Red Pill beginner here... Problem with current girl

RedApathy · 2016-03-22T00:08:28+00:00

I'll never understand these lengthy posts about progress and there is NO sex.

You're either far too young for any girl to really matter OR you're being taken for a ride. Unless you like getting sex waved in front of you, why are you putting up with the tease?

gainzndamez · 2016-03-22T01:31:06+00:00

Is texting game really all that important with the red pill?

This is why TRP preaches "text only for logistics". You're providing her validation, she's providing you -- nothing. You need to be in person to fuck her.

bout a month into a friends-with-benefits type of thing (no sex, btw. She told me she was willing but wasn't ready yet) she tells me she's in love with me.

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FWB means you're fucking. She's not fucking you she's fucking with you, you're way overinvested. This isn't a FWB, this isn't a plate, this is a prospect, and it's a shitty prospect at that.

Dial down the attention on her and go find other women to pursue. Stop texting her except to set up a date in real life. Ensure that that date has a plausible path to lead you to kino, escalation, and to invite her somewhere to fuck.

Also, could a beta moment screw up everything you've been working for?

You've had a lot of beta moments already. This one might be gone, or might not. You need to make a move to be sure.

SkorchZang · 2016-03-22T02:53:06+00:00

It is important. And it's not the texting itself that is important, it's the amount of attention you're willing to give her, the amount of supplication you're offering to Her Highness.

The more you offer while getting nothing in return, the less you're worth in her eyes. This is absolutely automatic, instinctual.

This happens gradual, it's not an instant thing. But once it starts, the symptoms are unmistakeable, exactly what you're seeing. Gonna see the same exact thing with many, many future girls before you're through, to the point that it gets to be a little funny- "not this shit again!". She will get capricious, even mean-spirited. One word answers. Shit testing galore "why do you like me?", "what am I to you?" etc. Princess will get haughty and look at you as a piece of shit by the roadside. It's all so natural.

Fortunately the resting-bitch-face disease is not permanent, if you play your cards right. At the moment your strategy should involve a lot of unexplained scaling back and suddenly barely paying any attention to her existence. Act like a guy who has a different woman.

I know you love her and she's your girl, you don't want to hurt her in any way. But you must be willing to, this is you offering the cure to her disease. Sure it tastes bad but makes her well again right soon. Adopt a cocky/funny demeanour, get very short with her on texting and focus on arranging in-person meetups with as little texting as possible in between to cultivate the image that you're a busy guy with options.

Ozymanberg · 2016-03-22T02:30:55+00:00

I realize now how stupid that friends-with-benefits without sex thing sounds. What I meant is that we'd been having some pretty heavy make-out sessions but never got anywhere.

Title	Red Pill beginner here... Problem with current girl
Author	Ozymanberg
Upvotes	4
Comments	7
Date	March 22, 2016 12:03 AM UTC (10 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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