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Do you have a job yet?
/r/askMRP09/03/23 01:45 AM
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Out of curiosity, what behavior changes?
/r/askMRP08/03/23 10:36 PM
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What you want, can’t be given. You say you want us to knock sense some into you, but you already know the truth. It’s over. You lack the confidence and emotional fortitude to move forward decisively. You know the right decision to make, but you are incapable. I don’t know how much time passed before you updated your post, but you’ve already started rationalizing a way to bring your “soulmate” back. Judge her actions, not her words. She has proven herself to be a liar, nothing should be believed …
/r/askMRP07/03/23 01:35 AM
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This is gold.
/r/seduction10/06/22 05:18 PM
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It’s a good base to start from, but you’ll limit yourself long term. You want to figure out how to interact with women to seduce them, not just attract them. Approaching is like swinging the bat for practice as you learn what works and what doesn’t. Each time you hit the ball a little farther and learn different nuances of the game. Women are entirely different creatures but are very predictable once you learn how to interact with them. Same as any cat, dog, lizard, fish, etc.
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:28 PM
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Explain needy/dramatic
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:21 PM
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Nope. You acted perfectly. Step out of your hopeless dream world in which a hot girl asks you to buy her a drink and you get to sleep with her. Step into reality…. and ask ‘why?’ Why would someone you had a chance with walk away because you showed financial intelligence?(not giving up your money for a rando) That’s an attractive quality in a man. If anything, you might have a shot next time you see her. Just walk up and ask her to buy you a drink(make sure you make eye contact and smirk afterwar…
/r/seduction05/06/22 03:14 PM
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Like zoro the guy with the sword? Ok...
/r/askTRP05/06/20 02:20 AM
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You said it yourself. They’re great in bed. That’s why I like them. But depending on the damage...they aren’t LTR or more material. Keep them in their place. You’ll be fine.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:34 PM
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Lol. That’s it.
/r/seduction04/06/20 11:32 PM
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Cats test boundaries and fight back. Ignore you. Etc. etc. in short cats have incredible “game.” Mostly because they just don’t give af. Dogs are submissive, friendly and very nice guy. You should be able to put two and two together here. One of the patriarchs of red pill has an article or a quote about this. I think it’s roosh and he expounds on it in the book “day game.” Side note: Zoroastrian? My heritage is Zoroastrian. Pm me I’m interested.
/r/askTRP04/06/20 11:24 PM
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We’re all LARPing until we meet up against a new experience or challenge we haven’t come across. In that moment we decide to win and grow or lose and shrink. The closest we get to not LARPing is being x number of times greater than those around us such that they don’t perceive it. The mighty oak no matter how great or strong is still only as strong as the last hurricane. Tomorrow’s hurricane may easily tear it to shreds, but does that mean it was faking it the entire time?
/r/askMRP24/05/20 12:34 AM
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Thank you. I read the post this morning. Watched the movie around 10am. And definitely picked out the references and value hidden in Spades’ use of anger or other emotions strategically. It’s starting to form for me mentally where emotion has a place to be expressed. I’d say I have my shit together at a fairly advanced level. But I’ve definitely depended on STFU and passing shit tests too much and not learned to strategically utilize my emotions(or even perceived emotions that I could have towar…
/r/askMRP23/05/20 08:14 PM
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Horns, I genuinely enjoyed that. At first I rolled my eyes thinking it was another one of those irritating shit testy attacks I have to wade through to get enough respect to get a real answer from the mods. But I really enjoyed how you ended it. So many guys ask questions and get frustrated here, not understanding why the mods attack viciously. But it really answered my question pretty well through example. Beautifully orchestrated. Which book or article in the side bar touches on anger or even …
/r/askMRP23/05/20 03:55 AM
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I see what you’re saying with this. I’d normally categorize despair, depression, and guilt as types of emotions. But I def see how they have elements that aren’t just emotional. That said, this is prob part of my personal narrative, but I also see too much happiness, excitement, or smiley-ness as nice guy behavior. In moderation fine and even enjoyable for her. But my experience is that if I let it go too long without snapping back to my more stoic frame, it creates too much familiarity which op…
/r/askMRP23/05/20 03:48 AM
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I can agree. What are the details there? Do you have a story or personal experience where controlled anger worked in your favor? Or even just a story you’ve heard or a historical story?
/r/askMRP23/05/20 01:55 AM
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Obviously not. You should spend your time on someone more worthy
/r/askMRP23/05/20 01:47 AM
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See my comment above
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:12 PM
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Definitely. But not before you’ve met her or she’s seriously wrapped around your finger
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:12 PM
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Generally, don’t call a girl out before you’ve met her. And you definitely don’t call her out with attacking words before you’ve met her. As an aside, you need to work on your game. You are coming off as butt hurt with this very comment. If you can’t handle randos on the internet, you can’t handle the type of girl that “doesn’t double text” (likely an 8+ or a seriously entitled 6+ that hangs out with 8+’s). Learn to respond to shit tests better.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:10 PM
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Direct attack. Not playful. Comes off as butt hurt. You won’t get a response. On to the next.
/r/askTRP13/05/20 09:00 PM
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Lol. Is that some pick up artist rule for desperate guys? Stop being weird. Let’s go out
/r/askTRP13/05/20 08:56 PM
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If you have to ask, the answer is yes. Not in general, just for you.
/r/seduction03/01/20 03:40 PM
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Frame is your mindset and beliefs that you unwaveringly stick to and to some degree it includes your desires and the need to have some/most of them fulfilled. Having the frame with a woman means she bends her mindset and beliefs(her frame) to fit, follow, or at least not oppose yours. And she aims to fulfill many of your desires(as far as she is capable without violating her own absolute rules.) Think about the weak, loser guy who somehow ended up with a hot wife. He bends his will and desires t…
/r/askTRP27/09/19 06:45 PM
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Dude. Don’t show weakness early on. Never tell her she confuses you. Just chill til she makes her intentions clear. She’s playing the game and you’re losing.
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:39 PM
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Dude. Don’t show weakness early on. Never tell her she confuses you. Just chill til she makes her intentions clear. She’s playing the game and you’re losing.
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:37 PM
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Women respect confidence more than most other qualities. Many other guys may be interested and better than you in other areas, but if they don’t have the confidence to approach and close, they are less interesting to her than a guy who is willing to approach. Unfortunately, it sounds like you also don’t have the confidence to approach. So you’re no better than the others. If you can fix that, great. Otherwise find an easier mark.
/r/seduction12/06/19 04:23 PM
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Bitches be crazy. It’s not worth analyzing individuals. Just general concepts. Cast your net wide and you’ll be fine.
/r/seduction31/05/19 06:40 PM
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Also just noticed. You kind of didn’t answer her question. You used her question to steer her too quickly to going out. Honestly, it’s not always bad because the whole thing was getting a bit chatty for me. But sometimes girls take a bit more warming up and game before they agree to a bumble date. Or she just wanted to hook up and didn’t want a whole date night out of it. The way I test for this is “So are you a come over and watch a movie kind of girl or a go out and grab a drink kind of girl” …
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:35 AM
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In succession is generally fine. There’s a chance she just wanted some entertainment too and was never really interested. I get that impression on this one.
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:33 AM
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Much better. I edited. Read that.
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:26 AM
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A) You started talking about your boring stuff too much at the end. I have a few favorite places... is boring. Oh you have bars that serve cocktails? Thanks that’s pretty much any bar. B) you double texted. Then triple. Always. Always. Say less than necessary. C) then you texted her after she’d already been online without responding. They see through this and see your needy-ness D) you said “only if you like banter with cute boys” that’s not the sort of thing an alpha male says. It’s a common be…
/r/seduction30/05/19 11:20 AM
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Reset. Every morning is new. Shrug it off. Pretend it didn’t happen. But she was likely open to cheating. Just thought “she never would,” which is bs. A guy like that can work his magic and get her in bed easy. Ask yourself why would she want to “get confirmation or socialize” with someone that treated her like shit?
/r/askTRP26/05/19 08:07 PM
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It’s the blue pill mindset. There are all sorts of scenarios where people want this type of relationship, but it just isn’t possible due to human nature. Bosses want to be best friends with their employees. Parents want to be best friends with their kids. Pastors want to be best friends with their congregation. Two business partners want to be best friends and “equal” owners. Communism says we can all share our wages and be happy. And husbands want to be best friends with their wives. All great …
/r/askTRP11/05/19 03:31 AM
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Get a buzz cut, and maybe you’ll be attractive enough for me. Fag
/r/askTRP03/05/19 04:46 PM
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Bro. You’re an idiot. She was probably flirting with you initially but could see how insecure you were and then started making fun of you. Read the sidebar.
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:55 PM
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Nope. You don’t get it. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:51 PM
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Start by not blaming your dad for your decision to not be a strong man. Then lift. Watch other alpha males and mirror their behaviors. Be rowdy. Picks fights(not necessarily physical ones). Embrace the inner asshole. It’s a big frame shift so you’ll get lots of resistance from people you currently know. You might even lose your current friend group and find a new one. Your family will not receive it well. But if it’s who you want to be then it’s who you are. Go do it.
/r/seduction03/05/19 03:49 PM
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Unfortunately, as everyone has said, the relationship is not salvageable(in its current state). Your best chance is to remove yourself fully. Remove attention, time, everything. And start living your life separate. Work on yourself. Become better. DO NOT TRY TO PUT THINGS BACK TOGETHER. Down the road she might see you as a strong man and try to come back. You can decide if that’s an option for her then. More than likely (assuming you put the work in) your SMV will be much higher than hers and yo…
/r/askTRP03/05/19 03:07 PM
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Green flags yes. But they don’t really control themselves. (To a degree they do, but not the way men do, through logic and commitment) She follows her feelings. Currently, she knows she can fuck whenever she wants with (what seems like) the most alpha man she’s ever been with. So she has no interested in others. So mostly, you control her by directing her feelings toward you. If you get slack and let your SMV slide or turn into a little bitch, her feelings will change and she will be interested …
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:42 PM
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This is stupid and erroneous.
/r/askTRP03/05/19 12:35 PM
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I’ve never seen the no ugly girls link before, but I’ve thought it for years. It’s classically true. Work on yourself, and you can land a better man than the one you are obsessing over.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/19 06:25 AM
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Dude you’ve got a lot work to do.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 06:11 PM
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You’re using push/pull. It’s a little off because alphas don’t use “I’m mad at you” push pull. It’s a chick move. I don’t think it’s gonna work out, but she’s playing the game at least. Tell her to meet you. DONT ACTUALLY ACT MAD. ACT CHILL. But use whatever this is to get time with her. Be interesting/fun and escalate with kino. Don’t tell her “why” you’re mad under any circumstances. No matter how much she begs or gets angry. That’s the only thing keeping her interested. If she gets it, she’ll…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 02:05 PM
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Very simply, if you think it, you can say it. If you don’t, don’t just say it cause she wants you to. The best approach is to give her what she wants, without doing what she says. She doesn’t want you to say it. She wants to feel it. Saying it, is just one way of making her feel it. (The lowest form) The better way is to give her subtle, suggestive looks when she looks hot. Let her catch you checking her out. While she’s cooking, walk by her and slap her ass, bonus points if you say, “good girl.…
/r/askTRP24/04/19 01:56 PM
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I’m no Morpheus or whatever Neo is in his final form. But I’m well beyond dodging bullets. This is meant for those who are recently fascinated by knowing “kung fu.”
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 05:45 PM
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We have to be having a semantics issue here. Taking her out with you to a bar while you have fun, focus on other people, and show social competency has nothing to do with comfort. Dates are bad for sexual desire by itself Of course. I believe I said that. But it’s part of the package to show her OI, social proof, even other women attracted to you. I rarely find life long betas on here, betas don’t seek resolutions to their problems. I find a lot of past alphas that got a ring on a finger with mo…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 04:35 PM
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I can tell you coach chicks Of course not. All the mods, endorsed contributors, and men with strong frame are desperately in need of coaching. So I cater directly to them. Most guys that come here are extremely co dependent, risk averse and conflict avoidant. This is going to sound very good to them, and they will continue to bullshit their conflict avoidance as if it's redirection-game. Conceal your intentions. So much depends on reputation guard it with your life. Make other people come to you…
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 04:08 PM
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I see that the flow of my post gave the wrong impression. The focus was not on starting drama, but redirecting it through dates or outside activities because beginners struggle with the bevy of early shit tests. Ive made some edits to clear that up.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 03:35 PM
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Stir up waters to catch fish, but never outshine the master.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 02:42 PM
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Ahhh I see. I whole heartedly agree, as it was my full intention to write a simple post. What is obvious to more advanced red pillers, is not so obvious to the brand new. Connecting the dots is not so easy. Baby steps.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 02:31 PM
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I’ve found these concepts work quite well for those just starting the journey. But in the interest of understanding your criticism, are you saying we shouldn’t tease our wives, and should do what they want on dates?
/r/MarriedRedPill23/04/19 02:11 PM
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You disgust me. But we can’t all be alphas.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 01:18 PM
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How did you not start your post with this instead of the shit test? Oneitis much? Trying to save a broken situation? You’ve lost the frame, and she’s a trash human being. Drop her like sacks of shit she is. I’m guessing you defended your fantasy instead of shutting up and ignoring or treating it like another shit test too. Now, you’ve lost the respect of your friends. Get it together man. Also wtf is this fantasy? I rarely judge people’s kinks but that’s pretty sketch.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 09:00 PM
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Porn. Just put on any movie. It doesn’t matter. Focus on the girl not the movie you idiot.
/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:38 PM
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It’s a classic shit test. Ignore, AA, or pressure flip Ignore: just don’t engage her and remove your attention when she does this. It’s boring to you and you don’t have time for boring women AA: I like to date ugly girls. <look her dead on> (the subtext here is that you are giving her shit back by implying that she’s ugly. If she asks if that’s what you’re saying, playfully deny. Pressure flip: Are you saying that looks is the only reason a guy should date a girl? After each of these responses d…
/r/askTRP19/04/19 08:38 PM
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Sent you a direct message
/r/askTRP18/04/19 10:55 PM
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A. Chill out. You’re overreacting. It’s just not that big of a deal. B. No that’s not cucking. It’s not even a cock block unless he made you look stupid in front of the girl. C. This guy doesn’t have the confidence to get an attractive girls number. He’ll never go anywhere with her. D. This is awkward. There will always be awkward people in life. Just say no and move on. E. He probably sensed you were getting emotional. Manipulative people know they can get emotional people to do things for them…
/r/askTRP18/04/19 10:23 PM
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Not worth it. I doubt you’re getting laid by attractive girls your own age, though so gotta start somewhere...I guess. <shudder>
/r/askTRP14/04/19 10:35 PM
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There’s the 2/3 rule. Say I love you 2 times for every 3 she says it. But I’m amazed at the effectiveness of a 1:10 ratio. Not that I totally ignore her, I just give a kiss back instead of saying the words back.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/19 05:24 PM
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It was pretty convenient. But to answer your question... A. I’m generally an asshole, so she says it a lot, playfully B. The specific situation was: I just showered. I wrapped the towel around my waist. She wanted to use it to wipe her face cause she just washed her face. So she asked for it. I said go ahead wipe your face(with it still wrapped around my waist)(implying that she’s need to wipe her face near my dick) so she called me an asshole. Good asshole move. C. My prediction was wrong. She …
/r/askTRP14/04/19 03:01 AM
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You still have some work to do, if you believe any of this. Trp works. Hands down. As I was reading your post, my LTR called me an asshole. She’ll suck my dick in the next 90 seconds. Guaranteed. Women LOVE a benevolent asshole.
/r/askTRP14/04/19 02:46 AM
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If it goes past two weeks, make sure you reinvigorate or she’ll think you dropped her
/r/askTRP11/04/19 04:20 PM
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Men that fuck a lot don’t get hard immediately. She’s just inexperienced and doesn’t know this. It appears you don’t fuck a lot, not sure why you have this, but play it in your favor. “I guess you just aren’t working hard enough” “Give me a reason to get hard” “Do you get wet immediately?” Say these playfully, but dominant Funny has nothing to do with it.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 01:30 PM
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Wow. Finally a descent question. I’ve been waiting days for this. They want commitment from the alpha. Most girls aren’t high enough SMV or good enough to get it though. You’re doing everything right if they get to this stage. They don’t want BB/AF. That’s just a product of their desires. They want a fully alpha(fucks good, dominant, asshole, etc) and fully beta provider(good friend, puppy dog, cute, has money), but no such thing exists in one man. So because women can sleep around in relationsh…
/r/askTRP04/04/19 09:34 PM
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Unless you’re really intimidating she’s not scared of someone she’s been with a long time. She doesn’t like you bro. Everyone else is saying the same thing.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 07:17 PM
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Wear something new but equally good quality. With a new girl don’t show beta traits. Only alpha unless she shows a clear need of comfort during a major event(someone tries to mug her during your date)
/r/askTRP03/04/19 02:10 PM
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You’re mission, hobbies, work, interests, and social network become your plates. Attention is what women want, not sex(sort of). Sex is more a tool to get attention when other means don’t work. Also, it’s the most intimate form of attention. So plates take attention away and make her crave you. Now your other activities replace that.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 01:13 PM
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How long have you been together?
/r/askTRP03/04/19 01:07 PM
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She doesn’t like you. Improve your SMV or drop her and find a lower SMV girl.
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:06 AM
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It was a shit test. But you didn’t respond the way you respond to a shit test...
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:04 AM
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I believe you can purchase on amazon
/r/askTRP03/04/19 04:03 AM
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Aight. But your question is too broad. There are millions of social groups.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 05:08 PM
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Why?
/r/askTRP02/04/19 04:36 PM
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Feelings are important to women because they process information emotionally. So they don’t want to hurt your feelings, and they want you to feel good about them. It feels good when someone says they’d stay with you even if you became a fat slob. So they say it to make you feel good. Sometimes they might not even know it’s a lie. Women can be blue pill just as much as a man, and it’s a typical blue pill man’s move to say he’d love a girl even if she got fat. And blue pill men typically really be…
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:46 PM
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Wear heels. Or stop being a fag. Lift. Short guys have the benefit of being able to look buff quicker than tall guys because the muscle spreads out over a shorter distance. Be dominant. Women like height but it’s rarely a deal breaker if he’s a buff alpha male.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 03:18 PM
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5.1 inches is average, so you’re above average. 5’10” is average male height. Do you see women bitching about being with a guy that’s 6’0” just because he’s not 7’0”? Stop being a pussy. Go fuck.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:49 PM
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An alpha without question would never ask “is it wrong to ...” You’re a fuckboy, not an alpha.
/r/askTRP02/04/19 02:43 PM
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It’s neg dude.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 07:08 PM
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As best I can tell you have tons of frame and are projecting your own insecurities on her. She’s not walking all over you, she’s freaked out about losing you and/or just being a typical woman with roller coaster emotions.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:48 AM
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I don’t think many mature trp guys would seriously endorse viewing women as objects. That’s more PUA to me. They are big children. But not objects.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 09:44 AM
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I’m no fap. I’ve never experienced this desexualization. Sounds like some major blue pill shit that was just compounded by no fap.
/r/askTRP01/04/19 03:09 AM
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I’m confused. Clarify for me. You accused her of cheating while she was just having a bad night, so she got pissed and didn’t answer your calls. She calls you the next day, and explains that she was having an emotional freak out, you basically ignore and tell her you are angry/butt hurt. Then she sends a long apology text. When did she walk all over you? Why would you assume she’s calling you upset after she cheats on you? Why would you accuse her of that? Even if she did, on what planet do you …
/r/askTRP01/04/19 03:05 AM
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“Sometimes the best play is to smile, nod, then do what you were going to do in the first place.” Considering all the potential variables in a relationship the amount of frame you have, the time you’ve had it, her respect, your personal ability to handle her crazy, her level of crazy, etc sometimes it’s a very good move to let her rant while you sit calm, confident, and unmoved.
/r/askMRP30/03/19 06:34 PM
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Because the dog is really a dragon. Let your Machiavellian side triumph over your narcissism in this moment. If you don’t understand that look up. Illimitable men, dark triad
/r/askTRP28/03/19 09:24 PM
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Definitely. Let the sleeping dog lie.
/r/askTRP28/03/19 08:12 PM
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Humble confident is better for long term gain, arrogant cocky is better for short term gain. This isn’t just with women, it’s works across the board with most elements of life. Read or reread 48 laws and you’ll see this play out throughout history. Many laws have a reversal that strikes the balance between arrogant confident and humble confident. Various thoughts: Arrogant cocky instills short term fear in enemies and boldness within self. But even King’s fall to a peasant who plays the game slo…
/r/askTRP28/03/19 06:00 PM
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Arms are very important. But core is generally more important to health and longevity. You do you ignore her bs man
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:32 PM
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Tell me about how her hair is naturally that shiny(conditioner) or her breasts are naturally perky(bra) or she’s really that tall(heels) or she naturally smells like a flower(perfume) or her clothes never enhance her shape. Women are walking talking examples of using unnatural means to hide imperfections. Most everything that’s considered feminine is just a tool to improve on what either can’t be naturally improved or takes too much work. When they shit test men on this front for working out or …
/r/askTRP27/03/19 06:29 PM
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Sometimes people disagree with this approach but it worked really well for me. Approach people you aren’t attracted to(so that you don’t have the anxiety running the whole time) Low SMV girls, men, old ladies at the grocery store. Also, chat up attractive girls that have to listen to you, but that you don’t have a serious ability to pursue. Cashiers, bartenders, service providers. It’s a bad social move to try to get these girls numbers unless she shows extreme interest, so there’s less pressure…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:51 PM
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Since it’s been only 4 days. You’ll look thirsty if you try to close again today. Go work on finding additional girls today. Text her Thursday about setting something up Friday or Saturday.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:42 PM
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Next.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:38 PM
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Let me say it a different way. Tomassi has an article on what he calls buffers. Men as a product of ego investment will convince themselves (and truly believe) that they don’t like girls that dress slutty or are really hot. Not because they’ve never been attracted but because they can’t get a girl with that kind of SMV. So they hamster themselves into believing they are deeply attracted to less attractive qualities, and repulsed by naturally attractive qualities. It’s the same with your girl. Sh…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:16 PM
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Good response: Tell me about how your face is all natural and not covered by anything.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:08 PM
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Yeah but you’re not really getting it. Reread what I said. Side note. I’ve seen studies where abs are (generally) on the bottom of the list of muscles that women are attracted to. The findings were very strange to me. Men think mostly about biceps(even though they are one of the lesser used muscles.) I believe the general consensus was, in order: shoulders, triceps, back, legs, then abs. But the Adonis belt(the v formed in the lower abs and obliques, that points to your dick) I’ve heard is at th…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 04:07 PM
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You were mate guarding and it drove her away. The best approach was to AMOG him. Let her have her beta orbiter friends but make him look small and weak compared to you. Not necessarily make fun of him behind his back with her. Potentially little jabs can be fine. But go out with them and AMOG him with shit tests and get him defensive and butt hurt.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 03:57 PM
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Ever remember blue pill you tell your girlfriend that xyz girl wasn’t that hot cause her chest was too big? I do. There’s some truth to this. For me, there’s def a point where it’s too big and often that comes along with flab in other areas. I like a small waisted girl and chest isn’t nearly as important. Of course I don’t like flat and bigger is great as long the figure is good. But we all have our preferences and some of those are colored by past experiences. It’s not unlikely she has a mental…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 03:34 PM
2

There’s an entire sub with thousands of women called red pill women. They just see the SMP changing and power dynamics shift. They are using the shifting social environment to further their motivations. If they can get a better man by being red pill they’ll do it. This is nothing new. There are no unicorns. Move on.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:15 PM
2

Fantasy. Same reason beta cucks like being cucked watching a more alpha man fuck their wife.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:14 PM
2

Ex calls, says “I’ll change.” This is a recipe for disaster for both of them. If he does change he’s in her frame, she’ll be miserable. If he doesn’t intend to or doesn’t, he’s just gonna screw with her head for a time then leave or she’ll break up. She’ll be alone, and she’ll come back to you. Are you gonna be a loser and accept her because your oneitis needs her? Or are you gonna be a man and tell her she fucked up and you’re done? Enjoy the victory of lowing she will be unhappy with her decis…
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:12 PM
2

This is good
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:08 PM
10

If you’ve been isolated for a long time, it’s you going crazy.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 12:26 PM
42

Unlikely that it’ll come up. Especially if you are alpha enough. She’ll just assume. But if it does treat like a shit test. Ignore, AA, or pressure flip. Even if you’d slept with hundreds of women over the last 7 years you’d do the same.
/r/askTRP27/03/19 01:17 AM
2

It’s a bad idea. Leave it alone. Don’t shit where you eat. If you don’t follow the rules, we won’t help. To any idiot that responds with decent advice: you are contributing to the delinquency of a minor in some states and could be charged accordingly if he gets her in bed.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:12 PM
1

You’ve accidentally discovered really good game techniques. You could bed her anytime you wanted.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:08 PM
2

Def not out of your way. But I’d be respectful. There’s a reason chicks chase the bad boy that encourages her to rebel against daddy. But there’s also a reason he gets a shot gun in his face. There’s a happy balance. Find it. Run game on daddy to some degree. But nothing too overt. You’ll earn his respect as well as not create too much drama.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 10:03 PM
1

If a girl wants to go to her place and drink it almost always means let’s fuck. What do you mean by “their place?” I hope it’s not a boyfriend unless you like it in the ass also.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:55 PM
1

Fuck yeah. Imma hop on that like Becky on Chads dick.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:53 PM
1

Wait what? We can see TRP? I thought it was banned and we had to go to the online forum?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:48 PM
3

It was a good answer when you just said “no.” Then you got all cunty and hit the edit button. I’ll pretend you just said no. Unfortunately it’s a bit of a trick question. The answer is yes, but it doesn’t matter. Alpha and beta aren’t binary. They are points on the opposite end of a spectrum. Beta——mostly beta——50/50—-mostly alpha—-Alpha—-God. Tomassi has said that in order to maintain a relationship you need a mixture of alpha and beta erring on the side of alpha most of the time. So any submis…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:30 PM
2

When you are in the top 20%. However, a serious failing in your game is that you don’t understand they ARE chasing you. Prolonged looks are called IOI’s. This IS women chasing you. That’s about all any man ever gets. IOI’s are the feminine form of approach. They are too anxious to go any further unless they are seriously inebriated AND horny. For a girl to approach and ask for your number puts you easily in the top 1%. The IOI is the invitation. They are saying, “I’m going to make this pretty ea…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:18 PM
1

I’ll give you an answer, but I’m asking you to think for yourself a little bit before I spoon feed you. Serious question. If you show respect to the police after they pull you over, does your girl see you as a beta?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:12 PM
2

It’s a shit test. Just like any other. Ignore, AA, or pressure flip. Ignore works just fine and you’ve been doing it. AA. “I thought 1 inch was a good size!” Pressure flip. “Is that why you wouldn’t stop texting me the next day?”
/r/askTRP26/03/19 09:10 PM
1

GFTOW. Then she’ll be out of your head and you can focus on mission etc.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:52 PM
1

If I show respect to the police while my girl is in the car, is that beta in her eyes?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 08:48 PM
5

Both and neither. Alpha widow is relative to the most alpha man. Arguably any woman is alpha widowed that has slept with anyone until she finds someone better. And virgins are “alpha widowed” to their dad because he had contextual frame as she grew up. (I’m not talking about incest here, don’t take it there you idiots) So even a virgin wont give you frame if you don’t out do her fathers flaws(or at least have the potential to do so as you age and mature). Sex gives you a leg up, but it’s not eno…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:39 PM
1

Take it as a soft no. If a HB9 showed interest in you while your parents were in town and you were busy, would you make her wait 3 weeks? Of course not. If an HB5 (or whatever your minimum number is for interest) showed interest, would you make her wait 3 weeks? Probably. Don’t burn the bridge. Wait and show disinterest. Game other girls. If you come across her again, try gaming her again. You got a sort of oneitis for this one girl simply because she said wait 3 weeks. You focussed on her becau…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 07:31 PM
3

Wrong. SMV is chiefly about “alpha.” Everything else is secondary. “Alpha” is arrogant, asshole confidence.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:37 PM
1

TLDR Stopped at “being confident is a nice guy trait. Arrogant assholes steal girls” You don’t understand confident. Arrogant assholes are confident. They are the pinnacle of confidence. Google “Tomassi Corey Worthington.” Nice guys fake confidence all the time and never get laid. I thought I was confident. I wasn’t. Now, I occasionally beat the women off of me because I’m an arrogant asshole. I’m not a criminal, and I’m kind and good to people. But I’m def an arrogant asshole. Keep reading. Kee…
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:34 PM
1

You know how dogs tuck their tail between their legs when they are running scared?
/r/askTRP26/03/19 05:16 PM
2

I don’t think so. Obviously, it’s common that a guy with a boner would be inexperienced and needy. But very few actions are inherently beta. It’s how the action is framed that’s beta. I assure you, I could approach a woman in a club, boner in hand, and use it to bed her quicker than if flaccid. I’m not certain I have the confidence to pull it off in a grocery store, but I’m sure a stronger man could.
/r/askTRP26/03/19 11:24 AM
7

When I was really young, I prob would.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 10:01 PM
28

I think it’s the opposite. It’d be a turn on. I can see why it’s embarrassing, but play it like an advantage. I’m a man, I’m sexual, and I’m confident in it is the best way to bed a woman.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:34 PM
31

Aight. Well, assuming it’s not. Don’t worry about it. If a hot chick walked up to you, and you some how had the ability to know she was wet just from seeing you across the room, would that be a positive or a negative?
/r/askTRP25/03/19 07:26 PM
117

This has got to be a joke
/r/askTRP25/03/19 06:51 PM
2

If you go to your TA’s office hours and ask, I would think that implies guilt. Generally, I’d not do this.
/r/askTRP25/03/19 04:36 PM
1

Yep. You got it. You said, first step is to not say more than necessary. A massive confession is more than necessary. And like you said, doing so might force the professor to come down harder than he wants. And like I said there isn’t enough info to give you a good direction. You’ve got to make that decision. Maybe coming clean is best, maybe not. It depends on how you see the professor acting. How he approaches you. What you expect your friends to do. What you think the TA will do. There’s sooo…
/r/askTRP25/03/19 01:21 PM
4

First slow down. Your thinking is all over the place because you are emotional. Take a minute to breath then map it out step by step on paper. Make a conscious decision about what move you want to make, so that you can live with the consequences without regret. First off, never do this lying thing again. It only creates problems. Preferably don’t cheat, but if you do, be ready to own it. Not make things worse. As for what I’d do specifically...if you’ve read 48 laws, there are a number of laws h…
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:37 PM
3

Don’t do this.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:13 PM
1

Increase your standards. Also dating apps give you a lot of exposure early. It’ll cut by 1/3 pretty quick.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 09:09 PM
1

This can work but only short term. You need positive feedback loops.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 07:47 PM
2

Hold frame and treat it like a shit test. It’s only annoying because you are in their frame. (Which may make some sense because they are likely your elders) Just latch onto the knowledge that as you improve yourself you’ll be improving your SMV. One day you’ll walk in with a smokin hot girl 5-10 years younger than you, well vetted, and submissive. Their jaws will drop, and it will have all been worth it.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 07:23 PM
1

The male equivalent of an alpha widow is oneitis. Are you saying you treater her poorly because you were focused on some past girl?
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:49 PM
1

I’ve had more whites guys do this than black.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 12:46 PM
1

Each in its purest form maybe, but I doubt rollo really believes what you are implying here. The clear middle ground through a healthy marriage in which strong children are raised that have good prospects for their future, isn’t either sex failing it’s sexual strategy.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:48 AM
1

Shit test. AA. I’m probably more trouble than you can handle.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:41 AM
2

How can they enjoy their job and also want to quit. No. Don’t send a long email. You voice concerns slowly and piece by piece. Otherwise nothing permanent happens. But if they have a long list of grievances, it’s not likely they will see the changes necessary to warrant staying.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:40 AM
1

Great skill and tremendous patience. This is an absurd question. There’s literally books and books about this. We can’t possibly answer such a broad question.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:38 AM
2

You’d get better advice on askmrp. But in short, treat it like one gigantic shit test. Ignore. Ignore. Ignore. Hold frame.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:34 AM
1

I mentor a few men on here.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:32 AM
2

Believe what you want. But you’re dead wrong.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:29 AM
1

Sometimes. But it’s not the most attractive quality in a man. Confidence or what we call alpha here is the most attractive quality. Having good looks naturally increases confidence, but doesn’t necessarily do everything needed. You need to start reading sidebar material if you want to understand this.
/r/askTRP24/03/19 02:16 AM
3

If you’re “too cocky” for the girls you are chasing, you’re just chasing girls that are too low SMV. Girls love cocky. It excites them, but it wears on them. So less attractive girls can’t handle it as well. That said, you can’t be an idiot. There’s a difference between cocky fun and cocky rude. Figure out which one you are and tailor your approaches.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 07:35 PM
1

WELL DONE! Food for thought. If following your horny balls worked to get her interest....don’t you think you should keep doing that? Stop over thinking. Get some basic advice here, but just think with your other head and all will go well.
/r/askTRP23/03/19 07:32 PM
5

Infinitely better idea.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:56 PM
2

No. Bad. Don’t do that.
/r/askTRP21/03/19 06:55 PM
46

You don’t. You do better next time. Move on. Maybe. Just maybe. You can say “I was in weird mood last time. Had a bad day. Lets try another movie” This is assuming you haven’t texted her a bunch of times for ghosting you. When a girl invites you over for a movie 99 times out of 100 it means she wants fuck. This is girl code for fuck me. You have to internalize that. If you want to feel it out. You use kino to see where she’s at. If she likes you touching her in little ways, she wants you to touc…
/r/askTRP21/03/19 01:37 PM
1

The rabbit goes in the hole.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:32 PM
1

Don’t talk about fight club, stupid.
/r/askMRP20/03/19 03:19 PM
3

Don’t talk about fight club. But you can introduce him to masculine figures and concepts through movies. He needs to see it in you first, like you saw it in your father. But he’s 7 for goodness sake, he’s supposed to be a little bitch. Wait til he’s 12 before you get concerned. Wrestle with him. Do push-ups. Compete. Take him out in the woods. Take him to exciting places beyond video games.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 03:15 PM
16

We’ve all been there. The ones that think they haven’t still are.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:56 PM
1

You can def work on being alpha. You’ve misread the material if you think otherwise. If you’ve read the rational male, what you are doing is akin to buffering. Using excuses to strike your ego because what you want to do it too hard. That’s being a pussy.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 02:52 PM
1

Plates aren’t exclusive. You are exclusive to them. Ignore it. Keep going. If you give it attention you’ll look like a bitch and she’ll dry up.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:41 PM
2

Sexual innuendo. Then close her. My dog likes a little heavy petting. Let’s grab a drink.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:39 PM
1

Meeting friends is a higher level relationship step than most realize. If you’re asking this question it’s prob more than a plate. For me, plates tend to create this mental thing where you have no interest in them beyond booty. Time out with them is simply a means to an end and rarely enjoyable.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:29 PM
1

Women who describe themselves as one of the boys are typically an extra level of crazy. Plate her if you like but not dating material.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:25 PM
2

It’s a hard pill to swallow, but this is accurate.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:21 PM
1

You don’t explain things to women.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 12:20 PM
2

What did you say, to which she responded you’re sweet? Give the full text convo if it’s reasonably short. Seems like you’re overthinking to a degree, but “As honey, honey” while witty is a beta/dad joke type response. Her “oh really” is sort of interesting. It has an almost sexual subtext to it. A good response would’ve been, “if you’re lucky, I’ll give you a taste.” Always be sexualizing conversation, especially over text.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:39 AM
5

It’s a good starter rule. Mostly because guys that text a bunch are super beta and boring. So you have to break yourself out of those beta mentalities. Once you’ve done that, you can slowly text more, and you’ll find it enhances game to a point. When you learn how an exciting guy thinks and acts, you can apply that to texting. You still end up texting minimally but only high value statements, and she’s always saying a lot more than you. You keep the conversation channels open for her to show int…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:34 AM
2

Soft next. If she comes back, plate her. She’s not LTR material.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:18 AM
1

I don’t intend to be a dick, but it’s just not something you should be wondering about. It’s not useful information. If you’re there, you know it’s true and why. If you’re asking, you’ve got a lot of work to do.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:13 AM
2

The law explains solipsism and why to avoid creating covert contracts. It’s not really actionable, it’s more preventative. The closest it gets to actionable is making sure your timing is correct. If you want sex and expect to give her attention to get sex, you need to escalate soon after, not wait til she’s bored with your attention.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 10:11 AM
1

So good.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:43 AM
2

I don’t like to burn bridges, so ghosting isn’t my style. But I have ignored a plate for a couple weeks then when she sends a message said, “I think we should go our separate ways,” with good results.
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:20 AM
1

Not being into yoga is why I eventually decided not to do it. It seemed like I‘d be breaking frame to chase tail. When I do social circle game, I don’t open and approach a lot, I let them come to me or get introductions through a mutual friend. So becoming the creeper is a non issue. I would think the yoga place would eventually have trips to events or parties that would create an atmosphere for getting to know people, but just being around people on a regular basis creates opportunities to work…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 09:06 AM
1

Get very, very comfortable being alone, doing your own thing, without looking around the room at all. You have to be physically attractive. Lift, dress well, clean. The vibe you to give off is as if you are the bar owner, sitting in his own bar, unimpressed by all the activity going on around him. Get in good with the bartenders(be a good tipper), they and anyone you know and run into are your social proof. If you stick with the same bar multiple nights a week, you’ll create relationships with t…
/r/askTRP20/03/19 08:51 AM
6

You’re delusional dude. She’s nuts. But def go the break up route. You should promise exclusivity, break it and go back.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:31 PM
1

In what respect?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 09:23 PM
1

That’s largely how I run my game. It’s pretty sweet, but takes time to develop.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 07:36 PM
1

I don’t think OP will understand this is a joke. OP this is a joke. Don’t do this. He’s making fun of you for overreacting.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:25 PM
1

What’s going on is she didn’t want to talk about something. Stop over complicating it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:24 PM
1

Wtf. Why would you go for an older woman?
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:11 PM
1

It’s difficult to rid yourself of it. I’d argue most never do. Even the greats prob manage some kind of small desire for female validation, just like how every has their bad days. Manage it by never letting it show. Don’t run game with established lays when you are feeling it, you’ll fuck things up. Don’t make decisions based on it.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:08 PM
8

I get you. FYI, she prob isn’t. Girls that say they are exclusive to you but go to parties without you are almost always lying. Or if not, they are looking to trade up.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:05 PM
3

Disrespect and hard nexting is about your boundaries, not ours. If it’s too much for you, you next. I wouldn’t hard next in that situation, just soft. But that’s irrelevant. You want to weight out the pros and cons. Hard next means no banging her ever again. If her actions make it worth not banging her anymore then hard next.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 05:03 PM
12

That’s not exclusive. Get your terms right.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:48 PM
1

You can’t force yourself to learn beyond a certain point each day. It’s a rule of life. Get used to it. Just like lifting. You can’t just lift all day, lift more and more etc. Muscle is built over time. Consistently lifting more each week. Taking appropriate rest. If it were possible with learning, people could buckle down, focus and take over anything in a few months. Consistently maxing your learning muscle out each day for an extended period with proper breaks in between is the only way to gr…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 04:45 PM
28

Yes. But you clearly aren’t.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 01:14 PM
1

She prob perceived your text as a booty call while she was already dancing with chad. You didn’t give her anything to respond to. “Nice to meet you, hope to see you soon” is a polite goodbye. Hot girls get tons of messages. They don’t respond unless it requires a response. You have to say something open ended if you want an answer. Since you messaged her so soon after meeting, it’s prob best that it was closed ended otherwise you are trying to start a conversation while she’s out having fun. The…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:55 PM
4

You’re over thinking it. Quick and clean. Don’t drag it out. Don’t let her drag it out.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:39 PM
33

Get into social circles that have some women. Become a regular at a specific bar, amateur sports, charitable organizations, etc. I’m not the type to do yoga. But I seriously considered getting into that social circle to make plates at one time.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:38 PM
1

Either works. AA is just higher level and more fun. You can’t effectively AA until you learn to ignore. But once you can ignore you should work on AA. Eventually, you will only AA with the exception of the most brutal of shit tests that cut you to the core, ignore those. Once you’ve mastered AA you begin working on the third stage, pressure flips. Mastering these takes some time but is considerably more effective.
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:27 PM
2

“For an explanation” Do you explain things to your wife too? Instead of stammering you prob just get a deer in the headlights look.
/r/askMRP19/03/19 12:19 PM
1

It works because women constantly make fun of beta behavior indirectly publicly and pretty directly privately with their closest friends. Ever overhear two hot girls essentially have a shit test fest about guys behind their backs? It’s very common. So when a guy who “gets it” knows a socially calibrated way to do it indirectly or directly, they know he has game. As long as you don’t have these behaviors yourself, you’ll get a lot of positive attention from higher smv girls. You’ll also attract a…
/r/askTRP19/03/19 12:58 AM
3

Good. Godspeed friend.
/r/askMRP19/03/19 12:52 AM
4

https://therationalmale.com/tag/notch-count/
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:19 PM
8

A lot of people get weird about body count here but tomassi’s writing ultimately says it’s a non issue. The real issue is whether you are her best alpha or not. I’ll try to find the link to his article.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 10:17 PM
6

Seems legit.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 09:23 PM
1

FYI, I believe most rp Christians hold that complementarian beliefs are anti red pill and anti biblical submission. Not necessarily in how it presents itself, but how it’s skewed in practice.
/r/RedPillWomen18/03/19 09:20 PM
2

Few here would suggest making a promise to buy a car for a woman. It was just to illustrate the law. The law is also more for understanding how women think than something to be followed. It’s to minimize expectations of commitment due to covert contracts. Not to be used as a tool to get things, necessarily.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 08:16 PM
2

Aight. I feel ya. So what are you gonna do now? Also the shit test wasn’t the discussion. It was the yelling at you amongst several others.
/r/askMRP18/03/19 08:12 PM
1

Under what circumstances would you not hold frame?
/r/askTRP18/03/19 07:43 PM
18

Stfu? Don’t deer? Treat her like a child not an adult? Eliminate covert contracts? I’m struggling to count the number of rules you broke here. Sidebar much?
/r/askMRP18/03/19 07:41 PM
3

Didn’t you have a post somewhere else about this with tons of actionable advice?
/r/askMRP18/03/19 05:33 PM
1

It’s a shit test. Ignore, AA or pressure flip.
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:38 PM
16

Oh kiddo. You have so much to learn. When you’re 21, the world doesn’t care about you. You’re still a child. Short of being a drug addict on the streets, where you are today has very little bearing on where you’ll end up in life. The world lies to you about blue pill mentalities. I’m glad you’ve rid yourself of those shackles. But another big lie is that you have to succeed by your early 20s. I remember believing it. Your 20s are not for succeeding, they are for building a foundation that can ho…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 04:00 PM
1

Not if done correctly. When you move a woman into plate status you have to be more aware of comfort tests. Beyond plate status you have to introduce some level of “beta-ness.” A better way of saying this is actions that are generally beta moves, but done from a place of power. Think about this. An 80 year old, well accomplished, wealthy man is being a awarded a major prize in his field. On stage, he accepts the award, makes a few mentions of appreciation or excitement about the future of the fie…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 02:16 PM
2

I’d say your first mistake was asking the question about hurting when she cums. Reasonable levels of pain during sex is good for women. Their pain and pleasure receptors in the brain are very close, so when she feels pain the pleasure center lights up too. Ive found in the heat of the moment, they often can’t even distinguish between the two. On a logical level they may be able to say, the thing being done to me normally hurts, but it causes so much pleasure it doesn’t register a feeling of pain…
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:30 PM
2

Wtf
/r/askTRP18/03/19 01:18 PM
6

Any giving of oral seems submissive to me. I recognize there’s a mentality and way of doing it that isn’t submissive, but I’ve never cared to learn. I’ve found most women agree, which is why most women that I get along with are relieved when I tell them I don’t do oral. They never want a man they look up to to bend over or get below them to give them pleasure. It’s not a hard rule, but it’s what works for me. Sitting on your face seems like another level of dominance even beyond giving oral.
/r/askTRP16/03/19 10:31 PM
1

You are in their frame. Focus on self growth. If you are focused on self, they will line up the flirt with you, and be stalking your profile.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 05:25 PM
4

Just do the same. If it ain’t broke don’t fix it.
/r/askTRP13/03/19 04:38 PM
-1

Seems like you’ve got it figured out to me.
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/19 04:11 PM
3

Don’t. Talk. About. Fight. Club. The best way to help is to not let your mom get under your skin. When he sees how well it works he may emulate some of your tactics.
/r/askMRP13/03/19 04:10 PM
1

Lol. I wouldn’t trash it. Work with your strengths. But def be careful.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 10:53 PM
1

“Going out with alpha female” The second you wrote that your fate was doomed. You don’t have frame. She smells it. She’s picking up another beta. You’ll have to run serious game to recover. Good luck buddy.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:51 PM
1

Interesting approach. I don’t track anything but menstrual cycle. But for the love of all things good and holy, never let her find this spreadsheet. Instantly you’ll go back to a dead bedroom, and likely never recover.
/r/askMRP11/03/19 10:48 PM
1

You more than most need to spend time here.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 10:46 PM
2

Just because men are happiest only having the frame, doesn’t mean they always have it. They get duped into believing blue pill lies and think they are happy. Think of this woman as the female version of a blue pill man. She might think she’s happy, but it’s just a delusion. Ego investments and how she was raised, likely have a lot to do with it.
/r/askTRP11/03/19 05:29 PM
1

Married red pill. Another reddit
/r/askTRP23/02/19 01:27 AM
1

My guess is she’s just an attention seeker and he won’t get past 2nd base without some serious game. Just tell him to use a rubber and get the morning after text. Better yet covertly audio record the sex and her willingness. Sounds like a possible rape accusation.
/r/askTRP22/02/19 04:04 AM
2

Plenty of what you desire is possible, but I’m guessing some isn’t simply by principle. First you said something about awesome best friend. That’s not a reality. Check out MRP. You’ll find TRP principles relating to marriage. One is that your wife is just the biggest teenager in the house. You know those parents who say their kids are their best friend? They are the “fun” parents that smoke weed with their 16 year old. You kind of look at them with disgust and think, ‘wtf is wrong with you.’ Tha…
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:50 AM
1

Kind of a meh response. Sort of AA but too much explaining. Better would been a pressure flip. “If you dress like that without me telling you not to, then are you wife material?”
/r/askTRP22/02/19 03:32 AM
1

Just wait
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:22 PM
2

Look up the 5 stages of grief. TRP acceptance is similar. What you call confusion is probably a mixture of 2 of those stages. Bargaining and depression.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 08:56 PM
1

I’m not getting what you are looking for. Are you asking if she’s damaged goods?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 04:01 PM
1

Flip this around. If you could consistently land HB 9’s. Would you consider a 6?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:13 PM
3

Fake fb is cringey. Just wait. It’s either another shit test or she is done without commitment. Either way, you lose by doing anything but waiting.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:09 PM
3

Should work. Be ready for her to say something like. I don’t fuck on the first date. Just say “aight” and leave it alone. Then escalate in person.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 02:02 PM
1

Movie is a solid go to. They know what it means.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:57 PM
2

You are covering your privates. It’s an insecurity thing. You are concerned that someone will attack you. Powerful body language is open and uncovers vulnerable spots. Mentally it says, try to attack my vulnerable spots, if you want, but I’ll fuck your up.
/r/askTRP05/02/19 01:54 PM
3

Hmmmm... I appreciate your post, and there’s definitely something to what you’re saying. Love definitely softens negative traits in a person and they become beautiful in their own right. I distinctly remember finding a skin flaw trait in a girl I loved years ago, beautiful. But I think in this scenario, he actually thinks you’re Jessica rabbit. Sure Jess got knocked up and is tired. But you were Jess before that, and you’ll soon be Jess after. Not that you should constantly live in fear of being…
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/19 03:10 PM
1

AY! Rpcoach! I was actually trying to find you. I was gonna recommend you to him.
/r/askMRP30/01/19 02:14 AM
1

Mrp: I see that now. We are very similar people. Trust me. You’re headed for divorce. Pm me. I don’t want to have a conversation here, but I’ll gladly do a back and forth via pm to explain why this is a certainty if you remain on this track.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 03:23 PM
1

You’re prob going Rambo. You’ll break the marriage if you don’t pump the breaks quick. Quick. Go to MRP. TRP isn’t well suited for this. Key concept: it will take her 6 months to catch up to you. Don’t make the mistake many here have. I’m happier now, but my children are miserable because they have two homes. Edit: read some comments. You’re definitely going Rambo. This will end in divorce almost certainly. Stop. It is very possible to do this right. You’re fucking it up.
/r/askMRP29/01/19 03:18 PM
3

TLDR David Spade is short and scrawny. But he boned a playboy playmate long enough to get her knocked up. Explain that.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 03:07 PM
2

This guy just said the same thing everyone else did. Just different words.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 01:57 PM
7

The idea that “men have to lead” this convo is a bit on the blue pill side. It’s not the action of leading, but how most perceive it needing to be done. Also, idk wtf you mean by confess but that seems super blue pill. You don’t confess your love to a woman. You give it in return for her submission. I’ll tell you how I did it and why it worked for me. If you go over to MRP you’ll see some important concepts that TRP doesn’t really cover much. Women want to FEEL things. Both good and bad things. …
/r/askTRP28/01/19 04:33 PM
2

That’s awesome! You have your answer, stop second guessing. Just be patient and let him surprise you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/19 03:41 PM
1

A. I was saying it’s not my style. B. I was picturing something very different. That looks good
/r/askTRP28/01/19 02:53 AM
1

Don’t double text. If she doesn’t respond, that’s your answer. If you see her in the future, confidently joke about it.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:31 PM
1

Tbh. Some of the things you say confuse the hell out of me. Things like slick back hair cut and other comments paint a picture for me of the type guy that I can’t imagine being valuable. But your confidence in it, is intriguing and interesting. There’s definitely guys that pull crazy shit off and get some serious pussy, just because they are confident about it. I’m happy for you that you love your thing. That’s what is attractive about you to women. You’d never have a chance with the style of gi…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:30 PM
1

I know.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:15 PM
1

Do you decide a man is probably homeless if he’s sitting on the street, dirty, and missing teeth? First impressions are key, but you can give a good first impression with more than just looks. Posture and composure(how relaxed you are) is HUGE for me. Posture alone tells me if you are happy, confident, or successful. Composure tells me if you are comfortable or trying to get something. Good social skills, knowing how to start a conversation, General cleanliness, are all good indicators.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:11 PM
3

Not bad. Too wordy though. Less is more on tinder. How’d she respond?
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:07 PM
3

She’s prob past her carousel days because she’s knows all the right moves. You were trying to fuck. No big deal. If she doesn’t want it, she doesn’t want it. Find another. Just for fun... notice how “common courtesy” is you paying for everything. Honestly, I’d respond this way. “Is fucking not something you do?” She’ll prob say something about looking for a relationship. Then you respond, “good sex is an important qualification for a relationship with me” But that said, her game CLEARLY far exce…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 08:06 PM
2

How did he cock block you
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:59 PM
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I’m pretty sure bring up marriage once a year in a 3 year relationship doesn’t qualify as nagging in any man’s mind. Just ask. If you have to just do the probing for his thoughts chick thing, do that. You wanna know where you’re at. No big deal. If he wants it, he’ll be delighted you asked. If he doesn’t, you’ll see that too, and you’ll have your answer. Then tailor your actions accordingly.
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/19 07:54 PM
1

What’d you say
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:49 PM
1

Tell me more about how you believe everything women say. It does help things and it is a turn on. It just isn’t everything. I’m above average, and girls like to point it out, and then make fun of small dick guys they’ve slept with. BUT THEY STILL SLEPT WITH THEM. It’s just like height. It’s valuable. But David Spade is with one of the hottest playboy bunnies. Height, dick size, etc aren’t everything. Don’t let it bother you, play to your strengths.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 07:01 PM
1

You don’t sell yourself with words. Actions and composure. Compare the guy who says “I’m really good at football” vs the guy who throws a good pass to someone vs the guy wearing an actual football uniform vs the guy that is tall and jacked vs the guy who other people know and talk about being a good football player. Which of these is most likely a good football player? Don’t say you are something, be it, and people will know.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:53 PM
1

Tldr Wtf dude. Get out of your head. When you didn’t have style, how did you get it? You just tried something. It prob didn’t work. But then you tried again. And again and again. And eventually you figured it out. You weren’t afraid of rejection. Had you been, you’d have never gotten to where you are. You’re so afraid of rejection, that you won’t make a move on a woman you’ve been on 30 dates with. And now you’ve been rejected. Self fulfilling prophecy. Try something. You’re gonna fuck up. But y…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 06:04 PM
1

Wtf. TLDR Dude. Get out of your head and just go for it. Jesus. You’re so afraid of rejection you end up getting rejected.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:59 PM
2

Agreed. Don’t start a conversation. But if OP can’t handle the intensity. He needs to break the ice somehow.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:55 PM
3

I’m not a fan of the current advice. Women are keenly aware of the subtext behind actions. If she sees you on tinder and swiped right, she knows she’s sending you signals. If she’s a cruel manipulative type, she might do this to fuck with your head. But if not, she’s definitely saying she likes you. But you can’t be too direct. Don’t open with “wanna fuck” or “let’s go out” Open with “I think I’ve seen you somewhere before. :)” Keep it light for a second. Then say, let’s grab a drink. This shoul…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 05:53 PM
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TRP is a sexual strategy. So what you’ve done here is the equivalent of posting in a body building forum, “I’m jacked. But I’m not fulfilled. What do I do now?” We don’t know. What the fuck do you want to do with your life? Go do that. Just like the rich guy that thought money would make him happy, you’ve realized being Chad doesn’t make you happy. You’re happier than sexless Billy beta. That’s great. But pick a new endeavor, then go conquer it. Climb Mount Everest, travel, fuck movie stars, mak…
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:55 PM
4

Put yourself in her shoes. If you had the balls to act like Chad, walk up to a girl and grind your dick into her, would you want her to turn into a dead fish because she doesn’t want to embarrass you by being too sexual? Or would you want her to get in the moment, realize it’s not public sex, it’s “just dancing,” and act like complete slut? In clubs, women get the right to embrace MAJOR fantasies without judgement. If you can’t switch your mentality quick enough out of this blue pill mindset, a …
/r/askTRP27/01/19 04:33 PM
9

You did everything right for generic HB 9 girl. Sometimes you can tailor to situations and girls better by investing a tiny bit(or even less) before asking them out. But knowing the right way and timing will come with experience. For example, if she had a boyfriend, and you were gaming her, you’d obviously have to slow play it(invest more.) The question is more of how you invest. Don’t invest like a beta orbiter, helping her with homework, etc. Invest like an alpha. Intentionally flirting with h…
/r/askTRP24/01/19 09:11 PM
1

Of course. There are people who literally make millions doing it.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:30 PM
2

I’m honored.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:22 PM
2

Thank you sir
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:22 PM
2

Thank you, Sensei.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 11:13 PM
1

I’m not going to waste my time explaining it. Hopefully, we’re bumping up against a semantics issue. But you’re a very poor debater if you think equal parts emotion and logic aren’t involved.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 04:55 PM
3

And that life choice is exactly why you’re socially awkward.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 04:52 PM
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Debate isn’t simply about logic. That’s a major fallacy. It’s also about emotion. Women utilize the emotional aspect of debate to a much greater degree than men. Think of a great orator. He’s going to utilize emotional arguments(story telling, analogy, etc) as well as logic. As well, I’m not suggesting women are devoid of logic. That’s as absurd as saying men are devoid of emotion. Generally, I think it’s a Pareto principle. Men are 80% logic, 20% emotion Women are 20% logic, 80% emotion
/r/askTRP22/01/19 04:07 PM
11

Chlorophyll, the rabbit, uses his green paint to help the grass grow faster, not just cause he thinks it’s a pretty color. They are still women. They can’t fight the biology, no matter how hard they try. Women like this are just a little more logically developed and can handle a little more. Generally, they don’t want this deep down, it simply is a means to an end. They like the benefits the logic provides, whether it’s respect, access to intelligent and wealthy men, or career success. The equiv…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 03:59 PM
3

I like your little jab there. You’re probably right. There’s little hope for someone this deep. But we were all children once. We were all blue pill. Someone has to explain the logic of this to the next generation or else things will just get worse.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:54 PM
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There’s 4 parts. This link is to the first part which is an overview. At the bottom under ‘related’ you’ll see 3 more articles that explain the three processes in depth. I highly recommend all 4 articles. https://therationalmale.com/2018/04/11/instinct-emotion-and-reason/
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:40 PM
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I know what you’re saying. It’s an important mentality. But it’s not factually accurate. Newbies need more explanation of why we say this. It doesn’t connect well to the freshly unplugged. Especially OP.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:36 PM
11

You’re gonna get wrecked on her kiddo. Don’t ignore the advice, but you’re not gonna understand it. The problem isn’t Snapchat or streaks or your idea or your argument that it takes 10 seconds and keeps you top of mind. The problem is your mentality. Think of the alpha male at your school, the star quarterback, for example. If he has a Snapchat people would be trying to keep up streaks with him to stay on his mind and have a conversation starter if they bump into him(women in particular). Even i…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:32 PM
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Logic is exhausting for women. Tomassi has a great article on this. Men rely primarily on logical reasoning. Women on emotional reasoning. Men-“if it works, do it” Women-“if it feels good do it” (or avoids bad feelings) Let’s say a 4 year old child asks you why the grass is green. And being the brilliant and logical man you are, you delve into a deep explanation about chlorophyll. You’d be an idiot. Even if the kid wanted to impress you and did their best understand(equivalent of having frame wi…
/r/askTRP22/01/19 02:05 PM
1

Warriors aren’t made in gardens. They can be trained during times of peace. But ultimately, warriors are made at war. A. Make sure you’re lifting. It’s not just about the muscle. It increases testosterone which naturally makes you think and act dominant. It also creates positive feedback loops which provide confidence and openness to new situations. B. Get out in the real world. All too often, people that want to be warriors but not dicks, are church boys or sheltered in some other way. I know t…
/r/askTRP15/01/19 04:41 PM
2

Books specific to what? Being a monster?
/r/askTRP15/01/19 12:33 AM
4

I used to do this frequently with my juul in a crowded college bar. Sit confidently puffing my juul. Chick walks up and asks for a hit. “What’re you gonna give me? A kiss was always the offer. One time it was a flash, I said it wasn’t enough and got the kiss. Consistently this happened 3 times a night.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:17 PM
6

There’s a lot nuances here. But generally use it as a flirting mechanism first, then comply. Do you not have enough money to buy your own? Should I be cold because you weren’t prepared? Only if you take it off for me later. All good responses. Intentionally make her mildly irritated first before giving it to her. Make her work for it. If her immediate response is, “fuck it, I was just giving you the chance to be nice” def don’t give it to her. If she’s playful, even says please, play a little mo…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 05:08 PM
1

Need more details. Did she ask for your jacket? Was she shivering or complaining about being cold or Was it just cold out and she wasn’t dressed well enough?
/r/askTRP14/01/19 04:56 PM
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Op, I know where you are at. WANTING to give her your jacket because you are good. I think there’s some latent nice guy rationalization deep down there. But I’ll stay away from that. More importantly you lack social calibration. Women analyze little actions very deeply. What does the action of giving a girl your jacket imply? Female interpretations: If it’s your sister or a close friend, it’s platonic. That’s fine. But I gather she isn’t in this category. If it’s a girl you’ve recently met and a…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 04:30 PM
3

Spend less time with and thinking about her. Ask this on askMRP LTRs require a different approach than the typical TRP advice.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 04:13 PM
9

You’re thinking about it wrong. A. Don’t lie. It doesn’t work long term and they always smell it. B. Do rock stars in their 60’s get pussy by saying they are 30? No. Take a moment to mentally flip the scenario. We know that older women are significantly less attractive than younger women. However, there are scores of young, attractive men that would gladly bed a milf in her late 30’s. Why would it be any different for women? It’s not. Fun fact: An older, attractive man is an even more interestin…
/r/askTRP14/01/19 03:25 PM
1

You still don’t understand alpha. Read: https://therationalmale.com/2011/10/20/alpha/ The alpha mentality is this, I am what I am. Alpha does not care about what other people want or think. Alpha is as alpha does. This alpha mentality comes in all forms. Some extroverted, some introverted, some reserved, some outgoing. Our society puts pressure on people to become one thing or another. This creates confusion about who we are, and we become a jumbled mixture of all the different mixtures of what …
/r/askTRP13/01/19 04:59 PM
1

That’s an interesting revelation. Deep seeded issues there. She’s regretting a choice she made. Def need a heart to heart or it’ll be a big deal later. Might wanna get advice from a mod on this or open another askmrp question with this concept. Dealing with this TRP style is something I haven’t come across. Might be out of my depth. I’d come at it from a captain perspective at the least. If you ask the question let me know. I’d be really interested in the answers you get. Edit: In thinking furth…
/r/askMRP08/01/19 03:08 PM
1

Thank you. I get it now. I agree. It was too much. I dialed it back and reset. Things are going better than ever now. She hangs on my every word and is desperate for my attention. But it really is amazing how women will always try to beta-tize their man. So I guess the logic goes that the women who beta’d their man had more protection and got more genes passed along? I half wonder if men evolved to get beta’d as well. The men who protected their children by sticking around had more developed and…
/r/askMRP08/01/19 02:38 PM
1

Thank you. I’ve seen this first hand in the last 10 days since she and I both got back in town. I’ve been focused on work, and she’s been very submissive and energetic while we’re together. Mostly because the rarity of our time together is precious.
/r/askMRP08/01/19 02:12 PM
2

I actually like when my girl does this stuff. A. I know it’s bullshit. She’s head over heels for me. B. It gives me an open door to be a complete ass and dominate her with my banter and wit. Huge turn on for her. Great sex after. C. In many ways, it takes us back to earlier days when she had to shit test me to see if I was dominant enough for her. It’s a sort of refresher on the stale day to day relationship stuff. I’m starting to wonder if she really likes you more than you realize, but you hav…
/r/askMRP08/01/19 01:50 PM
1

Definitely. I was trying to understand how this related to OP and saying that he shouldn’t tolerate public disrespect, deal with it quickly and mercilessly. I think the commenter cleared it up.
/r/askMRP08/01/19 01:37 PM
1

Good stuff
/r/askMRP08/01/19 01:33 PM
2

Gladly
/r/askMRP08/01/19 01:32 PM
4

True true. Passing a shit test really is an indirect way of setting a boundary. “I’m better than you at this game. Don’t try me.” When people talk about setting a hard boundary, I envision a direct communication. “Don’t do this or we’re done.” But I think you can only do that when you have solid frame or it’s just such a big deal that you won’t tolerate it, with or without them. It’s really in the ultimatum category, which is generally frowned upon by TRP unless you are OI, have abundance, and h…
/r/askMRP07/01/19 04:22 PM
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Slow down OP. You’re sounding like you’re going Rambo. I think it’s more of a shit test situation. Also, 6 days ago? And you’re still thinking about it? She feels your butthurtness. You are losing more and more frame. Hit the reset button. If a little kid punches you in the arm, you laugh. Maybe tickle them til they piss their pants or push them hard into a soft spot like a couch. If they punch you in the balls, it hurts, but you tell them immediately not to do it again, shake off, and forget ab…
/r/askMRP07/01/19 04:00 PM
5

Help me understand something. In your first post, you said deal with it swiftly and mercilessly. My take on that, is tell her to cut it out or leave. Hard boundary. But in this story you relate to passing a shit test. My assessment of OP’s problem was more that he needs to deal with this situation like a shit test. Ignore, AA, or pressure flip. But your first post seemed different from that by setting a hard boundary. Setting a hard boundary is different from passing a shit test to me. What am I…
/r/askMRP07/01/19 03:59 PM
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Your wife is the same way. Never let your game slide.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/01/19 10:53 PM
5

Agreed on onitis. Get her out of your head. But my thought is she’s trying to match your game. She’s all over you. She leaves her stuff at your place(common action to use as an excuse to meet up with you at a later date to fuck, especially since she didn’t want your friend to drop it off). Then she sends you a long message, heavy investment(cause she’s really into you). You send a short, aloof message. She’s probably a bit butt hurt. But at the very least, she thinks she’s being needy and pushin…
/r/askTRP30/12/18 04:05 PM
1

Has anyone suggested the sidebar yet?
/r/askTRP30/12/18 02:18 PM
1

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Operant_conditioning#/media/File%3AOperant_conditioning_diagram.png This confuses me. What you said is correct. But does this mean we leave out positive punishment and negative reinforcement? Why? For the simple sake of red pill theory, I can’t help but think we leave these elements out because of a lack of frame. Maybe it’s social, the matriarchy has attained enough power and feminism so prevalent that this tool is lost to us. Or maybe, advanced red pillers still…
/r/askMRP29/12/18 11:54 PM
1

Trying to understand what you are saying. But can’t wrap my mind around a positive outcome. My only thoughts are you are either saying I was born beta and will die beta(due to genes/evolution), or saying that due to evolution women will always beta-tize you. Neither seems to align with TRP mentality or purpose; I cant imagine I’m understanding you correctly.
/r/askMRP29/12/18 09:34 PM
3

You prob won’t listen but the best advice is to wait til 30 before worrying about LTR. Being past 30 I’ve converted many feminists and sluts to traditional values. If you have the frame they’ll become whatever you want in time. Side note, I don’t know how you quantify the numbers and your Smv. But I wouldn’t touch a 5 with a ten foot pole. A mentally confident man’s SMV is already so high that unless he’s grotesquely overweight, 4’ tall, or homeless he never need mess with anything below a 7. An…
/r/askMRP29/12/18 03:20 PM
1

Stats. I don’t have any one rep max numbers because I don’t have a spotter. But my workouts are Bench 145. 3x5. I’m guessing 180-190 max Incline bench 135. 3x5 Deadlifts 150. 3x5. Obviously I’m capable of more, but I’ve had back issues in the past so I don’t want to get crazy here Barbell curl. 90 3x5 Tricep press. 60. 3x5. My muscles are capable of more but I have a tendon in my elbow that gets strained and needs to strengthen Squats. 100 3x5. Something about my leg muscles is weird and I strai…
/r/askMRP29/12/18 03:12 PM
1

Ok...not really sure what to do with this
/r/askMRP29/12/18 02:50 PM
1

I see that. Appreciate the helpful info.
/r/askMRP29/12/18 02:30 AM
2

Didn’t mean to imply that women shouldn’t have meaning. The emphasis was on me. I am acting blue pill when a woman starts to mean something to me.
/r/askMRP29/12/18 02:18 AM
1

Got it. Thank you
/r/askMRP29/12/18 01:52 AM
1

Reset button?
/r/askMRP29/12/18 12:06 AM
3

A thought I think you deserve to hear. As a product of you and others, I’ve realized something important. Before, didn’t see how I could effectively implement attention removal in an LTR. But now I realize, that it’s just as easy as with plates. The context of the relationship makes it so. Whereas with plates, it would take days or a week for them to feel the attention removal. (And I couldn’t put together how I could do that in an LTR without it appearing butthurt and like punishment or passive…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 11:24 PM
1

Accurate. Edit: On second thought, Partially accurate. It’s not a credit to my manhood. It is PUA game. It was about numbers and good tactics. But that’s not to say, I haven’t improved on manhood. PUA and game is fake it til you make it imo. Even most of red pill rules are fake it til you make it or internalize. I don’t at all believe I’ve made it. Hence, asking for help. But I do need either a refresher or more things to fake and make. Again, hence asking for help.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 10:49 PM
1

——Wanting to relax and have guaranteed sex is exactly how you wound up in a betabucks sexless marriage. Exactly. Trying to get rid of this mentality. ——8 months ago you posted that you were still feeling wrecked by your divorce and were thinking about going into monk mode. Accurate. I did post that. Seems like longer than 8 months, but I believe you. I had my good days and bad days. That post was a bad day. I invested a lot in the marriage. I wasn’t a fan of losing it. ——It seems rather doubtful…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 10:46 PM
2

Because I’m red pilled and OI in ways that concern meaningless women(or women I find meaningless.) Plates, ONS, etc. But still blue pill in women that “should” have meaning in my life(LTR and beyond). That “should” has some sort of deeply ingrained learned and trained behavior that I picked up from being beta bob, from mom, or all the shitty advice I internalized from asking women what women want for the first 30 years of my life. The unplugging never ends.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 10:25 PM
2

Accurate. Someone recommended a post that drew a distinction between needs(boundaries) and wants. I’m drawing that distinction now. In this case I had a want and perceived it to be a need. I asked her to do something she has naturally done over and over in the past out of her desire to please me. I had a relapse of neediness in that moment and definitely relied on her to fill that void. I have lots of “better things to do” but I’m visiting family in another state and bored af. I don’t have thing…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 10:19 PM
1

Holy shit. That was good.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 09:36 PM
1

Holy shit. This is good.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/12/18 09:36 PM
1

I’ll look it up. Thank you.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 09:26 PM
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Appreciate the input. I should’ve said I aspire to a captain mentality. I see that as being different from going to later dread levels to get her in line.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 09:25 PM
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It wasn’t nudes. But that would’ve done the trick. Def mental block on the idea of not being around for significant periods and looking like a stranger. Not looking forward to embracing that, but it is what it is.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 09:24 PM
1

Accurate. Accurate. Accurate. Agreed. Rereading nmmng today.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 07:41 PM
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Thank you. Literally did this with every single plate to perfection. Lost it all once I committed. And in only a couple months. Blue pill me came back. I negotiated a covert contract. I give commitment, you stop making me run game, and stay the way you’ve always been. But they are what they are. I’ll have to run game forever. And in an LTR it’s in hard mode. ——The goal is to make the best use of your time and energy. If you’re not enjoying her then find something else to enjoy. Forming her into …
/r/askMRP28/12/18 07:37 PM
1

Agreed. Help me understand the difference between punishing kids and punishing an LTR. Also, call her out on her bullshit..what would that have looked like here, if applicable.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 07:01 PM
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So I’m starting to get this LTR picture better. —-In OP's case, he had a need (having her do something he asked) that was not met, so he attempted to use punishment to condition her future behavior (i.e., meet his future needs). Spot on. How else do you form her into the the woman you want without punishment to condition future behavior? I get the general consensus is withdrawal but that’s arguably punishment also. I think I’m just not getting to nuances of some of these words. Is it more indire…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 06:24 PM
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Good god. I need to reread NMMNG. I’ve forgotten all of this. I def did it with intent and expectation.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 06:02 PM
2

Thank you. I see myself def going to old nice guy habits, but knowing how things could be and now Rambo is coming back. There’s no way I’m getting back into frameless monogamy and a dead bedroom. I’d rather just make enough money and use hookers the rest of my life. The article you are referring to, I didn’t read it. What should I search for?
/r/askMRP28/12/18 06:00 PM
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Agreed. Total ultimatum. So dumb. Yes. Overt was dumb. I’m learning. So I’ll take a stab at how it should’ve been handled. She doesn’t do what I ask. So go lift. Let her message me several times before responding. Stay reserved in responses until she does something that I like and I reward her with laughter or attention or a compliment.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:54 PM
1

Agreed. No more DEER’ing. I’m going to have it tattooed to the inside of my eyelids.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:50 PM
1

Withdraw being a weak tool going forward. Agreed. It’ll be an uphill battle to regain this tool. I think mentally, I’m just going to embrace that I just don’t want to talk to her when she’s not pleasing. No more deer’ing. When she accuses me of it, just stay silent and focus on withdrawal. Any other thoughts would be appreciated. N-count. It’s not as impressive as it sounds. I don’t have a 9-5 job. I have my life set up in a way where I largely don’t work unless I want to. So during the last 2 y…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:49 PM
1

That makes sense. I know with plates I would do what you said. But for some reason, I thought that an LTR changed some of that. Left over blue pill. God I hate this shit.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:42 PM
1

Def being faggy. Working on it.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:40 PM
2

I’m tired of approaching women. Tired of managing plates. Tired of seeing them drop. I don’t want lots of sex with lots of women anymore. I want to manage my sexual side, always having an outlet, so that I can focus on my more important missions in life. Money, power, prob some more kids.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:40 PM
1

Thank you for the detailed analysis and explanation. Your first point hit the nail on the head for where I’ve been. I was back in nice guy mode and had covert contracts. I prob need to sit down and write out all the covert contracts I have and then burn them. I’ve definitely created a lot. I’ve embraced silence lately when I’m displeased. But I’ve mostly just used that time to reinforce my convert contracts. It hasn’t come out yet verbally but it’s definitely showing in my actions. Glad you guys…
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:37 PM
3

Totally agree. I have yet to figure out how to describe it, but for me, sex is the great equalizer. Whenever a woman gets shitty and power hungry, all I have to do is bang her, and it seems to fix everything. I call it fucking the crazy out of them. Currently, we are apart because she is out of town. So I can’t bang the crazy out of her. But bend her over and spank her would def be my go to if this all happened together.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:19 PM
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I don’t fully understand what you are saying, but I get the drift. Between you and other comments, it’s solidifying my gut feeling that I’m being too overt. I got too close and connected, too friendly because she was so damn submissive for so long. But she got my commitment, my greatest asset and now she thinks she can make a power grab to “fix” me.
/r/askMRP28/12/18 05:16 PM
1

Look up tomassi’s article on buffers. You’re doing it
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:22 PM
2

Gross dude. Get your shit together.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 04:18 PM
1

Get it bro
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:58 PM
2

It depends on how high your SMV is compared to hers.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 03:58 PM
1

Anger phase. Spit out the pill if you want. We don’t care.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:29 PM
0

Whether she is cheating or not doesn’t change your game. If she isn’t, you should be focused on you, and she will never have a reason to cheat. If she is, you should be focused on you so that she drops the other bs and commits to you. Your concern that she is, is a form if falling into her frame. She’ll smell it, and then definitely cheat on you. If she is, you never had her to begin with. Enjoy the fuck for now. In time, you’ll be able to figure out if she’s committed and worthy of a new level …
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:26 PM
0

This could really go both ways. She might be branch swinging or she might be trying to get your attention. Keep an eye out, I have a gut feeling it’s a branch swing. Either way. You’ll have to up your game. If she increases her SMV so should you. Dread is great but you can’t simply game. You have to actually be the shit.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:21 PM
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Ignore it. Don’t get butthurt. Don’t bring it up. In a month she’ll need it again. You’ll have to game her next time if you want to succeed.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:16 PM
7

Prob ovulating and needed to get fucked.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:15 PM
2

I’ve seen bpd’s do this, but you def can’t call someone bpd based on this. This is her way of saying she wants to make up without saying she’s sorry. She’s too prideful to admit she wants you more than she wants to be right. It’s classic among women because taking responsibility for things is incredibly emotionally difficult and painful. Read up on “the hamster.” To avoid the emotional difficulty of admitting she likes you enough to come back first she rationalizes she that she is being generous…
/r/askTRP24/12/18 02:13 PM
7

She prob scheduled with lots of guys then chose the best. You weren’t him.
/r/askTRP24/12/18 01:58 PM
1

Yep
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 05:18 PM
1

It’s a foundational component of Rp strategy. BB/AF. AWALT.
/r/RedPillWomen06/07/18 04:42 PM
1

If a guy on TRP were to ask the flip of this question(my girl always calls and feels like I don’t like her enough because I don’t initiate), I would tell him it’s a shit test. And to ignore it. A woman’s emotional processing creates a dualistic desire. You want him to call you more, but you NEED him to not. If you ever feel like he’s needy of your affection, you’ll lose interest(particularly sexual) very quickly. It’s just how things work. That’s not to say he can never call, there’s a balance t…
/r/RedPillWomen05/07/18 10:03 PM
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I won’t be exclusive til I’m married. But you’re doing a fine job of keeping my attention. ...assuming she is. If she isn’t or could do better, covertly make the suggestion.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 09:45 PM
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It’s painful reading this. You’re so uncalibrated it’s disgusting. There’s plenty of hope. I was probably worse. Either drop this girl, go spin plates, test out this bullshit on random women, and learn how women really work or slow the fuck down. Stop with the words for now. STFU. Lift. Increase your natural testosterone, so that you naturally act alpha. Learn to pass shit tests around real men. Become someone she wants to kiss like a whore, not a wife. Then you can say lines like this and get a…
/r/askMRP29/06/18 08:31 PM
2

I have had a similar need. I’ve largely eliminated it with people I don’t care about, but when I find myself with someone valuable to me, child, wife, brotherly friend, the urge bites pretty hard. I believe it comes from my highly logical past nature. A time in which I didn’t value emotions at all, mine or anyone else’s. Accepting that most people aren’t logical was a big step. Most people don’t care about right or wrong. Just power. Even those who think they do care about right or wrong, often …
/r/askMRP28/06/18 11:51 PM
1

I suspect you come off as a nice guy. Smiley too much eye contact. Resist the urge to approach while you are excited by the IOI. The emotion screws up my game every time.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:01 AM
1

Didn’t read except for title. It’s about calories. Not carbs. There’s a background reason that cutting carbs helps. Essentially, you are so addicted to carbs that you ended up eating fewer calories when you stopped the carbs. Read “Bigger Leaner stronger” by Michael Matthews
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:53 AM
1

There’s nothing beta about amogging the loser waiter that doesn’t have his shit together, taking charge, and making water appear magically before her. Her: I want water. You: yeah good luck with that. Our waiter is a dipshit. Her: I want water You: me too. I’m gonna make this happen. Get up. Go to someone in charge. Make water happen. Alpha as fuck.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:32 PM
1

She gave you several chances. Eye contact once should be all you need to open. If the timing isnt right, make a mental note, DONT make eye contact again til you are ready to open. Then open. You didn’t do this, so she gave you another chance cause she was really into you. Next chance was her opening. You should have approached immediately. Wouldn’t matter if you said something stupid, as long as you said it with confidence. Women don’t process words nearly as much as tone. You didn’t. She gave y…
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:07 PM
4

Sure it’s real? Me too?
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:54 PM
2

You’ll be good brother. Teaching isn’t many men’s strong suit. Most fathers teach by example rather than helping a child learn life from him. Don’t underestimate the difficulty he endured to simply put food on the table. Simply being present, not abandoning you, and not letting your mother divorce rape him is way more than most men get today.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:50 PM
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She’s just looking for attention. Ignore and mention it in person.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 03:05 PM
1

“Blue pill post” endorsed by multiple admins. Logic for the win. I respect our admins. I’m not knocking them. Many of them pulled me from the mire(which the religious organizations threw me into). I’m sure they had good reason. But blue pill isn’t one of them. Possibly better suited in MRP, possibly the religious tones, possibly my use of the word evil. In fact, I’d call the EC’s here our patriarchs. They are the fathers many of us never had. Happy Father’s Day EC’s. Please let me know how I can…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:51 PM
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I didn’t. Admin must have. Not sure why. They usually send a message explaining. Probably something I said in the comments.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:17 PM
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I sense you’re trying to get attention, so this comment is less for you and more for any that might silently identify with your statement. Everything is equal. I won’t downplay the blessing I experienced. I’m privileged, I know. But I have plenty of my own complaints. Instead of getting hard knocks early, I experienced a form of sheltering which stifled my growth. Eventually I found my way despite the sheltering but that’s not because I had a good Father. It’s because I chose to be successful. S…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 02:05 PM
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You are in desperate need of some pussy my brother. Approach more.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 01:25 PM
2

I’m not disagreeing with you. Another distinction here is public vs private. In public my patriarchs have always been jovial. But keeping up that demeanor 24/7 is impractical at best. This post is more about the private world or during times of stress.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 12:35 PM
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The patriarch doesn’t start sad, he becomes sad, particularly as he walks his road. A lonely person isn’t alpha, but alphas are always lonely. These statements should clear up the distinction I’m trying to make.
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:51 AM
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Where that works would fall under what I wrote about as joy. Women are the oldest children in the house. Would you interact with a happy child stoically? Of course not. But it’s a choice. If you’ve been around enough women and taken the pill, you know it’s not happiness because you know their true nature. You know you can’t trust them. You simply show the happy face, so they can believe the fantasy. My distinction between happiness and joy is subtle but important. But side note, I have better lu…
/r/TheRedPill17/06/18 03:42 AM
1

TLDR got about halfway through Zero chance here. Zero. Move on. Become a badass and maybe 2 years from now you run into each other and you can reattempt. First tip. NEVER EVER TALK ABOUT THE GAME. “Someone told me to ghost you” beta as fuck. You’re getting good game advice from someone else? She wants to fuck him not you. If she says she’s an elusive unicorn you will NEVER get an LTR from her. At least not without her cheating.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:43 PM
3

Ignore the action. Say nothing directly. If you truly could drop her without a thought, you could soft next. Completely ignore her for a few weeks. She’ll get the point. If you genuinely think it’s tied to the Thursday thing, I would def soft next.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 10:33 PM
1

Expanded version https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8rmf9o/i_know_why_the_patriarch_doesnt_smile/?st=JIHX7KD9&sh=3f0a478a
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:41 PM
1

Expanded version https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8rmf9o/i_know_why_the_patriarch_doesnt_smile/?st=JIHX7KD9&sh=3f0a478a
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:41 PM
1

Expanded version https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8rmf9o/i_know_why_the_patriarch_doesnt_smile/?st=JIHX7KD9&sh=3f0a478a
/r/askTRP16/06/18 09:38 PM
1

Then make up your fucking mind. Stop being a wishy washy dipshit. If you want this girl and want the frame, follow what I said before. It’s your best chance no matter how unlikely. If you don’t then drop her. If you don’t know, then don’t act. Never ever do something you arent 90%+ certain of being a good idea. Anything below 90% certainty is based in emotion.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 06:59 PM
1

I’m not clear. Do you want her or not?
/r/askMRP16/06/18 06:47 PM
1

Witty. Obviously, I think this is the beginning of a disaster. I don’t think he has but the slimmest of chances. Sorry kid. Reality is what it is. She doesn’t respect you. She has full control of you. If the day comes that you gain some sort of frame, her next shit test will be to use her Father to control you via finances, threats, whatever. She’ll start by hamstering into believing outright lies about you. You’ll work hard to provide, but that means you aren’t emotionally available enough for …
/r/askMRP16/06/18 02:15 PM
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Generally, I ignore. Anything else gives them attention and they do it more. If you had enough frame you could prob AA and turn it into something flirty to turn her on with your dominance.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 01:45 AM
1

If/when she complies, don’t say thank you. Thank you comes off beta. Thank you is used when an authority gives you something, it’s subservient. Say good job, good girl, atta girl, or some other form of praise. Don’t over do it. Reward with your attention. Once the pattern is established don’t give praise; at that point it’s a responsibility she has adopted.
/r/askMRP16/06/18 01:43 AM
2

Treat it like a shit test. She’s learned she can get your attention from bitching about nightmares. Pressure flip. Her:”<crying> I had another nightmare about you cheating You: do you think I’m cheating on you Her: no You: then what’s the problem? Be prepared for her to release an onslaught of attacks and accusations trying to get you to admit to something. Admit nothing. Let her attack away but treat it the way you would a temper tantrum from a child. Ignore and it’ll go away. Don’t continually…
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:58 PM
0

You’ve lost the frame. Read. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/ Apply dread in escalating levels slowly. Slowly. It’s gonna be a 6-12 month process for her to catch up to you. Move too quick and you’ll get served with divorce papers. Start by giving her less and less attention, investment, and conversation slowly. Focus on yourself and self growth during this time. If you find it necessary, clean around the house and use the excuse …
/r/askMRP15/06/18 07:49 PM
1

Glad you’re not butthurt. Idk man. Seems fishy to me. “Good Christian girl” doing all this with you, doesn’t line up for me.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:51 PM
1

I remember when I was like you. I miss those days. I’m not gonna tell you what to believe, but AWALT is AWALT. Remember how shitty you were in bed when you were a virgin. If you describe her as a freak, sucking fingers, whatever where do you think your virgin learned that? Don’t you think a virgin would be more reserved? And no, you’re not alpha enough to pull that out of her. George Clooney couldn’t pull that out of a virgin. One of the most common red pill phrases is “judge their actions not t…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:37 PM
1

Unless you saw her bleed she wasnt a virgin. I suspect you have some reading to do.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 11:12 PM
1

If she’s LTR material you want to slowly shift into more nice guy mode with her family. If she’s just a plate, fuck it. Their hatred will drive her to new sexual heights. You prob won’t lock her down long term, but who cares. Consider it this way. You’ve heard(and felt) that men want a lady in the streets and freak in the bed. Women want something similar. A reasonably strong beta with friends and family. A reasonable alpha that knows when to give her support when she’s struggling(comfort tests)…
/r/askTRP11/06/18 10:47 PM
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Bitches be crazy. That’s literally the only problem. They have their own shit going on in their lives. Girl drama, other alphas gaming them, school, whatever. Just be a normal person and respect their boundaries. If they don’t want to talk, then that’s cool. You’re prize and they fucked it up because they let other random shit get in the way. Ignore them, move on, game more girls. You’ll find plenty that don’t have crazy going on in the background that will appreciate you.
/r/askTRP11/06/18 01:05 AM
6

TLDR. No. Not almost always. Always.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 05:54 PM
2

Yeah it was good. Think of passing shit tests in 3 ways ignore, agree and amplify(AA), and pressure flips(PF) All are fine. Ignore-good, AA-better. PF-best. You ignored. Perfectly fine. AA would’ve been. “I’ll give you permission anytime” PF would’ve been. “What else do you want permission for?”
/r/askTRP10/06/18 05:53 PM
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She didn’t red pill you. This is called game. Women are naturals. Mostly game is an attempt to teach weak individuals to act the way powerful people act naturally. Hopefully, it’s a fake it til you make it thing. Many never progress past the parlor tricks. Women are naturally sexually powerful because it’s so easy for them to get a guy. Ultimately, what’s happening here is she is powerful and you are being weak. She’s not attracted or interested.
/r/askTRP10/06/18 05:40 PM
3

I was you a year ago. It’s hell. Take it one day at a time. Ghost her, as best you can. If you want her back, it’s your best chance. If you don’t, it’s your best option for healing quickly. Don’t attack her or text stupid shit. She’ll use it against you court. GFTOW
/r/askMRP10/06/18 05:28 PM
2

“Security” <eye roll> aka betadom This is a mirror image of my situation. It’ll hurt like hell. But next. Rip the bandaid off. Get ready to be accused of abuse. Godspeed.
/r/askTRP08/06/18 02:40 AM
1

Women mold themselves after the man they want. AWALT. I HATE saying this but it’s nonetheless true because I experienced it. You’ve lost frame, and she’s in an adulterous relationship. Maybe with another person(likely), maybe just in her head, possibly related to idolizing the type of man her father is or guys she meets at school. Doesn’t matter, it’s real. She’s trying to change you into the man she’s in love with, and doesn’t care about your desires because you’ve lost frame. If you don’t get …
/r/askTRP07/06/18 11:24 PM
1

Complete asshole
/r/askTRP04/06/18 08:53 PM
1

2 venues is fine. 3 if it’s a quick hoping around. 1 hour at each, maybe 2 at the 3rd venue. Just gauge if she’s getting drunk or tired.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 12:35 PM
1

“What’s a good copy and paste way to be different?” If you have ability to type that without catching yourself, don’t bother. You don’t get it. Try different things and learn the beauty of the internet is easy access to TONS of bitches. Fuck up with 10 and keep moving.
/r/askTRP04/06/18 05:42 AM
1

The alike is bullshit. The phrase to focus on is nice guy. She’s not sexually attracted to you, largely cause you lack confidence or come off as emotional/feminine. You prob opened up too much about personal shit. The way a woman protects her body through being coy or LMR. Is the exact same way a man should protect his mind or inner thoughts. Men want a woman’s body, women want a man’s mind. True story. I know a great guy that is a nice guy. SMV would be off the charts if he just didn’t open up …
/r/askTRP04/06/18 02:04 AM
1

Smh. This was 50 days ago. I’m an entirely different person. Outcome independent. NMMNG was a revelation. Options like I never thought possible across all fields. She sees it and is sending IOI’s. But I can’t imagine taking her back.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:49 AM
6

I have to read the article again but went straight to dread level 8 or 9 which ever one is right before actually cheating. In my anger phase I angrily bossed her around. Was a little too dominant. It worked. Dead bedroom to more sex in a month than the previous 12 years. So it egged me on. Failed comfort tests galore. She ran. Took the kids. Now, her story is I “was abusive.” Never even toed the line of abuse. Just didn’t get that she needed support while I was increasing my SMV. Women need abou…
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:44 AM
2

The key isn’t to not have emotions it’s to manage them. Women don’t want a man that is more emotionally invested than they are. Make sure she is more emotionally invested than you. Create attraction then create space. By focusing on yourself during the space you’ll reduce your emotional connection, while increasing hers(assuming she is thinking about you during that space)
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:47 PM
1

View their attacks as shit tests. Focus on learning how to shrug off(ignore) their shit because that’s all it is, mindless shit. They don’t know you, your inner workings, your personal growth. Command presence by making the shit bounce off you. Next learn to smirk with the shrug when they give you shit. Implement. DOWN THE ROAD, learn to agree and amplify their shit, then learn to pressure flip, and give them shit back. This is more advanced so focus on ignoring first.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 11:16 PM
2

Follow it. Wish I had. I went Rambo and lost everything. Good luck to you
/r/askMRP03/06/18 11:08 PM
4

Scenario 1 isn’t LMR if I read it right. You just didn’t manage the night well. 3 venues is a lot, especially with drinks at each. She’s not bullet proof.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:33 PM
5

Don’t break frame. Don’t just say something that isn’t normal you. If it was me however, I’m a bit of an ass, I’d say.. “I’m not sure I’d call that lifting, what’s that, 10 pounds on the bar?” I’m assuming from your OP she in the gym and has weights in her hands. If you’re not an ass normally you could say that but add a wink emoji to cool down the intensity.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 10:28 PM
3

You’re talking about dread. For MRP dread. Read this. https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2l7pqe/the_12_levels_of_dread_the_rules_for_any_long/
/r/askMRP03/06/18 10:24 PM
0

Unless she’s bleeding. Dgaf. Women don’t know what they want. But she’s prob saying this cause she’s less attracted to you than she was in the past. Prob need to take inventory of any shit tests you’re failing or if you’re more invested emotionally than she is. If you back off and get gentle, you’ll have failed another shit test. You’ll never get anything other than vanilla sex again.
/r/askTRP02/06/18 03:26 AM
2

Don’t fuck
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:12 AM
3

I saw. You’re doing good. Don’t take my roughness personal. This connects directly with my suggestion to spend time with real men. Do so and you’ll understand my demeanor. They’ll rip you to shreds. Nobody hates you. We don’t care enough to expel that kind of energy. But this is how men are made. Not by words, but by tests.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:09 PM
2

I’m not suggesting you can’t approach and get lucky or even satisfied. Plenty of young guys get lots of action. But... Are you entitled to the pussy just cause you have a dick? A cunt for every cock sounds like some serious socialism bullshit promised by a shifty eyed politician. From 30-60(arguably 90) you can get more pussy than you really want. Quit bitching and lift.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:04 PM
2

Wait 8 years. Seriously. But for now, increase your mental fortitude, confidence. Spend time with masculine men. Construction workers, farmers, dirty old men that hang out at hooters and dive bars. Listen to them talk shit(shit test each other) learn how to jive with them.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:25 PM
1

Let’s just be friends.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 07:23 PM
0

Again. Strawman. But I’m not gonna be a douche and keep saying strawman. You made a greater argument against something I never suggested was true. Following your train of logic, 80% of men are beta and can’t bed more than handful of women in their life. Does that mean you resign yourself to betadom due to statistics? Or do you choose to rise above? Separate note: if you think rollo’s wife is with him cause of the money, you’ve got a lot of reading to do.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 06:00 PM
5

From your description it sounds like you’ll be LJBF’d immediately.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:32 PM
4

Pouty faced is a sign of attraction.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:27 PM
2

When they want sex they test for dominance. When they want commitment they test for attainability. Don’t put the cart before the horse unless she’s fat or homely if you qualify for attainability first you’ll be overlooked. Unless you wanna be a beta orbiter for ten she until she decides Chad is too hard, then marries you. Another ten years later she’ll chase Chad again because you’re a pussy. She may or may not let you know first through divorce.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 05:14 PM
10

TLDR got the gist of your problem from the first half. You’re over complicating it by focusing on sex. Yes, that’s the end goal. But if it’s your mentality for cold approach you won’t be able to understand good cold approach(it can be done but that’s intermediate level/expert level). As a beginner you need to think I want to interact with flesh and blood, not keep my nose buried in my phone. People do this CONSTANTLY. You just don’t see it. Ever smile at a kid while passing in the grocery store?…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:06 PM
1

Read Title only. Try again.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 08:24 AM
1

Is that Greek Orthodox?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:09 AM
1

There’s a lot of variation in denominational teaching but the current evangelical norm is to basically shit test the crap out of God with your bitchy moodiness. I’m still trying to shake that habit.
/r/askTRP31/05/18 12:02 AM
2

Have you figured out yet that 99% of your prayers are just shit tests targeted at God?
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:52 PM
2

Lol. This fantastic.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:51 PM
4

Oh shit...thank you. I’m honored.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:37 PM
4

Gladly Friend. It took a much pain for me to stumble across this explanation. My hope is it provides comfort to you as you experience the same. You don’t have to simply learn to live with it. You can embrace it. Jesus despised the cross but looked forward to the glory set before him. (His place in heaven and a spotless bride) Great men are forged in fire, it’s the privilege of lesser men to light the flame.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 11:31 PM
3

The patriarch knows the truth. He knows that the world is an incredibly evil place. He knows that happiness is a myth. He sees through all the nice guys and knows women are just big children. He knows he can’t trust anyone. He knows that when people are nice to him, they are just trying to get something from him, even if it’s just his attention, even if they rationalize away their selfishness; they are just trying to take. This is just a few truths. In TRP terms think of “the truth” as the info …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:55 PM
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There’s a lot of subtleties here but I disagree with your conclusion. If you live anywhere near Florida, I’ll be glad to sit and discuss in detail over a glass of scotch. Pm me. I’ll have to summarize for now. Red pill and monogamy aren’t mutually exclusive. Very briefly dread can easily be applied without adultery. Options and the power behind them can be embraced without exercising the option. While having actual abundance is easier than simple mental abundance, it’s not required. Marriage is …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 09:19 PM
6

I can very seriously understand your choice. Mine is a different path, but I respect yours all the same.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 08:53 PM
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True. Sort of. But for arguments sake, let’s say it’s true. God doesn’t want anyone to suffer because he doesn’t care, He’s not a nice guy. He simply gives us the options and allows us to choose what we think is best for us. I call heaven and earth as witnesses today against you, that I have set before you life and death, blessing and cursing; therefore choose life, that both you and your descendants may live; Deuteronomy 30:19
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:28 PM
0

Straw man argument. I’m not suggesting it’s easy or safe. But it’s good.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 05:18 PM
0

Tomassi seems to be doing fine. Maybe the problem isn’t marriage.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 04:50 PM
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Op, I feel you. Christian. Rp. I’ve been in your same boat. Here’s the answer. I always wondered why the patriarch looked sad. The posters in school always said “Smile! You’ll make someone’s day!” So I smiled a lot. I was pretty solidly happy. But couldn’t figure out why the strong men in my life generally didn’t smile. Scripture says, “wisdom brings sorrow.” You’ve found wisdom in TRP. You’ve been blessed with something few get to taste and could never handle. You know the truth. The patriarch …
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:29 PM
3

“An eye tattoo? That’s basic as fuck” Be prepared for her to create some meaningful story about her dead grandma as a shit test. Prepare some potential responses. Unless she’s a 9+ or queen bee I doubt this is worthy the risk. Alternatively you could start with, “what’s that about” when she says “oh I just thought it was a cool design,” you can follow with the tease. This way if she comes up with a meaningful story she’s trapped herself because previously she said it was just a cool design.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:06 AM
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It’s a test. Shrug your shoulders. Turn away. Don’t look back. Don’t give her any attention ever again, unless she gives it first. No eye contact. Nothing. She should cease to exist as far as you know.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:04 AM
2

Yes, daddy.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:02 AM
2

I stick to something that has helped me tremendously. I only talk when what I have to say is a 10/10 statement. And always keep it to 1-2 sentences. Unless it’s a story. But story telling is a skill all on its own.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 11:00 PM
4

These asshole responses from EC’s used to do nothing for me, but it’s slowly growing on me. Thank you EC’s for teaching us the way of the masters.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 10:44 PM
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Stopped reading at “majorly insecure”. That’s your answer. Nothing else matters. Even high SMV is meaningless. Imagine an incredibly hot woman that can’t/won’t/will never have sex. Good to look at. Zero sex appeal. That’s you except in a man body. Confidence is about mindset. Find a mantra. “I’m the shit” works well for me. Adopt that for now until you hear something better. Say it to yourself 1000 times. Not in succession. Say it randomly throughout the day. Say it when you feel insecure. Say i…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 09:05 PM
2

Frame control would probably be a better term here. I get what you mean by shit test since they are meant to test your frame. But more accurately this wasn’t a test, except maybe given by God. Tests are situations intentionally designed to assess your preparation for the real world. This WAS the real world. The plethora of shit tests your father passed leading up to this are the reason the emergency situation was given to him, but it wasn’t a designed situation.
/r/TheRedPill29/05/18 03:09 PM
1

It wasn’t a money issue.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 10:38 AM
1

?
/r/askTRP29/05/18 07:22 AM
1

Fuck man. Life isn’t as hard as you’re making it out to be. You’ve very simply allowed yourself to fall into several really toxic habits. Similar to a crack addict. Don’t get me wrong. Life throws shit at you and you have to understand the correct response. To date, you’ve gone the easy. Don’t do it again. Make a basic goal. Very very basic. Like eat one less McDonald’s burger tomorrow. Attain it. If you fail just set the same goal for tomorrow. Slowly, Wean off the comfort food. Setting a goal …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 03:35 AM
1

I understand your position. Your mindset isn’t really off. But how’s that been workin for ya? I’d think it’s too overt. You’ll see better results from improved calibration.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:23 AM
1

Def not. Let some other shlub shoulder that burden. It doesn’t even seem necesary. Talk to a lawyer. Then tell your friend that the lawyer recommended against it.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:21 AM
1

Too many words bro. Start with understanding that people like simple. ESPECIALLY HIGH VALUE PEOPLE. Life is already complicated for high value people, don’t add to it. Read the sidebar. You’ll get all the answers to every question here in the first 2-3 things you read. I’ll give you one bit of feedback. “I’m not trying to conversate” that’s good. “I’m trying to get a date” also good. “As quickly as possible” BAD. She IS trying to get your attention. You have to give it in slow small bits to keep…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:46 AM
1

The social danger is in “justifying” his red pill actions. Just keep it simple. I know him. He’s honest. I do think she lied about her age. Retain your plausible deniability. When people attack you, be prepared with good simple responses. “I honk she lied about her age” “he’s not the kind of guy to do something like that” The more vague the better. The more you explain or justify the worse off you’ll be.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:31 AM
0

TLDR But I’ll give you a tip up to the point I read. When she snaps you a good pic. It’s not DTF. It’s flirting. It’s basically the same as an IOI. So when you escalate to let’s hangout it’s the same as skipping the escalation. Don’t give her that kind of immediate validation. She sent that to a dozen other guys and got the same response. No amount of excited “let’s go on an adventure” energy will work. She views it as foreplay. Guys that “get it” know this. You’ll have to find your flavor of re…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:27 AM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7mbfl0/heres_how_to_fuck_one_girlweek_from_swipe_apps_in/?st=JHQZLY69&sh=5d0dab5a This was good for me. I only tried for 48 hours. Got 5 matches. 2 promising convos. 1 date. I stopped because wasn’t conducive to my particular situation, but will prob revisit one day.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:14 AM
1

I see. Well played sir
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:49 AM
1

Nope? Sounds like it worked to me. She gave you a shit. You passed. Good chance you skipped the date but will get the late night booty call.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 12:06 AM
1

Good question
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:35 PM
1

This. Great response. If you ever do add her, be ready for attraction to decrease immediately. It takes away the mystery. Make sure she’s heavily invested before giving her that info.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:33 PM
1

Cut off your balls. Naw. Just get more real life action. Go nofap. I’m nofap but I remember before when I wasn’t sex, more accurately real cooch, was akin to seeing god.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 10:31 PM
3

Are you a troll or dipshit?
/r/askTRP27/05/18 06:02 PM
1

“I’m shy in the night club” That’s a form of approach anxiety. It’s unlikely that you can gage from this one night that you don’t have approach anxiety. I’m not sure I’ve ever met someone that doesn’t. It doesn’t matter a ton if you do or don’t though. I just say this because if you don’t keep an eye out for the anxiety to creep in, it might overwhelm you if it does. But to your question, just keep approaching the experience will come naturally. To help the process, you can approach, do what you…
/r/askTRP27/05/18 05:35 PM
1

“It ain’t workin.” You don’t owe her an explanation. The more you explain the more she’ll use it against you a) during the break up argument b) with your social circles when she tries to rally support in her “difficult time because you were so mean to her.” Lastly, she’ll know exactly why “it ain’t workin” so by breaking it off you have a slight chance of reinvigorating her attention(don’t bet on it) but the more you explain the less likely this will be.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:34 PM
2

Every man in the world needs to read this. Early in my rp journey while learning about BPD women I developed a sort of buffer due to my ego investments in women in which I would too quickly label a failed plate as a BPD. Then I met a real BPD woman and realized the others weren’t BPD. But as I experience women more and more, I conclude that it’s not binary but rather a spectrum. And all women fall on the spectrum of these different archetypes to some degree.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 04:27 PM
12

Women are turned on by that sexual drive. It makes you inherently masculine and will max out whatever natural alpha tendencies you have. Use it to pick up a few plates. Nofap doesn’t mean no sex. It means no loser self pleasuring.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 06:01 AM
1

Generally, I’d say just use innuendos and kino to drive her nuts til she hops on you. Anything else seems dangerous. Audio record the sex (obviously without her knowing) to protect yourself. Shit like this is a ‘metoo’ waiting to happen.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 05:42 AM
2

First, why does it matter. Except for understanding. Just game the better girls. Second, the reason is you over intimidate the ugly chicks. Just focus on the 7+’s and don’t look back. The 6’s still want you they just believe they can’t have you. Take the ego boost and use it to propel you to new heights with the better girls.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:40 AM
12

Mantra. Say “I’m the shit. I’m the shit. I’m the shit.” Over and over to yourself until you believe it.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:37 AM
3

Generally no. It’s more of a shit test. Just say I’ve been busy. Comfort is more like, “you don’t give me support” in serious situations.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:35 AM
3

Yes. Eye contact is generally an IOI. BUT it’s your insecurity that’s seeks this validation, before an approach or anything else. If you NEED this, you’ll never score with her. Use it as a tool for easy prey at most.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 04:34 AM
0

You really can’t go too far. What we think of silent treatment is not what they think. We think of punishment. AS LONG AS YOU NEVER LABEL IT PUNISHMENT. She thinks you are just giving her time to process and get back to her normal self. Even if there was a too far, you would only do it if she was being particularly obnoxious and making you think things won’t work out.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:10 AM
10

Statistically speaking when a woman makes more or even equal money with her man, the chances of adultery skyrocket. Not just for her, but him also.
/r/RedPillWomen21/05/18 02:30 PM
8

Careful OP. She’s a mastermind. I’d err on the side of caution as this commenter has suggested.
/r/askMRP20/05/18 05:27 PM
1

That’s a different situation. Imagine you try to come on strong(heavy flirting, sexual innuendos, getting obnoxiously close) in a grocery store. Wouldn’t work. Now you come on strong at a club. Generally, works well. The difference isn’t the action but the context. The problem with text isn’t words, phones, etc. It’s the difficulty of figuring out context. Is she texting you from a club, grocery store, church, on the couch eating ice cream, while sitting on the toilet, while laying in bed with C…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:48 PM
9

This should be a TRP post. It’s incredibly difficult for men to get understanding on the concept of not apologizing. YOU FUCKING SAVED THE KIDS LIFE!
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:08 AM
4

From the Bible. -A prophet is never accepted in his hometown. You have a lot of familiarity with your old beta style at the job. You’ll never “convert” them to believing you are an alpha. That said, it’s great for practice. It’s the toughest environment you’ll ever experience. Expect to be destroyed socially. Then move to a new place and reap the rewards of your new alpha mentality.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:24 AM
2

I agree with other commenters. But why the fuck are you living off the government. That’s a beta move imo.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:21 AM
3

Unless it’s marriage ignore. By ignoring you remove validation. They’ll make up their own reasons to justify your actions.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 05:06 AM
6

For fucks sake, if more women were like you, we might actually have a peaceful world.
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/18 04:15 AM
2

Nothing is ideal with women. Get over that unless you want fuck 3’s for the rest of your life. And needing to know for certain is a beta quality. It’s based in insecurity. Stop that.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:07 AM
1

You left your own answer at the end. She can feel your soft spot from your interactions. You have high SMV, so you can be a hair more beta. But you’re running the risk of losing attraction. I’d wait a minimum of 4 weeks. GFTOW. Lose the soft before you text her, otherwise she’s gone.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:02 AM
1

Not at this point. You’ve shown interest and dominance. Continuing just makes her think you’re her only option. If you want the fuck of your life, wait til she texts you first. It’ll mean she’s horny. It shouldn’t take more than 4 weeks. Beyond that you can be chill and say “what’s up” at 8 weeks. Just to reinvorgorate.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 03:38 AM
3

You can google things like this, but It’s just not worth it. If you can’t figure out how to get her out in person, you won’t be able to get her in bed. Beyond that, texting puts game on impossible mode. Getting a girl in public is too easy to worry about text game.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 03:30 AM
1

It depends. Is she showing interest? Texting you randomly during the day? Looking at you more, when I’m a group of people? Etc
/r/askTRP20/05/18 03:26 AM
3

You have attraction from the IOI’s. Sounds like it’s simply because you are ignoring her. Because men with options ignore new options unless they are presented with a better option, that conveys high value. Definitely approach. Strike while the iron is hot. Try something. If it works, great. If not, assess what you did and why it didn’t work and recalibrate for the future. You’ve got a long road to walk, but ignoring and then approaching after you get IOI’s seems like it’ll work in your favor. D…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 03:24 AM
10

It’s direct. So sort of dominant. But it lacks game entirely. So it’s boring. Unless she’s super horny or you’re super high value, it won’t work. Game increases attraction and value beyond simply your easily perceived SMV(height, muscles, social status, money) You might get some low SMV women this way. Think about it likes this, could Brad Pitt say this? Yes. Could by the joe the AFC? Obviously, not.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 03:19 AM
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Don’t apologize. The reason is very difficult to understand because women don’t think like men. Women process things emotionally, men logically. So logically you were a dick, you recognize you should apologize. Nothing wrong there. But women don’t process that way. Women don’t apologize because they have done something wrong. They do it because they feel bad, and it makes them feel better. Generally they feel bad because they are about to lose something and they want to retain it. With a friend …
/r/askTRP19/05/18 10:11 PM
4

It takes 10,000 hours of working on anything to become an expert. Reasonable game can prob be established in 3 years of consistent work. But you aren’t approaching you aren’t practicing. You’ll never be good.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 09:59 PM
3

I don’t follow Pua stuff that much. Might have been in bang by roosh v. But it’s not relevant either way. Just think about pressure flips you can use on shit tests. Then get creative with the structure so that there’s no answer that leads to a win for them. The danger is if they pass it with ignore, AA, or pressure flips. You’ve gotta get good at talking shit with guys. Old bar men are the best for this.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:57 PM
1

First question yes. Keep doing what you’re doing. Second, you did fine letting her leave. Trying to stop her at best makes you seem needy. At worst invites an assault accusation. But don’t over think it. There are thousands of reasons besides you that she could have walked away. If she was on her period, it could’ve been that simple. Even back in my blue pill days when I had zero game, a girl came back to the hotel with me but used the period excuse as LMR. I let her go without getting frustrate…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:26 PM
15

AMOG him I’ve also read a Pua technique of saying “if you Like her you should buy her a drink.” If he buys the drink he looks like a bitch. If he doesn’t he’s saying he doesn’t like her. He’s sort of trapped either way. If he’s good enough at game, he might respond to it like a shit test, and you’ll have to one up him. That’s where AMOG happens.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 10:11 PM
3

Good call. You’re an ass. Grow a pair OP
/r/askTRP16/05/18 08:41 PM
4

The easiest fix is to keep your game the same but pursue higher level girls. If you’ve been targeting 6s then target 7/8’s’s if you’re still too much then go for 9’s. I hold that there’s no such thing as a 10. But if you’re still too much find a model or someone famous. They’re desperate for someone with enough balls to dominate them in conversation. Another good outlet if you need to chill is find older bar men. They talk shit all the time and it actually escalates their friendship.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:20 PM
1

IMO in a weird way this would further the agenda of those who want to change the whore. Embracing collapse should be the strategy. Necessity being the mother of all invention. TRP was born out of the AFC’s. Any potential next wave of change will only occur as things become worse.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:12 PM
0

Love it
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:05 PM
34

Please please please do this. Change as little as necessary. Then post here and everywhere in the world the side by side commentary. If you made a YouTube video out of the results, you’d make serious money. It’d be viral.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/18 07:02 PM
0

The “brutal” you are talking about is their way of seeing how dominant you are. It’s actually them communicating that they are attracted. If they weren’t they’d completely ignore you or be nice.
/r/askTRP16/05/18 06:15 PM
-1

Treat it like a comfort test. She’s just freaking out. If you remain steady and ensure that you’ll keep her company and give her a good time she’ll go. Maybe mention one of your favorite parts of the night. “We’re getting dinner at this really great place” Preferably don’t do this via text. But in person. Hold frame either way that there’s nothing to worry about and you’ll take care of her. Just don’t let her drag you into her frame and a lengthy convo about it. Short, polite, assured. Anything …
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:26 PM
33

Just go beta. Start talking about your feelings, thoughts, beliefs, struggles. Lose frame. She’ll see the massive frame change and thinks she has no idea who you are. She’ll be gone before you know it. No alpha widow. She’ll think she’s too good for you. It works like a charm. Whether it’s self sabotage or intentional.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 09:03 PM
4

Wtf
/r/askTRP15/05/18 06:34 PM
2

Men shit test each other constantly both irl and on TRP. Stop being butt hurt. Embrace it or gtfo. But I wasn’t shit testing you. It was a rhetorical question, intended to help you understand the fallacy of your previous comment.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:56 PM
13

Exactly. You’ll enjoy my elaboration on my theory posted above.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:21 PM
10

If you think you’re an 8 and she’s a 10, how can you possibly think you aren’t in her frame. My theory is that self aware decent guys generally believe they are an 8-9. Any time they say a girl is a 10. They are in her frame. She’s NEVER that great. Women at their greatest, barely scratch the surface of a man’s potential. They can be great toys, great beauties, great for a little escape from the hell that is the real world. But they can’t be great people. AWALT.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:20 PM
3

No. Just be polite, but brief. No feelings. No elaboration. If she’s gets open about something with you or starts investing heavy, you can give a tiny tiny tiny bit more. But remain extremely guarded. If you switch from aloof, polite, brief to more than slightly open you’ll scare the shit out of her. It’s a form of losing frame.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:13 PM
55

Then she’s not a 10. I don’t want to knock you, but you’ve got some self awareness to work on.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:11 PM
9

Read about hypergamy, solipsism, and AWALT. She’s a mess. You just don’t see it cause you can’t see past her persona, money, beauty. I have a theory I’ll walk you through it. What would you rate yourself as 1-10?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:11 PM
19

You’re in her frame. You might be faking it well through game awareness. But unless you internalize it naturally, she’s gonna know. I wouldn’t get your hopes up.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:06 PM
46

Irrelevant. If she likes you, she feels awkward about showing any excitement. Just keep distance until Saturday. Check day of. If she shows up, you’re golden. If not, you know where you stand and should soft next.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 12:03 PM
5

Have you ask her to meet you x at y?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:56 AM
124

You’re in her frame heavy. She perceives you as a beta orbiter. Ignore her. She’ll have to come to you if you have any chance.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:47 AM
1

You’d feel worse because she didn’t see your potential, judged you as a beta because you opened up about your inner thoughts and fears, and broke up with you?
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:37 AM
3

Shit tests communicate attraction. She’s trying to get you to show more and more dominance. She thinks you’re bullet proof, so stay bullet proof. If it frustrates you, just stay silent. Preferably with a smirk. Think of it as her talking dirty. Once you see her positive response to holding frame, you’ll be able to embrace it and you can start being actively rather than passively dominant. Punish her, dominate her. Great plate potential. Dominate this and you own her body whenever, wherever, howe…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:43 AM
3

Never explain yourself. It’s logical. They can’t do logic the way we can. Just keep aloof and give ambiguous answers. “I’m not ready for that”
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:38 AM
2

I prefer opening up heavy about my feelings and thoughts. Go beta, lose frame. If she breaks up with you, you stave off any potential crazy fallout. If you know you pushed her toward it, your ego is protected. If she saw you as a beta, you don’t fuck her up for life by making her an alpha widow.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:35 AM
1

Agreed
/r/askTRP15/05/18 10:26 AM
2

I was trying to keep things in laymen’s terms
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:24 PM
2

Definitely never explain this to a woman. Getting laid or not. They want to feel it without knowing it.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 08:23 PM
1

Inability to “go a long time” for a healthy man can be all sorts of things, but for you it seems very clearly linked to insecurity. The worry about creating a cycle, is indicative of your insecurity. You have to change your mindset. Find a mantra. I’m an alpha male. I’m the shit. I’m the boss. I’m dominant. Repeat it to yourself over and over through out the day and for the hour before see her. “I take a long time to cum.” Isn’t a mentality focus. It’s body focus. Don’t use something like this. …
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:19 PM
1

Don’t spread yourself thin, but as long as the interest rate isn’t absurd and getting the loan isn’t too time intensive, add another reasonably small loan to motivate you into working additional hours in the day.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:15 PM
1

Good point on the innuendos. The soft next should give him some wiggle room on the persona but not that much. Reassess that OP. On the biblical stuff. The genesis scripture says, to eve as part of the curse for eating the fruit in the garden “you will desire to control you’re husband, but he will rule over you.” This explains the duality of women due to their heavy focus on emotional interpretation of environmental stimuli. This is more MRP focused. The duality being that they are continually tr…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:11 PM
3

Your insecurity over a girl that you just matched with and haven’t emotionally invested in is getting to you. It’s a mentality thing.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:53 AM
11

Former loser. I pull all the 9/10’s I want these days. Adopt the strong silent type persona. Dgaf about anyone around you. No eye contact unless they engage you or give value. Everyone is beneath you. If they shit test, respond with silent confidence. And immediately ignore them. Once you perfect strong silent. You can work on branching out into other areas like outgoing asshole.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:44 AM
2

Her good girl persona is a facade. I’m Christian too. I’m a little less liberal mentally(I accept scripture for what it says) than you, but accept my sin for what it is and am probably much more liberal in my actions than you. That said... Read Genesis 3:16. And Song of Solomon 7:10. The Hebrew for “desire” is the exact same here. Read it in NLT. That’s the only translation that gets this phrase right due to the feminine imperative other translations just say “desire.” The correct translation is…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:35 AM
3

They wouldn’t think for a second about doing it to you. And already are.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 04:22 AM
1

Tomassi. Thank you for this series. I’ve read year one and some other stuff. Then ventured away from your material for a bit. But this has opened up new worlds of understanding.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/05/18 04:20 AM
2

Truth. But if for some reason she really sticks to it. Soft next. Make your intentions clear.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:04 AM
9

No. Don’t talk about fight club. If you want to give sporadic light advice on how to approach specific situations, that’s fine. Build respect. If it takes, feed him more. Once he accepts deeply painful concepts like hypergamy, solipsism, or AWALT. You could potentially introduce TRP. But you’ll likely invite a complete shit storm unless he’s really embraced a lot of it already.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 03:01 AM
1

What helps me is creating outside pressure. I don’t know how this translates for you, but I’ll give my story maybe you can glean from it. I have enough passive income to live exactly the way I want without working a single hour per week. Not enough to introduce an LTR in my life, but enough for me. But I do want to grow my income. So in an effort to force myself to work, I create expenses that I don’t need for motivation. I’ll get a loan to invest in my business. This creates a new expense(payme…
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:58 AM
6

Disdain what you cannot have. Completely ignore. Internalize that they don’t exist.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 02:45 AM
2

If you want to push her away without inviting the crazy just open up about your feelings and struggles. She’ll disappear.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:12 AM
1

I’m the husband. I don’t inherently suspect anything. Just trying to cover my bases before I get into a bad situation.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:11 AM
1

I edited the post with a little more background
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:58 PM
1

Did that. Looking for rp oriented advice and any pitfalls to watch out for.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 08:55 PM
8

She’s damaged goods. Prob bpd. Everyone here has said the same thing. She’ll ruin your rep, maybe rape accusation, whatever. She has a deep distrust of men. She can’t feel in control unless she is controlling a man. She’s destined for cucking a bp guy one day or living alone. She prob wasn’t raped. That’s the hamster. But even if she was, she hasn’t dealt with it in a way that’s healthy. Play with the fire if you want, lord knows we all have and it’s hella fun. But just know it’s gonna get bad. …
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:21 PM
9

She’s trying to draw you into her web. At the least keep distance. But if you keep it up, it’ll go really bad one day when she realizes you aren’t attainable.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:16 PM
2

You’re not following the rules. You need to post this in asktrp. No one will respond because if they do, they get suspended.
/r/TheRedPill13/05/18 07:13 PM
2

Sort of. Women like to interpret what’s going on behind the scenes. Not having a car says something about you. If you’re older, it says a lot more negative than positive unless you’re a hippie and ride a bike everywhere. Younger. It says my parents prob don’t have money. But if they know your parents do, then it says you’re not spoiled. You’ll have to make your own way in the world. But it’s not as important as you think, it can go both ways. This is why alpha male confidence and focus on your m…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:11 PM
3

Thanks to OP and EC here. I love connecting concepts like this.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:00 PM
1

Learn to embrace it. High value people will always be loners. In a room full of friends most of them are there to gain something and will cut and run if they conclude it will never happen, even if it’s only subconscious.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:33 PM
1

Think about what you want. If you want to touch her touch her. It’s a compliment not an attack. Don’t start with too long or too intimate. Just casual and chill. If she’s talking to you, she wants it. Just don’t cross a boundary that makes her feel uncomfortable. Read her face and body language during and post touch. Does she turn toward you? Move closer? Turn away? Shift away or get fidgety? Does she start looking around or at her friends? All these say different things. Learn to understand her…
/r/askTRP13/05/18 06:31 PM
2

“Shit testing” a woman is really just negging. It’s uncalibrated and unnecessary unless she’s being disrespectful or thinks she’s hot shit. You’re failing comfort tests. You might be getting her pussy wet with dominance, but you’ll break the plate quick.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:06 PM
4

Lmao
/r/askMRP13/05/18 03:03 PM
1

I don’t know about most blue pill but for some reason that pop song that goes “shut up and dance with me” really grinds my gears. The woman takes the lead, dominates him, he pedestalizes her, he sounds timid. Irritating as fuck
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:01 PM
2

What everyone else has said is spot on. If you’re really terribly interested in her virginity, ask it in the form of a joke. “I bet you’re a virgin right?” Smirk. Then watch her body language. Her words will lie. Her body language will give the truth. HB5 “Yes” squirming. You’ve made her uncomfortable about her low/zero n count. She’s prob either a virgin or had sex but regretted it. HB10. “Yes.” With confidence. Lie. HBanything. “You know it!” Wear a condom. Unless you want the clap.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 08:58 PM
1

Thanks. The idea that you can make a judgement on my masculinity from a 50 word comment is wildly entertaining. You’ve put a smile on my face for the day. And that makes you a good person. Cheers.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 07:32 PM
3

Interesting. Still don’t see the problem. It’s difficult through text. Pm me. Maybe we’ll skype. It’ll be obvious if I can see you and interact with you. Or type out a recent story of a full interaction here where you thought it went well but ended poorly with you being called an asshole. Generally this is a problem with game. And understanding the dynamics of politeness or courtly ethics. Have you read 48 law is power?
/r/askTRP12/05/18 06:04 AM
3

That’s weird. Not sure then. Need more info. Elaborate. What do you say. Have you learned to read people. This reminds me of me. I used to be called self righteous all the time. But I was a genuine nice guy and genuinely cares about everyone. Everyone. I just wanted them to know the truth about me and what I was learning or experiencing.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:40 AM
2

You’re a nice guy. NMMNG. Read it quick.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:37 AM
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TLDR. From title only. Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 05:36 AM
2

I commented on your asktrp post but you’ve added some details here. My apologies friend but this is almost certainly dead. I’m crying inside for you. It’s hell and bullshit at the same time. Your best move is to break it off and say you need to focus on yourself. Then grow the fuck out of yourself until you’re so attractive that she contacts you first. I doubt you’ll take this route. It’s painful and takes crazy balls. But if you want happiness especially with her it’s the only route. Any other …
/r/askMRP12/05/18 05:31 AM
1

Holy shit. Man to man. I wanna cry this is so spot on. But that’d be beta as fuck. So stoic mask time. I agree with everything you’ve said. I’d only add that “society doesn’t let men feel” is accurate since our society is run by women.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 05:00 AM
1

Don’t shit where you eat. Keep approaching that’s good. But it’s clear you have a lot of reading in the sidebar to do.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:24 AM
3

Well done. Shit test passed. Go conquer the rest of the world now.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:20 AM
1

Your parents had a different game to play. They grew up in a different time. What worked in their day won’t necessarily work in yours. Example: College. Your mom might be awesome. But remember that’s skewed by her hormones produced during pregnancy and in your formative years. Those hormones create a bond to you that helps her treat you like no woman ever can. Period. Your dad may be great but his provider focused advice won’t work as well in our day. There’s too much female empowerment and shit…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:20 AM
2

Get yourself together bro. If you get paranoid, she knows. You look weak and you’ll drive her into his arms. If you can’t handle it, set the boundary. Tell her to stop. She’ll prob dump you, but why would you want to be part of something that causes you this kind of unhappy? Just go find a girl that respects you and wants to be with you all the time.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:15 AM
1

Stop.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:11 AM
34

I’ve been here for a spell and haven’t seen anything beyond rules like text for logistics only. This detail was helpful. If it’s been said before, it’s a valuable reminder.
/r/TheRedPill12/05/18 03:08 AM
2

Ignoring passes a shit test every time. The purpose of a shit test is to test your resiliency and self awareness. Ignoring and not letting it get under your skin or show weakness is plenty of proof. However you can’t just ignore and look away/butt hurt. Learn to silently smirk, keeping eye contact or look away with your head held high(confident, just short of arrogant) Not that there’s not benefits to learning AA or pressure flips. If you think about it as points. Ignore gets you 8. AA 9. Pressu…
/r/askTRP12/05/18 02:58 AM
2

You def want to exhibit these traits for success. Even if you aren’t naturally this way. It’s HUGE.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:30 AM
1

Ignore.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:26 AM
1

Fuck. That’s last line is beyond brilliant.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:55 AM
-14

Coding? Wtf? I stopped reading there.
/r/TheRedPill11/05/18 04:50 AM
3

Who cares. Just go bro.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:42 AM
2

This. Literally. This.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:30 AM
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No way. Guilt trip her into sex? Wtf? You have a lot of reading to do if you think a girl with options is gonna allow herself to be guilted into sex. Guilt trips are a feminine tactic(think mom). You’ll look beta af if you do attempt this.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:26 AM
1

Not enough info. She could have just been an attention whore. Could’ve gone to meet her boyfriend. Could’ve been turned off by you not being more engaging/assertive. Just about anything could be the case. I’ve also found that the more options a girl has(and the hotter) the more she just wants to make a connection and hopefully see you in the future. “It was like fate that we saw each other again” In future, keep her engaged with out being needy. Then you can start assessing the situation.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 02:21 AM
1

No. You’ve got to understand women make decisions based on how they feel. She isn’t ignoring you. She just doesn’t feel like texting you. Next understand, that emotions are in constant flux. At some point she WILL feel like texting you. She might decide not to because it’s been a while and it would make her feel awkward after. But if you text her, she’ll know you don’t get this concept and it will make her FEEL like you’re an idiot. If you text first, she’ll never ever respond with anything but …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:46 PM
3

If it’s out of control you have ALOT of work ahead. When she asks you what the hell is going on. NEVER ever explain. Read about STFU. Just say “I’m just working on myself. Everything is going to be fine. I promise.”
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:08 PM
3

Go to MRP/askmrp. They’ll have better advice for you. Start lifting. Slowly take the frame back. She’ll be 6 months behind you in her adjustment. Be aware of comfort tests. Be the oak. Don’t go Rambo. Currently her commitment it based on her control of maneuvering you to do what she wants/needs. You need to become so much better than her that she WANTS to give the reins to you. That will take both being great AND time of proving that it’s real. Good luck to you.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:01 PM
2

What that guy said. Up to 2 weeks. But since she isn’t responding to you, it’s slightly different. You wait and do nothing. Just do nothing til she text you. Then depending on how long she took, you decide how many days to wait. Minimum 3. Then follow said protocol.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:51 PM
3

Soft next. If she’s interested she’ll let you know. STFU. Be mysterious. Dodge questions. If she wants sex she doesn’t want to know enough about you to disqualify you. Go approach. Get some plates. FYI, to the “I don’t want to do it in front of everyone.” Next Time day, “sure, but that’s how I like it” smirk and tell. Don’t ask.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:02 PM
2

Id day he’s purple pill. He sees the negatives of the feminist moment and is finding interesting ways of getting them to admit it. Unfortunately, he still thinks conversation will help fix the problem. It may, with some women, but the vast majority will never see the truth for what it really is. Society can only be dominated into believing. Currently women are the dominant power, so society just follows.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:53 PM
2

Then do nothing. If she wants something from you, demand a dna test. Simple.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:23 PM
1

Strictly shit test. “Do you say that to all the boys?”
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:17 PM
1

My position is because that’s the trashy equivalent of a branch swinger. It’s a feminine move. If you need to, keep a few on the side. Rp is a sexual strategy. But sex isn’t the only value in life. If she’s a tramp or bitchy, that might be a different story.
/r/askMRP09/05/18 09:16 PM
1

Assuming it’s yours, What do you want? 50/50?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:11 PM
2

Find a mantra. Something to say to yourself over and over. She’s trash. She’s useless. She’s a selfish bitch. Whatever gets you through day with these temporary emotions. As time passes you’ll need this less and less. GFTOW. That’s the best medicine. Make new emotional connections with other women. It’s like medicine.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:10 PM
2

You’re butt hurt about what ever happened. You’re in her frame and she knows. Go cold and reset your mentality.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:45 PM
10

Dropping the cats thing is butt hurt. Not to mention shitty character. Next time don’t offer to watch a plates cats. That’s LTR stuff. She’s pissed cause you demoted her and she feels it. So she’s pushing back. It’s a shit test. Ignore. She’ll send you the pics. But stop getting chummy with a fuck buddy. That doesn’t make sense. It’s sending her mixed signals.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 01:30 PM
1

You’ve got some natural game but you are in desperate needs of some understanding as to how and why. Read the sidebar. We can’t begin the help you until you learn the basics of our ways. Hint: ignore this girl completely. You’ve already dramatically screwed it up. You’re in her frame. In ignoring her, she MIGHT come approach you. But at the very least she’ll still be around once you figure out what you’re doing.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 10:09 PM
7

Wtf? She offered Friday. Give her a time on Friday and go bang her.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:52 PM
1

Not necessarily. It’s about calibration. The indirect game would come off that way in a night club. Because the venue implies dominance and gaming. So a more direct approach is necessary. She’s there to get gamed and fucked by the right guy. That’s the subtextual communication of her even showing up to a club. So direct game is appropriate. But during the day she’s just trying to buy some groceries. So you have to be more indirect to move her into a place where she is feeling like getting gamed.…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:53 PM
1

I’m not suggesting we do anything like that. That takes a level of psychopathy I’m not capable of. I’m stating that it’s an eventual reality. Dynasties fall, power shifts, vacuums are filled. Someone will one day become so fed up with the matriarchy that he’ll bring its utter ruin. We’re already seeing the beginnings of it in the form of frustrated young men shooting up schools. This is a product of the matriarchy, not toxic masculinity as the SJW’s want us to believe.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:38 PM
0

This is categorically false.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:50 PM
2

Again too difficult to calibrate. You want to focus on yourself, you game, your plan. It’s not that you can’t do this way, there’s just a simpler way.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:48 PM
1

Good question. Although this almost never happens. In order for this to happen both parties would have to be very powerful people and well versed in power dynamics. Two people like this rarely ever meet in public. It’s almost always planned and they know of each other well before. Like how two boxers stare each other down during the promos before a fight. But let’s say it does happen by chance. You have to find your way of powerfully breaking the staring contest. This involves doing something ot…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:47 PM
11

Don’t think eye contact til it’s uncomfortable. This mentality will cause you to make eye contact til it’s uncomfortable for you. You want eye contact til it’s uncomfortable for them. That’s too hard to calibrate cause it will vary between individuals. Think dominant eye contact. Which almost always boils down to a simple rule. Eye contact until they look away first. Then don’t give them eye contact for a while. Eye contact goes both ways it’s dominant but also intimate. After the first round in…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 06:03 AM
1

Well you can’t plate someone if you ghost them.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 05:57 AM
2

There’s no good way to answer this. Calibration is key. But in tight situations like the hike, how does waiting help you at all? Just do something. You won’t be able to pull out reddit and read my response in the 4 seconds(30 was no where near accurate) you have. You have to learn to react naturally. The only way to do that is to just do some shit. Then analyze later for how you could have done better. Try. Learn. Adapt. Internalize.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 04:02 AM
1

The book? Yes. If you want to know how to do this. Approaching at a super market? Obviously yes.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:54 AM
13

Coordinated shit test. Someone needs to write a post on that. That’s a ridiculously common reality. Even with a regular plate introducing you to friends.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:53 AM
1

Read day bang by roost v
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:52 AM
6

Generally don’t. But with heavy IOI’s or if she’s overly dressed in tight flashy workout clothes and not lifting, she’s looking for you to approach. Just approach like anything else. For someone that interest you, but isn’t one of these, run long term game. Act friendly with the interest of escalating when she shows interest.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:50 AM
1

You need to calibrate differently because of the type of person she is. You have to dominate her. In bed. In money. Hopefully you are already stronger than her(but you might want to consider steroids to excel here). In social acumen. She may not be cheating but if she has the house wife option and isn’t settled on you, her hypergamy is attracting her to either “strange dick”(stronger) men or the option to be an independent woman. She’s confused about what she wants. Because you aren’t a complete…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:46 AM
1

Check out MRP. AND the concept of being the oak. It’s what you’re searching for.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:36 AM
4

http://mikemehlman.net/2018/03/21/how-to-win-back-your-ex/
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:32 AM
1

A patriarchal society solves all these problems. Women aren’t the enemy. Their nature to control is. It can’t be overcome. It can only be appropriately dealt with. Imagine we lived in a society where children had all the power. It’d be this times 1000. Women are children just slightly more responsible. If you want goodness to be reality, the closest you can come is moving to a patriarchal country.
/r/TheRedPill08/05/18 03:31 AM
1

What’s your goal? Get her out of your life because she’s toxic or plate her?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:23 AM
2

You have a calibration problem. You’re either hot or cold. Read signals and flow with the moment. Just cause she’s into you for a make out session doesn’t mean you can close. You have to learn to escalate to each successive level. Either stop going out with black out buddy or stop caring. He made his choice. You have no responsibility to take care of him.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:13 AM
2

You might want to check out MRP. It might have some answers for you. Rp has multiple avenues. Including marriage. TRP is mor focused on short term. MRP focuses on long term.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:08 AM
2

I can’t imagine these dynamics really exist in a city of 4 million. His is prob just your current social circle. Game does vary from place to place and culture to culture. But the same rules apply its mostly calibration.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:06 AM
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It’s a shit test. Ignore. With cool confidence. Preferably a subtle glare. Aa. Yeah I’m black as night. Or Pressure flip. So you’re a racist? (They have to defend themselves and say no. This is qualifying and you look boss.) Just don’t get crazy and angry with the pressure flip. Being Butt hurt over racism is very unattractive. It’s a reality. Deal with it with style.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 03:02 AM
3

This.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:58 AM
1

Shiiiiitttt teeeeesssstt Ignore. Aa. Or pressure flip.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 02:56 AM
2

You’re between a rock and hard place. If you say going out is fine, then you won’t fuck. Nearly guaranteed. If you say no, you didn’t catch her covert communication. You seem uncalibrated and socially awkward. I’d cut it and run. “After work and volleyball I’ll just wanna chill. Let’s catch up in September.” She MIGHT then say, ok come over we can chill if she’s looking to fuck. Because she’ll catch your covert communication. This is abundance mindset oriented. You need more plates.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:10 AM
1

Wolves and tomcats are animals. There’s no problem with using the animal kingdom for analogy, but it will always break down. We are humans, and we live in society. There are rules. These rules have a purpose. For humans society provides benefits not afforded to tomcats. But we’re obviously more powerful than tomcats because we are an organized group. The purpose of rules is to keep the group from breaking apart and becoming two weaker groups. You can easily be an alpha within the group, you just…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 01:03 AM
1

Does paying a little respect to the man who has dedicated vast amounts of time, energy, and money to attaining his position of leadership imply fear?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:13 PM
1

Op, learn to smirk. It’s one of my most valuable tools.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:48 PM
1

There’s calibration, but those would be correct actions. You can’t just do it like you’re autistic. It has to be smooth.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:47 PM
1

This is really insightful. I think the idea of separating shit tests from comfort tests was a valuable step for the community. But it doesn’t quite get the point across. Your way of putting this is an evolutionary next step, at least in my mind. Someone should write something about this.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 08:46 PM
1

If you find the time, expansion on this would be helpful.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 05:13 PM
2

I’m not gonna answer all your questions. But something important is to manage the estrogen right during and post cycle. My experience with the high estrogen post cycle was that I felt like a woman. Nothing physical, but it was like I was taking hormone therapy and literally had swinging emotions, neediness, natural beta, desire to submit. Now I manage my estrogen pretty seriously on and off cycle. Major personal benefits.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:43 PM
6

Sex creates intense emotional connection in both men and women. I DONT SUGGEST you go out and have sex to get over this guy. But when you decide to have sex you’ll forget all about this dweeb. How high value could he really be if he’s spending time online asking long distance girls for nudes? Wouldn’t a guy that could simply talk to you in person be eons beyond this guy? High value men go for real life experience not internet fantasy.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 01:36 PM
6

It’s not something to be worried about you can’t please everyone. But if you want to make things just a hair easier learn to calibrate to the person. Smiley nice guy is beta. Stoic is alpha. People know this inherently. So with higher level guys in a social circle that I’m freshly breaking into I’ll generally be stoic but circumstantially switch to some smiling with the highest alpha in the room. It goes a long way. It’s like acknowledging the king. He accepts you and then everyone else just fol…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:32 PM
6

This is likely temporary. I don’t think you can be alpha widowed if you didn’t have sex. It’s tough but you’ll get through it.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 01:26 PM
9

Soft next. Heavy punishment. Dread. Take your pick just don’t let her get away with it. And don’t explain yourself.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:46 AM
2

Polite aloofness. The more disinterest you show the more turned on she’ll get. Women crave attention. So they have a bag of tricks to get attention. It starts with the easy stuff like their boring lives. Then escalated up to sexuality. If all else fails they’ll resort to grabbing your dick to get your attention. Ignore that and she’ll take you home.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:44 AM
1

Yeah def not gonna over do it. I’ve been doing a new adventure weekly lately. It’s been a good experience. Switching to daily would be too much. I was relating that the simple things like new piece of equipment was a stellar idea.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:41 AM
2

It’s interesting how diverse the responses are. I’ve had a car since 16. It def got me action back then. Now it’s common place though.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:39 AM
1

I hadn’t thought about little things like the new piece of equipment. I was thinking new places to go/adventures. My calendar has been 3 weeks full for a couple years but all work. I was wondering about finding a new adventure every day that seemed exhausting, fun though.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:35 AM
7

Hmm new thing everyday. I might try this. That’s some pretty high value shit right there.
/r/TheRedPill07/05/18 04:09 AM
6

It’s a shit test. Men do it too. It establishes a pecking order in society. Ignore Aa or pressure flip. Ignore. Forget he exists. Aa. Look it up and apply according to the situation you are ignorant of. Pressure flip. “You don’t know about cartwheels bro??” “Alright, I’m gonna call you on your bullshit. Go do a cart wheel” if he obeys you, He’s qualifying and you just ordered him around. If he doesn’t he looks like it was all talk. Either way you win. Start with ignore. It’s the easiest. Ever on…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 04:04 AM
1

Find a mantra to repeat. I don’t give a fuck. I don’t give a fuck. She’s a ho. She’s a ho. She’s not worthy of me. She’s not worthy of me. Whatever gets her out of your head. Also GFTOW.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:58 AM
25

Don’t shit where you eat. Move out. Then fuck her. Until then just bring hot plate after hot plate Home. Bang them so hard that they scream and piss her off.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:47 AM
2

Hard next it trying to get her out of your life so she doesn’t negatively affect you. So yes delete from social media. Soft next is game to get her off your mind but keep the door open so she can come back. Don’t delete from social media that’s butt hurt.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:28 AM
-2

Chris Hemsworth I get. But Chris Pratt? Really?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:24 AM
1

Oh right. You have to go to her place. forgot about that. You need to get your own place. Kid game gets too complicated. Depending on your balls. Can you say “how bout you cook me dinner Wednesday at 9” If she’s dtf she just needs an excuse for ASD
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:19 AM
1

Absolutely not. Day time place. Meet me a joes pizza Wednesday at 9. Don’t make another mushroom joke. It’s bad style. She took a major risk by suggesting a time. Prob cause she really thinks she fucked up. Normally that’s your job. Roll with that or she’ll get insecure.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:10 AM
4

False. Alpha is a level of greatness compared to your competition. The top dog is only gonna be as good as he needs to be to beat the second place guy. Alpha is a mentality not a set of traits. Runners decades ago struggled to break the 5 minute mile. The alpha broke it. Then the next generations alpha broke the 4 minute mile. It’s all relative. In past generations beating the competition was more provider based. Now with women having finances of their own it’s more muscle/confidence based.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:09 AM
3

She’s dtf. I have no idea what mushrooms on pizza level means but that shit worked. Applause. HE GETS IT LADIES AND GENTLEMEN! Logistics only then stfu before you fuck it up. Wednesday 9pm. Place.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 01:00 AM
1

Interesting. His emotions are a bit out of wack. He’s got game though passes shit tests galore from plates. Amused mastery out the wazoo. But fails shit and comfort tests from his wife all day. Rp isn’t inherently emotionless. Using anger can be done. I haven’t seen a great way of doing so yet. Tony seems to have some game here though. May not be built but he can kick a guys ass or kill him all day out of sheer will power. Not rp. But alpha nonetheless.
/r/askMRP07/05/18 12:52 AM
17

Tough one. You don’t want to give in to her shit test so your first response was good. But then she got overt because height is important to her. The other comment was prob best. Letting her know without qualifying yourself. Maybe a pressure flip. Are you short? She’ll qualify. I’m 5’6”. Then you say, I’m taller let’s go.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:44 AM
1

Everyone bitches about how hard life is. You either accept mediocrity or do something about it. Your choice. Inspiration is a two way street. People can be black holes or seeds. If you’re a black hole(bad mentality, continual focus on negative, etc) we’d be wasting our time. We’d throw in everything, and you’d just consume and waste it. If you’re a seed, inspiration is like water, it helps but you still have to choose to grow. You’re a black hole currently. No one with an ounce of wisdom is gonn…
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:41 AM
1

If she seemed open and connected it was more of a Friendship interest. Sorry bro. Learn and improve. If you’re right on chemistry you lost her by not escalating past a hug. Then killed it by not passing her “yeah ok” shit test. The response should have been more witty/AA
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:32 AM
6

No. Alpha for his time. But alpha back then is blue pill/beta today. Chicks are ruthless these days since the progress of feminism and SJW bs.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:31 AM
1

Kiss. Keep it simple stupid.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:20 AM
6

Everyone has daddy issues on some level cause no Father is perfect. But I don’t have “major” daddy issues.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:20 AM
1

Too much. She’ll see through it. Good logic. But they can feel it when you’re gaming them. I made this mistake recently with a potential plate. Think about it this way. Who ignores for a week then opens with a playful name. Pua’s. Fakes. Huge turnoff.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:14 AM
1

I’d retain plausible deniability. Text is difficult to calibrate cause you don’t know what’s going on with her. Depending on her mood she may be offended or worse interpret you as butthurt Idgaf is supreme but I little bit of game goes a long way.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 12:12 AM
2

Sounds like it’s too complicated. You can’t say, I’ll drive to your place for a guaranteed fuck. Well, you could but you’d have to be brad Pitt. Tell her to just hit you up when she’s back in September. Let the hamster spin for 3 months. She’ll be ready to go. Give an excuse like you’re busy for the next week till whenever she has to leave.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:59 PM
2

If she’s double texting with a week of cold sounds like you have frame. Just don’t fuck it up. No mixed signals. No date. She’s on thin ice. She needs to decide she wants it or not. Invite over to your house. Drinks. Hang while you do chores. Whatever excuse. Then escalate. Stay calibrated but don’t be timid. It’s almost like a tinder date at this point. Pleasantries then fuck.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 11:53 PM
68

And from the ashes, a new asshole is born. Red pill 1. Feminists 0.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 11:20 PM
1

You posted in the wrong place. Delete and post in asktrp. Else you’ll get banned. Reminder to everyone else, if you answer his question you’ll get banned also.
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 11:01 PM
7

Your dad IS blue pill. BUT that doesn’t mean he’s not masculine/strong. His generation could do things differently and succeed. College for example used to guarantee a good job. Not for your generation. Same applies to women. Women are different due to feminism, media, and easy sex. You need to demote her or we’ll be trying to put Humpty Dumpty back together again in ten years. And all the King’s horses and all the Kings men wont be able to do it.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:30 PM
1

That’s good. It’s a shit test. Silence, AA, or pressure flip. Silence=smirk with heavy eye contact til she gets intimidated and looks away. AA. Sure I’m a player. I play all kinds of things. Football, baseball, even the violin occasionally. Pressure flip. Do you say that to all the guys?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:26 PM
2

Sounds like you bantered over text. Don’t do that. The calibration is too difficult. In person only.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:21 PM
8

True. Sadly. You don’t want to marry her and find this bullshit ten years later. Been there. Had kids. Divorced. She doesn’t have the character worthy of a high value man. You prob won’t demote her. You’re emotionally invested. But you’ll pay for it with dividends down the road.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:12 PM
3

Emotional investment runs deep. It’s the reason dread game is so effective.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:33 PM
2

Social eq. Whatever value you are is what you’re worthy of hanging out with. Some is contextual(good football players hang with good football players). But your confidence attracts others with like confidence(as well as other SMV traits, status, money, muscles, etc) Everyone shit tests and plays games. The higher up in social circles you progress the harder they get. I’m pm you the other details. Don’t want to get dox’d.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:29 PM
1

Check the sopranos. You’ll like Tony too.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 05:30 PM
2

This chick gets it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 05:27 PM
11

Multiple ex wife’s girl friends that couldn’t get in my pants, even though I lead them on, told her I cheated on her with them, one said raped. Betas and entire social circle turned on me. I was left with a single alpha friend that saw through all the bs. Wife divorced. Still recovering, but going out and making new friends, male and female, fixes it all pretty quick. Increase your game and SMV to attract people to you. You’re confidence will be naturally low due to the failure, so work on yours…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 05:25 PM
5

Retain plausible deniability. Women do this all the time. They are masters.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:51 PM
1

If I didn’t have kids here, I would have already moved to a different country. I’m hopeful that RP really does do something like that. It’d be a world power very quickly.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:48 PM
4

You’ve established an emotional connection. Not just in her but yourself. You’re on the road to oneitis. If you don’t want it you have to GFTOW. Also STFU. Stop creating new emotional connections by talking and spooning post sex. Stop texting all day. You can’t pull back all at once without breaking the plate. Rest assured she’s more into you than you are her. Focus on work/school. Go approach. Let her down slowly. Text shorter responses more and more over several weeks til you’re down to logist…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:43 PM
1

Sounds like you want a divorce. I’d suggest dread first. There’d be no sweeter victory than putting her in her place, winning, keeping a submissive vag, and taking care of your kids. But if it doesn’t work, whatevs. Next.
/r/askMRP06/05/18 04:30 PM
1

Most ASD happens because they don’t want to feel like a slut tomorrow or be known as one in their social circles. Social circles is why isolating is key. For their personal ego tomorrow they have to hamster something on their own. “It just happened in the moment. Outcome independence helps tremendously here. But a third, I’ve also found ASD and LMR happen when they see beta provider opportunities. They know a high SMV man won’t marry a slut. He wants her to be his slut but not everyone else’s. S…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:23 PM
1

It’s not relevant. Insert whatever name you see fit.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:15 PM
3

I’m not defending cheating; I think it makes for a bad captain. You hamstered into several different ideas that he never said. From the post, there is zero evidence that his wife knows. Just because the plate said so in a shit test rage doesn’t mean it’s true. There is zero evidence that the wife cares. Women prefer a high value man that cheats over a low value one that doesn’t. There is zero evidence the plate has power over the wife. Plate doesn’t live with man, doesn’t get his time, attention…
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/18 01:08 PM
7

Actually I think I get it. It’s about pushing the limits. Prior to this moment, I’ve always thought of shit/comfort tests being something that I have to be passively/reactive about. They’re going to come at me and I need to know how to respond. But most success comes from being active/proactive. So what’s happening is an alpha should be actively seeking getting these shit/comfort tests from a woman. That’s what game is about. That’s why women are naturals. They seek to get that emotional rise ou…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 08:30 AM
1

It’s bleak.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 08:18 AM
1

That’s not what was written. However, if that’s what was intended I get it. However, maybe it’s a revolutionary mistake. (Like most great inventions) But I read it differently and it seemed to be valuable insight. I read: Women want men who think that women are durable(not strong) enough to not be hurt by men. Now, there’s obvious flaws to this. But there are clear indicators that this has some relevant truth Sex for example. Woman want to be railed, disrespected, even beaten/fantasy raped. It’s…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 08:18 AM
1

Likelihood is 100%. It’s simply a matter of time. The world doesn’t give two shits about what you’d rather have happen. It may not happen in our lifetime, but prepare for it or you/your offspring will be amongst the dead when it hits.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:58 AM
1

I don’t feel like you read everything carefully. Reset=War. Disease. New nation overtaking the old weaker established ones. It’s happened before. It’ll happen again. Barring Jesus coming back first.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:51 AM
2

Definitely not big enough. It has to be cataclysmic. World powers start with a heavy patriarchal society and end in utter ruin under a matriarchal society. Think Persia, Greece, Rome, US. Strong men birth strong nations. But eventually weakness and femininity creeps in. You can even see this on a micro level with families. A strong patriarch establishes a dynasty. But eventually it’s ruined by weak children 3,4,5 generations down the line. Then another family takes their place. The Rockefellers …
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:30 AM
16

I’m glad you asked. None. But that doesn’t preclude a man from making a healthy logical decision on his own. Weak minded TRP men like to bitch about women treating us like shit because of the feminine weak emotional state. Doing the same to them is only being as feminine as they are. Acting feminine is the essence of blue pill. TRP as a set of tactics would say fuck her. TRP as a pro man movement would say rise above the bullshit and bitching and emotions and do what’s best. Check out MRP. There…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:15 AM
21

It’s getting better and worse at the same time. More men are unplugging, and those that aren’t sheep are implementing at least little bits of truth in their lives. But SJW’s and feminists and their beta followers are doubling down on control mechanisms. The pendulum of society always swings back and forth. In politics we went from bush to Obama to trump. It’s the natural cycle of all things. Unfortunately entropy is a fact. TRP will never take over without a massive reset(such as revolution(war/…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 07:04 AM
10

Why not stop d3? I’m sure she feels like trash with this going on. Get over your bullshit and give her some comfort or you’ll lose her. Show her she has value even though she’s injured. Imagine you as a man go through a rough patch from an injury and can’t lift. Or lose your job and can’t provide financially. You know you’ll bounce back. It’ll just take a little time while you recover. Would you want her to treat you with disrespect in the midst of your difficulty? The equivalent is you rejectin…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 06:53 AM
5

Thank you. I think I’m asking more about the first half. The second half I get as frame control. As a daddy I gladly poke and play with my daughter(physically and verbally) and when she acts hurt, but I KNOW I was reasonably gentle I let it bounce off me easily. I say something like, “stop, that didn’t hurt” and she laughs. I get the bandages concept because the world hurt her badly not me. I’m just trying to grasp the extent this goes to. If I truly accidentally hurt my daughter(lift her up and…
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 05:53 AM
1

READ scripture. Find the places that align. Gen 3:16. NLT(strangely, this is the only translation that gets it right) a wife has a desire to control husband but is happiest when dominated. TRP is more focused on plates etc. check out MRP/askMRP It’s a lot closer to good Christian game. Also check out dalrock. The problem isn’t scripture or rp there problem is our culture(and church) being dominated by women. Rp wouldn’t be necessary in a patriarchal society. Pm me for more thoughts.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 05:09 AM
2

Rp Christians is dormant. Ignore it.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 05:04 AM
12

“Women want a men who think they can’t be hurt. Show a woman she can’t cause you distress and her panties moisten.” This is gold. But help me understand, how do comfort tests factor in with this?
/r/TheRedPill06/05/18 04:39 AM
1

Women don’t fixated on individual traits, generally, unless the difference is massive. Then it’s just the grass is greener. You should know that he has issues with certain things that you are massively better at. She prob does too. You’re rich, he’s poor, you’re confident he’s not. I agree this is disrespectful. Treat it like a shit test. Ignore. Or AA. AA would be applying dread like someone else suggested. Put her in her place, but never explain how or why you did it. You’ll just invite an arg…
/r/askMRP06/05/18 04:34 AM
1

Just try it. Watch it fail. Then you won’t be wondering. It’s POSSIBLE to do more than logistics and get a slight bump from some, but the risks outweigh the benefits and you’ll lose more than you win. Fail with a few then, stop. Go out and approach more.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:28 AM
1

Lmfao
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:26 AM
1

If you don’t want to don’t. If you go but have the wrong mindset you’ll only hurt yourself.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:22 AM
1

Just like anything else. Try something. If it doesn’t work, learn, adapt, overcome. But an alternate path is to just ngaf. Go with the strong silent persona. I’m pretty good once I get to know someone a bit, but not amazing until then. So I focus on confidence and silence. Let them talk a bit til I find some interesting points to poke fun and then move into talking more.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:21 AM
1

Just try something. Every pro baseball player started with Tball. Just swing at something and see what happens. Learn, adapt, overcome.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:06 AM
1

The hotter the girl the more she can handle in this realm. Sounds like you are approaching 7/8’s, approach 9/10’s with this.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:59 AM
9

This is blue pill af. Read the sidebar bro.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 02:33 PM
1

Nice can go both ways. “He’s nice.” Girl friends agree. Beta. “He’s nice.” Girl friends get huffy. Alpha and she’s trying to hamster herself into rationalizing her intense sexual attraction is because you’re nice to her, even though you aren’t. “He’s nice.” Within your earshot. Probable shit test.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 07:15 PM
0

If Brad Pitt wanted her for body, she’d hop on that dick. That was a shit test. Sounds like you are friend zoning yourself. Start checking out our whole she’s talking and escalate.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:10 AM
1

Generally the alpha, often the boss, not always. Who is calling the shots? Who has the bosses ear?
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:03 AM
3

There will always be someone bigger better faster stronger. Even if you are to be feared in many social circles you still need to watch out.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 06:02 AM
4

Depends on your game. But generally there older the better up to 50 or so
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:55 AM
5

Good mentality. Wrong application. This isn’t fear. It’s wisdom. We’ve all fucked the babysitter or similar and saw how it burns. That’s why we tell you not to do it. It’s NEVER worth it. It’s clear you won’t listen. Report back when your life gets fucked up, so maybe others can learn from your mistakes.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:24 AM
3

It’s a shit test. Treat it accordingly.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:20 AM
6

Don’t shit where you eat. This is a rape accusation waiting to happen. Go fuck something else.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 02:07 AM
1

Change your mind set to where it doesn’t matter. It’s unlikely that anyone notices, just an insecurity.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:19 AM
0

Soft next
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:17 AM
2

Read the sidebar. You’re asking questions that aren’t relevant.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 01:17 AM
3

If an attractive girl approached you, would you give two shits whether her opening line was meaningful or even appropriate? Of course not. This isn’t entirely the same for them because they have a social image to upkeep, but it applies more than you realize. Simply approaching sets you apart from 99% of men they see in their daily routine. To make it easier, however, consider something appropriate for the venue. If it’s day game, ask about something on her table or her outfit. If it’s night game…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 12:45 AM
1

Lmfao
/r/askTRP04/05/18 12:37 AM
1

Too long. There’s always hope. Read the sidebar. Take things one day at a time and slowly grow into someone better than the alpha in your story.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 12:09 AM
2

Uniquely impressive. From what I can tell, you haven’t read much of the sidebar, but if all this is true, you have plenty of natural tendencies. I would have taken her body language as a no and walked away. But your persistence paid off. Keep pushing forward. You’ve got a good hold on her. She likes the persistence, clearly, so keep up with that. Just make sure you don’t over do it and scare her off.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 12:02 AM
2

Are you a chick or dude?
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:57 PM
1

No
/r/askTRP03/05/18 11:46 PM
5

That makes a lot of sense. More demands on men to be better and stop fucking up the lives of women with the recession that “obviously” men created.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 08:18 PM
2

Ride the wave. See where it goes.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:21 AM
2

Yep. Definitely learning experience. Learn then recalibrate for the next 9
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:11 AM
1

Sex. Sex is why you’re there.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:09 AM
2

It’s almost certainly them.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 01:09 AM
3

Make it border line sexual but not overt or else you’ll trigger ASD. “Sauce and sauce to spare.” Or something in your own words. Then x at y.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:57 AM
3

This guy gets it.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:50 AM
2

Shit test. You lost frame. “Not wanting to fuck it up” means you’re in her frame. Soft next. Ignore, maybe she’ll come back to you.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:48 AM
3

Don’t actively search it out. But trust no one(generally good life advice). Ignore, but keep your eyes and ears open for little signs of disloyalty. Also consider it might be a manipulative woman game to try to shit test you. Chicks come up with little ideas like this all the time. Deny and ignore.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:47 AM
1

Definitely not. She doesn’t have morals AWALT(at least not these kinds of morals). She is either disinterested or shit testing. In either case soft next. If she was disinterested you retain your dignity. If she was shit testing she’ll come to you.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 03:12 AM
1

Shit test. Don’t shit where you eat but she’s into you. Otherwise she wouldn’t have mentioned it.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:25 PM
2

Slowly work back into ignoring. Pick your battles. Re establish frame. If you don’t, you’ll lose her to Chad.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 11:24 PM
1

Yes. Just say it’s complicated or open about the ex. Don’t say broke up. It’s social proof to be with someone. Plus makes new girl look like your rebound
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:20 PM
3

GFTOW
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:19 PM
98

Rp is a sexual strategy. Women LOVE beta comfort, the way they love gay guys. It’s just not sexual. She’s dating/marrying a guy that is easy and comfortable. A best friend. (Girl friend, emotional tampon) Rest assured rp works. They may stay together “happily” forever. It will just be a sexless marriage. Dead bedroom. I doubt there anything beyond bare minimum sex now. She’s always “too tired” In our society though she’ll get bored. She have affairs. She’ll fantasize about her alpha that widowed…
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:08 PM
1

I agree with op
/r/askTRP01/05/18 08:04 PM
1

Oh...didn’t catch that. Major face palm. But I get it now
/r/askTRP01/05/18 07:44 PM
6

That’s fine once you have rapport. But you can’t do shit like that on tinder or after just getting a girls number. That takes time.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:49 PM
1

Well said. I’m all about the self improving and natural alpha, but the thread has seemed to get carried away from alpha mentality.
/r/TheRedPill01/05/18 12:30 PM
17

Ignore/ next. Btw your normal response needs calibration. “I’m sure can find few hours” is beta The “dickhead” thing seems weird to me. I can’t imagine a chick responding positively to that. And “passion fruit mojitos” are a girly drink. Sounds like you are trying to get in her pants by being girly, not masculine. I’d scratch the whole thing and start again.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:25 PM
2

Omfg
/r/askTRP01/05/18 12:21 PM
1

Oh. I read that differently. Now, you might have fucked up. There’s a few possible scenarios. Good move on getting off her because of the bad sex and “let’s take it slow” shit test. But turning her down while she’s trying to get you going seems potentially butt hurt and would bring a lot of insecurity in women I’ve been around. Depending on her SMV this could be fine as it would create some dread. But I don’t get the impression that she is an HB9-10 that needs tons of gaming. She doesn’t seem to…
/r/askMRP01/05/18 12:15 PM
1

You haven’t taken the pill if you are still thinking this. Exceptionally ungifted men spin plates for days. The EC knows you don’t understand it yet. Go back to the sidebar. Focus on becoming dominant. Once you experience reality you’ll understand how irrelevant this question is.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 11:56 AM
3

Nothing to worry about. Probably could have calibrated a few things differently. For example, her hard no, sounded more like a shit test that she wanted you to dominate than a boundary that needed respecting, but you seem on a good track. Move forward slowly so you don’t go Rambo. She likes it, so you’re good for now. Something tells me you shouldn’t have rubbed your dick when she said no also, feels beta to me.
/r/askMRP01/05/18 11:50 AM
1

Much better
/r/askTRP30/04/18 02:25 PM
1

Rework your AA. What would be a better delivery?
/r/askTRP30/04/18 01:09 PM
7

Poor delivery of AA. DEF wait. Prob never expect to hear from her. Expect to approach again next time you see her in person.
/r/askTRP30/04/18 12:19 PM
1

Then what you said was fine. You could always try ignoring/silence if you don’t want to be too much of an asshole.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 08:35 PM
1

I’ve read otherwise, but you seem more educated than me on the subject.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 08:33 PM
2

You’re over thinking it. We can’t give you advice on this level of detail. The right response needs to be calibrated to all kinds of specifications. The best advice is just ask. It prob won’t work. But analyze, adjust and try something different in the future. Keep doing this over and over until you find something that works.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:23 AM
1

This seems unusual to me. But there is a possible explanation in T levels. When you nofap your testosterone rises slightly until day seven it spikes significantly. This is your body telling you to go fuck. Then after it dips down to normal levels from there on out. I suspect nofap really works best when you’re getting laid regularly. You get the T level increases then the spike and you go make it happen. If you nofap and abstain, it probably leads to general beta behavior(creeper).
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:20 AM
1

If you don’t like it, pull away. Best case scenario, she’ll make her intentions more clear by coming on harder.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:13 AM
1

She’s not interested. She was just needy circumstantially that one night. Ignore. Move on. If there’s anything there she’ll come to you.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 12:07 AM
7

I suspect you’ll get a lot of flack over this post, but I agree with your premise. I hold that it doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it. Same goes for this. Doesn’t matter what you do but how you do it. I think your description over how to run “ friend zone game” is a bit cloudy, but you’re on the right track. The problem will occur when guys that don’t “get it” get in the Friend zone and rationalize that they are running friend zone game. They’ll be stuck for a long time. But that’s th…
/r/TheRedPill29/04/18 12:03 AM
1

Wait, whats the one reason?
/r/askMRP28/04/18 11:52 PM
1

She feels too insecure to compete with the other women. Probably a shit test(especially since she bitched you out after), but consider the possibility that it was a comfort test. A little comfort can go a long way when you have this kind of frame. But if you’re surrounded by women, why do you care about this ONE?
/r/askTRP28/04/18 11:38 PM
1

Read this. http://mikemehlman.net/2018/03/21/how-to-win-back-your-ex/ Then do nothing directly. Just focus on you. GFTOW. Then when she finally wants you back, you’ll likely pass.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 11:35 PM
2

Check them out. If it’s night give a long hard look up and down. If it’s day, a quick subtle look that you KNOW she caught is best.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 11:32 PM
2

No. Just disappointed.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 03:01 AM
1

I don’t see the problem with practice. You’re gonna get hurt cause frame has already broken. But go try some new shit, up your game, then next.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 02:54 AM
1

Flip the question. If you interacted with a girl that had good game, flirty, fun, covert sexuality, etc. Would you think, ohhhhh she been reading a reddit on girl game? Of course not, you’d just think she’s amazing. Even if the thought crossed your mind, you wouldn’t care, if anything, you’d respect her work ethic.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 01:22 AM
3

Go over to MRP and askMRP. TRP needs some balancing before it works in a marriage situation.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:47 AM
7

That’s actually what I do on purpose. Not Instagram, social media is gay. But I read articles/books on my phone. People appreciate someone that is focused. It makes one interesting. I have girls come up and “accidentally bump” into me constantly. The key is to give nothing else your attention, but be very aware of your surrounding via everything but direct sight. Sounds, touch, peripheral vision. Then when you can tell someone is standing too close for too long, you open them.
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:42 AM
22

Don’t. Don’t go out to talk to people. Go out for you. Just go out a for a beer. If someone interesting and easy to talk to crosses your path then talk to them. Otherwise, you’re just there to have beer. If you want to (in the moment) approach, then approach. Otherwise you’re just there to have a beer. But regularly make yourself available to run into someone at a bar or other venue. After you’ve been 3-4 times, it’ll happen naturally. Now, you’ve built momentum. As time passes, more and more na…
/r/askTRP28/04/18 12:20 AM
1

Geez bro. What a mind fuck. We’ve all been completely screwed by life. It’s doubtless, some guys here have your same story, but found out after 10 years of marriage and a couple kids. Life has a way of bringing a man back to zero every decade or so. This is what makes us resilient and strong. This forges us into the man that women want and men envy. Keep your head up. Cry in private. Move life forward one day at a time. You’ve experienced difficulty before, this too will pass. Great men are forg…
/r/askTRP27/04/18 12:37 PM
1

Basically, you’ve got it. But up your game. Multiply everything.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 05:38 AM
1

When “fuck it” is emotional, giving up is too easy. When it’s logical, the tendency is to not quit.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/18 05:24 AM
1

So do it for the second and third and fourth....
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:28 AM
1

Lift. Check. Sleep. Check(when I don’t have an all night marathon going). Meditate? I see TRP guys recommend that occasionally. Article?
/r/askMRP26/04/18 04:28 AM
3

Don’t get a big head. But what you say is less important than how you say it.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:35 PM
1

You’re over complicating it. Literally anywhere. The venue simply changes which kind of game or style you should apply.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:34 PM
1

Anywhere that you don’t know the people or have any value attached to them.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 10:08 PM
4

I really enjoyed this simple analogy. Thank you for putting the time in.
/r/TheRedPill25/04/18 04:32 PM
1

You like the attention. You find your value and self worth in getting attention from others. So you’ve learned that these tirades get attention, and they make you feel valuable. It’s very feminine in nature. It's weird how I seek encouragement, yet only accept negativity. -very feminine. You have to find your value in things that you produce/directly control eg your work, your experiences, your alone time, etc. If there’s to be any hope you have to disconnect and eliminate the need to find value…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:59 PM
1

This article was really helpful. I’ve read it a few times. Just wanted to say thanks.
/r/askMRP25/04/18 03:53 PM
2

Check out Tomassi’s iron rule number 6
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:29 PM
6

It’s a frame thing. You’ve set the tone with your current plates that they don’t need to invest in these areas. Changing that frame after the fact is about as difficult as getting the “overall frame” back once lost. See Tomassi’s 1st iron rule and number 7. The best strategy would be to set this tone with new future plates.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:28 PM
1

Feel free to clarify. I’m listening.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:22 PM
2

Welcome to real life. 90% of that is my story too. I would venture to say it’s similar for a lot of TRP guys. Natural chad’s don’t find TRP. It’s the guys who are sick of the bullshit that find TRP. I offered my advice, get help. Because I cared. But it seems like you’ve ignored that. So now I don’t. This is why you think no one cares. Everyone that has ever cared, you reject. TRP can’t help until you change that.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 01:35 PM
3

“Proof that my insecurities are not just in my mind but are facts” Consider my outside perspective, very seriously. I think it’s quite the opposite. These events only prove that your insecurities are very clearly not facts but entirely mental. Facts: You got mixed up with a maniac. You were seduced and manipulated by this maniac The maniac had such intense manipulative control over you that she was even able to tell you she was using you, and you still stayed. Eventually, you made a good decisio…
/r/askTRP25/04/18 05:58 AM
1

Maybe. But I couldn’t find it.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 08:35 AM
1

Yep
/r/askTRP23/04/18 02:53 AM
7

I don’t think I could see opening up a girl by calling her a bitch ever working. But if they have the bitch shield up ignoring isn’t gonna go anywhere, for an open. If you already know her, you could prob pull off calling her a bitch as long as you can make it playful if she acts mad.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:58 AM
1

Who cares. Plate her.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:23 AM
2

She was flirting with you. Flirt back next time.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 09:29 PM
-1

I think you did fine. Ignoring/silence on shit tests is almost as good as AA. Don’t worry about AA until you have frame, else you’ll just invite more tests. If AA is 100/100 on a test, ignoring is a solid A+. You could improve, but you seem to have decent handle on how to do that. Just keep moving forward with those baby steps.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 09:27 PM
0

That’s natural. You’re over stressed. Stop taking on new responsibilities. Finish up whatever you have in the next three weeks. Then take a full 2 weeks off. Not for partying. Force yourself to lay in bed for the first 24 hours straight. Get up for a couple light snacks and the bathroom. Turn off your phone.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 08:53 PM
2

Part of a good grind is adequate rest. DAILY. Sleep appropriately. Eat consistently. Drink water. WEEKLY. Take a full day off. Cheat a little on your diet. Rest rest rest. Sleep extra. MONTHLY. Take an extra day one of the weeks. So a full weekend off. ANNUALLY. Take a string of 7-14 days off depending on your workload and stress. This needs to be a full reset. Almost to the point you feel lazy and don’t want to get back to work. Then accelerate slowly back into the grind.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 08:11 PM
1

Read No more mr nice guy by Robert Glover
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:02 PM
2

Everyone is different. So it makes sense.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 05:48 AM
-4

It’s fine. You don’t need to be perfect. Another guy I talked to lost his job, unfairly, and got all needy on his girl. He can recover. He just needs to show that he figured out the right path in the end. They value communication. I’m not a huge fan of it. But you can use it to your benefit. Tell her. You figured it out. DONT tell her you fucked up. Don’t get all beta needy and apologetic. Just tell her to realizes he was being a little shit and you told him to go stuff it. She can stay as long …
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:45 AM
-6

It’s a shit test from your roomie. Don’t push that bullshit onto your girl. Tell him it’s your room. He can stay out of your life. Tell her you handled it by telling him to fuck himself. Currently she’s viewing you as beta to the roomie, which is prob true. Assert yourself.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:30 AM
1

Cut off. That’s the best way to not be a beta orbiter. But def don’t shit where you eat. Label them as off limits in your head.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:25 AM
1

Wait a 2-3 weeks. Then reinvigorate. It was circumstantial. She was hot cause she was ovulating. Keep frame by staying silent. If you catch her at the right time, she’ll hop on that D.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:23 AM
1

Yes.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:16 AM
1

Shit tests. Carry on as normal. Dgaf.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:15 AM
5

It’ll always hurt. That’s the beta in you that you are trying to expunge. I know how it feels. I’m sorry. But it doesn’t change the rules of the game. You have to play by the rules if you want to succeed.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:12 AM
1

Don’t focus on text. It’s too hard to miss read. If you HAVE to text, be more beta. BUT you’re missing something. You’re pic or interaction screams too much beta else where. For example the second “follow up” text to explain yourself screams “I’m insecure” to a woman. Alphas don’t explain themselves. They just ARE.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:10 AM
2

Hard next. She’s not into you. Move on or you’ll be sucked into the Friend zone.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:02 AM
11

She’s looking to cheat on you. Set boundaries. Call her on her shit and be assertive about it. You’ll lose her with anything else.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 04:00 AM
7

It’s not about lines. It’s about mentality. Lines only work for guys that have the mentality to pull it off.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:58 AM
6

Smiles are friendship and comfort oriented. You want there to be an edge between you and the girl. Smile with men. Dick face makes it looks like you don’t mind asserting yourself. So women perceive this as attractive. You don’t necessarily want Angry always though. More stoic once you open a girl.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:57 AM
1

Google it. Decide on what you think is best given circumstances. No one can give you better advice than you. Try something. If it doesn’t work learn from your mistakes. There’s plenty of fish.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:53 AM
1

I think Tomassi relates sniper mentality vs shot gun mentality in plate theory. Read up on Tomassi’s plate theory. You’re in sniper mode. You want you to be in shot gun mode. Approach more girls. This one will feel like a joke, if you do.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:36 AM
1

I’ve read you get a massive T boost at day 7. Why not 8 days?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:32 AM
1

It doesn’t matter bro. It’s all about how you own the shoes. So pick what you like the most.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:31 AM
2

I’ve been enjoying ‘the sopranos’ lately for RP/BP examples. But it’s literally in every single movie/ show ever. The characters are extremes, prob based on people the writers knew. These elements are classic and provide loads of entertainment.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 03:28 AM
2

There’s def a difference between Day game and night game. Day game has to be more subtle. Find Day bang by Roosh v. Good book. It’ll explain.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:25 AM
2

Gladly
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:24 AM
1

You said, won’t I lose the heat. Don’t worry about that. The hamster creates plenty of heat because girls love attention. Take away your attention and she’ll do whatever it takes to get it back. Read up on “the hamster” if you don’t understand that term.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:23 AM
1

Yeah. But you might want to try ignoring him more than escalating.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:21 AM
5

Why is there a point? They’ll assume from your actions. Most girls assume if you look at them you like them. I’m sure if you give this one your time, she’ll assume the feelings. But if you open up you give her ammo to shit test you with. Don’t do that unless you want the challenge.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:19 AM
1

Then focus on that. I didn’t notice that as a primary goal in your OP. The girls will come and cum regardless. Focus on Spanish bro.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:16 AM
4

A book you need to read. No more Mr nice guy by Robert Glover.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 03:11 AM
1

When you meet a girl that doesn’t know English, what do you think? Repulsive or attractive?
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:10 AM
1

This comment is spot on. Don’t worry about the heat. She needs to hamster a bit from a soft next.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:09 AM
29

Sounds valid to me
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:05 AM
1

I hear Brazil is pretty dope. No experience though.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 03:04 AM
6

Read NMMNG
/r/askMRP22/04/18 02:58 AM
1

NMMNG has a blurb on this. It connects it to insecurities. I suspect the book has a lot to offer you on a lot of other areas as well.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:49 AM
1

I wouldn’t say that’s too much comfort, necessarily. It’s more about how you interacted on those 4 meetings.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:46 AM
1

Just stick with ignoring it. Don’t laugh it off. If you want to interact, give her a smirk or look at her like she’s a beneath you.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:45 AM
5

It’s about mindset. If you’re mindset is you’re a little kid that has mommy taking him places-it’s emasculating. If you’re mindset is I’m the boss and this is my chauffeur-you’re good.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:40 AM
1

There’s something happening that you don’t know about or haven’t mentioned in OP. Twice isn’t enough to get sore. Did you get AMOG’d by some other guy? Did you fail a shit test? Is she on her period and embarrassed? I agree with other posters that you seemed butthurt. Maybe the right moves, but take it slower next time. Text for an hour then go out or just go straight to bed. 10 minutes was a bit much. Might also want to read up on comfort tests vs shit tests. Dread should be a later action. Not…
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:35 AM
6

No amount of writing can explain this. You have to get there. Then just do things. Figure out what works and what you like. You could read a million books on hitting a ball with a bat, but never have a single clue until you pick up a bat and hit the damn ball.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:27 AM
10

Drop her. For both of you. I PROMISE heaven lies in dropping her. You’re only deceived into believing you’re in heaven when you are really in hell. https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=eph6_fz49rc
/r/askTRP22/04/18 02:25 AM
1

Gladly.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 12:59 AM
1

It’s been a week since this post but I want to thank the people that offered valuable advice. Your Jedi mind trick suggestion worked wonders. I first kept the exchange short, maybe 7 minutes. But on the way to meeting her told myself over and over she was undesirable, a poor wife, not a good fit, and just the baby sitter. It wasn’t angry or volatile just meditative. This eliminated the crying 100%. Thank you.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 12:58 AM
1

NMMNG is very insightful. Thank you for the suggestion.
/r/askMRP22/04/18 12:58 AM
2

I’m almost done with No more mr nice guy. It seems like a good bridge between BP and RP to me. But if you unplug him right before he wedding you’ll likely destroy the wedding.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 11:39 PM
1

You could tell her you need space to refocus your life. Then go silent for a month or two. Let that hamster spin. Then when you have your financial stuff refigured, hit her up again. You’ll have the frame, have proven yourself able to overcome a major circumstantial difficulty(solid captain material), she’ll have freaked out about who you were with while you were away. You’ll have disconnected your emotional investment from her so you can recalibrate your game. If you want her back, she’ll be yo…
/r/askTRP21/04/18 11:36 PM
1

So do something different
/r/askTRP20/04/18 07:37 PM
1

Whatever you are doing now, isn’t working. So stop doing it. Do something different and see what results it produces. Learn from your mistakes and move on. Anything else approaches insanity.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:08 PM
1

Go for it
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:02 PM
1

Tomassi. Rational male.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 05:38 PM
1

I'm just worried by ignoring her and ghosting her she'll assume i'm losing interest. -This is exactly what you want. However, i just feel once she's back on sunday or monday after i've ghosted her the whole time and all of a sudden hit her up you don't think that'll be obvious i just kinda waited? -possibly. But having the self control to wait is a lot more respectable than being a needy little bitch that responds. Bet me money she just says she's "busy" -that was my position with 1:10,000,000 Y…
/r/askTRP20/04/18 04:58 PM
1

Just ghost. You’re over thinking this. This is why having options is important. When you don’t, you get too deep and it just plays into her control mechanisms. Yes, silence is that powerful. The same over thinking you do about her every change in mood, she does about silence. But when you are talking she doesn’t over think she just responds with craziness. As long as she has your attention, she controls you.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 02:04 AM
1

Women crave attention. The more you give for pics and text, the less they respect you. If you ignore and she gives a crap, she’ll continually escalate until she can get your attention. Up to and including meeting, foreplay, and sex. If she’s turning you down but sending nudes, you’re a beta orbiter. If you’re turning her down or aloof and she’s sending nudes, she’s DTF.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 11:03 PM
2

600k snaps, hot, no frame, need reddit advice? 1:10,000,000 I’m not knocking you buddy. We have principles we follow. When you lose frame, you go try a new girl. That’s how it works. It’s your life. Do as you please, but you wanted the advice. So here it is.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 10:01 PM
1

A $1 scratch off isn’t much lost, and the $1 million pay off is high. Bet you can figure out why I tell people to stay away from the lottery.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:41 PM
1

Advising you to give up is the best advice. Pretend you see a friend investing money in a poker game. He’s convinced he just needs that one lucky hand to come out on top. But he’s $50k in the hole and he’s about to buy another $10k worth of chips. You tell him to give up because he’s just gonna make things worse. Even if he’s a good poker player, there’s something going on that is beyond him. Either the other players are out of his league, the dealer is cheating, he’s not playing right because h…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 08:04 PM
1

Don’t try to be different. You already are different. You are a unique person. Try to be high value in your areas of uniqueness as well as generic areas of masculine importance; confidence, money, muscles. Not that she wants anything to do with that unique person, but high value men come off as if everything is effortless to them. That’s why walking away seems powerful. You expend zero effort, and it makes her wonder what she’s missing. You gamed her by doing exactly nothing. Very powerful. If y…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:20 PM
1

Slow down. One thought at a time. First I’m not sure you understand hamstering fully. Hamstering isn’t thinking. It’s rationalization. The hamster can either be your best friend or your worst enemy. A lot of good game is about utilizing the hamster to work in your favor. The hamster can rationalize her ASD into believing you raped her, if she regrets it the next day. Or it it can rationalize ASD that she’s not a slut cause you’re a really great guy with high SMV so she needed to show off her sex…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 06:40 PM
1

Yeah not lookin good. She’s def gonna day no once you get there. I’d just ghost. If she’s interested, she’ll contact you. Then you have the power and tell her to meet you half way at a chill spot. Then escalate at the spot. You can escalate over the course of up to 3 dates without it being too much investment. But if escalation isn’t happening, drop her. If it takes longer than 3 dates, drop it. Don’t go to her place. Invite her back to yours. This way, if she says, no, she has the long fruitles…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 06:23 PM
2

Absolutely not. If I understand correctly this is a business relationship. Don’t shit where you eat. Keep business and sex separate. The risks are too high.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:41 AM
2

It’s shit testing. Nothing new. But in an LTR it’s def disrespectful. So you need to man up quick and start passing or next her. If you haven’t lost frame, it’s moments away.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:44 AM
3

Stop being so picky with words. Obviously Chad isn’t gonna cold approach. But yes, through mutual interests or friends Chad will say “sup” one day. Then goal accomplished.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:40 AM
2

You did exactly right. The response to shit tests is ignore or agree and amplify. In the work place, agree and amplify is difficult to pull off. You have to be adept at comedic wit and timing. You have to know when to insert a plausible deniability by laughing or saying I’m just kidding with you, don’t take it personal. But ignore is plenty and garners respect. Women crave attention so she’s trying to get under your skin for attention. She’s also trying to figure out what weaknesses you have so …
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:46 PM
2

I don’t recommend anything beyond casual when you can use someone else’s.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 10:26 PM
3

Yes but it runs out of value once you use it enough.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:49 PM
4

Meet them where they are at. Give them this logic. God is love, right? Yes He loves everyone right? Yes Does everyone change? No So does love change people? Then just wait while they get deer in the headlights eyes. Caveat: they still won’t buy it. They’ll rationalize something else. You could follow up with. Do you really believe God’s love being so great can’t change people, but yours being so small can? If their “ears are open” as Jesus said, they’ll get it. If not, walk away, they are the mo…
/r/TheRedPill17/04/18 09:25 PM
2

LJBF
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:21 PM
1

Yes
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:47 PM
9

You have to become Chad to be friends with Chad. Chad is at the top of the food chain and he knows it. He won’t want you dragging him down. Observe Chad from a distance, fake it til you make it, and become Chad. Then Chad will approach you to be friends.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:45 PM
2

It has good elements but there are better songs to pull mindset from.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:44 PM
7

I haven’t figured it out myself. However something that helped me get half way there was judging everyone by their actions rather than words. When I started doing that I noticed a massive difference between the two. This helped me realize that pretty much everyone else didn’t give a fuck, which helped me care a lot less. The next stage was realizing that since they didn’t actually care, but were saying they did, they were lying to me. I definitely don’t like liars. So I was able to care even les…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:13 PM
1

Prob harder. She just wants a friend.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 03:24 PM
1

Prob not a shit test. Prob a comfort test. Shit tests have the underlying question “are you(the man) good enough for me?” Comfort tests have the underlying question “am I(the woman) good enough for you?” Generally shit tests start with you. Comfort tests start with I/me. For comfort tests, you want affirm them while not being beta. To this specifically, you did that. So yes you passed by affirming and sexualizing it. The wrong thing to do would be to affirm like a woman. “No, I think they’re gre…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 02:41 PM
2

I don’t recommend it. You don’t want to get into patterns that break your rules or don’t push toward your goals. I assume don’t shit where you eat is something you want to follow. She works with you. No. I assume targeting the 60+ market isn’t a long term goal. It’s a different game from the tail you should be chasing. If you get good at this one by succeeding, you’ll only create habits and mindsets that set you back when you game younger women. Youll have to both learn the new women AND unlearn…
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:48 PM
1

It’s not that simple my friend. When you pass a shit test, she hops on your dick. She doesn’t go to therapy.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 07:05 PM
1

I think you just need to push through. Let your nerves fire off pain signals all they want. They’ll get bored eventually and stop bitching.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 06:47 PM
1

2 possibly. 1 def not. Unless he’s been focused on TRP not MRP. I’ve been hyper-focused on TRP for 15 months and I’m just barely getting some of the most critical MRP stuff. For example yesterday I was introduced to covert contracts for the first time. I had a vague concept from some TRP stuff, but TRP doesn’t convert easily to the most difficult game of all, marriage. I’ll agree though that he doesn’t get it. It’s a bit confusing to me how he could be at around the same length of time in RP as …
/r/askMRP16/04/18 06:41 PM
1

If I came off that way, it was unintentional. Let me summarize. Run damage control by switching to pull. https://www.google.com/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/40a2wf/an_indepth_look_at_the_pushpull_dynamic_theorylong/ Scroll down to the physical escalation part. It’ll explain how too much push is where rape accusations come from. This is what she means by feeling used. Focus on self growth in order to create natural desire from her. Because you can’t negotiate that desire. You are do…
/r/askMRP16/04/18 06:02 PM
1

That last line is beautiful and brilliant. Article? Keywords to google? So I can read about what you’ve said.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 05:51 PM
1

I don’t think you’re really that overweight then. Do this. Google body fat percentage pics Compare yourself to the pictures and figure out your approximate body fat percentage. Get it down to 8-12% if you are over 20% a medium might be too small for you. I’m just struggling to visualize you because I’m 6’0. Our bodies are adept at adaptation. If you just push through the sensation will go away.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 05:25 PM
1

Everything you’ve said is correct but I want to give you some insight. Look. Every one of you reading this the things this faggot talks about are easily researched and read. Other men have been in this EXACT and I mean EXACT position. Thing is OP is a year in and his Red Pill ego has caused her to react. The information may be available and plentiful. But I promise you it’s not easy to find. I have been reading rp for over a year and what little marriage game value I’ve attained has only been th…
/r/askMRP16/04/18 04:54 PM
1

Girls don’t love romance. They love the idea of romance because men are romantics and a romantic man understands push/pull and is therefore a high value one. Tomassi has something on how men are romantic women are not. I suggest you read it.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:44 PM
1

Are you juicing?
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:41 PM
2

I’ve been through EXACTLY your situation. I was you about a year ago. Did everything wrong and am now divorced. My kids are miserable. I’m over her as a person, but never wanted to hurt the kids and family. You are on the road to divorce. What other commenters said holds significant value. You’ve taken the pill. Yes. But you aren’t getting the most critical parts because becoming an expert takes time. To translate, you are running good game tactics, (but bad game) You’ve been a beta in her eyes …
/r/askMRP16/04/18 04:39 PM
2

Sounds like a shit test. She wants to see if you’ll go beta when she talks about moving. If she had a good chance with a celebrity or royalty, would she move for career? Of course not. If she does move, it’s because you weren’t quite high value enough to a)overcome her fantasy that she might find something better in her new location or b) overcome her feminist girlfriends telling her to go c) another more high value man like an alpha or Father telling her to go Good luck to you
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:13 PM
1

If it’s the sensation, you can get a shirt that’s less tight. I wouldn’t think you can be overweight and look good in a shirt that hugs your chest without making your waist look atrocious. If it’s an insecurity because you think people see your nipples, change your mind set. It’s not real to anyone but you. Tell yourself you look good with the posture and no one cares about your nips. I promise, they don’t. I’ve never in my life thought, ‘wow that guy’s nips are out cause he has good posture.’ T…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:08 PM
5

Sounds like you have frame and this is a comfort test as opposed to a shit test. Don’t offer beta comfort, offer your time and attention(invite her over), assuming she is willing to reciprocate with the things you want(cooch). Don’t openly state it transactionally, but set the tone that you know what you want and are willing to walk if it’s not provided. Also have the mindset that beta comfort won’t help her(because it won’t) have the mindset that she will see herself as valuable by having the a…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:03 PM
1

Amen to that brother
/r/askTRP16/04/18 01:58 PM
0

Thanks addict.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 12:53 PM
1

Thank you. That makes sense.
/r/askMRP16/04/18 12:51 PM
9

Maybe, but have you considered that’s her game? She rationalizes that she can be crazy and use the black out excuse. I’ve seen it done with style. It’s bpd at the least though.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:31 PM
1

If he’s disgusted by her, looking to drop her, making excuses to leave the room, I can’t see him being in her frame. He might have been in her frame during the injury and that turned her off. But I don’t see evidence that she corrected once he was back in her frame; I see the opposite.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 12:24 PM
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If I had more energy, I’d rip you a new one for your own good. I know who you are and where you’re at. I’ve been there. This was not a mistake this was Russian roulette. There’s likely no way you’ll learn until it nearly destroys you. I’m sorry. I feel for future you who goes through intense difficulty when your “mistakes” catch up with you. You’ll want to end your life. Don’t. Just keep moving forward day by day and it’ll work itself out. If you were my friend, would beat you unconscious for yo…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:39 AM
5

If you used a condom, I kind of like xckcx’s response. You trap her into exposing her own lie. That’s brilliant. Documenting that you said nothing happened in text might not be bad. If you didn’t use a condom and she turns out pregnant and you lied by saying nothing you might have a different problem. But it’s a much better problem than rape charge.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:14 AM
1

Sounds like they explained it pretty well in your quote.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:04 AM
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This sounds dangerous to me. She obviously knows what happened. “I blacked out” is complete bs. If her position is she blacked out and you say you screwed, rape nearly guaranteed. Even if she isn’t thinking it now, when her mind starts hamstering or has buyers remorse or her girl friends talk to her it’ll become rape in her mind no matter what the truth is. THEY DONT CARE ABOUT THE TRUTH THEY CARE ABOUT THEIR REPUTATION. At the least it’s ASD, at the worst metoo incrimination. Women are incredib…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:02 AM
1

That was my initial thought from OP, but his latest comment seems to suggest something different.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 02:18 AM
1

It’ll be my next book I digest after nmmng a couple times
/r/askMRP16/04/18 02:15 AM
1

90% of this is fantastic advice on mindset, going into monk mode. Thank you.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 04:25 PM
1

K
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:19 PM
2

It would def seem like it, but I like to confirm
/r/askTRP15/04/18 02:18 PM
1

Definitely good advice. I’m working on that
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:17 PM
1

So she left you?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 08:59 AM
1

Bingo! I didn’t tie those two together because of my difficult circumstances. But that’s gotta be it. It makes perfect sense given what I’m feeling/thinking, and I know how to fix that. Thank you.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 07:37 AM
1

I can’t imagine it would except if she spread rumors about you because you piss her off. Be polite with her but turn down requests to investment. Why isn’t she a plate?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:32 AM
12

Claiming to alpha widow someone is pretty ballsy. It’s a pretty intense concept. You may easily be an alpha that rejected her though. She might be having temporary regrets about her nature to chase an alpha and is now pining for some beta guys that affirm her. Or she may have hit the wall and looking to settle down with a beta bucks.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 06:45 AM
3

I think you did fine. It’s just a shit test. Obviously it’s not important to her if she opened up without dinner. If it recurs you might want to go cold for a few days or week.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 05:37 AM
1

I’m not getting it across to people, but I think I’ve killed the puppy. If nothing else, by being forced. The old is gone. Done. I’m not connecting with people on closing the book on a future new relationship without the past baggage. If nothing else, this is my motivation to work on me because it’s the only thing I don’t have but want. It’s the carrot in front of the horse. Possibly it’d be healthier to have a different mission, but I’m pretty damn happy with my gains and the time line of expec…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 05:34 AM
1

In love with myself? Maybe, but that seems pretty healthy to me in light of rp/dark triad concepts.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 05:02 AM
1

I can def recognize the danger of that. Maybe it’s leftover bp conditioning, but even rollo recognizes over and over that a monogamous two parent home is best for kids and that immediately dropping a marriage because you took the pill isn’t a good idea. But rather get to the gym first and start working to regain the frame. (I might be wrong here, I’m open to quotes from rollo) Now, I do think post divorce, rollo would say drop it, but that’s not something I’m into yet. I’m going to keep my optio…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 05:00 AM
1

Gladly. Still looking to understand why my body reacts in a way not consistent with my mentality and results in all other areas of my life though.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 04:47 AM
1

I’m totally on board with what you said here. I recognize a handful seem to think I’m not listening to them, and honestly, I’m not. Not sure why people want to comment on decisions that I’m comfortable with, rather than answer the specific questions I asked. Whether their assessments of the situation are correct or not, I asked questions that relate directly to two deficits I’ve recognized(1) and want to work on(2). I’m not interested in other deficits others think they see because, as you said,…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 04:45 AM
1

Same.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:27 AM
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I’d would think you’d want to work on yourself and demonstrate higher value than her. It achieves two goals, first you don’t feel insecure about her. Second he sees you as better and gives you more attention than her.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/18 04:25 AM
5

You did well. But it seems to me the term wouldn’t be passing a shit test but rather you were cocky and funny and showed amused mastery.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:21 AM
1

Thanks. I’ll keep that in mind.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 04:18 AM
3

Ubermensh. He deleted it. I think he warned he would do so if I remember. I’ll miss it too but it’s gone. We need to move on.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 04:09 AM
1

There’s no doubt I have a long way to go.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 04:08 AM
1

You clearly haven’t read everything. I don’t blame you though, there’s a lot.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 04:00 AM
3

Seems fine to me. She corrected. That seems healthy to me. It’s not in her nature to be supportive when you are weak. Sure it sucks but she was being honest with you which is pretty stellar in my opinion. She was scared that you were gonna be a loser forever because of the injury. You def want to give her less attention for a while make up some excuse, if you say you have to catch up on lost work due to injury that’ll prob provide bonus points to you. I don’t think I’d ghost. Just be distant. Ju…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:58 AM
1

Assuming value, I’ll be glad to refer if someone wants this type of service.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 03:40 AM
2

I don’t think you are her frame either, just in danger because of your concerns. Enjoy it too much? Rephrase that mentality or else you’re still in danger.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 03:30 AM
1

I can neither confirm nor deny.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 03:12 AM
2

How long have you been together?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:11 AM
6

I suspect your A&A response wasn’t delivered well, but if it was, her response was just a second shit test. The main issue though was you got cock blocked. You would want to run a game that mitigates them in the future.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:00 AM
1

I appreciate this, but it’s not a necessary expense. I have the benefits of your suggestion without the cost.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:57 AM
1

Thank you for the clarification. The concept isn’t totally new to me while the term is. Expectations is close, but CC’s seem to involve a little more. To date, I’ve termed this general beta behavior, but beta seems more broad than this also. I’m wondering if the contract is the problem or the covert. I suspect both to a degree. But mostly the covert. To me, the Captain needs to set up overt contracts. And RP rarely touches on this. The strategy I see most often is to setup a covert contract, but…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:56 AM
1

I’ll take your initial consult, but only if you’re ok with knowing I won’t be a paying customer. I own several businesses and know that this is a calculated cost. I don’t need paid service on your level. I’m capable of figuring this out on my own and/or through free options like reddit and blogs. I don’t want to bait you into the belief that you’ll get a customer. But if you think that consult can help you understand your business better and other potential customers through talking to me. And w…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:33 AM
4

Yes. If you don’t want it, tell her no. Say you are focused on work or something. If you feel the need to have sex to please her, you’ll be entering her frame and soon be doing other things to please her. And the sex will go cold.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:29 AM
1

Already downloaded. Not in a place where I can listen but it’ll be started tomorrow.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:26 AM
1

I’m all about masculine bravado. I’m all about straight direct tough love. Maybe this would benefit some people, but a slew of insults without actionable advice doesn’t do anything for me. How am I feeling? Indifferent. It just feels like someone trying to affect to me to affect me, not to help. When I’m lifting but don’t feel like doing my last set, I tell myself “Stop letting your pussy get in the way of your gains” and then I lift. I don’t simply say something that’s degrading to myself like …
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:25 AM
1

Working on it def. That’s what my questions are all about. I want to understand.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:06 AM
1

I’m not familiar with the term covert contracts. I suspect it’s something like expectations, but I haven’t read up on covert contracts directly.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:04 AM
2

This is 100% my goal and intention. I haven’t communicated that effectively, but it is def my mindset.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 02:03 AM
1

Yes. Sort of. Will they shit test someone they aren’t attracted to? Yes. But only the first initial test to get you to big off. They’ve assessed you as low value and think they can get you to go away. BUT if you pass she will be instantly interested. Not in bed, but willing to try again. If she is interested, unless you are clearly much higher value, she will prob shit test(in her mind, it’s to be playful). You pass this and possible instant in bed(prob not). Shit tests can only be good, if you …
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:55 AM
1

If you have the drive and capability to do card counting, do so. Work the system to get your piece of the pie. But on gambling without card counting, it’s fine in a controlled calculated manner for fun. Set a limit and spend it. Treat it like any other event. You plan to spend $20 at a movie, do it and move on. Same with gambling. Def never let yourself get into an addiction. Not setting or not following your limits will lead to this without fail.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:49 AM
3

My bed. Her bed. A back alley.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:46 AM
1

No. He’s shown he won’t listen. I have a “big heart” to where I feel his compassion naturally all the time to help. I have to set boundaries and rules for myself in which I give advice once then never again unless my previous advise is followed or they come back apologetic for not following and realize now that they should have. You can’t help him. Move on from that. You’ll experience this issue continually through out your life. Learn now, before their weakness consumes you.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:45 AM
8

You’ll never hear the truth from her. So don’t care. If she interests you, go for it. Use a condom. Always. And flush it or take with you.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:39 AM
3

Girls ignore men they aren’t attracted to. The shit tests mean they are interested especially the laughing.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:38 AM
2

You don’t need to be asking this question. You already have it figured out. Wit could be added, but if it worked why change it?
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:34 AM
1

Theoretically, no. You have to improve your game. But in reality you will naturally develop additional SMV from your age and successes, so you’ll see a bump there. Will things be easier? Absolutely not. Will they be better? Maybe, if you don’t fuck things up. Definitely, if aim to better yourself.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:32 AM
2

Text is very different from person. For text someone’s comment about only giving logistics is spot on. She’s probably using you for an ego boost. Set frame that you aren’t going to give that over a distance. In person, it’s not about your words, it’s your actions. You could literally say nothing but look her up and down heavy, lingering and focusing on her parts you like the most and then look at her and smile(preferably smirk) def no teeth, and she’ll jump on top of you.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:29 AM
9

On older friends it’s either you are more mature than your age or you are gravitating to older men who are immature and are clinging to your confident future. Prob the latter. On finding, any community recreational sports, church, neighbors, or just the regulars at a bar. Literally anywhere. Try to involve yourself in as many communities as you can handle.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 01:26 AM
1

I can neither confirm nor deny your assessment.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 01:18 AM
2

The blubbering like a little sissy isn't a good place to be. I get it, I was there too once. But spending 30+ minutes with the ex while dropping the kids off isn't good for you. If you can't handle it, cut it short. The kids don't need to see daddy whimpering either. -totally agree. Good actionable advice. I’ll follow that. Except I’m not blubbering. I said, I don’t blubber or look dejected. I’m standing tall and straight. Silent without emotion on my face. But liquid exits my eyes. Largely I’m …
/r/askMRP15/04/18 01:12 AM
0

Man the fuck up? Ohhhhh ok, now I see the light. What would I do without all this useless trolling?
/r/askMRP15/04/18 12:55 AM
1

Agreed. But I haven’t ventured into stoicism enough to experience a real dose. All I’ve got at this point in my growth is the affect. It’s a process. This might be the first piece of actionable advice yet on the crying. I’ll start reading up on stoicism.
/r/askMRP15/04/18 12:51 AM
1

This is also good insight to consider. I was assuming he’s not crazy.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 12:44 AM
0

I’ve never 1rep maxed because I don’t have anyone to spot. So I do 3x5’s across all major body groups 2-3 exercises per group. I try to keep it simple. Bench prob 190 max(I do 3x5, 160). Deadlift 150(I have back probs so I keep it light) I haven’t effectively worked legs into my routine. I’m content with my legs so until my upper body gets better they get less attention. Squats I’m slowly working up currently at 100. My first problem was to tackle weight loss because that affected everything. Wa…
/r/askMRP15/04/18 12:43 AM
-1

Let me add. My frame is my frame. Red pill is not my frame and my frame is not red pill. I can learn from red pill and have very much so. And while respect everyone else has their frame regarding this post; it is not my frame. Tomassi’s rule about never rooting through the “garbage” is fine as his frame. I even agree with him in regards to dating, LTR’s, and largely divorce. But it is not my frame when it comes to children. If someone who either shares my frame or wants to for the sake of argume…
/r/askMRP14/04/18 11:46 PM
0

Or 3) sometimes it’s just a shit test from a weak individual trying to gain control or power. I pick three on this guy. I have no problem with gruffness. It’s troll-like behavior while I’m trying to understand something through a rational conversation I have a problem with.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 11:36 PM
-1

Actually yes. 😏 But I’m long past that trash now.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 11:34 PM
1

Thank you I’ve read rollo religiously for a year, so his article was nothing new. But this is a good perspective. I’m not sure why I came across any other way, but this is exactly what I’m trying to do. A thought just crossed my mind. Is everyone reading monk mode as “I’m going celebate”? Because while I used to think monk mode was going celebate, I’ve recently been reading about it and ascertained that it’s not. It’s throwing yourself completely into yourself. Reading, lifting, making money. So…
/r/askMRP14/04/18 11:31 PM
-5

Your emotional violence betrays your lack of self control. I suggest you do a little refresher on frame for yourself. 48 laws of power and 33 strategies of war will also help you see how your emotion is really just weakness.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 11:00 PM
1

I’ll take your advice. I often listen to audiobooks 2-3 times.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 10:55 PM
-3

Cheating and divorce are outside of my frame. I recognize that I’m denying myself some biological desires. But denying certain desires is exactly how you become what you want to become. I deny certain foods when cutting. I deny time wasting activities in order to choose activities that add value. Etc etc etc Following desires isn’t inherently masculine. In fact, saying no to emotional desires or some biological desires in favor of self actualizing desires is exactly how we become who we want to …
/r/askMRP14/04/18 10:42 PM
1

Thank you. I’ll find the audio book
/r/askMRP14/04/18 10:26 PM
1

Can’t find nmmmg. The side bar has a link to a course. Is that a book?
/r/askMRP14/04/18 09:59 PM
2

Good point. But I’m not asking about how to get my kids back even if I’m coming off that way. I already have a plan for that. Learn, grow, attract, regain frame, put family back together. I’m asking about this weird body habit and tips on monk mode. I would also say rp has advanced beyond sexual strategy into masculine self improvement/actualization strategy.
/r/askMRP14/04/18 09:50 PM
1

I think you’re saying something that I can get a lot of value from, but it’s just not connecting for me. Do you have an article or term I can look up to read more in-depth?
/r/askMRP14/04/18 09:37 PM
1

She won’t be in monk mode there’s no doubt. Cock carousel? I doubt it. Her social circles wouldn’t allow for it. She’d have to go make new friends. A dating app might create those circumstances for her, but it’s not her style. Agreed on the rest. I have frame control of everything and everyone in my life except her. This is temporary though. It’s a product of the loss and the decade plus of heavy bp emotional investment. Time won’t fix things but I’m finding positive feedback loops to get her of…
/r/askMRP14/04/18 09:32 PM
1

Thank you. Can you expand on what you mean by making circumstantial goals? Aren’t all goals made to improve circumstances?
/r/askMRP14/04/18 09:25 PM
1

Advice: do this. You’ll make mistakes but that’s how you learn, not by reading. Come up with an idea(this) and try it. If it works do more, if doesn’t try something new. Enemies: what you’ll essentially be doing is negging over and over and over. Few can take one or two. You’ll drive people off. It’s fine. It’s their loss, and need to learn and grow. I just wouldn’t do it with anyone you know. Don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 09:10 PM
-1

Agreed. I understand. It’s blue pill I get it. But I don’t care. Red pill is perfect for pussy but it’s not perfect for happiness. Tomassi is not God. Pussy is not my God. If I have a oneitis it’s for my kids, not her. I’m aware that I could get a higher SMV woman but there’s only one woman in the world that has control over half of my kid’s lives. If it’s about pussy, I’d move on easily. At this point it’s about not fucking up my kids and regaining things I have emotionally invested nearly half…
/r/askMRP14/04/18 08:41 PM
3

If you’ve ever watched the sopranos this shouldn’t surprise you. SMV is more based on alpha confidence than anything. Next is muscles then money and last is attractiveness in the balding arena. I get there’s a lack of muscle with these guys but alpha over comes it all and the money is enough to lock these chicks down.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 08:19 PM
11

It’s prob dependent on social circles. This seems high to me for a church group but low for sorority life or a stoner/party group. What social circles do these girls run in?
/r/askTRP14/04/18 08:15 PM
2

Leadership and being alpha and adored is fun. The problem seems to be you are too high level for these people. The alpha in a group I just started mingling with recently was talking the other day about a different social circle he’s part of in which he feels like a child around the men in the group. This guy has really high SMV, so it was interesting to hear he has a different group that has seriously higher SMV. I suggest you take his route. Keep your leadership of this lower level group, but g…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:07 PM
1

Watch the sopranos and analyze Tony and the other mob bosses.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:02 PM
1

I propose it. But there’s obviously a lot of factors.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:01 PM
2

Do it, but know it won’t produce results until you get enough practice with these higher SMV women. You’ll grow faster this way, and it’ll make you more capable when hitting on younger girls. But it’s clear you have a lot to learn.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:41 PM
3

I tried it. It has its limitations. It’s pretty good game and an ego boost but you limit yourself to appearing like a high level woman. Being well rounded is a higher SMV approach. And you’ll make a lot of enemies.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:38 PM
12

Self test based on the women you can attract. If you can consistently attract 7’s but screw up with 8’s you are prob 7.5
/r/askTRP14/04/18 06:30 PM
2

It’s not just women. It’s everyone.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 05:09 PM
-1

It’s a shit test brother. Sounds to me like you don’t have frame. I hate to say it, you’re either headed for a break up or worse a future failed marriage post kids. It’s a tough pill to swallow, but I promise it’ll hurt tons more the longer you let it go on. Plus, you’re going to lose her anyways. Lastly, the only chance you have for a healthy future with this specific girl requires a) regaining frame which I’ve yet to see succinct healthy advice on how to do yet prob because it takes years of h…
/r/askMRP14/04/18 12:41 PM
2

I think it’s guilt and hamstering. She loves her beta friend zoned bf. But is attracted to a more alpha guy and lacks the morals necessary. So guilt cause she doesn’t like what she’s down to him. Hamstering cause she’s trying to tell herself she’s gotten it out of her system and is turning over a new leaf of commitment and committed love.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:51 AM
1

A lot of guys find TRP because of a failing marriage and it takes too long to fully implement TRP to rescue the marriage. A better indicator will be in 10 years. Judging if you see guys who were unplugged BEFORE marriage experiencing the same failure rate as those unplugged after marriage.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:45 AM
17

There’s one company that will never under any circumstances consider your record. The company you own. If it’s really as bad as you say, you might be boxed into entrepreneurship. Embrace it. It’s tough for the first 5 years but pays mega dividends is you succeed.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:42 AM
1

Yes. But if you’re not happy, why are you continuing. The worst thing you could do is continue unhappy for another 10 years getting married and having kids in the middle there somewhere. Learn from my mistakes. It only gets worse, not better. I’d suggest you tell her she isn’t pleasing you. She might work harder. If she does, you’ve got a good one. Keep asking her to work harder. Don’t do too much at once, you’ll over burden her. Again, my mistake. Just keep things upticking consistently. I assu…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:38 AM
1

Just keep passing. It’s just what it is. A test. Sure it sucks, but that’s life. If you pass, you’ll no longer trade off Alpha positions. You BE the alpha. The longer is goes on without you breaking frame the more he looks like a little nagging bitch to your group. As frustrating as it is for you to continually pass, I promise he’s more frustrated with not being able to break your frame. Hang onto that and embrace amused mastery as well as a response of silence with a smirk.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 03:30 AM
58

Literally everyday is a fresh start. Just change friend groups or where you hang out so that you can find new friends.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 02:57 AM
3

She was. But something you did turn her off and now you don’t “get it” so you’re making it worse. But the nice thing is you actually do get it because you caught those one word responses. So go cold. Then retry in the future at least 3 weeks I’d say. If you see her in person regularly, be cold with minimal responses. If you see her start to show interest with IOI’s you can implement push/pull and reattract her. Or if you don’t see her, wait for her to text you first.
/r/askTRP14/04/18 12:53 AM
1

I wasn’t subscribed to askmrp looks like similar concepts are frequently discussed. Thank you for pointing me in the right direction.
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/18 12:19 AM
1

K
/r/MarriedRedPill14/04/18 12:17 AM
1

Read push/pull. Pull is how you show interest without being beta needy. Push is the ignoring side and making her grow interest/chase you.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 10:49 PM
1

You got most of it. The one thing you missed is they lack game. Both game with girls and the more important variety of knowing how to play the world’s game of power. The best analogy of a nice guy is a poker player that plays with all his cards on the table, face up and whining about the other players not playing fair because they hold their cards. No opportunity to make people think he has a good hand. In the infrequent event that he does have a great hand everyone knows, they fold and he makes…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 10:34 PM
3

I genuinely enjoy reading. So I sit at the bar and read TRP stuff or a book on my phone. Sounds super beta but I get tons of IOI’s and choosers(think this is the term). That I open when they purposely bump me or try to get a drink while standing next to me. The key is not to look beta(awkward/insecure) when you do whatever you decide to do. I sit in the middle of the bar or a lively corner NOT the back of the room or a secluded spot. Don’t look around. Don’t switch between phone and tv. Don’t ma…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 10:22 PM
3

Thank you this clarifies a lot. It’s particularly interesting to me that you suggest a woman not send her man to TRP. You’re absolutely right here. That would both be offensive and maybe worse a sign of disrespect/unsubmissiveness. I get now that my suggestion was exactly the same as loneliness’s 3 way suggestion in that it lacked submission. Gosh. It’s truly sad that things are like this. I saw a lot of responses “tell him to go do xyz” as feminist/bp. But in my arrogance I made my own blue pil…
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/18 03:19 PM
2

It’s more about practice. Reading responses is fun but memorizing isn’t practical. With the exception of “do you have a girl friend” I’ve never used a line I read. I was only minorly witty when I started. If you want to get in the mindset, movies/shows are better. They are quite literally shit test/passed constantly. Romance, drama, comedy do it the most. Lately the sopranos has me hooked because the main character is super alpha and has to pass male shit tests (which are much harder) or he coul…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:02 PM
2

Desire. I read a study where men and women were shown various types of porn. The men were turned on as expected. Guy girl. Girl girl. Etc. The girls were turned onto anything even crazy animal sex as long as there was sexual desire between the two parties.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:21 AM
1

If you take her out you set precedent to buy drinks. Otherwise she’ll peg you as a broke loser. If she invites you out, you can split or if you’re really good get her to buy. It won’t be her money, it’ll be daddy’s.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:18 AM
2

Any ONS is a potential plate. Keep it her unblocked but ignore as if you did block her.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:16 AM
4

Honestly, move out. There’s really no other way. I know this difficult/impossible. Avoid being around until you can leave. Otherwise just deal with it.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:14 AM
3

My thoughts are she’s prob good but wait another 6 months to see how things pan out before you propose. There’s no hurry especially if she’s flaking.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:07 AM
2

Same as any shit test. Silence or agree and amplify. “I know you arent being serious.” Silence would be. “Ok” Agree and amplify. “I’m totally serious! We can go on hikes and canoeing and braid each other’s hair. For agree and amplify don’t be making fun of her be cocky and funny. If she really acts this way she’s trying to be too serious. She’s gonna make everyone around uncomfortable while you’re just a chill high SMV guy with options. She might not bite but at least you know she’s frustrated a…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 04:10 AM
1

I agree totally to get a reaction. Sounds bpd to me. Hard next or at least be sure to flush the condoms.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:48 AM
3

I have a budding theory. TRP teaches not to listen to what women say but judge their actions. My theory is that an experienced alpha could continually say beta things but using body language communicate alpha behavior and achieve the best of both worlds. For your specific situation this could look like “oh yeah, we can definitely be friends” but while you say it you smirk or check her out. If you visualize this you can see how she knows it’s complete bullshit from your actions. But you said the …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:45 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:28 AM
1

Thanks for the clarification.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/18 03:25 AM
8

Your anger comes from an inability to control something you want to control. Learn from your experience and recognize you’ll never control them. You can only control yourself. On the parents teaching their kids. You’re mostly imagining this. You perceive what you don’t have or understand as being better than it really is. This is natural but learn now that it’s erroneous. Those parents might teach some principles, but they often have their trade offs like a lack of emotional connection. On hot g…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 03:24 AM
2

“Ones like you” Make sure she notices you check her up and down while saying it. Otherwise it’s beta af.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:57 AM
2

She’s already DTF from your story, but she needs to feel safe. Read up on push/pull and do more pulling. You’re scaring her with your rp tactics. You can likely plate her if you show more investment but not beta investment like doing stuff for her. Pulling is like chasing with alpha style. It’s flirting with her. Be warned if you pull too much too quick she’ll be freaked out and think you are gaming her. Start with a text before the meet up to just say I’m looking forward to seeing you again. Th…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:54 AM
6

This is common. In that a number doesn’t lead anywhere. Its possible your texting is driving hem away. It’s possible they didn’t really like you but gave the number to just get you to back off, knowing they could just not respond later. There are tons of factors. Stay chill and don’t get worked up about it. Focus less on getting a number and more on kino the first time you meet.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:46 AM
3

Women are highly turned on by being desired. Focus on looking at her body, not her eyes as much as possible. She’ll “feel” sexy and want to give you everything she has. Ps. Don’t listen to what she says, judge her actions. It’s very likely she’s playing prude because she’s a real freak and doesn’t want you to know. If you get her to open up, you’ll have some crazy sex.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:43 AM
1

She did like you, but you took to long to grow a pair and ask her out. So she’s cold now. You have to warm her up again. But doing so directly is a bit more advanced than you seem to be capable of. If you want to try it, look up push/pull. If you want to take a newbie route go cold for a month or two then check in with her again. Things will likely reset and you can run a lower level game to attract her.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 02:15 AM
1

Roids.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:44 AM
2

First, if writing all that didn’t talk you out of it, nothing we say will. But I’ll magnify some finer points. YOURE YOUNG! 30 and single. You haven’t even reached your peak SMV. I wish I’d had your wisdom. 60+dumps? What are you expecting besides her using you as an emotional tanpon(again) and another dump. Clearly you rock and she’s trash but gets her rocks off manipulating someone that’s much higher value than her. Lastly, something do in the gym when I don’t feel like lifting is tell myself …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:42 AM
4

Go through a series of power moves. First flip it. Call him gay when does it. In a joking manner. Kind of like agree and amplify. Keep it light it ridicule him and make him embarrassed for doing it. In the event this doesn’t bother him find a deep insecurity he has and pour salt on the wound. If it doesn’t work, tell him straight and direct I don’t like this. Doesn’t work, push him back firm but not aggressive when he does it. Eventually you have to decide if you need to get physical and punch h…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 01:32 AM
0

I see. I’m much more involved with TRP. It seems MRP has a different framework of sorts. I knew there would be differences, but they seem more dramatic than I realized.
/r/MarriedRedPill13/04/18 12:06 AM
6

I’m not sure I agree with your assessment. I doubt it’s as simple as she puts it. Remember judge her actions not her words. If it’s completely true, sure he’s not understanding some critical things. But I’d bet she’s hamstering and really just trying to control him more.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 10:52 PM
3

I’m not sure I agree with your assessment. I doubt it’s as simple as she puts it. Remember judge her actions not her words. If it’s completely true, sure he’s not understanding some critical things. But I’d bet she’s hamstering and really just trying to control him more.
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/18 10:52 PM
6

I’m really glad you, a moderator, responded. To clarify, I wasn’t saying don’t be submissive; it’s breaking rp principles. I was questioning if it’s possible for a woman to be this submissive or desire to be this submissive to a man who doesnt stand his ground and put a stop to something like this. I read what loneliness said, and I like/strongly respect it. And I don’t want to parse words here, but she suggested a 3 way choice instead of 2 way. Isn’t that still just a different way of telling h…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 10:43 PM
1

If this is the straight truth you’re on the way to a failed marriage hands down. He’s not protecting you and that will mess with your head. You need to get him reading rp IMMEDIATELY. I’m not gonna make any friends by saying this and I’m not accusing I don’t know anything about you or the situation. But rp has a big aversion to metoo hamstering. There’s gotta be another side to the story. It’s believing stuff like this that will eventually bring down rp. You’re really THAT submissive with a beta…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 09:01 PM
1

Maybe this resolution isn’t to not care, but to act like you don’t care. A big rp idea is to not give attention to people for acting out. So if you just ignore their attacks, they’ll believe it’s a waste of their breath and stop trying. I don’t know how well masculine rp tactics translate here, but a rp man would call this a shit test. The response always to ignore with silence or agree and amplify. So it’d look something like this. “Stop being a stay at home mom” “Ok thanks” “No seriously stop”…
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 07:57 PM
2

My initial thought is to suggest you not care, but I think that’s a masculine quality. Women struggle with not caring about what others think because a feminine woman is often very agreeable and at peace with people around her. Possibly the best suggestion is to really focus on caring a lot more about what the person you deem most important, your husband, thinks.
/r/RedPillWomen12/04/18 02:10 PM
1

It’s not really relevant. I was agreeing with you to send some sort of closing message. Not end in silence.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 01:46 PM
1

This but I wouldn’t ask to meet. Tell her you’re doing X, she should join because it’ll be fun.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:27 AM
2

20’s aren’t looking for money usually. Might just have been ovulating. Still reminds me of bpd.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:13 AM
2

First off, Stop being verbose. It’s beta. It comes from insecurity. Second, I can under stand how it might look butthurt. That make a lot of sense. But with what you said, you look needy. “Shelve this” says I’m willing to wait for you because I’m emotionally invested. Men need this kind of clarity because it’s logical. Women do not. Because of solipsism, everything is always an option to them even if you directly tell them it’s over. They don’t have the stability that we do, this is very obvious…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 04:09 AM
0

Critical: make it shorter. All those words communicate to her that you are beta. I couldn’t find it quickly but someone red pill had an article on this. They said go about it this way: Text: I get it. It was fun while it lasted. Have a good life. If you text that, you’ve set the tone for closure. BUT it’s amicable, so she KNOWS she can call you if her current interest doesn’t work out. The writer of the article proposed that they will ALWAYS boomerang within a few months. Always. What you’ve wri…
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:47 PM
2

She sounds bpd to me. That kind of sex isn’t “normal” unless you are high SMV. You sound less confident than would be necessary for that. So it seems to me, she sees something like your money and is trying to get to it. You haven’t given enough info here to really give a good answer. How old is she?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:38 PM
1

You need more positive feedback loops. The reason video games are so addicting is they create positive feedback loops. You do something, get a reward which makes you want to do the thing more, so you do, get a bigger reward, want to do more, etc. Lifting has a positive feedback loop. Lift, feel better. Lift more, look better. Lift more, get stronger. Etc. The more positive feedback loops you have the more natural confidence you build. Find a NEW hobby. Succeed at it. When you find yourself at a …
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:34 PM
1

Plenty of men are incredibly successful that have no hair. Build builders are often hairless because the steroids accelerate balding. Embrace it. Shave everything off instead of trying to keep the last bits of it. You might want to look up “Embrace the shake” it’s a ted talk.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:47 PM
2

It’s about being pseudo dark triad. Find illimitablemen.com read about dark triad traits. Being truly dark triad is a combination of mental disorders. But it leads to incredible power. Learning why and how to emulate it with the people around you, but not with those you care about, offers incredible strength in the world while still keeping grounded and stable with friends and family.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 06:44 PM
8

I think he’s trying to understand what he’s experiencing. I can relate to the experience, but don’t claim to be able to explain it. Possible the belief that a slutty girl is going to be aggressive is left over bp mentality?
/r/askTRP11/04/18 01:16 PM
2

I don’t see much of anything red pill. Sure here and a tiny bit, but nothing to get excited about.
/r/RedPillWomen11/04/18 03:09 AM
-1

Women aren’t like men. Men get pleasure predominantly from being pleased and what is being touched. Women get pleasure predominantly from being desired and being pleasing in the eyes of her man. Every minute you spend on her body pleasure is a minute you aren’t spending on your own pleasure. Yes she gets a little boost from being pleasured but you’ve lost the opportunity of a much bigger boost she could have from seeing you pleased. So doing this actually brings her down overall. A newbie to the…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 04:32 PM
1

They like feeling small the same way men like feeling big.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 04:06 PM
2

I don’t think it matters that much. Obviously, a good scent (that’s not over used) won’t hurt you, but it’s a peripheral factor. No girl ever thought, “I’m going to fuck this beta because he smells good.” Focus on alpha confidence, if the smell bridges the gap while you learn and grow by making you feel more confident, use it. But never let it be your crutch. Every tactic is a double edged sword. Agree and amplify can be a great tactic, but if you use the right words without alpha confidence, yo…
/r/askTRP10/04/18 04:04 PM
1

Maybe I don’t understand what you mean, but I can’t see how asking women what they want/believe to clear any doubt is anything besides listening to what they say.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:41 PM
4

Naw. Most people are idiots. Your point was obvious. They just don’t have anything better to do than rip on reddit posts, while they give their junk a break between marathon fap sessions. But for your own personal growth in power, I say, never give a direct answer to your critics or admit fault to them. It betrays weakness and insecurity. They’ll smell blood in the water and tear you to pieces. Only answer indirectly by changing the subject, rise above the criticism, jokingly criticize back, etc…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 01:12 PM
1

If you listen to what women say and believe it, you’re not red pill.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:02 PM
2

If in public, sure. All the other women would see through it. But a man? Naw. You’d escalate to the top of his list. He might even bend the knee and marry you on site.
/r/RedPillWomen10/04/18 05:25 AM
1

To balance out “NEVER,” yes, it can be a bad thing. But rarely, if it’s real. Women laugh at just about anything her alpha says out of insecurity. Dig deep down and ask yourself, are you laughing out of insecurity or reality? If reality, which is EXTREMELY rare because women aren’t funny, then fine. If out of insecurity, yes, you are beta and deserve to be thrown to the man eater females of the world.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:22 AM
1

I haven’t tomassi’s latter books. Does he support this when his gets into raising children as a rp male?
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:11 AM
5

Unfortunately, it seems most commenters missed the point of the post. He wasn’t saying be an idiot and spend frivolously. He was saying, have a goal in mind. Save and pay off debt as you want, but the purpose of money is not a big number in the bank. It’s to achieve your goals. If you want to save, pay down debt, or invest to increase your income and future SMV, fine. But if you are happy with your income level start using the money to achieve your goals. Don’t save to save. Save to achieve your…
/r/TheRedPill10/04/18 02:40 AM
-3

https://www.2knowmyself.com/5_Reasons_an_angry_face_makes_a_man_more_attractive
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:30 AM
3

Keep reading. You’re naturally doing the right thing. But you need to find an article on WHY. On closing the deal it has ZERO to do with texting. Keep reading, you soon understand.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:27 AM
-9

Def. Try looking angry. See if it produces better results.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 02:02 AM
2

Don’t listen to what they say. Judge their actions. I think “you smell good” is 90% covert communication “you are alpha AF” and 10% about the damn cologne. Chicks don’t give a damn about how you smell. They just want to tell you, “you are alpha AF. PLEASE FUCK ME NOW! PLEASE, PLEEEEEEEEAAAASSSSSEEEEE!!!!”
/r/askTRP10/04/18 01:49 AM
3

You do you. Stay on the grind. I’d say what you have is gift. I wish I cared less about the chase, so I could focus more on my grind. Work hard while you don’t care, if you start caring again, your SMV will have reached new heights and make the chase dramatically easier. Until then just keep becoming a greater and greater man.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 11:54 PM
1

A you post a link to a specific video? I looked them up but it’s difficult to find something other than book promotions and blue pill/generic Christian advice.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 09:54 PM
3

Sadly, I can’t spend the time necessary to give you a fully fleshed out answer. Something of that magnitude would be side bar worthy. Broadly, that answer is a people issue. People experience relatively dramatic changes in moods, circumstances, personal difficulty, desires, etc through out their day not to mention month, year, or lifetime. To make matters worse we all have our preferences and triggers so a red dress might get me going but turn off someone that identifies with gothic culture. I h…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 09:38 PM
2

The bathroom isn’t the focus. It’s just the easy, “private spot” that works at a bar and has a hint of danger. For a woman it’d need to be something different. My place or yours? Would prob be the optimum question.
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 05:03 PM
2

I’m interested in why you say men perceive more false positives and women false negatives. Previously super bp, now rp aware, but wouldn’t say I’m rp. My experience was the opposite as a blue pill. I never picked up on flirts. I literally had a girl throw a handful of magnums at me and say you take these you prob need them. I had no clue. Looking back I got crazy IOI’s from women all the time. I think they perceived my cluelessness as gaming them, and they chased super hard. I still never picked…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 03:43 PM
1

Careful. Sounds like you are dangerously close to oneitis. She sounds great. But I’d vet her and train her more. Let her suggest the LTR. If she wants it, she’ll ask. And make her work for it. She needs to feel the satisfaction of the win that took a long time to achieve. If you give it to her quickly, simply because she’s been overwhelmingly incredible for a short period of time, she’ll believe she can do it to the next alpha that comes along and branch swing. If you make her wait longer she ha…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:24 AM
2

If you really didn’t care, your mistake was asking “what’s wrong?” in the first place. She was baiting you into asking what was wrong. You should have pretended to not be aware of her emotions. Then change the mood, a joke, story about your day, massage, commanding her to do something, whatever your flavor or strength is. But once you showed you cared you appear inconsistent by cutting her off. What others said about listening some, then changing the subject was good.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:35 PM
3

Fake it til you make it. You’ve got to believe you are something before you can be that something. Star athletes believe they are destined for athletic greatness as children or teens, then they practice and learn, walking the path necessary to arrive at that greatness. You started off believing you were confident at the party. But you didn’t act on it. Then the cognitive dissonance between your beliefs and your actions mind fucked you, and now you don’t even believe you are going to succeed at a…
/r/askTRP18/01/18 07:10 PM
1

“Don’t change her mind, change her mood.” Brilliant. I’ve never heard this, but I’ve believed something similar for a long time. Who said this? Is this a rp thing? Article?
/r/askTRP16/01/18 06:06 AM
13

Ignore this guy. He’s a doofus.
/r/TheRedPill16/01/18 05:59 AM
1

I like “sounds pretty rad.” You’re chill but disinterested, unphased. Bet her hamster spins and wonders if you have the same cheating type dreams.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 06:59 PM
3

Get cold. Respond to texts but with 1 word answers. Be busy whenever she wants to hang out. She’ll get the point.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 04:05 AM
2

I just got excommunicated about 6 months ago. Basically cause I took the red pill. It’s tough. But it gets better. Deal with the pain day to day. Just make it through today and let tomorrow’s pain be tomorrow’s pain. Do that every day for 6 months and you’ll stabilize pretty well.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 04:01 AM
6

Definitely. If her SMV is high enough, it’s very likely. A subset of shit tests is rejection. Go in expecting the rejection. In fact, I have the tightest game when I expect rejection at every level. From approach to escalation to kino etc. Rejection can ALWAYS be overcome. Maybe not by you at a given moment, but an option to overcome a rejection ALWAYS exists. When you don’t expect rejection, you’ll find yourself unprepared and caught off guard. For example, LMR is just the final rejection test …
/r/askTRP14/01/18 10:15 PM
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