isn't texting for logistics outdated?

sickofthisugh · 2019-03-20T03:41:18+00:00

I think guys think more guys are texting girls than there really are. I have a lot of gfs and most of them don’t respond to the ones they don’t like. And prob respond to max 2-3. The one they actually like is that one they talk to often.

alpha-zach · 2019-03-20T10:34:34+00:00

It’s a good starter rule. Mostly because guys that text a bunch are super beta and boring. So you have to break yourself out of those beta mentalities.

Once you’ve done that, you can slowly text more, and you’ll find it enhances game to a point.

When you learn how an exciting guy thinks and acts, you can apply that to texting. You still end up texting minimally but only high value statements, and she’s always saying a lot more than you.

You keep the conversation channels open for her to show interest throughout the day and invest, but you remain guarded in your reciprocation. She sends you 5 funny memes, you laugh respond to one with a really great line. She asks you serious questions about yourself and you dodge to remain mysterious but have a fun response. “Where do you work?” “Willy wonka’s chocolate factory” She throws some banter at you(like a playful shit test), you banter back and shit test her. She vents about her friend who is being a bitch for 3 paragraphs, you ask an open ended question to keep her going but you’ve invested nothing, and you’re largely not retaining any info or caring about her drama. Etc. etc.

AnxiousProof · 2019-03-20T04:10:30+00:00

It depends on how aggressive you are.

Sure, she's always exploring her options. Getting hit up 10, 20, 100 times a day by other men is not uncommon for most women 5/10 or above. The main point of this being that all, or a significant portion of these men are all texting her the same standard beta conversation starters, the same slow-witted one liners, the shitty megapixel bathroom ab and dick shots. In other words, the same god damn thing all day, every day. Boring.

What do you think goes through her mind when a man with a purposed abundance mentality, titanium mental frame, and an incredible ability to just not give a literal fuck about the outcome of the conversation (independence) shoots her a text, snap, or whatever.

That man will text/say some shit that will first ring her bell only to be followed by disbelief that he had the audacity to say, request, or command shit so blatantly. Not the same thing. Not boring. Attractive. She will continue to follow his lead in conversation. If he continues to play his hand correctly, he could be in that pussy before the sunset.

Terdmuffin · 2019-03-20T04:11:10+00:00

Have you even tried it?

ramokaly · 2019-03-20T19:26:47+00:00

Surprisingly the ones that I invest in texting quite often refuse to come out (always busy) or straight up flake while the ones I text only for logistics usually show up to the date and are super excited to meet me in person. By texting only for logistics you’re basically leaving them intrigued so they will want to see you (not always but usually) and you’re setting yourself apart from the other guys. But when you text random shit, you’re just joining the army of guys who are also texting them random shit therefore they lose attraction quickly.

Title	isn't texting for logistics outdated?
Author	altyboy_
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Date	March 20, 2019 3:36 AM UTC (7 years ago)
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