GF prefers co-worker to me.

Aptote · 2018-02-22T21:03:24+00:00

Retstortion · 2018-02-22T21:16:56+00:00

moorekom · 2018-02-22T21:57:19+00:00

//4 months LTR//

Oh boy. Dude, get out of this. If she's doing this in 4 months, imagine what she'll do to you in 4 years. She isn't worth it.

FuckboyAWALT · 2018-02-22T21:11:53+00:00

You are already too invested + she is ditching you.

Move on, she clearly isn’t valuing you like a gf should.

Go radio silent and don’t explain. If you run into her, be firm but leave after saying hi. If you have stuff from her send it to her no need to meet.

360_no_scope_upvote · 2018-02-22T22:10:18+00:00

You don't try to patch a boat that's already sinking, you deploy the life raft and get yourself out.

littleshepherd- · 2018-02-22T21:05:27+00:00

If you didn't say

She's probably my oneitis. I just know breaking up with her will break my heart.

You could just soft next her until she reverts back to normal, but because you did say that, for your own sake, you have to be able to leave any relationship.

Easy answer: Ghost

RAiderNat88 · 2018-02-22T22:24:29+00:00

4 months LTR, told me a co-worker which got her the job and also told her on one instance he'd leave his gf for her wants to do a thesis together, she was doing it with me. So now Id only be able to see her Sundays after 3 for 4 months while he sees her every day.

Anyone else read this more than once?

Im not a plate spinner, I'm not a cheater, I don't think it's amoral or anything I just like LTRs.

So what you're telling me is this is your first gf

chim_city · 2018-02-22T21:35:41+00:00

Say, "I would never give commitment to someone who doesn't have good boundaries with other men"

Say it like you mean it

edit: and of course be ready to walk

LavaPipe · 2018-02-23T02:06:52+00:00

You can’t really salvage this. If I were in your shoes I’d wait to see how things play out for a week while looking for other pussy. But the sad reality is that any woman who is disrespecting you by spending 6 days a week with a guy who expressed his desire to be with her despite her being in a relationship is not worth your time. Go find new pussy. Ol girl can never be more than a plate now.

juliusstreicher · 2018-02-24T02:21:50+00:00

She WAS doing it with you, now, all of a sudden, GOFUCKYOURSELFIMDOINGITWITHMYBOSS???

You're a goner. She won't come back down. She'll fuck the coworker, and, if they are the marrying type, she'll marry him.

Euphoricentia · 2018-02-22T21:08:47+00:00

Tell her to cut the shit out, and if she continues just ghost.

Tell her she would be tripping if you were like that with another girl.

Title	GF prefers co-worker to me.
Author	Throwaway284773
Upvotes	1
Comments	21
Date	February 22, 2018 7:39 PM UTC (8 years ago)
Subreddit	Posted in /r/askTRP
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