TheRedArchive

~ archived since 2018 ~

FuckboyAWALT Archive

View 3 posts and 1,795 comments by FuckboyAWALT on TheRedPill subreddit and various other subreddits related to The Red Pill community.
Search in:
In subreddits:
More
Filter by year/month:
Showing the 1,000 most recent of 1,795 comments.
Upvotes Comment on Subreddit Date (UTC)
3

Your problem is that your happiness is dependent on external validation. On the first look your life looks good however just on the surface. There is no deeper meaning aka fulfillment. You have no mission/purpose which makes you coast through life without any direction. Turn off your phone and sit down for an hour thinking about what you really want in life. Once you know what you really want in life, write that down. In Addition start meditating and Wim Hof excercises.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:32 PM
2

Solid Post with great advice! Only thing I want to add is: When you have a specific goal for instance like becoming Arnold Schwarzenegger or the new Elon Musk and you are about to procrastinate / skip something that would help you to achieve the goal / are unmotivated ask yourself the following: What would ‚Person XYZ‘ do in this situation? (Would he binge watch the new Netflix series or hit the gym / learn to code?) Helped me a lot to resist the easy dopamine hits.
/r/TheRedPill10/01/21 12:17 PM
6

They have no time to look for a better guy if they are busy trying to keep you.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:52 PM
8

The time of the year, you pedestalize her and become her bitch.
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:04 PM
9

Send her flowers and new air pods. After that, like every picture of her on Instagram and keep texting ‚good morning‘ and ‚good night‘ for the next 730 days. You might win her and your air pods back!
/r/askTRP29/12/20 11:02 PM
6

‚Hey babe, I really like you and the way how things are going however I also need some time for myself, projects and friends.‘ She either accepts it or not. BTW 2-3 days a week is A LOT. However that’s just my opinion. If you don’t want to move in with her tell her. You both seem to want different things. If she’s rly into you + you are a high value man, she will give up her needs / wishes just to be with you.
/r/askTRP23/12/20 01:22 PM
9

Solid comment. Listen to this guy.
/r/askTRP22/12/20 02:52 PM
9

Read the sidebar. Read it again. Vet girls at least 3-4 months before you even think about committing to her. If you haven’t fucked her / don’t get the sex you want she has no right to be your girlfriend. Stop giving ultimatums and stop talking so much, just hard next those stupid whores if they don’t behave. Hit the gym / work on your physique.
/r/askTRP21/12/20 10:07 PM
23

I don’t know your relationship with your parents. But I would go like this: Tell your parents you are having a girl / friend coming over. Introduce her to your parents. ‚Hey this is Lisa. We are going to my room, if you need something, just text me.‘ The reason why you tell your parents they ‚should text you‘ when Lisa is already there and not before is, that she hears it and feels save that your parents aren’t storming in the room but will text you before.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 12:16 PM
60

No offense but you are insecure as fuck. If you think she is cheating / lost interest because she isn’t replying immediately, you have a long way to go. Yes, it can be a sign of disinterest and loss of attraction however only if that pattern repeats over a period of time which is not <24h + other changes in behavior. That’s when it becomes alarming. Soft next is overkill. Don’t double text. Balls in her court. Chill out. Get busy yourself and give her the time to reply. Maybe she is giving anal …
/r/askTRP24/10/20 10:57 AM
17

If you don’t care about your Job, go for it. Firstly, your coworkers will know sooner or later which labels you as ‚the guy that hunts for coworkers‘. Secondly she’s in a relationship. If her boyfriends finds out, and he will, you don’t know if she’s playing the ‚my coworker raped me‘ card, just to salvage her relationship and come off as innocent. Because suddenly she loves him again. Or he tries to ruin your life because you fucked his girlfriend. You will not only lose your job, you might eve…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 08:32 PM
1

Some through cold approach, some through shootings, some through parties and social events. And then there are also some girls through tinder. However those are reserved for dry spells.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 12:08 PM
4

I don’t like the classic coffe/dinner date. In my opinion it’s low value and there are so many more things you can do that are more fun. I prefer hiking, sundowners at some cool spots with a bottle of vine, Roadtrips, walk in the park, driving to a lake, gin/vine tasting or cooking class, dinner at your or her place while cooking something together (super good for kino and leading etc), art gallery, spa, SUP / watersports, ... To some guys this might seem like a big investment for first dates ho…
/r/askTRP02/10/20 09:32 AM
4

If you are putting her on a pedestal. Treat her like every other human. Don’t treat her special. Furthermore don’t flex with your money or car. If she compliments your car just play it down like ‚yeah it’s cool‘ and change topic. If she asks what your profession is tell her that you are a stripper or something similar cocky funny. AA/BB has nothing to do with money. It’s all about you.
/r/askTRP02/10/20 08:51 AM
3

My first advice is to work on your formatting skills.
/r/askTRP24/09/20 03:09 PM
0

Don’t. Text. That. Go with something like ‚Amanda asked me out for tomorrow so I need to know if you’re up or not.‘
/r/askTRP16/09/20 01:47 PM
43

Keep fucking her.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:56 PM
44

The day comes when a girl / plate breaks. Your game, value and behavior determines the expiration date. It’s easier to move onto the next one than fixing the broken one. Don’t try to win her back.
/r/askTRP15/09/20 07:51 PM
13

Balls in her court. If she’s still attracted to you, she will reschedule if not who cares find another girl. However don’t double text or push for an answer. Be indifferent. HER LOSS.
/r/askTRP14/09/20 01:06 PM
8

Seems like you are getting plated by your LTR. You are operating in her frame. If she flakes 1 time, okay. As long as she reschedules. However it’s not only that she’s perma flaking. She’s canceling plans because she is hanging out with friends or has to do homework? If a girl is interested in you, boy will she skip homework or ditch her friends just to suck your dick. It seems like she is not respecting you and your time. You are not her boyfriend, you are her fill-in fuck.
/r/askTRP03/09/20 08:54 PM
26

Hang tight and observe. She hasn’t done anything wrong yet. Enjoy your time as long as it lasts and stop worrying.
/r/askTRP29/08/20 06:21 PM
3

Well. You can’t change your genetics but you can maximize your potential. Hit the gym. Get in shape. If you don’t have the strength to lift her up / throw her around: Tell / command her to -Put off your pants -To get to the floor -To move her ass up, more up, now take my dick and put it in -Look me in the eyes when I’m fucking you. When she stops looking in your eyes stop fucking her and repeat. ... You won’t believe how much they love it when you are in charge. If you don’t have the physical st…
/r/askTRP27/08/20 07:03 AM
140

Read sex god method. It’s more about the emotional thing than the physical. You are the man. You lead. You don’t ask her if she can suck your dick. You either tell her: suck my dick. Or you lead her head towards your cock. Basically you want to treat her like a peace of meat. Throw her around in bed. Switch positions. Pick her up and fuck her in the kitchen / on the floor / infront of a window. Get some handcuffs. Slightly choke her (closer to the chin than throat). Slap her ass. Pull her hair. …
/r/askTRP26/08/20 11:25 AM
5

Who cares. She might have visited her hometown to see her ex. Maybe she discovered she’s a transgender and wants to become a man. Don’t delete her number. When you bump into her at the gym, be firm and hold conversations to a minimum. If she’s that flaky she might change her view in the next 12 hours. Just keep her. She will hit you up one day. If so, cool. If not, cool.
/r/askTRP26/08/20 09:55 AM
127

Competition nowadays is a joke. Just look around you and observe your environment. White knights, soy boys, social media / game addicts, emotional tampons all wandering around trying to fill their inner void caused by a lack of identity and a purpose. To be honest on one side I feel bad for them. On the other hand more pussy for us. This is the outcome of 0 self discipline, of taking the route with least resistance over and over again. Looking for that fast dopamine rush that requires no effort.…
/r/askTRP25/08/20 07:37 PM
1

This. Stay with parents and save your 7k or invest some of it. Furthermore don’t try too much all at once and expect to change overnight. Ramp your new habits slowly up. It takes between 21-200+ days until your habits become a routine. Learn a new language like Spanish. Read books like how to win friends and influence people. It’s a game changer for real.
/r/askTRP16/08/20 09:04 AM
6

You think a female bird would mate with a bird that lost his feathers? Just kidding. It depends on several factors and there are enough girls out there that like bald guys. Especially when they are jacked.
/r/askTRP15/08/20 11:51 AM
10

Never tell a girl you want to fuck that you are a virgin. Never justify anything when you get rejected. It was nothing more than a shit test to see if you crumble when she isn’t kissing you at the first attempt. You should have kept trying. If she is rejecting you the 3rd time, send her home.
/r/askTRP14/08/20 11:22 AM
4

This.
/r/askTRP11/08/20 09:02 AM
14

Learn coding. Start investing now. Like 10-50$ a month. Depends on how much you can invest every month. ETF‘s. Whenever you are about to buy something, reflect if you really need it. If you don’t buy it, you just made some money and can invest that amount into your ETF / savings account. I use that for food delivery etc.
/r/askTRP08/08/20 06:21 AM
13

There is no trend and there will be no trend like that. Yes girls like betas, but not for intimate things. They use them as their emotional tampons, providers or for free and easy validation. Do they get sex? Yes. Sometimes even betas are allowed to fuck a girl. Do they get the sex Alphas get? No. There is a reason it’s called AF / BB.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:55 AM
10

Some girls like giving head, some don’t. If a girl doesn’t like giving head, replace her. It’s not worth the effort.
/r/askTRP07/07/20 10:49 AM
6

Looks are definitely not everything to a woman. However it helps you to appear on their radar and makes it easier to initiate a conversation. But if your game is shit, you might get some ‚lucky lays‘ because your shredded / handsome, however no girl will come around for round two. I would say the ultimate WET-Formula is: Social Status (>) + Frame / Game (>) + Preselection (>) + Looks (>) + Money That’s what I experienced. Now go and hit the gym and approach 5 women on the way.
/r/askTRP02/06/20 07:09 AM
17

Let someone else take pictures of you Outdoor background / Activity If you want to have shirtless pictures, combine it with plausible deniability You are not ugly so use that to your advantage and don’t waste your potential by having blurry pictures with a boring background.
/r/askTRP01/04/20 11:52 AM
17

She either found someone better or isn’t that attached to you. Are you sure that you aren’t her plate?
/r/askTRP24/02/20 04:05 PM
11

First of all if you can’t deal with the past of a girl do not promote her. Furthermore soft nexting a girl because she had 1 ONS is pretty overkill imo. She behaved good and gave you no real reason to punish her. She might have been a bit pushy towards becoming exclusive however that’s the strategy of women to lock down a high value male. Can’t be mad at water for being wet. Lastly you need to decide if you enjoy her company and the value she brings into your life or not. However keep in mind th…
/r/askTRP20/02/20 02:38 PM
11

What the fuck. Stop whining like a little bitch. You tried and failed. Don’t overthink that shit. Could be ASD/LMR, could be because she didn’t hit more than 100 likes on her recent insta post, could be because she had diarrhea that day, who the fuck cares. Game is still on. Some girls just don’t fuck on the first date. Take her out 1-2 more times, if she’s still stringing you along, next. I mean work on your mental. A random girl that rejected your advances made you feel like a worthless piece …
/r/askTRP15/02/20 08:39 AM
-1

She found someone better. Do you think she would forget to / not respond to a famous DJ?
/r/askTRP07/02/20 05:07 PM
5

Have you fucked her yet? Will she visit your town soon? Do you have other girls you are fucking? If you can answer any question with ‚no‘ you got oneitis and should stop wasting time and thoughts on a girl you haven’t fucked and will not fuck. Why do you even have time to ask yourself why that girl is not responding?
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:59 PM
4

You should definitely buy her some flowers, pralines and massage her feet when she’s on her special week. Don’t treat her different. What would you do with a plate that’s a headache? Right, you would reduce time spent with her. Same goes for your gf. She either learns to control her emotions which you reward with attention etc. or she doesn’t and you avoid her during that time.
/r/askTRP06/02/20 12:08 PM
21

As all women, she wants a man with options.
/r/askTRP03/02/20 09:49 PM
3

12 Levels of dread is all you need.
/r/askTRP01/02/20 09:06 AM
1

If you like your drinks and food served with her saliva or other trash definitely keep going there.
/r/askTRP31/01/20 12:54 PM
7

Two options: Option 1: You follow the Disney dream and get engaged. Have a house, dog and a family car. Sex once a month but who cares right? You are married and if she is not feeling it, she’s not feeling. It’s your job as a husband to accept that. Instead of demanding sex, you should give her a massage and worship her more, because she is a w0mYyn! To conclude, you will castrate yourself and always chase the illusion that you need to make her happy. However she will never be satisfied. Option …
/r/askTRP30/01/20 03:56 PM
3

Wouldn’t go directly to your boss especially not if he’s an SJW in an shining armor. Do you have any colleagues that you can trust? Have they experienced the same? Can you collect evidence? If that’s not the case, contact HR.
/r/askTRP26/01/20 02:06 PM
1

Watch her actions not her words. She is clearly trying to guilt trap you into some beta shit. Just hit her up and tell her to join you at something you were gonna do anyways/wanted to do.
/r/askTRP25/01/20 06:38 AM
2

‚This isn’t working out for me however we had a cool time, bye‘ No need to explain yourself ever.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 09:34 PM
8

You spelled ‚ex-LTR‘ wrong. Title should be ‚ex-LTR‘ caused drama the other day. After that, change your name to doormat. Because that’s what you are right now. She’s crying over losing another guy and you make up with her? You just reinforced trash toxic behavior. Have some self-respect. Look in the mirror and decide if you are the man/doormat you want to be. Punish bad behavior, reward good/desired behavior.
/r/askTRP24/01/20 07:19 AM
0

You can’t just all in. Start with easy things. Once you implemented them, add another more difficult habit. Usually it takes 21 days to implement new behavior however some take longer, some take less. Go with 1-2 at a time.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 04:21 PM
4

-Hit the gym. -Learn a language/an instrument. -Start a new habit like meditating. -Learn 3 new recipes that will make any pussy wet and your stomach full. -Read -Learn to code — To fun: Idk where you live and what you are allowed to do with 16 years. However we used to throw parties and play Beerpong, chat with girls and tried to fuck them. Was pretty fun. -Start watersports -Travel -Approach 30 girls -Go hiking (preferably with a girl) -Bowling -Pool -Get some rest in a spa -watch a cool movie…
/r/askTRP23/01/20 10:15 AM
11

Come back in 6 months.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 07:00 PM
1

She’s a ticking time bomb. You decide whether you want to be in detonation radius or not.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 03:56 PM
2

Demote to plate ASAP.
/r/askTRP22/01/20 01:29 PM
7

I continue making out. Starting to touch her thighs again. Then kiss her neck and intensify the touch on the thighs. Slowly move up. She rejects. Try again. When she’s rejecting you more than 3 times, leave.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:11 PM
12

Escalation ladder. If she isn’t rejecting your advances, jump to the next level of escalation. If she’s turning you down, go back 2 levels and try again. If you’re hardstuck, leave / tell her to go.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 07:28 PM
3

Observe. Sometimes they just don’t feel it / mood / ill / ... One time is okay however if it happens more often, something is up.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:18 AM
16

They want closure. it shows you don’t need them and are able to walk away which automatically signals ‚he must have options‘ = high smv. However she needs to be invested and you need to have held frame. A girl couldn’t care less about a low smv soy boy that blocks her.
/r/askTRP21/01/20 09:12 AM
2

This. Also when it comes to dating. Don’t treat her like a princess and she will be your princess.
/r/askTRP17/01/20 10:16 AM
2

Insecurity. They constantly think: My tits are too small. Every girl has bigger tits than me. Give those small tits some love, they will love it. Furthermore it’s the easiest way to escalate to sex, at least that’s what I experienced.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 04:51 PM
1

Just adding that girls with smaller tits often have a complex. If you worship her tits, suck it, bite it, tell her while fucking that you love her tits, boy will she come fast.
/r/askTRP25/12/19 03:33 PM
15

Well show her subtly that if she’s fucking other dudes you lose interest. Girls prefer sharing a high value man over having an exclusive low value man. If you are a catch, eating the cake and having it too is possible.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 12:22 PM
38

Get over your ego. It’s just sex. Wrap it up and you should be fine.
/r/askTRP10/12/19 11:51 AM
1

I’m sure nothing is wrong with your T. You don’t get hard because you have performance anxiety. Focus on your pleasure not on trying to make her cum. Treat her like a piece of meat. She’ll love it.
/r/askTRP06/12/19 11:24 AM
3

Have a good time. She will notice you aren’t affected by her absence especially when you meet other girls. When she hits you up, tell her to join you (at something you wanted to do anyways, so if she flakes it’s no loss).
/r/askTRP04/12/19 10:17 AM
-9

Give him thirty dollar and tell him to get some fancy cocktails (those take usually some time). Use his absence to game the girl and make him the 3rd wheel. If that doesn’t work make him drunk as fuck so he gets kicked out of the bar. Edit: If he’s questioning why he should get the drinks, tell him it’s just the first round. And you will get the second.
/r/askTRP01/12/19 11:07 AM
4

That’s why I said: I don’t know your girl. If she’s behaving all right with strangers, no need to worry about her. — Just make sure the next time something like this happens, she excuses herself to the guy. Because for me it’s disrespectful as fuck when I am sitting next to my ltr and a ‘friend’/guy sits down next to her, puts his arm around her and she is doing nothing. I would rather prefer her being rude to my friend than disrespecting me. However that’s just my interpretation.
/r/askTRP18/11/19 06:34 AM
8

I don’t know your girl. However it’s her job to sweep the flies away. Girls are not retarded. She knows for sure that this creep was hovering and staring her down. Her highest priority should be to not harm the relationship with you in any way. She should have at least vocalized to you that this guy is making her feel awkward. — It’s good that you know your limits and don’t want to risk a fight about some weirdo staring at your girl. The public chat thing was the right decision imo. Because I kn…
/r/askTRP18/11/19 06:07 AM
19

Stop giving cuck advice. That girl is an unloyal hoe and needs to be blocked everywhere. No man with self respect will continue an ltr with a girl that cheated, except he likes the taste of other men cum. Best thing he can do is to move on, hit the gym and fuck other girls ASAP.
/r/askTRP21/10/19 05:21 PM
1

Interview yourself in the mirror. Speak loudly. Ask a friend to interview you in a neutral place, wear clothes you would wear during the interview. Same goes for your friend. A certain nervousness is never bad, however being too nervous comes off as insecure / unprofessional. Won’t matter if you applied for a low responsibility job however it will for something like management / leading positions.
/r/askTRP11/10/19 09:03 PM
5

Let me know how it went! Furthermore it releases oxytocin which makes them more addicted to you.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 09:02 PM
8

Actually it’s just all about being dominant. However what I’ve experienced is: Titty sucking is the fucking gate opener. They aren’t in mood? Suck their tits and she’ll beg you to get fucked.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:59 PM
12

Titty sucking. Throwing her around. Pull her in for a kiss. Ass slapping. Choke her/pull her hair slightly while kissing. Dirty talk. Pin her down. Thumb in mouth. Lift her up. — Preparation if possible: Put on cologne, some music
/r/askTRP03/10/19 08:51 PM
2

You can’t soft next someone who is not invested in you. Schedule a new date. Don’t ask her out, just tell her to meet you at X at Y time. When she flakes again, go find other plates. She’s your anal only plate then.
/r/askTRP03/10/19 05:20 PM
3

Well you will get rejected a few times, but who cares. Yeah might feel embarrassing but it isn’t. Leave your ego outside. You were fucking bold. When you will be 60 years old, will you still care about that one girl that rejected you in public? The best opener is: Hi!
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:55 PM
5

Mall is perfect. Just don’t be a social autist. Tbh cold approaches are the best thing you can do. Check your social circle. Tell me, how many friends have the balls to cold approach a hot girl in public? Probably zero. There is no fucking competition these days. Everyone is using tinder or social media to avoid social interactions especially when it comes to dating and approaching. Use that to your advantage. Furthermore, the girl will be more than happy (most of the time) because it’s so fucki…
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:33 PM
3

I live in a big city, there’s every two minutes an opportunity. I started in pedestrian and shopping zones. Once I felt comfortable I gamed girls in shops and metro. Right now, when I see a hot girl for instance on the way to work (with bike) I just stop by and approach them. Might be a bit autistic but boy, rejection is so much better than regret. Be honest to yourself. As long as you aren’t living in a slum in Uganda, there will be opportunities. Just don’t talk yourself out of it.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:22 PM
10

Wake up early. Constantly push yourself out of your comfort zone. You see a hot girl? Go fucking talk to her. Stop procrastinating. Approach at least 5 girls a day. Quit porn/sugar/video games = easy dopamine. Let a doc check your blood values. You never know. Start saving/investing money. Dress good/get a fresh haircut and use cologne. Check your posture in the mirror/record it. Correct yourself. Posture is fucking important. Speak more slowly and eliminate fillers. Make use of eye contact.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 09:49 AM
7

Cheat if you want to cheat. Who cares, trp is amoral. For me: Before I fuck other girls, I end things with the current LTR.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 09:42 AM
74

You did everything right. Decrease of sex = Decrease of boyfriend-treatment Start looking for new plates. She might change her behavior when competition anxiety kicks in.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 09:38 AM
1

Red flag. However tell her: ‚You know I don’t share.‘ Slap her ass.
/r/askTRP02/10/19 06:18 AM
11

Wow I just manually ctrl + c/v my whole saved comments/posts for 3 hours. Whatever better be safe.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/19 10:44 PM
25

Only validate her when you have sex. This will make her crave sex even more.
/r/askTRP01/10/19 05:36 AM
1

Balls in her court. Stop pushing for any dates, it just comes off as needy and low value. Generate new plates and show her that she’s the one missing out. Let her reach out. Just answer ‚okay cool‘.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:43 PM
1

Stop wasting your thoughts on whether she’s fucking chad or not. One thing is for sure. She isn’t seeing you as high value anymore. If she would, she would visit you by bike, car or bus. Girls that are seeing a man as high value will always find a way to see them.
/r/askTRP30/09/19 05:37 PM
11

‚Yeah just as friends!‘ Let her come. Always give her plausible deniability and start escalating until your dick is in her mouth and she’s gagging: ‚Just friends right?‘ She wouldn’t drive 4 hours ‚just to be friends‘. Watch actions not words.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:16 PM
1

FFS vet girls longer before you promote them to ltr. Listen to your gut and watch her actions not her words.
/r/askTRP22/09/19 10:11 PM
2

What you are describing is nothing more but your addiction to comfort and lack of abundance. It will cost way more time and energy to change your relationship than approaching other girls and set the frame to a dominant one. Cut ties and start leaving your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP19/09/19 07:36 PM
5

Can’t miss something that’s always available. Use push and pull. Be mysterious. Vanish for 2-3 days. Fuck her good.
/r/askTRP18/09/19 09:51 PM
3

Seems like you are more invested than she is. Like that’s not enough you confront her about it like Billy Blue and now she knows, she has you by the balls. Why do you have time to cyberstalk her social media? care if she is posting pictures of her and you on her social media? enter an LTR with a girl that branch swung to you? Stop thinking about her past, ex and other bullshit that doesn’t matter and start enjoying the moment, sex and companionship with her as long as it lasts.
/r/askTRP16/08/19 12:39 PM
7

So where’s the problem here? You basically get what you want (sex) while reducing your investment (attention/bf treatment). Use push and pull and make her feel special and she might even please you with little gifts or pays for dinner. You hooked that girl.
/r/askTRP15/08/19 04:27 PM
21

First of all: Low quality women are mostly on dating apps. Furthermore cold approaching is way more efficient than using tinder or social media. Uninstall that trash, go out and approach the hottest women you can find. You get more attention in real life because girls won’t be hit on 5 times a minute like on social media or tinder. That’s it.
/r/askTRP14/08/19 06:41 PM
2

Sure. You have the best insight on this. If she was a good girl and you find a better opportunity to end it, do it.
/r/askTRP08/08/19 11:14 AM
2

There is no golden opportunity to break up. It’s always shitty. If you wait to not spoil her vacation, you will spoil something else. I‘d do it now. She’s with her family so there is support. Furthermore there isn’t a better place to get over someone than at vacation right?
/r/askTRP08/08/19 07:08 AM
2

70% Alpha / Push 30% Beta / Pull However sometimes you have to adjust the ratio according to the girl. Some need more comfort, some need less.
/r/askTRP05/08/19 07:17 PM
6

You wired your synapses for 1.5 years to that girl. She’s gone now. However your brain needs time to reset. Gym is a good start as well as plates. Keep yourself busy and never stop the grind. Don’t sleep on success.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 02:15 PM
3

Don’t only spray it on your skin, spray it also on your shirt or sweater, that will enhance the duration of the smell.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 12:08 PM
4

Just don’t. You might think you will get a nice fuck out of her. However what you really get is a MINDfuck. Get over your scarcity mentality and stop bringing trash back inside your home.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 11:58 AM
4

You can’t hate water for being water. Same for girls. They can’t do better. Just extract the things from them, that bring value to your life. Once one isn’t worth it anymore, drop her.
/r/askTRP01/08/19 06:30 AM
26

Can be a Shit Test, a sign of branch swinging or just nothing because girls are girls. I‘d definitely up the dread, when an LTR starts talking about other guys and reduce attention.
/r/askTRP31/07/19 09:02 AM
53

You decide based on the intensity of her disrespectful/undesired behavior. For me canceling that trip is close to a hard next that’s why I advised 5 days. I mean you invested time, energy and money on that trip and she cancels it because she wants to see her family? Kinda sucks for her she has a big exam Dude stop putting her on a pedestal and your no.1 priority. It didn’t bother her that it kinda sucks for you that she canceled the trip.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 06:32 AM
70

Soft next for at least a minimum of 5 days. Radiosilence. Don’t see her. Don’t answer her. She’s dead to you for 5 days. Any contact will diminish the effects of a soft next and she won’t be able to connect the behavior and consequences. Remember she consciously canceled the trip. A girl that would value you and your time would never cancel any plans you made. If she’s still there after the soft next, it’s time to up the dread.
/r/askTRP30/07/19 05:01 AM
2

Yes, I don’t bother about the sexual past of plates. However it actually doesn’t even make sense to ask the girl you want to upgrade. You will never know the truth, so stop wasting energy on this subject.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:31 PM
1

What has been seen cannot be unseen. You either get over your ego and enjoy the time you have together or you leave her because her past is making you uncomfortable. That’s why I just don’t ask about sexual past except I’m considering to upgrade her. However you will never know if it’s true or not, so don’t waste your time asking.
/r/askTRP25/07/19 08:17 PM
1

Why do you care about what other people say? Control your emotions and ignore.
/r/askTRP18/07/19 07:41 AM
1

Depends from which city they are. In the North, girls are more reserved and take a longer time to warm up while in the South of Germany girls are more straightforward and easy to lay if you got game and social proof.
/r/askTRP14/07/19 05:50 PM
2

This. The whole shit is scripted anyways.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 10:15 AM
7

This. IMO BJ‘s can be taken to measure her attraction towards you. No BJ‘s = Low attraction
/r/askTRP09/07/19 11:05 AM
0

Meeting another guy 1 on 1 is a hard next for me [LTR]. I’m setting this boundary in the early stages of the ltr. However if you haven’t set this boundary, you can’t hard next her for your mistake on not making your boundaries known. Soft next her and set your boundaries. However be aware you might lose her by soft nexting.
/r/askTRP07/07/19 10:01 AM
18

This + in my opinion if you accept her apology right away, there will be no learning effect since there wasn’t any punishment. She will keep doing shit and come up with an apology thinking it’s alright once she apologized. You don’t want that.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 11:01 AM
52

Soft next. Do not tolerate lying. Well played so far.
/r/askTRP06/07/19 09:50 AM
6

Weak response and reaction. -Firstly she told you about the incident. -Secondly she blocked him. -Thirdly you overtly communicated. Next time play it cool and cocky like: ‚Oh you blocked him, can I have his number then? He looks sweet.‘ She did not initiate a conversation nor did she text him. Seems like your gf did nothing wrong. I Wouldn’t even interpret it as a shit test. She was just honest. There is no reason to punish your ltr when she is doing a good job (sweeping away the flies), this wi…
/r/askTRP04/07/19 09:53 PM
14

No. Except you have low smv, no value and no abundance mentality. If a girl is into you, she will bring up commitment first. If you have to bring it up, she’s not as much into you as you think.
/r/askTRP04/07/19 07:23 AM
7

Become the best version of yourself. Her fucking loss, make her feel that by improving your smv, so that she feels awkward and disgusted by herself she ditched you for those low value chumps. The day comes when she recognizes your smv sky rocketed and will reach out. That’s the moment when you have to decide if you want to root through trash or not. Keep lifting!
/r/askTRP02/07/19 09:02 PM
4

You did everything right. Now hook up with one of her best friends.
/r/askTRP02/07/19 02:42 PM
2

Well you tolerated that behavior. You let the dog have the bone and never showed any consequences and now you want to take the bone away? Be ready for some real shit tests. You can’t just say: ‚I don’t want you to XYZ.‘ You have to show her that her behavior is driving you away and if she wants to keep you, she has to change.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:30 PM
2

You wrote you vetted her. Who the fuck promotes a girl from plate to ltr status when she’s regularly having sleep overs with another guy. Idc if he’s gay or not. As long as this guy has a dick he’s a potential fuck. — Don’t vocalize it. Reduce seeing her to once a week, basically treat her like a plate. Withdraw boyfriend treatment when she’s about to have sleep overs. When she hits you (and boy she will) with: ‚Why are you always so distant when I’m about to go to GAY?‘ ‚What is wrong? You igno…
/r/askTRP01/07/19 10:23 PM
27

You were a needy bitch. Game over, find another girl.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 07:40 PM
1

Well you can date her without investing anything
/r/askTRP01/07/19 03:06 PM
8

If you haven’t fucked her yet, she won’t miss you. There are already 8 more Billies lining up to gift her that validation and deep and flirty texts. They will even invite her to dinner and listen to her girlish problems. Until you haven’t fucked a girl your investment should equal zero.
/r/askTRP01/07/19 11:55 AM
13

This. The day comes when you have to give a little bit back. She’s not just a plate, you chose her to be your ltr. So if she’s behaving in the desired way, reward her, not punisher her.
/r/askTRP30/06/19 07:42 PM
25

‚We had a great time, but this isn’t working anymore more for me‘ Do it in public (cafe), so she can’t hit herself and tell everyone you abused her. Be careful where you sit down look for objects that can be thrown at you. Order for her, so she can’t order anything hot.
/r/askTRP27/06/19 10:51 AM
10

Your last sentence sums it up perfectly. This might be a bit off topic however: The mechanism behind push and pull / hot and cold is the same mechanism that makes people addicted to lottery and slot machines. It’s called (I guess most of you know it): Operant Conditioning. The ‘target’ doesn’t know at any time when the next reinforcement will take place. It’s random and seems ‘mysterious’ that’s what makes it so addicting. The swings between push and pull, win and loss, withdrawal and receiving.…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 10:51 PM
3

should I send her a message this evening asking how her day was? + I’m looking to make an LTR = formula for drying up pussy in ~ 0.2 seconds. —— Read the sidebar and top posts. You haven’t even fucked her yet and are already thinking about to commit. Because you probably won’t read the sidebar and top posts and are hoping for a quick fix, here is your answer [so I can procrastinate my studies a bit longer]: You don’t: ask her when she’s free and if the day is ok tell her the whole plan for the d…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 10:20 PM
59

It’s 2k19 and social media is more present than ever before. [I mean you can literally be the most useless person on earth, if you have boobs and a tight ass and buy 20k followers, you will become famous and rich.] The younger girls aren’t used to texting for logistics only. They are used to a massive smiley overload and instant texting which results in small dopamine hits. You can try to keep texting for logistics only and it might work because your smv is high enough, however sometimes you hav…
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:51 PM
1

TRP is amoral do what you want. However there are enough other girls out there why pick one that has a past with one of your boys.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 08:32 PM
1

Make sure you are the biggest guy in there.
/r/askTRP23/06/19 07:22 PM
1

Stop wasting your thoughts on luxury problems.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 08:41 PM
2

she said she had other options... we are both 26 Yeah well, no she doesn’t have any real options at 26 anymore. It’s nothing more than a huge Powerplay of her to drag you into her frame. Ignore and continue like nothing has happened. If she is punishing you by withdrawing sex, soft next her.
/r/askTRP22/06/19 11:12 AM
9

Whoever wants honey has to bear with the stinging of the bees. Ignore her shit and withdraw attention when she’s annoying / disrespectful. Reward her with attention when she’s behaving the way you want her to behave.
/r/askTRP21/06/19 08:06 AM
3

Easy. Firstly women are pretty lazy, that’s why they get a cat and not a dog. Secondly older women have a lot more often a cat than younger women. Why? Because the younger women receives the needed and vital validation from men / social media etc. while older women get their validation from cats. Some need more validation, some need less. That’s why some women have more cats than others. Side note: Have you ever noticed this crazy cat women? With multiple cats? Yes that woman was probably a stun…
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:14 PM
1

Totally fine.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:09 PM
1

TRP is amoral. If you can squeeze out some more fucks, do it! Will she be hurt when she finds out? Yes. But who cares? You still gave her a good Time. However if you aren’t fine with that, be straight and break things off.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 03:08 PM
1

Just move on.
/r/askTRP15/06/19 02:59 PM
6

Now use her like she tried to use you. She shouldn’t be more than one of your personal cum dumpster.
/r/askTRP09/06/19 01:13 PM
1

Giver her a kiss on the forehead and say ,it’s okay baby‘ and get other shit done.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 05:16 PM
4

If you do it to make her happy / attracted = weak. If you do it because you want to = strong.
/r/askTRP30/05/19 07:11 PM
11

Thats weak beta male behavior. I understand your point of view, that you expect respect however you are doing it the wrong way. If she’s not behaving, reduce attention and up the dread. Let her feel that juicy competition anxiety. Always punish her subtly not overtly.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:26 PM
15

Don’t call her out. When she disrespects you withdraw your boyfriend treatment and reduce attention. She will get the hint. She disrespects you = you got no time for her. She treats you well = you got time for her. If she doesn’t get it, you should work on your vetting skills.
/r/askTRP23/05/19 12:17 PM
3

Blocked her everywhere. However she tried to contact me via quiz duell, didn’t see that one coming.
/r/askTRP18/05/19 11:42 AM
3

Well OP fucked up by not setting the boundary that seeing other guys 1on1 is a hard next. If he did he knew what to do.
/r/askTRP17/05/19 03:52 PM
1

And now you are reducing the reason why women chase on something superficial. Back to the books sonny.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:59 PM
1

Women are a side effect of becoming the best version of yourself. We don’t chase women. Women chase us. They are a luxury good, you don’t need it, but it’s nice to have eh?
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:51 PM
1

Just don’t.
/r/askTRP09/05/19 12:50 PM
2

‚Hey we had a good time, however this isn’t working out anymore.‘ Then block everywhere and move on. Don’t give closure, she doesn’t deserve that.
/r/askTRP08/05/19 04:57 PM
-5

Nah, I’m not into getting cucked. She either values my time and presence more and just says ‚Hi and bye‘ or stays with that person. If that’s the case, cool I’ll just talk to that cute blonde standing at the traffic lights or text another plate. You lack abundance.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 07:29 PM
7

You can be the most high value man of the Universe, if a homeless drug addict gives her tingles the night you are abroad due to work, the homeless drug addict won’t be homeless that night. It can always happen, but doesn’t have to. Some things reduce the probability that she will cheat and others increase it.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 09:41 AM
5

Just keep walking. She either follows you or doesn’t.
/r/askTRP07/05/19 08:30 AM
3

Get ripped or die mirin. Furthermore with every rep you do, you outvalue 85% of your competition regarding physical attractiveness.
/r/askTRP05/05/19 08:35 AM
44

Most autistic thing is that girls tell you to open up, that you can always talk to them and that crying is a masculine trait.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:39 PM
2

Look at it this way: A human interaction based on reciprocity would be that you put in ~50% and the other person (ltr) your interacting with puts in the other ~50%. This is because we feel the urge to reciprocate complaisances even if we don’t want to. And I bet in the first few months - 1 year it was like that. More like she was probably investing more than you did at that time. However over time the dynamic slowly changed because she realized she’s still getting your ~50% even if she puts in l…
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:15 PM
2

Ouch. Seems you are more invested than she is. Change that ASAP. By: •using dread •establishing competition anxiety •prize mentality •taking her off the pedestal •realizing what value she adds •2/3 rule •enforcing boundaries Don’t plan things for her. Plan things for yourself and invite her along. Keep focusing and investing in yourself. If she wants to cheat she will cheat. Just be prepared.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:51 PM
91

You don’t need to filter. Just use them the same way they are trying to use you/your money.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:41 PM
3

No offense but if you recognize that both their online status changes at the same time your definitely fucked. Stop cyberstalking and do something useful instead. Furthermore be glad that this ‘kid’ is her emotional tampon while you enjoy her lips on your cock, he’s doing the work for you. IDK how high your smv is (well you seem insecure) but she might not want to bother you with her health problems, because she values you and doesn’t want to annoy you.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 08:37 PM
343

Buy them flowers and have long conversations about your emotions and how you feel.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 04:40 PM
5

Just hold frame, she’s testing you. However if she becomes more of a headache than fun, replace her with girls that are fun and value your time.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 12:42 PM
1

Hilarious text wall about the effects of: -preselection -competition anxiety -abundance mentality
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:46 AM
3

By getting over your ego and realizing that it’s just sex/blowjob. Hopefully you chose girls that maintain their hygienes positively.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:44 AM
0

My personal maximum is 5 for ltr material. However she’s 18 don’t bother upgrading her to ltr status. She doesn’t know what she wants. After 4 years in an ltr with her, she will drop the FOMO bomb and travel the world to taste, feel and touch dicks from different cultures, countries and races.
/r/askTRP02/05/19 09:41 AM
2

Each to their own. However I value my self respect more than pussy.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:40 PM
4

Do you think she would ignore the message of brad Pitt / a local DJ for over 24 hours? Would be utter disrespect for me and I would Soft-Next her, while already generating new plates.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:32 PM
1

That’s true however what I do when a girl asks me how attractive / good I find her, I say: ‘Mhh you are 6/10. A pretty 6 tbh.’ Now when she gets mad (she will) you disarm her by saying, hey you’re above average, not too shabby. Just do a little pull after that.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:29 PM
0

You probably have to work on how you deliver the things you say. Try with a cocky smirk/laugh. Then give her a pat on the ass or a kiss on the forehead.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:19 PM
4

Lesson learned I guess. Texting won’t increase her attraction towards you, it can only remain the same or decrease. Don’t apologize. Just tell her ‘Hey, you know I was joking/making fun of you right? I’m hanging out with some friends on Thursday at Bar XYZ / park, you should join us.’ Isolate, escalate, fuck.
/r/askTRP01/05/19 12:15 PM
45

Every second that passes is an increase in your value and a decrease in her value. When she hits 25 she will be confused why she can’t pull those high smv men anymore. She will try to get this validation -she once received from men- back by hopping on the first dick that comes around, to fill this hole. When she hits the wall with 30 she will be miserable, used and depressed that she wasted her youth for this quick rush of male attention and validation instead of securing a high smv men that has…
/r/askTRP01/05/19 11:37 AM
1

Well worked for me, I’m Good.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 09:39 PM
2

Great insight! Only thing I would add is, that you set boundaries and reward good behavior / punish undesired behavior.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 09:33 PM
1

Don’t judge before you haven’t tried anything similar.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 09:29 PM
5

Yep. It did wonders for me. Check out JAWZRSIZE. I started with blue, skipped purple and am now at level green. Green level should be done 1 x 15 reps once a week. However I do like 30 reps in the morning and 20-30 in the evening. My jaw has become a model jaw. No jokes, people started telling me I have a model face and my jaw is so masculine. Try it out if you want to invest some bucks.
/r/askTRP30/04/19 05:24 PM
139

I was addicted to video games (Fortnite, league of legends... the whole package). What helped me was going cold turkey. I sold my ps4, deinstalled LoL and blocked the website with a random password. I quit any distraction and finally the day is so fucking long. I read heathcliffs Übermensch-Mode over and over again. Then it clicked. I want to win the game of life. I tackled any task I had to do. No more procrastination. I followed his principles and start with a to do list in the morning. Right …
/r/askTRP30/04/19 01:09 PM
51

You didn’t give her the tingles. You can be the richest, most handsome, most famous man on earth but if you don’t give her tingles and a broke, homeless drug addict can give her the feelzz, guess whose cum is gonna be swallowed?
/r/askTRP30/04/19 10:43 AM
1

No I wouldn’t do most of these things at the first fucks. Hair pulling, spanking are things to figure out if she’s actually into all of this or a damaged good. Don’t rush things and don’t make any mental script: first I Finger her, then I put 1 Dildo in, in 4 min I will fuck her doggy... Just do what you want / feel in that moment. Fuck her like you would want to hurt her. That’s the fucking ‘every’ girl craves. It differs, sometimes I’m more commanding and sometimes I just put her where I want …
/r/askTRP30/04/19 07:26 AM
21

Start using dirty talk if you haven’t. Girls sex is 80% emotional and 20% physical. Furthermore I got 2 vibrators 1 for her pink hole and 1 for the no sunshine hole. Put both in and lick her clit. Average time until a girl cums is 30-45~ seconds. I’m not joking, try it out. Sometimes I spice things up with handcuffs. Change from bed to ground / kitchen. Fuck her in-front of your window, in the car, in the woods... Choke her, pull her hair, spank her ass and unleash her true inner slut. One secon…
/r/askTRP29/04/19 09:12 PM
8

Because their lives are boring and they have nothing going on.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 07:45 PM
4

Totally agree. However OP stated he’s fulfilling lots of high smv traits. Might be that there is someone else with even higher value than OP. However he should find out by vetting her more.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 03:14 PM
4

Push and pull. Up your dread. Cancel a date (some days before). Withdraw your attention. See other women. Stick to 2/3 rule. Don’t validate her outside of sex. Finally she will enter your frame and become more invested than you are. However sometimes you have to give little comfort, like cuddling after sex.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 02:51 PM
3

A girl that values you, will make time for you.
/r/askTRP29/04/19 05:23 AM
11

Indeed. Though it’s crazy when you experience how a girl acts like a total church girl just to get your commitment and when she can’t get it, you see her doing all the things ‚she wouldn’t do because she’s not one of those girls‘. Yeah AWALT.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 04:42 PM
30

She’s wearing a mask for you. If you wanted to see her real self, you would have to plate/casually hook up with her.
/r/askTRP28/04/19 01:18 PM
1

Stop over thinking. Just try. Trial and error. Don’t be upset if you lose a girl. Girls come, girls go.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 03:19 PM
2

TRP is amoral but be clear with your intentions. If you want to be single and pursue multiple girls, be honest to your ltr and break up. To the other girl: Hit her up. Watch her actions not her words. If she rejects you, go approach other women.
/r/askTRP27/04/19 12:54 PM
5

Knowing when to reward her with attention and when to withdraw. Furthermore having your own life.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 02:34 PM
1

Good, except that you should ignore her beauty and have the mindset you have already fucked her.
/r/askTRP26/04/19 09:10 AM
2

Well be glad, you dodged a bullet. Keep her as anal plate only or move on. Take it as learning experience why it’s so important to vet long enough.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:55 PM
12

Why are you even mad? She’s a plate nothing more. You wanted it to be that way. Keep fucking her if you want, if not just don’t. She will never be worthy an LTR since she lied to you about her loyalty. However if you want loyalty, get a dog.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:39 PM
6

So, insecure is enforcing your boundaries and not giving them up for pussy? I have a lot to offer and I’m expecting my LTR to respect my boundaries. However if she can’t and doesn’t want to, cool you can leave. Meeting 1on1 with the opposite gender is a date. At least for me. If you think that’s insecure, cool. Each to their own. A girl that values you and your attention would never do anything that could risk losing you. [Cheating won’t happen since the moment she’s meeting 1on1 with a man is t…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:18 PM
1

What do you mean exactly by that? If I understood your question correctly: It’s not love, it’s the drove to be desired. It’s a good feeling tbh. However if you break that down it’s nothing more but the drove to feel important to someone. Deep down every human being wants to feel important. Doesn’t matter how. Some people get good at a hobby, others become famous and some even become crazy just to get that feeling of ‚I am important‘. However there are different ways and once you’ve mastered self…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 02:14 PM
3

Men can love women unconditional. Women Love the way how you make them feel [in that current moment]. Most men seek the love and validation of their mother in their partner because they try to fill this hole. No women will be able to give you that exact feeling again. You have to accept that the only way to fill this hole is by validating yourself through discipline, mission, hobbies... The love ladder is this: Men love> Women love > children love >puppies. Women > Children > puppies. Women will…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 11:32 AM
6

Tell her you met someone and want to see where things are going but you enjoyed your time with her. When you break up, just hit her up. She can’t stand a high value man.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:36 AM
2

Well it’s an LDR. She will fuck the court jester if the king is not around. Stop investing in that LDR. It’s your fault however you have the opportunity to avoid those mistakes in the future. First of all I would have set the boundary that it’s not okay for me if my LTR (plate I couldn’t give a fuck) keeps texting with guys on a regular basis. I’m expecting from her that she rejects those Fortnite addicted skinny soy boys and gives no fucks about their attention / validation. If she’s testing ou…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 10:34 AM
5

First of all you need to know what boundaries you want to set, to which degree a certain behavior is acceptable / unacceptable and what are extreme no go’s. I guess you are only looking for boundaries in plate / LTR... dynamics. I recommend you to write your boundaries etc. down. Doesn’t matter where. I’ve wrote mine down in the note app on my phone and reread them every now and then. In the following I’ll give you some examples of my boundaries: Boundaries / rules for plates: [Breaking = Soft N…
/r/askTRP25/04/19 07:15 AM
2

Have some self respect and hard next that stupid bitch. Furthermore you fucked up by not vetting her and didn’t set any boundaries. Like it’s not enough she’s an LDR. Save yourself time, energy and a headache and start approaching other girls. If she would value you, she would never risk the relationship. She would sweep any suitor away just to keep your high value attention. Act and escape your doormat mentality.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:23 AM
8

You have to set your boundaries early on in the dynamic. I never verbalized my boundaries directly, you do it covertly and implicitly. The moment my ltr meets 1on1 with another dude, [doesn’t matter if coworker, best friend, gay friend] she’s dead to me and I’ll look through my phone for emergency plates / fucks. She subtly knows the consequences.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:10 AM
1

Delivery + the slightest attraction is enough.
/r/askTRP25/04/19 06:05 AM
3

+1 Great insight.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 05:17 PM
7

Name change to: Doormat You obviously didn’t set boundaries in the beginning of your ltr. She’s still attracted to / seeks validation of him.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 12:37 PM
26

She did that to see whether you would back off like a beta or if you are actually worth her Pussy. I would have ignored it and put on my most cocky smile I got. Then spin her and say ‚Mhh your hip is pretty rusty. Wouldn’t have chosen you in the dance class.‘ Doesn’t matter what you say but how you deliver it. In addition act/mindset like you have fucked her already.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 10:04 AM
69

So you’re backing of because she’s saying you are touchy? She didn’t even tell you to stop. Wow, gotta work on your frame. Next time either ignore or spin her and continue with what you were doing.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:34 AM
3

First of all never verbalize consequences, just act. It’s good that she told you however stop being butthurt and recognize the difference between shit tests and things she tells you because she’s valuing you.
/r/askTRP24/04/19 09:30 AM
8

Good response! You should make a post out of this on the main sub.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 12:24 PM
9

By getting 3 more.
/r/askTRP23/04/19 12:23 PM
2

Oneitis and lack of abundance. You are saying you game other girls. If so why be with a girl that is not behaving the way you want her to behave?
/r/askTRP23/04/19 07:21 AM
9

Constantly remind yourself to have the right posture. Practice infront of a mirror. If needed use reminder on your phone. After 25-30 days it should be adopted to your normal posture.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 03:20 PM
1

Read ‚The Sex God Method‘. I’m into that for over a year (not to brag but) and the girls I had said I was the best they had. I guess it’s fairly easy nowadays because 80% of your competition are soy boys. Furthermore my current ltr told me once we were done, if things aren’t working out between us anymore she still had to come for sex. I guess the sex God method works!
/r/askTRP22/04/19 10:57 AM
1

Good to hear! Keep it on.
/r/askTRP22/04/19 07:56 AM
38

She’s compensating you with blowjobs. Green flag, she values you and your time.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 03:29 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 02:58 PM
1

Well 2-3 times a week is totally fine. I mean she’s your ltr and you vetted her so nothing wrong spending some days with your ltr. Would not reduce availability as long as she is behaving in the desired way, gives you sex whenever you want etc... Just don’t sit on each other’s 24/7 and constantly texting.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:44 AM
3

Well if you have a mission, hobbies, friends and are lifting you won’t be available all the time. Furthermore if you are always available, she will stop valuing your time and attention.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 11:35 AM
5

I would have changed the topic immediately because talking with a vegan about meat is like discussing feminism with feminists. Tell her, each to their own and topic change. If she still brings up that topic soft next her.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:43 AM
6

Don’t wait until you reached X,Y,Z. Start approaching now. Remember they don’t reject you, but your game. You don’t have to have the Perfect Body in order to be successful with women. However become the best version of yourself, mentally and physically.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:41 AM
9

Oh boy you’re operating in her frame and are justifying. In general it doesn’t matter what you answer but how you deliver it. That conversation was a total failure.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:39 AM
3

Probably right however I know a bunch of attractive guys who can’t handle women when it comes to isolation.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 10:34 AM
8

You haven’t really understood the red pill do you? It’s not all about physical attractiveness. Yes being attractive might make it easier to start a conversation or leads to less shit tests. However if you are attractive and have no game/are boring you might get the girl to talk to you. But if you aren’t attractive and have game, you will take her home whilst the attractive model guy is confused why the ugly guy takes the 9‘s home. Now, if the attractive guy has game, his shit together, social pr…
/r/askTRP21/04/19 09:38 AM
4

Give it a try, nothing to lose.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 06:06 AM
6

The first 2 years I was living like sailor without a map. Eating kebab twice a day and pizza for dinner. I didn’t cook, clean or do my laundry. Now I’m a better cook than my parents or any friend I know. I keep on top of my shit, my apartment is more clean than the apartments in the cleaning commercials. I would have never made that progress if I’d lived at my parents place.
/r/askTRP21/04/19 05:47 AM
5

You can’t. Your buddies don’t want to see it.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:53 PM
1

Walk.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:52 PM
23

Why would you even care? She’s dead to you. I’ll help your hamster tho: She found someone higher value than you She‘s a slut and you vetted her poorly It was her ‚best gay friend‘ JK She thought it was you but instead it was your twin from another mother He gave her 500$ He threatened her and she had no other choice ... What I’m trying to show you is, the why doesn’t matter and you will never know the reason. Proceed with your life and approach other girls.
/r/askTRP20/04/19 04:06 PM
1

Just observe.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 08:20 AM
-1

Fap before you fuck if you want to keep it natural. If you want to experiment try Karmagra or Cialis.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:21 AM
1

If you’ve fucked all sturday she might be sore. One rejection is okay however if she keeps rejecting you more often you gotta up the dread and take away the boyfriend treatment when she’s not giving sex.
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:14 AM
7

You lack real abundance mentality. Break up, build a harem and work on yourself to become the man that women are lusting for. Next time you know that cohabitating is the most difficult thing to do. You have to have your own life, beers with your buds, hobbies, nights out... show her that you are having a busy life and that your attentions is valuable. That’s where most guys fuck up. Their attention and validation becomes low value and they start fishing vor validation from their girlfriend. Have…
/r/askTRP15/04/19 07:10 AM
6

Be fun and she will have fun is what I experienced. She isn’t used to your ‚new you‘ and testing if you are real or just faking it. Keep grinding, improving and lifting. If she doesn’t want to have fun her loss. Be outcome independent and don’t put her on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 12:56 PM
2

Be interesting. Read ‚how to win friends and influence people‘. Become valuable. Talk to people. Approach girls and lift.
/r/askTRP11/04/19 06:40 AM
1

Would be stupid to not talk about something you were good at.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:14 PM
10

Just be chilled. Pretend that you care about the other person like remembering about their hobby and asking a few questions about it. Read ‚how to win friends and influence people‘.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 02:13 PM
19

Go out and approach girls. Keep lifting. Read. Just work on your smv and build a harem. Your ex will come back crawling to you when she sees your smv increases and you pull girls. Be firm and keep conversations to a minimum. If you have the chance to fuck one of her friends, do it.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 10:26 AM
2

Cold turkey worked well for me.
/r/askTRP10/04/19 04:05 AM
3

Stop overthinking. Don’t forget to smile while you are staring those girls down!
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:14 AM
1

You’re good. Just don’t put her on a pedestal / over compliment her. If the weather gets bad visit a pinacotheca, play indoor golf, go bowling, Cinema... I won’t go into detail for kino because it’s explained in lots of posts / sidebar. Look for escalation / kino ladder. Start with touching her Arms / Elbow, once she reciprocates/isn’t rejecting you jump to the next level, touch her thighs then push her playfully away / withdraw your touches to generate a push. Create a moment of silence BlaBlab…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 11:07 AM
2

First of all stop overthinking and building yourself a mental script on what you are doing in which moment. Tbh I don’t like coffee dates, have you ever seen someone wildly making out in a Starbucks? However the walk is a good idea and makes it easy for kino and escalation. Tease her, push and pull, generate tingles. Remember if she is rejecting kino / kiss go back 2 Levels of kino and start again. Tell her to bring 2 blank sheets of paper. Who knows if you game her well you might be rewarded wi…
/r/askTRP09/04/19 10:42 AM
4

You decide to which degree you accept shit tests. For me it stops when she’s shit testing me about my social circle or mission.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 10:18 AM
11

This. Now imagine you’re in your twenties and have your shit together. The competition is laughable and even in your 30‘s I bet the competition is a joke.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 10:16 AM
20

When you’ve: gone through hell did the most awkward things in public got rejected so many times you stopped counting realized the opinion of others has no value you will stop caring about what others think of you. Go out and do some awkward stuff. Lay down or sing a country song in a pedestrian zone. Eat 3 cloves of garlic and ask people where the next underground station is. This will also help you to get out of your comfort zone.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:27 AM
1

A) Hi ,SalsaGirl‘ I’m in Bar X/Y on [insert preferred Day] at Z o‘clock. Come along if you’re up for it. B) Howdey ,SalsaGirl’ I’m going hiking this Thursday you should come along, my sandwiches are world famous.
/r/askTRP09/04/19 06:17 AM
1

You were that night the textbook definition of ‚doormat. Your brother is a shit brother and your gf isn’t valuing you. I bet you haven’t vetted her long enough. 2 options. Next her and save yourself energy, money and time. Play the game as long as it’s fun and benefitting you. The moment she crosses one of your boundaries your gone. Furthermore that girl seems like a girl that will branch swing the second she can secure a higher value man, start detaching yourself.
/r/askTRP08/04/19 05:59 PM
7

Are you a garbageman or why are you trying to root through trash?
/r/askTRP29/03/19 09:12 AM
16

Plates break... If you want to keep her show some soft beta traits.
/r/askTRP25/02/19 09:06 PM
2

No offense but there’s lot of material out there for men to Hamster their failure with women. If I see a woman I find attractive, I will approach her. Recognize that regret is worse than rejection.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:40 PM
1

Depends on the girl. Some want/need more beta traits, others don’t.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:36 PM
2

If you want to improve, work on: performance anxiety (your pleasure comes first stop worrying if you are enough furthermore, the emotional part is more important than the physical part when it comes to fucking; read sex god method) Frame Ego (stop comparing yourself to others) lifestyle (develop hobbies and passion, become extremely good in 1-2 things) approach more
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:33 PM
4

Red pill men take action. Active Blue pill chumps wait for the ‚right‘ opportunity. (Which probably never happens) Passive
/r/askTRP24/02/19 05:25 PM
1

The only reason the ltr or wife loses her sex drive is because the man becomes a boring fuck. If you constantly game here, push and pull, dread ... the Full Package, maintain frame and your boundaries and have an interesting live... the last thing she wants is to lose you. Never be predictable, sex god method and you can keep her attracted. ‚She’s Not yours it’s just your turn‘ is a looser mentality.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/19 07:06 AM
1

she really is into me Yeah, no. If she would be really into you, she would never leave you or harm the relationship. Seems like you are more invested than she is. If she wants to go, let her go. Start detaching yourself and approach other women.
/r/askTRP24/02/19 06:53 AM
18

Fuck the 1-10 scale. There is 0 and 1 for me. A girl I would fuck and a girl I wouldn’t fuck.
/r/askTRP21/02/19 10:49 PM
16

Nah. My pleasure is more important than hers. If she also comes, cool. If not, whatever.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 11:00 PM
10

Just don’t say it back. Never be predictable. Say it 1 time. The next time you don’t. Let her constant ask herself where she stands.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 10:05 PM
14

2/3 golden rule. If you are not saying it back, kiss her or smack her ass.
/r/askTRP18/02/19 09:58 PM
2

This. You invest time, energy and probably some money. Definitely check.
/r/askTRP15/02/19 08:24 PM
15

That topic is worth a post on the main sub. So many guys don’t get how to set boundaries covertly and train your ltr. The quote: ‚she’s not yours it’s just your turn ‚ is for losers to justify why the ltr failed.
/r/askTRP13/02/19 08:44 AM
4

Keep observing her behavior, listen to your gut. Wouldn’t soft Next yet, but up your dread. Soft Next = no contact for 3-7 days. Radio silence. Even if she calls you, don’t answer. If she visits you, act firm and tell her you were busy. Remember you might lose her by soft nexting.
/r/askTRP12/02/19 11:04 PM
1

Hit the gym. Have some beers with your boys. Work on yourself. Approach. Approach. Approach. Delete her fucking number and block her everywhere. Remove any possibility that you have that could lead to a conversation with her.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 06:46 AM
1

Wow. Can’t believe I read it all.
/r/askTRP11/02/19 12:29 AM
142

Start smiling more. But yeah sometimes girls are too intimidated by your presence. However once they sense you are interesting and not dangerous, they will leave your less attractive friends and throw themselves at you.
/r/askTRP10/02/19 08:31 AM
4

Well that’s not what it is nowadays. Show me 5 guys that actually have the balls to approach an HB7+. The men today have no role model, aims or ambitions. The competition is laughable. I experienced that the hotter women shit test less. However I agree on the fact rising smv = hotter women. Once you pulled a top tier girl (model...) you always will. Except you stop improving.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:12 AM
3

For all the newcomers this is the definition of: Free meals and validation.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 10:08 AM
11

Don’t. You are still emotionally invested while she is already detached. Furthermore have some self respect and recognize there are enough other girls out there. Don’t make yourself even more addicted to her. Block everywhere and move on. She’s dead to you. Use your emotions to hit the gym as hard as you can and start approaching other girls. The fastest way over a girl is by being ASAP in another girl.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:20 AM
3

Some like it dirty some like it clean. Some like faeces in their mouth, some don’t. Do what you want.
/r/askTRP08/02/19 09:17 AM
3

Nah just something you wanted to do anyways. So in both cases you have a good Time.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 05:50 PM
1

That’s why you are there with your buds doing what you were doing anyway. If she’s cool, game and isolate her + change venue. If she’s boring, just have your thing with your buds and ignore her.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 05:30 PM
1

Hi I‘m at XBar on YDay. You can come along if you are up for it. Furthermore my strolls are world famous.
/r/askTRP07/02/19 04:50 PM
2

Well if she can’t satisfy you she’s the wrong girl. However your sex drive is pretty high. If her pussy is sore, get a blowjob or ass.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 12:46 PM
7

When she wants to go right and you want to go left, Go left. She either follows you or not. She might be pissed for a short period of time that you didn’t want to go her way however her affection will grow in the long run. To sex. No offense but if you fuck her daily (hard) her Pussy will get sore at some point. Some girls have a higher sex than others. Don’t overthink. Always keep the variety up and be unpredictable.
/r/askTRP06/02/19 11:25 AM
5

Could you live with the fact that she will be the last girl you see naked until you die? Furthermore is she adding any value to your life (sex is no real value)? Do you see her as the mother of your Children (in case you want kids)?
/r/askTRP05/02/19 11:42 AM
2

Competition anxiety and constantly increasing your smv does wonders. In case you want to keep the girl for some time.
/r/TheRedPill04/02/19 10:03 AM
0

Real strength is to actually know what you have and can without fulfilling the need to show it off.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 03:14 PM
1

Just don’t. Girls love to wonder what under those clothes is. Don’t take the mystery away.
/r/askTRP30/01/19 02:28 PM
4

Be firm and keep conversations to a minimum. Start Lifting. Stare him down.
/r/askTRP29/01/19 04:49 PM
6

No closure. However what also worked was: ‚To me you’re not sexually attractive anymore.‘
/r/askTRP27/01/19 03:38 PM
2

That’s why you keep texting to a minimum.
/r/askTRP27/01/19 10:31 AM
3

Balls in her court. Work on your smv. Attraction is not negotiable.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 04:35 PM
11

My first thought was that the girls have a fixed impression of you. When they meet you, their picture of you (that they created in their head) doesn’t fit to the reality. A cognitive dissonance is established and they recognize you are not like they have imagined you and lose attraction. However could be also that you display huge needy behavior or get too emotional.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 04:33 PM
11

Weak reaction. You directly entered her frame by actively responding to her negative comment. Some will say you responded with a ‚pressure flip‘ however IMO a pressure flip is a weak frame response. Imagine this: You are in a grocery store waiting in line. Suddenly a little girl next to you says: ‚The 5 Minute massages can fuck off‘ How would you react? Probably shrug it off or laugh. That is the reaction you want to show when a woman throws shit at you. Imagine her as the little girl you can’t …
/r/askTRP25/01/19 02:37 PM
3

Read the Übermensch by heathcliff. If that will not motivate you, nothing will help you. Realize we have only 1 life. You will die, I will die everyone dies one day and you just sit around and waste your life? Realize that you got fucking lucky, you were the one sperm that made it through the whole process. Don’t waste your life. Now get out of your bed and off your screen and start a new hobby or find something you are interested in.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:38 PM
31

Well only because she is becoming boring doesn’t mean you can become boring as well. Don’t become interesting for her. Do it for yourself. Furthermore why would you let your life slip because of a woman? The moment you become fun again, the relationship and sex will become fun again.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:34 PM
78

Read the sidebar. You became boring and lazy. Get your own life, lift, have a beer with your buds go and play pool, go to the sauna or start a new hobby. Actually become interesting again.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 01:13 PM
8

We’ll stare them down as I said. Break their frame.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:08 AM
21

Not directly however make sure you stare her down 8/10 times and when you break eye contact never look down (displays inferior behavior), look to the side or up.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 09:02 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP25/01/19 12:21 AM
1

We had a good time, I’ll text you, bye.
/r/askTRP23/01/19 04:52 PM
4

Just stop fishing in polluted water. Your ex was dead the moment things ended between you two.
/r/askTRP22/01/19 09:49 AM
2

Stop caring a about the guy we are living in 2k19. Fuck her as long as you want.
/r/askTRP21/01/19 09:25 PM
2

I wouldn’t totally ignore the other girl makes her feel not wanted. (+if you go for the girl you want and ignore her friend... eh had not the best results with that..) But the key is to devalue her so she has to try to revalue herself.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:03 PM
3

What worked for me was that I gave the one I liked more (wanted to close) less attention for a short amount of time. You introduce yourself and talk/banter with the one you don’t want to close. If the one you want to close is in any way attracted to you, she will want to qualify herself to you to receive more attention from you than her friend. Actually it works most of the time because girls are validation/attention whores.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 08:00 PM
7

When they grab your dick and stick it inside. Before that everything is vague and depends on logistics + game + circumstances + how you make her feel + plausible deniability...
/r/askTRP20/01/19 06:10 PM
12

She’s not interested in you but in your validation/attention. We call those girls attention/validation whores. She was probably bored and taking a shit when she messaged you. Next and read the sidebar. Furthermore go out and approach women.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:33 PM
15

Doesn’t mean they want you however it’s an ioi + sign they recognized you. Follow by escalating and gaming her.
/r/askTRP20/01/19 05:31 PM
19

Read the sidebar. You totally lost frame and sound like a needy bitch. She wants a man that can enjoy himself even if he doesn’t know anyone, not a puppy. Hell if she isn’t interacting with you go and talk to her friends or look for a hotter girl in the bar and approach her. You sound like a boring guy. Why did you even write this pathetic message to her? Well next and learn from your mistakes
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:54 PM
3

Well no offense but that’s a mindset of a loser. If you really want to, you will.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:48 PM
3

IMO your never too old to improve yourself. Girls are a lagging indicator of success. Be successful and girls will come. Furthermore it’s not that hard to get laid. You just need the Basics and could even use fake it till you make it. Eye contact + push and pull + escalation and kino and there you go. Give her some plausible deniability and you are ready to get laid. Furthermore why are you comparing yourself to others? If you are not happy right now you need to change.
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:43 PM
23

Never explicitly tell her you won’t marry her. Also never explicitly tell her you will marry her. You just killed the Adventure and fantasy for her...
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:30 PM
5

Stop pressuring yourself about that bullshit. If it’s such a bid deal for you go and get a hooker. Tbh there is not much to learn. -Variety -Dominance (lead, slap her ass, dirty talk, let her call you daddy, choke, pull her hair) Basically just treat her like a piece of meat and you are doing things right. Read The sex god method. If you want real girls badly. Improve your smv and work on your game. To how many women have you talked this month?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:27 PM
1

What do you mean by behind?
/r/askTRP19/01/19 04:22 PM
3

Listen to this. You reset the dynamics with her. Now don’t fuck it up by instantly giving her the attention she craves and wants. Read: cat string theory and apply it. Let her dangle until she can’t resist and asks you out. If she never asks you out who cares but don’t be that little needy boy.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:18 PM
6

If you screened well and are a high value man your ltr won’t even think about a GNO. Meeting at a friends place and have dinner with her girls alright. Meeting at a friends place and having pre drinx and going clubbing after wards is a guaranteed hard next.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 01:04 PM
2

You write an ass long paragraph about one girl. This already implies oneitis. Like it isn’t enough you share your beta behaviors and hope you can just reset everything. Reality is you can’t. You broke frame several times, were a bitch, weak, needy and unattractive. But that is ok. I was like that. Many of us were like that. End things with her. Work on yourself, read the sidebar, lift and become the man women are attracted to. Never become overinvested again.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 12:58 PM
13

So I assume we all have only 1 live. Listen carefully: around 3,5 billions women - 3 billion (too old, too young, ugly, fat..) - 250 Million (Not your type, bpd, whore, abused...) = 250 Million women left that are a potential fuck / ltr if they behave good enough she rejects your attempt to have sex (either your smv is too low / you became too invested/needy or any other thing happened that dried up her pussy. you have to fucking share your own bed with an animal (come on and enforce some bounda…
/r/askTRP18/01/19 09:01 AM
15

Oneitis. It’s her problem if she can’t trust you. When she asked I would have said ‚no‘ a single time and then change topic/ignore any attempt to continue the conversation about the situation. Furthermore is this a sign that she might be cheating because her actions project onto her mind and anxieties. In theory: She is cheating so she is worried you are cheating too.
/r/askTRP18/01/19 07:30 AM
2

If the king is not around she will fuck the court jester. And Boy when I am on a 2 week trip with one of my boys and 2 girls and I like one of them... Man will I Game her... alcohol, dancing, flirting... and I guess they all sleep in the same house. If I would be that chad, I would be pretty sure to lay her. Furthermore she already hit on her and he will definitely again. Every. Single. Day.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 11:37 PM
1

Just read the situation.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 06:05 PM
5

Not the best behavior from your ltr. Red flag. Did she at least ask you if you want to join them? If she wants to cheat she will cheat.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:37 PM
2

Depends on the situation. Friends friends sure. If she’s attracted to you she will also initiate the hug as you do + hold you a bit closer. Also had times where the girl I got introduced to didn’t want to let me go. As I said a hug tells you a lot. Business, shake hands and be firm. Just read the situation and girl.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:35 PM
6

I always hug. Tells you a lot.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 05:28 PM
0

obviously need to fuck the shit out of her and never become a beta Try read the sidebar again. we will allow each other access to our phones You. Are. Fucking. Lost. Girl is being disrespectful Why are you LTR‘ing a girl that’s being disrespectful? texted another guy Seems like you are not enough to her. A girl that is into you won’t even think texting another guy because she covertly knows she will be replaced in a minute and her anxiety loosing a high value man in these days that are dominated…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:58 AM
4

Its called oneitis. One of the most important things I’ve learned here is to never and I repeat never fucking ever make decisions based on the LTR/Girl. If you could make twice as much as you do now. Do it. You would be stupid to not do just to be with the girl. She either follows you or not. You will get depressed as fuck when it’s over and you realize you didn’t take the opportunities to just stay with her. And pls don’t tell us That you care much about her. Right now you care more about her t…
/r/askTRP17/01/19 08:46 AM
6

Drinks at yours. Then go to the event. Use her for pre selection but also dread her. The other girls you talk to work also as pre selection to her. Use common sense when you dread. You are there with her. However if you find an awalt whore that is hotter and more willing to put out dump your girl. If not just take her back to your place and escalate. Boy will she be wet when she sees you got options.
/r/askTRP17/01/19 12:20 AM
5

Bet my left biceps on this: A local dj, celebrity or brad pit, all of them would have fucked her at the first or second date. Hard next your smv isn’t high enough for her.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 07:30 PM
2

Oh and he is gay.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:05 PM
2

Wait until the real fun begins and she gets more and more DM‘s from all the Jerome’s in your area. You sure your frame is strong enough to cope with that? Are you ready to dread the shit out of her? Can you drop her in a second or did you over invest and got no balls? You didn’t vet properly. You promoted a validation whore to your LTR.
/r/askTRP16/01/19 04:04 PM
4

An Hour.
/r/askTRP15/01/19 07:34 PM
5

Maybe she is not fucking you before you committed however there is a guy somewhere she would fuck before he committed. If it’s not you, it’s somebody else.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:57 PM
1

You just took overthinking to the next level. Stop worrying and actually have fun. If she finds out hold frame + amused mastery and laugh it off. As long as you don’t make it awkward it is not awkward.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:54 PM
6

How to I get her to be my girlfriend? Read the sidebar before asking this autistic question. You haven’t even fucked her yet and are thinking about ltr‘ing a girl you don’t even know. There is no point in giving you advice right now since you are missing the basics.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 09:48 PM
5

No. Treat her like a single girl.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 06:11 PM
1

This is gold.
/r/askTRP14/01/19 12:43 PM
7

Treat her like you would treat every other girl. Be unimpressed by her wealth and beauty.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:12 AM
2

Leave your ego outside. Furthermore are you a women or why are you comparing to women? Fake it till you make it.
/r/askTRP13/01/19 11:10 AM
2

This.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 04:29 PM
5

If you don’t want to fuck her, don’t fuck her. It’s that simple. Reject her sometimes and she will get even more horny.
/r/askTRP02/01/19 08:45 PM
4

You can‘t become disciplined in one day or through a Reddit post. Discipline takes time. Imagine a brick wall. Every discipline/habit is one brick. You want to put one brick line at the time and then put glue on it. Before you start the next line you wait until the glue became dry. So the message is that you slowly want to build your routine/habits. Start with 1 thing at a Time. For instance waking up 1 hour before you normally would wake up and do all the stuff that needs to be done. Then once …
/r/askTRP18/12/18 02:58 PM
1

Sidebar.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:56 PM
5

This. Are you that insecure, that a fucking emoji (an accumulation of pixels) makes you feel bad? Man the fuck up. Has her behavior towards you changed? Are you still getting the sex you want whenever you want? + blowjobs whenever you want Watch her behavior. Furthermore meeting another guy 1on1 is a hard next for me. As long as she isn’t texting him 24/7 and talking all the time about him who cares. Keep improving your smv and never stop gaming her. Create competition anxiety in her, push and p…
/r/askTRP16/12/18 04:55 PM
1

Well to answer your question: You set the boundaries for yourself and if dancing with other girls is okay for you, no need to care. If she doesn’t like it, bye.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:56 AM
2

If he would be a real friend you wouldn’t be posting here. Cut him off. Meet new people and screen for 2-3 real friends.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:37 AM
2

2 options. You tell her the truth because she deserves it and treats you well. However hold frame then and don’t explain anything. If she wants to argue go to bed or leave the room. Don’t tell her things that will lead to an argument if you can’t hold frame. Remember it’s your journey and she either enjoys it and follows you or she is free to leave.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:32 AM
4

They can’t let go and clinge to someone that should be already forgotten. Do you like clinging to rotten trash? I usually don’t let my trash rot, I throw it away and get new food. They lack abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP16/12/18 10:27 AM
3

Test her if she’s responsible enough. Let her get a gold fish or some other cheap pet and see if she does well. If she is just getting a dog without his agreement he has to make clear that he won’t walk the dog + pay any shit.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 10:21 PM
1

Apply dread. Create competition anxiety in her and it will be more sex less talk.
/r/askTRP15/12/18 07:47 PM
38

I agree partly. However what I’m doing is simple. She behaves in the desired way = reward with boyfriend treatment (ofc still do some little pushes and light dread). She behaves in an undesired way or is crossing one of my boundaries = withdraw boyfriend treatment. If she still continues your turn is over and you have to let go. Be unpredictable, never stop gaming her, 2/3 ratio, screen for the right girl, be her rock and fuck her good.
/r/TheRedPill30/11/18 09:02 AM
2

Balls in her court Bud. She has to reach out. Next time don’t fall for it. And let her be more invested. Meanwhile GFTOW. Best regards
/r/askTRP28/11/18 02:55 PM
2

Problem is she knew your old blue beta self. If you want to try it again she will test you a lot harder to see if you actually changed. Hold frame, lead, escalate, push and pull, be cocky funny, fuck her good, be unpredictable, not always available... Don’t tell her ‚you would like to see her again‘ Tell her to join you at X at Y time. Don’t do boring dates... do something you were going to do anyways... so if she flakes or the date is trash your time and energy is not wasted.
/r/askTRP27/11/18 08:35 PM
1

Just game her and escalate. See where things go. That she told you about the other guy was a shit test. She wanted to see if you held frame or give up to the other dude. Hopefully you Held frame and said something like: ‚oh he’s cute I would totally bang him‘ or ‚hands off, we are together for 2 weeks now‘.
/r/askTRP25/11/18 04:24 PM
17

Feeling you. Check out trp.red
/r/askTRP29/09/18 11:50 AM
2

This. Looks don’t matter to women as much as you think. Social status, game is what they look for. Masculinity and frame are the esssences if getting a girl wet.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:12 PM
1

Did you fuck her yet?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 12:10 PM
11

If he got game sure. If he’s only rich he will still get some gold diggers.
/r/askTRP27/09/18 06:19 AM
2

Seems like she isn’t as attracted to you as you think. Have you even fucked? Did she bring up commitment? Are you gaming her? Are you high value? And stop complimenting her. She has to earn it. Right now you reward behavior you don’t like. Stupid eh?
/r/askTRP27/09/18 04:10 AM
6

Well as long as you be her rock, showing her competition anxiety, are improving you can ‚love her‘ however never more than she loves you. Always stay less invested. Never stop gaming her.
/r/TheRedPill22/09/18 05:33 PM
1

Your last one is just on fucking point, gj.
/r/TheRedPill20/09/18 05:51 AM
1

Nice number 4 + you handled the bonus really well. By that he can’t even say something witty or funny you basically win by not playing.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:15 AM
1

Well to the ltr thing and telling about a guy asking her out, that is testing your boundaries. If you act aloof she probably thinks you don’t care enough about her. If you get jealous you fail too. Girls are not mind readers, I tell them, do whatever you want however my girlfriend is not seeing other guys 1on1. Have fun babe.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:12 AM
13

Well played on all tests imo.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/18 07:09 AM
2

Got it. I will add those more complex things to advanced.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 04:24 PM
2

Alright I see where you come from, makes sense. You mean like a cover story? How long you have been with the girl etc? I will definitely look into asktrp.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 04:15 PM
0

Alright. I get your point. Everyone has different boundaries.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:18 PM
1

Your 9. is awesome I’ll save it. (The panties thing).
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:17 PM
1

Well played on all tests. Especially on 8 and 9.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:07 PM
1

Good, especially the bonus. To 5: Exactly. Girls aren’t mind readers, what I used to say is: You can do whatever you want, however my girlfriend is not seeing guys 1on1. Have fun tho. Furthermore plant a seed in her mind by talking about other couples and what is a no go to subtly set boundaries. But I guess you already know that.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 03:02 PM
6

Enjoy the ride as long as it lasts. Do you really want to waste your energy on finding out if she is over her ex or not? The only thing that matters is, that you are fucking her right now. The day will come when you have to let go, but until that, have fun and stop worrying.
/r/askTRP17/09/18 11:44 AM
1

I just felt the same about this like you and the others did. Great opportunity to share some witty answers and reduce the chance to be caught off guard.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:55 AM
1

Your 2. is fantastic. I’m not getting 5 tho. The rest is good as well, passed.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:41 AM
33

He does. It is her job to keep him, not his job to keep her. If she wants to go alright. Her fucking loss. There is no need to forbid her things, if she wants to meet him she will.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:37 AM
1

What exactly do you mean by dominance test him, can you elaborate?
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:33 AM
11

Well played in general. Your 7. was sick, will steal that. To 5. I’m not a fan of direct dread. Would put it more subtle.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:30 AM
4

I like how you handled the bonus and totally agree. If your ltr keeps the conversation up with him she isn’t respecting you and your time. To 4. why care? She’s just a plate. Doesn’t matter what she’s doing when she’s not with you. At least that’s what I think.
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:25 AM
2

First of all there is no perfect answer for a shit test. Furthermore it always depends on how you deliver them. To: Passed. However I would ignore that shit. If she repeats, ignore. Not even worth to interact. Passed. However keep it simple. Tell her your name. Passed. I would have gone with: Only on Monday’s and Tuesdays. (Plate) Passed. My response: Cool, have fun. // Idc what my plate does when she’s not with me. (LTR) f I understood it right, failed, you entered her frame by giving a reactio…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/18 10:18 AM
4

You need to calibrate. There is no need to give her comfort when she is comfortable. However never let her get too comfortable or you get boring. To give her comfort, cuddle past orgasm, hug her, take her hand but don’t overdo this, always mix with a push. Compliment her on her dress or make up or smell but use these wisely and rarely.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 12:18 PM
1

Check alpha male strategies about ‚how to do a proper pullback‘ because that’s what she’s doing to you right now. You should pullback too and game other girls until the power shifts. If she isn’t reaching out she wasn’t attached enough.
/r/askTRP11/09/18 09:03 AM
0

Wouldn’t tell her. She wouldn’t tell you either. 2 outcomes if you tell her. 1) she leaves + you broke her heart 2) she stays since girls prefer sharing a high value man than being with billy blue
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:41 AM
4

Stop being a bitch and be thankful she is giving you a ride to the gym. Furthermore your ‚responses‘ sound butthurt as fuck and show how weak your frame is. Do you really give a fuck about what a creature, that needs a certain amount of likes on her new Instagram picture to feel good, says/writes to you? Amused mastery. / ‚Sidebitch 7 was cleaning my shoes...‘
/r/askTRP11/09/18 08:37 AM
1

TRP is amoral. Fuck her if you want to, if not just don’t. Read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP08/09/18 03:16 PM
7

We all want.
/r/askTRP05/09/18 12:01 PM
0

Sidebar, book of pook, TRM, NMMNG is all you need. Furthermore it has nothing to do with ‚being an asshole‘. You keep the ltr fresh by always striving for the best version of yourself, holding frame, gaming her, dread and giving her ‚father love‘. Stick to the golden ratio (2/3) of all she gives you. Never be more invested than her. Give her a chance to miss you. Fuck her good. Surprise her. Be her rock. Don’t be a weak bitch. Don’t communicate. Treat her like a child.
/r/askTRP04/09/18 07:49 PM
8

Hard next that stupid whore. Her. Fucking. Loss.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 10:35 PM
5

You see a girl you find attractive? Go approach her.
/r/askTRP03/09/18 02:06 PM
3

You can‘t hold/create attraction via text, only lose it. She either is still attracted to you when you are back or not. If you know when you will be back, ping her and set up a date.
/r/askTRP30/08/18 06:07 AM
2

Solo clubbing. Be early at the venue and have a chat with the barkeepers and bouncers. If you can afford it tip a bit more than usual. Build a base. Talk to people at the bar. Look for people that are average. Hunt. Approach the girls you wanna fuck. If you get rejected back to your base / barkeepers. Guess you know how to isolate / comfort her / build and break rapport. — + if you chat with the barkeepers it gives you lots of social value that’s why being there early is good
/r/askTRP29/08/18 09:14 PM
2

To texting: I text only when I can. That makes it more random. I usually don’t text her when I’m at work except it’s something severe. Sometimes it’s several hours, sometimes it’s within minutes. Make it unpredictable. Hell sometimes go without a day. Golden ratio 2/3. I rarely validate her via text. Give her the chance to miss you.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 12:02 PM
2

As long as you get the sex you want whenever you want. Fine. However trust your gut and already start building a plate base so when you have to dump her you can instantly fuck other girls. Furthermore I would apply dread.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 10:52 AM
7

You reward good behaviour with attention. You punish bad behaviour with the withdrawing of attention. Don’t buy her anything. She’s happy enough to be with you. Remember women want to be treated okay by someone awesome and men want to be treated awesome by someone okay. — If you really want to reward her, take her on a fun trip for instance hiking and fuck her in the woods or on top of the mountain.
/r/askTRP28/08/18 08:31 AM
1

Act like it didn’t happen and fuck her good next time. It’s not beta as long as you aren’t acting beta.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:41 PM
2

Fuck a different Girl asap. Imo best best way to get over her. Gym. Meditate. Cold showers. Always have a sidebitch in your phone to meet when your ltr dumps you. Next time be less invested than her and keep your smv high.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 10:39 PM
1

to attack me with... Boy if you see that as an attack you have a long way to go. Amused mastery. Agree and amplify. Ignore. One of these would have made you get the pussy. It was nothing more than a shit test. Read sidebar.
/r/askTRP27/08/18 07:41 AM
2

Nice hamstering
/r/askTRP27/08/18 07:39 AM
4

He instantly qualified himself as Billy blue provider and displayed that he has to compensate his low value status by buying her drinks. Major turn off however nice to have someone buying you drinks eh? Never buy drinks for random whores. — If you are gaming a girl and go to the toilet or whatever and she is talking / flirting with another guy you instantly approach other girls. If you are high smv your whore from before will most likely try to get your attention back / draw you away from the ot…
/r/askTRP27/08/18 06:31 AM
4

Don’t expect anything of your women. Enjoy her company as long as you can. When it’s time to move on, let go. Trust your gut, not a whore.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:04 PM
4

You missed plausible deniability. Always give her plausible deniability. You had your chance and you fucked up. Furthermore I can tell that you came off as insecure and operated in her frame. You failed her shit test ,you have a girlfriend‘ and that is when she disqualified you as a potential fuck.
/r/askTRP26/08/18 06:03 PM
1

Easy. If he still enjoys her company keep her, if not dump her. Enough other girls waiting to get plowed by your friend. Furthermore if she isn’t adding real value to your friends life why keep her?
/r/askTRP24/08/18 01:05 PM
2

Meeting another dude 1on1 is date. Doesn’t matter whether he’s your best friend or father. If my ltr goes 1on1 with another dude it’s goodbye time. Her fucking loss.
/r/askTRP21/08/18 09:11 AM
1

This. Just enjoy the ride and when she leaves, take it as a win. Her fucking loss. Hit sidebitch #8 up and fuck her the day she left with her ex or another man.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:16 PM
7

Have some self respect and block her everywhere. No closure no explanation. You lost frame however save at least the last bit that is left. Send her the clothes, don’t meet her. Now go out and approach/fuck other women.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:10 PM
2

Dread. Make her know the moment she fucks up she’s gone. Let her feel competition anxiety. Big mistake on cohabitation. How will you keep the mystery up? How will you soft next her? — Let go if you have to let go.
/r/askTRP20/08/18 02:07 PM
3

Depends on how tragic it was. Crying is okay as long as it fits the situation. She might not even have lost attraction if it was severe. It shows you are embracing emotions and are not a robot. Now don’t bring it up again.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 05:59 PM
10

Block and move on. Why would you beat them? You never signed a contract to stay exclusive. Get overyourself and suck it up.
/r/askTRP18/08/18 03:57 PM
2

Being cocky funny is the best imo. It displays humor however also gives her tingles. By just being funny be careful not to be her clown and personal entertainer, remember she has to entertain you not vice versa.
/r/askTRP17/08/18 07:40 AM
1

She reciprocated all of my physical and psychological needs we have been on 2 dates Have you fucked her already? If not your nothing more than free validation to her right now.
/r/askTRP16/08/18 09:34 AM
9

Who cares. If you like eating ass, eat ass. If you don’t like it don’t eat ass. Simple as that.
/r/askTRP14/08/18 03:04 PM
6

Read the fucking sidebar and all your questions are gone.
/r/askTRP13/08/18 11:24 AM
1

Exactly. Even if she’s initiating contact you wait those 7 days. If you still want her in your life, initiate contact after 7 days of soft nexting like nothing happened. If she asks why you didn’t reply Blabla tell her you were busy. However be aware by soft nexting a girl you might lose her.
/r/askTRP10/08/18 07:03 AM
2

Boy your text game sucks. The drug stealing joke was the right direction however you can’t just text her that out of the blue. You made it an interview... always be different and text something random like what’s your favorite dinosaur. To reignite the conversation text her: 4 or 7? Trust me she will respond. If she asks why. Hold ‚text frame‘ and repeat 4 or 7. Once she answered text her: Blue or red? From there you can set up a date and tell her will show you the result of the test at DayX at …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:58 AM
2

I just started to read: Not caring what others think... by Ed Latimore. However imo a book won’t change your mindset alone. Throw yourself out there, let people see you fail, let them laugh at you, let them point with their fingers at you however at the end of the day you made progress and became a better man than you were yesterday. Let me ask you this question: What is the worst thing that can happen? She spits you in the face? People laughing at you? She screams fuck off? If those things are …
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:44 AM
3

And this is what more guys need to understand. Cold approaching a girl in public displays strong confidence to her. No alcohol involved = they don’t have to screen whether it’s the alcohol that gives you the needed confidence or you are just confident.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 07:40 AM
20

Count your fingers, still have 10? If yes, look at your feet both still there? If yes, are you having cancer, aids or Ebola? If no, nothing changed, why would you care about what other people think? If you give a fuck about what other people think you won’t get anywhere.
/r/askTRP09/08/18 05:47 AM
2

PC muscle training.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:27 AM
1

Today.
/r/askTRP07/08/18 07:26 AM
4

She isn’t as attracted to you as you think. Watch her actions not her words.
/r/askTRP06/08/18 06:34 PM
0

No need to care however it’s fact that you break her by doing that.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 12:52 PM
1

Soft next. If she isn’t getting the reason why you are soft nexting her = still in contact with her ex, hard next that stupid whore.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:26 AM
29

This. Give her no explanation and no closure. Just block her everywhere and move on. She won’t ever forget you.
/r/askTRP05/08/18 06:23 AM
2

Easy. Seeing a hot girl? Approach her. Doesn’t matter what the situation is like. If you see a girl you find attractive go for it.
/r/askTRP04/08/18 02:06 PM
2

Give her the chance to miss you. By texting you are available to her. If she is attracted to you she won’t lose attraction if you don’t text but might lose it when you text.
/r/askTRP01/08/18 08:56 AM
2

Your SMV is probably too low.
/r/askTRP30/07/18 06:48 AM
3

This. Yes it is her job to shut them down however if she keeps one of the numbers, you either hard next her or you instantly game other girls. Thing is, if she keeps one number, she will keep more.
/r/askTRP26/07/18 06:00 AM
1

Stop focusing so hard on making her cum. She obviously sees you as higher value and therefore is already happy to be in your presence. Just have fun with her. All you have to do is to not fuck it up and become needy or too emotional.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:47 PM
1

I assume whiskey dick means you couldn’t get it up? Who cares as long as you hold frame + amused mastery, finger her or let her play with your flabby dick. Proceed like you fucked her brains out. Remember this: Whenever you feel awkward or don’t know what to say, act like you are lying with her and her best friend in bed after a threesome.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:43 PM
1

If you value your friendship more approach other women, there are enough sluts out there. If you don’t value your friendship and wanna fuck, fuck her.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:40 PM
6

You did everything right keep it up. Watch her actions not her words.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:38 PM
3

First of all she should bring up commitment not you. Secondly 2 months is way too short to have her thoroughly vetted. Test her good, because giving her your commitment, time, energy and attention are your most valuable goods.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 11:42 AM
7

You are asking the wrong question. How does she keep you interested? If you think you lose her because you aren’t texting her 24/7 like the clingy orbiters, you have to work on yourself until you become the man she wants to keep interested.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:15 AM
8

She’s your plate why do you even care? You do your thing and she does hers. Wrap it up and enjoy the ride until she breaks.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 09:11 AM
2

He probably stopped gaming her, displayed that she is his only source of sex, became too invested / needy + put her on a pedestal and tolerated too much disrespect of her.
/r/askTRP25/07/18 04:28 AM
3

Great comment.
/r/askTRP24/07/18 08:52 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 11:22 PM
2

Alright. I won’t tell you what’s morally correct however was it morally correct that she flirted with that cuck? Who cares, do whatever makes you become the best version of yourself. Hopefully you soft nexted her.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:27 PM
3

Well the fucking part because if she isn’t pulling you away, she isn’t caring about you/ isn’t trying to secure you which means attraction is gone = ltr over.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:22 PM
4

Next time shit like this happens instantly approach other girls, if your girl isn’t pulling you away, fuck the other girl.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:12 PM
13

This. Don’t be too available and actually give her the chance to miss you.
/r/askTRP23/07/18 04:10 PM
1

3rd date and you are thinking about an ltr? Furthermore why would you even think about ltr‘s if you want plates. Make her a high value plate then. Do what makes you happy.
/r/askTRP22/07/18 06:22 PM
1

Just google for it, cuz mine is in my native language.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 06:12 AM
1

Nah you won’t get banned, because you don’t exceed the maximum likes/follows per hour. It just seems like you are very active on Instagram. You get around 10-15 followers a day, on somedays more, on some less. They won’t see if you unfollow, they would have to check their followers and remember you. Of course some unfollow you again but your count goes up anyways. Costs about 12€ a month.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:47 AM
1

Just get a bot that likes and follows people and unfollows them after some hours. Looks like natural growing then and you have real followers.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:43 AM
2

Give it one more try, if she isn’t rescheduling you know what’s up.
/r/askTRP19/07/18 05:41 AM
1

Never be scared to walk away.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:19 PM
2

Good response, wouldn’t have said it any different. The only thing I would add is that she has to know the moment she fucks up she’s replaced in a heartbeat. She has to know you have options and will replace her.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 04:08 PM
8

Read it all. I told her Communication is reserved for betas, take action instead of talking like a pussy I watched this for two weeks and decided to have a serious talk with her, about how this isn't good for the relationship. Again you are talking instead of taking action. I'd punch this guy's throat and that I don't want her to meet up with him ever again. Ding. Ding. Ding. We have a frame breaking winner here ladies and gentleman. Like breaking frame was not enough you start mate guarding. I …
/r/askTRP17/07/18 01:29 PM
1

You might research, 1 glass of wine actually benefits you.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 11:06 AM
3

I don’t reschedule unless she has a proper reason. Being ‚busy‘ is not enough for me. Text her: ‚My place 8PM bring wine.‘ If she wants to see you, she will find a way to see you.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 09:54 AM
5

Why would you care? Enjoy the ride.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:57 AM
-2

My ex girlfriend.
/r/askTRP17/07/18 08:41 AM
9

Read it all. What value is she adding to your life? She’s obviously trying to make you stagnate and guilt trap you. Of course you had your weak moments that fucked up a lot however you are trying to improve yourself and she isn’t. It will take a lot of work to reform that relationship since you let the reins slip. I would approach others girls, there are enough girls that will value you and do the things you want whenever you want. No need to waste time on a girl that is trying to stop you from …
/r/askTRP15/07/18 10:47 AM
21

Just wait for her. You might found a unicorn. Ups I misspelled unicorn, I meant whore.
/r/askTRP14/07/18 02:38 AM
5

Oh so she would feel uncomfortable meeting brad Pitt 1on1 too? She’s looking for another orbiter/emotional tampon/free meal.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 08:46 AM
6

My response would be: ‚I‘m barely on Twitter.‘ That’s it. If she gives you her number she’s attracted and interested to/in you, because she wants to interact with you. Since you aren’t often on Twitter she will give you her number so she isn’t losing you. If not you were nothing more but free validation to her. Block and approach other women.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 12:25 PM
8

She is trying to milk you for free validation. When I get those pictures I usually reply with: ‚5/10‘ or ignore it. By giving her a 5 she doesn’t know if you like it or not = her attempt to get validation is denied. By ignoring you simply show her that you don’t give validation easy or for free.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 09:14 AM
5

Before having a routine, think about how lucky you are that you are allowed to live another day on earth, remember we will die sooner or later, wasting your time by sleeping too long is just sad. That gives me enough drive to fuck the snooze button right in the ass, get up, cold shower and prepare my meal before I head to work.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 07:28 AM
9

Hard next that bitch. She was swallowing other men’s cum. However if you like tasting other men’s cum on the lips of your ltr, stay with her. Furthermore you came off as a pussy and needy. It’s not your job to ask where your girls is, she has to tell you. Block her everywhere and approach other women.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 06:40 AM
1

Yeah probably. Approach other women, balls in her court.
/r/askTRP11/07/18 03:53 AM
2

Not good for you since it shows that she isn’t really that much attracted/attached to you, I would expand the soft next to 7 days. Keep in mind you might lose her.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 05:49 PM
9

True. You need to find the right balance between AF and BB if you are trying to keep your women around. If you are too BB she will look for AF. If you are too AF she will look for BB on the side.
/r/TheRedPill10/07/18 04:27 PM
3

Make it 4-5 days. No texting,calling, any form of contact is forbidden. Radiosilence is your friend. That girl seems like drama, anal plate only.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 04:20 PM
10

Well those kind of responses have to come from a place of abundance. If she doesn’t like that response cool, another girl will.
/r/askTRP10/07/18 03:52 PM
18

‚Was the other girl hotter? 08:00 PM bring wine, no underwear.‘
/r/askTRP10/07/18 02:58 PM
33

The best thing is that women try to sell us the illusion that they are always there for us and we should always talk about our problems with them. Bullshit. Grab your best mate and a beer and talk about the shit that bothers you.
/r/TheRedPill09/07/18 11:20 AM
1

Game consists of many factors. Start with the sidebar if you want to fully understand it.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 12:11 PM
5

Not your circus not your monkeys. He won’t understand your pov.
/r/askTRP06/07/18 10:31 AM
4

Not your circus not your monkeys. He doesn’t want your help, otherwise he would have asked you.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 07:59 PM
3

Listen to this ^
/r/askTRP05/07/18 02:08 PM
6

Uh? Who cares if she has a boyfriend or not. In these days having a boyfriend is nothing more than a status symbol for girls. Keep gaming her like she never said she has a boy friend, assume she’s single and keep escalating and gaming her.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:38 PM
3

What worked for me with rich people was treating them like normal people. Hold your frame, don’t agree with everything they say, have fun and be fun. Add value to their social circle and soon they want you to be at every event.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 12:37 PM
3

You are overthinking. Adhere to the golden ratio however it’s nothing wrong about initiating a conversation to set up a date. —> shows her you take what you want. Just don’t shower her with texts and compliments. I mean she is using her day off to buy sex toys that you will use to fuck her. If you don’t see that this girl is investing a lot in you (time,money), you are retarded. Get over your ego and finally take what you want. If she isn’t responding you know what’s up.
/r/askTRP05/07/18 10:08 AM
49

‚8.30 PM, bring wine.‘ I don’t argue with girls. She either takes it or leaves it. However if she’s a shy/low self esteem girl your friend needs to calibrate his push and pull better.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 12:51 PM
10

Ignore. There is a reason why she is your ex. Enough other girls to pursue.
/r/askTRP04/07/18 10:39 AM
2

Prepare the break up. Organise your stuff. Break up with her in public (Starbucks or other bs), not at home. Tell her things aren’t working out anymore and the decision is final. You had a good time Blablabla but now it’s over. Wish her the best, hug her if she wants to, wipe her tears away and leave.
/r/askTRP03/07/18 03:27 PM
1

Both.
/r/askTRP02/07/18 06:43 PM
6

Stop being a bitch and actually start changing your life. Yeah you were fucking retarded giving commitment to a girl you haven’t vetted nor fucked. However you got burned and hopefully learned your lesson. You lazy fucker have you heard about google? There are billions of budget recipes for vegetarians. Sleep and a good diet is the key to lifting successfully, get your shit together. Start studying or end up as someone with a mediocre income that wasted 3 years of his life to study unsuccessfull…
/r/askTRP01/07/18 10:10 AM
8

Way too much drama for a gurl that you haven’t even fucked.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:50 AM
5

Are you fucking her? If not end things immediately. If yes soft next her if her behavior was soft next worthy.
/r/askTRP01/07/18 07:32 AM
4

Just started trying jaw exercises. From the information I found you should see a change after 4-6 weeks when doing the exercises. However your body fat should be low.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 05:19 PM
2

To your performance chill out. Start pc muscle training and fap before fucking or tell her round 2 is coming soon. Hair pulling, slapping her ass (+ light choking) is all what a girl needs in bed. To your acne, visit a dermatologist and try zinc.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 02:00 PM
1

You probably failed shit tests before or broke frame / displayed BB behaviour. If a girl is a attracted to you + sees you as a high value man, she will never ever turn you down. Instead she will ask if you want a 2nd round or go to bed because you wake up early to lift those fucking weights.
/r/askTRP30/06/18 12:36 PM
3

Tbh I don’t actively think about where to find and meet women that I consider hot. I do my thing, mission, hobbies and gym. Whenever I see a girl I find attractive, I approach her. Yeah sometimes you win, sometimes you lose that’s the game. Trial and error are your friends.
/r/askTRP29/06/18 03:16 PM
22

On the way home from work/classes. (Public transportation..)
/r/askTRP29/06/18 07:53 AM
2

That actually makes sense, to have a sexual drive but not a one that makes you needy/thinking about sex the whole time.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:40 PM
2

You are probably right about the fapping, however 6 years no lay is a looooong time.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:34 PM
2

Well for me it’s keeping my game sharp. Since the moment you stop gaming her she loses interest and attraction.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:33 PM
7

Have you ever heard about abundance mentality? Yes, that shit works. Furthermore why care? If she wants to cheat she will cheat. Keep working on yourself and you are way to busy to care about a bitch cheating on you. If she does, you fuck the next girl, her loss. However listen to your gut. If it feels wrong, it’s likely that something is wrong. Approach other girls and have some plates in your pocket so a break up won‘t affect you in any way.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 03:05 PM
5

First of all fap before meeting her. That will kill your neediness. Cold shower to think clear. Be outcome independent. You might plate her good job. You might fuck it up. Good job. In both cases you win. You already did more than 80% of the guys on this sub by practicing what’s preached. It’s nothing more than trial and error. If she rejects you, who cares? It’s a bitch, a luxury good. Her loss ‚ next girls are waiting for you. Go for the kill.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:36 PM
13

Inspiring thanks. Saved.
/r/askTRP28/06/18 02:32 PM
11

Yep and if she isn’t getting the message, she either doesn’t want to, because she’s fucking other chads or she’s just retarded which means you vetted her poorly.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 02:27 PM
90

Why are you vocalizing it instead of withdrawing attention and denying her the girlfriend treatment? Action over words. Of course she is not a mindreader but that kind of disrespect is obvious as fuck. Soft next and dread. Tbh you should never let those reins lose to the point of getting disrespected.
/r/TheRedPill28/06/18 01:41 PM
6

Example #1: Was in a Club with my ltr. She got hit on by a dude, it’s her job to turn him down. Seemed she know each other. Since she wasn’t turning him down instantly, I went to a group of girls dancing next to me, one of them gave me glances all night, approached and danced with her. You won’t imagine how fast my ltr turned the guy down, came over, pulled me away and kissed me like it’s her last night on earth. For the whole night, she was mate guarding me from other women. Example #2: We were…
/r/askTRP28/06/18 07:43 AM
3

Calm down and put them off your pedestal that you build for them. Their vaginas are as wet as the vaginas of an HB5. Treat them like an HB 3. Don‘t shower them with compliments. Set up a date and see where things go.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 09:43 AM
6

Never ever try to cheer her up. Ask her if something is wrong, if she says it’s nothing, her fault, go and have fun without her then. However if it’s something severe, hug and hold her, don’t say any blue bullshit like ‚it gets better‘, just say ‚I‘m here‘ and be her rock. Life is too short to spend it with toxic people.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 08:55 AM
2

We can’t tell you what you want. Do what feels right. If you want to be in an ltr go for it, if not just keep spinning plates. Side note: TRP is much more than about being ALFA and fucking bitches. It’s about becoming the best version of yourself and not getting burned by women aka sexual strategy. Furthermore women are a lagging indicator of success.
/r/askTRP27/06/18 06:55 AM
14

Follow your gut. It seemed you did good until she moved away. Your texts were needy. The moment she mentions being out with other guys is the moment you withdraw attention and apply dread. Feels like there is a lot of trickle truth in there. Don’t snoop her phone, I’d rather dump her than snooping through her phone or cuck shit like that. Could you live with the fact that she swallowed other men’s cum? If not ditch her, if yes proceed.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 04:08 PM
1

^ this.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 02:35 PM
6

Well said. And this is the irony of AWALT and women’s nature.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:49 AM
11

And finally he becomes her beta cuck so that she can cheat on the man she created.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:42 AM
8

First of all why are you asking her out instead of telling her to join you? Furthermore tell her: ‚cool, he’s cute I’d fuck him (too)‘ Then set up a next date.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:41 AM
6

GFTOW. Lift. Cold shower. Meditate. Oh and by the way, right now your unicorn is getting railed the shit out of her by 4 guys. One is fucking her ass, one is fucking her V, one is fucking her mouth and the last one is cumming on her face while she is responding to your messages.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:33 AM
10

Easy. The moment she isn’t satisfying you anymore (sexual or in any other way) is the moment the girlfriend treatment stops. This means withdraw attention and reduce texts to a minimum (max. 3 responses a day). You give attention and status, she gives the sex you want whenever you want. Make her subtly realize that if she can’t satisfy your needs it’s good bye time.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 10:25 AM
9

Congrats on changing from a suicidal loser to someone that wants to become the best version of oneself. However you already start with the wrong mindset. It sounds like you want it to happen which makes you outcome dependent. First of all before you start gaming you want to fix yourself. That means have a mission and goals. Write them down. I repeat write them down. Furthermore start lifting and dress nice + good haircut. Of course you can start gaming before you did all those things however the…
/r/askTRP26/06/18 09:10 AM
2

By approaching women.
/r/askTRP26/06/18 06:21 AM
5

He used to be but is now on Patreon: Donovan Sharpe Also check for alpha male strategies
/r/askTRP26/06/18 05:55 AM
6

Looking at my value and my progress boosts me enough. No need to compare with others.
/r/askTRP25/06/18 08:46 PM
1

If she says that, keep on doing what you were doing, if you are trying to sleep and she is not stopping, leave (if you are at her place) or throw her out (if you are at your place). However if it’s something severe listen and hug. Then tell her you need to sleep.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:28 PM
1

Because you were dependent on her. Do your own thing and just enjoy the ride as long as you can. You can invest emotionally and you need to while being in an ltr however never be more invested than her. Always strive for the best version of yourself and remember you were fine before (without) her. She needs you more than you need her.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 04:24 PM
3

She’s a 5 year old girl. Treat her like that. Furthermore be her rock in the storm, do rocks speak?
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:51 PM
-2

Well for me: I could never fuck a girl that im not attracted to as good as I could fuck a girl I’m attracted to. Furthermore I wouldn’t even want to try out the kinky things, I’d just want to pump and dump her ASAP. But that’s only my personal experience.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 02:05 PM
4

He will never be able to achieve/practice his full potential of game if he isn’t attracted to the girl.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:47 PM
10

Implement ‚the day you met her is the day you lost her‘. Follow your mission, give her a chance to miss you, fuck her good (hair pulling/slapping her ass), lift and make her subtly know the moment she fucks up is the moment she’s replaced in a heartbeat. Girls are nothing more but a luxury good. You don’t need them to be happy however it’s nice to have one/multiple.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:41 PM
42

Why don’t train with girls that he finds attractive? Practicing with girls that he isn’t attracted to is like practicing piano on a piano that is drawn onto a sheet of paper.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 01:14 PM
3

She doesn’t love you but the way how you make her feel. Men love women, women love children and validation and children love puppies.
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:51 PM
54

Why would you fuck a girl that you aren’t attracted to?
/r/askTRP21/06/18 12:49 PM
6

If she would love to she would have rescheduled. Next.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 09:02 PM
5

Park/Beach is good. Make sure to kino her and escalate to see if she reciprocates and is considering you as potential fuck. If she isn’t reciprocating/rejecting you several times leave and go meet your sidebitch #3.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 12:30 PM
2

Yep. It shows her that I’m still wanting to spend time with her. I know there is no comfort in the message but I don’t do comfort via text. That’s why I put the ‚bring a pencil‘ in to add some mystery which will make her come. If she can’t deal with that, her loss, there are enough girls who can.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 12:09 PM
4

She needs comfort, if you can’t give it to her she will get it from someone else. If you want to keep her give her some comfort, if not just let her break. My response: ‚Wednesday 7PM my place. Bring wine and forget your underwear but bring a pencil.‘ When she shows up comfort her a little.
/r/askTRP18/06/18 11:52 AM
1

Nope I chose my friends wisely and if they do, they apologize and hand me a beer.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 09:21 PM
12

I wouldn’t call a person that disrespects me a friend. Cut everything toxic out of your life.
/r/askTRP17/06/18 08:19 PM
4

Be firm to her. Say hi and keep conversation to a minimum. Then move onto the next hottest girl. Don’t tell the nurse. You show dread, don’t talk about it. However if she isn’t misbehaving and knows other girls are trying to get with you, there is no need for hard dread.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:12 PM
1

Soft next = at least 3 days of radio silence. No replying to text messages, no answering of phone calls. You can still post stories on social media. Show her what life is without you.
/r/askTRP16/06/18 03:09 PM
3

Respond with ‚k‘. Approach other girls, she is obviously not valuing you enough. A girl that wants to see you, will see you.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 03:04 PM
1

You do everything right. She is chasing your validation, that’s what makes her pussy wet.
/r/askTRP15/06/18 07:14 AM
2

I‘m new to all of this. Bullshit. Tell her to join you at X on Y day. That’s the best way to figure out wether she’s attractive or not. Texting is a waste of time. However she’s close to the wall —> plate material at best.
/r/askTRP14/06/18 08:59 AM
3

Nah. She misbehaved and you showered her with welfare and apologized for something she initiated. If she is with you + at your place she has to respect you, that means if you want to sleep, she has to shut the fuck up and stroke you until you sleep. Furthermore if she hasn’t given you a goodnight blowjob, she is allowed to do that too. You have to make her realize, the moment she fucks up, she is replaced. Life is short, why waste your time and energy on someone that isn’t treating you the way y…
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:27 AM
1

She gives you unnecessary drama? Kick her out. Your place, your rules. You wanted to sleep, she started drama and didn’t stop. She isn’t respecting you, soft next her. You asked her if she is fine to drive, she said yes, why even ask her a second time? Let her go. Soooo she started all that bullshit and you are the one apologizing? Oh boy you are her bitch. — Do you have any self respect? You weren’t a dick, but she was a bitch. To me, her behavior showed that it’s time to demote/hard next her. …
/r/askTRP08/06/18 11:19 AM
3

Not worth. Save yourself time and energy by approaching other women. Why would you try to fix a broken car, when you get offered a new/better one for free?
/r/askTRP08/06/18 07:15 AM
1

Keep lifting and approach other girls. Remember this: You were fine before her and you will be fine after her. I hope you learned your lesson to not be too invested in/attached to a girl. The moment you realize a breakup would hurt you is the moment you are emotionally too invested.
/r/askTRP07/06/18 09:23 AM
2

She‘s looking for a provider. Do you get the sex you want whenever you want? Im talking about the kinky shit.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 01:19 PM
3

First of all why are you dating/ considering a post wall woman? Have you fucked? If not welcome to the orbit. Furthermore she’s nothing more than plate material.
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:59 PM
3

‚Ok cool, bring wine, a pencil and appear in a bathrobe (no underwear).‘
/r/askTRP05/06/18 12:56 PM
15

If you leave soon/aren’t dependent on the job go for the kill. Otherwise don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP03/06/18 05:56 PM
1

Yh what she does when she isn’t with you doesn’t matter, who cares. She’s a potential plate nothing more. If she acts uninterested, keep trying, might be a shit test to see if you are the real deal. She can always walk away if she doesn’t want to continue the game. Don’t listen to her words, watch her actions. If you don’t make out at the party, hard next that bitch.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:32 PM
1

Can’t agree except that this applies to a certain degree on low quality and low self confidence/esteem girls. As long as she behaves good and treats me in the desired way she is rewarded with my loyalty. However it’s not vocalized, it’s shown by actions.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:37 PM
-1

It won’t. The thing with a really cold shower is that your body will be in an emergency mode because if you don’t get out of that cold water, you will probably die. You won’t and shouldn’t reach that heat in a sauna. What I discovered for me is if my nose is clogged and I take a cold shower, it’s free afterwards.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 01:33 PM
1

You decide, be a ‚dick‘ or a useless human that wastes 1 day, 24 hours of his life because he’s too tired. By cold I mean maximum cold. Minimum for 3 minutes. Push yourself.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:58 PM
1

Cold showers worksfor me. Furthermore let them sleep on the couch if you can’t send them home.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:53 PM
1

If she can’t handle the dread/comfort balance she is free to leave. Dread isn’t about cheating on your ltr. It’s about displaying that you have options and can have sex with a different women the moment she fucks up.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 12:29 PM
2

Bullshit. Dread and competition anxiety is what keeps a girl attracted to you during your ltr.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:34 AM
1

Exactly. Giving comfort or compliments is not wrong. The moment you ltr a girl, you have to give her a certain amount of comfort now and then. Just don’t make her too comfortable i.e. that she recognizes she’s your only option and source of sex. She should always be scared that she can be replaced in a heartbeat if she fucks up or isn’t treating you in the desired way = competition anxiety. A nice push and pull I use is to look her deep in the eyes (if she has blue eyes) and tell her: Damn I lov…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 11:31 AM
8

Alright let’s go. I tell her I’m the captain of the team... Never explain your decisions. You are/will be a high value man. There is no need to justify nor explain your decisions, especially not to a creature that starts crying when her instagram picture doesn’t hit the 100 likes threshold. Just tell her you are busy and will let her know if you can make it. (Adds mystery and abundance) she wants things to go slow... Do you think she would want things to go slow with brad Pitt or a local dj as w…
/r/askTRP01/06/18 08:13 AM
3

This. It’s about calibrating comfort and dread/pushing. Some girls need like 80% pushing and 20% pulling, others need only 60% pushing and 40% pulling. However never pull more than you push. It’s not wrong to tell her that you like her, or that she smells/looks good however choose the right moment i.e reward good behavior. Currently I’m trying to compliment her only (mental/physical) during sex and post orgasm. Never send compliments via text, that is reserved for the orbiters on social media.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:52 AM
7

She’s trying to make you treat her like a snowflake because oh yeah she got hurt in the past. Furthermore if you don’t want to end as her emotional tampon stop listening to her bullshit.
/r/askTRP01/06/18 07:46 AM
11

Just be careful with what infos you share to him. 48lawsofpower
/r/askTRP30/05/18 02:06 PM
11

Since he’s your roommate and can make your life hell, I wouldn’t approach when he’s already talking to her. Approach her the next time you see her. But keep in mind that incel retard will be jealous when he sees you with her. Plan accordingly.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 01:52 PM
1

Invite another boy that takes the mutual friend, so you can isolate her.
/r/askTRP30/05/18 07:21 AM
4

Don’t shit where you eat. Hold frame, be firm.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:03 PM
6

Wouldn’t that just make me... No it won’t and why do you care? You don’t need her anymore, she gets replaced the second she fucks up/bores you. Never explain. Never give her closure. Improve yourself and she will recognize that she lost a high value male. Surprisingly I don’t feel like I was. You were, otherwise you wouldn’t be here, instead you would fuck her best girlfriend right now. Listen brother, she had the power to make you feel bad and devastated for days. She’s a fucking women, crying …
/r/askTRP29/05/18 02:02 PM
26

Do you like fucking corpses? Because she is/should be dead to you. 3.5 Billion bitches out there, why plate the girl that fucked you over and gave you std‘s. Good job on radio silence. Block her everywhere. Lift, approach, fuck, repeat. Next time don’t be more invested than the girl.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 01:30 PM
1

By accepting the nature of women. Every girl is different and unique and yet they are all the same.
/r/askTRP29/05/18 06:03 AM
4

Why do you care? She probably has a better ass than your gf that’s why your gf is desperate. None of your business.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 07:59 PM
5

Meeting another dude 1on1 results in a hard next, at least for me. Remember this, she had the choice to not meet him. Yet she still went for it knowing that she will break one of your boundaries (it seemed like you set that boundary). Basically she valued meeting him more than respecting your boundaries. It depends on you and her value, can you live with the fact that she might sucked his dick and swallowed his cum? If yes, soft next her and continue the relationship. If not you know what to do.
/r/askTRP28/05/18 04:15 AM
2

Hard Next. It’s not worth the time and energy to fix this. Furthermore before having an ltr you should have experienced a soft harem for at least one year. It takes time to implement rp principles. Game other girls and block her everywhere. Plating is not an option. Lose is improve.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 09:58 PM
1

Gym is perfect as long as you aren’t a skinny kid. Show her how to do certain + new exercises and correct her. That’s pretty much perfect plausible deniability to use kino. In one moment you tell her she looks like a pig while working out and is clumsy and in the next you tell her she smells like a goddess. - push and pull.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 07:50 PM
1

First of all stop getting too high or too drunk. Furthermore stop apologizing and being insecure about your bed. If it’s too small, fuck her on the floor you pussy. The fact that she is still setting up ‚dates‘ shows that she is still somewhat attracted. This is probably your last chance. Use kino and push and pull. Make sure she knows that you aren’t looking for a friend but a fuck. (Kino. Kino. Kino.)
/r/askTRP27/05/18 07:12 PM
47

Ignore those 2 other comments. It’s a shit test nothing more. Ignore or AA. Reply with: ‚cool‘ and shrug or ‚let’s have a threesome‘. However if she does that constantly and bores you, next her. You don’t have to put up with bullshit if you don’t want to.
/r/askTRP27/05/18 11:40 AM
14

Your smv is too low. Start lifting and girls will start recognizing you.
/r/askTRP24/05/18 11:03 PM
4

It won’t be the same. Practice it on bitches you find attractive. You have nothing to lose. IMO there are 3 levels of kino. Make sure to calibrate.
/r/askTRP23/05/18 10:23 AM
13

Congrats. You are about to become her beta bux. Fuck her as long as you want however she’s nothing more but plate material.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 11:31 PM
11

She said she will contact you. If she doesn’t move on, her loss.
/r/askTRP22/05/18 05:05 AM
6

Treat her like an HB 5 and she will get wet. Tease her, don’t put her on a pedestal and escalate. Make sure to calibrate kino. IMO cocky funny and more pushing than pulling works best for hot girls.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 07:26 PM
5

Get that Disney and soul mate fantasy bullshit out of your head. Yes she was hot and clever, your type. However she’s still nothing special. There will be always a hotter and more clever / fun girl. You read the sidebar and applied your knowledge. Good job. I promise you, gftow and she won’t be that special anymore. Enjoy the ride as long as it lasts and when it’s time to go, move on.
/r/askTRP21/05/18 12:26 PM
3

Indeed however he isn’t the one.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 02:14 PM
2

Well if you can live with the fact that she won’t blow, keep her. If not, demote to plate and find a girl that blows.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 01:44 PM
4

Some girls are into blowing some aren’t. If she isn’t giving you what you want whenever you want, why be with her?
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:03 PM
6

Plausible deniability + retrying 2-3 times. If she isn’t putting out, time to say goodbye.
/r/askTRP20/05/18 12:01 PM
4

Game other girls, up your dread and let her know that you have options. I don’t ltr girls that are dependent on social media validation.
/r/askTRP19/05/18 04:44 PM
4

The moment you feel you can’t drop her is the moment you got oneitis. She might be adding value to your life however if being exclusive isn’t what you want why be exclusive? She either enjoys the ride or leaves.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:47 AM
1

Not more than once a week. No sleep overs, no cuddling and no ltr activities.
/r/askTRP18/05/18 04:44 AM
17

First of all you waited too long. 2 days is maximum and actually you should set up a date when you approach her. I would go with: ‚Hey I totally forgot to ask what your favorite dinosaur is‘
/r/askTRP16/05/18 07:21 AM
4

Nop. Ultimatums are for betas. Alphas don’t communicate they act. For instance in this case he should just go with a different girl.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 01:49 PM
3

Block her everywhere and move on. Your current situation is no excuse to lose frame. Get sleep. Hit the gym. Approach other girls.
/r/askTRP15/05/18 11:24 AM
7

She either enjoys the ride or leaves.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 01:20 PM
1

Oneitis. Game other girls.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 12:03 PM
2

Up your game / smv / social proof that’s all. Ofc sometimes girls aren’t into you. Move on and approach other girls. Calibrate your escalating, if she reciprocates/doesn’t reject it jump to level 2. If she rejects back off 1-2 levels and try again. If she rejects you multiple times, leave.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:52 AM
3

Idc if she has a boyfriend or not. Attraction is not negotiable. That means even if she has a boyfriend she can be attracted to you. Pass her shit tests, escalate, use kino and game and you will be fucking girls with boyfriends like girls without boyfriends.
/r/askTRP14/05/18 11:43 AM
2

I do really like this girl and would wait... Good luck. Your nothing more but her girlfriend. She will make you wait while getting fucked by 3 other guys at the same time. Approach other girls and show her that you have options i.e abundance mentality and FFS stop talking/chatting if it’s not for logistics and if you haven’t even fucked.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:50 AM
3

Keep what you got, seems like you are enjoying it. If she told you all she wants is FWB so no need to overthink. However 3-5 times a week is pretty much for a plate.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 10:45 AM
6

Stay cool. If she’s into you everything you need to do is not to fuck up. Game her. Push & pull. Pass her shit tests. Escalate & kino. Eyecontact. Go for the kill.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:26 AM
0

Don’t shit where you eat. There lots of other girls you can approach, for instance on the way to your doctor. If a girl is with a guy (harder set) just ask is he your boyfriend. If she says no, ignore the boy and game her like she is alone.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 09:25 AM
6

They don’t and never will love you. They just love the way how you make them feel.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 07:29 AM
5

It’s going too fast for you. If the right guy comes a long she will fuck him within the hours.
/r/askTRP13/05/18 03:47 AM
3

Suck it up. Furthermore there is no point in getting shit tested by your parents.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 09:15 PM
1

You don’t tell them what they did wrong. For me 30 minutes is a big deal. Would have tried to numberclose 1-2 girls and leave + soft next the bitch.
/r/askTRP12/05/18 03:27 PM
2

That is frame. Living in your own world, not giving a fuck about what others think. Everyone is free to leave, you do your thing and people can join you on your ride however you don’t join them.
/r/askTRP11/05/18 06:50 AM
2

You have nothing to lose. Shoot them a text and see how they respond.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 01:59 PM
2

What value is she adding to your life?
/r/askTRP10/05/18 10:11 AM
3

First of all you gave away commitment for what? A sexless relationship? Congratulations you voluntarily castrated yourself. She is providing 0 value to your life. How do I fix this shit... You have the chance to get out of this cringe relationship and all you do is trying to fix something that will fuck you up. I assume you are a special case. You don’t owe one hamster you own three. And all of them are at full speed. Don’t fucking tell me you can’t have sex. I might be not from Asia but I know …
/r/askTRP10/05/18 09:45 AM
2

Exactly. You have to calibrate that’s all. If she reciprocates jump onto the next level of kino. If she rejects your kino, jump back 2 levels and try again.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:48 AM
3

I know some people that got ‚red pilled‘ through trial and error. However they don’t know the concept behind it nor the terms. But often (at least what I observed) they are just ‚red pilled‘ in 2-3 aspects and are still plugged in / blue at the rest.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:46 AM
2

Furthermore they probably know you are a father which gives you indirect preselection, your genes were good enough to fuck a woman and create offspring. Broken down: You are a genetic success.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:43 AM
3

Well I‘d prefer loosing a girl because of too much kino than being put in the friend zone. Especially in your oneitis case she needs to know your intentions, covertly transmitted, and these are fucking her and not being her emotional tampon / orbiter.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:39 AM
10

Game her like every other girl. The moment you put her back on her pedestal is the moment she has no other option but to look down on you. It’s easy. Push and pull. Escalate. Kino. Kino. More kino. Did I say kino? Kino. Kino. Kino. If she rejects your kino multiple times, ask for the bill and leave.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 08:03 AM
1

It was abundance mentality. If she gives you drama/disrespects/bores you, whatever, you drop her and get girls that don’t give you drama/disrespect/bore you. You didn’t like something? You leave her without any explanation. You did good, now stop caring about her and why she behaves like that. If she wants to cheat, she will cheat. If you can’t live with that and become paranoid that she’s cheating dump that bitch. Block her on all social media and delete her number. Her loss. If you can live wi…
/r/askTRP10/05/18 07:54 AM
5

If your gut is telling you something is wrong, something is wrong. Be ready to drop her and start setting up plates. To your ‚dread‘, it wasn’t dread what you did, it was showing her that the moment she fucks up, your gone.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:51 AM
7

Nah fuck that self pity. Gym and general self improvement is your main dish. However if you see a girl that you find attractive go and approach her. Looks will help you however if you have game, it doesn’t matter that much. Women would prefer a nerd with game over a handsome man with no game. Lose is improve.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 06:47 AM
9

Get over yourself kid. If he would have been a friend he wouldn’t have done shit with your ex. Stop avoiding your social circle due to him. If you meet him be firm and keep the conversation to a minimum. He doesn’t owe you shit and so is your ex. You are not exclusive anymore.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 05:39 AM
4

Anal plate only at best.
/r/askTRP10/05/18 04:06 AM
1

Just read title. LDR‘s do not exist.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:48 AM
2

Yh that’s it. Don’t forget about the sex god method, it’s changing a lot. I can’t tell if you should or not. I am lucky, my best friend is also on this sub and red pilled. We talk about everything no matter how cringe or awkward it is. It’s a good feeling to have someone to talk to that is not judging you. If it helps you, do it. I mean you could also talk to us strangers however we are nothing more than strangers on the internet.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:03 AM
1

You could say that today was a weird day because you got approached by several women. Surround yourself with hot female friends so when you’re out and you meet them, preselection at its finest. In her mind your girl will think, if he’s surrounded by attractive females, he must be attractive/high value, because attractive females won’t surround themselves with low value/ugly men.
/r/askTRP09/05/18 10:00 AM
2

You’re saying you should never claim the relationship monogamous? Exactly. Dread and competition anxiety is what makes her fuck you. An easy response to the ‘is this mine’ would have been: ‘For tonight for sure.’ Furthermore ignoring it is also fine. The moment she realizes she’s your only option is the moment she loses attraction. She wants to feel that other women are attracted to you and that you have options. Let her subtly know that other girls are hitting on you. Emotional rollercoaster is…
/r/askTRP09/05/18 02:09 AM
4

One of my first tests to see if she’s plate material or anal plate only.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:52 PM
10

No fucky fucky = no comitty comitty Don’t overthink. She doesn’t care what you two are going to eat. Meet. Escalate. Kino.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:24 PM
2

Alright. At least for you she seems to be ltr/wife/mom material. Keep her as long as you want. Never be more invested than her. Always game other women so you don’t get too attached to her. Let her know you have options. 4 years into an ltr is a long time. If you can tell yourself everything is fine in an honest way alright. Just don’t hamster like 90% of the guys that clinch to an ltr due to comfort. Cheers.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:22 PM
3

She is/was attached to you however this attachment fades when she’s getting/having only the same emotions over and over again. Right now she is getting pushed. You need to give her an emotional rollercoaster. You pushed a lot, now pull her a bit more. This is what makes girls addicted to you. Be mysterious. Initiate the next 2-3 dates. Make her feel that you care about her but on the other hand let her know the moment she fucks up, she’s out. She’s investing time, hug her when you see her. Give …
/r/askTRP08/05/18 11:16 PM
2

LDR’s do not exist. Listen to this advice or waste months/years of your life. Then come back and be mad at yourself that you didn’t listen.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:09 PM
3

Listen bro, I’ve been on no fap for 2 months, hooked up with a girl and the moment she was reaching to my pants I came. I didn’t care and so was she, because I held frame. It was still a nice experience. I had this with multiple women and all didn’t care and wanted more. Frame = a huge factor. To your problem: There is hope. Start training your pc muscle and read ‘penis of steel’. Furthermore start with cialis until your pc muscle is strong enough. This will most likely delay your orgasm and onc…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:07 PM
4

She’s not a plate anymore, she’s your ltr. Im not a Fan of comfort especially not with plates, I’d rather let them break than giving them ‚too much comfort‘. However ltr‘ing a girl is a different story. You need to calibrate comfort and dread. Good job on keeping the texts to a minimum. Compliment her physique only while having sex and mental compliments (I care about you Blabla ...) post orgasm/sex. Connect the comfort/validation to sex and condition her. You shouldn’t give comfort away for fre…
/r/askTRP08/05/18 10:00 PM
15

A girl that reschedules shows interest. I’d go with Friday. It’s your job to find out if she’s looking for free meals or is seeing you as a potential fuck. Escalate. Kino. Kino. Kino. Kino.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:51 PM
1

Seems like the relationship is on your terms. Enjoy the time you have and if the day comes you are bored or not attracted to her anymore, it’s time to move on. My last questions: Do you see her as the mother of your children? (Incase you want children) Do you want to get married, if so, do you see her as the one?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 09:49 PM
1

She’s also a great girl... They all are. What value is she adding to your life? Are you applying enough dread / competition anxiety? Are you getting the sex you want whenever you want?
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:17 PM
1

There’s no point in seeing / fucking someone you don’t consider attractive.
/r/askTRP08/05/18 08:14 PM
1

You should have no time to be bored.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 11:38 PM
3

You need to find your mission. Furthermore set goals. Girls are nothing more than a luxury good.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 08:38 AM
3

Be firm and indifferent. Don’t initiate anything, if she does, keep the conversation to a minimum. Let preselection work for you and sooner or later she will reach out. (If you keep on hitting the gym and approaching girls)
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:48 AM
2

Actually grow a pair of balls and dump her. You are sabotaging yourself by continuing that toxic and sexless ltr. She is literally providing 0 value and yet you invest your time and energy in her. Dump her. Dump her. Dump her.
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:45 AM
3

Weak text game. Have you fucked already? If not why are you texting and not setting up a date? If yes, why are you texting and not setting up a date?
/r/askTRP07/05/18 07:34 AM
3

Balls in her court. Don’t ask her out, tell her to join you. If she flakes, but doesn’t reschedule, hard next that bitch. When she reaches out again, ignore until she actually gives you a reschedule.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 09:58 AM
6

I usually tease em with the same things so I don’t mix up. However if you mix up who cares, it’s just a sign of preselection that you can’t remember all the shit because there are too many of them.
/r/askTRP05/05/18 08:51 AM
4

Oneitis. Why would you drop your other side bitch for her? The reason why you ‚care‘ about her is the oxytocin released after an orgasm. That’s why you shouldn’t fuck the same plate more than 2 times a week. Take away the sex, what value is she adding to your life that makes you drop other girls?
/r/askTRP05/05/18 05:49 AM
2

Prepare yourself. Develop abundance mentality and be outcome independent. Game and fuck other girls asap. Hit the gym hard. Have some instant dtf girls in your phone. When the day of pushing for marriage comes you know what to do and are ready. It still will hurt and won’t be easy however it’s the necessary action.
/r/askTRP04/05/18 10:44 AM
5

You were fine before and you will be fine after her. You have big ambitions and one thing is sure, women are dreamkiller. She is close to hitting the wall, while you are far away from your peak (36y/o) in smp. 3.5 billion girls out there, don’t commit to one that is close to get walled. Don’t hamster yourself into the ‚she’s different‘ or ‚we click well‘ bullshit. Fact is there are lots of girls you will click with well. You don’t even love her, it’s your oxytocin nothing more. Enjoy the time yo…
/r/askTRP04/05/18 03:26 AM
0

Fuck bragging. Congrats on your 30th girl. Keep on keeping on.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 09:28 PM
1

Good comment.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 09:26 PM
3

No, thats not the point, it’s more about counting a high number and then saying 2. However a high number is always good, preselection...
/r/askTRP03/05/18 09:21 PM
11

Ignore that retard. You can’t expect everyone to like you. He isn’t on your level as long as you don’t put him there.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 04:34 PM
17

No. And if they ask go with this (from another red piller but it’s gold): Bitch: How many girls have you fucked? You: Look in her eyes, then start counting with your fingers, after 5-7 / 15-20 whatever, look up and smile like you remember that gurl and it was a great fuck, keep counting to like 35~. When you reached 30+ look her in the eyes and say: 2.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 03:30 PM
4

Why are you caring about girls you aren’t fucking? You don’t want to be the nice guy, you want to be the guy that’s fucking them sore.
/r/askTRP03/05/18 12:19 PM
2

Nah. Give her a chance to miss you.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 09:10 AM
2

You haven’t even fucked her and are rewarding her with champagne? Congratulations, you have become her free meal/champagne boy. You already put her on a pedestal, she has no other option but to look down on you. Radio silence until she reaches out and asks you to meet up.
/r/askTRP02/05/18 04:13 AM
34

„A man who dares to waste one hour of time has not discovered the value of life.“
/r/TheRedPill02/05/18 03:54 AM
2

She’s playing you. Go out and fuck 20 bitches. Soon she won’t be more than a series of holes you put your dick in.
/r/askTRP01/05/18 01:41 PM
7

Make her your main plate but not ltr. Furthermore she should bring up commitment first.
/r/askTRP29/04/18 08:26 AM
5

Dread + displaying abundance mentality. The day she breaks is the day she’s replaced.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 11:36 AM
5

2 options: Your game isn’t as good as you think. Some girls just don’t go home with a man they met the same day.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 09:56 AM
1

This.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 08:54 AM
56

Men aren’t born, men are made. That’s the difference between men, women and betas.
/r/TheRedPill27/04/18 04:45 AM
0

I usually add some qualifications/push and pull. Like: Normally I‘d give you a 6.5/7.5 (depends on how hot she really is) however your ‚insert something personal (your fat ass, your weird mole, bad breath)‘ makes you a 5. (But a 5 isn’t too bad is it?) As always it doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it.
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:34 AM
3

She got game you didn’t. Firstly why are you asking her where she is going? If it’s something important she would let you know. Secondly she didn’t see you as high value as you thought. A woman that is with a man that is distinct higher value would never say such a thing, since she is scared to be replaced and suffers from competition anxiety. Lastly if a woman says the above named line, treat that shit test like it’s a shit test: AA 2. Ignore 3. Powerflip
/r/askTRP27/04/18 03:09 AM
4

Don’t reach out. She will hit you up when she has time. You display abundance mentality by not contacting her + having a busy life. If she needs comfort she will show you.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 08:55 PM
8

Just read title. She’s an ex for a reason. Do you like rooting through trash?
/r/askTRP26/04/18 04:00 PM
3

To fully unplug and develop abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:29 PM
7

You never had a soft harem and yet you want to jump straight into an ltr with a girl you haven’t even vetted 6+ months. Good luck.
/r/askTRP26/04/18 12:03 PM
5

Start with sidebar and top posts. Continue with the rationale male, sex god method, book of pool, no more mr nice guy. It’s a long journey and it will take years to fully unplug and swallow the pill. But it’s worth it.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:12 PM
1

It’s her job to follow your boundaries. If she fails to do so, she’s nothing more but plate material.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:45 PM
1

https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/4a5akh/shes_not_yours_its_just_your_turn_the_glass_is/?st=JGFA53GV&sh=72cc3845
/r/askTRP25/04/18 03:54 PM
2

Cialis.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 12:23 PM
1

Check top posts, there is a thread that will explain this important mindset.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 11:15 AM
1

You are sabotaging yourself. She is holding you back. Furthermore get over your ego. You are mad at something you can’t change. Waste of time. Remember: The day you met her, is the day you lost her.
/r/askTRP25/04/18 09:03 AM
2

Not only attention. Pushing consists of negative compliments, withdrawing attention, giving her a chance to miss me. Pulling: positive compliments, kino, attention... It’s about spiking the girls emotion. The bigger the spike the more she’s attached. Combine that with fucking her good and showing her you got options will make her ‚never‘ leave you.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 11:03 PM
7

Game her like every other girl. Just because she‘s hot, she isn’t special. Right now I’m pushing a hot girl to 70% and pull her to 30%. Hotter girls aren’t used to that and thats exactly why they get hooked to different behaviour i.e not putting them on a pedestal.
/r/askTRP24/04/18 03:27 PM
1

The date should explain everything, furthermore why has she even access to that?
/r/askTRP23/04/18 06:01 PM
2

Put it in a subtle way. For instance with an example of a friend. That his girl went 1on1 with another dude... and you wouldn’t tolerate that.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 05:40 PM
5

she pities the guy because he doesn’t have much friends And yet she is sucking his dick and swallowing his cum. She fed your hamster nothing more. You set boundaries at the beginning of an ltr. You didn’t, you fucked up, however there is a chance in case you still want to continue with a woman that is meeting other guys 1on1. Soft next. 3 days radio silence. When done proceed like nothing happened and you were busy.
/r/askTRP23/04/18 01:56 PM
2

Exactly. In addition don’t text too much if you haven’t fucked her, you can’t create attraction over text.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:43 AM
5

This. Ask them what their favorite dinosaur is or literally any random bullshit. Just be different.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:41 AM
13

Don’t fucking talk about it. Communication is for betas, actions are for alphas. If she’s adding real value to your life, soft next. If she doesn’t, hard next that branch swinging bitch. I repeat, don’t talk to her. She will hamster and turn the conversation on you which results in a guilt trap.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:39 AM
2

Your saying it the wrong way. Remember it doesn’t matter what you say but how you say it. I say that too sometimes but with a huge grin and putting my index finger on my lips. Furthermore why would you keep using that ‚line‘ if it brings drama? That’s just stupid behavior.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:35 AM
6

Show some of your convos. Furthermore your smv might be low.
/r/askTRP22/04/18 07:32 AM
10

Stop overthinking.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 09:26 PM
3

Idk how chilled they are but I told my mom that I’m bringing a girl and that she should have a night out too. It isn’t awkward as long as you don’t make it awkward.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 08:53 PM
7

Who cares. You dodged a train wreck by not cohabitating. I repeat: Never fucking cohabitate.
/r/askTRP21/04/18 04:49 PM
2

She’s giving you unnecessary drama = soft next. If she’s doing the same mistake again = hard next.
/r/askTRP20/04/18 06:02 PM
13

Are you scared because he’s larger? Come on. Hold eye contact and let him look away. Be calm. Speak slowly and deep. If it’s a 1on1 conversation let him do the talking (48 laws of power). If it’s a group do the talking. However not too much.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 12:07 PM
3

Reject her activities but keep in mind you might lose her because she’s looking for an ltr.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 09:41 AM
1

Read no more mr nice guy. Do things for yourself not for others.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:43 AM
1

Do you like getting treated like trash? If so, stay with her. Instead if you have some self respect and wouldn’t clinch to your dead relationship like a bitch to a value dick, you would actually get the chance to live the life you want to live. Right now she’s getting gangbanged from 5 guys. 2 ramming her vagina, 2 the asshole and 1 is sticking his dick down her throat. In some minutes she’s covered in other guys cum. Block her everywhere. No contact ever. Throw the shit you got from her away. L…
/r/askTRP19/04/18 07:39 AM
6

Are you a virgin? If not, find a mission and hobbies, girls are a side dish not the main course. If you are a virgin, you won’t believe it, but sex isn’t that special. It’s nice to have, it feels good, but taking a big shit feels good too right?
/r/askTRP19/04/18 06:48 AM
2

This is no comfort/shit test. She’s just trying to keep the conversation going. Response: I’m seeing ‚insert a random female name‘, for a coffee. It’s simple, it’s effective, it works.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 03:50 AM
5

Meet. Escalate. Fuck. If you don’t fuck you know your nothing more but free validation.
/r/askTRP19/04/18 03:10 AM
1

If she was attracted to you, she would have offered another day to hang out. She didn’t. She isn’t a lost plate however balls in her court now.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 08:01 AM
2

Indeed, betas talk, alphas take action that’s why I would advise a soft next if she’s doing it often. If it’s once in a while ignore and say something like ‚cool‘.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:11 AM
3

You haven’t set your boundaries clear enough. If she’s really annoying you, soft next her.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 02:07 AM
2

Like I don’t know your weak ass beta messages but if it wasn’t too cringe and you display high value again, she might come back. To avoid these situations: Text for logistics only, except the day you met/got her number, I use some witty responses to tease and do some quick push and pull via text. Display abundance mentality and use rule of 2/3.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:44 AM
9

You tried, she didn’t want to, ghost.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:33 AM
5

Isolate her. However if she’s attracted to you, she would make at least some effort to talk to you 1on1Y
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:32 AM
7

It’s called prejudice. Furthermore you compare people you see with people you have met already and put these into drawers.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:31 AM
2

Balls in her court boy. You learned your lesson, so it was a win anyways.
/r/askTRP18/04/18 01:30 AM
15

Instead of become friends with chad, become chad.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:43 PM
13

A cold shower is your reward. You have shown some self discipline over 15 days now, reward yourself with a cold shower and see how you feel afterwards.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 01:59 PM
5

Fuck her if you want, if not just don’t. I won’t fuck woman I’m not attracted to just because they make it easy. Whereas head is welcome most of the time.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:47 AM
9

it’s been several days and she also hasn’t messaged me I have bad news for you, she’s not your ltr anymore. Move on and be glad that you got this chance. 80% of guys clinch onto their dead relationship.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 09:18 AM
3

Meditation. Mission. Cold showers. - When the ice cold water rains down on you the only thing you can think about is to get out of that shit asap. Stay under it. Embrace the uncomfortable feeling and moment that there no other thoughts than you wanna get out of it. This gives you also lots of self discipline. Lifting.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:10 AM
1

The only thing that gets wet is your vagina. Send her a text 1 day before you meet so she knows it’s still on. When you fuck her you can say that you missed it and that she is yours blabla... dirty talk...
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:05 AM
4

There’s a bigger boy in the game. Balls in her court, if you text her first it’s pretty much done.
/r/askTRP17/04/18 08:00 AM
1

For you brothers: https://www.removeddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/8br11o/übermensch_mode/
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:39 PM
12

I‘ve never liked her Why are you talking to people you don’t like? Cut her out of your life. Furthermore get overyourself, there will be always someone hotter with a bigger dick.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 10:14 PM
13

Why do you care about n count? You will never know if a girl is saying the truth so just let it go.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:50 PM
546

If the king is not around and the queen is horny, she will fuck the court jester. For all the newbies: AWALT. AWALT. AWALT.
/r/TheRedPill16/04/18 01:34 PM
10

Didn’t read all but it’s kinda obvious. She has a Disney fantasy however wants alpha cock. Don’t chase her, let her check out the beta guy and wait for her to come back. She will soon. Because alpha dick is addicting. Furthermore stop trying to convince her that she wants you.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 11:47 AM
1

If a bitch/plate gives me unnecessary drama I start counting down from 3 to 1. If she’s still creating drama, leave and soft/hard next her. The next time you are doing the countdown she will shut up and talk about something that enriches your life. You are too far from home to just stop the car, open up her door and drop her. Wrong. She chose to be that nasty, annoying bitch and has to live with the consequences. If she resists to leave the car, police will help you. Life’s too short for drama.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:06 AM
18

Read sidebar, when you did you are allowed to post because that’s a basic thing you are asking. It’s called shit test.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 08:01 AM
2

That’s why you don’t cohabitate. It suddenly starts to dawn.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:58 AM
2

She has proven real value to me So what makes her valuable? I care about her deeply and I love her very much Ding. Ding. Ding. Seems like she isn’t loving you as deep as you love her nor does she care that deeply about you. If she would love/care about you, she would give you sex and not snoop your phone and topping it off with guilt trapping. Soft Next: 3 days radio silence. You don’t respond to her messages and calls. After 3 days you initiate contact and act like nothing is wrong and you were…
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:53 AM
2

If she has proven real value to you and your life, go with a soft next. If she hasn’t proven real value to you and your life, hard next her snooping ass. Sex for the first time in quite a while If that is your perception of an exclusive relationship, oh boy you must be lucky with her. Fuck that bullshit. If you don’t get the sex you want, whenever and wherever you want, it’s time to move on.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 07:26 AM
4

You did well until what do you want me to say This implies you actually care too much about her and entered her frame by focusing 100% on her question. Just tell her that you are cool with it and that she can see/fuck whoever she wants. If she asks you again, ignore. She’s not an autistic deaf girl so she should have heard your response to her question.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:54 AM
1

Some need more some need less, however all need a certain amount of comfort/affection in order to stay around.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:44 AM
3

Response was ok. She’s trying to use preselection. Personally I wouldn’t respond since she let the conversation die.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 04:42 AM
14

My condolences. Your probably in shock. Give yourself sometime and keep on keeping on. I know this sounds hard but even this tragic event isn’t an excuse to not be on top of your shit anymore. Keep on keeping on. We’re all gonna make it.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:31 AM
1

Doesn’t work as long as you aren’t a kind of celebrity. You could try a witty message however chances are low.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:27 AM
3

Who cares what her reasons are, might be that she’s saving up for someone with higher value or because she’s scared... Ofc she is. However find out how much she is.
/r/askTRP16/04/18 03:26 AM
5

I usually go with 3. dates max. If she isn’t putting out at the third one, hard next her inhibited ass. However she’s a virgin and gave you head so you might extend 3 dates to 4. Just kidding if she isn’t putting out at the third one, bye.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 10:10 PM
2

You didn’t even give her a chance to miss you by chatting everyday. I usually push more than I pull like 70% push because I rather lose a girl by lacking comfort than by being too invested/pulling her. If you sense she’s getting distant because you fucked up the comfort tests, start pulling her. Be the man she wants to be around. Give her emotional rollercoasters and make her feel something. Girls love that shit. In an ltr/oneitis you will have to give some comfort in order to keep her around. B…
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:47 PM
2

Listen bro, I can’t really give you tips for work since I’m in my early twenties however I combined my mission with my work. I will have to wake up at 4.30 and work for 12 hours and I can’t wait to start. There is a drive that makes me leave my comfortable bed, take a cold shower and get to work. If you love your work life is way easier. Disney fairytales and soul mates are bullshit. Write that down at least 30 times. It’s probably the hardest pill to swallow. Be careful with your girl it seems …
/r/askTRP15/04/18 09:35 PM
1

They don’t reject you, but your game. Get over yourself and actually become that chad.
/r/askTRP15/04/18 03:19 PM
2

First of all you have set 0 boundaries and she isn’t even respecting you. The morning is one of the most important times of the day and a bitch calls you out of nowhere? If a bitch would call me in the morning I would soft next her fat ass. Furthermore have you fucked one of the bitches? If no - why are you having a call? You can’t create attraction via text or call. You were nothing more than a clown entertaining 2 girls that were having their morning shit. If yes - why are you having a call? A…
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:29 PM
7

I don’t plate ltr‘s and you shouldn’t either until you are pretty experienced and even then I don’t get why you should. The problem is that you are / were attached to her and keeping her around may fuck with your head. Especially if she starts fucking other guys and let’s you know. Jealousy is a beta and female trait. 3.5 billion bitches out there go and get them all but not your gf.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 12:16 PM
8

Take a picture of your biceps, put it in a box and give it to her. She won’t ever forget your special birthday present.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 09:46 AM
5

This + read and apply 12 levels of dread. 2 years into a relationship is a long time and she is used to you + knows that you are her only source of sex. I guess she’s giving you less than she did in the beginning. That’s because the anxiety that she might lose you to another woman faded. She does not have to compete anymore. Dread will change that. Furthermore if you don’t get the sex you want and when you want, why are you exclusive? Don’t tell me something about Disney and soul mate,
/r/askTRP13/04/18 08:07 AM
18

Let him get something for her so you don’t have to. Keep being aloof, hold your frame and if she isn’t cutting things with him you know what to do. It’s her job to reject other men, not yours.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 07:30 AM
19

The thing is this, with every day you are exclusive she recognizes 2 things more and more: she is your only source of sex, once a woman notices this her anxiety to lose you to another woman dies. She has not to put in the same effort anymore because she knows that she is your only option. The anxiety is what makes her fuck you like a borderline. She will get to know you better and better, the mystery is gone and she gets used to you. However while she is giving you less, she demands the same or …
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:28 AM
9

By telling your voice she’s gonna fuck up your symbiosis with your roommate. I mean it’s luxus to have a roommate that cleans and makes your laundry. There are enough other girls to pursue. Your voice just represents the lazy part of you that doesn’t want to put any effort in pussy like approaching outside of your apartment. You already know her red flags so don’t be a stupid horny bitch that doesn’t have the self discipline to resist pussy that will bring drama.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:09 AM
2

Keep her around if you feel like you can transform her into a plate and like her presence. If not just move on.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:04 AM
3

How much time left till you finish it? Can you push yourself to finish it? In order to be good at your job, you gotta love your job. I combined my job and my mission and that’s what makes me wake up at 5AM.
/r/askTRP13/04/18 05:02 AM
7

I usually don’t become friends with garbage, even if it’s cool garbage.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:47 PM
2

If that’s the case I’m totally with you. But my girl is not gonna dress like a slut outside the bedroom except when I’m with her.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 08:01 PM
144

Read all. Here’s your dopamine bro, your post gave me goosebumps and probably the needed push into becoming the best version of myself. Thanks.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 04:32 PM
2

Idc about why she’s wearing it, however going to work while showing off her tits results in a soft next.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 03:22 PM
1

This post will form many young men into lazy bitches. JK thanks for the insight.
/r/TheRedPill12/04/18 02:45 PM
1

Was she about to wear it outside or inside (just you)?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:38 PM
5

Haven‘t you learned anything? keep my abundance mentality... You don’t have abundance mentality instead you got still oneitis for the gurl that pied you 2 years ago and swallowed other men’s cum for over 730 days +. The reason she contacts you is to get free validation, she isn’t even interested in you as a person. She slept in your bed and you didn’t even fuck like come on. Block her everywhere and move on. Stay with her if you want to waste your life and disrespect yourself and your potential.
/r/askTRP12/04/18 02:36 PM
13

Is it normal that a 10 year old is not as strong as you?
/r/askTRP12/04/18 09:32 AM
6

First of all why did it take you several weeks to be ready to approach her? Don’t ask her out, have a short convo and limit your time i.e say you are meeting someone and you gotta go soon. Tell her to join you at X on Y o clock. Background: If you ask someone, are you free at X on Y? - This will make people / Girls actively think about it and they start to assess you and your value. Furthermore they will subconsciously know that you are creating space in your schedule for her. This might sound h…
/r/askTRP12/04/18 05:36 AM
2

You internalize it by putting theory into action until it becomes natural.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 10:06 PM
1

Hard next. LDR’s don’t work.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 07:20 PM
13

I was with a borderline anorexia suicidal girl and I can give you one advice: RUN I tried to fix her, made it my mission to pull her out of the depression swamp but guess what, I got sucked in as well. Her problem is not your problem, she’s trying to manipulate and guilt trap you. I repeat RUN RUN RUN.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 11:00 AM
9

Huge red flag if she’s doing certain things with other guys but not with you. Means you are lower smv. Plate material at best.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:33 AM
6

Enough ask trp for today.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 09:31 AM
25

You did right by sending her home after sex + you held frame. However just shoot her a short message, that you had a good time and tell her that she should come over at day X. The kissing and hugging at the end shows that she’s still into you.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:43 AM
2

Uni class is a no for me however the coffee girl is fine. There are so many girls no need to shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:37 AM
4

First of all don’t ask for her snap / number. Tell her to exchange numbers. Furthermore don’t try to close within the first sentence. That’s just lazy. Eye contact, passing shit tests and frame are essential.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 05:09 AM
1

Your ltr hit it’s expiration date. Enjoy the time you have left with her however end things before you leave. LDR’s do not work, are a waste of Time and energy.
/r/askTRP11/04/18 04:45 AM
1

It seemed too forced. Furthermore why was it difficult to kino? If she’s too far away pull her close and say something like let’s thumb wrestle or let me read your hand, girls love this esoterism shit. As long as she is attracted there is a chance. Tell her to join you at X at Y o clock. If she showes up alright Start kino. If not who cares approach others girls.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:45 PM
8

You are probably skipping kino levels. You can’t jump from level 1 to 3. Imagine a traffic light, red, yellow, green. You start at red and apply soft kino, touching her arm etc.. If she reciprocates / doesn’t reject you, move on to the next Level (2, yellow). Apply more kino, stroking her thighs... increase kino... Finally when she reciprocates / doesn’t reject your kino, go for level 3, green. Making out into sex or head. It’s all about calibrating.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 12:23 PM
7

Get out of your comfort zone and actually take responsibility.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 09:25 AM
8

If your frame fits the response Ofc. It’s not about what you say but how you say it.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:54 AM
19

This girl is clearly into me. Wrong. She is into your free validation nothing more. However there is hope, she might upgrade you soon to her free meal boy. Ghost her and have some self respect.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 06:00 AM
39

‚I like your ass.‘ It’s a test.
/r/askTRP10/04/18 05:21 AM
3

Sooooooooo you haven’t even fucked her but already want to commit? Oneitis is strong in you. Vet her at least for 6 months.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 02:57 PM
1

Gj, successful soft next. ~3 days radio silence (not blocking) ,when you initiate contact, act like everything is cool, you were busy. Make sure to hold this frame so she knows her place.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:12 PM
14

Did you know you can just walk away or change the topic? Because if I don’t want to listen to some bullshit, I change topic or the person I’m talking to. It’s my time and I won’t waste it.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:08 PM
7

It was a classic guilt trap. You did nothing wrong. Your gut was telling you something and if you wouldn’t have looked it up... oh boy. When I buy something in a store I check if it’s 100% working and not damaged. You did the same. You checked if your girl is working. Unfortunately you spotted permanent damage and decided to not buy that good. The reason you feel bad is social programming.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 12:05 PM
3

Block. This is the most painful thing you can do to a woman. Denying validation. They crave emotions, good ones, bad ones anything. However if you block them they can’t reach out nor get any reaction out of you.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:40 AM
1

You wanna transform into a loser? Keep on doing what you do. Wanna get back to your 5AM self and feeling great? Force yourself back into that routine. Life is limited why not living up to your potential. Think about the benefits, that should be enough motivation.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:34 AM
8

Hard Next. She was trying to branch swing. She was looking for a way out of the relationship and you gave her an easy out by telling her that you snooped her phone. You dodged a train wreck.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 05:14 AM
2

She’s a plate. She can fuck whoever she wants. However if dating your best friend is a no go for you, soft next her.
/r/askTRP09/04/18 04:49 AM
1

Why would you care? Some do it some don’t.
/r/askTRP07/04/18 08:04 AM
2

Alright, there’s a plan for going out solo. I did it some times and can tell you it works. Be early at the club, speak and socialize with the barkeepers, bouncers. So when you grab a drink you always have a small conversation. This gives you social proof. Furthermore scout for people that look open minded and fun, approach them and build a ,base‘, it doesn’t matter whether there are hot girls in or not. Just a base you can go back to for social proof once an approach failed / you got rejected. H…
/r/askTRP06/04/18 05:24 AM
2

Let her love you , it feels nice to be loved. The day might come or might not come when she’s giving you an ultimatum to commit. But who cares you don’t do commitment and she is free to leave.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:37 PM
5

Let me ask you a simple question: Have you fucked her? If not, there is no fucking reason to even think about commitment. If yes, hopefully for 6 months or longer.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:33 PM
7

First of all read sidebar. Approach her and say ‚hi‘. Talk to her like you talk to your friends, tease her a bit, if you aren’t good at gaming, have small talk and tell her to exchange numbers. Eye contact eye contact eye contact. Asking = balls in her court + signals you are waiting for her permission which signals her you aren’t a high value male and don’t know what you want.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:13 PM
4

Fuck them if you want, if not just don’t.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 06:13 PM
2

Keep her as she was in the beginning... Not possible. She lost lots of attraction when she recognized that you are her only source of sex and have no options. She lost the anxiety that you might replace her with other women, that’s why she became a lazy bitch and doesn’t care about your boundaries. You could try 12 levels of dread, 1-5 should be always done in an ltr. How’s the sex going tho? Do you have sex whenever you want and how you want? If your answer is no, why are you in an ltr with her…
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:29 AM
4

Attached is good, means they are attracted. They might pay for a meal or welcome you with gifts. Enjoy it as long as it lasts. If they wanna end things because you don’t commit, they are free to leave. If not ayy its always nice to have someone around who is more invested.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 10:24 AM
11

he’s a fat balding 50 year old dude Yet he’s balls deep in your gf. Come on you don’t meet your boss outside of work hours. Furthermore why are you cohabiting with her?
/r/askTRP05/04/18 07:44 AM
7

First of all LDR‘s do not exist. I had to learn this the hard way, had 2. You are clinching to something that doesn’t exist. I mean how could you castrate yourself for 2 years? What value is she adding to your life? Keep her and the day will come when you wake up and think ‚shit‘ I wasted 2-3 years on this girl for nothing. Approach and fuck other girls asap, to cure yourself.
/r/askTRP05/04/18 05:12 AM
3

Why did you ask her how she is? She was wet however once you sent that to her you dried her up.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:52 PM
14

If you wanna go comfort mode accept that you have limited potential. If you want to get bitches, friends and all the things you dreamt of, keep going. Cold showers and meditation for discipline. If you are ill you still go to gym, don’t work out, just go to gym so you get that routine. Eat, eat and eat.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:37 PM
5

Might be a fetish. Might be a real thug, giving her tingles. Might have good game. Why do you care about other people?
/r/askTRP04/04/18 06:12 PM
2

How should we tell without any input? People don’t start disrespecting you out of the blue.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:03 AM
3

She’s just mad that she isn’t invited to be one of your plates. So if she can’t have you others shouldn’t as well. Avoid her like Ebola, she‘s packed with drama.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 09:02 AM
9

Who cares what the reason is, she is probably looking for fast and free validation. You don’t root through trash, move on.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 08:58 AM
31

I guess you learned your lesson. Be firm to her and actually do what you told him to do, not giving a fuck about her. She is probably wet by now, you owe the whiteknight a beer for wingmanning you.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 07:46 AM
15

This girl is gaming you. Lift and approach other girls, so you recognize she isn’t that much of a snowflake.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 05:07 AM
19

You don’t owe her shit. Seems like you entered the relationship with the wrong frame and paid at the beginning, that’s why you start always with 50/50 so she knows what’s up.
/r/askTRP04/04/18 04:36 AM
2

If she doesn’t put out at the 3 rd date, hard next. Not worth the time and energy.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 06:25 PM
2

I didn’t mean that you shouldn’t get laid, however don’t make it your #1 priority. Be outcome independent. Win or learn.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 03:27 PM
6

Pro Tip: Approach girls you fancy and see if they are attracted. Drop the ones that don’t give you any signals. Don’t make getting laid your goal.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:03 PM
8

Depends. If she’s a plate who cares, if she’s your ltr, why did you enter an ltr with a gurl that has red flags.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 01:01 PM
48

Sex is meh... Why are you even exclusive? She adds no value to your life but drama. Your frame was weak however that’s another story. Stop spending money on her, send me some if you don’t know what to do with it. You don’t owe her shit, if you aren’t satisfied, stop clinging to your meh sex ltr and start spinning plates. The day you stopped gaming her was the day she lost attraction and sex became meh.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:08 AM
1

Game and fuck her if you want. If not just don’t. It’s easy as that. Either she is attracted or not. Lose is improve.
/r/askTRP03/04/18 10:03 AM
2

Paternity test. If he didn’t wrap it up he’s a stupid daddy now. Furthermore don’t shit where you eat.
/r/askTRP02/04/18 07:30 PM
9

Cold shower. Meditate.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 09:48 PM
1

Well AWALT, however they have still different personalities. You can’t win every game tho. She might have been a girl that would have needed a bit more plausible deniability. Whatever you kiss closed so 1:0 for you.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:55 PM
3

He doesn’t need to have high SMV. He just has to have equally high SMV or higher SMV, not high SMV. We don’t know if she’s a 3 or 9. I get your point tho.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:53 PM
3

Can’t agree. First of all she is in some way attracted which means his SMV is equally high or higher. The only reason she isn’t liking the way he talked to her is because of social programming and Disney —> a man needs to be super respectful to a women otherwise I should feel insulted. Furthermore replying in the demanded format is entering her frame. He buckled down. Once that happened she has no other choice but to look down on him. But hey he is now an emotional tampon orbiting around her pro…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:43 PM
4

So when you get a free meal would you wait until it gets mouldy?
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:30 PM
3

Well looking forward to tomorrow can also work, just don’t ask : ,Hey are you coming tomorrow?‘ or any other BS like that.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 05:20 PM
3

: Simply walk away, I mean you sense when someone is about to get physical. We don’t do drama.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:58 PM
5

I usually shoot a message the day before just to remind them. For instance: Bring a pen tomorrow.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:51 PM
5

To 1. : Don’t date psychos. To 2. : Not my problem. Wouldn’t interact as long as no one is about to get killed.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:47 PM
7

I go with 3 dates. That’s the maximum. If she doesn’t put out at the 3rd date, hard next. Next time just don’t say ayyy let’s go to a motel. Give her asd and her hamster something to feed on.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:38 PM
1

The moment you stop gaming a girl she will put you in her orbit / LJBF. Wait some days, be a busy man and give her a chance to miss you. Is there a way I can convey... I don’t know, it depends on the situation and how she left, was it on a high note / burned down... Just don’t worry too much about it, if she agrees on the date you know she’s still attracted. Act like nothing happened, hold frame and use push and pull. Make sure you hold eye contact and stare her down 8/10 times. When you break e…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 04:15 PM
2

Alright, you tried to escalate and she rejected you. First of all girls never reject you, they reject your game, that’s a huge difference and important to recognize. Basically when a girl rejects you, you jump down 1-2 escalation lvls and try again until you escalate to the next level. I would try it 2-3 times again and if she isn’t reciprocating / rejecting you I leave it by that. It could have various reasons why she is rejecting you, shit test, period, not in the mood, your job is to give her…
/r/askTRP01/04/18 02:18 PM
3

When she was grinding on you, why didn’t you turn her over / spank her and escalate to sex? If she rejects and says nah not today, try again one more time, if she still brushes you off, tell her you got some shit to do and she should leave. She basically wasted your time.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 01:46 PM
5

You apologized for nothing, you entered her frame, you backed down. She has literally lost all respect. She has no other option but to look down on you. You are free meals and validation for her nothing more. Find new girls. If she doesn’t like kino her loss.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:27 PM
3

As Rollo says rejection is better than regrets.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 12:09 PM
4

You tried you lost. Lose is improve.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 11:11 AM
3

I don’t talk about the fight club.
/r/askTRP01/04/18 08:10 AM
-2

Why would you want an LTR?
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:33 PM
2

PC muscle training solves your problem.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 08:46 PM
2

Nothing of that will help you to obtain happiness. What you need is a mission. Don’t make a girl or your Disney fantasy your mission. You have a good income however hate your job. If you know you will hate your job the rest of your life quit it. Money isn‘t giving you happiness it just makes life easier. Women are a nice thing to have, nothing more than a luxury good. You don’t need a woman to achieve happiness.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:19 PM
29

Ignore. If she doesn’t like the way you are / text she is free to leave.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 06:13 PM
3

Alright brother, the red pill is: a sexual strategy in a culture increasingly lacking positive identity for men. Furthermore it’s about becoming the best version of yourself. Start with the sidebar and handbook. http://www.redpillhandbook.com Read top posts of the main sub. Read the rationale male, sex god method and no more mr nice guy. Start lifting. Cheers bro.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:29 PM
3

You can’t exclude the possibility that some people will save your pictures. However if you aren’t going to get famous why should people care.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 03:23 PM
1

Train your pc muscle and you decide when you ejaculate.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 02:34 PM
12

Come on bro... read the sidebar. Hold eye contact, stare her down 8/10 times. Turn topic to something sexual, ask her what’s her favorite position is Blabla... Tease her. Push and Pull. However calibrate it. You can’t just ask her out of the blue what’s your favorite position.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 12:13 PM
14

Build sexual tension, use kino and move on to the next level of kino if she reciprocates / Signals you she’s rdy for it. If she’s rejecting your kino jump back to the previous level and try again. I’d rather use too much kino than too less.
/r/askTRP31/03/18 10:43 AM
1

Why would they listen? They don’t want blue pill losers.
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:23 PM
2

In general when you sense a girl won’t put out the first date, yes there are still some girls that aren’t into that, make sure to end the date / convo on a high note. Don’t let it burn down by trying to entertain her. So when she remembers you, she got this high note feeling of you. She binds all these tingles and emotions to you, therefore she doesn’t love/like you, she loves how you made her feel that evening / day. In addition I don’t like Voice messages/ texting a lot before you have met bec…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 01:12 PM
3

You talked for more than 2 hours and you weren’t able to build any sexual tension. You shouldn’t talk/chat/voice chat with a women if it’s not for setting up a date. I get your point that you wanna warm her up a bit however don’t do that with a boring interview. Be different, tease her, build sexual tension but don’t fucking do classic small talk. Ask her what’s her favorite dinosaur is, then blue or red, 3 or 9. Her hamster will spin, she will want to know why is he asking this. Then tell her a…
/r/askTRP30/03/18 09:28 AM
-5

If you wanna get married, marry your best mate and keep your plates. You don’t need to marry in order to build a large family.
/r/TheRedPill30/03/18 08:12 AM
1

Read the rationale male if you havent, it will help you immense with unplugging. Cheers bro.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 10:01 PM
1

Bro you have to read the sidebar, it’s called preselection. If she knows your with lots of girls that’s always a plus. I recently fucked up, because I pushed a girl too much, she was asking am I just another girl for you... I wasn’t in the mood to comfort her and play around asd so she rejected me while she still was attracted... You have to calibrate. You sense when a girl needs more pushing or pulling (comfort). As rule of thumb, hot girls = more pushing since they get tons of compliments. Ugl…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 09:45 PM
1

Well the easiest way to see if a girl is interested or trying to orbit you, is to kino her, build sexual tension, if she reciprocates jump to the next level of kino, if she rejects it, go back 2 steps and try again. Go for the kiss however I assume you are not socially retarded and recognize when she is ready for it. If you wanna make it more easy visit several places / bars in a short amount of time, that will make her feel she knows you longer = easier lay / kiss.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 08:58 PM
5

Lose is improve. Don’t drink but embrace the pain so you won’t make the same mistake again to enter monogamy with a girl. Delete your Disney fantasy and forget about the soul partner myth. It’s all BS.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:51 PM
7

Open relationship, you shouldn’t care at all. Furthermore how do you treat someone that is ignoring your boundaries? Pro tip: go for a threesome.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:48 PM
1

If you are more invested than her next her immediately. It doesn’t matter whether you are charming or an asshole (arrogant is just shit). Sometimes I like to be an ‚asshole‘ and sometimes I’m the charming prince she dreamt off. It doesn’t matter as long as your game and frame is on point. Use push and pull and kino asap. I usually push more than pulling so I filter out the ones that look for orbiters and the psycho‘s.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 07:44 PM
1

By vetting I mean before a girl becomes ltr material you want to vet her for at least 6 months. Furthermore relationship is the endboss, you are not allowed to do any mistakes, to let your guard down and have to constantly game her. I had 2 LTR‘s so far and plating girls is by far the best option at least for my age (22). Fake it till you make it is cool as long as you actually believe it. However abundance mentality can’t be faked. It is necessary for the process of unplugging. What’s about wee…
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:53 PM
4

I have abundance mentality Ehh, You said you don’t have access to sex / girls? How can you develop an abundance mentality while your not having a harem or at least a soft harem? How many plates you got? There is this one girl... Oneitis. Oneitis. Oneitis. You are already thinking about commitment while a girl should bring up that topic. Furthermore you haven’t even vetted her. How do you get to school/work? Public transportation is perfect for approaching.
/r/askTRP29/03/18 05:15 PM
4

Your house your rules.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 02:55 PM
8

I experienced that it doesn’t matter. Ofc the hotter she is the better preselection works.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 09:35 AM
8

Clap clap. As long as you don’t brag about your lays and how many bitches you have fucked as you did just now, preselection + social proof will do all the work for you. Social proof trumps logistics, logistics trump game.
/r/askTRP28/03/18 08:24 AM
3

First of all be careful it seems you are way more invested than she is and are on the way to oneitis city. Indeed your first mistake was that you didn’t set up a next date the evening you made out with her. Happened to me this week as well. The fact that she is responsive might be because A) she’s attracted B) enjoy‘s your attention She probably has 20 guys texting her daily so don’t think you are that special that she’s responding. You are close to coming off as needy so grab your balls shoot h…
/r/askTRP28/03/18 07:44 AM
12

A&A. ‚Im not that easy, you gotta wine and dine me first‘ ‚Not before marriage‘ ... it’s a shit Test nothing more.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:45 PM
6

Anal.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:11 PM
5

Frame. Lift. Dress well. Haircut. Parfume.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:39 PM
1

You have a long way to go. Read sidebar and top posts, but before that fuck her. Like come on she invited you 1on1 to watch a movie and all you do is caring about the other guys. Furthermore girls will signal you when they like or dislike something.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 02:35 PM
3

I get your point however we can’t tell anyone what’s right or wrong. We can just tell what is right/wrong for us. I agree there is some morality going on.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 11:30 AM
1

By amoral I meant not judging about what’s right or wrong. Taking the advice that fits yourself and or the situation.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 10:14 AM
3

TRP is amoral. However she is free to leave. You are a man and following your instincts, no need to feel bad. The reason why you feel bad is simply social programming. You are living a redpill life with bluepilled programming, that’s why your brain gets fucked.
/r/askTRP27/03/18 09:59 AM
2

[Long Post] Parents divorced. Grew up with mom. She tried her best however I became the most blue pill billy beta ever. Couldn’t look girls in the eyes. Treated every girl like a princess. Had bad oneitis in school. Wrote her letters yadayada the full cringe package. Got stood up. Had my first lay at 16 due to good genes however it was on vacation. First ltr with 18, I literally took the first girl that was attractive enough and committed to her. I did everything for her. After 4 months she told…
/r/askTRP19/03/18 06:30 PM
2

She has a beta blue image of you. That’s really hard to actually change, furthermore attraction is not negotiable. If you really wanna go back there, hit her up, see if she reciprocates kino etc. However she will probably just try to suck you back into her orbit.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:51 AM
1

If she would just be a random plate no problem. However she is his girlfriend and going to a club without him with a toxic friend is a huge red flag. She should know by herself that going to a club and getting drunk without him is bad for her and him. That’s why gf material girls don’t go to a club without their boyfriend.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 10:49 AM
6

Be honest about it. If she doesn’t like it she is free to leave.
/r/askTRP19/03/18 07:57 AM
1

until the last month There is your answer. Depends on how you want it to end. If you had a good time till now tell her things aren’t working out anymore and you enjoyed being with her. Once you did that, block her everywhere except you are emotionally stable enough to not get sucked in again. If she was/is a stupid bitch, just ghost her, no need to explain anything let her hamster spin.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 11:04 PM
3

Might have been a shit test. However if it hurts her alright. If it ‚hurts‘ her still in a week you gotta be careful. She still did blow you that means A) you passed the shit test B) it wasn’t a shit test, but she still gave you head because her wish to please you was bigger than her pain, sign of attraction
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:26 PM
3

Either way it’s done. A) she’s disrespectful B) going to a club without you C) is not satisfying you sexually So what value does she add to your life? It’s definitely not sex. If it’s not sex why are you exclusive? That is and should be the only condition to be exclusive. Sex whenever and wherever you want.
/r/askTRP18/03/18 10:23 PM
8

They are jealous because you get pussy and they have to masturbate with their orange Cheeto fingers. You aren’t an asshole you are a lad with ‚game‘ and physique. Do you really wanna be friends with people that don’t want you to be successful? Furthermore cut out people that don’t provide value / are not helping you to become the best version of yourself.
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:19 AM
1

Send it back unopened. If you think your emotionally stable enough, try to plate her however be careful and don’t get sucked in again. Do you want to plate her because you are too lazy to approach other girls or was she really providing value as plate?
/r/askTRP16/03/18 11:16 AM
1

what do you want to do You should lead your gf, not asking her what she wants. If she doesn’t want to follow what you decide, she is free to leave. Seems like you don’t want to stay with her friends in the hotel. Solution: Just don’t stay with her friends in the hotel. I get your point that you should hold your word, however if it’s something you don’t enjoy /that harms you, don’t do it. Your life, your rules.
/r/askTRP14/03/18 12:52 AM
2

Girls smell when you aren’t confident in what you say/do. If you fake it, you really need to believe what you are faking, you need to live it.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 07:04 AM
2

Spin them. Tell her you bet that you get lower than she can. Loser owes the winner a beer. Move to bar, escalate, have a chat outside, go back in to dance yadayadayada... Basically, be fun and hold frame, even if you would dance like a creep she would be into it, since your a creep that holds frame. However expect shit test, gaming in a club is always harder since they screen to see who is just a drunk beta and who is an alpha.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:38 AM
2

By saying the magic word ‚hi‘ or establishing eye contact, followed by spinning her, girls love getting spinned.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 12:09 AM
1

As long as you aren’t socially retarded and following the basic safety measures for ons there shouldn’t be any problem.
/r/askTRP10/03/18 04:56 PM
8

ONS = no contact after sex. Plate = repeated contact to have sex. It depends on you and the girl. First of all do you want to cuddle? Some girls need comfort which means you will have to give them some in order to keep them around. If you don’t want to find another girl. It sounds you are making it dependent on the girl, however you decide which girls stick around and which don’t. If a girl wants to cuddle but you don’t have time to / don’t want to, she’s free to leave there are already girls li…
/r/askTRP10/03/18 12:55 PM
2

https://www.google.de/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/redpillbooks/comments/3rk5zk/the_red_pill_mega_book_collection_v20/ Check this out. Start with sidebar, NMMNG, Rational Male, Book of Pook and sex god method.
/r/askTRP09/03/18 04:04 PM
2

https://www.google.de/amp/s/amp.reddit.com/r/redpillbooks/comments/3rk5zk/the_red_pill_mega_book_collection_v20/ Red pill mega book collection it’s in there.
/r/askTRP08/03/18 05:23 PM
7

If you would believe in yourself, you would have assumed that it’s just another hot bitch trying to get your dick and not trying to find an answer why a hot girl is texting you. If you would believe in yourself, you would be right now balls deep in lily and not answering on your asktrp thread.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:43 PM
4

Pain. That was a free fuck however you don’t believe in yourself.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 11:17 PM
4

No offense but telling her to ‚lets exchange numbers‘ is better than to ask for her number. If you ask balls in her court + you give her the possibly to make a decision, deciding to give you the number or not. If you just tell her, let’s exchange numbers‘ I’ve experienced that it works better and displays confidence and leading + she won’t think as much about it. Freak tip: if you give her your phone on the level of her solar plexus, she is more likely to take it without thinking since it’s a re…
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:56 PM
1

Did you actually know the word ‚next‘ contains ‚ex‘? You lost control in the relationship, acted beta, were clingy and are tolerating that she is spending time with one of her exes that has access to her dream job. 1+1=2 Bitch that isn’t respecting you + another man with value = Your turn is over. Ltr is end game you can’t afford to let your guard down nor to enter her frame.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:46 PM
2

Do it, if you want to feel the other side. However you will lose her, but it won’t matter since it seems you are not seeing a real future with her. If you do it, don’t explain. Switch from the blue cuck to the red fuck and leave her. There is no coming back from burning down the bridges.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 09:01 PM
3

First of all stop using drugs it just slows down your process of becoming the best version of yourself. Stop being sad / mad, do you really want a girl have the power to control your emotions and current state? Become outcome independent and look for other girls that like being touched by you.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 08:58 PM
6

If you’re unplugged you sit wherever you want, on her lap, on her face, or just next to her. However why would you have a first date in a restaurant? Way too special for a first date.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 10:02 AM
1

So she dropped you because she had to move away. If she really would have seen you in her future she would have found an opportunity to stay in town. Now she’s telling you like a little puppy to visit her 150 miles away and you really considered to go. Have you got any self respect? She probably was taking a shit, got bored because there were no new insta followers and now hits you up to see her so she can feast free validation. Block her. Delete her number, photos, cut all ties and move on.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 09:59 AM
1

‚hi im at X at Y on Z. Join me and bring a rose/dowel/spoon.‘ Don’t ask her out, tell her to join you. Lead, be dominant, escalate.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:20 AM
9

hates when I touch her... Next. Attraction is not negotiable. If she’s just too uncomfortable, next, not worth the energy. Stop wasting your time on someone that isn’t reciprocating. She gets free validation from you while you get nothing but a castration.
/r/askTRP06/03/18 01:16 AM
16

This is a really good idea to break out of the comfort zone and add discipline to your life. I would suggest a ‚tramp day‘. Wear unwashed clothes/your worst outfit, eat one clone of garlic and get out there. This is great to establish a / strengthen your idgaf attitude and to learn that you don’t matter as much as you think you do. Once tramp day is over and you approach without garlic, it will feel way easier and you are more relaxed since you already went through awkward and worst case situati…
/r/TheRedPill05/03/18 10:08 PM
5

Why would you castrate yourself? She either isn’t attracted to you or a lesbian.
/r/askTRP05/03/18 06:15 AM
5

Pen is shit. I said something like bring a spear.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:45 PM
2

Works good imo if you have a decent body. It filters the validation whores out and the girls that look for orbiters. If a girl hits you up / replies it’s pretty much a sealed deal. In comparison I added ‚no ONS‘. To comfort their ASD.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:39 PM
1

Your frame is weak. Calling him out is okay however you started to push him which means you didn’t have control over yourself. If he talks shit grab your buddies + 3-4 bitches and have drinks with them. She is right tho, you started the ‚fight‘.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 04:33 PM
1

You can always be dominant by using dominant talk.
/r/askTRP04/03/18 02:22 PM
3

Find a mission / hobbies. Read books in the mean time or learn a new skill, Coding, new language, trading...
/r/askTRP04/03/18 12:23 AM
1

Why do you care? If she texts you again alright have a third date and escalate. If not who cares, pursue other women and if she texts you someday give it one more try if that fails hard next.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 02:03 AM
8

There’s a reason she’s an ex. However if you can handle the mindfuck plating is an option. In addition there are enough other girls that won’t fuck up like an ex.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 02:01 AM
15

Why are you making an obnoxious women your girlfriend? Furthermore why was she obnoxious? Did you fuck up? If yes, your an asshole. If not, she gave you drama and that should be treated with a soft next.
/r/askTRP02/03/18 11:48 AM
16

Can’t agree on that one. Especially younger girls will think your autistic as fuck. Im not saying you should text her every minute or keep her warm, but playing it right via text unbuttoned me several pants.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/18 11:57 PM
2

Attraction is not negotiable. If she isn’t initiating, she isn’t into you as much as you think. There will be always one person that isn’t as much attracted as the other. Tell her to meet you at X at Y on Z. She is your plan B so just invite her along. If she’s showing up great. If not who cares you stick to plan A anyways.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 11:51 PM
1

Just be yourself is a trash advice for beta‘s and becoming alphas. Fake it till you make it. Ofc girls can smell if you’re faking that’s why you really need to believe you are like that. You get better at texting by practicing a lot. Approach 5 girls a day, outcome doesn’t matter. For texting, also practice but a potion of cockiness and wittiness is needed. She’s getting hundreds of ‚hi‘ and ‚how are you‘ fucktard messages. Be different. Don’t make it a boring interview. Start for instance with:…
/r/askTRP01/03/18 10:21 AM
1

Seems your text game is weak, furthermore you entered her frame by answering her stupid hamster excuse ‚no hookups...‘. Tinder is about being different than the 4527 other guys in her DM + having the looks. If you recognize you fucked up or said something stupid, change topic and next time think about what you are going to say first.
/r/askTRP01/03/18 07:16 AM
1

So what’s your goal? To not gain weight and shred or to build muscle mass more quickly? I assume you want to keep the body you have right now. If that’s the case orientate at your basal metabolism rate (the calories your body needs a day).
/r/askTRP28/02/18 12:14 PM
34

Read sidebar. Betas = Provider / Beta Bux (BB) Alpha = Fux / Alpha Fucks (AF) Women want both, a provider and chad that fucks their brains out. If they get an alpha, they will try to turn him into a beta to get that provider thing. You decide what you are going to be, BB or AF.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:48 PM
1

Total bullshit. First of all your opening is weak, since that’s not enough you text her a ‚sorry‘. I know you meant it in a funny / ironic way however that’s not what you want to do in your first messages. Furthermore if you want to improve game, approach in the real world and not at tinder. If you have the 1% looks alright keep tinder otherwise don’t waste time, since even with text game it’s a lot harder than gaming in real life.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:43 PM
1

Read sidebar and top posts.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:20 PM
1

I don’t have oneitis for her, I think. You are already have hard oneitis. Why are you bringing up commitment first? Add 2 more girls into the rotation and wait several months, then recognize how hard your oneitis and stupid this question was.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:05 AM
6

Ultimatums are reserved for AFC‘s and women. Tell her to be at your place at 8PM and she should bring some wine. If she appears, ding ding ding she’s at least considering to fuck you. ASD is now your last enemy. If she isn’t appearing/trying to set up a date at a restaurant or whatever your nothing more but free meals to her.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 11:02 AM
20

You don’t A&A after a soft next. You just tell her you were busy and proceed like nothing happened. If she’s doing the same mistake (making you wait for sex) again, hard next that stupid bitch. Furthermore you totally fucked things up with that girl so just move on.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:57 AM
97

It’s her job to remove the hand of a random fucko. It doesn’t matter if it’s immediately or not. That situation was a good test to see whether she’s long term plate / ltr material or anal plate only.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:51 AM
6

Oneitis. You are already hamstering hard as fuck. France close enough to Germany? Come on. Furthermore she will tell you she loves you while getting fucked by two strangers in the backyard. You will never know if she cheated or not. You had an awesome time with her, now let go. Your mindset is on a good way however don’t delude yourself. If she wants to see you again, she will visit you in France and you can keep her as international plate.
/r/askTRP27/02/18 10:38 AM
1

You asked two times in a row, if she’s free and if it’s cool. You totally entered her frame by doing so. A Next time just tell her that you meet up this weekend and that you will bring alcohol and she can smoke because you stopped. You are a man and you need to lead. If she doesn’t want to see you she can still say no, however don’t ask her out.
/r/askTRP23/02/18 08:25 AM
11

You are already too invested + she is ditching you. Move on, she clearly isn’t valuing you like a gf should. Go radio silent and don’t explain. If you run into her, be firm but leave after saying hi. If you have stuff from her send it to her no need to meet.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 09:11 PM
3

Don’t ask her out, tell her to join you.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 08:17 PM
1

Do you enjoy being with her? If yes, keep her. If not, leave her and approach other girls. Life’s too short to spend time with people you don’t enjoy .
/r/askTRP22/02/18 06:12 PM
2

Would have been good to know earlier. Not everyone is into this status thing. Seems like she is enjoying you and is showing that by her actions.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 05:22 PM
2

When are you going to get serious? Ask yourself that whenever you are about to procrastinate or don’t want to invest in studying + hitting the gym. Furthermore cold showers for discipline. Meditate.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 04:02 PM
14

Imagine if she’s with brad Pitt or a local / famous dj, she would instantly contact her mobile provider to upgrade it to maximum speed so she can ASAP change her status on facebook, upload tons of cringy pics on Instagram and get a tattoo of the exact day and year when they became exclusive. Since she’s not doing anything of the above she isn’t valuing you as much as you value her. This is mostly a sign of being too invested. Lastly, don’t bring up commitment it’s her job to make you interested …
/r/askTRP22/02/18 02:57 PM
40

If a girl is into you, she will spread it everywhere since you have high value to her which she wants to show off to increase her value herself. However if it’s only Facebook I wouldn’t overthink it. But if she isn’t showing you off in general she might be in a branch swing / keeping options open to wait for a better man. Furthermore it’s beta as fuck to ask if she wants to change her status in Facebook. She should do it by herself and not after you adressed it.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 01:45 PM
3

No. The right action would have been not to enter that toxic conversation at all.
/r/askTRP22/02/18 08:55 AM
-2

No need. If she’s attracted she will.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 09:39 PM
2

This. Stop focusing on her. She will contact you if she is eager to see you if not she was anal plate material at best.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 05:33 PM
2

If she doesn’t feel good she doesn’t feel good. Who cares you have better things to do. Tell her to contact you when she’s feeling better. No need to overthink.
/r/askTRP21/02/18 02:35 PM
2

Who cares. Eat pussy if you feel to. If not just don’t.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 08:50 PM
2

Well if she hasn’t put out after 3 ‚dates‘ hard next.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 05:18 PM
3

Read sidebar. She is not and will not love you, she’s loving the way how you make her feel. That’s a big difference.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:48 AM
3

That’s not a relationship. Your deluding yourself. Stop wasting time and approach girls that don’t love far away and show interest in you. Don’t tell us that you won’t find a girl, 3.5 billion...
/r/askTRP20/02/18 11:16 AM
1

Had this once as well, however she was medium drunk and my smv + social proof was pretty high.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 10:19 AM
-4

Well obviously you need to calibrate it. You can’t tell a shy girl or a girl that isn’t that self confident that she looks fat. My examples refer to 9‘s since we always head for the best. You can say whatever you want if you say it the right way. Even if it’s the first date. Don’t girls like assholes?
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:22 AM
4

Im still a random however what they teached me while I was getting my license (B) was that 65% is about food and meals and 35% is about hitting the gym. You want to make sure you are not eating lots of carbs in the afternoon / evening. Go with fish, chicken and some vegetables. However carbs in the morning are fine. Water, no soft drink BS. 3L a day minimum. Heavy weights, hypertrophy. Not more than 70g sugar a day. Basically you need to stay below your basic requirement (calories for average ma…
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:17 AM
9

By telling her to shut up because she’s boring and should only speak when she has to offer something of value. After a couple of mins act like you never said it and give her some pull by escalating, playing with her hair, stroking her neck... you name it. It addicts girls. They need these emotional spikes that’s why they are looking for drama because any emotion, hate or love is better than no emotion at all. They would always choose a bad emotion over no emotion.
/r/askTRP20/02/18 12:05 AM
15

Your are looking for push and pull. Furthermore the stronger the spikes = the stronger the attraction. I usually push more than I pull however this is for plates. If you are in an ltr (god knows why) you have to find a balance of comfort (pull) and push. I would still push more than pull since if you pull more than pushing it can turn into over investment. Pushing depends on how confident you are and how you say it. For instance: You look fat in that pants. Push again, (later) for instance while…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 10:26 PM
26

A&A. Spank her.
/r/askTRP19/02/18 09:33 AM
6

You haven’t even read the sidebar and came here to ask one of the most common questions. The relationship or whatever it was (LDR‘s are non existent) is over. She’s trying to signal you that by saying she needs time. She has already branch swinged and getting filled with other mans cum or is at least dating someone new. Have some self respect and block her everywhere, stop being that beta cuck that clinches to his Disney fantasy of being with a unicorn that would never leave him or cheat on him.…
/r/askTRP19/02/18 08:45 AM
16

Won‘t happen again. Just makes you stronger. It will take some time however hit the gym and fuck another girl ASAP.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 11:16 PM
3

BS explanation for people that try to hamster and look for excuses. They don’t reject you, they reject your game. It might not be ideal to have a babyface however it’s 10x times better to be ripped and have a babyface than being a skinny kid with a babyface.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 09:17 PM
9

She has a blue pill beta image of you since you always entered her frame by moving to the couch accepting the silent treatment etc. Finally you changed something and that interferes with her beta image of you, she will throw lots of shit tests at you to find out if you actually changed or not. Furthermore soft nexting isn’t possible while you are living in the same apartment. Have you any place you can go to for some days / a week?
/r/askTRP18/02/18 07:01 PM
-9

This. She didn’t do anything wrong. You were weak and couldn’t resist the stupid idea of raw while she wasn’t on birth control. You made a big mistake, face it instead of running away.
/r/askTRP18/02/18 12:04 PM
2

It doesn‘t even have to be someone hotter. Women are emotional creatures and driven by impulse and not logical thoughts. If the circumstances and the situation is right and she feels it, you can’t do shit no matter how good looking and alpha you are. That’s why you enjoy the moment with her and see her as a luxury good. You don’t need her in order to live but it’s a nice thing to have.
/r/askTRP16/02/18 10:08 PM
3

Not more than 5-7, reason is that they get desensitized to sex. However you will never know how much she had.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 10:07 PM
19

That’s why you don’t shit where you eat. School is fine however not same classes. Furthermore block your ex instantly once you two finished, saves you a lot of potential drama and pain. Hit the gym hard, however it will take some time to recover if you were exclusive for months.
/r/askTRP15/02/18 08:24 PM
1

You usually wait 3 days (radio silence) and then proceed like nothing has happened. Don’t explain, tell her you were busy. Keep in mind when you soft next you might lose that girl.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 03:20 PM
1

Well it is also used as ‚punishment‘ for disrespectful behaviour and making them recognize ‚oh shit if I behave like that again he’s gone‘.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 03:18 PM
2

If she hasn’t replied to your rescheduled date don’t send her a another text this will come off as needy / desperate. Have her in your pocket. Your job is done till now.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 03:06 PM
1

You set up dates with other girls. A man has no time for stupid games. She will reach out for you once she understood you have options.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 02:52 PM
8

Furthermore they think they love you, however they don’t love you but the way you make them feel.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:25 PM
13

Knowing her for over a year. So it took you more than 365 days to actually invite her to your place and try to make a move? Your nothing more than an orbiter to her, in addition stop rapist jokes.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:23 PM
1

Balls in her court now. I wouldn’t wait longer than 24h since we are living in 2k18 and especially girls are 24/7 on their phone. Even if she’s not that much into technology she has her phone with her the whole time. She might play hard to get now since you canceled the first date.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 12:20 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:31 AM
7

First of all you aren’t exclusive, you can do whatever you want and so is she. Why would it bother you? She’s just a plate. If your ego is hurt you have some work to do. Furthermore you could have used that situation as advantage to show off some preselection by telling your date you gotta say a quick hi to that girl because you know her. In the end there is no need to compare with others, you might did it to figure out how good your game is however you become outcome dependent by doing that. Yo…
/r/askTRP14/02/18 07:08 AM
2

This.
/r/askTRP13/02/18 08:20 PM
2

Seems more like your dodging.
/r/askTRP12/02/18 11:12 AM
2

Elaborate the term beta according to his book and himself.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 08:44 PM
1

So it’s beta to have a mission and pursue your goals and hobbies while focusing on the right mindset and focus? Bet you read till page 5.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:23 PM
3

You have literally no time at the moment to think about bitches cheating on you. Your gut is telling you she did. Keep her as fuck and stress reliever however don’t invest anything.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:21 AM
3

Read gorilla mindset. Furthermore are you hitting the gym? Why are you afraid to talk to girls? Are you scared they might not like you? If so, why is that a problem? You can’t expect that everyone will like you. If they reject you fine, take it as a win and learning experience and move on to the next girl. Mindset: You already fucked them. Our biggest regrets are not for the things we have done but for the things we haven’t done.
/r/askTRP11/02/18 07:13 AM
1

You actually became her emotional tampon by listening to her bullshit about the exam and rescheduling for her. Believe me, if you were brad Pitt, she wouldn’t have rescheduled, instead she would have studied the whole fucking night just to make the date happen and to suck your dick. Furthermore you have lost smv in her eyes. We all know girls are 24/7 on their phone (to seek validation) and she didn’t even message you. Again if you were brad Pitt or any famous DJ she would have instantly message…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:56 PM
4

This. You don’t reward someone in advance. That’s the road to blue borough.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:45 PM
4

Got played like a fiddle in my beta times and still hoped to find ‚the one girl that is different‘. Finally I found trp and were able to unplug and correct my learned blue pill behavior as well as my social programming.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 05:42 PM
6

Let’s be honest. You are still emotionally attached to her that’s why you are trying to hamster that its okay to keep your ex around. She alpha widowed you. There are 3.5 billions girls out there and you want to make your ex your plate. Don’t tell us she would make a great plate, she’s an ex for a reason.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:15 PM
6

Use lube.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 02:13 PM
1

Replace snowflake with unicorn then. I’m not from the US and didn’t mean to refer to trump in any way.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 08:46 AM
2

She’s trying to guilt trap you. However doesn’t she deserve a meet up? IMO if you had a good time you should end it from face to face. But if she doesnt want to, your job is done.
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:13 AM
1

Sigh. I read the whole text and everything is your fault if you really treat women the way you described it. Whatever let’s start. 1. Problem -Investment- I pay for everything... Just don’t. Always 50/50. I don’t care if it’s a coffee, dinner or a single popcorn. Stick to 50/50. Did they deserve that? What value are they giving you? 2nd Problem -pedestal- Act like a gentleman... Keep being a gentleman and you will keep getting ghosted. I’m not saying you need to be rude however don’t put women o…
/r/askTRP10/02/18 12:05 AM
2

You already made your decision. It’s time to move on for both of you. Meet her in a park or somewhere else however make sure it’s not at her place, so she won’t associate her home with a break up. Make it short. Give her a hug if she deserves it and leave. You don’t owe anyone shit.
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:33 PM
1

Great answer. +1
/r/askTRP09/02/18 11:23 PM
5

Ouch, doesn’t it hurt to spend energy, time and money on someone that isn’t giving you anything back? Whatever, do not call her out instead suck it up. This is your first challenge in order to become a man. She died for you, treat her like that. A wise man said ‘once you put her on a pedestal, she has no other option but to look down on you‘. Furthermore if she hasn’t put out after 3 dates hard next that bitch since she’s looking for new orbiters/free validation and or emotional tampons that giv…
/r/askTRP09/02/18 07:12 PM
27

First of all never be more invested than her. Furthermore the 2/3 rule worked great for me so far (with plates and in LTR). I personally don’t like opening up to anyone but my best friend. The reason is exactly what you mentioned before, being vulnerable. Why would you want to be vulnerable, especially to a person that is seeking protection and strength from you? Ofc you can open up a little. However nothing that makes you look weak or inferior. It simply kills attraction. Remember being in an l…
/r/askTRP08/02/18 03:04 PM
1

Seems like you are insecure even tho your smv is quite high. Stop focusing on her (performance) and focus on your own pleasure. Fuck her brains out and your good to go. Dominate them, dirty talk them, you know the game. Read ‚the sex god method‘ if you want to improve.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:47 PM
2

Next.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:36 PM
1

As long as it has nothing to do with you, let her orbiters and emotional tampons listen and ignore/change topic. However if it’s something severe like family member died, be her rock in the storm. Basically you shouldn’t tolerate any senseless drama. In addition you don’t argue.
/r/askTRP08/02/18 12:35 PM
4

By ignoring it. Behave like she’s smiling, joke around and tease her. If she isn’t reciprocating after some time, move on and reapproach later or simply leave her.
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:44 PM
8

You will probably never know whether she cheated or not. Your gut is telling you, she did. Can you accept that she cheated? If yes, alright be her cuck and enjoy her company however keep in mind someone is using your toy as well. If no, leave her without any explanation and move on. Ultimatums are a women and beta thing. Edit: Just read in your comments she went on a 1on1 date at a dudes place to watch a movie. Mate she got filled with his cum. Have some self respect and drop that bitch instantl…
/r/askTRP02/02/18 04:03 PM
1

It’s about not putting ‚hot‘ girls on a pedestal. Approach them like you would approach an HB 5.
/r/askTRP27/01/18 12:03 AM
2

Why would you approach uggos to warm up? I ‘warm up’ with the girls I consider as plate/fuck.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:24 AM
7

First of all it wasn’t a mistake to approach her. You tried. You failed. You moved on. Just be firm to her when you meet her.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:21 AM
-5

Autistic cuck spotted. Read sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 09:14 AM
11

There is nothing to feel. You don’t owe her shit and vice versa. Why would you care about a plate? If your ego is hurt get over yourself kid. She’s a plate nothing more.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:43 AM
4

Break up with her now. It’s just fair for both of you. In Addition the longer you stay the harder it gets to finish with her. We all know LDR’s are non existent and she will get stuffed with other men’s cum.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:28 AM
-7

Should have blocked her once you received ‘stfu’ followed by a soft next. That bitch needs to understand that just because she has a pussy, she can’t be disrespectful .
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:20 AM
4

Well it takes time to develop a mission, make sure it’s not just a long term goal, a mission takes usually a whole life to accomplish. Take 1h a day to think about what you want in life. I recommend you the book ‘The unchained Alpha male 2.0’, it has a whole chapter on just finding a mission and developing your own code. Furthermore there is a chapter in sidebar.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:16 AM
1

Well I can recommend Gorilla Mindset. ‘Embrace the suck’, suck it up and do your shit. You wanna become a successful man, so even if you at angry do your things you have to do, that’s not an excuse.
/r/askTRP26/01/18 07:13 AM
1

You might be born to be a blue. You have your mates to talk about things. Girls are for fucking only. If you feel cold or lonely, the issue lies deeper.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 10:39 PM
4

Cold showers when you feel the urge to fap. Meditation is also good. If you are about to fap, think that this is the most important year in your life and if it’s worth it to might ruin it for a meaningless fap. When are you going to get serious?
/r/askTRP25/01/18 10:37 PM
28

What you need is a mission, which makes you wake up at 5AM. In addition find a passionate hobby.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 10:35 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 12:12 PM
2

The moment you didn’t stand up to what you wanted and planned. You wanted her to come over at Friday however she gave you a baby shit test by telling you she’s not going out undecided and you failed miserably and buckled. You entered her frame, told her you will adapt to her plans and hit her up next week. You could have gotten an easy lay by just passing that shit test.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 09:25 AM
2

You displayed insecurity to her and she probably lost attraction.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 08:54 AM
4

Bowling. Pool. You could even combo it with ‚if I were you‘ and test her boundaries.
/r/askTRP25/01/18 12:16 AM
1

Her words say no but her body says yes to escalation. How do you know? And how do you know she isn’t milking you for a free dinner or drinks later?
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:52 AM
3

Sidebar is a start. She won’t fuck you but your invested time since she’s only meeting and texting you for free validation.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:43 AM
5

I usually don’t fuck plants however escalate by telling her ‚wow your such a bad cook (in a cocky way) let me show you how to...‘ and grab her arms or hips whatever and ‚show‘ her.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:12 AM
4

Instant soft next unless she had a real reason. You are not a taxi waiting for her in addition why would you pick a girl up. The only way you pick her up is when her place is on the route where you are going to.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 09:09 AM
3

Ofc there is for OP, since he isn’t able to hold eye contact whenever he wants. So staring down strangers is to practice his comfort and self confidence in holding eye contact.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 08:17 AM
5

Pathetic, get overyourself. The only reason why you are in that situation is you. The waitress did her job and you want to punish her for doing so. Let’s be real, your 19yo ego is hurt because you lost your fake and aren’t the cool kid with a fake anymore. Move on.
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:20 AM
3

Easiest way is to let her qualify herself. If your game is advanced you know what I’m talking about. Push and pull followed by a disqualification, which she wants to break by qualifying herself. You can do that with anything, age, hobbies, looks (blond/brown hair...).
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:12 AM
2

You want to stare down everyone you pass. I don’t care if it’s a child, an HB9 or a criminal. It’s ok if you don’t stare down everyone at the beginning however don’t look down when you break eye contact, look up or to the side. Looking down displays inferior behaviour. When you stare down 99% of the people you pass and meet, you want to apply eye contact to your game. Stare the girl down 8/10 times, more will be creepy and less will come off as insecure. There is also a technique a fellow red pi…
/r/askTRP24/01/18 07:05 AM
1

You did good until you asked about ‚stuck‘. You entered her frame and went total beta mode. Imo you shouldn’t text her, she should initiate.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:06 PM
3

Why would you care about others n count?
/r/askTRP23/01/18 08:18 AM
6

It’s just extreme emotional spiking. Check push and pull.
/r/askTRP23/01/18 07:46 AM
1

Just approach more HB 9‘s.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 11:45 PM
1

By approaching more 9‘s in addition 10‘s don’t exist.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:41 PM
1

You messaged her for a week without actually meeting her.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:36 PM
1

You have plates for preselection at least you should aim for that. Because if you are just friends and she asks you is that your gf and you answer no, you instantly disqualified yourself. However by having plates if she asks are you seeing any other girls and you respond with yes, your smv increases since you have options...
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:39 PM
2

Alright, stay no contact until you lost any feeling for her then you can to be firm. Pro tip: The faster you fuck a different girl the faster your connection to your ex dies.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:37 PM
1

Enough asktrp for today.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:03 PM
1

Why is it beta that you are attracting females?
/r/askTRP22/01/18 08:02 PM
3

What is a girl as friend giving you what lads can’t? Only thing I can imagine is drama.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:59 PM
1

Nah you don’t force them to chose. Usually friends avoid past bitches of their friends since it’s implied that it isn’t comfortable unless she’s just a plate or you have enough back up girls.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:58 PM
1

U got it now.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:55 PM
1

If she is still interested in you, she will tell you she’s looking forward to it, any other response is either a sign of lost attraction or stupid games which results in anal plate only.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:58 PM
10

They aren’t your friends if they are hanging out with your ex while you are clearly uncomfortable with it. Screen your ‚friends‘ for actual friends.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 03:56 PM
1

Yh just text her, ‚Hi I’ll be in Berlin on X. Let’s grab drinks at Y at Z o‘clock.‘ You could say that she should join you and your mates tho. However don’t text her too early, do it 1-2 dass before.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 02:20 PM
7

By having a mission, goals, hobbies and habits. Those things are your fuel, that make you keep going in any situation no matter how bad it looks.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 01:44 PM
10

Or simply spin plates as trp advocates to do and you won’t care about her anymore.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 01:41 PM
2

Sounds good. She’s basically just another option so why don’t go for it. It takes two for tango.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 01:38 PM
1

Why is not replying coming off as butthurt? Basically not replying means you value you your time more than replying to that person. After 3-5 days you give her a 2nd and last chance to prove that she is worth replying. In addition it’s important that you don’t explain and by telling her ‚busy today‘ you explained why you don’t answer, that’s fatal for a soft next and will not have the same results as when you wouldn’t explain anything and just leave her on read.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 01:36 PM
6

Soft next = radio silence. That means no single word answers. You don’t reply at all. If she’s asking what’s wrong, don’t reply. If she knocks at your door crying, you don’t open. When she asks after the soft next what happened you tell her you were busy and had no time to reply (you are a busy man). Act and behave like nothing has happened.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 01:26 PM
7

We don’t teach moral in here. If you want to fuck her, fuck her. If not, don’t.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 01:23 PM
2

Interact as much as you can with women and you will understand that they are not the evil, it’s just their nature. Once you accepted and understood their nature you won’t feel hate anymore. Furthermore, sex is just sex. Ofc it feels good however all pussys are the same and nothing to chase.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 11:43 AM
5

Tell her you are alright and end it there. Game other girls and that bitch will probably come back and try to get your attention, since you are a man with options.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:36 AM
5

You asked her if anything is wrong, she said no. So you assume everything is fine, behave like that. It’s not your job to dick deeper, if she has a problem she can tell you, you are not her private Sherlock.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 10:17 AM
3

This.
/r/askTRP22/01/18 09:36 AM
2

It’s called outcome independence. That means whether she flakes or not, has no impact on you, your mind and behavior. You achieve outcome independence by having a mission, goals, hobbies and your job (+gym Ofc). You have more important shit to do than thinking about a bitch that flaked. In Addition you don’t plan your day around that date. You plan something and tell her to join you. So if she flakes you don’t care because: A) You have better shit to do. B) Were going to do that anyways. Further…
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:15 AM
2

Seems like you pedestialize women, at least the ones you approach. They are not special at all, treat them like you have fucked already and known for a long time. Be as confident around them as you are at your job, with friends... . If the facts are true about yourself, you should be pretty confident and proud of what you have achieved. However if you don’t love and like yourself, why should women do?
/r/askTRP22/01/18 07:03 AM
2

How do you control your emotions, like feeling sad when she pulls away? Easy one. You are more invested than her, be less invested to control your emotions. Lead. Lead. Lead. Game her, be mysterious and spontaneous. Develop frame and abundance mentality. She probably fucked someone else in that winter break, if not she is still preparing for a break up / branch swing. The only value she has right now, is to use her as training. For the future: don’t enter an ltr, have a soft harem first and vet …
/r/askTRP21/01/18 11:37 PM
9

You decide what you are. Either you wait for the things you want to come (not gonna happen) or you take action and take the things you want. I stopped caring about morality since it’s just a clingy illusion from society to keep you small. In addition there is no such thing as karma, I have seen the most badass people having luck and people that sticked to every rule and moral getting fucked over by life. There is no dark or white side.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 03:28 PM
2

They either are blessed with being a natural and have good game (I doubt that) or are not and will get cheated on / used for Beta Bux and free validation. In addition what gives you exclusivity ?
/r/askTRP19/01/18 02:09 PM
2

You decide what’s right and wrong.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 01:44 PM
1

If you haven’t ever had a soft harem for at least 5 months + , nor read the sidebar your relationship is doomed and will result in pain for you. In 6 months you will ask if there is a way to get back with your ex and what you can do better. A relationship is the last time discipline.
/r/askTRP19/01/18 01:43 PM
1

This.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:36 PM
1

Text game her however the majority of trp advocates that there is no such thing as text game however I feel like there is. But don’t overdo it, if you text 24/7 she can’t learn to miss you.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 04:05 PM
0

Nah you handled alright, she’s just a plate and nothing more. It’s not your job to hear her out in addition if she looses interest because you did not care about what she’s crying, alright you saved yourself from lots of drama. Soft next would be an option tho.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 04:01 PM
1

Yh i Know that why u gotta make sure a friend sees you leaving together + the text next day.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 03:12 PM
5

Because you would have to place the video recorder in a way it films and that is easier to spot than just a voice recorder under your bed or whereever.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 01:02 PM
2

You are pedestializing her, once you put her on a pedestal she has no other choice but to look down on you. You probably tolerated or even rewarded her for intolerable behavior, which made her lose attraction and respect. Read no more mr nice guy. Attraction is not negotiable, if you want a girl that begs for sex, you gotta find one that actually is really attracted to you and can’t get her hands off of you.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 12:01 PM
28

Voice recorder under the bed . Have a friend seeing you leaving together. Next day text her that it was nice too meet her and that you hope she had a good night as well.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 11:58 AM
7

Well doesn’t matter block her again and don’t reply. She’s trying to sneak back in your life for free validation.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:42 AM
1

You actually wasted 3 months of your live cracking on with that girl. The only advice you will understand since you clearly haven’t read sidebar is, run. 3.5 billions of fuckable objects and you chose the sinking ship. Stop telling yourself you click well and she’s nice, that’s just because you have no abundance mentality and fucked less than 5 girls.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:41 AM
8

Why isn’t she blocked everywhere? She’s an ex for a reason, stay no contact.
/r/askTRP18/01/18 08:35 AM
4

That’s what girls do to maintain that their orbiters won’t leave them / have a free source of validation.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:42 PM
8

First of all you were a whiny bitch. we have a connection... You misspelled oneitis. Move on and develop stronger frame and abundance mentality.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 04:03 PM
2

To 1. I wouldn’t see it as humiliation, rather as a reminder that his turn is over and I’m playing with the toy now. Let him fap, while you are having a good fuck. I personally wouldn’t mind. Why would you be scared of a beta cuck? If the girl refuses to film it, you know that she isn’t valuing you as much as she did the guy before.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 11:37 AM
0

Film her too and send him the video. In addition demote her to plate.
/r/askTRP17/01/18 09:47 AM
1

Just read title. Ignore ex and move on. Block her on all social media platforms + delete her number. Even if her grandma died or whatever it’s non of your business anymore and you have better stuff to do. She’s dead for you.
/r/askTRP16/01/18 01:53 PM
1

What’s wrong about round 2,3? Stop overthinking and do your thing. I would even say that your performance ‚issues‘ added some variety. She was used to getting fucked for 30 min +, so fucking her for 4-5 min is something new. You should add variety in general and be unpredictable, don’t always tie her down, mix it up if you don’t already. Recommending you the sex god method.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:38 PM
1

Perfect example of oneitis. In Addition it doesn’t matter why it took her 2 days to respond. Probably because she’s done with you. Give a mutual friend the jewelry to bring it to her and move on. If you want to save yourself from future drama and pain read the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:33 PM
1

She found someone with higher smv. However making her realize that - at least she thinks so - you have options have increased your smv. She added you again which means she considers you probably as potential fuck. However don’t initiate anything, let her do the grafting. Spin other plates and keep that flesh toy in your pocket. In addition she’s anal plate at best.
/r/askTRP15/01/18 11:22 PM
7

Do the Houdini 2 method. Start fucking her, then pretend you are going to fuck her tits, once you are in position shit on her belly. Water and bulletproof technique on how to shut girls down, however if she likes it, get your clothes and run.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 04:48 PM
11

paid. You paid her dinner after she refused to have sex with you, next time ask her if you should go and find a chad that fucks her while you are doing the dishes. You basically rewarded her for rejecting you. When she isn’t in the mood again, that’s fine you got better things to do than cuddling, leave, meet your boys and approach.
/r/askTRP14/01/18 04:30 AM
9

Having another orbiter in her pocket to which she can reach out to when she needs quick and free validation.
/r/askTRP11/01/18 04:37 PM
1

Search function/engine - 1. A software program that searches a database and gathers and reports information that contains or is related to specified terms. However here is what you are looking for: https://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/7aoxe6/the_red_pill_cheat_sheet/?st=JCAK5UM6&sh=51203ad4 In addition use kino and ramp up the sexual tension, then move on to the next level of kino. If she rejects your kino, jump back to the previous level of kino. However it seems like you don’t know abo…
/r/askTRP11/01/18 01:59 PM
1

Exactly it’s a long term goal. A mission should last your whole life.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 12:01 PM
1

You haven’t even fucked but are planning to visit a museum? Damn she found a nice source of free validation. Make or break. Invite her over/meet her and initiate kino and see how things go. Either you have a fuck or know she’s a waste of time.
/r/askTRP10/01/18 12:00 PM
1

Perfect is boring and being boring kills attraction. In addition there will be always someone better than you. What does a marriage give you except some disney illusion?
/r/askTRP10/01/18 12:08 AM
5

The guy fucking your girlfriend while you are out to buy her some gifts and flowers.
/r/askTRP08/01/18 10:52 PM
2

It’s a red flag since they get desensitized to sex. Girls that are or have been on the cc are plate material at best.
/r/askTRP07/01/18 02:39 PM
7

Stop wasting your time on tinder and approach in real life. You said you are slightly above average, tinder won’t work for you #nooffense unless you have really good pictures and sick text game. To conclude cold approach, that will increase your frame and gives you way more chances of scoring a lay.
/r/askTRP29/12/17 05:30 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

© TheRedArchive 2026. All rights reserved.
created by /u/dream-hunter