - these toxic concepts are harmful to the female psyche. I'm lucky I was raised by a Slavic family and in a fairly traditional manner so I'm not ashamed of being a traditional woman and naturally wanting to nurture and love a good man. You're right - I recognise a lot of my fear has to do with my past. This is my first b…
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 11:53 AM
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You're so very welcome, angel ❤️I'm so happy my comment made you feel better! You're definitely not alone! Western food is full of ingredients that don't nourish our bodies and make us crave more food so it's an issue almost every woman can relate to at some point in their lives. Heck, my boyfriend lost dang near 200lbs himself. Now we love working out and pumping iron! If you want a fitness friend message me anytime!
/r/RedPillWomen07/01/20 11:37 AM
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That's very true. Thank you so much ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 02:40 PM
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Thank you ❤️ Yes.....it worries me. I spoke to him about it not long ago and let him know how I feel and how if we were to have kids I don't want them raised to be that way. That being said, his parents are still married and he values marriage but we need to raise our kids to value marriage and monogamy as well..there are too many negative outside influences in Western society that encourage degeneracy as it is. You're right....and I feel pretty bad about that. There are so many things I admire …
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 02:34 PM
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Thank you for your response. It's not a matter of not having a history....I expect in this day and age everyone is going to have a sexual history. It's more how extensive that history is, and if it's in the context of relationships or hookups. I don't think it's wrong to analyse these things to help properly vet someone. I agree that the feeling is doing me no favours. it robs me of the joy I have with him in the moment, which s why I want to stop feeling this way. Also....The more I looked at i…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 02:12 PM
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I don't have any advice to offer but I want you to know that my heart is hurting for you. I was cheated on by my ex who I was with for 6 years and it was a horrible experience. Completely blindsided me. The fact that you've gone through it twice now I can't even fathom how you feel.
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 12:01 PM
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Download the book Brain Over Binge by Dr. Glenn Livingstone. I think you can get it for free via his website. It helps me a lot when it comes to how to view that inner voice that compels you to eat. It's actually applicable to many areas of life where you may have bad impulses you want to nip in the bud. I used to weigh over 300lbs and have lost 115 or so, then regained about 20 after I was diagnosed with Hashimoto's thyroiditis. So I'm back on the wagon and what is working for me is keto/carniv…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 11:52 AM
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I feel for you. Take a moment to really fully comprehend the situation. Think about his motivation....think about how much he is busting ass because he's a man who wants to provide for you and your future family. You are married and now this is serious business and time for him to step up and secure your future. Men are very goal oriented and when they have their sights set on something they go hard. Really imagine and immerse yourself in his day to day life and how he must feel tired all the ti…
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/20 11:44 AM
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That's so sweet how he said he'd be crazy to let you go. Congratulations to the both of you. I'm so happy that you've embraced your femininity and can give that like a blessing to your future husband and he can be your leader 💖 Beautiful.
/r/RedPillWomen02/01/20 10:33 PM
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I just bought this dress: https://www.asos.com/au/brave-soul/brave-soul-mandy-roll-neck-jumper-dress-in-camel/prd/12244201 I'm a blondie and these types of colours tend to look nice on me. It was a good price too. Do you think it would look ok with black leggings and my boots?
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 12:43 PM
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I just bought some of your recommendations from Uniqlo! Picked up some heattech leggings, regular and ultra warm, as well as some heattech tank tops for layering. I couldn't find any fleece lined leggings but that might be because it's summer in Australia!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 12:41 PM
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I am excited to experience that calm quiet and serenity of snowfall! My boyfriend's dog loves playing in the snow too so I'm looking forward to goofing around and frolicking with him 😂 Thank you for the suggestions! The LL Bean duck boots look pretty nice. I've purchased 5 pairs of boots in the last two weeks so I'm all booted out and will wait until I get there to pick up a pair. Can't say I'm a fan of the Joan of Arctic boots. My calves are too big for those huge fur cuffs! I also checked out …
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 12:37 PM
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Ohh those sound promising. I've had bad experience with shapeware in the past as they seemed to only push my fat forward and make me look 6 months pregnant 😂 I've lost over 100lbs and have a bit of a belly overhang. Awesome! I will keep the layering with jeans in mind. I was so excited cause I bought some levis Sherpa lined denim jackets on sale and when I excitedly told my boyfriend, he told me that denim is terrible at insulation so that bummed me out then I got to thinking.....am I gonna free…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 12:31 PM
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Oh good point!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 12:25 PM
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Thank you! Oooooooo I'm gonna look in to boot toppers! Sounds cute!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 12:24 PM
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Awesome! Thank you so much for your help!
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 12:23 PM
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I can see the appeal cause they look very warm and protective. Boots that go that high up the calf make me anxious though cause I have muscular calves from spending a good chunk of my life overweight. I spent some time on the Sorel website last night and also ll bean but I think I'll wait until I'm there to buy the snow boots. I've spent so much money and time on boots lately I think I'm burnt out 😂😂😂 I get it! Especially in winter it's harder to look feminine. I think I just have more tomboyish…
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/20 03:22 AM
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Hahahahahaha I'm just imaging an elegantly dressed winter gal hiking up her leggings 😂👍🏻 I'm so glad this is doable! I love your idea as well and think that would definitely suit my boots and my style. I think that plus curling my hair in soft waves would look so nice! Where should I look to buy my leggings? And do you wear them under jeans as well?
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 01:34 PM
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Dang I didn't even think about snow boots! I've bought a few pairs of Danners and they're all waterproof but I'm not sure if that's good enough? My boyfriend hit a curb on his way to work the other day and it totally stuffed the alignment of his car. All because the roads hadn't been salted that morning. I asked him if he was sure we had to live up there. LOL. In Arizona the worst you have to worry about is the dust storms. Winter just seems like such a pain but I've never experienced such a whi…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 01:30 PM
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I just Googled Joan of arc boots. We definitely have different taste in boots 😅 I was thinking of getting a pair of uggs just for around the house...I too feel like they might not be so age appropriate for me 😂 I can't even fathom -45 degree weather!
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 01:24 PM
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Oohhhhhhh! That sounds so cute! I have to say I love the look of dresses with boots and leggings. I've got a Uniqlo near me, I'll have to check out what they have!
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 10:16 AM
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I love the look of calf length boots with short skirts but I've got me some muscular calves so I will have to stick to short boots. By longer skirts do you mean like a midi skirt? I also don't wanna make my legs look stumpy so I wasn't sure if midi skirts and short boots were a good idea? I've got a really cute navy polka dot skater dress that looks cute with tights - I'm thinking possibly that with my levis Sherpa denim jacket and the Danners. Thanks for the tip re the summer and winter skirts.…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 10:15 AM
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Haha! Cute!
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 10:11 AM
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Oh my god this winter living sounds so complex to me 😂 I've never had to layer before. I like your idea of a skirt with a sweater and some knitted tights. Do you have any recommendations for where to buy the tights and leggings? I'll stock up on tank tops as well!
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 10:11 AM
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I think that's a very wise move. Some guys play this game where they act interested cause it's a chase for them then when the girl reciprocates interest, they back off. Not to say he isn't interested but some people want what they can't have and can confuse that with actual feelings. I have this major feeling that if you broke things off with your current guy then started showing interest in this one he would feel like he won and then back off. Don't put yourself in that position. Keep your head…
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 04:26 AM
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Ohhhhh! Maybe a form fitting turtleneck dress???
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 03:45 AM
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It's not about respecting a strange man - it's about respecting the fact that someone is in a committed relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 03:27 AM
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I didn't need to read your entire post to form a conclusion. Any man who behaves the way he does and says what he says to you while knowing full-well that you're in a relationship is disrespectful of your commitment and quite probably of commitment in general. I would never be able to trust a man like that because I would always wonder if he was treating your relationship with him with the same flippancy with other girls at the office when you're not around.
/r/RedPillWomen31/12/19 03:25 AM
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Yesssss! I was buying bellow fresh for a while and man that really helped me gain confidence in the kitchen!
/r/RedPillWomen28/12/19 08:23 AM
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Gotta get that protein in 😂👍🏻
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/19 11:14 AM
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I can totally see that. My dad is emotionally /verbally abusive and I'm still working through that shit and I'm 37. It set me really behind in life. There was a f*ckboy I used to have a major crush on but then I realised he was a loser. A sexy sexy loser. He was in a band and everything, alcoholic, and did drugs. I think he has a good heart but he's very lost. I was the one that got away for him when I cut things off and refused to meet up with him 10+ years ago. He was last in touch with me abo…
/r/RedPillWomen04/12/19 12:27 AM
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Just thought I would share - One of my old coworkers did this recently. She was with a guy for 3 Years - sweet as pie, gentle, kind, was always telling her how beautiful she was etc etc. He would bring her McDonald's for lunch when she'd ask him and would drop in to surprise her..once bringing in cupcakes made from ingredients she wasn't allergic to so she could try her first cupcake. She would tell us all the time how whipped he is. My other coworkers (I consider these girls my actual friends) …
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/19 10:26 PM
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Yuck! I have been cheated on and this makes me feel very wary. I also don't like that he defended himself and tried to justify what he said rather than having understanding for why you felt uncomfortable. She is his ex and he caring about who she's sleeping with crosses a line, I don't care how good of friends they are. If I were you I'd be firm and say "no. This friendship seems to be crossing some boundaries and I'm totally not ok with it. It's disrespectful to me and our relationship." I'd de…
/r/RedPillWomen13/11/19 12:39 AM
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🙌🏻😭😍❤️ congratulations!!!
/r/RedPillWomen12/11/19 05:38 AM
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Being ugly doesn't mean a girl is instantly virtuous 🙄 I know plenty of ugly women who are pretty entitled..and I'm a girl.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 03:04 AM
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That's so screwed up. God.
/r/RedPillWomen30/10/19 01:01 AM
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I met my guy on reddit lol. We used to talk for HOURS via video before we met. We live on different continents so we got to know eachother before that. I'd be pretty wary of dating apps and keep in mind the old addage, "actions speak louder than words."
/r/RedPillWomen14/08/19 03:27 AM
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It doesn't sound like you even like the guy, plus he's giving you weird vibes so if I were you I'd no longer communicate with him.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/19 01:09 PM
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Robocop is sexy, are you crazy? 😂😂😂 I agree with you though. I'm an anxious type (thanks, childhood) and I prefer guys who are kind and warm, although there is such a thing as too kind.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 09:19 AM
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It's really sweet that you want to represent his Irish background with your ring.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 09:10 AM
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Moissanite is far more beautiful than diamonds in my opinion...so much more fire to them!
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 09:09 AM
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Thanks for this post. I have a really hard time with this. My man and I are currently in a LDR and I have to ask him every now and then to be more expressive with his affection. I want to have my emotional needs met but I don't want to nag him and I want it to come from a genuine place.
/r/RedPillWomen31/07/19 08:57 AM
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Sounds so cute....I'll take a look as well!
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/19 09:22 PM
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Well...I met my boyfriend here on reddit 😂
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/19 12:38 PM
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I think it's only natural for you to feel this way after experiencing a lack of relationship connections. You start to wonder what is wrong with you etc. I have a feeling you are judging yourself far harsher than people see you. I think you need to just...improve what is within your capabilities to improve, and relax outside of that.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 12:17 PM
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I'm 36 and my boyfriend is 28 and our age difference bothered me more than it bothered him.
/r/RedPillWomen04/07/19 12:15 PM
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That's wonderful. I'm sure you'll be an excellent mama!
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/19 02:01 AM
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I met my guy here on Reddit a couple years ago. I moved from America to Australia before I met him and was back home in America to visit family, and he wanted to fly down from his state to mine to meet me. I was having a panic attack the night before he flew down, because I was so nervous..I was always very self conscious of how I look as my dad put me down a lot so I never quite felt good enough, on top of that I had lost 100lbs but still was not at my goal weight and just felt really scared he…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:38 PM
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I'll be 37 this year and people usually think I'm younger than I look (I've heard anywhere from 18 to 6 years younger) but I have definitely started noticing some changes. Ive started using A313 pomade, which is French, it's a retinol and it makes my skin glowy. I also second the person saying learn to sleep on your back. I've also started doing gua sha to help with lymphatic drainage and just waking up my face, I've done it three times now and I could tell a difference already. Plus it's so rel…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:18 PM
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Lol I love this. I lamented to my boyfriend that I was gonna eventually get a face lift and he laughed and said he was ok with it as long as we didn't wind up on food stamps because of it 😂
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 12:13 PM
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I agree completely. Two wrongs don't make a right.
/r/RedPillWomen08/06/19 01:47 PM
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God no kidding.....this hit me right in the heart. OP I'm so sorry.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/19 08:33 AM
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You're right. Not sure why I specified women,but absolutely.
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 09:17 PM
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Well, I can't say I blame you..I would feel the same. And honestly before I discovered my ex boyfriend was cheating on me, I noticed he was more protective over his phone than usual. So your situation makes me feel a little uneasy. But there were other signs too like he was spending more and more time with work friends. In retrospect it was pretty obvious he was cheating but I trusted him. If he is still making future plans with you, I'd say that's a good sign. Unfortunately the only way to get …
/r/RedPillWomen28/04/19 02:56 PM
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I've been getting more and more into fashion myself! I might need to add some dresses to the mix! I think it is challenging to dress cute but not look like mutton dressed as lamb.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 02:02 PM
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Thank you ❤️ ultimately at the e D of the day none of us knows you and your fiance and the relationship you have together. I wish you all the best ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 02:00 PM
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Thank you!!! I love Paula's Choice chemical exfoliators and Korean skin care products....also prickly pear seed oil is the only facial oil I've found that makes my skin glow and doesn't break it out. If you want more details about the products I love I'm happy to share ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 01:59 PM
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Oh sorry!!!
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/19 01:56 PM
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Aw angel, I send you my virtual hugs 😭❤️
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 01:06 PM
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You're very welcome ☺️💕 Thank you!! I see your positive energy and raise you some virtual hugs as well 💖🎈
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 10:49 AM
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I see! I definitely get the big boobs thing, they can make you look downright matronly. Thank you, I appreciate your thoughtfullness and ginger navigation of the topic ☺️👍🏻
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 10:16 AM
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Thank you so much. I work hard to try to be the best I can be. I wasted a lot of time with the wrong person and morbidly obese so I realise I'm behind the 8-ball. Your words made me genuinely smile. I agree. Age can be important to an extent but it's not the be all end all, a lot will come down to the values of you and your partner and how much you're on the same page. We do change, but the genuine core of who we are doesn't. Before I met my man I was interested in a guy a few years older than m…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 10:13 AM
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Thanks for that 🙂 do you think her comment was true then? Maybe you can elucidate for me what she meant cause I'm still a little mystified 😂 I've had the same cup size since I was 16 so I can only surmise she's referring to me being a bit chubby.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 07:49 AM
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I'm not trying to justify...like I said I was unsure what you meant. How can a body look a certain age if it's almost entirely covered up? I assumed you were referring to my chubbiness lol 😁
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 05:08 AM
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I'm not entirely sure what that means? Both he and I have lost a significant amount of weight (he's lost nearly 200lbs and I over 100) and are in the process of losing more. So we've got that in common as well ☺️
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 04:59 AM
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I can relate to your post so so much. My fella is pretty practical and I'm very affectionate and I always felt this lack of emotional connection. But I spoke to my mom about it one night and she told me that actions speak louder than words. How true is that?! Sometimes it's the guys who are over the top about their love that aren't genuine. Hell I know a girl from work who boasts on and on about her man and how she loves him "relentlessly" yet a year ago she cheated on him. At any rate, I starte…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 04:32 AM
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I'm 8 years older than my man (I'm 36 and he's 28). It works for us as I'm kind of immature for my age, lol. We share the same values and both want a family and in many ways he's more mature than my ex who I dated for 6 years. So we're on the same page. I'm regularly greeted with surprise when people find out how old I am and am told I look to be in my mid 20's max.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/19 04:03 AM
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I truly feel for you. I was put down alot by my dad growing up, and still am though I'll be 37 this year. I was bullied a decent amount because I was always quite shy due to the fact that I never really felt good enough. My dad compared me to other girls my age and I always felt like I fell short so I would think the way he saw me was the same way others saw me. I started to overeat and comfort eat and gained a great deal of weight which didn't help. Because of that I became very protective of m…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/19 06:33 AM
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He sounds Slavic
/r/RedPillWomen01/04/19 08:34 AM
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You're very welcome! Sorry it has taken me a while to respond. My boyfriend doesn't open up much to me at all, and that coupled with the fact that we have a long distance relationship makes it extra tough to feel a sense of intimacy and closeness with him. He's also not very affectionate, which I have a difficult time with because I am. I've broached the subject with him before but there's only so many times you can say something before a guy just pulls his head in and closes off more. That bein…
/r/RedPillWomen31/03/19 08:34 AM
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You're so very welcome, beautiful. I think it also helps to stay curious about the relationship rather than have anxiety over it...and by that I mean just stay carefree about it, because when you relax into it there isn't a tenseness or worry or unnatural quality that might happen if you fear screwing up. Enjoy!
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 10:53 AM
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That's a good point actually that flew way over my head. I still don't see why she would come to red pill women in particular cause most women are certainly not like us. His girlfriend could be just as much of a mess as he is.
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 06:20 AM
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I feel like your user name.....seriously fucking confused. Red pill women don't sleep around and give it up to anybody just to "scratch an itch." And you had to scratch that itch for two years?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 06:12 AM
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😳 she was casually sleeping with him for two years and expected what exactly?
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 06:09 AM
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I can understand, especially if you like this guy, you not wanting to mess it up. I would be upfront but all you need to say at first is that you're traditionally-minded and you only want to date men who are serious and want marriage and kids etc. That will give him a heads up about the kind of woman you are. Men appreciate directness. Then as you get to know eachother just mention more in appropriate moments. When I met my boyfriend he knew I wasn't interested in players or screwing around. Als…
/r/RedPillWomen26/03/19 05:37 AM
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Don't overcomplicate it - imagine you're your best self and do what that woman would do.
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 11:35 AM
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Yes and it's amazing help with mental clarity and just makes you feel like a badass!
/r/RedPillWomen25/03/19 11:06 AM
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This is very good advice. I have a hard time speaking up for myself or expressing dissatisfaction. I often feel bad about it or like my partner will leave me etc and then I beat myself up for "complaining" but the truth is if someone really loves you they will want to make sure your needs are being met so long as it doesn't violate their own self respect.
/r/RedPillWomen12/02/19 08:39 AM
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You're very welcome ❤️
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/19 07:38 AM
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That sounds excellent! I'm gonna download a sample. I have no idea what my purpose is 😂 thank you for your elucidation!
/r/RedPillWomen11/02/19 07:38 AM
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I'm grateful to have a boyfriend who tries to really listen to me when I tell him stuff and takes things on board without getting narky at me. It might take several tries but eventually it clicks. It teaches me to not be afraid to voice my needs, which is something I've struggled with. I'm also grateful for getting back on track with fitness and eating better. I can see myself reaching my weight loss goal this year. I am also thankful for the fact that I'm stubborn and no matter what I'm going t…
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 08:09 PM
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This sounds so good! I've been kind of floundering lately and feeling directionless. Does it help with that?
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 08:04 PM
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☺️ I'm so happy for you
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/19 08:03 PM
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I understand what you mean. I think that after being single for so long as well you just start to wonder if it's in the cards for you at all. It can be such a sad place to be. When I start worrying too much I tell myself to chill and that worrying is going to push good things away, but then when I don't worry at least a bit I think I'm not going to get what I'd like to out of life. This time around I'm maintaining my own identity while also being in an LDR. I think ldrs make it extra challenging…
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/18 09:59 PM
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Love his content. Don't always agree but I've benefited alot from his work over the years. I think so....real love is about seeing someone as they are and for who they are at their core....seeing soul to soul. I think that is seeing their virtue.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 09:53 PM
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It got me thinking, for sure. For me usually it's the intimacy aspect that's missing....I've tended to be involved with guys who like the idea of me more than actual me and so there hasn't really been that sense of peaceful ease. I never thought of it as something I control...maybe it's only when you question it that you have control over it? Interesting stuff.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 09:49 PM
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I was wondering if you got that part from Stefan! 😂😂😂😂 confirmed!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 09:43 PM
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Interesting...
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 09:41 PM
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I know it hasn't, I just want to know so I can know when and if it happens!
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/18 09:40 PM
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Thank you for your thoughtful response. It's interesting to think about...how valid love is if it's unrequited and if it's "real" love only if it is felt by both parties. That's why it's so important to vet potential partners so that the honeymoon period doesn't overcome you and then when it stabilises you're not left looking around wondering what happened to you and whether or not you made a good choice. I thought I really loved the last guy I was interested in but the more time I spent with hi…
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/18 01:48 AM
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Interesting....do you think it's possible to love someone who doesn't love you back? Or do you just trick yourself into feeling love and it's more like lust?
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 07:40 AM
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Wow Haha thank you this is going to be very helpful!!! I love how formulaic it is.
/r/RedPillWomen11/01/18 07:39 AM
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This is true! I'm also pretty young at heart so I've got that going for me. One woman kinda freaked me out at work...she was a customer and she told me she had her daughter at 40 and that I should freeze my eggs and I can have a baby without any man needed. She also said women are perfectly capable of raising kids on their own. No thanks lady. No broken families for me! I do kinda hope that if and when I do get pregnant I'll have triplets so I can just have a complete family in one go 😂😂😂
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 01:12 PM
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I work in the jewelry field and there are definitely some things to take into consideration - your colouring, your build, your sense of style, and what you imagine yourself as. What colours do you like? Gemstones? Do you want your jewelry to stand out or compliment? Personally I adore turquoise and I just feel happy as a clam when I'm wearing turquoise pieces. I often recommend rose gold because it has such a beautiful gentle look when worn on bare skin. It's elegant and adds just a touch withou…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:11 AM
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Thanks for your words. I'll be 36 this year and am unmarried and have no children. I sometimes panic that a family is not something that's in the cards for me. Thanks for calming me down a bit lol
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 10:02 AM
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I agree wholeheartedly. Unless you make your desire for marriage and a family know from the get go, it is going to forever be a painful topic to bring up. It is a basic that should be covered from the start so that you know whether or not to weed someone out. Best do that in the early stages before emotions get involved and time and energy is invested. That being said....I know hindsight is 20/20 and I had to learn this myself. The one thing you can do is confront him about it in a gentle and ma…
/r/RedPillWomen10/01/18 09:41 AM
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That's what I did..I was hung up on a guy I met for two years. A few months before I was due to visit (I currently live overseas), he started getting cold with me and we stopped talking. I was devastated. Then I looked at a female coworker who had just gotten out of a long term relationship who was distracting herself with other guys and I thought, "fuck it! I'm not wasting anymore time feeling sad about this guy!" and I flirted with others and realised quickly that other guys,good ones,existed …
/r/RedPillWomen26/09/17 12:12 PM
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Firstly, thank you so much for taking your time to read and respond to my situation :) I did tell him that it sounds like he met someone he likes more than me, and he insisted he didn't meet anyone in particular, but that several have expressed interest in him and that he was tired of turning people down. I have never had reason to doubt him before. I was cheated on in my last relationship and this guy told me that he is NOT my ex and that I need to trust him. I totally get that sleeping with a …
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 07:27 PM
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Thank you so much for sharing your experience with me. You definitely gave me some hope. I feel the same - I don't want to give up. I want to move back and have wanted to move back for years and years now and well before I knew him. I am still working towards that goal but it's hard to untangle me wanting to move for me and my affection for him because it feels intertwined now and it's difficult to try to come to terms with the fact that he could very well be in a happy relationship by the time …
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 07:07 PM
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Well the thing is - this guy has been hanging around for me for nearly 2 years. I don't think he would have done that if he didn't feel strongly for me (my friends actually said this too and were the ones to point this out to me). As for him coming to visit me - last year he got a house and a mortgage. When we met he was living with his parents and struggling to find work. He got one job, then got his house, but decided to leave that job because the environment was bad all around and since he di…
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 06:55 PM
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Thank you. I think so, too. ☺️ I miss him so much.
/r/RedPillWomen13/02/17 06:46 PM
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