Technology is being integrated in recent generations, should I continue to text purely for logistics?

Iwannachokekatie · 2018-05-05T18:06:44+00:00

Do your friends get laid enough to make their advice on getting laid worth a shit?

vandaalen · 2018-05-05T19:33:07+00:00

How many articles from your friends are in the sidebar of the mainsub?

[deleted] · 2018-05-06T00:57:24+00:00

Don't buy into anyone on here that says "I need to have full texting conversations because that's how college girls operate now" (I've seen guys say a version of this from time to time on here). It's bullshit.

Stick to logistics.

BeeBopJoe · 2018-05-05T18:07:54+00:00

Don't waste your time interacting with her over the phone. Like the title says, try and use phone for logistics only.

vodkasodalimez · 2018-05-05T18:14:36+00:00

I use logistics only if im initiating. If shes texting me Ill answer most of the time in a short manner.

At some point they'll notice that im not interested in boring small talk and stick to texting for logistics aswell.

[deleted] · 2018-05-05T18:30:24+00:00

She can't text you pussy. All texting is is validation for her. Text only for logistics. If a girl text me I'll entertain it for a few minutes then It's, "I'm busy right now, but I'll talk to you later. Enjoy your day"

deadstick_it · 2018-05-05T19:14:06+00:00

If she wanted the D then there wouldn’t be any hesitation. Texting, FaceTime, etc., need not be part of the equation.

Guys these days are too pussy to ask a girl out face to face. So, if she really is on the fence, you will increase your odds if you ask her out to her face.

This will do two things for you. It will show you are confident enough to put your shit out on the table, in person. It will put you in a SMV bracket one notch higher than everyone else that texted her to ask her out. The other part is that she won’t have time to sit on the question for an hour and hamster a reason to turn you down. You could get a yes because she is afraid to say no. Then you take her out and she sees that she was wrong and likes you...or she was right. Either way you gain experience.

If she rejects you when you ask her out then she never liked you. Tell her “ok, see ya” and walk away. Say it like your best friend just told you that he can’t come to the game with you because he’s busy with homework. You don’t get mad, your face doesn’t change, you just accept the no and go on with your day. Don’t count on it but there is a slim chance how you take the rejection could favor you with her later. Hamsters are crazy sometimes.

Ozymanberg · 2018-05-06T03:41:21+00:00

I'm of the mind that texting shouldn't be a chore for you. Enjoy texting for what it is. Yes, text is for logistics but keep it fun and flirty. Unless you had an extremely good interaction with the girl you can get away with dry texting. However, most of the time let your flirty/cocky side shine through your texts.

Basically, worry more about having a good interaction with her in person rather than trying to get into her pants via text.

alpha-zach · 2018-05-06T04:28:08+00:00

Just try it. Watch it fail. Then you won’t be wondering. It’s POSSIBLE to do more than logistics and get a slight bump from some, but the risks outweigh the benefits and you’ll lose more than you win. Fail with a few then, stop. Go out and approach more.

NJA4242 · 2018-05-06T03:42:47+00:00

This is one of those "if you need to ask..." questions. Text game is a thing, but for people who aren't running shit text game isn't a thing.

The reason you're told to stick with logistics is because there is less chance of saying something and having it misinterpreted, as the majority of our communication is non verbal.

You can get a stronger connection with someone in person especially using touch anyways.

In high school I used to think the same thing and believed texting was crucial but I'd shoot myself in the foot 10x more through text and have generally good interactions in person.

Title	Technology is being integrated in recent generations, should I continue to text purely for logistics?
Author	LucidityLoL
Upvotes	2
Comments	12
Date	May 5, 2018 6:02 PM UTC (8 years ago)
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