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Like it or not, TRP became a herd through and through but I dunno if that was your angle with your comment. That herd mentality happens with any school of thought, though, so I guess it is what it is.
/r/TheRedPill10/03/23 06:43 PM
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Yeah. I really do think you can deepen a girl's investment for an LTR by "taking it slow" (kissing here and there, second base here and there, etc.) but ONLY if you're the one controlling the sex, she sees you as a genuine catch and her n-count is 0-2. Make the judgement yourself and good luck, OP
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 08:38 PM
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It's necessary that you at least "try" to have sex, just so she sees you as the type of guy that makes a move. Whether or not you have it on the 3rd date is irrelevant but if she sees you as a catch, you're not afraid to make a move AND get her to invest, imo you're golden.
/r/TheRedPill03/11/22 08:34 PM
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I agree any place of education will influence your mind, that's what it's for. But if the education is shit, your thought process will be shit. Shit here means that it is full of lies and dogma, btw
/r/TheRedPill29/09/22 12:57 AM
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Thank you. This "let culture burn" mentality is probably the dumbest thing to come out of TRP, imo
/r/TheRedPill29/09/22 12:54 AM
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There's a huge gap between hope and giving criminals no real, effective punishment. Having hope is not living in lala-land while the world burns nor is it being a pushover.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 04:36 PM
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GayLubeOil dickriders never fail to make me laugh
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:51 AM
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"Esoteric" and "Žižek" in the same sentence. Fucking lol. Redditors really are something else
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:48 AM
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Love what you're saying, man. Part of the human experience is to, as obvious as it sounds, experience humanity. Spirituality, collaboration, relationships and all of these things that make being a human being worth it WILL be clouded by pursuing only pleasure. I know because I've sadly been there but thank God I came out of that, cuz it wouldn't have been pretty if I kept going down that road
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:44 AM
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Based comment. That's GayLubeOil, and really, most of the TRP top contributors in a nutshell. Edgy nihilism and hedonism is the way to live, according to them. It's pretty sad and funny if you think about it. Because as much as TRP preaches to be woke (and it IS a good wake up call to how the world works, flaws and all), most dudes on here fall for the blue koolaid of progressivism and degeneracy in the end, anyways. Which is what feminism is, ironically
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:40 AM
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The biggest question TRP has never been able to answer... Yes you can use the decline of the west for frivolous sex... but so what? To get my dick wet? I'm going to be spending a finite amount of years on this Earth and as much as I love puss, I'd rather build my life with a better foundation than fucking as many slots as I can. Gimme a good gal over some useless bum girls any day
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:31 AM
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Imagine thinking the lone wolf meme is actually real. Men got to where they did because of tribes. If every man just clubbed every other dude in the head we would have never gotten to where we have as a society. Humans are social animals and although you obviously can't depend on anyone completely, it's good to have a good foundation of high quality people in your circle. This is just a straight up fact. It extends from business to personal relationships to any other endeavor you wish to pursue.…
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:24 AM
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Hope is necessary for the human soul as you can see for yourself throughout history. Thinking evil negates hope is a limp-wristed pussy idea that only became "legit" with post-modernism and nihilistic mainstream media
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:14 AM
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TL;DR you live in a pozzed shithole city in a blue state. Why not just say that and not waste your time typing this dumb shit? Hoeflation only happens if a country is retarded enough to let it happen
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:11 AM
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If you think music can't be used to fuck up a whole culture, you're probably the most blue pilled person on this planet
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:07 AM
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Do you really think college doesn't brainwash people? The one thing EVERY feminist soyboy and banshee have in common is that they went through absolutely blue pilled academia.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:04 AM
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Any doctor I have that listens to rap is a red flag
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:02 AM
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Based, if you ask me.
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:02 AM
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>says boomers speak in gay universals >unironically calls someone a boomer Also, if by opportunities you mean getting your dick wet while culture is getting absolutely assblasted by degenerate platforms and ideas, then sure. Imagine thinking the way culture is going is good for anyone
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 08:01 AM
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Implying the dark triad does any good for anyone
/r/TheRedPill10/08/22 07:57 AM
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It sure does. Saying morality makes you a pussy is basically saying your natural human reaction is wrong. If you feel disgust over a dead animal, does it make you a pussy if you scrunch up your nose? Of course not. TRP just wants an excuse to pump and dump into any wet hole and natural morality would obviously get in the way of that
/r/TheRedPill23/06/22 01:30 PM
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Which is why it shouldn't be a philosophy. But don't lie to yourself: most dudes here live by this as if it were gospel (I did, too, in the beginning)
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 12:07 AM
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No problem, man. Funny enough, if you do things right as a man, she will always make a Disney story inside her mind no matter what happened. Something else you can tease her about, which I absolutely do. I recommend you look up some RSD videos or read 7 Habits of Highly Effective People for more purpose-driven, positive content. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill02/06/22 12:05 AM
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You tell OP not to be a pussy because he felt angry at a woman doing a shitty thing (which is a natural response). I'm being sarcastic by taking TRP's mantra to its logical conclusion: if this is all amoral, why not just go all out and cum inside this girl with a bf and just bounce when she gets pregnant?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 04:22 AM
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Implying OP should stay around for the kid. TRP is amoral
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 04:04 AM
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Morality is a vague and abstract thing created by society to keep you in line Ah, I see you've been reading lots of GayLubeOil posts. ​ Don't kill, don't steal - don't land in jail If morality is a vague thing, how has this been such a hardwired truth since the dawn of humanity? Saying that morality isn't real is like saying human consciousness isn't real
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:52 AM
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A word to the wise: TRP is good as a wake up call but not a good sustainable long term philosophy. It WILL make you cynical and pragmatic. Take that as you will, it might be good in the beginning but you need something a lot more solid than that for long term happiness and purpose. Take the purpose-pill The reason you still feel angry over this shit is because there is innate moral truth inside of us humans. It's normal to feel outrage but what's important is that this anger or annoyance doesn't…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:46 AM
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"Brooo ignore your instinctive disgust at degeneracy and just coom wtf bro be alpha" Coomers really are hilarious. You might as well cum inside her, OP. No one foot in, one foot out. Go full degen and stop being a pussy
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:30 AM
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Agreed. Clapping some cheeks is not worth having a wounded beta bashing your head in with a bat or the negative energy involved in that. I don't understand it either but some guys will do anything for snizz
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:25 AM
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It is what it is but a few points, just to give you at least a little ray of hope: Keep in mind the other dude is a giga-simp from what you wrote of his messages. Not that anyone deserves to be lied and cheated like that but if you act like a simp, you'll be cheated on yesterday. It's in a girl's nature to do that, so if you stay on top of your game and find a gal with a low n-count she'll (probably) have more incentive to be loyal to you. Don't let this jade you from life itself. I know it's ea…
/r/TheRedPill01/06/22 03:16 AM
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Don't get me wrong, I agree
/r/TheRedPill24/05/22 12:15 AM
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Fair enough. Though, in the eyes of the court the kids are always hers
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 02:33 AM
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It's still decremental, whatchu mean?
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 12:23 AM
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My hunch is that if you lay down good pipe with a girl with a low n-count (meaning 0 to 1) she's much less likely to cheat. What's her best life if you give her a good bang every time? I'm not saying it couldn't happen just that if you're a boring beta in bed, she'll definitely start fantasizing of outside forces and considering them
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 12:21 AM
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It doesn't matter whether you choose the right partner or not. The system WILL fuck you eventually, and hard. We're not talking about being afraid of taking a leap of faith, it's that fact that the chances of coming out of a marriage unscathed and financially better are very slim
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 12:15 AM
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And cap it all off with the call to action at the end kek TRP really turns into soy central whenever GLO posts
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 12:11 AM
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"wtf bro. Ignore the consequences of degeneracy and coom lmao"
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 12:07 AM
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Holy jesus on a cross. It'd actually be less pathetic if you were just GayLubeOil doing damage control on an awful shitpost than to know that a simp actually defends and deepthroats him 24/7 kek
/r/TheRedPill23/05/22 12:04 AM
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It's part of the journey. Trust me a year in, two years in, you'll be beyond glad you found this info. Because it's useful and practical. Not only about women but about life in general. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill14/01/21 12:46 AM
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Watch out, we got an alpha here. What an absolute cringe post. Also, imagine being so naive that you think big tech won't use any info they got on you against you.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/21 01:29 AM
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If this turns out to be true, I am absolutely and bombastically fucked. I talked so much shit back in the day (and still do) that I might as well just never get a job again.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/21 01:23 AM
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Lol you guys still care about pussy
/r/TheRedPill09/01/21 01:20 AM
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My biggest mistake was not cutting off news during the whole summer fiasco. Not that it wasn't important but that negative rabbit hole is no use to anyone other than the sheep blindly following the media and the ones up top who profit from it, and like you said, I got pretty depressed as well. Kudos to you for doing that
/r/TheRedPill09/01/21 01:17 AM
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The masses will always believe what the authorities tell them to believe. No questions asked, no hypotheticals and no nuance. Any sort of deviation from the mainstream will be seen as blasphemy and bigotry. I know this metaphor is overused, but what's more like 1984 than Trump getting called a racist, xenophobe when he first asked for the borders to shut down and then a few weeks later get called an idiot for not closing the borders? Not to mention the BLM riots, the blatantly fraudulent electio…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/21 01:14 AM
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Yup. Sometimes the evidence speaks for itself
/r/TheRedPill26/12/20 09:07 PM
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It depends. I don't fuck other dude's girls (knowingly) because, A. The men are, unfortunately, always super nice to me, and B. The hottest taken gals always have the most batshit dudes as bfs that would cave my skull in, no questions asked. So as a whole, I'd say you're better off
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 02:30 PM
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In a way, I feel sorry and jealous of the men that don't believe this. This type of experience is so far removed from the average man's reality that I don't think they'll ever see the truth of female nature. Even before my Red Pill days, I heard some shit about "good girls" that made my eyes spin and made me never trust them completely. Ignorance is bliss, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/20 02:27 PM
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Thank you, man. You have to accept what it is and make the best of it.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:07 PM
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I didn't say I needed an LTR to grow or be fulfilled. Think of it as complimentary to my already happening growth. Trust me, dude, the girl is low on my list of priorities lol this doesn't mean she's not on the list altogether, though.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:01 PM
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Imo, don't drop her. She's an 8 and enthusiastically sucked your dick, it could be a good ol' fun time. That being said, let her know she crossed a boundary. Don't be too butthurt since you barely know each other. Mix setting the boundary with being playful. "Lucky you. Raincheck expires tomorrow so be sure to remember ;)" something like that, you're putting her on the spot but also being non-butthurt. However, next time there won't be a next time. If she bails again, out the door she goes.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:14 AM
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I would err on saying retarded, though. It depends on how you say but it can come off as very butthurt.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:02 AM
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When in doubt, laugh it off and agree and amplify. Say it in a way where you're kind of cocky and confident, as if you're proud of whatever they said to you. This shows you don't take yourself seriously and that you're sure of yourself. However, if you've got a bomb comeback, throw it in there.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 05:01 AM
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Dude, I've slept with girls in my shitty 2002 car. As long as your place is relatively clean and not an absolute shit show, I can guarantee you can make it work. If she mentions it mockingly, treat it as a shit test and Agree & Amplify.
/r/askTRP13/07/18 04:56 AM
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Bro, you definitely haven't seen the top PUAs then lol game works, believe it or not. The obvious problem is that if you only focus on game your other much more important attributes fall off
/r/TheRedPill04/07/18 01:38 AM
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I'm past the anger phase but every now and then the beast rises up and it's this type of shit that does it lel Personally, what puts things in perspective for me is asking myself, "Would I get mad at a lion chasing a gazelle to eat it? Or a baby pissing himself?" Then why would I get mad at a woman following her biological drive? Maybe you already think this way but I'm venting here as well lol whenever a girl starts going ghost on me, I usually switch from "relationship mode" to almost a "scien…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 10:45 PM
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Look through your plates' phones if you're really curious I'm very turned off by that, though. If she catches me glimpsing that will not look good no matter what and I kinda wanna keep fucking em lol plus, I really don't like thinking about this shit when I'm with a chick cause it just puts me in my head and ruins the experience for me, and to be fair, hers as well. However, let's just say I'd hypothetically be willing to learn some pointers on how to do this discreetly, especially if they've go…
/r/TheRedPill01/07/18 10:30 PM
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Quality post here, my friend. I wouldn't complain if you made a post really digging deep at this, but you do whatever the hell you want lol thanks for this! Never really saw it this way.
/r/TheRedPill24/06/18 03:24 PM
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That's what I thought, but the way you worded your post I thought there might be a possibility you told them outright.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 09:06 PM
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Shiiit son. I'd be interested in hearing specific stories about this, though. Do this women normally club around or are they fucking around on their own social circle? I'm really fascinated by all of this, if I'm being honest. You have no idea what I would give to be able to access the Whatsapp/Snapchat of your average girl. Not to stalk or anything but the dynamics behind this whole thing fascinates me on a genuine level and I would love to know what skeletons your typical "nice girl" hides in …
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 05:28 PM
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Do you directly tell the women about the three D's before you get into an LTR or how do you approach this?
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 05:22 PM
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Damn dude. Bitches be bitches, I guess
/r/TheRedPill23/06/18 05:09 PM
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RULE: NO FEELINGS FOR HOES UNTIL 6 MONTHS OF STEADY SEX Even then, you should be careful. I did that 6 month rule thing, more or less, and as of now the chick who was really into me and I was considering as serious material is kind of dying off lol so it's a good rule of thumb in my experience but remember how fickle women are and that in a snap of the finger they can decide to bail out just like that.
/r/TheRedPill10/06/18 01:28 PM
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I'm of the mind that texting shouldn't be a chore for you. Enjoy texting for what it is. Yes, text is for logistics but keep it fun and flirty. Unless you had an extremely good interaction with the girl you can get away with dry texting. However, most of the time let your flirty/cocky side shine through your texts. Basically, worry more about having a good interaction with her in person rather than trying to get into her pants via text.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:41 AM
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Number one rule in a darty: have fun. Keep trp game principles in the back of your head but above all enjoy yourself. Just walk up and start talking about whatever. Have normal, fun conversation and just sprinkle game on top of what you naturally do.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:32 AM
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Don't try too hard to out-status any dude. It looks lame and is quite frankly humiliating. The best you can do is run game on the chick you're with and frame yourself as if you can take her or leave her. It's her choice ultimately and if she feels she might be losing out on you because you're cockier than the most statused guy in the room she's gonna qualify herself to you or shit test you. Either way, win-win.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:28 AM
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Learn to not give a fuck rather than trying to learn how to properly respond to each shit test. Seriously, the only time I bother responding to a shit test is if I want to fuck a girl and I know it's the best course of action. Otherwise, laugh it off, ignore or throw shit back right at them (playfully, of course).
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:24 AM
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No marriage expert here, but my gut tells me it was a shit-test. You should've treated it as such. Don't get your ego involved in this cause you're gonna get reactive and lord only knows that shit can only get you in trouble. If this keeps popping up, yes, shut it down and confront it. But those first few times you should've just held your frame and threw that shit back at her. When the girl starts getting on her high horse you need to shut it down immediately. Take my advice for what it's worth…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:18 AM
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Yep. Random sentiment, but I'm incredibly grateful to have found this sub and the support y'all give. Peace to every brother in here.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:08 AM
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I don't think you should eject so quickly. However, be aware of it. There's a great quote from poker that says, "Trust everyone but cut the cards." Basically, trust but don't be an idiot. Keep her around (as long as you remember the handy rules of avoiding oneitis) and fuck her. But if shit keeps getting ridiculous, next her. Also, always keep gaming other girls. It doesn't matter whether you sleep with em or not. Do it solely for the purpose of keeping the wheels oiled up so you don't go out ru…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:06 PM
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Yep. Remember my anger phase when I first started out when I swore I would never be in a relationship lol now I'm starting to get into one. Feels great but at the same time I fully know what to expect and what to do if shit hits the fans. It is what it is.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:59 PM
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Basically, keep your frame.
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 03:36 AM
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You are balls deep in the anger phase if this isn't bait lol
/r/TheRedPill04/03/18 03:35 AM
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Start now, dude. You are where you are. As long as you get 1% better every day, in a few years you'll crush it. Don't back out on gaming women. It's too much fun :) Needless to say, don't make game your life purpose.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:11 AM
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This. Logistics, to me, is the bitchiest part of all of this. Especially if you live far from the city. You can have all the game and looks that you want but if you have to drive and hour back and forth from the city... That really sucks.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 04:02 AM
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In a smaller scale, win-win mentality also applies to women. The better she feels after sex and the less she feels like a slut, the better chances you'll have of her coming back and avoiding regret rape situations. There's no need to have hateful vitrol against women and it's a trap many angry noobies fall into-- myself included.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/18 03:49 AM
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Someone's been browsing /pol/ lately... In all seriousness, though, I agree. There's only so much a few patriots can do when the whole goverment is run by imbeciles and the majority of the population are meme-fueled zombie-sheep. If you gotta bounce, you gotta bounce
/r/TheRedPill18/02/18 03:15 AM
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Different strokes for different folks, I guess. I'm assuming you live in the city. Because for me, driving the women back home is like half the hour lol Imo, if the girl is quality, I don't mind spending a few hours with her. I'm not saying that if a date is short you shouldn't go for the close. I'm saying that, in my experience, longer dates have a higher lay ratio than short ones.
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:29 AM
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25 dollars on a first date? Jesus Christ, just take her out to coffee lol I get that these are just guidelines but you shouldn't be afraid to be a bit more flexible. There's way too much variation in each girl situation. Validation/Compliment, for example. A neat little trick to give her just a tease of validation is to use push/pull in your compliments. If she sees you as higher value than her, a compliment from you will arouse her. It will especially make her hamster go wild if you do it bitte…
/r/TheRedPill18/01/18 01:20 AM
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"I can't tell if you're trouble or not..." "I saw a fish at the aquarium that reminded me of you ;)" Just off the top of my head. Have gotten me some pretty good results but the key is to not take yourself too seriously and ideally you kind of want to set the frame that you're not taking her seriously. As for the specific profile pics, humorous is my go to. A chick had a cat in her profile and I asked her if she took the cat on her dates and she responded well. Just get creative, the important t…
/r/TheRedPill15/12/17 05:23 AM
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What I normally do is either a generic pua opener or something specifically about her profile pic. It's not too hard getting their attention when most of the guys are boring as shit, really. I've gotten some pretty good results so you might try it out.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/17 01:28 PM
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Fair enough.
/r/seduction29/11/17 11:56 PM
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Tell the guy "We should fuck." You can't even being to imagine how well this will work.
/r/seduction28/11/17 07:43 PM
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This kind of unconventional by RP standards but I say have fun with it. I actually like when a girl tries to act as if she's not interested, it's an IOI in itself. However, sometimes too much games is too much. You need your own boundary of what too gamey is. Mine is pretty high but it's because I know that if a girl plays like that it's just flirting/foreplay. Be cocky and stoic and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:29 PM
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If she's making out, you're on the right track. Keep escalating and see where it goes. it's up to you when to next. My personal cutoff point is 3 dates(if by the second I don't at least kiss close, though, I'll jump ship). Personal advice? It sounds like you're way too invested/butthurt. You could invite her over one more time if you know you have the willpower not to get attached. if shit goes nowhere, kick her to the curb and look for more puss.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:19 PM
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Never understood the righteous light that people put Snape in. That last scene if his explains his motivations and shows us the portrait of a very sad and pathetic human being, which is good in the context of deepening his character but I never saw him as the hero that so many people thought him to be. Many blue pills agree with this, funnily enough.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 03:00 PM
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Live and learn, bud. The best of us have gotten emotionally attached. Just keep your head up, work on your life and talk to a lot of women.
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 02:24 PM
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Take care, man. The other happy ending, of course, is that you'll learn from this.
/r/TheRedPill26/05/17 11:27 AM
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Sorry about the dog, bro. The only happy ending to this story I can see is that the bitch is probably wallowing in sadness right now.
/r/TheRedPill25/05/17 02:46 AM
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My man Phillip lol keep at it. This stuff is priceless for noobies.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/17 05:21 AM
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Fuck, that's really sad. Men who still think a soulmate is a good endgame are in for a bad time.
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 05:07 AM
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Women are perfect. I only have missionary vanilla sex with my significant other and ask her every 30 seconds if she's all right as we slowly make true love. She once told me she sucked off three dudes (one of them black, she's such an open minded doe) in the back of a Wendy's, but she knows that wasn't true love. She loves me now. She's got a good friend, Chad Meatcake Thundercock, who helps her with her gardening hobby every day after work. She gets home sooo late but I always have a nice, warm…
/r/TheRedPill02/04/17 04:54 AM
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You don't necessarily have to drop her, bro! Who knows? She asked you out. You can try again another date and if next time doesn't work out, next! Glad you're doing good, brother! Best of luck.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 04:23 AM
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You didn't have to close the case, depending on how she "rejected" you. Maybe you could've backed away and tried again later. I go for three strikes. If by the third time she backs away I pull back completely unless she reinitiates kino.
/r/TheRedPill26/03/17 04:19 AM
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"Just cutting his losses" What a fucking boss. I wish I would've done this in my last shit relationship, goddamn.
/r/TheRedPill02/03/17 08:29 PM
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Good to hear you're handling it better. Get better.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:34 AM
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Gold, buddy. It might sound simple but it really hit home for me. I'm feel like framing "I may never be able to fully control my emotions but I can always control how I act."
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:24 AM
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I'm actually thinking about doing this... With dates, even. Not in a creepy way obviously, but I'd be fascinated to hear my own conversations without my own biased brain at the moment. That mind-reading thing is true, too. I figured a bit late in life that just because I understand my own contexts and thoughts, it doesn't mean the words I'm using exude those same thoughts. It might sound obvious but I genuinely didn't comprehend how bad I was at expressing myself. Edit: Though, now that I think …
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 02:08 AM
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It is a refreshing change of pace not having the poster calling you a 'faggot' and 'pussy' about 30 times. Not because I feel offended, it just comes off as lame and edgy. That being said, a well placed 'pussy' could be enough to slap a beta from his whining. So I guess it's just balance.
/r/TheRedPill27/02/17 12:22 AM
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But what if you're into that? Asking for a friend...
/r/TheRedPill22/02/17 06:10 PM
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Quick OP! Agree and Amplify!! "I literally MURDERED my frame! chuckle and shit-eating grin
/r/TheRedPill19/02/17 04:33 PM
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The thing is, BP upbringing goes against a man's core nature. TRP principles wouldn't be the same thing to a woman because the sexual market works differently for them. For them, TRP tactics would revolve around getting a high value man to commit. It would involve looking pretty, being feminime, being nurturing, submissive, etc. Just as men should break from BP chains and do what is attractive to women, so do the females have to change their neo-liberal behavior to get men to commit. As we've se…
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 11:24 PM
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Patrice is the honest man. He says anything anytime without sugar-coating. Love the man.
/r/TheRedPill18/02/17 11:18 PM
1

First sound advice I've seen in TRP in a long time.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 12:12 PM
2

It's not exactly game, but there's a channel on Youtube called "Charisma on Command" which delves on topics about conversational skills, flirting skills, comedic skills, etc. And I think is a great starting point in building confidence. I've gotten lots of good insight from that channel and for someone who was as autistic as me, it's really done wonders.
/r/TheRedPill17/02/17 11:57 AM
2

Isn't this kind of a paradox? Based on what is preached here I would assume most women would hide their sex lives (unless it's from a SO) to not seem slutty. I'm sure there are exceptions, I just mean that I always assumed most women kept their fuck buddies incognito except with their closest friends, not everyone. Unless you were referring to 'everyone' as her closest friends. If that's so, then fuck me.
/r/TheRedPill13/02/17 01:20 PM
1

I'm assuming you're a woman, just to clarify. Well, there's a lot of reasons why. Maybe he felt you weren't giving him enough, plain ol' horniness (which is most likely, considering he was just mutually masturbating according to you), etc. The most generic answer I can give is that men think about sex differently. We just want to get off. It's something we just gotta do and if we're in a relationship, just because we think of other women and get horny to them, it doesn't mean the man doesn't app…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/17 07:46 PM
3

Are you sure that it was accidental? I feel that while the joke is that Dennis is a psycho, everything he said held true. That episode has some pretty solid RP truths and if it was accidental, I'll be damned they hit the mark pretty closely. Even Dee's behaviour was spot on.
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 05:58 PM
3

That's what fucks me up the most. I've turned some pretty beautiful girls because of this. The only good thing about this is that at least I was doing something right but oh well.
/r/TheRedPill10/02/17 11:24 PM
1

Admits to exploitting men Asks for respect Lel. At least your honest.
/r/TheRedPill31/01/17 08:03 PM
8

Ah, the ole faithful. Le if you don't agree with me you're probably a virgin neckbeard """"argument"""". Are you really surprised this is all a liberal woman can come up with? That being said, you can really see the hypergamy slipping through with that statement. It really shows the unattraction they feel for virgin men if they think that's the worst thing they can throw at us. We can see the solipsism, too, because it explains why women think being a slut is empowering. We don't find it attract…
/r/TheRedPill30/01/17 11:17 PM
6

Introvert[ism?] can definitely be dealt with. I'm a massive introvert and misanthrope, yet I haven't felt nervous public speaking or just being the center of attention in a long time and if I'm in the mood I could talk a lot. To top it off, I was extremely autistic (kind of still am, but have gotten better with practice). Some days, however, I can't do it. I can't muster up the energy to give a shit, so I keep to myself. Like OP said, energy management is key. It could be a hindrance in some cas…
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 05:33 PM
1

"I love you" is code word for "I want you to love me, so I can feel 'naughty' when I go fuck someone else" and nothing more. Damn lol I'll keep this in mind, too true.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 03:36 AM
1

Horrible analogy. A cockroach is a literal health risk and should be dealt with. If shitposters here were actively trying to delete other posts and trying to censor us then yes, it should be dealt with. For now? Let the "manginas" dribble on and ignore whatever doesn't tickle your fancy.
/r/TheRedPill19/01/17 03:07 AM
14

You point out Strawman but I see "No True Scotsman" in your post through and through. While I agree a lot of passive-aggresiveness sometimes pervades the threads, so does every other part of the internet. In fact, you get this more than outright trolls, which is a blessing in my opinion. Ignore the trash posts, problem solved.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 11:25 PM
1

It is what it is... I was already cynical and realistic before the red pill, except with women. The blow was very big. For one thing, subconsciously sometimes, I did a lot of things with finding 'love' as the endgame. Lots of my worries while in college was about finding a career to sustain my future wife and kids. Most of my life I could tell there was something fishy with women, though. They acted very different to how I was taught. College was the peak of my cynicism and skepticism and then b…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/17 10:25 PM
1

Why did you delete this? Was looking forward to it!
/r/TheRedPill15/01/17 05:43 PM
2

You'll get over it. Look back at this post in a year and you'll see what I mean.
/r/askTRP15/01/17 07:59 AM
6

On the nose. These hags are "well spoken" on the forums but I've never seen a female in real life who doesn't just spout memorized lines and resort to shaming when their weak 'arguments' are over. Same goes to the numales, though. The internet is an idealist paradise. You can be whatever you want anonymously and not live up to a single word you type.
/r/TheRedPill14/01/17 07:24 PM
1

I agree. If you say things confidently enough you can get away with murder lol Another one I'd use is "You're an asshole!" "Hey, we've got something in common!"
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 03:59 AM
17

That one made me exhale air from my nose. I'm using this, too
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 03:54 AM
2

I was assuming based on what you had said before. Sorry you had to go through that, man. I really am. What I'm talking about is obviously not stuff to the extent of your father. I don't want to be a sociopath, for Christ's sake, the majority of people don't want that. But having detachment of emotion from stuff that would otherwise be detrimental to your well-being is a perk. That's why I asked you if you have looked into stoicism. It's not about not having emotions at all but to learn how to co…
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 03:35 AM
1

Call it what you want but it's basically what I'm saying. I do care about people's feelings, which is why when you realize 99% of other people don't, it sucks. We wouldn't need to adapt ourselves to this if we didn't have empathy, otherwise we'd just be psycopaths and robots. I'm just saying it how it is. Maybe you need first hand experience of what it's like to get hurt by someone you trusted, though I'm not belittling your input. You either play the game or you don't.
/r/TheRedPill12/01/17 01:19 AM
2

Agreed. It really does wonders for your game.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 08:54 PM
1

Hear, hear. I sometimes enjoy the flirty interactions with women but modt of the time I just want to get down to business without all the bullshit lol. It doesn't help that the escort services where I live are super sketchy.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 06:25 PM
1

Like the others said, that good boy mentality has got to go. The hardest part of all of this, I feel, is when you realize all of this is just a big power play. Meaning, everyone's out for themselves no matter what they say. Having morals is fine, but you have to be cunning. There's nothing "wrong" with being manipulative. People attempt to do it to you all the time, anyways, and as long as that manipulation is not hurting the other person long term I don't see how that breaks your moral code. Yo…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 06:22 PM
2

It never claims to be an absoulte. Obviously, not every single women ever is exactly the same. What AWALT means is that the base biology of a female human is almost always going to be the same, i.e. get turned on more by social status than just looks, etc. It's like saying AMALT because most men are horny a lot of the time and would fuck with most average looking girls if given the oppurtinity. Which would be true and any exception to that rule (gays[and even then, gays get just as horny as stra…
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 05:38 PM
3

To a certain extent, I agree. I remember my ex kept using ego-strokes to reel me into the already dead relationship. So be wary of that. Also, remember the "...for now" rule of thumb: "I’ve never dated anyone like you... for now."
/r/TheRedPill11/01/17 05:27 PM
4

I mean, the original definition I found of plate spinning was that you always have options. Not necessarily fucking them, but the options are still there (and real options, not delude yourself into thinking the girl will bang you). I agree to a certain extent that it opens doors to guys going "Well, I'll just talk to a shit-ton of girls and they'll all be plates!" Which to a certain extent is kind of true if we go by the definition I found... But it opens up to a lot of men who don't escalate an…
/r/TheRedPill10/01/17 05:00 PM
1

Anyone with half a brain knows this shit isn't black and white, I would think. It's a model for the sexual market, and a pretty accurate one at that. For you to sit there typing away as if you were some enlightened man all because you realized that gasp not every girl responds to dread game is laughable to say the least. Who would've thought people were all different! Get off your high horse, buddy.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 09:54 PM
1

Blowing titties off for science is alpha as fuck, if you think about it.
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 04:54 PM
8

I agree with this. When you don't give a fuck, you really don't give a fuck. It doesn't help that in your depression you start seeing how oblivious everyone is to everything. However, I'm not sure if this aligns with the same idea that the previous posters suggested about rebelling, but I feel like what has saved me really is me moving to do stuff I love, even if at the moment they seem useless. After I do them, I feel it was worthwhile to hold on a bit more. If something can make me smile (be i…
/r/TheRedPill09/01/17 03:48 PM
1

Fuuuuck. It's my cousins that kill me, man. Have one that's been like a little sister and is about to go to college and well, you know...
/r/TheRedPill08/01/17 02:14 PM
1

Nice post. Agree 100%. I used to make the awful mistake of looking butthurt when she wouldn't put out and then got surprised as to why she wasn't into me. I have one question, though: How do you deal with a woman who sets the precedent of "we can't fuck" from the beginning without me seeming butthurt? I guess the go-to would be to go on the date anyways, escalate and if she seems into it, go for it. Any insight on this? Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 07:00 PM
1

Ime, cold showers do pretty good to kickstart me into the day. The shock helps and the cold water takes away the stuffiness in my face. So I would recommend it. Though contrast showers are good to help you relax yet keep you sharp, so you guys might want to check that out, too. That being said, the fact that you put TRP imagery so seriously into something as perfunctory as a shower makes it look like a cartoon parody of a post. Really? Resorting to Blue Beta Billy shaming in order to make a show…
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:31 PM
1

Do you maintain frame, though?
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:21 PM
1

*Seriously sick. I used to get annoying colds about 4-5 times a year but they weren't a big deal. Fun fact: I haven't gotten sick with an annoying cold in a long time ever since I started taking NAC. Sure, I get a stuffy nose but never fully sick. If you guys get sick a lot, check this shit out and binge on Vitamin C.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:17 PM
1

That's a Blue Beta Billy if I ever saw one.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:13 PM
2

Cold showers are a good thing to do overall, but the endless shredding of the Blue Beta Billy strawman is so hilariously overdone I can't help but laugh every time I see it. For fuck's sake, if you're in the mood for a warm shower go for it.
/r/TheRedPill04/01/17 05:11 PM
3

Adding to this, I once saw a girl tell a whole table straight up she would cheat on her boyfriend if something better came along. I know this sounds like an RP's wet dream, but she said it word for word. It shocked me but at the same time it didn't, you know?
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:12 PM
4

Agreed. It happens all the time, too. I've seen some "nice" girls "turn" into conniving, selfish cunts when they feel they can tell me about how clingy their boyfriend is and how useful it is to have him around. It's incredible. I always call them out on it and they just giggle and hamster it away.
/r/TheRedPill03/01/17 06:10 PM
1

Fixing self-talk does wonders.
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 09:20 PM
5

Listen, dude, this is nothing new. Sex always sells. It always has. Humans will be humans for a long time until evolution makes us into something different. Until then, we're just animals with the illusion of altruism, self-awareness and enlightment who just want to fuck. Animals do what animals do. Very few people really understand and live the concepts of honor, creativity and hard work (especially women). This is just what it is. Sooner or later you realize that these ideals are just that: id…
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 04:58 PM
2

Kind of a side note: It's amazing to me how many BPs would read what you wrote and say, "You just married a whore, they're/we're not all like that!" despite the fact that there's so much evidence pointing to the contrary. What's funny is that the women who say this know how the game is played and they're (99% most likely) just covering up their own skeletons. If only the boyfriends knew what their gfs are doing behind their backs...
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 04:06 PM
6

Taking shit test to a whole new level
/r/TheRedPill31/12/16 03:25 PM
2

This. Plus, cheater is straight to the point. Everyone knows what you mean when you say it. Yeah, I get what this guy is saying, but it's over-complicating things.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 04:00 AM
5

always trust your gut Ftfy. Especially if you know you're a reasonable person. Personally, I'm not a suspicious person so when something's off I notice it. It's in the way she kind of avoids your gaze. A nervous laugh. A bit too cuddly or nice. Makes vague statements about your relationship's future. It all depends on context and how she acts normally. But you will know something's up. The thing is society has told us that we should never expect the worse and to always trust your SO blindly unti…
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:56 AM
3

I'm sorry, dude. I know it hurts. But now you know to brace yourself for this in any future occassion. Women will always look for other options(whether they act upon these desires or not). It's what they do. Like another user said, don't beat yourself up over it. It is what it is. Just let yourself feel the pain and anger and slowly it will just go away. Distract yourself. Not in a way that you stuff your emotions, but make your hobbies your catharsis. What sucks the most, imo, is the time lost …
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:44 AM
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I think this is best left for the crazies, i.e. the ones who might cry rape, abuse, etc. if you walk out. I feel one should always be up front. Playing games like that is classic feminine bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:30 AM
4

You gotta settle when you hit the wall, no?
/r/TheRedPill28/12/16 03:17 AM
1

I don't mean to say any of my moral code stuff on a high horse nor am I shaming dudes that go for it. You do whatever the hell you want. In fact, I wish I didn't give enough of a fuck to just go for it. I do agree it's the blue pill in me still talking, that was my point. The only blue pill I feel I have left in me is the "right/wrong" compass. The thing that's stopping from acting out, most of all, is empathy for the boyfriend. I've been cheated on and while I understand every reason behind why…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 05:17 PM
5

Most of the "cool" high value girls are taken, yes. It sucks, especially if you have a moral compass left in you and aren't willing to "destroy" the relationship. Especially if they're part of a close social circle. Some dudes just go for the kill regardless of the obstacles and end up with the girl. Sad truth, I guess.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 05:43 AM
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I also don't like hitting on taken women. But lord knows how tempting it is to just go for the ones that show overt interest in you, goddamn. I had one that was all over me physically and inches away from my face. I know part of the red pill is to realize that it's a dog eat dog world out there but I just can't. I feel sorry for the boyfriends. Especially since I can empathize with being cheated on and how much it hurt. Most of the times the dudes are cool, too. Oh well.
/r/TheRedPill27/12/16 05:33 AM
1

Agreed. One should read whatever one wants, even blue pill bullshit, if for some reason you enjoy it. I feel it's good exercise to point out the bullshit. But it's much better to soak up fiction that is at the very least grounded in reality with human psychology, you'll get much more out of it. Also, ordered Blood Meridian the other day. Have wanted to read it for a while and finally got around to it.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 11:44 PM
3

Eh. Depends. She doesn't know you're just jumping on any chance. If you want it, go for it. Now, if she keeps cancelling and you keep changing your schedule for her, that's where you go wrong. It makes you seem weak and needy. After the first cancel, don't reschedule for shit.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/16 11:30 PM
2

Don't take them seriously. Ever. Tease her, be aloof, kino, home run their shit tests. You'll find that the less seriously you take her the more fun you both will have.
/r/askTRP25/12/16 06:37 AM
1

Game a lot of women. I know it might seem scary(or not, dunno how shy or charismatic you are), especially for a beginner (it was to me), but it's essential. Why? Because even if you fail with these other women (and you probably will) it put things in perspective. In other words, you'll start seeing how many chances you actually have with women. There's plenty of women to go around and when you realize this, you will inevitably relax around the women you're into. Add this to the equation of pursu…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:41 PM
2

You seem to correlate pussy with happiness. I've been sexually "frustrated" the past few months. I 'need' sex and want it. It doesn't mean I can't live without it. In fact, I'm happier than I've ever been in a long time, thanks to the Red Pill. Sexual urges do not define my happiness, which is something the Red Pill makes you realize. Women do nothing for me besides be a sexy, fun thing to hang out with. Other than that? Happy as a clam. Do I get the urge some days to just fuck and get it out of…
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:33 PM
1

In your position, I would cut and run. I know I wouldn't think clearly if I invested more time in that woman. If you aren't thinking clearly now(what, witht he male hamstering and 'strategy talk') it's not going to get any better. Cut and run. For your own good. You're going to thank yourself later. Try and game other women even if you fail. It puts you in an abundant perspective.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:11 PM
3

I'd like to see this explained in more depth. How do you open up without looking beta? I've never been one to open up emotionally to anyone and when I have it comes off as weird since it's not something I do often.
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 05:01 PM
1

You're referring strictly to text conversations, right? Or are you suggesting you use even in person and leave it at that?
/r/TheRedPill22/12/16 04:56 PM
5

True prophet. Any noob in RP should consider getting into hip-hop if they're not because it really helps putting everything in perspective. Most rappers know what's up.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 11:10 PM
1

How is he instigating? He's walking out.
/r/TheRedPill18/12/16 10:48 PM
53

Have been approaching more women lately. They've gotten nowhere, to be honest, but it's something that gets easier as you do it more. I want to get to the point where I'm relaxed and can just let go. This definitely pumped me up more. Nice post!
/r/TheRedPill16/12/16 03:21 AM
-2

Wtf bro. From groping to nutting in her face. That's like running from first base to the pitcher's mound to punch him in the face.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 07:09 AM
-3

Wtf bro. From groping to nutting in her face. That's like running from first base to the pitcher's mound to punch him in the face.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 07:09 AM
-2

Wtf bro. From groping to nutting in her face. That's like running from first base to the pitcher's mound to punch him in the face.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 07:09 AM
3

Wtf bro. From groping to nutting in her face. That's like running from first base to the pitcher's mound to punch him in the face.
/r/TheRedPill14/12/16 07:09 AM
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It doesn't always work out like that, though. Abundance means taking risks and your risk payed off. Sometimes it doesn't. However, abundance should keep you looking forward even if you fail because you know there are plenty of options in this world. Not taking away from what you said, just putting it out there.
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 01:39 AM
97

This is why feminists have us in such a bad light. How ruthless can you get?
/r/TheRedPill13/12/16 12:57 AM
0

Can't wait for Fecundatory February!
/r/TheRedPill10/12/16 03:40 PM
3

I disagree. Character deaths in books hit many people hard, myself included. They don't necessarily cry but the emotion is there.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 06:41 PM
1

I have the small college curse as well. However, there are so many HB8s and HB9s it's crazy. It's a weird dilemma but word spreads around quick here.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 04:13 AM
1

I don't seem to have a problem with most butter faces, unless their face is severely deformed. You can't see a face while in doggy-style.
/r/TheRedPill27/11/16 04:11 AM
1

You sound like a leak sprung in r9k, bro. Why would you even want to aim to become a Chad? I thought it was common sense that the vast mayority of men aren't Chads. Chad is this ideal man who gets women at the wave of a hand, to think your average man has to be Chad to get laid is absurd.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 06:21 PM
22

*An irredimable, abomination of a face. Seriously, I've seen some ugly fucks get poon with game and just having balls. I'm not saying it doesn't play a factor in attraction but it's not wasted energy.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 05:50 PM
1

Don't be disgusted with yourself. You're human. You'll feel lonely, you'll miss your ex, you'll be sad... Whatever. It's what you do with your "grief" that determines how you are and what you will be as a person. Just don't let the sadness take over you. Sadness is a feeling and feelings pass. If you feel you need time off women, do it. But when you get back in, know what you're getting back into. You'll be fine. Keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill20/11/16 07:09 AM
1

What are somethings you could do to increase testosterone levels?
/r/TheRedPill15/11/16 10:07 AM
1

Could you get into the specifics? I'm very interested. What are your hobbies? How long did it take you to get to that point?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/16 04:11 PM
3

Keep at it, brother. Something you have to understand is that our 'turning points' (yours was your cheating gf) will always hurt in one way or another. It will eventually turn into a dull ache, but it'll hurt nonetheless. It's what you do with the pain that defines how you will turn out, remember that. And geez, you suck at socializing but scored a threesome? Keep your head up, boi!
/r/TheRedPill10/11/16 02:12 PM
8

A huge part of TRP is the anger most feel in the beginning, though. But if you're self-aware, gain experience and be honest with yourself you start to realize that being angry hurts no one but yourself. It's part of the process. Abundance mentality, in my opinion, is what will be able to deflect your anger and sadness in the long run. Once you realize how much shit this world has to offer if you put in the hard work you won't care about inane bullshit.
/r/TheRedPill08/11/16 05:11 PM
2

No worries, man. Most of us have gone through that. I would argue it's important to experience that in order for you to realize why going beta is such a painful experience and something to be avoided. What's important is what you do afterwards. Keep yourself busy and improve yourself. If you keep yourself busy and use your sadness/anger as fuel, eventually the feelings start to dissipate. Stay strong, brother. Gurls will be gurls
/r/TheRedPill07/11/16 10:32 PM
8

Exactly. Stoicism explains that we will and should feel emotions because we're human but it's up to us how we deal with the emotions and how much it affects our well-being.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/16 07:49 PM
6

Any thoughts on why?
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 08:02 PM
1

Hey Mike, I love your stuff and you have honestly helped me change my life, so thank you. Haven't been the same ever since I read Gorilla Mindset. My question's in regards to nutrition. What would you do when you're in a situation where eating healthy is, eh... "difficult"? I have almost no income, live with my parents and roughly around $140 in my bank account. I'd love to get into a new diet, but I need to pay for other stuff, too. So where can I start that's economical or at least sustain mys…
/r/TheRedPill03/11/16 07:52 PM
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Dude, yes. If you pull out a comment or whatever that shows them you're "in on it", they will immediately see you in a different light. It's also very funny/sad how they talk to you specifically while there are betas around, like we're above them or something.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 03:03 PM
2

Implying you need social skills to ride the CC.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/16 12:02 PM
1

Pretty much. Always keep yourself busy. It not only feels (and is) productive but it puts everything in perspective when you're working on something you really want to do and not wasting it on plates, bullshit, etc.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 11:59 AM
3

What is 'PPT'? Looked it up and can't tell what context this is used in.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 11:08 AM
1

Rollo's AMA was great, can't wait for Mike's. His book has helped me a lot. I highly recommend Gorilla Mindset to people just getting into tRP(or really anyone). It gives a lot of good, honest advice without being rosy.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/16 11:03 AM
2

Been looking into mindfulness and staying present a lot and it has improved my interactions and game exponentially. Definitely going to try this out.
/r/TheRedPill31/10/16 02:12 AM
7

Typical "Alpha" trying to sound like he's got his shit together. Get out of here with that negativity. I honestly can't tell if you're trolling or not.
/r/TheRedPill22/10/16 05:45 AM
1

Hard for me as well. My concentration is awful and only comes to me with shit I care about.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 03:13 PM
2

Winter has always been a downer for me, as well. I enjoy because it's comfy but it also brings some baggage with it. I'm going to try and embrace every comfy and positive thing about it and not think to much about shit. Keep on, keeping on, brother.
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 03:03 PM
2

Hey, OP. Was on a similar boat about half a year ago, much better now. Those two months of the "relationship" were one of the shittiest of my life. Not only because of the girl but because I was depressed overall of how much of a doormat I was to everyone. The girl cheated on me with her ex even when she said she loved me and was over him and that she wanted something serious with me. She kept up the act of loving me even when she was fooling around. I tried to act like I didn't give a shit abou…
/r/TheRedPill16/10/16 02:36 PM
1

Really appreciate the insight. It made me look at it in another way and I think it's very important. I was looking at it way too literally, as in "you do this, she'll do that". I usually fall into this trap so I gotta catch myself. I don't really see it as sad because as long as I'm getting my dick sucked, I don't care if she doesn't care lol. I was just asking what to do in the technical terms of shit-testing and frame, I guess. Again, thanks for the info.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 10:25 PM
1

What would you suggest is the best course of action? I'm not referring exactly to the "trying not to lose her" mindset, but in the abundance mindset. Do you just shrug it off or agree and amplify like "That's not true. I also want wings from time to time." Because the way you put it doesn't seem like she's giving a comfort test, just a regular ol' shit test.
/r/TheRedPill09/10/16 04:12 PM
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The most important thing to take from this post is to be in the present. Seriously, this has been the key thing that has changed everything for me. If you take nothing out of this post, learn how to do this. You'll be surprised at how much of the red pill techniques come naturally if you're relaxed and in the moment. I actually have fun at parties now because of this. I can't even dance but I'll make fun of that fact and women won't care, just as long as they see you're having fun. "Can you danc…
/r/TheRedPill05/10/16 03:46 AM
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Can confirm. Two weeks without fapping gives you lots of energy
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 10:49 PM
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Keeping self-talk funny and witty keeps you sharp.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/16 10:41 PM
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I agree. Funny thing is it feels much more natural and healthy if you're not obsessing over some girl.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 02:58 AM
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I feel sorry for you, bro. But don't ever fall into the victim mindset. Don't stuff this down, either. Let all the anger and sadness out. Afterwards, kill that whiny bitch that lives inside you once and for all and learn to respect yourself. I've been there, though not as severe. The moment you respect yourself and realize that you're the shit, your world will change. Keep at it.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/16 05:21 PM
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For him it wasn't. In terms of getting laid? Yeah, I guess it was useless. But sometimes it's those little things you never thought you'd ever do that give you the boost to keep at it, especially if you've had something like social anxiety in the past or whatever. My first two phone numbers went nowhere but I was proud of myself to have the balls to walk up to them and talk. Let him enjoy his small victories.
/r/TheRedPill21/09/16 11:59 AM
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I usually see new people with a clean slate, which is why I said I take AWALT with a grain of salt but that it's been proven (to me) time and time again. I don't think everyone is fucking marvelous but I also don't think that everyone is a slut/asshole/etc. I'm sure there are great people out there but like you said, it's the minority. Keep in mind that even though women display AWALT, it doesn't mean I think they're not a catch or whatever. Again, I've met great women but even then they display…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/16 03:32 PM
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I've always taken AWALT with a grain of salt and decided to see how it played out. I wish I was exaggerating but literally every woman I've met has let AWALT slip out. The emotional games, the shit tests, the herd mind, hypergamy, etc. Every. Single. One. One of my best friends is a woman and up to now is the coolest girl I know and even though she is the exception she still displays AWALT from time to time. It's funny because women think we actually like to think this way and call us generalizi…
/r/TheRedPill11/09/16 04:45 PM
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I'll take your word for it, buddy.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 02:36 AM
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I agree. Who a Chad is depends on the circumstances that the woman met him. The 'Chad' that cucked me used febreze as deodorant in front of his "main girl". Febreze. Pretty gross dude all around. He's currently banging another chick right now. Much of the reason(if not all) he has success with women is that he's got massive balls. I'm basically saying that Chad is a very malleable term.
/r/TheRedPill21/08/16 01:33 AM
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My bad. I didn't think you meant grudges, I thought you meant keeping track of people's intentions or something like that. I agree, then. Grudges are bad and very detrimental to any progress you could make.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 03:49 PM
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Yes, they should assume that about men. That doesn't hurt my person(or anyone) in any way if a woman thinks that. If she wants to leave when I answer "Yes" to the assumption that I just want sex, she's free to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 01:53 PM
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Yep. Who else is gonna do that for you? There seems to be this ongoing implication that being calculating and having foresight is bad for you. Can you explain how this would be bad for you?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 01:40 PM
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You're implying that there should be fear in your partner cheating on you. We're human. Animals. Shitty by nature. I'd be surprised if I wasn't cheated on. Not because muh red pill hammered it into my head but because any reasonable person who's honest with themselves will concede to this. There's a bigger chance of getting cheated on than attacked... Just sayin'
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 01:31 PM
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You're basically asking if reality is unhealthy... Depending on the person it could be a yes or a no. Learning the harsh truths of the world can make you depressed, cynical, etc. But it can also make you a better person. It depends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/16 01:23 PM
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It's always entertaining to see how gals act in front of their Chad. The shy ones get giggly, the loud ones get louder... It's painfully obvious to everyone around them except to themselves.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 10:23 PM
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Keep frame, dude. She's probably going to start the puppy eyes if she sees you starting to let her go and you gotta be strong.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 09:30 PM
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Remember, it's alpha to show a woman you have other options, so stop her mid-sentence and just go look for your Pidgey.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/16 08:51 PM
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When I think back to times like this the #1 thing that fucks me up most is the time I wasted. I could've spent my time a lot better than talking to a lying slut. The disrespect is a close second but fuck, I hate wasting time.
/r/TheRedPill06/07/16 08:28 PM
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This is so true it hurts. This reminds me of when my ex-gf had texted me telling me she was alone waiting for me at a secluded place in our uni and did so suggestively. I was kind of back and forth with it in my mind during class and finally decided to ditch it. Spoiler alert, I got shit. Nada. I sacrificed the whole class just so I could "spend time with her" because apparently I had misinterpreted her text. Yeah right. When they think they have you on their puppet strings you're nothing but th…
/r/TheRedPill05/07/16 04:46 PM
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Hell yeah. I found trp about two months ago. I have a shit-ton to do but in these two months I've already made improvements. Once the truth settles in your mind you won't be able to see anything the same way. Godspeed, dude.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 04:15 PM
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You'll get better again. You're just rusty, it happens with any sort of skill. In order to get to the good stuff you need to pump out the shit. I like to write music but before I've gotten to a song that I even remotely have the balls to play to people I have to write like 6 terrible songs. I feel this stuff applies to almost everything, especially creative processes.
/r/TheRedPill27/06/16 12:19 PM
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Fuck, man, that grudge thing hit me hard. I've been recovering from a girl and I've been doing fine until the thought of her cheating on me pops back in my mind. It hurt so much but I know it's my own fault for depending on someone else to make me happy... But I gotta let it go, somehow. This last girl was my phase shift. I call the phase shift that one triggering moment in your life that makes you go "Fuck it. I'm done." It's mostly caused by a woman, humiliation or disrespect (or all of them t…
/r/TheRedPill24/06/16 04:37 PM
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I'm sorry about your friend, dude. That was hard to read. What saddens me the most is that his ex-wife is probably all fine and dandy and will fill the kid's head with how much of a "pussy" his dad was. The kid did end up with the wife, right?
/r/TheRedPill22/05/16 01:42 PM
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Damn, I wish I knew this but you explained this perfectly. My ex-gf had done some public sex stuff but never with me. I realize now that if I had escalated more and lead the way to a secluded place I would've had a better chance to do something. Oh well...
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 03:49 PM
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I'm not an expert, but what they usually say to this is that you have to believe that you're attractive to these women or no one else will. As for being nervous, I getcha. When I'm relaxed I'm actually surprised of the things that come out of my mouth but when I start thinking? Hoo boy... I'm a wreck. Right now I've only gotten one number from an approach and it was meh... Still a victory for me. Let's keep at it, famalam.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 01:31 AM
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Interesting point. My approaching is mostly done at my uni, which isn't that big so it puts me in a weird position where I might see these girls again (doesn't worry me that much, but it could be something that's affecting my performance). I'm going on vacation this summer so I'd like to test this theory out as well. Who knows?
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 01:28 AM
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As of now, I have to be in a really good mood to approach (Trying to work my way up). I love the "thrill" of just talking to a girl I don't know but I still chicken out. It's weird, too, because once I say "Hey" and just start talking, I'm not that bad of a conversationalist. I know this and yet I still chicken out. Fucking brain. You just have to run headfirst into the water or else you'll have second thoughts and start to worry. Hopefully by the end of the summer I'll be decent at approaching.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 12:20 AM
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How did you get a logger for her phone?
/r/TheRedPill12/05/16 01:32 PM
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I agree with this. With the last LAY-DEE I was with, every part of my brain was screaming at me to run, for some reason. I realized later that if I had run earlier I would've saved myself a lot of bullshit (disrespect, probably cheated, dangling the sex-carrot). It's as if your brain adds up everything subconsciously before you do and tries to warn you or something.
/r/TheRedPill10/05/16 12:58 PM
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Going through some stuff, man. I gave this "nice" girl a chance and she ended up blue-balling me(no sex stuff whatsoever, jesus) and is probably blowing her ex that she was "definitely over". Never again, my friend. I gave into her lovey-dovey shit and as soon as I did her twat dried up like the Sahara. It sucks because when I started dating her my abundance mentality was pretty tight but she wagged her ass a bit and I took the bait. I'm dissapointed in myself but I learned my lesson. Time to st…
/r/TheRedPill05/05/16 03:30 AM
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Thanks for the advice. Part of the reason I ask is the difficulty of bringing them home (since the hours that my parents are not home I'm taking classes) but also because I'm really turned on by the thought of getting some in a car. I'll find a way, I hope.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 04:26 PM
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I live at home. 2nd year of college.
/r/askTRP29/04/16 04:20 PM
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Sorry for the ignorance but what's SOL?
/r/askTRP29/04/16 04:19 PM
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So hard NEXT? It's kind of difficult considering some of her social circle overlaps with mine.
/r/askTRP07/04/16 06:32 PM
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I have a question in regards of approaching. The red pill usually preaches that you are the price and that you should maintain your own frame. How do I approach without losing this aura?
/r/askTRP03/04/16 03:22 AM
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Thanks, man. The things I'm currently having trouble with is standing up for myself and keeping frame. I wouldn't be half as frustrated if I had stood my ground on some matters with this girl and really any other person that gives me shit. I'll keep at it, though.
/r/askTRP03/04/16 03:19 AM
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How did you cope with it?
/r/askTRP02/04/16 11:23 PM
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I realize now how stupid that friends-with-benefits without sex thing sounds. What I meant is that we'd been having some pretty heavy make-out sessions but never got anywhere.
/r/askTRP22/03/16 12:05 AM
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