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Exactly, logically you can tell that there wasn't anything special about this one or that one. What it sounds like you're doing is building up a fantasy scenario in your head with each of these girls you've met and that fantasy is driving this feeling. You're not seeing the situation for what it is but instead your projection onto it. Looking at things logically is how you quell that feeling
/r/askTRP14/07/18 01:30 AM
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What did she REALLY do for you?
/r/askTRP13/07/18 11:48 PM
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Its not a TRP thing, I believe its a girls chase thing but Im not quite sure. Its literally what it sounds like, someone is rejecting themselves for you. It comes from being too high SMV, moving too slow, being too aloof. Essentially the person feels like there is an attainability gap between you and them. As an example think of prime Pamela Anderson approaching a man whos a 3. There is such a discrepancy between SMV that the guy will wonder what is going on. If he is smart he will back off feel…
/r/askTRP08/07/18 04:52 AM
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Auto rejection is correct, women don't work their rejection muscle because of how society operates. Therefore when the time comes and they see a dime she can prevent a rejection by removing herself from the situation. Men do this too.
/r/askTRP07/07/18 06:01 PM
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What exactly did the letter say? As for what you said to her you went too far in the heat of the moment. I get it though. I was manipulated by my mom as a kid but the older I get the more I see what she did. Not to say he didn't do some dumb stuff sometimes but she was a lot more manipulative than he was an asshat. In time she will need you or see what her mom is like. At that point you can't be disrespected but if you do want to see your daughter again you have to show that. She gets a say but …
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:54 PM
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"I'm not interested in just being friends. Let me know if you change your mind." Then you walk and never contact her again. LJBF is a negotiation, she is either testing you, not interested or in some cases feels like you've turned her down so she used it to save face. If she isn't interested you'll never hear from her again and that's ok. If she's testing, you walk away and leave the door open. If she's feeling rejected, you've stated what you want clearly and it would put enough into her mind t…
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:44 AM
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Reading comprehension seems to be an issue on here lately. To give a few suggestions: bowling, pool, trampoline park Lower cost: hike, walk in park, coffee, frozen yogurt, some kind of festival or fair
/r/askTRP29/06/18 04:29 AM
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I don't see what the big problem is. You feel that you've exhausted options and now you feel that you could use some help. Why don't you use the help? Anti depressants don't make you better, what they do is even you out. They bring you back towards your baseline so you can do the actual work that will make you better. Therapy, exercise, reading, work, and school. Don't be afraid to take them if you need them. I was on two different types to get over my issues. It's a crap shoot as to which med w…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:29 PM
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The obstacle is the way - Ryan holiday It's a collection of real life examples from famous people with stoic lessons built into it. It's probably gonna make a lot more sense to you than an ancient roman emperor's diary. For instance he tells you about people like Edison who had his factory burn down but instead of being upset he told his son to grab his mother because she wouldn't ever see a fire like that again. The author explains how seeing the good in the bad is really a beneficial thing eve…
/r/askTRP25/06/18 10:13 PM
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You already know the answer you just don't want to. Logically you know it's wrong that she deleted the app in front of you but the real issue is that she was issuing it after. Top that off with many other red flags you mentioned and it sounds like you have a new plate at best
/r/askTRP25/06/18 04:10 AM
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Remove interest first. Change the topic, and progress from there. If she continues then overtly tell her that you don't want to talk about that stuff, leave the past in the past. Beyond that you walk. Sub communicate, communicate, boundary, consequence. Just know that if she's still bringing him up she ain't over him yet. But that doesn't mean you can't plate
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:53 AM
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Tons of people here have. What exactly have you done to get your balls back? Let's work from there.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:49 AM
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Not the other guy but you need to look at clusters of IOIs in a given context. It's hard to explain what they look like because you'll get to know it when you see it. It's also hard to explain because a compliment or a dig, openness or turning their back could be IOIs. To try to answer your question, if you're playing eye tag across a room its an IOI. If you make eye contact once and never again it's an IOD. If she gets coy and looks down it's good. If she looks sideways it's neutral and if she …
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:47 AM
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Point is that she didn't contact you directly. This means that no contact is on still and that means you DGAF about her.
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:28 AM
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It's a test, I think most guys got it right. But it depends on how far you're taking your stoicism and what your goals are. It is possible to get too far on the emotional end as it's possible to go too far on the unemotional end. That's not a "for her" thing. That's about maintaining your own emotional control
/r/askTRP23/06/18 06:24 AM
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TRP hamsters this shit. Break up with her and ride out the bad waves. If something happens you get a new job. The most REALISTIC absolute worst case scenario is that you get canned. Sure she could show up at your house and stab you but what are the odds. Most realistic scenario overall is she's a bitch to you for a while. You must have tried to date someone in your friend group in high school or university. Shit passes eventually
/r/askTRP22/06/18 08:14 PM
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You can vet all you want but the principle of AWALT shows that any girl at any time can do something. Im not saying dont vet, but dont pretend that a girl is gonna appear with a sign that says "Im a good one, I wont fuck around" after exactly 6.5 months of dating.
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:57 AM
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My fiancé traveled back to her hometown about 2 weeks ago. Prior to leaving, I noticed that she was acting distant. Always a good sign Today she called and told me that another guy kissed her. Some dude ran up to her out of the blue and just shoved his tongue down her throat. Its all his fault. No conversations happened prior to this I'm not one to believe these things 'just happen' or 'it was an accident.' Obviously there was shit leading up to the moment. Smart man What would you do? I would f…
/r/askTRP22/06/18 04:53 AM
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It sounds like you're actually giving her some comfort instead of dreading her all the time. You need to elaborate more on the "caring more" and "letting her stay around your place"
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:46 PM
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I agree with this, you'll drive a woman mad if you don't go further with something. The exception would be towards low SMV women. Older and not as attractive seem to handle the flirting better but you can easily make a woman lose her shit by not pressing forward if she is attractive and interested. It can easily end in hostility and confusion for them. "This guy should be asking me out. What is wrong with me? What did I do?". I can't think of the countless times in my younger life where a woman …
/r/TheRedPill20/06/18 11:05 PM
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Black Phillip and Beige Phillip shows
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:21 AM
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Chad is a hot girl. He wouldn't have developed stoicism as a tool because he didn't need to. He is just as insecure with his women as a hot girl is with her looks. A stoic mindset comes from loss really. At the end of the day would you really be looking for the good in things if only good things happened? If a Chad sees value in someone and they cheat, reject or string him along he will lose his shit.
/r/askTRP20/06/18 04:10 AM
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Good, this is all good news across the board. You now know: -how much not to drink -that particular girl isnt into you -being rejected means nothing in the grand scheme Shift your focus from "This happened and it was bad because..." to "This happened" or even better "This happened and its good because...".
/r/askTRP18/06/18 01:35 PM
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Then fuck her sister. Why not mother, best friend or worst enemy?
/r/askTRP18/06/18 02:25 AM
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You are afraid of losing her, if you wanna be stoic then you stoically tell her "if you try this again, we're done" Then it's up to her if she goes for it again. Not enforcing your boundary means that you're in her frame, she asked what the consequence would be and you basically told her "nothing"
/r/askTRP17/06/18 04:04 AM
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Bro at your age it's a shit show, as a whole they are working in their game too. She could be ignoring your texts because she read online, in cosmo or heard from a friend that it would make you upset and make a move. She could also be ignoring them for another reason. We can't decipher what's going on with all particular girl in a random place at a certain time. We don't know her, we can't see how she acts, and we can't feel it. Your move, if you like her is to isolate and escalate. In this cont…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 02:46 PM
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I believe I have some form of Autism or Asperger's based on personal experiences. I've always isolated myself while never feeling a sense of loneliness...This also lead to me being so socially impaired and couldn't understand how people were feeling or what their thinking, but I always could understand who trusted me. Dont fucking self diagnose, always ask yourself if you have this "issue" or is it more logical that what youve done has caused this. "When you hear hooves thing horses not zebras".…
/r/askTRP16/06/18 06:50 AM
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Any version of "Let's do it some other time then" If she doesn't wanna play ball for whatever reason, you take your ball and go home. Flakiness like this means she has other plans and is using you as a fallback if shit goes awry. In other words, she is the prize here. You are not her priority
/r/askTRP15/06/18 10:59 PM
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Giver, worst case you dont go to the gym as planned and you dont get the girl
/r/askTRP15/06/18 05:47 AM
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What do you mean right? As in what I want to do?
/r/askTRP13/06/18 04:31 AM
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Societal views probably, I mean I remember being 17/18 going after a woman who was 24-26 and while the official answer was no, I managed to meet her out twice with her asking some questions that made me think I had a shot. I just didnt know what I was doing. I could really use the reps to be honest, I just dont know how to present it
/r/askTRP13/06/18 04:29 AM
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This isn't a pocket dial. She intentionally called you to see if you'd pick it up. You already identified her as trying to make you jealous and now she's trying to get your attention another way. It's annoying but it shows that she has a lot of investment on her part. Who the fuck else would try to devise some plan to call you just to hang up?
/r/askTRP10/06/18 02:46 PM
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If you ever don't get an answer back you return in kind. It's one of two things, either she's waiting you out as a test or she's just not interested. The best answer is to leave it be
/r/askTRP09/06/18 07:34 PM
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I think that's a good way to put it. I never looked at it that way before, I used to say how I show up is how she shows up in a lot of cases. But in this context falling into your frame clicks
/r/askTRP09/06/18 07:20 PM
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Dinner is a terrible first date. You probably don't know shit about this girl so why would you invest that much time and money into her? Imagine you sit down and everything is going smooth then halfway through dinner she brings up how she only hangs out with guys because it's less drama. Then mentions that her ex still contacts her and other red flags. You now just dished out like 50-100 dollars for both of you to find out she isn't worth it. If you're gonna invest you need to invest wisely. It'…
/r/askTRP09/06/18 07:11 PM
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The file in this one comes out weird on certain pages
/r/askTRP09/06/18 03:49 AM
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How can I tell if my PC muscles are strong enough? I generally find contracting them makes me finish A LOT quicker where if I relax them I last longer. During masturbation its more of a problem that Im finishing too quick because Im squeezing them. Hookers have been suggested by someone before and it used to be a serious thought for me but the better my frame has gotten the more Ive looked at it as a negative thing. I tell myself I shouldnt have to pay for what I know I can get for free, once I …
/r/askTRP07/06/18 05:51 AM
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You can expect most women pretending they liked subpar sex because they fucked you and give you chance after chance to make it better, and maybe a sensible majority of them won't ever give up. I wanna clarify, are you saying they hamster away sub par sex simply because they have fucked you? (which makes sense for hamstering) Not "usually", as in, not over 50% of times. But enough first times suck, like a third of mine sucked, and that's more than enough to expect that two or more shitty ones com…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 05:43 AM
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Id love to give someone an orgasm there is something so sexy about the thought of having someones thighs clamping down on my head and that could very well be what happens. Right now I think its realistic to look for a fun time for both parties and make that the goal, when I can relax the other things will come with it. Its probably not gonna be great but Id like to understand what Im doing enough to where the thought is at least "That was ok, Id do it again" as opposed to "how did he try to go f…
/r/askTRP07/06/18 05:35 AM
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Ignoring usually is the better option but what are specific examples?
/r/askTRP07/06/18 12:33 AM
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A female initiating touch is a mean good sign. Ask her out. Have fun and escalate
/r/askTRP04/06/18 09:50 PM
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I have no clue how you get out of this loop but knowing something exists is the first step to solving the problem
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:12 AM
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What rabbit holes are you talking about
/r/TheRedPill03/06/18 05:09 AM
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Don't call out a narcissist. You don't win by doing this because she will play the victim and she is better at it than you. Break up with this girl. Your own therapist is telling you she's this way
/r/askTRP03/06/18 04:07 AM
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Do not end the soft next. This is a ghost. Remember that no response, IS her response.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:58 AM
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I have never seen this, I'm not saying it's not a thing but it seems more reasonable that you notice those issues with women like your mother
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:53 AM
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Thanks brother. Sometimes you need someone to tell you what it simple yet logical
/r/askTRP03/06/18 03:22 AM
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I crumbled under that one but in the second situation I completely ignored and continued on with the conversation. In the second example what's your take on it? More of the same but I was reading in the book of Pook something similar to this. If I were to guess where I stand it's somewhere closer to autorejection as opposed to friend zone
/r/askTRP02/06/18 08:32 PM
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I meant the other way around. Where she mentions another guy, going on a date or something along those lines as a way of saying "hey I'm here I want more from you" In high school a girl said "your friend ____ is kinda cute" which at the time shut me down but I realize that it was a ploy to get more from me. I also recently had a girl exasperatedly mention that she "HAS to set up another date" after finding out that a movie was going to have a second part. Previously she hasn't come close to disc…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 05:03 AM
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I would say that aligns much more with my endgame in general. I came here to learn how to be better and how to understand better for my own gain but it can help others as well. I logically understand that sex is easy and I understand that the only thing that's making it hard is myself. Building friendships and connections with people is something I've always been good at. My idea with TRP is to become whole. I have many friends who are chads that when you get them alone will talk about wanting a…
/r/askTRP02/06/18 04:36 AM
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She's tried to make you orbit but you passed on it. She's gonna use this as another chance to do it. If you really don't want your shit back. "Let me know when you're gonna get your stuff I'll have it waiting." Then you leave it outside your door and make sure you're not around then. If it doesn't get picked up or you don't get an answer you give it to charity
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:10 PM
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I understand WHY you want that, and I do believe the other users are right with the scarcity/frame ideas. Its exactly why the girl is the focus of your thoughts. Its normal to want to be the hero of your own story but it does really bother me that after a PR your thoughts arent either "Fuck yeah, go me" or "I bet I can do more". When you get a thought like this literally think in your head "STOP!" take a second and think a better thought. Its a good trick used in CBT but its like watering a plan…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:39 AM
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Thank you for clarifying. It does seem to be the unanimous answer ITT
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:23 AM
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If you want to test this, take a girl out for dinner- make it a decent place, maybe 15$ per plate- after dinner, if she doesn’t look you in the eyeballs and say thank you, drop her off at home, soft next if not hard next Not a bad idea in terms of screening, kinda like the old car door test or Richard Coopers coffee test if youre familiar with that. Whats your take on if shes completely adamant on paying for her half?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:22 AM
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I do imagine compliance would be higher in general for AF vs BB solely because he is the prize. Especially on a first date that girl wouldnt think of flaking because she is chasing where she would be settling for BB. What Im really trying to do is figure out others perceptions of me, I was a beta for most of my young life where I learned the skills of listening and sympathising. Both of which I very much think are helpful with women in general if used properly. However I feel as though Ive taken…
/r/askTRP31/05/18 04:17 AM
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What would you say they would do differently for these two men?
/r/askTRP31/05/18 03:48 AM
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This, it sounds like OP has smallitis
/r/askTRP30/05/18 05:38 AM
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Yes and no. Women do stuff that women do innately just like men do stuff that men do innately. Just don't think for a second that Cosmo or some other magazine isn't fueling the fire with "tips and tricks". 7 easy ways to get your man to chase you
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:46 AM
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Cool. Do that then, why argue? At any rate whatever she tells you is the reason she's so upset won't be the full story
/r/askTRP28/05/18 08:58 PM
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Now now, that's only if she bites her lip too. Don't give OP the wrong idea here
/r/askTRP28/05/18 03:11 AM
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Hard next them both. Just straight up block them on all sources of social media and phones. If your friend group still wants to hang around with him they aren't your friend group but I'm sure they told you
/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:00 PM
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I only see it with IG hoes, end of the day its of no consequence to you. If you have a solid enough frame she will still wonder why you aren't doing this stuff to her
/r/askTRP27/05/18 06:55 PM
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Get in, get out
/r/askTRP27/05/18 06:45 PM
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At what point in her doing this is the boundary crossed? Obviously Op doesn't think this is a threatening situation and she's only showing him to get him riled up
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:36 PM
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Trying to understand women I came across the main sub but it was too much for me especially after my oneitis but I came back a few months ago when I started to realize all the correct information was the same it's just that the verbiage is different between all of the sources I have ever used
/r/askTRP27/05/18 03:41 AM
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"I'm totally over it, like it's fine, I'm over it. I get it but I'm over it" proceeds to not be over it
/r/askTRP26/05/18 06:54 AM
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I'd suggest you start with something lesser to begin with. Over stimming is a thing. I was taking one scoop of a pre called bull dose rush and I was throwing up, not eating, not sleeping and when I could sleep the slightest sounds would wake me up. Turned out that a serving was half a scoop and one serving was 300mg caffeine. I have a good tolerance but I've backed off to less caffeine and just get enough to keep me going
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:24 PM
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Why did you do this? Was it righteous or were you intentionally trying to fuck with her
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:13 PM
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The hamster goes when it's trying to figure something out. Changing topics, being vague and ignoring certain things get it going. If I were to sum it up, being a challenge. "Do you have a girlfriend?" "Something like that" We've all hamstered just think back to a time when your mind was racing and what set it off.
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:12 PM
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Try relaxing your pelvic floor muscles. Instead of a kegel, try reverse kegels or at the very least just not tensing that area
/r/askTRP25/05/18 10:05 PM
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Bad idea, too many things can go wrong. Plus if the friend wants to leave early then most likely you're fucked. Mixing social circles comes in later
/r/askTRP25/05/18 09:58 PM
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I fully understand where you're coming from. Logically as others have said, the only thing you can do to get over this is just take the action. Fuck it all up a couple times and figure it out, or do it and it works. Check out the Book of Pook and his bits on kino and especially sexuality. It might help push you into the action of you see what it is that you're doing. Right now the inaction is even worse than when you started with TRP because you actually have the stuff to back it up, the girls a…
/r/askTRP25/05/18 04:08 AM
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What the fuck is this shit
/r/askTRP24/05/18 03:04 PM
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Have you ever had to push a really heavy item? I'm talking a car or a truck. It's twice as hard to get it moving as to keep it moving, the reason is that static friction takes more force to overcome it. Right now you're just getting it rolling so it seems laborious but I bet you it's easier to hold frame now compared to when you first started and it will continue getting easier over time as it becomes part of you
/r/askTRP24/05/18 05:02 AM
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Have you figured out why she did yet?
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:31 PM
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I'm in my mid 20s so things will become more clear in the next decade. One got married a couple days ago to a good guy but he isn't the sharpest tool in the shed. Another one married a farmer and is on her 3rd kid. Some are doing this or that related to school and some hit the wall prematurely. We'll see in time
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:20 PM
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Sometimes, sometimes not. It all depends on too many variables. I like to think it doesn't in the long run and I also do enjoy a nice story about how they tried to move up but didn't get far compared to the guy. It all depends
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:17 PM
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Yup. The guy is clearly trying to fuck. No doubt about it, he biked 12k to come see her and go on a "walk" Also she probably should know that hanging out with a new guy is a no-no I don't see anywhere where you posted saying specifically that you explicitly stated something and she did the opposite. Your boundaries need to be clear then you NEED to uphold them. Unless they are clear/obvious such as "I sucked a guys dick in the bathroom of a club" then you need to state them Could they have fucke…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:35 PM
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I'm gonna go against the grain and say you were overly aggressive on your move.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 03:02 PM
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You've got a lot to learn my man. It's ok though you'll get it. Start with reading the sidebar, start with the first thing and finish when you die How often should you be texting? To start, only for logistics. So only when you're setting up a date. You shot yourself in the foot with that one. It came off as: "I want to see you" "Why? I have nothing to offer" So of course it got weird. Invite her to hang out, do something fun with her or invite her to your place
/r/askTRP23/05/18 07:05 AM
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You could absolutely be right. But her snapping you is also her vying for your attention. Why not shoot your shot with her? But also it sounds like you're texting with this girl frequently. Stop that in general
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:14 AM
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Married red pill TRP but it highly depends on the crowd Also a source to look up is Coach Corey Wayne. Both on his site (free) and YouTube. He has a couple books up there and tbh I feel like he at least reads here because he has changed his verbiage to just a touch more similar to ours.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 06:04 AM
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Yes, women in their masculine prefer betas because they prefer to lead. It doesn't mean that she can't be led by an alpha or doesn't want to but she would enjoy the control over a beta I imagine BPD would prefer alphas in general to enjoy the full array of mood swings. And the super low SMV would be interested in all but essentially get super low SMV which is on the beta spectrum. These girls tend to be softer as well so it kinda fits
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:54 AM
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Ask yourself why YOU were sent it specifically. Then ask why it was posted to the story as well. I do believe it was sent to you with intent but also put up on the story to mask intent
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:48 AM
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Why not invite her over, get her to bring a bottle of wine and escalate. She probably wouldn't agree due to the implication but if she does he can shoot his shot again
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:43 AM
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It's ok baby get that big ol tub of mustard for you and your six kids. I believe it was Patrice that said it but I did just listen to an epic of the beige Phillip podcast and the deer thing is said by Dante in a sound bite
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:38 AM
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There are stories of brides getting banged on their wedding day so really they aren't limits to what you want to do. REALISTICALLY it's a bad idea hence the "Don't shit where you eat" idea here. But it could go really well even if you do, it's just that it most likely won't. Pook wrote a little about the idea of being weird in that specific section. Men lead women. Women feel and follow. If a man leads confidently, she will feel confident, if is nervous, she will be nervous. For instance I got t…
/r/askTRP23/05/18 05:35 AM
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You gotta know that this anger is just temporary. It will pass eventually and you'll just think "oh yeah, that's right. You're just silly" when things come up. Patrice ONeil said something along the lines of "Don't ask a deer how to hunt a deer. It doesn't know because it just is. Ask a hunter how you hunt a deer" Give the book of pook a read and see if that helps. The chapters on womanese talk about men express ideas and look for the truth when they converse. Women express feels when they talk …
/r/askTRP23/05/18 01:17 AM
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I'm gonna paraphrase Patrice here. Don't ask a deer how to hunt deer. They just are, if you really want to hunt asks hunter. Women don't view what they do as anything because they just do. Men have a reason as to why they do things even if it's a shitty one. Look up the book of Pook in the sidebar and read the womanese sections.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 01:48 PM
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I played the game exactly how society told me to and I got nowhere. I got turned down by too many girls who later banged my friends and the reset button would get hit. I've gone monk mode a few times before I even knew what it was tried different sites, picked up information from different friends and even was on TRP before but I couldn't handle the material at the time. What brought me back this time was a girl who ghosted me then ended up banging my roommate who's bedroom was directly above me…
/r/askTRP21/05/18 02:01 AM
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I myself am far from married but I came here for extra reading so I'd take what I say with a grain of salt. However the standard RP move would be to remove attention due to unnecessary drama but that would almost certainly exacerbate the scenario. I also believe that comfort tests should be matched with comfort but there is a fine line. The training seems like the hardest part of it all to me. I'd propose to light the fuse, if you get her going just enough to start to overtly communicate you can…
/r/MarriedRedPill21/05/18 01:04 AM
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Yes and it sucks, I've missed out on a lot in life but the thing is that if you were to have someone help you or be somewhat red pulled you would eventually stall out but later on. The success that you achieved may have been enough to stop working at life and be happy with what you have even though there were holes in your game. Then you're 40 divorced with kids and don't really know what you want to do
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:32 AM
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So just IOIs? I was thinking more along the lines of when they take a sharp breath and their eyes open wide like a flight or fight response. Something on another level
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:58 PM
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A bisexual beta male? I don't know the guy but when I hear bisexual alarm bells go off in my head. There's a chance he may be bisexual but there's also a chance that he is changing his mating strategy. I know about the second paragraph because I was it for so long. I always played the game to perfection by how it was taught and I got nowhere. I came to TRP years ago but I couldn't stand the language and the emotional void of "she's not yours it's just your turn" so I left. This is also why I'd s…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 04:56 PM
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Thank you, that actually makes a lot more sense. As for the "shitty comfort tests" what do these look like? And how do we meet them successfully?
/r/MarriedRedPill20/05/18 08:39 AM
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Women communicate covertly, men communicate overtly. It logically is a good thing to do but in all reality it doesn't work. You get around this by asking her out. If she says yes check that box. Does she show up? Check that box. Eventually a box may not be checked and that's it
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:55 AM
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You did nothing, it was his saltiness and alcohol the triggered the fight. Put yourself in his shoes. He probably never gets laid and really doesn't understand women. But he follows exactly what is done in the movies and tv and he probably has gotten the "I like you as a friend" speech almost one too many times then compound that with the "you're a great guy, the right girl will come around soon!". BPs play the game by what society teaches and this man should be winning the game, but he's not be…
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:50 AM
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Your coworkers are right. You say it yourself that you think it's manipulation, you finally backed up and respected yourself and she's mad because she lost you. Her narrative is solipsistic, YOU did her wrong even though SHE broke up with you. My question to you is why do you still have her on social media?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:36 AM
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Do you feel you did anything wrong? If so what and why? If your answer has anything to do with her emotional state you shouldn't feel bad. It doesn't sound like you were doing this vindictively but I'd say her calling you ugly was rather vindictive. Two big things to remember here. Crying is blackmail and don't talk to women about other women. They will not give you a real answer
/r/askTRP20/05/18 06:27 AM
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Can anybody point me in the direction of any content?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:10 AM
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120/80 is the general "ideal" number, at 140 you're on the high side of normal but getting close. I really dont know where 67 the 118/67 number comes from but Ive never heard of anything that low as being standard but I dont go to conferences, I also dont know if your doctor does as well. That being said I could see this being stress related, it makes sense based on what youre saying but I do want to point out that if this is just one time your doctor took your blood pressure there could be a mi…
/r/askTRP19/05/18 02:31 PM
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Can you explain your second point a little more? I'm a little confused. Are you saying he dreads too much through improvement that the woman now believes he is way higher in SMV and she tries to comfort him. But this in itself fails if he continues to dismiss her comfort?
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/18 07:12 AM
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I would boil this down to playing by women's rules. A woman's love is in flux due to her feels, you're just doing it in a buying type of way where as the traditional love is in a selling sense.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/05/18 06:40 AM
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Cool let me know if you change your mind. walk away There's a good chance she will never hit you up again ~100% but that's fine
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:57 PM
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Oh boy
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:50 PM
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All women have the capacity to act in a similar way. It doesn't mean they will or have but it means they could. Furthermore it's saying that there isn't some special "one" (unicorn)
/r/askTRP18/05/18 11:47 PM
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Get a good social circle, learn to read body language, read a book on Stoicism. Take care of yourself physically and mentally, right now you're overthinking it. Pick one thing and work on it, then pick another thing
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:03 PM
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OP, sincere question. How old are you? Like what age are we dealing with
/r/askTRP18/05/18 08:41 AM
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Not OP and I respect the advice of others saying don't shit where you eat but this post is more important than anyone saying not to shit where you eat. OP has a lot to learn about womanese
/r/askTRP18/05/18 08:33 AM
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I myself smoke very rarely, I get anxious when I do but I believe it's from not smoking for long periods. Most of my friends do smoke heavily though and what I have noticed is that they do get anxious. That being said I believe it's that they are anxious so they are smoking weed. That in turn means they always want to be high so they have a compulsion or as I would say an addiction to smoke. Anything in life can be an addiction, some are addicted to work others to exercise, some to bad foods, so…
/r/askTRP18/05/18 08:26 AM
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You have bigger issues if you're telling us she's out of your league. Move/hide anything that reminds you of her. Avoid her social media at all costs. Game other women. These all help remove oneitis especially for most of us the avoidance of social media. Your goal now is also to read the sidebar
/r/askTRP18/05/18 06:39 AM
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Probably has a stigma around bookers and could use things he would see here with self improvement. It's easy to blame the world and get comfortable when you're not getting what you want. Changing how you go after things is really gonna yield results but it's hard when you're in that mindset
/r/askTRP17/05/18 04:43 PM
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Did you read the abstract or the actual article? Also congrats on never cumming again including sex because I see no mention in the abstract posted that mentions sex is different from masturbation.
/r/askTRP17/05/18 07:04 AM
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Mindfulness is about the now, it's about the details. It's noticing that there is a tiny paint chip missing on the wall next to you. Basically if you were being mindful you'd be going with the flow during a conversation and letting it go where it wants to without worrying about how it's structured. Depression is rooted in the past, "if only" or "why did that happen to me" Anxiety is in the future. "Will I be able to pay my bills" or "what will that girl say if I ask her out". I do imagine you're…
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:49 AM
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This, depending on how close they are to your social circle they may even just pretend you don't exist
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:41 AM
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I have heard this countless times. I haven't read the post but you're in orbiter territory. She's right any girl would be lucky to have you. This is your chance to go find that lucky girl
/r/askTRP16/05/18 05:36 AM
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No they don't. We know two things about sluts, they lie about their count to men and they are boisterous about it in social settings and claim it's empowering. We also know not to listen to what a woman says but to observe her actions. What they are saying is having lots of sex is empowering, what they are doing is lying to suppress their counts especially to men they want to be around long term. A similar example would be a woman saying "I'm so over it", she's trying to vocalize how over it she…
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:27 AM
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This, there is a rationalization for the number by saying it empowering but they either mask their numbers so you don't think they're a slut or they scream it in your face
/r/askTRP15/05/18 05:13 AM
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Not the OP but how old were you when you lost your virginity and how did it happen? Also where are you in life with women now
/r/askTRP13/05/18 11:30 PM
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Ouch
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:16 PM
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You can easily make yourself cum by tightening the pelvic floor muscles. Try relaxing those muscles or doing reverse kegels which is pushing down on those muscles instead of pulling up on them. I imagine you're thinking "oh shit this is so awesome" or "I cum so quick but I don't want to". You're probably contracting the pelvic floor muscles so the idea of focussing on your breath is going to distract you from thinking those thoughts thus making you relax those muscles. Alternatively if you want …
/r/askTRP11/05/18 05:28 AM
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Escalate by words ONLY trust me. It's never worked for me but it might for you!
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:38 AM
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Shooters shoot. You missed the last shot and she thinks you're a beta might as well try and set the tone. Invite her over tell her to bring a bottle of wine and escalate. If you don't get anywhere you have to get to bed. You have an early morning Most likely she wont even try to come and just leave it at that. It's not about investing a lot of time but if you want try it. Worst case is that it's practice
/r/askTRP11/05/18 04:34 AM
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Thank you bro. This actually reminded me of a girl who would say things like "Fuck YOU" or "Fuck OFF" but you could tell it wasn't sincere. The kinda "I hate you" but you ask them why they're hiding their smile as they say it. What's your take on "I can't ever read you" or "I can never tell with you"?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:44 AM
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I can see what you're saying and combine that with the theory of watching someone else fuck another person in porn. They kinda line up logically. But I'm wondering why it takes that specific swing. In middle/high school was was embarrassed a few times with women but I didn't develop a fetish where I enjoy women mocking me
/r/askTRP09/05/18 09:00 AM
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What happened with this tantrum when she got back into bed?
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:24 AM
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This, give her the old take away and you'll see her true intentions
/r/askTRP08/05/18 07:15 AM
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Yes it's possible to have abundance mentality without women. It's hard AF and a lot simpler to get over your fears. How do you do it? Get your heart ripped out and stomped on a few too many times so you can realize it's not that big of a deal. Internalize that along with other failures and successes in life
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:39 AM
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Yup she's trying to make you want her more. It's bassackwards but if you fuck up by getting insecure she now has a foothold. A&A is best "yeah he is" or you can go further with "yeah he is just look at his ass". "Let's see if he can join us tonight" things like this. It's just about not comparing yourself
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:32 AM
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Realistically this is just an excuse you're making. I doubt it's actually yellow just not as bright white as you want it to be. I do imagine you're just dehydrated and beating your meat infrequently
/r/askTRP07/05/18 03:25 AM
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This post brought a smile to my face. You're doing everything perfectly, in fact you're doing it so well she thinks she's being manipulated. I bet that her and her friends did come to this conclusion but as you said you aren't doing anything manipulative. She's used to manipulating guys because let's face it, especially at a younger age guys are weak. You're just not putting the pussy on the pedestal and she's not used to it.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 04:06 AM
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This is one of those "if you need to ask..." questions. Text game is a thing, but for people who aren't running shit text game isn't a thing. The reason you're told to stick with logistics is because there is less chance of saying something and having it misinterpreted, as the majority of our communication is non verbal. You can get a stronger connection with someone in person especially using touch anyways. In high school I used to think the same thing and believed texting was crucial but I'd s…
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:42 AM
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This is a good thing, if you're getting shit tests that means you are better than you were yesterday. Now you just have to be congruent and pass them. If you pass them well enough you'll notice longer times between tests and easier tests.
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:22 AM
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I read like 2/3 of that. Cold hard facts are that you had a date planned, changed it up on your LTR so she invited someone out. Now you change things up again and try to tell the friend to fuck off essentially. Think about if the boys did this to you
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:20 AM
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So what do you say to not be butthurt?
/r/askTRP06/05/18 03:13 AM
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Just an "alright another time"?
/r/askTRP05/05/18 06:46 AM
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Hit her with a "Just be yourself and a good guy will come around eventually" Nobody here knows anything about this girl and she's getting afraid of hitting the wall. TRP is concerned with male strategy. I think there is a female TRP sub
/r/askTRP04/05/18 05:45 AM
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What the fuck is the iron pill
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:31 AM
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What are the IOIs and what is her reaction? If she is straight up making excuses and how she's treating you is more like a friend then she thinks you're a pussy. If she's doing shit to get your attention like a sassy "byyeee" as she walks past you and gives you the aggressive up and away look it's showing investment on her part still
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:24 AM
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Ignore it and keep it moving or agree with it. I can see it being a comfort test too but you'd have to gauge it. Most likely a shit test though
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:19 AM
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Everything helps your SMV so yes intelligence certainly can help your SMV. It may not be the classical things to raise SMV but it like anything else is a tool. You've already started addressing your physical stature and more with lifting. But keep in mind that it's about becoming a complete man in all facets, social, intellectual and physical. The thing that brings many of us here is usually tied to the lack of social development
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:39 AM
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That's a damn good way to differentiate "I don't know what you're thinking!" "I can't get a read on you!" "You're too young for me"
/r/askTRP01/05/18 06:33 AM
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How would you distinguish openness to something vs Beta Bucks
/r/askTRP30/04/18 10:26 PM
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No, she will do this enough herself. You'll naturally do this with some level of dread anyway That being said if you really want to find out how it works report back to us
/r/askTRP24/04/18 06:21 AM
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Patrice had a good little bit about this but I couldn't find it just now, basically you escalate, get her fired up and then just bring it around just easy. In one example he said someone's hair was odd and in another he implied that a woman had many kids. He gets the anger up by insulting and then just "aw naw baby you're beautiful I was just kidding". The thing is that this needs to be treated as theory. Patrice was a master and very verbally skilled
/r/TheRedPill24/04/18 06:08 AM
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Unless you're ballin it doesn't make sense to raise a kid on your own. The caveat being rich so you can hire people to do that for you but think about that decision you're making, you can't just pawn a kid off on someone else
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:50 AM
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I think this is a good move, invite her over for a lay and if nothing comes of it you haven't lost anything. That being said if she flakes she's out for sure. E: I think you have the hamster spinning still but with the words she used she may be looking for a relationship
/r/askTRP24/04/18 05:45 AM
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What is NMMNG
/r/askTRP23/04/18 04:17 AM
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My apologies bro , what ended up happening
/r/askTRP20/04/18 10:26 PM
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You have to somehow forgive yourself. Yes if you had a guide or mentor to show you the way it would have been easier and quicker but you must also remember that men are forged through adversity and the knowledge of this should bring you more confidence. If you relied on someone to show you the ropes you'd have other lessons to learn still. Instead you did it on hard mode, it was all you. Also keep in mind that if you went back in time it would unfold in the same way, you made the best possible c…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 07:19 AM
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I feel you OP I've had my own salt mines. A girl in university led me on in what I can say is one of the few instances when I was truly led on. I aggressively called her out in front of the whole friend group during a drinking game. I've hung into this longer because of my own stupidity but I've used it as an opportunity for growth as should you
/r/TheRedPill18/04/18 07:05 AM
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Being alpha doesn't preclude you from being cheated on for whatever reason. Its how you react with the information that determines your status
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:44 AM
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I'd say what he said is on point but I'd also add that emotions manifest themselves physically in a person. That's why when a guy walks around with his shoulders tucked with chest and chin up we know he is confident (or trying to be) and the next person with they shoulders up to their ears looking down is unconfident. When you see a characteristic showing itself it's years of evolution at play giving you pattern recognition. They say don't judge a book by its cover which is fair but quite often …
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:42 AM
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It's not about what you show but how you let it control you. Women are very in the moment emotionally speaking. A slight bump in their day can create a tailspin where the rest of their day is ruined. We view it as being over dramatic but to them it's real that the guy at Starbucks gave her 2 pumps of soy instead of 3 ruining her day. The other thing with carrying emotions is that you can say something to them and one day it would be fine but because they're in a shit mood it's not fine today. In…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:35 AM
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Comfort test for sure, it's got "I wanna see how much you really care" written all over it. Look at what she said the second time "I don't get mad at small things" it's untrue but I bet she only said that because you said what she was pissed at was small. I assume MLTR means she has potential, so if that's actually the case like it sounds based on what you've said, get her to talk about it in person. Your job is to listen and if you were being a douche you apologize, if you weren't then you don'…
/r/askTRP18/04/18 06:24 AM
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You know the answer already. That being said it's good that you're trying to escalate but you're missing a key step. When you've been thought of as a friend there has to be time apart for you to grow. At this point you either do the slow fade or accept where you are with her. There is no guarantee that with any time apart she will change her mind about you. Regardless your move is to game other girls right now. If this ever were to fall into place it's down the road maybe even years
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:32 AM
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It only plays to the ex if OP breaks his frame too which it really sounds like it hasn't. That being said I agree that he shouldn't go to things with his ex especially if she organizes it. If OP maintains his frame then this will frustrate the ex even more because her new guy is the one losing his shit
/r/askTRP18/04/18 05:11 AM
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It hurts op and his mentality but it doesn't hurt the situation. Just gives him more time to worry about her. The best thing is to not think of her again and if she hits him up invite her over
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:31 PM
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Did this girl just break up with someone
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:24 PM
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Yes and no. I've met men and women who claim and I do believe have n counts of 50 by 22. As time goes on though you'll realize that most of the men and women out there are not able to take advantage of any situation. Just like we have social awkwardness so do women and just like we have blue pill dreams, so do women. Even the whores get caught up with plates and LTRs, it slows down estimations that many users pose. If true you also gotta look at the character of these girls laughing at you for b…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 07:22 AM
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I've tried various stints and my suggestion is to try if you want but I never saw a benefit. Stick to jerking your dick when you feel the urge and don't let the availability of porn dictate that. Too much of a good thing is a bad thing and too much of a bad thing is really a bad thing. Any benefits that are reported can be explained by cognitive bias. More confidence, more women checking you out, more energy, clear mind. All things you will have been told are results prior to doing it. It's more…
/r/askTRP14/04/18 07:29 AM
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The old take away, it's probably the best way to gauge her interest which on this case sounds like it's on the low end
/r/askTRP05/04/18 03:43 AM
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Based on what I've read so far it looks like everybody has given you the answer Id add that you should work on everything
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:15 PM
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I know you don't see what you did that was wrong yet but you will. Girls lose interest they don't say "I've lost interest in you". Guys deal in the direct, women tend to only use direct communication when all other options are exhausted. I bet at that point it was a last ditch effort to get you to do something but unfortunately you chased. Then you're getting booty snaps and you're saying "why are you playing?" Which she's gonna take as "I have no clue what you want from me and I'm salty". Not a…
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:50 AM
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Do you feel this was done maliciously or that he's just stupid?
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:23 AM
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If you find anything please let me know
/r/askTRP02/04/18 02:43 AM
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OP I just read through the posts, and I think you're doing the right thing by tabling it and making your decision after the initial sting. There is no way you should get married if you aren't 100% on board and taking the time to finalize any decision is the right one. That being said I have no clue whether it is or isn't the right move to end it. It's not quite fair but hiding her past wasn't fair to you either. The idea that this got sprung on you randomly makes matters worse for both parties i…
/r/askTRP02/04/18 02:38 AM
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I don't think you could harness it randomly, you need cause. Following the cause though you can harness it. Discipline comes from baggage, how many stories can you think of where hardship of either love, money or terrible circumstance? It seems that with women, you need that oneitis experience prior to actually unlocking that potential to get he back which then morphs into self improvement
/r/askTRP31/03/18 04:49 AM
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Weakness is emotional outbursts or losing your cool so your OP and many others posts are correct. There are appropriate times to do so but the idea is to not be governed by your emotions like a woman would. An example of fear and neediness is over texting and over complimenting. An example of emotional outbursts would be losing your shit at the smallest of things. A guy cuts you off while driving and you stew about it for a day. Things you may not have thought of are not making the move when she…
/r/askTRP26/03/18 03:44 PM
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I wouldn't call it a goal but I found the idea intriguing thinking about past experiences being an orbiter and seeing roles change during the journey. The biggest thing I can think of is compliance to a large degree but even being someone who was wrapped around another persons finger the details escape me. I figured I'd ask here because behavioural psychology is something we deal with even if we don't call it that.
/r/askTRP25/03/18 02:13 AM
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Thanks bro
/r/askTRP25/03/18 01:59 AM
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I appreciate the responses but I'm starting to think nobody has an answer
/r/askTRP25/03/18 01:45 AM
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"Look good, feel good. Feel good, play good. Play good, pay good." ZZ Topp
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:36 PM
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Do a thought experiment. If I'm more horny will I want to cum more? If that is true, will I think about cumming from women more? If that is true, will I be looking at those women more sexually? If that's true, will I notice them looking at me more?
/r/askTRP24/03/18 08:32 PM
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I get what you're saying and it's very logical, but there are plenty of women on tinder/bumble who don't try to bring friends when the meet you Turning her down politely will show how much she really wants to meet you, she will have to reach out again if she wants to see him
/r/askTRP24/03/18 03:18 PM
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This is the answer. All these benefits you get from it are explained away logically by saying you're more horny so you are on the prowl and now notice women giving signs that you just didn't notice before. When you're in a good mood more people smile at you and in a bad mood less people smile at you. Same thing
/r/askTRP24/03/18 03:02 PM
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Chad is a hot chick. I think it's Julien from (not) RSD who did a short video about Cinderella. He gives a peek into the life of a very hot girl and they have their own baggage too. I've seen it with my own eyes
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:12 AM
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The theory is that you can't be chad because chad was born chad. So the advice here is do what chad does (within reason). Chad has attributes that can be learned and some that can't.
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:09 AM
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You ever hear someone say "I'm so done"? It means they aren't done. Even if they don't deal with it directly it's still in their mind. Let her hit you up. If she doesn't then you're ok
/r/askTRP24/03/18 12:05 AM
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The table thing is a bad example I get what you're saying but more often than not I want options. You're trying to learn the concept so don't worry about anyone saying it's mental masturbation, but they are correct. Leading is kinda what you were talking about but it's really moving something forward. I used to ask a particular friend what he wanted to eat all the time because if it was up to me he would just go along with it. But when he was indecisive I'd make the decision so I was leading the…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 02:28 PM
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I would consider the sources you're pulling from if you think it's cheaper, more ethical and has a lower environmental impact than eating meat. I'm gonna make no bones about it, I think you're wrong in saying that but always take in both sides. The benefits of meat are eating complete proteins whereas most plant protein is incomplete unless you're looking at legumes for the most part. Why is that important to you? Your entire body is made up of protein. Hair, nails, skin, lungs, muscles and brai…
/r/askTRP21/03/18 05:53 AM
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In all of my vast nice guy experience, very rarely does the woman actually lead you on. The majority of the time I have been turned down and either ignored it or was too dumb to see it. In fact I can only recall being led on a handful of times in roughly 10+ years and most of those were more tied to incongruent behaviours on her part stemming from my own incongruent behaviours.
/r/TheRedPill21/03/18 05:38 AM
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Haven't read the book but the talk and all things Jocko are good in my books.
/r/askTRP20/03/18 08:01 AM
1

It's gonna sound complicated but you're doing compound movements and the weakest muscles are the ones that feel it the most. This is absolutely normal for new lifters especially since you're 2 month in. First thing you gotta do is exercise patience these are the smallest muscles being used in the movement. Your next step is to check form as the other user said then modify the grip on lat pulls. Try cupping the handle with your thumb on the same side of the handle as your fingers, this lowers the…
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:55 AM
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Set up a definite date when you set up dates. Day, time and place (unless you're keeping the place a surprise). You have no clue of the validity of what she said. What you can do is wait a week and ask again but this time for a definite date. If you get anything other than an absolute yes you say "looks like you're busy, let me know when your schedule clears up" From that point you don't wait in her. You simply let it go and if she contacts you she does and if not then not
/r/askTRP18/03/18 03:32 AM
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It starts with small things, "I can't ever tell what you're thinking", "what do you like about me" or more physical things. An example of that is something she can easily do "can you get me that pen"/"can you get me a straw". Most of the time this slips through the cracks because she can easily do it herself and you'll interpret it as her being lazy. The other way this slips through is "Babe do you have everything you need or can I get you something?" "No im fine" sits down "Actually can you get…
/r/askTRP17/03/18 08:02 PM
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You're too tied to the terms bro. Be too far one way and she gets turned off be too far the other and she thinks you're not interested in her (gets turned off) It also depends on how long he's know these girls for and what the relationship is. If you're getting friend zoned you're coming in too soft and need to find more of a balance
/r/askTRP17/03/18 07:00 PM
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Depends on who she is to you. Women resolve things by talking so opening her up can be very beneficial. She will say "nothing" and you'll have to dig but that shows you give a damn. Imagine your wife is upset and you two are driving to a family even 3 hours away. Would it be better to talk to her and get her in a better mood? Now if this is a plate and you don't give a shit, it's something her friends can handle while you find better things. As for being an emotional tampon that is when you're l…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:23 AM
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Depends on who she is to you. Women resolve things by talking so opening her up can be very beneficial. She will say "nothing" and you'll have to dig but that shows you give a damn. Imagine your wife is upset and you two are driving to a family even 3 hours away. Would it be better to talk to her and get her in a better mood? Now if this is a plate and you don't give a shit, it's something her friends can handle while you find better things. As for being an emotional tampon that is when you're l…
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:23 AM
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I don't think you're not being shit tested just probably stepped to them well enough that there are longer times between the tests. She'll ping again eventually
/r/askTRP16/03/18 04:09 AM
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Why does graduating mean it won't go anywhere? Have you two discussed plans after?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:33 AM
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Do stupid shit in front of the people you're worried about impressing. It's the same as being rejected, just gotta get those numbers up until you can internalize it's ok. It's never 100% gone though. You'll always have that voice in your head and you just keep telling yourself "who is this person and why do I care" eventually you care less and you catch yourself in those moments
/r/askTRP16/03/18 03:31 AM
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So you asked her for a date and she cancelled but offered the next day. The next day you then said you weren't going to go and she continued trying to talk to you. I would say she flaked but since she even tried to offer it's a net neutral kinda thing. Ask her out again unless I'm missing something here. "Let's grab a drink when are you free?" "Monday at 8pm" If you are free Monday 8pm "Great I'll pick you up at 8" If you get no time/day "You seem pretty busy let me know when your schedule clear…
/r/askTRP15/03/18 06:41 AM
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I dont have much to contribute but I know that look and I love making it happen
/r/TheRedPill15/03/18 06:05 AM
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OP look at the first part again. You say dread is working but you're not seeing benefits. You're either doing it wrong or it's not working. I'm gonna say the answer to which one is yes. You're dreading too much. Why are you even dreading her in the first place?
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:59 AM
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No compliments tells a woman you have a lack of interest in her and she will reciprocate. The idea of not complimenting probably is for the guy who compliments too much which puts her on the pedestal. This is a sign of you not giving enough attention and she's communicating it. If you DGAF then do nothing but if you're posting this you have some fucks to give so heed the warning. As for what to say the other users hit it out of the park. But keep in mind this is a fine balance
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:55 AM
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You're creating this thing in your mind where women are mystical and have special powers. They don't, you can learn what they look at. It's called micro expressions, quick behaviours that show a person processing things. They see brows furrow, eyes widen, looking down and away. Each thing signifies something in a context and women look at your face to see how you react to what's said/done. You probably have a base knowledge but you just don't know that you do, maybe you were told that too much e…
/r/askTRP13/03/18 07:33 AM
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"Just be yourself" is correct though. I've heard the chad hurting her a million times and in a lot of cases there probably is truth to it. The theory I work from is that your mother never had the journey. Women are just themselves, they're allowed to be overly emotional and work based on how they feel in that moment. They are very in tune with gut instincts (woman's intuition) From a male perspective you are yourself and lean that that doesn't work. Then you grow and are your new self and so on …
/r/askTRP08/03/18 07:10 AM
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Thanks for the well thought out reply. It was something I was thinking of in my mind. So what are the ways to increase comfort ? I generally think of comfort as comfort tests but I guess it could apply to compliments, listening/talking and general attention
/r/askTRP08/03/18 03:39 AM
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She's probably legitimately confused because in her mind there isn't a complete answer as to why you nexted her. I'd imagine she's wondering why it was so easy to get over her and now you're asking her out again. As for what to say, the other users here seem to have hit it out of the park. You want what you want so go and get it if she isn't interested again you next again
/r/askTRP08/03/18 02:22 AM
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What's wrong with taking more than 40mg zinc? What does it inhibit
/r/TheRedPill08/03/18 01:50 AM
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Define/redefine what love means, use emotional examples "my grandparents are in love, theyve been together for 65 years and they still hold hands". It doesnt have to be an actual example but maybe something from a movie like Up. Fame the other persons definition as lust, they probably wont mention it because it weakens their argument Describe the differences of love and lust, a more PG version because of the audience. "Lust is seeing a beautiful woman in a tight dress at the bar, where love is s…
/r/askTRP26/02/18 07:24 AM
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Apathy is the opposite of love. If a woman is beaming when she sees you or gives you the stink eye you can translate that emotion but when she is truly apathetic its over. There are some cases where she tries to show apathy attempting to hide her negative emotions towards you. Youll notice that women say "Im over it" and that means they certainly arent over it for example. Or if you ask them "Are you upset"/"Is there something you want to talk about" they will so "No...EXCEPT FOR THAT ONE THING"
/r/askTRP22/02/18 08:12 AM
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What did you gain/lose by leaving the ball in her court? Nothing, just be a man of your word and leave it be. If one night 3 months from now she realizes that you havent been chasing she may hit you up, if not then not
/r/askTRP18/02/18 03:07 AM
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Did you notice that she was keeping track that you didnt respond? Invite her over and escalate
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:34 AM
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Yes, youre over thinking this to begin with. When you ask yourself a question like this first look at only facts, remove emotions fully then ask yourself this question. You asked her to hang out and she said yes She actually did Your friends left you two alone She opens up to you Drove WAY THE FUCK out of her way to hang out with you a little longer TWICE Bro, that was a date. It wasnt dinner and a movie, skydiving or whatever but it was. Going forward follow /u/fnordsnord plan
/r/askTRP15/02/18 05:22 AM
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Something along these lines, it sounds like a shit test. She didnt even tell him he wouldnt get pussy, and shes bringing it up
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:55 AM
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Im a big Corey Wayne believer and he would say something to the tune of "Im not interested in being friends, let me know if you change your mind" then if she reaches out try and set up a date. Dont be an orbiter If this girl is close to your friend circle then you may just want to agree, ghost and move on. Its situation dependent IMO
/r/askTRP14/02/18 04:45 AM
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"Theyre more scared of you than you are of them" People usually dont sit next to people they dont know if they can avoid it, look at public transit or urinals for that matter. The best thing you can do if you want to make friends is strike up a conversation
/r/askTRP13/02/18 06:03 AM
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I have had no success with nofap and quite often it turns into what you said it the exact opposite where I don't feel the need to do anything
/r/askTRP12/02/18 04:40 PM
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Yes it is because youre locked into seeing her until April. But in all reality fuck it, just go for it. Worst case scenario you get to practice what to do when things dont go you way
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:00 AM
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Try asking on their sub or reading their sidebar. I cant really remember but they may say "this too shall pass" but dont quote me on it All I can do is speak from my personal experience where Nofap hasnt helped aside from having me watch less porn so Im not jerking my dick out of habit but more when I want to. Do take a minute though after you read/ask there and look at it logically and ask what your goal is and what youre doing to get there, if you feel that you can do both at once by all means…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 06:04 AM
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Dread is literally making her dread that you can leave at anytime, withdrawing attention is a preliminary step to breaking up so her reaction can be to change what shes doing and/or chase. It would be one thing to keep your flirting skills sharp but how youre doing it is pretty shitty and disrespectful. Dont do it in front of her. This is what and insecure hot chick at a club does, running away from her boyfriend to grind on some rando because shes not getting validation. Dread is more along the…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:55 AM
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I know. Is it more important that you dont jerk your dick or that you get your work done?
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:43 AM
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You can try jerking off, that might work
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:41 AM
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The real answer is however you prefer yourself, its your mission not theirs
/r/askTRP09/02/18 05:40 AM
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For sure red pill, the manner in which the information is delivered isn't aggressive like many users here. But he really does cover it all in detail from meeting to marrying if that's what you wish. The way that he talks in the videos he is currently just dating women and not in defined relationships. I'm interested in seeing what his new book is going to be like
/r/askTRP06/02/18 10:27 PM
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Sleep for duration in multiples of 90 minutes What do you mean by this? Sleep 90 min every few hours or sleep 7.5 hours at once (90 min * 5)
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:26 AM
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Im 4x a week and maybe an occasional 5th day. I work on a variation of Defranco's Skinny Bastard, so its and upper/lower split with a heavy and light day each. Its set up M, T, Th, F so you actually get to recover and can push yourself. The majority of the programs that give you more days tend to be more body building oriented with less weight (CNS activation) as well as less work overall. Juice is also a BIG factor but I do know powerlifters that are in the gym 5-6x a week but they program cert…
/r/askTRP06/02/18 05:24 AM
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This might be the proper saying. Its something Patrice O'Neal was talking about on his radio show
/r/askTRP06/02/18 03:55 AM
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Yes but how do I make this work in my favour
/r/askTRP05/02/18 03:34 AM
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Situational awareness, this guy is in high school and people are already asking him about this. Say one thing and do another makes more sense then having people bother you over being honest. The other thing is that OP didnt say that he wouldnt want to be FWB given the right scenario again.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 07:44 PM
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What do you do to keep the pussy off the pedestal? Most users will say "abundance mentality" and "game other girls" but what is an actual exercise/technique or whatever to assist in this? /u/FindingAWALT
/r/TheRedPill01/02/18 12:07 AM
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It takes time to learn the lesson, very few people read something and it sticks with them right away. You still need the experiences to put together chains of knowledge. When you start learning something (concept or action) you learn random parts of it, then you learn all the parts of it and can start to put it together really clunky but then you chunk concepts together and see connections that you didnt before and the final step of mastery is actually putting it together without thought.
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:53 AM
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She was lower on the interest level scale. I think you did the right thing with a hard next, its disrespectful what she did. Most likely in her mind she had agreed to the date in an somewhat happy emotional state and when the day came she didnt want to do it anymore. So instead of saying "Jake755, I wont be able to make it" at 8am when she got up she said it right as you were supposed to meet because she kept putting it off. But she felt like she had to say something because there is no way she …
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:36 AM
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I had it for years, I believe its stems from something growing up maybe you had a really aggressive parent that you couldnt fight back against. Id say the best way to deal with it is to keep working on yourself and explore how you have changed from a weak person (child) to a stronger one
/r/askTRP31/01/18 04:27 AM
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I dont think this thread got as much respect as it should have, I really enjoyed those two videos and am looking forward to the next ones
/r/TheRedPill30/01/18 05:18 AM
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Eye contact gets weird when you don't emote with it. Imagine seeing someone from far away and just holding eye contact for 15 seconds as you walk up expressionless. Kinda weird right? The solution as others said is to give an eyebrow raise/flash and smile. If you're talking about in conversation it's more important to have eye contact while listening with a little looking away. Talking can make someone feel weird if you hold eye contact too long so do short breaks looking slightly to the side li…
/r/askTRP29/01/18 04:25 PM
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This pick one thing isnt true. It is possible and it takes a lot of protein but OP is a newbie to lifting, hes only been doing it for 6 months. Regardless of what he does hes gonna get strength and mass gains. Its more than likely that hes losing weight due to a combination of lower calorie intake due to eating healthier foods and a higher energy expenditure as well as a decrease in salt causing him to lose water weight. OP, eat 1g/lb (desired) bw of protein per day. That should be your goal if …
/r/askTRP29/01/18 02:57 AM
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Think of them as a game, the shit test is a riddle and if you answer it correctly youll move on with your journey In lieu of that try to be as outlandish as possible as you can while still passing the test
/r/askTRP29/01/18 01:06 AM
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What do you mean by this, arent we taught to be polarizing?
/r/askTRP29/01/18 12:14 AM
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Well, if youre really following TRP to the letter of the law you wouldnt enter into any type of monogamous relationship therefore cheating cant take place. When entering into an LTR/marriage you have an implied contract to not cheat on the other person BUT since someone who follows it to the letter of the law wouldnt ever get into such a contract as he would continue spinning plates. Orphaned Vigilante is very correct though, you are acting based on potential outcomes which is acting from a plac…
/r/askTRP28/01/18 11:59 PM
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Youre in a no win situation. Neither of you are going to change each others minds so why bother?
/r/TheRedPill28/01/18 11:55 PM
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What did you do to withdraw attention in that particular case? Quiet and looking away?
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:22 AM
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I agree with you guys whole heartedly, she is either into him and trying to be quiet so she doesnt fuck up or she just not into him but we dont have enough to go on
/r/askTRP26/01/18 05:21 AM
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Could just be a really misguided youth pining over someone
/r/askTRP25/01/18 09:01 PM
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If you dont want her to touch you, you need to tell he directly. Be assertive The reason I say this is it sounds like shes trying to mark her territory or at the very least doesnt know how to act around men shes attracted to
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:40 AM
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The weird thing was this started somewhere Sunday and I had a good lift Monday
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:25 AM
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I work at a bank with a bunch of women, I have found what almost every other guy has. The majority of them hate (at least squabble at) each other and measure work against each other. What you need to do is lead the group, women work in consensus but a group of people never really come to one which is why have a leader archetype is important in a group setting. When you break down previous interactions where things went quick youll find that people fell into their roles and when it doesnt there i…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:24 AM
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What do you classify as making a move?
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:13 AM
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I personally think it would be weird to just one day tell her "Yeah I actually got laid off and got a new job" like 3 months down the line. Another user hit it on the head, it lies in your frame. Your reaction to life shitting on you will show her that you are her rock. You shouldnt be afraid because you have your savings and you are avidly looking for work so it should work out pretty soon. At worst its a good chance to see how she would react, if shes gonna jump ship while youre working on get…
/r/askTRP25/01/18 05:11 AM
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Its funny you guys said that, I do lift 4x weekly as well as run a couple days and I just came back from a lift and feel great. Not quite out of my low but on the rise
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:58 AM
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I appreciate the input. I wasnt clear in the OP, I was talking more like state vs trait. For instance if someone is has state anxiety they are anxious in that moment but if they have trait anxiety they are generally anxious. I have over the last few days been more anxious and unconfident in my actions. I do feel somewhat better now that I just got back from a good lift
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:56 AM
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I think youre on to something with helping others as well as acting into the right thinking. Maybe a bit more fake it till you make it temporarily will help. Its more state anxiety/unconfidence rather than trait
/r/askTRP25/01/18 04:53 AM
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Just general confidence in everyday life. For instance, due to the above I've had a cloudy mind as of the past couple of days and I'm trying to get back on track
/r/askTRP25/01/18 01:14 AM
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Shes being petty and youre invested. Let her come to you, if she doesnt in a week you can try hitting her up one more time but dont go beyond that. If she cant make that time she will let you know when she can
/r/askTRP24/01/18 05:58 AM
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Crazy, Stupid Love Ryan Goslings character
/r/askTRP23/01/18 05:37 AM
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Yes help. But keep in mind that the person can only help themselves by taking the actions needed for themselves. This means you job is to lead them in the right direction, present them with the correct info and set a good example. Most of the time it wont work though
/r/askTRP23/01/18 05:27 AM
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Remember, no answer is still an answer. She agreed to a date that wasnt really defined so in essence you didnt have a date. Girls use non-definite dates to squeeze their way out of a tight spot "Let me check my schedule" or "Yeah lets do it next week" are all ways to get out of a definite date. Next time set a place, time and way of meeting (you pick her up, meet there, whatever) and if she cant commit, you give her the old take away "Well if you dont know your schedule lets do it some other tim…
/r/askTRP23/01/18 05:24 AM
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Is there a post youve made on text game?
/r/askTRP23/01/18 05:18 AM
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You waiting for a girl to say "Thrawy124, Ive always loved you!"? Itd be nice if that happened but it doesnt. If thats not the case what do you have to gain anyways? Other people's opinions of you is their mess to deal with not yours.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:47 PM
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You did the right thing. If she pressed on you always have the good ol take away. But as you said you've nexted her so she will show exactly where her interest level is
/r/askTRP21/01/18 04:04 PM
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"I know, Im hilarious" "Is that why youre trying to hide a smile?" OP, I knew a woman who did this a lot "Shut up" meant "Keep talking". "I hate you" meant "I love you" and "Youre the worst" meant "Youre the best". Just keep it light and playful, and dont be afraid to playfully point out how she says one thing but does another
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:48 AM
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I could see it the other way too. Why is she bringing it up? Its on her mind so she could have taken OP not making a move as him not being interested
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:39 AM
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Id say you have it backwards. In all reality, the given persons ability to maintain relationships, stability, loyalty and sanity are more likely what cause the woman to have a high count. In fact Id argue that those behaviours tie into her relationships with female friends as well. But men fuck em anyways because pussy's pricey but dick is discount
/r/askTRP20/01/18 05:08 AM
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OP, you have nothing to prove. I'm all aboard for you trying but don't think you have to prove anything to anyone, that is in a very literal sense approval seeking behaviour. I do say go after it though, taste the champagne of victory. Over your old self. You've put in the work and might as well reap the rewards
/r/askTRP19/01/18 06:09 AM
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She's an unpleasant living breathing reminder of the man you left behind. This so damn much, thats why you get the gut punch when you think of dumb things youve done before Once you've gone beta in a woman's eyes you can go back but the juice isn't worth the squeeze. The energy you spend around her could land you 20+ women of equal or better quality. But it would be oh so satisfying to pump and dump someone like that
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:22 AM
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Bro it sucks but it sounds like she doesnt feel it
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:11 AM
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By becoming playful and trying to smooth over any possible tension? I know 99% of the time there's no formal apology
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:36 PM
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Essentially just amusement
/r/askTRP17/01/18 12:16 AM
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"I dont want to meet up anymore" sounds like youre butthurt, which is true. Something more along the lines of "Let me know when youre free and we can set something up" leaves it in her court, doesnt sound butthurt and you can always ignore if you dont want to
/r/askTRP15/01/18 07:42 PM
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More than likely you have confirmation bias. Theres a really good chance that youre only noticing women look at you more because someone said you would and that youre more confident for the same reason but those two feed off each other
/r/askTRP15/01/18 02:58 AM
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That first point is the most balanced post about it ITT
/r/askTRP14/01/18 09:37 PM
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Sounds more like shes trying to convince you/herself
/r/askTRP14/01/18 06:59 AM
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Youre young but youre gonna learn a valuable lesson (potentially), this girl is fucking with you because she knows it bothers you. A normal functioning person wouldnt be doing that. What shes doing is trying to figure out if you like her more than she likes you, its an insecurity thing. Your best bet is to ignore those things and be nonreactive and this shouldnt stop you from meeting on other women, just dont rub it in her face. If she finds out she finds out. Google "The glass is already broken…
/r/askTRP13/01/18 07:27 PM
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There are many diets that show reverse of chronic heart disease. Keto is one such diet, Atkins is another. The problems we are seeing stem from high carb/fat/protein diets but many people with the removal of carbs tend to work better.
/r/askTRP13/01/18 12:14 AM
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If only corn was subsidized then we would see that in all of our foods!
/r/askTRP13/01/18 12:09 AM
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Many foods we consume are estrogenic, soy has and also has not been linked but there is a multitude of factors that play into how you digest certain things. What we do know is that there are high inflammatory foods in general, carbs and dairy. The types of carbs are more wheat based than anything, so rice is generally ok but pasta generally isnt in term of inflammation. The hormones given to cows is called Bovine Growth Hormone, similar to not the same to our Human Growth Hormone. In theory its …
/r/askTRP13/01/18 12:06 AM
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Whats the endgame for the AF? I know that this sub has been split to some degree on individual goals be it plates or LTR and that TRP is designed for plates. But how would an LTR materialize for an AF?
/r/TheRedPill12/01/18 05:09 AM
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But what if I can because Im that strong?
/r/askTRP12/01/18 04:16 AM
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The boss is setting up a culture and you seem not to want to be a part of it. You can either change your tune or take the higher salary as something you can negotiate with for a new job
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:14 AM
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The question you should be asking is why were you told not to say it in the first place? It becomes a response like "shit" or "damn" when something goes wrong and it strips the meaning from it but it also opens the door for you to nervously use it as a tick with women. "Im sorry if Im annoying you" and "Sorry I dont wanna bother you" Youre supposed to say it when you feel it though, thats why youre allowed to say it if you really fuck something up or hurt someone. So yes if you feel it you can s…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 07:10 AM
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Be an adult about it, talk to her as much as needed but dont let the conversation get frivolous. If it gets there you can steer it back to relevant talk or suddenly remember how busy you are. Its about being cordial and not as cold as you have been. "Hey good morning" is a common greeting in the office as you speed by to where you need to be
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:58 AM
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The way I take it you are misinterpreting it. I believe it to be about socially fitting in, you have an opinion that a group of people will disagree with? Dont voice it there, a group can turn on you and it will go exactly like a conversation on CNN. Dress how you like, voice your opinion if need be but dont lead yourself into a situation where you will lose. Another way to think of this is imagine a bunch of SJWs are doing a group project with you and their echo chamber is saying "X is bad and …
/r/askTRP11/01/18 06:50 AM
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I love a nose piercing in one nostril, but the bull ring is so dumb
/r/askTRP10/01/18 06:52 PM
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What did you say?
/r/askTRP10/01/18 06:35 PM
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Not OP, but if you were going into an LTR I was under the assumption that youd have to open up to an extent. Not at the early stages that OP was at obviously
/r/askTRP10/01/18 06:29 PM
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So if shes now getting jealous its logical to say shes getting more invested. By her apologizing she probably knows what the deal is but that doesnt change her actions or the meanings behind it. What you do from here is up to you
/r/askTRP10/01/18 06:19 PM
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Meds are there to help you function so you can help yourself. Reliance on them is when you take them and do nothing to help yourself after. Always wean on and off meds for depression because if you don't you'll get severe emotional outbursts and potentially suicidal. As for what you need to you to better yourself you need to exercise, eat well, practice a skill, and take up a new hobby. Basically everything for bettering yourself with TRP. Exercise is first and foremost because eating healthy is…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 09:27 AM
1

Actions over words
/r/askTRP10/01/18 09:14 AM
1

don't get told about the 20 sorority chicks who told him to get lost or the barista who told him she has a boyfriend This so much, I know a Chad from University. This guy is a scientist with women, tried every angle he could. Created a persona, lost a bunch of weight, quit drinking, did well in school (now has a job). What people dont see is the behind the scenes where he improved himself by losing the weight or taking the no's. If you were to listen to him talk hes banging a new girl every nigh…
/r/askTRP10/01/18 01:47 AM
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Id love to see how this plays out too
/r/askTRP07/01/18 08:41 PM
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Have you removed things from your life that make you think of her? Find these things and put them away to a place where you cant see them unless you go looking. Remove from social media and dont let her contact you. This stuff is step one for a reason
/r/askTRP07/01/18 08:24 PM
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Since the other guys want to be douches, look up what IOIs are specifically. Also ask yourself why you feel she is getting dolled up ONLY when she knows youre going to be around. Logically its a pretty clear answer
/r/askTRP07/01/18 08:00 PM
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If you get fired with no proof you can always get a lawyer, youll lose the job but gain something in the meantime
/r/TheRedPill07/01/18 03:44 AM
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If a woman reaches out she's doing it for a reason. If you invite and escalate you'll know quickly what that reason is
/r/askTRP06/01/18 09:16 AM
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If she reached out she did it for a reason. Invite over and escalate, you'll have your answer
/r/askTRP06/01/18 09:09 AM
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Tease back but as you said don't shit talk. If you win them over it's beneficial to you in the long run. Imagine someone saying negative shit in your ear about someone constantly and how you would see the person. Now imagine if they were saying nice things
/r/askTRP06/01/18 09:06 AM
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The 80/20 principle would state that 20% of the guys are doing 80% of the fucking. Also it is possible for a woman to be in the 100s or a man for that matter but you're taking it too literally. In questionnaires the average came to about 10 that's a few bfs, a couple ONS and a couple FWB. You have to remember that some of this stuff posted on TRP is for effect, but it's up to you to figure out what is and isn't
/r/askTRP06/01/18 08:53 AM
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I like this, Im of the idea that work relationships can work given the right scenario. Rules 1 and 2 are essentially keeping it out of public view. Prying eyes have more to talk about. Rule 5 is obvious and most companies have official policies against this for that very reason. However I do believe you got the moral of both Rule 4's mixed up. Married women are worse because so much can go wrong. If found out imagine an angry husband coming into work and aside from that think of the drama and ru…
/r/TheRedPill05/01/18 06:26 AM
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Ive got a friend like this, hes depressed. I cant for sure say about your friend but my friend is
/r/askTRP04/01/18 02:36 AM
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That last paragraph is a good way to put it. Women are submissive if their man beats them because they rationalize if their man is mad at them they did something wrong. Think of the opposite of a woman who loses her shit on a man (gas light) so he apologizes because he feels that he's wrong. The difference is that women are much smaller in stature and weaker
/r/askTRP03/01/18 04:35 PM
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Why are all of your posts "deleted"?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:19 AM
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In the past have you gotten more or less nervous around the hottest women?
/r/askTRP03/01/18 01:13 AM
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This is fair but I still dont see why a saturday vs a thursday is worth more. Its just never a thought Id had. I get that a women dont automatically enter in the top spot of your life and must earn it. Maybe a better question to you is why does society value a weekend more than a weekday? Also is friday a weekday?
/r/askTRP02/01/18 01:01 AM
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Ive seen it around here but is there anything written on weekend vs weekday while inviting girls out? I personally see no distinction between weekday vs weekend but because its said there must be one
/r/askTRP01/01/18 11:17 PM
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A few things come to mind, one particular situation in the past was a girl talking about how to deal with things from her dads estate and lawyers. A very recent one was someone asking what to say in regards to a third party asking what to put on a resume for a job that we both hold. Its all obvious answer stuff but either they cant see how clear it is or they just want to talk to me about it
/r/askTRP01/01/18 08:07 AM
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Ohhh so it's the one where he moves the hyphen so instead of green-ass car it's green ass-car
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:46 AM
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What does this bot do?
/r/askTRP01/01/18 12:25 AM
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If you remove the part about money she has a legit concern with having no kids. But the fact that she would mention that as her primary reason is despicable
/r/TheRedPill01/01/18 12:17 AM
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What about when they ask for your advice on a situation
/r/askTRP31/12/17 09:41 PM
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Do you have an example because I have no clue what youre talking about
/r/askTRP29/12/17 07:33 AM
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Nows the fun part, you get to pretend like nothing ever happened. Its part of being an adult
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:12 AM
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Its painful but the only thing you can do now is block and delete from all sources. Complete out of sight out of mind. No pictures, no things that remind you of her and no jerking off to the thought of her. You dont have to throw these things out but you need to put them in a spot where you cant see them without pursuing them.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 06:01 AM
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Did you unlike after?
/r/askTRP27/12/17 11:04 PM
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This, Patrice O'Neal did a bit on this where women just cant handle the level of rejection that men do. What youll notice sometimes is that women will get cold and/or go full ice queen on you if you dont make a move by a certain time. Youll get dropped because they cant handle the thought of you dropping them
/r/askTRP27/12/17 04:46 AM
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First of all, realize you're still a child. You have FOREVER. Time is on your side. I sense a ton of anxiety in your post. Relax. This is a very good way to talk about the journey
/r/askTRP27/12/17 04:44 AM
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This stuff comes out in time. There are some people who only have a couple friends but know them very well and for a long time. That would be the opposite of what the first guys posted about. It would be beneficial in theory. If they tend to break off from groups it will come out later, someone will mention "Becky" and youll ask who she is
/r/askTRP27/12/17 04:42 AM
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I think youre looking at it from a narrow scope. I cant afford to take women on dinner/fun dates nightly. A guy who is 30 may be able to afford it because he is more financially stable. He would appear more fun because he can afford fun. This guy is also more experienced in life and with women so he understands the process over a younger man still learning basics. I would personally argue that they spend more. There is a fairly standard age where younger men like older women and then it reverses…
/r/askTRP26/12/17 07:18 AM
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Id like to add to this, youll notice that stories of how her ex-friends are framed as them being drama queens or crazy. Its easy to glaze over one or two of these but when you start adding them up it will become very apparent if you wish to see it. The trouble is that these come out slowly over time so it may take a while to see what is going on. She may not talk about an ex-friend for 5 weeks and then it comes up but the next one doesnt come up for another 6 weeks
/r/askTRP26/12/17 07:09 AM
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You are correct
/r/askTRP26/12/17 12:35 AM
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Set up a date and learn something
/r/askTRP25/12/17 06:42 PM
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Its an open door to walk out through, its better now than later
/r/askTRP24/12/17 09:58 PM
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It would be disingenuous to say its one or the other. Clearly a woman is trying to catch a mans eye, any man that has seen a woman try to dress sexy to grab their attention can attest to this. TRP teaches that women want what other women have as others have posted ITT. Validation gained by other women helps their own standing and a higher standing allows them to gain a better man. So to sum up my thoughts to whether women look good for men or other women, yes.
/r/askTRP24/12/17 08:14 AM
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I personally believe that its social conditioning, like how movies show that men should beg and play mr nice guy for women. Just the inverse of it, "I can change him" and not being able to put out until the third date. The fact remains that you can analyze youre entire life and never know the answer. But you know the result which is to look at actions not words and that women dont know what they want
/r/askTRP24/12/17 07:23 AM
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Not the other guy but google says its putting the pussy on the pedestal/nice guy syndrome
/r/askTRP24/12/17 07:11 AM
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She wants a hand, do you ever ask her to do something for you? Not everything needs to be analyzed, if shes taking advantage of you its a different story
/r/askTRP24/12/17 06:59 AM
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I think you might have it
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:26 AM
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It was supposed to be using logic in the face of her emotion. In my experience not giving into the emotion and staying on topic works
/r/askTRP22/12/17 03:25 AM
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You need to be sure its a posterior tilt vs anterior tilt. Posterior tilt is associated with tight hamstrings, hip flexors and core with a weak back and quads. Youll need to free up the core and calves before you end up getting enough of a hammy stretch probably. Keep working on those and eventually youll have enough flexibility to start feeling the hammys. The pain behind your knee would probably be the calf, lower portion of hamstring and popliteus tightness but this is online so its hard to f…
/r/askTRP21/12/17 02:12 AM
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Are your calves tight? And how does the pain feel?
/r/askTRP20/12/17 08:02 PM
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Ive asked out a couple cashiers, its been hit and miss. What you should ask yourself is "Do I want to try this" and if that answer is yes then you do it.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 07:59 PM
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I was there at 22 as well OP, I got torn up over roughly 5 women from 17-24. Youll get better and youll be able to eat again. The first step is removal of this woman form your life in all forms if possible. But you will learn to cope and youll understand in time. The problem you are facing is your devaluation of time. Time is the most precious commodity that we have. You dont know how much you have left but you know how much youve wasted. The reason its a commodity is that you exchange time for …
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:51 AM
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OP, walk down the rabbit hole with me. If she isnt cheating and you look at her DMs then you know youre doing the weak thing and because you know that itll get into your head. If you look and she is cheating, then youre gonna break up with her because you cant trust her. Realistically if shes cheating youll find out, you can almost always figure out when someone who is close to you is lying. But if you look at the situation logically youll see that the sun will rise and the world will keep on tu…
/r/askTRP19/12/17 04:29 AM
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Pay attention to actions not words, if you say shes taking a 2 hour subway and coming over to your place its probably on. Dont force things but make the moves
/r/askTRP18/12/17 11:23 PM
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Sounds like shes ready to leave the boyfriend (or cheat) if shes that persistent. Her telling you to "go with the flow" is no different than a guy saying "lets just see where this goes" to a new woman. The reason Im saying this is that it sounds like youve been VERY clear that you wanna bang. When it comes down to it a man does what he wants in spite of the consequences. So if you weigh the situation and want to deal with the BS or not its your choice
/r/askTRP18/12/17 05:49 AM
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Do you listen to Patrice O'neal?
/r/askTRP17/12/17 10:33 PM
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Did you take her up on the sex and apology right away?
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:26 PM
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I had a woman lie to me recently, I called her out about it and got a big sigh of AWALT because she couldnt just take it. She was caught red handed but "Its not that big of a deal" then "Its not that big of a deal". I dont think she understands that what she lied about wasnt the big deal but her lying to me was
/r/TheRedPill17/12/17 05:37 AM
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You cant wrap your head around it because youre thinking logically. Just break it down and trust your gut
/r/askTRP16/12/17 03:10 AM
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Give it more time. Youre not seeing the results that you want yet. Theres many different forms, strength, size, tone, weight loss, and the intrinsic things. Keep working and youll get there. The other thing youll pick it up is the ability to do things you dont like. Lets say you dont end up liking lifting ever, by doing the action because of the positive benefits down the road you build something in you. This is half of the equation
/r/askTRP16/12/17 02:42 AM
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Corey wayne
/r/askTRP16/12/17 02:34 AM
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I think this is the way to go, address her passive aggressiveness directly. For all we know this is something she learned in Cosmo. If you do passive aggressive stuff back then youre not better ("Yeah you arent my boss") but you also cant be aggressive about it
/r/askTRP13/12/17 09:21 PM
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The faster you bite the bullet the faster you both can move on. It sounds nice to not do it on a certain day but quickest is best
/r/askTRP13/12/17 08:30 PM
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I think you answered your own question in regards to sex life. I mean there are other possible reasons but at the end of the day it's a logical one
/r/askTRP13/12/17 01:22 PM
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I never thought of it that way, but it seems rather logical. It does seem that porn viewing is in a continuum and the deeper you go is correlated with how much you've watched. Also that if you stop you move backwards
/r/TheRedPill13/12/17 01:19 PM
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"We hung out a bit" a fairly standard response If she knows and made her mind up about it there isn't anything you can say that'll change it.
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:23 AM
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Basically what children do This is something I actually googled prior to making this thread. A lot of the things honestly line up
/r/askTRP13/12/17 05:19 AM
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Her sister passed you up so you could have this opportunity. Dont bring it up but dont be afraid if she does
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:49 AM
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Im gonna suggest that you dont read a book, maybe pick something up to assist. You have all the facts that you need already. You arent good with discomfort, you want to be better. The first step is to just do it. After you get better at it in general, you do deliberate practice. TLDR: Dont be afraid to read a book but know that there is no way to cure this any other way than taking action. This community (including myself) tends to get caught up in reading and understanding but without implement…
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:41 AM
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Ive always taken MGTOW to mean that youre free enough to do what you want when you want. I think its odd but if thats what you want do it. Do ask yourself why you want this though
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:37 AM
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Youtube is somewhat good for learning but you need to have deliberate practice. This channel is called Charisma Matrix and he has a big emphasis on tonality. Give it a look and see if thats what youre looking for https://www.youtube.com/user/CharismaMatrix
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:27 AM
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Thanks brother I appreciate the responses. I just wanna clarify, in the second paragraph its over right? Obvious exclusions like cheating in an LTR aside, a lie about something they did to take advantage of the situation/you. Is this a demotion thats permanent or potential to earn the trust back in your eyes. Also how would you deal with the large sigh you get from a scenario where it proves AWALT?
/r/askTRP13/12/17 04:15 AM
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What do you do following the confrontation? Lets say the next time you see her
/r/askTRP13/12/17 03:28 AM
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What does the red "1" mean next to your name? How would you handle the confrontation?
/r/askTRP13/12/17 02:10 AM
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How would that look in context?
/r/askTRP12/12/17 09:55 PM
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I work at a bank, so you arent allowed to go through your own profile. If an address needed to be updated or something along those lines you would have to get someone else to do it for you. Instead of updating her own information it appears that she updated her sisters type of account to one without fees
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:26 PM
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Someone at work said they wanted to update their profile and for obvious reasons you cant do it on your computer. Using my computer while I was there she changed her sisters profile. Ill have more details tomorrow but it seems like it was changed to have no fees. Realistically there will be no problems from this but the act itself worried me. Im also disappointed in myself for noticing pushiness but not doing anything prior to
/r/askTRP11/12/17 10:09 PM
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Theyre happy in their relationship. Notice how many profile pictures get changed quickly following a fight/breakup? If youre seeing an increase its possible that its because these people are older
/r/askTRP11/12/17 05:14 AM
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Ask her to hang out and see what happens. I remember some situations where a "friend" did something on someones phone and it was obviously that person looking back on it
/r/askTRP10/12/17 07:08 AM
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I think youre mixing up two different concepts. Not fighting and putting someone in their place are both about frame and not buying into someone elses. However, TRP shows that you dont want to engage in fights because what is to gain? TRP says dont let someone overstep their boundaries and if they do you must demonstrate that they are there.
/r/askTRP08/12/17 06:39 AM
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So hes been passed up on and he doesnt know yet. Ultimately what you do is your decision but if youre boy is struggling that much with women introduce him to TRP or at least the principles. Try to explain the situation like someone on here would for him
/r/askTRP06/12/17 08:29 PM
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Anybody got the video for this?
/r/TheRedPill03/12/17 08:03 AM
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I feel you OP, I have very little input but I feel the situation
/r/askTRP03/12/17 07:57 AM
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Quite often women are the ones who actually go to the doctors where men tend to try and stay away. This could be why. What is it that you think you have?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 07:53 AM
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Do you mean that she pretty much never makes the effort to contact you first?
/r/askTRP03/12/17 07:29 AM
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Remove sorry from your vocabulary all together I dont like that but I get why youd say that. OP for sure shouldnt say sorry but I think its more important to stress that sorry is for cases when he is not just for when something happens. I think its perfectly ok to apologize if youve fucked up
/r/askTRP03/12/17 07:16 AM
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The feeling happy after rejection is outcome independence, being happier that the action was taken is better then being happy of the outcome because you can only control one of those things
/r/TheRedPill02/12/17 09:50 PM
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Thats a very logical post, Im gonna put some thought into this. Thanks bro
/r/askTRP01/12/17 04:47 AM
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How long would you say your abstinence lasts? I just wanna give it a shot myself as Im running experiments on me
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:44 PM
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So you say you fap like once every weekish, then do you get more confident or depressed?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:36 PM
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So if I were to follow the no porn or the no fantasizing rule, what woud I even think of while jerking my dick?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:29 PM
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I did about a week the first time and this past time was about 2 weeks but I was starting to get anxious. Maybe Ill try 3-4 days if the urge comes up. Prior to this Id for sure get a nut out every day whether I was really horny or not
/r/askTRP30/11/17 08:28 PM
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I was gonna say not to just accept the statement, but what should OP do? Just leave it be and pretend like she didnt say it?
/r/askTRP30/11/17 12:16 AM
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I dont want to be a circle jerker but Im really starting to like your posts
/r/TheRedPill29/11/17 03:36 AM
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Women want titles. They are the ones who bring them up, not you. For this woman, enjoy where you are now. Thats all you can do
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:45 AM
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Ive spent a lot of time around Chads. They have problems too, they need to lift too, they need to practice too. Chad only games better because he has more experience but you can outwork Chad. When I see a Chad I sit back and observe the best I can, if Im friends with him I try to talk to him and learn that way as well. Chad isnt your rival, he is your teacher but he still has his own faults
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:44 AM
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Its gonna suck but you do nothing. Massive success is the best revenge, so keep improving yourself and eventually this guy will burn out. If people want to talk shit about you, its on them. This is actually a really good lesson in self esteem because your worth isnt defined by the opinions of others but defined by your opinion of yourself
/r/askTRP28/11/17 06:40 AM
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I can see it if there is a significant no contact period. For example if you met someone in HS but now finished college there is more than ample time for a change.
/r/askTRP27/11/17 05:16 AM
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Fair enough, I appreciate this reason
/r/askTRP27/11/17 04:00 AM
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Whys this MattyAnon's law now?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:41 AM
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You did fine, but dont you find it funny that she flaked on you and then said YOU could hit her up?
/r/askTRP27/11/17 02:06 AM
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This is about the 100th time I saw this posted by you and the first time Ive read it. Its about fucking time
/r/askTRP27/11/17 01:52 AM
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I appreciate that, it actually makes a lot of sense
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 07:17 PM
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Youre already overanalyzing, youre free to do what you want. Dont let her have a hold over you. You can answer or not answer, your ex does not own you
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:19 AM
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So you didnt talk to her all day because you were busy. Then you guys skyped and she actively ignored you while you were doing that? You withdraw attention, so yes leaving was right.
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:15 AM
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You can try again, its not an ideal situation. Whatever the answer if for this you gotta live with it though
/r/askTRP26/11/17 02:04 AM
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"Ok let me know when youre free" Then you walk away and assume you hear nothing from her ever again
/r/askTRP26/11/17 01:57 AM
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I as a glutton for punishment for years doing the same thing youre describing. Girl after girl was the same thing and nobody was interested in me or if they were I was too dumb/scared to act on it. You dont value yourself at the moment. If you did you wouldnt waste time on a girl that you had a date with who dumped you. Time is the most valuable thing in the world and youre spending your time on someone who would rather spend their time with someone else. Take your time and spend it on something…
/r/TheRedPill26/11/17 01:00 AM
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Sorry brother, it got buried on my feed. You gotta isolate guy B whether that means you and A set plans and just do them regardless of what B/C want or you can win over C. You for sure cant start shitting on guy B because thats how he gets power through C. If all of a sudden you and A are doing shit together that C kinda wants to do and B doesnt want to do that puts him out and he can make his decision to join or not. For your example you and A could have just seen Murder and let those two decid…
/r/askTRP26/11/17 12:33 AM
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Thank you, I just need to train that response to all not just those in my age bracket
/r/askTRP25/11/17 05:41 PM
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I honestly view it as he being genuine but those responses are bad in that it kills the momentum of the conversation but good in the sense to learn from
/r/askTRP25/11/17 05:40 PM
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Im about to shit where I eat not with a 60+ year old woman though, that being said Im only working here for the next 3-6 months
/r/askTRP25/11/17 05:38 PM
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I recently was asked by an older lady at work as well if I have a gf. So I answered what I thought was nonchalantly and said no. This was followed up with "Dont worry itll happen soon" I knew immediately I had said the wrong thing but I still dont know what to respond to that with. We were having just a normal conversation up until that point
/r/askTRP25/11/17 06:23 AM
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Is there a way to elabourate on the loving as a daughter part?
/r/TheRedPill25/11/17 05:33 AM
1

Its very unlikely that youre only burning 450cal from running 5km. The rule of thumb in the academic circle is 1cal/kg bodyweight for every km walked. So if you weigh 100kg and walk 5km (not treadmill) youll end up burning somewhere in the range of 500cal. Thats not 100% accurate either as fatmass/musclemass make a difference and general shape. Your best bet for measuring cals burned is using a your heart rate in an equation based on your own body which a HR monitor would do for you. But I do ag…
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:48 AM
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Came to say just about that, I would personally add that you should take in the amount of protein for the weight you'd like to be within reason of course. If a guy is weighing in at 180lbs and wants to be 190lbs he should err on the side of 190-200g/d
/r/askTRP25/11/17 03:40 AM
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You tell her youre not interested in a relationship and after that its up to her to choose what she wants
/r/askTRP24/11/17 06:53 AM
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I personally turned mine off as soon as I could because I dont like texting usually. But I did put it on for a brief time and noticed exactly what you did, I sat there waiting for a response after seeing it was read just losing my shit and anticipating. The problem wasnt that I didnt know that I was being played, because I was very aware of it but I allowed it to control me. There have been a couple times where I just turned my phone off or left it somewhere I wasnt. Ultimately you just have to …
/r/TheRedPill24/11/17 05:51 AM
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Mines ok with my mother but the real problem is that my dads a weak man so my mom has been in her masculine. My dad just really DGAF anymore, doesnt want to do anything, hates people in general and hes become bitter. Its a shame because I want him to thrive but this dynamic has led to many issues in my life. Its actually weird, as I type this my dad was starting to be emotional and bringing up things from childhood that he appreciated.
/r/askTRP24/11/17 01:15 AM
1

You do dumbells and you work to the weakest side, so if you only do 20s for 6 with the left but can do 8 with the right you only do 6
/r/askTRP24/11/17 01:04 AM
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Youre afraid of success and the only cure for fear is to attack it
/r/askTRP23/11/17 10:55 PM
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The reason Im asking is because it sounds like youve done something to ruin attraction and frankly it sounds like youre chasing. Part of that could be contacting too frequently, asking out too frequently (especially if you get turned down), longer time between texts.
/r/askTRP23/11/17 04:03 AM
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If you are blind to these hints, I suggest you read and watch youtube videos to learn what they are. We need more details but if multiple girls are inviting you over it could be a bunch of things
/r/seduction23/11/17 04:01 AM
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Im proud of you for getting out when you did. I know plenty of guys who just keep going with it until it eventually blows up
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:43 AM
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What did she do?
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:30 AM
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If you need to be professional be professional, if she wants to talk and changes the topic bring her back to the topic. Dont be a dick but you gotta show her its all business
/r/askTRP23/11/17 03:15 AM
1

How often are you talking to them and how often are you sleeping with them?
/r/askTRP23/11/17 02:11 AM
1

You need to break it down further, youre thinking general but you cant think general until youve looked at specifics for this. Break this task down to a very face value thing. For instance I used to be scared that my penis was too small. I started showering with my football team and then started showering at the gym. Think in terms of this, what are some fears?
/r/askTRP23/11/17 02:10 AM
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What do you think is gonna happen if she cant do better though?
/r/TheRedPill23/11/17 01:29 AM
1

Confidence is merely the feeling like you can complete a task. Youre lacking this in general, so generally you feel that you cant overcome things. What scares you? Public places, pretty women, public speaking, etc. Make a list and whatever scares you, and you need to do exactly that. Do it so many times that youre not as scared and then finally not scared at all and if you do this enough youll develop a sense of worth and confidence in general. Start with a small one while only focusing on that …
/r/askTRP23/11/17 12:59 AM
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Its a very logical question, with an illogical answer. She sees you out having fun with friends and shes upset that she hasnt found someone better or as good as you. Emotions take over and the resentment comes out and finally she pursues you but youre unwavering. The insults an be looked at as bringing you down to her level but I think shes just salty. Take a look at a guy whos weak and lost control to a woman because its the same. He tries to raise his status by over complimenting women (while …
/r/askTRP23/11/17 12:44 AM
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Its looking like a fairly decent situation for you. But it is better to strike while the irons hot with women. It sounds like youre pretty new to this whole thing, which is ok. Your goal isnt to make this perfect but to do it. What Im saying is that your action in the situation should be the goal and not the outcome. So dont be afraid to fuck it all up
/r/askTRP23/11/17 12:30 AM
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NO! The only possible outcome from this is she never talks to you again and/or you become the weird guy at work. This is already a sensitive area being at work and women dont deal well if your corner them. If you want any chance you will stop chasing. Ask her out again in one week, if she says no you can put the ball in her court and leave it at that. In the meantime dont ignore her at work or her texts. Say hi, ask how she is but you have work to do if it lingers
/r/askTRP23/11/17 12:23 AM
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Women know all about this kinda stuff, if its there she will see it
/r/askTRP22/11/17 11:54 PM
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The thing is that if you dont act you never really know whats to happen so you can live in your head forever as marrying and having kids with multiple women/or banging women while never getting rejected. The problem is that you never progress as a man so you need to do something about it and make things into a reality
/r/askTRP22/11/17 11:52 PM
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This, shes not pursuing so you have to pick up some slack so she knows youre interested. Its a test in a sense. Dont go overboard, she wants a bit of attention not to be smothered
/r/askTRP22/11/17 09:19 PM
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This. She unilaterally made the decision to break up with you, you dont owe her shit. When she found out you knew that she got mad
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:57 PM
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So you dont want to talk to her, correct? Then why reply? Why worry about her birthday? Be congruent with what you want. If you want to talk to her again go ahead but if not then dont
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:36 PM
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I dont know any of those names you mentioned. Real Social Dynamics (RSD) has some size to them. If youre looking for a whole package guy check out Coach Corey Wayne. He differs from TRP but the core principles are there which I personally believe is the point of all this
/r/askTRP22/11/17 08:22 PM
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"Bro, if youre over here why are you over there?" Dudes a dick, dont aggravate the situation and dont bitch about people being idiots either
/r/TheRedPill22/11/17 04:25 AM
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You have to ask yourself if you ever want to speak with her again. If not then you can just ghost
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:13 AM
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Plan things out in full before presenting to the group tends to help. Saying "Boys lets hit up a bar tonight" is open to "Lets go to this one" instead of "Boys, insert bar name tonight. Ill see your at my place at 8 for pre's" Sometimes the call out is necessary, some people will ignore it and some will still try to push but you gotta stand firm. Possibly the most effective is to get the group against him, this could be on they fly or pre planned. If 6 guys wanna do one thing and one is throwing…
/r/askTRP22/11/17 04:04 AM
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If hes a control freak hes gonna make a lot of the plans to begin with. Make plans, if he doesnt want to go he doesnt have to
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:32 AM
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You said to block him, that is all you can do
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:28 AM
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This could be a case of "Is he single/Does he have a GF now?" Basically, relax and let this play out, worst case scenario she loses interest and then you keep on keepin on
/r/askTRP22/11/17 02:26 AM
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Obviously you want to so Im not gonna say dont especially if you are certain he has no chance. You need to make that decision but I offer you an alternative, actively help him. Not necessarily with this girl but each him and support your brother in the long run
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:39 AM
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Id say she probably said she wasnt interested. If this guy is as whipped as he sounds and she told him that she was into him he would probably have just gotten depressed
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:17 AM
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They are weird if you look at them like men,but they are girls and in your situation the girl acted like a girl Id like to point out that this used to make no sense to me, but now its in plain English. But fantastic analogy regarding the hens as well
/r/askTRP22/11/17 01:14 AM
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Youre in a shit situation, just gotta play the game unfortunately
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:45 PM
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Shes attacking your ego by calling you a coward. You did ok, you could have tried saying "cool" and leaving it at that. I dont believe what you did was cowardly, she tried to force you into a position you clearly dont want to be in. I think it would have been better had you responded though
/r/askTRP19/11/17 09:09 PM
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Think of it as a ping. A woman will ping you less the more masculine you are, but if you start to lose it she will ping you more often as a chance to show her youre still masculine. You had a moment of weakness and let your emotions get the better of you. Thats all this was. You can be aware of a few pings in your future but overall its more important that you recalibrate your mindset. One bad move doesnt make or break something unless they are on the fence to begin with. Since this is your LTR …
/r/askTRP19/11/17 04:45 AM
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Not OP but, youre thinking in a absolute which is problem with some people here. Youre a person not a robot, youre allowed to have feelings and feel them but the idea is to make sure they dont get the best of you. A woman may want you to be angry or jealous for various reasons, it shows you care but its a matter of when and how much you show
/r/askTRP19/11/17 01:11 AM
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Look, theres women out there that have no clue what they are doing as well. It would be so easy for them to get laid by comparison though. They may also see themselves as too high value for everybody, like a disney princess
/r/askTRP18/11/17 07:43 PM
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You do what you want, dont let her bad mood change your good mood
/r/askTRP18/11/17 02:42 AM
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Think about what you just said, if you dont want to talk to her anymore why would you reply?
/r/askTRP18/11/17 12:25 AM
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Youre overthinking this. Just tell her what the rules are and why do you care if she left on time?
/r/askTRP18/11/17 12:24 AM
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Worrying about someones count goes against TRPs "Shes not yours its only your turn" rule. End of the day dont worry about counts, you cant change them. If you get anxious about it you can change your frame by saying "all those guys were just practice so she could be better for me". Its also a weak mindset because youre comparing
/r/askTRP18/11/17 12:15 AM
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Set an arbitrary rule like "Ill count to 5 and when I reach 5 I will do it", he number can be whatever you want but the shorter the better to train yourself to do something because the longer you wait the more time you have to talk yourself out of it
/r/askTRP18/11/17 12:09 AM
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How were you treating her at the time? Very lovingly or cold and distant?
/r/askTRP18/11/17 12:05 AM
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You need to come to terms with your body as it is, it really is unfortunate and probably not the answer you wanted to hear but its about owning it. Do something that shows it off, buy some tanks for the gym or go swimming and practice by not wearing a shirt at home. Things like this will allow you to be more comfortable in social settings and prepare you for not worrying about it in the presence of women.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:49 PM
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Yes, its a pretty good sign she wants you to come up and talk to her. It doesnt mean youre gonna bang or even get the number but it is an invitation.
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:46 PM
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Its being too distant and not emotional enough, basically what Im saying is that you need to calibrate, her freak out is her way of showing you that you should do that (although not all freak outs show this). In this case its too much push not enough pull. She outright states she has no clue what you want with her which is why Id say its a calibration issue
/r/askTRP17/11/17 05:31 PM
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I dont personally see the importance, actions overshadow words in almost all scenarios. From my own experience anytime someone is on the fence and things arent confirmed its a drawn out no. We will see tomorrow, but you can try setting a date in the future for a Wed/Thurs and see if there is compliance. I do hope it works out for you brother, keep me updated
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:57 AM
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Your goal isnt to have a good no fap streak, gym session, diet or anything like that. Your goal is to take positive action. The idea is to be better today than you were yesterday and the fact is that sometimes this wont happen. The reason I say positive action is because some small positive action leads to an overall big positive action and improvement. Personal improvement is a grind and you must treat it so
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:50 AM
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Be friendly to all, but analyze behaviours and make mental notes for yourself. There will be certain people who are gonna be asshats immediately and some that will be in the future and there will also be good people. Stay out of the shit if it doesnt involve you, your opinions on gender, opinion, trp and anything that can cause waves are your own and its up to you to share them if you choose
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:42 AM
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Not the other guy, but if she didnt say yes initially the date is not on (she is leaving you waiting on her). I would assume it as a no, and if she tells you prior to that time tomorrow you tell her you made other plans. You can either offer another time to do another activity then or in a week or so but you must make a definite date. It appears that this particular woman is using a similar tactic to giving a number out with no intention of answering because it prevents a possible blow up in per…
/r/askTRP17/11/17 04:34 AM
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If youre getting that insecure of a reaction from a push youre being a cold fish at the moment. She could also really be on her period and hyper emotional because of it as well. Id say to open her up and then act like shes just being silly by giving a little reassurance (pull)
/r/askTRP17/11/17 03:01 AM
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My old football coach used to say "Dont fuck up, but if you do go 100 miles an hour". Our case was shooting the wrong gap, but even if you hit the wrong one you can still make a play by going hard
/r/TheRedPill17/11/17 12:38 AM
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Make her dress up as the equipment manager and have her deflate your balls
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:04 PM
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I get what youre saying in terms of habit forming but its rather aggressive. If this guy is looking for advice he lacks the knowledge and will need to learn in that specific area to figure out which advice is right. I argue that a strong man listens and follows the applicable advice which upon following it is a sign of respect
/r/TheRedPill16/11/17 03:21 AM
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Damn good post, not gonna lie though I had to think what choling was
/r/askTRP16/11/17 02:46 AM
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Read up on stoicism, meditation and appreciation. I dont really have specific books because I did a lot of my learning from various sources including the internet at large. Anxiety is about fear based in the past and the future but you cant change the past and the only way to shape the future it to act in the now. If you learn that the anxiety will dissipate.
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:14 AM
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You are the Bob Ross of words for this post
/r/askTRP14/11/17 02:02 AM
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Its a legit thing that happened, it was done intentionally with a loud voice yet emotion less look on her face. It was weird
/r/askTRP12/11/17 09:41 PM
3

If you have a high fat mass and high muscle mass diet would be the logical fix but what would you suggest in terms of things to eat and things to stay away from?
/r/TheRedPill12/11/17 06:19 AM
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/u/Zephandrypus I have no clue what youre saying, is there anyway to explain this in different words?
/r/seduction18/12/16 06:06 AM
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After the second time where we fucked she started giving me the "I am not that type for anonymous affairs"-speech via text, after playing the ice-princess for a couple of days, and when I said her that I haven't been able to read any signals from her, that she wanted something else I got "Well. I am usually not the one signalizing." Pretty telling. She is always trying to stay a little bit distant, but her body speaks a different language. Can you elaborate on this? Im a little confused by what …
/r/TheRedPill12/12/16 11:11 AM
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Why would this restart at the age of 30?
/r/seduction06/12/16 08:32 AM
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It's possible that he might be a little anxious or insecure about dating and be unwilling to believe you could be interested in him and that you flirt like you do with everyone that doesn't repulse you /u/Cucumbergirl108 To me this could very much be a reality, I am/have been that guy. I remember in HS I was sitting on a girls bed with her mentioning that nobody would be home for a few hours under the guise of "looking at her pets". Unfortunately you might have to be the one to be brave and actu…
/r/seduction03/12/16 10:56 PM
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Dont sweat it OP, take her word for it. Its good you tried and dont get discouraged, you should keep practicing
/r/seduction02/12/16 10:11 PM
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OP, if you dont want to do that you can sit on that side of the lecture hall higher up and post up for a couple extra seconds until she matches pace with you and you guys leave together
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:40 AM
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It's like I proved to myself my own fears / insecurities are valid. Its about how you look at the situation. Right now youre upset by it, so you have this negative outlook based on how you performed. Switch your thoughts by telling yourself "I had a really good date with her, lets have another good date with someone else". Dont be outcome dependent, think of the fact you took a chance and had a good time. IMO the stuff you learn here is two things, Inner game and how to act. Inner game isnt mind…
/r/seduction30/11/16 08:21 AM
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Im pretty new to seddit but it sounds like she backed out for whatever reason. Be cordial and maybe she will contact you later but to me it sounds like you need to move to another
/r/seduction25/11/16 09:31 AM
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With as in dating? If you mean just with her at the moment, would this potentially bolster your chances with the one youre with?
/r/seduction25/11/16 06:53 AM
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I think her asking you to drinks may have been your chance to hook up. I may be off here but when you told her you didnt want a relationship since shes leaving she may have been inviting you out for a few drinks to get a little loose. Its up to you what you do here but why not ask her for drinks and try to escalate from there? I assume shes going to return from travelling at some point in the next few months, maybe a relationship is on the table then.
/r/seduction25/11/16 04:08 AM
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Oh geez, I never thought of that... Im sure people are aware of this on some level, but how do you get there is the question
/r/seduction25/11/16 03:50 AM
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Youre still young in the game bro. I know it doesnt make sense now but the fact that you moved forward with actions towards what you want is empowering. I get how you feel but you need to push forward with others in the future, take your time for now but dont take more than a week. Right now she brings you no potential value if that makes sense to you. She doesnt want your company but someone else will
/r/seduction24/11/16 02:29 AM
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I assume you're young? Its gonna happen a lot, you need to find your own ways to deal with it, hide her on social media (dont delete but hide). Out of sight, out of mind
/r/seduction24/11/16 02:19 AM
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Not OP but if Im not able to move to a sexual level what do you suggest?
/r/seduction19/11/16 06:28 AM
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