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Kind of a moot point if you are hoping to find a partner abroad!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:16 PM
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Silly
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 11:15 PM
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To be fair, he would save her over me too. We adore her.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:18 PM
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Lol exactly. As I said, a win-win. Everyone is happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 05:17 PM
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Absolutely go for it! It’s a win win since they won’t be missed here.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:48 PM
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I would choose my cat child over my husband and he knows it lol. Cats are precious angels from heaven - it’s mind boggling that anyone thinks “dying alone with cats” is somehow a negative thing!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/12/23 03:45 PM
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There are many women who have had children who are still absolutely beautiful. Most of them have had work done to correct the devastation that pregnancy wreaked on their bodies. Women who have had children are not gross at all…but I do find pregnancy to be exceedingly gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 06:00 PM
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Lol gross
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/23 05:53 PM
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Lol I’m so sure 🙄 OP must have watched the Jennifer Lopez episode of South Park one times too many
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 05:10 PM
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OP is 100% dying a virgin
/r/PurplePillDebate12/12/23 03:41 PM
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It takes a ridiculously long time for everyone on the council to join the zoom meetings..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/23 05:22 AM
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Nope
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 02:15 AM
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If your post history is anything to go by, you care a whole lot. In fact, you seem to think of little else. You are disturbingly obsessed with women. I hope you can find the help you need.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:27 PM
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OP, why do you care? it’s a fantastic thing that birth rates are tanking, people are vile and there are way too many of them ruining the planet. Anyone who is crying about “not having children” is either going through some weird hormonal thing or they don’t have friends with children and are unable to see firsthand what an awful burden they are. It’s my honest opinion, people who feel this way either don’t have enough or aren’t making enough money and are therefore not enjoying everything life h…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/23 09:20 PM
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And?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/23 05:30 PM
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Who said anything about alone? Women travel with friends, siblings, mothers, husbands, boyfriends…?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 12:57 AM
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A lot of millennial/gen Z women don’t want children.. idk where this idea that women are desperate for children comes from. I mean maybe it’s prevalent amongst demographics that have less fulfillment otherwise (mediocre jobs, don’t travel, subpar social lives.. I’m just guessing)?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 09:08 PM
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This 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:59 AM
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The hard truth is that young men struggling with dating are just undesirable. It has nothing to do with online vs IRL (bc who tf has met anyone IRL post 2004 tbh), if you are undesirable now, you would have been undesirable at any point in the near or distant past. Some men (old or younger) just suck and women don’t want them, end of story. Probably accept it and find a hobby or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 04:47 PM
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I don’t care how good looking a man is - if he isn’t wealthy, I have zero interest beyond flirting. I would always pick a wealthy but unattractive man over a good looking average/poor man.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 09:17 PM
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Hopefully the population will decrease and we will all be happier. Fewer angry and entitled men bothering women and fulfillment for men who would otherwise be smoldering in a basement somewhere and furiously bemoaning the world’s injustices on Reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/23 10:16 PM
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Lmao what an absolute dork
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 05:07 PM
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I have no answers for you there. I don’t know why people shy away from asserting their opinions and standing by them, but there you are. Probably feel guilty about potentially hurting feelings or don’t want to be viewed as “mean”.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 01:27 AM
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Most women just don’t find short men attractive, end of story. Trying to dissect it further isn’t going to make the outcome any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 12:53 AM
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Do as your conscience bids you. You are the only person who has to live with your feelings about yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 11:55 PM
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You are angry at the prospect of having men’s seating options reduced by maybe 10%… and your proposed solution is to have them reduced by 50%. As a woman, I am all for it but I question your logic.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/23 08:03 PM
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Problem being that most men have no difficulties with women and wouldn’t want to be lumped in with you and your ilk. Sorry, hard truth. I guess you can go start a little mountain commune with other disenfranchised men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 08:25 PM
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Ngl, that was such a painfully cringey sentence to read. Many people want to live their lives wholly for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:47 AM
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Life is full of little gambles.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:45 AM
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A lot of people just don’t want kids - why is that difficult to believe?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 12:59 AM
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You are very silly :)
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:48 PM
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Deny deny deny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 09:47 PM
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Tbh I don’t understand why anyone would volunteer that kind of information to begin with. Ladies - just assume that men are ridiculous and insecure. No need to be forthcoming about your sexual past. If pressed, just lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 12:37 AM
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Is OP’s name John Snow by any chance?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/23 12:11 AM
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People will do what they want to do. Opt out if you don’t like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:53 PM
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Stop being so desperate, Jesus Christ.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 03:50 PM
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Lol and?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 06:15 AM
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Not concerned at all. People are a plague to this planet, to each other and to nearly all other non human occupants.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:51 PM
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laughs in neuralink
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:32 PM
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Rats are delightful and people tend to skew towards vile so really no need for an analogy there. I can’t say whether your prediction will come to pass (in regard to male indifference towards women) and I mostly don’t care (actually, I would be ecstatic about the resulting population decrease) but it seems unlikely due to cultural and economic factors. Women are finally arriving at a place where they can afford to be indifferent to men in regards to romantic relationships, I expect it will just b…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:30 PM
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Sucks. I’m so glad that I’m a girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:04 PM
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If it’s so unpleasant, just don’t date. It so odd to me than many men express such frustration and dissatisfaction with their interactions with women. Some even express downright dislike and vehement resentment.. all while being utterly obsessed with women. Utterly and desperately obsessed. This sub alone exemplifies that - women are all you think of and talk about. I just couldn’t even imagine - it all sounds so exhausting and frankly dull. And to witness it as a woman is unnerving at best.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 04:48 PM
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OP, why do you care about any of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 09:34 AM
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How wealthy is this hypothetical suitor?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 08:38 AM
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No debate here. I am stating facts, you are arguing with yourself. Enjoy chasing your own tail!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:32 PM
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Sucks to your assmar. Become a monk.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:29 PM
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Of course not. You can only be forced to meet your financial obligations. If you don’t like it, abstain from sex. Perhaps meet a nice man so that pregnancy can be removed from the equation altogether. However, if you choose to continue to engage in sex with women, you do it knowing that you are obligated to support your biological offspring should pregnancy occur. You are socially and morally obligated to be a father to your child. You still have choices. You can abscond to another country and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:24 PM
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Oh, we don’t have to worry about that. We can choose to have an abortion :) or not! That is a decision that is out of your hands. Go and cry about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 02:01 PM
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The hypothetical man has no obligation to the woman, he has a legal obligation to his biological offspring. If you don’t want to worry about unwanted pregnancy- go get yourself castrated. Problem solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:53 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 07:56 PM
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We live in different states. Sometimes different countries for a while.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 05:43 PM
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I have a house cleaner who comes to do the heavy lifting. I have a laundry service (but my husband often does laundry when he’s visiting). I do try to cook at least once or twice during the week or so per month that my husband visits but we eat out more often than not. And we vacation a few weeks in Europe after Christmas and typically somewhere tropical in summer.. and on vacation is where the relations happen. So no, I can’t say that I fit the mold for “traditional”.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/23 03:17 PM
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Ok! Just know that it 1000% comes across as a lot of baggage.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:49 PM
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Your whole theme here seems self-defeating because your self-protective parsimony is always going to outshine your actual personality this early on in getting to know someone. What does that mean? That most women are going to decline a second date. Which means you are going to be paying for a lot of first dates. Which defeats the purpose. It sounds like you have had some pretty miserable experiences in the past that have clearly made you distrustful of women in general. Most people aren’t out to…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:41 PM
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My husband is Muslim and this is what he subscribes to as well. He’s a good husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 10:26 PM
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I always knew that I wanted a husband who wanted to take care of me financially, so I married someone aligned to my desired dynamic. My husband is based in another city and travels a lot - he pays for my living expenses and I use my money for personal upkeep, travel and shopping. I am what is typically considered a high earner (top 10% US) so this works out well for both of us. Moral of the story - find someone who wants what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 05:20 PM
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OP - just don’t settle for a man who does not want to give you what you want, it’s that simple. I couldn’t imagine in a million years being asked to go “50/50”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/23 02:23 PM
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And…?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/23 04:29 PM
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It is fortunate that you’ve manifested a little pretend world in your head, as you are clearly not equipped to thrive in the real world. Pressuring women to marry early won’t improve your chances of finding a partner if you are inherently undesirable. Women prefer freedom and cats over being yoked to an undesirable man.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 06:39 AM
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If he proposed and planned the date, yes. If he’s a really nice person and the date was enjoyable despite the lack of chemistry, I would likely offer to split. If the guy turned out to be an absolute dillweed and the date is torturous, he is 100% paying.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 01:45 PM
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Lol right? It’s like they want to be lied to. If a person is undesirable, there is no magical combination of words imparted on the internet that is going to change that. Either make changes and try again or don’t! Literally no-one cares either way.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:37 AM
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This is literally common sense. What is not common sense is expecting people to cater to your feefees. So nobody wants to have sex with you. So what. Either get over it and occupy yourself with something else or wipe the slate clean and hope to try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 04:34 AM
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Sucks to be your ass-mar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 03:34 PM
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Newsflash: no one cares what you believe. Literally no one.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 02:04 PM
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Lol this is the stupidest post of 2023 so far. *OP’s post, not the comment I’m replying to.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 01:01 PM
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Nothing matters more than personal wealth and social influence.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/22 07:32 PM
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You hit the nail on the head. Most “red pill” men are middle to lower middle class and seething over how helpless they feel. Sour grapes.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/22 08:58 AM
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Do they? I mean who actually cares. Just move onto the next.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 11:50 PM
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Sounds like you founded Copenhagen
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/22 02:10 PM
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Lol this is life. Everyone you love could die at any moment. That’s just reality. Make the most of the time you have and don’t waste time on grudges.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/22 08:22 PM
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I’m glad that I didn’t have water in my mouth when I read this, I would’ve shorted my keyboard.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:03 PM
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Right??
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/22 08:00 PM
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Sorry, honestly did not know that was a no-no!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:48 PM
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I somehow suspect that you aren’t experiencing this. Men can have their preferences but those preferences are irrelevant unless they have the money, looks and charisma to attract women who fit the bill. Things won’t magically get better for you at age 40 and it’s a massive and kind of pathetic cope to hold onto that shred of hope.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/22 04:27 PM
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Perhaps you can unironically don a wig and join up with the rest of the twiddles in this thread so that you can take turns lavishing imaginary female attention upon one another. Enjoy your Saturday!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:02 PM
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The whole tank lol. Clown.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 08:00 PM
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A “demographic”… good lord 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:59 PM
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I’m always amazed when someone manages to prove themselves to be utterly tedious in a single sentence. Bravo, sir, hats off to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:59 PM
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he’s “married”
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:38 PM
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Found the incel
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/22 07:33 PM
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I don’t think women wanting to marry them is something any of these guys will have to worry about. They all sound broke, bitter and mentally stunted.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:31 PM
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If anyone wants a summary: “wahhhhhhhh women don’t acknowledge my existence and I’m going to die alone with my dick in my hand!!!”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/22 05:29 PM
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There’s an oxymoron if I’ve ever heard one.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:45 PM
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*queue
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 05:37 PM
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Inkwell ideology
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/22 04:29 AM
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Results
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:57 AM
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All of these things can factor into attraction but money is the thing that really matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/22 02:24 PM
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I recognize my good fortune in having been born a naturally pretty woman as well as my privilege in being able to afford to maintain and enhance my looks by any means that appeal to me.. I have zero desire to experience manhood in any form.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 09:18 PM
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Judgment never crossed my mind. Anyway, I wouldn’t stress too much. You will be fine. And your ex girlfriends will be fine as well. I hardly remember a thing about anyone from my earlier years so presumably they won’t much remember you either and visa versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:29 AM
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Not the sort of thing I would bother keeping count of. Why do you ask? Look, there’s no point in living your life in fear of someone cheating on you. If you don’t feel secure in a relationship, don’t be in the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:17 AM
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Of course. When I was in my late teens and early 20s I was a lot more prone to cheating. Once I grew past that, I wouldn’t cheat but would def flirt and and then feign confusion when anyone tried to pursue.. and when sufficiently bored, simply leave the relationship and have a grand time being free with my affections for a while until someone worthwhile crossed my path. Though I am proud to say that I’ve always made it a point never to be tied down in a legitimate relationship with anyone who wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 03:07 AM
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LOL it would be hard to speak to this if not from personal experience and from hearing of similar feelings from friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:50 AM
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This is true for women as well, just on a more complex level. Sex typically loses its thrill and relationships become dull once the man in question reveals himself to be a just another vulnerable human and/or just loses all semblance of mystery. For lack of a better term, once all of the layers are peeled back and he’s “conquered”. At that point, it is impossible not to become hyper aware of other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/22 02:28 AM
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You are right, it should suffice to say “you don’t meet the lowest bar I’ve set for what’s acceptable in a man”. That’s quite a mouthful though. I suppose “you are pathetic” without launching into specifics, is nice and succinct and does not even mention gender.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 05:29 AM
4

Wahhhhhhh
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/22 04:23 PM
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Damn but I can’t stand a whiner. Men and women need to stop being so nauseatingly weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 07:21 AM
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Lol who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 06:21 AM
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I have personally always cared more about a man’s status and aptitude to thrive more so than looks. I lucked out and married somebody who’s handsome to boot but it wouldn’t of made a difference if he wasn’t. A man’s looks can’t provide me with a lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/22 06:06 AM
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Depends - is he brilliant and successful? Some things matter a lot more than looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/21 04:36 AM
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If she’s out of your league probably assume she’s settling lol
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:39 AM
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Unless you are marrying up, nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 02:01 AM
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Oh.. that’s called “fuck around and find out”. AKA “you deserved to be served”.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:21 AM
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What are you talking about? Guys go out in groups together all of the time. I mean I guess if you personally have no friends, I can see the issue but I think that’s a stupid generalization to try to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:16 AM
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Lol clicked on this post expecting to find an onslaught of triggered men, was not disappointed.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/21 01:15 AM
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You could just stay on your horse, Napoleon.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/21 04:45 PM
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Depends on priorities, I suppose. I’ve always valued a man’s ability to financially thrive combined with class background - far more than looks or “celebrity”.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/21 05:43 AM
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Earlier this AM, I saw a picture floating around of a minuscule banana. Like really small. Probably less than 2” in length. It’s incredibly impressive that you’ve managed to overcome your minuscule stature by establishing yourself as the world’s only miniature banana who can type. Congratulations, Mr. Tiny Banana 🍌 great shot of you
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 02:37 PM
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Shrek: is content with his looksmatch - another ogre, can’t be said for most of the men whining on Reddit. Beauty and the Beast: Beast is tall and ripped, also rich and lives in castle. Ultimately turns into hot, ripped and still rich guy Hunchback of Notre Dame: hunchback never gets the girl, ultimately dies. Hot guy gets the girl. The Frog Prince: frog prince is a prince, ie loaded. Ultimately turns into tall, hot man. Keeps girl. What exactly about these storylines does not echo general femal…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/21 01:53 PM
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Exactly. You just answered your own question. Read it over slowly a few times if it’s just not resonating with you at a normal speed.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 06:00 PM
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Step #1: stop viewing women as commodities. Pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/21 05:34 PM
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Perhaps I am just vain but I would never ever consider a serious relationship with a man who I consider to be better looking than I am. I would also would never have settled down with a man who expected me to do house work beyond what I actually desire to do and who didn’t have the means to hire a cleaning service.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 10:18 PM
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🐠🐠🐠
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:24 PM
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You do realize that there is a whole wide world outside of monogamous relationships, right? You poor, poor little fish tank dweller LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:22 PM
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Yes, in that comment you inexplicably imagine that a woman who is “alone” (presumably implying that she isn’t shackled to some man) is mired in misery. Simply untrue.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:22 PM
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Lol oh mannnnn. Surely it must have occurred to you that a successful and financially comfortable woman can get “a man’s love“ anytime she feels like it and then put him back out on the sidewalk.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:04 PM
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This is all a given but seems lost upon Mr. Milk Fed cornponzle. Good luck getting that lightbulb to turn on.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 02:02 PM
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User name checks out - give him what he wants.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/21 12:30 AM
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Sure - if you unravel a man to reveal something contrary to the character you assumed he had. Why wouldn’t anyone leave someone who turns out to be disappointing?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/21 12:06 AM
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I hope that’s true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 10:10 PM
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What you are describing is an unhealthy obsession. You are also making several assumptions about me. I could be a bridge troll with less relationship success than the most gapped-tooth and peg-legged of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:54 PM
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Ffs. You don’t need sex. If it is something that a person really wants, that person should work towards making themselves more desirable. But ugh.. neediness is so cloying. I couldn’t imagine devoting the majority of my time sitting around and fretting over other people’s thoughts or desires or whether they find me attractive. Or needing physical intimacy or interaction with the opposite sex. Obviously it is natural to wonder about other people’s thoughts in passing but it shouldn’t consume you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 08:35 PM
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It seems to be the mindset of most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 07:01 PM
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Strongly disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:18 PM
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So either you don’t have meaningful relationships with friends/family or you are banging your parents and friends? Pretty gross, ngl. I’m concerned for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 06:10 PM
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“I am deserving of sex” is a bizarre and entitled notion for anyone to have.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:47 PM
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Do you consider sex a requisite for a meaningful connection?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 05:46 PM
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The entitlement is appalling. So women don’t like you.. boohoo. Surely you can have a fulfilling life regardless. The fervent obsession that most men have with women is just mind boggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/21 04:04 PM
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Ooof. You poor thing. In every sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/21 04:01 PM
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Lol I get the sense that this is from a very (and absolutely nothing wrong with that!) average Joe perspective which really just spells a mismatch with “FDS” ideology. A lot of things posted on FDS are rather silly and I suspect that the more frivolous things represent the viewpoints of women who are very young and still growing into adults.. However, tbh, I do strongly support the core values of FDS (as I interpret them anyway) and the whole point is to avoid wasting time on potential partners …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/21 11:00 PM
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Everyone sets their own bar
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/21 02:30 AM
0

Who cares either way
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/21 02:14 AM
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It is exactly as difficult as you imagine it to be. While some FDS messaging is a bit far fetched, I agree with the core sentiments and I will always strive to encourage other women to know their value.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/21 06:25 PM
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This is so heartwarming. That little girl is growing up knowing her value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/03/21 01:15 AM
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🙌🏽 tell them, bb
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/03/21 05:24 AM
3

Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/21 02:40 AM
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It’s been 5+ years since I was last on Tinder but at the time, most of the men who I agreed to meet up with tried to push for commitment a lot sooner than I was comfortable with. The attributes I valued most were intelligence and prosperity. If a man was good looking on top of that, great.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 03:41 PM
1

To each their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:31 AM
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So bizarre. Who honestly gets attached due to sex these days? I could understand being attached to what the person may be able to offer in regards to lifestyle or social status but what’s the point in pining after nothingness because of a puncture wound lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:03 AM
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I mean, I guess you’re giving someone an ego boost at least?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 04:00 AM
1

I really wish that I could sell copes. This thread would be a literal gold mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:52 AM
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That isn’t true at all. I personally have always placed a man’s intelligence and aptitude for prosperity a lot higher than a man’s looks. And that is coming from an attractive woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:50 AM
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Preach 🙌🏽
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 02:48 AM
1

LOL, ugly men who get the opportunity to act as a puppet to a very attractive woman usually lunge at it. It worries me when people behave as though something they should be able to directly relate to is utterly incomprehensible.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/21 01:52 AM
9

Sounds like something every single mother should read. I don’t have a child as of yet but awful to think that there are so many depraved people skulking about in the shadows.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:32 PM
10

True but I feel that most women have the wherewithal to filter out a weirdo after spending a full year, or more, with him. When I say “don’t let him meet your kids for at least a year“ I mean just that. No discussing them, no formal introduction, no informal introduction, no spending the night at your house even if they aren’t there. Definitely no key to your house. Absolutely no access to your children whatsoever until you know beyond doubt that he is not a weirdo.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:23 PM
50

I don’t think there’s anything wrong with being upfront about having children, just have the common sense not to bring a new boyfriend around your kids for at least a year, possibly longer.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 03:34 AM
12

What a clown.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/21 11:11 PM
10

Ew, that’s so sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:07 PM
16

I’m glad that you found it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 06:24 AM
28

Agree. We know for a fact that they are much more dangerous than children or animals and so why treat them more gently than either? Especially when both (some) children and (all) animals are exponentially more delightful.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 05:24 AM
65

Unfortunately, most posts made by women on Reddit are painfully mincing and apologetic.. esp when a man is so much as mentioned. It’s awful. Everything having to do with anything related to finances, gifts or responsibility is 99% of the time prefaced with “I don’t expect anything and I’m fine with this fucking low effort pittance being offered if it’s from the heart”. Like bitch, you don’t have to apologize for being disappointed by your birthday being forgotten or being proposed to with a scra…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 04:10 AM
25

It’s probably a Dutch door.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 01:47 AM
134

Right??? Nothing makes me angrier than watching a woman follow after a man, begging for crumbs of decency. How is this LVM going to have the gall to insist that she not improve upon the scabby ass little trinket he proposed with and then demanded 50% payment on? She needs to toss the whole man out and start over.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/03/21 12:28 AM
4

100% true. In my opinion, they are also so insecure and desperate for validation that they are more likely to cheat than your typical attractive guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/03/21 10:50 PM
3

I find that an oversized golf umbrella usually does the trick when they bumble into your personal space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 06:09 PM
14

It’s not like you have to keep a guy around after you sample the dick...?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 08:33 AM
1

In all fairness, I don’t want to do it either. To me, a HVM is a man who does not want me to have to do housework and is willing to pay for the assistance I need. But I understand what you are saying about the majority of men being oafs. Def avoid men who don’t want to do things for you without prompting.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:46 AM
1

But if that’s literally someone’s livelihood - I’m sure any cleaning service would rather have the additional business and not involve themselves in the politics of the household in question lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:16 PM
2

Housekeepers will gladly put away clean dishes out of a dishwasher and do laundry. Most dry cleaners also do wash and fold. Bills - um why wouldn’t he be paying those? Garbage - ??? What is the point in having a man around if he won’t even take the garbage out? Groceries - have them delivered My point being, if a man wants to chuff off helping with chore related things, he’d better be prepared to pay for a solution that does not require it all to be shoved off on the woman in the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 05:14 PM
42

If a man doesn’t want to do housework, he should 100% hire a cleaning service
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 06:55 AM
13

Seems like common sense to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/02/21 04:35 AM
25

How embarrassing. I hope she countered with an invoice for her wasted time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 02:59 PM
1

🥰❤️ bless her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/02/21 02:08 PM
2

The very best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/02/21 02:57 PM
39

Awww I’m in my 30’s and my mom still gives us Valentine’s Day presents every year 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 10:10 PM
58

💯
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:44 AM
24

I second that! This grandma is an Angel.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:30 AM
22

Bless her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/02/21 12:29 AM
5

Hear, hear!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/02/21 03:07 PM
14

Goes without saying - document everything. I’m sorry this happened to you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/02/21 12:25 AM
17

What the fuck...? I’m half tempted to tell you to agree just so you can write something obscene in self tanner or henna on his back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 11:46 PM
1

I haven’t tried making my own sushi but it’s some thing I’ve wanted to try for a long time. I’m just very very lazy and I live in a city with a sushi restaurant on like every block LOL. I have a lot friends who really enjoy meat substitutes, especially the beyond burger type thing, I just can’t get past the mental block of it reminding me of actual meat. I do love tofu though and your calzone recipe sounds delicious. I didn’t eat cheese for the first 24 years of my life and I am still kind of te…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:51 AM
1

I love love love vegetarian sushi. Any tempura veggie with some avocado slapped on it, rolled up in rice? Sign me up. Honestly, I’m not into meat substitutes because aside from loving animals, I just don’t like meat. Anything that’s been constructed to mimic meat is likely to really gross me out. I’m more than happy to have the conversation. People tend to be up arms way too quickly - esp online. Also (and I don’t mean to be insensitive to anyone) people seem prone to viewing certain types of fo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 02:26 AM
1

They are all adorable. Someone on some other Reddit thread was just talking about cute chickens softly clucking when they are picked up. The way it was described was very endearing. Nearly all animals (even fish!) seem to enjoy and reciprocate affection which really speaks volumes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:52 AM
2

I know. Overfishing is a fucking disgrace. And if I had to fish myself, I would never be able to eat fish again. I couldn’t bear to know I’d killed what’s on my plate. Yes, yes, I know - the hypocrisy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:36 AM
2

Thinking back now, I’ve only met one over the top vegan IRL and I halfway suspect that she hadn’t even been vegan for very long and was just generally over the top. Who knows. The best one hands down is that crazy old lady on TicTok. I personally have no issues with veganism. It’s a very healthy and environmentally friendly lifestyle. ( I sometimes have pangs of conscience about eating fish but they do go and make themselves so delicious 😒)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:22 AM
4

That’s true enough for the vegans that I know IRL. I’m loosely connected to a handful of vegans on social media though that definitely feed into the stereotype. To be honest though, it’s very odd anytime a person views their lifestyle as the most defining component of their personality.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:07 AM
2

Gotcha. Duly noted!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 01:05 AM
5

This ^ 100%.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:32 AM
13

Probably. Honestly, I need to take a Reddit break. Covid quarantine has brought me low LOL. I just realized that I’ve spent all day arguing with idiotic men who seem to believe that some deadbeat man is entitled to his girlfriends wages and anything otherwise would be morally unsound. The guy got fired from his job and from what the girlfriend describes, they are living paycheck to paycheck and have two children and she caught him withdrawing $50-$75 a week supposedly to “give his brother“. So s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/02/21 12:16 AM
5

That’s very true! Can you imagine how awful that would be 😂 I mean, everything you described above is absolutely wretched but imagining the full scenario - this is the most I’ve laughed all day!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 10:40 PM
2

It’s OK, I didn’t know that wasn’t allowed.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:43 PM
2

Well crap, I guess I wasn’t supposed to do that. This post just got banned LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:27 PM
2

You have to scroll to the bottom for the copy of the original post
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:26 PM
14

What you are saying is absolutely correct. The Roman Catholic Church went on a legitimate crusade to stigmatize powerful women in the middle ages. We are still attempting to recover from that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 08:03 PM
8

Right? This woman is in complete denial. I’m willing to bet he’s been banging his ex the entire time they’ve been together. No one becomes as quickly defensive as she did if they don’t at least subconsciously know somethings up.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:47 PM
8

Exactly.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:45 PM
6

I mean for gods sake, she admits that he’s been in constant contact with the ex the entire time they’ve been dating. Nearly 2 years!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:32 PM
5

LOL right? I cringed painfully at the mention of the mom.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 07:31 PM
23

Girl, the car she’s driving does not even have wheels. She is struggling to push that jalopy off the cinderblocks it’s sitting on 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:51 PM
42

She also claims that she reviewed two years worth of their messages and that nothing had been deleted. First of all, why the fuck has your boyfriend been in constant contact with his ex for two motherfucking years? Secondly, how exactly do you know that nothing was deleted? There’s no way to know that. I’m assuming that she’s just taking his word for it. She’s willfully ignorant and there’s nothing worse than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:50 PM
16

I’d have to say that the current girlfriend is a way bigger pick me though. The X is lame for clearly still desiring to fuck around with this pathetic half squished grub of a man But the current girlfriend is mega-pickme for defending his lame ass after he clearly cheated on her and then portrayed himself as a victim.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:48 PM
13

I would honestly feel much better knowing that OP is a 14-year-old girl and she just found her ken doll in the same shoebox as her Barbie doll. That would be much less disturbing than acknowledging that this post was written by a full-fledged adult woman.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:39 PM
22

I suspect that this particular brand of fool is hoping to hear that she’s the angel in the situation and that she’s somehow a better person for giving her “boyfriend” a chance to “heal”. Or some such nonsense.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:37 PM
13

That’s the part that’s difficult for me. Getting them to understand they don’t have to give anything up. If a woman can focus on herself and her own stability first and foremost, she can have a snuggle or go on a date or whatever as she pleases - as she pleases. There are hordes of men everywhere desperate for female attention. It’s not like you have to go shack up with them and keep them. If one proves to be exceptional, great. But women shouldn’t feel pressure to need that in order to be happy…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:36 PM
11

(I would tend to agree on that count.)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:32 PM
25

Right? Judging by how defensive she is, I think she realizes that, at least subconsciously.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:14 PM
15

I don’t really have opinions on poly folks but someone lumped them in recently with stereotypical vegans and CrossFitters. Basically people who can’t refrain from telling every single person they meet all about their lifestyle LOL (That is not in reference to the comment above mine - just about stereotypical self-proclaimed polyamory)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:14 PM
42

I’d like women to realize that they don’t need a serious relationship with a man to feel fulfilled as a human being. Typically, what they need to travel outside of their communities and comfort zones and to seek fulfillment from simply living.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 06:06 PM
34

I honestly think she’s somehow viewing herself as a savior and the two of them as allies against the wicked ex girlfriend. She claims that he’s been so downtrodden and abused by his ex that “he’ll just agree to anything because he’s afraid of his ex”. Bia, why would he voluntarily go to spend the night at her house then?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:53 PM
5

She claims she went through two years of their messages via text and Facebook and that “nothing was deleted“. How exactly, pray tell, are you determining that ma’am?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:51 PM
26

It gets worse. Now she’s attacking nearly everyone who comments, in desperate defense of her “relationship”. I know I shouldn’t be watching this shit show unfold because it is truly pitiable but I just can’t stop.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:47 PM
27

I don’t get it. How is it that we’ve come to a place where we’ve been conditioned to value dignity and self worth less than frivolous companionship with substandard human beings?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:43 PM
31

I mean, I love adventure time just as much as the next person but I’ve yet to see a princess doormat.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:40 PM
40

I think a lot of people turn to AITA for validation and then become agitated when the general consensus does not align with their views on the situation in question.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:35 PM
66

Oh my gosh, I commented that the text that she read sounded staged and she got super defensive and upset. I truly cannot wrap my head around people who behave this way. It is so so very sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:33 PM
162

It’s absolute insanity. The person she’s committed to is taking a naked nap with his ex and she blames THE EX??
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:20 PM
8

It really puts the nail in the coffin for me is the fact that she’s convinced by a text message that he voluntarily shared with her. Like that’s not staged.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/21 05:13 PM
20

TBH, I don’t understand why so many people are in a tizzy to date in the first place.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 05:59 PM
3

Perhaps I will later but I already know the answer. My fiancé (was speaking hypothetically in line with the story, as we do not have a child yet) works in finance and has a similarly strenuous schedule in regards to having to watch the markets all day and being required to travel often. He does this in order to support me and our cat and to make sure that we are kept in comfort and stability. When we have a child, it’s not likely that he’ll have the luxury of being around often. He would be touc…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/21 03:02 PM
174

The HVM must continue to do thoughtful things in order to remain high value. In a nutshell lol.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/01/21 12:07 AM
71

I personally recommend silk but yes, they are good for any woman who has hair on her head and skin on her face.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 11:26 PM
45

That’s great to hear, I raise a glass to her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:18 PM
27

I agree. I also really don’t like that the whole “women are all desperate to lure a man into marriage“ tired old dialog really places so much power into the hands of men. IMO female empowerment is about women seizing the freedom to do what they want, how they want to do it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 09:17 PM
87

No idea - hopefully they are whatever she desires them to be.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/21 08:39 PM
7

You have some lovely natural nails!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/12/20 06:46 PM
52

So true
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:24 PM
104

*milk
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 04:11 PM
40

This is such odd logic considering that the majority of men want a woman’s unclothed form to be revealed to them exclusively, why isn’t makeup viewed from the same perspective?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 06:58 PM
6

Well, clearly we are actually a gaggle of trash pandas pretending to be human women 🙄 In all seriousness though, it’s projection at its finest.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:22 PM
10

I cannot wrap my head around anyone being this cheap
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 01:22 PM
13

Hence the appeal of a 16 year old. Hasn’t had time to develop standards.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 07:00 AM
34

I was talking to my best friend just yesterday about something vaguely relevant to this. Have you ever noticed how any post or story involving a woman leaving her partner and ending up with someone with more money is THE BIGGEST TRIGGER to 80% of Reddit? Any mention of it and people are just incandescent with rage in their replies. Honestly, it seems to apply to any anecdotal post where anything of monetary value is mentioned. I’ve noticed that so many women preface their posts related to shitty…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 12:56 AM
16

And long walks... to the beach. Cuz he ain’t got no vehicle.
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