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Question For WomenDotherOfLife/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 05:49 PM
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Beautiful take. Ty
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 12:39 PM
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I wasn't straight. I meant that, if you take a women and save her from the grind and have her be a homemaker. They don't display gratitude, they act like they're doing you a favor by being a SAHM. Which contradicts the narrative that they hate being strong and independent
/r/MensRights26/06/25 11:58 AM
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No, I didn't mean it as a jab. I was toxic because it's fucking Reddit and also because of the logical contradiction on your statement. Just so I'm getting this straight are you saying they're illogical? They hate having to be strong and independent but still will act like they're doing you a favor? Am I getting it right? And fuck your cake day. Don't spend one more day on this shit hole.
/r/MensRights26/06/25 08:41 AM
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But even the undesirable or less receiving of attention don't self reflect. Doesn't hold up
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 08:34 AM
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Everything is going great! Proceeds to list all that is wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 02:31 AM
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If they're weak and that effort is heavy and undesirable shouldn't we rescue these poor souls from having to be strong and independent and make them go back to the kitchen?
/r/MensRights25/06/25 06:33 PM
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If they're weak and that effort is heavy and undesirable shouldn't we rescue these poor souls from having to be strong and independent and make them go back to the kitchen?
/r/MensRights25/06/25 06:32 PM
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I can't get into audiobook I can't catch up with the work. I will start with psycho cybernetics and if I like it expect that I will be back. Thank you for the recommendation and taking the time. Have good in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 01:01 AM
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Thank you. Your mind is beautiful, preserve.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:58 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:41 AM
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A worker would provide value to the employer, the employer would take that value and expand. Creating more job opportunities? But never mind, you're all good boss.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/25 12:32 AM
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But isn't it impossible for an employer to hire an unqualified person instead of the best person for a job? Isn't a job always going to be a net positive to society since they provide more than they get? I have my own ideas but they're muddy and foggy so I will hear yours if they're clearer
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:50 PM
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Do you have any further thoughts on that? I've been thinking the same but I can't come to any conclusions. Why is seemingly high iq women still incapable of basic introspection. Or, maybe not basic, but at least above entry level
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:36 PM
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Do you recommend books for entry level?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:31 PM
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What would you say to the idea that a job creates value? That even, and especially, under capitalism you have to be creating value for your employer to be employed?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:14 PM
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That's not an opinion that's a fact. Read Nora Vincent self-made man
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 11:01 PM
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Precisely that. And then they dare speak of the injustice and privileges of the past. And it's not even a different conversation. They have the audacity to actually put them back to back in the same arguement. "Your grandpa was mean to my grandma therefore I have the right to enforce equality on you"
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:50 PM
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Thank you. I'm extremely ashamed that I thought I was going crazy until I saw your comment
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:20 PM
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Yes op, they will try to convince you that you're the one who's crazy. And judging by your replies it's actually working since you're gradually getting pulled out of your stance because of sheer opposition. Your stance is logical, follow logic, not Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:19 PM
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Yes op, they will try to convince you that you're the one who's crazy. And judging by your replies it's actually working since you're gradually getting pulled out of your stance because of sheer opposition. Your stance is logical, follow logic, not Reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 12:19 PM
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The point is that the people who these sentences don't cut it dry for them are the ones who won't have any no work to begin with. These are the ones who stop you by the road and force you to give your number. You are doing the woman thing where you are holding the good man accountable for bad men. I doubt it's wisdom. You are conflating two types of people I made very clear distinction between when I mentioned that it should be done without being intrusive or invasive. there is no harm in asking…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 12:55 PM
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Yes, I'm so not interesting that you spend your past few hours chasing my every comment like a creep
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 03:18 AM
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I believe I explicitly drew the line and gave examples of such lines that cut it dry
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:50 AM
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I agree the fear is warranted but the dissonance is that it's used as an excuse, or maybe not an excuse but a mask that women put permanently, to hurt people who have no hand in it. As women described here, situations where they are assaulted or exposed or threatened are very telling. In a secluded place, a drunk man, a guy twice her age, a dude blocking your path. Yet, the humiliation ritauls described in your post are all respectable people in respectable places speaking respectfully to people…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:48 AM
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I would like a quote on where I mentioned physical contact had no harm. And I deeply apologize for assuming you had above average intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:24 AM
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Every single woman in my family has been subjected to some indecent exposure. I also know my mother is hiding something about her childhood, likely family. I don't really know what are you even talking about or want me to respond to that last part. Yeah, I myself am very rapist
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:19 AM
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I don't understand you fully
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/25 02:13 AM
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Could be cultural, I agree. Will need men from us to confirm. But what really is the harm? I want to know. It's just 10 more seconds of mild discomfort at best. A guy doesn't approach everyday and has already went past his discomfort to take the risk. being rejected twice and thrice still hurts him as much as her saying no twice and thrice. It's just a show of his genuine interest. I wouldn't do it, I don't enjoy making a joke out of myself, but some men try hard to get the woman they like.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:54 PM
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Hey it's you! Thank YOU for making your post. Mine was inspired by yours, yours was out of pure compassion. It's not the same. I never actually expected to be this antagonized in the comments but I guess I'm not as friendly as you were. Still, there genuinely heartwarming replies here that put a breath of faith back in one made of stone. I think I went through something like the bus ride thing when I was little, but that's it. I've come to understand the experience is very similar to walking dan…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:46 PM
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Haha. Thank you for the civil contribution. You and the others really made this post worth it.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:19 PM
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Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:16 PM
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What? Haha
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:15 PM
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Not really. I can know more about a person watching him in his friend group more than I get from talking to him. What he wears, where he looks, how he speaks, who is he addressing after what is said, how he combs his hair, how he's sitting, His posture, and his resting face. These are surface acts that give a pretty good overall idea of a person. They aren't flawless and they aren't all right, but they aren't shallow or superficial. I didn't like her because she had big tits or her ass was sexy.…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:14 PM
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You are so badass and independent. I'm really proud of you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 10:04 PM
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You look at how a burger talks?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:59 PM
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Good question. It's because we grew up to know that girls don't say yes the first time to not appear easy for example. They expect persuasion or like persistence, or they are simply just shy from just saying yes or just gouging how hard you want it. That is completely different from being intrusive or invasive. The thing is "I have a boyfriend" although powerful, have peers that would give the same message. (("I like girls." "I don't talk to strangers." "I don't date" ) for example) The idea is …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 09:51 PM
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Sorry. I know you tried, but I don't see the image clear at all. I would be over the moon if a girl came to me and told me this exactly. The space thing is definitely off, tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:27 PM
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How far from compassion do you have to be for basic human decency to be babying. You can clearly see I'm opening this discussion with good intent. Yet you are so insistent to turn this into an unpleasant experience
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:23 PM
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Thank you. I'm starting to see it now. From the descriptions I'm getting here it seems that its closest to getting jumped or fearing being robbed. Except that I only get to feel like this in much more dangerous environment, women needs just specific circumstances to feel that fear. Being alone is the only common one I assume. But no one likes approaching a girl when she's with friends because it's a private proposition. Maybe that's why women don't like approaching. Also, don't you think that is…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 08:19 PM
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I wonder how much they pay you to spread that.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:33 PM
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You could've been a decent human being for just 1 minute and I would've answered you gladly. So I assume you don't actually care about the answer.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:32 PM
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No. The closest is some people make me feel very in danger that my mind tells me this isn't going to end well at all. Surprisingly they all end well.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 07:25 PM
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Sure. Do you believe society's attitude towards idiots is to humiliate them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:58 PM
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Thank you for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:48 PM
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But how? You say these people skillfully separate their target and have very good social awareness. How did you know these were true since this immediately separates them from the "I'm autistic uwu"(can't believe I typed that)
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:46 PM
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Of course it can be wrong. But it can't be all wrong. That doesn't mean that this is purely superficial.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:42 PM
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He was definitely trying to apologize for your husband and to you by his actions. 100% Verbally apologizing would escalate. Or maybe 99% with 1% chance that he's trying to control the tension so he doesn't feel awkward in the future which is more selfish. Or maybe 20% He's probably a sad man trying to relive his glory years he never had if the difference in age is big enough to fit. I doubt he noticed the wedding ring if he had the intention Thank you for answering. And tbh, your post feels like…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:40 PM
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Cool.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:30 PM
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So you feel that you can't tell anything about a person from looking at them for over the course of a 15 minutes or an hour in their proximity?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:30 PM
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Thank you, it's a very endearing answer. This guy definitely seems like trouble. Also thank you for taking the effort to cushion the rejections, you seem a beautiful human being. Hope your encounters remain harmless, but you seem to have it under control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:28 PM
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I won't engage with comments that twist my intentions
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:23 PM
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That feels like sexual assault more than approaching. But just to make sure, you say your body screams for space and your hair stands up(nevermind touching you, that's just instantly malicious intent). What are the odds he's just an idiot that can't see the cues? Why are you insulted someone loves the way you specifically dress, the way you talk, the way you look around you, your body language, your resting face? Do you feel these things are not telling of who you are? Have you not put effort in…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:22 PM
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Why are you insulted someone loves the way you specifically dress, the way you talk, the way you look around you, your body language, your resting face? Do you feel these things are not telling of who you are? Have you not put effort in those to send a visual message into society?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:17 PM
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Your describe being hunted. reminds me of walking dangerous suburbs, especially when I'm carrying something valuable on display. It's a Very nerve wrecking experience. It's definitely when I'm ever most on guard. You say that these people display tact, Doest it mean socially awkward, non dangerous men are easily separated from this group?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:14 PM
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Paints a good picture. But why is the creep ascribed aggression? Shouldn't this just be applied to aggressive men? And do you personally think that there is no way you delicately turn any rejection in a pleasant experience or just defuse a situation like this? What kind of a man is two fighting dogs?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:00 PM
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I think this is the first time I've ever felt jealous of another man in my life. I will Most definitely never get to experience this little snippet of relationship interaction. Ouch. It hurts...
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 03:13 PM
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How do you answer the thought that the reason Adam and Eve were punished was because they perverted their nature?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:30 AM
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Yeah, exactly. I wonder how much more they need before they prove this equality is warranted
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 06:28 AM
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Thank you for the answer
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:35 AM
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Agreed. Especially commend not using"evolutionary speaking" instead of anthropologically
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/25 04:23 AM
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Tough shit, they shared a body with us before you
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:29 AM
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Holy redditor. I'm sorry I took you seriously
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/25 02:04 AM
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Oh, my bad. Didn't know you were chill like that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 03:24 PM
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Source, boss?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/25 09:27 AM
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Feminism did worsen the male mental state by making women hate men. Maybe you don't, but you're smart and you know it did. And you also know that now women want to date men who are at the bare minimum make the same amount of money they do. What was the stat? You are twice as likely to get divorced if your wife gets a promotion? I don't fully recall. It's not as simple as "men don't express their emotions therefore they're sad", there's s multitude of reasons, it can be one of them. But I'm prett…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:14 AM
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You give yourself too little credit. No one can write worse than AI. And I already addressed the idea that increased labour isn't instantly good. But we seem to agree that the problem is enacted on society rather than faced. Whether you want to call it patriarchy, sure, but I refuse to utter this word unironically. It's simply a group of the elites, them consisting of males bears no meaning, it's distractive and that's precisely it's purpose. Would Kamala Harris winning end the patriarchy and us…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/25 12:13 AM
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AI? whatever... Your entire arguement revolves around feminism being an act of pure good and every thing handed to women came from nothing. No, the extra labour didn't benefit the economy at all, for all it's worth, it has been a disaster for a man. Since he now has to compete with both men and women for the women who expect a man to be the sole bread winner or equal, this does not benefit men at all. You claim that it can only do good to have more labour, which isn't true since you evenly admit…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:30 PM
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This is the most Reddit response I could imagine. Wow!
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 07:02 PM
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Chad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:57 PM
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It's called logic and reasoning. I have no blame on you for missing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:49 PM
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I do not contribute the acceptance of male emotions to feminism, this is pure awareness from men after the divide between the two genders. The male loneliness epidemic taught men to be outlet to each other. It's damage control. Adding to that, it is now expected from women to contribute to household expenses solely because it's not feasible anymore for a single income to support a household. Which is a product of modern economics, which can be attributed to the doubling of labour and the reducti…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/25 03:39 PM
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I think women are in danger by being out, but that has never stopped them from ever doing it. Why is it of relevance now? Why mention it? Is she in more danger in a date in the middle of the day than her going out in the middle of the night? So you basically agree with op that it's just being selective because women are spoilt for choice and would rather have a date that is paid rather than a date isn't since they are both available. I wonder what is the point of talking about the dangers women …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/25 01:47 AM
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I really liked your comment even though I found very truly sad things in it. It seems to be rather genuine I don't want to bombard you with questions so I Will start with one. If you found dating dangerous and you are in a great threat for going out with a man(this feels so devaluing of me as a person, and it feels really condescending inherently, but still) How is a man paying for that date of any relevance to this issue at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/25 11:13 AM
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Too relatable, man. Hope you find good in life
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/25 08:50 AM
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except that if you read the post or any vibe at all you would understand that the ones who ask arent pursuing. This is implicit in the question itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:52 AM
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What kind of stupid answer is that? what thinking being answers a question with "You have your own brain!". such an amazing answer can be used for every single question in the universe. "Hello, what's your name?" "It doesn’t require an answer Women are people, so he can use his imagination and think of what people are called. You after all have a brain." It must be amazing answering every question you have ever been asked by saying Why should i answer when you have your own brain? You must not e…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:01 AM
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Everyone is the same if you abstract enough. Foxes are mammals and so are humans, but I guess you won't be able to conjure their answers to our questions using your own imagination.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 11:20 PM
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Great question OP 43 comments and still not 1 answer, but still good topic. I will try to answer even though i am a man. A woman is supposed to foster an environment where the man feels that the hardships that he endures outside to bring resources in feels of value. That is usually respect first and foremost, love can follow but is not very significant. That should include raising his children on Virtue and herself throughout the years of their marriage. Everything else left unsaid is mutual. Li…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 06:44 AM
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thanks for the awesome read man. Do you have any recommendations to read by chance or havent read anything good lately?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 12:41 AM
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Thanks for the answer boss! Hope you find good in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:43 PM
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Evolutionary psychology has been nothing but a fantasy and wish fulfillment for armchair intellectuals for the past decade and most apparent on reddit. It the laziest possible way to give credit to your argument by linking it to an event that used to happen in any time period in the past 100 thousand years. I remember when people used to laugh at the alpha and beta being the equivalent of horoscope for men when this comparison is strictly reserved for evo-psych with no contender.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:29 PM
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legitimately curious. How can you "realize" you are attracted to someone? do you simply mean you started knowing he was a good man?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:25 PM
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