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DownvotesCatposts/r/seduction20/04/14 11:29 PM
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Technically, George Floyd agreed with OP 🤷‍♂️
/r/PussyPassDenied27/08/20 03:16 AM
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So what you're saying is, these women are just sleeping with you to get ahead in their careers. And you thought this belong in a seduction subreddit? Where's the seduction?
/r/seduction31/07/18 03:11 AM
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The Game is good, but I would have to go with The Rational Male.
/r/seduction13/06/18 07:35 PM
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So make it part of your lifestyle. You are the kind of person who goes to the gym for an hour everyday. You're not the kind of person who comes up with excuses for not going.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 01:32 PM
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Diet really is key. I went with keto and the pounds just fell off my body. And I paid it with the lightest of workouts, just using tension bands wedged under the door of my bedroom. Hell I didn't even bother calculating the carb totals or any of that shit. Just reading labels. Worked to stay under 20 carbs a day. Lost 50 pounds of fat in 6 months. The limited muscle I did have already started breaking through.
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 01:29 PM
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I remember reading some TRP and seduction material a few years ago. Came upon a .PDF of a book. First few pages were the typical tips you find elsewhere. But then he started talking about all these really dirty things he was convincing women to do with him. And it sounded pretty great because you didn't find people claiming women were willing to do this anywhere else, so I kept reading. Then eventually you come to realize he's a hardcore global warming wacko, and he's banging the grossest bush p…
/r/TheRedPill14/04/18 07:54 PM
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Don't create imaginary attacks on yourself like that.
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:44 PM
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Think of your personal boundaries as a huge bowl with a lid. You have to establish those boundaries, make sure the bowl doesn't have any cracks/seal up the cracks. What can you then fill the bowl with? Confidence! Plus, that big lid on top, the handle to that lid is on the inside, and it needs to be. You control the lid. In this case, she tried to open the lid and walk right in. You kept the handle of the lid on your side. You did great. You're on your way to greatness. It's all about the small …
/r/seduction11/04/18 03:43 PM
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You're only really different heights when you're standing. So spend most of your time together sitting. A walking around-type date isn't going to be the best choice early on. Also, most importantly, don't get self-conscious about it if it comes up. If it's not an issue for her, your insecurity will make it one.
/r/seduction10/04/18 04:38 PM
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That's all well and good for someone who has experience with women, but that's awful advice for someone who's just starting out.
/r/seduction17/03/18 05:47 AM
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You can learn so much just by doing. But the advise that tells you to stop the mental masturbation and just GO TALK TO GIRLS usually gets down voted to oblivion, because people are comfy in their safe space.
/r/seduction05/03/18 03:39 PM
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Unrelated but thanks for recommending that Willink video. Exactly what I was looking for at this moment.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 07:48 AM
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I think you want to escalate physically with this girl (eat that ass) but then get some more dates arranged. Doesn't seem like exclusive relationship material.
/r/askTRP17/12/16 09:30 AM
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You don't want Retail's advice. And the topic you're asking about is Frame. Sidebar and Google are your friends.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:33 AM
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Have you considered the possibility that your delivery is garbage? That you have no comedic timing? No appropriate inflection?
/r/TheRedPill22/11/16 05:31 AM
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"You look like a serial killer" works pretty well for me.
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:37 PM
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Do you tip your fedora before or after you say "Excuse me, ma'am"?
/r/askTRP27/09/16 11:37 PM
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Buy thin chicken breasts that come as like, tenders I think? Or buy a breast that's thick and cut it down into tenders. Go to your stovetop, get a pan on there, medium heat, add in some extra virgin olive oil. Lay out your chicken on a cutting board and use a meat tenderizer (the metal hammer thing no one uses) or just use the bottom of a pot and smack all the chicken down to the same thickness. You wanna go down to about a quarter inch at most. Now, hit that chicken with at the bare minimum, fr…
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 02:57 AM
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Don't dip your pen in the company stink. And he will definitely find out eventually. It's not worth the hassle.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 02:39 AM
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You should look in to Rollo Tomassi's posts regarding oneitis. My bastardized understanding is that you are experiencing addiction withdrawal, because of the various chemicals that are fired across your brain when you're around her. It's amplified because you're missing her so you're tying all these emotional associations to this one person, who most likely isn't actually as good in real life as she is in your head. Rational Male. Go check it out.
/r/askTRP21/09/16 02:38 AM
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Shit, I'd hope she'd be a Trump supporter. Much less chance she'll try to Regret-Rape you.
/r/seduction14/08/16 12:51 PM
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I think the problem that you're going to run in to in the seduction community is that the overwhelming majority of people who seek out this advice are emotionally vomiting all over every girl that happens to give them an accidental glance. This can be (incorrectly) used by boys who clearly have lots of work to do in all other aspects to say "See! I just need to be honest about my fee-fees! Then Denko will kiss me!" This comfort test doesn't come until well into the interaction with a girl, and o…
/r/seduction22/07/16 04:14 AM
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Yeah that's the thing. "Being a nice guy isn't bad" is also a common mantra used by women who enjoy the utility of their Beta Orbiters, as well as bluepill Betas themselves to justify their enslavement. They will most adamantly defend this position in front of their girlfriends who don't respect them, their wives who run their lives, or women they won't admit that they want to fuck. The true determining factor is the body language, the context, as I said.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 05:23 PM
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Whoa, it's like a double-Beta fakeout.
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 03:13 AM
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Okay listen. I was right there with you. I hated being called nice because that meant I was a nice guy and whatever chemistry thought I had with a girl was just me reading in to things. Until this one night. I was at a bar with a few friends and to make a long story short it was near the end of the night and she and I had already put back a few shots. The memory is a bit hazy but she said "you're nice" in some context and I stopped, sighed, and said thanks. She then said "What? Being nice isn't …
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 03:06 AM
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Then you just don't get it. Which is even worse. Old people have an excuse. And your constant implication of homosexuality just makes you look bad. Lots of projecting here.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 04:52 PM
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You're old, dude. All of your replies scream that you're old and you don't get it. Ruben gets it.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 02:46 AM
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Can we cut down on the straight up whoring for clicks to people's own websites? Like if you wanna post your shit, great, but at least give me a paragraph saying briefly what you're selling. I dunno, maybe... seduce me into reading it?
/r/seduction08/06/16 12:59 AM
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Yes, it's worth getting. You can run digital dread game extremely easily on there. Once you have a girl sending you snaps and you don't open them for hours or even days, they start reaching out via other means immediately. I was getting annoyed with a plate, didnt open her snaps for two days, got a text 230am on that saturday (didnt reply there either) followed by her texting me a picture the next morning. That shit is catnip for women. You can deny them attention without leaving your couch. Som…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:13 AM
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Lift every day. Talk to every girl you see. Read Atlas Shrugged, The Fountainhead, Bang, and Rollo Tomassi's two books.
/r/askTRP07/06/16 02:19 AM
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This girl is really special I do have abundance mentality Dude.
/r/askTRP05/06/16 11:02 PM
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Keep in mind, if she's tryna protect her friend from you, she'll show her friend any texts you send. Use that to your advantage.
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:31 AM
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Should've just waited 'til real late at night and replied "Come Over"
/r/askTRP04/06/16 04:29 AM
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I know you're probably joking, but if she's this much of a wet blanket then she's doing you a favor
/r/seduction28/05/16 09:02 PM
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Good comment I read recently somewhere: If you are thinking about buying something, and you have to pause to decide if you can afford it, then you can't afford it. You can only afford the things that you don't have to think about the cost of. A toothbrush? You can afford that. A 15 dollar book? You can afford that. A PS4? Hmm... - boom, decision made, can't afford it. Obviously this scales to whatever financial situation in which you find yourself, but I believe it is a useful rule of thumb.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/16 02:57 PM
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It can be used as a passive method of displaying a higher SMV.
/r/askTRP26/05/16 02:23 PM
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"C'mon get it over with" really doesn't sound like you're doing it right at the moment.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:27 PM
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Sounds like you failed a shit test, royally.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:13 PM
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It sounds like you're just bad at sex.
/r/askTRP19/05/16 08:03 PM
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Do everything you can do. You're in control. Make it happen.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:57 PM
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I've never seen anything like this before, that's interesting. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill19/05/16 07:51 PM
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It depends on your situation, man. You're going to have to research this yourself. Figure out what equipment you have access to and go from there. Personally my goal is to get down to about 13-14% bodyfat, then maintain that standard. So I put together a lifting regimen that is specifically tailored to my schedule and the gear I have available. I had 20lb and 30lb dumbbells which was too light, so I hunted down a good deal for used 45lb dumbbells on craigslist. Another goal of mine is to build e…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 11:28 PM
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If you're serious about getting in shape, you should be lifting more often than doing cardio. You should be working daily towards your fitness goals. Lifting has many other benefits and is something you should incorporate into your plans for the rest of your life.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 04:09 PM
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You're right on the money there. I recently got a friend of mine to make one and he's working on building it up. The way I see it, it's a passive way of increasing your SMV. You learn how to take good pictures of yourself (youtube is super useful for this, just basic lighting/photography stuff) and the things you're doing, the places you're seeing. Then once you have an account that is built up with 30-40 posts, you can link it to your dating profiles/facebook. Then when she sees the account, sh…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 01:43 PM
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Yes, although I only picked up Snapchat recently. Didn't see the appeal back when it first came out but it's a great social media weapon, just like instagram.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:07 AM
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If they already have the context that you spend time with other women, then you only have to share that you are out doing social activities and the hamster will fill in the gaps. Out at a bar with a dance floor? Get up to the second level looking out, and do a 5 second video panning across the floor. At a bar? Film your drinks and the people you're with - include the girl who's next to you but only for a split second. She could be a blurry mess of blonde curls and brightly colored fingernails, i…
/r/askTRP17/05/16 03:01 AM
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As far as a physical contest is concerned, there are certain fights worth losing. Let's say the biggest, dumbest motherfucker in town is feeling socially threatened by you and wants to fight you. That might be a fight worth having because when you fight the number one physical guy in town and he wins, he's still number one - but you're immediately number two. You might lose the physical fight but win the social contest anyway.
/r/askTRP17/05/16 02:10 AM
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I think the difference you're missing is the morality of the situation. Women rationalize decisions differently than we do, to the point of looking like subhuman monsters, when in reality it's a self-defense mechanism.
/r/TheRedPill17/05/16 01:46 AM
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It's all frame control. Everything is positive for her. She "tried to save the relationship" but then when you never came home "was glad it was over". How terribly convenient.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:59 AM
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The point remains - they have to learn first
/r/seduction05/05/16 11:09 PM
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Ask a female friend to go open a set for you, or hit on a single girl for herself, and just watch. And you thought you had approach anxiety? Youll never ask a girl for seduction advice again.
/r/seduction05/05/16 06:02 PM
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I started with David D's material as well. You should check out The Rational Male - Year One. Lots of great eye-opening material.
/r/seduction21/04/16 08:37 PM
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Read "Detox" at The Rational Male. When you understand what you're feeling in biological terms, it's much easier to accept, and ultimately, conquer.
/r/askTRP18/04/16 05:14 PM
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Not even slightly. Good luck in the future.
/r/seduction05/04/16 02:46 AM
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Here, her actions are overt communication that she wants to progress into an LTR. So OP you either need to move in that direction as well, or let her walk.
/r/askTRP04/04/16 08:57 PM
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OP has a lot to learn. "Why did she leave me!? I CARED!" seems like a statement that will be in your near future. "Emotional empathy" is so beta it made my vagina dry up, and I dont even have one. You're mixing up comfort tests with the feelz.
/r/seduction04/04/16 08:50 PM
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Hahaha that was awesome
/r/askTRP04/04/16 08:26 PM
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You're getting downvoted but you have a point. Too many virgin dudes put way too much emphasis on their virginity. My first time, she didn't find out I was a virgin until the 20th or 30th time we fucked. Not having any actual prior experience makes no difference as long as you know what you're doing in the sack. And if you don't know what you're doing in the sack, then you have some books to read.
/r/askTRP28/03/16 07:37 PM
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The only reason negging gets shit on is because of its popularity. It became popular by being effective. The examples given on shows like Family Guy and The Big Bang Theory are intentionally amped up to illustrate the mockery. This is society trying to figure out how to discourage it. You're not supposed to be able to call out women on their dumb shit, because that puts you above them in the social hierarchy. "Jesus, those heels are huge, do you keep all of your things on top of the fridge? You …
/r/seduction28/03/16 07:26 PM
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Wow. This brings the years-long pity-party for Jen Aniston after Brad Pitt upgraded into clear perspective.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 07:00 PM
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At least you know you have the slingshot. And you can see the tanks. Most men can't.
/r/TheRedPill28/03/16 06:56 PM
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Jesus that was awful. Thank God I scrolled to the end quickly.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/16 02:47 PM
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That's never a good place to be.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 02:05 AM
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Polish up that armor nice and shiny, whiteknight.
/r/seduction22/03/16 01:59 AM
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Raise your standards, man. Progressive chicks are BPD and rape accusations waiting to happen.
/r/askTRP21/03/16 11:26 PM
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As a woman, you have no idea how to seduce a woman.
/r/seduction18/03/16 11:32 PM
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Funny how she sucked all of the seduction right out of it
/r/seduction18/03/16 11:17 PM
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Holy shit, that fedora is on so tight it'd be a surprise if you could still tip it.
/r/seduction18/03/16 11:12 PM
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Gents the last person you should get seduction advice from is a woman. They're even more clueless than you when you started out. That this comment has this many upvotes is kind of sad.
/r/seduction18/03/16 11:08 PM
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Once is a mistake, twice is a decision. If you choose to create this time for someone (friend or girl) and they shit on it, then that's your mistake. But if you decide to grant them that leniency yet again without any kind of contingency plan, then it's a decision you're making to let yourself be walked all over.
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:46 AM
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I think the healthier question to ask instead of "What does she do that makes you angry?" is "What did you do that let her think this behavior (assuming it happens more than once) was acceptable?" because for a large number of the things people have listed, it seems like they're shit/congruency/comfort tests. For example: Constructing outlandish rationalizations for straightforward scenarios ("Maybe the man in the windowless van is too embarrassed to ask an adult to help him find his lost puppy,…
/r/askTRP11/03/16 06:42 AM
1

How is it not painfully obvious to you that you're bad at dancing?
/r/seduction03/03/16 07:01 AM
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Approach this like most other problems in your life - logically, with an experiment. Spend a month completely sober, and at the end of every day write down all of the productive things you did. Then, do the same thing while smoking for a month. At the end of it all you will have an answer. Might not even take that whole time period.
/r/askTRP15/02/16 03:28 AM
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Any job that requires customer service for a high volume of people. For example, I worked at a Gamestop in a mall. Yes, I saw my fair share of uber-dorks with DS's strapped to their belts, but I also got to flirt with hot moms who brought in their little kids to find games, the coworker girls who were hired just because they look like "gamer girls" and know how to upsell, as well as the girls who worked elsewhere in the store. If you treat it right, you'll end up looking forward to every shift. …
/r/askTRP15/02/16 03:19 AM
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This is easily the fastest way a guy could cock-block himself, so if that's what you're looking to do this is a great strategy.
/r/seduction28/01/16 11:08 PM
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Would have been funny if you didn't pussy out.
/r/seduction28/01/16 11:07 PM
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The different levels of ability are very apparent in these comments. The "omg u never buy a girl a drink!" crowd still has a lot to learn.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 01:27 PM
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The value of a good wing man. Take note, everyone.
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 01:22 PM
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Beat them in the face with logic and they still won't learn. How many times will a monkey press a button before it realizes the button is electrocuting him?
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 06:32 AM
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Don't dip your pen in the company stink
/r/seduction09/01/16 04:25 PM
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Illimitable Man had a good twitter rant about this recently. There are Producing Hobbies and there are Consuming Hobbies. Producing Hobbies (Exercise, Cooking, Outdoor Activities) are healthy, they help you grow as a person. Consuming Hobbies (Watching media of any form, playing videogames, etc.) are where you Consume something, be it entertainment or relaxation, whatever. Obviously there are outliers on each side (Don't bake a cake then sit there and eat the whole thing, fatass) and some parts …
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:59 PM
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Listen to The Ten Minute Podcast. Go back and download a few of the earlier episodes. It's three comedians who just spend ten minutes shitting on each other. Should help you get a sense of funny reactions. Also just watch more comedy in general. You'll learn how to see what's funny in the world.
/r/askTRP05/01/16 09:49 PM
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"How to say nothing and advertise my channel in 45 seconds"
/r/seduction03/01/16 11:06 PM
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Fury. Aside from being one of the best war movies ever made, Brad Pitt's character is the very definition of "man".
/r/TheRedPill03/01/16 09:26 PM
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This would serve to balance out some of the... fedora-ness that shines through with some red pill advice lately. And this isn't saying to ask more questions, it's saying to ask the right questions that ultimately paint you in the right light.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/15 04:39 AM
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FYI, my comment has spoilers. This just made me realize... In Episode 7, Rey pulled off a Jedi mind trick with zero training, mere moments after realizing she had access to The Force (is it The Fyrce now?). This was the exact same trick, with similar cadence and wording, performed on the exact same enemy-type, by a Jedi Master (read: old white male) in Episode 4. Oh, and by the end of the movie she can already Force-pull, accurately, and more strongly than the apprentice of Luke Fucking Skywalke…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/15 06:41 AM
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If you're taller and bigger, then you should resort to physical game here. He's standing there in the way, blabbing on and on. You put your hand out to the other girl. She takes your hand. You start a thumb war. The other girl sees you and her friend having fun and your friend is just... still talking. And if you're bigger and taller, you can probably do fun things around your friend. Tap the further girl on the shoulder, etc.
/r/TheRedPill03/12/15 03:05 AM
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That sounds like a comment that would bore a woman half to death.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:28 PM
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I would have used that 2015 line back on her at various times throughout the night: "You have 2 cats? Oh, would be nice if you have 3 cats." when paying for the popcorn and drink, I'd say to the cashier (with her in earshot): "$12.75? Oh, would be nice if it were $13.75." (his confusion isn't important) Basically just taking any numerical value and saying it would be better bumping it up by one. Now I wouldn't do this with EVERY single number, you don't want to kill the joke, but enough that she…
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:24 PM
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Legitimate question. You shouldn't be downvoted for asking it.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/15 12:14 PM
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Next time this happens, hold her eye contact for a moment (3-4 seconds), reach into your phone, go to the new contact page, then flip it around and let her type in her name and digits. Then say bye and move along. In the meantime, do some reading on some of the sidebar material on this sub. Will help you improve your game in all aspects. But for now, one more general tip; if you don't know what to do, act slowly. If a girl hits you with a shit test and you don't have a solid response immediately…
/r/seduction14/10/15 04:08 AM
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Yep. No reason for this post to be on a seduction subreddit.
/r/seduction05/10/15 01:50 AM
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Lift more bruh No but seriously, you can now use this to flirt. "What the worst pick up attempt someone's ever tried on you?" and whatever her answer is, yours is better (if you know how to say it right).
/r/seduction01/10/15 03:38 AM
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I recently heard some good advice that might help. The idea is to say to yourself "gun to my head, what's the right thing to do?" And the very first thing you think of is going to be the right thing. If you're trying to decide between doing something that is comfortable vs. forcing something that you think might be "seductive", it might be best to do what you personally feel is more natural. So if you feel like it would have been weird for you to grab her hand and lead her over there, then it pr…
/r/seduction29/08/15 12:02 AM
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Fly on, Icarus, fly on.
/r/seduction21/07/15 03:21 AM
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There are no more heroes. There were clearly none riding the train with him that day. While this makes those of us who would intervene stand even further above the crowd, it is a disheartening realization. The majority of our citizens are cowards, in the realm of actions and the realm of ideas. Sheep who are only useful when election season rolls around. It's fucking horrifying, honestly.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 03:31 AM
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Agree whole-heartedly, but his specific reply smells like that one guy in gym class who sucks at sports but blamed it on everyone else. You, however, have learned how to pluck an element of truth from a statement covered in stupidity - and that right there is an enviable skill.
/r/TheRedPill08/07/15 02:15 AM
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No one can see your muscles flexing when you're on the internet, bro.
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 06:53 PM
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Right, so to go and do that for the first meetup would be even more cringeworthy. "He doesn't even know that this is weird."
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 06:42 PM
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The difference is that "dinner and a movie" has become the cliche attempt at getting what a guy really wants, sex. It's far more efficient to just grab a drink somewhere public and figure out within a few minutes whether she's worth wasting the rest of your night on. D&AM is more expensive, both in a monetary and timely sense.
/r/TheRedPill04/06/15 04:08 PM
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They seem to forget that you must VOLUNTARILY SUBSCRIBE to this sub to see its material. How terribly inconvenient.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/15 02:51 AM
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/r/seduction, really? This one? This is cheesier than so many other comments here and you fools upvote it. This is so try-hard it's almost cringeworthy.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:33 AM
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That you are getting downvoted is clearly a sign of how toxic this subreddit has become. This line, delivered with the correct sarcastic frame is absolutely perfect. Her text is attention-seeking. This response is attention-denying and it's also slightly funny. Of all the responses suggested in these comments, this one will get an immediate reaction.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:31 AM
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Not sure why you're getting downvoted, this isn't that bad, especially given her obvious interest level. This response would move in to sexting quickly.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:29 AM
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Um... if you're concerned about things sounding "sexist", you're a little too far gone. The things you read at /r/seddit aren't going to help you.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:27 AM
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yikes.
/r/seduction06/05/15 04:26 AM
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Women are good at lying with their mouths - they are not good at lying with their bodies. Body Language is all the truth you need.
/r/TheRedPill09/04/15 03:03 AM
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Girls will take their Betas to 2nd base but won't go any further. Iliza Schlesinger talked about that in a radio interview once, and she even tried to pretend that she wasn't leading her Beta friend on by doing it. Betas will call that "hooking up". Not necessarily OPs situation, but a common one.
/r/TheRedPill04/04/15 01:21 PM
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This might be some perspective-breaking info here, but Style himself was only an inch taller than you. Your height is not a detriment to you as long as you don't care about your height. Does that make sense? If at every instance where some other person might try to shit test you with your height and it does not break your frame, then it is irrelevant. Looking through the comments I see that I'm saying more of the same (wow, seduction, way to go. Looks like this sub is improving a bit). Frame, ma…
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:23 AM
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There needs to be a stickied post at the top of this sub that has all these generic questions with a specific "go here, read all of this" answer. Maybe that would cut down on the flak.
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:16 AM
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To expand on your When, Where, What segment: Let's say you were faced with some kind of puzzle. You try to go one way, and it doesn't work. You realize that that doesn't work and then you try something else. What's important is being able to try something in the first place. "Whenever the fuck you want" is absolutely right, because it conveys the all-important outcome independence mindset. You're not afraid to try something that you believe will work to make her more attracted to you. It doesn't…
/r/seduction24/03/15 02:13 AM
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So, where the singles were?
/r/seduction31/01/15 12:48 AM
0

It seems like you're placing too much value on the whole situation. I would look in to the concept of outcome independence and approach a situation with the mindset that no matter what happens, you'll still be fine afterwards (this is also the best mindset for job interviews).
/r/seduction27/01/15 03:15 AM
4

You're projecting. You're also way too concerned over how other people think, both of what they are doing and of you.
/r/seduction27/01/15 03:14 AM
4

If you're getting introduced in a line of people and they're all shaking hands before you, throw in a high five. It's a little different and you can really use it later on to open her when you've made your way around the party. If you've established that already and she happens to be on the shorter side, if she says something where you can reward her, put your hand up for a high five but put it pretty high up, just high enough that she might be able to reach it if she jumps. You can tell a girl'…
/r/seduction11/01/15 08:01 AM
1

You can get some quality wine for less than 15 bucks. Wine, cheese, and a movie on netflix is pretty easy to put together. The idea is to make your way to the bedroom quickly, without spending much money.
/r/seduction11/01/15 07:54 AM
3

That's because overt communication is as literal as reading words on a screen. Subtlety requires tone, timing, and context. I once blew it with a girl at a bar because she said I was nice. In a vacuum I'd say that was a bad sign but came to find out with this girl that she was an inexperienced Christian and it was really an IOI.
/r/seduction06/01/15 05:36 AM
0

If you have the right personality it might work for you. I could see "Yeah, I'm 12, let's go sneak in to a PG-13 movie and make out" being a funny line to use. If it feels a little weird then maybe only ride it to a few things on weekends. But honestly, just buy a bike man.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:22 AM
2

First, don't ever say, "Why can't I-" again. You're going to change that to "How can I _____?" "How can I be more confident?" "Well, what about me am I not confident about?" "I don't have a six-pack." "If my body looked better, I would be more confident." "I will work out more." etc. Don't approach problems in your life from a negative mindset. Next, I think there are two things you are doing when you meet new women. One, I think you are placing way, way too much value in their opinions of you. …
/r/askTRP06/01/15 05:18 AM
3

In general, text less. When she texts you, don't immediately answer every single time either. As for having a fun conversation you can either talk subtly about sex (and if she has any brains at all she will catch on and play along) or you can make up something that is outrageous but paints you as an interesting person. One of my go to responses (and I got this from some PUA book, no idea which one since I've been using it so long) to "What are you doing?" is "Was just planning a bank robbery wit…
/r/seduction06/01/15 05:02 AM
0

If you want to frame all of your progression forward since then as a feeble attempt at getting back at her and then simultaneously stunting any future performance after fucking her over, then go for it. It's your time to waste.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:56 AM
14

Look, you can't roleplay these things out. There aren't these little shortcuts that people can take when it comes to seduction. There are so many men new to the seduction realm who are still focused on a logical thought process. That is the best way to learn, but it's the worst way to seduce a woman. Sub-text and subtle conversation are attractive ways of speaking to women. Overt mathematic-type processes of "she said this = I respond with this therefore she = now attracted" turn their downstair…
/r/seduction06/01/15 04:50 AM
1

I've been "game-aware" for about 6 years now, maybe more. I used to look for these various activities to do to improve myself. Just this past week I finally realized that Lifting is far and away more important than all of them. And yeah, I know the stereotypes, the "lol get ur gainz eat dem oatz bro" element to it. Whatever, social stigmas shouldn't concern you anyway. If you start doing pullups/pushups/crunches in your room every other day until you can bang out double-digits of each, you're go…
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:37 AM
0

This does sort of look like a "just tell me the shortcut so I can be done" post, although I don't think that was your purpose.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:26 AM
8

I would have laughed at her use of "chance." And by that I mean, I would have subtly implied that it's more of a decision on my part.
/r/seduction06/01/15 04:23 AM
0

You seem to have internalized some negative stereotypes about Game. Don't immediately cut down a tree because you can't see the whole forest.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:22 AM
-1

And once you're read the sidebar, read through Rollo Tomassi's Year One, Year Two, Year Three. I didn't fully start to understand this material until I made it through all of those. Then things started clicking.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:18 AM
-1

Truth. Exactly how I "stole" my last girlfriend off of a guy. He mate guarded so hard against me that he put her right in my path. She was nothing more than a flirty friend until he wouldn't stop being so insecure about me.
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:07 AM
-1

It's essentially a reaction to a shit-test in such a way that she thinks, "He understands the game I'm actually trying to play and he isn't buying any of it." You react to,"Why don't you ever text me first?" with "Aww, look at how your nose scrunches up when you're angry." You're amused by her shit-testing and in putting yourself above a test, you're exemplifying mastery. "He Gets It, he doesn't put up with any of my shit."
/r/askTRP06/01/15 04:01 AM
0

"I'm glad you like it."
/r/askTRP06/01/15 03:54 AM
1

This sums up probably 70% of my responses to questions on this and similar subs.
/r/seduction30/12/14 07:24 AM
0

Be careful with New Year's Resolutions. There's a reason gyms will increase their rates and try to lock you in to a multiple-year membership at this time of the year - it's because most people give up on their resolutions. Consider this: there's roughly a month between Thanksgiving and New Years. How many things could you have accomplished or worked your way towards accomplishing between those two holidays? I personally am setting a few goals to achieve by the end of February, as that is when I …
/r/seduction30/12/14 07:18 AM
1

Quick little tip that might help: AA never really goes away, it just changes. Even the old PUAs used to write about how when they were away from the game for a little while on their first approach they'd have AA. Now why would this help? Well, you can just acknowledge it for what it is, experience that initial reaction to AA, then set it aside and proceed anyway. Think of it like switching a light switch in your brain. "Oh, this is AA. Okay." Then look up at the girl and approach.
/r/seduction30/12/14 07:13 AM
2

If you feel like you're about to come, do these two things: One, open your eyes wider. If she isn't looking at your face then snap them things as wide open as possible. Two, focus on your breathing. Breathe in deep through your nose and out of your mouth. Think about that process as well. You'll find you've inched back from the edge a bit. You can slow down some and change positions, God knows there's a million ways to have sex. Also, you can practice these things while jerkin' it. It works.
/r/askTRP30/12/14 07:09 AM
1

In general, what I believe you need to do is to start asking yourself the right questions. Don't say, "I don't know what to do to make any friends." Change that in to "What can I do with other people?" "How do I meet new people?" etc. You need to change your approach to this problem-solving. Think logically and don't put the cart before the horse so to speak. Get a piece of paper and write down ten things that you want. "I want to make new friends." "I want to meet new people including attractiv…
/r/seduction30/12/14 06:14 AM
2

If she wasn't getting it from you, she was getting it from someone. Seems like all you did was miss out on what was probably some mediocre sex, but at the same time, turning down sex proves an abundance mindset and that is very important to have.
/r/seduction28/12/14 03:29 AM
-2

No. OP, look through the sidebar material to learn this concept.
/r/seduction25/12/14 06:32 AM
1

The whole regressing age thing probably set you back with the ladies as well.
/r/askTRP22/12/14 04:52 AM
2

No, not possible. You could get a post-breakup-bang but you'll never have a stable relationship again. At the first sign of a struggle she will think about (and eventually bring up) all of the stupid shit she was angry about the first time you broke up. The cost outweighs the benefit.
/r/seduction22/12/14 04:35 AM
2

For anyone reading this, it's important to note that "taking charge" in this sense does not mean the same thing it does when it's commonly discussed in the seduction community. She doesn't want him to take charge of anything, she wants him to commit to a relationship - which would be a bad move on his part.
/r/seduction20/12/14 09:40 PM
1

Putting on a nice-guy facade is safe. It's not a risk. You aren't risking your self-worth by doing so because if she turns you down, the immediately available excuse is "I was just joking." -Actually, you don't even give them a chance to turn you down, because you let them know you aren't being serious before they can even respond. If you have to actually admit that you're in to a girl, then that gives her the power to reject You. And then she's rejecting You, not nice-guy you. This stems from a…
/r/seduction18/12/14 04:26 AM
6

Whoa whoa, no need to be shouting it, you gotta come in real smooth like.
/r/seduction10/12/14 04:28 AM
1

If you really want to get the boyfriend to believe you, write them an email with a made up hotmail account - and make very vague relations in the name of your hotmail address to one of the girl's female friends. In the event the boyfriend betas through and keep the girl around, your personal value doesn't change, and the girl just gets more suspicious of her friends than she already is naturally.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:38 PM
1

You've clearly already put her on a huge pedestal. Do TRP a favor and don't write some long-winded break-up thread when hypergamy sets in in a few weeks.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/14 04:30 PM
1

It sounds like you are giving them a "pussy on the pedestal" vibe. Pursuing sex is not something to be shameful of, because beauty is common. I would say try to devalue their individual importance, but just be careful not to slip in to the realm of Beta Game.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 04:41 AM
2

I believe that if America (or any country, really) is to survive the onslaught of collectivist hive-minded bullshit, then men will necessarily have to band together. An institutional environment utterly devoid of distractions by women would be a valuable asset to the entire human race. An established mindset of, "You are here to work, to interact with other men, to build relationships for development, to educate yourself" on a campus would propel humanity further than it will ever reach with tod…
/r/TheRedPill06/12/14 04:38 AM
4

"You're not the first girl to tell me that this week." would probably do the trick.
/r/askTRP06/12/14 04:10 AM
5

Arguably the worst post I've sen on TRP in months.
/r/TheRedPill26/11/14 05:42 AM
1

Exactly. He was doing some things right here and there, then he's sitting down with her for dinner with her boring friends or something and I had to shut it off.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 01:48 PM
2

Completely agree. And as an aside I think the story about the horses was excellent as well. They picked some amazing actors for those roles.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 04:03 AM
7

Gurren Lagan is heavy with individualism, self-empowerment. It's only 24-ish episodes, but man is it good. Great "boy grows in to a man" story as well.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:59 AM
3

When you're the first genuine crooner in decades, you're gonna write some sappy-ass songs. His voice is good enough that I can handle the lyrics.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:55 AM
3

Fury is such an excellent movie. Same goes for Hersher and Drive. At the same time, I couldn't make it through Don Jon for this exact same reason. Blue Pill Fantasies.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/14 03:54 AM
2

Girls who say that are giving you an IOI. And you follow that up by essentially saying, "No, I am not attractive, do not qualify yourself to me." ...And you don't know why you can't close? Stop pointing your gun at your foot.
/r/seduction06/11/14 03:49 AM
1

Well played, OP. She did miss her opportunity and you moved on to better women. It's about what you want. Don't be the Beta Orbiter who waits around for girls that just assume you're always available. If she wants to be FWBs then alright, different story, but you played this well. There are a lot of thirsty motherfuckers in the comments of this subreddit lately...
/r/seduction31/10/14 05:04 AM
1

A "shit test" is her subliminal attempt at determining your SMV. It may be an IOI but it might just be her testing you for her own entertainment. If a girl is hitting you with multiple shit tests and you've only recently met her, it most likely means she is perceiving your elevated SMV (in relation to your friends) and is testing to see if this is the case.
/r/trpGAME30/10/14 02:49 AM
4

Can those who have had success with Snapchat post a thread with some tips? Like I mentioned in a different comment I am considering getting rid of all social media but I am curious to know how you all use it to completion.
/r/trpGAME30/10/14 02:45 AM
2

I have considered pulling the trigger and unplugging from social media entirely. Women primarily use it to gather "likes" (aka attention) as well as letting hypergamy run its course. The way I see it, she can't beg for your attention via social media if you don't participate.
/r/trpGAME30/10/14 02:44 AM
2

80 / 20 rule. Keep the numbers of the 2 best girls.
/r/seduction30/10/14 01:55 AM
1

Funny, Successful, Good looking, in shape etc I would say areas I lack in is some self confidence problems and a poor social circle. I have been rejected so much that it really has destroyed my sense of self worth ...which means you aren't successful, and if it has destroyed your sense of self worth then you don't believe you are good looking either. Sounds like you need a good amount of Inner Game work.
/r/seduction30/10/14 01:53 AM
1

Cocky & Funny. But like The Black Keys say, don't ever tell your next girl about an ex girl. They will only compare everything you two do together to your ex. Just dismiss it and move on.
/r/seduction30/10/14 01:49 AM
1

If you at least have some semblance of an idea as to what to do when you're in the sack, then she won't even know it's the first time for you. It literally means absolutely nothing.
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:41 AM
2

She didn't have a thing for magic, she had a thing for you. If you are super comfortable doing magic tricks for girls then just do it. Whatever gets results for you, whatever you are comfortable doing, then do it! For example, I suck at coming up with something out of the blue to talk about but I kill when I can riff off of something that happens around us. I can effectively use my surroundings to get her laughing (or anyone laughing really) so that is something that I know is a strength of mine…
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:35 AM
1

It won't take two years to notice the increase in attention you'd get from women if you took care of your body. In fact it would probably take less than two months. If you did a month-long muscle gaining routine, followed by a month long cut, you'd look a lot better. Assuming you've already got good body posture and you walk with a purpose, you would immediately notice more women locking eyes with you as they pass by.
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:28 AM
3

Know what the fuck you're doing in bed. We're the Internet Generation - there is no acceptable excuse as to why you haven't downloaded a book about sexual techniques and learned how to give a woman an orgasm.
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:22 AM
1

The most rudimentary advice you find anywhere in the seduction community is going to end up applying in some sort of useful way. Little girls still like getting called names and having their hair pulled, because they're still girls. Basic flirting applies across all barriers. I've flirted with girls who can't speak a single word of English.
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:15 AM
1

The only response you should have had was,"You know, that's the thing about attractive people... we're misunderstood." Why would anyone say this out of the blue? Also, if you were asking a girl any kind of question that would warrant this answer, what the hell were you thinking?
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:12 AM
4

Agreed, and I would add one thing. Regardless of the circumstances of a given person and their oneitis, the fact of the situation is that as the two of you currently exist, you want to be with her and she does not feel the same way - and there is a reason for this. Guess what - whatever kind of bizarre fantasy future you dream about wherein something has changed and she does feel the same way about you, that initial reason will still be there. Not that it will still exist between you, but that i…
/r/seduction29/10/14 03:02 AM
4

As a general rule, go covert first, then overt. Women understand that order. There's no risk in being covert about it, as overt is still an option. Going overt immediately will be disjointed and is most likely to result in butthurtitude.
/r/TheRedPill27/10/14 10:31 PM
1

When it gets deleted, they should also get a message directing them to the "guides" section of the sidebar, as most of those questions have been answered for such a long time by so many different people.
/r/seduction25/10/14 03:15 PM
2

And I remembered this after posting- get some kind of carpet padding to put underneath it. That will keep it off of the cold floor and it won't hurt when you change positions.
/r/seduction25/10/14 04:12 AM
1

Find the absolute softest, silkiest carpet you can find. Try not to get a shag carpet, but something that is extremely soft and comfy. Then, the whole floor is your bed.
/r/seduction25/10/14 03:30 AM
1

I think this has nothing to do with seduction.
/r/seduction25/10/14 03:28 AM
18

Stop defining yourself based on external sources of validation. On Tinder, a girl is nothing more than a cute face, a name, and an age. Why would you let what amounts to a piece of cardboard define your value? If you insist on this, then use Tinder as a metric. So right now you are at 2 matches/week. What are you going to do throughout the next 7 days to increase that number? How about you work out for half an hour every other day? Or if you're a little overweight (really, who isn't?) drink a ga…
/r/seduction25/10/14 03:18 AM
11

Also, step with your heel first, intently. Heel-toe, heel-toe. Step a little wider than you normally would. Look straight ahead to where you are going instead of down at the floor - especially when someone walks past you. These all serve to give the impression that you know exactly where you are going.
/r/seduction25/10/14 03:02 AM
9

And you know it's people who read all this criticism and say, "huh, I don't know, I'm going to check this out myself." This group naturally attracts those who actively question their peers, which is a good thing.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 02:40 AM
0

It's just your age. Comes out in your writing, nothing to be worried about. But here's a universal tip for you; if you're in any kind of valuable conversation (career or with women) and you aren't sure what to say, instead of word vomiting just keep eye contact, take a deep breath, and then speak. 90% of the time, that half-step will help you out, and it'll make you stand out amongst your peers.
/r/seduction07/10/14 04:13 AM
2

He's 17, you two. Chill.
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:20 AM
25

Radio silence is definitely the grown up way of doing it. I got this long-winded email from an ex who I had cut off all other contact with (she couldn't get me to respond anywhere so she sent me an email - a little crazy) and I hadn't seen the email for about a month. The smart thing to do would have been to just ignore it, but I decided to throw one last little dagger, so I replied to this huge paragraph with "No worries."
/r/seduction07/10/14 02:19 AM
24

/r/seduction and /r/seddit are full of many people who don't have the slightest clue what they're talking about. There are also girls who post there (starting with "I'm a girl and I think...") and anyone who disagrees with them gets downvoted. There are a lot of new users, so the White Knights who see a girl posting revert to their White Knight ways. I think both of the subreddits are on the verge of being completely destroyed.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/14 01:10 AM
2

"Come over, I'll let you try on my leather fingerless gloves I wear when I ride my moped."
/r/trpGAME11/09/14 02:07 AM
2

If you're new here, don't pay attention to what I'm about to say. I missed a blatant IOI once because she said "You're so nice" and I took that at face value (I was a little drunk but dammit, Captain Jack didn't fuck this up, I did) and played it off. She then looked at me and said, "No, being a nice guy is a very good thing." This taught me to never forget that 93% of communication is nonverbal. A girl can say anything and mean something completely different.
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:41 AM
1

Small bit of advice - it sounds like you have a full schedule on your plate. This is of course a good thing. Since you're just starting out, I would recommend dedicating one hour a day to seduction. Now that doesn't really seem feasible when you leave the house at 7AM and don't get home til 10PM some days, but at the very least if you can't go out and approach due to external factors, do yourself a favor and read up on some material found here. I would also recommend David Deangelo's Double Your…
/r/seduction04/09/14 01:29 AM
5

Same here. David D opened the door for me. And he wasn't exactly a con-artist about it, he clearly let everyone come up and talk about their different styles during his programs. He also would constantly give credit to the other presenters for ideas, as well as having three tables full of books that he would read passages from - while carefully repeating the authors' names.
/r/TheRedPill03/09/14 01:37 AM
2

There's a good amount of bad advice in this thread. Basically read the top comment then read the sidebar links. It will start to make sense.
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:21 AM
1

Throw a furrowed brow in there for extra caveman-level sexuality.
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:20 AM
1

It's too much investment up front. She ends up thinking, "Why is he saying these things, we just met." And you'd fall in to the creepy category pretty quickly.
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:18 AM
0

Ah, no. "Why are you looking at my like that?" can mean different things. If the two of you are in close and you've been doing kino all night and you're making a crazy amount of eye contact then yeah, go in for a kiss. But don't give out a meaningless complement (unless you genuinely noticed something specific) and definitely don't say, "I want to kiss you." Your eye contact and body language are making that clear. Saying it out loud ruins the fun. If you haven't been touching her very much and …
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:15 AM
2

Practice making an extremely over-exaggerated wink in the mirror. It's pretty funny and useful for flirting across a distance. Then if she does something back, slowly pull down on your collar (or pull your shirt up) as if you are showing some skin and escalate.
/r/seduction27/08/14 03:07 AM
3

"outdated" = "I can't sell you this e-book if the answers are free"
/r/seduction27/08/14 02:56 AM
2

Reads like it was written by someone who tried to learn pick-up but failed and then blamed the material instead of the way he was doing it. Useless article with the most obvious of social interaction information.
/r/seduction26/08/14 10:55 AM
1

There's no difference, it's just "cool" to badmouth earlier PUAs now even though they're recommending the same things.
/r/seduction26/08/14 10:51 AM
4

Your main problem is that you have an External Locus of Identity. You define yourself by what other people think. You do this because you don't value your own opinion. If you knew you were valuable, you wouldn't say things like "all Indians are Beta". You wouldn't try to find external validation of your looks on AmIUgly. Work on your self-esteem, lift some weights, make yourself more interesting.
/r/seduction21/08/14 02:09 AM
1

The value of a genuine compliment that doesn't come from a position of appeasement - congrats OP.
/r/seduction14/08/14 02:03 AM
21

If you go from cuddling to like, trying to throw your saliva down her throat, it's going to be uncomfortable. Have you ever heard the old adage that men and women are both lightswitches - but men are the on/off type, while women are the dial-type? You have to slowly turn the dial up and up and up. Real life example: this girl are I were laying down to go to sleep. We weren't a thing, were friends for a few months, but I had a feeling she was in to me. Basically it was nothing I was pursuing. Any…
/r/seduction13/08/14 03:03 AM
31

So this article is the kind of thing I think newer people need to steer away from. Just throw it in the bookmark folder and come back to it much later. It is good advice, but it's only useful for a specific audience. For example, I wouldn't recommend this to someone who's never had a girlfriend / kiss / sex. I could see a newer person reading this material and trying it out, only to realize that he's closer to being a good friend instead of a good lover. Again, valuable info, but not for starter…
/r/seduction13/08/14 02:36 AM
1

Its different for everyone, but lasting change require constant effort. If you can improve yourself in small ways every day, I'd say between 3 and 6 months you'd have a "wow, I couldn't handle that before" moment. And 3-6 months isn't a long time. 3 months is one season. You could be better with women by the times the leaves change.
/r/seduction07/08/14 08:14 PM
2

also: Do 20 push ups every morning when you wake up and masturbate less.
/r/seduction07/08/14 02:02 AM
1

“Your pain is the breaking of the shell that encloses your understanding. It is the bitter potion by which the physician within you heals your sick self. Therefore, trust the physician and drink his remedy in silence and tranquility.” - Khalil Gibran
/r/seduction07/08/14 02:00 AM
2

You guys both need to develop some self-esteem and as I've said elsewhere here, a healthy personal boundary (see David D's material). You need to develop enough faith in yourself to be happy no matter who is or isn't in your life. In general, you should do something that frightens you more often. Sort of that whole "feel the fear and do it anyway" mindset, because when you face fear and overcome it, you build courage and belief in yourself. It can be anything from chatting up a cute sales clerk …
/r/seduction07/08/14 01:56 AM
4

You need to develop a healthy personal boundary. It sounds like you're letting too many external events influence what you perceive to be your self-worth. That's probably the biggest thing I would focus on. But in general it sounds like you have a lot of reading to do. I personally recommend David DeAngelo's earliest material, but that's just what worked for me. Otherwise I would say read the sidebar material. I could break down each thing you've said here and point out what is wrong, but that w…
/r/seduction07/08/14 01:53 AM
-1

Sounds like a lot of projecting here.
/r/seduction07/08/14 01:47 AM
3

This can be said about a number of different resources. I think what Models adds is a different viewpoint for looking at these things, such that it leads you to come to your own profound conclusions. That moment when you're reading and suddenly stop; the switch closes and you're immediately reminded of an interaction that previously didn't make sense but you now see crystal clear.
/r/seduction17/07/14 02:34 AM
2

You handled that pretty well. The only way to lose an interaction with an AMOG is if the girls don't give a shit anymore. It's possible to get dragged in to a dick-measuring competition, so making the physical touching overtly gay was hilarious for everyone involved - except him!
/r/seduction04/07/14 02:18 AM
1

Amazing what some self-esteem can do for you, huh? Congrats and keep going.
/r/seduction04/07/14 02:11 AM
1

You're in high school man. You got lots of time. Lift weights, eat smarter and read the top rated posts here. If you can do 2 of those 3 things every day for 90 days, you wont believe the progress you've made. Things will make sense.
/r/seduction04/07/14 02:05 AM
3

You should try and talk to everyone, not just women you find attractive. Also, be genuinely interested in what they say back to you. Who is she cosplaying as? Why did she cosplay as X? Listen to any traits she lists and ask more questions about said traits. Women will tell you what they want to talk about. If they ask what you're doing there tell them you were on your way to Vegas and got lost, or something equally funny. Smile and have fun! If you're by yourself and so is she, figure out a way …
/r/seduction04/07/14 02:02 AM
1

Thanks for this, very good stuff there.
/r/seduction18/05/14 07:23 PM
6

I've been to the UK a few times here in the past year. UKIP is like a tiny breathe of freedom in an ocean of collective hivemind double-speak. They insist on calling him a racist but there are a ton of people who are quietly acknowledging that he is right on a large numbers of issues.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/14 09:03 PM
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pipe down, toots.
/r/seduction10/05/14 09:26 AM
3

MFK is really good when you pick out the people in the settings around you to use. Especially if there's some crazy looking characters walking around. You can run with whichever one she picks too. "Oh, so you'd Fuck the Janitor over there? You know I think I saw him looking at you earlier. Go get his number! (and start lightly pushing her towards him) Here, fine, I'll go get it-" then you start over towards him and she pulls you back. "C'mon go over there, I bet he'd be real nice to you, he'd ev…
/r/seduction09/05/14 02:05 PM
3

There isn't one right answer here. I know the seduction material in general gets very vague after something like what I just mentioned, and the reason for that is this: next, you have a conversation like a normal human being. TD calls it "fluff" because in some ways it is. It's boring filler in between the parts that are interesting. You'll get more comfortable with this with experience or just speaking to more people more often. You don't want to let it run on too long or she will get bored - a…
/r/seduction09/05/14 01:58 PM
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Not sure if this qualifies but I'll mention it anyway. If you're in a situation where there's an attractive girl sitting somewhere and every other seat nearby is open, go up to her and say, "Hey can I take this seat? All the other ones are taken." - and don't smile. If you have a naturally dry sense of humor this will work. Works if you're on a bus, at the beach, etc. I got this from Ryan Gosling in Blue Valentine.
/r/seduction08/05/14 10:20 PM
1

Sit down with your towel beside them and make a general open statement about the situation, something like, "I just love this weather, don't you?" And you want to say it as if you were already someone they knew and had been talking to them previously. If she jumps into the situation and plays along then great, you're in. If she gives you a funny look or says something like "who are you?" then say, "Oh, do you mind if I sit here? All the other seats are taken." and look around at the other (obvio…
/r/seduction23/04/14 04:18 AM
1

Just for a general information standpoint, the material within the seduction community regarding waitresses, bartenders, and sales people will be written with something in the headline referring to "hired guns." I'd start your search there.
/r/seduction23/04/14 04:12 AM
2

Use the word "No" when you won't do something. Be direct.
/r/seduction23/04/14 04:08 AM
1

Oh but right I have that one small five minute thing tomorrow, better wait until the next day. Maybe the weekend.
/r/seduction23/04/14 04:07 AM
1

Why? Because after thinking about it faking confidence comes from the opposite place of true confidence. You're probably putting more thought into this than the original person who came up with "fake it 'til you make it." Sounds like you're up in your own head a bit too much. Own your flaws and admit them to yourself starting this second. If you're a seduction beginner, don't be afraid to admit you aren't the best at talking to girls. Don't be afraid to admit you're shy. If you suck at something…
/r/seduction23/04/14 04:04 AM
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Call her "friend" more and more often, while doing the right things to attract her. It'll drive her crazy.
/r/seduction23/04/14 03:55 AM
1

Cocky funny works on everyone if you know how to calibrate. Your tone and facial expression are probably out of congruence with what you're saying.
/r/seduction22/04/14 06:30 PM
1

I wouldn't worry about innocent features or something. I have like a cro-magnon thing going on where my eyes are deep set in my head, so much that I can't pull up my top eyelid to put in contacts. I have to put them in just by pulling the bottom eyelid down. Do I walk around worrying that people think I'm a fucking neanderthal? No. I don't give a shit. It's how I look. My point is there's a difference between being bothered by being say, overweight and being bothered by something that is physica…
/r/TheRedPill15/04/14 12:16 AM
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Uh, yeah, he sounds like he's just trying to come up with some shit from a single crappy picture on the internet. Grain of salt, OP.
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 11:49 PM
1

Yes. And what's so funny there is how many times I've heard that before by others who never once stumbled through it, so much so that when he started in I almost tuned him out. His prompt reads are hilarious. Who else keeps a running tally of the number of times they mess up a small commercial. "Now available on Hulu and Hulu Plush, for the fir-FUCK! That's four!"
/r/TheRedPill11/04/14 07:06 AM
11

Thanks and go fuck yourself. Nah this guy is great. If you're the kind of person who can truly appreciate a good rant, then you have to check out this podcast. His best stories come about when he goes on a week-long comedy trip and starts drinking again. When he drunkenly tried to order a pizza for over an hour at like 3 in the morning, I was dying. I can't think of a single person I'd rather hear talk about the most mundane topic over him. A modern classic.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 08:41 PM
0

You're missing the point entirely. I'm saying that real-world experience is more valuable than simply reading general self-help books and potentially getting stuck in a loop wherein you move from one book to another instead of actually utilizing the information you've absorbed.
/r/seduction08/04/14 11:15 PM
2

Before you go to talk to anyone, no matter the situation, say the word "Mood" three times in a row, going deeper in tone each time. Maybe repeat the cycle twice. This will warm up your vocal cords and start you off in a lower register for any conversation.
/r/seduction08/04/14 11:07 PM
3

What you're saying makes sense. I am not recommending never reading a book. What I'm saying is you will get more out of any reading material if you have real world experiences to use as a reference. There are very few things in the world more satisfying than coming to a greater understanding of a past interaction thanks to a good PUA book, but you need to have had that past interaction to enjoy said revelation in the first place.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:58 PM
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There are basketball coaches, and there are basketball players. One of them decided to start playing. Not trying to underwrite the value of reading material, but the value of real-world experience is significant.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:51 PM
1

6 years. If she's not the brightest crayon in the box, you might be able to wake the demon and get her in the sack, but truth be told it's best to just cut and run.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:48 PM
1

Specifically relating to HER: DO NOT respond to her. That bitch waited until you were very. very far away to break up with you so she didn't have to deal with the consequences. Fuck that bullshit. Make it very clear to her that it didn't make a damn difference that she gave up. No communication what so ever. Especially when you get back in town. She knows how long you were going to be away so she knows when you'd be back. She'll try to talk to you when you get back. Fuck that. An interaction wit…
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:46 PM
1

Just from skimming over your post, I immediately see that you need to read more on the topic of "outcome independence"
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:27 PM
5

The main woman behind the #CancelColbert censorship movement is giving a speech at a college this week. The online community provides a great summation of the blatant ignorance of the modern feminism movement.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:24 PM
0

I mean, smacking her in the face with a post-it note that says "text me (your number written down)" is a pretty great idea here.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:20 PM
14

Then jerk it a few weeks later when she only wants to meet up for coffee for the 4th time.
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:12 PM
6

If you're looking for sex, look somewhere else. If you don't want to have sex until you and this Christian girl are both nearly 30 and you've convinced yourself you have no other options but to marry her, then yeah keep on pursuing her. But don't expect her to act like anything more than some kind of androgynous plastic store-front model until you've committed to her for life. My oneitis is a Christian and I know the only way to have her is to marry her. So if that's all you really want then yea…
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:11 PM
1

It's important to remember the mindsets of people who visit this subreddit. Some of us know what we're doing, a lot of the people here are looking for clarity. So yeah, approaching 100 women might not yield 100 instances of scientific truth, but I'm willing to bet the man who approaches 100 women understands more about seduction than the man who approaches 0 women because "there's no scientific evidence this will help."
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:05 PM
2

Just speaking to the way I would approach this situation, I would remember that 93% of communication is body language and I would realize that my mouth couldn't say everything my eyes were capable of saying. If it really came down to a translation issue, you could probably find wi-fi service and use google to fill in the gaps, right?
/r/seduction08/04/14 10:02 PM
6

There's a lot of material on this subject and you should read most of it. There are a lot of helpful links in the sidebar. Just speaking from my own knowledge, Most of David D's material starts out with an explanation of this behavior. I would recommend starting with Double Your Dating, then Attraction Is Not A Choice, then his earlier videos. You will learn in time.
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:58 PM
18

"Your best? Losers always whine about their best. Winners go home and fuck the prom queen!" - Sean Connery
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:45 PM
1

/u/puaCurveBall has a great point. If I had not seen his comment, I would have recommended trying out for bartender position at best, and ANY retail position at worst. If you can figure out how to be a bartender, you'd be leaps and bounds ahead of many men because you'd be forced to interact with very attractive women every weekend. Hell, I worked at Gamestop for 5 months and I STILL saw my share of attractive women. A full time student with no job would benefit immensely from any sort of retail…
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:42 PM
1

Remember that 93% of conversation is body language. Make direct eye contact with that person, look down their body and back at their eyes, give a "heh" of disapproval, and continue on with whatever you were doing. It doesn't matter if you're cleaning bathroom stalls and he's the next white-version of Chris Brown, you can make it clear that, in your mind, you're better than him with this single trick. And who ever has the stronger mindset ends up winning.
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:35 PM
2

Not to sound like an anti-post tool, but I'm willing to bet you would learn more about your self- by approaching a girl on the street and saying, "Hi, I saw you from just over there and decided I had to meet you, my name is ____, what's your name?" than you would learn from 100 pages of any given self-anything book.
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:30 PM
1

In an effort to be as objective as possible, given that you're a gamer girl and your guy friends are probably kinda nerdy too, I would say gather them up and go out to a bar or club. Clearly you think of these guys as friends and nothing more. Speaking from my perspective, if I saw a cute girl out sitting at a table with a bunch of unattractive guys, none of whom are really touching her in any way whatsoever, I would assume she's the "gamer girl" of the group and she isn't dating anyone with who…
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:18 PM
4

Thank you for posting here OP, your insights are appreciated. I go aloof when a man appears to be interested but does not take any action to confirm it. ie; I am now uninterested, I want to get back to my friends, etc. etc. I go aloof when a man appears to be interested but does not take any action to confirm it. I cannot tell the difference if he is just looking or actually interested. How many people here read this and didn't see the difference between, "just looking" and "actually interested"…
/r/seduction08/04/14 09:06 PM
1

The most important point OP is missing here is that 99% of material is written for the target audience, which is largely people who fall in to the "Beta" category. Yeah of course you're not going to rob a bank, what the fuck? Recognize that the audience is made up of people who don't have any kind of concept of this perspective whatsoever. The PUAs point them in the right direction and throw them off the cliff, it's up to them to learn the difference between a rock and a pillow.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/14 07:11 PM
2

It can work. In the right context, said the right way.
/r/seduction05/04/14 06:57 AM
2

I think it has more to do with calibrating to a social situation rather than a hard set "Do/n't drink!" If you aren't drinking and you end up doing really well with, say, a bachelor party that just came in the bar, and the hired gun brings over some shots and they get some and want you to get one as well, then yeah take the damn shot, you know? Calibrate to the situation. As for confidence, if you know you need the confidence boost then just get a little bit drunk - but think of it as putting th…
/r/seduction04/04/14 11:35 PM
2

I think David D has some useful material for this objective. If you want to have sex with a girl, he points out that it's important to know step-by-step what you're going to do next. For example; You're with a girl in a club/bar, and want to take her home - what do you do/say? Next, you leave the club, how do you get to your place? Take a cab or can you walk? Next, In your place, do you have an excuse to get to your room? Maybe "hey let's watch a movie" and you have it set up in your room alread…
/r/seduction04/04/14 11:27 PM
2

It's very easy to fuck up an interaction over text. If you're new: Stick to Logistics. It'll make her think about you. If you're a little experienced: Some subtext to point her in the right direction / a subtle indication as to what you're expecting out of the interaction. But dammit, don't respond immediately! Open text. Read text. Set phone down. Come back to it. If you know what you're doing: Same as previous, but you probably have enough calibration technique that you can pick out those rare…
/r/seduction04/04/14 11:21 PM
2

Fun fact: of all the people you meet, the only person who is going to find your "never had a girlfriend" thing to be incredibly painful is YOU! Truth of the matter is, it's not something you'll ever really have to worry about. In your head you can be thinking, "omg this is the first time I kissed a girl" but if you go in to the situation with the KNOWLEDGE of how to kiss a girl, then she won't have a clue. Take it from me, I started with David D's material, and as a hobby I kept looking in to di…
/r/seduction04/04/14 11:14 PM
1

Just through skimming your post, the book "No More Mr. Nice Guy" immediately jumps out at me as the very first material you need to read. It might seem a little dated now but you can pull the valuable information you need from there. It sounds like you're a little too up in your own head, and I can definitely relate. You'll understand what that means as time progresses.
/r/seduction04/04/14 11:02 PM
4

This goes along with the concept of "beginners should do A and not B, only do B when you are more experienced/ know it will work for you because beginners who do B end up looking bad/needy/desperate/strange/creepy" - for example, a beginner should not open a girl with the line, "So are you going to buy me a drink or am I gonna punch you in the face?" but you take someone who knows what they're doing and that line can be golden. See?
/r/seduction04/04/14 10:58 PM
3

Can you bench press 300 pounds? No really, could you just walk in to a gym and bench press 300 pounds? No. Of course not. Not right off the bat and not without a ton of time building up to that goal, right? Well then why would you immediately be able to be this social maven when you've never done it before? Think of your "inner game" like a muscle. You need to introduce tiny fractures in your muscle so it absorbs nutrients from your food and builds itself up. Why not head to a mall on a Saturday…
/r/seduction04/04/14 10:25 PM
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