Been reading on this sub for almost a year now. Been lifting and improving myself. Sometimes I think I do read too much and seeing how everyone has different opinions it can get confusing.

I started plating LTR back in october 2017 along with 3 other chicks. I kept a decent frame the whole time. She brought up the ltr talk 6 months in(not me as it should be according to trp). She's a smart chick in med school. Goes to church. Has a strong father figure. Parents are still together. Does everything I tell her to do. I don't mate guard. I told her she can do whatever she wants to do (not sure if this was correct or not but I believe a woman will cheat if she wants to, no matter what you say). Sometimes I feel like I have a difficult time showing comfort because of all this alpha shit and don't want to lose frame. I don't talk about feelings. She's calls me mysterious. Still keeping texts to a minimum. I distance myself sometimes.

Last week she sends me a Snapchat of her boobs and for some reason it got me thinking that she could've sent that to another guy as well. I got up and went to the gym and took it out on some weights. A day or two go by. She comes over. We are laying in bed watching tv. She felt I was being cold to her. Barely any contact so she gets up and throws a little tantrum. I told her to get back in bed. And she does. (I feel like I broke frame there..I should've just let her storm out and kept the idgaf attitude instead of telling her to come back to bed). So this last Saturday she asks me what I was getting into. I'm assuming she wanted to see me. But I was on my way to Atlantic City with my friend. She said ok have fun. She then snapped me a pic of a beer she was having. I guess to kinda show me that she can also go out and do her own thing. To just throw it in my face in a way. I obviously ignore that. We get home really late from AC. On Sunday I go on Instagram and see some girl I used to fuck got me a gift for my car. She tagged me in a pic of it. I hit like. I'm assuming ltr saw this and felt some jealousy. On Monday we were both being distant. I'm not sure if this is due to lack of comfort or she's testing me and wants me to back down and give her attention. Do I need to put her in her place and set some boundaries ? Do I go on about my day and play the dread game until she gives in while giving her no attention. Today Tuesday. She had finals. I sent her a text asking how it went. Kept the convo short. I then sent her a random snap. She ignores it (i know for a fact bc of the stupid snap score going up) but anyway is this a shit test? And when do shit tests become disrespectful ? Do I soft next?